Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / Bet It All on Blonde with ERIKA JAYNE
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in
- 0:15Speaker 2: a Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp.
- 0:17Speaker 3: And tambrid Judge.
- 0:18Speaker 2: And today we have a very special guest.
- 0:22Speaker 3: Very special.
- 0:23Speaker 2: We are here with Erica Jane.
- 0:25Speaker 1: Hi, guys, thank you so much. I mean, this is
- 0:28Speaker 1: such a treat, honestly to be with both of you.
- 0:31Speaker 3: Oh well, we're coming off from a big high from
- 0:34Speaker 3: last night.
- 0:34Speaker 4: Did you enjoy it?
- 0:35Speaker 2: I have to say, we went in and I was like, Okay,
- 0:37Speaker 2: this is going to be good. But I had seen
- 0:39Speaker 2: your show a couple of years ago when we were
- 0:41Speaker 2: filming Beverly Hills, and I walked in and just your
- 0:45Speaker 2: energy was so much different.
- 0:47Speaker 4: Good and I'm really thank you.
- 0:50Speaker 2: It felt so alive, it felt so well.
- 0:54Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well that you know.
- 0:55Speaker 1: See, the thing is when you're given a budget and
- 0:58Speaker 1: you're given like a space, you can really put.
- 1:01Speaker 4: On a show and you do with what you have,
- 1:04Speaker 4: you know.
- 1:04Speaker 2: But I can say this, also, you looked like you
- 1:07Speaker 2: were having fun.
- 1:07Speaker 4: I was.
- 1:08Speaker 1: I really was. I'm free and I'm free for a
- 1:12Speaker 1: lot of Yeah, you deserve that. We'll talk about that
- 1:14Speaker 1: thing and the costumes. Fun, right, how many costume changes?
- 1:18Speaker 1: I think it's like five and a half If you count.
- 1:20Speaker 4: The reveal from the feathers, it's like five and a half.
- 1:24Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 1:24Speaker 2: Well that's that's impressive. And it's a quick turnaround. And
- 1:27Speaker 2: then we have to say, guys, there are some hot
- 1:30Speaker 2: background dancers.
- 1:32Speaker 1: Absolutely, there always are. I mean that's what people come
- 1:34Speaker 1: to see. You have to fill the stage with talent.
- 1:36Speaker 3: Yeah, and you did, you absolutely did.
- 1:39Speaker 2: Don't worry. I leaned over to your tour manager and
- 1:41Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, I'm here with one of my single friends.
- 1:43Speaker 2: We need to know of that guy is straight?
- 1:47Speaker 4: It's two of them? Are two of them? Are?
- 1:49Speaker 3: We found out the details? Did you did the work? Absolutely?
- 1:54Speaker 3: So this is your opening weekend? Describe what opening night
- 1:59Speaker 3: felt like to you.
- 2:00Speaker 1: Okay, I never want anyone to come to opening night
- 2:03Speaker 1: because it's just you're racked with nerves. Yes, you have rehearsed,
- 2:08Speaker 1: but it's never gone off in front of an audience,
- 2:11Speaker 1: so you don't know what lands you know, Like, I
- 2:13Speaker 1: can we can sit in a studio, we can sit
- 2:15Speaker 1: and rehearse and say, oh gosh, we love this, But
- 2:19Speaker 1: ultimately it's what the audience responds to, and so that's
- 2:22Speaker 1: what I'm really looking for. Also, too, those opening night
- 2:26Speaker 1: nerves can get in. You can fuck you up. Yeah,
- 2:28Speaker 1: they can fuck you up. But it went off beautifully
- 2:32Speaker 1: opening night and then last night. You know, after you
- 2:34Speaker 1: get that one show under your belt, then you start
- 2:37Speaker 1: to settle in and you start to really just sort
- 2:39Speaker 1: of breathe on stage and say, you know what, I
- 2:43Speaker 1: can take a little bit of time here, let me
- 2:45Speaker 1: make sure I address this part of the audience. I
- 2:48Speaker 1: have a little bit more time on the stairs or
- 2:50Speaker 1: the lift isn't freaking me out. And that was opening
- 2:53Speaker 1: a weekend. I felt good about it.
- 2:55Speaker 3: Were you able to enjoy the first show with all the.
- 2:57Speaker 4: Nerves I was.
- 2:58Speaker 1: I was able to. You know, there's a that moment
- 3:02Speaker 1: when you you rise up from the floor and you're like,
- 3:04Speaker 1: oh shit.
- 3:05Speaker 4: And you know, like oh my god, and then.
- 3:08Speaker 1: You settle in and you just and also to have
- 3:12Speaker 1: done it so much, you know, I've given so many
- 3:14Speaker 1: shows throughout my life that you can kind of just
- 3:18Speaker 1: you know, take that moment.
- 3:20Speaker 3: Tell us about your rehearsal, Like how intense is that?
- 3:23Speaker 3: How often are you rehearsing.
- 3:25Speaker 1: So we did thirty We did eighty minutes and thirty days,
- 3:27Speaker 1: So eighty minutes of content in thirty days.
- 3:30Speaker 4: That is unheard of.
- 3:31Speaker 2: And you had an injured toe. I saw that on Instagram, like,
- 3:35Speaker 2: was your toenail gone?
- 3:36Speaker 4: Yes? So we I'm just gonna let this out on here.
- 3:39Speaker 4: I don't care.
- 3:40Speaker 1: We shot a documentary around this. Oh, and I was
- 3:43Speaker 1: having a meeting with this man that ultimately directed it,
- 3:47Speaker 1: Mark Ritchie, who was fantastic, and I was walking into
- 3:50Speaker 1: the Soho house and I came up short on the
- 3:53Speaker 1: tall staircase and I kicked off my big toenail. Oh okay, Now,
- 3:58Speaker 1: I wanted this guy to direct this film so fucking
- 4:01Speaker 1: bad for me that I just thugged it out and
- 4:04Speaker 1: was bleeding all over the place and just kept going
- 4:07Speaker 1: and asking the nice waitress for Linen's, and then I
- 4:10Speaker 1: would go to the bathroom and wash my bloody foot
- 4:12Speaker 1: out and clean up the floor in the Soho house
- 4:15Speaker 1: and then walk back out. I just wanted Mark Ritchie
- 4:18Speaker 1: to direct this doc for me so bad that I
- 4:21Speaker 1: didn't care what happened.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Adrenaline took over anyone.
- 4:24Speaker 1: Basking was with me, and he was like, you are
- 4:26Speaker 1: one tough motherfucker. I had three tequila's and just was like,
- 4:31Speaker 1: you have to do this film for me?
- 4:32Speaker 3: So yeah, well, I think the world knows that you're
- 4:35Speaker 3: one tough motherfucker.
- 4:36Speaker 4: Thank you.
- 4:36Speaker 3: He's everything I would have to say. With everything you've
- 4:39Speaker 3: gone through, you've never played the victim card or me,
- 4:43Speaker 3: poor me, poor me.
- 4:45Speaker 1: No, it's not who I am, and it doesn't work
- 4:47Speaker 1: me either, neither have any of these neither three of us.
- 4:50Speaker 4: You know, the three of us are not that way.
- 4:52Speaker 1: And thank you for saying that, Tamera, because you're really
- 4:56Speaker 1: strong and you I really appreciate you saying that, and
- 4:58Speaker 1: it's just not you know, So you have to own
- 5:00Speaker 1: up and, as you say, take accountability for everything that
- 5:04Speaker 1: you do and what you don't do right. And that's
- 5:07Speaker 1: the most important part.
- 5:08Speaker 2: And what would you say is advice for people who
- 5:10Speaker 2: are struggling to kind of find their voice or to
- 5:13Speaker 2: find their confidence. And something that I've said, which I
- 5:15Speaker 2: don't know is similar to you, but I'm like, I
- 5:17Speaker 2: will fake it till I make it. Like there are
- 5:20Speaker 2: moments I'm going to walk into and like I am
- 5:22Speaker 2: fully pitting out and I'm nervous and I'm sweaty. But
- 5:25Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, I'm going to at some point
- 5:28Speaker 2: my authentic self will show up, yes, but I'm having
- 5:31Speaker 2: to give this extra little until I get back.
- 5:34Speaker 1: That's where the growth is, and that's really If you
- 5:37Speaker 1: stay complacent and in the comfort zone, you will never
- 5:39Speaker 1: know what you can achieve. You will never know who
- 5:41Speaker 1: you are. Truly, why not walk into it? And just
- 5:45Speaker 1: you can do this, I swear to God, nobody man.
- 5:48Speaker 1: You just you have to put on your big girl
- 5:50Speaker 1: panties and just put one foot literally in front of
- 5:53Speaker 1: the other, and you will find yourself and it will
- 5:55Speaker 1: come to.
- 5:55Speaker 3: You smile on your face.
- 5:57Speaker 2: Right.
- 5:57Speaker 1: But if you turn and run, it's fucked up. I
- 6:00Speaker 1: mean it's over for you. You can never leave social media,
- 6:03Speaker 1: you can never cower, you can never let the crowd
- 6:07Speaker 1: dictate who you are.
- 6:09Speaker 3: You can never not show up for a reunion.
- 6:11Speaker 4: Well that, honey, that.
- 6:14Speaker 2: Is like cheers to that, cheers to that. Anyone who
- 6:18Speaker 2: doesn't or anyone who honestly repeatedly leaves.
- 6:22Speaker 1: I don't like that either, as you know, and you
- 6:24Speaker 1: know too, I'm done with this.
- 6:26Speaker 4: I need to leave. No bitch, sit right here and
- 6:28Speaker 4: take it like the rest of us.
- 6:29Speaker 2: No, we all fucking take it and I'm done.
- 6:31Speaker 4: He stopped filming.
- 6:33Speaker 3: This cannot be on.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't talk about this. You know what. We
- 6:37Speaker 2: don't have a choice.
- 6:38Speaker 4: I don't have a choice.
- 6:40Speaker 1: I didn't want to talk about a lot of things.
- 6:42Speaker 1: Guess what I got, you know, roasted for two years and.
- 6:46Speaker 3: Yeah, in a situation that you really couldn't talk about,
- 6:50Speaker 3: but you really navigated through it very well.
- 6:52Speaker 4: I do the best I could.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Thank you, you know, And people don't understand your hands
- 6:56Speaker 1: are tied when you're in legal situations and it's timing.
- 7:00Speaker 1: Why couldn't you say this because I can't?
- 7:02Speaker 4: Yeah, part of this, don't you under everything you say
- 7:05Speaker 4: and do will be yes, all of that exactly.
- 7:08Speaker 2: And then it's also on film. So if you were
- 7:12Speaker 2: to say something you're not allowed to say, you're doubly fucked.
- 7:16Speaker 1: Well, yes, and things are you know, believe we could
- 7:19Speaker 1: get into it, but yes.
- 7:21Speaker 2: We'll get into that here. We'll talk more about the
- 7:23Speaker 2: show first. But recently you told et this is an
- 7:27Speaker 2: incredible moment for me, a rebuilding moment. And to the haters,
- 7:31Speaker 2: why don't you go see it and see if you
- 7:33Speaker 2: dislike it? After two years of laying it all out there.
- 7:36Speaker 2: Why do you think some people can't just let you.
- 7:40Speaker 1: Win because they don't want me to because they hate themselves,
- 7:45Speaker 1: because you know, it's just it's not I'm someone that's like,
- 7:49Speaker 1: I'm really happy for you when you're successful. I'm happy
- 7:51Speaker 1: for you when you do things. I want to surround
- 7:53Speaker 1: myself with women who are doing great things. I think
- 7:56Speaker 1: that a lot of people are miserable and they want
- 7:59Speaker 1: you to be miserable with them.
- 8:00Speaker 3: Well, especially on social media. Now, I'm sure like your
- 8:02Speaker 3: friends and true life are like, yes.
- 8:04Speaker 1: There were so many tears Opening night. Everyone else cried
- 8:07Speaker 1: but me. Everyone cried for me because you've been crying.
- 8:10Speaker 1: I've been crying. But I watched a lot of people
- 8:14Speaker 1: like I'm so proud of you. This is wonderful, and
- 8:17Speaker 1: tears were coming out of their eyes, and I was like,
- 8:19Speaker 1: thank you, Like I just I had to take it.
- 8:21Speaker 3: I don't even want to cry because but it was
- 8:25Speaker 3: so nice to see you rise abup after everything. I
- 8:29Speaker 3: couldn't even imagine the last couple of years what you went.
- 8:33Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you baby, thank you very much. Yeah.
- 8:35Speaker 4: I pulled it up, you know.
- 8:38Speaker 1: And and if I inspire one person to pull themselves
- 8:43Speaker 1: together and keep going. That's all what it wasn't like
- 8:45Speaker 1: when the girls, my beautiful background vocalist, which I've never
- 8:49Speaker 1: had in my life, when we do sweet dreams, hold
- 8:51Speaker 1: your head up, moving on, Hold your head up, moving on.
- 8:53Speaker 1: That's really what it was about. And I said it,
- 8:55Speaker 1: you know, tonight is about hold your head up, moving on.
- 8:58Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 8:58Speaker 3: Did you get teary eyed?
- 9:00Speaker 1: I'm upset right now, Yeah, but yes I did. I'll
- 9:03Speaker 1: stay night Opening night.
- 9:04Speaker 2: I had to like, Okay, what do you think is
- 9:09Speaker 2: more difficult this show or Roxy?
- 9:15Speaker 4: Roxy? Because of the schedule, eight shows a week, one
- 9:18Speaker 4: day off.
- 9:19Speaker 3: How long did you do Roxy?
- 9:21Speaker 1: I was scheduled for three months. I did seventy seven
- 9:23Speaker 1: out of my eighty six shows because COVID cut two
- 9:26Speaker 1: weeks off.
- 9:28Speaker 2: And in that situation, I mean, I remember walking into
- 9:31Speaker 2: your dressing room and it was it makes this seem
- 9:35Speaker 2: like a mansion.
- 9:35Speaker 1: This is a mansion. Yeah, Broadway is the real deal.
- 9:38Speaker 1: That's an old school, hundred year old theater.
- 9:40Speaker 4: It is you know, it is no team. No Laya
- 9:45Speaker 4: did my makeup.
- 9:46Speaker 1: Like she and I would sit there and listen to
- 9:47Speaker 1: Ella Fitzgerald and do my makeup I had a wig
- 9:51Speaker 1: so they had a wig master. But other than that,
- 9:53Speaker 1: you were out there just on a wing and a prayer.
- 9:56Speaker 1: Like last night, you know, you have lights and smoke
- 9:59Speaker 1: and everything Chicago is it's real you and an orchestra.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Good luck, honey.
- 10:05Speaker 2: But I can say this there. You know, there was
- 10:07Speaker 2: a moment because there's always doubt when you when you
- 10:09Speaker 2: love somebody and you care about somebody, You're like, oh
- 10:12Speaker 2: my gosh, I wonder if they pull this off, please
- 10:14Speaker 2: pull this off. But also is this going to be
- 10:16Speaker 2: a lip sinking situation now? And it wasn't like it.
- 10:21Speaker 2: We could one hundred percent hear your voice for sure,
- 10:23Speaker 2: and I was like, fuck, I am so proud of you.
- 10:27Speaker 2: And then I forget what song it was like. Maybe
- 10:30Speaker 2: it was when you came out and you were in
- 10:31Speaker 2: the light blue dress and your voice it had like
- 10:35Speaker 2: this softness to it and it was just so beautiful.
- 10:39Speaker 2: And I just want people to know that that not
- 10:43Speaker 2: only like you hear a very strong and I mean
- 10:45Speaker 2: I have the same similar speaking voice, yes, but you
- 10:49Speaker 2: have a real lightness in your singing voice that's like angelic.
- 10:54Speaker 1: Well that was the moment, so we took, you know,
- 10:58Speaker 1: leave the door open, and we turned it into to
- 11:00Speaker 1: a our dream girl's moment and just made it sort
- 11:02Speaker 1: of airy and beautiful, and thank you. That was the
- 11:05Speaker 1: aesthetic we were looking for, that airy sort of almost
- 11:08Speaker 1: in a way Supremes Diana Ross. God knows, I'm you
- 11:12Speaker 1: know nothing, you know, could never be on that level,
- 11:14Speaker 1: but that sort of almost sixties sort of beautiful moment,
- 11:19Speaker 1: and I really enjoy it. I think that that's a
- 11:22Speaker 1: really cool part of the show. Yeah, taking it back.
- 11:33Speaker 3: When you found out about the residmes, I didn't believe it, Like,
- 11:37Speaker 3: tell us how that happened?
- 11:38Speaker 2: Were we seek out?
- 11:39Speaker 3: What state of mind were you in? Because it's been
- 11:42Speaker 3: a roller coaster for two.
- 11:43Speaker 4: Years, I'll be honest.
- 11:44Speaker 1: My agent at CIA Santini Reality said, I want to
- 11:48Speaker 1: put you in touch with this young manager. Her name
- 11:52Speaker 1: is Alexis Fisher. She's really got a lot of shit
- 11:54Speaker 1: going on. We met at shoe Okay Mab Glenn and
- 12:01Speaker 1: we met there and we just sort of vibed and
- 12:05Speaker 1: and she said, what would you like to do? And
- 12:07Speaker 1: I said, do you know what I've been thinking about?
- 12:09Speaker 1: And I have been thinking about this for a few years.
- 12:11Speaker 1: I'd love to do a Vegas Residency. We meant, She's like,
- 12:14Speaker 1: you know what, I think I may this young woman
- 12:18Speaker 1: Alexis Fisher then puts me in the room with Live Nation,
- 12:23Speaker 1: like legit, straight up, like the right to you know.
- 12:26Speaker 1: And I walked in and I sold it, and I said,
- 12:31Speaker 1: this is who I am, this is what I've done.
- 12:33Speaker 1: I put myself on tour before I'm coming off Broadway.
- 12:37Speaker 1: Was my last performance gig, and I think I have
- 12:39Speaker 1: something to offer. Damn it if it didn't happen.
- 12:43Speaker 3: How is this residency different than other performances you've done.
- 12:47Speaker 1: It's mine out the years, one hundred percent. It's on
- 12:49Speaker 1: my shoulders. I own this thing top to bottom.
- 12:51Speaker 3: Oh congratulations, that's amazing.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Is Mikey doing the routines?
- 12:56Speaker 1: Mikey is the director, and I swear to God Teddy
- 12:59Speaker 1: he had the He had a much harder job than
- 13:01Speaker 1: I did. Just you know, we've worked together for so
- 13:04Speaker 1: many years and bet it All on Blonde is based
- 13:07Speaker 1: around fantasy, love, escape, glitz, glamor, and funds. So when
- 13:11Speaker 1: you see order of show, you see costumes, you see
- 13:15Speaker 1: all of our visuals. I mean, yes, we've worked together
- 13:18Speaker 1: for many years, and yes we've done all that work together.
- 13:20Speaker 1: But he really directed this show from top to bottom
- 13:23Speaker 1: and called the show in my ear the entire time.
- 13:25Speaker 4: I mean, and that's it. He should really be, you know,
- 13:29Speaker 4: sitting here, I know, I'm really all about him.
- 13:31Speaker 3: I'm like, is she bringing her backup dancing and.
- 13:34Speaker 1: Hairstylis here's the thing. I just have to get out
- 13:36Speaker 1: there and perform. He's calling the entire show like we
- 13:39Speaker 1: worked on this together. But as much as it was
- 13:41Speaker 1: sitting on my shoulders, I almost feel like it's sat
- 13:44Speaker 1: on his shoulders even more.
- 13:45Speaker 2: But do you guys ever fight, Like is there ever
- 13:47Speaker 2: that moment where it's just tensions are so high and
- 13:50Speaker 2: you say something and they're like, shit, maybe I should
- 13:51Speaker 2: have said.
- 13:52Speaker 4: That for sure. And there are a lot of tears,
- 13:55Speaker 4: Like there were a lot of tears. You know.
- 13:57Speaker 1: He was very emotional in a way I've never seen him.
- 14:00Speaker 1: And he said to me, I want this so bad
- 14:02Speaker 1: for you, And that was what I saw, you know,
- 14:06Speaker 1: was like he was like, Erica, this is the beginning,
- 14:08Speaker 1: you can you know, And I just thought, oh my yeah,
- 14:12Speaker 1: holy shit, Like this person is really going to the
- 14:14Speaker 1: map for me. And when you see someone that you've
- 14:17Speaker 1: loved for so long in that place. I just my
- 14:21Speaker 1: heart was just like, oh shit, Erica, please.
- 14:24Speaker 4: I hologized him for all of us.
- 14:26Speaker 1: I have to do this, for every person that believed
- 14:29Speaker 1: in me and every person that showed up in that theater.
- 14:32Speaker 1: I was just like, my god, this is all for you.
- 14:35Speaker 4: Thank you? You know?
- 14:36Speaker 2: And how did you choose the name Bettett? All on Blonde?
- 14:39Speaker 2: Is that Casino? Hold on?
- 14:41Speaker 1: No? My one of my dearest friends, Jared Blandino, the creator,
- 14:45Speaker 1: owner of Two Faced Cosmetics and now his new venture,
- 14:48Speaker 1: Polite Society, names things all the time. When the most
- 14:52Speaker 1: creative human beings I know, I called him up. I said, uh,
- 14:55Speaker 1: Live Nation asked me what this show was called, and
- 14:57Speaker 1: I have no fucking idea.
- 15:00Speaker 4: I said, can you help?
- 15:01Speaker 1: He goes, yes, he was on set of his Polite
- 15:04Speaker 1: Society campaign shoot and all of a sudden, it starts
- 15:07Speaker 1: sending me like just name after phrase after phrase after
- 15:12Speaker 1: phrase after phrase, and the very last one. He later
- 15:16Speaker 1: told me he was sitting in the car with his
- 15:18Speaker 1: husband and he goes, you know what, and I said,
- 15:21Speaker 1: that's it, that's it, and I mean, it's the perfect
- 15:25Speaker 1: and it's a it's a it's a thank you, it's
- 15:27Speaker 1: a nod to Vegas. It's a nod to believing in yourself.
- 15:30Speaker 1: It's a nod to and I just said, this is it,
- 15:33Speaker 1: and that's how we went with it.
- 15:34Speaker 4: So I owe it all. I owe the name to
- 15:36Speaker 4: Jared Blandino, and.
- 15:38Speaker 2: Then we just have two more questions about the show
- 15:40Speaker 2: and then we'll switch on to, you know, our favorite
- 15:43Speaker 2: other topics. So there was a bunch of like Bravo
- 15:49Speaker 2: bloggers and the watching the show last night. They came
- 15:53Speaker 2: opening night, like you your biggest fans, and they came
- 15:57Speaker 2: up to me and they were like, where the hell
- 15:59Speaker 2: is the rest of the Fox fours five? Where is
- 16:01Speaker 2: everybody else?
- 16:03Speaker 4: I was a little upset about that.
- 16:05Speaker 1: Yeah, well listen, Kyle's in Europe. Yeah that's yes, we
- 16:10Speaker 1: know you were there. So that's when too, Lisa Renna's coming.
- 16:14Speaker 2: Yeah, I texted.
- 16:17Speaker 4: Weekend as we can, and so I was is that us?
- 16:20Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's pretty much it.
- 16:21Speaker 3: So what about Sutton?
- 16:23Speaker 1: You know everyone has been invited? She text me back,
- 16:25Speaker 1: she was in Charleston.
- 16:26Speaker 4: I know that.
- 16:27Speaker 1: Look at summertime, people are doing their thing. I'm here
- 16:29Speaker 1: till December. I'm sure the girls will get in Garcel
- 16:33Speaker 1: went on you know, an interview and said, I am
- 16:35Speaker 1: definitely going to support Erica. Of course I text her
- 16:38Speaker 1: I said, thank you. You know, look, I think at
- 16:42Speaker 1: the end of the day, when the dust settles, we
- 16:47Speaker 1: all want each other to win.
- 16:49Speaker 4: I know, at least I do. I want the best
- 16:51Speaker 4: for you. I don't.
- 16:52Speaker 1: I will always support, I cheerlead for everyone, and I
- 16:55Speaker 1: think that that is for everybody. Even though you clash,
- 16:59Speaker 1: you have different and says at the end of the day,
- 17:01Speaker 1: I know for me, I want to surround myself with
- 17:03Speaker 1: successful women.
- 17:04Speaker 3: I don't feel like all women are like that.
- 17:06Speaker 4: No they're not.
- 17:06Speaker 3: But you know what, do you feel like everybody in
- 17:08Speaker 3: your cast is like that?
- 17:09Speaker 1: I would hope so deep down. I mean, I don't know.
- 17:12Speaker 1: You'd have to get down to them. But I know
- 17:14Speaker 1: Kyle roots for me.
- 17:15Speaker 4: I know you.
- 17:16Speaker 1: I know you root for me. I know the roots
- 17:18Speaker 1: for me, like you know. I know the girls that
- 17:20Speaker 1: we are the closest with do and I hope that
- 17:23Speaker 1: the other girls do because I will for them even
- 17:27Speaker 1: even if my class I don't care whether they still
- 17:30Speaker 1: want to surround myself with successful.
- 17:32Speaker 3: Any other housewives from other franchises that reached out to
- 17:35Speaker 3: you like, can I have a ticket?
- 17:37Speaker 1: Well, listen, no, I reached out to like Candy Kenya,
- 17:41Speaker 1: like all the girls that I know support me, but hey,
- 17:43Speaker 1: people have their lives. We're in different spots of the
- 17:46Speaker 1: country and sometimes, you know, so it's fine.
- 17:50Speaker 3: I'm here for what the Countess Luanne riach out.
- 17:53Speaker 1: I don't know, but I probably I don't know if
- 17:55Speaker 1: I reach out to her or not, but you know what,
- 17:56Speaker 1: I would love for the Countess to come out.
- 17:58Speaker 2: Then recently posted something as if she like she was
- 18:01Speaker 2: next to some guy from Broadway, like eluding, and I'm like,
- 18:05Speaker 2: I don't think she's the next Roxy. What do we
- 18:07Speaker 2: think she was with?
- 18:08Speaker 4: Richard Alexander is kind of a big name in the industry.
- 18:12Speaker 2: So who knows. We'll see, We'll see what the Countess
- 18:14Speaker 2: is up to. But speaking of Real Housewives of New York,
- 18:17Speaker 2: there's been a lot going on with Bethany. She you know,
- 18:23Speaker 2: she has pretty much won Come After You in season
- 18:27Speaker 2: six she said she kind of disparaged your music and
- 18:30Speaker 2: video career, and now she seems to have a vendetta
- 18:34Speaker 2: against reality television, mainly Bravo. She's saying, it's, you know,
- 18:38Speaker 2: the reckoning against all reality, But yet it's only been
- 18:43Speaker 2: towards Bravo, and she's making it seem like we are
- 18:47Speaker 2: all forced to do things. What's your take on that.
- 18:52Speaker 1: I'm an adult woman. I make choices. I've never had
- 18:55Speaker 1: a producer say to me, hey, you need to go
- 18:58Speaker 1: choose somebody up, or hey you need to drink some more,
- 19:01Speaker 1: or something like.
- 19:01Speaker 3: That, you're not allowed to eat.
- 19:03Speaker 1: No, I've always I've always done whatever I needed to
- 19:07Speaker 1: do in this inside this show, and I think that.
- 19:11Speaker 1: I remember when Camille was on the reunion and you
- 19:16Speaker 1: were there and she blamed production and Andy said, hold
- 19:19Speaker 1: on a second, you have free will, and that is true.
- 19:23Speaker 1: Like whether someone says to you, hey, Tam or go
- 19:25Speaker 1: chew up, you know whatever, you can still say, you
- 19:28Speaker 1: know what. I don't really feel like that, and I
- 19:30Speaker 1: have in many instances said, you know what, I got
- 19:32Speaker 1: to be honest with you.
- 19:33Speaker 4: I don't see it like that. I'm not going to
- 19:35Speaker 4: do that.
- 19:36Speaker 1: I have had to have a drink in order to
- 19:38Speaker 1: get through it because it's fucking tedious and we all know,
- 19:40Speaker 1: the three of us know.
- 19:41Speaker 4: It's like a little liquid courage, yeah, you know, just
- 19:44Speaker 4: to settle in and.
- 19:46Speaker 2: But that's a choice we make.
- 19:48Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's a choice I make. Nobody ever says
- 19:50Speaker 1: to me, hey, you need this shot or Now. I'm
- 19:53Speaker 1: also a grown woman. I'm not a teenager. I'm not
- 19:56Speaker 1: in my twenties trying to be famous, you know what
- 19:58Speaker 1: I'm saying.
- 19:59Speaker 4: So I think that.
- 20:01Speaker 1: Everybody has to do what's right for them. Yeah, yeah,
- 20:03Speaker 1: you know what's right for them. Do I think we
- 20:05Speaker 1: need residuals? I do, because it's not I do. I
- 20:08Speaker 1: think that we we could get some better.
- 20:12Speaker 2: But also I think mainly, if she really wanted to
- 20:15Speaker 2: dig into it, she should be talking about all the crew.
- 20:19Speaker 2: I mean, think about it. I mean, at the end
- 20:22Speaker 2: of the day, the people starring on these shows are
- 20:26Speaker 2: doing a lot, but the crew who's carrying around the camera.
- 20:29Speaker 3: For days yeah and one hundred degree heat, Yes, and.
- 20:32Speaker 1: They work their asses off, they really do. And yes,
- 20:36Speaker 1: way more than audios. Sure, we just get to show up.
- 20:38Speaker 2: And but do you think she's doing it because she
- 20:41Speaker 2: really felt that way, because she chewed up ninety percent
- 20:44Speaker 2: of the people that she's ever filmed with, or do
- 20:46Speaker 2: you think this is her way of being I want
- 20:48Speaker 2: to be on this side of history. If these following
- 20:51Speaker 2: things happen.
- 20:51Speaker 1: I don't really know. You know, she's interesting to me.
- 20:54Speaker 1: I think in some ways I agree with her on
- 20:56Speaker 1: some things and other things. I'm like, if you hated
- 20:58Speaker 1: Reality TV was so bad, why why would we continue
- 21:03Speaker 1: the conversation? Because she's made enough money to do her
- 21:05Speaker 1: own thing and.
- 21:06Speaker 4: Yeah all the time. Yeah, and that's great. You know,
- 21:10Speaker 4: I love it.
- 21:11Speaker 1: You hit a lick and that, Yeah, you did very well.
- 21:15Speaker 1: And you have Reality TV because she has TV. That's
- 21:20Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So when people are like, what do
- 21:22Speaker 1: you think about reality TV? I sid I cannot shit
- 21:24Speaker 1: on the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. I have a
- 21:27Speaker 1: Vegas residency because of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
- 21:30Speaker 1: I'm a New York Times bestselling author because of the
- 21:32Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.
- 21:33Speaker 4: Like, I'm not going to shit on well.
- 21:35Speaker 2: But to make a point in regards to what happened
- 21:37Speaker 2: with Rachel, you created those things because of your platform
- 21:41Speaker 2: I did. It's not a network's job to then create
- 21:45Speaker 2: a business for.
- 21:46Speaker 1: You know, you have to know, no, you have to
- 21:48Speaker 1: come in there with a plan. Also to look, do
- 21:50Speaker 1: you think I wanted to go through the hell I
- 21:52Speaker 1: went through for the last two years getting the ship
- 21:54Speaker 1: beat out of me over problems. No, but you know what,
- 21:57Speaker 1: I showed up and I took it on.
- 21:59Speaker 2: This describe season thirteen and one word somber.
- 22:17Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel bad for our girl, Kyle. Yeah, because
- 22:22Speaker 1: she needs to, you know, stay out of it. It's like,
- 22:26Speaker 1: to me, having gone through what I went through, you
- 22:30Speaker 1: know what, let her tell me what she wants to
- 22:34Speaker 1: tell me. There's so much speculation out there and it's
- 22:37Speaker 1: not because the reality is nobody knows. Nobody knows, nobody
- 22:41Speaker 1: knows what goes on behind closed doors. And you may
- 22:43Speaker 1: think you do because you watch a show, but truly like,
- 22:48Speaker 1: she's going to tell me what I need to know,
- 22:50Speaker 1: and I'm not going to go over and say, so,
- 22:52Speaker 1: what's happening?
- 22:53Speaker 4: Hey, bitch? You know what? Fuck you.
- 22:56Speaker 1: I've known this woman for a very long time. She's
- 22:58Speaker 1: been good to me. Are rough times in my life.
- 23:01Speaker 1: If you think I'm going to like butt in and
- 23:05Speaker 1: you know it's not, It's not who I am.
- 23:07Speaker 2: But if I had a feeling if there was one
- 23:09Speaker 2: person she was going to share with on this show anything,
- 23:13Speaker 2: I feel like it's you. She did, because I think
- 23:16Speaker 2: that you want to. And I know we had a
- 23:19Speaker 2: rocky start, but that was my own misreading of a situation.
- 23:23Speaker 4: But you.
- 23:26Speaker 2: Have really no judgment, no, when it comes to anything.
- 23:29Speaker 2: And I think that that is something that's misconceived on
- 23:33Speaker 2: the show because you're you have a stoic nature, and
- 23:37Speaker 2: then people read that as as cold, but really it's
- 23:41Speaker 2: you're taking it in and then you're going to give
- 23:43Speaker 2: your true opinion. But I haven't really ever heard you
- 23:46Speaker 2: judge anyone.
- 23:47Speaker 1: No, I don't, And you know why, I understand a
- 23:52Speaker 1: lot more than people are willing to give me. Like
- 23:55Speaker 1: I nothing in this life is perfect. There is no
- 23:58Speaker 1: perfect marriage, there is no perfect motherhood, there is no
- 24:02Speaker 1: perfect anything. And I am open and willing and I
- 24:07Speaker 1: listen to people even though it doesn't look like it.
- 24:10Speaker 1: And I'm also the one that calls and says, hey,
- 24:13Speaker 1: are you okay? Like I get it, you know, I
- 24:16Speaker 1: and I don't. I don't want to hurt anybody. I
- 24:19Speaker 1: really don't. If I get pushed then I'll lash.
- 24:22Speaker 3: Out, but push back.
- 24:23Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 24:23Speaker 1: Yeah, but I understand that. You know, I do things differently.
- 24:28Speaker 1: I've always been sort of against the grain and done
- 24:32Speaker 1: my own things, So I understand when people are like,
- 24:34Speaker 1: you know what, I can't go there.
- 24:36Speaker 2: Do you feel like there are certain things that you
- 24:40Speaker 2: didn't share about your marriage that you wish you would
- 24:42Speaker 2: have in hindsight.
- 24:43Speaker 1: Not that I wish I would have because it's all
- 24:45Speaker 1: come out, but you know, I think we all try
- 24:48Speaker 1: to protect our husbands or our significant other.
- 24:51Speaker 3: Whole family.
- 24:51Speaker 4: Yes.
- 24:52Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was in a marriage that with a
- 24:57Speaker 1: person that was rapidly changing and rapid going downhill, and
- 25:01Speaker 1: there were so many things beyond my control. And I
- 25:05Speaker 1: think that that was the only thing I wish I
- 25:08Speaker 1: could change people's minds about is Please understand a lot
- 25:13Speaker 1: of things were beyond my control, and so many things
- 25:16Speaker 1: like I.
- 25:16Speaker 4: Don't run a law firm. Yeah, and I don't. I
- 25:19Speaker 4: don't run that business.
- 25:20Speaker 1: That business has been around before I was born and
- 25:23Speaker 1: I'm fucking fifty two years old, you know. I it's
- 25:27Speaker 1: not like that.
- 25:28Speaker 3: Is there any time in your marriage where you thought
- 25:31Speaker 3: you want it out or you should have gotten out?
- 25:33Speaker 4: Yes?
- 25:33Speaker 1: And I told Tom when I knew he was having
- 25:36Speaker 1: affairs and all that kind of shit, I said, I
- 25:38Speaker 1: think he should be a man and divorce me.
- 25:40Speaker 2: And he wouldn't.
- 25:41Speaker 4: Now I wanted why would want me to be the
- 25:44Speaker 4: band guy. Why would any man have an affair on
- 25:46Speaker 4: you just well, it's not I don't take it personally.
- 25:50Speaker 4: I think that it has something to do with people.
- 25:53Speaker 4: You know.
- 25:54Speaker 3: Well, there's that old saying I'll show you a beautiful girl,
- 25:56Speaker 3: and I'll show you a gun. It's tired fucking her.
- 25:59Speaker 2: Show me.
- 25:59Speaker 4: If you're a woman, I'll show you.
- 26:01Speaker 2: I heard somebody say this, and I remember just I
- 26:04Speaker 2: had like this, like fucking pissed off reaction to it.
- 26:07Speaker 2: But I was around a really affluent rich man and
- 26:11Speaker 2: his wife was sitting there and she said something that
- 26:13Speaker 2: bugged him, and he goes, i'd be done with this,
- 26:16Speaker 2: but it's cheaper to keep her. Well, I remember being
- 26:18Speaker 2: at dinner.
- 26:19Speaker 1: Oh, yes, it's cheaper to keep I remember being at
- 26:22Speaker 1: a dinner and this guy was saying, oh, if you
- 26:24Speaker 1: were it was it, you know, chief of police at
- 26:26Speaker 1: the time of lapd And he's like, oh, if you
- 26:29Speaker 1: were better, I said, I'm sorry, I'm late, and he goes, oh,
- 26:31Speaker 1: if you just being you know, cute, and he goes, oh,
- 26:33Speaker 1: if you were married to a better man, you would
- 26:35Speaker 1: have been here faster. And Tom literally looked at him
- 26:37Speaker 1: and said well, if you think you can afford her,
- 26:39Speaker 1: you can fucking have her, you.
- 26:45Speaker 4: Know.
- 26:45Speaker 2: I mean even when you go back and you watch
- 26:47Speaker 2: some of the old scenes, just cris and walking, and
- 26:51Speaker 2: I'm like, that isn't even the Erica I know. And
- 26:54Speaker 2: I am going to tell you, guys, if you want
- 26:55Speaker 2: to know more about Erica Jane, not only read her book,
- 26:58Speaker 2: but go watch her Ted talk because that.
- 27:01Speaker 4: Wait, you have a Ted Talk. I did, and it
- 27:04Speaker 4: was the hardest thing I've ever done, and I started
- 27:06Speaker 4: to tear up in the middle of it.
- 27:07Speaker 2: But it was very difficult. Is when I realized, Teddy,
- 27:12Speaker 2: you read this person wrong. And I know that you
- 27:15Speaker 2: pride yourself on reading people and reading the room and
- 27:18Speaker 2: knowing someone. And then I listened to that and I said, fuck,
- 27:22Speaker 2: you need to take a step back. That's kind and
- 27:25Speaker 2: realize what's happening here.
- 27:28Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like the public whenever there is
- 27:30Speaker 3: a very tough girl.
- 27:31Speaker 4: And I'm speaking for you, I'm speaking for myself. When
- 27:34Speaker 4: you're staring and you stand in your own thing, people
- 27:36Speaker 4: misread you.
- 27:37Speaker 3: Yeah, they misread you, They judge you, they whatever.
- 27:40Speaker 4: And that's okay.
- 27:41Speaker 3: And I give zero fox.
- 27:42Speaker 1: You give zero fox because you know what you find
- 27:45Speaker 1: your people, you find your girls, and you roll with
- 27:47Speaker 1: those girls that understand.
- 27:49Speaker 2: Well, question what fucks do you give? Because everybody does
- 27:53Speaker 2: give some fox.
- 27:54Speaker 1: I would like to be heard a little bit more.
- 27:57Speaker 1: I would like the fuck I give is Hold on
- 28:00Speaker 1: a second. Please listen to what I'm saying and understand
- 28:03Speaker 1: that my hands are tied in a lot of situations.
- 28:06Speaker 1: It looks one way, but I'm telling you it's another way.
- 28:08Speaker 1: That's the only thing I really wish had happened was
- 28:12Speaker 1: the women that I worked with not jump on blogs
- 28:16Speaker 1: and salacious shit. And I said, just the woman that
- 28:21Speaker 1: you know is standing in front of you. If you
- 28:23Speaker 1: want to ask me a question, I can give you
- 28:25Speaker 1: the best answer. Understand my hands are tied.
- 28:26Speaker 4: In a lot of ways.
- 28:27Speaker 3: Do we see a different Eric.
- 28:29Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm pretty calm, you know. I just didn't want
- 28:31Speaker 1: to engage in the in the fighting. I think that
- 28:35Speaker 1: the energy shifted off of my problems onto the group
- 28:38Speaker 1: as a whole. You know, we are in entertainment. It
- 28:41Speaker 1: is a show. It is and everybody needs to step up.
- 28:44Speaker 1: I don't like the spotlight being on one person and
- 28:47Speaker 1: let's pound on Teddy or Tam or Yeah, like, let me,
- 28:52Speaker 1: where are the rest of you stepping up and showing
- 28:54Speaker 1: whether you're struggling or you have compassion? And I don't
- 28:58Speaker 1: like and I'm going to say this for everybody. I
- 29:01Speaker 1: don't like it when people try to read the audience yes,
- 29:06Speaker 1: and read social media. Hey, if I like you, I'm
- 29:09Speaker 1: going to fucking say, you know what, I know this
- 29:11Speaker 1: woman and I like her, and she's been good to me.
- 29:14Speaker 4: And I don't care you mean.
- 29:15Speaker 3: Like like cast members that are influenced by what they
- 29:18Speaker 3: see and Twitter and all.
- 29:21Speaker 4: The social Yeah, I can't stand that. I can't stand it.
- 29:25Speaker 4: And that was the one thing Like Lisa Runna. I'll
- 29:27Speaker 4: tell you what I told her.
- 29:28Speaker 1: She said to me, look, Erica, I'm sticking by you,
- 29:30Speaker 1: but if it turns out another way, I have to.
- 29:32Speaker 1: And I said, Noah, I respect that. Stay in it
- 29:35Speaker 1: with me. She said, you know what, I'm going to
- 29:37Speaker 1: walk alongside you. I don't need anybody to hold my hand.
- 29:40Speaker 1: But what I do need is for when I say,
- 29:42Speaker 1: just please listen. You know that's all I'm really looking for.
- 29:46Speaker 2: Do you think that we see a different side of
- 29:48Speaker 2: you without having your Thelma and Louise?
- 29:52Speaker 1: You're sure, of course, I think that. Obviously, when you
- 29:55Speaker 1: switch up the cast, you have the new people, you
- 29:57Speaker 1: have new blood. It's a new day. Yes, you see
- 29:59Speaker 1: a side, and it's not that it's a retracted side.
- 30:03Speaker 1: Several things changed.
- 30:05Speaker 3: Yeah, were you concerned going into the season not having
- 30:10Speaker 3: Lisa Renna?
- 30:11Speaker 1: You weren't, No, because I came in, you know, with Yolanda,
- 30:14Speaker 1: and then she left. So you have to make friends
- 30:16Speaker 1: and you have to make those connections.
- 30:18Speaker 3: So, but Renna was such a big character on that show.
- 30:22Speaker 1: She was and she's missed, and I think Teddy's missed
- 30:25Speaker 1: and I missed Teddy because by the way, we would
- 30:28Speaker 1: you know, I mean I would always have to say, honey,
- 30:31Speaker 1: what happened? And she'd be like this is what was said? Like,
- 30:34Speaker 1: you're right about that.
- 30:36Speaker 3: If you can bring one person back on the show,
- 30:39Speaker 3: who would it be?
- 30:39Speaker 1: And why I bring a couple, I bring Lisa back,
- 30:43Speaker 1: I bring Teddy back.
- 30:45Speaker 3: Well, I won Teddy in Orange County, so it might
- 30:47Speaker 3: go there. It might be a struggle.
- 30:48Speaker 4: I think, would you ever come back?
- 30:52Speaker 2: I wouldn't come back as a friend.
- 30:53Speaker 4: No, No, I'm not talking about that.
- 30:55Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I would, I would, you know, I would
- 30:58Speaker 2: do I like to make money. Listen, and I think
- 31:00Speaker 2: that I've really found my voice.
- 31:02Speaker 1: I love you here, by the way, and when we did,
- 31:04Speaker 1: when we came over and did your podcast at the.
- 31:07Speaker 2: When you supported me when everyone hated me. Yes, that's
- 31:11Speaker 2: how you know somebody is a truth us. Of course,
- 31:13Speaker 2: you guys, because together and I was being humbled. Yes, yes, absolutely,
- 31:20Speaker 2: and y'all didn't give a fuck no, And that's friendship.
- 31:23Speaker 2: I'll tell you why, because I'm not going to let
- 31:25Speaker 2: outside voices tell me what I know is true. I
- 31:29Speaker 2: don't need to be liked by anonymous people. I need
- 31:32Speaker 2: to be liked by the people that I actually know
- 31:34Speaker 2: and stand in front of.
- 31:36Speaker 3: You might be surprised by this, but the most asked
- 31:38Speaker 3: question was about your way.
- 31:41Speaker 4: Of course, can.
- 31:42Speaker 2: You please clarify this because when you said on Watch
- 31:46Speaker 2: What Happens Live it was from menopause. I feel like
- 31:49Speaker 2: you needed to expand on what you meant by that,
- 31:52Speaker 2: because then everyone's like, well, those sun made comments like
- 31:55Speaker 2: I'm on menopauseit and I'm like.
- 31:56Speaker 4: By the way, sudden, Well, I could blast her right now,
- 32:00Speaker 4: but I'm going to choose not to.
- 32:01Speaker 2: But this is the place to do it if you like,
- 32:04Speaker 2: so here's.
- 32:04Speaker 1: What I was going through menopause, and I expanded and
- 32:09Speaker 1: they knew want help, and then I went and I
- 32:11Speaker 1: got help. I did the same thing, right, But.
- 32:14Speaker 2: Did you explained to them a little bit about what
- 32:16Speaker 2: it is.
- 32:16Speaker 1: So hormonal replacement therapy. I'm implanted with certain amount of hormones.
- 32:21Speaker 1: I'm on a lot of different hormone regimen and it
- 32:24Speaker 1: takes you down and it makes you better. It balances
- 32:27Speaker 1: your hormone and that gave me a chance to number one,
- 32:31Speaker 1: drop a whole lot of puffiness. I stopped drinking and
- 32:34Speaker 1: I totally changed my regimen. So it wasn't like, oh,
- 32:37Speaker 1: I lost weight during menopause.
- 32:39Speaker 2: No.
- 32:39Speaker 1: I sought help during menopause and came down, and so
- 32:44Speaker 1: should everybody else that feels that way. Yeah, and I
- 32:49Speaker 1: wanted my career back.
- 32:50Speaker 3: That's the first thing, Okay, I would tell my clients
- 32:53Speaker 3: in the fitness industry. If you're over you know, forty
- 32:55Speaker 3: five to fifty.
- 32:56Speaker 4: You need to go have your levels check. Go get
- 32:58Speaker 4: your levels checked. And everybody's like, well, my gun to
- 33:00Speaker 4: college is who the fuck said?
- 33:03Speaker 3: Thank you? Do not go to coologist because what they
- 33:06Speaker 3: will tell you you're within rain and that's not optimizing.
- 33:10Speaker 2: Yes, so that is what I wanted to that hormone doctor.
- 33:15Speaker 2: And the fact that everybody's like Eric is saying she
- 33:18Speaker 2: lost weight and menopause. It's bullshit.
- 33:20Speaker 3: You know, she lost weight balancing out her hormone ostomizing
- 33:24Speaker 3: my fucking hormones.
- 33:25Speaker 2: And I'm here to tell you this, after all my
- 33:28Speaker 2: melanomas and all the cancer stuff, they made me stop
- 33:32Speaker 2: being on all the hormones. Yes, and I gotta tell
- 33:34Speaker 2: you it's freaking brutal right now.
- 33:36Speaker 4: Like I understand, I.
- 33:38Speaker 2: Have honestly, and I not to share too much, but
- 33:40Speaker 2: I have been on my period for four weeks. It
- 33:44Speaker 2: never stops.
- 33:45Speaker 4: It's really hard, like hell.
- 33:48Speaker 2: It's so if you have the opportunity to go and
- 33:51Speaker 2: get your hormones checked. I knew that's what you meant,
- 33:54Speaker 2: but it was such a quick sound everyone took it.
- 33:57Speaker 2: But what is your thought on people constantly commenting on
- 34:02Speaker 2: people's weight at this point or if they're on a ziba?
- 34:05Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't give a fuck. First of all, it's
- 34:06Speaker 1: no one's business what you do with your body. It's
- 34:08Speaker 1: your body, your choice. Why all of a sudden, is
- 34:10Speaker 1: it like you know my business to know what you
- 34:12Speaker 1: do privately with your with your person. Yesterday I did
- 34:16Speaker 1: a press junket for bed at All on Blonde and
- 34:19Speaker 1: this question came up more than once. So what do
- 34:21Speaker 1: you have to say about it? I said, Look, my
- 34:23Speaker 1: answer stands then and it stands now. I did what
- 34:27Speaker 1: I did to my body. I optimized my hormones. I
- 34:30Speaker 1: was going through menopause, and I sought help. Okay, that
- 34:33Speaker 1: is the truth. And whatever you want to do. By
- 34:36Speaker 1: the way, ozimpic is old. Okay, it's been around for
- 34:39Speaker 1: over a decade and it's been used as weight loss
- 34:42Speaker 1: for over a decade. So you guys are late. Whoever
- 34:45Speaker 1: is like jumping on this train, You're way late. And
- 34:47Speaker 1: there are many ways to cut weight, and we'll just
- 34:48Speaker 1: leave it right there. And also I want to say this,
- 34:51Speaker 1: I got such a terrible backlash for making an offhanded
- 34:57Speaker 1: remark regards to a Crystal regards to Crystal, So you
- 35:01Speaker 1: also see my answer saying I really don't want to
- 35:04Speaker 1: talk about this because we have someone on our cast
- 35:06Speaker 1: that struggles with an eating disorder and I really don't
- 35:09Speaker 1: want to get into it because I already got killed
- 35:12Speaker 1: for making, you know, a flip comment. But for somehow
- 35:15Speaker 1: or another. Every woman is either too fat or too thin,
- 35:19Speaker 1: you know, like stay the fuck out of our bodies.
- 35:21Speaker 3: But also, you can't win, Honestly, you can't win.
- 35:24Speaker 2: It really should just be about what we personally want.
- 35:27Speaker 2: And there are certain times where I feel like, Okay,
- 35:30Speaker 2: I want to be the strongest I can be right now,
- 35:32Speaker 2: or you know what, my body's tired. I want to
- 35:34Speaker 2: focus more on this and I want like you're gonna
- 35:37Speaker 2: go through different phases in your life, leaned.
- 35:39Speaker 4: Out because of my show, and you also saw me
- 35:41Speaker 4: on Broadway. I was leaned in.
- 35:43Speaker 1: I delivered a full term baby at one hundred and
- 35:46Speaker 1: twenty eight pounds. Okay, I got pregnant at one eighteen
- 35:49Speaker 1: and delivered a full term baby at one twenty eight,
- 35:52Speaker 1: so this is not unusual for my body.
- 35:54Speaker 2: But also, and sorry to say this, part of your marriage.
- 35:59Speaker 2: When you're happy, what happens your emotions?
- 36:02Speaker 1: Yes, so too, and ship and also too, when you
- 36:07Speaker 1: are divorced and you are depressed.
- 36:09Speaker 3: Well, your cortos all levels go up, and then all
- 36:11Speaker 3: of a sudden you start getting belly waite and all.
- 36:13Speaker 1: Of it, and you're on antidepressants and you know all
- 36:16Speaker 1: this ship and you're drinking. It's like, you know, when
- 36:18Speaker 1: you come on.
- 36:20Speaker 2: There's there's multiple things.
- 36:22Speaker 4: Just worry about yourself and it's fine.
- 36:25Speaker 2: Okay. The next question, this is a fan one. Does
- 36:29Speaker 2: your joke about Deree and PK's marriage from last year's
- 36:33Speaker 2: Bravo con.
- 36:34Speaker 4: It bothers me very much? You know why? Because I
- 36:37Speaker 4: didn't know they were having problems.
- 36:38Speaker 3: Yeah, so you just said I was there and you
- 36:41Speaker 3: were just being snarky.
- 36:42Speaker 1: I was being on the moment and if you look back,
- 36:45Speaker 1: you say, I don't you hear me say I don't
- 36:47Speaker 1: want to answer this question. Yeah, right, and you see
- 36:51Speaker 1: Kenya and I and he and Andy says you got
- 36:54Speaker 1: to do it, and I was like, I walked out
- 36:56Speaker 1: and I.
- 36:57Speaker 4: Was like, th eat in. PK was little.
- 37:00Speaker 2: Really I should have said, you should have said Lisa
- 37:01Speaker 2: and Harry as a joke.
- 37:03Speaker 4: And I didn't come out and so and so, yeah,
- 37:07Speaker 4: have another episode.
- 37:08Speaker 2: It's right behind your pain to please.
- 37:13Speaker 4: Here's the other thing.
- 37:15Speaker 1: I knew she took it bad when I text her
- 37:17Speaker 1: and there was no response.
- 37:18Speaker 3: Did you text her immediately?
- 37:20Speaker 2: Yes?
- 37:20Speaker 4: I did. That's a good quest.
- 37:22Speaker 2: Sorry, Well, we were on a group chat and and
- 37:25Speaker 2: first I texted because we're you know, this is when
- 37:28Speaker 2: Fox first five was still a group chat, which it
- 37:31Speaker 2: is not anymore. It's not anymore, but it should return.
- 37:34Speaker 2: I know it should, but why is it not? I
- 37:36Speaker 2: sent a text I'm not sure, and mine was so trivial.
- 37:40Speaker 2: Mine was just three Why fucking hit me when I'm down?
- 37:43Speaker 2: People like to make fun of my style? Of all
- 37:46Speaker 2: the people at Bravo Conn, why did you need to
- 37:50Speaker 2: point me out for having bad style?
- 37:52Speaker 1: And the next thing, I come in and I'm like, Eric,
- 37:55Speaker 1: you know, Erica says, I'm so fucking sorry, and you
- 37:59Speaker 1: know I was it.
- 38:00Speaker 3: Okay for her to go after you and your style, but.
- 38:02Speaker 2: It's is different than marriage.
- 38:05Speaker 1: I do think you agree, like clothes are not as
- 38:07Speaker 1: important as it was.
- 38:09Speaker 2: Just that was kind of the demise of our group
- 38:12Speaker 2: chat because it was like first my comment, then me,
- 38:15Speaker 2: then Erica, and then all of a sudden it was
- 38:17Speaker 2: like silence, duh dum. I don't know.
- 38:22Speaker 3: I feel like I come from the mentality like if
- 38:23Speaker 3: it's not true, laugh it off.
- 38:25Speaker 1: I know, but it was that was the problem that
- 38:28Speaker 1: I was, yeah, okay, and I didn't know, and then
- 38:31Speaker 1: she told me, and Deiy also reveals some other things
- 38:35Speaker 1: that happened to her, you know, post home invasion. Yeah,
- 38:39Speaker 1: post home invasion. That are pretty heavy and I understand,
- 38:42Speaker 1: and had I known that, I would.
- 38:45Speaker 4: Have never fucking said it, But well, you're not a
- 38:47Speaker 4: mind reader.
- 38:48Speaker 1: And also too, they are the two most fun, you know,
- 38:52Speaker 1: but everybody, you know, it comes out that Kyla Mauricio
- 38:56Speaker 1: were struggling three and p K were struggling so in
- 38:59Speaker 1: their marriages.
- 39:01Speaker 4: You know, I didn't know.
- 39:03Speaker 3: Who do you think is the center of attention this season?
- 39:07Speaker 3: Is there one person.
- 39:09Speaker 4: Or is it just like spread around?
- 39:11Speaker 1: I think that you know Kyle in the you know,
- 39:15Speaker 1: why aren't you wearing your wedding rink?
- 39:16Speaker 4: Shit? I haven't worre my wad?
- 39:18Speaker 2: Do you think that she?
- 39:20Speaker 3: Do you think that Kyle has the hardest season this
- 39:23Speaker 3: year out.
- 39:23Speaker 4: Of the cast? Probably?
- 39:25Speaker 1: I mean from what I've and you know this, the
- 39:27Speaker 1: two of you know this from what I shot and
- 39:29Speaker 1: what I've seen. But then again, unless there's some revelation
- 39:33Speaker 1: that I wasn't present for, I'm.
- 39:35Speaker 4: Going with Kyle.
- 39:35Speaker 3: Do you guys know when you air?
- 39:38Speaker 4: I was told November, but I'm not sure.
- 39:39Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you think that the two people that pander
- 39:44Speaker 2: to Twitter the most are Sutton and Garcal.
- 39:48Speaker 1: I do feel that way. I felt that way in
- 39:51Speaker 1: the past, and I hope it changes. I feel like,
- 39:54Speaker 1: you know, they get a lot of fan love, but
- 39:58Speaker 1: I haven't seen that well. I mean, I was out
- 40:01Speaker 1: of line with Garcel's son, yeah, which I take full of,
- 40:05Speaker 1: you know, responsibility for and have apologized and thankfully she
- 40:08Speaker 1: accepted my apology. Yeah, but I do feel like, yes,
- 40:15Speaker 1: I would like to see them have their own individual voices.
- 40:18Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.
- 40:19Speaker 2: And we also heard that Anna Marie has a really
- 40:23Speaker 2: tough season.
- 40:25Speaker 1: Wait, no, I thought Anna Marie laid it on Crystal.
- 40:28Speaker 1: And she's the new our new cast member. She came
- 40:31Speaker 1: in like mid to three quarters.
- 40:34Speaker 2: Our sons play football together, so I know, you know, yeah.
- 40:37Speaker 1: She's a cool chick. I didn't think she had it
- 40:39Speaker 1: tough at all. I thought she laid the smack down
- 40:41Speaker 1: on Crystal. She said something in Spain. I was like, oh,
- 40:44Speaker 1: she said, I made you relevant.
- 40:46Speaker 5: I was like, oh, those are housewid Crystal ever pulled
- 40:51Speaker 5: her tail in between her legs and actually show up
- 40:54Speaker 5: as the person that I originally.
- 40:56Speaker 1: Referred to that yeah, said that she was. She's finding
- 41:00Speaker 1: her way and I think she's shown that more this
- 41:03Speaker 1: year than she has the previous years. But I think
- 41:06Speaker 1: that Crystal and I've you know, look when I was
- 41:09Speaker 1: going through all my shit, Like you can see that
- 41:11Speaker 1: scene of us at the bar when she's crying and
- 41:13Speaker 1: I'm like, girl, like give me another tequila, come on,
- 41:15Speaker 1: come on, come on.
- 41:17Speaker 4: She just.
- 41:20Speaker 1: You know, she hesitates in the moment, and I think
- 41:22Speaker 1: she's found her voice more and more as it goes along.
- 41:25Speaker 3: And she needed to.
- 41:27Speaker 4: Yes.
- 41:28Speaker 2: So who are you closest with this season?
- 41:30Speaker 1: You know, I'm always close with Kyl andd Read, I mean,
- 41:33Speaker 1: and we were spread apart as well, like I really
- 41:36Speaker 1: was in my own place.
- 41:37Speaker 4: Everybody was kind of.
- 41:41Speaker 1: We had a cast trip here in Vegas, and you know,
- 41:45Speaker 1: I just I want the women to really be themselves.
- 41:48Speaker 1: I don't want them to do shit for camera. Yeah,
- 41:50Speaker 1: if that makes any sense across the board on all
- 41:52Speaker 1: the shows, just don't guys think it's not there. Don't
- 41:56Speaker 1: push it, don't push it. Don't push it. It'll show up.
- 41:58Speaker 2: Do you think we saw the real Diane? I love Diana,
- 42:02Speaker 2: I know you do, but I really got a rough
- 42:05Speaker 2: go watching her.
- 42:06Speaker 1: I think it's you know, it's not her first language.
- 42:09Speaker 1: I think that she is Diana's a boss. I'm gonna
- 42:12Speaker 1: tell you something, Diana and Diana, if you're listening, I
- 42:16Speaker 1: want you to understand, this is the most respectful comment
- 42:19Speaker 1: I could ever give you. She has fuck you money,
- 42:21Speaker 1: She does what she wants, when she wants, how she
- 42:24Speaker 1: wants it, and it is you would love her five
- 42:28Speaker 1: minutes in her She's archetype of woman like.
- 42:30Speaker 2: She So you've never met her. I met her one
- 42:33Speaker 2: time and I liked her, But I did say this.
- 42:35Speaker 2: I do think if you come into Housewives and you
- 42:38Speaker 2: have fuck you money, you're not willing to give one
- 42:42Speaker 2: hundred percent because.
- 42:45Speaker 4: Well, I think it depends on the person.
- 42:47Speaker 1: I think that she They they cut Diana back a
- 42:51Speaker 1: bit because she laid into Sudden so hard that it
- 42:53Speaker 1: was it was ruthless.
- 42:55Speaker 3: Oh really, I would she And I'm.
- 42:59Speaker 1: Not talking out school, but I mean the Diana, I
- 43:02Speaker 1: no will. I saw her lay some people out and
- 43:07Speaker 1: I was like, god damn, like you know, yeah, she's
- 43:11Speaker 1: and I see her and you know, she just had
- 43:15Speaker 1: a new baby girl and I and I need to
- 43:17Speaker 1: go see her. She wished me like she is a solid,
- 43:21Speaker 1: solid friend and both of you would really like her
- 43:24Speaker 1: five minutes in her presence and you'd be like, I
- 43:26Speaker 1: get it. And she has a really good personal story
- 43:28Speaker 1: to tell that I don't think red and came across.
- 43:31Speaker 4: Yes, okay, I need.
- 43:35Speaker 3: To get her on the pod now.
- 43:36Speaker 1: She laughs at herself, but she's very shy. She laughs
- 43:39Speaker 1: at herself and she's very self deprecating, and she's like,
- 43:43Speaker 1: you know, she came from a war torn Soviet country
- 43:46Speaker 1: and made her way to London and was selling silver
- 43:50Speaker 1: on the side of the street, like this chick is.
- 43:53Speaker 2: We needed to see more. We didn't understand.
- 43:56Speaker 4: We didn't get it. We didn't get it. It didn't land.
- 44:08Speaker 2: Can you tell us a little bit about Denise this season? Girl?
- 44:15Speaker 1: So, first off, I think Denise is a very sweet person,
- 44:19Speaker 1: but you got to show up for you know, you
- 44:21Speaker 1: can't run, you can't cut and run.
- 44:24Speaker 2: But then why is she back? Yeah, that's a question
- 44:26Speaker 2: for her, you know whatever. She's declined to respond to me.
- 44:30Speaker 2: I think I'm blocking. She tried.
- 44:31Speaker 1: She sent me a very nice text after the SOFI
- 44:34Speaker 1: the final party, and I haven't responded, and I need.
- 44:36Speaker 2: I heard she didn't wear the crutch color.
- 44:39Speaker 4: She didn't wear white. I don't know.
- 44:40Speaker 2: I heard that she didn't wear white, and neither did Camille.
- 44:43Speaker 2: I'm like, it's one assignment.
- 44:45Speaker 3: Well, you had some drop ends this season, so you
- 44:48Speaker 3: had we.
- 44:48Speaker 1: Did, we had, We had Cynthia whose friends with sudden
- 44:51Speaker 1: odd pairing, but maybe they don't.
- 44:53Speaker 2: I have no idea she does everybody, Yeah, Cynthia. Here's
- 44:58Speaker 2: the thing. Cynthia does the pod with me, and what
- 45:00Speaker 2: I really like. She's like the ambassador. Yea, she has,
- 45:04Speaker 2: but she can compartmentalize. She can't like she's never once
- 45:08Speaker 2: talked to me about Sutton. She's never I assume she
- 45:11Speaker 2: doesn't talk to Sutton about me, Like she's able to
- 45:13Speaker 2: do that, which I appreciate. And classy lady, and she's fun.
- 45:18Speaker 2: But I read that you were high while Denise was
- 45:22Speaker 2: coming for you stuff.
- 45:24Speaker 1: Our girl Kyle gets this chef that cooks with THHC.
- 45:28Speaker 1: And I'm stupid enough to be like, sure, I'll do it.
- 45:31Speaker 2: Neither food or it's like a brozone.
- 45:33Speaker 4: No, No, it's in the food.
- 45:35Speaker 1: And he's a well respected chef and it's really lovely, beautiful,
- 45:38Speaker 1: like fine cuisine.
- 45:40Speaker 2: And you and I actually eat at dinners.
- 45:42Speaker 1: Yes, right, and so I ate it.
- 45:45Speaker 4: And Justin Sylvester was really eating it.
- 45:48Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there and I'm having a good time,
- 45:50Speaker 1: and the Denise, who's sitting across from me, all of
- 45:52Speaker 1: a sudden starts bringing up shit from like four or
- 45:54Speaker 1: five years ago. Have herm and I was like, honey,
- 45:59Speaker 1: I literally was in bringing up Cynthia.
- 46:02Speaker 4: I was so confused.
- 46:03Speaker 1: And so it's the whole table that Cynthia said, could
- 46:06Speaker 1: you bring up a specific thing?
- 46:08Speaker 2: Like she's very good at being like, okay, now explain it,
- 46:11Speaker 2: let's take it down.
- 46:13Speaker 4: Could you come up with a specific moment? And could she?
- 46:17Speaker 2: No?
- 46:18Speaker 4: I mean she did, but you know what you do?
- 46:20Speaker 4: Just go watch the show. I was like, babe, I
- 46:23Speaker 4: watch the show, like, honey, we're in the show, like
- 46:26Speaker 4: we're doing the show, like we're making the show. You
- 46:28Speaker 4: know what you did? Just watch the show? I was like,
- 46:30Speaker 4: what are you talking about? It?
- 46:32Speaker 3: Didn't Denise leave the show on her own?
- 46:35Speaker 4: Yes? And then she missed it and then she didn't
- 46:37Speaker 4: show up.
- 46:38Speaker 2: So then when I shoved to the final party, and.
- 46:40Speaker 1: So then when I saw her for Taco Tuesday, I
- 46:43Speaker 1: was pissed and I was like, you know, I was like, look,
- 46:46Speaker 1: you are misdirecting this anger. You need to take it
- 46:49Speaker 1: out on Brandy Glanville, Lisa, Rena Teddy and I said,
- 46:52Speaker 1: you know what, And remember when I text you and
- 46:55Speaker 1: I said, can you remind me again?
- 46:57Speaker 2: And I had a full list of things. But also
- 46:59Speaker 2: I want to point out that at our reunion it
- 47:02Speaker 2: was on Zoom. It was and this was how Denise
- 47:05Speaker 2: was doing the reunion. And these were not notes. This
- 47:08Speaker 2: was her script for whatever was Really this was her
- 47:12Speaker 2: script for uh, what was the soap she was on?
- 47:15Speaker 4: Oh?
- 47:15Speaker 2: I don't know, but whatever, yeah, whatever, all whatever fucking
- 47:19Speaker 2: soap she was on. But while we're all talking, she's
- 47:22Speaker 2: only fans.
- 47:23Speaker 4: No, that's later this year.
- 47:26Speaker 2: That's when she's sunning later. But do you know what
- 47:29Speaker 2: sunning is?
- 47:29Speaker 4: By the way, Oh no, butle you so your buttle?
- 47:34Speaker 2: Well no, but you're supposed to sign your buttthole twenty
- 47:36Speaker 2: to thirty seconds a day for yeah. But either way,
- 47:42Speaker 2: she's so checked out that she's memorizing her lines for
- 47:45Speaker 2: her script tomorrow, and I'm like, what, what, who are
- 47:49Speaker 2: we even fighting with here? So when it looks like
- 47:51Speaker 2: it's this like bully mentality, it's because you're arguing with
- 47:55Speaker 2: somebody that's checked out.
- 47:57Speaker 1: She was checked out and then she checked back in
- 47:59Speaker 1: with me, and then I had to check back.
- 48:01Speaker 4: In with her.
- 48:02Speaker 2: So was she even mad at you about.
- 48:05Speaker 1: I don't really know you know what you did and
- 48:06Speaker 1: what you did to Garcelles's son. I was like, you
- 48:08Speaker 1: weren't even there for that. I've already apologized for that,
- 48:11Speaker 1: and you know we've made up, Like, you don't need
- 48:13Speaker 1: to come back in like three and a half four
- 48:15Speaker 1: years later and try to check me for something that
- 48:17Speaker 1: I really don't remember. And by the way, you know, Denise,
- 48:20Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. And I kept saying
- 48:22Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. I don't want to
- 48:23Speaker 1: fight with you, and she called me a fucking bop monster.
- 48:27Speaker 1: She called me all a fucking bob monster, as if
- 48:30Speaker 1: I sent the bots to Garcel's son. And I was like, no, no, no, no, no.
- 48:37Speaker 2: I have a question. She was her most drunk night
- 48:39Speaker 2: from the season before.
- 48:41Speaker 1: Oh, probably Diana's Christmas party. I was singing along with
- 48:44Speaker 1: Asher and all that shit.
- 48:46Speaker 2: My question is, do you think that Denise was as
- 48:49Speaker 2: drunk as you?
- 48:50Speaker 1: Well, she had her jacket on upside down, so I
- 48:52Speaker 1: would say that that was pretty much I've never I've
- 48:55Speaker 1: done a lot of shit but I've never worn my
- 48:57Speaker 1: clothes upside down?
- 48:58Speaker 3: And did she have her true religions on front backwards?
- 49:01Speaker 1: Well, I'm just kidding no, not not not the two
- 49:04Speaker 1: times I saw did she?
- 49:06Speaker 2: But did she have her Casamigo's repisodo in her purse?
- 49:11Speaker 4: That I'm not sure? Oh my god, that I did
- 49:16Speaker 4: not see that.
- 49:17Speaker 2: But you know the only you saw it on the
- 49:18Speaker 2: plane ride?
- 49:19Speaker 1: Well, yes, but I didn't see it this year, Teddy.
- 49:23Speaker 1: But I will say this, the one thing I will
- 49:24Speaker 1: say about Denise's Remember she did get us snacks, and
- 49:27Speaker 1: she did get us security.
- 49:29Speaker 2: Well because she thought we were filming a movie.
- 49:32Speaker 4: Like craft Services. Yeah, remember she goes, Where's Craft Services?
- 49:36Speaker 4: I was like, bitch, are you kidding me?
- 49:38Speaker 2: I mean, that's like the actress twenty minute break. I'm like,
- 49:43Speaker 2: we've been here six minutes.
- 49:44Speaker 3: Speaking of actresses, how would you feel if Heather Dubrow
- 49:51Speaker 3: joined the Real Housewife of Beverly Hills.
- 49:53Speaker 1: Okay, I had a conversation with Heather Dubrow at and
- 50:01Speaker 1: it was really nice, the first time we'd ever connected.
- 50:04Speaker 1: I don't know. All I know from Heather is that
- 50:06Speaker 1: we had a nice time. And look, obviously I don't
- 50:10Speaker 1: cast so I don't know you know her better than
- 50:12Speaker 1: I do. I had a nice time with her, We
- 50:14Speaker 1: had a nice conversation. That's where I leave it.
- 50:17Speaker 2: I have a question, how do you do with bragging?
- 50:20Speaker 4: Bragging? People that brag? I mean, okay, like once, twice,
- 50:26Speaker 4: three times?
- 50:27Speaker 3: But I feel like that shows insecurity.
- 50:29Speaker 1: I feel like it shows I don't need you to
- 50:31Speaker 1: perform for me. Are you trying to tell me how
- 50:34Speaker 1: rich you are?
- 50:35Speaker 3: You don't need to post.
- 50:36Speaker 2: I already know. I can see it. I have eyes.
- 50:39Speaker 2: I can see that you're.
- 50:40Speaker 1: Esthetic, really and also to hooray, I'm really happy for you.
- 50:45Speaker 1: That's so wonderful for you. Yeah, I don't like again.
- 50:49Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I met her at Bravo com.
- 50:50Speaker 1: We had a really nice time, and you know, in
- 50:52Speaker 1: that moment that was great. I don't know her outside
- 50:55Speaker 1: of that, so I can't really make like a fair judgment.
- 50:58Speaker 2: I get it. And I have a question, and why
- 51:00Speaker 2: the hell is Sutton offended to be at Magic Mike?
- 51:03Speaker 1: Well, it felt very inauthentic, if you know what I
- 51:06Speaker 1: mean by that. It felt very forced and produced, and
- 51:09Speaker 1: I you know, we're talking about someone who had a
- 51:11Speaker 1: stack of bills that wanted to have a good time.
- 51:13Speaker 1: Mikey's partner Davis starts some Magic Mike and we'd worked
- 51:18Speaker 1: with them to you know, get the shows together. They
- 51:21Speaker 1: were excited to take a cast photo, but you know,
- 51:23Speaker 1: Sutton showed out and showed her ass and threw a tantrum.
- 51:26Speaker 1: And I think the thing that I was most disappointed
- 51:29Speaker 1: in not Sutton throwing a tantrum, which is pretty much
- 51:31Speaker 1: par for the course, but the way the other girls
- 51:34Speaker 1: ran to her and like, oh my god, oh my god.
- 51:37Speaker 2: And I was just like, did all the girls run
- 51:39Speaker 2: to her?
- 51:39Speaker 4: Except to read like she came back the last two
- 51:41Speaker 4: people that were having fun at Magic Mike was to
- 51:43Speaker 4: eat and myself.
- 51:44Speaker 3: How can you not have fun at Magic Mike?
- 51:46Speaker 4: Well, you know what you're walking into, and so why.
- 51:48Speaker 2: Are you If you're offended by a situation, then sad, I'm.
- 51:53Speaker 4: Not And that's cool.
- 51:54Speaker 1: But she was the one that wanted to go live
- 51:56Speaker 1: Best Vegas like, and we had arranged it with the
- 51:58Speaker 1: show with the producer to make sure that every girl
- 52:02Speaker 1: got a chance on stage with it with the mic,
- 52:05Speaker 1: you know, And that's what it's like, Kyle the candy Shop.
- 52:09Speaker 1: I did what Crystal and I did something together.
- 52:11Speaker 4: And I know those boys.
- 52:13Speaker 1: They used to yeah, I mean one of them, Davis
- 52:16Speaker 1: dances very like I know them and they're my friends.
- 52:20Speaker 2: To inappropriately touch such an absolutely not zero like lesson
- 52:27Speaker 2: zero negative.
- 52:28Speaker 4: I mean we were there to have a good time,
- 52:30Speaker 4: and so they were very upset, like the pr for
- 52:33Speaker 4: Magic Mic like got in my ass and why'd she go? Exactly?
- 52:38Speaker 3: Just nobody forced you.
- 52:40Speaker 1: No, nobody forces you to do anything on this show.
- 52:44Speaker 1: But you know, people make choices and there we go.
- 52:46Speaker 1: And I was disappointed in that. But I got on
- 52:48Speaker 1: this brinder and I was like, hey, okay.
- 52:52Speaker 2: Yeah, here we go, Here we go. Coming from me again,
- 52:56Speaker 2: if would you ever do Ultimate Girls Trap?
- 52:58Speaker 4: Just gonna ask me to don't want to fight? I don't.
- 53:01Speaker 4: I don't want to do that. I don't want to
- 53:02Speaker 4: get into a situation.
- 53:03Speaker 2: Even if I was to do Ultimate Girls Trip, you
- 53:05Speaker 2: wouldn't go with me.
- 53:06Speaker 1: I would go with you. I would go with someone.
- 53:10Speaker 2: As I had, someone.
- 53:11Speaker 1: Of you know what I need. I need someone that's steady.
- 53:15Speaker 1: I don't want to go into a cock fight. Does
- 53:17Speaker 1: that make sense?
- 53:18Speaker 2: But I want to go with Sutton right now and
- 53:20Speaker 2: then go.
- 53:21Speaker 1: And rely on each other to just bring balance, not
- 53:25Speaker 1: not help me out, but just balance to the situation.
- 53:28Speaker 3: I will say, somebody that has done Ultimate Girls Trip,
- 53:31Speaker 3: You're going in with a bunch of girls that some
- 53:33Speaker 3: I didn't know, some I did know. So there wasn't
- 53:35Speaker 3: really a lot to fight about because you don't know
- 53:38Speaker 3: them well enough to go there.
- 53:39Speaker 4: Did you have fun?
- 53:40Speaker 3: I did have fun?
- 53:41Speaker 4: Good.
- 53:41Speaker 3: I mean I wish I was in like Thailand or
- 53:43Speaker 3: something Johanna's house, but it was COVID season, so I mean,
- 53:48Speaker 3: and her house is beautiful, and.
- 53:49Speaker 4: She's sweet, she's very still something. Durn has been very
- 53:52Speaker 4: supportive of me.
- 53:53Speaker 1: She was one of the first people to reach out
- 53:54Speaker 1: to me and be like, hey, are you okay?
- 53:56Speaker 3: Ramona? Do too?
- 53:57Speaker 4: I mean, they're Ramona. Yeah.
- 54:01Speaker 3: I get hills on that.
- 54:02Speaker 2: She came on my pod on our pod and didn't
- 54:05Speaker 2: know my name.
- 54:06Speaker 1: No, that's kind of like, you know, she called Lisa
- 54:09Speaker 1: vander Pulp Lisa Vanderbilt, and I was.
- 54:12Speaker 3: Like, I've known Romona like seventeen years. That's Ramona who
- 54:18Speaker 3: she is. She stays true to who she is.
- 54:20Speaker 4: She is, that's just who she is.
- 54:21Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 54:21Speaker 3: But Dernda's a girl's girl.
- 54:24Speaker 4: She's and she text me like I invited her the night.
- 54:27Speaker 4: You know, she's very caring. I want to reach.
- 54:29Speaker 1: Out to the she is. She's a good, good girl, she's.
- 54:32Speaker 4: A good egg.
- 54:33Speaker 3: She's good TV.
- 54:34Speaker 2: I think she's good TV. She's a good egg. But
- 54:36Speaker 2: what I want to spend my ten days fighting with
- 54:39Speaker 2: people at her house? Probably not. I'd rather be in
- 54:41Speaker 2: Turks and caicos.
- 54:42Speaker 4: I don't want to fight with anyone. I want to
- 54:44Speaker 4: go and have a nice time.
- 54:45Speaker 2: And that's not always going to happen.
- 54:47Speaker 4: I know. That's why I'm not doing it.
- 54:48Speaker 2: Well, you are doing it if it's us together. I
- 54:50Speaker 2: just now sign I signed us up, Jesus. Okay, next
- 54:55Speaker 2: thing out of all of the franchises, hottest house husband. No,
- 55:02Speaker 2: it doesn't have to be Beverly Hills Ship. It's all
- 55:04Speaker 2: across the board.
- 55:05Speaker 4: And I know the husband's on our show, but I'm
- 55:07Speaker 4: trying to think of who the.
- 55:08Speaker 2: Or even Bravo celebrity. Was there anyone like at Bravo
- 55:11Speaker 2: Conn where you were like, shit, he's hot?
- 55:13Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 55:13Speaker 2: Like are you always attracted to an an elder male?
- 55:17Speaker 4: No, I'm actually seeing someone younger. Now hold on, now,
- 55:23Speaker 4: hold on?
- 55:23Speaker 2: What was he there last night?
- 55:25Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 55:26Speaker 2: Holy shit.
- 55:27Speaker 3: Hold On, Erica, you need to give us some more information.
- 55:29Speaker 4: Because because I promised we'd be private.
- 55:32Speaker 2: Hold On, but I need to know in our section.
- 55:36Speaker 2: Does he have brown hair, blonde hair or gray hair? Okay,
- 55:39Speaker 2: look at.
- 55:39Speaker 4: The chills last black black hair and brown skin.
- 55:44Speaker 2: Hold On, was he on stage? No? Okay, let me
- 55:49Speaker 2: continue my line of questioning so I can figure out
- 55:52Speaker 2: exactly who is live in La.
- 55:53Speaker 4: Yes?
- 55:55Speaker 3: How old have you been dating?
- 55:56Speaker 4: He's younger than me?
- 55:57Speaker 2: I understand what is he younger than me? I'm forty
- 55:59Speaker 2: to two.
- 56:00Speaker 4: He's doing good than you. He's in his late thirties soon.
- 56:02Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm in.
- 56:05Speaker 2: Such true because are you the breadwinner?
- 56:10Speaker 4: Not necessarily? Why would you ask that?
- 56:12Speaker 2: Because I need to fucking know necessarily. No, you don't
- 56:15Speaker 2: need to know.
- 56:15Speaker 3: It doesn't matter who makes the money.
- 56:17Speaker 2: Well, you're saying that because you get ship for that
- 56:20Speaker 2: with Eddie. But it's not a judging men. I know,
- 56:23Speaker 2: but people say that about you. But I'm just curious if.
- 56:26Speaker 1: He's I'm the more famous person in the Relaysia or
- 56:30Speaker 1: infamous at this point infamous person?
- 56:32Speaker 3: Is he a public person at all?
- 56:33Speaker 4: Not at all? Ok, That's why we keep it and.
- 56:36Speaker 2: What do you are you going to show him next
- 56:37Speaker 2: season on Beverly Hill?
- 56:39Speaker 4: Oh? Absolutely, yes, No, Come on, guys, I deserve a lot.
- 56:43Speaker 3: Do you think this is long term?
- 56:45Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 56:46Speaker 1: It's day by day, but I take day by day.
- 56:48Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not saying that as a relationship. I'm
- 56:50Speaker 1: saying that as a life like it's moment to moment,
- 56:52Speaker 1: as long as it feels good and we're happy.
- 56:54Speaker 4: I'm good.
- 56:55Speaker 2: Because they showed those pictures of you walking in with
- 56:59Speaker 2: that guy that maybe owned South Holding.
- 57:02Speaker 1: Wait a second, hold on, no, First of all, this
- 57:06Speaker 1: is so wrong. Michael Gone was a contemporary of Tom's
- 57:10Speaker 1: and that is not true. And he's a lovely man
- 57:13Speaker 1: that I've never done anything more than shake his hand
- 57:15Speaker 1: and be kind to my private lawyer, Jim Wilkes, a
- 57:18Speaker 1: dear friend of mine. We walked into the fucking Caesars
- 57:21Speaker 1: and you know.
- 57:22Speaker 3: Oh, I saw that picture and all of a sudden,
- 57:23Speaker 3: it was there was.
- 57:26Speaker 2: The guy, that guy, and then there was the guy
- 57:27Speaker 2: that owns South Point. That everybody's decided.
- 57:30Speaker 4: It's not true. It's it's so.
- 57:32Speaker 1: I haven't seen Michael Gone in years, and you know
- 57:35Speaker 1: he doesn't he wouldn't even know that any of this
- 57:37Speaker 1: is happening.
- 57:38Speaker 3: Well, the problem is is somebody. So many people are
- 57:40Speaker 3: invested in who you're going to date next. Yeah, and
- 57:43Speaker 3: so anytime you're seen with somebody, I'm sure they're like,
- 57:46Speaker 3: she's dating and if it's an older man, you know
- 57:48Speaker 3: they're going to jump.
- 57:49Speaker 4: All over that, of course, and they're so very wrong.
- 57:52Speaker 2: Yeah. So, and just to kind of ask you, because
- 57:55Speaker 2: you did say menopause all of those things, how have
- 57:59Speaker 2: you been able to maintain your urge for like sexuality
- 58:04Speaker 2: and continue to.
- 58:05Speaker 4: Implants change honey? And they're good.
- 58:10Speaker 1: I probably having the best sex of my life right now.
- 58:12Speaker 1: And I've had a lot of good sex in my life,
- 58:14Speaker 1: So all right.
- 58:15Speaker 2: Favorite position.
- 58:17Speaker 4: Last night it was, let's see, I was on my bed.
- 58:20Speaker 4: That's why you didn't go out with Yeah? She was
- 58:24Speaker 4: doing the reverse cowboy. No, I don't like that hurts
- 58:34Speaker 4: the positions. My mom loves that.
- 58:36Speaker 1: You know what I have? She took out of colleges
- 58:39Speaker 1: say to me, you have a very long pelvis. I
- 58:41Speaker 1: was like, you, damn right, I do.
- 58:43Speaker 2: By I almost had a wardrobe malfunction last night. Did
- 58:48Speaker 2: you see I thought you saw me because I went
- 58:50Speaker 2: like this, and then you fixed it. I fixed it.
- 58:54Speaker 1: One of my costumes. I need to by the way,
- 58:57Speaker 1: it's in my trunk on the way home. I need
- 58:59Speaker 1: to adjust the crotch of it.
- 59:01Speaker 3: So and you were very self conscious about it. Because
- 59:03Speaker 3: I saw that you.
- 59:04Speaker 2: Self conscious, I wouldn't say that I was kept throwing.
- 59:08Speaker 4: I kept throwing it in front.
- 59:10Speaker 3: Yeah, and we might have saw.
- 59:11Speaker 4: One lip that's okay, but it's worse.
- 59:14Speaker 2: But here's an any.
- 59:15Speaker 3: But I we didn't see that much.
- 59:17Speaker 1: No, I could tell that she was I'm an any,
- 59:23Speaker 1: but you're writ I didn't.
- 59:27Speaker 2: It was not that bad.
- 59:28Speaker 1: And the one, the one piece of that costume was
- 59:30Speaker 1: not my favorite. So we're gonna have it worked on.
- 59:32Speaker 2: No, but you looked so hot. You looked so beautiful.
- 59:35Speaker 2: My dad actually called and he's like, what are you doing.
- 59:37Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I'm in Vegas, Erica Jane has a residency,
- 59:40Speaker 2: and he goes, well, you better be sending me those videos.
- 59:52Speaker 2: My next question is it's a tom question, and I'm
- 59:57Speaker 2: sorry people are asking and I.
- 59:59Speaker 4: And you'd find part of my life life accepted.
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: I'm looking at the fan questions and I was like, listen,
- 1:00:04Speaker 2: we got to narrow these down because it's just too much.
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: But a lot of people are saying the way that
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: he entered into the courtroom and the oversized coat, and
- 1:00:14Speaker 2: I didn't see it. He I mean, essentially, he looks
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: very disheveled and granted, if he allegedly has dementia, that
- 1:00:24Speaker 2: makes sense, but people are saying the fact that they
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: dressed him in a way that looked like he didn't
- 1:00:32Speaker 2: have things together was some sort of an act.
- 1:00:36Speaker 4: Okay, Number one, I didn't look at it because I
- 1:00:40Speaker 4: had a show to do.
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: Yeah, so I will go back maybe and look at
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: it if I feel like I should. When the last
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: time I saw him walk into a federal courthouse, and
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: I you know, it's clearly he's blind in when eye
- 1:00:53Speaker 1: and he had holes in his favorite Kshmir sweater. Okay,
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: I don't know what he looked like. I hope that
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: his daughters and his son are keeping his dignity, you know,
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: I don't know. I hope his hair is cut. I
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: hope he's clean, he's doing Okay. He didn't look good.
- 1:01:11Speaker 4: Yeah, and he.
- 1:01:12Speaker 2: Looked like a different man than I ever.
- 1:01:14Speaker 3: Saw and he is and he is, but you know
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: he is. But you were with him for so long. Yeah,
- 1:01:20Speaker 3: is this I mean, I know breaking that's gonna say.
- 1:01:23Speaker 4: Yes, it break your heart.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Yes, all of it breaks my heart. But also he
- 1:01:27Speaker 2: broke your heart. He broke my heart to I know.
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: But she's human and she spent so much time with him.
- 1:01:32Speaker 1: It's hard to disconnect after twenty something years. And you know,
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: and look, obviously I know a different Tom. And I
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: met with some of the Gerardi Keys clients that have.
- 1:01:44Speaker 3: Not been Oh yeah, I wanted to you can talk to.
- 1:01:47Speaker 4: Me about that.
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: And they were very kind to me, and they did
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: not have to be. And I went there with an
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: open heart with no one.
- 1:01:53Speaker 4: Knew I was going. How was that set up through
- 1:01:57Speaker 4: one of my private lawyer who was walking through Caesar's. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:02:03Speaker 4: my boyfriend from Caesars right now.
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: I commend you for not having cameras there, not so disgusting. Yeah,
- 1:02:10Speaker 3: not showing it, not trying to make a public time.
- 1:02:13Speaker 3: Was doing their own thing. And I showed up and
- 1:02:15Speaker 3: I met with the ladies. But the Bravo cameras are
- 1:02:18Speaker 3: not there. No, and they're not trying to prove a point. Hey,
- 1:02:21Speaker 3: I'm trying to help.
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no, And I don't know, I
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: don't know essentially what they took away from it, but
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: I needed to show up because they needed to feel
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: who I really was right and then they can make
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: their own judgment after that.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: And what did you feel was the end result after
- 1:02:40Speaker 2: meeting with them?
- 1:02:40Speaker 4: I don't know, but I felt peace.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: You would have to ask them and I sat there
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: and I answered as many questions as I possibly could,
- 1:02:51Speaker 1: and I think that they understand that there was much
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: more at play than the woman at the front.
- 1:02:56Speaker 4: You know, which was.
- 1:02:58Speaker 2: Something that I don't was shared that much on the show,
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: or at least when I watched, was how you originally
- 1:03:06Speaker 2: even met Tom. The different you guys were in complete
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: different power dynamic.
- 1:03:12Speaker 4: I had no power and he.
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: Had all of it. And like I said earlier on
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: the pod, you know I was at what is now Mastros.
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: It was then the second generation of Chasin's two four
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: six cannon drive. You have to understand something, like I
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: said earlier on this show, Gerardy Keys had been in
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: business long before I was born. You know, Tom is
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: much older than I am. You don't at twenty seven
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: years old walk in and say show me the books.
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: Also number two, there's are client protected you know it's
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: it's very private. I can't look into a client you
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: know whatever.
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: Nor would you even want to Not only.
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: That, not can't, I cannot, and I wouldn't understand what
- 1:03:53Speaker 1: the fuck I was looking, nor.
- 1:03:54Speaker 3: Would he put you in that position.
- 1:03:55Speaker 2: No, And he wants you to feel I mean, I'm
- 1:03:59Speaker 2: just assuming he wants you to feel powerless so he
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: can feel powerful, so he has all the control.
- 1:04:04Speaker 4: But that's how he's he was with everybody. Yeah, not
- 1:04:07Speaker 4: just me, but with everyone.
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: But even if he.
- 1:04:10Speaker 3: Gave you the books, you know what the fuck you're
- 1:04:12Speaker 3: looking at?
- 1:04:12Speaker 4: Why what he and you're right, look, okay, what is this?
- 1:04:16Speaker 2: What is this?
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: And if your husband comes to you and he's a
- 1:04:18Speaker 4: by all accounts, a powerful, successful, educated person, right and
- 1:04:23Speaker 4: you go here a text returns.
- 1:04:24Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Yeah, I signed shit all the time.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: Even my own fucking lawyer said to me, I ain't
- 1:04:30Speaker 1: fucking looking at this shit, you know, like.
- 1:04:33Speaker 4: And it's like a telephone book.
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: We're not working at like you know, I'm not trying
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: to shit on anybody, but you're talking about a complex business.
- 1:04:40Speaker 2: And you trust that if somebody is in law, they're
- 1:04:43Speaker 2: following the law.
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: Honey, Yeah, this is I knew that Tom would get
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: to the finish line before I would be just simply
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: short of a massive accident, because he's older than I.
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: But I could have never predicted this sort of end
- 1:04:57Speaker 1: where it ended in ruins and you know, just just
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: grace and all of these things that he's being charged with,
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: and uh, it sucks, but you still answer his calls
- 1:05:07Speaker 1: or no, I do. He called this morning to ask
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: me how my show was.
- 1:05:10Speaker 2: And what'd you say? And I'll talk to you later
- 1:05:14Speaker 2: and I and I know this is going to be
- 1:05:15Speaker 2: hard and it's emotional, but I've always wanted to ask
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: you this, Why the fuck didn't he come to roxy?
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: Because he didn't care? Because he didn't care, He didn't care.
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: He was wrapped up in his own things. And sometime
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: I'll sit down and I'll really tell you about it.
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: But he didn't care enough to show up. But he
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: would ask me for tickets for other people, for referring lawyers.
- 1:05:39Speaker 4: You care enough. I know, it's okay, it's okay.
- 1:05:42Speaker 2: You know it's hard to ask you in a public form,
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: but I just I just was thinking about that that
- 1:05:46Speaker 2: I remember when you said that, and it was it
- 1:05:48Speaker 2: was flippant because we're at the reunion.
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: But he also didn't read my book, so it's not unusual.
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: I was in a different relationship. He was also having affairs.
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: He was, Yeah, so, and have any.
- 1:06:01Speaker 2: Of those women ever contacted you?
- 1:06:04Speaker 4: They wouldn't contact me. That wouldn't be a good idea.
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that wouldn't be a good not for any
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: of us. I'd choke for you at your door. Let's go.
- 1:06:13Speaker 3: Did you ever think when this was all going down,
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: this is it?
- 1:06:18Speaker 4: Yeah? Like, how do I get out of this?
- 1:06:19Speaker 1: Of course, that's why last night what you saw was
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: such an unbelievable resurrection. I thought, you know, look, when
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: I chose to leave, it was at the last possible
- 1:06:29Speaker 1: moment where I was like, I can no longer live
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: here underneath all of this madness, insanity and uncertainty and
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: who knows what the fuck is going on? Like Erica,
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: you have to At the time, I was like forty nine,
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: I was like, you have a good you know, chunk
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: of your life left, the last third of your life left,
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: like the hard of.
- 1:06:51Speaker 4: Your life left. Thank you. It's the best.
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: It definitely feels good now. But you know, I was like,
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: this man has made decisions, and you can't change them,
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: and you've got to go out and course correct and
- 1:07:04Speaker 1: look out for yourself because this man has made serious choices.
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: But I think that that's the biggest part that people
- 1:07:11Speaker 2: have missed, is yeah, they hardener that I was like,
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: well how much? I mean, I only met Tom three
- 1:07:19Speaker 2: times in the you know, four years that we filmed together,
- 1:07:24Speaker 2: and every single time it was a show.
- 1:07:27Speaker 4: But that's who he was, right, it was.
- 1:07:29Speaker 2: A show on him and you sat there so subservient.
- 1:07:34Speaker 4: Well, I was very.
- 1:07:35Speaker 2: Respectful, That's what I'm saying.
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: I was grateful and he was orderline degrading that at times,
- 1:07:39Speaker 3: which is from what I saw on the show.
- 1:07:41Speaker 1: But you you know what Alex Baskin told me, He's like, actually,
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: we had to go back and cut it out because
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: he was so degrading that if we didn't make it
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: better for you, you would have never survived them.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:07:52Speaker 3: I've never met the man, but just from what I
- 1:07:53Speaker 3: saw on.
- 1:07:54Speaker 4: The show, he's a rough man.
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: What is your one non negotiable that you want in
- 1:07:59Speaker 2: your partner?
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: Now there's a sense of I'm just gonna it's a
- 1:08:02Speaker 1: blanket word freedom. Don't ask me where I'm at, trust me.
- 1:08:07Speaker 1: I need to work. I need to rebuild. Don't hold
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: me back?
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: But is it more import can it be instead of
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: a don't? Can it be support me? How about believe
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: in me? Walk alongside me? Yes, thank you?
- 1:08:20Speaker 4: Just walk alongside me?
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: Is it more about you right now? And if you
- 1:08:24Speaker 3: can come along with me, it's great, that's right and
- 1:08:27Speaker 3: right now me.
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: And if you can't, I understand. But right well, not
- 1:08:32Speaker 1: even kick rocks, you know what, God bless you. But
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: it's more walk alongside me because I have to restore myself. Yeah,
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: and no one for you, no man but my mother,
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: no one.
- 1:08:42Speaker 2: You know what.
- 1:08:43Speaker 4: It's my turn to stand up and read your life,
- 1:08:47Speaker 4: my own life.
- 1:08:47Speaker 3: How did your mother deal with all this?
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: I'm almost super supportive. My mom was at the show
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: the opening night. We celebrated her seventieth birthday of the
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: night before, and she was super supportive. My mom gets
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: you know, my mother, you know she gets it. And
- 1:09:02Speaker 1: so I'm very grateful. And so was my son.
- 1:09:05Speaker 2: Your son was there?
- 1:09:06Speaker 4: No? No, he wasn't there. He spends the night with
- 1:09:09Speaker 4: his mom every now and then.
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: But he have his own place now or is he still?
- 1:09:14Speaker 3: No?
- 1:09:14Speaker 1: No, no, he's had his own home for for years
- 1:09:18Speaker 1: and he comes down and hangs out with his mom
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: every now and then.
- 1:09:21Speaker 4: So I'm super grateful.
- 1:09:22Speaker 2: He in the town well Erica. I thank you so
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: much for no I love you and I am so
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: I miss you. I miss you too, And I think
- 1:09:32Speaker 2: that you are one of those people saw to the
- 1:09:34Speaker 2: earth like You're gonna tell it like it is, no
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: matter if it's good or bad. But there has never
- 1:09:41Speaker 2: been ever since we got close, there has never been
- 1:09:43Speaker 2: a moment that I've struggled with anything that You're not
- 1:09:47Speaker 2: one of the very first texts or calls from someone.
- 1:09:50Speaker 2: And I think that speaks magnitudes and it also inspires
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: me because there are moments where I hold back from
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: doing that because I'm like, oh, I have talked to
- 1:10:00Speaker 2: this person in a couple of weeks, or you know
- 1:10:02Speaker 2: it's going to feel and you just do it.
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: I do you do it, And I don't want anybody
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: to feel alone, you know what I mean. And if
- 1:10:10Speaker 1: I if it's on my heart, I'm reaching out, yeah,
- 1:10:14Speaker 1: you know. And I do that because I know how
- 1:10:16Speaker 1: fucked up it can be.
- 1:10:18Speaker 2: So I thank you, and I thank you for supporting
- 1:10:20Speaker 2: us and this person getting to know you.
- 1:10:23Speaker 4: It's been so much fun.
- 1:10:25Speaker 2: And we love being there for you last night and
- 1:10:28Speaker 2: anything that you ever need, like we are one hundred
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: percent here for you, for you. And when we start
- 1:10:34Speaker 2: recapping Beverly Hills, if you do dumb shit, just forgive
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: us because we're probably talk shop for a week. I
- 1:10:38Speaker 2: don't give a fuck.
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: You know how it goes. And I want to say
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: one thing. I remember when I was going through all
- 1:10:44Speaker 1: of this ship and you sent me the whole like
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: sort of like margaritea whatever, and you said, I think
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: you need a drink.
- 1:10:49Speaker 4: And it was the sweetest, most.
- 1:10:51Speaker 2: Thoughtful thing, Margarita mixer.
- 1:10:54Speaker 4: And I was You're like, use, I'm going to be able.
- 1:10:58Speaker 2: To say anything eloquent here.
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: I have nothing to know so much And you know,
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: it's the little things that go We all have a lot,
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: but it's the small things picking up the phone, texting
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: saying hey, are you okay?
- 1:11:12Speaker 4: Do you need anything? Like I'm here.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: I get it, especially when you feel like, oh yes,
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: And there are very few women that understand this job,
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: you know, like housewives. Orbit is very small, very small,
- 1:11:25Speaker 1: very small.
- 1:11:25Speaker 2: It's very small. And final thing, can people that are
- 1:11:30Speaker 2: coming to Bravocon see your show.
- 1:11:33Speaker 4: Yes, we added one show.
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know the day off my hand, House
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: of Blues, Mandalay Bay, bet at All on Blonde during Bravocan.
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys do not sleep on this because the
- 1:11:49Speaker 2: closer that you get to the show, the harder it's
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: going to get to get the tickets. And I'm gonna
- 1:11:56Speaker 2: hear I'm here to tell you you are in the
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: mix the House of Blues, which I've seen my dad
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: play at. I've seen. I mean the fact that you're
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: even playing at the House of Blues, like the amount
- 1:12:04Speaker 2: of it fucking icons at that and you know how
- 1:12:08Speaker 2: much I hate the word icon, but like the amount
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: of icons that have played there is insane. So you
- 1:12:13Speaker 2: guys do not want to miss opportunity. Go see about
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: at All on Blonde, Go with your friends, have fun.
- 1:12:19Speaker 2: There's gonna be songs that like you forgot that you
- 1:12:22Speaker 2: even knew, and then you're gonna be like, yeah, between
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: your original music, your new song, and the covers. Fun
- 1:12:31Speaker 2: covers are fun, great, The background dancers are hot. Oh
- 1:12:37Speaker 2: Edwin's wanting to audition though, you know what, anytime, can
- 1:12:42Speaker 2: he just come on maybe for bro ye? Oh my god,
- 1:12:48Speaker 2: Drew and Ralph are gonna be furious. It's crazy. Don't
- 1:12:52Speaker 2: act like Eddie isn't bulking up for the same thing.
- 1:12:54Speaker 4: I love it.
- 1:12:57Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Erica, and you guys. Make sure
- 1:13:00Speaker 2: to leave any questions, comments, anything else that you want
- 1:13:03Speaker 2: to hear from us. We would love to get back
- 1:13:05Speaker 2: to you. And also make sure to subscribe to our
- 1:13:09Speaker 2: new podcast where we are watching seasons one of the
- 1:13:14Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and breaking. I know, I know,
- 1:13:17Speaker 2: it's a subscription though, so y'all got to pay for it.
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: This stuff we do for but it's worth for you, guys.
- 1:13:22Speaker 2: But it's worth paying for because I never watched it,
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: and maybe I would have made less mistakes had I
- 1:13:28Speaker 2: watched it.
- 1:13:28Speaker 4: Well, you know, you probably wouldn't have come on. You
- 1:13:30Speaker 4: were like, fuck this shit.
- 1:13:31Speaker 2: I didn't watch girl.
- 1:13:32Speaker 4: I was like, you know what, and then you get
- 1:13:34Speaker 4: thrown in the fire. Yeah, you get thrown in the fire.
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: So go down memory lane watch it with us. Give
- 1:13:40Speaker 2: us your comments. Also make sure that you come and
- 1:13:43Speaker 2: support Erica Jane because she really is a true inspiration
- 1:13:46Speaker 2: for those of us who have been fucking down and
- 1:13:50Speaker 2: out and figured it out and fought for herself and
- 1:13:54Speaker 2: she is incredible and she is a force to be
- 1:13:56Speaker 2: reckoned with. And we are so grateful that she's here.
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: So thank you, thank you, thank you us very much.
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: You know what, I really appreciate the kind words and
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: thanks for having me, Thanks for coming last night and
- 1:14:04Speaker 1: come to the show.
- 1:14:07Speaker 2: Also, Erica gave us a shout out and she winked
- 1:14:09Speaker 2: at us when she was on stage.
- 1:14:12Speaker 4: Shows up here.
- 1:14:13Speaker 2: I know we were having to well it was because
- 1:14:15Speaker 2: someone came up was chatting and I was like, people
- 1:14:18Speaker 2: kept coming out and you know, it's so funny.
- 1:14:21Speaker 4: And I'll close with this.
- 1:14:22Speaker 1: I was backstage in the lift coming up and you know,
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: my my ears, I'm in ear, but I can also
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: hear the house and I could hear people saying, oh
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: my god, it's Tamra and Teddy, Oh my god. And
- 1:14:33Speaker 1: I said to Mikey, who can you know who can
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: hear me in my audio?
- 1:14:36Speaker 4: Guys, you can on me.
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: I was like, they are out there swooning and fan
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: girling over.
- 1:14:41Speaker 4: Teddy and Tamra. I mean, I could hear it in
- 1:14:44Speaker 4: the house.
- 1:14:45Speaker 2: But I mean it was pretty clear who's tam who
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: Tarma's fans were, and who mine were. I was like,
- 1:14:49Speaker 2: this is this really tracks?
- 1:14:51Speaker 3: But the boys she got all the Karens.
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: You know what it makes, It makes I love I
- 1:14:57Speaker 1: love them both as of my fan base too.
- 1:14:59Speaker 3: So there you a show your tits a couple of
- 1:15:01Speaker 3: times on TV and the gays love you.
- 1:15:02Speaker 4: I love you for it.
- 1:15:03Speaker 2: I haven't gotten there yet, but mine are too small.
- 1:15:05Speaker 2: All right, thank you so much, Erica. We gotta go,
- 1:15:08Speaker 2: and thank you ladies.
- 1:15:10Speaker 4: Let's all go to the airport. Yes, let's help out
- 1:15:13Speaker 4: about alway