Latest / Drama, Darling: A Real Housewives Comedy Podcast / 🌸 RHOP Recap: "Ray and Gordon on QVC"
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Drama, Darling Drama, Darling Drama, Darling.
- 0:19Speaker 2: Hello and welcome and welcome in Darlings and happy Martin
- 0:23Speaker 2: Luther King day. It's Monday, and you know, one of
- 0:27Speaker 2: the greats, one of the all time greats. I love
- 0:29Speaker 2: celebrating Martin Luther King Junior and thinking of all the amazing,
- 0:34Speaker 2: incredible things that he has done for our world and
- 0:37Speaker 2: our humanity.
- 0:38Speaker 3: So cheers to you, Martin Luther King.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Welcoming in, Emily Cotta and Coretta Scott King.
- 0:45Speaker 3: Thank you, and Kreta Scott King.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Yes, because behind every great man is King.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Yes, one hundred, one hundred. Welcoming in, Emily. How are
- 1:04Speaker 2: you when you're Romana Blue?
- 1:06Speaker 1: Oh? Thank you. It's actually a purple, but I'm.
- 1:09Speaker 4: Remana Blue and I'm kidding it does really no Actually
- 1:12Speaker 4: in this lightning, I'm like loving it's Ramona Blue. Yeah,
- 1:16Speaker 4: but yeah, thank you for recording this evening on this
- 1:20Speaker 4: Monday evening because I'm getting my trees cut back tomorrow
- 1:23Speaker 4: and it's going to be very loud, and so I
- 1:26Speaker 4: was worried.
- 1:26Speaker 2: She means she's getting Yeah, she's all like Jenna Lions
- 1:33Speaker 2: up in there. If you're watching New York you know
- 1:35Speaker 2: what I'm talking about, but you're probably nass.
- 1:38Speaker 4: She's like, she mimics, she's so sad. Cat.
- 1:46Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:47Speaker 4: So and when I get wax, I demand to record
- 1:50Speaker 4: live and Amy wouldn't have it.
- 1:51Speaker 1: And so this was the compromise.
- 1:53Speaker 2: I wasn't sure if the Darling's a Tier two level
- 1:55Speaker 2: were ready for it. However, the tier the Tier three Darling.
- 2:01Speaker 3: Ready.
- 2:02Speaker 2: No, yeah, I understand, like it gets really really loud,
- 2:06Speaker 2: you know, and so thank you for doing that. Also,
- 2:09Speaker 2: I'm loving recording in the evening. And just so you darlings, No,
- 2:12Speaker 2: you know, today I did a lot. Maddie was out
- 2:15Speaker 2: of school and so we went. I took her to
- 2:18Speaker 2: the climbing gym. We did like a rock wall thing.
- 2:21Speaker 2: She was really good at it. She really likes to
- 2:23Speaker 2: do that. So I took her there today and I
- 2:27Speaker 2: participated a little, not a lot, And then I took
- 2:30Speaker 2: her out for a little lunch. Then her little friend
- 2:32Speaker 2: came over for a playdate, which which keeps you occupied,
- 2:35Speaker 2: you know what I mean, You think, oh, this will
- 2:37Speaker 2: be great. They're just gonna do their own thing.
- 2:39Speaker 3: Mommy, can we use baking soda and a bath bomb
- 2:43Speaker 3: and mentos and coke in the sink.
- 2:45Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, what are you doing now? You know,
- 2:48Speaker 2: it's just like one thing after another, but I want
- 2:50Speaker 2: to be Glinda, can I wear your dress?
- 2:52Speaker 3: This is too big? You know. It's like it's a lot,
- 2:54Speaker 3: you know.
- 2:55Speaker 2: And it's hilarous though, so but anyway, right now, if
- 3:01Speaker 2: you're watching this, I have like oil on my hair
- 3:03Speaker 2: because I'm kind of have like a little treatment going on.
- 3:06Speaker 2: So I mean, are you kidding me? It's like a
- 3:08Speaker 2: little oil treatment. It's kind of dried now, but that's
- 3:12Speaker 2: like what's happening. And by the way, I do do
- 3:16Speaker 2: ads for this, but this is not an official ad
- 3:19Speaker 2: right now.
- 3:20Speaker 3: But I use the way.
- 3:23Speaker 2: Hair oil, which is what I used now, And I
- 3:26Speaker 2: can't really use a lot of hair oil on my
- 3:28Speaker 2: hair because my hair is so thin and fine. So
- 3:30Speaker 2: like if I use it, it's very sparingly or I
- 3:34Speaker 2: use it as like more of a treatment. By God,
- 3:37Speaker 2: is it great? By God? Is like the best smelling
- 3:40Speaker 2: thing I've smelled in so long. So way you guys
- 3:45Speaker 2: use my code. I think it's drama. I'm pretty sure
- 3:51Speaker 2: it's drama. But anyway, you know what I'll do, I'll
- 3:53Speaker 2: link it. I'll link it in the notes. I think
- 3:54Speaker 2: I had lips together.
- 3:55Speaker 1: Anyway, you're gonna link it in your teeth, I'm gonna
- 3:58Speaker 1: link it.
- 3:59Speaker 3: On my tea. I think it's linked in there.
- 4:02Speaker 2: But we're doing Potomac today and we're just delighted to
- 4:06Speaker 2: be talking about it this evening and Emily before we
- 4:10Speaker 2: discuss like the actual episode the night like I guess
- 4:14Speaker 2: Sunday night after this aired, Karen posted that she is
- 4:18Speaker 2: not coming back.
- 4:20Speaker 3: She has posted right after.
- 4:23Speaker 2: Yes, so she posted on her social media. And this
- 4:30Speaker 2: is after the fact that we know that she did
- 4:32Speaker 2: not go to the reunion. We know she did not
- 4:35Speaker 2: show up for that. We had a feeling that might happen,
- 4:39Speaker 2: and so let me read what she wrote. Essentially, it's
- 4:43Speaker 2: her resignation.
- 4:49Speaker 3: Where did you go? Oh my god?
- 4:56Speaker 2: Okay, So it says, after much thought, in reflection, I've
- 5:00Speaker 2: made the difficult decision to step away from the Real
- 5:02Speaker 2: Housewives of Potomac. This journey has been nothing short of extraordinary,
- 5:06Speaker 2: filled with unforgettable moments, personal growth, and of course plenty
- 5:10Speaker 2: of grand dam energy. I am forever grateful to my
- 5:13Speaker 2: loyal fans, Bravo and my amazing castmates for the memories
- 5:16Speaker 2: and support over the years. While this chapter maybe closing,
- 5:19Speaker 2: my story is far from over. I am excited to
- 5:22Speaker 2: focus on new opportunities, my family, and continuing to elevate
- 5:25Speaker 2: my brand in ways that reflect my passion and purpose.
- 5:29Speaker 2: Thank you all for your unwavering love and encouragement. The
- 5:32Speaker 2: Grand dam is not going anywhere, just evolving. Stay fabulous
- 5:36Speaker 2: and always remember class and grace. Never go out of style.
- 5:44Speaker 1: Good way to leave.
- 5:46Speaker 2: It's a good way to leave. I think it was
- 5:47Speaker 2: the right thing to do. It's so sad though. It's
- 5:51Speaker 2: such a bummer, you know. It's just a bummer that
- 5:53Speaker 2: this all happened, that she was in the state that
- 5:56Speaker 2: she was in. And I'm not talking about just for
- 6:00Speaker 2: that one event that obviously she's had some difficulties for
- 6:03Speaker 2: a long time, and for her mental health and for
- 6:07Speaker 2: her well being, I think it obviously is important for
- 6:09Speaker 2: her to pivot into a more private life. But it's
- 6:14Speaker 2: just really disappointing, I know, because we all really love her,
- 6:17Speaker 2: and it's also disappointing that we lost a lot of
- 6:19Speaker 2: respect for her because of what happened. And I just
- 6:24Speaker 2: really wish her. I wish her the best. I wish
- 6:26Speaker 2: her well, I wish her that she has an amazing
- 6:30Speaker 2: recovery from her struggles and can use her platform for
- 6:35Speaker 2: that reason.
- 6:36Speaker 1: I think she'll be back. You give her two seasons, yes,
- 6:41Speaker 1: one thousand percent.
- 6:42Speaker 3: So at that point, how many five dollars?
- 6:46Speaker 1: Five dollars? Bet?
- 6:47Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, I don't know. I can't disagree with
- 6:51Speaker 2: you there.
- 6:51Speaker 4: I mean.
- 6:53Speaker 3: I could see her saying it.
- 6:55Speaker 2: Oh, at that point she will have level of veneers.
- 6:58Speaker 2: It will be a whole new set on happened the
- 7:00Speaker 2: other shot. I'm back appreciation. So Race is okay to
- 7:07Speaker 2: come back?
- 7:08Speaker 1: So some here, well, eleven seasons, eleven sets of n ears.
- 7:15Speaker 3: Yeah, every season you get an upgrade, baby.
- 7:19Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she'll be back. She needs a break.
- 7:24Speaker 4: Now, one could argue Shannon Badour might need a break,
- 7:29Speaker 4: but Shannon's in a little bit of a different situation
- 7:32Speaker 4: in that the nine to one one tapes weren't or
- 7:35Speaker 4: the the police bodycam footage was not released, and.
- 7:41Speaker 3: As well as the SNS.
- 7:43Speaker 4: Right yeah, and then also, this is like not Karen's
- 7:51Speaker 4: first rodeo.
- 7:52Speaker 1: I forget how.
- 7:53Speaker 3: Many times Shannon right, well, oh wait.
- 7:57Speaker 1: Yeah this is Shannon.
- 7:59Speaker 4: Sorry, no, I think it's Karen's like it's not like
- 8:03Speaker 4: strike I forget how many.
- 8:05Speaker 3: It could be three, but it might be two.
- 8:08Speaker 4: Whatever it is, like, it makes sense to me that
- 8:14Speaker 4: and I would argue Shannon for her health.
- 8:17Speaker 1: Maybe could have used it too, but it's one hundred percent.
- 8:20Speaker 2: And the reason why again I think Shannon got off
- 8:24Speaker 2: Scott Freeze because we didn't see the video footage. It
- 8:28Speaker 2: wasn't her. She didn't have multiple charges on her from
- 8:33Speaker 2: previous times, and she was so lucky to get a redemption,
- 8:39Speaker 2: like it was like a bonus redemption. You know, it
- 8:42Speaker 2: was like a shield on traders because she had this
- 8:45Speaker 2: whole horrific Alexis John thing, and so everyone had no
- 8:49Speaker 2: choice but to get her back on that.
- 8:50Speaker 3: You just had no choice but to feel bad.
- 8:52Speaker 2: For so then it really erased a lot of you know,
- 8:56Speaker 2: what she did in the eye in the eyes of
- 8:58Speaker 2: our in our eyes in terms of our judgment.
- 9:02Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 9:04Speaker 2: Also she did come in and say I made a mistake,
- 9:07Speaker 2: I'm doing the work. I'm not you know, I'm kind
- 9:10Speaker 2: of not drinking.
- 9:13Speaker 4: But didn't Shannon stuff happen, Like she went to the courts,
- 9:18Speaker 4: her kind her stuff was kind of done by the
- 9:23Speaker 4: time they were recording, whereas Karen was still trying to
- 9:26Speaker 4: like work things out, like she couldn't necessarily say a
- 9:29Speaker 4: lot of this if based on.
- 9:31Speaker 1: What her defense was going to be.
- 9:32Speaker 4: Not that I agree with what her defense might have been,
- 9:35Speaker 4: but I'm just saying like it was there.
- 9:37Speaker 2: Were she didn't please pretty yeah, because Karen didn't plead guilty,
- 9:41Speaker 2: whereas Shannon I believe did right, right, And.
- 9:46Speaker 1: So yeah, god, I should know this stuff.
- 9:49Speaker 2: But wait, we all should know it. You know, we
- 9:52Speaker 2: should all know it. Oh yeah, I just double checked.
- 9:55Speaker 2: Uh yeah, she pleaded no contest to the hit and
- 9:59Speaker 2: run d UI incident, which is why it was able
- 10:04Speaker 2: to be open and close the probation thing everything. And
- 10:08Speaker 2: Karen wanted to fight it because they probably.
- 10:12Speaker 3: Because she had.
- 10:13Speaker 2: She knew that what was going to happen in terms
- 10:16Speaker 2: of sentencing could be really bad coupled with the past,
- 10:20Speaker 2: and so they wanted to do everything they could to
- 10:23Speaker 2: try to, you know, save her from getting time or
- 10:28Speaker 2: any extra time or what have you. So why don't
- 10:33Speaker 2: we go ahead and get on into Potomac. Yeah, okay,
- 10:39Speaker 2: here comes Ashley drag king style.
- 10:45Speaker 3: That was fun.
- 10:46Speaker 2: We didn't really see much of Ashley except in that,
- 10:48Speaker 2: and she was really living her best life. And it
- 10:50Speaker 2: was funny to me that she was like nervous. I
- 10:53Speaker 2: thought that was really cute that she was like, you know,
- 10:55Speaker 2: it was a whole new thing for her, and she's
- 10:57Speaker 2: pretty nervous.
- 10:58Speaker 3: And we haven't even seen it yet. We're just there waiting, right.
- 11:04Speaker 1: Because next week that's the finale, right I believe?
- 11:07Speaker 3: So yeah, which is great, a great finale.
- 11:11Speaker 4: Yeah, uh yeah, I I liked a lot. I liked
- 11:18Speaker 4: a lot of this episode and then I but I
- 11:20Speaker 4: wasn't expecting to like the Gordon and raciness as much
- 11:23Speaker 4: as I did.
- 11:24Speaker 2: Oh my god, that was about as endearing and delightful
- 11:28Speaker 2: as anything's ever been I have. We we've struck gold,
- 11:33Speaker 2: And I was like, I, why is he so much
- 11:37Speaker 2: more believable to me than miakay?
- 11:42Speaker 1: That so much more?
- 11:43Speaker 2: You don't disagree, Okay, he always seems so much more
- 11:48Speaker 2: level headed than Mia. I always feel like he's being
- 11:52Speaker 2: gas lit by her in every scene that he's in,
- 11:55Speaker 2: and I never see well, obviously, we're never seeing him
- 11:58Speaker 2: in a manic phase because she's thank god, she's at
- 12:01Speaker 2: least respectable enough to not show him in that state.
- 12:06Speaker 3: But he seems like a great guy.
- 12:09Speaker 4: I mean see, this is where like I was really
- 12:11Speaker 4: disappointed in Karen and Giselle at the end of the
- 12:14Speaker 4: episode because I love Giselle.
- 12:17Speaker 1: Yeah, but like it really is unwatch.
- 12:20Speaker 4: Yeah, I get that Gordon comes off well in these scenes,
- 12:23Speaker 4: but we're only seeing yeah, I mean, five minutes of
- 12:27Speaker 4: him for the whole year, versus MIA's in a million scenes,
- 12:32Speaker 4: and like there is a reason Gordon's entire family isn't
- 12:38Speaker 4: speaking to him, Like there is a reason that he
- 12:42Speaker 4: is completely alienated and they have left him with zero dimes.
- 12:47Speaker 1: It's all on.
- 12:48Speaker 3: Mia, Okay, I'm thank you.
- 12:51Speaker 1: And we have seen scenes with Gordon where he is
- 12:54Speaker 1: co signing what Mia is saying, like, yes, I did,
- 12:58Speaker 1: Like he's not denying headlock.
- 13:01Speaker 3: Yeah, oh that's for oh god, I see.
- 13:03Speaker 2: I hate when I don't when these things don't come
- 13:05Speaker 2: into my head immediately.
- 13:08Speaker 4: Yeah on but like but no, I'm just saying, like
- 13:10Speaker 4: I don't I want as much as I enjoy Gordon
- 13:14Speaker 4: and Ray, I believe Mia, and I've also believe that.
- 13:19Speaker 4: Like it's a confusing time. But even in that moment
- 13:23Speaker 4: of him speaking with Ray, I was like, Gordon, we
- 13:27Speaker 4: saw you in the kitchen saying talking through the ink separation,
- 13:33Speaker 4: and sometimes.
- 13:34Speaker 1: You are okay with it. We've watched that, and then
- 13:36Speaker 1: sometimes you are not okay with it, and we have
- 13:39Speaker 1: watched that. So I'm like, it is really confusing. But Gordon.
- 13:46Speaker 4: Isn't coming off as an asshole, and that's also confusing
- 13:51Speaker 4: as a viewer.
- 13:52Speaker 2: That's the most confusing part. And not just an asshole,
- 13:55Speaker 2: but just downright charming. I mean when he and Rae
- 13:58Speaker 2: were like, you know, putting peach cobbler, I was like.
- 14:01Speaker 3: These two you know, the high fived, they high fived.
- 14:06Speaker 3: He was a great scene.
- 14:08Speaker 2: It was such a lovely like Sunday evening, you know,
- 14:12Speaker 2: just cozy up around the television set kids and let's
- 14:17Speaker 2: just watch these two men talk.
- 14:18Speaker 4: I mean, but like first twenty minute or twenty seconds
- 14:21Speaker 4: of that solid without edit was just weather talk. It
- 14:25Speaker 4: was just about the weather, you know, and had times
- 14:28Speaker 4: when it's hotter and when it's not.
- 14:30Speaker 2: You know, it was you know, it was maybe they
- 14:34Speaker 2: talked about their shirts, like how they fit, how hard
- 14:37Speaker 2: it is to get the right fitting shirt, you know
- 14:40Speaker 2: all that.
- 14:40Speaker 3: I'm bummed that they cut.
- 14:41Speaker 2: I want to see all the footage on the floor
- 14:44Speaker 2: that they cut and kudos to Ray, who is the
- 14:50Speaker 2: Barbara Walters Potomac. I mean he was asking every single
- 14:56Speaker 2: question and follow up that I would want to know
- 14:59Speaker 2: and and didn't let it slide because whatever Gordon would say,
- 15:03Speaker 2: he would follow follow it up with, oh, but okay,
- 15:08Speaker 2: so you took a pre you know, the test, the
- 15:13Speaker 2: parenting what is it called paternity thank you?
- 15:16Speaker 3: Paternity test?
- 15:17Speaker 1: He was paternity test.
- 15:19Speaker 3: He was paternity tested. He was paternity test.
- 15:24Speaker 2: And then he like kind of rambled and didn't really
- 15:28Speaker 2: say and so Ray He's like, so who is the parent?
- 15:30Speaker 3: You know? I am okay?
- 15:32Speaker 2: And then just every follow up that Ray did was great,
- 15:36Speaker 2: you know, certainly trying to help him with the when
- 15:40Speaker 2: Gordon was saying basically trying to explain his side of
- 15:44Speaker 2: what happened when they were in uh Panama, and of
- 15:53Speaker 2: course Ray was like, so I heard that you know
- 15:56Speaker 2: something happened, did you like go pick up.
- 15:58Speaker 3: The kids or what have you?
- 16:00Speaker 2: You know, this was it was confusing, but he made
- 16:04Speaker 2: it sound good. So it sounds like he's painting the
- 16:07Speaker 2: picture that he was worried that Ink was going to
- 16:10Speaker 2: be around, and he was worried that Ink would go
- 16:13Speaker 2: and take the kids and maybe more specifically Jeremiah, and
- 16:18Speaker 2: so because of that, he moved the kids to a
- 16:21Speaker 2: safer place. Very odd considering that Ink is in Atlanta
- 16:27Speaker 2: and is not there.
- 16:30Speaker 1: It's yeah, I wasn't it all is odd it.
- 16:34Speaker 4: I was glad that on national television Gordon had a
- 16:37Speaker 4: chance to say what his side of that story was.
- 16:41Speaker 4: I think that was fair. I'm still not totally buying it,
- 16:45Speaker 4: and honestly, I'm not totally buying the paternity test.
- 16:48Speaker 2: I'm actually not by Mia and Gordon, you know, full stop.
- 16:54Speaker 2: There's a lot of confusion in between the two of them.
- 16:57Speaker 2: And I don't know who I believe Regardles, because I
- 17:00Speaker 2: don't really know. I don't necessarily believe Mia either, But
- 17:04Speaker 2: I do believe her that about all the things that
- 17:07Speaker 2: she said about, if you know, whether they're the locking,
- 17:10Speaker 2: taking the money out of her account.
- 17:13Speaker 3: Putting her in her account, draining her.
- 17:16Speaker 2: Like all those really abusive type of things, you know,
- 17:18Speaker 2: I absolutely do believe her on that. And then I
- 17:22Speaker 2: believe Gordon and that she must have been stepping out
- 17:25Speaker 2: here and there and that must have been difficult still
- 17:29Speaker 2: being married, and that just is weird. Why not just
- 17:32Speaker 2: get divorced, But then you also have Mia maybe not
- 17:37Speaker 2: being as straightforward about some of the things when it
- 17:40Speaker 2: comes to ink in general.
- 17:45Speaker 4: I don't know one divorced couple in any situation were
- 17:50Speaker 4: the first year of whatever the separation was, it would
- 17:55Speaker 4: it didn't look.
- 17:56Speaker 1: Completely bonkers, you know what I mean?
- 18:00Speaker 4: Where there was moments where I was like wait what,
- 18:02Speaker 4: and not even that they were getting back together. It's
- 18:04Speaker 4: just that maybe they're co parenting in a way that
- 18:09Speaker 4: like looks like nothing I would choose to do or
- 18:12Speaker 4: nothing I thought they would ever do. And so we
- 18:15Speaker 4: are seeing that in real time with those two.
- 18:18Speaker 1: So but I get that, like.
- 18:23Speaker 4: If you're Gizelle and you're asked to fully support, like
- 18:29Speaker 4: you know, I just think about the healing and a
- 18:32Speaker 4: thriving event and the love event where me as like
- 18:36Speaker 4: having a another roundtable about stuff and just I was
- 18:39Speaker 4: like what, I don't I don't care, like, just do
- 18:41Speaker 4: your thing. But I guess from the outside, I'm like, yeah,
- 18:46Speaker 4: divorce looks insane.
- 18:47Speaker 1: I don't care who you are.
- 18:49Speaker 4: It just and it's not it just it's totally normal
- 18:53Speaker 4: to look like chaotic.
- 18:56Speaker 2: I guess your life's out of control at that point
- 18:58Speaker 2: and especially if you have kids. And so yeah, but
- 19:01Speaker 2: when the thing that I got also out of Ray,
- 19:05Speaker 2: the Ray and Gordon conversation, but Gordon specifically is that
- 19:09Speaker 2: I think that in his world, he doesn't want to
- 19:12Speaker 2: get divorced, so he's suggesting post marital counseling, and he's
- 19:19Speaker 2: suggesting that they stay together until somebody wants to get
- 19:24Speaker 2: married again. So that's his suggestion. That doesn't mean that
- 19:27Speaker 2: that's what they agreed upon, so.
- 19:29Speaker 1: Right, and we've seen him suggest that to MEA's face.
- 19:33Speaker 3: Right.
- 19:34Speaker 2: So when when Karen like believes it hook line and
- 19:38Speaker 2: sinker and just starts this telephone, it seemed like she
- 19:42Speaker 2: was doing it out of being desperate to get the
- 19:46Speaker 2: cameras again off of her for the sake of the
- 19:49Speaker 2: dui stuff, which was such a bad move on her part,
- 19:53Speaker 2: because when you go full throttle at somebody, what do
- 19:56Speaker 2: you think they're going to bring up at first? You know,
- 19:58Speaker 2: for the first second, let's talk about your dui, let's
- 20:02Speaker 2: talk about how you crash, let's talk about all this stuff.
- 20:05Speaker 1: Well, what the hell was Ray talking about with Gordon
- 20:08Speaker 1: where he's like, yeah, Gart, that kid, our kid isn't
- 20:11Speaker 1: mine or something like that.
- 20:12Speaker 5: I was like the blue eye array thing.
- 20:15Speaker 4: Yeah, with when Karen's like, yeah, just so you know,
- 20:18Speaker 4: it runs in my family, and right He's like, no,
- 20:20Speaker 4: it doesn't.
- 20:21Speaker 1: It was like, oh my god, is that not their kid?
- 20:25Speaker 2: I mean no, I know, I think yeah, he was
- 20:27Speaker 2: probably joking about.
- 20:29Speaker 5: I don't know.
- 20:29Speaker 2: But then you got the whole mister blue eye thing
- 20:32Speaker 2: when Karen is being seen with this mister blue eye.
- 20:36Speaker 2: It was a little convoluted, and I got the point,
- 20:39Speaker 2: I guess, but very.
- 20:41Speaker 1: Weirdly, I thought that was very uncool. Array.
- 20:44Speaker 3: Oh you did well.
- 20:46Speaker 4: He basically threw Karen under the bus, like I don't
- 20:49Speaker 4: know what's going on with that, but like if I'm
- 20:52Speaker 4: also their kid, I'm gonna be like, ah, dad, are
- 20:56Speaker 4: you saying that you're not my dad?
- 20:58Speaker 3: Oh?
- 20:58Speaker 2: Wait, you're okay. I misunderstood then what he was joking about.
- 21:04Speaker 1: He was basically saying that.
- 21:06Speaker 3: His kids aren't one of his kids might not be
- 21:09Speaker 3: one of his kids.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Yes, okay, I've been there.
- 21:13Speaker 4: You know, when Karen had the baby and said, just
- 21:16Speaker 4: so you know, it might have like blue or gray eyes,
- 21:19Speaker 4: they run in my family, and raised like, no, they
- 21:21Speaker 4: don't like and so I know what it's like.
- 21:26Speaker 1: And I was like, WHOA, So.
- 21:28Speaker 3: I mean, are these rumors true?
- 21:30Speaker 2: I mean because when Mia says you, you know, you
- 21:33Speaker 2: open your legs to every man who like brings you
- 21:36Speaker 2: a D, which was such a fun way to put it,
- 21:38Speaker 2: you know, it's like bring me a D.
- 21:41Speaker 3: But like, are these rumors true?
- 21:45Speaker 1: I mean, well, according to you know, yes, she's honestly.
- 21:49Speaker 2: We never that, but I've never given it any real
- 21:52Speaker 2: consideration until tonight, Like I always thought it was just
- 21:55Speaker 2: such bullshit.
- 21:56Speaker 1: Well yeah, because nobody's ever like said yeah.
- 22:00Speaker 4: I mean, like Giselle's like, yeah, yeah, we all know
- 22:03Speaker 4: she fucks around. Everybody knows that shoe's fast, go back
- 22:06Speaker 4: to sleep. What the real headline here is?
- 22:09Speaker 1: You know me? And I'm like.
- 22:12Speaker 3: What, no, I know? And then Giselle did it again
- 22:16Speaker 3: with Karen because she was like, oh, good one, Mia,
- 22:19Speaker 3: I mean, bring up something that we all already.
- 22:21Speaker 5: Know he's not talking about.
- 22:22Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's so funny to me. It's like, no, actually,
- 22:27Speaker 3: that's a really big deal and extremely fair to bring
- 22:30Speaker 3: up when Karen's trying to explode her world. When they're
- 22:33Speaker 3: like answer to us, it was I didn't realize they
- 22:39Speaker 3: were looking to bring her down by the end of
- 22:41Speaker 3: the season so hard. But it seemed like a planned
- 22:45Speaker 3: event between Gizelle and Karen, almost like now's the time,
- 22:49Speaker 3: let's do the takedown of Mia. This whole season has
- 22:52Speaker 3: been about her. Let's go take her down. Are you
- 22:55Speaker 3: lying about this? Are you lying about that? Did you say?
- 22:58Speaker 2: And where were you the night of the twenty? I mean,
- 23:00Speaker 2: it was really like so many questions right at her.
- 23:03Speaker 2: She didn't even get a chance to explain.
- 23:06Speaker 4: I did not like it because they're really just taking
- 23:08Speaker 4: Gordon's word for it. And then it's it's like Gizelle,
- 23:14Speaker 4: you know, with Candace's husband. I believe Gizelle on that
- 23:20Speaker 4: whole thing that went down, like however it went down.
- 23:23Speaker 4: But I'm like, Gizelle, like Mia has told you just
- 23:29Speaker 4: I don't know. I think I thought it was just
- 23:31Speaker 4: a really bad look all around because they haven't seen
- 23:35Speaker 4: what the audience has seen, and now they're gonna go
- 23:37Speaker 4: so hard in for Gordon based on Ray's conversation, which
- 23:42Speaker 4: by the way, I'm pretty sure Ray was half asleep
- 23:45Speaker 4: for and so then like he's gonna and when he's
- 23:48Speaker 4: telling Karen, I'm like, well, he already messed up two details, right,
- 23:51Speaker 4: there when he was telling the story and they're going
- 23:54Speaker 4: hard in on Mia based on that and not believe.
- 23:58Speaker 1: I was just like, this is.
- 24:00Speaker 2: There is way more of the story, because I do
- 24:03Speaker 2: think Mia has one upper sleeve in terms of not
- 24:06Speaker 2: showing us the whole hand, and Giselle knows that and
- 24:10Speaker 2: Karen knows that, and I think there's something way more
- 24:12Speaker 2: to it because I get that vibe.
- 24:14Speaker 3: I mean, think about even just she even.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Just them going to Panama and then being like, yeah,
- 24:21Speaker 2: I think I'm going to go to Atlanta to see
- 24:24Speaker 2: I mean, my son is there. You know, It's a
- 24:27Speaker 2: weird thing to do. And then when Gordon says that
- 24:30Speaker 2: he had the kids for like twenty five days in
- 24:32Speaker 2: June and she had them for five and they asked
- 24:35Speaker 2: her about that, you know, I would really like to
- 24:37Speaker 2: hear what that was all about. I mean, was there
- 24:40Speaker 2: an emergency that she had to go to and she
- 24:42Speaker 2: had to be out of town? Was she shooting, you
- 24:46Speaker 2: know for the show like I or is that just
- 24:49Speaker 2: a straight up an exaggeration or an utter lie?
- 24:51Speaker 3: And on part of Gordon, what are we dealing with here?
- 24:56Speaker 5: Yeah?
- 24:56Speaker 4: I don't know, I don't I or is it just
- 25:00Speaker 4: an exaggeration of like maybe he had a he was
- 25:04Speaker 4: in charge of the kids for like four hours twenty
- 25:06Speaker 4: five days in a row or all day while she
- 25:10Speaker 4: was working, but she was around at night and in town,
- 25:12Speaker 4: Like I don't, who know.
- 25:14Speaker 3: How is he counting that up?
- 25:16Speaker 4: Right?
- 25:17Speaker 3: Right?
- 25:17Speaker 4: I will say, like, I know this is controversial, but
- 25:23Speaker 4: especially after we've seen Gordon be so sweet, But I
- 25:28Speaker 4: do think that I believe Mia. I don't.
- 25:34Speaker 1: I guess, like what, especially with the kids and stuff.
- 25:38Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 25:39Speaker 4: I do think that she's I get it, but I
- 25:44Speaker 4: believe Mia.
- 25:46Speaker 3: Okay.
- 25:48Speaker 5: I by the way, I don't think any.
- 25:49Speaker 4: Of them are going to be Parent of the Year.
- 25:51Speaker 4: I'm just putting that off too. I'm not saying like,
- 25:54Speaker 4: but I'm just yeah.
- 25:55Speaker 2: Right, when Mia says that she, you know, had full custody,
- 26:01Speaker 2: and she told that to Karen, and then we had that,
- 26:04Speaker 2: you know comment from Gordon, that doesn't necessarily mean that
- 26:10Speaker 2: she doesn't have full custody.
- 26:12Speaker 3: She could have been just watching.
- 26:13Speaker 1: Them, you know.
- 26:15Speaker 2: And then it is interesting because Ray was like, yeah,
- 26:21Speaker 2: she doesn't. That can't be right. She can't have full
- 26:24Speaker 2: custody unless a judge said that. It's like, well, yeah,
- 26:27Speaker 2: of course, I mean, isn't that how it works. The
- 26:29Speaker 2: judge had to have said it, So I'm very curious
- 26:32Speaker 2: to see what the custody situation is.
- 26:35Speaker 3: If she is.
- 26:38Speaker 2: Truly has full custody, then it wouldn't make sense if
- 26:43Speaker 2: that's true. What Gordon was saying about the kids being
- 26:45Speaker 2: with him that often.
- 26:48Speaker 4: Well, you can have full custody and the other parent
- 26:53Speaker 4: is still the custodial parent. And if you as the
- 26:57Speaker 4: one with full custody, or like, take the kids for
- 27:00Speaker 4: thirty days and that's what you agree to, Yeah, then
- 27:03Speaker 4: for that thirty days.
- 27:05Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.
- 27:08Speaker 2: Well, Karen, after that scene with Ray, after Ray was
- 27:13Speaker 2: spilling the tea, she was like in her confessional, this
- 27:17Speaker 2: is ridiculous. She's making people pray over you and worry
- 27:20Speaker 2: about you, and you're not. I'm gonna from the truth.
- 27:23Speaker 2: You're a fire. And she's just getting amped up. And
- 27:30Speaker 2: I'm thinking that's where I go back to. She knows something,
- 27:34Speaker 2: Hernasel knows something more than what we know, but we
- 27:37Speaker 2: can only judge on what we see, and that's kind
- 27:39Speaker 2: of like what we have to go with. But so, well,
- 27:42Speaker 2: why don't we while we're at it, talk about Stacy
- 27:46Speaker 2: with the attorney because I'm like, my god, are you
- 27:49Speaker 2: putting this on?
- 27:50Speaker 3: Or like is this real?
- 27:53Speaker 4: When she said the attorney's face had pure terror on it.
- 27:57Speaker 4: When like, as she kept talking, I actually back and
- 28:00Speaker 4: watched the attorneys. The attorney's face never changed. That's just
- 28:04Speaker 4: Stacy projecting some bullshit. Because Stacy, she's not dumb, but
- 28:10Speaker 4: like she really likes to. She likes to like she's
- 28:14Speaker 4: gonna be crushed under her halo because she wants to
- 28:18Speaker 4: be like this martyr perfect, like I just didn't know,
- 28:23Speaker 4: poor me, like I just wanted everybody to be happy,
- 28:26Speaker 4: and like people are screaming red flag at her, and
- 28:29Speaker 4: she's like, but he's such a good guy, Like now I.
- 28:33Speaker 3: Know him so well. I know my husband would always
- 28:37Speaker 3: do the right thing.
- 28:39Speaker 2: But didn't you just leave like an appointment with him
- 28:42Speaker 2: with the mediator who said that he has all the
- 28:46Speaker 2: stuff that you didn't know about and he was doing
- 28:47Speaker 2: things with money that you didn't know about, and you
- 28:51Speaker 2: know it is crazy. When the attorney made the example, well,
- 28:56Speaker 2: I mean, if you really still want to get alimony
- 29:00Speaker 2: and you want that in writing, why wouldn't you do
- 29:02Speaker 2: the same thing for child support? Don't you want the
- 29:05Speaker 2: same for your daughter. I thought, ooh, yikes. I mean,
- 29:08Speaker 2: that's a really good point.
- 29:09Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 29:10Speaker 2: She she's willing to see half of it, which is
- 29:13Speaker 2: that if he does change, I want to make sure
- 29:16Speaker 2: he may not want to give me money anymore, but
- 29:19Speaker 2: he would never do that to our daughter. And I
- 29:23Speaker 2: really respect the return the attorney for saying, you know,
- 29:27Speaker 2: people change, because it might he might, you know, get
- 29:30Speaker 2: under the influence of someone else who's convincing him to
- 29:33Speaker 2: do something otherwise, and now he turns into a totally
- 29:35Speaker 2: different person with new priorities and now his daughters, you know, fifteen,
- 29:40Speaker 2: and she can get a job, so forget it.
- 29:42Speaker 3: And I thought that's really smart.
- 29:45Speaker 4: Yeah, And like, I mean, I know, you can go
- 29:48Speaker 4: back and fight these things back after the fact, but
- 29:50Speaker 4: it's so expensive to try to like undo these agreements.
- 29:56Speaker 2: And she's like, I'm not going to ask for anything
- 30:01Speaker 2: like any child support, right, I mean why?
- 30:05Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 30:06Speaker 1: I mean, And now watching her through this TJ thing,
- 30:10Speaker 1: it's like, Sacy, you got to start listening with somebody,
- 30:14Speaker 1: Like I don't know who it's gonna be.
- 30:15Speaker 3: But that's a goowpoint.
- 30:18Speaker 2: She's on an island of her own and she's just
- 30:22Speaker 2: like I'm fine over here. I know what it's like,
- 30:25Speaker 2: and I will. I will leave this island and come
- 30:28Speaker 2: to you, TJ when I'm ready. And I know that
- 30:32Speaker 2: my ex husband is over there on that island. He's
- 30:34Speaker 2: totally fine.
- 30:35Speaker 3: I know how he is.
- 30:36Speaker 2: Even though I'm completely over here. She is just not
- 30:39Speaker 2: making great decisions and it's I don't want to see
- 30:42Speaker 2: her burned. But it really was eye opening to see
- 30:45Speaker 2: TJ just blow the roof off of it and be like,
- 30:48Speaker 2: I can't no more of this charade. I love you,
- 30:52Speaker 2: Like can I come over?
- 30:54Speaker 1: You know? Yeah?
- 30:56Speaker 5: But I mean it's like it's TJ like, no, no,
- 31:01Speaker 5: you can't.
- 31:02Speaker 2: No, you can't come over to dry Oh my gosh.
- 31:06Speaker 2: I was like, this is She's not in the end,
- 31:10Speaker 2: She's not gonna end up with him, and she will.
- 31:12Speaker 2: She is a transitional relationship for her.
- 31:17Speaker 4: This is where I say Stacey is not dumb because
- 31:19Speaker 4: she is smart enough to keep boundaries up and protect
- 31:22Speaker 4: her kid and herself even though smart yeah, even though
- 31:27Speaker 4: she's in this relationship, and even if it's like a
- 31:30Speaker 4: subconscious move she's making to keep that boundary like I'm so,
- 31:35Speaker 4: I'm like, well, I feel comfortable with her love.
- 31:39Speaker 2: That she does that with Ariela. I mean, you don't
- 31:42Speaker 2: see that enough. I mean you well, yeah, the same
- 31:47Speaker 2: cast not enough, And I am very.
- 31:52Speaker 3: Happy that she's doing that.
- 31:54Speaker 2: I do feel like, you know, unfortunately TJ is gonna
- 31:58Speaker 2: get in his heart handed back to him in the end.
- 32:01Speaker 4: Now he what if she doesn't re up with Potomac?
- 32:05Speaker 4: You mean, because that's the only reason he's here is
- 32:08Speaker 4: for exposure.
- 32:11Speaker 5: Because here's the other.
- 32:12Speaker 4: Thing, like I'm hearing is a lot of Hey, Stacy,
- 32:16Speaker 4: you change your whole life and everything you've been trying
- 32:20Speaker 4: to do so that I might hook up with you.
- 32:24Speaker 4: I mean, there was no you know, like and if
- 32:27Speaker 4: he's not, I just think he's using her in this
- 32:30Speaker 4: platform and they're going to be best friends when he's
- 32:35Speaker 4: all that's his ever, that's his sope.
- 32:38Speaker 2: Yeah, the narrative was always you know, him keeping her
- 32:42Speaker 2: at bay, but that's that shifted in this episode by
- 32:45Speaker 2: him saying I will wait for you, and you know,
- 32:49Speaker 2: he basically is like, I'm done with this friendship thing.
- 32:52Speaker 2: Tell people that were dating, tell your husband that we're dating.
- 32:56Speaker 2: So he actually said it.
- 32:59Speaker 3: He said it it.
- 33:01Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't believe it, I know, but at least
- 33:04Speaker 2: he's trying to say, all right, it's stupid that we
- 33:07Speaker 2: continue with the charade and not discuss this openly with people.
- 33:13Speaker 2: This is ridiculous, like everybody knows. All right, before we
- 33:16Speaker 2: continue on, I'm going to take a quick break. Let's
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- 35:32Speaker 2: are back with the Real Housewives of Potomac. So we're
- 35:36Speaker 2: talking about TJ and Stacy. He's like, okay, well, well
- 35:41Speaker 2: she goes something very big is happening. My husband is
- 35:43Speaker 2: actually moving out of the family home. And then he's like, oh,
- 35:47Speaker 2: this is great.
- 35:48Speaker 3: Can I come over?
- 35:51Speaker 1: No?
- 35:51Speaker 3: No, I can't.
- 35:53Speaker 2: I am not ready. And this is where it's like,
- 35:56Speaker 2: she says she's mourning the person who she used to be.
- 36:00Speaker 2: I totally get it, and she's not sure on her
- 36:04Speaker 2: feet and that's jarring for her. And then in the
- 36:12Speaker 2: end she's like, let's be best friends and see where
- 36:14Speaker 2: it goes. I mean, it's just a it's just so weird.
- 36:17Speaker 2: I think that they're just dancing with the devil. You know,
- 36:21Speaker 2: it's tough to watch these types of relationships happen when
- 36:24Speaker 2: someone else is coming out of a relationship. He's like,
- 36:28Speaker 2: wanted to get with her to begin with because of QBC.
- 36:31Speaker 4: Yeah, he's just okay, he sees an opening and it's
- 36:35Speaker 4: not for a relationship. It's it's I think he's using
- 36:38Speaker 4: her for access to things he does not have.
- 36:45Speaker 2: I wonder what TJ's dream actually is, Emily, have you
- 36:48Speaker 2: ever thought about that? Have you ever thought about Yeah?
- 36:52Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't think there's anything real with TJ. No,
- 36:57Speaker 1: we will ever know.
- 37:00Speaker 2: Well, I would like to see him on QBC and
- 37:03Speaker 2: then I'll judge. I need to see him selling a
- 37:07Speaker 2: dice in. Here are my standards, a dice in. I
- 37:14Speaker 2: want to also see some sort of fashion, men's fashion,
- 37:18Speaker 2: like maybe a shoe, maybe a loafer, but a smart loafer. Okay,
- 37:27Speaker 2: I want to Emily's. Your face is so disgusted. You
- 37:29Speaker 2: look like the guy the designer who wants to America
- 37:32Speaker 2: Jaane's house. Okay, yeah, I'm free or whatever it is.
- 37:38Speaker 2: I hold on, let me give you a third one.
- 37:41Speaker 2: We have vacuum, we have a smart shoe, a men's shoe.
- 37:46Speaker 2: And thirdly, something that's a little more whimsical, something kitchen
- 37:50Speaker 2: me something like an amazing, the miraculous wine opener that
- 37:58Speaker 2: also is a massager.
- 38:01Speaker 4: I will be thinking of when he's holding that dice in,
- 38:04Speaker 4: that men's loafer and that massage er. I'll be thinking
- 38:06Speaker 4: of him drinking Ecto cooler out of a wine glass,
- 38:10Speaker 4: slurping it. I will think of him telling Stacy that,
- 38:15Speaker 4: like checking her at that party to be like, oh
- 38:18Speaker 4: you you're whatever he said, like you're going to hear it,
- 38:21Speaker 4: get it lately, like yell at her?
- 38:23Speaker 1: What did he do? It was gross?
- 38:24Speaker 3: Ye?
- 38:25Speaker 4: Like yeah, one day, and then I'll also think of
- 38:33Speaker 4: him at the gym being grossed out by her when
- 38:36Speaker 4: she was just trying to have normal, like couple affection
- 38:40Speaker 4: and he's like, whoa, That's what I'll be thinking of
- 38:43Speaker 4: when he's on QBC, and therefore I've prejudged and I
- 38:47Speaker 4: don't care about him on KBC.
- 38:49Speaker 3: Okay, I hear that, but I would love to see it.
- 38:53Speaker 3: I would love to see his audition tape and.
- 38:56Speaker 1: Me, oh yeah, I'll watch that all day.
- 38:58Speaker 3: Oh I'm just having some fun, you know me. I'm
- 39:03Speaker 3: just I'm just I'm just getting you put some more
- 39:07Speaker 3: hair oil in. It's so good watch this. Let's see here.
- 39:13Speaker 3: I'm just gonna do a little oil treatment.
- 39:14Speaker 1: Oh wow, you don't deserve it after what you just
- 39:19Speaker 1: did to my blood pressure.
- 39:21Speaker 3: A QBC personality, you have to be like born to
- 39:26Speaker 3: do that, you know what I mean. It's a special
- 39:30Speaker 3: kind of person.
- 39:32Speaker 1: I think it can be trained.
- 39:35Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, it can be trained, but like.
- 39:39Speaker 1: I mean, let me at it. I get what you're saying.
- 39:43Speaker 4: There are people that are much better than others, and
- 39:45Speaker 4: the people that are really good seem like a naturally Yeah.
- 39:48Speaker 2: Well it's like any kind Okay, So singing, you can
- 39:51Speaker 2: be trained in singing. You can be trained in acting,
- 39:53Speaker 2: but that doesn't mean that you have it.
- 39:56Speaker 1: You know, we gotta get on.
- 39:57Speaker 3: There is Ray and Gordon Sell. They need to smell
- 40:01Speaker 3: a smart loafer.
- 40:03Speaker 1: They need it.
- 40:04Speaker 4: And mermaid tales they'd be like I wanted to fuck
- 40:08Speaker 4: one of these at my pool in the backyard.
- 40:10Speaker 1: My wife was there. That's how good it looked.
- 40:13Speaker 3: Tell you what I've been there. I've been there one time.
- 40:16Speaker 3: It was a green mermaid tail and that was I
- 40:18Speaker 3: was just that it was great. But it's green, and
- 40:20Speaker 3: I mean I was like blue blue and green gray.
- 40:24Speaker 2: Anyway, Kirna, who I you know, have the opposite problem
- 40:30Speaker 2: with all some of the times I will speed up
- 40:32Speaker 2: on peacock as I told, like, have you ever done
- 40:34Speaker 2: that with your cookies?
- 40:40Speaker 4: No?
- 40:40Speaker 1: I don't know any I don't know where this is
- 40:42Speaker 1: going now at all.
- 40:45Speaker 3: Okay, now cookies on your computer?
- 40:47Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you know how it's like erase cookies you
- 40:50Speaker 2: do you know you don't want to allow websites to
- 40:54Speaker 2: get you, you know, you don't want them to be
- 40:56Speaker 2: on your cookies. You can I didn't know there was
- 40:58Speaker 2: a whole cookie world. And you can go to a
- 41:02Speaker 2: cookies like website, like an app website, but it's cookies,
- 41:05Speaker 2: and you can install certain cookies that are actually utilities.
- 41:10Speaker 2: For example, there is for example, a very beautiful beautiful
- 41:15Speaker 2: usually is one that is for Peacock, and it allows
- 41:21Speaker 2: you to have the speed player, so you can speed
- 41:24Speaker 2: it up or slow it down, because it doesn't automatically
- 41:26Speaker 2: come with that, but Netflix does. So if you want
- 41:29Speaker 2: to watch something on a higher speed to get through
- 41:32Speaker 2: it quicker, you can do that. So my point being
- 41:35Speaker 2: is with Kirna, I don't speed it up. I need
- 41:37Speaker 2: to slow it down so I can hear what she's saying,
- 41:40Speaker 2: because she's the fastest talker and so funny like so anyway,
- 41:45Speaker 2: but I didn't do that, but I was able to
- 41:48Speaker 2: understand she said it very quickly. But her and grag
- 41:50Speaker 2: had a really first reliant arment. Again, the first argment
- 41:53Speaker 2: gragnond I was a really a group of RD so
- 41:55Speaker 2: I just feel bad for her because here we have
- 41:58Speaker 2: a big insight to who Greg is and what he
- 42:01Speaker 2: signed up for, and now things are going left because
- 42:05Speaker 2: it's one thing for her to be a career woman
- 42:08Speaker 2: and have her own beauty salon, you know, spa, and
- 42:14Speaker 2: it's another for her to like actually now be famous.
- 42:17Speaker 2: Like isn't it interesting how some people are like, no,
- 42:19Speaker 2: I don't want you to be famous or on television.
- 42:23Speaker 2: You'd think that everyone would be like fanning the flames,
- 42:26Speaker 2: but it's really not what everybody wants.
- 42:27Speaker 3: He wants a quiet life and he wants to be
- 42:29Speaker 3: home cooking.
- 42:30Speaker 1: I know. I The thing is like I like Greg.
- 42:33Speaker 1: Well have you've scene that they filmed together? I really
- 42:36Speaker 1: like him.
- 42:36Speaker 3: I need to see him on QBC and then oh
- 42:39Speaker 3: my god, actually.
- 42:41Speaker 1: He could be great. He would be great. He would
- 42:43Speaker 1: be so sincere.
- 42:44Speaker 3: But yeah, Kida seems very upset.
- 42:46Speaker 2: This was like their first big argument and they've been
- 42:48Speaker 2: together for a couple of years.
- 42:51Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 42:52Speaker 4: Well, and remember, like I don't think I can recall
- 42:55Speaker 4: this ever happening, but on camera they mentioned the show.
- 43:00Speaker 4: He said did the show split them up?
- 43:02Speaker 1: Or something like that?
- 43:05Speaker 4: And I don't know if it's also like his line
- 43:06Speaker 4: of work where he's not wanting to be at the
- 43:10Speaker 4: face of something on TV because he's having to work
- 43:13Speaker 4: with people in really vulnerable situations. But yeah, I really
- 43:18Speaker 4: like him and I liked them even though like there's
- 43:21Speaker 4: a little friction.
- 43:22Speaker 1: I just liked them.
- 43:23Speaker 4: I hope.
- 43:24Speaker 3: Oh yeah, me too. I just wonder, now is that
- 43:28Speaker 3: going to change?
- 43:29Speaker 4: You know?
- 43:30Speaker 1: I think so, don't you.
- 43:32Speaker 2: Yeah, I have that feeling. And it's going to be
- 43:34Speaker 2: like because Kirna is here to stay. I mean, she's
- 43:37Speaker 2: so solid. I feel like she'll be here for five
- 43:42Speaker 2: seasons at least. I really feel that, you know, at least,
- 43:46Speaker 2: if not, you know, till the end or whatever.
- 43:48Speaker 1: But she.
- 43:52Speaker 3: We're going to be looking back on this in.
- 43:54Speaker 2: A few seasons to Greg and like she was in
- 43:57Speaker 2: that kitchen with his like Bachelor Black Dishes, and then
- 44:03Speaker 2: it's gonna be her like in another relationship. That's gonna
- 44:07Speaker 2: be like, I don't know, he's completely different than Greg.
- 44:11Speaker 3: Like he's a businessman. He's he's like a mover and
- 44:15Speaker 3: you know, and a shooter or a mover whatever.
- 44:17Speaker 2: And and we're gonna go back to Greg, who's like
- 44:20Speaker 2: and she's wearing his outfit, like the shirt from his
- 44:24Speaker 2: you know clinic.
- 44:26Speaker 3: Yeah, took you guys there. You can see. But you're right,
- 44:32Speaker 3: they're not gonna end up together.
- 44:34Speaker 1: I don't think so.
- 44:35Speaker 3: I hate to say it.
- 44:38Speaker 1: Yeah, but and she shouldn't.
- 44:40Speaker 2: Like if this is what she wants in terms of
- 44:43Speaker 2: the Real Housewives of Potomac, and that's part of who
- 44:47Speaker 2: she is that you know, and she has it, she's
- 44:50Speaker 2: gonna choose that over him.
- 44:53Speaker 3: Sorry, yes, okay, few.
- 44:56Speaker 1: Yes, and should I mean, I like Greg, but like.
- 45:01Speaker 3: He's clearly yeah, she clearly.
- 45:05Speaker 1: Signed up for something that she wants, and it really
- 45:08Speaker 1: Greg was I think plan B. Unfortunately, oh god, you
- 45:12Speaker 1: said it.
- 45:14Speaker 3: You said it, and I you said.
- 45:16Speaker 1: I don't think she knows that.
- 45:18Speaker 4: I think she really likes Greg, But I think that's
- 45:20Speaker 4: really what she was looking for a lot of big
- 45:22Speaker 4: changes in her life, and she signed up for all
- 45:24Speaker 4: of them. And I think she likes being on the
- 45:27Speaker 4: show and having her own life and her own business
- 45:30Speaker 4: and her name, Like I didn't change my name, so
- 45:32Speaker 4: I can totally.
- 45:34Speaker 3: There's that same thing. I'm so glad you brought it up.
- 45:36Speaker 3: He doesn't even he doesn't even want to hyphen So.
- 45:40Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's a lot to put that on somebody.
- 45:45Speaker 3: It is I think it is now, you know, I mean.
- 45:50Speaker 1: It is. Yeah, and maybe maybe that's something that they'll
- 45:56Speaker 1: work through eventually.
- 45:58Speaker 2: But and a lot of people do have it, I mean,
- 46:01Speaker 2: because everyone has their opinions, so this is a very
- 46:04Speaker 2: common argument.
- 46:06Speaker 3: Probably what did you say yours is hyphened?
- 46:09Speaker 4: No?
- 46:09Speaker 3: Oh?
- 46:10Speaker 1: Sorry, my god? Straight up? What?
- 46:15Speaker 3: Straight up?
- 46:16Speaker 1: What happened?
- 46:19Speaker 3: Straight up?
- 46:19Speaker 4: Your name?
- 46:20Speaker 1: Jesus?
- 46:21Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I know, I'm just, I mean.
- 46:25Speaker 4: I know, I just And no disrespect any hyphens. I'm
- 46:31Speaker 4: just saying, welcome to fucking QVC.
- 46:34Speaker 1: That's my intro. I'm not selling hyphens. Are you saying.
- 46:41Speaker 3: Are you saying that you really look look down on
- 46:47Speaker 3: hyphens in the sense that.
- 46:48Speaker 1: Yeah, disrespect to anybody that.
- 46:51Speaker 5: Did it, No, but like you wouldn't want that for you,
- 46:55Speaker 5: for me personally.
- 46:57Speaker 1: But then it's like I also totally respect, but.
- 47:02Speaker 3: I want you to did al want my hyphen is
- 47:04Speaker 3: never even a thing?
- 47:06Speaker 1: Oh?
- 47:06Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I get, I get it's a.
- 47:09Speaker 1: Whole thing, and it's so personal and having to change
- 47:12Speaker 1: your name whatever you want.
- 47:13Speaker 4: To do, like, just do it.
- 47:16Speaker 3: Okay. The wind is whipping up over there, Hurricane Emily.
- 47:21Speaker 1: She is dinner. It is dinner time.
- 47:27Speaker 2: Okay, wait, hold on, one more thing about that, because
- 47:29Speaker 2: I'd like to share my story.
- 47:33Speaker 5: Oh yes, please, can I share?
- 47:37Speaker 1: Hold on? And where is my.
- 47:39Speaker 3: Okay, announcement? Announcement?
- 47:44Speaker 5: Hi, what about me?
- 47:48Speaker 2: My name is Amy Phillips. When I got married to
- 47:55Speaker 2: Brett Ganel, I did not take his name girl. And
- 48:01Speaker 2: then I was like, I'll take it later, but like,
- 48:04Speaker 2: I'm not gonna change it right now because.
- 48:07Speaker 3: That is such champaigne. I'd like, hell God, and then
- 48:12Speaker 3: it's curtains for me, Emily's playing curtains and scene.
- 48:18Speaker 1: And then you guys.
- 48:20Speaker 3: So I was like, yeah, I mean I'll change it later. Okay.
- 48:24Speaker 2: So then, oh God, why am I in slow motion
- 48:27Speaker 2: right now? What I did was I eventually, several years later,
- 48:35Speaker 2: I did change my name to Amy Phillips Ganell. It's
- 48:40Speaker 2: not hyphened. I made Phillips my middle name, and I
- 48:43Speaker 2: made Ganell my last name. And my middle name, which
- 48:47Speaker 2: is Madeline, is just floating out there in some way.
- 48:54Speaker 2: And you know what, at the end of the day,
- 48:57Speaker 2: my name is written all different kinds of ways, in
- 49:00Speaker 2: every type of way, and that's that. But it is
- 49:03Speaker 2: such a pain in the ass to change your name,
- 49:05Speaker 2: and when you are known as a professional in your
- 49:07Speaker 2: field as that, it's difficult. You've established your career, so
- 49:12Speaker 2: changing your name is difficult. So but a lot of
- 49:15Speaker 2: it was like, I'm just going to make sure I
- 49:16Speaker 2: have Ganell at the end of my name anyway, for
- 49:18Speaker 2: the sake of my daughter, so that it's like you
- 49:22Speaker 2: can just see that we're connected in that way, you
- 49:24Speaker 2: know what I mean, I guess. But when I didn't
- 49:28Speaker 2: do it, Brett's joke was hilarious because he did not
- 49:31Speaker 2: carry respected whatever and someone would say something like does
- 49:35Speaker 2: she do you have his last name? And he's like,
- 49:37Speaker 2: doesn't want it, doesn't want it.
- 49:43Speaker 3: Anyway.
- 49:44Speaker 4: It's really funny now, but I get it, Like I
- 49:48Speaker 4: get that, like for somebody that thinks like that their
- 49:52Speaker 4: last name is the bloodline and they have the responsibility
- 49:55Speaker 4: of carrying it and all that I'm speaking on behalf of.
- 50:00Speaker 1: Jeff in that situation with Kierna, I understand it. Like, so,
- 50:09Speaker 1: what's his name? Greg? I'm wasted, That's the other thing
- 50:12Speaker 1: I got. I drink a lot of scotch.
- 50:16Speaker 4: I'm like, oh ship, who's no, You're right, Jeff, I'm
- 50:22Speaker 4: really attached to this guy.
- 50:24Speaker 3: Amy doesn't know anything about the housewives, Emily said Jeff,
- 50:28Speaker 3: and she went right along with it.
- 50:31Speaker 5: Okay, well I get it.
- 50:34Speaker 3: It's just we both got our side absolutely.
- 50:39Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 50:39Speaker 3: Cool. So I think we talked about everything. I mean, wait,
- 50:48Speaker 3: here's what I wanted to.
- 50:50Speaker 2: Really just investigate for hot sec is that at the
- 50:55Speaker 2: very end when they're like cash me outside, basically they
- 51:00Speaker 2: go out there and then MIAs like, talk about your drinking,
- 51:04Speaker 2: your guys. You know, every man that opens up is
- 51:07Speaker 2: d to you. And then Karen's like.
- 51:09Speaker 3: You watch your kids for five days and he did
- 51:11Speaker 3: a whole month? Is that true?
- 51:12Speaker 2: And She's like lies. And then Karen's like he said
- 51:16Speaker 2: when he got to Karas she didn't want and just
- 51:17Speaker 2: shut up actions to him, and she's like lies. And
- 51:21Speaker 2: then Karen said, Andrew Returnity just touched. And then Jizzy's
- 51:25Speaker 2: like yeah, and it's been in question for a whole year.
- 51:28Speaker 2: And then Jacqueline says it was a whole kit.
- 51:33Speaker 3: So is she referring?
- 51:34Speaker 2: And Jizzie's like, oh, you knew, so is Jacqueline's home kit.
- 51:39Speaker 2: So's she gonna allege that that that's not like valid
- 51:43Speaker 2: because it's just a kit you can get and the
- 51:46Speaker 2: accuracy is only you know, seventy five percent.
- 51:50Speaker 3: Is that what she's gonna try and say?
- 51:54Speaker 1: I mean I would.
- 51:56Speaker 4: I just don't trust Gordon on this. I think Gordon
- 51:59Speaker 4: is capable of more than his sweetness might indicate. And
- 52:05Speaker 4: I think, like, yeah, get something that's sanctioned that both
- 52:10Speaker 4: parties understand what's going on. Like he also did the
- 52:14Speaker 4: thing that was behind me is back, And I don't
- 52:17Speaker 4: know if Mia did that to him. I don't know,
- 52:20Speaker 4: but I think, like, get something where you both are
- 52:24Speaker 4: understanding that there's nothing, there's no tricks involved, Like this
- 52:28Speaker 4: is what it.
- 52:28Speaker 2: Is, right right, right, right right, pretty explosive ending, I
- 52:33Speaker 2: will say. And I'm really looking forward to seeing how
- 52:36Speaker 2: this ends. I heard that the reunion was really good.
- 52:39Speaker 2: You know, Karen's ozepic thing.
- 52:41Speaker 3: Came out in this episode because Kierena is the one
- 52:47Speaker 3: who like put it on blast and Karen was like, well,
- 52:51Speaker 3: what are you talking about? Like I've been feeling bad
- 52:53Speaker 3: for her.
- 52:54Speaker 2: She can't eat, she can't sleep, probably yeah, just putting
- 52:57Speaker 2: shots in her butt, but like and she admitted to it.
- 53:00Speaker 2: I mean it was it's semi gluetide it's the same
- 53:03Speaker 2: thing essentially, So what she's saying is, well, yes, I did.
- 53:07Speaker 3: I mean, of course I'm pretty diabetic.
- 53:10Speaker 1: And I mean and that was the perfect Karen response.
- 53:14Speaker 3: It really was.
- 53:15Speaker 4: With Giselle, she keeps getting these situations where she goes
- 53:18Speaker 4: hard for somebody and then realizes like, no, it's I know,
- 53:23Speaker 4: it's intentional in a.
- 53:25Speaker 1: Totally different way, but well, I mean that goes back
- 53:30Speaker 1: to the Mia thing too.
- 53:31Speaker 4: With Gizelle is like she was so bummed because at
- 53:34Speaker 4: the Love event they huddled up and had that moment
- 53:38Speaker 4: where they're listening to Mia, and then a couple hours
- 53:41Speaker 4: later she's posting.
- 53:42Speaker 1: On Instagram with Gordon and Ink and the kids. And
- 53:45Speaker 1: that's why it's so confusing.
- 53:46Speaker 4: And I wanted to say to her at out on
- 53:49Speaker 4: that patio, Hey, Karen and Gizelle, both of you saw
- 53:54Speaker 4: with your own eyes, like in real time.
- 53:58Speaker 1: After that, they're all.
- 53:59Speaker 4: Hanging out like so even whatever Gordon is saying is
- 54:03Speaker 4: also contradicting what is being presented.
- 54:07Speaker 1: So I don't know.
- 54:10Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always sad when you know. Also cast members
- 54:13Speaker 2: just really don't think the best of you. But and
- 54:17Speaker 2: that's what's sababvious to us. But as I mentioned, I
- 54:20Speaker 2: think that there's way more that Karen and Giselle know
- 54:24Speaker 2: that's off camera that maybe she's not being truthful about,
- 54:27Speaker 2: which is you know, is too much for me to
- 54:30Speaker 2: handle in my brain because I can't really get there.
- 54:33Speaker 4: Yeah, but like, okay, clearly Karen has got a lot
- 54:37Speaker 4: of shit going on off camera that Giselle is just
- 54:41Speaker 4: like hydroplating over in terms of like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
- 54:45Speaker 4: all her stuff on the side, Oh yeah, like hilarious.
- 54:48Speaker 1: Meanwhile, like that's on the side.
- 54:51Speaker 3: Yeah, so that's on the side. That's a side thing.
- 54:53Speaker 2: Oh really, it's not completely consuming her life and her
- 54:57Speaker 2: career and her marriage. So oh and then I do
- 55:02Speaker 2: want to say that we were at the container store,
- 55:05Speaker 2: and that's worth a engine because that's just a lovely,
- 55:08Speaker 2: lovely place to be.
- 55:10Speaker 4: Yes, And with those flashbacks of Giselle when she was
- 55:13Speaker 4: a kid, man, she looks like your daughter's I just
- 55:16Speaker 4: never would have thought.
- 55:17Speaker 2: That, I mean totally, and their daughter when she was
- 55:20Speaker 2: talking about college was like a mini me of Gizelle.
- 55:25Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, it's happening. The evolution
- 55:28Speaker 3: is happening. She's turning her mother full on. I mean,
- 55:31Speaker 3: it was wild so cute.
- 55:33Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, all right, Well.
- 55:37Speaker 3: I think that's it for this EPP.
- 55:39Speaker 2: What a fun romp. Thanks for listening to us. Just
- 55:43Speaker 2: zig and zag and have a good time. Don't forget
- 55:46Speaker 2: Darling's listening to this on the Public. That Traders is
- 55:49Speaker 2: over on the Patreon if you want that, it's already up.
- 55:52Speaker 2: And then of course we have Beverly Hills on Patrion
- 55:56Speaker 2: tomorrow as well as Southern Charm on Friday, and then
- 55:59Speaker 2: we're back on the Public on Thursday with Salt Lake City.
- 56:02Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, sold on SLC is over on Patreon.
- 56:05Speaker 2: There's so much to cover. There's probably more, Oh New
- 56:08Speaker 2: York too, so Emily, thank you so much for being here.
- 56:11Speaker 2: Oh and follow please follow over at Instagram. It's Drama
- 56:16Speaker 2: Dollar Darwin, Darling Show Black. Thanks so much for everything.
- 56:21Speaker 1: Don't forget to plug that Instagram.
- 56:22Speaker 3: If you don't know my idea, you know what. I
- 56:25Speaker 3: need to see you on QBC because.
- 56:27Speaker 1: I'm starting to question it, ripping heads off.
- 56:31Speaker 3: Buy the shit drama the pphens.
- 56:34Speaker 1: I have a gift Drama Darling