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The Side Chick Had Access To His Girls Security Camera??? · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, if
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so shamous, so shameless, so so so shameless.
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  Speaker 2: If you know what I'm saying, so.
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  Speaker 1: Shameless, If you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, so shameless, if you know
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so shame.
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  Speaker 3: We gotta be your odds. You already apologize for lying.
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  Speaker 3: I'm good now.
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  Speaker 4: I never said I was lying. Two things can be true.
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  Speaker 3: Their moms were lying initially, and then you added in
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  Speaker 3: addendum to make the first part.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't lying.
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  Speaker 5: I was a I was referencing one portion of it,
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  Speaker 5: and then you brought something else to my attention.
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  Speaker 2: I thought about it.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, you know what, You're right, I'm not ready.
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  Speaker 6: Niggas amended the law. Your man's not ready.
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  Speaker 4: He's a forty seven year old Fromnidadian man. He's never
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  Speaker 4: going to be ready. That's not his vibe. Not his vibe.
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  Speaker 3: My man sold me this this shirt today, this outfit.
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  Speaker 3: I said, who are these niggas on the shirt?
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  Speaker 4: Who?
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  Speaker 3: I said, where'd you get the image? He's like, oh no,
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  Speaker 3: I said, is it ai? He said no, it's just
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  Speaker 3: a pick yo. I said, so you got the from
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  Speaker 3: like from the internet. This is something random nigga. But
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  Speaker 3: that's a nigga named Frederick and I'm wearing on my shirt.
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  Speaker 4: You don't even know he wan a T shirt?
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  Speaker 7: Oh yeah, you.
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  Speaker 2: See mind you he got?
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  Speaker 4: And then he's on his shirt he got another nigga.
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  Speaker 3: I said, who's the other nigga? I said, who's the
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  Speaker 3: nigga on his shirt?
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  Speaker 4: Because it looks like him?
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  Speaker 2: It does? Is it like him?
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  Speaker 6: With a scully on? I have no idea who these
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  Speaker 6: niggas are.
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  Speaker 2: Are we good? We're good? We're going sir?
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  Speaker 6: Are y'all ready for another episode of is all I
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  Speaker 6: want to know?
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  Speaker 7: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Are you?
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  Speaker 3: He came here and sat with us for heart a sort.
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  Speaker 3: It's very safe platform. Although I started.
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  Speaker 4: Off, Oh he's ready for whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I'm preserving my energies can go.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I know this can He's young, Bob Ross.
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  Speaker 2: Why aren't it to be over there?
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  Speaker 4: You want me to feed off of his energy and
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  Speaker 4: go crazy.
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  Speaker 2: To your nuts too?
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, why did you isolate us?
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  Speaker 7: Like? Are you?
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  Speaker 3: We're the two hosts of the show that you're right,
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  Speaker 3: you're right, you're right, and you haven't been You also
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  Speaker 3: a host, but you haven't been here in a while.
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  Speaker 5: I'm a special random guess when you can't find nobody else, I.
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  Speaker 3: Could have found other people. I specifically said, no, hey.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I take it back. You did.
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  Speaker 2: You were in the chat from okay friend.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 7: Every young person is freaky. That's how I have to go.
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  Speaker 1: Do it.
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  Speaker 6: The math got it to me, got an equal lout.
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  Speaker 2: That's funny.
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  Speaker 3: Where am I starting? First of all? Shout out to
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  Speaker 3: the entire so shameless community. We love you all, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm ready to piss you the fuck off today. For one, Ladies,
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  Speaker 3: keep your stinking, rotten anuses to yourselves when you're in
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  Speaker 3: the presence of your nigga.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, what what makes y'all so bold? Like? Twenty twenty
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  Speaker 2: six really got to y'all head.
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  Speaker 4: You're talking about farting.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all out here farting in front of niggas? What is this?
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  Speaker 4: And I never did.
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  Speaker 2: That's not my kink. That's not my kink.
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  Speaker 3: I don't want nobody faring around me. I don't fight,
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  Speaker 3: so you don't know s I like this. I don't
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  Speaker 3: like how long you have been around your man.
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  Speaker 4: It's going to be a year in October.
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  Speaker 2: You never fired around him?
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  Speaker 4: He will. I will die before I far in front
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  Speaker 4: of him.
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  Speaker 2: No, that's crazy. How y'all feel about this? I hate that?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, now you want me to fart?
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  Speaker 2: I want you to be comfortable.
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  Speaker 4: I am comfortable. I am comfortable.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying go crazy. I don't want you to
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  Speaker 2: go ahead? And how do you know before you let
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  Speaker 2: it go? How do you know? You know when your
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  Speaker 2: ship about?
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  Speaker 5: You know it's a special kind of bubble.
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  Speaker 2: You know what SBD the solemn but DELI? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you know what it's ab Yeah, come out? What are
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  Speaker 2: you standing over? What are you standing over me? For?
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  Speaker 3: Listen?
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  Speaker 2: Yoah? First of all, you what do you thinking about this?
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  Speaker 2: Are you really? Free? Spirit? Free?
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  Speaker 5: Just go?
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  Speaker 7: I'm not with my lady doing all that had to
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  Speaker 7: do with that.
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  Speaker 3: You have a proper lady. She walks away, and she
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  Speaker 3: goes handles her business. She spins around so it doesn't
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  Speaker 3: follow her. She escapes it and then comes back in
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  Speaker 3: the room like nothing happened. Let me tell you about
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  Speaker 3: my experience. Don't text me. I'm in the bed.
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  Speaker 6: First of all. She comes over.
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  Speaker 3: She's amazing having in a space while I'm working, right,
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  Speaker 3: you know, it's always good to have your person just there,
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  Speaker 3: especially if you like the energy. Right, they're just there.
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  Speaker 3: She's watching, telling me, she's watching like the punishing ship.
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  Speaker 3: I'm in here sending emails. Whatever I get in the bed,
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  Speaker 3: I go cuddle.
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  Speaker 2: Up to her. She's nicely oiled.
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  Speaker 3: She must have sprayed some sprints on her, you know,
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  Speaker 3: the feminine smelling all lavender and eucalyptus. Right, So I'm
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  Speaker 3: ready to go. Yo, ladies, y'all are so amazing. Your essence,
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  Speaker 3: the essence of a woman, like it's just undefeated. Coconut
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  Speaker 3: oil on black women, also undefeated the way y'all skin
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  Speaker 3: just like ah, so I smell it all. I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: oh oh god. Right, So I go here. Her bosoms nicely,
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  Speaker 3: you know, on whatever drawl she had was just so
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  Speaker 3: I'm just up against the bosoms and I just cuddle
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  Speaker 3: and I look at her, at her, and she's like.
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  Speaker 2: Like that solid one. I'm like, you look like you
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  Speaker 2: came from up under the cover.
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  Speaker 3: Why do you look bashful? Like what what happened? She's like,
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  Speaker 3: I thought you smelled it I'm like, smell ah, my nigga.
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  Speaker 2: She was eating fruit.
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  Speaker 6: It's bad. She's nothber fruit all day. God, bro, it
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  Speaker 6: must have been a.
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  Speaker 2: My nigga.
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  Speaker 3: The covers was on fire. On five jumped out to bed.
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  Speaker 3: I jumped up. I waved the coves, like, what the
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  Speaker 3: fuck is wrong with you? Did not happened? Did I
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  Speaker 3: not wave the covers?
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  Speaker 4: It wasn't like that. You did all of that. But
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  Speaker 4: it was not like that.
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  Speaker 2: Bro. I got mad.
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  Speaker 6: I got angry.
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  Speaker 2: Why would you do that?
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  Speaker 4: So you never did that?
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  Speaker 2: It slipped out. It's different. Why is it different?
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  Speaker 3: It's farting is way more acceptable for men.
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  Speaker 2: Women.
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  Speaker 4: It's okay for her to choke and almost die from
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  Speaker 4: your go in the bathroom.
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  Speaker 2: What happened? Y'all do it before sex? You'll go pack.
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  Speaker 2: I could be getting to know it's different because you
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  Speaker 2: just acknowledge that you don't do it.
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  Speaker 5: No, No, that's my own, that's my person.
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  Speaker 3: It is not it's when y'all get comfortable even together.
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  Speaker 3: Seven years, she's done everything, allowed to part. No, so
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  Speaker 3: you know what we didn't do.
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  Speaker 2: You know we didn't do have sex.
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  Speaker 3: We didn't, Bro, I couldn't stop.
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  Speaker 6: It was stuck to my face.
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  Speaker 2: I was spoken to you enough time to know that
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  Speaker 2: you're very understanding man, very open minded. Have boundaries. Fart
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  Speaker 2: is the boundary you have. It's not sexy. How is
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  Speaker 2: that sexy? How is it feminine? That's feminine?
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  Speaker 6: This nigga here? What far all you want around me?
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  Speaker 6: I don't care.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't want my girl with her stomach all
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  Speaker 8: hard and ship around me. No, I don't want That's
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  Speaker 8: what I'm saying. I don't want my girl's stomach.
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  Speaker 2: To be fun. I can't even fun you right now.
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  Speaker 2: Until you finished stomach.
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  Speaker 5: She would have had painful sex, like you want her
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  Speaker 5: to have painful sex. You want to be hurt because
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  Speaker 5: the gas is getting pushed around her belly.
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  Speaker 2: No, he wanted her to look sexy and her stomach
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  Speaker 2: is like.
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  Speaker 4: Her stomach is hurting in the gases.
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  Speaker 2: You wanted her to get up and do it in
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  Speaker 2: the bathroom and then come back. She said, just how
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  Speaker 2: do you? Sometimes you never an accidentally.
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  Speaker 6: Right away from him? No, I do it on purpose.
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  Speaker 4: I let it go because you're a fucking menace.
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  Speaker 6: I'm a man.
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  Speaker 2: I thought she's gonna say, Man, So if you farted
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  Speaker 2: and you wanted to have sex directly after she supposed
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  Speaker 2: to be okay with that.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't understand that. I would understand if she took
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  Speaker 3: a break. She's been down there and it just happened while.
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  Speaker 5: I was Wow, what a double standard. So look over
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  Speaker 5: it like that accidentally, because you let fecal matters slip
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  Speaker 5: out your ass while she was down there and she
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  Speaker 5: can't part under the covers.
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  Speaker 6: Please no, let me ask you a questions.
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  Speaker 7: Please have your back to hold.
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  Speaker 3: No way, no, no, no, not off the rails with it. No,
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  Speaker 3: there are double standards. There are mostly the ones that
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  Speaker 3: are acceptable today, especially on social media. They all benefit women.
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  Speaker 3: They all y'all fight for y'all double standards, y'all fight
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  Speaker 3: for them.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, if a guy buys me a drink at the bar,
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  Speaker 2: I'm saving us money. I'm not gonna give him nothing.
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  Speaker 2: Let me go buy bitches drinks at the bar.
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  Speaker 3: Let me be happy, go lucky here here yo, drinks
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  Speaker 3: for all you bitches over there.
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  Speaker 2: Because you found that I was.
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  Speaker 4: Spending Why would you be doing that though, Why would
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  Speaker 4: you be spending our money?
• 10:40
  Speaker 3: Why you letting niggas think they could get close to
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  Speaker 3: you like that and buy your ship because the double
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  Speaker 3: standard works.
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  Speaker 2: I'm rocking with you. I'm listening, but I'm rocking with
• 10:51
  Speaker 2: you saying.
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  Speaker 3: All of these things that benefit women, we could keep
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  Speaker 3: going down the line. They benefit y'all. Y'all understand the
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  Speaker 3: double standard. There are some in then is a thing.
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  Speaker 3: It's a very soft, it's very like pleasurable. It's it's just.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't fit farting. Okay, it's completely different from masculine farts.
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  Speaker 3: Masculine is like, Yo, your crude, you're sweat, you come
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  Speaker 3: back for playing basketball.
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  Speaker 2: Women dick after basketball, so it's cool.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, yo, yeah, you look sexy, you smell like musk.
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  Speaker 2: I like it. No nigga wants to eat pussy after farts. Well,
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  Speaker 2: some dude after all, right, hey, hey, put your finger.
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  Speaker 2: How many years though? After how many years of being
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  Speaker 2: with somebody? That's what I'm saying to being with somebody
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  Speaker 2: for so right now, at one point, just let a
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  Speaker 2: little fart go. It's a little pool.
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  Speaker 7: Seven years don't mean nothing. It's about hygiene, you know.
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  Speaker 5: It's like how far that slipped out the butt by accident?
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  Speaker 5: Half the seven years can't happen.
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  Speaker 6: Not you're a sexy time like it was it was
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  Speaker 6: about it was about to be.
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  Speaker 2: Wait, I didn't. I didn't canoodle a canoodle to.
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  Speaker 5: Push you off and be like, yo, let me go
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  Speaker 5: to you've done it when you had to go pee
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  Speaker 5: and did.
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  Speaker 4: What you said after that.
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  Speaker 6: Though, when I did do it, what I say it
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  Speaker 6: warns the moment.
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  Speaker 3: Right, So so you think farting does it? Listen, man,
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  Speaker 3: if y'all gotta go pack, you could be getting to it.
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  Speaker 3: Y'all could be getting right to it. Whatever's going on
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  Speaker 3: before insertioning, y'all be like, excuse me, wait a minute,
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  Speaker 3: and y'all go running there and check make sure eight
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  Speaker 3: thing is everything.
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  Speaker 2: See ya broke down this whole thing for a different
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  Speaker 2: thing that I would have took it for her. Farting
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  Speaker 2: would have made me feel bad because it would have
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  Speaker 2: been like a sound like, oh, maybe you don't want
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  Speaker 2: to have sex right now. So you might have did
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  Speaker 2: that because you know it would have turned me off
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  Speaker 2: instead of just telling me you don't want none right
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  Speaker 2: at the moment. That's what I took it as. I'd
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  Speaker 2: have been more offended by that. So the fart might
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  Speaker 2: have been her way of saying, chill, not right now.
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  Speaker 4: Swell it again. Why are you making that face?
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  Speaker 6: You saw that, niggas remembering the fart. It's your top
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  Speaker 6: lip too.
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  Speaker 2: Not good.
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  Speaker 3: I do believe there are some things that are most sacred.
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  Speaker 3: Femininity is one of them. Bro, y'all cannot become so
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  Speaker 3: like you know, I'm here now, your women in this
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  Speaker 3: revolution that y'all have had since Say my Name, Say
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  Speaker 3: my Name came out twenty years ago. Now, all of
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  Speaker 3: a sudden, y'all just around niggas like he belch he
• 13:20
  Speaker 3: you hit me too.
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  Speaker 4: No, I don't disagree.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you, but thank you. That's all I want. Okay,
• 13:27
  Speaker 6: that's all I want.
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  Speaker 4: In general, I do not disagree.
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  Speaker 5: But in a specific situation where your lady slipped up
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  Speaker 5: pups that's what we call it in Trinidut of pups
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  Speaker 5: accidentally right when you were cuddling her.
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  Speaker 4: You gotta let it slide. It's been seven years. It's
• 13:45
  Speaker 4: been seven years.
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  Speaker 7: I'm with talk about I'm gonna take it a step further.
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  Speaker 7: I wouldn't even make it gender specific about the femininity,
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  Speaker 7: like if I'm about we about to, if I want
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  Speaker 7: some action, I'm not gonna fark immediately right before that,
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  Speaker 7: it just kind of throws the mood or it's the
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  Speaker 7: opposite of what how niggas would set the move with,
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  Speaker 7: like appealing to your senses candles ship, like that you're
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  Speaker 7: gonna fart and then want to engageing.
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  Speaker 5: I could tell so I know you, I know you
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  Speaker 5: have it could happen, but I'm not.
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  Speaker 7: So what do you do?
• 14:17
  Speaker 2: You're getting some crazy neck? What do you do?
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  Speaker 4: Hold it? You expect your lady to hold it?
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: Hold it?
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  Speaker 6: Hold it? I literally never holding I don't want you.
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  Speaker 2: To hold it. Wait if you get and you gotta fart,
• 14:30
  Speaker 2: you're gonna fart. Yeah, I said, hold on a second,
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  Speaker 2: I gotta let it go, no squeeze, yeah exactly. She
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  Speaker 2: lets it go right, So now she got so now.
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  Speaker 6: Mm hmmm, because I was holding it for a minute
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  Speaker 6: before I even said anything.
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  Speaker 3: Oh so that she was back up man. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: I do my best. And then once I know I
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  Speaker 3: ain't got that's some cave man ship. There's a cave
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  Speaker 3: man at bare minimum. Come on, you gotta see that.
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  Speaker 3: You think somebody won't be down there? Give us some
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  Speaker 3: head smelling poop? Yeah, booty flakes everywhere.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't matter matter, like.
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  Speaker 4: You can't see it. But yeah, why do you think
• 15:19
  Speaker 4: people get pink eye? If you fur on the.
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  Speaker 6: Killow my tongue in there. This fecal matter in there.
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  Speaker 2: So you put your tongue in there, then you should have.
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  Speaker 6: No problem with I don't want to smell it. If
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  Speaker 6: I smell anything, I'm not putting.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So she pooped and they don't got no stench,
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: and you're still cool.
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  Speaker 5: That's the question. Would how would you have felt if
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  Speaker 5: you didn't smell. If it's smelled like nothing.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't even catch it.
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  Speaker 5: I still expected so when she when he was like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: what's the face? And she was like, oh, I thought
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  Speaker 5: you would have smelled it, but you didn't. But there
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  Speaker 5: was no smell, you still would have been upset.
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  Speaker 3: Well if it was a And then she said, oh,
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  Speaker 3: yeah I did it, but there's no smells like cool.
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  Speaker 6: I wouldn't even have thought about it.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool, right if it's.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, but those don't stink though it was no,
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  Speaker 3: but it came later. I smelled it. The whole house
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  Speaker 3: smelled it. You don't think I would have smelled that.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: Now you're lying, you're crazy.
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  Speaker 6: What is my horror?
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: It's like comparison.
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: Kill slight mango undertin ox tail gravy. Alright, now you
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: it's a lot of mixed going barbecue.
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  Speaker 2: How long? How long after this pool did you find
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  Speaker 2: yourself getting back into the mold? You just never found it?
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: A game was.
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  Speaker 4: Angry, that was That was it.
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  Speaker 2: I went to bed. I turned my back to her.
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  Speaker 8: I was about to ask you turned your back and.
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  Speaker 2: I went to bed.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, my god, Yeah, this thick is crazy.
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  Speaker 2: That's funny.
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  Speaker 6: You honestly, we are. I love my lady.
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  Speaker 2: It's fine.
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  Speaker 3: Seven years And when I had the conversation with her earlier,
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: I said, honestly, I was dead wrong from my behavior.
• 17:10
  Speaker 6: Right, I'm just not used to.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: The lack of.
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: Hold on one minute and running off like we we're
• 17:19
  Speaker 3: here now, you don't care and just look at me
• 17:22
  Speaker 3: like we're good.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: No, Like, I'm not used to that.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: You gotta you know, just maybe a first how do
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: we just always just get to the butt as but cheeks?
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Just I'm not there yet. Times people don't control it.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: They don't know what's she's like. It slipped out, you
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: wasn't under the covers. You knew you had gas, you
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: felt it, you feel it, don't just nothing happened yet
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: for us to just slip out.
• 17:52
  Speaker 7: There be times where I know it's coming, but I
• 17:54
  Speaker 7: don't think it's gonna stick. I think I get away
• 17:56
  Speaker 7: with it clean, you know what I mean? And it's like.
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: Fruit they hot.
• 18:04
  Speaker 5: Hot, Yo, How I really studied in different that's not
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: your kid, because you know a lot about farts.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Oh I'm old. I have a lot of flatulence. Now
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: do you blame Do you blame your partner when they
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: like far in a sleep, because that's the time when
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: that happens. I do think it's rather disgusting.
• 18:24
  Speaker 4: Maybe I do think you don't.
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, your man is one hundred percent hurt you far
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: in your sleep. I just want you to know that
• 18:30
  Speaker 2: he's not going to tell you.
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: And yo, y'all be dead knocked out and it'd be
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: dumb lad.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Like yeah, move your head, like y'all.
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: Just woke me up. That was That was actually a
• 18:46
  Speaker 6: really defining moment.
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: Knocked out and I snore like an animal. But like
• 18:52
  Speaker 4: it's bad.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: It's worse snor in a far in this sleep, depending
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: on I ain't gonna lie. This is gonna sound crazy,
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: but a certain type of snow and the girl can
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: be kind of cute. Nah, cute that. It's like, damn,
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: she worked harder than I knew this sleep like, let
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: me rub ahead, she's going that the other ship. That
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: that my five hundred pounds life ship. The beer.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you never woke up, You never had a chick over,
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: and you ain't know she was like that and you
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: like sleep and you just said, oh, you're a snore now.
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: Like a grizzly bear.
• 19:37
  Speaker 7: You're up.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: You're just a grizzly bear. That's the worst.
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: When you're at my house and I'm up and you're sleeping, peaceful.
• 19:46
  Speaker 8: Peaving, we both gonna be up right. You ain't telling
• 19:53
  Speaker 8: no lies. I watched the whole season, a little cage
• 19:56
  Speaker 8: doing some ship like that ship. Damn shit over No, yikes,
• 20:02
  Speaker 8: what's that shit? Cool sleep apne?
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I suffered from it.
• 20:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they always got good I'm sorry, baby, this.
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: Is a sneap avene always got some good action.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: They work hard, yo. Please through the snore right now.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. She deserves that ship though.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: That good sleep. M Maybe she used to give me some.
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: I used to have to see pap on. Yeah, we
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: tried everything.
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: Why do you snore?
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: I used to.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know if I still do as much, still
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: as much?
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: You don't know about it, what we're doing.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: Oh well, then clearly.
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: It would happen to me. I don't know more frequently
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: back then and now. But maybe maybe I'm wrong.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Did I lose weight? I don't know.
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: Sometimes I'm heavier now. Yeah, I see, we see you
• 21:02
  Speaker 5: calling me fat.
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: That's not what I caught that. Yeah, all right?
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Uh speaking of good looking? What do y'all think about this?
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: Uh?
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: Us a situation? Situation? I know we're a little past it,
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: But shorty, what's up with Shorty bro?
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: Going up on the.
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: Stage, the denial of the usher croon and kiss and
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: then going what did she say? Let me see if
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: I got it?
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: She said she wanted.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: She thought, they don't tell me what you're going up
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: there for. She thought it was Chris Brown, she was
• 21:40
  Speaker 5: with the ships. If it was Chris, and it was
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: it was ushering his herpes. So she was like, yo,
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: y'all forgot about that?
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: Did y'all forget the nigga was accused of having herpes?
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: I wasn't accused.
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: I don't remember that. I'm not trying to find out
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: some big girl. Big girl came out and was like, Yo,
• 21:57
  Speaker 5: she got herpes from believe that. I'm not taking.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Ausal I say he.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: Does have her bees.
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: What I'm saying is once I even hear that, there
• 22:09
  Speaker 5: might be some No, thank you, that's forever.
• 22:12
  Speaker 4: I'm cool. No, you can't kiss me either.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: That's so crazy. That is crazy.
• 22:16
  Speaker 6: He ain't did a damn thing.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: I don't care.
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: You can't say my way.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out why did they choose
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: that young looking girl for Usher? Anyway, i'ma be honest
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: with you, like I think the moment that you decide
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: to participate on stage like that, you should just be cool.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Whether you wanted to be with Chris or USh or not,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: you decided to come up there and get your look,
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: go ahead, play it off, because I think she would
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: have got a better moment than this. But I'm also
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: like you niggas who went to go pick the girl.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: Y'all couldn't tell that this girl should not be usha
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: is is? She's young. You can look at that girl
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: and tell she ain't think she's like thirty something. She
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: don't look thirty something. She looked twenty something to me.
• 22:54
  Speaker 6: She's in thirty that really, I don't know she's in
• 22:58
  Speaker 6: her thirties.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: They actually like her and her aunt, all of them
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: was in the chat and they was talking about how
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: old she is, like, oh this.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: She's damn the Yeah, she's in the thirtie.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: Oh I didn't know that, you know what I'm saying.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: I still think she ignorant as a motherfucker, though, and
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: she's dragging her moment her responses.
• 23:17
  Speaker 5: I did find response a bit ignorant, but her reason like.
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, first off, nobody is declining to go on stage.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: I look good at ASF that's con I was like, okay,
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: heard you what you thought? I wasn't gonna let thousands
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: of people see me question mark question mark on the
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: big screen where you bitches will never be.
• 23:42
  Speaker 6: Question mark question mark, question mark question mark.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: My mom and I had capital up cap lock floor seats.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Their team approached us and it moved us to VIP
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: before the show even started. Cap Lock pretty privileges something
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: you holds will never know about. They don't say who
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: you going up there for? Exclamation point? Exclamation point? They
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: y'all wanted me to get up there and fuck him ATP?
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: What does ATP meant? At this point.
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, chat, folks aren't used to anything old caps lock.
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: That's the most exciting thing that would have happened in
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: y'all little ass lives the fuck y'all respect disrespectfully.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: That was intense. But I don't know what.
• 24:27
  Speaker 5: I don't know if she's responding to I don't know
• 24:28
  Speaker 5: what hate she was getting before that.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: I just saw the response and I was like, I'm like,
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: you're what you're doing this?
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: If you're if you if your messages is flooded with
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: a bunch of people saying you ain't ship this in
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: this and this. Now I can see I can see
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: you wallin and responding to those people with that type.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Of an Yeah, I am wil everybody case who you're
• 24:46
  Speaker 4: talking to.
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: I can see that, and it's the truth.
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: And not only would half, not even half majority of
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: you bitches not even get pulled up here, y'all nasty too,
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: like y'all would have got up there and would have
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: if you could have fucked on the stage, you would have.
• 24:56
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry that I'm not like that, but I also
• 24:59
  Speaker 5: would have declined because I'm not getting on stage to
• 25:02
  Speaker 5: get dry humped by a nigga that I don't know
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: because they both got hurt.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: These Actually I heard that both of them might have.
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: Allegedly allegedly, I allegedly heard that both of them. That's
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: allegedly that's why him and Rayianna got into the whole
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: ship because she, oh no, no, it was alleged that
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: she gave it. Actually, I don't give up. I probably
• 25:20
  Speaker 5: wouldn't go on the stage. But if I did go
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: on the stage, these bitches be mad horny. This whole
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: like women in Powerment movement got bitches feeling very comfortable cherries.
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: Hell no, I am disgusted every time I see that ship, Like,
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: y'all pitches are sluts.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you go to Usher Chris Brown show? Because why
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: not go to the show.
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: Why y'all pressed? I did?
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: I didn't like why y'all pressed the Like, if your
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: girl is a super usher, super Chris Brown fan, youre
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: letting them go up on stair? Old, No, you're not
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: letting your they come grab her. You're like, no, no,
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: not doing that.
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: I think if you have a man, you should know
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: not to go up there because you know what's gonna
• 26:02
  Speaker 5: happen up there. You're gonna get dry humped. The nigga's
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: gonna like kiss you in your mouth and all that
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: kind of wild ship. That's for the young girls that
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: are single. Exactly like, you're a grown ass swimmer with
• 26:11
  Speaker 5: a man, a husband. Why what are you doing you?
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: If you're in a relationship and you go do that ship,
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: then you need to just consider the relationships open.
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: Unless into that kind of ship, unless your man is
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: into it.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: Trey Song, She loved Trey song, is this big?
• 26:25
  Speaker 6: You're gonna let trigger take her in the back?
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: Go?
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: What the do I care? Why is that?
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: If that's her she gets one chance in the lifetime
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: to go have fun with her little star friend God, have.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: Fun to go on stage and get grinding on and
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: a nigga licking on your lips and all that, because
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: the niggas be wildings.
• 26:45
  Speaker 9: Let me tell you what. Let me tell you what
• 26:46
  Speaker 9: we talk about the meetings. Now, hold on, talk to
• 26:51
  Speaker 9: me telling you what happens.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: You have this conversation every quarter about what we're trying
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: to do to a nigga girl. It's like it's literally
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: a target, yo. Let's see who we can go ahead
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: and make uncomfortable. That's done for a reason. That's done
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: for a reason niggas ain't. I've seen niggas leave once
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: they let their girl go up. Actually, nigga leave by
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: himself like now. I've seen artists peep as Shorty with
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: her man at the joint and instantly make her the target,
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: oh ship, to just see if they can bite, and
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: it works a lot of times.
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: Damn double standard. If I'm at a Tianna Taylor concert
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: and she calls me on stage.
• 27:31
  Speaker 3: You're going Cherry's and all licking Kenya Mango.
• 27:36
  Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely, but he can't ever tell me. Listen, Tianna Taylor,
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: who any of the fight? Why is that different?
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: I didn't say that is for me personally.
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: I don't want you.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: I don't like you just said it was for little
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: girls and you did this whole yeah, but anyway.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Because Ela, you just said.
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know who do you think they be
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: in that with. I don't care. Women are just women like.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: Nasty, yeah women.
• 28:05
  Speaker 4: Women are nasty, yes, but in the right ways.
• 28:08
  Speaker 5: So yeah, Taylor called me up on said on whatever anything,
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: could you how could you a woman want to do
• 28:22
  Speaker 5: that with another.
• 28:23
  Speaker 6: Nigga because ill, it's the same ship, It's not the
• 28:26
  Speaker 6: same thing.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Uh. The nigga sitting there and the woman climbs on.
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: I've never understood it, Like I would never go to
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: a male strip club.
• 28:34
  Speaker 5: I've never understood like the women getting crazy and in
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: a frenzy and then like oh my god, like I'll
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: suck his dick right now, Like oh, like that shit
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: is weird to me, But that's me.
• 28:42
  Speaker 4: It's always been weird.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: But you can understand the admiration from women to women.
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: Absolutely at the female at the women's club, the ladies.
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: I go him every time, all the time, every time.
• 28:53
  Speaker 5: Women are like the sexiest things they are ever created.
• 28:56
  Speaker 5: Men are not like men are attractive, like oh shit,
• 28:58
  Speaker 5: he looked good. He got a nice body, he handsome.
• 29:00
  Speaker 5: But like to see a man and just be like
• 29:02
  Speaker 5: god damn, that's a sexy mother effort.
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: Like it's just that's weird to.
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: Me, Like I've never been I've never met a man
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: that's like, oh yeah, you can fuck me right now. Ever,
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: like ever, I gotta get to know you. I gotta
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: like it's just like your head got like when I
• 29:16
  Speaker 5: say you had your mind, like you gotta have like
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: some sense up there.
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, that's peace.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: That's a lot of peace.
• 29:23
  Speaker 6: You know for sure women are dope like that.
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: I know you do.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: I do look at women the exact same way you
• 29:28
  Speaker 3: look at them. However, relationships is what we was talking about.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: We was talking about the connection you have with your
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: partner and not letting somebody else or you're lust for
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: somebody else interfear.
• 29:42
  Speaker 6: That's what we were talking about.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 29:45
  Speaker 3: And now you're saying fuck all that, because I lust
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: for this person enough that I don't give a fuck
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: about this relationship and everything.
• 29:51
  Speaker 5: I was just saying three minutes ago, I said double standard.
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: And then also, it doesn't count when it's with the women.
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Again, don't fart in front of me.
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: I didn't say I disagreed with you know what.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: You drove that all the way back in the good
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: smoked that. Yeah, yeah we're good. Yeah we're good. You
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: got it good.
• 30:09
  Speaker 6: Your body understood.
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: Me. No, I let you talk long enough.
• 30:16
  Speaker 4: You baited me because you know me and you knew
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: that it was.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Going to go there.
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: No, I didn't act. I actually didn't. You know, it's
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: funny you also talked about ass eaton. I didn't say
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: nothing about you. You said you put your Did.
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: I say eating ass or did he say he put
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: his song ass never said nothing company.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Okay, what about it?
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: I ran into a post where the person was speaking
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: about social intimacy.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: I never really heard that before.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Me, either of the term.
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: I'm going to play the post.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: They wouldn't let me download it, so I guess they
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: got a lock on that ship for whatever.
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: Let me see if it goes to it.
• 30:57
  Speaker 10: You were invited to an important work dinner and you
• 31:00
  Speaker 10: bring your lover alongside of you. At the dinner, you're
• 31:03
  Speaker 10: in conversation one of your co workers, and your coworker
• 31:05
  Speaker 10: turns to your lover and says, gosh, they're so cool
• 31:09
  Speaker 10: to be with that work. I bet it's amazing to
• 31:11
  Speaker 10: live with them, And your lover says, yeah, it's amazing,
• 31:15
  Speaker 10: as long as you don't mind being with someone who
• 31:17
  Speaker 10: completely ignores your existence whenever they're on their phone.
• 31:20
  Speaker 4: Your coworker laughs.
• 31:21
  Speaker 10: You smile tightly, not because you're offended, but you're disappointed.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: They had an.
• 31:26
  Speaker 10: Opportunity to really uplift you and instead.
• 31:29
  Speaker 4: They took a cheap route.
• 31:30
  Speaker 10: Now, the rest of the night it goes just fine,
• 31:33
  Speaker 10: but on the way home, you're still thinking about it.
• 31:36
  Speaker 6: So they turn to you and say.
• 31:37
  Speaker 4: Are you okay?
• 31:38
  Speaker 10: You seem a little wuiet, and you are because honestly,
• 31:42
  Speaker 10: you don't know what to say or if it's even
• 31:44
  Speaker 10: reasonable to have an expectation for something that you've never
• 31:47
  Speaker 10: really heard named explicitly until now. Now, when it comes
• 31:50
  Speaker 10: to relationships, most of us can agree that there are
• 31:53
  Speaker 10: two integral dynamics. There's one I want to introduce today
• 31:57
  Speaker 10: that I'm calling social intimacy. A couple who has wrong
• 32:00
  Speaker 10: social intimacy on alignment with how they represent, claim, and
• 32:03
  Speaker 10: integrate each other into the spaces and relationships that matter
• 32:06
  Speaker 10: to each of them. Social intimacy has two expressions, the
• 32:10
  Speaker 10: internal one how you show up for each other when
• 32:12
  Speaker 10: you're together, and the external one, how you advocate.
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: For each other when you are apart.
• 32:16
  Speaker 10: Social intimacy speaks to the degree in which partners actively
• 32:20
  Speaker 10: enhance one another's social world as well as their social goals.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: Now I know, I know, I.
• 32:26
  Speaker 10: Can already read the comments from now. Other people's opinions
• 32:29
  Speaker 10: of your relationship shouldn't matter. And don't get me wrong,
• 32:33
  Speaker 10: that is fine if that's your personal mantra, but it's
• 32:36
  Speaker 10: certainly not a fact. Washington University Tract nearly five thousand
• 32:39
  Speaker 10: married people for five years, and they found that your
• 32:41
  Speaker 10: partner's personality directly predicts your salary, your likelihood of promotion, and.
• 32:46
  Speaker 4: Your job satisfaction.
• 32:47
  Speaker 10: Also, studies tracking couples across sixteen years found that when
• 32:50
  Speaker 10: your inner circle doesn't click with your partner, not only
• 32:53
  Speaker 10: is that a reliable predictor of divorce before it even
• 32:55
  Speaker 10: gets there, it damages your most treasured relationships.
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: I think we got basically just right. Have you ever
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: been with somebody that in that has embarrassed you when
• 33:11
  Speaker 3: you're out, like in a way that like they jeer
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: at you or whatever, they become oppy?
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: For sure?
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: Yes, in what way?
• 33:21
  Speaker 6: What happened?
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: You want to go first? Go ahead? You know who
• 33:27
  Speaker 4: it is? That clown?
• 33:29
  Speaker 3: I mean you didn't have to. I already knew the
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: first got that clown to make sure that I knew
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: and everybody knew.
• 33:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, how did he?
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: How did that?
• 33:40
  Speaker 6: What was the embarrassment part?
• 33:42
  Speaker 5: So he just behaved in a way that was very embarrassing.
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: One remember which one oh the girls bringing the girls
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: to the restaurant that one and bagging bitches at the restaurant.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Your cousin.
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: Oh man, there's so so many things so many things.
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: You him for like two seconds literally two seconds, like
• 34:06
  Speaker 5: literally two seconds. I'm sorry, No, no, you're right, it
• 34:10
  Speaker 5: was two seconds too long. But it's two seconds too long.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: So there was so there were situations like that. So damn,
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: it's so damn I didn't I forgot about that.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: I didn't. I fuck with you.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: I'm not forgetting that.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: So yeah, So first of all, he was just a
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: fucking obnoxious He was I didn't realize at first, but
• 34:31
  Speaker 5: clearly very insecure. So he would be overly obnoxious with
• 34:34
  Speaker 5: people for no reason, like why are you being obnoxious
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: with friends? Never family, but like with friends, why are
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: you being obnoxious in a place where I work that
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: I brought you? So you're making me look bad because
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: I brought you here. We weren't together when I brought
• 34:49
  Speaker 5: him there, but it's like I still brought you here.
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: Then there was also that he.
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: Was like one of them niggas that never got bitches.
• 34:56
  Speaker 5: Like no, he was very good looking, but you know,
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: like something this, this women like that.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Also, like he just never got pitches.
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: And then he got to this restaurant that was very
• 35:04
  Speaker 5: popular and he was a great chef and he's a
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: good looking man and they put him in the forefront.
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: So now all these beautiful women come to this restaurant
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: all the time and you're getting attention, and he didn't
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: know how to.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Fuck to act.
• 35:15
  Speaker 5: I will beat your ass here and embarrass you. So
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: why are you putting me in that position to have
• 35:20
  Speaker 5: to do that? But I can't because this is where
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: I work. So now I can't fuck you up the
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: way I want to because I work here and I'm
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: in a position of power here.
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: So I got a chill.
• 35:28
  Speaker 7: So you'll both work at the restaurant.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: Right, yes, but yeah, his behavior.
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: Was just he would go to the tables and like
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: cook the food in front of them type shit.
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but like like overly and then so that's what
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: he would do with like guests, but then with staff
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: he would try to like undermine. He wouldn't do it
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: with me personally, but because I was in a position
• 35:49
  Speaker 5: of power, they're like managing and things like that. He
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: would in front of staff try to second guest decision,
• 35:55
  Speaker 5: like not try the second guest, but he would try
• 35:57
  Speaker 5: to undermine decisions that I made. He would try to
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: tell staff the directive that I gave didn't necessarily make
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: sense or yeah it was me Taja could never.
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: Now, wow, now that's who's a great And it's just
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: why you guys are to dealing with each other.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: While we're not.
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: This is why we oh yeah, this is why we
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: were together. These are all reasons why we broke up.
• 36:17
  Speaker 5: So it was very much. Yeah, it just damn very embarrassing.
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: So it was on both sides. It was him taking
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: shots at me. It was also him disrespecting the relationship
• 36:28
  Speaker 5: by trying to engage with other women. And then it
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: was him just being overall like you were really a
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: laye nigga, Like I like, damn how I ended up
• 36:36
  Speaker 5: with the lane nigga? And now I'm embarrassed because everybody
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: knows you're a lane nigga. Like yuck, who wants that?
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: So yeah, horrible, horrible, horrible, very embarrassing.
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: Yeah, don't don't yo, let me get ye. Don't run
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: down on me, y'all deal with that. Don't come to me.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I ain't hadning to do with this.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Wait what happened? Which is your see you on the
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: sit and be like okay, John, I'm gonna listen. And
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: now you call them a type of lanes and clowns
• 37:07
  Speaker 2: and all this and all that. I think she don't
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: give too fucks.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: Camera, do nothing nothing. That's I am good, clown ass, niggah,
• 37:28
  Speaker 5: she doubled double because don't ever in your fucking life
• 37:32
  Speaker 5: trying to embarrass me. I am way too nice of
• 37:34
  Speaker 5: a person like I'm too kind, I am too thoughtful,
• 37:37
  Speaker 5: like nigga, you was up because of me? How dare
• 37:40
  Speaker 5: you because you're fucking insecure? How dare you like that's
• 37:43
  Speaker 5: not how you treat somebody that held you down and
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: helped you. Are you fucking crazy?
• 37:47
  Speaker 6: From what you told me? It was kind of awful.
• 37:50
  Speaker 4: I still should whoop that, nigga ass mhm okay.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Minds is not as but I feel for you. I'm
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: glad that you good.
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: This brings up real quick before you go with you right,
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: where are y'all with your your girl hating her ex
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: to that level?
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: Oh? Luckily I'm single, so I gotta deal with none
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: of this show.
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: Have you ever had like a woman that really hated
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: the last to the point where yes, eve about it
• 38:17
  Speaker 3: And I'm instantly not not to be funny.
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: I'm instantly turned off by that.
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: You should be.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: I'm turned off. I need at some point you to
• 38:26
  Speaker 2: get over that bullshit, and I don't ever want to
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: hear about it.
• 38:30
  Speaker 7: Now.
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: You can tell me some things that might have happened
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: the past, whatever, But if you still locked in to
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: where it draws that much passion, passion or that much
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: animosity still, I start to think that there's something still there,
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: something still lingering here. I don't know, that's just how
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: I internalize it. So anytime that I deal with somebody,
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: I need to know that you have fully forgiven or
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: moved past, or have let go of any pass hurt
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: because I don't want to travel with that shit either,
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: because at some point I'm gonna feel like it's gonna
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: trickle down to me. I'm gonna I'm gonna get some
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: of that smoke.
• 39:01
  Speaker 7: I agree with you. The only exception might be if
• 39:04
  Speaker 7: they have a child together, because his bullshit is going
• 39:08
  Speaker 7: to pop up and flare up her feelings about the
• 39:12
  Speaker 7: past every now and again, if he's on some bad
• 39:14
  Speaker 7: co parenting shit, you know what I mean. So you know, but.
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Even in those situations, because I've been the guy on
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: the other side of a bad co parents' situation, knowing
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: that I'm not really a bad guy, but I'm only
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: imagining how I'm being represented to the next person.
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: So even like I dated.
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: Somebody and they would come to me about they baby dad,
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: and I would be like, be honest with you, I'm
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: gonna give you some logical advice, but I don't want
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: to hear you bash this niggah, first off, because I've
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: been on the other side of the fence and I
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: can only imagine what that sounds like. And secondly, you
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: don't have to hold on to this much hate with
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: somebody that you just have a kid with, like you
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: don't like if he's not doing what he's supposed to do,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: then just don't involve them. If you don't want to
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: do right, cool, But to keep doing this thing and
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: telling me stories, I'm cool the thing I do. I
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: don't bash no X to nobody because I don't want
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: you to feel like if something goes wrong with us,
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna walk around talking about you the same way,
• 40:13
  Speaker 2: Like once the relationship is over, it's none else to
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: talk about. I see both sides.
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: I agree with everything he said one hundred percent.
• 40:21
  Speaker 6: Yes, the money, Yes, making sure the people who are listening.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: I agree with him.
• 40:26
  Speaker 5: So let's yeah, let's be clear. So I have two kids.
• 40:30
  Speaker 5: I never talk bad about their dads or like what like.
• 40:34
  Speaker 5: It's just if you're not gonna do what you gotta do,
• 40:36
  Speaker 5: then you don't have to be involved. If you're gonna
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: do what you're gonna do, then you'll be involved. And
• 40:39
  Speaker 5: the relationship is between you and the child. If you
• 40:41
  Speaker 5: and I can't get along, but I have nothing negative
• 40:44
  Speaker 5: to say because that always affects the kids.
• 40:46
  Speaker 4: So when this kid's involved, one hundred percent agree with you.
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: As far as exes.
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: And animosity, some people you cannot forgive because they do
• 40:56
  Speaker 5: bad enough that it can't be they can't be forgiven.
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: But I do agree with I'm not bash XES or
• 41:01
  Speaker 5: even talking about XS with my current manage, like it
• 41:03
  Speaker 5: doesn't even come up. But you brought up something that
• 41:05
  Speaker 5: I forgot about, and I think I don't think. I'm
• 41:08
  Speaker 5: pretty sure I forgot about it for a very specific reason,
• 41:12
  Speaker 5: like it completely and that was nasty work. So that's
• 41:14
  Speaker 5: where all the energies just know it was nasty work.
• 41:16
  Speaker 5: Like I'm not even gonna talk about.
• 41:17
  Speaker 6: It, but that's where camera we have to do.
• 41:19
  Speaker 5: No, no, we'll talk about it on camera because it involves
• 41:22
  Speaker 5: other people like it involves. So, yeah, that was nasty
• 41:27
  Speaker 5: work and I literally blocked it out completely. And that's
• 41:30
  Speaker 5: where all that came from because I haven't thought about
• 41:32
  Speaker 5: it since it happened.
• 41:33
  Speaker 6: The reason why I understand that, and I don't want
• 41:35
  Speaker 6: you to, but.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: I see, I say, I understand both sides because if
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: I'm with somebody right with actually with each other. Now,
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: there's there have been times when I've been that first date.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: On the date they're talking about their baby father right there,
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: I already know I feel the way Easter like, Bro,
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: you I got kids, I'm just not got. I'm definitely
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: gonna beat. I mean that's for the culture. Yeah, I
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: do that for you. I got you might need this money,
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: let me get so first day type ship. No, But
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: once you're involved with somebody, first of all, if I'm
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: involved with you, I'm involved with your kids as well.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: So my energy is for all of that. So when
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: that situation, when I see you going through something with
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: the parent of your child, I understand you talking to
• 42:37
  Speaker 3: me about it. I understand you uh huh about it.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: I understand this is a continuous situation that hits home
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: because of your love for your child. Right So to
• 42:52
  Speaker 3: Trum's point, I understand being there to support this. You
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: know you through this. Come on his relationship that you
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: have is that's the right word bad. It's bad, it
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: sounds good, it sounds good.
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: Rightship. Somebody looked that up and then I dropped out.
• 43:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 43:11
  Speaker 6: I was thinking about to Roger.
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: But anyway, this fucked up relationship that that you have,
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: I understand being supportive. However, to Emani's point, there comes
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: a time when what is this emotion attached to? Because
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: love and hate is very close, it's very close. Why
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: are you so possessed by this old situation. I'm here,
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: we're together. The child doesn't need for anything. The child
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: doesn't want for anything. You don't need that, nigga, So
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: why are you so passionate about it? You know what
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: I'm saying? That is where it becomes a thing. Now,
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: child supports shit like that. Listen to me. Take the
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: nigga chold support, put them on it, because that could
• 43:58
  Speaker 3: be for your kid later. That could be some shit
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: that you're just putting away for the kid later. And
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: at the end of the day, if niggas, you know,
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: niggas get to walk in and out of chicks live
• 44:08
  Speaker 3: and destroy their lives or fuck they shit up so much.
• 44:10
  Speaker 6: I really don't give a shit, especially as a parent.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: I'm a father.
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: I've seen, Like I said, my god, some got murdered
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: two weeks ago, two and a half weeks ago, right.
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: His dad basically was like, fucked up. We don't do respect.
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: Dad was like, Yo, that's fucked up.
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: And I don't really fuck with dead beating niggas. I
• 44:32
  Speaker 3: told him, draining the course of this nigga's life. We
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: got to step up for this nigga. Like, yo, he
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: going through it. Yo, I'm going through it too, you
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I really don't got it
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: for niggas that's not there for their kids. So I
• 44:46
  Speaker 3: understand when women are passionate about chasing the nigga down.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: There's a way to see but even when you do that,
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: there's a way to do that with some level of
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: coof and some understanding. So like I've had those conversation,
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: was like, all right, you know, if this ain't working,
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: you might have to do this, might have to do that,
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: But I don't want to consistently just hear you complaining
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: to me about it and you're not doing nothing about it. Also,
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: a lot of the things that you saying to me,
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: make sure you're willing to say to that person too.
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: I don't want to be your chatterbox. Also with I'm
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: like that with friendship, because even friends go through things.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: And if we have mutual friends and you want to
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: come complain to me about something that our friend did
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: or somebody that's a friend on the other side, but
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: you won't address them about it, you won't end up
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: doing the same shit with me. That's a character it's
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: it's a character flow, and a lot of people have
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: that character flow even in their relationships, and they travel
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: along with it. So whatever you're willing to say to me,
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: I'm willing to be your ear, but I also want
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: you to now handle it. I don't want to just
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: be your your complaint box, Like I can't fix these
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: complaints that you do, right, So go fix that ship
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: and then we can figure out how to move from there.
• 45:52
  Speaker 6: I agree with them that character thing.
• 45:56
  Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, I when you said earlier
• 45:59
  Speaker 5: that there's a then between love and hate, I one
• 46:01
  Speaker 5: hundred percent agree with that, And I think it's either
• 46:03
  Speaker 5: usually a situation where it's like that, like you were
• 46:06
  Speaker 5: so heartbroken or so hurt and then that love turned
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: into hatred, and that's where that passion comes from. But
• 46:12
  Speaker 5: then I also think sometimes it's rooted an ego and
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: it's an emotional maturity thing. So the passion can come
• 46:17
  Speaker 5: from not that you were even really that emotionally invested
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: from a space of love, but because your ego is
• 46:24
  Speaker 5: so bruised and because you're so emotionally immature, you can't
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: even handle that aspect of it, like that nigga left
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: me or that bitch did this to me, and like
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: you're so caught up in that it causes that passion.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Also had I has. Damn it's crazy. I had a
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: relationship where I really did some fuck up shit, Like
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: she had every right to hate me, right, and I
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: would keep trying to like not make up for it,
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: but kinda just I was in a different space, so
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: I would try to show her difference side of me.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: So that's you wouldn't still hold on to that hate
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: because I knew a big part of why she was
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: still stagnant and stuck in a certain spot, because she
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: was still holding on to that hate and internalizing it
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: into every other guy she met after that, So she
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: literally said that like we would still kind of like
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: take it and have sex here and there, right, And
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: she literally said to me, and it's so crazy, you said,
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: she said, Yo, I hate you so much, but I
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: feel like I'm still attaching to you in some way,
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: Like I keep doing this so that I can possibly
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: feel different about you, Like like I don't want to
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: hate you this that's unhealthy shit, but I just have
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: this strong feeling towards you that I don't want it
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: to be this because of everything you've done. I have
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: no choice but to feel this way. So it literally
• 47:36
  Speaker 2: to the points you're like, I'm damn. They're thinking you're
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: gonna fuck the hate out of me, and I'm like, wow,
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: now you kept going back there. He's fine.
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: Men need to realize when they're the problem that you
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: was not emotional and she's seriously emotional.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Did y'all see this the post that I put.
• 47:58
  Speaker 3: The nigga that had that yo, men, Yo, crazy niggas
• 48:01
  Speaker 3: Yo niggas.
• 48:05
  Speaker 4: He gave his side chick access to like their camera.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Nigga gave his side chick access to the camera inside
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: his crib and outside with him and his girl.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Why did he do that? Though?
• 48:16
  Speaker 4: Like the what is that.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Now?
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: The visies is commenting to him, texting him why she
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: got on shorts in the crib?
• 48:25
  Speaker 6: Why she gotta be walking around?
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Like wait, the side chick is questioning his girl.
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: That's how people ends up.
• 48:33
  Speaker 8: It was the girl leaving for work and as soon
• 48:34
  Speaker 8: as she's leaving, she's like, yo, she left, Can I
• 48:37
  Speaker 8: come over now?
• 48:38
  Speaker 5: And it's not just that that's nasty work and disrespectful
• 48:41
  Speaker 5: to your relationship, Like you're actually putting her life in
• 48:43
  Speaker 5: danger because that woman is not mentally all there. The
• 48:46
  Speaker 5: fact that she even wants access to the camera to
• 48:49
  Speaker 5: see what you got going on with the girlfriend or
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: the wife that she knows that you have, Like that's
• 48:53
  Speaker 5: not someone that has all the marbles together, and you
• 48:56
  Speaker 5: giving her that kind of access, You're putting your your
• 48:59
  Speaker 5: lady life in danger.
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: So are you plotting her murder?
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: Like cheating? Cheating today I'll say this today because I
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: done cheated most of my life. Today at forty two,
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: I can say cheating is some of the dumbest shit.
• 49:13
  Speaker 2: It makes no sense none I disagree it is. It's cheating,
• 49:19
  Speaker 2: you know it really, but it really speaks to it
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: really speaks to yo. You might want to live a
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: certain life that you feel you can't really do without
• 49:25
  Speaker 2: manipulating people into it. Because for me, my reason for
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: cheating was what if I tell this person the truth,
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: I won't be able to have access to them in
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: a certain way that I want. So I have to
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: lie about the situation so I can have whatever situations
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: I want. And today, as a single man, being honest
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: with any woman I've dealt with, I've never ran into
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: a problem where they were not cool with the situation,
• 49:46
  Speaker 2: or if they were like, all right, well that's not
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: for me. I swear to you.
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: I never want to stop you.
• 49:52
  Speaker 7: Got it?
• 49:52
  Speaker 6: You know who you are, do you? Women are opportunistic
• 49:57
  Speaker 6: as well.
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I.
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: Said, And that's why I don't count that. That's why
• 50:01
  Speaker 2: I don't count. I'm not trying to because his name,
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: but until she follows you, because that's what they do.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: They do.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: They research, They see the opportunities that are before them
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: that they can they can get into you.
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: A tribute that is not you, a tribute me being
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: single and being you've been halfway famous, how long you've
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: been halfway famous?
• 50:19
  Speaker 3: Like before even now because now it's a whole different level.
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: But before even now, how long you've been halfway famous?
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: I couldn't tell you, But.
• 50:26
  Speaker 5: He said, this is his entire life, So have you.
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: Been halfway missed?
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: The majority? All he can't remember is what he's telling you.
• 50:35
  Speaker 3: He's had music, he's been around stars, he's had access, it's.
• 50:40
  Speaker 2: He can eat. He can't even remember how it's more
• 50:43
  Speaker 2: than half his life.
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: Okay, but no, no, but that okay is as a woman, I.
• 50:49
  Speaker 6: Can tell thirty two, he said, forty forty two.
• 50:52
  Speaker 5: But you're not a woman, though, I can tell you
• 50:54
  Speaker 5: that as a woman. The majority of women, or a
• 50:57
  Speaker 5: very large amount of women, if they really like the
• 51:00
  Speaker 5: guy this, he could be a loser bump if that
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: If he was, if you are honest about the situation,
• 51:06
  Speaker 5: a lot of women will find a way to rationalize
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: in their mind why it's okay and make excuses within
• 51:11
  Speaker 5: themselves to stick to stick it out.
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: Regardless of who you are and what you have.
• 51:15
  Speaker 2: I respect that. How many hell, what's the percentage of
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: men do you think can pull that off? Though? What's
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: the percentage? One hundred percent?
• 51:21
  Speaker 6: What's the percentage of that one hundred percent of men?
• 51:23
  Speaker 6: I don't know that you think can actually pull that on.
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: I don't know the percentage, but I know.
• 51:27
  Speaker 6: If with her and I fuck with her over there,
• 51:29
  Speaker 6: what's the percentage of men?
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: I don't know the percentage you're yelling at me. I
• 51:34
  Speaker 5: don't know the percentage of men. I think I know
• 51:37
  Speaker 5: the type of man.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: It depends on who you're also aiming at. Because a
• 51:41
  Speaker 2: lot of women are a lot of women. A lot
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: of women find themselves being comfortable with situations depending on
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: their own character. So if I reach for women of
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: that character, then I'm going to like bat at a
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: high percentage. Agreed, So I.
• 51:57
  Speaker 7: Say, though, too, Yeah, it takes the type of woman
• 52:00
  Speaker 7: to deal with that. Yeah, you know what I mean.
• 52:02
  Speaker 7: I know, disrespect to those women, but yeah, since it's
• 52:04
  Speaker 7: a personality type, and you know, if you're a sniper,
• 52:07
  Speaker 7: you're gonna you're gonna figure out exactly vulnerable.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: But even in that situation, we be thinking we sniping
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: and they really sniping us. Know, that's like, that's another thing.
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: It's just us getting the upper hands.
• 52:20
  Speaker 8: But even in the video that time played, I assume
• 52:23
  Speaker 8: he told Shorty that he has a girl. Obviously she
• 52:26
  Speaker 8: knows that he has a girl, So it's not even
• 52:28
  Speaker 8: really about the cheating at that part. It's about I think,
• 52:30
  Speaker 8: just the level of disrespect.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: But you know, niggas be lying and like, yo, I'm
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: on my way out because the kids.
• 52:38
  Speaker 6: But that's what I'm saying, Like she has to know,
• 52:42
  Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying.
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: I think that's why he gave it an access because
• 52:45
  Speaker 2: if she's questioning why she walking around wearing shorts in
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: the crib, that means he must have lied. But just
• 52:51
  Speaker 2: so he's one ndred percent, she's not the sachet no more.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: That's his girl. Like the chick he's living with is
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: really his sache if we really want that baby.
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: Matter of fact, that was her baby father. So now you're.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: Actually that's the way say that again to him because
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: the baby mother is the one that released all of this.
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: Why my baby daddy got this chick with the camera
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: in the crib, So the baby mom is the one
• 53:15
  Speaker 3: that's living with him, yes, and she's the one who
• 53:17
  Speaker 3: released all of this, got it. So now there is
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: I never really thought that deep into this, and it is.
• 53:24
  Speaker 3: It is, it does, but it is definitely me and
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: her just live together for the baby or I'm paroled
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: here or some shit like that.
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. It ain't nothing.
• 53:33
  Speaker 6: Look, you could get the camera to see. We don't
• 53:36
  Speaker 6: even be like that.
• 53:37
  Speaker 4: That's exactly what it is.
• 53:38
  Speaker 6: But that's the why're walking around in shorts.
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: Because that's the mother of your children, and her safety
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: should come before you. Don't gotta love her in that
• 53:45
  Speaker 5: way or want to be with her, but she's the
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: mother of your children. I'm assuming she's taking care of
• 53:49
  Speaker 5: the kids alongside you. Her safety matters for the sake
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: of your children. You were putting her in danger by
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: letting another woman you don't know where this woman's mind is,
• 53:59
  Speaker 5: have access to her every move people are.
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: She's calling a bitch and all that.
• 54:04
  Speaker 4: But that's my point.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: But first off, you' putting yourself in danger. Yeah, so instantly,
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: the minute that you decided that you're willing to put
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: yourself in danger, you're willing to put everybody in danger.
• 54:14
  Speaker 2: You don't care.
• 54:14
  Speaker 7: Yeah, not to mention, we quick to call a woman crazy,
• 54:19
  Speaker 7: but sometimes niggas could turn a sane woman to do
• 54:23
  Speaker 7: some crazy ship Like she might be just a regular woman,
• 54:26
  Speaker 7: but if you give her that type of access, it's
• 54:28
  Speaker 7: with her mentality.
• 54:30
  Speaker 6: She was like, can I come over now? He was like, yeah,
• 54:32
  Speaker 6: you got to come through the window, she said, And
• 54:35
  Speaker 6: I know that, She said, I know that, so I
• 54:40
  Speaker 6: swear to God. She said, I know that.
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: First of all, you know how to climbed to the window.
• 54:45
  Speaker 11: You know how to jump out? Yea, what yo? She
• 54:55
  Speaker 11: climbed out the window. We cut school.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: My mom's I heard my am starting to jingle the door.
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: There's only one way out. She went for it, gotta
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: go right there. It was, by the way, I've seen
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: this recently.
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: Well that's different.
• 55:09
  Speaker 5: You were young and you were like, you know, running
• 55:11
  Speaker 5: from a parent versus my girl or your.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Man is there's a video right now of a girl
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: hanging out the window by one arm and he's like, yo, landing,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: make sure you land in the grass.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: But I ain't gonna lie.
• 55:26
  Speaker 6: It's funny. As we said, I was like, that's crazy.
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: I was sad. I got a little girl, like I
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: got kids, you know what I mean? Nineteen twenty, No.
• 55:37
  Speaker 4: That would break down.
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: This niggas eating. Wow, he's eating like he got his
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: food on the slate. He got played off. Wow, she's
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: let me take it out.
• 55:51
  Speaker 6: The way that she jumped rolled into the grass and
• 55:53
  Speaker 6: walked off.
• 55:53
  Speaker 5: If I saw if that was my daughter and I
• 55:55
  Speaker 5: saw that video circuland I was whooping her ass, whoop
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: in her ass, because I didn't raise you to be
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: in a situation that you're so dis that's disrespect but
• 56:05
  Speaker 5: you're disrespecting yourself, not even like I'm not even mad
• 56:07
  Speaker 5: at him anymore, Like why did like what are you
• 56:09
  Speaker 5: doing hanging by one arm off a man's window because
• 56:12
  Speaker 5: this girl is coming home? Like why do you feel
• 56:14
  Speaker 5: like you gotta deal with something like that? Like what
• 56:16
  Speaker 5: did I do wrong? I'm still gonna whoop her ass first,
• 56:19
  Speaker 5: and then we have to have a real conversation like
• 56:20
  Speaker 5: what did you go through that I missed?
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: That's crazy? That's crazy.
• 56:24
  Speaker 7: Would you at least be proud that she rolled and
• 56:26
  Speaker 7: she stuck?
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: Olympics is coming up next year? Nor that attention is
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: a horrible drug and people will try to get it
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: under any circumstance. So if you're a pretty woman, well
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: not even if you just a woman who just know
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: that there's men out there who want to involve themselves
• 56:50
  Speaker 2: with you or will give you a certain attention as
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: long as they can get a piece of your body.
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: Women will give it and it will be a very
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: small price to them at the moment until sometime they
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: start to learn what that comes with. But it's a
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: very small price to pay for a lot of women
• 57:06
  Speaker 2: when it comes to just getting attention, they want same
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: thing from that.
• 57:09
  Speaker 5: Sad.
• 57:10
  Speaker 4: It makes me so sad.
• 57:11
  Speaker 7: That was sad.
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: It was sad watching her to go through that. Just
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: as a parent, it's like, damn bro, But yo, man,
• 57:17
  Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie. You could teach your kids all
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: types of shit. You could pull it and then do whatever.
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: They're gonna go through some fucked up ship and just
• 57:25
  Speaker 3: hopefully they still feel like they have a for lack
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: of better word, landing spot at your house, you know
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, or in your ear where they don't
• 57:35
  Speaker 3: feel they got to run from you, but for so
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: much and you know, to to heal or face their
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: reality because you know, being a parent of a twenty
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: five year old little girl, I've seen her go through
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: some shit, you know what I'm saying. And she lives here,
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: so she hit a lot and at some point she
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: felt safe enough to come talk, you know what I'm saying,
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: And I reacted badly.
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: I approached homie, but she still loved it again.
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: Why is that reacting badly? That's exactly what I wanted dad.
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: To do because.
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: It would have been better in retrospect to provide sanctuary
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: for him as well, so that because they still deal
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: with each other, they're running off together.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: She's still dealing with him. You created you know what
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: I'm saying right there?
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: It is the fact that now she don't he don't
• 58:28
  Speaker 3: feel safe over here, but she's still his girls, So
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: she's running off versus YO coming to back, y'all, homie,
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: Come on, let's talk, man, Let's chop it up.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: Did he do something that the relationship did what it did.
• 58:40
  Speaker 3: And we all go through our learning moments and I
• 58:42
  Speaker 3: should have been better, but I'm gung hold I.
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: Hold, You're not going to do.
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: And in retrospect, it would have just been better to
• 58:52
  Speaker 3: provide community. You know what I'm saying, because you feel
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: better like you when you when you when you girl parents.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: Are your community. You treat her different.
• 59:04
  Speaker 4: Bro, No, no, I agree with you.
• 59:07
  Speaker 2: You don't like that ganging up on you.
• 59:09
  Speaker 4: I feel like that goes on both sides.
• 59:10
  Speaker 5: I have a nineteen year old son, and because these
• 59:12
  Speaker 5: girls are not easy either, like at all, Like the
• 59:15
  Speaker 5: girls are like the boys.
• 59:17
  Speaker 2: Yes, like the girls are like the boys.
• 59:20
  Speaker 5: So yeah O d my son was like fourteen When
• 59:22
  Speaker 5: I saw a girl DM him asking if he was
• 59:24
  Speaker 5: what a sub or or a dom He was like fourteen.
• 59:29
  Speaker 4: I was my son didn't even know what that was.
• 59:30
  Speaker 4: He was like, Yo, what are you talking about?
• 59:32
  Speaker 9: What?
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 59:33
  Speaker 4: Another time a girl.
• 59:34
  Speaker 3: Did she was listening to all this off yo, Yo,
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: man's Dominican.
• 59:39
  Speaker 5: Right, I don't know what she was yo. There was
• 59:43
  Speaker 5: another time a girl dms him talking about something about
• 59:45
  Speaker 5: licking it, sucking it from the back or whatever.
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: He was like, you have a He literally roll back
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: to him.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: He was like you have a father?
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: He was so he was so confused.
• 59:52
  Speaker 2: Like yeah, got a good kid.
• 59:53
  Speaker 4: You know, he's a really good kid. He was like,
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: you should have more self respect for yourself.
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: He was like, where's your dad? Like you got to
• 59:57
  Speaker 5: literally he was like, yo, do you have a father?
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: You should have more respect for yourself. But long story short,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 5: my son and I talk about everything. We're very open,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 5: like about everything, like I found out when he told
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 5: me when he goes to viginity. We talk about he
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 5: tells me too much. But I also want to make
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: sure that I create space for the girls that he's dating.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 5: Even if I don't necessarily like her like for him,
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 5: I still try to create a space where she feels
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 5: comfortable and feels welcome, so that way my son is
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 5: not off somewhere with her doing whatever. So I understand
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 5: where you're coming from. I have a four year old daughter,
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 5: which makes me I'm more afraid with the girl than
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 5: I was with the boy, but not because she's a girl,
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 5: because of her personality and her temperament. Already, I know
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 5: it's gonna be shit.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: So what kind of shit?
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: All the shit she's with whatever?
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 6: What does that mean at four years old.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 5: Tahoe, Imagine me at four, Imagine me with no control
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 5: whatsoever over any of my thoughts, my emotions, what I say,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 5: how I respond, Yeah, it's just as bad. She's not
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 5: a bad girl, but it's just I already know what's coming.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: Only I agree with you because recently, this past summer,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: I went through learning who who my youngest son is,
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 2: and he's me, My oldest is me, but he's still
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: very repressed when it comes to needing the attention, showing
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: off all this other shit. My youngest wants the attention.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: He damned They want to perform every two seconds. So
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 2: there was a moment where there was a little girl
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: texting him, and my youngest son is nine, and the
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: little girl texts him says something like, oh, I low,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: he missed you right. My son's response. My son's response
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: wasn't even a text back. My son's response, And I'm
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: just gonna show her and I'll give you this is.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 7: Just people know.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: She ain't even spell it right. That's how you know.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: They just young and wired way right right, okay, And
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: this is my son's response. My son is in the
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 2: camera doing his best h town genuine and no dead
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: ass and looking his lipsert he did rub the hands together.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 5: No shirt, no shirt, my boy.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: So listen. So that's my first today, this is my
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 2: first people understanding, okay, what you're dealing with, what I'm
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: going to be dealing with in the future. And that's
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: some crazy fel And I got to sit his little
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: eyes down because there's aside of me that's like, that's
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 2: my boy, and it's aside of me that oh my god,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: that's my boy. And I know where this can go
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 2: because I know where I went because that was me.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: I was worse. I was in it was bad. So
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 2: I'm trying I understand that, yes, there's human nature things
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: even as kids, and we can't go ahead and try
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: to like shun it. But I have to also be
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: able to direct it in a way where he's willing
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: to be open with me about all these little things. Yeah,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: but then also willing to take the critique when I say, yo,
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 2: I know that's a part of your personality, but you
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 2: too young for this, didn't it? Tom? The chillifug out
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 2: will reconvene at about fifteen sixteen, and we'll have a
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 2: different conversation then. But that's a process. That's just something
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: that's something that parents continuously learn, and it's also it's
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 2: not a designated thing because everything whatever. Yet so I
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: never needed to have this conversation without this. Still to
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: this day, my oldest like jail like, and I'm a
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: parent that look through the phones, I sneak I know
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: everything alone. Yes, So the fact that I don't have
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 2: to do that with him is gratifying. And then being
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 2: able to learn this about my youngest son now is gratifying,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: so that it puts me ahead of the game of
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 2: knowing where to stir him, like you know, there's a
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 2: way to get that attention without doing all this age
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: town genuine.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 7: That's an important distinction. Like you got a parent according
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 7: to the personality, I can't be the same parent to
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 7: different people. It's just like being a leader, like if
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 7: you are, you know, a manager, or you have your
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 7: own business, like you can't You're rapport with everybody isn't
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 7: the same, you know what I mean? You got to
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 7: know how to get the best at everybody, how to
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 7: communicate how effective it's gonna be with one person versus other.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 7: So that's done.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: That's why I hate even now when you play the
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: the clip and the young lady's talking about certain things
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: you have to do in this and this and this
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: and that. I hate when we generalize these relationships with
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: each other so much, like we give it, you need this,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: and this part is this. It's like, no, shut the
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: fuck up, you niggas. Don't be knowing shit about nothing.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: I'll be going ahead and trying to sound smarter than
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: what the fuck y'all are when it comes to knowing people.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: I want to learn people, how I learn people. I
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: don't want to come in here with a rule book. Now,
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 2: I have standards on how I want to be treated,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: but a part of me growing and building a bond
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 2: with you is also learning you as a person and
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 2: learning what your quirks are, what your turnoffs are, and
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 2: all this. I don't want to come here with an
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: automatic set way of moving and how to go ahead
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: and treat a personal relationship. You might be the type
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 2: of person that you enjoy comfortable silence most of the day.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 2: If I love you enough and we mess, that's cool.
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 2: I can deal with that. You also might be a
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: person that, yo, if we too quiet during the day,
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: I might need to come and give you some type
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: of stimulation. That's let me learn that. Like I hate
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: this blanketed, very over medical way that people are, especially
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 2: people without no damn degrees and people that don't know
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: nothing about it anymore.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 6: But everybody you wasn't even talking about, Shian.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: No, everybody is.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 5: An expert without the credentials, without the without the hours,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 5: without the real credentials, without the schooling, without the bat
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 5: Like everybody's an expert on social media.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: That's that social media and.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: A lot of people that talking and telling you this
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: shit can't tell you a successful relationship they've had. I've
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: been there, I've seen this. I hate it.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 3: I remember I used to give up relationship well my
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 3: thoughts on stuff, right, But once me and her started
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 3: going through stuff, I stopped giving that relationship advice. Felt
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: like a hypocrite. Yeah, like yo, I got to work
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 3: on my own shit. I ain't got nothing for you
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: all right now because I'm going through it.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: But that advice, though, that is great relationship advice. I
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: woul want to hear from a man who's in a
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: seven year relationship, who's been through the ups and downs.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: You guys have learned more about each other through the process.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 2: I will want to talk to you more than I
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: would want to talk to somebody that told me they
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: got a degree on something. But we ask them what's
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: going on in their house, they can't tell you anything.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 2: They haven't grown with anybody. It be the loneliest moll
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: fuckers out here trying to tell us how to connect
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: with each other.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 4: And it's not just relationships. It's very hard to tell
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 4: how you would respond to something or give people advice
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 4: on how to respond to things if you've never experienced it.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 4: It's even for instance, when I had my kids and
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 4: you'd be in the hospital and I will alway be like, yo,
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: I want the old, the old Asian nurse, the old
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: Caribbean nurse, the oh Hispanic nurse that has kids and grandkids.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 4: These young doctors that went to medical school and they've
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: been a doctor for five years, but they don't have
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: no kids. They don't have no nieces, no nephews.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 5: I don't want to hear nothing that you're telling me
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 5: from the textbook, because the textbook is a textbook.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 2: Your heart is connected exactly.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 5: This nurse has been a nurse for thirty five years
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 5: and raised five kids and got twelve grandkids.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: She's going to give me the advice that's really going
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 4: to work.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: For my baby because she think that a doctor that
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: studied unstudied child care can't give you good advice if
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 3: they don't have kids.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 5: Yes and no, you can tell me textbook what makes sense.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 5: But for instance, when I had my first son, I
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 5: remember the young she was. I can't remember she was
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 5: a doctor or nurse. Young, didn't have any children, and
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 5: she was like, oh, you have to feed the child
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 5: every two hours. He's gonna lose pounds. You're not doing
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 5: a good job. Just only breastfeeding him, you need to
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 5: give him formula.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: And I cried.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 4: I was only twenty one.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: I cried.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 5: And then an old Caribbean woman came in as a
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 5: nurse and she was like, let me tell you something.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: She's and when a baby sleep in, let that baby sleep,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 5: she said. The baby will wake up when he's hungry,
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 5: and when he's hungry, you feed him. She was like,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 5: and keep trying to feed him the breastmolke. She was like,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 5: if he is losing weight and you feel comfortable giving
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 5: him formula, she you should, but don't let anybody make
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 5: you feel like you don't like you have to do
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 5: something else. Same thing with my niece. My sister just
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 5: had a daughter. She had some complications. She was in
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 5: the NICU for three months, and the doctors would say
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 5: very specific things that made sense, but the nurses would
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 5: sometimes say the complete opposite. And what the nurses would
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 5: say would work every single time, every time, because there's
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 5: a level of experience. There's a level of knowledge and
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 5: wisdom that comes from experience. I can read all I
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 5: want to read about something, but until you apply it,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 5: that's when you know. Think about getting a degree. You
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 5: get a degree, you learn all these things about this
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 5: specific area, and then you get the.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: Job and you like, what the fuck is I didn't learn?
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 5: No that it's to school right absolutely, And just like
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 5: they're back in the day when people didn't need a degree
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 5: and you just learned from the mail room straight up.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 2: Certain professions you can have all looked like you said,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: have all experience, but that heart, that that compassion, that
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: true understanding is something that you can't really purchase out
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: of college or purchasing no law or medical school. It's
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 2: like like, if I watch first take, I'm gonna always
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: want to hear what the former NBA player has to
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: say about the sport before a nigga who just I
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: just I respect both. But when it comes to the
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 2: actual knowing and the passion and he damn there broke
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: his neck and still found a way to get back
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: on the field and play, I want to talk to
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 2: that person. I don't want to talk to the person
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: who just wrote it down and saw it from a
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: shit It just it don't hit the.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: Same great damn convo. We got six seven minutes left
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: in this damn thing. What cannot can I say?
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: You didn't mention you did mention something earlier. I don't
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 2: know if you want to talk about.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 6: You're right there. What's that talk about it?
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 2: You were still stuck on that.
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 4: That's the only thing I could think of that you
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: mentioned that we didn't like.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 6: Okay, I'm sorry, crazy, what are you talking about?
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: You had mentioned, well, you said something about doctor Sean Bryant,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: but then you also mentioned off Mike something about the unmarriable,
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: a marriable thing, unmarriable.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 6: Mm hmmm, that's the next episode. Next episode. That's got
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 6: the next episode.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 3: Let me think, Let me think, Let me think. Man, yo, y'all,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 3: you you and him, you actually be going back to back.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 3: Man Trump just watching y'all, They just going back to back.
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 3: Let me see what I got here.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 4: You have great minds in chemistry.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: I do this is this is gonna take a little longer.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: Maybe not right, I want, I asked on Twitter. I said, ladies,
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 3: is it a turnoff to date an ambitious man that
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: needs help? They was like, yeah, I don't want to help.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 6: No, man, I don't.
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: It's not a turnoff. But I've learned the hard way
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 4: that it is.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 5: Not in a woman's best interest through experience, Like I'm
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 5: not turned off by a man that is ambitious and
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 5: is already working towards something. If I can help you
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 5: in some way, why not. But that's just me as
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 5: a person in general. So it's not a turnoff because
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 5: I've done it and it has always backfired. I've always
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: been resented, I've always been mistreated. I've always he's become insecure,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 5: and this is in different situations. So I so because
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 5: of that, I don't do it anymore. If you're not
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 5: already you can be on the journey. But if you
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 5: don't already have the journey figured out and you're just
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 5: working towards it or you already got there, I can't
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 5: get involved. I can't date you, I can't be involved
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 5: with you. But that's based on my experience. But it
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 5: actually being a turnoff, I'm not turned off by that.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 5: I think that's amazing that you're ambitious and you're working
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 5: towards something and you want to get there.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 2: If you need your help.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 5: No, now it's to know, I'm not turned off by it,
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 5: but it's just like.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 2: I hate that I'm about to do this. But as
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: a former hobosexual and as a man has used people
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 2: for help, I don't think any woman should walk into
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 2: a situation having to jump start a man in anything.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 2: Me as a man, I don't even feel comfortable walking
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: into a situation without having some level of my shit together.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 7: Let me ask you, so somewhere in the comments, are
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 7: not at my age? Do I think age has some addition?
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: Because so maybe that has something to do with it. Yeah, no, no,
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 5: one hundred percent that has something to do with it.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 4: I'm forty one.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 5: So no, it's not in my interest because at this point,
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 5: even if you don't end up resentful, or you don't
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 5: end up you know, all of the things that I've experienced,
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 5: it's just.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 4: That's a pattern.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: What does help look like? Though you said, shut up,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: this is what I'm talking about. Immediately the idea of
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: help triggers.
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 3: I had real conversation with somebody right about this, because
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 3: I'm like, first of all, to your point to what
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 3: you said, E right, you should, I'm not you shouldn't
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 3: jumpstart a man if he's ambitious the word ambition, Why
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 3: do y'all think he's at the beginning of his journey.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: He's already ambitious, he's already trying. He needs help getting there, or.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: He might need I don't know what the fuck maybe
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: he does what is conceptualizing?
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: What does the help look like?
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 3: Because sometimes, like anything, but for some reason, help to
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 3: women just seems more monetary or control or some shit
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 3: like that.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 6: I don't know, but it just turns them into the.
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: Idea because this man probably have felt I can't speak
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 5: for all women because you know, this new age women
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 5: are very different than what I'm used to growing up
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 5: because I'm a.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 4: Little bit older.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 5: But majority of those women have probably been taken advantage of,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 5: which is why they're so like, no against it.
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 4: If my man right now needs.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 5: Help, he got it because he has already shown me
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 5: that he's not a user.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: He's on a manipulator. He already has his ship covered.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 5: If he needs help is because life happens, and now
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 5: he's in a position where life happens and he needs
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 5: me to help.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 3: That is not automatically make you feel like you're under
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 3: like you you need your bills paid to some ship
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 3: going through something.
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 4: I'm not talking about money.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 3: Anything is ambitious, but he just don't know how to
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 3: organize well, or or maybe he just don't know how
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: to fucking do his SEO for his pod.
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 2: But that's why, that's why I said, that's why I
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: said help looks different in different situations, but he turned
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: off by the word ahead. I'm sorry because because we
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: live in a patriarchy, so naturally it's been put on
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 2: men to have to lead and be helping. It's not
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: a natural thing to walk into the situation acting or
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 2: looking from help, never mind just the woman from another man.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: Men have ego from even acting another man for help.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: So the imagine acting another woman, especially the woman that
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: you want to look at you a certain way, especially
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: if you have a household together, the last thing you
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: want to do is walk in and feel like you
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 2: don't got your shit together, even if it's some of
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: the simplest things. I think a lot of men should
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 2: step out of that ego because that does help hold
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 2: us back. Like there is level of help that a
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: woman could provide us with mindset wise, organizing wise, all
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: that other shit that, yeah, it could really help us
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 2: further our process. But in a lot of situations, when
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: I talk to women, as me being a first person
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 2: abuser of this, I know that a lot of women
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: are traumatized from having to step up and be them
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: more educated today, being the ones who make the most
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: money today being a person that's also not just taking
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: care of their family, but having to take care of
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 2: another man, like this trauma that's built from that, and
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: it's starting to get to a point where, like they
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: the word help is like nigga.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 5: I don't got nothing for you. That's the response that
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 5: you get from a lot of women.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: I don't got a.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 3: Double standard because I've never met a woman that didn't
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 3: need help from a nigga. What happens, I don't even
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 3: you know, I don't know women today and social media,
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 3: and this is social media.
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 2: This is all social media world.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 3: They are not They're literally telling you if you're not
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 3: gonna help me, and I'm not dating you if you're
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 3: of no help, if you're if you don't can't be useful,
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 3: you're useless.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 4: That's on social media.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 3: I also want to say this for myself. I don't
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 3: want to date a woman that don't want to help me. Yeah, same,
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 3: I don't want to date a woman that don't want
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 3: to help me.
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 7: And it shouldn't because.
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 6: I'm on my road, I'm dying good by myself away.
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 5: Key because it's what Emiani's question is. Key, because it's
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 5: what type of help? Because any very successful man that
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 5: you sit down and have a real conversation with.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 4: He will say, I would not be here if he's married.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 5: He will say, I would not every single one of
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 5: a millionaires, billionaires, CEOs of companies, entrepreneurs. I would not
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 5: be here if it wasn't for my wife. So I
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 5: think the issue is women here help through. This is
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 5: social media conversations, and they're automatically I know, and they
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 5: automatically go to that space.
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 2: That's what you get it today here.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 5: But you yelling at me again, I know. I'm telling
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 5: you where that's coming from.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: Men. Men were triggered when we hear I want someone
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: to take care of me exactly like, we get triggered.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 2: And I'm not going to even pretend like today I'm
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: not triggered depending on how it said and who says
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 2: it agreed, because naturally we do want to take care
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: of the household and a woman that we love. But
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 2: to hear women say instantly without that before that, it's like, oh,
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: you go is triggering things that we hear that instantly
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: turns us off. But in the natural order of life,
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 2: help should be there. Taking care of your woman should
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: be there. That should be the thing It's literally like
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 2: when you when you grow up and you've been used
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 2: in so many different ways beforehand, especially at a younger age.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: Now you're walking around with that PTSD. It's hard at
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: forty years old, thirty years old to be like, I'm
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 2: about to take a risk with that for another five
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: six years. Waste another five six years with somebody I
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: thought I was helping build a household with. Why just
• 1:18:27
  Speaker 2: help move on to the next.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 7: Agree with you, I would say, with the exception of
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 7: like co signing on a loan or giving a major
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 7: amount of lump summer cash, any relationship you should enter
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 7: as a man or woman, you should be willing to
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 7: help the other person.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 2: Do that with the white woman on agree No no, no,
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 2: no no, if they wanted you to come, I was
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: going to do it. Use that for the coming from
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: my best help.
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: Okay no no. From that fact, yes no, no, no do
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 4: it no, go for another.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 5: I'm not opposed to that, But from the perspective of,
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 5: like you actually want to build a life with them,
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 5: they are I will always say this, white women are
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 5: the biggest threat to black men in this country. I
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 5: don't I don't care what anybody says and I'm gonna
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 5: stand on it. But back to what you said, I
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 5: one hundred percent agree with you. But everything is a
• 1:19:16
  Speaker 5: matter of communication because I'm gonna assume whatever I'm gonna
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 5: assume based on my experiences, because that's all I can
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  Speaker 5: ever do is come up with ideas based on what
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 5: I've experienced. But if we're communicating, and you're and I
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  Speaker 5: know you, we're in a relationship, I'm not looking at
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  Speaker 5: help as a problem because I know you and I
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 5: know the type of help that you need. But if
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  Speaker 5: a man is just like we having a conversation, a
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 5: red pill conversation about oh, helping nigga, yeah, of course,
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 5: my first response is no, just like a man's first
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 5: response is probably yeah, I'm not taking care of no bitch.
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  Speaker 3: You guys mentioned PTSD trauma and shit like that. Right,
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  Speaker 3: and before we go, I just want to say this
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  Speaker 3: before we go to the next thing. Right, I think
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 3: relationships are seriously in trouble. I think people are growing
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  Speaker 3: up in this social media age, they're coming of age
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  Speaker 3: and having children in this social media they're not talking
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 3: as much, they're not going outside, so they're taking a
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 3: lot of their takes and their and their opinions and
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 3: from social media. The answer to ladies, are you into?
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  Speaker 3: Are you turned off by dating an ambitious man that
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 3: need help? You know what I think personally? The answer
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  Speaker 3: should be what kind of help?
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  Speaker 2: I agree with you?
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  Speaker 3: They say, no, that's a problem, Yo. We do this
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  Speaker 3: every fucking week. We got two parts of this episode.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 3: These two people on this couch are smoking this shit.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you, Me and Trot meaning I ain't even
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 3: saying nothing. We ain't even saying nothing. I'm just throwing up.
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: They just knocking them out the park. Shout out to
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  Speaker 3: Taja Tays Where can they find you?
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  Speaker 4: On Instagram? Only?
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  Speaker 5: Tajia t A s I A janine j A n
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  Speaker 5: I n E. I don't have any other social media handles.
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  Speaker 6: She's amazing to look at.
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  Speaker 4: I am so much more than looks. Y'all.
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  Speaker 2: God, you just look good outfits. You be with mad
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: good looking women.
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 5: Oh all, my all, my all. Well they're my sisters now,
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 5: but yeah, my friends are. But it's not just looks though,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 5: their doctors, their executives, professional models.
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 2: The wolves just to the wolves.
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  Speaker 4: They can't be they got mine, they got brains like you.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm taking dating the wolves, so all right?
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  Speaker 7: Uh?
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  Speaker 3: Also who we have a money of the JBP Also
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: isn't he was famous before that? Just to let y'all know,
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 3: no glazing in here. But I've listened to this man's music.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 3: He can fucking sing his ass or and has been
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 3: traveling the world doing that way before this. Yeah, money,
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 3: and I would never want to do it again.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 2: No, never, Uh, not traveling. But I'll put music out,
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 2: but please follow me music, mini music, whatever you wanna
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 2: call me on all platforms uh, jbph ae O, e AEO.
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 2: It's my platform on Patreon. Please go subscribe all I's
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: on e It's really dope, great content. We have a
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: great episode with you guys up there. Fucked up. I
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: didn't invite SiO. I have to say something. No, But
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: SiO I think is either intimidated because she saw our
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: last episode. Okay, I don't think she gonna give it
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: up like that.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 4: What were y'all talking about?
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 2: This nigga's nuts. I want to niggas nuts. But she
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: salut to my co host Syle, she won't. She's down
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 2: to talk, but she's been there before.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but that shit we did no, no, no, no, no no.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 3: I wouldn't invite her freaking dick. Yeah, I wouldn't invite.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 3: We will see our first of all episodes up right now.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 3: If you listen this far, you know that full episode
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  Speaker 3: is on Patreon.
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• 1:22:56
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  Speaker 3: this Thursday or Friday. The whole episode is up on
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 3: Patreon right now. You don't got to get no guest work.
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 3: I'm tired of talking.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 2: Y'all want some more? You need some more lemonade, some ice.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 4: I'm okay. I didn't even get some amazing