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PATREON EXCLUSIVE: MOVING IN WITH A PARTNER?!! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we got something special for you today. I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure you're tired of Jake and I are saying. Patreon
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  Speaker 1: is where it's at eight ninety nine a month. You
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  Speaker 1: get exclusive episodes every single week.
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  Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah blah blah. You guys know that.
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  Speaker 1: But Jake and I have been having banger episodes over there,
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  Speaker 1: and we had to have a little bit of a
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  Speaker 1: brainstorming session of like.
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  Speaker 3: How can we showcase how good Patreon is without people
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  Speaker 3: spending their money first? And we were like, hey, why
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  Speaker 3: don't we just give all the baddies a free episode
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  Speaker 3: to showcase how good Patreon is. So this is a
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  Speaker 3: Patreon exclusive from about two weeks ago. So please enjoy,
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  Speaker 3: and if you do enjoy, maybe consider going over to Patreon.
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  Speaker 3: But if not, just soak up this freebie because I
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  Speaker 3: know I would.
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  Speaker 2: I love a freebie. Coming up on relatables.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I had a dream. This is actually crazy. I
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  Speaker 4: had a dream that the kissed a man you cheated
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  Speaker 4: on me. So welcome back to where the bad is.
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  Speaker 4: You nite unite together on Patriot Fuck yeah we do.
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  Speaker 4: How do you feel I don't know. Why do I
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  Speaker 4: feel like oh, let's try something.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Actually, how do I actually anal?
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  Speaker 4: Not exactly where I was headed.
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  Speaker 1: I'll let you land and then we'll go to my
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  Speaker 1: how I feel. I'll revisit my bit after.
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  Speaker 4: Do you actually care how I feel? Yeah? Well, I
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  Speaker 4: wouldn't ask if I don't know if you're just asking
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  Speaker 4: out of like a casualty. Casualty and casualties like we
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  Speaker 4: know how like you know, when you're having a conversation
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  Speaker 4: with somebody, say enough the casualties.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I was asking because we have a lot
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  Speaker 2: going on at the moment.
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  Speaker 1: We got a new studio, you've moved states, your best
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  Speaker 1: friends really far away, and we haven't done anal.
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  Speaker 4: The last I actually could live without.
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  Speaker 2: I could, I could live without whatever. But how are
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  Speaker 2: you going? Yeah, how dare you assume that I would.
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  Speaker 4: Just ask to did a dream? I don't know what
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  Speaker 4: you know? You could have been, you could have you.
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  Speaker 4: I wouldn't be surprised if I started to say how
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  Speaker 4: I feel and then you were like, Jake, I don't
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  Speaker 4: actually care, like that was that was just being That's
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  Speaker 4: not something I would say, Jake. But Okay, I had
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  Speaker 4: a dream. This is actually crazy. I had a dream
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  Speaker 4: that kissed a man you cheated on me. So I
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  Speaker 4: had a dream. So do you ever wake up. Let's
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  Speaker 4: say it's around four point thirty five am, and then
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  Speaker 4: maybe you do a week or something. You go back
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  Speaker 4: to sleep and you'll you'll have like a good sleep in. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: but for that like next couple of hours, it's super
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  Speaker 4: vivid dreams. Yeah, that happened to me. And I had
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  Speaker 4: a dream that I kissed a man. Yeah, And in
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  Speaker 4: my dream, I remember thinking like, oh, this is like
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  Speaker 4: something that I genuinely want to try. And I really
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  Speaker 4: didn't like it. And I remember thinking of my dream.
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  Speaker 4: I remember I had just had I don't even know
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  Speaker 4: who this man was. I remember having to said to
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  Speaker 4: him like, look, I gave it a crack. I just
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  Speaker 4: don't like it. And I was thinking like did I
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  Speaker 4: just like experiment in my dream and I actually don't
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  Speaker 4: like it? That's very healthy, Jake, do you know is
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  Speaker 4: that wild? Yeah? I haven't told anyone about that dream yet.
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  Speaker 2: I actually had a dream similar.
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  Speaker 4: Really, yeah, let me land Yeah, yeah, it was heap similar.
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  Speaker 1: So I had a dream that I went into JB
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  Speaker 1: High Fire. I bought a new MacBook Pro because I
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  Speaker 1: thought I wanted to go dream. It was actually a
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  Speaker 1: really good dream, and I was froffing it. But then
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  Speaker 1: I tried it and I didn't like it as much
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  Speaker 1: as my old one.
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  Speaker 4: This is the straightest dreammember about this. I actually I
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  Speaker 4: was going I was going to tell you that I
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  Speaker 4: read about we brought a new MacBook proache and that
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  Speaker 4: we should get a new one. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I try to, and it's assigned to stay with the old, trusty,
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  Speaker 1: reliable ones.
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  Speaker 4: We cashed up. I wouldn't mind it freshye, yeah, I agree.
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  Speaker 1: Actually, our ones are what this is coming on. Yours
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  Speaker 1: is four and a half years.
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  Speaker 4: Wow, hold up, no, mine is going to be Mine
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  Speaker 4: is pretty much the age of the relatables. Four years
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  Speaker 4: nearly a whole long time.
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  Speaker 2: Our MacBook pros are like our children.
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  Speaker 4: Yours is only a couple of months newer. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 4: yours is still about four years. Yeah, it's pretty well.
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  Speaker 4: But mine's still Reliableay, I have had zero problems. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: apart from the fact that just like ever so slightly slower,
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  Speaker 4: I can tell what it's just working.
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  Speaker 5: You know, I can tell it's like it's kind of like,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know, it's kind of like a smoker. That's
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  Speaker 5: just it's kind of getting to that stage where it's
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  Speaker 5: like the cigarettes are catching up to it and I'm like, you're.
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  Speaker 4: Struggling a bit, a little bit left. Yeah, it's kind
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  Speaker 4: of like, yeah, if my dad went on a long wall,
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  Speaker 4: how I feel. I feel currently. My body's fighting a cold.
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  Speaker 1: I'm hoping you don't give it to me. I'm hoping
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  Speaker 1: I've got like a bit of air. Connie Chess, I
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  Speaker 1: have realized after we record a couple of episodes, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I get a sore throaty, chesty bit and
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm getting sick. But then it's like this
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  Speaker 1: talking a lot just makes you a bit yeah, but
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  Speaker 1: not complaining.
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  Speaker 4: So but yeah, other than that, I feel quite good, pretty,
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  Speaker 4: I want to say, getting low on the anxiety scale
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  Speaker 4: of being here in life life being here. I think
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  Speaker 4: moving has been good.
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  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you spoke on how Sydney was stressing
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  Speaker 1: you out, and just like being in Sydney relatable. But
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  Speaker 1: where you are now, it's so peaceful. Oh. I think
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  Speaker 1: that's what it's like, the equivalent of like you're so
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  Speaker 1: close to the Gold Coast, but it's almost like living
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  Speaker 1: like in the country.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, heck, yeah, so cool. I think that's helping a lot. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: And yeah, what about you, how are you good? Question? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: Do you care?
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  Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, Actually I feel like I feel good. I
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  Speaker 1: definitely feel good. I've been feeling a little bit overwhelmed
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  Speaker 1: just with like, I don't know, life just seems to
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  Speaker 1: be going so quickly, and then I'm always thinking, I'll
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  Speaker 1: just do this one thing and then I'll relax, and
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  Speaker 1: then there's always one more thing, and there's another thing,
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  Speaker 1: and then there's another thing, and then my relaxing even
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  Speaker 1: though I do relax and I'm not complaining, like I
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  Speaker 1: definitely relax enough. Yeah, but then there's always something in
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  Speaker 1: my mind that's consuming my energy more than I thought
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  Speaker 1: I was gonna get consumed by it, if that makes sense.
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  Speaker 4: It's a good hear what you're saying. And I feel like,
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  Speaker 4: I don't know, I feel like we're twenty what six
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  Speaker 4: or you're a twenty six ship. Life has gone so quickly.
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  Speaker 1: But we're going to have a kid's son, Yeah, lifet
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  Speaker 1: it's something that you were going to have a kid
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  Speaker 1: soon in the next five years, I dare say both
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  Speaker 1: of us will have children.
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  Speaker 4: That's a good point. Yeah, I came up with a name.
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  Speaker 2: I came up with a good name. The other day.
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  Speaker 2: Cassie didn't like it for a boy or girl. Sebastian.
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  Speaker 4: I don't mind Sebastian. Yeah, she did. Elegant, Yeah, giving
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  Speaker 4: elegant you know what I feel like? You know you
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  Speaker 4: know where I got it from?
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  Speaker 2: The hedgehog in the Hobbit the hedgehog gets sick.
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  Speaker 4: His name is Sebastian. That's so funny.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, that's a good name, which Cassie said, yes,
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  Speaker 1: And I would never have told her.
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  Speaker 4: Where I got that from. No, I don't mind the
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  Speaker 4: name Sebastian. I like it too. Does Cassie like any
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  Speaker 4: of your names?
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  Speaker 2: But you just I don't think she likes my name. No,
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  Speaker 2: we haven't landed on one yet.
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  Speaker 4: Well, you guys do unique.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm heavily going down the unique. At least has
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  Speaker 1: like her her, he has like a cool abbreviation. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: like Jake, you've got nothing?
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  Speaker 4: Nah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I want like.
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  Speaker 1: I single, silly, I want like something goes from this
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  Speaker 1: to that.
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  Speaker 2: At least at the minute.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't. I don't mind a super long name.
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  Speaker 4: The short nickname I.
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  Speaker 1: Regon you'll get like a book boyfriend name in there
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  Speaker 1: or somehow to be fair, really thinking about how to
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  Speaker 1: do that?
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Throne of glass Kale, okay, but but I think
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  Speaker 4: of the cow from school. Same but it's not spelled
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  Speaker 4: k A l E. It's spelled c h o a L.
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  Speaker 4: That's c h a o L.
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  Speaker 1: That'd be really hard for the kid though, like just
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  Speaker 1: like because like everyone in schools like, oh, how do
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  Speaker 1: you spell it?
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  Speaker 2: And like you tell pounce kale? Yeah, kale spelled.
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  Speaker 4: There's a Dorian.
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  Speaker 2: I like Dorian.
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  Speaker 4: I don't mind. I know a Dorian, but you get Dory,
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  Speaker 4: which is a bit weird. Nah, no recording Dory, Yeah
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  Speaker 4: to send you know, no one called him.
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  Speaker 2: Imagine Dory.
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  Speaker 1: Imagine a kid playing sport Dorian Dorry, Dory plus the
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  Speaker 1: ball Dorry.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, no one's calling her Dorian Dorry about Nemo.
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  Speaker 1: N It couldn't the name I wanted body, but one
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  Speaker 1: of Cassie's old friends already has it, so I can't
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  Speaker 1: have that old friends. Yeah, keyword, that's what That's what
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  Speaker 1: I said to her. But apparently, like I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it makes her think of her, which is fair.
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  Speaker 4: Imagine you name your kid you have a son of
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  Speaker 4: your name him Body. And then every time Cassie says
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  Speaker 4: the name Body, she thinks of this friend she hates.
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  Speaker 4: I keep saying that to it.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta like put two and two names together.
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  Speaker 1: She keeps her in these names and we say like
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  Speaker 1: Clark at the end of it, and it doesn't work.
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  Speaker 4: See, here's the thing is, like I also think of
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  Speaker 4: names I like, but I never say Craig at the
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  Speaker 4: end of it or Commings at the end of it,
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  Speaker 4: Like I never.
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  Speaker 1: Think body Clark. I can that sound sick? I think
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  Speaker 1: I actually quite like Body Clark is so strong.
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  Speaker 4: And Cassie doesn't like it. I just doesn't like we
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  Speaker 4: should call her. Yeah, pick it now. You know what
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  Speaker 4: you need to do is somehow manufacture things to happen
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  Speaker 4: in her life that leads towards everything of your son's
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  Speaker 4: name being Body. True. You need a manufacturer. Like have
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  Speaker 4: you seen what's the movie call? Is it called Hustle?
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  Speaker 4: Maybe Margot Robbie Will Yeah? Good movie. Yeah, that's a
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  Speaker 4: good movie. They and they go and they do this
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  Speaker 4: massive job where they get a bunch of money scammer
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  Speaker 4: people or whatever. And then Will Smith goes to this
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  Speaker 4: football game and gambles it all the way with this
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  Speaker 4: big gambling guy from China, and he loses all the
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  Speaker 4: money and says, fuck it, double or nothing. It's either
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  Speaker 4: like he walks away nothing or he walks away like
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  Speaker 4: four million. Yeah. And then he's like he gives this
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  Speaker 4: guy like fifty six to one odds or something to
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  Speaker 4: win double or nothing. And Margaret is sitting there and
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  Speaker 4: she's like no, no, no, no, no, no, no, don't do it.
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  Speaker 4: Don't do it. And Will Smith's like, god, I got this,
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  Speaker 4: and he doesn't tell her that this is all a con.
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  Speaker 4: And then he there's a player down there that they've
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  Speaker 4: put on the field where in the number sixty six,
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  Speaker 4: and the Chinese got to that. And then Will Smith's
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  Speaker 4: like looking around, looking around, looking around, and he goes, ah,
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  Speaker 4: to Margot, Robbie, you choose the number for me. You're
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  Speaker 4: my lucky girl lord. Yeah. And then she sees the guy.
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  Speaker 4: She knows we're in sixty six, and she's like sixty
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  Speaker 4: six and he's like that's and then the Chinese guy
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  Speaker 4: is like, that's it. Here's your four million?
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  Speaker 2: Is that a type of gas light?
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  Speaker 4: Oh? Wait, what was talking about how you wanted me
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  Speaker 4: to have. The way they got him to choose the
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  Speaker 4: number sixty six was they basically jack hijacked his whole day.
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  Speaker 4: They became his security, they became his driver, they became everything,
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  Speaker 4: and they set up a whole bunch of things with
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  Speaker 4: the number sixty six was everyhere without him knowing. And
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  Speaker 4: then when he's on the field and sees the number
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  Speaker 4: sixty six, he's subconsciously seeing that number of all days. So
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  Speaker 4: we chosen.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's also a movie and also yeah, good point.
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  Speaker 1: And also I'm like, I'm like, I'm gonna say, notice
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  Speaker 1: some of her names, so like, well, land On one,
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  Speaker 1: I want to kind of go down the plant avenue though,
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  Speaker 1: like a cool botanical name of a plant or something,
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  Speaker 1: this heaps cool name.
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  Speaker 4: I don't have one off on my hand because I
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  Speaker 4: would have used it already. So you want to name
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  Speaker 4: your children after the botanical name of.
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  Speaker 2: Plants, We'll think there's there's heaps of girl names.
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  Speaker 1: A lily is a flower, yeah, but that's that's not
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  Speaker 1: the botanical name. Yeah, but it's the same thing is
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  Speaker 1: naming another a flower ship, There's another, what's another, There's
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  Speaker 1: what's another?
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  Speaker 4: Your ex girlfriend Lily Irene? Fuck you is that?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that is Irene.
• 12:21
  Speaker 4: Isn't Irina? Flower tulip? Is that a name? I feel
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  Speaker 4: like it is the giving pet puppy. Yeah yeah, but
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  Speaker 4: I haven't landed on one yet. But there's a whole
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  Speaker 4: book of them.
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  Speaker 1: Like if you go look at a tree and you
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  Speaker 1: think it's like a eucalyptus tree, there's also a botanical
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  Speaker 1: name that goes with that.
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  Speaker 4: Why is that? Wonder why that's the case, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: But there's some pretty names out there that people don't
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  Speaker 1: even know about.
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  Speaker 4: You would just call your kid like fucking Liam. I
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  Speaker 4: don't hate that name.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah exactly.
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  Speaker 4: I don't hear that name? Yeah, Liam from Force Wing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Liam Craig. Craig is so common. You need to
• 12:54
  Speaker 1: go Rogue, Go rogue.
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  Speaker 4: I reckon, if you had a boy three two go,
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  Speaker 4: I know what I'm naming my Parker? Yeah yeah, but
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  Speaker 4: will Beth have that? Yeah? She likes Parker.
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  Speaker 2: Really, you have Spider Man's kid.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think she knows that. No, that's what Cassie
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  Speaker 4: liked Parker, And I said, you know, fucking I was
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  Speaker 4: like Jake One's Parker. I was like, you know where
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  Speaker 4: that's from? She's like, no, like fucking Spider Man. It's like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know that. So she doesn't like it.
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  Speaker 1: Then, well, I said, I'm not calling Jake's already got that,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm not naming my kid after Spider Man.
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  Speaker 4: You can name if you have a son before me.
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  Speaker 2: Take.
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  Speaker 4: I mean I I'd have to cop it if you
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  Speaker 4: named Parker, A'd be actually so off that. Anyway, Wait,
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  Speaker 4: I wanted to try this thing. I saw a funny
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  Speaker 4: video of there was these three dudes in a car
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  Speaker 4: and they were like, is this your dream again? No,
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  Speaker 4: my dream was one man AnyWho. They were I'm not
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  Speaker 4: gonna lie. It was the funniest thing to watch because
• 13:51
  Speaker 4: it was so uncomfortable. You and I might be good
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  Speaker 4: at it, but these guys were trying to, I ironically
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  Speaker 4: compliment each other. Oh okay, And it was hands down
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  Speaker 4: the funniest thing. Okay, they all tried to compliment each other.
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  Speaker 4: Three times. They'd be sitting there. There was two of
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  Speaker 4: them in the front, one of them in the back
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  Speaker 4: and wanted to be like, Johnny, I really like your hair.
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  Speaker 4: I think it falls very cool, very naturally. And then
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  Speaker 4: they go and they just start a laughing. It was
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  Speaker 4: the fucking weirdest thing. Men can't compliment each other. Yeah,
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: it's so awkward, okay, And so what made me think
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  Speaker 4: we should try it is like you and I talk
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  Speaker 4: like if you think about it, honestly, like you and
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  Speaker 4: I talk talk in depth, not necessarily to each other
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  Speaker 4: in about our lives. We talk about other things on
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  Speaker 4: the pod, but like for three hours a week. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: and like not once do either one of us go like,
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  Speaker 4: oh shit, like we were wearing today, Like you've said
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  Speaker 4: it once. I've probably said it once, like I have
• 14:47
  Speaker 4: been listening to Giggly Squad heaps and that's the time.
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  Speaker 4: But they will start talking about they'll just like go
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  Speaker 4: on this ram and be like we love each other
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  Speaker 4: so much. Like they start talking me how much they
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  Speaker 4: love each other, And I was thinking, like, we don't
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  Speaker 4: do that. We talked for like three hour a week. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Interesting, I know. Dak Shepherd compliments his guests to make
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  Speaker 1: him feel more comfortable and start the conversation flowing that we.
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  Speaker 4: Need to dismantle them. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: He always goes, oh, like you're such a handsome going, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that shirt's tight, you've been working out.
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  Speaker 4: She's like that. Okay, here's the thing. So I'm really
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  Speaker 4: annoyed to myself because I didn't think of three compliments
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  Speaker 4: prior to this, because.
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  Speaker 2: Surely you can get him off the top of your head.
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  Speaker 4: That's usually if I was to do something like this,
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  Speaker 4: usually I would like think of the compliments beforehand, and
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  Speaker 4: then you on the spot. Guy, Okay, I'm going to
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  Speaker 4: go first. I'll do number one, right, Okaydie Long. I
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  Speaker 4: think also it can be whatever you want, doesn't don't
• 15:46
  Speaker 4: just be like, yeah, I think you're a good guy.
• 15:48
  Speaker 6: I don't, and you have to take the take it, Okay.
• 16:02
  Speaker 4: I I think you have a good body. Oh ship,
• 16:07
  Speaker 4: thanks man, You're welcome. That made me feel good. Which
• 16:12
  Speaker 4: part it's so mean? You should be funny?
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Which yeah yeah, yeah, no, no, no, okay, Ja, I
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: think you have beautiful blue eyes.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: Thank you.
• 16:38
  Speaker 6: Good take it, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: Okay, where else can I go with this? Okaydie We
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: were both saying I think yeah, I should be saying
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: I know, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, Addie, I it was
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: this a compliment? This my let me know if this
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: is hope. So I am proud to call you my
• 17:12
  Speaker 4: best friend. Oh that's complident, right, thank you. J Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: I appreciate that. I think you should be proud.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: I was thinking I shouldn't say that back.
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: Should I should just take it.
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: I shouldn't put it in another compliment exactly.
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, okay, okay, I'm thinking how the phrase it was about.
• 17:30
  Speaker 4: I think that's all right. Yeah, I think it's comfortable
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: to it. I'm just going to go.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: I think again, if I say I know, it feels
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: like that's wrong.
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: It's just just be like you.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Jake, you have one of the biggest hearts
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: that I know.
• 17:51
  Speaker 4: Thank you. That's a good one. I like that. Thank
• 17:54
  Speaker 4: you very much. Audie. Oh okay, once again, I think
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: this is a good complicentlic the this podcast would not
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: be here or anywhere close to where it is without you. Wow.
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: Even if I, like say, I did it with someone
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: else who had the same like, I don't think it
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: would like. I think that it is where it is
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: because of you. Thank you very much. That's very, very
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: very nice. That's a great compliment. Thank you. I likewise
• 18:29
  Speaker 4: reciprocate thank you, but also thank you. You have to
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: do that's really good. No, no, no, no, that was very heartfelt.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: I appreciate that one. Okay, that was a good one
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: as bad. It's a competition. Funny one. You can be funny.
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: You can do it every week, mate, I can beat Okay,
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: I'll do my funny one after because you will like
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: that too, funny one, do it.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: It's the way I'm going to phrase it makes it
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: sound like it's not a compliment, but you'll take it
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: as a compliment.
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: Okay, this depends how well you know me.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: I'm sometimes jealous that you can grow a good beard.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: I like that. That's a good compliment. See you know
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: your crowd. That's a good confliment. There you go. Sometimes
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: sometimes it's yeah, yeah, that's That's not the only reason
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: I can feel good about not having a beard, because
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: you have to shave it.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: But I would love to be able to grow one.
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: Like this is this is just a really this is
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: an unspoken hardship that men go through. Okay, picture this all.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Right, Oh we're going to go.
• 19:46
  Speaker 4: You're a white man and you're part of a white
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: man duo podcast and you've been picked up by a
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: company and they want to fly you to Melbourne. They're
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: paying for the flights, and you wake up your flight's
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: quite early. So you wake up and you go and
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: have a shower and you look in the mirror and
• 20:12
  Speaker 4: you think, fuck, I forgot to shave last night, so
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: you have to do it in the morning. This picture
• 20:20
  Speaker 4: of that, all right, I swear you to let that
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: sink in and just think about you feel it's funny.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: We have the same experiences, like I can't grow a beer,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: but I get.
• 20:29
  Speaker 4: Like ugly stubble. Oh yeah, it's you have to shave.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I still have to shave. It's a lot
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: easier shaving. But I fool think it was nov I
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: had like a no I left earlier.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Maybe it wasn't over.
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I've had that exact experience were I've worken up in
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: the morning, I'm like, fuck, I've got something and we're
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: like a photo shooter.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: We had something on. I'm like this ugly little photo.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: But it's it's an honest hardship. It's fucking hey, I
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: really I think that I don't know how we left
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: any may even listening. I want you to know that
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: we see you. We see you. I see you, Yes,
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: thank you, we see each other. Yeah, thank you.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I really enjoyed that.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: The game to play too what was it that was
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: a good game?
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Bad?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: He's come back next week. You're paying for it, so
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: you probably will. But I had a good game. It
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: will come back to me when I drive home. Yeah,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: it was a similar to that, but like different.
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm down to play a game. Yeah, I like
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: playing games. Yeah, I play games of everything.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: It is dilemmas time bad as you guys know by
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: now that let me know if it's still there. Dilemmas
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: is pinned at the top of Patreon.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: It should be.
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: But some baddies, we're having some troubles and you have
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: your unique links, so we get to all of them.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: This one's interesting. I want to try and figure out
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: who it is. Okay, okay, Nah, interesting one though. So
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: hey boys, not really a dilemma, more just wanted to
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: hear your thoughts. You might know me from Love Island.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: I'm a sparky third year working for a big company.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: I actually love what I do, but lately the life
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: style has been hectic. Love Island Sparky.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: Is this a woman, Nah, it's a dude. It's a dooy.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I actually don't know.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: I just assumed you the dude. No, because I know
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: that they're on so you know how we started watching
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Love Island this year or the year just got twenty
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: twenty five Love Island? Yeah, there is a or is
• 22:29
  Speaker 4: it that girl woman named Yeah, I'd be able to
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: find her so easily. And she was like maybe twenty
• 22:36
  Speaker 4: one or twenty two.
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: She got paired with Mike had with the start? What
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: she got paired with Mike at the start?
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: Is that his name? Michael? What are you talking about? No?
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: This this she was a bombsheld when I'm talking about.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she got paired with the teeth.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: Dude, it's a teeth. No you're talking about that? Was
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: that guy's a swimmer?
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: No?
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no? What was his name?
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Mike? Yeah?
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: His name was Michael's name? Michael? I'm talking about Michael.
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: I think we're the tea. Yeah, the you're talking about.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not talking about No, No, the bombshell.
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: I know, can I find it? I see her tiktoks
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: occasionally because she's always wearing like trading gear.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: How do we Love Island?
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: Here we are? Yes, you're right. Sorry, I'm so sorry.
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: So Mike has big ars teeth, yes, yes, yes, he's
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: a model, yes, yes, yeah, yea yeah yah yeah yeah
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: what is love is? She should her, It's got to be.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: It has to do well.
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: Just I'll find it for the bad He's quickly world,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: why are they personal videos? Don't want photos of everyone.
• 23:35
  Speaker 4: We probably shouldn't say her name. If it is a dilemma, No,
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: it's not a bad bad one. It's like a life one.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Huh this girl who actually play that one?
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: That has to be Yeah of inside a clip?
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: Wait, were fully showing everything. I doesn't want to be anonymous.
• 23:51
  Speaker 4: She just said you might know me. True, she would
• 23:54
  Speaker 4: have expected us. She would have expected you and I
• 23:57
  Speaker 4: to work that out. The biggest brain we watched the show, Yeah,
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: we did.
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: So to reiterate you might know me from Love Island.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: I'm a sparky third year working for a big company.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I actually love what I do, but lately the lifestyle
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: has been hectic. I'm doing ten hour days driving from
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: the Goldie too busy every day about an hour twenty,
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: waking up at three am to train before work, and honestly,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: it's starting to feel draining. As a lot of people say,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: just push through. Everyone does it, and I get that,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: But at the same time, I feel like trades shouldn't
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: have to run people into the ground just because that's
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: how it's always been. I want to bring a different
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: perspective into the trade, where you can still work hard
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: but not destroy yourself in the process. Can you hear
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: your thoughts? Is it just part of the grind or
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: do you reckon things? Can slash should change?
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: That's a good question.
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: It's so weird if this is who we thought we've
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: worked it out to be.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, it's so weird to put a face to
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: what we're seeing. Yeah, or you're grinding three workouts, could
• 25:01
  Speaker 4: not be me. I literally have all the time in
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: the world, and I've been to the gym once this year. Yeah, baddie,
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: I think you know what you're doing here. You've come
• 25:08
  Speaker 4: to the right people.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you know what you doing.
• 25:11
  Speaker 4: We love telling people to quit.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: No, we love telling people about everything.
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: Not necessarily quit quitters where work different as.
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: Quit a job. No, no, no, no, no, tell me break
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: up with the job, break up with the city, don't
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: have sex with anyone at your job, break up valid,
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: break up with a boyfriend, break up with a girlfriend
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: if you need a break up, breakup. But you just
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: look at everything in your life as a relationshow.
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: And know what I'm talking about now, Okay, I can land.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: I can land it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: So the reason I think you've come to the right
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: place is all after I finished school eighteen, When did
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: we start this pod?
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: How old were we twenty two, twenty three, twenty twenty three,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: twenty three. Yeah, I was going to UNI.
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: I was.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I dabbled in a bit of a trade just and
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: it wasn't really for me. And everyone was just like,
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: that's how it is, that's what you should do, that's
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: the norm. And I was like, I'm not fucking accepting.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: That sounds so stupid. I'm just going to be depressed
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: and sad my whole life. Yeah, and everyone's like, that's
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: just what you do. And I was like, well, that's
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: not very that's not a very good idea. And no
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: one knew what was going on inside my head except
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: for me and Jake.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: Will try to explain it to Jake and he got
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: on board.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: But really, no one knows what's going on inside your head.
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: And if you feel this way, listen to it. There
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: is one hundred percent of world out there where you
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: can work normal hours. It's probably not in the mining
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: world that well's just obscure as But there's a world
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: where you can be a sparky have a good lifestyle.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: And I don't know how that can work, but there's
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: definitely a world where that does work. And if you
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: listen to people saying that is the normal, then your
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: life is being controlled by someone else.
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: Can you please read again what routine I'm doing?
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Ten hour days?
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: I'm doing ten hour days driving from the Goldie to
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Busy every day about now twenty, waking up at three
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: am to train before work and honestly is starting to
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: feel draining as.
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: Wol couldn't be nice Brisbane every day?
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And like I really empathize with training before work man, especially.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: With like fucking ten hour days in the mines.
• 27:10
  Speaker 4: She is, what I said, and it might as well
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: keep she's an electrician what he keep saying? The mines?
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: Isn't that what? Why? Oh? I thought she was. Don't's
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: any mines in Brisbane? I thought there was. Brisbane is
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: a city, you dickhead.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Isn't there a mine there outside of Brisy?
• 27:22
  Speaker 4: I mean, look, I'm sure maybe a few hours.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: I swear there's a mine in Busy anyway, maybe there is,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I could be either way. She's still driving an hour
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: twenty Yeah, and I was thinking ten out. Now I
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: supposed I'm maybe wrong, Yeah, but I think there's definitely
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: ways to work around. I would and my honest advice
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: would be, don't do it what and give yourself time
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: to figure out what you do want to do.
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, fair well, look for two we think
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: it is. I'm pretty sure that you're like twenty two.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I thought it was the other the man in there
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: who was also working in the mines as a sparky,
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: who she dated for a bit on the show.
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know. He didn't have much substance. No, he
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: was like nine, was he twenty nine?
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: He was jacked, yeah, and that he played into it
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: heavily when he first came into the show.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I didn't know how to talk.
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, he got voted out. I
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: think he was. He was in the villa for a
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: day or two. Yeah, that's who I thought it was.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm going maybe he was in the minds
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: in the show, and that's why I'm getting confused this magic.
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: It could be him.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, but yeah, we don't know. Yeah, comment in
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: below and say your name and so that's me, guys. Yeah,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: we're in the goldie we can we need some sparky
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: work every now and then.
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: But no, seriously, okay, look there does have to be away.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: Let me think about this, like the thing that there
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: is sort of so when it comes to being a
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: trades person, there is a lot of things that are
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: just like a super set and stone. Like for one thing,
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: it's like heavily men, yeah, lots of male workers. And
• 28:55
  Speaker 4: then there's all there's just like this kind of stigma.
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: I guess it's like I always found it so weird,
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: like because I have I'm a licensed carpenter or whatever
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: I did the four years my four year apprenticeship, I
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: was just the thing I didn't like was like, how
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: no matter whatever, one started at seven, this is my
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: experience at least started at seven, and then we had
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: a break at nine and a break at twelve, and
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: then we would finish at three thirty, and I just
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: like after why, I remember thinking like this is just
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: so I just for some reason found it so weird,
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: like when you aren't your own boss, it feels like
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: you're at school. Yeah, like you feel like you don't
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: really have any I guess freedom control and some people
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: obviously like really like the structure and stuff. To be honest,
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: I think I would probably be a higher performer with
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: better structure in my life. Yeah, but I just think
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: like this, if you're third year apprentice, yeah.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Fuck, well I think you could finish it.
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: That's the thing as well. I was like, we're being
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: an apprentice as well.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: It's like you can't really just leave And could she
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: look for another employer on the goldie and then when
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: she finds a quit.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: Yeah, surely that could be something you could be proactively doing.
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: I would assume, Yeah, that's probably a good little tip.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: I remember there's just so many little things within the
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: trade industry which is just like toxic in old fashion,
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: and she's like dumb. I remember when I did laboring
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: for like six months and I was digging holes for
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: like two weeks, and like after three days, my hands
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: really started hurt. So I brought gloves. I brought them
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: the next day just from home, and they will started
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: giving me shit for wearing gloves. I'm like, these things
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: are invented to prevent my hands from getting blisters. And
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: then they was like, you're soft, You're fucking this your
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: that I was like, you guys are losing a Let
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: me wear some fucking us the warm Let me wear
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: some gloves.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna go home and be able to.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I think my hands hurt the gym, and that's what
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: annoyed me. I was like, I can't work out because
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: my hands hurt from digging all day. Bought walls and gloves,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: and they all give me a shit. I was like,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: these guys are so backwards in their mind that they
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: think like the more of a man they are is
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: the harder work they do.
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, here, okay, here's one thing as well. I
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: was like, so you're in your third year of your apprenticeship.
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: I and I actually I nearly quit my apprenticeship. And
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: then the only reason I finished it was because of
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: a tafe teacher. Because I I stopped going to tape.
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: I had one I think I had two weeks of
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: tape left and I and I was like, I'm not
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: gonna be a fucking carpenter. I'm not. I don't need
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: to finish tape. Like why would I If I know
• 31:39
  Speaker 4: I'm not doing I would do anything, but this. I
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: was like, why would I have finish tape? And so
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: I stopped going the the last two weeks, and I
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: had friends from tape message and me being like, you
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: know the teacher's name. We used to call them Pewey.
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: Pewey is spewing, like you're not finishing a like he
• 31:56
  Speaker 4: was spewing. And I remember in him at a Vocal
• 32:02
  Speaker 4: bowling club and he saw me. He was like, Jake,
• 32:05
  Speaker 4: what are you doing? And I was like, what do
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: you mean when it? I was like doing what I
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: want to do, being a young dumb kid whatever, and
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: he's like, you have he said, I I will pass
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: you if you go and half ask the fuck out
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: of that last assignment. He emailed me the assignment. He's like,
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: I will literally tell you what to do, like I
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: will pass you. It's like everything else you've done has
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: been like great, like you need to just get this
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: certificate or whatever. And I was like, if you say so,
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: and so the only reason I finished was because a
• 32:33
  Speaker 4: teacher and so, like, I don't know if that's like
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: some sort of male privilege thing. I have no idea.
• 32:38
  Speaker 4: I genuinely have nothing that his luck it was like
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: pretty lucky. But here's what I'm saying. It's like I
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: actually under like I was gonna quit. And so here's
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying is like people are probably like you.
• 32:50
  Speaker 4: Let's say you talk to your parents and then you say,
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: I hate this. This is not a life I want
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: to live. And then they're like, oh, but you should
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: just finish. This is how it is, Like you just
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: need to finish because then you can back on it.
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: You can always fall back on it. Blah blah blah
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: blah blah. Like the way I see it is whatever
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: decision you make is the right decision. Who cares? Because also,
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: like so whatever decision you make is the right decision.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: And then let's say you go and you just tried
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: desperately to do something else and just everything else just
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: for some reason it didn't work out. You know, you
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: learned a lot along the way, but it just didn't
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: work out. And so you do want to make a
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: decent living, so you think, fuck it, I'll go back
• 33:30
  Speaker 4: to the trade. Like you'll be I don't know, thirty
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: thirty five. At that point, all of the stuff you
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: did at TAFE is called RPL recognized prior learning all right,
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: that exists in the system. Didn't pick up where you
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: left off pretty much, just pick up where you left off.
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: You'll have a year of TAFE left and then you
• 33:52
  Speaker 4: just get picked up be a maturaiged auprentice. You have
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: a year he sorry, have a year of TAFE left
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: and then finish and be and just go through it. Then.
• 34:01
  Speaker 4: Like my auntie became an engineer when she was like thirty.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Eight, I often think that too, Like.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I think, just don't people confine themselves to
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: their career.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm not telling you to quit or I'm
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: not telling you to stick it out, or I just like,
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: just whatever you want to do with the right choice. Yeah,
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: but I really do feel too, like at the end
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: of the spectrum is people do four years of UNI
• 34:26
  Speaker 4: or TAPE or whatever and then they're like, oh, I
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: have to do this.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: I just wasted four years of my life, which is
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: so wrong.
• 34:32
  Speaker 4: It's a wrong mindset. Look not to like call out
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: my sister. She was in a UNI for like six years, right, so,
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: and I might be the worst brother in the world.
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: I don't know what her degree is in. Yeah, Okay,
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: and now she's a manager at a boys and girls
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: club which is like Troubled Youth somewhere in Canada in Kamloops, Right,
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: And like, I'm about ninety eight percent confident that her
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: degree didn't get at that job. She's just really good
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: at that, you know what I mean?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Like it's hard one, Oh, it's very hard, I think. Yeah,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I think it's a good conversation. So thanks for bringing
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: it up. Yeah, and listen to your heart honestly, who
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: knows what to do?
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: And listen to us? Okay, I got one title. Can
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: you be friends with a situationship? Oh? No, we'll find
• 35:24
  Speaker 4: out he's ugly? Actually, is that the defining factor they
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: could be? Hey, mommy and Daddy, thanks for the pod
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: and all the last Hoping you can help me out
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: with a little dilemma. A year ago, I broke things
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: off with the situationship after a few months without real
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: commitment think girlfriend behavior without a label. He ultimately admitted
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: he wasn't ready for a relationship, and because I was
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: so naive, I was left hurt and misled. Since then,
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: I've reflected, grown as a person and moved on. After
• 35:54
  Speaker 4: a year of no contact, we recently ran into each
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: other as we lived nearby. We had reflective We had
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: a reflective chat where he apologized for everything that had happened.
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: We ended up getting along well with some good banter.
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: Turns out we're part of the same UNI club, which
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: hosts regular events where I'll see him quite often. He suggested,
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: maybe as a joke, that we could go to these
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: events together. Oh, and it's got to be thinking about
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: what might happen from here. Oh, I thought I'd closed
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: this door. So my question is, can you be friends
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: with an next situationship if there are no romantic feelings left?
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: Is it a bad idea to get involved again? Or
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: am I just overthinking things? Thank you from a confused baddie.
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: Look, I think the answer is yes, it's a bad
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: idea full stop.
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: Oh it's a bad idea to get involved in like
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: sexual relations again. Yeah?
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: What does she just want to be friends?
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah? I think you guys could go to a UNI club. Yeah,
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: but what be mature about it?
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: But what happens if like it didn't work out romantically
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: and she thought it was mutual. But then he's always.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: Been like, damn, its fucking bad.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: He goes pass. Shit, she's still bad. Might rekindle this shit?
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: You want to come to UNI club with me?
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: But they're in the same Unich club already.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know club. Fuck and then he is suggesting
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: they go together. He's got a Uni club together, because
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: you're bad. I assume it's like a club, and she
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: just wants to be Why do you want to be
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: friends with him?
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: But well, I think that she just wants to be
• 37:20
  Speaker 4: friends with him, because like he's trying to be friendly
• 37:22
  Speaker 4: with her, and then he's suggesting, like, yeah, we could
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: like go Uni club together and stuff.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Friendly and friends are different things.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you could so easily be friendly with it.
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: And then like, if you want to be friends with him,
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: go for it. You know what, who are we to
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: say yes or no? Go for it. But if you
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: start to catch like actual feelings for if you say
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: he catches feelings, you just have to be able to
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: admit when that's happening. Like, I don't really give a
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: fuck what anyone does. If I'm being honestly, do what
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: you want to do. Just admit what's happening when it's happening. Yeah,
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: and like you can tell.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: And then if you send in another dilemma saying like
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: I think my best friend, my best boyfriend has catch
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: for court feelings for.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: Me, we're not answering it. Yeah we will. They're the
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: good ones.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: Nah God, alrighty, some exciting things are happening in my life.
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: And I am.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: Going to say you are an expert in this field.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I don't like how you just went along with that
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: so easily.
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: I'm an expert, all right.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: So I'm going to call this things I'm doing now
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I'm moving in with my partner expert. So just to recap,
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: you have been living with Bethany, your partner, for.
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: I guess it's just just over a year. Yeah, it's just.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: Over a year.
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: And I am about to move in with Cassie, my
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: lovely partner. Probably by the time this episode comes out,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: I will be moved in.
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: So as we speak, you're like Kardastani. Yeah, yeah, it's
• 38:54
  Speaker 4: not It'll be a nice slow process.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, No.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: I think I'm just gonna do it one day and
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: then leave my clothes there and that's it. Okay, Yeah,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: so done.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: So these are things I'm doing now, moving in with
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: my partner, and I want you to tell me if
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: they're good and if you do them okay or did
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: them okay? Number one, make dedicated time for quality time.
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: Wait, you are you saying like this is what you're
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: going to start doing Yeah, okay, okay, go go again
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: and goes.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Because like you're again in the mindset of like we
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: have actively been going to each other's house and that's
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: like quality time. Yeah, but now we're always going to
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: be together forever, So like.
• 39:26
  Speaker 4: I would say that's a good thing to do. Yeah,
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: I would say best, And I actually haven't done that
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: very much.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: I haven't done that very much.
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: Well we should, Okay, we need to do it more. Yeah,
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: when was the last time you went on a date?
• 39:35
  Speaker 4: Have you been a one since? Been up? We haven't
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: been on a date for a while. Really, Yeah, yeah,
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: I would say I could blame so many things, but
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: really it's just like something. It's just that I need
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: to like organize one. Yeah, do you.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Know how we're talking about on the main episode? I
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: think it was the man episode like sextinger you talk
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: what about. I feel like this is the thing we
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: would do yearn for a date with her, and I'll
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: yearn for a day.
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: I'd do that time with you.
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's fucking I feel like that's almost better
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: than sexy right still flirt hid notes surpriser call her
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: stunning in beautiful.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's a good one. Yeah, that's a good one.
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: I would say, the notes thing I've only done like
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: a big notes guy, I've only done it like twice
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: in a year that I've lived with Beth. And then compliments,
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: I would say, I go in and out of complimenting,
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: Like I can have a month where I'm good, in
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: a month room not good, transparent.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: I think I need to be better with that too.
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it goes like way further than you think. Yeah, Like,
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: because here's the thing, is like again in our heads,
• 40:31
  Speaker 4: like we obviously think that our girlfriends are beautiful, but
• 40:34
  Speaker 4: like you have to get into the habit of just
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: like saying it more. Yeah, because it means a lot
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: when you say.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: I feel like my problem too is in my head,
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: hot and beautiful mean the same thing, but they don't.
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 40:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and I always call Kassie hot, but yeah.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: Baby you're hot.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's things I'm doing now I'm moving into my partner.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: It's not always.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: Fifty to fifty, Okay, And you want some elaboration, Yeah, yeah,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: I feel like with life, you're two independent people and
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: it's like a rope. At some point, someone's going to
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: have to pick up more slack than the other. Yeah,
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: and it's a team, whereas like it's not always just
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: like I'm going to do fifty percent of my roles
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: and you have to do fifty percent of that.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: You're both one hundred percent.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: And sometimes someone's gonna do one twenty, someone's going to
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: do fifty because you've got so busy at work that
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: one week and you're tired, and I realize that, and
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: I can do some more to make your life easier.
• 41:26
  Speaker 4: Consideration. Yeah, that's it.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Oh, things I'm doing now, I'm moving with my partner.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: Have the tough chats prior to moving in money and cleanliness.
• 41:34
  Speaker 4: That's a good idea, that's great. Have you guys had
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: those chats. Yeah, we're getting a joint bank account with McQuary.
• 41:39
  Speaker 4: I have another one mate we've just moved their business
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: in McQuary, sign on some Patreon and cleanliness. Yeah, yeah, I.
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Think that's going to be. It's a little bit of
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: trial and error too, because we actually don't know how like.
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: Is Cassie quite like neat freak clean?
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: Nah, I'm not use the word freak, just like for
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: very neat, I would say she's very neat, but then
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: also like just honestly.
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: Would you say she's no more. Yeah, yeah, like just
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: she's just like it. She's just like in the definition
• 42:04
  Speaker 4: of yeah.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: She like occasionally, if she's really busy, she'll like leave
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: an active set on the thing or whatever I tell you.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Occasionally she'll just like leave an active set on the
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: ground or something like every nom and then she was
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I'm so.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: Sorry, I don't care.
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: That's funny.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: I would say, like, yesterday, I'm staying at Jake's and
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Beth had like her like little toiletries bag of whatever she.
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: Puts in the mess it's your house. Yeah, that was
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: from her. She's been home for let me just say one, Okay,
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: she's been home for a while from her little weak
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: trip where that toiletrys bag was being used and it's
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: still there.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: Alright.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: So things I'm doing now, I'm moving over my partner,
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: setting boundaries for a lone time. Oh okay, I definitely
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: I reckon I'm gonna like have a I haven't had
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: this yet, like time and a place where I was like,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I just like I just need to be a loan
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: for a second.
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's funny, I would say. Beth and I didn't
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: talk about that. We didn't talk about a loans home,
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: we might have actually like not getting on top of
• 43:01
  Speaker 4: each other.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: To be fair, it might be different now that I
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: have like a workplace, Yeah, because that will be my
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: alone time in quotes, and you could always kind of
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: chill there for a while, whereas like I'm kind of combining,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: like my.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: House is my home.
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I work. I would say Beth and I have
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: kind of had that, like it's an unspoken thing. We've
• 43:22
  Speaker 4: been pretty you know, let's just catch a vibe. Yeah, true,
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: you just get a vibe. Yeah, all right. Two more
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: things I'm things I'm doing now I'm moving in with
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: my partner. Check Ins kind of goes over laft of
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: the last month. I would say, I need to do
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: more check ins. Yeah.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: We were really really good at started our relationship, but
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: now we're like we go, do you want to have
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: a check in?
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: And we go yeah, anything to check in? Nah, yeah
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: that's what we do. I know. Yeah, Okay, is that
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: still healthy? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I suppose it's giving the person the opportunity to say something,
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: so yeah, it is healthy. And last one, I've never
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: lived with a girl before, so be open and ready
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: for criticism. Yeah, because I don't know I think I
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: will obviously just do some things that annoying of course. Yeah,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: and you just have to be like that can annoy her?
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I'll be like I can actually change that.
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: Here's the thing, Okay, here's funny things all right that
• 44:14
  Speaker 4: just like pop up. So I would say, so, I
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: have a lot of little things like I always start
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: I call Beth Picky, and I'll start if I if
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: I'm about to kind of like ask her to stop
• 44:30
  Speaker 4: doing something or ask her to go pick something up.
• 44:33
  Speaker 4: Like I got to say, Beth loves a horizontal surface,
• 44:36
  Speaker 4: loves a horizontal surface, you know, when she's been somewhere. Yeah,
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: I always will start it off with like, hey, Picky,
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: go what have I done? What have I done? But recently,
• 44:51
  Speaker 4: next to our kitchen sink is a drying rack or
• 44:56
  Speaker 4: if you've hand washed something, because we have a dishwasher,
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: and so if something in dishwasher, do and get dried,
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: put it in the drying rack and let it dry
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: and put it away. Beth, when the drying rack is
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: not in use, wants it to be put under the sink.
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: Takes up some space, and so it's like, look, I
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: get that, but also I just want it out. We
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: put it away. But it's funny how people are different.
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: I see your point. I want to leave it out.
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: He's like, here's the thing. Is like, I don't know why,
• 45:28
  Speaker 4: Like I think it's kind of completes a kitchen. But
• 45:32
  Speaker 4: Beth is like I wanted to wait, it's busy.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: It's busy seeing there's little things like that.
• 45:38
  Speaker 4: Compromise. Yeah, yeah, compromise and do what she wants.
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: I dare say we are going to compromise more, but no,
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: I'm keen to like, I'm excited there's a new phase
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: in our relationship where taking things very slowly in the
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: sense of like this is November, will be three years,
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: about and half years, fair, two and a half years.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: But now I'm excited, very keen just to like it's
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: like seeing her in a new light. Obviously fucking stated
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: for months of course, yeah, you've always yeah, but it's
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: just kind of like different. I'm like being reverse so
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: much after work, Yeah, which is kind of cool.
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: She's also like, I wouldn't I actually I don't know
• 46:10
  Speaker 4: Cassie super well, but from what I can gather from
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: maybe social media and what you say, is so she's
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: very structured, she's the most structured person constructured. Yeah, and
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: I'd be keen to see how you guys go with that, because,
• 46:21
  Speaker 4: like I would say, you're relatively unstructured, like you do
• 46:25
  Speaker 4: similar things every single day, but it might happen.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: Then I have one rule that I'm not going to
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: compromise on.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: You get one alarm. Look, I mean that's.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Valid because she's waken up at four thirty am, Mike.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: If you have three alarms, like I can get to
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: sleep after one. Yeah, if you wake them up twice
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: or three times at four thirty.
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: Know, what she could do is like a good compromise
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: on that is either she just says, look, I will
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: do one alarm, or you could get something else that
• 46:50
  Speaker 4: wakes you up that's not noise, Like you can probably
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: have something that vibrates. You have something else. She could
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: have as many alarms as she wants.
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: That's a great. Yeah.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: We had a fight about this. We've said something before
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: and stayed over a long time. I was like, can
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  Speaker 1: you just wake up to one alarm?
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  Speaker 4: Like it's an absurd hour in the morning, Like, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm tired for this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and she goes, She goes, I don't know when
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  Speaker 1: I when I click snooze.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, well you do. She reckon sis in
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  Speaker 4: like a like a sleep trance, and she's like, I
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  Speaker 4: literally don't even remember hitting snooze. I was like, well
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  Speaker 4: you do. That's not an excuse, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 4: But like, yeah, so you were you trying to turn
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  Speaker 4: it off. This isn't a good argument, like you did it,
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  Speaker 4: Like you're clearly up and clicked it. I have gotten
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  Speaker 4: to the point where so I very rarely needed to
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  Speaker 4: set an alarm because I'm lucky enough to not have
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  Speaker 4: to photo shoots fly. Yes, of course, yes except business
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  Speaker 4: business stuff. But so literally though that actually we've got
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  Speaker 4: a shoot coming up at it. I know. So the
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  Speaker 4: last time I sat an alarm was for a flight.
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  Speaker 4: And what I do is I set. I do set two,
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  Speaker 4: but I set the first. I set. My goal is
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  Speaker 4: to wake up on the first one, because I kind
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  Speaker 4: of know what she is saying. Sometimes I will snooz.
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  Speaker 4: I aim to snooze one right, and then I because
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  Speaker 4: I want. I'm like, I do want. I'm just so tired.
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  Speaker 4: I want nine more minutes and think that's how long
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  Speaker 4: it is. It's like nine minutes. But I accidentally turn
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  Speaker 4: it off and then I'll miss a flight. So I
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  Speaker 4: will set yeah, bit two alarms ten minutes apart, so
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  Speaker 4: then the second alarm wakes me up.
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  Speaker 1: But I my goal is to wake up on the
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  Speaker 1: first one. But if she had, like I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if this is unfair, give me two. If she had
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  Speaker 1: a flight or something, and like, I would understand two
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  Speaker 1: or three alarms, but like seven days a week, I'm
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  Speaker 1: not copying.
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  Speaker 4: Give her two, give her two. Let her have one.
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  Speaker 4: This vibrations she wants a Yes, the vibration things a great.
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  Speaker 4: She could have as many as she wants. But give
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  Speaker 4: her two.
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  Speaker 1: Well, it's not called Norah Ring. There's another brand. They
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  Speaker 1: reached out to me, their own Human. Yeah, she wants one,
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  Speaker 1: They said, the would send me a free one.
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  Speaker 4: Ultra Human. Yeah, fuck you, Ultra Human.
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  Speaker 2: You I ate it.
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  Speaker 1: They wanted an affiliate marketing thing. Hate that, and then
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  Speaker 1: I talked I lost interest to me. But Cassie once once,
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  Speaker 1: so I might just be like, yo, buy one. No,
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  Speaker 1: I might just get the free one and then not
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  Speaker 1: do the affiliate thing.
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  Speaker 4: You don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good idea, but uh, you know what time
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  Speaker 1: it is bad? He's time for the related was bad.
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  Speaker 4: He's boogie.
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  Speaker 1: If you want to get a song added, simply comment
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  Speaker 1: on the episode you are listening to, and I Oddie
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  Speaker 1: Clark will add it. Yes, here we go, let's shuffle.
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  Speaker 1: I've been adding a few so oh this is new.
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  Speaker 1: Don't let the sun go down on me? George Michael
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  Speaker 1: and Elton John.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe it's a live one.
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  Speaker 1: Oh shit start so far?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not happy.
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  Speaker 2: I sorry aboud it's next one.
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  Speaker 4: Here we go Olivia a rego fall out of a
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  Speaker 4: home school girl.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think I.
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  Speaker 4: Get along with anyone in cold. I'm on the outside.
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  Speaker 6: It's the greatest inside joke.
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  Speaker 4: I'm my mid too.
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  Speaker 2: Should we go one more?
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  Speaker 4: Is what I'm not happy with? This? One of them?
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  Speaker 4: Here we go? This? Should we go?
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  Speaker 2: He wait, Harry Styles, we're staying at the end of
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  Speaker 2: the year.
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  Speaker 3: Intellects.
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  Speaker 6: They were saying, they were into it's such.
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  Speaker 4: A bratty place on a breadedness timing me what I'm
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: into it. I'm into it. I'm trying of into it.
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  Speaker 3: Get scary.
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  Speaker 4: I think I'm losing it. I think I'm losing it.
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  Speaker 4: She said, this is like, so no him, that's hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: Let's be old. I don't mind any way.
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  Speaker 4: Show me I think it's new. Oh it is old.
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  Speaker 2: I'll give that ala.
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  Speaker 4: It's like a rock.
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  Speaker 1: Sol six point seven, We're going to go five ship's low?
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  Speaker 4: What's that? Five fort noe? What is that? What's half of?
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  Speaker 4: Six point six point seven?
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  Speaker 1: Three point five five six seven eight point five five
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  Speaker 1: point eight five?
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  Speaker 4: There we go. Thanks bad, We love our state. Bads
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