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Ep. 336 You Thought Divorce Was the Hard Part… But Self-Doubt Is What’s Keeping You Stuck · Dear Divorce Diary: A Fresh Approach To Healing Grief & Building A Life Of Confidence After Divorce

• 0:54
  SPEAKER_00: Hi, love.
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  SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Dear Divorce Diary, the podcast helping divorcees go beyond talk therapy to process your grief, find the healing you crave, and build back your confidence.
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  SPEAKER_00: I'm your host, Don Wiggins, a therapist, coach, integrative healer, and divorcee.
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  SPEAKER_00: Join me for a fresh approach to healing grief and building your confidence after divorce.
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  SPEAKER_00: My darlings, today's VIP episode is a panel rant.
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  SPEAKER_00: And the topic is women who do not believe in themselves.
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  SPEAKER_00: Ready, set, go.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let it be known.
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  SPEAKER_00: Well, it's annoying, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  SPEAKER_00: So let it be known that in today's team meeting, right, that like I made an announcement.
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  SPEAKER_00: Anything and everything we do boils down to a felt sense of belief in ourselves, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: So we set big goals around here around impact and outreach and connection.
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  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, we're in the middle of building a retail brand for homeopathy.
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  SPEAKER_00: And like we have big, big, big, big goals over here, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: But those goals will not come to pass unless we are willing to believe in ourselves big.
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  SPEAKER_00: And, you know, we talked about in the Tuesday episode, like we used to have quote unquote what we thought was confidence, but it was really ego, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: We had ego states and we've had to build confidence over time.
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  SPEAKER_00: And I cannot tell you how frustrated I get with women who A, don't believe in themselves, and then B aren't willing to see that that's actually the thing that's holding them back.
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  SPEAKER_00: Because women, you're gonna hear this all over the tiki talkie and all over Instagram, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: That we have the power to create worlds inside of us, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: Because we can literally grow human life and birth it.
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  SPEAKER_00: We can we are the portal for souls that cross over from there to here.
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  SPEAKER_00: We are the portal through which souls pass through.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we don't think we can provide for ourselves or achieve the things we want or manifest the life of our dreams or have a wonderful partner.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, we just think there's something wrong with us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, I must be different.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, no, you don't understand my circumstances, Dawn.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like, no love, you don't understand that your lack of belief in yourself is the entire story.
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  SPEAKER_00: You can access the full episode by becoming a premium subscriber, which is just$5 a month.
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