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Romeo In The Morning 5-13-26 · Romeo & Friends

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  Speaker 1: That was going on. Everybody, it's Romeo. We talked a
• 0:02
  Speaker 1: little bit about the Dodgers, because you know, our attorney,
• 0:04
  Speaker 1: Daniel Rodriguez has Dodger tickets. We gave some of those away.
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  Speaker 1: We also got into going to college, whether it's good
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  Speaker 1: for you or not. And we talked about competing with yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get better as you got older or not?
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  Speaker 1: Let's find out why are we starting the day off?
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  Speaker 1: What did you send me here? Already? Four two, five, four,
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  Speaker 1: seven and seven. That's how you text, that's how you call. Hey, Romeo,
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  Speaker 1: I wanted your opinion on my relationship. I've been seeing
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  Speaker 1: this woman for over a year. We're talking about moving
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  Speaker 1: in together, but she lives in the house that she
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  Speaker 1: got in her divorce and I've never been married and
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  Speaker 1: I live in an apartment.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't want to move in with me.
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  Speaker 1: She wants me to move in with her, but I
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  Speaker 1: feel weird moving into her house because she lived there
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  Speaker 1: with her ex husband. What do you think I should do?
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  Speaker 1: I think you should stand up right now and lap
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  Speaker 1: yourself in the face. What in the hell is wrong
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  Speaker 1: with you? Let me put this in a perspective for you. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: you and this woman want to move in together. She
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  Speaker 1: has a house, but you don't want to live there
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  Speaker 1: because her ex husband lived there with her. But you
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  Speaker 1: have no problem having sex with her. Her ex husband
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  Speaker 1: had sex with her. You don't have a problem with that, though,
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  Speaker 1: so you don't have a problem doing everything else that
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  Speaker 1: her ex husband did with her. But you have a
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  Speaker 1: problem moving into the house that she got in her divorce.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not really sure what kind of idiot you are,
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  Speaker 1: to be honest with you. That could be the dumbest
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  Speaker 1: thing to think about. Already four two five, four or
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven?
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  Speaker 2: Does she have a car.
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  Speaker 1: With her ex husband? Do you ride around in that?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what kind of dumb ass are you? I
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  Speaker 1: can't even I can't even right now? All right, already
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  Speaker 1: four two five, four, seven to seven? I wonder if
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  Speaker 1: you've had sex in the bed that her and her
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  Speaker 1: ex husband used to have sex in, in the ex
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  Speaker 1: husband's house, or in the house that her and her
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  Speaker 1: ex husband used to live in. Bet you're not having
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  Speaker 1: a problem with that, right, but you just can't live there.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 1: What I think is you need to stop being so
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  Speaker 1: damn insecure and idiotic and move in with the chick.
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  Speaker 1: If you like her already four two, five, four, seven
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  Speaker 1: to seven. This guy sent me a text message basically
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  Speaker 1: he wanted my opinion on his relationship, saying that a
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  Speaker 1: woman that he's been seeing for over a year, they're
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  Speaker 1: talking about moving in together now. She lives in a
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  Speaker 1: house that she got in her divorce. He lives in
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  Speaker 1: an apartment. He says, he's kind of he feels weird
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  Speaker 1: about moving into a house that she got in her divorce,
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  Speaker 1: that her and her ex husband lived in. You don't
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  Speaker 1: have a problem jumping in the sack with her after
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  Speaker 1: her ex husband's been there.
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  Speaker 2: Why would you care about the house morning? Not what's
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  Speaker 2: going on?
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  Speaker 4: Man? That got something demontell.
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  Speaker 2: Romeo sounds like an idiot.
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  Speaker 4: He got to be a young feeling entitled. If it
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  Speaker 4: was the older guy like me, I would have had
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  Speaker 4: a housewarming party and write it all my friends over.
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  Speaker 5: Chat there in the front yard every day with the
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  Speaker 5: cold one waving at the neighbor had a matt.
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  Speaker 1: I said, welcome to raider Dames.
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  Speaker 4: Welcome to day waiting at everybody get my robe in
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  Speaker 4: the morning. My neighbors.
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  Speaker 5: Man helping the neighbors do stuff everything.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, he over there, I'm ready to Dave. That would
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  Speaker 4: have been me.
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  Speaker 2: I know, all right, I know, just move right in?
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  Speaker 1: What an idiot? Already? Four two five, four seven to seven?
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  Speaker 1: Rome what's wrong with this guy? Tell them just do it.
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  Speaker 1: My ex wife, my wife's old man didn't have a
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  Speaker 1: problem moving into my old house. Well, I mean, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it makes no sense, right, I mean, what kind of insecurities?
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  Speaker 2: Art do you have? This guy who.
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  Speaker 1: Texted me this has got to have some weird insecurities
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  Speaker 1: that he's not successful enough to you know, he's looking
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  Speaker 1: at himself and his success. Why doesn't he have a house?
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  Speaker 1: Why are you still have an apartment? I mean you
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  Speaker 1: got roommates. You gotta talk about that one day too.
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  Speaker 1: Already four two five, four seven to seven. Yeah, bro,
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  Speaker 1: just move in with her. If you really like her,
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  Speaker 1: things are going well moving with her. Why are you tripping?
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  Speaker 1: It's not like you're giving up your house to move
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  Speaker 1: into her and her ex husband's house. You're giving up
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  Speaker 1: an apartment. You go find one of those when she
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  Speaker 1: kicks you out. All right, guy sent me this kind
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  Speaker 1: of funny He says, Hey, Romeo, I wont your opinion
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  Speaker 1: on my relationship. You know, I've been seeing this woman
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  Speaker 1: for over a year, and we're talking about moving in together.
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  Speaker 1: But she lives in the house that she got in
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  Speaker 1: her divorce, and I've never been married and I live
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  Speaker 1: in an apartment.
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  Speaker 2: She doesn't want to move in with me.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to move in with her, but I feel
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  Speaker 1: weird moving into her house because she lived there with
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  Speaker 1: her ex husband. Well, you just called it her house.
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  Speaker 1: What do you think. I think you're an idiot, and
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  Speaker 1: I think you need to stop being so insecure about
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  Speaker 1: something you know already four two five, four seven to
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  Speaker 1: seven Romeo, tell that guy to think about it this way.
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  Speaker 1: That's not her and her ex husband's house. That's her house.
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  Speaker 1: She got that house in the divorce, so it's her house.
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  Speaker 1: He's moving in with her, not her and her ex husband. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you can think about however you want, But the bottom
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  Speaker 1: line is you weren't worried about, you know, getting in,
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  Speaker 1: you know, having sex with her.
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  Speaker 2: Her ex husband had sex with her, that didn't bother you.
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  Speaker 1: You're probably having sex in her in the bed that
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  Speaker 1: her and her ex husband had sex, and but yet
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  Speaker 1: you're drawing the line at the house. I mean, that
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  Speaker 1: makes no sense. Already four two five fours seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: I'm with you, Romeo. That's an upgrade. He just being
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  Speaker 1: a dummy, he is, it is, Hey Romeo, I saw
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  Speaker 1: I say they look for a new home together, because
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  Speaker 1: how you said, his insecurities, the fact the husband lived there,
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  Speaker 1: will always be in the back of his head when
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  Speaker 1: there's no uh, when there's no pleasure, a new place,
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  Speaker 1: a new start. Yeah, but he has no problems sleeping
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  Speaker 1: with the chick that her ex husband lived in.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, why you draw the line at the house.
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  Speaker 1: That's just stupid. There's no logical explanation for it at all.
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  Speaker 2: None.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, she got a divorce, she got married, got a divorced.
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  Speaker 2: Got the house.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, now it's her house. I like what the last
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  Speaker 1: lady said or guy said, whoever said, Now it's her house.
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  Speaker 1: It's her house, alright, eight four, two, five, four or
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. I'm sure he stayed the night there
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  Speaker 1: a few times, So give me a break. He might
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  Speaker 1: just be a little insecure, you know what, because she
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  Speaker 1: got a house and he don't. That might be intimidating
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  Speaker 1: for him. Well, go get you a house. They already
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  Speaker 1: four two, five, four or seven and seven. Guys sent
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  Speaker 1: me this said, Hey, rome I want your opinion on
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  Speaker 1: my relationship. I've been seeing this woman for over a year,
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  Speaker 1: talking about moving in together. She lives in the house
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  Speaker 1: that she got in her divorce. I've never been married
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  Speaker 1: and I live in an apartment. She doesn't want to
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  Speaker 1: move in. She doesn't want to move in with me.
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  Speaker 1: She wants me to move in with her, but I
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  Speaker 1: feel weird of moving into her house because she lived
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  Speaker 1: there with her ex husband.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think I should do? I think you'd
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  Speaker 2: be like her.
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  Speaker 1: I think if it's working, I think you should move
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  Speaker 1: in with her is what I think you should do already?
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  Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven seven?
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  Speaker 2: Hey rome Hey, Romeo, tell that guy not to do it.
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  Speaker 1: If he wants to move in with that woman, he
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  Speaker 1: needs to do like the last person said, and they
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  Speaker 1: need to get a home together because the ex husband,
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  Speaker 1: I guarantee you still believes that's his home as well.
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  Speaker 2: And you never know what he might.
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  Speaker 1: Do if he finds out that another man has moved
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  Speaker 1: into his home. You know, no, Come on, what kind
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  Speaker 1: of psycho X do you think? Does she well, that's
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  Speaker 1: not well? Does she have a psycho X? Is her
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  Speaker 1: ex husband psycho? There's some psycho dudes out there, So
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  Speaker 1: maybe you're right, but come on, man, you got dudes
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  Speaker 1: are holding the grudge?
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  Speaker 2: You guys out there.
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  Speaker 1: Some guy texted and said that his wife some dude
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  Speaker 1: moved into his ex his his ex wife's house. They
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  Speaker 1: had it when she got in the divorce. You still
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  Speaker 1: think that's your home? Well, what do you dodes think
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  Speaker 1: when you lose your house in a divorce? Do you
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  Speaker 1: still think it's still yours? Do you still you're holding
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  Speaker 1: the grudge? Come on now already four two five, four
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  Speaker 1: seven to seven. This text message's kind of funny. He says, Hey, Roam,
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  Speaker 1: I wonder your opinion on our relationship. I've been seeing
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  Speaker 1: this woman for over a year. We're talking about moving
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  Speaker 1: in together, but she lives in the house that she
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  Speaker 1: got in her divorce. And I've been I've never been married,
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  Speaker 1: and I live in an apartment. She doesn't want to
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  Speaker 1: move in with me, wants me to move in with her,
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  Speaker 1: but I feel we're moving into her house because she
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  Speaker 1: lived there with her ex husband.
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  Speaker 2: What do you think?
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  Speaker 1: I think you're an idiot? Already four two, five, four
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  Speaker 1: seven and seven? Now what's going on?
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  Speaker 6: Tell if I loves a house to a divorce, which
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  Speaker 6: I've already did.
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  Speaker 1: It's okay, hold on, you lost your house to a divorce.
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  Speaker 3: My house.
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  Speaker 6: I lost it in a divorce. I had made a
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  Speaker 6: mistake of putting my spouse down as another person. I
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  Speaker 6: forgot what they called it. I think it was like
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  Speaker 6: a weird name, honestly, like a housekeeper some some weird
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  Speaker 6: stuff like that.
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  Speaker 4: I don't remember it.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, long time, okay.
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  Speaker 6: And we were getting a divorce and it was becoming
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  Speaker 6: to be too toxic for like the kids. So I
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  Speaker 6: went ahead and I read to the house. I had
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  Speaker 6: signed the paperwork and everything. And I know it's gonna
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  Speaker 6: sound crazy, but I left him with everything. We're talking furniture,
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  Speaker 6: my clothes, everything was left there. I walked away. I
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  Speaker 6: got my own place, slept on the floor for three years.
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  Speaker 6: No furniture got back up, and hey, I'm back up.
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  Speaker 1: That's not crazy at all. What I want to say
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  Speaker 1: is what could a punk ass dude let a woman
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  Speaker 1: leave her home with their kids and he stayed.
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  Speaker 6: Well, that's why we're not together. We were married, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: and we only lasted actually officially married for two months,
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  Speaker 6: and we were together for a while. But even then,
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  Speaker 6: you know, like I said, he thought he was on
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  Speaker 6: top of everything because he won the house, and you know,
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  Speaker 6: he sold everything. He basically gut in the whole house
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  Speaker 6: and everything that was in there. We're talking refrigerator, Kyle.
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  Speaker 6: What happened? Whatever you can sell, he sold it was
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  Speaker 6: from you out and the bank tried to come after
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  Speaker 6: me for that. But then that was during the time
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  Speaker 6: when all the mortgage went belly up. Yeah, so it
• 11:00
  Speaker 6: got erased because that main had a big issue. And
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  Speaker 6: I even got the money back, and I did tell
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  Speaker 6: him about the fifteen thousand dollars check that I received afterwards.
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  Speaker 6: You just told him now, so you know, in the
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  Speaker 6: long run, yes, I might have lost the house, but
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  Speaker 6: I wasn't going to hold a grudge because I said
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  Speaker 6: to myself, I'm young enough to rebuild a kit.
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  Speaker 2: You're a good woman.
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  Speaker 1: You're a good woman.
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  Speaker 2: Thanks for calling. I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 5: You're welcome.
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  Speaker 6: You have a good day.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you too, Bye bye.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what kind of punk ass dude, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: tell you right now, I don't care what go wrong.
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  Speaker 1: You gotta be a punk ass dude to say to
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  Speaker 1: stay in the house and have your your soon to
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  Speaker 1: be ex wife and kids, go find somewhere to live.
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  Speaker 1: Already four two five four seven to seven yo Rome
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  Speaker 1: ex wife got the house, dude moved in. He pays
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  Speaker 1: for it, so technically it's now his house. Uh oh,
• 11:52
  Speaker 1: this is the dude he said that happened, that happened
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  Speaker 1: with him. Let's see this is uh yeah, this is
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  Speaker 1: this guy. This happened to him. His ex got the
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  Speaker 1: house and her new man moved in. He pays for it,
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  Speaker 1: so technically it's his house. But that's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna hold a grudge. I mean, dude, if you
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  Speaker 1: lose a house and a divorce as a man. And
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  Speaker 1: I know a lot of you guys are not gonna
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  Speaker 1: like it when I say this, but it's because you're
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  Speaker 1: a bunch of pathetic you know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't care what happens. I don't care she cheats
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  Speaker 2: on you. Be a man.
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  Speaker 1: Walk out that walk out that uh that that front
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  Speaker 1: door with your bags and start over, your man. You
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  Speaker 1: should be able to start over. Don't sit there and
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  Speaker 1: cry whine hold a grudge. I don't care what she
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  Speaker 1: does to you. Walk out, okay, and start over, because
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  Speaker 1: that's what men are supposed to do. Already, four, two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four seven seven, Hey, room, she should uh, he should
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  Speaker 1: leave that chick for one who has an apartment that's
• 12:51
  Speaker 1: willing to let her apartment go to move in? Is well,
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  Speaker 1: what if you mean what if he leaves the chick
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  Speaker 1: for the house, gets a girl with an apartment and
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  Speaker 1: she has a better apartment than him, then what does
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  Speaker 1: he do? So when you started off, this guy's crazy, right,
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  Speaker 1: he says. Apparently he's been dating this woman over a year.
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  Speaker 1: They're talking about moving in together. Apparently she lives in
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  Speaker 1: the house that she got her divorce. He lives in
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  Speaker 1: an apartment. He feels weird moving in with her because, well,
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  Speaker 1: her ex.
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  Speaker 2: Husband lived there with her. I just I don't know
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  Speaker 2: more than it's going.
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  Speaker 4: On, Romeo. If it's one thing that Raider Dave has
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  Speaker 4: done is watched a lot of episodes of Divorced parts.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm gonna say, you're tripping. She came in with nothing,
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  Speaker 4: she's leaving with nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, what do you mean she got the house? What
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  Speaker 2: you talking about?
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  Speaker 4: Exactly? I mean? But but yeah, the last call, I
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  Speaker 4: act like she helped him feel something.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, married to him for
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  Speaker 1: two months.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got you Yeah, you're trying to.
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  Speaker 4: Help her out. So yeah, I got a disagree on
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  Speaker 4: that one.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I'm different.
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  Speaker 4: If you've all jumping together, then she may be entitled
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  Speaker 4: and the man can walk away.
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  Speaker 1: It's right later already four two five, four seven seven,
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  Speaker 1: Hey roam, But is fully paid off or she still
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  Speaker 1: has to pay for it to keep her house?
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  Speaker 2: Wow, that is a good question. That's a very good question.
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  Speaker 1: Is the house outright hers because she got in the
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  Speaker 1: divorce or does she still have to make payments? Because
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: people don't realize that sometimes that when you get divorced
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  Speaker 1: and you keep the house, and if it's not paid off,
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  Speaker 1: you keep the payment too. You don't just get the
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: you know, unless you know, unless the husband has to
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  Speaker 1: pay off the house. But yeah, that's not I don't
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  Speaker 1: believe that's how that works. And you could over value
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  Speaker 1: a house. I saw, this was funny. I saw a
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  Speaker 1: poor girl. She she married a friend of mine, and
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: my friend is a little a little shisty. Right, they
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: got the she ended up keeping the house, getting the
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: house valued at whatever. I think it was valued over
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  Speaker 1: a million dollars or something like that. Right, So in
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: the divorce settlement she got a million plus dollars in
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  Speaker 1: her divorce from this guy, but a million of it
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  Speaker 1: was the value of the house, and the house still
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  Speaker 1: they still owed some money on the house, so I believe,
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  Speaker 1: if I correct, I believe she ended up staying there
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  Speaker 1: for a few months, but ended up selling the house
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  Speaker 1: because she couldn't afford it. So some of these guys
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  Speaker 1: are pretty tricky. So you're right, is the house fully
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  Speaker 1: paid for or not? I don't know. Yeah, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: That's a good question, But I mean, does it really matter?
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  Speaker 1: Is it really that big of a deal moving into
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  Speaker 1: moving in with some woman who got a house in
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  Speaker 1: a divorce?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you live in an apartment.
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  Speaker 1: I mean worst case scenarios, things don't work out and
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  Speaker 1: you know, to you go back to an apartment or
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: I don't know, your ego might be a litt your
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: feelings might be a little too much involved in this
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  Speaker 1: one hot any foe boy one the rhythm in the valley,
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  Speaker 1: it's Romeo.
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  Speaker 2: I'm what's going on?
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  Speaker 4: Now that I understand the conversation a little bit more,
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  Speaker 4: I'd like to say that the apartment guy is tripping
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  Speaker 4: big time. You know, he has nothing to feel bad about.
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  Speaker 4: He's upgrading that.
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  Speaker 5: In fact, come in half a conversation and have an
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  Speaker 5: opinion on half a nonsense and then go, wait a second,
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  Speaker 5: I wouldn't even know.
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  Speaker 1: What he was talking about.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: Well, well, because i'm working. You know, I'm working. Sometimes
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: I'm listening to you in the corner. But right now
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: I got you got my full attention, and he's tripping.
• 16:35
  Speaker 4: He's upgraded. If anything's been that man, and thank you
• 16:38
  Speaker 4: later on the holidays, tell them everything's going good. I'm
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: watering the grass, taking care of it. Tell im don't
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: feel bad. I just know that that girl ain't playing.
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: If he messes up, she's gonna get everything. So yeah,
• 16:50
  Speaker 4: he just got to know what he's getting into because
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: she's done it once. Don't don't get too carried away.
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I would do it.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: That's it. There is.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Everybody's dream is owning a home. So you got a
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: little head start. You didn't have to put down any money,
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: so good.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Sounds like a Raider fan, all right, David, sounds like
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: a Raider fan. Why work hard to get your own
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: home and you can just mooch off somebody else's Tomorrow
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: night and the Dodgers are playing the San Francisco Giants, Right,
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: is that correct?
• 17:25
  Speaker 2: What is it?
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: A seven o'clock game? Seven ten, seven to ten start.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: I got a pair of tickets for you. Daniel Rodriguez,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: you know Rodriguez and Associates. Daniel is our guy. He
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: loves helping out the community, he loves giving back as
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: much as he possibly can. And he has Dodger tickets.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: They're absolutely amazing Dodger tickets. By the way, they're behind
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: home plate somewhere. It's been a while since I've been there,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: so but I got a pair of tickets for you.
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: I got his Dodger tickets for you. Let me see
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: when they're going to be hold on, let me check. Yeah, tomorrow,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Thursday's game, Thursday night game. That's the Dodgers, And I
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: got two.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: Tickets for you. All right, All you gotta do is
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: here's what.
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: We're gonna do now. I love seeing you, guys. I
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: am not a huge baseball fan. I never really have been.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: I think going to the ballgames are great. I love
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: going I like going to the Dodger games. I think
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: everybody and you guys, send me pictures of your families
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: and your girlfriend's boyfriend's husband's wives, mom's dads. You guys
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: are all got great photos from the Dodgers games. You
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: look like you're having a great time, and I think
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: they're fun. So here's what we're gonna do. I want
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: to see who's repping the Dodgers right now? All right,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: you guys, it's just a it's just a regular Wednesday,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: right Today's Wednesday. It's just a regular Wednesday. You guys
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: are going about your regular day, whether you're taking the
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: kids to school, whether you're going to work. Who's repping
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: the Dodgers right now? I'll get your pair of tickets
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: to of the Dodgers tomorrow night's game. All right, you
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: gotta be able to go, obviously it's a third Well, yeah,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: you can go. You guys be off work by then, already.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Fourteen ft four seven, send seven seven of your photos
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: whether you're who's repping the Dodgers the hardest right now?
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Right now? All right. I don't want the photos from
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: when you went to a Dodger game ten years ago,
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: or yesterday or five minutes ago. I want who's repping
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: the Dodgers. You got a Dodger room in your house.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: Who's repping the Dodgers? Just in their everyday life, and
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: then we'll go through those photos. I'll choose a winner.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Get some tickets to the Dodgers. Now, you gotta go
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: to the game though. You gotta really be a fan though,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: You really gotta want to go to the game tomorrow,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: all right, alrighty four teen ft four or seven to seven?
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: All right, So everybody, it's Romeo. Now. I was giving
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: me some tickets Daniel Ronriguez, Rodriguez and so chiefs. You know,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Daniel has tickets to the Dodgers, great seats tomorrow night's game.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: I gotta pay of tickets for you. You gotta go
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: to the game, though, you gotta want to go. I'm
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: looking for the biggest Dodger fans, not the ones that
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: were at the games, but the ones who rep.
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: Them every day.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: What you've got going on right now, which means I'm
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: probably gonna see some guys with some hats on, maybe
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: some tattoos. I don't know what kind of Dodger tattoo
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: you'd have. Let me see here. Let's see what we
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: got here, all right, who's this? That's awesome? My guys
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: wearing a red shirt with Dodger blue on. That's pretty good.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: That's pretty good what you got going on here? My man?
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Uh yeah, all you guys got your Dodger hats on.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: Come on, you're gonna have to come a little more
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: correct than that, right than a Dodger hat. Oh wait,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: he's got My man, here's got the Dodger hat and
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: he's got the Dodger bob ahead on the dash. So
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: there you go. Well that's pretty good right there. I mean,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: that's better than just a hat. Right, come on, who's
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: repping the Dodgers right now? Already? Four two five, four
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: seven to seven? A blue hat?
• 20:48
  Speaker 7: Is that?
• 20:48
  Speaker 8: All?
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Is that? All it takes? Is that how committed you are?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: Raider fans were all black every day because of the
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: because of because of their fans. Oh shoot, my guy
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: headed to work. He's got his that's pretty awesome. He's
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: got his vest on. Oh that's kind of cool. He's
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: got his vest on with his Dodger skull. It's a
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: you know, a skull ahead of a skull with his
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: Dodger hat on.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: It looks kind of like airbrush or whatever.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Not airbrush, but yeah, it's a photo that he has
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: on his safety vest. And his safety vest is blue
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: and us so yeah, Oh that's a good one. That's
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: a good one already. Four to two, four or seven
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: to seven. I had it made for every day for
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: the haters. That's on my way to work Rome every day.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: That's yeah, that's representing, that's going above and beyond. So
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: let me see here, what do you guys who's repping
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: the Dodgers right now? So far? My boy, it's actually Rader,
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Rob is repping pretty solid right now. Work wouldn't let
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: me wear the hat, so I had to do this. Oh,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: they wouldn't let you wear a hat, Dodger hat. So
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: you made this little safety vest.
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: That's that. That's a good one, all right.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: What do we got going on?
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: A room room?
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I don't want the tickets, but don't mind the music.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: But my house every day the big flag at the end,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: eight by twelve flag. Oh man, he is rocking a
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: huge flag. That's crazy, all righty four two five, four
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven. Oh damn, she got the jersey
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: and that hat on heading off the work.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: That's a good one.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: That is a good one too, all righty for two five, four,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: seven to seven?
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: Like I said, we got.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: Dodger that's creating. My guy, he sent me a photo
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: of his work hat, hard hat. He just drew LA
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: on it, and he actually did a pretty decent job
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: drawn on and honestly already four to seven and seven.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: Like I said, we got the Dodgers. I got a
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: pair of tickets for you on my way to work.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Can't dirty my white jersey. Oh he's got he's rocking
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: his hat and his and his LA shirt. It looks
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: like okay, okay, Like I said, we got tickets.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: Dannie Rodriguez, he's our guy.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: He's got teas and passes or season tickets to the Dodgers.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: He likes to give him away when he can't make it,
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: So we do it a lot, uh two tickets. I
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: got them for you. You gotta go to tomorrow night's game, though,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: you gotta go to the game seven ten Giants and Dodgers.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: What's up, Radier?
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: Rock?
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: That is your jacket? You know, that's your your vest?
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: Your work vest? What is it?
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah? My work vest, safety vest. I got it on
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: right now.
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: How come? How come they wouldn't let you wear a
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: dodg your hat?
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: You know what? They want us to wear our reliable.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Energy oh company hats.
• 23:53
  Speaker 4: Okay, well that's fair company hat. So that way we
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: don't go into customer's house representing any type of team
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: on our hats because they don't just want to see
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: my vest. They just quit with me. They said, I
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: can't wait with you.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: That's pretty badass. I'm gonna I'm gonna give you the tickets.
• 24:07
  Speaker 7: Rob.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: That's pretty good. That's good. The skull with the cap on,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: it's pretty solid.
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I had it. I designed it myself and then
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: I just sent it in and they printed it for himself.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Was like, oh hell yeah, and uh so you can
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: you go to the game tomorrow night?
• 24:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah that's an l a right, yeah, yeah.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, Rob, We I'm gonna give
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: you the tickets, all right, Hold on a second, all right,
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: so you guys gonna have to wait for the next time.
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: Don't worry. Daniel's so busy.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: He always has extra tickets to the Dodgers. So we'll
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: get you guys hooked up next time. Uh we come around.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: What else?
• 24:40
  Speaker 7: Did you know?
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Somebody sent me a video of flags? You guys got flags?
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: And uh what did you send me? Here? All right?
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: A four two pop.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: Full or seven seven A room? I wanted your opinion
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: on something my wife and I are having a problem
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: with our daughter now. Our daughter has always wanted to
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: go to college. She's graduating at the end of the month,
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: and she's decided she doesn't want to go to college now.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: She wants to just start her life. She doesn't really
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: know what she wants to do. Now. My wife is
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: very upset about it. She really is. She really wanted
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: her to go to college and make something of her house,
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: of her house of herself. I myself am a business
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: owner and have done pretty well to take care of
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: this family. So I think she can make it no
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: matter what. My wife and I disagree. Rome what do
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: you think. I think that you don't need college to
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: be a success, and I think college can help you
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: become a success. I think it just depends on who
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: the individual is. And but you said she doesn't know
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: what she wants to do. I think that's what you said. Yeah,
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: you made that in the tech. Let me go through
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: the message again that she's not sure what she wants
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: to do. She just knows she doesn't want to go
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: to college. Then I would say that your wife needs
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: to get on board because the problem is if she
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: doesn't want to go to college and I'm assuming she's
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: what eighteen years old, she doesn't want to go to college.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: She's not going to succeed there. If she doesn't want
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: to go, it doesn't matter. People will, people will go
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to college. There were people that I have friends that
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: went to college never just wasted their life, wasted, not
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: their lives, but wasted their time in college trying and
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: it was never going to be for them, you know.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: And I have friends that peoples now.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Own very successful businesses that are doing good, doing great. Actually,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: they used to force college on you. So no, I
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: think if you're I mean, if you've succeeded, why is
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: your wife acting like that? If you've succeeded as a
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: business owner to provide for a family, why is your
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: wife worried about your daughter? Why is your wife so adamant?
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: I bet your wife went to college.
• 27:07
  Speaker 7: Huh.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: That's why college people usually first force college on their kids.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: So no, I think she'll be fine. I mean, if
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: you've made it, then I mean she'll she'll figure out
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: something that she wants to do.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: I mean, give her a little bit of time.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: I'm not one of those people that think she need
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: to force an eighteen year old into something immediately.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: You know, they might need a.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Little time just to come out, you know, after high school,
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to realize what the real world is like. You know,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: she should get a job, whatever that job may be,
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: if she doesn't already have one.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: But no, your wife's wrong.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Your wife needs to change her opinion or she's just
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: gonna drive a wedge between her and her daughter's relationship.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: College isn't for everybody, and there's nothing wrong with that
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: already four two five, four or seven to seven. Although
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: I do believe this, I will say this, I do
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: think you should go to college for a little while
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: if you don't know what you want to do, just
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: to see you know. Ah, what do you say here? Hey, Roam,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: how can you tell tell that guy that his daughter
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: doesn't need to go to college easily? It's just it's
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: not for everybody. There are so many options. I have
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: so many friends that didn't go to college and are
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: so far much more. I have two college degrees, and
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: they and these guys are so much more successful. Guys
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: and girls are so much more successful in me. They
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: run their own businesses, they make more money, they have
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: wonderful lives and nothing to do with college.
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: But then again, I have.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: Some friends that are thriving who went to college, So
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: I mean it works both ways. You just have to
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: figure out what your kid wants and not force something
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: on them.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: The problem is, you guys all think.
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: College is the way, well, college graduates all think college
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: is the only way to succeed, and it's not. You
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: have to figure out what your kid wants to do
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: and how they're going to succeed, and sometimes it's college,
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: sometimes it's not. So that's how I can sit here
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: and say not college isn't for everybody, you know, It's
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: just I have friends that went to college. I have
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: friends are who are girls that went to college just
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: to meet a guy, and now they're married with children
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: and they're stay at home wives with college and their
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: husbands are college graduates. I mean, it just everybody has
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: to figure out how you're gonna how you're gonna provide,
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: provide and succeed in whatever matter, whether you do it
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: from college or whether you do it from a trade school,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: or whether you just work your way up in the
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: oil fields. It doesn't matter however you get there, just
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: as long as you get there. So that's how I
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: can say that already four two five four or seven
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: to seven.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: I got a text messes from a guy.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: I guess his daughter. She's graduating here pretty soon, and uh,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: she decides she doesn't want to go to college. Now,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: I guess the mom is upset. His wife is upset
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: about it. I'm gonna guess she's a college graduate and
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: that's why they she's so disturbed she doesn't go to college.
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: He just he said he'll owns a business and he's
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: done very well in his business, and so he's okay
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: with his daughter deciding not to go to college, which
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: is fine. You can't send somebody to do something they
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: don't want to do. They really makes it hard for
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: them to succeed. And I know there's a lot of
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: you college graduates out there that are going to Romeo.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: You can't be telling people not to go to college.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: You can't say yes, I can. I'm a college graduate,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: you know. And my degree has nothing to do or
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: my two degrees.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: One of them kind of has to do with what
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: I do, the other one has nothing to do with
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: what I've done for a living for the past thirty years,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: absolutely nothing.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: I have friends that aren't college graduates.
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: Nobody, And when I've graduated a school. That's all they
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: pushed you. Go to college, go to college, go to college,
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: and never showed you a different path to be successful.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: And somebody has to show these kids a different path.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, you're all not going to
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: be an influencers. That's the first thing you got to
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: get out of their heads. You're all not going to
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: be famous on TikTok. You're all not going to be
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: famous on YouTube and make a gazillion dollars. Okay.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: People still have to work.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: People still have to find a trade or something a
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: career that makes you successful. Okay. But they're out there.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: So that's how I can sit here and say, ah, Rom,
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: you're telling every given every No, I'm not, I'm not.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: I'm giving you the best advice. In fact, you know
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: what I should do. I should be a high school
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: counselor because I could look at these kids and see
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: what they're interested in and make sure they head down
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: a path for success and financial stability instead of trying
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: to push something on them then they don't want to do.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: It's just ridiculous. Hey, Rome, if the kid don't want
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: to go to college and is not working after high school,
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: when do you, as a parent stop paying for their things?
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I well, never, I don't know. I'm gonna tell you this.
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: This is and that we're gonna have a different opinion
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: on paying for kids financially. If you can afford it,
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: I would help. I would help kids financially. Okay, assuming
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: you can afford it. Here's the thing about paying about
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: out of high school. Nobody said she wasn't gonna get
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: a job. I mean, you got to get a job, right,
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: But I think you should give kids a little a
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: little break.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I mean, high school's rough.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: High schools for for Here's the thing that nobody understands.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: And this is what you what you moms and dads
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: don't get is you apply your life and your trials
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: and your and your tribulations to your kids. So you
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: can sit there and go, you know what, high school
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: is easy. When you're ten years out of high school
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: or twenty years out of high school and you know,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: got your career and you've done, high school is meaningless.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, you're like, oh, high school.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: So irrelevant, But try telling a sixteen year old girl
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: high schools arrelevant when you're trying to manage and manipulate
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: or get through high school or a sixteen year old
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: boy or fourteen year old, twelve year old. I don't
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: know how old freshmen are, but my point is their
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: experiences in high school is real.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Just because your way past high school and you've overcome
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: your experiences and made it through doesn't mean what they're
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: going through today isn't real. You can't discount that. You
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: can't tell your kids, hey, high school doesn't mean anything.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: You'll see well, and they will see, but they're not
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: going to see while they're going through it every day.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: So you need to give them a break. So back
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: to your question, whence you should stop paying, Probably two
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: years or a year, give them at least twelve months
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: out of high school to figure it out, to regroup,
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to see what the real world's like now that they're
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: not caught an accessible of high school. I mean, the
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: hardest thing you've ever gone through is the hardest thing
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: you've ever gone through, And just because you've lived longer
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: to go through harder things doesn't mean what they're going
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: through isn't difficult. Assuming that it is, okay, I would
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: say give them a year to figure it out if
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: they don't want to go to college, or maybe they'll
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: decide to go to college. I would say, if some
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: kid comes out of high school and they just and
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: they need a break, I would say a year.
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Big room to see how glue man?
• 34:38
  Speaker 7: What up?
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Lou?
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Hey, I one hundred percent agree with everything you're saying
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: right now. Man, I think there's some people that just
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: don't either want to go to college or college is
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: not for them, you know. Yeah, but I do think
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: they need to get a job.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, and everybody's got to get a job.
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: That's not what we're talking We're not talking about just
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: being a burden to society. We're just talking about finding
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: a different path to success, however you get there. It's
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: not College is not the only way to succeed.
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, man. I didn't go to college, and
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: I'm perfectly fine.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: You know, you're doing great, lou.
• 35:17
  Speaker 3: I could use that as an example.
• 35:19
  Speaker 8: Cool man, I'm gonna use you as an example when
• 35:23
  Speaker 8: everybody says that, okay, all right, already pour to you
• 35:29
  Speaker 8: bout for seven seven who didn't go to college.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: You let us. He let his old lady go to college.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: He supports him. Uh hey, rom Another point you got
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: to make is a degree or is the degree or
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: career your child is seeking worth the debt you guys
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: are about to take on that. I don't know about that. Yeah,
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: you're right, big boy, Big boy's right about that. But
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: big Boy's got plenty of money. He's uh, he's paying
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: for all his kids debts, so they're good, all right.
• 35:54
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: The point is, there's just other options. There's other ways.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: You know, you got to find what your way is
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: to make it.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Egam On to Rome. Why doesn't that fool just give
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: her a job?
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: If he runs a successful business, one day someone has
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: to take over the family business or not. I mean
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: maybe not.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: I think that, uh, maybe the daughter doesn't.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Want to take over the business or whatever his business is.
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: You just never know.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta, you just but you can't force.
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Your kids to do something because you did it. You know,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: they have to want to. I know a guy, if
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: buddy of mine's kid went four years of college, graduated,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: got a great degree, could be making some real good money.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: It just wasn't for him. Once he got out of school.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: He spent a little time bumping around, and now he
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: joined the military and he's doing he's really flourishing. He
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: loves it so different strokes. I mean, you know what
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, You gotta figure it out? Le'd you send
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: here already? Four to two, four or seven A seven?
• 36:55
  Speaker 8: Rome?
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Yes, parents should help at most for one to two years.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: Give the kids young adults two years to find themselves,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: save up money, and yes, figure it out.
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: I agree with you.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: At the same time, when the second year comes, have
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: them pay some rent so they can learn good habits
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: and because nothing is free.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: I mean that's fair.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, if your kids are coming out
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: of high school and they just really don't know, I
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: mean you should still support them, help them figure it
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: out for at least a year. I'll give you two years.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I'm okay with you with that.
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: What are we talking about?
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, Rome, it's hard to take Seahawk Lou seriously?
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: Huh Yeah, I mean he is an idiot, so it's
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: hard to take dummies dummies seriously. But he seems to
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: be living his best life. However he figures it out.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: You know, he seems to be doing alright, so whatever
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: he's doing is working. You can't argue too much, right
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: already four two, four or seven seven?
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: Hey, you have a cheese fan.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: I didn't go to college, but I did, only fans
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: turned out to be all right, you're an idiot. Look, man,
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: you gotta take it. You gotta take it at least
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: a little bit seriously. Man, what we're talking about. All
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, though, there's different ways to succeed. Okay, you
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: don't need to go to college. So if this girl
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: decided she doesn't want to go to college, the mom
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: is probably a college graduate, so she's probably pissed that
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: she's not following in her footsteps. Dad's a business owner,
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: he said, he runs a successful business, raised a family
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: off it. I mean, how you gonna how are you
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: gonna be mad either way with what whatever this girl
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: decides to do. Okay, she'll figure it out. It just
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: it's it really is. He just got to be supportive, man,
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: support your kids so that they can be successful. However
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: they get there, all right, just however they get there
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: already four two five, four or seven seven?
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: Oh I just forgot what else I was gonna say
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: about that, But yeah.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: All right, just so you know, for the guy, just
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: to reiterate, if she doesn't want to go to college,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: she's not going to succeed in college. She'ld just help her. Maybe, yeah,
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: maybe the guy's right. Give her a job with you,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: just to have her do some stuff around your business,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: to take up the time until she figures out what
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: she really wants to do. You know, already pour two, five, four,
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: seven and seven. And the good thing about deciding out
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: of high school is you know you're young. You got
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: plenty of time to figure it out. You know, she
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: might take a year off and then decides she wants
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: to go to college.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with that.
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, when you're young, you can make the mistakes
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: because you got time to figure it out. Okay, already
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: pour two, five, four ards seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: you need to be careful. You got these kids listening
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: to you, and they're gonna take your advice and not
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: go to college and not be successful. No, I don't
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: need to be I know exactly what I'm talking about.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I'm smarter than you. Okay.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: If your kid doesn't want to go to college and
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: you force them to go to college, they're just gonna fail.
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: What if they want if they're interested in something, maybe
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: they're good with their hands, maybe they're good doing something,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: why don't you help them focus on that to be successful.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: College is not the only way to win. So now,
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: don't tell me I need to be careful. I know
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: exactly what I'm doing, and I'm right already four two, five,
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, I have a
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: friend in school debt for twenty g's and today she
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: has a job that has nothing to do with her
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: degree and has an amazing job, family and huge home.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: Her son now has a successful business. He wasn't successful
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: in high school, so didn't choose college, but still did
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: something good with his life.
• 40:40
  Speaker 2: Well, he's probably successful because his parents are successful.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Successful people usually raise successful people. How you get there
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: is you know, they just all do it differently. It's
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: good for the kids that do college, but it's also
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: okay to choose a different path, and we as parents
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: should support that. You should support that. You have to
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: support that, because.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: What's the ultimate goal.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: The ultimate goal being a parent should be to make
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: sure by the time you die that your kids are
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: self sufficient, self sufficient, able to take care of themselves
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: and productive parts of society. Right, Hey, whoever brought whoever
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: brought OnlyFans up? Can they explain the point of that?
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: Don't all these dudes that pay that paper that know,
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: there's all kinds of free porn out. I don't know.
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: I don't care about only fans. I don't even know
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: how to get on only fans. Hey go over a
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: good morning, Romeo. Who needs college? I just turned my
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: walk in closet into a music studio so my son
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: can take us out of the hood. Well, there you go.
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: Hopefully it works out for you. I mean, that's what
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I'm saying there.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: There are many ways. There are many paths to success.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: For some people, it's college. For some people, it's a
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: trade school. For some people, it's just to hit the
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: workforce and work your way up. For some people, it's
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know, start your own business. For some people,
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: there's a lot. For some people it's just get married.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: I mean, there's a lot of different ways to success.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: Everybody has a different path. The problem is you guys
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: are always trying to push your kids down the path
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: that you want them to go down, because you're not
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: listening to your kids and you're not really helping them.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: This whole thing started because a guy texted me and
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: he said his daughter decided he didn't want to go
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: to college. The wife's pissed at or it's causing problems.
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: He said. He he didn't go to college.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: He started a business which he's has been very successful
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: for him and his family. So I don't know. Not
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: everybody needs college, man, Hey Roan, we need more people.
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: And that this come from me.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: I'm a college graduate. I have two college degrees, so
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: I am a college graduate, but I do a silly
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: radio show. Right.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: We need more people entering the trades.
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: Not everybody's capable of doing college and being successful exactly.
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: College is not for everybody. There is something for everybody.
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: I think you just got to find what that is.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: And nobody listens. Everybody's aye, you gotta go to college
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: out of high school? You got I mean, I don't
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: know if they still push that. Do they still push
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: college out of high school? I don't know if they do.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: They did when I was in high school that that
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: was the you know, that was what everybody should do.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: That's how you were gonna win. When that's not real.
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: But now, I mean, you guys are fighting a whole
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: nother struggle with YouTube and TikTok. Everybody swears they're going
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: to be a podcast, or everybody swears they're entertaining, right,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: everybody thinks that all they need to do is get
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: online and they're gonna be Now you're not. You guys
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: are not entertaining. Okay, I know some of you are,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: some of you aren't. Well, some of you are. Almost
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: all of you aren't. So that's all you got to
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: probably fight that battle too with your kids. Right the
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: twitch is everybody's gonna be what's his name? What's the
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: guy who's real successful with twitch? And I can't think
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: of his name right now. I can pick Truski. Is
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: that who it is? I can't remember who it is.
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: But yeah, you gotta find the one. You gotta find
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: what works for the person and how they can succeed.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: I mean, that's really what you gotta do already four two, five,
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, I want to
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: tell you what happened to me. When I was sixteen
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: years old, I got pregnant. My mom was so upset
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: she was ready to kick me out of the house
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: and make me go live with the guy that knocked
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: me up. My dad said, nope, we're gonna help her.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: My dad said, nope, where You're going to help her
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: and make sure that she has a good life. So
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: my dad and my mom ended up helping me with
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: the baby. When I graduated high school, I ended up
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: going into hair and now I'm very successful. I own
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: a hair salon here in Bakersfield. Would you mind throwing now,
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to give you a shot out. I
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: should give your parents a shot out for handling the situation.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: I mean that's exactly what they should have done, is
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: to support you, and now look at you. Give you
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: a shot out. I'll give your parents a shot out. Hey, Rome,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I don't have a college degree. I got my class A.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: I'm an own operator making good money. Yeah. I know
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: a couple of dudes, by the way, just to be
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: honest with you, I know a couple of cats that
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: own their own trucking businesses and are just doing so
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: well that their wives don't work. They just they have
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: great lives. I mean that's what they plan to do.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: So it just depends on what it is that you
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: want to do, what it is that you are good
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: at and that you can be successful at. Okay, that's
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: really what it comes down to. And stop pushing your
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: kids to do stuff that they don't want to do.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: Help them find what they enjoy and they can make
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: money off of. That's what you got to figure out. Yesterday,
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: yesterday some friends of mine actually went to college with
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: We're driving through Bakersfield. They were going from up north
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: down south. They're doing a little vacation in San Diego,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: and so they stopped by for lunch. We got together
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: for lunch. We were, you know, talking, you you get
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: together with old friends. I mean we talk a lot.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: It's not like I don't ever talk to them. That's why,
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: you know.
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: So we stopped why we're talking for lunch.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: And it was funny because now, when we were in college,
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: she was a volleyball player. She played for the volleyball team.
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: He was a soccer player. He played for the soccer team.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: So they were both you know, athletes, they're both in
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: amazing shape. Well, you know, they got married, she had
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: a couple of kids, and they're in their forties mid forties.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: And the reason I say this is because when we
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: were talking, one of the conversations that came up was,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: you know, how everybody was in college.
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: And she says, I look great after a couple of kids.
• 46:54
  Speaker 2: And she goes she starts.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Talking about bragging about how in her forties, how amazing,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: she looked, and she does, she looks amazing, she looks great. Well,
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: she looks great for her forties. And I said, you
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: think you and I asked him this. He didn't answer it,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: by the way. I said, you think you are better
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: today than when you were a college volleyball player. And
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: she goes, well, yeah, I look great. I'm like and
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: but she kept preferencing. After a couple of kids, I'm
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: in my mid forties, she kept giving, you.
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: Know, preferencing. She looks great, and she does.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that, but the cont to have
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: the conversation of no, you don't you look good. Yes
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: for everything that you've just said, but you do not
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: look better than when you were a college athlete, okay,
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: And we were laughing about it. I go, she goes, yes,
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: but I'm so much smarter in this, and then I go, yeah, mentally, mentally,
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: you are probably better today than you were in your twenties.
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: Absolutely you were not. I mean, she's still attractive, she still,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: you know, looks great. But when you have to sit
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: there and go, when you have to quantify something, I
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: look great for fifty, I look great for forty. Well, okay,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: but do you ever think about it competing with yourself?
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: And this is how I brought it up to her.
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: I said, let me ask you this question. If you
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: were competing against your twenty five year old self for
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: your husband, who do you think would win? Even? She said,
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: her twenty year old self, Because it's.
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: True, right, have you gotten better with age.
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: Already? Four? Two, five, four or seven to seven? You
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: guys ever thought about that? You guys always you know,
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: people always talk about well, if I knew this back then,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: I would have been unstoppable. You know, I look great
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: for this today and everybody people like to, you know,
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: boost them, pump themselves up, which is fine, But do
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: you ever think about competing with your younger self? Who
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: do you think would win? If you had to compete
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: with your younger self, you ten years ago, you twenty
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: years ago?
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: Who would win that competition? In whatever capacity?
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 49:17
  Speaker 9: Oh, good morning Romeo?
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: Hey, what's up?
• 49:22
  Speaker 9: So I am gonna be forty six this year? Like
• 49:26
  Speaker 9: that you said, the lady said that she looks good.
• 49:29
  Speaker 3: I have never looked so.
• 49:30
  Speaker 9: Good in my life like I look good. Like when
• 49:32
  Speaker 9: I was younger, I don't think I would have been attractive.
• 49:36
  Speaker 7: But now I am very extracted because I get hit.
• 49:38
  Speaker 9: On all the time.
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: But I can tell you.
• 49:39
  Speaker 9: Right now, my younger me would whoop my ass. Now
• 49:48
  Speaker 9: win it by walking up a flight of stairs. I
• 49:51
  Speaker 9: have to getting out of bed. It takes me good
• 49:54
  Speaker 9: five to ten minutes before I get out of bed,
• 49:56
  Speaker 9: Like somebody is just okay, it's good looking body, but
• 50:01
  Speaker 9: the body in the inside is body my age.
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: Wait, so you say, but you said you look better
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: today than you did when you were younger.
• 50:11
  Speaker 9: Yes, okay, but yeah, I guess I don't know how,
• 50:15
  Speaker 9: like how it is like I don't know how that happened.
• 50:18
  Speaker 7: But yeah, it's weird.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, I appreciate it. Thanks you calling. I mean,
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: it's it's it's hard for me to believe that.
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: But unless you were I mean, yeah, I get it.
• 50:33
  Speaker 2: I'm talking about Yeah.
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: Okay already four two, five, four, seven to seven? The
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: point is, did you get better with age? Did you
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: get better with age? All right?
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: What do you got here?
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: Eight? Four, two, five, four, seven and seven eight Romeo,
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: it's funny you brought this up.
• 50:49
  Speaker 2: I'm going through this right now.
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: I have two daughters in college who are very good
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: looking and very attractive. They are spitting images of their mother. Now,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: my wife is trying to keep up with them. She
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: stays in great shape, but she just can't do it.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: So I'm watching it play out. She oh, my wife,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: she my wife is actually competing with herself, which is
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: our two daughters right now. It is so funny to
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: watch because she tries to dress, she tries to dress younger,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: she tries to act like she can do everything they
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: can do, and it just doesn't work. Rome It's kind
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: of funny, well, funny and sad. I mean, that's probably
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: the better question, right, all of these women out here,
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: these Rosedale moms that were pretty pretty good looking, pretty
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: pretty hot in their day and probably have these daughters
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: that are that are good looking and hot today, and
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: you guys are try to keep up with your daughters, right,
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: that's probably a better better conversation stationed a half. So
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: that's pretty funny already. Four twobopo or seven to seven,
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: Hey roam, what happened to your boy and the girl
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: at the bar with the Laker jersey? Oh yeah, the
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: other night when the Laker what was that Monday night?
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: I can't remember one day that was nothing happened yet
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: they uh, they hung out. They hung out for the
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: rest of the game, and then they got together. I
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: think they got together the next night. I actually think
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: they're getting together now to watch the playoffs. I think
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: now they're just I mean getting together to watch playoffs,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: all right, So yeah, I guess it's moving forward or whatever.
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: I mean. I don't know. I don't know exactly what's
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: happening yet, but they're they're seeing each other again.
• 52:44
  Speaker 7: I know that. Dat well MEO, aren't we changing the
• 52:47
  Speaker 7: subjects like really quick?
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: For something?
• 52:49
  Speaker 7: Last week? Said a guy called that she ain't sit
• 52:53
  Speaker 7: well was whole time, and I talked to you about that.
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: Wait, okay, what do you what happened?
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: Go ahead, Yeah, what you done?
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: No?
• 53:01
  Speaker 7: I guess I guess the guy I called in and
• 53:03
  Speaker 7: said something about like, oh, his wife doesn't want to
• 53:07
  Speaker 7: take care of the kids whatever she gets works because
• 53:10
  Speaker 7: like she's too tired, and that like didn't sit well
• 53:13
  Speaker 7: with me, because us as parents, as mothers, we know
• 53:17
  Speaker 7: breaks at least, I don't you know what I mean? So, brother,
• 53:21
  Speaker 7: if you go to work and you you saw to
• 53:24
  Speaker 7: tend to your kids, that's the same set well with because.
• 53:29
  Speaker 6: I get it.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: What you say, Okay, yeah, that just.
• 53:35
  Speaker 7: That, just that just irritated me. So I mean, I
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: worked sixteen hour shifts and I still come home and
• 53:42
  Speaker 7: tend to to my kids, you know what I mean.
• 53:44
  Speaker 7: So there is no such thing as as media as
• 53:46
  Speaker 7: a break or get a break. So yeah, I just
• 53:49
  Speaker 7: wanted to change on and just just share my opinion
• 53:52
  Speaker 7: on that absolutely.
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: Okay, All right now I meant, don't let him bother
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: you all lead what's going on?
• 54:06
  Speaker 4: Well, I gotta agree with that last caller. Okay, Radder
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Dave is getting better with time, better with time.
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: Hold on, Radder Dave.
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: Someone said, no room, tell that lady to just call
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: to send him before and after pick.
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't need to see him before that.
• 54:20
  Speaker 4: I'll send them before and after picks. But let me
• 54:22
  Speaker 4: explain rad to Dave. He said, a fat, little ugly guy.
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: When he was young, he never could get a girl
• 54:27
  Speaker 4: at all. Okay, and now the tables have turned. All
• 54:30
  Speaker 4: the fine chicks got four or five kids around welfare,
• 54:34
  Speaker 4: all the guys that were athletic or a'll crack kids,
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: And here rayder Dave is responsible. You know, I couldn't
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: do push ups back then. Now I'm doing Berkeleys every day,
• 54:46
  Speaker 4: so the tables have turned. I could never get a
• 54:48
  Speaker 4: date back in junior high high school. All the girls
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: just wanted to be my friend. Now they're all trying
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: to slide to my DM.
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: Now you're better, huh way better.
• 54:56
  Speaker 4: I'm aging like wine.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: All right, ridder Dave, thanks for going.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: There you go, I mean there you go. All right,
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: Raider Dave's better today than he was back in the days.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: Getting better as you get older, I think you get okay, yeah,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: do you get better with time? You're talking about competing
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: with yourself? Eight four two five four seven seven A Romeo,
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: let me break it down for you.
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: Hold on a second, good morning.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Now, what's going on?
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: What's up?
• 55:23
  Speaker 7: Romeo?
• 55:24
  Speaker 9: Rob?
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: Here?
• 55:24
  Speaker 7: What up? Rob?
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: What's up?
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Hey?
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: Raider Dave is right.
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: We do timeline and I could say my grilling, my grilling.
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: When I first started, it was okay. Now I'm tak
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: dog going to grill and io a lot of people.
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: All right, all right, all right, hey, Ron, the table
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: left turned. I used to turn him out and that
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: on that table at Laredo. Oh, Raider Dave, this is
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: nasty Nate, Yeah.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: Nasty nay.
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: One day we're gonna have that nasty day to explain
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: this reallylationship with Raider Dave when they were in Laredo
• 56:03
  Speaker 1: already four two pop four or seven and seven. So
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: let me read this to you because this guy, I
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: think breaks it down pretty good, says Romeo.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Let me break it down for you.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: When it comes to men, we cannot compete with ourselves
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: with our we cannot compete with our younger selves physically
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: because when we're younger, we're stronger, we're faster. But mentally
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: we become smarter, we become assuming you become smarter, we
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: become more financially stable, which is more appealing to women. Now, women,
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: on the other hand, are the opposite. They can become smarter,
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: they can become richer, but it still comes down to
• 56:45
  Speaker 1: how they look. So when it comes to women competing
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: with their younger selves, from a looks standpoint, there's no competition.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: Let me see if I can understand what he said.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: So men, Yeah, I guess he's right. I guess that
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: makes sense. Huh. Men cannot compete with their younger selves physically,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: but mentally and financially they would beat their younger selves. Right, Yeah,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: young broke, you get out you could be a young
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: a young meathead with no money and dumb is dirt.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: You run into a tor the twenty year old or
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: the thirty year old, the twenty plus year old version
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: of you, who's got a job, a lot smarter. Yeah,
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: competing for that girl, he'd probably get her over. Yeah,
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: maybe you're right, maybe that, Maybe you're right. Hey, Rome,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: greater Dave sounds like a dumb ass. Girls aren't looking
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: for for a sucked up dude. They don't want to
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: pay on They don't want to pay on eating good.
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: They don't want to pay on eating good. They're looking
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: for a husky guye that pays like the wait.
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: Okay, hey, roam that lady and.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: Raider to day got the Benjamin button. The young me
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: in high school looked better, but was shorter and weaker.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: I weighed sixty pounds less and jump higher, short and skinny.
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: Now twenty years later, I'm taller, faster, and stronger, solid
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: two hundred pounds of muscle. Can't jump as high, but
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I will bully the younger me. I know more than
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: I did back then, pulling more women now because of
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: my muscle.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: Okay, well, I mean.
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: That's the pointer are you better today than you were
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: back then. I mean, that's a legitimate question. All right,
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: what do you got here? Yo?
• 58:39
  Speaker 7: Rome?
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: Grown men strength.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: I can definitely beat my twenty twenty three year twenty
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: three year old selfs But okay, I mean maybe maybe,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: maybe maybe. I'm not gonna argue with you. I don't
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: know what you were like at twenty three or what
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: you like now, but all right, that's fair already four
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: two five four seven in the seven eight ROWM.
• 59:01
  Speaker 2: Can I ask you a quick question?
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: I know it's not on topic, but about about eight
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: months ago, my wife's sister lost her husband. Last night
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: I had to meet the new guy that she's dating,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: and we're having a conversation, and my wife said that
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: if anything ever happens to her, I better not start over. Okay, okay,
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't do.
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: What do you want me to?
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: What do you want me to tell you? I have
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: a I will tell you a funny story about that though.
• 59:39
  Speaker 1: I have a buddy. Him and his wife been together
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: since high school, and he always tells me if anything
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: happens to him, that I'm not supposed to like the
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: new guy she goes out with. And because he you know,
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: And I keep telling him if he's cool, I'm gonna
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: hang out with him, especially if he's got a boat.
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: So I can't help you. Broh, you're gonna be dead.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: And so I don't know how.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: What do you want me to tell you?
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: Man, she's gonna if you could start over, if your wife,
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: if your wife goes first, there's no problem. She's gonna
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: be gone anyways. It won't matter, okay, right, What a
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: weird conversation to have already?
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: Four two pove four seven seven.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: Hey, Romeo, did you just say, like eight months ago,
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: that that lady lost her husband and she already moved on? Yeah?
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 2: I did say that. That's what they told me.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 1: What's uh?
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: What's the problem?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: How long? Oh? Here, hold on? Don't you think that's
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: a little soon? Rome after losing the love of your life? Uh,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: she probably should have waited a little longer. I don't
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: know why. Why should she have waited a little longer
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: than eight months? I don't I don't know how long
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: should you wait? I don't know already four two? Well,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: I do know.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: I have an opinion, but mine's gonna be a little.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: And that is this, if you break up with somebody,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: whether it be a breakup or divorce or whatever the
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: case may be.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: Then I think you.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Should give it a little time to cool off, get
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: over your emotions, figure it out, because there's a chance
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: you may get back together. Okay, there's a chance that
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: there may be a way to fix the relationship and
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: end up together. I'm not saying it's gonna happen. I'm
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: just saying it's a possibility. When you lose a partner,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: then I don't there's absolutely no chance for you to
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: get back together, Okay, And so I don't judge people
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: as harshly or judge them at all. Basically, actually don't
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: judge anybody on when they decide to when they decide
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: that they're ready to move on to a new relationship.
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: But there's no possible ability of you getting back together.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: You're not disrespecting that person by moving on. You're just
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: not I mean, you would hope that the person you're
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: with right now, and my buddy is not that person
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: when he always tells me if he goes before his wife,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: he does not want her to see anybody ever again.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: But you should. You would hope that the person you
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: are with right now loves and cares for you enough
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: that if something God forbid ever happened to you, that
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't move on and be happy. They didn't want
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: you just to sit at be lonely the rest of
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: your life. I mean, who wants that for somebody that
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: they care about? And so I don't think there is
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: a time limit if you lose somebody. I don't think
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: there's a time limit. Whenever you feel like you are
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: ready to move on is absolutely fine, because there's absolutely
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: no there's not a possibility to getting back together already
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: four two, five, four or seven seven? Hey, what up
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: with all these ghetto people just thinking about fighting their
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: younger selves? Reminds me of that Chris Rock stand up
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: where he's like, oh, you went to college, but can
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: you kick my ass? Though the conversation started off a
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: female thinking she looks better than she did back in
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: the back in the day, shaking my head, yeah, I mean,
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: what do you expect though? Guys are stupid? I mean,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: especially in Bakersfields, most of these neanderthal meatheads are just
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 1: they're stupid.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: Do you expect the morning?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 3: Every morning?
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: Morning?
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 7: Four one