Latest / The Baller Alert Show / Episode 375 "Shamea Morton"
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- 0:00Speaker 1: They get a litty called me. Broadcasting live from Atlanta, Georgia.
- 0:08Speaker 1: Welcome to the Ball Alert Show podcasts. I go by
- 0:11Speaker 1: the in Ferrari sings. You know, BT is out being
- 0:13Speaker 1: famous today, but I got a famous bread that pulled
- 0:15Speaker 1: up all bad?
- 0:16Speaker 2: Should I hate? Best friend?
- 0:20Speaker 1: How you doing? Man?
- 0:21Speaker 3: I'm doing better now that I'm hanging out with you. Man,
- 0:23Speaker 3: I'm glad you pull up all the famous friends.
- 0:25Speaker 1: So they they they sent me a text and was like, Yo,
- 0:29Speaker 1: do you want me? I was like, yeah, I didn't
- 0:32Speaker 1: even asked what you had going on.
- 0:34Speaker 2: Listen. Anytime I get a chance to come kick it
- 0:36Speaker 2: with you, it's gonna be a fun time. Man.
- 0:37Speaker 1: What's up man? So what we got going on right now?
- 0:39Speaker 2: Man?
- 0:40Speaker 3: I just dropped my new single. Oh my god, never
- 0:44Speaker 3: had have you heard of it yet?
- 0:46Speaker 1: I needed? Wait? Wait? Is it on all streaming.
- 0:49Speaker 2: Platform all of your favorites.
- 0:52Speaker 1: So we singing?
- 0:53Speaker 2: Come on now, you can come get this love on
- 0:55Speaker 2: a whole another level. Get into it, you know right?
- 1:00Speaker 3: I got r L from you know RL next Legend
- 1:04Speaker 3: and be flat They roll produce.
- 1:06Speaker 2: They really show love on this. So you got to
- 1:09Speaker 2: be a.
- 1:16Speaker 1: Stop stop stop yeah wow, yes, yeah, I'm extremely impressed.
- 1:20Speaker 2: I'm excited, That's what I'm has.
- 1:22Speaker 1: This has this singing vibe always been something in the
- 1:25Speaker 1: background that you always did.
- 1:27Speaker 2: Always say.
- 1:28Speaker 3: I've been in groups with some of the best singers
- 1:32Speaker 3: in the industry.
- 1:32Speaker 2: I mean, Kerry Hillson, super connected.
- 1:34Speaker 1: I've seen yeah, television everything, fox, games, radio, act acting, hosting, dancing,
- 1:42Speaker 1: all the things.
- 1:43Speaker 3: And I've always been this way. So it's so funny
- 1:45Speaker 3: when people come in they're like, well, when does she
- 1:47Speaker 3: get off this personality or when does she become Like
- 1:50Speaker 3: I've been doing all this stuff around Atlanta, so if
- 1:52Speaker 3: you know me, you know me. But yeah, but I
- 1:54Speaker 3: mean this is now on a national platform, being on
- 1:56Speaker 3: the Real Houselves of Atlanta this season. Now that I'm
- 1:59Speaker 3: officially he Shoulder, people are like keyed in.
- 2:02Speaker 1: To me and finished for that. Okay, okay, okay.
- 2:06Speaker 3: And there you know it's I'm under a lens now.
- 2:09Speaker 3: So like everybody's like, oh, let's be perfect time to
- 2:12Speaker 3: perfect to pop out.
- 2:13Speaker 2: God's time. It's all on his plan.
- 2:15Speaker 3: It's all in his time, because you know, I've tried
- 2:18Speaker 3: doing it before, like I said, in groups, and I've
- 2:20Speaker 3: been a friend on the show for over a decade
- 2:23Speaker 3: for sure.
- 2:24Speaker 2: It's my season.
- 2:25Speaker 1: Now. Of course I've seen people ask you this question.
- 2:29Speaker 1: I just want to ask you because for me, now,
- 2:31Speaker 1: are we going to see Hubby Moore this season?
- 2:34Speaker 2: You will see him, but he's we want to see
- 2:36Speaker 2: him on the show.
- 2:38Speaker 1: Why the show?
- 2:39Speaker 2: He was just on this last past week like a
- 2:43Speaker 2: whole part.
- 2:43Speaker 1: I give him fifteen It's not the.
- 2:46Speaker 2: Real Husbands of house Tis, it's the real house wife.
- 2:49Speaker 1: I just think he tries not to see if people wanted,
- 2:51Speaker 1: it's almost like it's a they want to see more
- 2:53Speaker 1: because they don't see enough.
- 2:55Speaker 3: Yeah, less is more, and I mean he's enough right
- 2:57Speaker 3: there at the house of me. So he's from me now,
- 3:00Speaker 3: Y'all'm for y'all.
- 3:01Speaker 2: I get this show.
- 3:03Speaker 3: But he's a pop saying when it's necessary like my
- 3:05Speaker 3: birthday parties or mine for sure, big events that I
- 3:09Speaker 3: host or have, he's there because he's always super supportive
- 3:12Speaker 3: and he's always supported me doing the show.
- 3:14Speaker 2: He just doesn't want to be on a camera.
- 3:15Speaker 1: Okay, this is just an honest answer question. I want
- 3:19Speaker 1: to honest answer. Would you say that there's a boundary
- 3:21Speaker 1: set based off of personal preferences? He does not want that,
- 3:25Speaker 1: so he sets a boundary or this is just more
- 3:28Speaker 1: so like a conversation y'all had, like nine.
- 3:29Speaker 3: Well, he's always said, oh, I don't want to be
- 3:31Speaker 3: on TV. I don't want to that's not my thing,
- 3:32Speaker 3: and I've always respected that. But in the past the
- 3:35Speaker 3: network was like, if you can't show you a man
- 3:38Speaker 3: on TV, then you can't do it. You can't be
- 3:40Speaker 3: full time, you can't be a peach holder because we
- 3:43Speaker 3: got to see you.
- 3:45Speaker 1: They want to see how you communicate. I want see
- 3:47Speaker 1: how you overcome arguments.
- 3:48Speaker 3: They want to see that I a man, do have
- 3:51Speaker 3: a husband, you know, And they're like, you, since you're
- 3:53Speaker 3: not dating, you can't just go off and be like, oh, well,
- 3:56Speaker 3: I'm not going to show this part of my life
- 3:57Speaker 3: because then you're not really a full time peach holder.
- 3:59Speaker 2: So for that was the thing. But he's always supported.
- 4:02Speaker 1: Me doing it.
- 4:04Speaker 3: Yeah, go with the kids, do it at the house whatever.
- 4:06Speaker 3: He's like, just I don't want to be on camera.
- 4:08Speaker 3: But he's not that guy, Like he's very low key
- 4:10Speaker 3: when it comes down to that.
- 4:11Speaker 1: And you're always we were saying, off camera, always a
- 4:13Speaker 1: ball of positive energy. I don't even think I've ever
- 4:16Speaker 1: seen the last time I maybe saw you kind of
- 4:19Speaker 1: a little flush. You was pregnant.
- 4:27Speaker 2: It's so funny. We had a good time though, a
- 4:30Speaker 2: good time that day.
- 4:30Speaker 3: You always have the best energy and vibes like and morning.
- 4:35Speaker 2: It's tough.
- 4:35Speaker 1: That was tough for me too, because I was doing nights.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Yeah I had.
- 4:40Speaker 2: That's crazy, but you can't tell.
- 4:42Speaker 1: But they said they had you. I was like, oh,
- 4:44Speaker 1: this is gonna be good.
- 4:45Speaker 3: And the time flew by, because you know a lot
- 4:47Speaker 3: of times it's all on who you working with, and
- 4:49Speaker 3: if you got the wrong person, it's like, all right, dang,
- 4:52Speaker 3: when is it going in?
- 4:53Speaker 2: We got another hour?
- 4:54Speaker 1: But back to what I was saying, you always have
- 4:55Speaker 1: a great you always have great energy. Where is it?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Does that come from from outside of you?
- 5:03Speaker 2: Well?
- 5:03Speaker 3: My mom my parents are like that, you know, my
- 5:05Speaker 3: mam and dad both. My daddy is super silly and
- 5:08Speaker 3: the jokester, like the jone. My mom is always very
- 5:11Speaker 3: positive and likes to uplift everybody and their mama.
- 5:15Speaker 2: You know, she never met a stranger.
- 5:16Speaker 3: She always, you know, just pours into her community from
- 5:20Speaker 3: owning child care centers my whole life.
- 5:22Speaker 2: She's just a gifferend.
- 5:23Speaker 3: So I think that's where I get it from you know.
- 5:25Speaker 3: You just have to be kind. Yeah, like you got
- 5:29Speaker 3: to put out what you want to receive and treat
- 5:32Speaker 3: treat others as you would have to, you know, treat you.
- 5:34Speaker 1: So okay, So how's mom? How is mom? How is mom?
- 5:41Speaker 2: So that's so funny.
- 5:42Speaker 3: She had a surgeon rotator CUF today. So she's doing
- 5:45Speaker 3: great though, she's doing great.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Prayer for sure.
- 5:48Speaker 1: You know how you being a mom?
- 5:50Speaker 3: I love being a mom. That's like my favorite job.
- 5:53Speaker 3: My girls are so sweet and kind. They're six and two.
- 5:57Speaker 3: You know, my youngest daughter was a little bit you know,
- 6:00Speaker 3: I remembers had some challenges, yes, but now she's thriving.
- 6:04Speaker 3: She got the wobble walk going. She just celebrated her
- 6:06Speaker 3: second birthday on Valentine's Day. I love being a mom,
- 6:09Speaker 3: you know. I get to see these little minis men
- 6:12Speaker 3: running around and getting bigger personalities, and they just bring
- 6:15Speaker 3: so much joy. I'm telling you gonna have the worst
- 6:17Speaker 3: day ever when you get home and see your kids.
- 6:19Speaker 3: They just light up the room the best ever.
- 6:22Speaker 1: So what can we expect this season, Miss peach.
- 6:24Speaker 3: Holder, You're gonna see everything. I think that we have
- 6:27Speaker 3: a great group of girls. This Isn't you know they've
- 6:29Speaker 3: kind of revamped the shows. We have a bunch of newbies,
- 6:32Speaker 3: we've got the vets were turning to. So you have Portia,
- 6:36Speaker 3: you have Cynthia and Drew, and then of course Cynthia
- 6:40Speaker 3: comes as a friend. Oh she's the sweetest person ever.
- 6:43Speaker 3: Then as far as new girls, we've got Kelly, Angela
- 6:49Speaker 3: and Britt and of course myself. So I think there's
- 6:53Speaker 3: somebody that you can connect with on this cast. No
- 6:56Speaker 3: matter who you are, no matter what your walk of
- 6:58Speaker 3: life is, somebody on this guest we'll speak to you
- 7:02Speaker 3: and you'll find something in common with them.
- 7:03Speaker 1: All I know is the reunions, but the whole season
- 7:08Speaker 1: flowers and reunion here.
- 7:10Speaker 2: That's the thing about reality TV.
- 7:13Speaker 3: So you start out and you you may have some confrontation,
- 7:16Speaker 3: right then y'all apologize and get over it. Then they
- 7:20Speaker 3: see it on TV and they relive it and you
- 7:24Speaker 3: gotta apologize again.
- 7:25Speaker 1: And then you have the then you.
- 7:26Speaker 2: Have the reunion.
- 7:28Speaker 1: And now I got to say what I had to
- 7:29Speaker 1: say because I didn't saw how the editors edited add
- 7:31Speaker 1: the extra commentary.
- 7:33Speaker 3: You said you and then you probably said something else
- 7:36Speaker 3: in your interview or confessional so it's like, oh, it's
- 7:39Speaker 3: like you just know if you make one mistake, you're
- 7:41Speaker 3: gonna pay for it for oh my god, five or
- 7:43Speaker 3: six different times. It's good though. I'm enjoying it. I'm
- 7:47Speaker 3: enjoying being in this space and just having the world
- 7:50Speaker 3: see me outside of the shadow of friends that I've
- 7:53Speaker 3: supported there, like Candy and Porsche. I love them and
- 7:56Speaker 3: they they're they're great, but there's so much more to
- 7:59Speaker 3: me than being a good friend.
- 8:01Speaker 1: Yeah, now never had Are we're going to see that
- 8:04Speaker 1: rollout on the show? Are we recording now?
- 8:09Speaker 2: Well? I mean, are you going to sign the release.
- 8:15Speaker 1: Seconds that?
- 8:16Speaker 2: Boy? What's your wife gonna say?
- 8:18Speaker 3: She?
- 8:19Speaker 1: Oh, no, no, no, she my wife hates attention. My
- 8:22Speaker 1: wife is your.
- 8:22Speaker 2: Husband, exactly the opposite of the track, right.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Boy, she is your husband. She do not want me.
- 8:26Speaker 1: She don't even like taking pictures. I know, take pictures
- 8:30Speaker 1: for her phone.
- 8:30Speaker 2: But it's like that's it. They're not going away.
- 8:32Speaker 1: She don't like, she don't like none of that. It
- 8:35Speaker 1: was almost like because she's she from the East Side too,
- 8:37Speaker 1: She's from to cater and it was almost like my
- 8:41Speaker 1: boy Jay rocking there. It was almost like when we
- 8:44Speaker 1: met she was like, man, you're way too popular. You
- 8:47Speaker 1: got too much going on. I love you know, she
- 8:50Speaker 1: normal go to work.
- 8:51Speaker 2: You need that.
- 8:52Speaker 1: I definitely need that. I needed that.
- 8:54Speaker 3: Oh for sure, for sure, for sure we got exactly
- 8:57Speaker 3: what we need.
- 8:58Speaker 1: Schedules be crazy, though.
- 9:00Speaker 2: But that's how it is. And then how many kids
- 9:02Speaker 2: you got?
- 9:02Speaker 1: Now, well I have two with her, and then she
- 9:04Speaker 1: had one before me. The ones I had worked one
- 9:09Speaker 1: and seven?
- 9:10Speaker 2: So don't they just take up your like they have schedules.
- 9:13Speaker 1: That are like and they have schedules.
- 9:15Speaker 2: Yeah, you're like their assistant for sure.
- 9:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 9:18Speaker 2: They they run show.
- 9:21Speaker 3: People don't understand when your parents, like you just kind
- 9:23Speaker 3: of give up your whole life. You just now it's
- 9:25Speaker 3: all about them, Okay, swim class, ballets and gymnastics.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Yeah, even though tumbling and gymnastics is different.
- 9:33Speaker 2: No, that's a whole different things. Yeah. So I mean
- 9:36Speaker 2: I love it though, you love being I.
- 9:38Speaker 1: Love being a dad. La got a baseball game, so
- 9:40Speaker 1: I gotta stop.
- 9:44Speaker 3: No.
- 9:44Speaker 1: I had the surgery. I don't even want no. No, no,
- 9:48Speaker 1: oh yeah, I I ain't gonna lie. That surgery was
- 9:52Speaker 1: like unmanly.
- 9:53Speaker 2: Really yeah, do taell? You were you down a long time?
- 9:58Speaker 1: No? No, it was up. They just numb the area
- 10:01Speaker 1: and then you just sit there and then they and
- 10:03Speaker 1: then a girl walked in the door over.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Here, like, yo, no way outside. Yeah yeah, it looks
- 10:12Speaker 2: all right over here.
- 10:14Speaker 3: Yo.
- 10:17Speaker 1: It was a laser. It was the laser. I did
- 10:19Speaker 1: the laser. I was scared of the knife. So you know, dog,
- 10:23Speaker 1: you know what.
- 10:24Speaker 2: Did you have to like take?
- 10:26Speaker 1: This is the crazy thing.
- 10:27Speaker 3: It was.
- 10:28Speaker 1: My wife had just had our one year old, so
- 10:32Speaker 1: it was maybe like two months after because I was like, yeah,
- 10:34Speaker 1: I'm done, I'm done because she would not go to sleep.
- 10:38Speaker 1: I'm talking about she was thirty minutes. She was thirty minutes.
- 10:43Speaker 1: Thirty minute napper.
- 10:44Speaker 2: I'm sure.
- 10:45Speaker 3: But you know what, I'm glad you did it, not her.
- 10:47Speaker 3: It's a lot less invasive for men.
- 10:49Speaker 2: Women. It takes us down.
- 10:51Speaker 1: Your recovery was only three weeks.
- 10:53Speaker 3: I man, please don't just go get yourself snipped. Ready,
- 10:56Speaker 3: y'all do that make us do all that?
- 10:59Speaker 2: We don't want to do all that.
- 11:00Speaker 1: But yeah, being a dad is being the dad is
- 11:01Speaker 1: super cool. I'm just happy that you found.
- 11:04Speaker 3: A good Kenyon man to deal with all my stuff.
- 11:11Speaker 3: You know, I get upset about little stuff. Yeah, and
- 11:15Speaker 3: they kind of be a little stupid after because you'll
- 11:17Speaker 3: be all, like, I mean, I asked for extra pickles
- 11:19Speaker 3: on my sandwich and you didn't even He's.
- 11:21Speaker 2: Like, oh, sorry, baby, I didn't.
- 11:24Speaker 3: I told the lady and barently she didn't get I'm like,
- 11:26Speaker 3: then I'll be like, oh damn, okay, you all right,
- 11:28Speaker 3: it's all right, everything's fine.
- 11:30Speaker 2: Nobody died.
- 11:32Speaker 3: I just don't get some pickles out the fridge because
- 11:34Speaker 3: in the past you be with the wrong partner.
- 11:37Speaker 2: You like, you ain't get the pickle onself.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Oh goddamn.
- 11:40Speaker 3: You know it's like y'all both chestwolding each other.
- 11:43Speaker 1: Well this I do have a segment of the show.
- 11:45Speaker 1: Let's get into it right now. Since we on that
- 11:46Speaker 1: type of energy, it's called you got me fugged up? Now,
- 11:51Speaker 1: this is something that you can think. It's so now
- 11:52Speaker 1: it's a person, place, or a thing you think about.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Something that got to give me a thud. That could
- 11:56Speaker 1: be somebody call you FaceTime back to back to back,
- 11:58Speaker 1: so I'll call you three times, back to back to back.
- 11:59Speaker 1: So that's send you a voice note. You know what
- 12:01Speaker 1: I'm saying. What's something that got you Atlanta traffic? What's
- 12:04Speaker 1: something that got you fucked up, messed up. It just
- 12:07Speaker 1: makes you anytime you think about it, you get mad.
- 12:12Speaker 2: I mean, there's a couple of them you got time.
- 12:15Speaker 3: Well, first of all, don't you ever come for my
- 12:17Speaker 3: kids anytime anybody has ever came from my child children.
- 12:22Speaker 2: I'm like, you got me fed up. That's one these comments,
- 12:28Speaker 2: y'all so nasty in the comments. What is wrong back
- 12:32Speaker 2: to you?
- 12:34Speaker 1: Do you reply?
- 12:35Speaker 2: Nah? I never reply. I just deleted block because they
- 12:37Speaker 2: got me up.
- 12:39Speaker 1: Okay?
- 12:41Speaker 3: Sometimes because then sometimes I feel like if you give
- 12:44Speaker 3: that negative energy, you let them know you looking at you,
- 12:46Speaker 3: then they just keep going.
- 12:48Speaker 2: You know.
- 12:48Speaker 3: Then now you start getting more negative because people like,
- 12:52Speaker 3: well she responded to the negative.
- 12:53Speaker 1: You can respondlier than that, a little bit with with
- 12:56Speaker 1: a nice little jab.
- 12:57Speaker 3: I'll be having to tell my mom like, don't even respond,
- 12:59Speaker 3: I don't even get into it.
- 13:00Speaker 1: Just see it along.
- 13:00Speaker 2: Okay, that's let me think. What else got me fed up? Oh?
- 13:05Speaker 2: I'm with you a FaceTime don't face, don't face, I
- 13:08Speaker 2: don't even don't we don't talk like that.
- 13:10Speaker 1: Well, you know the y ns be like in the
- 13:12Speaker 1: FaceTime it's untraceable.
- 13:13Speaker 3: So oh no, that's a little FaceTime audio. We don't
- 13:20Speaker 3: do the same thing, then come, can we just FaceTime audio,
- 13:24Speaker 3: because like you want to see my face face Some
- 13:27Speaker 3: mornings I wake up looking like it's the role. Not
- 13:29Speaker 3: saying that that's a bad thing, but I just want
- 13:31Speaker 3: to look more like you know.
- 13:33Speaker 1: So no FaceTime, FaceTime audio.
- 13:35Speaker 3: Unless we only FaceTime my parents and my sisters or
- 13:39Speaker 3: my husband, my kids.
- 13:41Speaker 2: You know, my best friends, me let mething. What else
- 13:45Speaker 2: got me fed up?
- 13:47Speaker 1: I got something else for you.
- 13:49Speaker 3: Oh this little limit. Y'all starting to put on condiments
- 13:52Speaker 3: and then charging them. We never did that in Buckhead.
- 13:55Speaker 3: Now all of a sudden, it's twenty five cent for
- 13:58Speaker 3: a extra pack of barber at Chip for l A
- 14:01Speaker 3: on West Paces.
- 14:02Speaker 2: Y'all got me after.
- 14:03Speaker 1: Hey, that roast the barbecue. Hey look, just say you'll
- 14:05Speaker 1: know it's not on the menu, the sauce packet called
- 14:08Speaker 1: roasted barbecue.
- 14:10Speaker 2: I don't like that.
- 14:11Speaker 1: What smokey put that on them?
- 14:14Speaker 2: With people that drink that smoke.
- 14:17Speaker 1: Me not too much on itmoke it togither No, but
- 14:21Speaker 1: I like that roasted barbecue.
- 14:22Speaker 2: Don't do that. Don't do that.
- 14:24Speaker 3: It's probably gonna end up eating you inside out.
- 14:27Speaker 2: You'll find out.
- 14:27Speaker 1: Later well, now it's time for our segment of the show.
- 14:31Speaker 1: It's called do you like this when you shot out
- 14:33Speaker 1: your crush? We already know you happily married. So this
- 14:35Speaker 1: is the time where if you were to happen to
- 14:38Speaker 1: see something online and it be a clipper, uh you know,
- 14:41Speaker 1: you just look at that camera and tell them how
- 14:43Speaker 1: you feel about them. Lie on ball alert.
- 14:47Speaker 2: So do I look at No.
- 14:49Speaker 1: You don't look at me. You look at the camera.
- 14:50Speaker 2: Look at the camera and tell tell your.
- 14:52Speaker 1: Man how you feel about him. It's called shot at
- 14:54Speaker 1: your crush.
- 14:54Speaker 3: You just crushed in Hey baby, Hey baby, daddy, Hey
- 14:59Speaker 3: husb man you sexy.
- 15:01Speaker 2: King and king you he's so damn fine, chocolate milk
- 15:06Speaker 2: dad head you so fine? Why let me tell them teeth.
- 15:11Speaker 2: He's so fraid.
- 15:13Speaker 3: Body like a god sitting up there looking like the king.
- 15:18Speaker 3: You are speaking with that good strong African accent that
- 15:23Speaker 3: just get.
- 15:23Speaker 1: Me all hot and bothered me. Whoa you just turn
- 15:26Speaker 1: you on?
- 15:27Speaker 3: Huh like? And then yeah, Gerald maynkiewonkee you so damn
- 15:37Speaker 3: you the one.
- 15:38Speaker 2: You're the one that I really wanna thought that Yo,
- 15:44Speaker 2: Yeah they won Now he really is, like I said,
- 15:49Speaker 2: I told everybody David that it's you. It's just you
- 15:53Speaker 2: for me, like my mama said, you make my live.
- 15:55Speaker 1: Equipment all right. Well, and closing, you got something called
- 16:03Speaker 1: you feel like.
- 16:04Speaker 2: You got a little sad about it.
- 16:05Speaker 1: You want no good your wife and I ain't no.
- 16:08Speaker 1: I talked about her. I talked what she'd be tired
- 16:10Speaker 1: to me. People be texting her talking about on the
- 16:13Speaker 1: radio again. Yeah, I'll be telling you how y'all been
- 16:15Speaker 1: together now eight years but five years married. Man. I love,
- 16:19Speaker 1: I love, I just love. I just love when she'd
- 16:23Speaker 1: be like, oh I don't look good at that girl, you.
- 16:25Speaker 2: Look amazed, it beautiful natural.
- 16:28Speaker 1: I just I just walk with to him, smell it.
- 16:29Speaker 1: She hate when I skin.
- 16:31Speaker 2: I just love skin and skin.
- 16:32Speaker 3: That's the only person I want. That's when I think, people,
- 16:34Speaker 3: that's that's got me after just run back one more time.
- 16:37Speaker 3: Go ahead, y'all got me after up thinking I want
- 16:39Speaker 3: to go skin to skin with you, even even in
- 16:43Speaker 3: a photo. If you know I got a little bit
- 16:45Speaker 3: of my waist out, let's just stay right right. If
- 16:48Speaker 3: I got a little little side, I need you to
- 16:51Speaker 3: come put your hand and you know, and even when
- 16:55Speaker 3: you hug me, don't put your cheek to my face.
- 16:58Speaker 3: I'm going to skin skin with warrants at my husband,
- 17:01Speaker 3: not you. That's nasty, it's gross. I don't even like
- 17:04Speaker 3: when my leg touched the person beside me on an
- 17:05Speaker 3: airplane or something.
- 17:07Speaker 2: Don't touch me.
- 17:07Speaker 3: Don't especially if you got on shorts and I got
- 17:09Speaker 3: on shorts. Now wearing your alove from your legs.
- 17:13Speaker 2: No thanks. I don't like skinning.
- 17:17Speaker 3: Skin like if I almost will pull my shirt down
- 17:20Speaker 3: all the way so I can we can take the
- 17:22Speaker 3: photo like that?
- 17:23Speaker 2: Okay?
- 17:23Speaker 1: Anyway, was in what was I was saying? We got
- 17:25Speaker 1: to say at show called the Mental Health check In.
- 17:27Speaker 1: When SMI is having a moment could be a bad day.
- 17:30Speaker 1: I don't know if you call them bad days, whatever
- 17:32Speaker 1: you call them. What do you do? Do you meditate?
- 17:34Speaker 1: Do you talk to the therapist?
- 17:35Speaker 2: I am such a crier.
- 17:36Speaker 1: You cried out, you feel better?
- 17:39Speaker 2: I the ugliest cry face too.
- 17:42Speaker 3: I honestly have started laughing at myself while crying, because
- 17:46Speaker 3: it's like, you ain't gotta look at it while you cry.
- 17:48Speaker 2: I caught myself in my riber and I was like,
- 17:51Speaker 2: I was like, oh oh girl.
- 17:53Speaker 3: But I sit in my car and I will turn
- 17:55Speaker 3: on some gospel music, okay, and play it and just
- 18:00Speaker 3: continue to play it and just until I come out
- 18:03Speaker 3: of that and get praise and worship in my car
- 18:06Speaker 3: and drive around twenty five a couple of times cry out,
- 18:10Speaker 3: and then I'll start like listening to something funny or
- 18:14Speaker 3: watching some memes that I got saved on my phone
- 18:16Speaker 3: until I put myself into a better space.
- 18:19Speaker 2: And you know, it's always fake laughing.
- 18:20Speaker 3: When you start fake laughing, you just you end up
- 18:23Speaker 3: laughing for real because you're like, I am a little
- 18:25Speaker 3: unwell right the fact that I'm in the car laughing
- 18:28Speaker 3: about nothing, and then you start laughing real and it's contagious.
- 18:30Speaker 2: So you know, you find ways to put yourself out
- 18:34Speaker 2: of it.
- 18:35Speaker 1: Okay. I appreciate that what you do, because maybe I
- 18:37Speaker 1: can learn from you. So I've been going to therapy.
- 18:41Speaker 1: I actually graduated from weekly till once a month now.
- 18:43Speaker 1: So I've been setting boundaries to play defense. I love
- 18:49Speaker 1: that to help me navigate through I don't know, man,
- 18:52Speaker 1: as soon as I hit forty, man, I just started
- 18:53Speaker 1: getting emotional. I don't understand it. I started thinking about
- 18:57Speaker 1: how precious life is. Now. You know, I pay attention
- 18:59Speaker 1: to my kids a lot more. When I was younger
- 19:01Speaker 1: and I was just navigating becoming Ferrari, I never paid
- 19:05Speaker 1: attention to feeling my feelings and stuff like that because
- 19:09Speaker 1: I was like, I got this money. I gave some money, yes,
- 19:11Speaker 1: and then I felt like when I got to the
- 19:13Speaker 1: finish line, I looked left and looked right, and I
- 19:15Speaker 1: was like, wait, my kids didn't care about that. My
- 19:19Speaker 1: significant other didn't care about that. My my siblings didn't care.
- 19:23Speaker 2: They was just like yo.
- 19:24Speaker 1: It was really little Riri. He was like, man, I
- 19:26Speaker 1: just want to hang.
- 19:26Speaker 2: Out with you, dad. Yes, I don't care about it.
- 19:28Speaker 2: I kept saying, oh, you're missing on time.
- 19:32Speaker 1: And I missed out on so much time with my family,
- 19:35Speaker 1: and I'm seeing like my older kids, my two older kids,
- 19:39Speaker 1: I missed out a lot they were with me. Because
- 19:41Speaker 1: Little raris my industry baby. Everybody saw him with me
- 19:43Speaker 1: a lot. He would come to work with me, especially
- 19:45Speaker 1: he was a boy too. I didn't really want my
- 19:47Speaker 1: daughter like around because I'd be doing like broadcast outside.
- 19:50Speaker 1: I love smoking and all that stuff. Little Ri was
- 19:52Speaker 1: like at my hip. I just didn't pay attention to
- 19:55Speaker 1: the time I missed so with my little kids, I'm
- 19:58Speaker 1: spending so much time with them even and my older kids.
- 20:02Speaker 1: It's just like, you know, when I have a moment,
- 20:05Speaker 1: I just breathed through it, and I just like, you know,
- 20:08Speaker 1: I kind of create boundaries to where you know, I'm
- 20:11Speaker 1: not blocking. I try not to block. I just deal
- 20:15Speaker 1: and I go through what we're dealing with, and I
- 20:17Speaker 1: know that we're going to come out on the other side.
- 20:19Speaker 1: Because usually when you get upset about something, you really know,
- 20:22Speaker 1: and like two days it ain't really wasn't knowing when
- 20:25Speaker 1: you were talking about that.
- 20:27Speaker 2: You should have had that should have had you that
- 20:29Speaker 2: upset just got to take.
- 20:31Speaker 1: Miss conversation and miscommunication that could have gotten squared away
- 20:35Speaker 1: had you communicated.
- 20:37Speaker 2: On your communication is key. Sometimes you're so fast you
- 20:41Speaker 2: can communicate.
- 20:42Speaker 3: But that's why I'm glad you said you just take
- 20:44Speaker 3: a beat, take a moment, walk away from it, assess
- 20:45Speaker 3: the situation, and they come back to it. Let me
- 20:47Speaker 3: tell you, the best thing that you've said is the
- 20:49Speaker 3: fact that you've reached out and got help Like that
- 20:52Speaker 3: is such a people that look like community.
- 20:56Speaker 1: We think, oh man, you crazy, you tripping.
- 20:58Speaker 3: I always tell people like, if you can go and
- 21:01Speaker 3: get maintenance on your hair, your nail, it's on your mind.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, crazy thing.
- 21:09Speaker 1: We had all our episodes go viral, right, man, we
- 21:12Speaker 1: had ME and BT had two mental health therapists, lowest
- 21:16Speaker 1: views ever. But we're talking about they need to hear
- 21:21Speaker 1: things that people need to hear. And they were two
- 21:22Speaker 1: young brothers. They didn't look like your normal therapists. Lowest
- 21:27Speaker 1: views ever. I kept saying, that's that's what I'm talking about.
- 21:31Speaker 1: Wild posted the clips everything, but the men of that post.
- 21:34Speaker 1: You know, the young lady that couldn't fit in the list. No,
- 21:38Speaker 1: the minute we post the young lady, I couldn't fit
- 21:40Speaker 1: in the list.
- 21:40Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she went viral, went.
- 21:42Speaker 1: Thousand shares, thousand comments. I mean, but we talked about
- 21:46Speaker 1: mental health.
- 21:47Speaker 2: I mean, I think we all should do better at that.
- 21:49Speaker 1: I think the algorithm, friends, how do how do we?
- 21:54Speaker 1: How do we? How do we change the algorithm? So
- 21:57Speaker 1: you know, now you get me all emotional?
- 22:00Speaker 2: See, but I love that you that. I love that
- 22:02Speaker 2: you can be in touch with your emotions.
- 22:05Speaker 1: As soon as I hit forty, I don't understand.
- 22:08Speaker 2: This is what happens. You value life. You look at
- 22:10Speaker 2: like different, Like you.
- 22:10Speaker 1: Said, I value life, value it. Yeah, it's really your
- 22:14Speaker 1: twenties when you are yan.
- 22:16Speaker 3: Yeah, and then at forty you see some of our
- 22:18Speaker 3: friends and peers passing away too.
- 22:23Speaker 2: Yes, you know, yeah, all the things.
- 22:26Speaker 3: And you're like, that's I don't want that to be
- 22:28Speaker 3: my story, or at least if my day's are number,
- 22:31Speaker 3: I want to live them this way like I want
- 22:33Speaker 3: to live them to my fullest.
- 22:35Speaker 1: And you said it, Yeah, let's get it sighted again.
- 22:39Speaker 1: Let's talk about this song. I want to give you
- 22:40Speaker 1: a hot ye talk about this song. Never never had,
- 22:43Speaker 1: never had, never had your bag, you and your music bag,
- 22:46Speaker 1: my music bag, anything you want to do.
- 22:49Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 22:49Speaker 1: I've seen it. I've hosted the Hawks morning show, radio, television, yes,
- 22:57Speaker 1: hosting big events, yes, influencing.
- 23:02Speaker 2: Yeah. And that's why this is not for TV.
- 23:05Speaker 3: I mean it's on TV now, but this has been
- 23:07Speaker 3: my life for at least the past two decades. From
- 23:10Speaker 3: the East Side, from the east Side, south miss Southwest,
- 23:13Speaker 3: the cab.
- 23:15Speaker 1: High School.
- 23:16Speaker 2: Come on now, Yes, that's all the things. I'm Atlanta
- 23:21Speaker 2: Georgia Peach. I'm a peach, a true peach. You don't
- 23:23Speaker 2: get peach. You're a fuzzier than me. You know, where
- 23:26Speaker 2: is that?
- 23:26Speaker 3: And I think I'm like now, that the cameras are there,
- 23:29Speaker 3: you can see that stuff. But I've always just been me.
- 23:31Speaker 3: Like you said, We've always had a good vibe. It's
- 23:34Speaker 3: always been a blessing to be a part of this
- 23:36Speaker 3: industry because you know they'll spit you, you up, switch
- 23:38Speaker 3: you out, you'll be done in two seconds.
- 23:41Speaker 1: So you can get sucked in and turn into something
- 23:46Speaker 1: that ain't.
- 23:48Speaker 2: And then you get stuck in a rut.
- 23:49Speaker 1: We've seen it because we do.
- 23:50Speaker 2: We see it all the time.
- 23:52Speaker 1: You see your first hand to a little bit more,
- 23:54Speaker 1: especially when that screen, when that television screen.
- 23:56Speaker 3: Was I'm just happy that at I'm in my season
- 24:02Speaker 3: and I'm reaping the harvest. I planted the good seeds
- 24:04Speaker 3: early on, and it's finally my time to show the world,
- 24:08Speaker 3: you know. And that's why before I'll be like, well,
- 24:11Speaker 3: I'm trying to sing now that my single is out,
- 24:13Speaker 3: It's like I am singing.
- 24:14Speaker 1: No, you are singing? How I want to hear it
- 24:17Speaker 1: real quick?
- 24:17Speaker 2: Yeah? Never had you never had a friend like me,
- 24:21Speaker 2: You never had a peach like me.
- 24:23Speaker 1: Well, BT's done being famous. I think he just pulled up.
- 24:25Speaker 1: He was being famous today.
- 24:28Speaker 2: BT. Where are you at?
- 24:29Speaker 1: He around here somewhere one time for you know, bt okay,
- 24:34Speaker 1: any any shout outs anything.
- 24:36Speaker 3: Shout out to my amazing family, my husband, Gerald, my
- 24:42Speaker 3: daughters and Shiloh, my mom and dad's here and Glenn
- 24:46Speaker 3: to want to Glenda, my sisters. And then also shout
- 24:48Speaker 3: out to the cast of the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
- 24:52Speaker 2: It's a great group of ladies. We made our debut.
- 24:56Speaker 1: You in your bag, I'm in my bag.
- 24:58Speaker 3: Y'all gotta follow me on all social media platforms at Shamia,
- 25:03Speaker 3: Morton's spoke Shame with the A on the end and
- 25:06Speaker 3: Morton like the Seakhouse and we'll rt o n and
- 25:09Speaker 3: also follow Shemiah Shares dot orger because I do a
- 25:12Speaker 3: lot of community stuff with my nonprofit from I have
- 25:16Speaker 3: a prom dress giveaway coming up where we're sending thirty
- 25:19Speaker 3: girls to prom. We're gonna dress them, put their hair done,
- 25:22Speaker 3: makeup done, Neil's done everything did have them.
- 25:25Speaker 2: Together for prom.
- 25:27Speaker 3: So if you feel like you're a loved one is
- 25:28Speaker 3: deserving or that, send me a reason why you know,
- 25:31Speaker 3: and I'll set your girl up right for prom.
- 25:34Speaker 2: We got that.
- 25:35Speaker 3: We do a breast cancer event and I do a
- 25:36Speaker 3: cheer in dance camp every summer so you can find
- 25:38Speaker 3: all that information on shamia shares dot org.
- 25:42Speaker 1: If you do that, I will sidebar.
- 25:44Speaker 2: Yeah you're here.
- 25:45Speaker 1: We need to do a little radio station crash at
- 25:47Speaker 1: the radio station. Come crash that.
- 25:51Speaker 2: So the cheer stuff for sure.
- 25:53Speaker 3: But coming up, it's at the end of the month,
- 25:55Speaker 3: I'm doing that prom dress giveaway and I partner with
- 25:58Speaker 3: the Atlanta Hawks and it's gonna be a really big deal,
- 26:00Speaker 3: a lot of fun.
- 26:00Speaker 2: So you know, we definitely can ll let me let me.
- 26:04Speaker 1: Know less in the building, you know BT, you know
- 26:08Speaker 1: the vibes, Oh, one time, one hungry, a F five location,
- 26:11Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. My favorite location Smyrna. I
- 26:13Speaker 1: got a new location coming up in Conyers, Georgia.
- 26:16Speaker 2: You did