Latest / Motivational Podcast / BREAK LIMITS – Push Beyond Your Boundaries with Ultimate Motivation
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Well.
- 0:00Speaker 2: One of the things I recommend to young people, especially
- 0:03Speaker 2: true for people in their twenties, is that you should
- 0:06Speaker 2: push yourself beyond your limits of tolerance in your twenties
- 0:09Speaker 2: to find out where it is.
- 0:10Speaker 3: How much can you work? How discipline can you become?
- 0:13Speaker 4: Like?
- 0:13Speaker 2: Can you work twelve hours a day? Can you work
- 0:15Speaker 2: eight hours a day? Can you work three hours a day?
- 0:17Speaker 5: Like?
- 0:17Speaker 3: Flat out? Where's your limit?
- 0:20Speaker 2: And how much work can you do? And how much socialization?
- 0:23Speaker 2: You should find out push yourself past and then back
- 0:26Speaker 2: off to that point where it's optimally sustainable.
- 0:30Speaker 6: There are situations outside, there are impediments, chealingeless, but your
- 0:35Speaker 6: own mind, your own emotion, your own attitude should not
- 0:40Speaker 6: become an impediment and a challenge. If you are not
- 0:43Speaker 6: a challenge to yourself, the rest we will handle to
- 0:47Speaker 6: the best of our capabilities. If you focus enough on
- 0:51Speaker 6: enhancing your competence, you will see there is such joy
- 0:56Speaker 6: in breaking limitations every day and becoming something better.
- 0:59Speaker 7: You don't care damn how somebody.
- 1:00Speaker 8: Else is doing.
- 1:03Speaker 7: Yes, if every day, if you're breaking limitations.
- 1:09Speaker 2: It's good to know that there's it's good to think
- 1:11Speaker 2: about that as a goal. It's like you're trying to
- 1:13Speaker 2: discover what your limitations are when you're when you're in
- 1:16Speaker 2: your twenties, so that you can hit that edge, so
- 1:18Speaker 2: that you can sustain yourself across the decades.
- 1:21Speaker 9: And so yeah, because you don't.
- 1:22Speaker 3: You don't want to.
- 1:23Speaker 2: You don't want to have too much fun, right, too
- 1:25Speaker 2: much fun takes you out. You don't want to be
- 1:28Speaker 2: the oldest guy at the disco. You know it's not
- 1:30Speaker 2: it's not fun being the forty year old at the
- 1:32Speaker 2: singles bar, precisely. So you want to make sure that
- 1:36Speaker 2: what you're doing is age appropriate, and you want to
- 1:38Speaker 2: push yourself in every direction that you can, but you
- 1:40Speaker 2: should be doing that with an aim in mind. It's
- 1:42Speaker 2: like you're trying to make yourself into a better and
- 1:43Speaker 2: more competent person. And so some discipline along with the
- 1:47Speaker 2: fund is a good.
- 1:48Speaker 7: Idea if you are breaking the limitations of who you are.
- 1:53Speaker 7: If you're a competence, you're working constantly to expand you
- 1:57Speaker 7: don't even have the time to look at somebody how.
- 2:00Speaker 9: He is he doing, because this is such a.
- 2:03Speaker 7: Great thing happening within you. So please focus on your competence, competition.
- 2:08Speaker 3: You don't bother. If you're good, you will be on
- 2:11Speaker 3: the top.
- 2:11Speaker 9: Otherwise you'll be somewhere.
- 2:14Speaker 8: For me.
- 2:15Speaker 10: With hard work it always pays off and dedication. Also,
- 2:19Speaker 10: I would just want to say, with all the word
- 2:21Speaker 10: that Laurrus has been doing, I look forward to being
- 2:24Speaker 10: a part of it with my foundation also to join
- 2:27Speaker 10: and to help as much as I possibly can. Know
- 2:29Speaker 10: that I'm coming to the end in my career, I'm
- 2:31Speaker 10: looking forward to that. And before I go, I want
- 2:34Speaker 10: to say one thing. One of my mottos is that yo,
- 2:37Speaker 10: anything is possible, don't think limits. And and I feel
- 2:40Speaker 10: that I've proven that short the years. I never thought
- 2:43Speaker 10: I would be discreat at what I've done. But I
- 2:46Speaker 10: want to say to the young kids growing up, just
- 2:48Speaker 10: leave your dream, work hard, stay focused, and just be
- 2:51Speaker 10: strong and just keep on pushing.
- 2:53Speaker 11: Any will come through.
- 2:54Speaker 3: Let's talk about self talk.
- 2:56Speaker 9: Self talk is big nowadays.
- 2:58Speaker 3: It's big.
- 2:59Speaker 12: The A lot of us are talking lies without having
- 3:03Speaker 12: put in in work. When you get to the time
- 3:06Speaker 12: where you need to draw on this self talk, den
- 3:10Speaker 12: Semya says, we're done.
- 3:13Speaker 3: The dust too far away, so you start drawing all
- 3:17Speaker 3: these different tools.
- 3:18Speaker 12: The tools don't work for you if you haven't put
- 3:21Speaker 12: the time in.
- 3:23Speaker 13: So I'm doing now as I'm kind of my mind
- 3:25Speaker 13: in before I start self talking, now, start to reflect
- 3:29Speaker 13: back on all the years I put into making myself
- 3:33Speaker 13: who I am today.
- 3:35Speaker 14: And if you put yourself in a new situation, new
- 3:40Speaker 14: genes turn on inside you and they activate parts of
- 3:44Speaker 14: you that have not yet come alive. These experiences that
- 3:47Speaker 14: you had where you're voluntarily confronting what's dangerous, that changes
- 3:51Speaker 14: you in a way that can't be attained by anyone
- 3:54Speaker 14: who hasn't had that experience. Right, if you haven't pushed
- 3:57Speaker 14: yourself to your limit, especially I would say with regard
- 4:01Speaker 14: to the fear of death, then you there's a change
- 4:05Speaker 14: that hasn't occurred within you. And I would say it's
- 4:08Speaker 14: a fundamental change of maturation. But if you go absolutely everywhere,
- 4:12Speaker 14: every bit, if you will turn.
- 4:13Speaker 12: On all the hours, all the months I put in
- 4:17Speaker 12: for training for that race, all the three o'clock in
- 4:20Speaker 12: the morning times. I woke up at three o'clock in
- 4:22Speaker 12: the morning and my feet were so fucked up and
- 4:25Speaker 12: I was so just sore from the night before that
- 4:29Speaker 12: I'm sitting there just looking at my running shoes like this,
- 4:32Speaker 12: and then an hour later I put them on that's
- 4:35Speaker 12: what I'm thinking about, all those days, all those days
- 4:39Speaker 12: to get me to this moment right now in my
- 4:42Speaker 12: seventy five And I'm all up, what because you're thinking now,
- 4:47Speaker 12: that's what I'm thinking.
- 4:49Speaker 3: I'm thinking that will not be for freaking nothing. We're
- 4:53Speaker 3: gonna figure out a way to get through this.
- 4:55Speaker 9: As I got to your point, i'd be running.
- 4:57Speaker 15: I was like, okay, man, I would be doing ten
- 4:59Speaker 15: miles to pay. I get to ten miles back. Oh, no,
- 5:04Speaker 15: condeming that let out every morning, that walks the streets
- 5:07Speaker 15: at night, he comes saying, no, not today.
- 5:10Speaker 16: Man.
- 5:11Speaker 15: There's somebody out there that you don't know, you have
- 5:13Speaker 15: never fucking met in your entire life, that is doing
- 5:16Speaker 15: twelve thirteen, fourteen. You're gonna do another one, and when
- 5:20Speaker 15: you meet him, you ain't gonna be ready. So the
- 5:25Speaker 15: guy just kept on running.
- 5:27Speaker 17: You're out running on the track, working out, and you
- 5:31Speaker 17: start talking to yourself saying, man, my knee is really
- 5:33Speaker 17: sore right now. Maybe I'm maybe I'm doing too much. Man,
- 5:38Speaker 17: I need to back off. You go, man, my lungs
- 5:41Speaker 17: are burning, and maybe I can just slow down here.
- 5:44Speaker 17: I'll do like an extra two sets tomorrow, you know,
- 5:47Speaker 17: it'll be okay, right, that sort of stuff like that
- 5:50Speaker 17: stuff's dangerous, and that's you just got to say, you
- 5:53Speaker 17: know what, I'm not negotiating with myself.
- 5:55Speaker 3: The deal was already made.
- 5:57Speaker 17: The deal was made when I set out at the
- 5:58Speaker 17: beginning of the summer and said, this is the training
- 6:00Speaker 17: plan I'm doing. I signed that contract with myself I'm doing.
- 6:05Speaker 17: You know, throughout that process, you'll start talking to yourself, like, man,
- 6:09Speaker 17: I gotta I think I need to maybe if.
- 6:11Speaker 15: We know if I'm not good enough, we always say
- 6:14Speaker 15: that shit, it's not good enough, and let me try
- 6:15Speaker 15: something else. I'm gonna make myself good enough. And that
- 6:19Speaker 15: became my mentality. I'm I'm gonna make myself good enough.
- 6:23Speaker 15: And so I'm misunderstood a lot, but that's that's all
- 6:26Speaker 15: that came down to. I made myself good enough. And
- 6:29Speaker 15: the days I couldn't run that far the next week
- 6:33Speaker 15: I would do two with days so on the running.
- 6:37Speaker 15: If I ran a quarter a mile, I would wait
- 6:39Speaker 15: a fucking full hours.
- 6:40Speaker 9: It haunted me. Bother me. I try to run a
- 6:42Speaker 9: half a mile the next time, same day. You can
- 6:45Speaker 9: do more than this.
- 6:46Speaker 15: If I had to walk ahead and walk it just
- 6:48Speaker 15: became just a process of grinding and grinding, and grinding's
- 6:51Speaker 15: not even a good word for it. It's not even
- 6:53Speaker 15: a good word for it, and just just going further
- 6:56Speaker 15: and further. And then when I got through running, I
- 6:58Speaker 15: go through the bike, go to the pool. If I
- 7:01Speaker 15: got tired somewhere my lads were tired, I go to
- 7:04Speaker 15: gym and I developed this crazy workout where I was
- 7:06Speaker 15: doing volume.
- 7:08Speaker 18: If you know you who you are at this day
- 7:09Speaker 18: of your life, then you're very limited. If I know
- 7:13Speaker 18: who I am at this day with fifty five years old,
- 7:15Speaker 18: and I know who I am who, I'm never going
- 7:17Speaker 18: this is never going to change it, who I am
- 7:19Speaker 18: writing it, I'm gonna be a very limited person.
- 7:21Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, every day of.
- 7:22Speaker 18: My life we change without even knowing him, absolutely known,
- 7:26Speaker 18: we change. I noticed the older I get, the closer
- 7:29Speaker 18: I am to my past. I started meeting people when
- 7:31Speaker 18: I was seven years old.
- 7:32Speaker 3: Eight years old.
- 7:32Speaker 18: Now after that and I'm fifty five. Im I became
- 7:36Speaker 18: world champion, they won twenty five or fifty Grammy, the
- 7:39Speaker 18: platinum albums or something, and we just went on a
- 7:41Speaker 18: different world.
- 7:42Speaker 9: But we have.
- 7:43Speaker 3: We came from that.
- 7:44Speaker 18: That little, that little that brilliant little suss Pool.
- 7:49Speaker 19: Everyone does a few reps when burned starts and they stop.
- 7:53Speaker 19: No one goes the extra mind, it keeps going like
- 7:57Speaker 19: no one's in here right now. Why this Saturday the
- 8:00Speaker 19: animal was a long party.
- 8:01Speaker 3: Know was in here.
- 8:01Speaker 9: This is me, you know.
- 8:03Speaker 3: No one goes the extra mile.
- 8:05Speaker 19: The thing about traffic jams, guys, there are no traffic
- 8:09Speaker 19: jams in the last mile of the race.
- 8:12Speaker 9: It's just you in your shadow.
- 8:15Speaker 19: In the beginning, everybody's there, all the pretenders and the contenders,
- 8:20Speaker 19: they're all there for the last yard of life.
- 8:25Speaker 3: The last mile of journey, ain't.
- 8:28Speaker 9: Nobody but you in the shadow. The bike got easier.
- 8:31Speaker 3: I was able to run more.
- 8:33Speaker 15: I went from like one mile. One mile was a
- 8:35Speaker 15: great accomplishment. Two miles and then from two to three
- 8:39Speaker 15: was a big egin. I went from three to six
- 8:41Speaker 15: and then like they have a warning order that they
- 8:44Speaker 15: give people to.
- 8:44Speaker 9: Get ready for buds. And the whole thing was running
- 8:47Speaker 9: six miles five days a week.
- 8:49Speaker 15: And that was my goal, and so I just kept
- 8:52Speaker 15: I failed, I'll go back to scratch. I used some
- 8:55Speaker 15: positive motivation. I have, Like one day I was like
- 8:57Speaker 15: fucking defeated, but I started realizing this is part of
- 9:00Speaker 15: the process. This is part of the journey. I had
- 9:02Speaker 15: to realize this is part of my process. If you
- 9:04Speaker 15: ready to quit, don't get started. If you look at
- 9:07Speaker 15: what it's easy paths, don't get started. If you think
- 9:09Speaker 15: they're not going to pull.
- 9:10Speaker 20: The door, and you would say no a million times,
- 9:13Speaker 20: don't get started.
- 9:14Speaker 3: Whatever time they called the door, I just get excited.
- 9:17Speaker 16: Why because I am not ain't no, I'm one yes
- 9:20Speaker 16: away forever.
- 9:22Speaker 17: You can't keep denying me forever.
- 9:23Speaker 19: This type of energy, this type of passion, traffic jams
- 9:27Speaker 19: don't exist that far.
- 9:29Speaker 3: Is everyone else already giving up?
- 9:31Speaker 19: That's what I like too, the mental concept I'm going far.
- 9:34Speaker 3: I love the physical high of the burn being released.
- 9:38Speaker 3: I love the mental high that has improved myself.
- 9:41Speaker 19: I love the mentality that I'm just beating my competitors silently,
- 9:45Speaker 19: but they don't even know it.
- 9:46Speaker 11: They're out partying.
- 9:47Speaker 9: I'm out here getting ahead.
- 9:49Speaker 21: I do it.
- 9:52Speaker 9: Convince Someboddy man.
- 9:53Speaker 22: Just stop thinking, worrying, looking over your shoulder, wondering, doubting, fearing, hurting,
- 10:06Speaker 22: hoping for some easy way out, struggling, grasping.
- 10:11Speaker 23: Confusing, itching, scratching, mumbling, bumbling, grumbling, humbling, stumbling, numbling, rambling, gambling, tumbling, scumbling, scrambling.
- 10:19Speaker 16: Hitching, hatching, pitching, moaning, groaning, honing, boning, horse shitting, hair splitting,
- 10:27Speaker 16: knit picking, piste, trickling, nose sticking.
- 10:30Speaker 5: Air scouging, eyepole poking, finger pointing, alleyway sneaking, long waiting,
- 10:36Speaker 5: small stepping, evil eyeing, backscratching, searching, perching, besmirching, grinding, grinding, grinding.
- 10:44Speaker 3: Away at yourself, stop it and just do.
- 10:50Speaker 24: Every morning when you get up, say over and over
- 10:53Speaker 24: to yourself, do it now, do it now?
- 10:55Speaker 3: Do it now?
- 10:56Speaker 21: I do it now, do it now.
- 10:58Speaker 24: Whenever you have this tendency to procrastination, program your subconscious
- 11:02Speaker 24: mind with this automatic, conditioned command, do it now.
- 11:05Speaker 11: Do it now, Do it now.
- 11:07Speaker 24: The key to overcoming procrastination is to develop a sense
- 11:10Speaker 24: of urgency. Be the kind of person who gets things
- 11:12Speaker 24: done quickly. Be the kind of person who launches fast
- 11:15Speaker 24: on a task.
- 11:16Speaker 25: I think it's the self confidence, if you believe in
- 11:19Speaker 25: what you do and keep doing it. I mean, when
- 11:23Speaker 25: I was young, I had a lot of people telling
- 11:25Speaker 25: me you have to adjust to the other ones, you
- 11:27Speaker 25: have to be like the other ones. I was listening,
- 11:30Speaker 25: but I wasn't always following. I dragged it in. How
- 11:34Speaker 25: do you say I was listening, but I did my
- 11:35Speaker 25: own thing. I kept doing my own thing, and I
- 11:38Speaker 25: believed in myself. What was like the question there? Like
- 11:41Speaker 25: they judge you even before you come, and they don't
- 11:43Speaker 25: even know you. And that was outside the pitch and
- 11:47Speaker 25: inside the pitch. But I kept going. I kept going,
- 11:50Speaker 25: and it brought me where I am today.
- 11:52Speaker 24: One of the ways to launch fast on a task
- 11:54Speaker 24: is to take the task and break it up.
- 11:56Speaker 3: What is called salami slicing it.
- 11:58Speaker 24: Slice a piece of salami. Don't try to eat a
- 12:00Speaker 24: whole loaf of salamis need it one slice at a time.
- 12:02Speaker 24: Take your task and break it up into small pieces,
- 12:05Speaker 24: and then do one piece at a time. Say over
- 12:07Speaker 24: and over to yourself, do it now, do it now?
- 12:09Speaker 24: Do it now? Do you know that less than two
- 12:10Speaker 24: percent of the population have a sense of urgency, and
- 12:13Speaker 24: that there is not an example of a successful person
- 12:15Speaker 24: anywhere who does not have a sense of urgency. That
- 12:18Speaker 24: if you just develop a sense of urgency with somebody
- 12:20Speaker 24: gives you a task, that you get on it and
- 12:22Speaker 24: do it fast, that alone will move you into the
- 12:25Speaker 24: top ranks in a very short period of time.
- 12:27Speaker 26: But just fucking do it.
- 12:29Speaker 27: Best advice I ever got from mister Gratzo's do it.
- 12:31Speaker 21: He didn't say, just fucking do it.
- 12:33Speaker 9: He didn't swear.
- 12:34Speaker 27: And the best advice I've ever given anybody is just
- 12:37Speaker 27: can do it. We take too much time procrastinating, We
- 12:41Speaker 27: take too and because we're afraid of failure, and fear
- 12:45Speaker 27: is false expectations appearing real. We're worried about what other
- 12:49Speaker 27: people think.
- 12:50Speaker 3: Let me have stuff.
- 12:51Speaker 9: Why you are.
- 12:52Speaker 27: Where you are because you just didn't do it. You
- 12:55Speaker 27: didn't want to make a mistake. You've got a mortgage.
- 12:58Speaker 27: But the bottom fucking mine is if you had fifteen
- 13:02Speaker 27: years ago, you had just done it. Ten years ago,
- 13:04Speaker 27: you just fucking done it. Five years ago, if you
- 13:07Speaker 27: just done it six months ago, if you just fucking
- 13:10Speaker 27: done it, you probably wouldn't be in the position you're
- 13:13Speaker 27: in now. So I'm saying, no matter what your age is,
- 13:17Speaker 27: it's still time to.
- 13:18Speaker 3: Just fucking go out and do it.
- 13:20Speaker 28: I fight against that, you know, it's it's the big
- 13:23Speaker 28: challenge is when you're not willing to do something, but
- 13:28Speaker 28: you have to do it. This is the main point
- 13:30Speaker 28: this is why I say our mind is it's a
- 13:34Speaker 28: box of surprises, and you have to challenge yourself to
- 13:39Speaker 28: be consistency.
- 13:41Speaker 26: I repeat, sometimes it's hard.
- 13:43Speaker 28: It's what many people say, you like to go to
- 13:48Speaker 28: the gym every day.
- 13:48Speaker 26: Of course not, it's not true. Nobody likes to go
- 13:51Speaker 26: to the gym every day. But you have to do it.
- 13:55Speaker 23: You are not responsible for the world. Your only responsible
- 14:00Speaker 23: for your work, so just do it. I don't think
- 14:04Speaker 23: that your work has to conform to any preconceived idea.
- 14:06Speaker 3: Form or flavor.
- 14:07Speaker 9: It can be anything you want it to be.
- 14:09Speaker 23: But if life would be easier for you if you
- 14:12Speaker 23: stop working, then stop.
- 14:13Speaker 3: Don't punish yourself. However, I think that this is so.
- 14:16Speaker 23: Deeply ingraining you that it would be better for you
- 14:18Speaker 23: to do.
- 14:20Speaker 28: Probably, yes, because your mental strength is coming from that,
- 14:26Speaker 28: from that moment that, in a hard moment, you know
- 14:31Speaker 28: you should do it, so and I do it because
- 14:34Speaker 28: after that, maybe in the beginning you feel hard to start,
- 14:38Speaker 28: but after, when you finish the gym or cold lunch
- 14:42Speaker 28: or even the training, you will feel better.
- 14:45Speaker 26: I think it's it's the big key there.
- 14:50Speaker 29: Your time is being captured and your attention is being
- 14:52Speaker 29: captured by a thought that could have been gotten rid
- 14:54Speaker 29: of had you have just done it, had you have
- 14:55Speaker 29: just had the conversation broken up with the relationship, left
- 14:58Speaker 29: the job, told the father, what don your stretches, clean
- 15:02Speaker 29: your teeth, how to shower, whatever it is that you
- 15:04Speaker 29: needed to do. All of that anxiety cost could have
- 15:09Speaker 29: been gotten rid of had you just gone and done it.
- 15:12Speaker 25: Confidence and believe in what you do. That is I
- 15:16Speaker 25: think that is the goal target. If they can do it,
- 15:18Speaker 25: I can do it. And that's the mentality. If somebody
- 15:21Speaker 25: else can do it, you can do it. And I
- 15:23Speaker 25: said to myself, I will do it, and I will
- 15:25Speaker 25: do it better.
- 15:26Speaker 3: I try to.
- 15:29Speaker 25: When I do something, want to be the best. I
- 15:32Speaker 25: will not be happy being the second, third or the fourth.
- 15:35Speaker 25: I would My inspiration is that above everybody else, and
- 15:40Speaker 25: that's in everything I do in my project, like this,
- 15:43Speaker 25: in my football and another thing. Whatever everybody else says
- 15:48Speaker 25: is not important. So if they tell you your best,
- 15:51Speaker 25: it's not important. The importance is that you say you're
- 15:54Speaker 25: the best.
- 15:55Speaker 30: If you're going to do it, do it, Say what
- 16:01Speaker 30: you can do.
- 16:03Speaker 9: Do what you say you can't do it, don't say
- 16:06Speaker 9: you can do it. Don't overleverage yourself. Don't overleverage your
- 16:08Speaker 9: decision and then jump in and kind of dip a toe.
- 16:11Speaker 9: I think I'll try it out.
- 16:12Speaker 30: Don't think if you're gonna try it out beforehand, but
- 16:14Speaker 30: when it's time to go, dive, finish it, find out,
- 16:18Speaker 30: come out the other side. Don't leave it and go,
- 16:22Speaker 30: oh if I just got it, uh huh. That keeps
- 16:24Speaker 30: me up at night. I think it keeps a lot
- 16:25Speaker 30: of us up at night and half assed something. You
- 16:28Speaker 30: just don't know whether you failed or succeeded God what
- 16:31Speaker 30: you want or didn't get what you want? Finding out
- 16:34Speaker 30: and looking and in the mirror and going I didn't
- 16:36Speaker 30: have assif I went all the way I found out
- 16:39Speaker 30: and that ain't for me, or I found out and
- 16:41Speaker 30: you damn.
- 16:41Speaker 3: Right, that is for me. That's a great place to get.
- 16:44Speaker 20: While all the people are giving up, feeling like victims,
- 16:48Speaker 20: feeling powerless, becoming negative, turning on each other rather than
- 16:53Speaker 20: to each other, feeling that they can't make it, be
- 16:57Speaker 20: you not conformed to this world, but be ye trans
- 17:00Speaker 20: far by the renewing of your mind, with the mindset
- 17:03Speaker 20: of that it's possible, a new economy, it's possible that
- 17:07Speaker 20: I can find a new profession, a new job. It's possible,
- 17:11Speaker 20: I can create a new life. And it's necessary that
- 17:14Speaker 20: I become actively involved in becoming a positive force in
- 17:18Speaker 20: my life and on the planet.
- 17:20Speaker 3: And it's me, yes, it's you.
- 17:22Speaker 20: It's all of us pulling together, working together to create
- 17:25Speaker 20: this brand new future.
- 17:27Speaker 3: And it's going to be hard easy. It's not an option.
- 17:30Speaker 3: What if it's hard, we will do it hard.
- 17:32Speaker 20: Whatever is required to snatch victory from the charges of
- 17:35Speaker 20: the thief. And it's worth the deak, it's worth whatever
- 17:38Speaker 20: we have to do.
- 17:39Speaker 3: And once we know that.
- 17:40Speaker 20: It is due, it is tough.
- 17:43Speaker 4: It is dub There's no fucking passion, there's no fucking motivation.
- 17:48Speaker 4: There's no Oh my god, man, this is no it's
- 17:52Speaker 4: every day of your life just doing.
- 17:57Speaker 9: No passion, no discipline, motivation, all these words. I hate people.
- 18:02Speaker 9: I hate that so many people use these words because
- 18:04Speaker 9: it's it's watered.
- 18:05Speaker 15: It's someone sitting in the room by themselves and they
- 18:08Speaker 15: figure themselves out.
- 18:09Speaker 9: And say, God, this is gonna fucking suck.
- 18:13Speaker 15: Worst passion when you're three hundred pounds, where's the motivation
- 18:17Speaker 15: where you can't.
- 18:17Speaker 4: Read and write?
- 18:19Speaker 3: Where is it so.
- 18:20Speaker 20: How did this happen?
- 18:22Speaker 15: I just fucking did do it and do it, and
- 18:26Speaker 15: do it and do it.
- 18:28Speaker 9: That's the heck. The heck is gonna suck.
- 18:31Speaker 31: I go through the motions. I don't really want to
- 18:36Speaker 31: work out, I work out. I really don't want to
- 18:40Speaker 31: hammer on a project. I hammer on the project. Don't
- 18:46Speaker 31: really want to get up and get out of bed?
- 18:51Speaker 31: I get up and get out of bed.
- 18:54Speaker 9: Now.
- 18:55Speaker 31: These could be signals that you some time off, and
- 19:02Speaker 31: those signals might be right, they could be correct. But
- 19:07Speaker 31: don't take today off, not today, wait until tomorrow. Don't
- 19:13Speaker 31: give in to the immediate gratification that is whispering in
- 19:19Speaker 31: your ear.
- 19:21Speaker 3: Go through the motions.
- 19:24Speaker 31: Lift the weights, sprint the hill, work on the project,
- 19:28Speaker 31: get out of bed.
- 19:31Speaker 32: Just doing it. Just doing it makes you do more.
- 19:34Speaker 32: Like do more. Hardship makes you do more hardship. Understand
- 19:38Speaker 32: that you want it bad, so you're willing to put
- 19:39Speaker 32: into work and do things you don't want to do.
- 19:41Speaker 32: That's what makes you have that confidence that you know
- 19:45Speaker 32: how to push through and the mentality that I'm the
- 19:48Speaker 32: type of dude to get shit done, like I'm gonna
- 19:50Speaker 32: show I'm not gonna waste my day, just sitting around
- 19:51Speaker 32: a fucking hotel.
- 19:52Speaker 3: M Now I'm gonna go to work. I'm gonna work
- 19:54Speaker 3: all day.
- 19:54Speaker 32: I'm gonna drive five hours and keep that radio gig
- 19:57Speaker 32: and then drive hours and spend ten hours of the
- 20:00Speaker 32: in twenty four in a day in a goddamn car.
- 20:03Speaker 3: Do gigs.
- 20:04Speaker 9: Do it, Just do it.
- 20:08Speaker 3: Don't let your dreams be dreams. Yesterday, you said tomorrow,
- 20:12Speaker 3: So just do it. Make your dreams come true. Just
- 20:18Speaker 3: do it. Some people dream and success, while you're.
- 20:21Speaker 33: Gonna wake up and work hard at nothing is impossible.
- 20:25Speaker 15: You should get to the point where anyone else would quit,
- 20:28Speaker 15: and you're not gonna stop there.
- 20:31Speaker 3: No, what are you waiting for? Do it? Just do it? Yes,
- 20:40Speaker 3: you can, just do it. If you're tired of starting over,
- 20:46Speaker 3: stop giving up.
- 20:50Speaker 33: And if you're creating from the field instead of matter,
- 20:53Speaker 33: you no longer have to go anywhere to get what
- 20:56Speaker 33: you want. If you are connected to that invisible field
- 20:59Speaker 33: of events energy called the unified field, the quantum field,
- 21:02Speaker 33: which connects everything physical and material, and you're aware of it,
- 21:05Speaker 33: and you're connected to it, you're connected to source. Why
- 21:08Speaker 33: would you of you're a source? Why would you go
- 21:10Speaker 33: get anything you draw it to you. So the thought
- 21:14Speaker 33: coherent brain is the intent. It's the electrical charge, the
- 21:17Speaker 33: elevated the motion. The heart has a magnetic signature, it's
- 21:21Speaker 33: the magnetic charge the thought sending the signal out.
- 21:24Speaker 3: It's a directive.
- 21:25Speaker 33: The feelings drawing the event back create that combination. And
- 21:31Speaker 33: now you're going to collapse space and time and you're
- 21:33Speaker 33: going to draw those synchronicities to you.
- 21:35Speaker 34: Now, I've an insane belief in my own ability to
- 21:40Speaker 34: manifest things, insane a belief.
- 21:44Speaker 9: I think it's ultimately complete sanity.
- 21:46Speaker 34: I believe we're creators, and I believe we create with
- 21:49Speaker 34: every thought and every word is every moment is pregnant
- 21:52Speaker 34: with the next moment of your life. We all start
- 21:55Speaker 34: out with a false belief about ourselves, with some untrue
- 22:00Speaker 34: thing that we believe walking through our lives. I'm not worthy,
- 22:03Speaker 34: I'm not lovable, I'm gonna fail. Whatever your basic mistaken
- 22:08Speaker 34: belief about yourself is.
- 22:10Speaker 3: You form a personality around you.
- 22:12Speaker 34: Know, it's the grain of sand in the oyster, So
- 22:15Speaker 34: I form characters that way. A lot of times I'll
- 22:18Speaker 34: ask myself, what's the speck of sand?
- 22:20Speaker 33: You're gonna use that energy to create the next one
- 22:22Speaker 33: and it gets weird, and I've had some crazy synchronicities
- 22:25Speaker 33: in the last three days. I'm laughing while I'm driving, going,
- 22:28Speaker 33: oh my god, this life is so incredibly mysterious. What
- 22:33Speaker 33: a amazing ride this is. That's a different perspective when
- 22:37Speaker 33: you're not synchronizing, Well, you asked the person was it
- 22:40Speaker 33: worth it?
- 22:41Speaker 3: You showed up every day?
- 22:42Speaker 33: Was it worth Absolutely so. When it starts happening and
- 22:46Speaker 33: you start seeing those you see feedback in your world,
- 22:49Speaker 33: you're gonna pay attention to what you did, and you're
- 22:51Speaker 33: gonna do it again, and you're gonna be like, Okay,
- 22:52Speaker 33: I've done this, I've done this, and I've People who
- 22:54Speaker 33: heal themselves have very little difficulty healing someone else.
- 22:59Speaker 1: Good time create weak people. Weak people create bad times.
- 23:06Speaker 1: Bad times create strong people. Strong people create good times.
- 23:12Speaker 1: Leaders anticipate, Losers react. If you can anticipate what's coming,
- 23:16Speaker 1: you can really take advantage.
- 23:18Speaker 3: If you wait till it hits you, you're in trouble.
- 23:20Speaker 35: People talk about manifestation, right. Manifestation is real, but not
- 23:24Speaker 35: because your mind manages to magically attract the.
- 23:29Speaker 3: Things you want.
- 23:30Speaker 35: I think it just reminds you of what you really want,
- 23:32Speaker 35: and it allows you to find energy all the time.
- 23:34Speaker 35: If you manifest yourself having a perfect physique, you're going
- 23:38Speaker 35: to be a lot more.
- 23:38Speaker 11: Motivated in the gym.
- 23:40Speaker 35: It's not the thought that makes the physique, it's the
- 23:42Speaker 35: gym that makes the physique. However, the manifestation makes you
- 23:44Speaker 35: want to go to the gym. So I do believe
- 23:46Speaker 35: that if you understood the power of your faults, you
- 23:49Speaker 35: never think negatively ever again. But I think manifestation works
- 23:53Speaker 35: in another way. I also think that once you understand
- 23:56Speaker 35: all of the bad things and good things that come
- 23:58Speaker 35: into your life are a perfect plan from God himself,
- 24:01Speaker 35: you're going to be a lot less affective by the
- 24:03Speaker 35: bad things. If something bad happens to you, it's part
- 24:06Speaker 35: of God's plan. He knows what he's doing. In the end,
- 24:08Speaker 35: you're going to be happy it happened. I often ask people,
- 24:10Speaker 35: is there anything bad that's happened to you in the
- 24:12Speaker 35: past At the time you were just straw about that
- 24:15Speaker 35: you now wish didn't even happen.
- 24:17Speaker 8: If you can see it here and you have the
- 24:20Speaker 8: courage enough to speak it, it will happen. So I
- 24:24Speaker 8: see these shots, I see these sequences and I don't
- 24:28Speaker 8: shy away from them. A lot of times people believe
- 24:31Speaker 8: in certain things, but they keep to themselves.
- 24:34Speaker 3: They don't put it out there.
- 24:36Speaker 8: You truly believe in it, if you become vocal with it,
- 24:40Speaker 8: you are creating that law of attraction and it will
- 24:43Speaker 8: become reality. I knew he would overextend, and I knew
- 24:48Speaker 8: it'd catch him.
- 24:49Speaker 36: There's this thing about people and they talk about manifesting.
- 24:55Speaker 21: It's fucking real. Man Manifesting is real.
- 24:58Speaker 36: When you figure out who you are are and what
- 25:01Speaker 36: you want to do, and you devote your life to it.
- 25:05Speaker 36: But like like a maniac, like you're all in on
- 25:08Speaker 36: this thing and you manifest. Most of these people end up,
- 25:12Speaker 36: you know, doing what they say they're going to do
- 25:14Speaker 36: and being who they say they're going to become. It's real.
- 25:17Speaker 36: It's and there's no excuses. There's fucking days off, there's
- 25:21Speaker 36: no uh, you know, not willing to grind, and you
- 25:25Speaker 36: know everybody's against me and this didn't happen for me
- 25:28Speaker 36: because of this and that and all this whine, and
- 25:31Speaker 36: you know that a lot of people do these days.
- 25:34Speaker 21: There's these people who dive.
- 25:35Speaker 36: In and their hardcore and they're focused and they know
- 25:37Speaker 36: what they want, they know who they are, and they
- 25:40Speaker 36: lay out these short term goals and this roadmap on
- 25:43Speaker 36: how to get there.
- 25:44Speaker 21: Most of those people make it. People like this is the.
- 25:46Speaker 37: Way we're crazy in the sense that we believe it's
- 25:50Speaker 37: almost delusional sometimes, like what's the one I've.
- 25:54Speaker 11: Heard this quote from the Ji.
- 25:55Speaker 37: Even before it was like greatness and madness and next
- 25:59Speaker 37: door neighbors and they just over each other's sugar once
- 26:01Speaker 37: in a while.
- 26:02Speaker 11: But I can manifest like a mother flower. Everything comes
- 26:06Speaker 11: from the imagination.
- 26:08Speaker 37: Everything comes from like before this microphone was a microphone, someone.
- 26:13Speaker 11: Somehow thought about it.
- 26:15Speaker 37: Now, how can I speak into something that would amplify
- 26:18Speaker 37: my voice? And blah blah blah blah, And then this
- 26:20Speaker 37: came out of it and it's evolved over the years.
- 26:23Speaker 37: But everything comes from an imagination. So the power of
- 26:25Speaker 37: the mind people don't understand. We still don't understand. I
- 26:28Speaker 37: still don't understand.
- 26:29Speaker 11: How powerful it is. I'm still learning why.
- 26:30Speaker 1: I know.
- 26:31Speaker 11: One thing is I can make things happen.
- 26:34Speaker 1: The biggest problem people have is they think they're not
- 26:36Speaker 1: supposed to have any and problems are the fuel for growth, right,
- 26:42Speaker 1: And so it's like if you don't how any problems.
- 26:43Speaker 1: You're either a liar or you might call them challenges.
- 26:46Speaker 1: It feels better, I understand that. But you know, anybody
- 26:49Speaker 1: who's that problems is either totally asleep at the wheel
- 26:52Speaker 1: or they don't have much of any kind of a life.
- 26:54Speaker 1: But then there's fulfillment, and fulfillment is living what you're made.
- 26:58Speaker 37: For, manifest the things that I'm just like, I still
- 27:01Speaker 37: shocked myself, like, how did I make that happen? And
- 27:04Speaker 37: this is not even to do a fighting, This is
- 27:05Speaker 37: to do with my personal life. And I'm like, I
- 27:08Speaker 37: made that happen. And this is through this like manifesting
- 27:11Speaker 37: subconsciously as well just years off, something's just manifesting, manifest
- 27:15Speaker 37: the impluments right there.
- 27:16Speaker 11: I'm just like, shit, I really made that happen.
- 27:19Speaker 37: It's scary, man, it's scary for me to even think
- 27:22Speaker 37: about both of them together.
- 27:24Speaker 11: When you really when.
- 27:25Speaker 37: You have the vision and you're able to manifest and
- 27:27Speaker 37: you also put the work in, magic happens, man, the magic,
- 27:31Speaker 37: that's where the magic is. But a lot of people
- 27:33Speaker 37: never get there. Unfortunately a lot of people. We're blessed
- 27:36Speaker 37: that we can dream.
- 27:37Speaker 38: Walk to the trade. Man, this is gonna be great today.
- 27:42Speaker 38: That's how your mind works twenty four seven. It never
- 27:46Speaker 38: turns off. You have got to change the way you think.
- 27:51Speaker 38: It is the whole determining factor of where you go
- 27:54Speaker 38: in life.
- 27:56Speaker 3: We are all where we are.
- 27:58Speaker 38: Today because we thought our self to this position. If
- 28:02Speaker 38: you don't like the position, think yourself out of it.
- 28:06Speaker 38: Change your attitude, you change your altitude.
- 28:12Speaker 3: It's a lack of confidence.
- 28:14Speaker 1: No, it's a lack of mission, right, because what happens
- 28:19Speaker 1: is when you have something you want to serve, if
- 28:20Speaker 1: it's you're a child and everything's on the line, you
- 28:22Speaker 1: won't come up with answers.
- 28:23Speaker 3: You will never come up with for yourself.
- 28:25Speaker 1: Right.
- 28:26Speaker 3: So it's like having that sense of mission.
- 28:29Speaker 1: And then I think the next problem is that people
- 28:31Speaker 1: think they have to know how. I call it the
- 28:34Speaker 1: tyranny of how. Like you get all excited, I'm going
- 28:37Speaker 1: to do this, and then your brain goes, I've never
- 28:39Speaker 1: done it before, Oh my god, what do I say?
- 28:41Speaker 1: I don't know how to do this? And they tend
- 28:44Speaker 1: to focus on how to do it, and when you
- 28:45Speaker 1: start with how, you're screwed. But the bottom line is
- 28:48Speaker 1: he gets up there and he gives his vision of
- 28:51Speaker 1: how it can be done.
- 28:52Speaker 3: He talked about what needs to happen and why, and
- 28:56Speaker 3: I think if you take these approaches.
- 28:58Speaker 35: So, if you take the approach of manifesting what you
- 29:00Speaker 35: walks to, you're constantly motivated and understanding all the bad
- 29:02Speaker 35: things that happened to you or just a lesson, and
- 29:04Speaker 35: one day you're read to get over it. It's pretty
- 29:06Speaker 35: easy to be a happy, contented, balanced person. I don't
- 29:08Speaker 35: think there's any serious magic to happiness. I think it's
- 29:11Speaker 35: a choice and it's pretty easy to do.
- 29:13Speaker 3: It starts with yourself.
- 29:14Speaker 12: Man, you got to start diving into those things that
- 29:17Speaker 12: you're afraid of. You don't gain confidence by going to
- 29:21Speaker 12: the spot that makes you feel good.
- 29:23Speaker 3: It could be a false reality. And the Second life
- 29:26Speaker 3: gives you that challenge.
- 29:28Speaker 12: All you going to do is go back to what
- 29:30Speaker 12: made you confidence or what gave you confidence.
- 29:33Speaker 3: Is that happy spot? Now, what gives you confidence? What
- 29:38Speaker 3: gave me confidence?
- 29:39Speaker 15: We're spending years at a kitchen table trying to learn
- 29:44Speaker 15: how to read and write on my own.
- 29:46Speaker 39: You just eliminate all external distractions, you know that's what's
- 29:50Speaker 39: going on, and just focus on the process itself and
- 29:53Speaker 39: enjoying it. Every single day and chopping wool, carrying water.
- 29:56Speaker 39: You know, greatness is not meant for a few chosen people.
- 29:58Speaker 39: It's meant for the we persistently pursue their dreams every
- 30:02Speaker 39: day and make that choice when they wake up.
- 30:04Speaker 29: Everyone is jealous of what you've got. No one is
- 30:07Speaker 29: jealous of how you got it. My people see the trophies,
- 30:10Speaker 29: but not the training ground.
- 30:11Speaker 3: Everybody wants the view, but no one wants to climb.
- 30:15Speaker 40: In life, folks, you cannot change your life unless you
- 30:20Speaker 40: change something. If you always do what you always did,
- 30:26Speaker 40: you'll always get what you always got, no matter what
- 30:31Speaker 40: it is. Many times you set yourself I gotta lose weight.
- 30:33Speaker 3: I gotta lose weight.
- 30:34Speaker 40: I'm too fair, And then you know what, during the day,
- 30:38Speaker 40: you eat, you eat at night, and the next day
- 30:40Speaker 40: you get married yourself.
- 30:41Speaker 3: Well, what do you want? What do you want?
- 30:44Speaker 40: You got to change something.
- 30:46Speaker 29: There's a quote that I've fallen in love with. The
- 30:49Speaker 29: magic you are looking for is in the work you're avoiding. Yeah, fuck, dude,
- 30:54Speaker 29: the magic you are looking for is in the work
- 30:56Speaker 29: you're avoiding in every single time.
- 30:58Speaker 41: If you don't fare, you're not even trying. I'll say
- 31:03Speaker 41: it again. If you don't fail. You're not even trying.
- 31:06Speaker 41: My wife told me this great expression. To get something
- 31:09Speaker 41: you never had, you have to do something you never did,
- 31:13Speaker 41: he says. Imagine you're on your deathbed, and standing around
- 31:16Speaker 41: your deathbed are the ghosts representing your unfulfilled potential, the
- 31:21Speaker 41: ghost of the ideas you never acted on, the ghost
- 31:24Speaker 41: of the talents you didn't use. And they're standing around
- 31:28Speaker 41: your bed, angry, disappointed, and upset. They say, we came
- 31:33Speaker 41: to you because you could have brought us to life,
- 31:36Speaker 41: they say, and now we have to go to the
- 31:39Speaker 41: grave together. So I ask you today, how many ghosts
- 31:44Speaker 41: are going to be around your bed when.
- 31:46Speaker 3: Your time comes? My hero, that's who I chase now.
- 31:51Speaker 30: When I was fifteen years old, I had a very
- 31:53Speaker 30: important person in my life come to me and say
- 31:55Speaker 30: who's your hero? And I said, I don't know.
- 31:56Speaker 3: I got to think about that.
- 31:56Speaker 11: Give me a couple of weeks.
- 31:57Speaker 21: I come back.
- 31:58Speaker 9: Two weeks later, this person comes up and says.
- 32:00Speaker 3: He, I said, I thought about it.
- 32:01Speaker 9: You know who it is.
- 32:02Speaker 3: I said, it's me. In ten years so I turned
- 32:05Speaker 3: twenty five.
- 32:06Speaker 30: Ten years later, that same person comes to me and goes,
- 32:08Speaker 30: so are you a hero?
- 32:09Speaker 3: And I was like, not even close.
- 32:12Speaker 30: No, no, no, she said, why, I said, because my
- 32:14Speaker 30: hero is me at thirty five. So you see, every day,
- 32:17Speaker 30: every week, every month, and every year in my life, my.
- 32:20Speaker 9: Hero is always ten years away. I'm never gonna be
- 32:22Speaker 9: a my hero.
- 32:23Speaker 30: I'm not going to pain that I know I'm not,
- 32:25Speaker 30: and that's just fine with me because that keeps me
- 32:27Speaker 30: with somebody to keep on chasing.
- 32:31Speaker 42: I'm gonna have setbacks, I know, or if I'm feeling bad,
- 32:35Speaker 42: that doesn't mean I'm doing bad. That doesn't mean I
- 32:38Speaker 42: am bad. That doesn't mean that I can't still take
- 32:41Speaker 42: some action because yeah, nothing changes and nothing changes.
- 32:46Speaker 15: Man.
- 32:46Speaker 42: You know, we'll sit around forever wondering, well, what if
- 32:49Speaker 42: I you know, what if I was a dog catcher?
- 32:51Speaker 42: Would I be the best? What if I was a
- 32:53Speaker 42: you know, what if I'd worked on that, you know
- 32:55Speaker 42: at Avalanche?
- 32:57Speaker 3: Who would I you know? Would I be able to
- 32:59Speaker 3: do with what? You don't know?
- 33:01Speaker 42: But you say, yeah, I'm gonna, you know what, I'm
- 33:03Speaker 42: gonna take action. Nothing changes if nothing changes me. And
- 33:06Speaker 42: I'm not preaching at you, I'm just I just want
- 33:10Speaker 42: to remind you because I've spent a lot of time
- 33:12Speaker 42: in my life, sitting around wanting things to change that
- 33:15Speaker 42: in order for something to change, there needs to be change.
- 33:20Speaker 40: Everybody has that voice in their head that says, hey,
- 33:23Speaker 40: could you really do this? Is it going to happen
- 33:27Speaker 40: a lot of times we all say somebody blows a
- 33:29Speaker 40: whistle and says, all right, come on, you don't belong here,
- 33:32Speaker 40: get out of here. We're taking you back. That's not
- 33:34Speaker 40: the way it is. If you believe it, If you
- 33:39Speaker 40: really believe that you could be something, if you have
- 33:42Speaker 40: that little voice in your head saying, hey, you got talent,
- 33:47Speaker 40: you could do this, then follow that voice.
- 33:51Speaker 29: So here's a list of things that I'm not doing
- 33:52Speaker 29: the thing. Preparing to do the thing isn't doing the thing.
- 33:56Speaker 29: Scheduling time to do the thing isn't doing the thing.
- 33:58Speaker 29: Making it to do list for the thing isn't doing
- 34:00Speaker 29: the thing. Telling people you're going to do the thing
- 34:02Speaker 29: isn't doing the thing. Messaging friends who may or may
- 34:04Speaker 29: not be doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Writing
- 34:07Speaker 29: a bang a tweet about how you're going to do
- 34:09Speaker 29: the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on yourself and
- 34:11Speaker 29: not doing the thing isn't doing the thing. Hating on
- 34:14Speaker 29: other people who have done the thing isn't doing the thing.
- 34:16Speaker 29: Hating on the obstacles in the way of you doing
- 34:18Speaker 29: the thing isn't doing the thing. Fantasizing about all of
- 34:20Speaker 29: the adoration you'll receive once you do the thing isn't
- 34:23Speaker 29: doing the thing. Reading about how to do the thing
- 34:25Speaker 29: isn't doing the thing. Reading about how other people did
- 34:27Speaker 29: the thing isn't doing the thing. Reading this essay isn't
- 34:30Speaker 29: doing the thing. The only thing that is doing the
- 34:33Speaker 29: thing is doing the thing.
- 34:36Speaker 32: The real message is we all started from noment. I mean,
- 34:39Speaker 32: we all had bullshit jobs. We all felt like losers.
- 34:42Speaker 32: But through time and effort, you build a stronger human.
- 34:47Speaker 32: You build a stronger body, you build a stronger mind,
- 34:50Speaker 32: you build accomplishments and will and momentum. And then you
- 34:54Speaker 32: look back and you go, hey, man, I'm not washing
- 34:56Speaker 32: tables anymore. You know, I'm not washing dishes, I'm cutting lawns,
- 35:01Speaker 32: I'm not digging ditches.
- 35:03Speaker 21: You know.
- 35:03Speaker 32: I'm a different person now.
- 35:05Speaker 30: But I used to be few things about three things
- 35:07Speaker 30: to my account that I need each day. One I
- 35:10Speaker 30: miss something to look up to, another is something to
- 35:13Speaker 30: look forward to, and another is someone to chase. First off,
- 35:17Speaker 30: I want to thank God because that's who I look
- 35:19Speaker 30: up to.
- 35:21Speaker 3: So you got to get out there.
- 35:23Speaker 41: You got to give it everything you got, whether it's
- 35:25Speaker 41: your time, your talent, your prayers, or your treasures. So
- 35:32Speaker 41: the question is what are you going to do with
- 35:35Speaker 41: what you have? I'm not talking about how much you have.
- 35:39Speaker 41: Some of you are business majors, some of you are theologians, nurses, sociologists.
- 35:43Speaker 41: Some of you have money, some of you have patience,
- 35:46Speaker 41: some of you have kindness, some of you have loved
- 35:49Speaker 41: some of you have the gift of long suffering, whatever
- 35:52Speaker 41: it is, whatever your gift is, what are you going
- 35:55Speaker 41: to do with what you have?
- 35:57Speaker 43: And my older brother who was twelve into an electrical
- 36:01Speaker 43: accident and he died in my arms and really come
- 36:06Speaker 43: to terms with that. I was the one who got
- 36:10Speaker 43: to live that. This life that we live, it's a privilege.
- 36:16Speaker 32: Right when you ain't got shit and there's nothing going
- 36:18Speaker 32: on to have faith?
- 36:20Speaker 21: Then?
- 36:20Speaker 32: Is so difficult to have faith when you're successful. It's like, yeah,
- 36:23Speaker 32: there's a bit you've been successful for a while, of
- 36:25Speaker 32: course you got faith. Yeah, just keep doing what you're doing. Yeah,
- 36:28Speaker 32: It's it's like you already got up the hill. Now
- 36:32Speaker 32: you're just coasted. Yeah, you know, you're just rolling down
- 36:34Speaker 32: the hill. Everything's great, it's the smooth sailing. The hard
- 36:39Speaker 32: part is getting up the hill. And especially if you've
- 36:41Speaker 32: got a dad you're hiding from, especially if you feel
- 36:44Speaker 32: like you're a loser. You never really had anything in
- 36:46Speaker 32: your life that you could look back on and say, hey,
- 36:48Speaker 32: I was really good at that. You know, And there's
- 36:50Speaker 32: a lot of people out there listening to this. There's
- 36:52Speaker 32: so many people that are in that that starting point,
- 36:56Speaker 32: like the people to come up to you and say,
- 36:57Speaker 32: what do I I don't know what to do?
- 36:59Speaker 26: What should I do?
- 37:00Speaker 3: How do I do it?
- 37:01Speaker 32: How do I get going? But you're gonna have to
- 37:02Speaker 32: figure it out one foot in front.
- 37:04Speaker 21: Of the other.
- 37:05Speaker 32: You're gonna have to to find a thing and keep
- 37:08Speaker 32: working at it and get better at it.
- 37:10Speaker 2: What if it's a mistake, it's a mistake, rest assured.
- 37:15Speaker 10: What do you know?
- 37:16Speaker 2: You're gonna stumble around, right, And what's gonna happen is
- 37:18Speaker 2: this You're gonna move to You're gonna not stay in stasis.
- 37:21Speaker 2: You're not going to wander around in circles. And I
- 37:23Speaker 2: see people like that they said, well, I never knew
- 37:26Speaker 2: what to do, and now I'm forty. It's like, that's
- 37:29Speaker 2: not so good.
- 37:30Speaker 3: That's not so good.
- 37:32Speaker 2: And you might say, well, And there is a literature
- 37:34Speaker 2: too that suggests that people are a lot more unhappy
- 37:38Speaker 2: when they look back in their lives about the things
- 37:41Speaker 2: they didn't do than they are about the mistakes they
- 37:44Speaker 2: made while they were doing things.
- 37:46Speaker 9: So this is a whole issue.
- 37:48Speaker 40: People have a feeling that they can change, but they
- 37:51Speaker 40: have no effort.
- 37:52Speaker 3: They don't want to.
- 37:52Speaker 40: Get into the game because I feel it's you know,
- 37:56Speaker 40: it's just too much time. It doesn't work, and I
- 37:58Speaker 40: try it, it didn't work, going to give up, and
- 38:01Speaker 40: then life just goes on.
- 38:02Speaker 3: It's seamless. You don't see it. It's just the way
- 38:05Speaker 3: you've been living it.
- 38:07Speaker 44: And when I really started to take that in, I
- 38:14Speaker 44: felt this tremendous urge to do something with my life,
- 38:21Speaker 44: to do something that mattered, to matter.
- 38:24Speaker 26: My biggest fear is to not matter.
- 38:28Speaker 43: My biggest fear is to be ordinary. I got this
- 38:35Speaker 43: chance to live.
- 38:37Speaker 3: He didn't.
- 38:39Speaker 43: So it's my duty, it's my obligation, it's my purpose.
- 38:45Speaker 21: To do something with this time that I have.
- 38:48Speaker 2: I hit a wall, my God, and then I had
- 38:50Speaker 2: to die a little bit, and I barely got back up.
- 38:52Speaker 2: It's a phoenix transformation at each turn, and it's painful.
- 38:57Speaker 2: But the thing is is that even though you've who
- 39:00Speaker 2: traveled twenty miles, let's say on that road, and you've
- 39:04Speaker 2: only moved three miles forward, you've moved three miles forward
- 39:08Speaker 2: instead of falling backwards. Because that's the thing too, is
- 39:11Speaker 2: that if you stand still, you fall backwards. You cannot
- 39:15Speaker 2: stand still because the world moves away from you. If
- 39:18Speaker 2: you stand still and there's no stasis, there's only backwards.
- 39:22Speaker 2: And so if you're not moving backwards back forwards, then
- 39:25Speaker 2: you're moving backwards. And that's more of the underlying truth
- 39:28Speaker 2: of the Matthew principle. To those who have everything, more
- 39:32Speaker 2: will be given. For those who have nothing, everything will
- 39:35Speaker 2: be taken. It's a warning do not stay in one place.
- 39:39Speaker 15: And I tell a lot of people who people go,
- 39:41Speaker 15: what's your biggest fear in life? And my biggest fear,
- 39:45Speaker 15: honestly was Let's say this. Let's say I don't care
- 39:49Speaker 15: if you believe in God or not.
- 39:50Speaker 9: I don't care. So this is play game with me.
- 39:52Speaker 9: Let's say let's say you're God, and we have a
- 39:54Speaker 9: big long line of people. And I'm made to heaven
- 39:58Speaker 9: seventy five years old. I'm three hundred pounds.
- 40:00Speaker 21: I made to heaven.
- 40:00Speaker 15: I work for Ecolab, my entire lives, praying for cockroaches.
- 40:04Speaker 9: That's what I did. But I'm dead.
- 40:06Speaker 11: I'm in heaven now.
- 40:07Speaker 9: And you are at You're judging us all now. So
- 40:10Speaker 9: we're in line. We're all sitting there in lying. You
- 40:13Speaker 9: have Adam Brown.
- 40:16Speaker 15: He's a big board up and you're talking to Adam
- 40:18Speaker 15: Brown about his life and you rip it down, and
- 40:21Speaker 15: I'm next to mine. David Gottins, okay, man, pull up
- 40:24Speaker 15: record and all this shit, and I'm like, that's not me, man,
- 40:29Speaker 15: And God looks at me and says, that's who you
- 40:31Speaker 15: were supposed to be.
- 40:33Speaker 9: I still live like I'm not by choice.
- 40:37Speaker 3: Most people don't have a choice.
- 40:40Speaker 5: I work my ass off and now I have choices.
- 40:45Speaker 45: I want to let you all know that how important
- 40:47Speaker 45: you are today is your now is study hard, work hard,
- 40:51Speaker 45: play harder, don't be bound by rules, don't hurt anybody,
- 40:56Speaker 45: never grow up, and never ever lift somebody else's dream. Remember,
- 41:00Speaker 45: however many times you go wrong, no matter how many
- 41:03Speaker 45: times you fail, despair, feel like this world is against you.
- 41:07Speaker 45: In the words of Bob Miley, at the end, everything's
- 41:11Speaker 45: gonna be all right.
- 41:12Speaker 46: You know, when you work and you're like, man, I
- 41:13Speaker 46: feel like I like need a break. The better and
- 41:15Speaker 46: better that I've gotten at working is that I can
- 41:17Speaker 46: like kind of like whip my head back in and
- 41:19Speaker 46: be like confront keep going, And I'm like, all right,
- 41:22Speaker 46: I'm gonna keep going. And then you kind of realize
- 41:23Speaker 46: that there's like a five minute sometimes fifteen minute period
- 41:26Speaker 46: where like your output slows a little bit, but then
- 41:29Speaker 46: you catch the next draft and then you're in again,
- 41:31Speaker 46: and then three hours, four hours, six hours more pass
- 41:33Speaker 46: and I'm like, oh, I actually finished everything that I
- 41:36Speaker 46: said I was going to do. That muscle of doing
- 41:39Speaker 46: that takes practice, and the only opportunity that you get
- 41:42Speaker 46: to flex that muscle to practice it needs to work
- 41:45Speaker 46: yourself to the point of fatigue and then being able
- 41:47Speaker 46: to be like, no, I can power through this. And
- 41:50Speaker 46: the thing is is you can't. You can power through it.
- 41:53Speaker 46: It just takes practice, and practice takes repetition.
- 41:56Speaker 47: No, most of the talent people they lazy, right, most
- 41:59Speaker 47: of them. A lot of talent people, but they all
- 42:02Speaker 47: like I don't want to say one hundred, but ninety
- 42:05Speaker 47: a half percent day las okay, you know, like but
- 42:08Speaker 47: hard working. When you don't have talent, you have to
- 42:10Speaker 47: work so hot. When you work so hot and sacrifice
- 42:13Speaker 47: your time, dedicate like sacrifice, you become more disciplined because
- 42:19Speaker 47: you know, it's like like I know a lot of
- 42:21Speaker 47: people access they don't trend like maybe six months.
- 42:25Speaker 11: Maybe one year.
- 42:26Speaker 47: They come to the gym with same way and they
- 42:29Speaker 47: need like maybe one month to become shaped.
- 42:31Speaker 21: And but a lot of.
- 42:32Speaker 47: People if they finish training one year, maybe they never
- 42:36Speaker 47: come back. You know, there's like everybody have different and
- 42:40Speaker 47: that different like a lot of some people give like
- 42:43Speaker 47: some people have like they're very strong.
- 42:46Speaker 1: You know.
- 42:46Speaker 11: Some people like they're very smart, but no muscles.
- 42:49Speaker 47: You know, everybody is different, but most of them talent people,
- 42:53Speaker 47: in my opinions, they lazy.
- 42:55Speaker 3: We've always thrown open hord than you.
- 42:57Speaker 48: I'm holding a boy, that motherfucker knowing that that's someone
- 43:00Speaker 48: out there.
- 43:01Speaker 16: Is willing to forego personal desires, the comforts, for go.
- 43:05Speaker 5: Sleep, for God.
- 43:07Speaker 3: Everyone takes to be better to be the best in life.
- 43:10Speaker 48: A lot of times we'll always have that person out there.
- 43:14Speaker 48: You may not be a name or a face to them,
- 43:17Speaker 48: but he exists. You make sure in life and think
- 43:20Speaker 48: about that person. You make sure they put the name
- 43:23Speaker 48: and face to it. You make sure they name of
- 43:25Speaker 48: face is yours. Just be a hawky gi it somebody's head,
- 43:30Speaker 48: own space.
- 43:32Speaker 3: In old times, when you want to quit because we're here,
- 43:36Speaker 3: you make sure
- 43:36Speaker 48: You remember one thing all those times and hours of
- 43:39Speaker 48: days you sacrifice to be the best