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"2020 Won" · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: Hold Up, Hold up up, Football alerts, The Ball Alert
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  Speaker 1: shows the kid Ferrari Simmons, I have your favorite Ethiopian suit,
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  Speaker 1: so low, what what happened? What happened? What happened? I
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  Speaker 1: think the compete the zoom just cuts out or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: like the computer zoom clipped you Yeah, okay, And it's
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  Speaker 1: ill produced by me O c T what they do.
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  Speaker 1: Baby guys. It's the last episode of the very Last Man.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just so tired, and we are still doing this
• 0:41
  Speaker 1: from home at the very end of we are still
• 0:45
  Speaker 1: posting the Ball Alert Show podcasts from home. Yes, did
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: y'all think it was gonna last this long? Mm hmm yes,
• 0:57
  Speaker 1: because Liko is in charge. You're getting about it though.
• 1:03
  Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy how Joe Biden isn't even in the
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  Speaker 1: office yet and it's already given us such a presidential vibe.
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  Speaker 1: He already has his team together, he's already telling us
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  Speaker 1: what his plans are. And then we can't even you know,
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  Speaker 1: two thousand now stimulus checked, that's been well overdue from
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  Speaker 1: the current administration. Then checking chieve six honey tokens that's
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  Speaker 1: coming from the presidential seat. I don't know, y'all, I'm
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  Speaker 1: I'm over. I'm over. I've been over. I've been over it.
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  Speaker 1: What's killing me about that? Though? It's like everybody's like,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, the new Year. Oh my god, I can't wait.
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  Speaker 1: Like this pandemic is getting on my nerves. It's not
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  Speaker 1: gonna go away at the stroke of midnight, y'all. It's
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  Speaker 1: not over January one. We got a lot of work
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  Speaker 1: to do. And to be honest, like I think we
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  Speaker 1: have a lot of healing to do. A lot of
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  Speaker 1: people are gonna realize how traumatic money has actually been.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think it's hit a lot of people yet,
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  Speaker 1: but it will sink in very soon. Well you know
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  Speaker 1: what it's needs to sink in in case you missed it,
• 2:12
  Speaker 1: all right, Jeremiah still wears his hospital bracelet. After the
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  Speaker 1: COVID battle, he told Kendri g of Chicago's One of
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  Speaker 1: Seven five w g C, I what up? What up?
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  Speaker 1: What up? Shottown n What did do baby? It's just
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  Speaker 1: a reminder of what I've been through. Then, he joked
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  Speaker 1: at the same time, these type of bands are hard
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  Speaker 1: to take off too. Um, I mean, the hospital bands
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  Speaker 1: are pretty tough to take off. Not famil, are you ripping?
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  Speaker 1: Bitches off, But I under I understand the sentiment, and
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  Speaker 1: I know that the COVID is real, and I know
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  Speaker 1: he had a near um, near life situation. So um,
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  Speaker 1: thoughts of prayers to him. I'm glad he's okay. I
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  Speaker 1: am so happy that he is okay. Um. You know,
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  Speaker 1: when the articles were coming out, it was scary, you know,
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  Speaker 1: not just because he's Jeremib but but but for anyone
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  Speaker 1: that has been dealing with COVID nineteen to the extent
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  Speaker 1: that he was dealing with it. I mean, we heard
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  Speaker 1: some horror stories of people that had to be on ventilators.
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  Speaker 1: We've heard people even say that they may be dealing
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  Speaker 1: with long term effects after having COVID. So it was scary.
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  Speaker 1: You know, the community definitely rallied and prayed for him.
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  Speaker 1: I just need you to take the band off off, bro,
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  Speaker 1: just like y'all know artists. I don't know that that's
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  Speaker 1: something to do with artistist, but I say artists because
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  Speaker 1: you know some people they take things and you know,
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  Speaker 1: he could be in the studio right now, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, make it a record, and this could
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  Speaker 1: be his you know, motivation two to push that out.
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  Speaker 1: You know, what I'm saying. Everything inspires artists in many
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  Speaker 1: different ways. So maybe he's in the studio now, who knows.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, but piece of Jeremiah. I'm glad he's
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  Speaker 1: feeling better. I wonder if he apologize to Tiana Taylor
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  Speaker 1: now that he's gone through ma'am. Okay, let's move along.
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  Speaker 1: Us and his wife, Samantha, gives an announced of divorce. Wow,
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  Speaker 1: what is this guy? Damn his his brain rober got
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  Speaker 1: stolen out the driveway. I mean he got it back
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  Speaker 1: in three hours. But now this with a wife, that's sad.
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  Speaker 1: The announce on social media that they were divorcing. Any
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  Speaker 1: of their four year marriage. Tyres and Semantha married the
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  Speaker 1: two seventeen. Their daughter was born in two thousand and eighteen.
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  Speaker 1: Should be three. Throughout this marriage with Samantha, it's been
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  Speaker 1: a pretty you know. Yeah, yeah, Trease goes through it.
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  Speaker 1: He's been going through it. I mean, it makes you wonder, like,
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  Speaker 1: is it him? I was just about say after this,
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  Speaker 1: but so many times now, Broy, it's the fingers gonna
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  Speaker 1: start pointing this way or this way back, and then
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  Speaker 1: it's gonna go start going like these people are gonna
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  Speaker 1: be alright alone. Now, I mean, unfortunately, you know, sometimes
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  Speaker 1: trouble does follow people, you know, so it may not
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  Speaker 1: necessarily be fair to think that it is him or
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  Speaker 1: assume that it is him. But after a while, you're right,
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  Speaker 1: like where they're smoke, there's fired, and people are going
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  Speaker 1: to start to question him. So nonetheless, I hope they
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  Speaker 1: are okay. I hope they can co parent. I hope
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  Speaker 1: that he has access to this child um as freely
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  Speaker 1: as as any parent deserves has to have access to
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  Speaker 1: their kid um. And I just hope that they can
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  Speaker 1: make it through the holiday season. It's already been brough,
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  Speaker 1: Like this year has already been rough. So to imagine
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  Speaker 1: a child dealing with what everyone else felt was and
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  Speaker 1: then dealing with your family splitting up during the holiday season,
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  Speaker 1: that's rough. A lot of people already have holiday anxiety.
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  Speaker 1: I am one of them, so I couldnt imagine going
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  Speaker 1: through that as a kid. Okay, I got some good news.
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  Speaker 1: You know, y'all know I'm sneaker head Master Pe and
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  Speaker 1: Baron Davis. You know, he's a former NBA player. They
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  Speaker 1: are in talks to by reboked for two point four
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  Speaker 1: billion dollars. Alert really worth that much? Well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Adidas acquired Rebok back in two thousand five for three
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  Speaker 1: point eight billion. However, it's value has decreased significantly and
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  Speaker 1: Adidas is looking to offload this brand. So who better
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  Speaker 1: to buy then master P. But you know, mamter P,
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  Speaker 1: he has his own shoe called them in Natti, So
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  Speaker 1: I wonder will but they're cool cool. Well I wonder
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  Speaker 1: if if that could be a collaboration right there, if
• 7:02
  Speaker 1: he oh just put them in Nati on reboking you
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  Speaker 1: know that now that now, that would definitely be a better. Look,
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  Speaker 1: what is the plan? Okay, you obtained this company that
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  Speaker 1: has already appreciattive value, right, what is the plan from
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  Speaker 1: master P to to take it back to where it
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  Speaker 1: needs to be or take it up to where it
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  Speaker 1: needs to be back rebranded? Yeah? First, the first things first,
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  Speaker 1: they need to they need to sign a marquee athlete.
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  Speaker 1: So it won't be a Lebron but like a Zion
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  Speaker 1: but see Zion signed to Jordan's. But it will have
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  Speaker 1: to be a marquee talented um athlete or I mean
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  Speaker 1: they've worked with athletes, and I just think that sometimes
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  Speaker 1: y'all know this man, like sometimes sometimes it might just
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  Speaker 1: it needs to be a marquee athlete though. It has
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  Speaker 1: to be uh Paul George or um uh Kawai Leonard.
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  Speaker 1: It has to be someone that if it's not that big,
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  Speaker 1: then you know it's gonna be you know, they would
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  Speaker 1: still just be average. Now do you think they designers
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  Speaker 1: on the team? What was that? They need some new designers,
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: some new sneaker designers. They definitely need some off whites. Rebox,
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  Speaker 1: they need some off whites they need. I was never
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  Speaker 1: a Rebox fan though, like they are right, it was
• 8:32
  Speaker 1: just the Classics for me, But every other ship that
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  Speaker 1: they really liked was just just not the Iverson's Lilla.
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  Speaker 1: Iverson was a marquee athlete. That's what I'm trying to say.
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  Speaker 1: A marquee athlete will make you look at it differently,
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  Speaker 1: Like look at how we looked at under Armor when
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  Speaker 1: Steph Curry was on his tear. The kids were buying
• 8:53
  Speaker 1: under Armor, and right now Kauai Kawai Leonard got some
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: some kids buying New Balance because he's with new battles.
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  Speaker 1: But if Rebot can grab him and give him a
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  Speaker 1: shoot that looks dope, and who who like ka um
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  Speaker 1: Kawi Leonard Baron Davis, Masterpee, come on, man, make that happen.
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  Speaker 1: And then of course they got to redrop some arms
• 9:14
  Speaker 1: from Ali I prison shoes, some some newer silhoue. Now
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  Speaker 1: that would be so fire. I am excited that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: Master Pie wants to do this. I just really hope
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  Speaker 1: and pray that it is the revival that we bought me.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It would be so fire
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  Speaker 1: if we could have this black owned company, you know
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  Speaker 1: that we could probably rock and support and see it
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  Speaker 1: go back to this big brand name that it really
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  Speaker 1: used to be. I mean, it definitely is still recognizeable.
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  Speaker 1: People still know the brand, but it's just it's not
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  Speaker 1: like how it used to be. So I do hope
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  Speaker 1: that Master Pie can take this and run with it.
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  Speaker 1: It's like we know he can. Um hope they just
• 9:59
  Speaker 1: don't just hold it. And I think that people should
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  Speaker 1: just buy it because it's black owned. Now. Young Thugs
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  Speaker 1: says that he has more anthems than jay Z. What
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  Speaker 1: do you think, Rory? I think Young Thug is a
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  Speaker 1: very smart individual. Um, he's a unicorn. I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: lie to y'all. He's a unicorn. He's specially gifted artists,
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  Speaker 1: and he knows what he's doing when he says things
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  Speaker 1: like this, Uh, do I think he has more anthems
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  Speaker 1: than jay Z? No, but you cannot deny Young Thugs
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  Speaker 1: records he has. Now, he has said that it's not
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  Speaker 1: about he's he records. His argument is that the kids
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  Speaker 1: know more Young Thugs songs. They just know more than
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  Speaker 1: jay Z songs. I would agree with that. I would
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  Speaker 1: agree with that, and not the obvious like there's a
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: major generational gap. Of course, of course there are rappers
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  Speaker 1: that we listen to now that don't really know about
• 11:13
  Speaker 1: jay Z's catalog. So of course the generation that's probably
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: these current rappers don't know much about jay Z. So
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  Speaker 1: I think it's it's an unfair comparison. Although it's true
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  Speaker 1: to a degree. I think it's unfair to say, like,
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  Speaker 1: because the kids know me, I have more anthems, that
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  Speaker 1: that's I mean, I don't know who was popping to
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  Speaker 1: three generations ago, you know what I'm saying, unless I've
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  Speaker 1: looked into it. And these kids these days, they're not
• 11:44
  Speaker 1: music sounds a lot of like right now. Okay, A
• 11:46
  Speaker 1: lot of artists are taking the same melodies and same
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: style and that's what they're rocking with. So of course,
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  Speaker 1: if this is all I listened to in the New Age,
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  Speaker 1: you care enough to research what was popping back then
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  Speaker 1: when it sounds completely different in a city girl NBA world,
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  Speaker 1: young NBA world. I've talked to this kid. He was
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  Speaker 1: about he about eleven. He thought jay Z was a singer.
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  Speaker 1: Wait time out. My twelve year old considers jay Z
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  Speaker 1: Beyonce's husband. She doesn't know nothing about his music. I
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  Speaker 1: had to who he was and what he did and
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  Speaker 1: how much he has contributed to the mutual to culture.
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  Speaker 1: I had to teach her that though you know what
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, and if if a parent or someone who's
• 12:33
  Speaker 1: older doesn't do that, than someone who's twelve fifteen is
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: gonna gravitate towards who's popular right now. I'm not gonna
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: necessarily say that. Like, you know, you have to live
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: every day praising, you know, publicly praising the people ahead
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  Speaker 1: of you. But we have to stop discrediting people that
• 12:56
  Speaker 1: really set the bar, especially within our own culture. It's like,
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: we gotta stop doing that. Yes, we are younger, we're fresh,
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: we are popping right now. I got you, but please
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  Speaker 1: try not to discredit your own, especially in our in
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  Speaker 1: our own industries, Like we needed jay Z to do
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  Speaker 1: everything he did in his past, which is leading him
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  Speaker 1: to do everything he's doing currently and he's leaving his
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  Speaker 1: mark on the world. So I'm not really into the
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  Speaker 1: comparisons because sometimes it comes off as if you're disrespecting
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  Speaker 1: the other person. One person, yeah, I got you, And
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: like for example of the Kobe and Lebron thing before
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  Speaker 1: Kobe passed away r P Cope, they always compare Kobe
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  Speaker 1: and Lebron and Kobe fans we're so disrespectful, respectful towards
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: Lebron fans, and vice versa. The same thing with Lebron
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: and Michael Jordan's same thing. The younger generation think Lebron
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  Speaker 1: is the goat and the older generation thinks that Michael
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  Speaker 1: Jordan's the goat, and the conversations sometimes tend to get
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: disrespectful between the two. Well, let me say this. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know I don't know thirty to forty Young Thug songs,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know every Young Thugs song, and I don't
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  Speaker 1: know whevery jay Z song, So how about that? But
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  Speaker 1: what I do know is that bitcoin is popping, You're
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: making its way to the sports world. Yeah, this dude,
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: all this Panthers, the Carolina Panthers tackle Russell whom I
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: hope I've seen his name right? Who come to get
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  Speaker 1: half of his salary paid in bitcoin? I don't love
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: that's smart or or dope or what I mean. I mean,
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: from my understanding, bitcoin is doing absolutely amazing and one
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: bitcoin equals a whole lot of ship ton of money. Um.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: I don't necessarily understand cryptocurrency, so I'm not even gonna
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: sit here and say too much about it. But I
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  Speaker 1: think if you truly believe that we are going into
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: digital currency, then will be ahead of the curb and
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: our people actually making legal purchases with bitcoin already. Yes,
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: so what what's the problem. I believe it has to
• 15:16
  Speaker 1: be rather large, but yeah, definitely. I mean, as long
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: as you could spend the money then Yeah, he tweeted
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: pay me in bitcoin and that, which became true on Tuesday,
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  Speaker 1: and they when he agreed to a fifty fifty split
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  Speaker 1: of his thirteen million dollars salary between bitcoin and flat currency.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean and and and if again, let's
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: just be smart here. If he's being smart and knowing
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: that the numbers will increase or you know, it's gonna
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: get bigger. He's gonna get a nice flip um And
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: what five years now, I am I wrong? Or did
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: bitcoin like originally become like or you know, cryptocurrency in general.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: Bit The thing, the reason why people say bitcoin so much,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: it's really just because of the brand. Like it's a
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  Speaker 1: big brand. So you know, big brand companies are usually
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  Speaker 1: gonna win, they're gonna be ahead. But there are lots
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  Speaker 1: of different companies that have cryptocurrency. Now. I just remember
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  Speaker 1: watching something and it was what I took from it
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  Speaker 1: was bitcoin or cryptocurrency was a great way of like purpacy,
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: purchasing illegal things, um drugs, yes, so yeah so, And
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: the whole point is that you're not traced. The government
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  Speaker 1: cannot find what you purchased or who you purchased it from.
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: You know, it's kind of like just going into this
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  Speaker 1: black market of buying whatever the hell you want with
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  Speaker 1: no consequences. And now it just seems like it is
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  Speaker 1: growing into now like people can probably start buying the
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: groceries with bitcoin pretty soon. Yeah. And I think, just
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: like the marijuana market, soon it's going to be fully
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  Speaker 1: legal everywhere at once the government figures out how to monetize,
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  Speaker 1: monetize and charge their taxes. Once they figure that part out,
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: it's probably gonna be a generic way of paying. That
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  Speaker 1: is a fact, because that's what they the government gonna do,
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: is come get their money. They're gonna come collect, Yeah,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: and then they're gonna hold on to it. In the pandemic,
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: when the American people needed Speaking of the American people,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: our first African American female vice president took the first
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: dose of the COVID nineteen vaccine. Octavia and Suzanne, Well,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: she didn't. She took the maderna. Well, one of two,
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: you're right, one of two. I'm just not I'm not
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: interested it. The thing is, we don't have enough knowledge
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: of what the long term effects are. Like, yeah, people
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: are saying, oh, nothing happened to me, But how do
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: you know something they happening inside your body? Like, how
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: do you know when you have kids, they won't come
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: out with three fucking arms or or some weird no balls,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: you know, like something weird, Like we don't know what
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: it's doing to to us. We don't know. I'm sorry,
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: the national nation of kids won't come out looking like them, folks,
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: from damn Futurama. Oh my gosh, who I'm gonna lake
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: people gonna have a cartoon babies. What you're saying, they're
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: gonna look like something. They're not gonna look human, They're
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: gonna look like Trump. Well, Karma Harris says, let's do it,
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: and she trusted. She said when she got her vaccine,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: she said that was easy. I barely felt it because
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: we we've all taken shots before. We know it's easy.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: We just also know that black people have always been
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: guinea pigs. We've always been the lab rides, and the
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: US government has broken our trust. Well, she says she
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: trust the scientists. It is the scientists who created and
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: approved this, So she wants the American people to trust
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: the scientists, including Sue Solo. I don't trust Donald Trump
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: the next telling them to hurry up and come up
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: with something, hurry up and approve it. No, it don't.
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: It don't sound like they came up with it and
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: they were happy to put it out. It sounds like
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: they fucking had to cool. What's for you? Any time?
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the vaccine, y'all, Okay, we're gonna put
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: it on camera. Remember, it's gonna be it's gonna be
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: a Balller episode. I'm gonna take the vaccine on that,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: all right. I will be there. I'll be there in
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: support to catch you when you say, okay, you're gonna
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: be just. I don't think anybody and my family is
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: gonna take it though. Yeah, no Caribbean ever, it's going
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: to take it. Nobody from the Caribbean is taking that ship. No,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: we're gonna We're gonna have our seams are ginger. Well,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: if anybody was gonna be in the household to take
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: it, it it would be the man of the house. So, now,
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: how the wife you feel about it? Like, are the
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: kids gonna get vaccinated? We actually haven't talked about that yet. So, um,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be definitely a subject because I mean it's
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: not gonna be available for anybody like us to take
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: for a couple of months. So we'll have a conversation. Um,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: and then she doesn't want me to take it version Yeah,
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: if she doesn't want me to take, me and her
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: I have a conversation and then you know she used
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: the so she's my boss. You know what. I loved
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: her post of you guys because y'all just celebrated the anniversary, right, Yes,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: ye were celebrated. Uh, you need local the anniversary you
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: want have got married because but nevertheless it's a one
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: year anniversary. So congratulations. I love to see y'all are
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: great inspiration, beautiful black couple. But she said, um in
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: the post, it's it's it's known to be happy wife,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: happy life. But I love when she said happy spouse,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: happy house, and that is the way it should be.
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: So I I just love that big up to Mrs Rory.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I love that that post was really about you guys
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: being a unit, you know, and you got decisions together
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: and moving forward together. So when she said, you know
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: what you just said, I was like, you know, so
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: in our clubhouse room at Sue Solo on clubhouse at
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: Ferrari Simmons, Uh, I talked about, you know, my insecurities
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: like I speak about I think a lot of times
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: men don't talk about their insecurities because it's a manly
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: type of thing to be like, No, I'm I ain't
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: insecure about that, I ain't tripping on that. But in
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: the whole time, you be insecure. Um with her. I
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: shared my insecurities with her, and if you trust if
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: you trust your lady. This is if she's the one
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: and you trust her, you know you can share your
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: insecurities with her, and you know she doesn't. Right, That's
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: how it should be. That's how she's the same thing
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: with her whatever whatever, you know, there's an issue for her.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: I make sure that I don't make sure I don't
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: leave her with an insecure situation. So I just stay,
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: I stay in my lane. Where a team. Um. Again,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: I've never felt this way about somebody before. So yeah,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: I didn't think I would find somebody like her, but
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: she found. I want to say, she's out met. So
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: how did you guys meet? Uh? We were friends. Just
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: we're just friends for a long time. Um, and the
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: conversation was always good. But it wasn't until I was
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: single that I, you know, I started hanging out with her.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Once I once I was single, I was like, damn, okay,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: you got a little but bad girl. Okay. I was
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: extremely attracted to her because from afar, I never I
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: didn't I didn't know, you know, because I never crossed
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: that line once I was when I was in the
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: previous relationship. Once I was single, well started hanging out.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: We started going out to eat, and then we would Um,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I never would talk on the phone like that, but
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: I would talk on the phone with her for hours.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: So that's how I kind of the first thing. And
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: then I was like, okay, let me put my sister on,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: let me put my mom on her. My mom met her,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: and then my sisters met her, and they, you know,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: they was like, oh yeah, I like her. That's for
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: the first time. My little sister and my mom was
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: on the same both said oh yeah, she she solid.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: So that's why I was all right cool, because I
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: never did that before that either. I always was like,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: all right, cool, they cool, cool whatever. Yeah, yeah, And
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: then we just started getting tight and tighter and tighter,
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: and then the conversation and we just enjoyed the same thing.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: She finishes my sentences, I finished her sentences. I know
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: what she's thinking, she knows what I'm thinking. And again,
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: I've never been aligned mentally anyone before across the across
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: the board. That's how I knew, damn, this is this
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: is it right here? You know, I just felt I
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: just felt that immediate connection. And again I never felt
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: that way before. That's why when my friends be like, oh,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: how do you know I said, bro, I don't know.
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I just I just felt I felt butterflies in my
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: stomach and just on some manship, I don't I don't
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: want to feel butterflies in my stomach. I didn't even know.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I thought I was like about to throw up type ship,
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: but like it was on some I like her. Yeah
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So yeah, it's just um.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Over time, we were really cool friends and then um,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: once I became single, then you know, and I actually
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: had to pursue her too, Like she wasn't even on
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: that when I became single. It took it took me
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: about four months actually just to just to get her
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: to like, you know, take me, like, yo, I like you,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: like for real, like I really like you. Some art
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: I had to put in it. I had to put it.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: I remember I sent her this, uh, this picture of
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: a car that's like this close to the wall, and
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: I was like, yo, like I'm disclosed, like what's up.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: That's when she agreed. We went out to lunch. We
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: just went out to lunch one time and then we talked.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: We were done eating and we talked for a long time,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: and then that's how you know, I was like Okay,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: let's do this again. And all of a sudden, now
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: we're hanging out. Now she's coming by. And then I
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: didn't know she can cook. Cook cook. I was like,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: oh my god, you can cook cook. Yeah. I'm over here, like, yeah,
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: this is it right here. Yeah. Man, through the chaos
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: of my boy's family grew tighter. And I love to
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: see it. It is so inspiring. I love it. Do
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: you know why, y'all? One of my good movies that
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I just that's gonna be in my classic movies nowadays.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: I just washed it over the weekend. It's called Sylvie's Love. Uh,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: and it's starring my girl, Testa Thompson. I love her
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: as an actress. Um, and it has uh Niambi. I'm
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: not even gonna mess up his last name, but that's
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: actually Carrie Washington's husband. Man. He actually produced the film,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: played football too. While he played he played football. Um.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: He's from California and um, he actually was a producer
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: on this film and the main one of the main
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: characters on the film. His name was Robert and it
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: was about him and the girl Sylvie. UM. Y'all should
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: definitely check it out if you haven't seen it. It's
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: so on Netflix, I've leave or again Amazon Prime, Amazon Prime.
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: It's called Sylvie's Love. Definitely check that out you did
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: or it will be a good watch for you and WiFi.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: But just started it yesterday. I didn't get to finish,
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: so don't say too much. But I'm not gonna say
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say nothing else. It's such a great movie. Man.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: If you love love stories, you know, like the one
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: we're just said, you would definitely go Sylvie's Love the
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: show and serious news, though, the Justice Department officially announces
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: that they will not charge the cops who murdered Tamar Rice.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: What a way to end, What a way to fucking
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: slap us in the face one more time? A state
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: grand jury decided against and died in a low low man.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: He was later fired after it was discovered he was
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: previously unfit for duty. The use of force experts hired
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: by the family said the shooting was unreasonable. For use
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: of force experts who were hired by the local authorities
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: said the shooting was reasonable. You know, uh, I mean again,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: like to to to our friends who don't understand how
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: this feels. This is a normal day in African American household.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: Uh you know, something happening to us by a law
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: enforcement and then a law enforcement person just getting off
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: like that's a normal day for us. So I think
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: it's no different. This is a normal day for African Americans.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: I'm just letting y'all know, the year of twenty twenty
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: is a normal day in our life. Yeah, folks that
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: live in uh you know, well well off backgrounds and
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. This is how is being black. Okay,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: somebody in the neighborhood dying, somebody getting shot, somebody getting
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: somebody hard house getting broken into, uh, police killing, somebody
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: doing this, police doing that. That is a normal day.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: That was a normal day for me growing up. Okay,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I don't want to speak for all of it us,
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna say that's that was a normal year
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: for me growing up. Is the funked up shit about
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: every every year for me growing up was you know,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: damn you know. I hope, I hope we all make
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: it to the to the end of the year, but
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: it don't never end up like that. That's a normal
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: day growing up. It's it's so sad because so many
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: of us are extremely desensitized, you know, It's it's one
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: thing to hear it and to say that you're upset
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: about it, but that true feeling of shock or hurt
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: or disappointment really doesn't hit me that hard anymore. And
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: it's because I'm not surprised this is what I expect
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: from America, that this is exactly what I expect. Um,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: And it's unfortunate, you know that it took the year,
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you know, where everyone was forced to be in quarantine
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: for other races to look and see what is happening
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: to us. Um. It's it's hurtful, and you know, I
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: definitely love and appreciate the people that have really taken
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: a stand, you know, with us, people that have become
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: real allies. It's not enough to be a non black
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: person or a non minority and just say I've always
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: hated racism, I've always hated injustice. It's not enough for
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: you to say that. You have to participate in the
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: you know, fighting against it on a daily basis. When
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: you see something, you have to speak up. You have
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: to have these uncomfortable conversations with your kids about what
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: racism is and why it shouldn't exist. Because when you're
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: not teaching your kids that young you're allowing the world,
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: the world in society to to teach them, and we don't.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: We Racism needs to die, if flat out needs to die,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: privilege needs to be a thing of the past. There
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: has to They have to get rid of this idea
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: that helping another group of people reach the same level
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: of dignity that you have is not going to take
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: away from you and what you have. It's not gonna
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: make you less successful, it's not going to make you
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: less of a person. Why is it that some of
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: you feel that us having a level playing field diminishes
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: who you are? It doesn't, It doesn't at all. If
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: that is a fear that you have, then you are
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: knowingly oppressing other people. Then you know, you only got
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: got that promotion because they wasn't gonna promote that black woman.
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: You like, How how do you enjoy life that way?
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: It just it doesn't make sense to me, I think
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: to answer your question, and it's normal, that's normal to them.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I think, Uh, this this year wasn't a normal year
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: to a lot, to a vast majority of the public um.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: But unfortunately, like if you notice, like man like, some
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: people be so insensitive about we're so desensitized or whatever,
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: if that, if I can say that word to death
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: and stuff people dying to a point where like for
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: me growing up, like I haven't been. I've been to
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: a lot of funerals, like for real, for real, Like
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: I can't even lie to you. One of my best
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: friends got hit by a car in front of my
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: face in eighth grade. Never forget that, been to his
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: funeral um due to cross the street selling drugs. Shot um,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: been to his funeral um. One of my partners around
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: the corner that stayed out in front from seven drugs
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: got set up shots been to his funeral. This is
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: all in high school for me, like this is and
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: this is never this, It's like never anything. So like
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: sometimes when people and then you know, I saw King
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Van pass away. I was outside getting my money outside
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: the club and then all of a sudden, I turned
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: to the right and I see people fighting. Then I
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: just see boom boom boom boom came Von falls to
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: the ground. That ship sucked me up. I ain't gonna
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: lie to you all. And I didn't know it was
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: King Von until like the next day because they you know,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: the rumors were like, oh King V he had that
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: shot in front of Opium that was a club nightclub
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: here in Atlanta, But it was happening to be right
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: in front of the club I was leaving, and it
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: really it bothered me for a while. But at the
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: same time, it wasn't the first time I've seen something
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: like that happened, so I actually got over it rather quickly.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: But if it was somebody else who saw that for
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: the first time, they probably be funked up about it
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: for a long time. But my thing is, have have
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: me seeing that before, like legit and dealing with that
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: trauma at a young age, it kind of is just
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: like normal. That's one thing that really pisces me off
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: about all this is, for some reason, people don't think
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: that black people deal with trauma like they just think
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: that we are these wild animals. Keep in mind, we
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: are superhuman, Okay, with everything that black people have had
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: penned against them, we are superhuman, that is a fact.
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: But we still have trauma. We have things that we
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: need to deal with, that we need to heal from.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: And it's so unfortunate that, you know, little Billy Bobe
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: can go through something and oh my god, we're We've
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: got to get him to help. This is so traumatizing. Oh,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: my son, my son. But little black boys and little
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: black girls are constantly at the hands of some type
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: of traumatic experience, and no one ever thinks twice about it.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: There's no apology, there's no counseling offered, there's nothing, there's nothing.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: It's just like, okay, whatever it happens, but let but
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: let the roles the roles be reversed. It's a completely
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: different reaction. I'm telling you. It's a real life grant up.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Although while here in Chicago, Dallas, Atlanta, Miami, New York,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: you ain't even allowed to have guns in New York,
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: and it's still going violence in New York, Like it's
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: a minimum two year sentence in New York, especially California,
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: of course, And of course I'm leaving out other hoods.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, in your big metropolitans city, it's
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: the damn Neil war zone and I shouldn't be getting
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: swept under the rug on the low. Especially Chicago, Man,
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: they love it. They love to see us in this
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: type of chaos. They love to see us harming each
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: other because they know if they help us, if they
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: give us any type of help and we rise above.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: They already know what we're capable of. Don't get me
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: started that we'll talk. That's a whole episode. But I
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: do agree with you, uh Sue Uh. White silence equals
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: violence and ferrari for the world has been what it
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: is for black people every day, and that is survival.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: So I definitely agree with Thank you. M. Slavery taught
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: us how to survive, not to live. We are not
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: truly living. We are in survival mode and we have
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: been since the first European step foot on Africa and
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: looted the entire continent. And before we go to the
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: next thing, I just think that that's what our parents
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: taught us to how to survive. I think in a
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: different in different households, they don't teach them that. They
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: teach them how to thrive. They teach them about their credit,
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: They teach them how to you know, save money. They
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: teach them how to earn money. My parents didn't teach
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: me or none of that. They taught me a bro,
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: make sure you get you a job, get some health benefits. Motherfucker.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: You see them police officers, God damn you feel me.
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: You don't funk with them? You know what I'm saying.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: They pull you over, keep your hands on the stair wheels.
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, on your way home, take your hat off,
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: don't be don't if you have a hoodie on, take
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: your hoodie off. This is the thing. These are things
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: that's embedded in my head for my parents and my grandma.
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, When you see a police officer, don't,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: don't look them like, don't give them a reason to
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: think that you're a criminal. That's things that were taught.
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: They're not taught that. They're taught about credit and um,
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: you know, building foundational generational wealth. We just started doing
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: that with our with our kids. But I would say
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: for us, and I don't want to talk about this
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: too long because that's a whole another conversation, but we're
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: the We're the generation that's doing that for the youth now.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: Like I have conversations with my kids that my parents
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: never had with me at their age. I'm talking to
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: my twelve year old about what you want to be
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: when she grow up. I've never had that conversation with
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: my parents. They know, my parents aren't even graduating from
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: high school. Dog all they did, all they knew was
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: get a job and get some health benefits. None of
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: my parents graduated. My dad had associated arts degree, my
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: mom got her g D. My grandma never finished school.
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. My sisters went to college,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: dropped out. You know what I'm saying. I was the
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: first person to get it. But I'm talking to my
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: kid and I'm actually the first person in my household
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: or in my family that followed their dreams. Everybody else
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: have a job. You know what I'm saying that likewise,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: my kids wanting to follow my dreams. That's what I'm saying.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: So my conversation with my kids is different. I'm talking
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: to them about my daughter is twelve, but she can draw.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: I'll be over here like baby, you know, you can
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: make like five hundred dollars each saw that she was
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: over here like what I was like, Yeah, And I'm
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: just opening their minds about what do you want to
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: be when you grow up? You could be anything you want.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: I never was told that. And I'm not saying my
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: parents did a bad job. I'm just saying they just
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: taught me how to survive. They ain't teach me how
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: to live my dreams. That ain't that. Ain't how I
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: was ready because there wasn't no black president until after
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: I was a growing as man. But my kids seeing
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: a black president, so they now see that, Oh, I
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: could do that if I want to. But when we
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: was growing up, ain't these babies early nine, these babies,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: we ain't see no black motherfucker black president. We thought
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: vice president. We thought that ship was impossible. Well, I
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm for. The ship seemed like it was
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: gonna it was never gonna happen. But my bad job,
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: I don't went on another tangent. Go ahead, It's fine, man.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: We have to pray for the well being of our children,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: and you know it was well. Let's praying for each
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  Speaker 1: other and praying for world people worldwide, including Ethiopia. Do
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: you have an update for us, Sue? Unfortunately, you guys,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: the war and the tip Ry region of Ethiopia is
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: getting worse. UM. I do want to acknowledge before I
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  Speaker 1: move any further that, Um it is really unfortunately not
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: even only happening in the tip Rife region. UM. I
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: have to acknowledge what is happening to the people of Rama,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: the Romans day. The Romans have been at the hands
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: of violence for a very long time, a very long time,
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  Speaker 1: and they are again dealing with what is happening in
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  Speaker 1: Ethiopia now. If you guys do not know what's going on,
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  Speaker 1: please look at hashtag pray for Ethiopia, hashtag stop war
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  Speaker 1: on Tigrai. It is a genocide. Ethiopia is officially on
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  Speaker 1: the genocide list. The Prime Minister i'd Be is not
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: allowing for any media coverage into the Tigwai region. There
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: is no medical supplies, no food, no water, no power.
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  Speaker 1: There are well over sixty thou refugees that have migrated
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  Speaker 1: from Ethiopia to Sudan. Sudan is now facing a famine.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: So yes, the people are Tigray are surrounded by devastation.
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  Speaker 1: There's there's nowhere to go. No matter which direction you
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  Speaker 1: go in. You can't go north to Eritrea because Airitrean
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  Speaker 1: soldiers are actually killing people on site on the border.
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  Speaker 1: You cannot cross um air train soldiers are actually they're
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  Speaker 1: actually in the region of ti Ride as well. People
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  Speaker 1: are being massacred, churches have are being bombed, Pregnant women
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: are being cut open. It's it is Rwanda, it is
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: it is, it is bad Um, it has now been
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: over sixty days since I've spoken to my mother. I
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: have absolutely no idea where she is. I don't know
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  Speaker 1: where the rest of my family is either. I don't
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: know if she has migrated. I don't know if she's
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  Speaker 1: hiding in the mountains. So I literally have no idea
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  Speaker 1: where she is. She they as as people of the
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  Speaker 1: tail Life Region. They are not allowed to access their
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  Speaker 1: bank accounts, so she can't even get her own money
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: to help her in any situation. Most people are being
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  Speaker 1: denied their medication. UM. Doctors have fled the high hospitals
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  Speaker 1: in the regions. There's nothing there, so, UM, we need support,
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  Speaker 1: you know. And it's just it's it's gonna be the
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: same thing that I say every week until things start
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  Speaker 1: to get better. Um. There has been some form of communication,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: Some communication has been restored in MCLF, but that is
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: one area, you know that that's there are thous hundreds
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: of thousands of families that are lost. There are seniors
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: who were separated from their families, don't know where their
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: kids are. Um, they're fending for themselves. There are people
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  Speaker 1: who refuse to leave certain areas because they think that
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: their families will come and meet them there. They're just
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: hopeful that a sibling or or any relative will show up.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: So people are Some people are standing their ground in
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: pure deserts, you know, starvation, nothing, waiting for a family
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: to arrive, and it's just it's not happening. So we
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: need to continue the Black Lives Matter movement because if
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: black lives matter, then they matter everywhere in the world.
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: And unfortunately Prime Minister i'd be is acting as a
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  Speaker 1: dictator and we have to get him out and we
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  Speaker 1: have to make sure that he's held accountable for the
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  Speaker 1: war crimes that he has committed. So we're gonna continue
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  Speaker 1: to pray for Ethiopia. I will continue to have faith
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  Speaker 1: that my mom will call me at some point, and
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: I believe that she will be okay. So as soon
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: as I hear that, y'all know, I'm gonna be shouting
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  Speaker 1: at from the rooftop. So please continue to pray and
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: fight and if I just find out what you can do,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: I know it seems difficult, it seems very helpless, but
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: sometimes just using your platform to talk about it helps
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: to bring awareness to people that would have never known
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: about it. Sometimes that's all we need. So pray for
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: all of Ethiopia. All of Ethiopia needs peace. But please
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: pray for the people of the a more regions and
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: the people take that. We'll be right back with more
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  Speaker 1: wanted to get a little deep, y'all, I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: get up out of here. I think a lot of
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