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Unknown Number · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question from Berck moments, Dear mamas, have
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  Speaker 1: you seen the Netflix documentary documentary Unknown Number. Well, let's
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  Speaker 1: ask maryan mama's Alma Mama, she said, and joining us
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  Speaker 1: now our American mama's Terry Nedville and Kimberly Burlson. Not
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  Speaker 1: only have I not seen it, I haven't seen anything
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  Speaker 1: even about it. So yeah, I guess my show prep
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  Speaker 1: is lacking today. I have no idea what this is.
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  Speaker 2: Well, this particular docu series is kind of like taking
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  Speaker 2: the world by storm right now, and it's about this
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  Speaker 2: young girl who was cyberbullied for two years. Oh wow,
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  Speaker 2: And it was like relentless horrible. The most horrific things
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  Speaker 2: you can imagine were sent to her. Go kill yourself.
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  Speaker 2: You are worthless. You are like you imagine the worst,
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  Speaker 2: most vile, sexual, disgusting things were said to her. So
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  Speaker 2: after two years, police get involved, people get interviewed, accusations
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  Speaker 2: of different people. Finally, and this is a spoiler alert,
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  Speaker 2: it is her mother that did it. They find out
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  Speaker 2: it's her mother who's been doing it for two years
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  Speaker 2: and every So what's hilarious right now is on TikTok.
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  Speaker 2: People are videotaping other people's responses to watching it. You know,
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  Speaker 2: so if you've already seen it, you want to get
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  Speaker 2: I want to get Terry's response when she sees when
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  Speaker 2: the moment that they say it's the mother. But what's
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  Speaker 2: interesting about this is the mother is interviewed and she
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  Speaker 2: says that she was doing it out of love. And
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  Speaker 2: it sounds like some kind of Munchausen.
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  Speaker 1: Right, it's a cyber Munchausen by proceressy.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 2: She felt like she was helping she she says, which
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  Speaker 2: everyone believes is a lie. She says that the first
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  Speaker 2: text were someone else and that she wanted something to happen,
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  Speaker 2: and so in order for something to happen, she had
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  Speaker 2: to keep it up a lie. Oh yeah, liar.
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  Speaker 3: You know I didn't see either. I was like you, Steve,
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  Speaker 3: and I was I was unaware until I started seeing
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  Speaker 3: the reels. So when Kim, I said, spoiler spoiler alert,
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  Speaker 3: it's spoiled.
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  Speaker 2: It's out there.
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  Speaker 3: But there were people doing reels and they were kind
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  Speaker 3: of doing a skit, you know, like a what do
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  Speaker 3: you call it? Spoof? Spoof of it, and where this
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  Speaker 3: one guy the first time I saw it was a
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  Speaker 3: guy with a wig on and she was like he
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  Speaker 3: was saying like pretending to be the mother, and he'd
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  Speaker 3: say to the daughter, I love you, honey, Okay, you'd
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  Speaker 3: be careful, and then he'd get on the and go
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  Speaker 3: you little tramp, you little money, you know, like that's
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  Speaker 3: with the Basically she was psycho. So I started reading
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  Speaker 3: about it. I haven't watched it yet, but I was
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  Speaker 3: reading about it. And what's interesting is the father. For
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  Speaker 3: two years, you know, this girl had a boyfriend and
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  Speaker 3: the mom would say things to her through the cyber
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  Speaker 3: bullying thing, say things like your boyfriend, your mom's the
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  Speaker 3: sexy one, your boyfriend wants to be with your mom,
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  Speaker 3: not you, like really really weird things. So when two
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  Speaker 3: years is over, the cops, the investigators, they finally said
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  Speaker 3: to the husband, hey, we got we found out who
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  Speaker 3: it was. And he was so relieved. Finally we're going
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  Speaker 3: to get them and we're going to take them all
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  Speaker 3: the way. He's going to jail. And when they told
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  Speaker 3: him that it was his wife, he wanted to kill her.
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  Speaker 3: He couldn't believe it. He could not believe it. And
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  Speaker 3: she said that she was raped as a young girl.
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  Speaker 3: I don't believe anything, she said, yea I think all
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  Speaker 3: of it's alive. But she says she was raped and
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  Speaker 3: and she was having some sort of weird she was
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  Speaker 3: triggered in such a way that this was how she
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  Speaker 3: was kind of getting back at that everything she said.
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  Speaker 3: Now she realizes that she's so mentally sick. Not only
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  Speaker 3: a mentally ill and twisted person does this to their child,
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  Speaker 3: their beautiful innocent child who has struggled for two years.
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  Speaker 3: What it did to her mentally, what it did to
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  Speaker 3: her and you know, just psychologically, I can't even imagine it.
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  Speaker 3: But how incredible in today's time with these documentaries that
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  Speaker 3: they're able to go back and get these screenshots and
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  Speaker 3: all these you know, conversations so that we can see
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  Speaker 3: and hopefully it's a lesson.
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  Speaker 2: Well, another little part of this that's kind of interesting
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  Speaker 2: is so during the core of two years, you've got
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  Speaker 2: all these accusations towards different people, like a different girl
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  Speaker 2: on the team, and she got so much hate and
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  Speaker 2: got so much so there were people that became victims
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  Speaker 2: in this and it changed their lives just because of
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  Speaker 2: the hate pounded on them. Because people would just assume, oh,
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  Speaker 2: it has to be it's.
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  Speaker 1: A witch burner. Absolutely, I mean, that's that's one of
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  Speaker 1: the things that that's I think the digital world has
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  Speaker 1: quite clearly made obvious, is that we are not that
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  Speaker 1: far removed from the Salem witch trials exactly that in
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  Speaker 1: public shaming we will go just as far as they
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  Speaker 1: would have back in the you know, the sixteen hundreds.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, we saw that in the cancel cultures. Yes, everybody
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  Speaker 3: jumped on everybody exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And so if you've got a pariah on social media, okay,
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  Speaker 1: well great, let's dox them, let's destroy them, let's go
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  Speaker 1: after them, let's burn them, burner, she's a witch, turned
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  Speaker 1: me into a newt that. I mean, all that type
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  Speaker 1: of that still is going on. And so yes, if
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  Speaker 1: somebody's accused of being the cyber bully when it wasn't them,
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  Speaker 1: then yes, absolutely you've got the mob with pitchforks.
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  Speaker 3: And but then what happens to them, like, now you
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  Speaker 3: know they went through all of that, They probably didn't.
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  Speaker 3: This is so minute. But let's say a girl was
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  Speaker 3: just stoned to death for that, she goes to college,
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  Speaker 3: she doesn't get in a sorority, shouldn't you know, Let's
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  Speaker 3: say that she had to suffer all the consequences and
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  Speaker 3: be on a case. So then what happens now now
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  Speaker 3: this is out, everyone knows the truth. Do people come
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  Speaker 3: back and apologize?
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  Speaker 2: That's all they're saying. They're coming back saying I'm sorry,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but I thought, but what is I mean?
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  Speaker 2: What does that do? It's nothing. You've already destroyed somebody's life.
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  Speaker 3: It's like those football players that the girls accused them
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  Speaker 3: of rape. They lose their whole four years and go
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  Speaker 3: to jail, and then they come back and sorry, Like,
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  Speaker 3: there has to be there has to be some sort
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  Speaker 3: of accountability for that. You know, we saw this during
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  Speaker 3: COVID with a cancel culture with Rosenbar, which seemed to
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  Speaker 3: start it all. Something has to be done. When you
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  Speaker 3: were that person
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  Speaker 1: Kimberly Burls and thank you so much,