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33 | Petty Revenge? Brother Gets What He Deserves After Homophobic Rant · Let's Talk! An Our2Gens Podcast

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That's tough. Oh my goodness.
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Hello, y'all. Welcome back or welcome to I'm
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Trinity Grace, your Gen. Z host.
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Be ready to to be irritated. And OK I'm telling y'all she is
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letting you know I am so ready. She has been baiting me all day
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so I'm. Telling y'all walk with me.
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OK this is our story submission. This one was titled My brother
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called me a bitch because of my sexuality so I got my revenge.
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Oh. Yes, let's get in.
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Hold on, let me get my 2. I know I'm ready, he said.
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Sorry if this. Is long but I needed to tell
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this. Also I love the podcast.
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Thank. You love you too.
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So I 41 male and my brother 36 male haven't always had the
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greatest relationship growing up.
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Different dads, same mom. So when I was 23 I came out as
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pansexual and everyone in my family was either cool with it
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or didn't care. My brother Zach not his real
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name, didn't like it when I came home from college or just
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visiting in general. He would always degrade me
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because of it. I usually let things roll off
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but this time I couldn't let it slide.
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For more context, I used to make adult content for 10 years on
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and off with my now fiance and made money as a way to pay for
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grad school and as well as a few local startups that are
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thriving. We still do content now but just
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for fun. It's not everyone's cup of tea
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but we enjoy it and have collaborated with many adult
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businesses and enjoyed free products and sponsors.
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Love that for you plus. The money from that is just play
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money now. Period.
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So on my 35th birthday my family threw me a surprise birthday
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party at our grandparents old house.
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We had a great time until it was getting late.
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Everyone was drinking and my brother came up and said that he
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wanted to give a speech. He went on to praise me saying I
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was his role model and things like that.
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It warmed my heart until the last part.
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Typing this is making me tear up.
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So he said quote even though you're a bitch for letting men
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do you up the ass and you're a bitch of a wife or whatever she
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slash he is. Remember y'all will never be and
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ain't shit. What?
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Oh. My God I my flappers are gas
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gasted. What?
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And we're halfway through the story.
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So he stood up in front of the whole family and said yes during
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his birthday after you praised me exactly.
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Oh my God so my fiance is a post op trans woman.
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You'd never know but that hurt her so much that she walked out
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and left me at the house. I had to get an Uber back home.
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I was stunned and wanted to cry but I didn't.
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I stood up. I thanked everyone for coming
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and I told him to leave immediately.
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I asked my brother why he said that.
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His exact words were quote simple.
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I hate you because people like you and that thing you married
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need to die. So I said wait, wait, yeah,
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let's hold off for that. Just a second, OK?
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Like. Red flag real quick.
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Let me continue. Oh my God.
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So I said OK and I told him you'll need me before I'll ever
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need you. Oh heard.
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That so that night I exacted my revenge.
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I only did three small things but all affected him majorly.
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But they took time because even after that he would call and
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text me being disrespectful. So #1 My brother-in-law, 55
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male, had recorded everything and clipped Zach's speech and
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sent it to me. I attached the voicemails and
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text then emailed them to his boss.
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Oh. He got fired because one of the
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businesses my fiance and I own he works for.
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Oh and is a completely unaware that he does love that number 2.
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That's just the first number two #2 at his 32nd birthday cookout.
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I wasn't invited, no shocker. But I sent a stripper and asked
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her to tell them that she was pregnant in front of his wife.
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And from what I was told, she was upset and crying and left.
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Because it's not the first time he's cheated with a stripper.
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With a stripper. Oh my God.
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Oh my God #3 I got cars, yes, cars, plural, repossessed
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because they weren't in his name.
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They're in our mom's name. So after what happened and
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showing our mom what happened, she said, she said the cars were
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stolen. Amazing.
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The whole family is in all this. I love it.
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I. Know now Fast forward to April
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of this year, he showed up to our grandparents for Easter and
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he was looking horrible. No car, no job and single
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miserable and still homophobic and transphobic.
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He said he wanted to apologize for everything over the years
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but needed help. I told him that he'd need me
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before I need. Him did not just tell you that.
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I gave him $40 and a plate of. Food $40.
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I gave him $40. And a plate of food and said
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enjoy because that's all you're getting.
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And when he was about to leave, I told him I was the one who
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sent the videos for my birthday party and the text and the
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voicemails. He got mad until I also told him
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that the startup he got fired from, I was the CEO.
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He asked why and I said you know why and I've never seen or heard
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from him since. Amazing.
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That's honestly what best story that we've gotten submitted like
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period to this time like that was fantastic to.
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Have that much mess in your closet you to You cannot be so
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hateful if you have been cheating on your wife with sex
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workers and strippers I'm you don't own your.
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Cars you don't own your cars, your mom does.
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You don't even know who your who you work for.
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Thank you. Your brother, the one that you
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hate so much. Owns the company that you work
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for. Bro stop.
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And you sat up there with your high horse in front of the whole
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family and we're like, because I hate you and this and this and
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this like you really thought that you did that right?
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You thought you ate you thought you ate but you didn't Now you
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starving. Look at you, $40 starving.
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Broke, single, no cars because mom said snatch honestly the
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brother-in-law and the mom are the G's in the store because
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they said here's the T that you need and able to get this done.
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I said this. Is so great.
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First of all, love your family. Sam's your brother, of course.
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Yes, of course. But man, what a supportive,
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lovely, you know, support group that you have.
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Yeah, with your people, who you work with and your family.
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I just love that for you. Thank you so much for sending
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this and that just made my day so.
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Good. Thank love a petty bitch God.
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Live happily ever after, Boo. I love it.
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Thank you so good. Oh my God, am I overreacting for
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thinking a teacher is a creep? Oh no yeah.
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So I just want to take a quick side note because I've already
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checked and this post has been deleted.
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It happens all the time on Reddit, but you can always go to
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our YouTube. We have the links to everything
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that we read in the notes of our red of our YouTube.
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So go there check it out. For context, I'm a girl in high
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school, but my school is K through 12.
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The grades are separated and the campus is pretty big, so the
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high schoolers are pretty far away from the elementary
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students and we have nearly nothing to do with each other.
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About a month ago, a man and no one had ever seen before began
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coming to the high school cafeteria during lunchtime.
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He did this daily, which was weird because the only adults in
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the high school building were high school administrators,
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teachers, janitors, lunch workers, and he was none of
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those. He only spoke to high school
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girls, normally freshmen and sophomores, the younger ones,
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and completely ignored the older girls and all of the boys.
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Yeah, go ahead and get this red flag early.
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Yes man, I was completely in the dark about who he was until one
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day he came to talk to me and my friends.
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He introduced himself and claimed that he had made it his
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mission to talk to anyone who made eye contact with him.
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Excuse me? He was standing behind me and
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made us all introduce ourselves. I was in the middle of a meal,
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so I didn't turn around to talk to him.
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Not to mention I was fairly uncomfortable.
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He tapped me on the shoulder until I turned to face him,
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asked me my name, and then made a joke about how I didn't want
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to talk to him. He told us he was a lower
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elementary school teacher again, working completely across campus
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from the high schoolers. The grades are so separated that
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I don't know a single other elementary school teacher.
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Right. It's now been a while and he
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continues to come to the cafeteria daily and talk to
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underclassmen high school girls. He looks like he's in his 30s
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and only makes an effort to talk to the girls who are about 14 to
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16 years old, ignoring not only older girls and high school
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boys, but also the other adults. Thank you.
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He's not even talking to the class.
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He has an. Age and a gender that he's
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staying in, and that's creepy. He doesn't speak to the teachers
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passing through or the other staff but constantly jokes
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around with these girls. When he came to speak to my
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friends and I again, I was facing him and he made comments
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about finally being able to see my face and never forgetting it
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now that he knew and how he would talk to me every time he
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saw me from now on. You bet not.
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He says this to almost every girl he talks to.
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I know in my opinion he uses creepy wording and constantly
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mentions how he likes the way the girls name sound, calling
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girls unforgettable and even stopping them in the hallways
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and blocking them from their path until they engage with him.
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Oh, I'm a get physical. Better move out of my way.
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That's what I'm saying. Send me to the principal's
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office. That's what I'm saying.
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That's what I'm saying. I wear rings.
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Too that part. Once during class my teacher
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told us that he was requesting 2 girls from her class to come
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help him out with his elementary school class.
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I thought it was strange that he was asking high school girls
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help to teach elementary students.
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My friends seem fine around him and think he's funny, but I
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think it's strange that he only talks to young girls whom he has
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no business being around. Thank you.
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And that he uses such strange language.
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Am I overreacting and assuming the worst or is he a creep?
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He's a creep creep. Creep creep creep creep creep
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creep creep creep creep creep. Red flag red flag, red flag.
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Are you kidding me? No, you're not overreacting.
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I feel like actions not need to be taken.
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I'm sorry, I'm not sitting around and waiting.
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If he's making you feel uncomfortable, that is basis
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enough for you to be like I'm a tell somebody about this.
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He's making me feel uncomfortable.
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I don't even like the fact that he's teaching younger kids or
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whatever. You know what?
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I. Mean like he shouldn't be around
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kids, period. Thank you, Thank you.
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Much less making an effort to come over to the older kids.
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And because, yes, kids, kids. But the younger of the kids?
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Thank you and making a point to be like I'm I'm going to need 2
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of you to come over where what do what, why you need me?
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Why can't you get somebody else an adult?
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TA another. Teacher or something, you feel
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me? But you go near for these 14 and
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up girls. Only the girls because I don't
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see you talking to the guys. That is a red flag in my book.
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He is a creep. I don't need any more evidence.
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Moving on, yes. Exactly.
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I'm good. This is good.
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Like you, your instincts are completely correct.
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And The thing is, and nobody around you is doing is it sees
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it, you know what I mean? And that happens a lot with
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young girls. They see this older man, he may
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be, they may think he's attractive or he's sweet or
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funny or whatever. And they're like, oh, we like
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him. You know, you're tripping.
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You are not. You're not.
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And I brought this book up. Oh, my goodness.
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So it's called Being Lolita. It's by Allison Wood.
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OK. So I didn't know we could.
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Bring props to the show. This is not a.
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Why don't? You let me know.
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Nobody is paying me to plug this, but I read this book.
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It was right on my bookshelf as I was prepping for today.
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And I bring this up because it's one of the best examples.
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It's a memoir, mind you. It's one of the best examples of
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a teenager being groomed by a male teacher, OK, by an older
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man. It happened so often.
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I remember being in high school and I lived by a Navy base and
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all the girls were dating young sailors in their 20s.
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You know what I mean? So this is so common, but it is
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grooming. This is wrong and this is not
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something that should be brushed under the table.
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And I'm really pissed off at all the administrators at school.
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Why is nobody noticing that this elementary teacher is over here
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with the high school girls talking and chatting them up
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every single day? And what do you mean you need 2
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girls to come over here? For what?
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You didn't say 2 students no. You said 2 girls.
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Yes. Absolutely not.
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I'm getting all shaky. Yeah, I am not.
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OK. Again.
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No. And it's way too easy for him to
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come over there. If the buildings are separate,
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if the grades are separate, let them be separate.
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Yes. You feel me?
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But he's over there so easy every day when he has no
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business being over there. None.
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No business, none. So no, you're not overreacting.
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Talk to your parents, go talk to the principal, the assistant
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principal, whoever you need to talk to because this is not OK.
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And if the first person doesn't believe you, go to the next.
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Person thank you OK cuz we believe you we believe you not
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overreacting. I know, Mother, you keep
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bringing these. Ones that got me all worked up.
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That's what I'm saying. They keep putting it up there
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and you see so many teenagers just putting their stories up
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there because nobody's listening.
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No one is listening. We're listening.
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We you have to listen. Gosh.
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We can't wait until something happens to listen.
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Exactly homie. I got a.
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Question for y'all, do you know what shreking is?
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And don't even worry, I'll tell you right now.
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Because you don't. So wrecking if we can go to my
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screen. For the visual viewers, it means
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to intentionally date someone that you're not attractive to in
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hopes that they'll treat you better than someone who's more
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attractive to you. There's.
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So many things wrong with this. There's so many things wrong
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with this. And while this is a new Gen.
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Z slang term or whatever, this behavior is so old.
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Yeah, this ain't none new. Ain't none new.
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So basically it's problematic and superficial because it's
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just dating is only for looks. This that's the assumption in
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this new, you know, slang term or whatever.
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Yeah. And it's so problematic because
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you're saying that there are more attractive people and there
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are less attractive people when in reality we're all attracted
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to different things and we find different things attractive.
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So your little scale is BS and we can throw that out the
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window. Right.
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But thus also assuming that attractive people you can't
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treat you right, and only the people who you think are less
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attractive can treat you right. It's like what?
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What is the? Scale on that.
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You're like, you're ugly. Come on.
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You're gonna OK. You are going to treat me so
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good too. Attractive I you're gonna hurt
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my feelings you see those comments where someone's like
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they're strapping on TikTok or whatever and you go in the
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comments and they're like oh I can tell you're gonna hurt my
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feelings give it to me it's. True, true.
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But they're ready for it and they're prepared and they're
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like, I will take it because you're hot.
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That's problematic too. Very much.
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You have to know that you deserve better than that, right?
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Yes, and instead, let's just date for what is in your heart
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instead of your ego and what's going on on the outside.
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It's like if you're driving to someone and you're like, I
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didn't think I'd see myself as someone like that.
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It's like so, but is your heart being like, that's the person
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then cool, we're good and. Exactly.
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I think that's the problem too, because I could see it on the
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other side too, where you find yourself attractive and you're
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like, well, I can treat everybody like shit because
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they're going to put up with it because I'm hot.
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Leniency. Yeah.
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That is very, very true. Whereas a lot of people who feel
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like they're less attractive feel like they're forced to
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develop a personality because you can't rely heavily on your
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looks. Listen, my husband is hot.
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I was so surprised he had a personality.
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When I met him, I was like, oh. Say that they're gonna want to
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know what he looks. Like, Oh yeah, sorry, but he is.
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But I was like, oh, he's so funny.
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And I was like, why did he build a personality like?
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You don't even have to, right? Like that's optional completely.
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Out so optional. That's the wrong way of
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thinking. Do not think like that.
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But yeah, shreking is just it's so problematic and honestly
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everyone that kind of lives by this hierarchy should stop
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dating. I'm sorry but like just stop
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altogether, you know what I mean?
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Figure out internally before you start going out and on outside
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if you don't feel like you deserve to be treated right.
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Don't do that because you're going to find someone that's not
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going to match your energy like that.
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And they're not. They're not going to treat you
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the way they deserve to be treated, but you're going to be
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treated the way you were expecting, which is lower.
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That's not good. They should have like a dating
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show, like the Voice where you don't see them.
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Oh, thank you. You hit the button and they turn
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around and you're just like, thank.
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You. I know I liked you already, but
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now we have things like pop the balloon.
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We're just off of visuals. People make decisions on day.
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I can't and they pop. It makes me so sad.
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Somebody walks and they like. Like right in front of me in
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front of me. The dating game there was there
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was a show like that seriously dating game you they were behind
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a like a cheat and there was 3 people and you would ask them
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questions bachelor #1 Bachelorette #1 and then you
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would pick based on their answers, their voice, what they
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said, everything I can't believe I forgot that yes bring that
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back bring that back let's. Rejuvenate that place, but in
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the article too, they mentioned another term.
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It was called getting shreked, which basically means that you
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were dating below your standards, someone that you
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thought was less attractive and you still got hurt.
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That is hilarious because like, you know that one quote, they're
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like you can't be like ugly and you got to pick a problem you.
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Know, Oh my God. Seriously though, first of all,
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if you were like, I'm gonna be with this person who I find
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unattractive because I know they're not gonna hurt my
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feelings, and then they actually.
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They're all hurting feelings. That really tells you that
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there's no such thing as like less attractive, more
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attractive. They're gonna treat you right.
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That it It's all. It's on the person.
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Yeah, it really is on the person.
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And it's like, but you really just gotta get to know people.
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But I know people will, like, hide themselves from you and
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until they get what they want. So it's hard.
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I feel so sorry for everybody who's out here dating right now.
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I'm not even dating. I cannot.
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Nope. Yeah, Nope.
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Yeah. I just me and my Katie cats.
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Seriously, I'm freshly. Genzy and I'm like me and my cat
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against the wrong not doing this.
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I'm not doing this. Yeah, I feel that though.
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But yeah, I thought that was fun.
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Thank you. And I also do want to know if
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people in the comments and all the different generations that
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we have, which is so cool by the way that all of y'all are
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representing Hi, if y'all could just like, I don't know, share
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your experiences dating in the different generations.
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Like now we have social media and there's different things
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that you don't really have to talk to people in person, yada
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yada yada. Whereas your generation you're
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like. Back in my day, back in her day,
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we had to meet people in person at the get the coffee shop at
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the bar. What do you mean in?
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Person gym There was no dating apps when I married your dad.
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So how does show me? We met at a club.
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Oh my. Goodness, Oh my goodness.
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In person, you just had to talk to people.
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You had to actually get up the nerve.
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Your little, you know, your heart feels all funny and go
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talk to somebody. True.
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So I would love to hear that, too.
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Yeah. So please give us your stories.
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Thank you. So there was a crazy bear attack
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insurance scam that I've just read about.
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Please. So it happened in Glendale, here
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in Southern California. Glendale, Glendale.
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So in 2024, a Rolls Royce Ghost sedan.
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Okay, so I'm not a car person but I had to look it up.
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It's like a $450,000 car. OK?
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Really. Yeah, it's crazy.
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But it was damaged by a bear. And there was, like,
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surveillance footage. It's a real grainy.
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You could see the bear go into the car and start tearing up the
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interior. And so they filed a claim on
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this car. The detectives were like, seems
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SUS. I don't know about this.
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And they sent the footage to a biologist from the California
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Department of Fish and Wildlife. And they were like, does this
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look real to you? And that person came back and
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said, Nah, he said, quote, the animal shown was clearly a human
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in a bear suit. No.
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If you could go to my screen please.
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They got it laid out y'all. This is the bear suit question.
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What does the bear have? Like a shirt.
22:06
I couldn't figure it out. I don't know.
22:09
It looks like the bear has closed, so really I.
22:13
Don't know, but yeah, they they use what were those things
22:17
called? Stainless steel meat shredder
22:19
claws. You can see them at the bottom
22:21
and to, you know, be like, oh, I have claws.
22:23
And they were the inside of this Rolls Royce just scraping it up,
22:26
Right. This is so detailed.
22:30
Like, so detailed. So then they sent this to the
22:33
insurance company. And they were like, oh, this
22:35
sounds familiar because we had two Mercedes that also had the
22:39
same kind of damage. Oh, yeah.
22:42
So it was a whole thing. It was a whole ring.
22:45
So this happened in 2024. But this week, four people were
22:50
arrested and charred or sentenced.
22:52
Excuse me. They were arrested back in 2024.
22:54
They were sentenced this week to 180 days in jail and each had to
22:59
pay over $50,000 in restitution. Dang Dang, and you had to go to
23:05
jail for dressing up like a bear and insurance they're destroying
23:09
their own cars or someone else's.
23:11
Their own cars so they can file their own.
23:15
Oh and see what would make sense to me, I'm not a super criminal
23:17
or anything, but what would make sense to me is you buy a car and
23:21
before it you have to start paying this bill, this $450,000
23:26
car loan or lease or whatever you damaged the car for
23:29
insurance. This is stupid.
23:31
That would make sense to me. How about?
23:32
OK, I was about to bring logic into the conversation but I
23:36
figured we're not there yet, so. Logic here what is this?
23:38
What is that laws? Because red flag #1 the bear
23:44
went inside of the car to start. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he was in
23:46
there. But.
23:47
I don't want the paint, I want the upholstery I want.
23:49
I want to be the outside because we could replace the upholstery,
23:52
because I had come from a camping family and one time in
23:54
Yosemite, a bear did break into our car, our SUV.
23:57
Oh my goodness. Yeah, it broke in the back
23:59
window. Really.
24:01
Crawled in, sat on the back seat, ate a jar of peanut butter
24:05
that we didn't realize had rolled underneath the seat.
24:07
Seriously. And then broke the other window
24:09
out and then crawled out. So there was like bear fur stuck
24:13
to the glass. There was bare footprints, muddy
24:16
footprints, all in the back seat.
24:18
So they do climb into cars and and and wreck some havoc.
24:21
But this was a dude. Just a dude.
24:24
Yeah, I love doing you so bad this.
24:29
Is just your. Regularly old dude.
24:31
Yeah, this is just a dude in Glendale, IN.
24:33
Glendale. What are we doing?
24:34
Like Valley Village, one of the guys from Valley Village, like
24:38
just come on bro. But anyway, thank you God.
24:42
I respect the dedication. It's slowly really smart.
24:44
If you think about it. They would have actually like
24:46
maybe got a more expensive bear costume because that looked
24:49
cheap. That looked so cheap, but they
24:51
made sure that they were caught on surveillance, right Video.
24:54
So they saw no, no, it's a bear, you know, because when it was
24:56
ours, like we had muddy footprints, there was fur.
24:59
If some of that fur got stuck, what is that polyester exactly?
25:04
They wouldn't have worked. So they made sure they were
25:06
caught on tape. But this biologist was like,
25:09
that's not it. Well, I respect the dedication,
25:12
but go ahead and serve your 180 days and then pay the
25:15
restitution and then move on. 50K and find something else to
25:18
do with your time. Exactly, please I have another
25:22
Reddit. I'm sorry this one is off my
25:24
chest. I'm watching my best friend ruin
25:27
her life because of the show Euphoria.
25:31
You ready? Wait.
25:32
It's a euphoria day today. Yeah, I'm excited.
25:35
We're. Filming it gum Rao OK, let's.
25:37
Go. We were 14 when we first watched
25:39
Euphoria Pause. Whoa, 14?
25:42
I mean same. How old was I?
25:44
Don't tell people that we watch. You watch Euphoria, you just
25:48
watched it. We just got up.
25:52
And she became deeply fixated on the character Cassie Howard.
25:56
Oh no. While I would usually watch an
25:59
episode and move on with my daily routine, she reacted very
26:03
differently. She would spend hours doing her
26:05
makeup, dressing up, acting out scenarios that married Cassie's
26:09
struggles, and often imagined herself in toxic relationships.
26:14
I initially assumed it was just a phase and tried to talk her
26:17
out of it, but she wouldn't listen.
26:19
By the time we were 16, she told me about a boy she wanted to
26:22
date. He was a year younger and
26:24
already in a relationship with someone she was friendly with.
26:28
I advised her against getting involved and encouraged her to
26:31
put not put herself in that situation, but instead she began
26:34
keeping things from me. Not long after, a video of her
26:38
engaging in explicit behavior with a boy went viral in school.
26:42
Oh no. When I told her about it, she
26:45
kept saying he manipulated her and that she didn't want to do
26:47
it. Although I was disturbed, I felt
26:50
sympathy for her and chose not to push further.
26:52
At 18, she admitted that she hadn't been manipulated and she
26:56
had consciously chosen those actions because she wanted to
26:59
emulate Cassie. She also expressed regret about
27:02
making those videos and then instead that she wanted to
27:05
present herself as pure and more traditionally feminine.
27:09
Oh, I don't like that. Recently, with the new season of
27:12
Euphoria being released, she seems to be reverting into old
27:15
patterns. She has started talking about
27:18
creating provocative content again, saying she feels
27:21
inspired. What concerns me the most is
27:24
that while the show clearly portrays Kashi's emotional
27:27
instability and unhappiness, she appears drawn only to the
27:30
aesthetic. Now my friend is talking to this
27:34
drug addicted guy who already has a girlfriend and they're
27:37
planning to get engaged and possibly in an open
27:39
relationship. Not to mention she's failing to
27:43
get into good college and is behind in all works.
27:45
In reality. I don't know if it's because of
27:48
the show or if she was just I'll.
27:49
From the beginning, she was just like any other 14, you know,
27:52
girl before watching the show. That's it.
27:56
I don't blame the show. I will put that on there because
28:00
there're shows about serial killers are still like, you
28:02
can't blame that. It's like, OK, because I saw it.
28:05
She was looking for someone to emulate.
28:09
Yeah, but she picked Cassie. Well, there's not a whole lot of
28:13
good people to emulate on the show.
28:16
Who's the one who did the play? Her sister.
28:19
Yes. What was her name?
28:21
I can't. I don't.
28:22
Know sorry we forgot her name but.
28:24
Emulate her, emulate her, OK, She got good grades.
28:28
She did a whole play. She's not working in Hollywood
28:31
right now. Thank you.
28:31
But she said Cassie, with her toxic behavior, her toxic.
28:35
Relationships. The thing with Nate, the new
28:37
season coming out, I mean, yeah, what she's doing now, I'm sure
28:42
she wants to try and do that too, just like she mentioned,
28:45
like that. With the content creation, I
28:49
girl, it's it's hard with this because what are you supposed to
28:53
do? You know, she already had voiced
28:55
her concern and she iced her out right.
28:57
You know, and then things did not turn out the way she wanted
29:01
that to. Some things went around the
29:03
school and then she came back and was like, well, maybe that
29:06
wasn't the right thing to do, but then she's continuing down
29:10
the same path exactly. Oh.
29:12
Man girl, I don't think there's any anything you can do because
29:16
she's making a choice right now and she.
29:18
She's 18. She is 18.
29:20
She's doing what she wants to do.
29:22
She's I hope, I hope, I hope that, you know, she can, that
29:26
something bad really, really, really bad doesn't happen before
29:30
she makes a change and says, you know, this isn't the life that I
29:33
want to live, right? But for a lot of people, it does
29:35
go that direction, unfortunately.
29:39
Jeez. I know, and no, it's not the
29:41
show's fault. No, absolutely not.
29:43
Gosh, people love to do that. They're like, if you watch
29:46
something, it inspires people to do certain things.
29:49
It's like, OK, but the show was inspired by people's actions
29:52
before the show even existed. Cassie already existed.
29:55
Yeah. Cassie's character existed in
29:57
real life before the show was. Made so you can't really.
30:01
No, she was just looking for a role model.
30:02
You know, like Cassie though. Yikes.
30:06
I mean Rue is based after the creator right?
30:08
Like he took his own experiences and put him into Rue.
30:11
And so these people already exist.
30:14
They're not unique, it's just they all we were in the same
30:16
high school. I don't like they were all in
30:20
the same friend group. Exactly what kind of situation?
30:23
Yeah, unrealistic. Yikes.
30:26
Wow, I know that was crazy. I know.
30:30
Am I overreacting for not forgiving my husband that left
30:32
me alone for two hours during childbirth?
30:36
Oh, I'm about to be mad, aren't I?
30:39
Oh, God. All right.
30:41
OK, I gave birth to my first child this summer.
30:45
Leading up to my delivery, I was clear with my husband that I
30:48
needed him present. After we arrived at the clinic,
30:51
he started complaining that his chair was uncomfortable.
30:54
OK, like I'm not having your child right now, baby.
30:58
OK, he told me he wanted to go home.
31:01
We live 10 minutes away from the clinic so we could get a pillow,
31:05
have lunch and take a nap. You're kidding, right?
31:08
You're kidding. I'm pushing something this big
31:10
out of something this big, and your chair is uncomfortable and
31:13
you want to take a nap? Boo Hoo.
31:15
OK, All right. Let me rein it in.
31:17
I'm going to rein it in. I told him that I wanted him
31:20
here with me and that he could go home to eat a quick lunch and
31:23
grab a pillow, but no nap. I hoped he could be back as soon
31:27
as possible. He left, and it took two hours
31:30
for him to return. He took that nap.
31:32
He had called his family and friends but not my family, had
31:37
lunch and napped on the sofa. Oh my God.
31:44
I was fine when he was away, I had the epidural, but at some
31:48
point baby's heart rate plummeted.
31:50
The midwives made me switch positions and it came back to
31:53
normal a couple of minutes after he got back.
31:56
I had incredibly strong contractions without rest
31:59
between them. He really was incredible and
32:01
helped me a lot through them. But it was lucky that it didn't
32:04
start just minutes earlier, right?
32:06
One hour later, baby's heart plummeted again, but this time
32:09
it was not coming back up. Doctors were called and I had an
32:13
instrumental vaginal delivery that was very intense.
32:17
Oh my God, I now have the most perfect baby boy.
32:20
But I have a hard time letting go of what happened during his
32:22
birth and it is still a bittersweet moment for me.
32:25
I want to forgive my husband. He said he was very sorry and it
32:29
was a mistake, but I can't actually forgive.
32:32
I think there were two things that really anger me.
32:34
First, the what if my baby's heart rate dropped when he was
32:38
away? If it didn't get back to normal,
32:40
I would have been required to have an emergency C-section and
32:43
he wouldn't have been there to welcome our son.
32:46
Also, to hold your hand sweetie, you know you matter too.
32:49
Is not just the baby. The second is that I have a hard
32:53
time asking for help. In my most vulnerable time, I
32:56
was able to verbalize what I needed and I'm proud of myself
32:59
for that, but he still chose to ignore it.
33:01
Am I overreacting for not forgiving him even if he is an
33:04
amazing and very present dad? So she gave a tiny edit I want
33:08
to add before we start talking. She is ready, I can see it, she
33:11
was ready. I just want to add a bit about
33:14
his thoughts, thought process on it, even if it doesn't excuse
33:17
his behavior. He was so convinced that Malabar
33:20
was going to last 24 hours that he wanted to rest, to be fresh
33:24
and ready for us on the finish line.
33:26
But I needed him now and it was already the finish line.
33:29
Period I. You know what?
33:32
I could have gone without that edit.
33:33
I don't need to hear from you. 24 hours Doctor Dad, tell me
33:37
what experience you have that says that this labor was going
33:40
to last. 24 hours, but even if it was 24 hours, your job is to
33:44
be there every minute and every second of those 24 hours, so I
33:48
don't care throw that out the window.
33:49
I don't care red flag yes, No, you're not over your acting No,
33:53
you're like, are you kidding me and the little part at the end,
33:57
sorry, I didn't mean to cut you off at that moment, but I was
33:59
like, but he's an amazing. I hate hearing that.
34:03
I'm sorry, but I hate hearing that the feeling like you love
34:06
him. You have the right to still love
34:08
him, but he did this thing so dirty to you, but still feeling
34:12
the need to like protect him or excuse his behavior when you're
34:16
telling other people your story. You have the right to feel angry
34:20
for yourself, hurt for yourself, feel blindsided, left abandoned,
34:25
you know what I mean? Without having to save his
34:28
feelings in the process. Or justify his his.
34:32
Actions, I think that is irrelevant right now.
34:34
You were feeling left behind in a moment where you needed him.
34:38
It could have turned so horrible and now you're like fearful of
34:43
that situation because if another situation that crazy or
34:46
that like intense happened again, would he be there for
34:49
you? Or would he leave and bounce and
34:52
take him out? Uncomfortable thank you.
34:54
In a chair. You better sit in that chair.
34:56
I don't care. It is the most uncomfortable
34:58
chair, but he lay your ass down. That's what I'm.
34:59
Saying you need a pillow. You could have asked the nurses
35:01
to bring you a pillow. I think they have a pillow in a
35:04
hospital like you. And there's a there's a
35:07
cafeteria, there's vending machines.
35:10
Like you could have got a snack. He wanted to go home.
35:12
He wanted to go home. The birth of your child wasn't
35:16
enough to keep you here. I think we're good.
35:19
That tells me the grand scale of what's important to you or not.
35:23
Yes. So I'm good.
35:25
You're like no, no, I'm good. I know we just met him 5 minutes
35:31
ago. But like, I'm good.
35:33
Divorce like. Yeah, yeah.
35:35
I mean, we need a counter of how many times Trinity says divorce,
35:40
divorce. We're done, we're done.
35:43
I completely agree cuz it's not it's usually not the moment
35:48
right? Like the moment was a big deal.
35:50
But also you have to think in the future and how he dealt with
35:52
this issue right now you needed him in this moment.
35:56
Your child is going to be brought into the world.
35:58
I am so tired of people minimalizing childbirth like
36:02
it's you know, I don't know what a teeth cleaning like this is a
36:06
huge endeavor. Babies and women die all the
36:09
time. Today, with all the
36:11
technological advances we have, women and babies are still dying
36:16
and people are like, it's fine, I'm going to go run home, take a
36:19
quick little nappy nap. They love snacky snack, make
36:22
phone calls. Not to my not to my family, but
36:25
to your people. You didn't even call any of my
36:27
people. And.
36:28
Tell them, Oh my God, no, no. And I'm petty enough to be like,
36:33
you know what your daddy did when you were born?
36:37
I write a whole book about it. You read it to him every night.
36:39
Be like. And this was the two hours when
36:41
Daddy went home for a nap. And throw a snack, that part.
36:47
You know what I mean? Like if you trifle, you
36:50
trifling, I have no energy for you.
36:52
Yeah. And stop defending them.
36:54
Stop. But they love to come on here
36:55
and be like, here is the most horrible thing he's ever done to
36:57
me. But he's a nice, he's a nice
36:59
dad. Give me the evidence on which he
37:01
was a nice person. Just to do that thing.
37:08
That part, yes, well, now that we're on the I'm being irritated
37:13
with men rampage, if we can go to my screen again for the
37:16
visual people, this is the Galavi gang or the Pink gang
37:21
gang, gang, gang, right? It is a women's movement that's
37:24
based in India and it was founded by Sampat Pal Devi, I
37:28
think. And she well did this after she
37:31
witnessed a man abusing his wife on the street and when she tried
37:36
to go help, this man also abused her.
37:39
She then came the next day with with a bamboo stick and five
37:45
other women and handled business.
37:46
I heard that. I heard that.
37:49
I heard that. Handle that business.
37:53
Let's go. OK, I'm not even mad, not even
37:56
mad. But afterwards, women in the
37:59
community started coming up to her saying, hey, could you help
38:02
me handle this situation? I have another similar
38:04
situation. So her and the other women came
38:07
together, got their bamboo sticks and proceeded to handle
38:09
business again. And so she realized this is a
38:12
really good situation for me. So she got the pink saris, got
38:16
their bamboo sticks, and they formed the Galavi gang or the
38:18
Pink gang, and they're out there in India basically.
38:26
She is ready to handle vintage. Sorry for the listeners on
38:31
Spotify and Apple, but she has this bamboo stick up against her
38:34
up above her head. She is.
38:36
Ready like full force ahead. I am so proud of these women.
38:41
Yes. So, so proud.
38:43
But they're doing this and people love calling them like a
38:45
vigilante group. And I feel like that puts a
38:47
negative connotation when they're doing it is women's
38:50
rights group, empowerment group, You know what I mean?
38:55
Like don't put them in vigilante.
38:56
Like what do you excuse me? Exactly.
38:58
As if what's happening in India isn't horrible.
39:02
So you all we are doing is retaliation for things that are
39:06
happening to women. Thank you.
39:07
But the women are the only ones being demonized here.
39:10
Yes, OK. I know.
39:12
That's what. Yeah.
39:13
That's why I have an issue with the vigilante.
39:15
They're all here fighting crime. It's like you.
39:17
Excuse me. Right.
39:18
How about you fight the crime? Thank you.
39:20
How about you do something about this?
39:21
There were some things that were mentioned in India that women
39:25
have to endure all the time because Indian cultural is very
39:28
patriarchal. I hate to say it, but it is.
39:32
And it's faced with female illiteracy, domestic violence
39:36
constantly on a daily basis, child labor and child marriages.
39:41
And we're supposed to sit by and not do anything about this?
39:45
Absolutely not. So I'm gonna take my bamboo
39:47
stick and that's right, I'm gonna handle some business.
39:51
OK, yes, because nobody is helping these women, Nobody is
39:55
coming to save them, so they're saving themselves.
39:56
They're saving themselves. She's teaching them
39:58
self-defense. She's teaching them to read.
40:01
I mean, are you? Kidding me.
40:03
It's amazing. And I when I was reading about
40:05
them, I was just, I felt a swell of pride because most times
40:10
women are saving other women. You know, it's like we can say
40:14
what we want about who the protectors are or whatever, but
40:17
from mostly what I see, women were running in and saving other
40:21
women. Thank you.
40:22
And so to have these women just in a system and in a place where
40:26
they're this, they could be in probably some serious trouble.
40:29
Yeah, for this. They're doing it.
40:31
They're doing it and they're standing on business about it.
40:35
Meet that end. I love it.
40:37
So please. Yeah, period.
40:39
Please search up the Gulabi Gang, please.
40:41
It's spelled GULABI. If you are able, please go
40:45
donate to their cause, OK? They have it right there on the
40:48
website and read the word about them because they need to be
40:52
heard again. This is what the show's about
40:54
y'all. Everyone deserves to be heard.
40:57
Yes, and protected and just live a life.
41:00
Thank you. Thank you.
41:04
OK, so if I say baby Jessica, do you know what I'm talking about?
41:09
Only because of you. Only because of me.
41:11
So you can go to my screen, please.
41:13
So this is Jessica McClure Morales.
41:16
So last week she was arrested for domestic disturbance and
41:20
later released on bond. They haven't released any
41:22
details. But why I wanted to include this
41:25
in here is because she is like a where are they now for a huge
41:31
pop culture moment that happened in the 80s, right?
41:33
OK. So if you I would love to know
41:35
in the comments section if where you were when baby Jessica
41:38
happened, were you alive? Were you an adult?
41:41
Were you a child? Because I remember it right.
41:43
OK, so in 1987, if you could see that little pole right in
41:48
between those two men, baby Jessica who was only 18 months
41:52
old, fell down this 18 inch diameter well pipe that was in
41:56
her backyard. She.
41:58
Just fell down, I know, and she was stuck for 58 hours before
42:02
being rescued. 5858 hours. Oh my God.
42:05
I know it's crazy. So she was finally pulled out.
42:11
See her right there in the middle?
42:13
She was just walking around in her backyard.
42:15
It was in Texas and it was wide open. 18 months and she fell
42:19
down. Girl I know.
42:23
Oh my God, that's insane. That is so crazy.
42:26
She was there for a. Long time and y'all were
42:27
watching. Oh yeah.
42:29
It was like, so that's what I want to talk about.
42:31
And so we saw a documentary because I was still young when
42:34
this happened, so I didn't know all the details, but basically
42:37
we watched the documentary a little while ago.
42:39
That baby Jessica is basically why we have the 24 hour news
42:42
cycle because people were so obsessed with baby Jessica.
42:48
They wanted to know don't leave, right all day long, keep the
42:51
cameras rolling. And so like the CNN's and the
42:53
MSNBC's, the full 24 hour cycle was started in 87.
42:58
Because of baby Jessica? Yeah.
43:02
Unbelievable. So you have constant coverage
43:06
because a baby fell down a pole? Found a well, a little pole,
43:10
pole well or whatever. Like the two.
43:12
And she found her way down. There inches around she was so
43:17
tiny so I know this is terrible but I was like I found this.
43:22
This is basically how she was stuck down.
43:23
Ohh they did a reenactment thing.
43:27
Circulation. I don't know.
43:28
And I'm sure her hips were broken.
43:30
And for the listeners, she's kind of like, both arms are
43:33
above her head, one leg is above her.
43:36
It's like, and then one is next. To her head.
43:38
Yeah, she's like in a split with both of her arms held above her.
43:41
Head. I know.
43:42
I don't know how she could breathe.
43:43
I don't know anything. Oh my God, I know so.
43:47
She made it out. Alive she made it out alive they
43:49
pulled her out and it was just like AI know baby Jessica, what
43:53
were you We didn't. Make it out of the pool just for
43:54
you to get arrested. You will feel me too Better,
43:58
Jessica. Come on, Jessica.
44:00
But yeah, when I saw that I was like baby Jessica.
44:02
Oh my, no way. Cuz in my head she's still a
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baby but she's a good ass woman. Yes, he is.
44:09
Yep. So if I hear anything about why
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she was arrested, I mean, they said it was a domestic
44:14
disturbance, but I'll let y'all know.
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But Jessica. Yep.
44:16
Thank you. I just thought that that was an
44:18
interesting thing to bring up because we talk about our
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generations, all the different generations, and that was just a
44:23
huge pop culture moment if you were alive in the 80s.
44:26
Yeah. Yeah.
44:27
That's insane. I know.
44:28
Jesus, Jessica. Well, thank you for that.
44:31
Of course. All right, I have my last
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Reddit. This one is a confession.
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I pretended to be my sister and destroyed her life when I was
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19. I did something so petty and
44:44
gross to my sister that I have never told anyone and every time
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I see her now I feel physically sick.
44:51
We were living with her mom in a tiny apartment and my sister was
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the one who always seemed to have her life together.
44:56
Stable job, long term boyfriend, always look put together.
45:00
I was the mess, late to everything, dropping classes,
45:04
constantly being compared to her.
45:07
Then her boyfriend cheated on her.
45:09
She came home crying and I acted supportive, but honestly part of
45:13
me felt this ugly sense of relief that something in her
45:15
life had finally gone bad too. A couple of days later, while
45:20
she was in the shower, I took her phone and texted him
45:23
pretending to be her. I said she was going to expose
45:26
him to everyone. I made it way harsher than she
45:29
probably ever would have because I wanted him scared.
45:32
It escalated fast. He started blowing up her phone
45:35
then came to our apartment yelling.
45:37
My sister kept saying she didn't send it but no one really
45:40
believed her because it came from her phone.
45:42
I said nothing, then he posted screenshots online.
45:47
People from her work saw them and within a week she lost her
45:50
job over it. She moved out soon after and
45:54
never really came back emotionally.
45:56
Now I only see her on holidays and she's polite but distant.
46:00
She still doesn't know it was me.
46:02
I keep telling myself I was young and bitter, which is true,
46:05
but it still did it on purpose. I was jealous and I helped ruin
46:09
her life over one nasty text. Yikes, girl, girl, that ain't
46:15
right. That's not.
46:16
Right. I I like, I'm sitting here being
46:17
like, how can I be like? That's not right.
46:19
Wrong's. Wrong.
46:20
No, that is so wrong because she never did anything to you.
46:23
You were just jealous. Yeah, because she had the good
46:27
life for whatever. You had this narrative and you
46:29
went and just ruined her life. Isn't it enough that you got
46:31
cheated on? Thank you.
46:33
Like you had to escalate it and make it worse.
46:35
You were supposed to be there for your sister in that moment
46:38
her boyfriend cheated on her. Right.
46:40
And she came home for support. That's why you come home.
46:43
Thank you and you proceeded to blow up her life.
46:47
Why would you do that? I feel like she knew that was
46:50
going to happen or something because she didn't say it as if
46:53
she was trying to be supportive. She's like, I wanted him to be
46:55
scared. Why?
46:56
Why? Why did you want him to be
46:57
scared? You know, you could have text
47:00
him your own from your own phone and being like, this is her
47:02
sister. I'm a whoop, yo, you know what I
47:04
mean? Like you could have done that,
47:06
but you did it from her phone pretending to be her.
47:08
Exactly. You knew what you were doing.
47:10
Thank you, got her fired and everything.
47:13
What? Did you say?
47:14
Thank you. I want to know that part too.
47:17
People in the comments, comments were like, she comes to family
47:20
events and dinners and stuff, but she's distant and people
47:22
were like, I think she's distant from you because she might have
47:25
a suspicion, yes, that you're the one who did it.
47:27
Cuz who else had access to her phone?
47:29
Thank you. You know, he's like, you know,
47:30
your parents aren't gonna do that unless it's that crazy ass
47:33
lady from that documentary who was doing that to her daughter.
47:36
Wait, what? Oh my God.
47:38
Wait, hold on. Yeah, there was a pivot real
47:41
quick. There was a crazy documentary
47:43
where this young girl was getting all these text messages
47:45
to people that she was flirting with boys and cussing out people
47:49
and everything. And then you find out that it
47:51
was her mom that was doing it after this whole long drawn out
47:55
situation. Because her moms crazy.
47:57
My God. But she's not.
47:59
That's not her mom. I'm going to assume so else
48:02
would do that in your in your house.
48:04
So and she probably already knew that you had some feelings, you
48:08
felt some type of well, you guys are.
48:09
Her, she's 19 and she's probably a little older.
48:11
Like no way she doesn't know at that point.
48:15
You've built this resentment towards your sister for so long.
48:19
She felt it. What?
48:20
That's insane. You ruined your sister's life
48:23
and there's no way to excuse it. Wrong is wrong.
48:26
Oh no. Yeah, she gets a red flag for
48:29
this for sure. That up slightly.
48:32
I don't want to do it right. She deserves it, she does.
48:38
Wrong is wrong. Wrong is wrong.
48:40
I don't like it, I know. Would I be the asshole for
48:43
telling my client that I used to date her husband?
48:47
Oh. I-28 female, Work at a hair
48:50
salon and have a client. 29, female.
48:53
She first started coming here in November and has been my new
48:56
regular. The first time she came in she
48:58
said it was funny that me and her daughter have the exact same
49:01
name, especially since it's an older uncommon name.
49:05
You're no Oh my God, Mom, I'm I already went to the end.
49:11
Yes, she told me she had a husband, 29, male, which I
49:16
didn't really care about to be honest.
49:19
A few months later during an appointment she told me a bit
49:21
about her husband. She said that his name was John,
49:24
which is his fake name and that they met about six years ago at
49:28
work and ended up getting married 3 1/2 years ago.
49:30
We talked some more and she revealed that he went to XY
49:33
university, which was the same university that I went to before
49:37
I dropped out. As she kept on talking, I
49:39
realized that John was insanely similar to my ex-boyfriend.
49:43
However, I thought it was just a coincidence since I still live
49:46
by the university and John is a common name and people can have
49:50
similar interests. Fast forward to last week, she
49:53
showed me her vacation photos that had John in it and I
49:57
instantly recognized him but I didn't say anything and just did
50:00
her hair. Honestly I don't know what to
50:02
think but I'm a little weirded out.
50:04
We ended on extremely bad terms. So is it weird to find out that
50:08
his daughter has the same name as me, his ex-girlfriend?
50:12
While I don't see anything wrong with having my ex's wife as my
50:15
client, I feel a little odd about the whole situation.
50:18
I don't want to tell her and act as if I'm the crazy
50:21
ex-girlfriend and trying to ruin their relationship, but I feel
50:24
like she should know. If I was in her shoes, I would
50:27
want to know. I'm not sure what to do Should I
50:30
stay quiet and let it be or tell her?
50:33
She's a genuinely kind and sweet person and I don't want her to
50:36
get hurt over nothing. And she added some additional
50:39
info because people were asking in the comments section.
50:41
I have questions too. So #1 she said we were pretty
50:45
serious together about three years and planning to get an
50:47
apartment together. We had a dog that he took #2 we
50:52
ended after we got into a fight in his car.
50:54
He threw me out of his car in the middle of the night like 5
50:57
blocks from where I lived. Woah.
51:00
Three. He was not abusive, just an
51:02
alcoholic. I don't know if he still is.
51:05
I think throwing you out of a car is abusive.
51:07
Abusive, but OK. OK #4 I don't know exactly how
51:12
they chose their daughter's name and #5 she found me through my
51:15
Instagram account for work. My other socials are private so
51:19
would I be the asshole? How old is the?
51:21
Kid, it does not say I. Need to know how old the kid is.
51:26
I need to know so bad, right? So bad because they were
51:30
together the new couple three years.
51:33
If the kid is any older than that, then that means that he
51:38
literally named his child after this woman that he still hung up
51:43
on, apparently. And in that case, she absolutely
51:47
needs to know. And you wouldn't be mom.
51:52
She wouldn't be. No, no guys, the tea is so hot
51:56
and it's like I need to know how old the kid is.
51:59
I wish I could tell you maybe I can go back and look at the
52:02
comment section, but I didn't see anything about how old the
52:05
kid is my. God, I don't think she would be
52:07
and I feel like she deserves to know.
52:09
This is my child that I'm sharing with this with this guy
52:13
and I needed to know the reason you brought up my name.
52:15
Yes. So let's say, OK, so let's say
52:17
this is you, right? The kid is young long enough
52:20
that it's clear he wasn't. He didn't.
52:22
The child wasn't conceived while y'all were together.
52:25
You would want to know. I think I would because it would
52:29
probably explain no way she's hiding her behavior while she's
52:33
doing her hair because OK, black women, we have a great
52:37
relationship with her hairdressers like, and if she's
52:40
all the sudden acting a little off all the sudden after I
52:44
showed these vacation photos or if I'm not saying certain
52:47
things, I would want to know why for sure I want to know.
52:51
Everything, everything, all the things.
52:54
Yes, I want to know everything. I'd be like, yes, I would want
52:57
to know if you accidentally bumped into my husband at the
53:00
grocery store. You know what I'm saying?
53:01
Like I want to know all the things.
53:03
But knowing y'all had a whole history, it's not like y'all
53:05
dated for like a year or whatever.
53:06
It was three years. And also, does the new wife, is
53:12
she dealing with the alcoholic side of him too or?
53:15
There's so many questions. I have a lot of questions.
53:17
You know what I mean? I do.
53:18
So no, I don't think she would be.
53:20
Reveal the information, mom, and see what happens.
53:22
What I'm saying just tell. Her and also how old is the kid
53:24
but. I'm it's like I need it I.
53:26
Need to know. Kids age please.
53:28
No, no. Oh my God.
53:30
But no matter what, like you named her this unique old person
53:34
name, basically the first name that popped in your head when
53:37
you named your child is my name, No.
53:40
Yeah, tell me that alone. Phone is like woo, that's
53:44
insane. Yeah, no good.
53:46
You would not be. The asshole I know.
53:48
And I'm like. You're like the tease.
53:51
I love it. Well, is that it?
53:54
That's it. That's it.
53:56
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53:57
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