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"Everything Costs Effort" · Podcast - Big 98.7

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  Speaker 1: This is am I the problem. It's me, hill On
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  Speaker 1: the problem. It's me.
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  Speaker 2: We'll hear one side of the story and with your
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  Speaker 2: help probably decide if it's right or if maybe you're
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  Speaker 2: the problem. That's right, I am the problem on Big
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  Speaker 2: ninety eight point seven.
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  Speaker 3: Hello, my name is Ella.
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  Speaker 4: We're gonna jump right into it, and my mom actually
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  Speaker 4: told me I should email you guys. For the record,
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  Speaker 4: my mom does not agree with me, and I think
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  Speaker 4: she thinks you guys will support her.
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  Speaker 3: We'll see, I.
• 0:37
  Speaker 1: Guess all right, going out on a limb.
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  Speaker 4: I decided to end a friendship with one of my
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  Speaker 4: college friends because she always posts picks of us that
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  Speaker 4: I hate. Whenever we take pictures, I always ask her
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  Speaker 4: to send them to me first so I can pick
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  Speaker 4: which one I approve, and she literally just posts the
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  Speaker 4: ones she looks great in and I look like a hobbit.
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  Speaker 4: I could understand if I just wasn't photogenic, but I
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  Speaker 4: do look good in picks. She just always manages to
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  Speaker 4: post the ones I look terrible in. I am aware,
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  Speaker 4: as my mom pointed out that this seems like a
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  Speaker 4: shallow reason to end a friendship, But doesn't it seem
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  Speaker 4: like she's being malicious or am I too vain?
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  Speaker 3: Ella?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna tell you right now that I do not
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  Speaker 4: agree with your mom. I think that you are absolutely
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  Speaker 4: correct in ending this friendship.
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  Speaker 3: Now. Is it shallow and vain? Maybe?
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  Speaker 4: However, I think it is a sign of a deeper
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  Speaker 4: thing with this friend, because if you have expressed to
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  Speaker 4: your friend like, hey, I really want to approve the
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  Speaker 4: pick because if I don't like the picture of myself,
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  Speaker 4: I don't want it posted. And she keeps doing it.
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  Speaker 4: That feels very intentional and like she's a hater. And
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  Speaker 4: I don't think that you need a hater in your life,
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  Speaker 4: So good to cut her out before it gets even worse.
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  Speaker 4: What are your thoughts? Seven oh one two, eight oh
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  Speaker 4: one nine eight seven and one?
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  Speaker 3: Is your thought? Gabe?
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  Speaker 4: Because you were rolling your eyes so hard at me
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  Speaker 4: while I was on team Ella.
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  Speaker 5: This is one of the few times in my life
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  Speaker 5: I've thought, you know, I'm thirty five years old. This
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  Speaker 5: sounds like the most twenty something year old problem I've
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  Speaker 5: ever heard in my life. Well, I think it is
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  Speaker 5: old for this, Angie. This is ridiculous. There is part
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  Speaker 5: of me, though, that I understand why you would feel
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  Speaker 5: this way. Because if you don't know this about our Angie,
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  Speaker 5: and if there are pictures that we need to take
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  Speaker 5: for Big ninety eight point seven, Angie has a side.
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  Speaker 3: I do have this.
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  Speaker 5: It's an angle. Yep, we got to take a hundred
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  Speaker 5: of them. She's got to see all one hundred to
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  Speaker 5: pick the one. No, to your credit, you are very
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  Speaker 5: good about keeping it short. You don't yeah, I don't
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  Speaker 5: want yeah, way too short for that.
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  Speaker 3: You're not one of my girlfriends. I don't make it
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  Speaker 3: me one hundred.
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  Speaker 1: But that's right.
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  Speaker 5: But I understand why Angie thinks this way. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 5: because this email could be from you.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm really the one who was filtering through
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  Speaker 4: all of the emails, and this one did speak to me.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know if the pictures are really
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  Speaker 5: that bad. She has a point, But are they actually
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  Speaker 5: not that bad and you just think they're bad? No
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  Speaker 5: one really knows. No one really looks like that. No
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  Speaker 5: one really goes through your photos going oh, this one's horrible,
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  Speaker 5: This one's horrible, this one's horrible. No one does that,
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  Speaker 5: do they?
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  Speaker 3: I do that to other people's photos?
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  Speaker 1: Insane seven?
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  Speaker 5: I think rooting a friendship over Instagram pictures is kind
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  Speaker 5: of crazy, but it really just sounds like you weren't
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  Speaker 5: really that great of friends anyway. Uh seven oh one
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  Speaker 5: two eight zero one nine eight seven, let us know
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  Speaker 5: what you think, text us, call us.
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  Speaker 1: This is up on Facebook.
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  Speaker 5: I just can't Could you imagine if my like my buddy,
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  Speaker 5: one of my best friends on planet Earth, Nick or Jake,
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  Speaker 5: if they came up to me one day and you've
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  Speaker 5: met Jake. Yeah, could you imagine Jake coming up to
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  Speaker 5: me one day and being like, hey man, you know
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  Speaker 5: those pictures the four we post a year on Facebook.
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  Speaker 5: I look like garbage in three out of those four,
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  Speaker 5: and I can't be your friend anymore.
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  Speaker 3: That would never ridiculous.
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  Speaker 4: That would never happen with Jake because he always listens.
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  Speaker 3: That's right.
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  Speaker 5: Kayla from wes Fargo says, not I'm with you. If
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  Speaker 5: you've told her it bothers you and she keeps doing it,
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  Speaker 5: that's not a real friend exactly.
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  Speaker 4: So Ella has a friend who is no longer her friend.
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  Speaker 4: She ended the friendship because every time the friend posts
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  Speaker 4: pictures of them together, she always uses the one where
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  Speaker 4: Ella looks bad, and.
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  Speaker 3: She's already told her before.
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  Speaker 4: Can you send me the pictures beforehand, so I can
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  Speaker 4: approve whether I like it or not.
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  Speaker 1: I will say I don't like that. That's kind of weird.
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  Speaker 5: My girlfriends and I do that, I know, but like,
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  Speaker 5: can you send me every single photo we've ever taken
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  Speaker 5: before I post it on my Facebook? Like, that's a
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  Speaker 5: lit litle bit extreme. I think my Instagram, Well, what
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  Speaker 5: I do.
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  Speaker 4: What I do is if it was like a group
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  Speaker 4: picture that we all to I send all the pictures
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  Speaker 4: and then I say, pick which ones that you approve
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  Speaker 4: that you like out of these, and then I'll choose
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  Speaker 4: one to post.
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  Speaker 3: It's not that hard. I'm saying you can do it.
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  Speaker 4: I obviously team Ella, but I do think this is
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  Speaker 4: a good take. Britney messaged us on Facebook. I don't
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  Speaker 4: think it's worth ending a friendship over stop taking pictures
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  Speaker 4: with her. Also, we are our own worst critics. She
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  Speaker 4: probably thinks you look beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: You probably don't look bad because when you look at
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  Speaker 5: a picture of you, you point out all the flaws.
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  Speaker 1: It's just natural. It's just natural. That's what we do.
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  Speaker 3: It's true, we are our own worst critic.
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  Speaker 5: She probably looks great or fine or whatever in tons
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  Speaker 5: of the photos and now she's thinking, oh, she only
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  Speaker 5: posts it one I look bad in.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I just think though, if that's your friend, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: we're all flawed intos. Give your friends some grace and
• 6:03
  Speaker 4: don't post the pictures she hates.
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  Speaker 5: Jenna said, I kind of like this. I guess you
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  Speaker 5: didn't end it over pictures. This is Jenna from South Fargo.
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  Speaker 5: You didn't end it over pictures. You ended it over
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  Speaker 5: her ignoring your boundaries.
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  Speaker 1: There's a bit different.
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  Speaker 4: Hard.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's kind of fair for sure.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm team Ella on this one, and I think
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  Speaker 4: it's not shallow.
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  Speaker 3: But that's also because I'm shallow.
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  Speaker 1: With this one.
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  Speaker 5: Any if you're a guy and you're riding in your
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  Speaker 5: car right now or you're at work, this, I feel
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  Speaker 5: like is a very much more kind of a lady's thing.
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  Speaker 5: I don't necessarily know if dudes see a picture of
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  Speaker 5: themselves on Facebook and immediately text their buddy like.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, what the heck, bro, I look like trash? Could
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  Speaker 1: you imagine?
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  Speaker 5: I mean, that would be pretty funny, to be honest,
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  Speaker 5: because dudes, I think, are totally fine with posting goofy
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  Speaker 5: aka stupid pictures on the Internet a lot more than
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  Speaker 5: ladies are. Not that ladies don't do that, but I
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  Speaker 5: just think dudes are more likely to.
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  Speaker 4: I think in situations where I can't control who's posting
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  Speaker 4: the pictures, my only request is don't tag me, tag
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  Speaker 4: me if I look bad.
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  Speaker 1: I do. Kind of like what Lindsay said.
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  Speaker 5: This is kind of in the middle ground of this here,
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  Speaker 5: she said Lindsay from West Fargo. She said she might
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  Speaker 5: not mean anything by it, but your feelings are valid.
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  Speaker 5: This is a communication problem more than anything. I think
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  Speaker 5: that's probably more correct.
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  Speaker 3: I like that, but I also like that.
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  Speaker 4: Michelle said, I'm going to file this one under first
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  Speaker 4: world problems.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, you're both the problem.
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  Speaker 4: Your friend is not being respectful and you're not communicating.
• 7:41
  Speaker 2: Celebrating life's little victories every morning we practice gratitude on
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  Speaker 2: Big ninety eight point seven. If I could, I would
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  Speaker 2: keep this feeling in a past job, bust it out
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  Speaker 2: when it was someone's acting hard. Share your little victories
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  Speaker 2: with us at seven oh one two eight oho one
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  Speaker 2: ninety eight seven.
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  Speaker 5: Kids.
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  Speaker 1: I also needed to win that day, Angie. Do you
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  Speaker 1: have a little victory for us today?
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  Speaker 3: Yes? I do.
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  Speaker 1: I'm I gotcha. You got it.
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  Speaker 4: I got very choked up there because I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: One of the most important things to me in my
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  Speaker 4: entire life is my eyebrows.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, it is shallow and it is vain, but.
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  Speaker 4: I've always this is I've always prided myself on having
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  Speaker 4: really nice eyebrows. But for the last four years I've
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  Speaker 4: been maintaining them myself because I hadn't found a threader
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  Speaker 4: who I could trust to clean up these brows.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, but that's all changed.
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  Speaker 3: And I was walking through the mall with my friend
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  Speaker 3: Corey over on Bob.
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  Speaker 1: Ninety five, okay.
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  Speaker 4: And she said that she, oh, let's uh, I need
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  Speaker 4: an eyebrow wax, and so I walked into the place
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  Speaker 4: with her. But I realized that they also offered the threading,
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  Speaker 4: and so I co werced Corey into getting her eyebrows
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  Speaker 4: threaded in stall that have waxed. And then as I
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  Speaker 4: watched the process, I realized, I can trust this woman.
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  Speaker 3: Her name is d I love her.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, so you just threw Corey out for the bait? First?
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  Speaker 5: Is that what I'm is out? I'm learning, Hey, why
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  Speaker 5: you gotta put it like that, baiting your friend?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, but her eyebrows. Aren't.
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  Speaker 4: Think we're an easier fix. I've got way more eyebrow
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  Speaker 4: going on. So her eyebrows looked great, and I thought,
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  Speaker 4: you know what, I might as well take a chance.
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  Speaker 4: And I sat in that chair and I tilted my
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  Speaker 4: head back, and oh my gosh, I got the threading
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  Speaker 4: of a lifetime. My eyebrows look so fire, They're so clean,
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  Speaker 4: the shape is gorgeous. I'm a whole, brand new broad Gabe.
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  Speaker 1: All right, the year of twenty twenty six, the year
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  Speaker 1: of Angie Here.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it. I feel away.
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  Speaker 4: Every time I look, like walk past the mirror, I
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  Speaker 4: look and I'm like, oh my gosh, are you the
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  Speaker 4: baddest bee thus far?
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  Speaker 1: That's nice.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not, but I like to feel that way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's sometimes more important.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, how you feel on me inside?
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  Speaker 1: That's that's right. That's right.
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  Speaker 3: What about you, Gabe? What's your little victory?
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  Speaker 1: My little victory is kind of.
• 10:04
  Speaker 5: It starts out bad and it really helps nobody, but
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  Speaker 5: it makes me feel better. Okay, Okay, it is my fault.
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  Speaker 5: We are going to get all of the snow later
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  Speaker 5: on today and tomorrow. Okay, I made the fatal mistake.
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  Speaker 5: If you heard the trenders a handful of minutes ago.
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  Speaker 5: There's a young man who has created his own company
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  Speaker 5: where he helps do snow removal and lawn care and
• 10:29
  Speaker 5: what have you.
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  Speaker 1: And what did he say in that clip, Angie?
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  Speaker 5: He said, when you're in the snow remove a business,
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  Speaker 5: you don't put the snow equipment away until late April
• 10:36
  Speaker 5: because you don't want to jinx it. Well, I went
• 10:39
  Speaker 5: ahead and jinxed it for everybody. This it's my fault.
• 10:42
  Speaker 5: It was it was either late last week or early
• 10:45
  Speaker 5: this week. I don't exactly remember, but I was playing
• 10:47
  Speaker 5: fetch with my dog and my wife was gonna come outside,
• 10:50
  Speaker 5: and I've said, you know, I'm gonna put two patio
• 10:52
  Speaker 5: chairs out in the backyard. You know it's sixty sixty
• 10:55
  Speaker 5: five degrees. Let's get these patio chairs out here. And
• 10:58
  Speaker 5: I put him out there, and then what happened handful
• 11:00
  Speaker 5: of days later? We are gonna get dumped on with
• 11:02
  Speaker 5: some snow that could be heavy at times. And you know,
• 11:06
  Speaker 5: that is not a little victory in a sense, but
• 11:08
  Speaker 5: I feel a lot better getting that off my chest.
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  Speaker 5: So wow, So being honest today is a little victory
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  Speaker 5: for me. I will take the blame for this snow
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  Speaker 5: that will happen today and tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: And I feel a lot better.
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  Speaker 5: That had been eating me up inside all week long,
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  Speaker 5: and I feel so much better.
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  Speaker 4: Text us, how upset you are with Gabe? Seven one
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  Speaker 4: two seven.
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  Speaker 5: My wife and I have an ultrasound appointment today for
• 11:41
  Speaker 5: baby G.
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  Speaker 1: You do we have.
• 11:43
  Speaker 5: An ultrasound for Baby G today, as she has this
• 11:47
  Speaker 5: app and I'm sure plenty of moms and you know
• 11:50
  Speaker 5: Dad's I suppose to a to a point, are familiar
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  Speaker 5: with this. But there's this app that kind of keeps
• 11:55
  Speaker 5: track of how big your baby is, how far along
• 11:58
  Speaker 5: you are in weeks, what it weighs, or what it
• 12:01
  Speaker 5: about weighs, and things like that. So baby G right
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  Speaker 5: now is about thirteen point eight inches long, she weighs
• 12:08
  Speaker 5: about two pounds, and she's as long as a papaya
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  Speaker 5: according to this app.
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  Speaker 1: And I love it.
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  Speaker 4: It's always in relation to fruity or like a vegetable
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  Speaker 4: or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we get to go and see her.
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  Speaker 2: Then.
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  Speaker 1: The last time we saw her was when we found
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  Speaker 1: out what she was.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow.
• 12:27
  Speaker 1: It's kind of the follow up to that.
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  Speaker 5: And there was one I have these weird moments with
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  Speaker 5: pregnant women, which sounds kind of wild to say, but yeah, keep.
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  Speaker 3: Going so you can make it not sound right.
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  Speaker 5: Yesterday at Unhinged Right, we're having a blast. Three weeks
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  Speaker 5: in a row. We have passed out all ninety eight beers,
• 12:44
  Speaker 5: by the way, which is incredible, but we were getting
• 12:47
  Speaker 5: down to crunch time we had like six beers left,
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  Speaker 5: you know, it was like it was like six forty
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  Speaker 5: and we're like, oh my gosh, we get six more
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  Speaker 5: beers to get rid of or whatever. And a bunch
• 12:58
  Speaker 5: of people walk in and I'm you know, hey, do
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  Speaker 5: you want a free beer? And one of the ladies goes, oh,
• 13:02
  Speaker 5: I can't, I'm pregnant, but I'm sure they would all
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  Speaker 5: want one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And it's weird. I have these weird moments. I'm like, oh, like,
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  Speaker 1: our babies might be friends one day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that's right.
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  Speaker 5: I've been to a few of events for big or
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  Speaker 5: for the radio station or whatever, and I'll run into
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  Speaker 5: women who happen to also be pregnant, like my wife,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm like, oh, our kids might be on the
• 13:22
  Speaker 5: same soccer team.
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  Speaker 1: That's really It's the sweetest thing ever.
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  Speaker 4: But more sweet is that you actually take the time
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  Speaker 4: to think about that sort of thing.
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  Speaker 5: Well, it's like, oh, they might be in kindergarten class
• 13:35
  Speaker 5: together something like that. So whoever that lady was and
• 13:38
  Speaker 5: your group who showed up at unhings yesterday at like
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  Speaker 5: six forty or what have you.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's kind of.
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  Speaker 5: Cool that Hey, maybe one day baby G and baby
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  Speaker 5: random person.
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they might be friends one day.
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  Speaker 3: I think this is so sweet.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, wait, so this ultrasound I have questions. Do
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  Speaker 4: you know if this one's going to be more like
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  Speaker 4: a three D image or four D image or the.
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  Speaker 1: One where we found out the gender.
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  Speaker 5: There was a three D image there, and I think
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  Speaker 5: this will kind of just sort of be another follow
• 14:07
  Speaker 5: up where they make sure everything they saw the first
• 14:10
  Speaker 5: time is still there the second time.
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the brain and the heart all that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll be.
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  Speaker 5: One hundred percent honest with you. I don't have a clue.
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  Speaker 5: I kind of just show up and you know, here
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  Speaker 5: on wife.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, well, you have to give me the update as
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: soon as you can, and I want all the ultrasound pictures.
• 14:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll definitely have to get you some. But twenty
• 14:30
  Speaker 5: six weeks is what it is. Blown by Do you
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: remember when we got to finally announce that here, I'm
• 14:35
  Speaker 5: big flown.
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  Speaker 3: By for you.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure your pregnant wife feels differently.
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: It feels like an eternity when you're pregnant.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is true.
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  Speaker 5: I should ask her because I'm sure there are moments
• 14:45
  Speaker 5: where she's like, oh my god, I'm.
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: Still pregnant, man.
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  Speaker 5: And then I'm sure she gets the updates and she's like,
• 14:50
  Speaker 5: oh my god, we're already like way over halfway.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, pregnancy is so wild. I like that you are
• 14:57
  Speaker 4: on this journey. You're very invested in your wife. It's
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: pregnancy journey. And I think that there are some men
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: who don't care, and I love that you're one that
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: cares well.
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  Speaker 5: I would like to know here this morning, because every
• 15:08
  Speaker 5: time I run into a woman who also happens to
• 15:11
  Speaker 5: be pregnant, I want to know if you're pregnant right now,
• 15:14
  Speaker 5: let me know. It's seven oh one two eight zero
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  Speaker 5: one nine eight seven. Maybe baby G and your baby
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  Speaker 5: you'll grow up to be besties. Maybe they'll go to
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  Speaker 5: their first prom together. Maybe they'll go to you know,
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  Speaker 5: the ballet class together, or maybe they'll be on the
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  Speaker 5: tennis team or golf or whatever they want to do.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's just kind of cool.
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  Speaker 4: I appreciate you trying to recruit friends for your baby. Already,
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  Speaker 4: that's been a good dad.
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  Speaker 5: I and my wife get to go to an ultrasound
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  Speaker 5: for baby G today. She is twenty six weeks, the
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: size of a papaya fruit and about two pounds or
• 15:52
  Speaker 5: something along those lines, and I will say this was
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  Speaker 5: all Angie's fault. What okay, I can't remember what ultrasound
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  Speaker 5: number we're on. It's like three or four. I don't know,
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  Speaker 5: you know, because it's not really about me When I
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  Speaker 5: go I just go there and smile and try to
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  Speaker 5: make the doctor laugh.
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  Speaker 3: Right, how often does that work out for you?
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  Speaker 1: I'm about one out of fifty.
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  Speaker 5: But Angie brought up this the other day when I
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  Speaker 5: had talked about my dog Wanona going through the drive
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  Speaker 5: through basically always expecting a pop cup. Oh, you said,
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  Speaker 5: I have conditioned her to be spoiled while going through
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  Speaker 5: the drive through.
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  Speaker 1: That you're all right, I am to blame for that.
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  Speaker 5: And so my question today, how do I avoid spoiling
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  Speaker 5: the living heck out of baby G? Seven oh one
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  Speaker 5: two eight zero one nine eight seven. I'm assuming now
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  Speaker 5: I'm not a parent. I'm just guessing here. I'm assuming
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  Speaker 5: there's a fine line between getting some kind of reward
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  Speaker 5: or something they've earned and or you just spoil the
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  Speaker 5: living heck out of your kids, which you know, one
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  Speaker 5: way or the other. I don't think there's like a
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  Speaker 5: right or wrong right. Everyone's just trying to do the
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  Speaker 5: best they can.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, everyone as a parent is trying to do the
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  Speaker 4: best they can, I think, especially if you grew up
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  Speaker 4: where you didn't have a lot growing up. I grew up,
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  Speaker 4: I mean like a wildly poor and I was one
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  Speaker 4: of four kids, and so there were a lot of
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  Speaker 4: things that we just like didn't get. We only got gifts,
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  Speaker 4: one gift on our birthday and then gifts at Christmas,
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  Speaker 4: and there were hardly ever any like just because presence.
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  Speaker 4: And then when I became a parent, I wanted to
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: give my kids more than I ever had. But sometimes
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: I went too far, I went too far into the
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: realm of spoiling them. Like there was a time where
• 17:41
  Speaker 4: it was every time we would go to the store,
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: they could come home with a little tree or a
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: little something, and that quickly turned into tantrums if we
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: were just not we were in a rush, or I
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  Speaker 4: didn't necessarily budget to get them things for no reason
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  Speaker 4: and then tantrums. Well, it's important, I think in my experience.
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  Speaker 4: I can't speak for every parent obviously, to try and
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: not go too far and then try to reel it back,
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  Speaker 4: because that's harder.
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  Speaker 3: Sure, it's harder to.
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  Speaker 4: Go all the way to spoil town and then try
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  Speaker 4: to bring them back to gratitude City.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Because you and I every day here on the
• 18:18
  Speaker 5: Big ninety eight point seven Morning Show at six' ten six',
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  Speaker 5: eleven ish we say something that we are thankful or
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  Speaker 5: grateful for or just that made, us happy and a lot, of,
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  Speaker 5: times frankly they're.
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Really small they, are tiny.
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  Speaker 5: Little VICTORIES but i think it's important to celebrate little wins.
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  Speaker 5: Like THAT and i did just post this On the
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: big ninety eight Point seven. Facebook page how do you
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: avoid spoiling your kids too much without? Going overboard you,
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: can always, of course obviously just text us or give
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: us a call at seven h one two eight zero
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  Speaker 5: one nine. Eight SEVEN because i will, be honest there
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: are many times my WIFE and i have looked at
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: each other when our dog or one of the cats
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  Speaker 5: is being just a little pet up pain in the
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: and we, just, go wow we have quite Literally raised
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: now she's very, well behaved so that is part. Of
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: it but one of the most spoiled dogs on the History,
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: of earth and the last THING that i need in
• 19:09
  Speaker 5: my house is another thing person that just kind of
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: gets what she wants when she. Wants, It okay i'm
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: gonna have to learn to put my.
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  Speaker 4: Foot down she's gonna be your little princess and she's
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: gonna have you wrapped around.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Her FINGER and i don't know that you're Gonna.
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Survive if you don't know THERE'S anything i can do. About,
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: it no thank god you have your. Wife right we
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: Do have teresa on.
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  Speaker 5: The, phone teresa do you spoil your kids or how
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  Speaker 5: do you like avoid?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: DOING that i don't play that gimme.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: Guinea game my kids get what they need.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: And sometimes they'll get what, they want but they got to.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Earn it my daughter Wanted to Stanley cup cool help
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: me clean up.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: The garage she learns.
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: Two things things cost efforts and garages.
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: Are disgusting you know.
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  Speaker 5: What that is one hundred Percent True and i'm stealing.
• 19:51
  Speaker 5: That quote that's gonna be a quote In The glitten house.
• 19:54
  Speaker 5: Right there, Thank. You teresa i'm gonna use. That, forever
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: okay things. NEED effort i.
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: Like, THAT yeah i should implement that with my.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: Children struggling use that. RIGHT now.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: I need starting off the day with. Something good This
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: is gabe's good News on big ninety eight.
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: POINT Seven a minnesota bus driver is being hailed as
• 20:22
  Speaker 5: a hero for helping rescuing a man from a burning
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: car after coming across a crash during a training session.
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: Last month his Name Is, ken johnson and he's a
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: driver who pulled his bus over when he spotted smoke at.
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: This intersection he used a fire extinguisher from his bus
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: to try to get the blaze, under control and he
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: worked with bystanders to reach the. Unresponsive driver and when
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: the car doors, went't open he broke a rear window
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: with the extinguisher to get access to the man just
• 20:52
  Speaker 5: as the emergency. Crews, arrive johnson who has worked for
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: this bus company for, a decade he returned to his
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: trainees after her first responders took over. The situation his
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: employer and his colleagues they're describing his actions. As heroic
• 21:06
  Speaker 5: there's a video from this that has obviously, gone viral
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: and the. Incident occurred this is what's kind. Of interesting
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: the incident occurred while he was training new drivers on. The,
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: job wow that's something you Don't have i'm sure in.
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: Training classes that's not in the. Manual anywhere but, they learned,
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: you know they got first and experience how they could
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: help in a situation. Like that despite, The recognition ken
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: says he doesn't consider himself, a hero and he just
• 21:32
  Speaker 5: describes his actions as simply helping in. The moment he
• 21:35
  Speaker 5: says the experience became more real to him afterward as
• 21:39
  Speaker 5: he thought about returning home to. His family so congratulations were,
• 21:43
  Speaker 5: Not CONGRATULATIONS but i, don't know just way to, go
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: away to be there and try to do that thing
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  Speaker 5: and try, to help.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: To talk about, good samaritan that's above, and beyond.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: That's right that probably earned him a Few good. SAMARITAN
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: points i think. You're right you know my, Favorite Quote,
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: Broken crans they still color and the the world is
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: full of. Nice people if you can't, find one you gotta.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: Be one