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Friend Zoned & Eavesdroppers · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us. Ryan Air Air on
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  Speaker 2: Air with a Ryan Seacrest on a two point seven
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  Speaker 2: Kiss FM. Let's go to the back room, michaela, who's
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  Speaker 2: been a great producer of RUSS for quite a long time.
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  Speaker 2: Now I feel like, Mikayla, how long has it been.
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  Speaker 3: It's been over three and a half years.
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  Speaker 2: You know you're gonna find out about this show. A
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  Speaker 2: life goes by and you won't even know it.
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  Speaker 4: And how's hwn by fast?
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  Speaker 2: Twenty nine years?
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  Speaker 4: For me, that's your career, your radio.
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  Speaker 2: Career, radycur is longer than that. Come five oh yeah seven,
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  Speaker 2: I is fourteen, so I'm five.
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  Speaker 5: Oh.
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  Speaker 4: Now you haven't been a kiss for twenty nine years?
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  Speaker 2: High vot huh seels like twenty nine twenty one years
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  Speaker 2: and exactly that's my point. A lifetime kids have been born,
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  Speaker 2: they can drink now. Oh I was talking in this microphone.
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  Speaker 2: That's why. That's a lifetime true fact. Amy the intern,
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  Speaker 2: how old are you? Yeah, I'm twenty.
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  Speaker 6: That's long I was.
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  Speaker 2: Paying bills and you were not even on.
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  Speaker 7: The Your mom was pregnant listening to this show right
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  Speaker 7: when he started.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, I make this play for no reason. But Michayla,
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  Speaker 2: tell us, what's going on? You're singing and you having
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  Speaker 2: a problem with your friend's baby name.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, And I need to know if I'm wrong for
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  Speaker 3: thinking this way because one of my best friends is
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  Speaker 3: having her second baby and we even best friend since college.
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  Speaker 3: We were at her house this weekend and she told
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  Speaker 3: just us what she's naming her newborn baby girl. And
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  Speaker 3: she has told us what she always wanted to name
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  Speaker 3: her baby girl before and it was Peyton, and this time, wait,
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  Speaker 3: it was Peyton, Peyton, Peyton, it's peyton. We can't emphasize the.
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  Speaker 8: Tea and it sounded like pain.
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  Speaker 3: Well it's Peyton. Anyway, she's not naming her baby. That's
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  Speaker 3: so we don't have to worry about it. Okay, she's
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  Speaker 3: naming her baby eleanor but calling her Ellie. And I
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  Speaker 3: always wanted to name my daughter Ellie and call her Elle.
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  Speaker 3: So I don't know if I should be she has a.
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  Speaker 2: Head start on you. But did you ever tell her this?
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  Speaker 4: I feel like I have.
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  Speaker 3: And I was like, wait, Beck, like I want to
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  Speaker 3: name my daughter this, and she's like, well, you have
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  Speaker 3: like three months? Do I get pregnant? To have a
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  Speaker 3: baby and if you want a name her that first,
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  Speaker 3: And I was.
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  Speaker 7: Like, oh, so, like wait, wait, wait, this is how
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  Speaker 7: the conversation went, like for real.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just like joking because I was just
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  Speaker 3: that's just weird how we are with each other. But
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  Speaker 3: I was kind of like upset, like is it okay
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  Speaker 3: to have the same name as your best friend's kid, Like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, it's I know, it's like a nickname,
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  Speaker 3: like the first name is eleanor.
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  Speaker 9: But but what if your husband was a guy you
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  Speaker 9: married doesn't like that name and actually hates that name,
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  Speaker 9: and then you don't end up even naming your baby
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  Speaker 9: that and then you you both lose out on the name.
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  Speaker 3: That is true, But I just I guess it's always
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  Speaker 3: something I had in my mind. So when she said it,
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  Speaker 3: I was just gonna tell.
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  Speaker 2: You that, like, did she give your heads up that
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  Speaker 2: this was going to happen at any point?
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  Speaker 10: No?
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  Speaker 3: I was shook, like she this was never a name
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  Speaker 3: that she has ever said.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little bit of fevery.
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  Speaker 7: Did you recently tell her that this was the name
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  Speaker 7: that you kind of wanted in the future for your unborn.
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  Speaker 3: I just think it's kind of thing we always mentioned
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  Speaker 3: in college, like joking, I have a list, girl.
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  Speaker 2: You a little taken aback by this, and as if
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  Speaker 2: my proprietary name, thought idea was taken from me, I
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  Speaker 2: would have that reaction like.
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  Speaker 4: My baby cimma.
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  Speaker 2: Clearly, I can't do that anymore because you've said it
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  Speaker 2: one billion times on the air, So we're going to
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  Speaker 2: have this later. You know you stole it from me
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  Speaker 2: by broadcasting it one hundred times. I don't want the
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  Speaker 2: name Mikayla's friends. I don't want the name. That's not
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  Speaker 2: the point. You are Michayla's best friend right now, and
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  Speaker 2: I feel what she feels. I'm sharing the name. This
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  Speaker 2: is not about you. This is about the Kayla.
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  Speaker 7: See.
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  Speaker 2: I think I would feel the same way, but I
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  Speaker 2: don't need you to do anything about it.
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  Speaker 4: It's gonna be there's nothing you can do but it.
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  Speaker 7: And also from someone that had a list of names
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  Speaker 7: thinking of what I would name my future kids, I
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  Speaker 7: don't even think I used any of those. Once I
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  Speaker 7: met Michael and we were pregnant and like it's you, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: So I mean it's all fair.
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  Speaker 2: She got there first, right, and it's like, what are
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  Speaker 2: you gonna do? Right? Right, so she she's.
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  Speaker 7: I wouldn't ruin. I wouldn't ruin the friendship over it.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think it's worth it.
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  Speaker 2: But I understand how you feel because Tany has done
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  Speaker 2: this to me again. Right, Wow, really interesting, isn't it?
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  Speaker 4: I don't want the name.
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  Speaker 3: Ryan likes Geneva too, he said last time.
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  Speaker 2: See there, you've just become your best friend. We're gonna
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  Speaker 2: look for I'm gonna look for other cities and other
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  Speaker 2: continents now after this goodbye because of them. Let me
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  Speaker 2: grab a La Pente's Jamie. Good morning, La Jamie. How
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  Speaker 2: are you?
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  Speaker 1: How are you?
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  Speaker 2: I'm doing okay. So you're calling about an issue a question.
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  Speaker 2: You want to know if you can bring a friend
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  Speaker 2: as your plus one to a wedding. Is that correct?
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  Speaker 11: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, okay? Well why are you concerned about it? Or
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  Speaker 2: why is it a question? Well?
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  Speaker 1: Actually I need an advice because I am going to
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  Speaker 1: a wedding in a few months and I was given
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  Speaker 1: a plus one. But I'm single. So does this mean
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  Speaker 1: I can take a friend with me? Or is that
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  Speaker 1: last one only for a significant other?
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  Speaker 2: You may find a shocking I've never had a wedding
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  Speaker 2: where I had to make the rules, but two people
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  Speaker 2: looking at me have how would they feel about it?
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  Speaker 2: Let's start with you, sisiny I.
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  Speaker 4: If I gave you a plus one, I don't care
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  Speaker 4: who you bring.
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  Speaker 2: Tanya, same, if you get a plus one, that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: I was not supposed to bring a random person to
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  Speaker 2: your wedding. I was talking.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, you said that he can't bring like.
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  Speaker 2: A bunch or she told me that random anybody. No,
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  Speaker 2: that's not true.
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  Speaker 9: So true, I said, you can't bring a random friend.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, just in my mouth.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Jamie.
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  Speaker 9: If they wanted to bring a random lover, that would
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  Speaker 9: have been fine.
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  Speaker 2: Never happened that. No se rules.
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  Speaker 4: I know that's not true.
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  Speaker 2: It's not true.
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  Speaker 9: I said, I'd prefer if it would be somebody that
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  Speaker 9: I knew.
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  Speaker 4: But you can bring whoever you want.
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  Speaker 9: I gave you a plus one. I didn't give plus
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  Speaker 9: ones to anyone unless they were like in the bridal party.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So just to you know, Jamie, I said, no,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going on my own. So the question is, how
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  Speaker 2: do you think the people at the wedding would feel.
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you right now, Tanya would not love it
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  Speaker 2: if I brought a random person. She didn't know, like
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  Speaker 2: she's pretending to be cool about it. She's cool about
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  Speaker 2: it and promise you. But anyway, how would your friend.
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  Speaker 4: Feel in hindsight? I would to love it.
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  Speaker 2: No hindsight, we know and who's the friend? How well
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  Speaker 2: do you know the friend?
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  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I know her for five years.
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  Speaker 2: Now, okay, you can bring I think, bring the friend.
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  Speaker 2: I felt uncomfortable in many situations being alone at her wedding,
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  Speaker 2: At Tiny's wedding, so I think you need a friend there.
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  Speaker 9: If it's gonna make you have more fun and you're
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  Speaker 9: gonna be on the dance floor and you're gonna make
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  Speaker 9: her wedding.
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  Speaker 2: When people want that. Yeah, and it's a friend good
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  Speaker 2: all right?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, all right.
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  Speaker 2: I found myself walking around alone quite a bit at
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  Speaker 2: Tanya's wedding.
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  Speaker 7: I mean I brought my sister to a wedding one No,
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  Speaker 7: you did not, I did, Yeah I did.
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  Speaker 4: You were chatting it up with someone at all time?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, everyone forced conversation.
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  Speaker 4: No, you were giggly like a goose.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Jammy, bring your friend and have a good time,
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  Speaker 2: and thank you for asking.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 7: Guys.
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  Speaker 2: All right, you take care bye. Hi like a goose
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  Speaker 2: if I brought ten as to your wedding, you would
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  Speaker 2: have not been totally fine.
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  Speaker 9: Actually I would not have enjoyed it as a party.
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  Speaker 9: But like if you brought Tiffany, don't you have a friend.
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  Speaker 2: Niff you have twenty years ago whatever, whatever.
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  Speaker 9: I was going off the t theme because you said
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  Speaker 9: to nas and then that would be maybe a different story.
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  Speaker 2: It was only once it's happened, it's we're done. No
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  Speaker 2: more weddings for you, No kiss, I'll want you seven
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  Speaker 12: in the frosty.
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  Speaker 2: What a bright time.
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  Speaker 6: It's the ride. Time to rock the knife way, jingle
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  Speaker 13: It's the right time to rock the.
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  Speaker 7: Nine way.
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  Speaker 2: Jingle bell. Time is a swell time.
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  Speaker 13: That's the jingle bell.
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  Speaker 2: Run one of two point seven Kiss FM. All right,
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  Speaker 2: let's get to Alexis this morning. Alexis, good morning, how
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  Speaker 2: are you hi?
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  Speaker 15: Good morning?
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  Speaker 5: Get her you guys.
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  Speaker 2: We're doing great. Thank you for asking about it. And
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  Speaker 2: I understand you've got a questionable venmo situation here. What happened,
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 15: So what happened was I went to dinner with some
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  Speaker 15: of my friends and they had brought their kids, so
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  Speaker 15: we you know, finished dinner, and one of my friends
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  Speaker 15: puts the dinner on her card. Then the next day
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  Speaker 15: I get a Venmo for way more than what I
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  Speaker 15: had calculated. I ordered an entree and a drink and
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  Speaker 15: that was it. And it turns out she just split
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  Speaker 15: it amongst all the adults. So the adults that brought
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  Speaker 15: kids didn't pay more for their kids. So I just
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  Speaker 15: don't know what to do because it's about fifty dollars
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  Speaker 15: more than I had intended to pay.
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  Speaker 5: Do I say something?
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  Speaker 15: Do I just let it go?
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  Speaker 4: That's so awkward and rude.
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  Speaker 2: I think, Look, it's I think you're you already know
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  Speaker 2: the answer. You're saying it to us, so it's festering,
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  Speaker 2: it's bothering you. I think there's no shame in saying something.
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  Speaker 4: Or you could just pay back for what you think
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  Speaker 4: you ate and don't say it on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's another way. Just yeah, and then move on.
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  Speaker 2: They you avoid one conflict and conversation.
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  Speaker 15: I write in the comments like this is what I owe.
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  Speaker 2: Sure, I don't know heart emotions or calculate the number
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  Speaker 2: and send it. Let her come back to you and
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  Speaker 2: justify why should be different.
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  Speaker 15: Okay, great, I just didn't know if it was rude
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  Speaker 15: to do that.
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  Speaker 7: And no, I think it's rude that she requested, you
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  Speaker 7: know what I mean? Like when I go out to
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  Speaker 7: dinner with my friends, I don't have kids. We just
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  Speaker 7: pay for their meal and.
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  Speaker 2: The emoji choice is Keith. It seems sort of uni
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  Speaker 2: bothered by it, right like that, that's gonna ease everything.
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  Speaker 2: Appreciate the call y thank you problem solved, Thanks very much, man.
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  Speaker 2: I think that when things bother you, there's a way
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  Speaker 2: to address it. It's just with a little finesse. But
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  Speaker 2: I like sysney solution. Just send the number right and
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  Speaker 2: come back to you with the conversation you got with
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  Speaker 2: a very acute emoji makes them feel bad. It's kiss FM,
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  Speaker 2: all right? Here are some of the worst things you
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  Speaker 2: can say to your partner, according to a relationship expert.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know if these are in your vocabulary,
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  Speaker 2: but ohmit I told you so? Oh yeah, that just
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  Speaker 2: sounds harsh. Anybody too, I told you so?
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  Speaker 16: Do you so?
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  Speaker 2: What is wrong with you?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 2: Harsh decree?
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  Speaker 4: That's oh that's like one of them.
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  Speaker 17: What is right?
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  Speaker 18: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Would you think you are saying that to me?
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  Speaker 4: And I was very friended.
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  Speaker 2: I was playing the role of a party, like, what
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  Speaker 2: is wrong with me? What do you mean?
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  Speaker 5: You see? Like?
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  Speaker 4: I instantly went on defense, I know what.
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  Speaker 2: Is wrong with you? That act delivering the lines okay,
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  Speaker 2: one more. You are just like your father, You're just
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  Speaker 2: like your mother. Oh those are harsh and cold that.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know what you're doing obviously, if you're doing
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  Speaker 7: something in the negative tone, you know, I.
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  Speaker 2: Guess you could be playful, just like your father, just
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  Speaker 2: like your mother. Right, that's cute, but be careful. I
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  Speaker 2: told you so, what's wrong with you?
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  Speaker 4: That one stings?
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  Speaker 2: That hurts? You can't ever say that anybody.
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  Speaker 4: No, I thought you said it to me right now.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, what do you mean You got so
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  Speaker 2: def did y'all see how defensive?
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  Speaker 7: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I went into like attack mode.
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  Speaker 2: Today's quote on this Tuesday gentle reminder that not every
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  Speaker 2: day has to count. Some days are just about making
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  Speaker 2: it to the next one. Oh my god, you mean
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  Speaker 2: men that counts too? Yes, some you know, eat the
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  Speaker 2: cookie dough tonight. Is trying to survive the day, exactly,
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  Speaker 2: throw it out, don't worry, just to day, get to
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  Speaker 2: another one. Kiss FM one of two point seven Kiss FM.
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  Speaker 2: Let's let's just take a look at our free services.
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  Speaker 2: Here to the team in the back room. A lot
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  Speaker 2: of some people if they had a degree, which I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think we're doing this for sure. I don't
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  Speaker 2: have one at all.
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  Speaker 4: I have a degree. I have a degree as well,
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  Speaker 4: and get fine.
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  Speaker 2: I have an honorary one.
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  Speaker 4: Was gonna brag, well, when you say none of us
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  Speaker 4: have a degree, I.
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  Speaker 2: Will brag in psychology and guidance counseling.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, I have a honorary degree in that as well.
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  Speaker 2: No, anyway, producing Mikayla, she needed advice earlier in the show.
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  Speaker 2: Now Ponsie went in on this advice action because it
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  Speaker 2: went so well with Mikayla apparently, So, Alfonso, what's the
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  Speaker 2: issue with you from the back room?
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  Speaker 19: So, long story short, I have a lot of platonic
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  Speaker 19: relationships with win. I can easily become friends with a
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  Speaker 19: lot of women and it's great. But the problem is
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  Speaker 19: is that when it comes to actually expressing my intentions
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  Speaker 19: or my feelings for the women I like, it's a
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  Speaker 19: little more complicated because then I get in my head
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  Speaker 19: about it and.
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  Speaker 2: You think this is an anomaly, this is unique to you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm twice your age and I deal with the same thing.
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  Speaker 2: It's not that funny, Mikayla. So what's the issue that
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  Speaker 2: you brought to your friend? What would you ask him about? Yeah?
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  Speaker 19: So The reason I get like in my head about
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  Speaker 19: it is because then I feel like I'm putting myself
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  Speaker 19: at risk of losing a friendship.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you're talking about You're talking about crossing the line
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  Speaker 2: with the females that are already friendly with you, not
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  Speaker 2: new ones. No exactly. Yeah I thought he was like,
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  Speaker 2: I thought I could be friends with girls. I met
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  Speaker 2: a new girl. But the new girl I meet, I
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  Speaker 2: have a difficult time with her. He doesn't, right, we
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  Speaker 2: all do. But now we're talking about a whole different
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  Speaker 2: pot of kettle beans. Yeah exactly. Uh why but why
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  Speaker 2: choose your friends though?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's another interesting thing.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it does add to complexity.
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  Speaker 19: Well, because I've always been told that like the best,
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  Speaker 19: like the best relationships come from like friendships, right, because you've.
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  Speaker 2: Been told that maybe, yeah, maybe you are.
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  Speaker 7: Let me tell you, whenever I've got into relationships like that,
• 16:17
  Speaker 7: they never worked out.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: But did you always find these girls that were friends attractive?
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: Or is this something that's well ron it developed for me?
• 16:24
  Speaker 19: Because the thing is though, it's like if it's a
• 16:25
  Speaker 19: new person, it's like, Okay, yeah she's pretty, but I
• 16:28
  Speaker 19: don't I don't know her. Like for me, it's like
• 16:30
  Speaker 19: if I have a history with someone, like we're friends.
• 16:32
  Speaker 19: We found out we have like common interest and it's like, yeah.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: Here's the good news. I have done this. Okay, I
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: did this from Burbank to Brentwood. She lived in Brentwood.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: I lived in Burbank. We were best friends for a
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: long time. You guys know who she was. This was
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: a long time ago. I would always go up to
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: her house for California Chicken Cafe on wheelschir I'd pick
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: it up, I bring it over. I'd love to SEESU
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Salid with chicken. We'd eat at our apartment with this is.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: For years, we would do this a couple nights a week.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: We talked about everything, and then finally one night we kissed.
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: We made out. Things happened, and then it completely changed.
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: I haven't spoken to her in years all fund so
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: now just both of us. It's like it changed the
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: dynamic for both of us. And I don't know if
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: I recommend pursuing it. Oh okay, sorry, but I really
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: like her. I really liked her too, and she really
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: didn't like the situation. Yeah, I guess it's shocking. Tanya. Well,
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: you know this story and I.
• 17:26
  Speaker 9: Don't remember who it was, and it's bothering me. Uh yeah,
• 17:31
  Speaker 9: her name doesn't start with an S, right.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah it does.
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: Yes, Okay, thank you.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: Now while we're here, funds anything else. She seems very deflated. Yeah,
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: that advice was like it's real life, bro.
• 17:48
  Speaker 19: Yeah, and I think I'll probably take this advice, and
• 17:51
  Speaker 19: I'm just gonna start pivoting. I think I'll probably just
• 17:53
  Speaker 19: start I mean.
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: It's try to meet girls outside your circle.
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: Okay. If you end up with a friend you guys
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: have vibe, then yeah, take the risk.
• 18:02
  Speaker 19: Ok what happened to me? I'm just so used to
• 18:04
  Speaker 19: not like being in my circles. That's like getting out
• 18:07
  Speaker 19: of it.
• 18:07
  Speaker 7: Just yeah, you gotta get out of your comfort zone. Okay,
• 18:09
  Speaker 7: then you'll always be in the friend zone.
• 18:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, go downstairs, stand on the corner. Okay, we're gonna
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: have people drive by. If you like fans, you like
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: his vibe, Stop giving me a number, okayt single people.
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: We used to do stuff like this on the radio
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: one hundred years ago.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: We're doing it against being recycled two point seven Kiss FM.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: This is the second date update, and she says Tiffany says,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: we met late in West Hollywood. I had had a
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: few drinks. He was walking his dog. I became obsessed
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: with his dog. I gave him my number and he
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: called and we went out and it was amazing. But
• 18:48
  Speaker 2: now he's not responding to me, and I want to
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: know why. I do feel safer meeting someone that has
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: a pet.
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: I'd like to say after a few drinks, safer, Well that.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Too, don't we all? I don't know. I just feel
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: like I mean, I do judge, like if you have
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: a dog, your respond you're something, but it's not bad.
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you're caring for a life.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think you're bad. You don't know. I
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: mean people who don't you don't know if they have
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: a dog or a pet. You don't know.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: Well, I feel like bad people still do have dogs.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: Well, I don't like to think like that. Well, you know,
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: I like to think dogs or pets change you. But
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: I feel more comfortable with somebody that has a pet.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Yes, I think like that. I agree with you on that.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: So let's get Tiffany on the line. I see why
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: she connected with him. So Tiffany, we know the background,
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: we know the story, we know why you gave your number.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Then you went out and you felt like everything was
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: going well.
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was. It was a great date. It was
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: like one of the best dates I've ever been on.
• 19:57
  Speaker 16: We went to Pittsana and pizza. Yeah, and we and
• 20:04
  Speaker 16: he brought his dog.
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: It was so cute.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: And pictures of that pizza everywhere.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: It's delicious.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: But the date, all right, So the date went well.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Now he's not responding to you, and do you have
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: any is there any sort of thing in the back
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: of your mind that you're thinking about could have been
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: the reason why or could be the reason why.
• 20:26
  Speaker 5: No, it was literally the best torst date I've ever had.
• 20:29
  Speaker 5: I couldn't have it, couldn't have gone better. I'm I'm
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: totally clueless. I don't know why.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: So what do you send? What are you texting him?
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: He's not responding to What are you saying?
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: Well? I just I thanked him for you know, we
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: had a great date. I thanked him. I said I
• 20:45
  Speaker 5: had a great time, you know we I'd love to
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: see you again. And me just never responded, just total silence.
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: I always think that there's somebody else in the picture.
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: Then, well, something was different on the date. Did you
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: guys happened to drink.
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: Well on the date, Yes, on the date?
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: No interesting.
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: No, I was drunk when I met him.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: That's why I think she asked because she wanted to
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: see if there was a theme. Now do you did you? Guys?
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: Did you lob in a kiss?
• 21:17
  Speaker 10: Did he?
• 21:19
  Speaker 5: He did? On the on the after we went and
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: got food, We like, went to the park, nice romantic walk.
• 21:26
  Speaker 5: He walked to me to my car and we kissed.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: And so I don't get it.
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't get anything.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: And so just to understand where we're going with this,
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: you want to go out with him again? No matter? What?
• 21:36
  Speaker 18: Is that? Right?
• 21:38
  Speaker 11: Yeah?
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: I mean unless I can't think, there's no reason why
• 21:41
  Speaker 5: I don't want to.
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Go out with him.
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: And I really liked him as a great first date.
• 21:44
  Speaker 5: We had chemistry and his dog is so cute, Like
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: I'm in you know, Okay.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: We're going to put you on hold and we'll come
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: back and we'll try and call him next one of
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: two point seven Kiss FM. It is kiss FM. So
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: just to set the scene, we are in the middle
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: of this second date update. Will it be a success?
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: I'm thinking, yeah, I think it's I think Daniel's work
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: out well, I like Tiffany. She seemed like she knew
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: that Daniel was a good guy. She met him actually
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: walking his dog after she had a couple drinks one
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: night on the sidewalk. She gave out her number. They
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: went out. They went to Pizzana pizza place famous for
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: pizza see the pizzas on Instagram. So they go and
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: she thought the date went well. And he's not responding
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: to anything that she's texting. So what happened? I said,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: do you want to go out to me? She's like, yeah,
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: I like the guy. So maybe there's an explanation for this, Tiffany.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: We have Daniel. He's agreed to come on, but don't
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: say anything. Just be very quiet, okay, okay, all right,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: don't say Anything're and talk to him and see if
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: we can find out what happened. Here we go, Hi, Daniel,
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: it's Ryan Seacrest, Sissy and Tanya. How are you? It's good?
• 22:56
  Speaker 5: How are you guys?
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: Thank you for asking? We are doing okay. So you
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: know we're calling you about a woman you met while
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: you're walking your dog with having dog.
• 23:05
  Speaker 16: Yeah, yeah, it's Jimy Shepherd.
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: Wow. You also protective right?
• 23:15
  Speaker 16: Yeah?
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Security dog.
• 23:17
  Speaker 16: He's my best friend.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: What's his name?
• 23:21
  Speaker 16: Freddy?
• 23:22
  Speaker 4: Freddie like Freddie Freeman, Like Freddie Freeman.
• 23:26
  Speaker 16: You got it exactly.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I give you my number. I get it. Anyway, we're
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: calling you because this woman, Tiffany, we know about her.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: I don't know her that well, but we understand that
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: you guys went out and tell me about how that went.
• 23:41
  Speaker 16: It was okay. She's uh, she's a pretty girl. She
• 23:49
  Speaker 16: loved Freddy. Uh so yeah, it was fine, I guess.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: But fine and okay not the words you want to
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: hear after you've met someone and gone out with them.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: So what do you what? Was not good or great?
• 24:05
  Speaker 16: She was cool and everything, but I mean, I don't
• 24:08
  Speaker 16: want to seem superficial. She's just okay. So so she
• 24:14
  Speaker 16: ordered pasta and I've never seen this before, but she like,
• 24:19
  Speaker 16: how can I describe it? She like drops her fork
• 24:22
  Speaker 16: on the plate like after every bite.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: You mean mix a noise, clanking noise.
• 24:29
  Speaker 18: Yeah, like clangs like you know, like you know those
• 24:31
  Speaker 18: people don't like trying to like she's trying to make
• 24:37
  Speaker 18: everyone here that she just took a bite.
• 24:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, really like drop it, you know, yeah for everybody
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: crazy that would mean on a plate. It's so loud
• 24:50
  Speaker 4: and yeah, but is that a deal breaker?
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's a deal It.
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: Says a lot about character.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: It's just not saying anything about what do you know
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: about containing anymore anyway, honeymooner, Dane, don't listen to make noise.
• 25:08
  Speaker 9: You want to draw attention to yourself. They need a
• 25:11
  Speaker 9: lot of attention.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: She might not be aware she's doing.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: It all right, but this that's the only thing. Everything
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: else is fine or great or better than okay.
• 25:21
  Speaker 16: I mean to me, that's like a lack of self awareness, right,
• 25:24
  Speaker 16: and it's it just seemed like a microcosm of like
• 25:28
  Speaker 16: whatever issues she has.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Going on, like she's not aware of issues. Analyzation can
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: be a real curse. Now let me tell you that
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: I'm bringing her in right now. Tiffany's on the line.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: She's listening to this. Tanya understands you, Daniel, I don't
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: understand you. Tiffany. Can you please react to the reason
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: why he's got a problem with you? And why are
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: you dropping a fork?
• 25:53
  Speaker 5: It does not flank. This is insane. I I literally
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: set my fork down after each bite, like like a normal,
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: proper mannered person would like that's a normal thing to do.
• 26:04
  Speaker 16: To take a bud.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: Let's not argue about this. Just tell hold on, Tiffany.
• 26:12
  Speaker 5: Maybe maybe it clanks like once, or it's like I've
• 26:16
  Speaker 5: never heard anyone say this to me in my life before,
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: and I've had lots of meals.
• 26:22
  Speaker 16: Well, maybe you had to hear it now. Honestly, was
• 26:25
  Speaker 16: that there everybody slamming it on your plate? That is
• 26:30
  Speaker 16: not true. That's that's actually.
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: Oh my god. All right, well but here's okay, fine, fine,
• 26:40
  Speaker 5: here's my question. Here's my question. If that was so
• 26:43
  Speaker 5: loud and clanking, if I was so, if you were
• 26:46
  Speaker 5: so annoyed with me, if I'm not self aware during dinner, why.
• 26:49
  Speaker 16: Did you Why did we go get cookies?
• 26:51
  Speaker 5: Why did we walk through the park? Why did you
• 26:54
  Speaker 5: kiss me at my car? Why? Why?
• 26:57
  Speaker 16: Sweet two? I needed to walk?
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Ready? Likes pretty good?
• 27:01
  Speaker 11: I was.
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: I was really trying to make this happen for you.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: But I am I'm not. I'm not on board, Daniel.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Let me say something to you. I think you need
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: to get over it. And Tiffany, you shouldn't be so
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: defensive about it now, didn't grow.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Up, antagonizer.
• 27:24
  Speaker 5: I'm really glad we need I made this call. I'm
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: really glad because you are not my dude.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: You're not my guy.
• 27:29
  Speaker 16: This is great, fine, fine, pe all right, Daniel, how
• 27:34
  Speaker 16: old are you?
• 27:35
  Speaker 7: Daniel?
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Think you're spending too much time with your dog?
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: Uh no, I agree with you, Tiffany. We move on
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: from this. I really wanted to make it happen.
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: Man, that was painful.
• 27:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: I was hoping for something really special there, but that
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: seemed very childish to me.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: I thought he was going to say he didn't like
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: sober Tiffany.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, like she was fun and just when
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: she was get over it, get over it.
• 28:02
  Speaker 9: No, I get it.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: I don't at all.
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: This is the reason why you didn't. You would always
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: like shoe men off for this one thing that does you.
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: It matters.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: You're out a game. But I felt right one okay,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: right on air with Ryan Seacrest, right now, eight hundred
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: and five, will one to two seven, Now, good morning.
• 28:25
  Speaker 16: How are you good?
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: How are you very good? So you saw a birthday
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: invitation on Instagram? Tell me more, what's the issue?
• 28:35
  Speaker 16: Okay?
• 28:36
  Speaker 11: So, well, he's like a friend that I've hung up
• 28:39
  Speaker 11: with a few times, and I think we get along.
• 28:41
  Speaker 11: But I saw like on his close Friends story on
• 28:44
  Speaker 11: Instagram that like he's having a party and RSVP is
• 28:49
  Speaker 11: in the link in his bio, But I don't know
• 28:52
  Speaker 11: if that means I'm invited or not. Oh, I don't
• 28:59
  Speaker 11: know if it's weird. I like RSVP because he didn't
• 29:01
  Speaker 11: like text me directly, but I mean I'm on the
• 29:04
  Speaker 11: close friends.
• 29:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he knows they know what.
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: He knows what he's doing, he knows the risk he's taking.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: So I think you're good. But what a weird thing?
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: Yeah?
• 29:15
  Speaker 11: I just feel kind of weird because like the friend
• 29:17
  Speaker 11: who introduced both of us is not even going.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: So I don't know if it's weird you want to
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: go that's going to jeopardize your friendship with that person?
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: Are you ready for that?
• 29:27
  Speaker 10: I don't.
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: I don't see.
• 29:28
  Speaker 11: I don't know like if like me and him are
• 29:30
  Speaker 11: at that level of like that it's okay that I
• 29:32
  Speaker 11: hang out with him alone without the other friend.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Okay, Now that I know that, I think maybe you
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: need to either not go address it with your friend
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: or address it with the friend that you met through
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: your friend. But I don't write, like, isn't there a protocole?
• 29:47
  Speaker 9: I always pretend like you didn't see it, Like I
• 29:49
  Speaker 9: slimped skim through stories so quick I wouldn't even know.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it shows you you sees your stories.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: Why at like that? What's the upside of inviting like
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: that laziness?
• 29:59
  Speaker 18: Yeah?
• 29:59
  Speaker 9: Not have and to text everybody individually.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're closest to the person that introduced you, right, Yeah,
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: that's your priority. However you navigate that relationship, you make
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: your decisions based on knowing that. Okay, what's most important
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: to me? What's my the lenses priority? What's who's my priority?
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Your priority is your friend to introduce you to that person.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: Make all your decisions based on your priority.
• 30:25
  Speaker 16: Good luck, bel Okay, thank you, that's what do it.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: I think you got to step back when in a
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: situation like this and rank your priorities, and then it
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: becomes clear.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Not a bad process we've done.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, a good job. Okay. I didn't know by the
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: tone of it, so it didn't sound like it was encouraging.
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: One A two pointy seven kiss FM. I'm gonna grab
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: Andrea and Ben Eyes. Andrea'll hold you for a second.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: How are you doing this morning? Ben Eyes?
• 30:56
  Speaker 17: I'm doing pretty good.
• 30:56
  Speaker 8: How are you?
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: We're all right? So you're caught about your friend's boyfriend.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: He's listening in on you. What's happening?
• 31:05
  Speaker 17: Okay, So my girlfriends and I we group FaceTime about
• 31:08
  Speaker 17: like three times a week. There's four of us, so
• 31:11
  Speaker 17: it's just the easiest way for us to all get
• 31:13
  Speaker 17: together and talk about work like relationships, just you know,
• 31:18
  Speaker 17: whatever it is. But the other day I heard one
• 31:22
  Speaker 17: of my friend's boyfriends sneeze in the background and I
• 31:26
  Speaker 17: had just like got done elaborating in great detail about
• 31:30
  Speaker 17: a feminine issue I've been having, and so I texted her.
• 31:36
  Speaker 17: I was like, how long has he been there? And
• 31:39
  Speaker 17: she said that he's always there, Like they live in
• 31:42
  Speaker 17: a shoebox apartment or whatever, and he's always around and
• 31:45
  Speaker 17: coming in and out and she doesn't think it's a
• 31:48
  Speaker 17: big deal or whatever because she tells him everything.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: Anyways, I don't know, is that normal.
• 31:54
  Speaker 17: Shouldn't she tell us when he's in the room, Like,
• 31:55
  Speaker 17: I'm not going I.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Think there's an unwritten rule which is, hey, you're on
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: speaker and it's so and so's home. Like I just
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: think you, Like I when I call someone in the car,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: someone calls me or facetimes me in the car, I'm
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: like Hey, it's me, but so and so everybody's here, right,
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: you know, definitely not just me. I announced that people
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: are around.
• 32:13
  Speaker 8: Yeah, hey, you're in the car. I got the kids
• 32:14
  Speaker 8: in the car whenever they know. But I do think
• 32:18
  Speaker 8: that there should be you should know that this person
• 32:21
  Speaker 8: could potentially lurk right or be listening.
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: Now you have to be on high alert phones so annoying.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: Just go headphones. Can you go headphones for all these
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: calls three times a week?
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: Well, it's the friend, right, the friend needs to go headphones.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. You could both go on headphones.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Everybody can see the headphones, so you know, none of
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: the audience, like, let's all be on headphones exactly. It's
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  Speaker 2: a headphone rule. Just all on headphones, especially when you go,
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  Speaker 2: like if you go into something, you don't want anyone
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: to hear go, hey, do you mind going on headphones
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  Speaker 2: for this one?
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  Speaker 4: I like that role. I'm not mad at that.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: No, it's problem solved, isn't it.
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  Speaker 4: It is problem solved. I don't even I wouldn't even
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  Speaker 4: thought of that.
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  Speaker 10: I guess we could try that.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 17: I should talk to my other girls first, but I
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  Speaker 17: was thinking of just like skipping them all together, because
• 33:04
  Speaker 17: she seemed to not have a problem with it at all,
• 33:06
  Speaker 17: Like she saw nothing wrong with.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: It because she has this great relationship with a boyfriend.
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  Speaker 17: Addressing it in the first place, she said.
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  Speaker 7: Something that was interesting, she says, she tells them everything anyways,
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  Speaker 7: So that's a whole other ise that's not okay.
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  Speaker 4: So I don't know, reevaluate your friendship with her.
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  Speaker 17: Okay, Yeah, I'll talk to the girls about it.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, Andrea, thank you for calling.
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  Speaker 7: If Tanya came to me and told me something super personal,
• 33:32
  Speaker 7: I am, you know, like girl talk whatever. I don't
• 33:34
  Speaker 7: go home and spill the tea to Michael. That's like.
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  Speaker 2: You. But I'm just making conversations sometimes like, oh, guess
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: what happened to Tanya work?
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: I know?
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  Speaker 9: Goos Me is like I tell you, I tell If
• 33:49
  Speaker 9: I told you Sisney something, I would assume Michael's going
• 33:53
  Speaker 9: to know it too.
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  Speaker 4: No, but that's like where my brain goes.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, just for I think we'd just throw this out there.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Anything you talk about here can be totally repeated at
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  Speaker 2: home again. Can I do that talk about right?
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: She's talking about like in private?
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Yes, headphones, that's that's the only way confirm headphones on
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: a two point seven Kiss FM. It's Beth, Beth, good morning.
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  Speaker 10: How you doing, Good morning, how are you.
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  Speaker 2: We're all right. So you're calling about your boyfriend who
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: recently got into solo camping.
• 34:25
  Speaker 10: Yeah, so it's been pretty sudden. He just got into camping,
• 34:29
  Speaker 10: like really out of nowhere. And I'm trying to be
• 34:32
  Speaker 10: a supportive girlfriend, but honestly, I'm kind of freaking out
• 34:36
  Speaker 10: about it. He all he did was watch a few
• 34:38
  Speaker 10: YouTube videos. He got all this gear, and now he's
• 34:41
  Speaker 10: just going on these solo trips in the woods, Like
• 34:44
  Speaker 10: he went all the way out to Joshua Tree last weekend,
• 34:47
  Speaker 10: and I like, I get it, like nature and peace
• 34:49
  Speaker 10: and finding yourself, and like I really want to support that.
• 34:53
  Speaker 10: But this thing is is that he goes alone with
• 34:56
  Speaker 10: no cell service. And I just found out that on
• 34:59
  Speaker 10: his last trip, he slept with the car door open,
• 35:02
  Speaker 10: like all the way open, and he told me that
• 35:04
  Speaker 10: it was for airflow, but then it metta he didn't
• 35:06
  Speaker 10: even think about animals getting in until the next morning,
• 35:09
  Speaker 10: which like that's a top priority. And I don't want
• 35:12
  Speaker 10: to be overbearing or like make him think I don't
• 35:14
  Speaker 10: trust him, but I also want to talk to him
• 35:16
  Speaker 10: out of it, or at least make make him safer.
• 35:20
  Speaker 10: I don't know if I'm mean crazy or like, is
• 35:22
  Speaker 10: this actually dangerous?
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: Like well, first of all, when you have a conversation
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: with his safety priority thinking, because thinking of wild animals
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: eating you would be top of mind for me. So
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: I don't know how he's looking at all this. But
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: if he's going on these CAMPI trips, he's saying that
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: he wants to find himself. That's why he's going to
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: just need some time to think. That's the purpose of them.
• 35:43
  Speaker 10: Yeah, he's saying he wants to enjoy more time with
• 35:46
  Speaker 10: nature because he doesn't really get to you very often,
• 35:48
  Speaker 10: I guess.
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: But but and you say he's going how often.
• 35:52
  Speaker 10: He goes? Like every week?
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: Every week?
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: Problem? Okay, that's a real yeah, no craziness here, This
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: is a real like what is he running from? Problem?
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: But it's a hobby, like it's an obsession.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: No, no, it's a problem. Like if you don't want
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: to be with me once a week on a night,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: that's a problem for me.
• 36:09
  Speaker 9: Well no, no, no, no, this to to to you
• 36:13
  Speaker 9: like you like to go work out and you like
• 36:15
  Speaker 9: to do that many times. So this might be okay,
• 36:18
  Speaker 9: an hour a day whatever. This might be his version
• 36:22
  Speaker 9: of working out. This might be good like for him mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: It's not good for Beth. That's not good for the relationship.
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: I Robby went camping every week, but this would be.
• 36:34
  Speaker 9: A no This would be a no go for me. However, However,
• 36:39
  Speaker 9: I'm just saying it's not for us to say.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: That he is want to cards, what in the world
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: he's trying to say, It's gonna be Saturday by the
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: time we get the look. I'm telling you it's a problem.
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: Are you invited on these solo camping trips every week
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: or not?
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  Speaker 4: That's a good question. He has he invited you.
• 37:02
  Speaker 10: He's invited me a couple of times, but I that's
• 37:05
  Speaker 10: not my thing. And like, of course I do want
• 37:08
  Speaker 10: to be supportive, but I'm not going to subject myself
• 37:10
  Speaker 10: to getting bid and like potentially getting eaten me and like.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: I love him, but he needs to cut it back.
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: I mean, if he wants to go somewhere for a
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: month and why all night, like just go out and
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: sit and watch a sunset. If you want to reflect
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: and think about your life and include me.
• 37:24
  Speaker 10: I don't like it.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's healthy for the relationship. So you,
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: I mean, you got to make the choice, but it
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: would really get under I'd get under my skin. And
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: I don't think you should feel bad about the saying.
• 37:33
  Speaker 7: But it could just be a phase, Beth. I know
• 37:35
  Speaker 7: people that kind of went through stuff like this. My
• 37:37
  Speaker 7: brother kind of used to camp a lot. And also
• 37:40
  Speaker 7: like my brother went through a skydiving phase where he
• 37:44
  Speaker 7: really just loved skydiving so much and he was like
• 37:47
  Speaker 7: going through stuff at the time, so it was like nice,
• 37:49
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: It was just as hot from something.
• 37:51
  Speaker 11: Yeah, but it was.
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: It was a phase.
• 37:53
  Speaker 7: Like it happened for a few months and then it
• 37:56
  Speaker 7: just doesn't happen anymore at all.
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: Beth, just tell him we're comfortable with this.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, tell your boyfriend that Ryan Secrets is uncomfortable with
• 38:05
  Speaker 7: him camping.
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  Speaker 10: I think that will make him stop.
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: May whatever it takes, all right, Well, Beth, get into
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: it with him and express your fans be honest. All right,
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: thank you for bringing that up.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you guys.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: All right, you take care, good luck.
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Kanya.
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  Speaker 4: Did you think about what you were trying to say.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: Did you want to finish? I just feel as.
• 38:31
  Speaker 7: Though, oh god, we're back at its overpast whatever.
• 38:36
  Speaker 9: We were quick at the jump, quick from the rip
• 38:38
  Speaker 9: to be like this isn't it, it's not good, when
• 38:41
  Speaker 9: in reality it might be very therapeutic and good for
• 38:43
  Speaker 9: him to have these experiences and.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: It's just not our thing.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: But it's also good to be temporary.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: All right, let's just leave it that she's gone, so
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: there's no bath anymore. Just one to two point seven
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: kiss FM. I'm gonna wrap that up. Oh one more
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: thing before we go. Oh no, do you make noises
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: when you stand up after you've been sitting for a while?
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  Speaker 8: Ah?
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: Probably Yeah, for sure.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: I find myself in the morning before I make my coffee,
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: like literally grunting, moaning, like making sounds weird. Yeah, take
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: you care. It's a kiss. Thanks for listening So on
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