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Coworker Alexia spills the tea Is “Hot Tan Dan” into Abby · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is.
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  Speaker 2: Nine. Well, welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: This is a special one because there has been some
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  Speaker 2: teas spilled in the studio from Alexia that we need
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  Speaker 2: to talk about, so we're gonna also do that. But
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  Speaker 2: I do want to reveal because yesterday we kind of
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  Speaker 2: teased that there were things that we pitched to our boss,
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  Speaker 2: things that are in the works and that we could
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  Speaker 2: kind of hint.
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  Speaker 3: But also things that got just purely rejected.
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  Speaker 4: Do you want to expand upon that, Abbey, We had
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  Speaker 4: several rejected ideas, one of which I knew was gonna
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  Speaker 4: get rejected, and then somehow it went from a full
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  Speaker 4: on rejection to an actual plan.
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  Speaker 3: Which is weird, but I'm also here for it.
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  Speaker 1: Can we talk about the plan?
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  Speaker 2: I think I, like I said, I don't want anybody
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  Speaker 2: stealing it, not that I think our amazing community here would,
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  Speaker 2: but I do think there are other people in this
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  Speaker 2: area that, now that this podcast has gained some popularity,
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  Speaker 2: might try to find any way they can to take
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  Speaker 2: our ideas. Like there are people in this market that
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  Speaker 2: are shady bees, and I don't want to give them
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  Speaker 2: any more credit.
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  Speaker 3: Than they deserve.
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  Speaker 5: So what happens if we talk about the rejected plan
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  Speaker 5: and it inspires them.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I would still be able to then take this
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  Speaker 2: clip and then be like, you all literally took our idea.
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  Speaker 1: So we should talk about it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, what the rejected one?
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  Speaker 1: I feel like maybe we shouldn't know any think about it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's talk about the cruise one.
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  Speaker 5: We can talk about the Okay, we talk about the
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  Speaker 5: cruise one, because the cruise one is straight up not
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  Speaker 5: going on.
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  Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing about the cruise one. Why I
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  Speaker 2: want to talk about it because I feel like we're
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  Speaker 2: planting a seed. Because if we could get by in here,
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  Speaker 2: this is where the podcast is cool. Ye because if
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  Speaker 2: you're like, wait a second, Abby Scott, I love that idea,
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  Speaker 2: I would be in Well, then we literally could take
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  Speaker 2: this and be like, uh, we just had one hundred
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  Speaker 2: people say we'd be down.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So I've been plaining all of my girls Gone Getaway's
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  Speaker 5: travels for the later half of twenty twenty six.
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  Speaker 1: That was my plan.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, let me just focus on doing my
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  Speaker 5: job first and then we can go travel. So I've
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  Speaker 5: already had Italy in the works for like the last
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  Speaker 5: half year. But then I was like, I know, I
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  Speaker 5: want to do other trips. So I'm working on a
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  Speaker 5: trip for you guys to come visit me down in Florida.
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  Speaker 5: And then I'm also doing a mother daughter trip or
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  Speaker 5: like a duo's trip, so you can bring your grandma,
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  Speaker 5: your best friend, or come alone.
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  Speaker 1: Like I really, no one's policing you. You can come
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  Speaker 1: if you want.
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  Speaker 5: But the point of it is it's gonna be a
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  Speaker 5: little bit more of a chill trip between that weird
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  Speaker 5: time between Christmas and New Year's. I think that's like
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  Speaker 5: a fun idea. It's like, no one really knows what
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  Speaker 5: to do on the twenty sixth of the twenty seventh,
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  Speaker 5: But come to Quebec with me and we'll drink wine
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  Speaker 5: and go bob setting.
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  Speaker 3: That sounds amazing. You're going to freeze your ass off, though.
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  Speaker 5: You know.
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  Speaker 3: Alexia's shaking her hand like, oh my god.
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  Speaker 6: For Christmas one year and it was the coolest place
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  Speaker 6: I've ever been to.
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  Speaker 1: I heard it so beautiful.
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  Speaker 6: It was.
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  Speaker 5: It's like a little homework town.
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  Speaker 1: But I wasn't that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you should want that with the holidays, like I
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  Speaker 2: want to snow and I want.
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  Speaker 5: To ski and plo wise, because if you're prepared, then
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  Speaker 5: you can handle it, whereas if you just show up
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  Speaker 5: and you're.
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  Speaker 3: Like, oh oh yeah, I mean would have plenty of time.
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  Speaker 5: But whereas I over prepared for the UK. I thought
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  Speaker 5: it was going to be blizzarding every day, and then
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  Speaker 5: I showed up and I wore T shirts and jeans.
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  Speaker 3: What part of UK did you think it was gonna
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  Speaker 3: be blizzard Edinburgh?
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  Speaker 1: It's one of the Edinburgh.
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  Speaker 5: It's one of the most northern parts. If you look
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  Speaker 5: at how it lines up on a map, it's near
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  Speaker 5: Canada in terms of the latitude and the longitude.
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  Speaker 1: And so anyway, I thought it was.
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  Speaker 3: Old So you're gonna go to Quebec and then you
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  Speaker 3: wanted to bring a cruise.
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  Speaker 5: To us, so yes, And so then I was thinking, well,
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  Speaker 5: MLK weekend was the perfect time to go somewhere warm
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  Speaker 5: and tropical because it's always freezing about mid January through
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  Speaker 5: end of February, and Bird's big adventures typically around President's Day.
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  Speaker 5: So I was like, what can we do for MLK
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  Speaker 5: weekend next year? And a lot of people for a
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  Speaker 5: while have been begging me to do a cruise, and
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  Speaker 5: Virgin Cruise Line has a cruise that goes down in
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  Speaker 5: Miami on MLK weekend, and so I thought, oh my god,
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  Speaker 5: that would be so fun. Maybe we should make it
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  Speaker 5: a joint trip with guys and girls and Scottie.
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  Speaker 3: I'd be super fun.
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  Speaker 1: It would be so fun.
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  Speaker 5: And so I thought, well, how can we work it
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  Speaker 5: into magic ninety four nine? And also how can we
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  Speaker 5: get more men involved? Because I know I can find women,
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  Speaker 5: I just don't know that I'll be able to find men.
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  Speaker 5: So I thought, what if we market it on our
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  Speaker 5: most male leaning station in the company and we down
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  Speaker 5: the hall. There's a station called one or two five
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  Speaker 5: the Bone, and it's very much like boys talking about boy.
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  Speaker 1: Thing men men talking.
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  Speaker 5: And so I thought, what if we gave away four
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  Speaker 5: spots on the trip. But the key is because it's
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  Speaker 5: the Virgin Voyage is cruise line. What if we try
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  Speaker 5: and find the four biggest virgins in Tampa Bay.
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  Speaker 2: You gotta win your way in, but you can only
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  Speaker 2: win your way in if you're a virgin.
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  Speaker 5: You have to be the biggest virgin in Tampa Bay massive,
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  Speaker 5: and you can come on this trip with a bunch
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  Speaker 5: of cute girls and who knows, maybe you'll fall in love.
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  Speaker 2: So it's gonna be kind of like one of those
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  Speaker 2: reality TV shows. We just put all these people together
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  Speaker 2: in a couple of rooms, and whoever loses their virginity first,
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  Speaker 2: you win. Ye.
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  Speaker 3: They didn't really buy that one.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, no, four virgins and they're like, this is this
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  Speaker 5: is not how marketing works.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, but I do think, as an old boss
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  Speaker 2: used to say, there's a there there, there's a there there,
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  Speaker 2: And so let's just say, hypothetically, if you're like, man,
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  Speaker 2: I would love to go on a virgin trip, that
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  Speaker 2: would be so fun. I'm not saying virgine, just you know,
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  Speaker 2: a cruise in general, and you're like, I would so
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  Speaker 2: be down January. I could make that work, like start
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  Speaker 2: letting us know, so we could literally start putting it
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  Speaker 2: together and be like, hey, I think we got some
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  Speaker 2: buy in.
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  Speaker 5: But I'm trying to figure out because if I'm gonna
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  Speaker 5: fully commit to the guy girl trip, I don't it
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  Speaker 5: needs to be an even ratio because if it's.
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  Speaker 2: Just three weirdos who were with the Groos, well, I
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  Speaker 2: think there's a lot of cool guys in different pockets
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  Speaker 2: that I could meet and actually bring into this fold.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're too nice though, I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, no, you're so nice to your friends with everybody,
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  Speaker 5: and we have to be a little choosy scotty When
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  Speaker 5: I could be.
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  Speaker 2: Choosy when it comes to who's coming on a trip.
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  Speaker 2: That's different. I could go be nice to everybody out
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  Speaker 2: in the streets, but if I'm bringing on people that
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  Speaker 2: I literally are like a risk or a risk to
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  Speaker 2: like what we've built and what we are doing. Absolutely,
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  Speaker 2: there's like an application process.
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  Speaker 1: No creeps, background checks.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't do well with creeps in general, Like,
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  Speaker 2: and we haven't gone out enough to see that, but
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  Speaker 2: like I am always on high alert when it comes
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  Speaker 2: to dudes because dudes are just, oh my god, so weird,
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  Speaker 2: so weird, and then see it all the time. That's
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  Speaker 2: usually why I don't like going out late at night,
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  Speaker 2: because I'm like, all right, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Like all the creepers come out.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, where the hell have you guys been? It's dark,
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  Speaker 2: so now you can show yourself, Like no, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 2: So if you're going to come out on a cruise,
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  Speaker 2: you would have to be a normal human being that
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  Speaker 2: nobody's going to feel threatened by, reared out by creeped
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  Speaker 2: out by So yes, I could be a little more
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  Speaker 2: extreme there.
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  Speaker 5: So anyway, ladies don't freak out, I'll run a background
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  Speaker 5: check on them. But also there's got to be an
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  Speaker 5: even I just don't know if logistically.
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  Speaker 3: How many girls do you think you'd want to bring?
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  Speaker 5: Typically average around like ten eleven, twelve girls. I mean,
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  Speaker 5: some trips have gotten really big. I don't think they'll
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  Speaker 5: ever get that big again. So yeah, usually around like
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  Speaker 5: twelve girls.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I've never done anything like this for
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  Speaker 2: like the dudes, but I do think with now the
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  Speaker 2: different pockets of life I'm walking into, there's a lot
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  Speaker 2: more dude bro hanging that I'm meeting, a lot more guys.
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  Speaker 3: It's just now guys that are not in relationships.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, so anyway, it might be considering a cruise cuse
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  Speaker 5: pretty guiaries in Oka weekend. I just has to figure
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  Speaker 5: out what travel agent can help me put it together.
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  Speaker 2: Now, the one that's actually in the works, without saying
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  Speaker 2: all the details, it's pretty much just we have an
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  Speaker 2: idea of how we're going to get in the Guinness
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  Speaker 2: Book of World Records, and there's something that it can't
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  Speaker 2: just be abby or eye that it's doing this, you
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  Speaker 2: would have to be involved as well.
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  Speaker 3: And it's going to be super fun.
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  Speaker 2: It's going to be super weird, and it's going to
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  Speaker 2: be super local here in Tampa Bay, supernical, super local.
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  Speaker 3: And without revealing what it is, we.
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  Speaker 1: Can't talk of it because you're so right, people are
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  Speaker 1: going to ruin it.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely, people are going to steal the idea. Yeah, there
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  Speaker 2: mforts all over that are listening to No, it is
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  Speaker 2: ours and we're gonna make it the biggest fucking deal
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  Speaker 2: in Tampa Bay. This is where my competitive side comes out,
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  Speaker 2: and I want it to be successful. So if you
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  Speaker 2: are in the Tampa Bay area or you want to
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  Speaker 2: come down what it would be may then you know
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  Speaker 2: we'll let you be a part of this event. It's free,
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  Speaker 2: I think, I don't think you'd have to pay anything.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's free.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you just come along and have a great ass
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  Speaker 2: time and make history and make a couple celebrities.
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  Speaker 5: Literally, that's that's our tease. If you want to make history.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like w Ryan right now. I looked at
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  Speaker 1: the Disney Channel president.
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  Speaker 5: I said, I want to make history and that's what
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  Speaker 5: this is. No, but it literally is going to be history,
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  Speaker 5: if you want to if you want to potentially make national.
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  Speaker 3: News, world news.
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  Speaker 1: Who knows world news, worldwide news.
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  Speaker 3: That's the goal.
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  Speaker 2: Like the vision, this is going to be a global
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  Speaker 2: moment everybody will know about.
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  Speaker 3: It's if done right.
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  Speaker 2: If done right, I do worry that it won't be
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  Speaker 2: done right, but that's just because there's always that little
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  Speaker 2: worry in my.
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  Speaker 3: Head that says it can be enough.
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  Speaker 1: I think it'll go viral in Tampa at least, but.
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  Speaker 3: If enough people join in.
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  Speaker 2: I had this whole vision in my head, and once
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  Speaker 2: we announce it and once we start building it of
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  Speaker 2: like different areas we could hit and bring in that
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  Speaker 2: have massive amounts of people, that'd be like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we got our whole group involved.
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  Speaker 2: And it's literally like pockets of like sixty sixty sixty,
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  Speaker 2: and next thing you know, we have, you know, a
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  Speaker 2: couple hundred people wanting to be a part of this.
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  Speaker 2: That's global. Especially if you picture all of this happening
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  Speaker 2: like a bar and soho and you like see a
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  Speaker 2: DJ up there and you look across and you see
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  Speaker 2: what we're gonna eventually reveal.
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  Speaker 3: There's no way that doesn't go viral.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't like to get my hopes up.
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  Speaker 2: I do. That's I get my hopes up, because man,
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  Speaker 2: isn't that the whole point of life is to think
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  Speaker 2: about all the good that you could do, no actually
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  Speaker 2: survive in advance something I do want to bring back too,
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  Speaker 2: because we are literally crashed up in the studio, so
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  Speaker 2: a little behind the scenes.
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  Speaker 3: I like showing you behind the curtain. We're in the
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  Speaker 3: studio right now. Alexi is here with us.
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  Speaker 2: She was doing her show and we're like, Alexi, we
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  Speaker 2: have a podcast we want to do and we need
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  Speaker 2: you a part of it because you're the one with
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  Speaker 2: the tea.
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  Speaker 3: And she's like, okay, let me do a little bit
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  Speaker 3: of my.
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  Speaker 6: Show and was like, I love the song that's playing.
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  Speaker 6: That's why I was like what it was like, Oh,
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  Speaker 6: it's aday commercial.
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  Speaker 3: She loves looked by the way big girl.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, wait, what was the song before?
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  Speaker 6: Though?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know this song brings me so much, pea,
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  Speaker 2: it was probably oh Ordinary Ordinary by Alex Warren, which
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  Speaker 2: is a great song.
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  Speaker 3: Just like hears not.
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  Speaker 6: Picking the songs, I love you.
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  Speaker 2: You know, let's just keep the magic there. Alexei picks
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  Speaker 2: all the songs. She's actually in charge she's the music me. Now,
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  Speaker 2: why we wanted to talk about this right now is
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  Speaker 2: because like literally yesterday Alexia busted up in the studio
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  Speaker 2: and she's like, I have tea, And my thought is
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  Speaker 2: like wait, wait, because I want to talk about it here.
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  Speaker 2: And then one of Abby's loves is she loves a
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  Speaker 2: hot cup of tea.
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  Speaker 1: You can't even hold back.
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  Speaker 5: I love gossip, I love a story, I love a storyline.
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  Speaker 5: I love I love to be in the know.
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  Speaker 2: So if you've been caught up with the podcast, then
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  Speaker 2: you knew, you know, maybe was it a week ago.
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  Speaker 5: Last weekend, not the weekend that just passed, but the
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  Speaker 5: weekend before that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, so just a couple of days. We walked into
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  Speaker 2: the studio with what sounded like Abby's love.
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  Speaker 3: A moment.
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  Speaker 2: But well here's the thing, you know. I told Abby.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I think you're gonna find the love
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  Speaker 2: of your.
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  Speaker 3: Life in Tampa Bay.
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  Speaker 2: Because if you followed Abbey's story for a long time,
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  Speaker 2: she says this pretty openly, how do you.
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  Speaker 1: Describe yourself Abby chronically single?
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  Speaker 3: That is a very strong way of phrasing it.
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  Speaker 1: But would you have gone softer?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 2: No, I just that's why I wanted to ask you
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  Speaker 2: because you always it's chronically single.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do go on dates.
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  Speaker 3: You tried dating, Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying. I'm literally trying.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just everybody's like kind of like it's just at.
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  Speaker 1: Well, no, I'm not everybody.
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  Speaker 5: It makes it sound like every guy you've ever been
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  Speaker 5: out with is about and that's not accurate.
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  Speaker 1: But I think, yeah, when something's right, it'll be right.
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  Speaker 3: But until then and so far, it has not been.
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  Speaker 2: But we went out to this pool party and that's
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  Speaker 2: where we started talking about hot Tan Dan and it
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  Speaker 2: was like a moment of I could just look over
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  Speaker 2: and Abby He's like looking at this man like oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, and I'm like, oh wow, okay, that's that's
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  Speaker 2: a look of desire. Start talking to hot Tan Dan.
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  Speaker 2: And after that pool party, it just left us wondering
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  Speaker 2: if we'd ever run into him again. There was no
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  Speaker 2: number exchange, there's no Instagram that was exchanged, but there
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  Speaker 2: was a moment between you two before you left where
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  Speaker 2: what he asked.
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  Speaker 5: You out kind of We had had a couple of
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  Speaker 5: weird interactions to where I could tell we were both
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  Speaker 5: sort of looking at each other and I could tell
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  Speaker 5: that there was maybe something there.
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  Speaker 1: I could.
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  Speaker 5: I could sense that there was a little bit of
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  Speaker 5: interest on his part, but I didn't really know to
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  Speaker 5: what extent because we're both kind of socially awkward. We'rely
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  Speaker 5: and so finally it's the last half hour of this
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  Speaker 5: pool party and he says in a tone that is
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  Speaker 5: very specific, because it wasn't like, so what are you
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  Speaker 5: doing after this in terms of it feeling very endearing,
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  Speaker 5: like you're asking me a question that's sort of leading.
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  Speaker 5: He asked me, so what are you doing after this?
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  Speaker 5: It sounded very much like just what are you doing it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you're just asking, not because you want to do
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  Speaker 2: anything with me, just curiosity what's.
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  Speaker 3: You're up to?
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  Speaker 5: And I was like, oh, I'm going to work after
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  Speaker 5: the tomorrow and there's a happy hour. So anyway, long
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  Speaker 5: story short, He's like, well, I was gonna go watch
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  Speaker 5: the sunset. And I go, oh, that's fucking weird.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to do.
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  Speaker 3: Was like, man, this man's so romantic.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: That was his way of awkwardly trying to see if
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: you'd be interested and abby. You know, I guess in
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: the way we phrased it was you fumbled, and.
• 13:48
  Speaker 5: I mean I kind of fumbled it, but it also
• 13:50
  Speaker 5: just felt it didn't feel nothing like a natural progression.
• 13:54
  Speaker 5: A natural progression would have been us flirting and there
• 13:56
  Speaker 5: being a little something there, and I think we were
• 13:58
  Speaker 5: both interested, but it was just kind of an awkward
• 14:00
  Speaker 5: environment because how loud the music was and it's a club.
• 14:04
  Speaker 5: And so then when he goes and does a hard
• 14:06
  Speaker 5: pivot and says, I'm gonna go watch the sunset like
• 14:14
  Speaker 5: my tummy herds, I don't, I don't. I don't talk
• 14:16
  Speaker 5: to boys boys. So I was like, I'm gonna go
• 14:19
  Speaker 5: to the happy hour after.
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: This, and he goes, well, I'm gonna go watch the sunset,
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: and I was like, you're really bent on going.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: On to the nothing like a sunset off like sand Pepe,
• 14:26
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you what romance sitting in the sand a
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: little probably just gonna get like a makeout session.
• 14:31
  Speaker 5: It just yeah, it was just too much. I was like,
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: we can we have a full conversation first. I'm like,
• 14:35
  Speaker 5: what's your what's your last name?
• 14:37
  Speaker 6: Rooftop? You were in an environment conducive to sunset. It
• 14:39
  Speaker 6: wasn't like you were in a garage or something like you.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: Could have easily a dungeon.
• 14:43
  Speaker 6: He could have pulled you away to a corner and
• 14:45
  Speaker 6: let's watch the sunset from here.
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: So there was opportunity.
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: There was, yeah, mutual fumble. We were both awkward.
• 14:53
  Speaker 5: I was watching Withering Heights and I was literally like,
• 14:56
  Speaker 5: that's me and him.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: We're both just two stiff people.
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: Yo.
• 15:00
  Speaker 5: He's literally Jacob A LORDI I'm Margaret Robbie, and we're
• 15:03
  Speaker 5: both just like awkward, and no one wants to fess
• 15:06
  Speaker 5: up first. So I asked him at some point, I said,
• 15:09
  Speaker 5: are you are you not? Are you really not going
• 15:11
  Speaker 5: to go the happy arc? So that it was so dumb.
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, we're all drinking, you gonna go drive
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: down to the sperndset. Yes.
• 15:16
  Speaker 5: I was like, you're not going to go to the
• 15:17
  Speaker 5: happy hour? And then he goes, well, are you asking.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: Me to go to the happy hour?
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: Actually, I'm not even gonna get mad at him because
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: I would do the same thing.
• 15:24
  Speaker 3: I need to be invited.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like, if you're gonna tell me, like literally say,
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: I would love for you to be there, but I wanted, but.
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: That is the invitation. Are you really not going to
• 15:32
  Speaker 5: go to the happy hour? That he easily could have
• 15:34
  Speaker 5: been like, oh, yeah, I'll stay for a drink. Do
• 15:35
  Speaker 5: you want to go get a drink? Easy transition, not
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: like this weird. Hey, let's go since it's just too
• 15:40
  Speaker 5: it just felt too much.
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving. I want to take you away from all these.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: People it's giving. I would like a romantic moment with you, Abby.
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: I know we're not there yet. I'm hot dandy.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: With me to the beach.
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: So anyway, after I guess we mutually fumbled, I did
• 15:58
  Speaker 5: notice him talking with a girl that I was under
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: the impression didn't like men. Yeah, because she was hitting
• 16:05
  Speaker 5: on women the previous night when we were going out
• 16:08
  Speaker 5: with her.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's why.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: I mean, this girl was like I thought her and
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: I had something, and then she was like, all right,
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: could you help me get with that girl behind me?
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: I was like, all right, what I thought that?
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I think you should just go say hello.
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: And then I saw them like getting it later in
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: the day. I was like, good for them.
• 16:24
  Speaker 5: Yeah, So the only interactions we've had with this girl
• 16:26
  Speaker 5: have been I'm interested in women? Could she be by totally?
• 16:29
  Speaker 5: We're hearing so much about women, We're assuming she's just.
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, just focused on the ladies. Yeah, which dope.
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: But then let's fast forward to now, because what we
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: were trying to do.
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: Is set up times were like hot damn.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Dan could come to this event or run in the
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: abbey like spontaneously. And then yesterday Elektia bought some in
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: the studio and she says, I got tea. So Electia
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: come over to the mike, tell us okay, without seeing
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: too many details, but you know what, yeah about it?
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: What was the tea? Give us the tea? Everyone sitting
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: around with a cup.
• 16:58
  Speaker 6: So my husband is talking to steely Dan hot Tanda.
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: My husband and him actually were the ones to exchange
• 17:06
  Speaker 6: contact and foe and to keep the conversation going, unlike Abby.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: So he never asked for my number. Can I be blamed?
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: Is it too much for a woman to be to
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: want to be wound?
• 17:16
  Speaker 6: You should have been like, I'm gonna body paint your
• 17:18
  Speaker 6: digits on my back tramp stamp style. I'm just I'm
• 17:22
  Speaker 6: read a body painter there, but I'm yes. So long
• 17:24
  Speaker 6: story short, my husband comes into the room Monday or whatever,
• 17:27
  Speaker 6: before I'm heading to work, and he goes, oh, yeah,
• 17:29
  Speaker 6: I've been a dming with Dan, and he mentioned that
• 17:34
  Speaker 6: that allegedly lesbian character, wonderful character that we had met,
• 17:40
  Speaker 6: was texting and taking him out to dinner and kind
• 17:43
  Speaker 6: of sugar mama ying him, and that was happening. So
• 17:48
  Speaker 6: I go, what, Michael, Like, are you kidding me? Do
• 17:51
  Speaker 6: you not realize what's happening? This has been like a
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: storyline on the Unfiltered podcast, like can I tell Abby
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: what's going on? He's like, I don't know, Like he's
• 17:59
  Speaker 6: the guy's just going along for the ride. So my
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: question is, one, do we tell Dan that there's interest?
• 18:05
  Speaker 6: Do I have my husband kind of slide in somehow?
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: What do we do?
• 18:09
  Speaker 5: I just want to know what his interest level is
• 18:12
  Speaker 5: because up until this point, we've thought hot alleged lesbian
• 18:16
  Speaker 5: girl was just a hot alleged lesbian. Now she's the
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: hot bisexual girl. I can't compete with that. She's hot, rich,
• 18:23
  Speaker 5: and bisexual.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: And also, again I think it goes back and people
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: have said this on the podcast too, like you don't
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: need to be chasing this man.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: That's how I feel where I ask that.
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: If he wanted to follow you, he would, If you
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: wanted to call, he would, if you wanted to show up,
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: he would, And until somebody dos that, Bye, go out
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: with your sugar mama. That's fine if that's the life
• 18:40
  Speaker 2: you want to live, enjoy your caviat on a yacht.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: That sounds great honestly, But I ain't no Abby.
• 18:45
  Speaker 6: What we do is which I'm actually dming her the phone.
• 18:49
  Speaker 6: I want to be I want her side of things.
• 18:51
  Speaker 6: So I think Abby and I, you know, they say
• 18:54
  Speaker 6: no one like befriend your enemy, you know, keep your
• 18:56
  Speaker 6: enemies closer.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Than your friends. Just kidding.
• 18:59
  Speaker 6: She's awesome. I really think she's a fun galley that
• 19:02
  Speaker 6: she has a pan sexuality and good on her. She's young, hot, like,
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: why not live your life? But I think you and I.
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: Go for drinking sugar mama.
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: For me, we get sugar mamu. And who knows it
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: would become a lesbian throuble?
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: What does she do?
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: Okay, wait a.
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: Second, I don't want to give into that.
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I want to know where this money is
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: coming from.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: Family. Oh okay.
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: I'm offended though, because if you're going to take hot
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: tan Dan out on the boat, I kind of want
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: to be taken out on the boat where there's an opportunity.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: Change contact info. They did well, clearly if they're in communication.
• 19:32
  Speaker 6: Who was the one in that scenario. I feel like
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: it was her because she put her number on my phone,
• 19:36
  Speaker 6: like immediately, Oh.
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: That's one hundred percent what happened. Yeah, because he definitely
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: didn't ask me for my number, but there was.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: Also he didn't ask for hers. She gave it to
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: him probably, I know.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, what does this guy have no social cues?
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I don't think that's the.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Kind of guy that you would want. You would want
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: somebody that's like, yo, let me get to that number.
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean.
• 19:54
  Speaker 5: I wonder if he's just weeding himself out in the
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: sense that I feel like a guy I would be
• 19:58
  Speaker 5: interested in wouldn't be like this, which is and set.
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: He'd just be like, can I get your number?
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: I think you would be fun to hang out with,
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: and I would go, oh, yeah, we should go somewhere,
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: like oh.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, twirls hair.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: Okay, I guess I'm just a is so tall.
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: When you're that tall, you have like tall privilege in
• 20:15
  Speaker 6: a way where sometimes, having had dated a very tall
• 20:18
  Speaker 6: man back in my day, he was like it was
• 20:20
  Speaker 6: in the bubble. If you've ever seen thirty Rock, where
• 20:22
  Speaker 6: John Hamm is in the beautiful bubble. No, it's a
• 20:25
  Speaker 6: great episode. I'll send it to you. But basically, he's
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: like so gorgeous. He doesn't realize that other people get
• 20:29
  Speaker 6: treated differently when you're not like gorgeous and tall. So
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: maybe he lives in this environment of six foot three
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: above the clouds, doesn't know what's happening.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: And maybe, yeah, I don't know.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: Based off of the interactions, I think he just might
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: be slightly awkward in that scene, which I get because
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: I've been there too. I've just had to work through
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: it a little bit. I think that would have just
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: been it. He just doesn't know how to make the clothes.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: He's getting good about the open, he's just really bad
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: about it.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: No, he didn't really well, yeah he did do a
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: good open.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because he walked right up. He's like, how do
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: you do? He's a kill cowboy.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: But so maybe he got nervous. You know, literally all
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: cowboys lie. That's what my sweatshirt says right now.
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: So I just don't know how he could have so
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: much uspa in the beginning and approach us and get
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: so weird towards the end.
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: Mmm, maybe just intimidate them. I'm telling you what.
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: I don't live in the hot girl bubble like I
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: live in like the SI.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: You were out there dancing by the pool, little bathing
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: suit on.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: It's intimidating being.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: A guy when there's like literally you walk into a
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: room and it's like, oh my god, pinch me.
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: Am I dying? Is this heaven? All these pretty ladies everywhere?
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: You know, you lose, you lose language, you forget how
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: to talk. It's very hard.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: So I don't know if we I personally I say
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: we dropped the case of hot Tan Dan.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: I think so because I think based off of what
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: you have said, what our friends in the podcast have said,
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: this guy has not wooed you, and you want somebody
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: to woo you very It's not that hard.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: It really would have just been like, hey, here's my number.
• 22:00
  Speaker 5: I do want to know what's going on, though, well
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: not not a I don't need to closure call, but
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: I am wondering why.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: He didn't go out with her?
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: Is it like, is it a friend with benefit situation?
• 22:17
  Speaker 5: Is he actually romantically interested? Is he even a place
• 22:20
  Speaker 5: to be romantically interested in somebody else?
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: What do you think you're searching? For in that information.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: I'm just like curious.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I'm just like fascinated.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: I mean, because it also sounds like sometimes you just
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: do things for the story. And I mean if she
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: has all this money and she has this yacht and
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: sounds like good food, I mean I'm polically.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: Guess too, like just for a little bit, like what
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: a fun story. He's young, he's tall.
• 22:39
  Speaker 5: Her instagram or his Instagram is yeah, this is just
• 22:42
  Speaker 5: his business instagram.
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, we need to get You need to go
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: out with her and have some drinks and just get
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: the tea, just for the fun, just for the fund
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: of the podcast.
• 22:53
  Speaker 6: I want to be Sugar Mama too. And she there's
• 22:55
  Speaker 6: something she told me. She wasn invite me to wait.
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: Hold the phone.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Tell her.
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: I want to be sugar Mama too. We all want
• 23:00
  Speaker 3: to be wants to be Sugarbama too.
• 23:02
  Speaker 6: Is it the thing this weekend that Dan's going to No,
• 23:05
  Speaker 6: I mean, I'm going to that with my in laws
• 23:07
  Speaker 6: are in talent, so I can't do it like a
• 23:08
  Speaker 6: fun way. I'm just kidding, like I'm doing it like
• 23:11
  Speaker 6: a very PG way, whereas with this person it would
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: be like a VIP whatever way, but no, we talked
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: about the yacht club.
• 23:20
  Speaker 5: Yacht club like going on a yacht or going to
• 23:22
  Speaker 5: the club.
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: Both what she.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Now have to leave it at that place.
• 23:30
  Speaker 6: She has been taking Dan to the yacht club.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: Come on, have you got to compete with that? You
• 23:34
  Speaker 3: live what.
• 23:35
  Speaker 5: I'm poor, I'm not as hot as her, and I'm
• 23:38
  Speaker 5: desperately straight.
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: That's true.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I think it's a Well, if you have another run
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: in with him, I'd be very curious. It doesn't sound
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: like he's necessarily the one, but he is hot.
• 23:51
  Speaker 6: Shut the case down like formally, but I in my
• 23:54
  Speaker 6: outer workings will do my best to make sure there's
• 23:56
  Speaker 6: some kind of synergy and then we'll recircle that.
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: I do just want to know out, like what was
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: going through? Is that was he just nervous?
• 24:02
  Speaker 5: Was he too drunk and he was like this seems
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: like the romantics?
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: Is he just being friendly?
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know. If you guys can't make an eye contact,
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: I think that's a little different. But yeah, I think
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: in this case he's on to other sugar mamas.
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: It's okay, that's one day. I will get my revenge
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: when I am rich.
• 24:19
  Speaker 5: That's right. Watch out world, go to my like to
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: know it if you want to support my relationship with
• 24:25
  Speaker 5: tan Dan.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, the proceeds any other t before I
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: put my cup down that we need to address.
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: I have some I wanted to tell you guys, But okay,
• 24:37
  Speaker 6: I'll say and I'll be like whatever. Anyways, I found
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: out that there's an influencer who approached one of our
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: salespeople to try to be on your talent with us.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: And wait with us, like the.
• 24:50
  Speaker 3: Magic sphere, figure out who it is.
• 24:52
  Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't wait. Applied to the Instagram.
• 24:55
  Speaker 5: We we'll blind react.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Well.
• 24:56
  Speaker 6: I just found it interesting because I'm like, they might
• 24:58
  Speaker 6: listen to this, I might love them.
• 24:59
  Speaker 3: I probably fallow them too. Actually, I want to see
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: if I follow them.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: One of our sales.
• 25:02
  Speaker 6: People I came up to me and said, oh, this
• 25:05
  Speaker 6: person told me that they know you, and they in
• 25:07
  Speaker 6: the same breath, were like, oh, can you send my
• 25:09
  Speaker 6: information to the programming?
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes you're like okay.
• 25:14
  Speaker 6: People just like that have never done radio think they
• 25:17
  Speaker 6: can just roll up and be like yeah, like I'm
• 25:19
  Speaker 6: an influencer, I can do radio, blah blah blah.
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: So I just found it interesting. Oh my god wait
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: wait wait wait wait wait.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in radio and I can do influencing.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I have talked to this person.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Let me see, Yeah, I have to see.
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: I think they more so interested in trying to like
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: partner with us and stuff, or they're trying to be
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: on the air.
• 25:37
  Speaker 6: I've never on any ear waves essentially, so, but it's
• 25:41
  Speaker 6: just funny when you're like.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: You know what, I like that make radio cool again?
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Damn it. We are the new scene. We are watch
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: out World.
• 25:47
  Speaker 2: Even though we're not on the radio right now, we're
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: doing a podcast same thing similar, just not live and
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: could be edited. But you know what, awesome, right, I mean,
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: i'd be so curious that is.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: Actually, you know, it's just some tea you know that
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: I heard yesterday.
• 26:00
  Speaker 6: So I wanted to tell.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: You guys trying to snipe one of our jobs too.
• 26:05
  Speaker 6: That's like, oh okay, but you know what, I can't
• 26:09
  Speaker 6: put her hustle down. No power to someone who's like,
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: I'm gonna take that step and put myself out there,
• 26:14
  Speaker 6: because that's how.
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: You get anywhere, that's how you get soil you do it.
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: I mean that really is especially honestly, with that amount
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: of followers that you're like, you know what, I'm sure
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: a company like ours would try to find a way
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: to make it work.
• 26:26
  Speaker 5: Maybe maybe it doesn't seem like it's a brand match.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: It's not necessarily a I don't think she could do
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: the job.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think it's Well, that's in my longer
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: thought that I've already had in the past ten seconds.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: Maybe a different station, that's what I was thinking.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't think magic, but I think
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: maybe there's a place that potentially maybe, but again I'm
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: in favor shoot that shot.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: But in that same sentence, I know what you're saying, Alexi.
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: It's like, it's easy to look at this and be like, oh,
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: it's so easy.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: All you do is talk all day, And then whenever
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: I have friends that say that, I was like, well,
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: for the next ten minutes, I just want you talking.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm just gonna say here and listen a little harder,
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: a little.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: More awkward talking is willy hard.
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: Well, to make it interesting, to make it fun to
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: story tell. Yeah, yeah, that's part that.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Like, behind the scenes, you're working through and you're getting
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: better at and we literally have coaches that try to
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: help us with it. So I do like the respect
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: when people are like, man, I could never do that.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I appreciate you saying that.
• 27:21
  Speaker 5: Because I look at other people's jobs and I go,
• 27:23
  Speaker 5: I can never be a cardiothoracic surgeon.
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: I can't literally other people's jobs. I don't understand them
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: like anything like I had. You know, my last relationship,
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: she was a recruiter, and it took me three years
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: to understand what the hell that did. I had no idea.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: My brother's an engineer. He's always been an engineer. I
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: still don't know what he does on a day to day.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I just know what do engineers do?
• 27:41
  Speaker 3: I don't know, but I know he goes out the
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: fields and he tests soil.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: My husband does.
• 27:44
  Speaker 6: My husband's an environmental scientist.
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: Do you know what he does?
• 27:47
  Speaker 6: Absolutely not, No, I just know he flies a drone
• 27:49
  Speaker 6: and so I told him to put that drone over
• 27:51
  Speaker 6: me when I'm in fun locations. So that's why I
• 27:55
  Speaker 6: get a lot of cool drone content.
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: But sounds so freaky, do you all? I'm not gonna ask.
• 27:59
  Speaker 6: And I mean, you know, like I kind of am
• 28:01
  Speaker 6: a jack of all trades, like I came from the
• 28:04
  Speaker 6: home shopping network, which was live TV and then shifted
• 28:06
  Speaker 6: to like marketing stuff, and then back to radio, which
• 28:09
  Speaker 6: I started out as a little girl. So it's interesting
• 28:12
  Speaker 6: to have seen how broad communications is as a spectrum
• 28:15
  Speaker 6: and all of the different components, but how it all
• 28:18
  Speaker 6: circles back to the same you know, storytelling, but the
• 28:21
  Speaker 6: artwork of radios, the inflictions of your voice, the tone,
• 28:25
  Speaker 6: you know, how you're hooking people with the audio. It's
• 28:27
  Speaker 6: a totally different ballpark that sometimes if you're just a
• 28:29
  Speaker 6: social media content creator, you don't really understand the complexities
• 28:33
  Speaker 6: of it all. Yeah, So that was where that thought
• 28:34
  Speaker 6: came from.
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: Cause people follow you for different reasons. I think people
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: tune into the radio because they want somebody that's sitting
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: in their car with them, just gabbin. But sometimes people
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: follow an influencer because they're aspirational. But sometimes aspirational people
• 28:45
  Speaker 5: are not fun to listen to because you're like, Okay,
• 28:48
  Speaker 5: we get it, your life is perfect, you so much
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: fun all the time, Whereas I.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Think sometimes say they need someone in their you who
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: she's like, it's gonna be okay, Yeah.
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: Try to keep it real. Sometimes I feel like, hmm,
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: that's interesting. How do you feel about my social media?
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: What you think I'm like subtweeting you with that?
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: I know, yeah, I feel like a little bit of
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: a problem. No, thank you, alexis coming back.
• 29:06
  Speaker 5: Here because you're different. You're a motivational speaker.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: That's your thing.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I never because I think some people look
• 29:13
  Speaker 2: at it like, oh my god, it's so perfect, and
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it ain't.
• 29:17
  Speaker 3: That's why I like, literally I put up a video yesha.
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: I was like, by the way, literally internally freaking out
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: right now, Well, then everybody could see thank you.
• 29:23
  Speaker 5: Maybe this is your sign to just be to show
• 29:26
  Speaker 5: more of the mess if you feel like maybe you're
• 29:27
  Speaker 5: being too polished.
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: I know.
• 29:29
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: It was interesting those yesterday because I have the so
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: series called Dare to Dream. I put on seminars and
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to do more and more with it. But
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: as i'm doing it, I don't want to. There's a
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: thought that's like, well, if you reveal too much, does
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: that take away your credibility?
• 29:42
  Speaker 3: Because again, I'm coaching people on living their dream.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I'm coaching people and creating that life that they've always
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: thought about. So if I show the messy sides of it,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: does that take away from my credibility of living it?
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: I don't think.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: I don't think so either.
• 29:53
  Speaker 5: There's got to be a good balance because I think
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: to some extent, I could be more polished on social media,
• 29:58
  Speaker 5: Like I don't think that's more Yeah, I don't think
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: that's why. And let me make it very clear, I
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: was not subtweeting either of you.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: Well, I did not feel that way at all.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: But are you attacking Alexia?
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: No?
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: No, I just mean I had to unfollow a lot
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: of women because I would just get so annoyed being like,
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: I just am so sick of your life looking perfect
• 30:14
  Speaker 5: all the time. And I know that tard putting yourself
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: out there and showing flaws or just being messy, Like,
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: I understand that puts a target on your back, but
• 30:20
  Speaker 5: I was like, I just don't want to follow that
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: because I don't want to see it.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: All the time.
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: Whereas the people that I follow, I'm like, I just
• 30:26
  Speaker 5: want to see you with no makeup in your kitchen
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: with your kids.
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: You know who I love? Who's your favorite influencer?
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: There's a couple.
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: So I'm not Again, to be fair, I'm also not
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: a big influencer follower.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I have been keeping up with Danny.
• 30:37
  Speaker 5: Austen because she just had like her fourth kid and
• 30:39
  Speaker 5: she had this violent pregnancy or she had this violent
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: birth experience she did she did it unmedicated, and I
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: was gripped. I was like, I am so impressed that
• 30:49
  Speaker 5: you are able to go through this unmedicated birth and
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: also vlog the whole thing.
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
• 30:54
  Speaker 6: I cannot consume mommy content. I really I can't do
• 30:57
  Speaker 6: mommy content. I'm like, it gives me anxiety because I'm
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: in that stage of life where I need to figure
• 31:01
  Speaker 6: out if I want to be a mom or not.
• 31:02
  Speaker 6: Oh God, when I see the mommy content, I'm like
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: triggered to my overreasart buzzing.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: I need to make a decision. I think you have
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: a couple more years.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, like what, I'm a lot more than I
• 31:12
  Speaker 3: don't know.
• 31:13
  Speaker 6: Listen, I don't let anyone set boundaries on my timeline.
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: But like a career was always first. I come from divorce.
• 31:20
  Speaker 6: I just for the maternal instinct was not there has
• 31:24
  Speaker 6: never really been there. I don't even have a plant
• 31:25
  Speaker 6: or a pet. So I think my content like reflects
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: that where I like to share the aspirational components, but
• 31:32
  Speaker 6: also like the real and authentic local community. That's like
• 31:35
  Speaker 6: really my goal. But I do agree that like the authenticity,
• 31:39
  Speaker 6: the being messy and raw and real. Sometimes when when
• 31:41
  Speaker 6: you share that, you get more engagement than you ever
• 31:43
  Speaker 6: would have thought you would receive. And it's the highly
• 31:45
  Speaker 6: produced videos to get like zero engagement.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: No literally, like I don't care, they just they just
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: want to see you.
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: Like that's I think why sometimes when I'm when creativity strikes,
• 31:54
  Speaker 5: I'm like, screw the makeup, screw the hair, just film me,
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: and you have to like be un Yeah, you kind
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: of just have to be like whatever, just do it,
• 32:01
  Speaker 5: Just do it, just put it out there and at
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: some point there will be another good video of me
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: with hair and makeup, but today that is not.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Today, Alexi.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Do you have a favorite influencer somebody that you love
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: to see their content.
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: There's a few, but I really love Kat Stickler. Cat
• 32:16
  Speaker 6: Stickler local to Tampa Bay, I mean allegedly dating John Mayer.
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: Would love that she hangs out Andy Cohen like living
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: the life and also just showcases being a real mom
• 32:27
  Speaker 6: in a fun, also polished, beautiful, stylish way. But I
• 32:29
  Speaker 6: love how authentic she is and showcasing her relationship with
• 32:31
  Speaker 6: her daughter.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: It's so beautiful.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like that's somebody that I've seen go both angles.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Like she put up a picture of maybe like two
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: days ago. I was like, cat get it girl. And
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: then also she would just be in her car like
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: literally balling her eyes out and just being like, I
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: don't care what happens in these comments. I want to
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: be so real with what's happening in my life. And
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: I'm like, damn, And that's somebody I followed for years.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: We had her on years ago on the show and
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: on the podcast to talk to her, and I remember
• 32:55
  Speaker 2: having that com I was like, this is unreal, and
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: it's like both of us were kind of nervous to
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: be in the room. It's in the room doing the podcast,
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: and you get sense that's like this is a new territory.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: And I was freaking out because I'm like, you literally
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: have millions of people following you every single day and
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: you're here.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: In the studio.
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: But what's really cool is especially local influencers, is like
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: she'll put up a video and I'm like, I've been there,
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: or she'll put up a video like out a lightning game,
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh my.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: God, Cat's just like me.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: You drop the address.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: Now I've done the same, and I'm like, oh, that's
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: pretty cool. But it's cool to see somebody what I love.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: And I wish we could see more of the behind
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: the scenes of people, especially people that we look up to,
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: because I feel like with Cat, we've gotten to see
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: like where it started, how her popularity grew, like how
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: her like literally how she's living a whole new life,
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: and if you followed long enough, you literally got to
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: see it.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: Just it was a normal life.
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: She had, you know, a relationship and a kid, and
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: it was just kind of posting for fun. And now
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: she's balling. I mean, I don't know her finances, but
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: she's balling. She'd be balling, and you know she earned
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: every step of that. I think that's the part that
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: I love, and dare.
• 33:55
  Speaker 6: I say that our listeners are excited to be part
• 33:58
  Speaker 6: of this magic because it's kind of like watching Abby
• 34:01
  Speaker 6: and Scottie, Scotty and Abby Scabby who from something like that.
• 34:05
  Speaker 6: Literally I was thinking about it all the way here.
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: I was like, Abby, like just started a hot minute ago,
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: and I feel like you're already so integrated into the
• 34:12
  Speaker 6: brand and into everything. That magic is that it just
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: feels so organic and seamless, and our listeners and viewers
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: now for social media, can watch you guys take off
• 34:22
  Speaker 6: and all rising waters raise, all the ships. So I
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: feel very much part of it, and I'm so excited
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: and honored. But I feel like seeing the comments on
• 34:29
  Speaker 6: social media, that's what our listeners are feeling too. With
• 34:31
  Speaker 6: you guys, know you're establishing that too.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's honestly, and I really appreciate you saying
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: that because that's what gets me so excited is being
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: able to show people, you know, the whole journey. And
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: we said that on like day one of this podcast.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Is I want you to be there from the moment
• 34:45
  Speaker 2: that Abby and I have had our first conversations to
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: whatever the hell the future brings, because I want you
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: to be able to be part of that story. Because literally,
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: without you listening, without you clicking, without you liking or commenting,
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: none of this happens. It could just be two people,
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: three people in a room talking and you just wish
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: somebody cares, and to know that people do, that's amazing
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: because the goal has always been and will always be
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: to continue to connect, spread awareness, inspire and form all
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: those different outlets of why we started this.
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: But yeah, that's why it's like.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: We're three weeks in, not even a month, and I
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: feel like there's already been so many stories shared, so
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: many connections made, and it's just the beginning of what
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: will hopefully be along road ahead. There it is, and
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: with that, we'll go ahead and close out the week.
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: Abby. What is your social media.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: At the Abby Murphy on all platforms.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Alexia if you want to see some of the coolest events,
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: some of the best photos, and also tangent really quick.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: Where the heck is our thirst trap photo? Alexia?
• 35:50
  Speaker 5: Oh yeah, literally, me and and Scott. Every day go
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: where's that hot photo of all of us?
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: We all take a picture by the pole.
• 35:57
  Speaker 6: I was going to post it this weekend saying like
• 35:59
  Speaker 6: some day Funday with the Magical Trio everyone. As long
• 36:03
  Speaker 6: as I know it's coming, I was gonna do it
• 36:04
  Speaker 6: this weekend, was my plan. So if you're okay with it,
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: but I'll send it to you. Ready to collab with
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: all of us on that Yes, and we look so hot,
• 36:10
  Speaker 6: you guys are going to freak out or like the
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: Sunday Funday Pool Party trio you always needed and follow
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: me on the Gala life. On all social media.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: Platforms, be sure to tag Hot Tan Dan.
• 36:19
  Speaker 5: Just send it, Just send it into in the DMS,
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: be like, hey, aren't your sugar mama should run out
• 36:25
  Speaker 5: of money yet.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: On Instagram, we're just hot Tandan Wimen.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: You do that and we just post random guys from
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: Tampa Bay anyway. With that at Scott Tablin is mine
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: s c O T T T A V l I N.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: And make sure if you can hit up the Magic
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: ninety four nine Instagram as well, and we'll see you
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: next week