Latest / The Breakfast Club / Meg Thee Stallion & Klay Thompson: Love, Lies, or Moving Too Fast?
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- 0:02Speaker 1: I'm a homegrown that knows a little bit about everything
- 0:04Speaker 1: and everybody. You know, if you don't lie about that. Right, Hey, y'all,
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- 0:26Speaker 1: on the Latest, So let's check in, y'all. I am
- 0:34Speaker 1: still recovering from Atlanta literally, like you know how you'd
- 0:39Speaker 1: be like, oh, I'm getting old and I'm thirty four,
- 0:41Speaker 1: and I have a hard time with being like I'm
- 0:44Speaker 1: getting old, So I say, like, you know, I'm I'm
- 0:47Speaker 1: aging with maturity and grace. But my body has been
- 0:52Speaker 1: on fire, like from being on my feet in heels
- 0:57Speaker 1: for all those hours at the festival. But Manda, we
- 1:00Speaker 1: have a good time. We had such a great time,
- 1:01Speaker 1: but I've never experienced nothing like I had to literally
- 1:04Speaker 1: like take advil and lay out and push my flight
- 1:07Speaker 1: back in Atlanta and fly in later Sunday night to
- 1:11Speaker 1: get back at the head of this week, just because
- 1:14Speaker 1: I was like, y'a, I'm gonna get on this plane
- 1:15Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be miserable because I was just I
- 1:18Speaker 1: was just so in pain and the only thing I
- 1:20Speaker 1: could think of is from being on my feet in
- 1:22Speaker 1: those hills for all those hours. So I'm recovering and
- 1:25Speaker 1: coming up out of that. But we are headed to
- 1:27Speaker 1: a red carpet event. Y'all know, the work don't stop,
- 1:30Speaker 1: So I'll be bringing you guys live into that event
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- 1:35Speaker 1: red carpet is for, but the movie is and who
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- 1:42Speaker 1: you guys literally on the scene for the latest and
- 1:45Speaker 1: movie releases. Now, let's get into the latest because I
- 1:49Speaker 1: got a conversation that I am interested in having with
- 1:52Speaker 1: you all today about Miss Meg Thea Stallion and her
- 1:55Speaker 1: now ex boyfriend Klay Thompson and whether she moved too
- 1:58Speaker 1: fast or he just played that very well. Let's get
- 2:02Speaker 1: into it. So Mega Stallion and Klay Thompson they'd been
- 2:06Speaker 1: dating since the summer of twenty twenty five. It was
- 2:10Speaker 1: around July twenty twenty five when meg thea Stallion saw
- 2:15Speaker 1: I would say soft launch, but it was like we
- 2:17Speaker 1: were all like, wait, what is that Klay Thompson in
- 2:19Speaker 1: the background of her photo. So meg Ga Sallion was
- 2:22Speaker 1: on a resort of sorts. She was sitting by the
- 2:25Speaker 1: pool and behind her, this was in July twenty twenty five,
- 2:29Speaker 1: and behind her at the pool, just chilling on like
- 2:33Speaker 1: a chair was Klay Thompson and like she posted the
- 2:35Speaker 1: photo and said nothing about him much and like almost
- 2:40Speaker 1: as if he wasn't there. And then later reports were
- 2:42Speaker 1: confirmed that it was him and that they were dating,
- 2:44Speaker 1: even though they didn't really say too much. Now following this,
- 2:48Speaker 1: Clay Thompson also had like posted a swipe through with
- 2:51Speaker 1: her in it. It was around the time when he
- 2:53Speaker 1: had opened up a new business of sorts and she
- 2:57Speaker 1: was able to support. And you don't see her face,
- 2:59Speaker 1: but like it's her from by. She has the big
- 3:00Speaker 1: curly hair, same big curly hair that she had in
- 3:04Speaker 1: the bikini photo. And their kissing and it's just very obvious.
- 3:09Speaker 1: So like, okay, they both roll each other out. This
- 3:12Speaker 1: is in July of twenty twenty five, so since then
- 3:14Speaker 1: we've seen them date like and being a relationship. They
- 3:19Speaker 1: then popped out at Magde Stallion's gala that she hosted.
- 3:24Speaker 1: It was the Pete and Thomas Foundation, which was a
- 3:28Speaker 1: gala in New York City raising money for a lot
- 3:30Speaker 1: of the community work that she does under you know,
- 3:33Speaker 1: you know, in honor of her mother and just you know,
- 3:36Speaker 1: different community causes that she leans into. This was July sixteen,
- 3:39Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, So I don't know how long they
- 3:42Speaker 1: have been dealing with each other prior to July, because
- 3:46Speaker 1: there weren't even like rumblings. Normally with celebrities, you get
- 3:49Speaker 1: like a little bit of like rumored reports but nothing confirmed,
- 3:54Speaker 1: and like a little rumblings here and there, there was nothing.
- 3:57Speaker 1: They played this so well, So I don't even really
- 3:59Speaker 1: know how long for sure, and none of us do
- 4:02Speaker 1: They were dating prior to you know, starting to post
- 4:05Speaker 1: little little hints of things on Instagram. But that Red
- 4:08Speaker 1: carpet I remember that being such a big deal because
- 4:11Speaker 1: at that Red carpet, Klay Thompson was asked about Meg
- 4:14Speaker 1: Thee Stallion and he spoke about who she was as
- 4:17Speaker 1: a person, and we were like, oh, and she also
- 4:20Speaker 1: spoke about him. She called him one of the nicest
- 4:23Speaker 1: people she has ever met.
- 4:24Speaker 2: I have never dated somebody so kind, like this is
- 4:29Speaker 2: my first relationship.
- 4:30Speaker 1: Why every being with somebody.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Who's genuinely a nice person and he makes me genuinely happy,
- 4:36Speaker 2: Like I just never dated somebody like him before, and
- 4:38Speaker 2: I'm just grateful to hear by my side and he
- 4:40Speaker 2: feel the same way about me.
- 4:42Speaker 1: And I think that's what it was for us, right, Like, Okay,
- 4:45Speaker 1: I don't know extensively everyone that Clay Thompson has dated,
- 4:49Speaker 1: but I remember when I worked at TMZ, they would
- 4:51Speaker 1: always talk about the fact that, like he ran around
- 4:53Speaker 1: with like models and Instagram girls like that type. But
- 4:56Speaker 1: I do remember him dating Coco Jones because I remember
- 4:59Speaker 1: it being rumored that the breakup was really bad because
- 5:03Speaker 1: he was cheating allegedly, right, But that came and went,
- 5:07Speaker 1: like a lot of people, I feel like, don't even
- 5:08Speaker 1: associate him with Coco Jones at all. But moving forward,
- 5:13Speaker 1: now he's with Meg and we're watching them, and you know,
- 5:16Speaker 1: for a lot of us, because megda Sallion has had
- 5:19Speaker 1: relationships that basically went a lot of nowhere, Like you
- 5:23Speaker 1: know her and Parti Sanfontaine writer music artists. That was
- 5:27Speaker 1: a thing for a while, and then that ended pretty
- 5:29Speaker 1: badly with them thrown shots at each other on dis tracks.
- 5:33Speaker 1: Megda Sallion accused party of cheating. Party accused Megda Sallion
- 5:36Speaker 1: of just being a horrible person and just not handling
- 5:40Speaker 1: him the right way as a man, introducing him to
- 5:42Speaker 1: men that she had had sex with, and just concealing
- 5:44Speaker 1: a lot of details from Of course, we all know
- 5:47Speaker 1: about the brief stint with Tory lanes because that was
- 5:49Speaker 1: such a big deal. And for those of you guys
- 5:52Speaker 1: who don't remember Tory lane who is currently sitting in
- 5:55Speaker 1: jail right now, who's currently sitting behind bars right now
- 5:58Speaker 1: serving time for the shooting of Megda Sallion. That all
- 6:01Speaker 1: started because they were friends during the pandemic. They were
- 6:03Speaker 1: hanging out, they had bonded over the fact that they
- 6:05Speaker 1: both lost their mothers, and just partying having a good time.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Tory Lanez was dating Megde Sallion's best friend at the time, Kelsey,
- 6:14Speaker 1: who she's also no longer friends with over the situation,
- 6:17Speaker 1: and it just exploded literally one night following wing a
- 6:23Speaker 1: party at Kylie Jenner's house, which is when the whole
- 6:25Speaker 1: shooting went down. And then we found out later that
- 6:28Speaker 1: Megda Stallion had actually slept with Tory Lanes that they
- 6:31Speaker 1: were involved in a relationship of sorts, even though he
- 6:34Speaker 1: was dating her friend prior to when she hooked them up. Now,
- 6:37Speaker 1: before this, there was or I'm sorry, not even before this,
- 6:41Speaker 1: but kind of like in the rumblings of all of this,
- 6:43Speaker 1: you also had you know, she was rumored to be
- 6:46Speaker 1: dating Trey Songs, and there were some photos at leads
- 6:48Speaker 1: of them. There was the soccer player from overseas. The
- 6:52Speaker 1: only photos that I remember ever seeing of them though,
- 6:54Speaker 1: was like at a wedding. She was like his like
- 6:57Speaker 1: date to a wedding, but she was. Oh and the
- 7:00Speaker 1: Tory Craig guy. I remember that one because she did
- 7:03Speaker 1: the video on TikTok with him. The couple's challenge. Now granted,
- 7:07Speaker 1: throughout all of these situations, Megdae Stallion is single right
- 7:11Speaker 1: at the time, so she can date, She could do
- 7:13Speaker 1: what she wants to do. But I mentioned all of
- 7:16Speaker 1: those because if any of you guys have been locked
- 7:18Speaker 1: in and following her relationships, they've never amounted to something
- 7:23Speaker 1: that we thought Clay Thompson and Megdae Stallion had the
- 7:26Speaker 1: potential to amount to. And let me explain when I
- 7:29Speaker 1: say that, and it's not because he's you know, a
- 7:32Speaker 1: very successful NBA player, rich, like you know, all the things.
- 7:36Speaker 1: It just seemed like when Megan was dating Clay Thompson
- 7:42Speaker 1: that you know, he pulled up a certain way and
- 7:45Speaker 1: presented himself a certain way, very elevated, very pooled together.
- 7:49Speaker 1: There were some people even calling him corny when he
- 7:51Speaker 1: started dating her because of you know, how together he
- 7:56Speaker 1: seems like he's out the way from what it seems
- 7:58Speaker 1: he's golfing. You know, he's into things that like, we
- 8:01Speaker 1: didn't know that Meg the Stallion would be into because
- 8:03Speaker 1: before that, you know, we're hearing her talk about things
- 8:07Speaker 1: completely opposite, right like it's hot girl summer, she outside.
- 8:10Speaker 1: But when you meet you know, a certain type of man.
- 8:15Speaker 1: There are women that you know, they try to pull
- 8:16Speaker 1: themselves together to elevate to where their man is at.
- 8:19Speaker 1: And I think men a lot of times will like
- 8:23Speaker 1: they take pride in coming into a woman's life and
- 8:25Speaker 1: like changing her life, changing her mindset, changing her ability
- 8:29Speaker 1: to feel vulnerable enough and soft enough to even be
- 8:32Speaker 1: open to like stepping away from the hot girls summer,
- 8:35Speaker 1: stepping away from driving a boat, and really locking in
- 8:38Speaker 1: with somebody. You know, it goten to a point like
- 8:41Speaker 1: you're seeing all these videos of Meg and Clay. He's
- 8:44Speaker 1: figuring it out from the airport, and you know they're
- 8:46Speaker 1: at home cooking, and you know there were like breakup
- 8:49Speaker 1: rumors at one point, and then they posted a video
- 8:51Speaker 1: chilling in the house. And you know, he just always
- 8:54Speaker 1: seemed very in love with her and vice versa. Not
- 8:57Speaker 1: that she wasn't, but vice versa. Never seemed one sided
- 9:00Speaker 1: at all, not whatsoever. And when we were talking about
- 9:04Speaker 1: this on the Breakfast Club, you know, Charloage and Envy mentioned, well,
- 9:07Speaker 1: we saw a lot of things what we didn't see
- 9:08Speaker 1: it from Clay, but Clay Lean didn't. Like I remember
- 9:11Speaker 1: when Clay came at Michael Rapperport because of some of
- 9:14Speaker 1: the things that he had said about megde Sallion and
- 9:17Speaker 1: why Clay Thompson wasn't performing well right, Like he jumped
- 9:19Speaker 1: to the fender in that situation, you know, like he's
- 9:24Speaker 1: posted her on his Instagram. I remember him saying that
- 9:27Speaker 1: like he had the best birthday ever because of her.
- 9:30Speaker 1: But here's where I understand the conversation that all the
- 9:34Speaker 1: men around this are having. Whereas like, Okay, all of
- 9:40Speaker 1: those things are cool, but where's the real commitment? Because
- 9:45Speaker 1: you could take anybody home to be around your family.
- 9:48Speaker 1: She was cooking for She was cooking for Clay Thompson's
- 9:51Speaker 1: family during the holidays. Clay Thompson's dad actually did an
- 9:54Speaker 1: interview talking about how amazing her cooking was. Let's say,
- 9:56Speaker 1: goes in the back.
- 9:58Speaker 3: Dinner was the best He's giving me food I've ever eaten.
- 10:01Speaker 3: Meghan the sallion should be Megan the chef. That's how
- 10:04Speaker 3: good the food was. It was unbelievable. She went out
- 10:07Speaker 3: of her way to make sure everybody was well fed.
- 10:10Speaker 3: We had to say tons of bikes home. There were
- 10:12Speaker 3: so many leftovers so our guests had to take home
- 10:14Speaker 3: and it was one of the best Thanksgivings we ever
- 10:16Speaker 3: had thanks to Megan.
- 10:17Speaker 1: You didn't have Meg thea sallion posted like a house
- 10:20Speaker 1: and some keys on her Instagram and was like basically
- 10:24Speaker 1: made the announcement that they had like moved in together.
- 10:26Speaker 1: But it was a very like vague encoded caption because
- 10:30Speaker 1: I remember I reached out to her rep and I'm like, hey,
- 10:32Speaker 1: is she confirming that they lived together? Because within that scene,
- 10:36Speaker 1: like week or two, she was also on a carpet,
- 10:39Speaker 1: and she was talking about manifesting marriage as well. So
- 10:44Speaker 1: I tried to do a whole story about where they
- 10:47Speaker 1: were in their relationship, like if marriage was a conversation
- 10:49Speaker 1: or anything, and her team shut it down, like they
- 10:52Speaker 1: didn't want to, Like no, not at all. But a
- 10:55Speaker 1: lot of what we were seeing was being put out
- 10:57Speaker 1: there by Meghan. But he wasn't running from it. And
- 11:01Speaker 1: I understand that, like, Okay, moving in together isn't a
- 11:03Speaker 1: real commitment. Meeting someone's parents is not a real commitment.
- 11:08Speaker 1: The gifts he brought it like a like a Bentley
- 11:11Speaker 1: truck for her birthday after he had an amazing birthday,
- 11:13Speaker 1: and she showed out for his birthday. Right, So you
- 11:16Speaker 1: have all these things that are being done, and it
- 11:17Speaker 1: seems like she's able to find a live in all
- 11:19Speaker 1: of her softness and her femininity. And that's all us
- 11:22Speaker 1: girls want for real, Like we just want somebody that
- 11:24Speaker 1: like we can sit back and y'all take the driver's
- 11:27Speaker 1: seat and we just you know, nurture and like make
- 11:29Speaker 1: their things turn to gold in our own way. But
- 11:32Speaker 1: like supporting the men as the forefront of it, right,
- 11:37Speaker 1: But the conversation a lot of the men are having
- 11:41Speaker 1: is you know, there's still no marriage, there's no ring,
- 11:44Speaker 1: there's no real commitment. And there's always been a conversation
- 11:48Speaker 1: around Meg about men that she's dated, how frequently she's dated,
- 11:53Speaker 1: how open about it she's been. And I think anytime
- 11:55Speaker 1: a woman is single, like Laura Harvey gets the same thing.
- 11:57Speaker 1: We've talked about that here on the podcast. Anytime woman
- 12:00Speaker 1: is single, that's the conversation. But I do think that
- 12:03Speaker 1: it's a double standard that we as women were never
- 12:05Speaker 1: going to get around. So even me, like when I
- 12:08Speaker 1: was single, I was very cautious about Like I would
- 12:11Speaker 1: talk about being single and you might hear me talk
- 12:13Speaker 1: about a couple instances here and there, but nothing too crazy.
- 12:16Speaker 1: But you weren't seeing me with anybody at all. And
- 12:19Speaker 1: I'm not megda Sallion. I'm not comparing myself. I'm just
- 12:22Speaker 1: saying that as women, you know that, like there are
- 12:25Speaker 1: just certain things you know you can't escape, certain conversations
- 12:28Speaker 1: you know will be thrown at you because you are
- 12:29Speaker 1: a woman. And because of how people put the stater
- 12:33Speaker 1: you know, next to us that they don't put next
- 12:35Speaker 1: to other people. Right like, right now, no one's running
- 12:38Speaker 1: down Klay Thompson's track list of women at all. A
- 12:42Speaker 1: lot of them we don't even know about. We only
- 12:44Speaker 1: know certain things. But even the things that we know,
- 12:46Speaker 1: he's not being talked about in a way where it's like, oh,
- 12:49Speaker 1: is he the problem. He's being talked about in a
- 12:50Speaker 1: way like yo, stop playing with Klay Thompson. Meg didn't
- 12:54Speaker 1: put him on, he's been Klay Thompson. Here's all the
- 12:56Speaker 1: women that he's dated. On the other hand, megda Sallion
- 12:59Speaker 1: is being talked to about like, well, what's wrong with her?
- 13:02Speaker 1: Why can't she keep a man? Or she needs to
- 13:05Speaker 1: be taking a break. And I'm not mad at anybody
- 13:08Speaker 1: if having any conversation they think should be had. I'm
- 13:11Speaker 1: just talking about the difference in the two. So that
- 13:15Speaker 1: has been a narrative around all of different things. From
- 13:18Speaker 1: outside looking in, I did think, like I was very
- 13:22Speaker 1: shocked to find out, you know, that Meg Decigon and
- 13:27Speaker 1: Klay Thompson were breaking up and why so megd Sion
- 13:31Speaker 1: posted to her Instagram that he had been She alleged
- 13:34Speaker 1: he had been cheating and that they were just playing
- 13:38Speaker 1: house and he got cold feet and he told her
- 13:41Speaker 1: that he doesn't think he can be monogamous. I was
- 13:44Speaker 1: very shocked by this, extremely shocked, and part of it was,
- 13:49Speaker 1: you know, even if he is an NBA player with
- 13:51Speaker 1: tons of money, tons of exposure, tons of resources, it
- 13:56Speaker 1: very much did seem like he was leaning in, like
- 13:58Speaker 1: you know, he was her paring him to be within
- 14:01Speaker 1: something serious. Now he might have We still have not
- 14:04Speaker 1: heard from Klay Thompson. He might have been and it
- 14:07Speaker 1: just switched for him somewhere, or maybe he realized that
- 14:10Speaker 1: he had gotten himself into something that he actually wasn't
- 14:13Speaker 1: ready to fully commit to and that was his way
- 14:16Speaker 1: of trying to be honest or whatever. We don't know.
- 14:19Speaker 1: These are all assumptions. I've reached out to Klay Thompson's
- 14:21Speaker 1: team and no response. I don't even know if he
- 14:25Speaker 1: will respond to this, to be honest, because I feel
- 14:27Speaker 1: like as a man, it just doesn't depending on what
- 14:32Speaker 1: he says, it won't help his side of things, Like
- 14:36Speaker 1: I think it has more potential to backfire on him
- 14:39Speaker 1: than it does on her for speaking on his saying something.
- 14:41Speaker 1: And that's another thing too. I don't know if going
- 14:45Speaker 1: to Instagram with this was the best thing. I think
- 14:49Speaker 1: on one hand, megda Sallion is a big name celebrity, right,
- 14:52Speaker 1: So if she's getting ahead of what she thinks, we
- 14:55Speaker 1: the public is about to find out maybe it's about
- 14:58Speaker 1: him and another woman, or like you know, they're a
- 15:00Speaker 1: baby or whatever. You know. And I'm not saying that
- 15:03Speaker 1: these are any of the things that I've confirmed. I'm
- 15:06Speaker 1: just thinking why celebrities do things like this and without
- 15:10Speaker 1: thinking about emotion first. So we're just thinking about it
- 15:12Speaker 1: from a brand, a celebrity perspective. It's let me control
- 15:17Speaker 1: the narrative, let me put it out here first, so
- 15:19Speaker 1: that I don't look crazy. I don't look like, you know,
- 15:23Speaker 1: the one who got played in this situation. It's a
- 15:26Speaker 1: whole different take. When a woman comes down and says
- 15:28Speaker 1: I was cheated on, you lied to me, you got
- 15:30Speaker 1: cold feet, you played with me, things normally roll in
- 15:34Speaker 1: her favor. Now on the other side of it, as
- 15:38Speaker 1: a woman with emotion who's been in the you know,
- 15:41Speaker 1: I've done some crazy posts of like, you know, things
- 15:44Speaker 1: that I'm feeling in a moment and then been like,
- 15:45Speaker 1: oh my god, why did I do that? I think
- 15:47Speaker 1: that's another part of it. It's emotion, like as a
- 15:50Speaker 1: human being, as a woman, it's emotion Obviously she put
- 15:53Speaker 1: a lot of stock into this relationship. If everything that
- 15:57Speaker 1: we've been seeing playing out is what was happening, if
- 16:00Speaker 1: they were living together, if they were having conversations about
- 16:02Speaker 1: marriage and all of the things. There's a lot of
- 16:04Speaker 1: stock that has been put in this relationship on her end,
- 16:07Speaker 1: and it's been very public, and he hasn't ran from
- 16:10Speaker 1: it being very public, like he doesn't need her. That's
- 16:13Speaker 1: it's a crazy conversation that I'm saying people have like
- 16:16Speaker 1: she made him like very much. Not true. I'm not
- 16:21Speaker 1: even a sports person, and I knew who Klay Thompson
- 16:23Speaker 1: was before megde Stallion. But I understand that there are
- 16:26Speaker 1: some people who got more invested in who he was
- 16:28Speaker 1: and what he did and what his deity day was
- 16:30Speaker 1: like because of megda Sallion fans, right, But he didn't
- 16:35Speaker 1: need a megd Stallion to get Garner more success. I mean,
- 16:41Speaker 1: I feel like there was a cool factor that she
- 16:43Speaker 1: gave him for sure, just because of you know the
- 16:46Speaker 1: fact that she's a rap girl and all the things.
- 16:48Speaker 1: But there was also like a lot of like pushback
- 16:51Speaker 1: that he got, like with people bringing up her past
- 16:54Speaker 1: and people that she's dated and how she handled past
- 16:56Speaker 1: relationships with you know, party Fontaine and him find out
- 17:00Speaker 1: about it, like a lot of things literally as the
- 17:03Speaker 1: world found out, like just her conduct and other relationships.
- 17:06Speaker 1: But Clay Thompson didn't need to be with Megdacallion in
- 17:08Speaker 1: order to be Klay Thompson. He was that already. He
- 17:11Speaker 1: still will be following. So I don't even know if
- 17:13Speaker 1: he makes a statement in this And if he does,
- 17:16Speaker 1: I mean, the most he can come out and say,
- 17:18Speaker 1: is I messed up. I try to clean it up
- 17:22Speaker 1: by telling her the truth. And here we are, or
- 17:24Speaker 1: you know, I was gonna say, babe, we find out
- 17:26Speaker 1: that like he has a completely different side of the story.
- 17:28Speaker 1: I just I just don't know where that gets us
- 17:30Speaker 1: at this point, and I don't know if he will.
- 17:32Speaker 1: But moral of the story is I think at this point,
- 17:39Speaker 1: megda Sillion should take a break. I think that megdcion
- 17:43Speaker 1: should take a break from the dating situation. I think,
- 17:47Speaker 1: you know, it's been it seems like it's been kind
- 17:49Speaker 1: of like hard for her to get to a place
- 17:53Speaker 1: with herself where she's able to like set up the
- 17:56Speaker 1: boundaries she needs to protect herself, she's able to you know,
- 18:01Speaker 1: be vulnerable because it's like a weird balance when you're
- 18:03Speaker 1: a woman, especially when you're a wman in the public eye.
- 18:05Speaker 1: It's like you want to be vulnerable, you want to
- 18:08Speaker 1: be in love, but you also want to protect number one,
- 18:11Speaker 1: everything you built from a business standpoint, right, Like you
- 18:13Speaker 1: don't want to look stupid. Like I said in her postingness,
- 18:17Speaker 1: I think a part of it was I don't want
- 18:18Speaker 1: to look dumb, So let me get ahead of it.
- 18:20Speaker 1: Because you've built up this this major brand as a
- 18:23Speaker 1: woman who is like this, this you know, Meg the Stallion,
- 18:26Speaker 1: and this this strong woman who's got through all these
- 18:29Speaker 1: things over the last couple of years. And then here
- 18:31Speaker 1: comes this man you know, who is a star on
- 18:33Speaker 1: his own right, but that you're obviously in love with,
- 18:36Speaker 1: and throw on your all behind and now you're embarrassed.
- 18:41Speaker 1: But I think she should take a break and really
- 18:44Speaker 1: just kind of like just beat it herself for a bit.
- 18:47Speaker 1: And I think when she decides to get back into something,
- 18:51Speaker 1: I think she has to realize that, like at our
- 18:55Speaker 1: big age, like if a man wants to do what
- 19:01Speaker 1: he wants to do, he's gonna do it, and all
- 19:04Speaker 1: you can do, is, like, you know, date that person
- 19:07Speaker 1: and get to know that person enough behind closed doors
- 19:10Speaker 1: before it goes public to know that what he wants
- 19:14Speaker 1: and what you want are aligned. But I'm not gonna
- 19:18Speaker 1: hold y'all cause mind you are like July June, June, July, August,
- 19:22Speaker 1: September two, November, December, Jami very March. Yeah, it's been
- 19:24Speaker 1: like nine months. That is a bit of a time
- 19:27Speaker 1: to be dating somebody. But I don't know if I'm
- 19:31Speaker 1: moving in with someone in that amount of time. And granted,
- 19:33Speaker 1: their relationship is very different than celebrities. You know, I
- 19:36Speaker 1: feel like you lock in a lot differently, but like
- 19:39Speaker 1: you can't deal with anybody else in the world, Like
- 19:40Speaker 1: there is such a like a like a bubble that
- 19:43Speaker 1: you're in when you're a celebrity dating another celebrity, because sometimes,
- 19:46Speaker 1: like I've heard celebrities say, when they date, they don't
- 19:49Speaker 1: even go out on dates, Like their first dates are
- 19:51Speaker 1: sometimes in like Yo'll come over, I'll cook you dinner
- 19:54Speaker 1: type of thing because it can't be seen. So there's
- 19:57Speaker 1: a lot of internal time they may have spent with
- 19:58Speaker 1: each other because they couldn't go in because then they
- 20:00Speaker 1: will be seen together. We don't know, but I just
- 20:03Speaker 1: say she needs to learn to take more time with things,
- 20:08Speaker 1: and even when things feel good, it's okay to still
- 20:12Speaker 1: protect yourself a bit. And I think that she needs
- 20:15Speaker 1: to take some time because I think that, you know,
- 20:18Speaker 1: one of the conversations that I know that she's learned.
- 20:20Speaker 1: I even know I would hope that she has learned
- 20:22Speaker 1: in this past year, just from everything she's been through
- 20:24Speaker 1: with the Tory Lane's case, and you know, just building
- 20:28Speaker 1: business and trying new things on Broadway. Is like, she
- 20:32Speaker 1: has so much on the line and so much to lose.
- 20:36Speaker 1: You got to be mentally and emotionally okay to power
- 20:40Speaker 1: through all these things. Like when she broke up a party,
- 20:44Speaker 1: the song that she dropped, which was this song at
- 20:47Speaker 1: him talking about the fact that he cheated, But she
- 20:49Speaker 1: talked a lot about herself in just a dark, deep
- 20:52Speaker 1: space she was in when they were dating, right, And
- 20:58Speaker 1: when I was listening to that, I remember I was
- 21:01Speaker 1: preparing to interview party sometime back, which y'all dragged me
- 21:03Speaker 1: for the interview because of how direct I was with
- 21:07Speaker 1: him with the question. But I remember just listening to
- 21:10Speaker 1: it and being like, yo, Meg really be going through
- 21:12Speaker 1: it internally, like with like depression and how she feels
- 21:16Speaker 1: and you know, and I think emotionally, it's a lot
- 21:19Speaker 1: when you're like up and down, like when you're happy,
- 21:24Speaker 1: when things are good, it's public and then all of
- 21:27Speaker 1: a sudden it's not in the midst of the world
- 21:29Speaker 1: dragging her because the people love to drag beg. Okay,
- 21:32Speaker 1: now she didn't had a few hiccups publicly, we all know,
- 21:35Speaker 1: you know the things. But that's one girl that cannot
- 21:38Speaker 1: win on the internet. Okay, before Clarissa Shields couldn't win
- 21:41Speaker 1: on the internet, it was Meg thee Stallion and still is.
- 21:46Speaker 1: But yeah, it's just a lot that you go through.
- 21:47Speaker 1: So I feel like whenever you bring somebody into your world,
- 21:50Speaker 1: knowing that you already deal with a lot publicly and
- 21:52Speaker 1: opinion wise, like you gotta vet the hell out of
- 21:54Speaker 1: them and really take the time before you like platform
- 21:57Speaker 1: them as like your person. And again I'm not saying
- 22:00Speaker 1: that because like he needed a Meg the Stallion. I'm
- 22:03Speaker 1: saying that because megda Stallion needs to make the stallion.
- 22:06Speaker 1: And I think as women, a lot of times like
- 22:08Speaker 1: we especially as we're getting older. I know for myself
- 22:10Speaker 1: as I'm getting older, it's like you begin thinking about
- 22:13Speaker 1: things differently it's like, Okay, I do want to like
- 22:16Speaker 1: all the things you knew you wanted to do, like marriage, kids,
- 22:19Speaker 1: actually spending time building quality of life right, Like that
- 22:24Speaker 1: stuff was always there, but as you get older, you're like,
- 22:28Speaker 1: now it's becoming more like you actually like tangible, like
- 22:31Speaker 1: you're in real time creating steps and things to get
- 22:36Speaker 1: to that. So so when someone comes in your life,
- 22:39Speaker 1: it makes you feel good and you know you lean
- 22:42Speaker 1: into it, like we've all been there. I totally understand
- 22:47Speaker 1: what she's going through. But I think you always got
- 22:49Speaker 1: to keep your sense of like not sense of self,
- 22:54Speaker 1: your sense of like pessimism, just a little bit like
- 23:00Speaker 1: I don't want us to be self sabotaging as women,
- 23:02Speaker 1: And I've talked about that here in the pat On
- 23:04Speaker 1: the podcast, Like I self sabotage a lot when it
- 23:07Speaker 1: comes to relationships because I've been through so much. I
- 23:09Speaker 1: don't trust nobody, don't trust nothing at all. But I
- 23:12Speaker 1: think even when you do decide to trust and lean in,
- 23:15Speaker 1: you gotta keep a little bit of piece of like
- 23:18Speaker 1: I need you to show and prove, I need you
- 23:21Speaker 1: to work for this. And also I think you know
- 23:24Speaker 1: who we are and how we present matters a lot,
- 23:29Speaker 1: and I think people come into our lives and they
- 23:31Speaker 1: can read what we need instantly, because as women, a
- 23:33Speaker 1: lot of times we give them the playbook. We're telling
- 23:35Speaker 1: them how we feel, we telling them what we've been through,
- 23:37Speaker 1: We're telling them what we were most scared of. So
- 23:39Speaker 1: we kind of give those people the playbook of like
- 23:42Speaker 1: how to do everything right so it feels right, and
- 23:45Speaker 1: then we end up in these situations. So I don't know.
- 23:48Speaker 1: I think you can't even if Meg Decillion takes time
- 23:52Speaker 1: to herself after this doesn't date, whether her and Clay
- 23:54Speaker 1: get back together or not, which I don't know if
- 23:56Speaker 1: that will happen, because I think once you go public
- 23:58Speaker 1: on Instagram or something like this, especially both celebrities, now
- 24:01Speaker 1: it looks crazy. Now we're looking at you crazy when
- 24:03Speaker 1: you go back to him and he looked crazy because
- 24:06Speaker 1: as a man, it's like, bro, she eton just did
- 24:08Speaker 1: all this, and now you back up under her. But
- 24:11Speaker 1: even whatever she is situation she ends up in next,
- 24:15Speaker 1: I think there's always going to be a sense of
- 24:19Speaker 1: Meg decided you need to know who the fuck she
- 24:21Speaker 1: is before she can figure out who she is as
- 24:24Speaker 1: a girlfriend, a wife, a mom, or whatever. Else. But
- 24:28Speaker 1: the scariest part of this is it felt like she
- 24:31Speaker 1: had gotten to that point. I don't know about you
- 24:34Speaker 1: guys and how many of you guys follow this and
- 24:36Speaker 1: follow Meg, but it felt like she had gotten to
- 24:39Speaker 1: that point. Like I remember seeing them at that galla
- 24:41Speaker 1: that I talked about, and just seeing how she was
- 24:43Speaker 1: dressed and actually fully dressed, like you know, the buddy't
- 24:47Speaker 1: hanging out the shirts and all that, and just seeing
- 24:49Speaker 1: how elevated and classy she looked standing next to him,
- 24:52Speaker 1: and you know, and I just was like, okay, baby
- 24:56Speaker 1: girls growing up, Like I could see it clear. I'm like, Okay,
- 25:00Speaker 1: this is the person that's making her elevate the conversation
- 25:02Speaker 1: around herself. But I think it's a dangerous thing when
- 25:07Speaker 1: we look at it that way, when it's another person
- 25:09Speaker 1: doing it for another person. That's something she has to
- 25:11Speaker 1: do for herself. And I just I don't know her personally.
- 25:14Speaker 1: We haven't heard her say much about anything besides the
- 25:16Speaker 1: statements that I talked about earlier in this podcast, so
- 25:19Speaker 1: I don't even know where her mind is mentally. But
- 25:22Speaker 1: it's scary that it gave that it portrayed that if
- 25:25Speaker 1: we felt it on the outside, imagine how she was
- 25:27Speaker 1: feeling on the inside and in Boom he had cheated
- 25:30Speaker 1: and he's not monogamous, but also too. One of the
- 25:33Speaker 1: questions I would love to know, like if I could
- 25:35Speaker 1: sit down met the Saillion a day to talk to
- 25:36Speaker 1: her about this is what was the relationship like before
- 25:40Speaker 1: we found out that he was cheating, Like were the
- 25:42Speaker 1: were there any signs? Because a lot of times too,
- 25:44Speaker 1: we don't know nothing. We from the outside looking in,
- 25:46Speaker 1: we only see Instagram posts because sometimes there's signs too,
- 25:52Speaker 1: and he doesn't have the I mean, he's not somebody
- 25:54Speaker 1: that like you really know too much about in this
- 25:56Speaker 1: dating world, but you know that he's dating and there's
- 25:59Speaker 1: been conversation about him not being faitful in those relationships
- 26:02Speaker 1: prior to There's a lot of questions here, but I
- 26:05Speaker 1: want to know how you guys feel in this situation.
- 26:09Speaker 1: It's Meg the Stallion, guilty of putting herself in a
- 26:11Speaker 1: bad situation, for moving fast, trusting so fast, fall in
- 26:15Speaker 1: love so fast, Or it's Klay Thompson just another man
- 26:19Speaker 1: who's proven that men ain't shiit. I'm Laura le Rosa
- 26:25Speaker 1: everywhere getting the streets in the tweets, I want to
- 26:27Speaker 1: hear from you guys on this. Let's actually have a
- 26:30Speaker 1: real conversation too, not just be got. I don't care
- 26:32Speaker 1: if you like Meg, if you like Tory, I don't
- 26:34Speaker 1: care about none of that. I want to talk from
- 26:35Speaker 1: a perspective of men and women who have dealt with
- 26:39Speaker 1: other men and women in relationships period. I appreciate you
- 26:46Speaker 1: guys for tuning in, and I'll tell you every single episode.
- 26:48Speaker 1: Y'all could be anywhere with any old body, but you
- 26:50Speaker 1: choose to be right here with me, my Lowriders. I'll
- 26:53Speaker 1: catch you guys in my next episode.