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How do you know when you're in love? · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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The question for American mamas. Dear mamas, do you know how do you
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know when you're in love? Well, let's ask our American mamas. Alma
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Mama, she said, and joining us now our American mama's Terry Nudeville and
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Kimberly Burlison. I think I just want to start off by saying, oh,
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look, it's been a while. I'm sure. I mean, you
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all have both been married for what seventy years? Eighty years years? A
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lifetime, lifetime? Can you think back? Can you remember how did you
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know? You know? It's so funny that you asked this question, because
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just yesterday I was talking to my youngest daughter and she's talking about her boyfriend,
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whom she loves. She said, I love him so much that I'm
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not even icked out by his X. And I understand it, get it,
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yes, But it made me think about you, Terry, and I
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think about it made me think of Terry, because Terry, there's like a
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long list of guys that icked Terry out so much that she left them crying.
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I remember she left one guy because he had a giant booker in his
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nose fluorescent. And then there was another guy that she got she got picked
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out regular because he adjusted himself too much. Okay, he was It was
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like a constant thing. There's another guy she faked being sick on the date
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because he had a dead tooth. Was date? Okay? So and we
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were out and my dad said no. When my dad saw him at the
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door, he told me, you know what for your birth it was his
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birthday, you want to go out with me? So we so Dad's like,
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well, no, no, Curfew a blast And I was like,
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oh my gosh, Okay, that was very immature stuff because clearly I didn't
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love them. It's when you were by you know. When I met Mike,
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he's probably the worst dresser I'd ever seen in my life. He loves
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concert and I was obssessed, obsessed. I just wasn't icked by the icky
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things about him. You know. That's so the things that if somebody else
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did it, it would have been like done, yeah, But with this
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person, you're like, it's okay, it's cute, It's actually cute.
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Yeah exactly. I will say, Okay, that was immature. That was
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high school. When you get into college, the ix are things like the
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way they treat the waitress, the way they talk to their mom. Okay,
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but those things, those things, even if you're in love with somebody
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and they're treating the waitress bad and they're treating your mom bad, those things
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should still ike you out. Well, that's what I'm saying. That's what
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I'm saying. Okay, I see what you're saying too. If you're icked
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out, you're done. Yeah, like they're an ick. It's an ick,
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and you acknowledge it's an it. Yeah, okay, But when you're
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icked out, you're out. Yeah. If Kevin had been terrible and acted
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snooty or above whoever was service servicing nests at the table or whatever or our
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service at the type, yes, then that would have been too off putting.
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I could not have continued that dating life with him because that would have
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been such a turn off to me. So, because then you're married,
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it's yeah, your husband. My husband kes me all the time, he
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does, Are you kidding? Okay? This is this is probably two am
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I for y'all. But I dry heave real easy. Everything grosses me out.
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I just get really grossed out. I probably will dry talking about dry
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heaving, But when my husband brushes his teeth, I cannot hat. I
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must leave the rea just because he thinks it's funny. He thinks it's funny,
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but he will follow me, and I mean it's like a very very
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aggressive brush and I can't so he does his tongue. I just can't talk
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about it because that's one of the things that we do, is a family.
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It's so fun is to try to make her dry heave talk about the
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grossest stuff in front of her because we think it's hilariou is because she is
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such a soft snuff like when when it comes to that stuff, what about
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you? So I guess it's even when there are things that would would so,
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like with the teeth brushing, yes, you put up with it.
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I put up because I am in love with him, okay, but it's
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not enough of an ick for me to not be with him because I'm telling
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you, mix me all the time, okay. And so it was so
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the phrase was even his IX don't ick me out, Yes, okay exactly.
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And the phrase, I'm assuming we're dealing with a little bit of lingo
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vernacular here, something younger crsh. So there's a difference of just being ick
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and being picked out. Kicked out is like you're done and here's a warning
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because if people listen to this and when they ask their spouse, oh,
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is there anything that that maybe I'd ick you? Yeah? Right, be
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ready because better be ready because if they say something, your first thing is
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to go into that motive. Oh well, you know what you do.
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Let me tell you what you do that digs me out and then you might
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have a problem. So just let I don't even know. I I don't
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even want to know if Kevin has any about me. I want to just
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live in La la land and pretend like there's yes, what about you?
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Is there anything about Windy? No? Good boy, No, there's nothing
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that. Is there anything about you? You think? Are there? Probably
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that's about right. I mean that's true. Guys kind of lookover stuff.
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We're like the well and look. For the last like three weeks, the
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two of us have been under the weather, so you know, we've been
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rather icky people and like whatever. I mean, that's how it is.
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Rikey together, Ikey together. But it's not the rona. In case anybody's
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wondering anyway, I bet some people would be wondering. If you like to
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Tearing out of Kimberly Brothers and thank you so much