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Speaker 1: because now is Chris read screams. Okay. First up from
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Speaker 1: the subreddit bo r updates, Best of Reredditor updates. It
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Speaker 1: took me a second. I was like, what is that?
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Speaker 1: That's best of verditor updates and it is want to
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Speaker 1: break up with boyfriend for younger guy? Zero opinions from
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Speaker 1: the start. Let's just get into it. For the sake
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Speaker 1: of protecting both our identities, I'll refer to my boyfriend
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Speaker 1: as John, not his real name. John and I met
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Speaker 1: at work. He was my office manager for several years Spicy.
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Speaker 1: About three years ago, I went through a really rough
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Speaker 1: breakup with my ex and my mental state was very poor.
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Speaker 1: John could see how upset I was at work, even
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Speaker 1: though I did my best to leave it at home.
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Speaker 1: I didn't really want to be the latest office gossip.
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Speaker 1: So when he started offering his office for me to
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Speaker 1: work in private, I was super grateful. Like with him
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Speaker 1: or anyway. Sometimes he would also be there wow, but
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Speaker 1: he was often needed elsewhere, so I wasn't too concerned
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Speaker 1: about the other type of gossip performing. Yeah, fifty shades
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Speaker 1: written all over that. Over time, John and I grew
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Speaker 1: a close bond, and after a few months we started
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Speaker 1: going out for drinks and food. I guess you could
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Speaker 1: say we began dating. The age thing was always in
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Speaker 1: the back of my mind, but those first few months
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Speaker 1: were really good, so I didn't think too much of it.
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Speaker 1: What's the age range? Oh? There was an original title,
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Speaker 1: I'm really dumb. The original title says that she is
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Speaker 1: thirty two and he is fifty four. Okay, so how
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Speaker 1: many years is the twenty two years? Twenty two years?
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Speaker 1: That's a bit of an age gun. That's two different people,
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Speaker 1: and we're back, okay. The age thing always was in
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Speaker 1: the back of my mind, but those first few months
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Speaker 1: were really good, so I didn't think too much of it.
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Speaker 1: He was kind, funny, caring, and just seemed like a
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Speaker 1: really great guy. After several months of dating, John made
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Speaker 1: the decision to transfer offices to avoid any conflict of
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Speaker 1: interest or potential problems with the company. Not long after,
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Speaker 1: we moved in together. That's when problem started to reveal themselves.
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Speaker 1: At first, it was small, stupid things, like he'd insist
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Speaker 1: I stopped watching my favorite TV shows because they were
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Speaker 1: childish and stupid. Bye bye, John, I'm going to watch
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Speaker 1: Family Guy and Love is Blind all I want. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Bye bye. Sorry. I would laugh and say he didn't
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Speaker 1: get it because he's old, and we'd make a joke
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Speaker 1: of it. The thing is, though he wasn't joking. This
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Speaker 1: became a constant thing, and it began to weigh on me,
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Speaker 1: until I decided to just stop watching. Oh he's getting
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Speaker 1: rid of your whimsy. He's stopping on your whimsy, and
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Speaker 1: I hate John. Next up was my clothing choices. He
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Speaker 1: accused me of dressing like I was in my twenties,
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Speaker 1: like I was wanting to attract a young guy, so
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Speaker 1: I started dressing older and more appropriately. He started making
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Speaker 1: me feel bad about my friends, accusing them of being
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Speaker 1: childish and boring. Just leave John, nobody, Just leave bye
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Speaker 1: bye John. You know, go use your big man adult
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Speaker 1: money and go get your own place and leave John.
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Speaker 1: He would go out of his way to ask them
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Speaker 1: questions about philosophy and politics, and then berate them for
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Speaker 1: not knowing the answers. Oh, this is the worst type
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Speaker 1: of man. My friends confess they didn't like being around
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Speaker 1: him because he made them feel belittled, which is exactly
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Speaker 1: how he often makes me feel. I hardly see them anymore,
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Speaker 1: but I don't blame them for wanting to distance themselves.
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Speaker 1: You can leave, just clean up. There's mortal the story, right,
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Speaker 1: she wants to leave for younger guy. I forgot. I
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Speaker 1: used to have a lot of independence in my life, hobbies,
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Speaker 1: friends and fun. Now it seems all I ever really
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Speaker 1: do is what John wants to do, most of which
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Speaker 1: are things I find absolutely my numbingly dull. Whatever I
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Speaker 1: push back and try to do what I want, he'll
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Speaker 1: shut me down, making me feel tiny and stupid for
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Speaker 1: suggesting it, often using his age as a way to
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Speaker 1: say I know better than you. A tail is all
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Speaker 1: this time, you know, especially with the lady being younger
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Speaker 1: than the man. It's just always like oh no, no, no,
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Speaker 1: little girl, I tell you like it becomes like a
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Speaker 1: dad thing, and it's like, oh, I'm out, I'm gonna go,
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna step back. I don't need a dad, all right.
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Speaker 1: You need you need you need a partner. So this
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Speaker 1: is weird. I understand this. This makes me very sad
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Speaker 1: for this person. And that's been my life for the
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Speaker 1: past couple of years up until recently. Enter Mark Oh
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Speaker 1: Mark again not his real name, the new guy at work,
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Speaker 1: the new guy in town at work, who's incredibly fun
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Speaker 1: to be around. He has amazing energy, charisma, and bundles
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Speaker 1: of charm. He and I get on like a house fire.
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Speaker 1: All right, well, okay, we share a lot. Just that's like,
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Speaker 1: not something I would say, but get on like a
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Speaker 1: house fire? Why a house? How does it have to
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Speaker 1: be a residence? Could it just be a campfire? Anyway?
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Speaker 1: Some like why do people have to die in this scenario?
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Speaker 1: We share a lot of the same hobbies. He's only
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Speaker 1: a couple of years older than me, and he makes
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Speaker 1: me laugh in ways I haven't laughed since I was
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Speaker 1: a kid, the kind of goofy, uncontrollable laughter that makes
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Speaker 1: your sides hurt. I find myself thinking about Mark a lot.
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Speaker 1: I look forward to going to work to hang out
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Speaker 1: with him. I get butterflies in my belly when I'm
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Speaker 1: around him, and I feel a genuine warmth when I'm
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Speaker 1: with him. To be clear nothing romantic has happened between
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Speaker 1: Mark and me. But I'd be lying if I said
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Speaker 1: I didn't want it to. John was there for me
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Speaker 1: when I really needed someone. Maybe I'm the problem for
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Speaker 1: not strongly advocating for myself. I've always been a people pleaser.
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Speaker 1: Erg I can't even tell what's real anymore. I'm being
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Speaker 1: selfish or childish, or getting swept up in the fantasy
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Speaker 1: of it all. I could really use some advice here. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I processed it, and this is I mean, listen, Okay,
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Speaker 1: I think you need to break up with John, all right.
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Speaker 1: First things first, I think that needs to be over
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Speaker 1: and dealt with it. Sounds like that is just not
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Speaker 1: going to work, and it shouldn't work the way he
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Speaker 1: treats you as terrible and you like Yeah, I mean,
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Speaker 1: you clearly don't even really love him or like him anymore,
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Speaker 1: So you need to leave that relationship. That is the
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Speaker 1: first thing I would say. Another thing I would say
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Speaker 1: is that you shouldn't jump into the grass the green
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Speaker 1: of grass over there. It might be nice and this
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Speaker 1: might be Mark. Mark might might be the right guy,
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Speaker 1: you know jet Mark on Mark, he might be the
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Speaker 1: guy that you should be with. But I feel like
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Speaker 1: you really need to take just a little bit of
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Speaker 1: time for yourself. Coming from somebody who needed to take
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Speaker 1: a little time for herself, okay, coming from someone who
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Speaker 1: thought she was an independent queen but she ended up
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Speaker 1: being at a little codependent peasant okay me, by the way,
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Speaker 1: And you kind of need outside people earth like unbiased
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Speaker 1: or party, like a therapist or just people around you
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Speaker 1: to be like, hey, just like relax a little bit.
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Speaker 1: You know, you need to love yourself and realize what
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Speaker 1: you want and what you deserve and everything. It's if
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Speaker 1: somebody makes you laugh and is nice, but like you,
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Speaker 1: like you said before, with the older gentleman Jean, you
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Speaker 1: thought everything was great until you moved in with him,
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Speaker 1: and then things started to go bad and you stayed
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Speaker 1: with him. So it's like you're just you're letting you're
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Speaker 1: leaving yourself in these bad situations when you should be,
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Speaker 1: you know, taking yourself out, figuring out what you want,
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Speaker 1: what you need, and maybe laying down some boundaries for
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Speaker 1: the next person. I think it's okay that you have
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Speaker 1: feelings for this other person and everything, but you need
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Speaker 1: to leave that first relationship and then maybe just just
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Speaker 1: continue to just slowly have this, like build this friendship
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Speaker 1: with Mark and figure him out as a person before
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Speaker 1: you jump into anything too crazy and romantic and everything,
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Speaker 1: because that's a textbook readband right there, sweetheart. Okay, but yeah,
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Speaker 1: I mean, you deserve happiness, and I feel like you
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Speaker 1: deserve to love yourself before you love anybody else, you know, RuPaul. Okay,
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Speaker 1: but let's see what the comments say. First comment says,
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Speaker 1: repeating the same behavior, break up with John, get therapy,
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Speaker 1: learn to live without a man for five minutes. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Well that was a that was like a really harsh
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Speaker 1: version of what I just said. It's really funny, right,
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Speaker 1: It's so brutal. It's just like divorce, light his house
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Speaker 1: on fire or whatever. Basically, Another comment said, yep, op,
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Speaker 1: you are just jumping from one sinking ship to another.
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Speaker 1: I don't know if Mark is a sinking ship necessarily.
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Speaker 1: He might just be a house fire. We don't know,
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Speaker 1: you know, sounds like he is a house fire from
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Speaker 1: the way she described him. And another person said, at work,
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Speaker 1: one ship to another. At work at work, you know
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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't get out. Okay, I'm not
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Speaker 1: going to totally falter for that, Like I it's a
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Speaker 1: it's a damn miracle that I am married right now.
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Speaker 1: I don't get out ever, hardly talk to anyone, especially online.
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Speaker 1: So I just happened to talk to him one day
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Speaker 1: and I was like, yes, that he just happened to
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Speaker 1: be perfect, so it was great. Yeah, it's not professional necessarily,
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Speaker 1: but I mean my mom and my stepdaman at work,
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Speaker 1: and my friend's parents met at work. That's neither here
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Speaker 1: nor there. But I agree that she needs to take
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Speaker 1: a minute for herself and maybe just build that friendship
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Speaker 1: with this person and really get to know them before
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Speaker 1: jumping into something. Because when you're in a bad situation,
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Speaker 1: the littlest things that other people do, in this case,
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Speaker 1: like that a man would do that's like semi attractive
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Speaker 1: and like a little younger or whatever whatever it is,
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Speaker 1: seems like the craziest thing ever, Like, oh my god,
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Speaker 1: he opened the door for me. Should I look at
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Speaker 1: engagement rings? You know, you get so just beaten down
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Speaker 1: by this one person, where the bare minimum becomes like
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Speaker 1: the stars and the moon altogether, speaking from experience, and yeah,
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Speaker 1: well that's kind of where I think. But we have
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Speaker 1: an update, so let's read it. I'm interested to see
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Speaker 1: what happens. Thank you for all your advice. I realize
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Speaker 1: now that my problems with codependency and the fear of
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Speaker 1: being alone pushes me into these unhealthy situations. Okay, at
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Speaker 1: least she's able to reflect and stuff. I will be
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Speaker 1: ending my relationship with John. Good job, girl, But Mark
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Speaker 1: and I will remain nothing more than colleagues and friends
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Speaker 1: for the foreseeable future. Kay, Yeah, okay. I need to
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Speaker 1: learn how to be comfortable being my own and rediscover
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Speaker 1: myself before I consider entering any new relationships. We love
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Speaker 1: a queen who takes notes and applies them. You know,
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Speaker 1: that's great. I'm so proud of her comment said, be
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Speaker 1: careful of John's reaction to the breakup, perhaps loopin boss
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Speaker 1: or HR person. I thought he left the job. I
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Speaker 1: thought he left work, didn't he? I thought he left
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Speaker 1: that job. Yeah, John made the decision to transfer offices.
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Speaker 1: Oh just offices. Oh okay, Now I kind of understand
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Speaker 1: more that the person's like at work at work. It's
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Speaker 1: just like, but I still stand by, like, who if
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Speaker 1: you don't get out? You know, I don't know. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: that is so true. I thought that that he moved jobs.
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Speaker 1: That is a whole other beast. Yeah that's oh. I
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Speaker 1: would definitely take time with Mark to like just hang
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Speaker 1: out in friends. Yeah, that's great advice. Then like letting
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Speaker 1: our hr know and stuff. I think that's good. So
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Speaker 1: what OP said to that? Sorry, I'll say again. Worst
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Speaker 1: case scenario, I look for another job. I have a
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Speaker 1: decent amount of savings to fall back on to support
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Speaker 1: me finding other work, so I'm not too concerned. Hopefully
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Speaker 1: it doesn't come to that, but I'm prepared for it
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Speaker 1: if it does. Damn. Okay, Well, you know, at least
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Speaker 1: she has a plan. You can't always control who you
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Speaker 1: like and who you fall in love with and everything.
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Speaker 1: It might not be you know, ethical, it might not
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Speaker 1: be the best, like in terms of her liking John
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Speaker 1: and falling into that relationship. I mean, and it sucks
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Speaker 1: if you have to break up. But I feel like
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Speaker 1: this is just a very common thing. Like there's a
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Speaker 1: lot of relationships in workplaces, my god, like restaurants and
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Speaker 1: all that kind of thing. It's just like tale as
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Speaker 1: old as time if you've ever worked in the restaurant industry.
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Speaker 1: But really, any like any job I ever had, I mean,
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Speaker 1: I'm married to my coworker now, but I mean, we're
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Speaker 1: both around bosses. But any other job I had, you know,
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Speaker 1: working at a salon, working at dealerships or all the like,
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Speaker 1: there's always people that were dating restaurants. So I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I just don't think that it's like the craziest thing ever,
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Speaker 1: but definitely hard to manage. I'm curious how to how
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Speaker 1: have you guys managed that if you have any experience
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Speaker 1: with that. But we have another update, so let's read it. Okay,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to shut up. As I received several messages
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Speaker 1: about this, I decided to post an update. I ended
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Speaker 1: my relationship with John. He started to make things difficult
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Speaker 1: for me at work, so we ended up resigning. Damn, John,
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Speaker 1: you piece of shit. We saw this coming though, right
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Speaker 1: from what we saw John, What an ass. And he's
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Speaker 1: supposed to be like the older, more mature one. Yeah, okay,
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Speaker 1: I now have a much better job. Oh great, and
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Speaker 1: life is really good. I haven't really seen Mark since
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Speaker 1: I quit my job, but we occasionally message each other
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Speaker 1: on social media. He did hit me up very recently
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Speaker 1: invited me to go and see a concert with him.
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Speaker 1: We both really liked the band playing, and he remembered
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Speaker 1: I was a fan of them too. They're playing locally
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Speaker 1: next month, so I'll be seeing him then. Oh love that.
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Speaker 1: I don't really see anything romantic developing between us, though
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Speaker 1: our conversations are much tamer and friend coded now. Plus
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Speaker 1: I'm kind of enjoying being single. Yay. I was trying
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Speaker 1: to snap and then I ended up doing that snapping.
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Speaker 1: I feel like I have my independence back and I'm
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Speaker 1: in a much better place mentally. Ah. That is my
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Speaker 1: favorite type of post where it's just like, well, I
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Speaker 1: don't like that she had to go through breakups and
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Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff, but just when they just
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Speaker 1: become like that's just the end of a movie. That's
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Speaker 1: the end of like how to Be Single, you know
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Speaker 1: where it's just like, you know what, I'm just gonna
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Speaker 1: be on my own. I'm gonna like figure out what
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Speaker 1: knees all about? Delicious like pickles, love it, no notes.
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Speaker 1: I'm very very proud of her. It's hard to get
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Speaker 1: out of that stuff, especially with work and all the
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Speaker 1: scrats all jumbled. That's great. I feel like it was
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Speaker 1: handled perfectly. I feel like she took criticism perfectly, and
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Speaker 1: I'm very happy. Let me know what you guys think,
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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm criticizing. I love it. I don't want to
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Speaker 1: read anymore because that one, like had like a little
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Speaker 1: cozy ending. But we have to read more. Let's read
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Speaker 1: some more. This one's a little more ominous sounding, okay.
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Speaker 1: From Best of editor update it's my twenty two female
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Speaker 1: former roommate. Thirty male is freaking me out? What should
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Speaker 1: I do? Oh, I'm scared. Hi, I'm fudging details for
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Speaker 1: a demity's sake, but the gist of the story is
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Speaker 1: the same. I'm sorry it's so long. This has been
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Speaker 1: building up for some time. That's okay, queen. We love
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Speaker 1: a long story. So I used to live in a
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Speaker 1: house with five other people, including John and David. God
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Speaker 1: damn it is it John again? What's with the Johns?
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Speaker 1: On Reddit? I started dating David sometime last year and
17:19
Speaker 1: subsequently moved out to make our relationship more normal. Around
17:22
Speaker 1: the time David and I started getting close, John started
17:25
Speaker 1: to become more hostile towards me. I believe that John
17:28
Speaker 1: also has an unhealthy relationship with alcohol. And after I
17:32
Speaker 1: made some scathing remarks about drunk drivers, I've lost property
17:36
Speaker 1: and friends due to drunk driving, and I stand by
17:38
Speaker 1: my comments. I think his an antipathy. I think his
17:42
Speaker 1: antipathy towards me deepened antipathy. Excuse me while I look
17:47
Speaker 1: up this word his like animosity. Is that what you mean.
17:50
Speaker 1: I've not heard this word. I love hearing new words.
17:54
Speaker 1: You have no idea deep seated feeling of dislike ah
17:57
Speaker 1: new word unlocked and typathy unline in my vocabulary. Now,
18:01
Speaker 1: I think his antipathy towards me deepen. He started making
18:05
Speaker 1: awkward comments about me and David before we officially came
18:08
Speaker 1: out about our relationship. Example, how was your weekend that
18:11
Speaker 1: it was intimate? Just really weird stuff right off the bat.
18:14
Speaker 1: I'm not going to yap too much. Sorry, I'm going
18:16
Speaker 1: to keep reading. John loves you. I think. I think
18:18
Speaker 1: John likes you a lot. I think he's in love
18:20
Speaker 1: with you. I'm going to keep reading. This all came
18:22
Speaker 1: to a head when the house went on a wine
18:23
Speaker 1: tasting trip at the end of the last summer. Everyone
18:26
Speaker 1: got trashed except me and one other girl. As we
18:29
Speaker 1: were driving and John absolutely blew up in the parking
18:33
Speaker 1: lot in front of everyone, not just the rest of
18:35
Speaker 1: the house but also random passerby who were very amused.
18:39
Speaker 1: I adore this woman's vocabulary. I know what be amused means,
18:44
Speaker 1: but I just eating up these words anyway, yelling screaming
18:48
Speaker 1: at me and David, mostly me, saying that I was intolerable,
18:52
Speaker 1: that he was intensely uncomfortable whenever he was in the
18:55
Speaker 1: room with the two of us, and he couldn't take
18:57
Speaker 1: it anymore, and that hour, My and David's relationship was
19:00
Speaker 1: all that he thought and talked about to anyone. Oh
19:03
Speaker 1: was all he thought and talked about. I think he
19:06
Speaker 1: really likes you. This guy's unstable. You need to kick
19:08
Speaker 1: this guy out of your life. He insisted that everyone
19:11
Speaker 1: in the house felt as he did, and that he
19:13
Speaker 1: had been talking to his coworkers about us. He doesn't
19:16
Speaker 1: have many friends, and that everyone agreed. He insisted that
19:19
Speaker 1: we asked the others in the house as they would agree.
19:22
Speaker 1: They were all shifting uncomfortably during the conversation, as normal
19:25
Speaker 1: people would. I was a little afraid he would lash
19:27
Speaker 1: out further, and David later told me that he thought
19:30
Speaker 1: that John would hit him. John then flipped me off
19:33
Speaker 1: like five hundred times, saying, fuck you WHOA John needs
19:39
Speaker 1: to be incarcerated. I think it's like that's like, this
19:43
Speaker 1: is a scary situation. I mean, you know, God forbid
19:45
Speaker 1: two people love each other. I mean, the alcohol doesn't
19:48
Speaker 1: help with anything. I agree with everything that you're saying
19:50
Speaker 1: about alcohol. It's just it makes it brings out the
19:54
Speaker 1: ugly and people. It truly does, especially if somebody's already
19:56
Speaker 1: struggling with you know, maybe it's BPD or anything like that.
20:00
Speaker 1: I'm not diagnosing this person, but clearly they're just angry,
20:05
Speaker 1: potentially jealous. I feel like and just unstable. I feel
20:09
Speaker 1: like you need to distance yourself immediately. I'm going to
20:12
Speaker 1: keep breathing though. Sorry, I keep going on tangents. Naturally,
20:15
Speaker 1: David and I were like WGF and we all left
20:18
Speaker 1: him at the wine tasting place. His parents lived nearby,
20:21
Speaker 1: and we had driven his car up and drove home
20:23
Speaker 1: together because it was so awkward. After talking to other
20:26
Speaker 1: members of the house, it turned out that they had
20:28
Speaker 1: absolutely no problem with David and me hanging out together,
20:31
Speaker 1: and we suspect that everything else he said was also BS.
20:34
Speaker 1: Probably fast forward about a week of me studiously I
20:38
Speaker 1: see you, queen avoiding him. He texts me asking when
20:41
Speaker 1: I'm free so that he can apologize, But I ignore
20:43
Speaker 1: it because it's not my problem, he later corners. Literally,
20:46
Speaker 1: I was standing with my back against the wall and
20:48
Speaker 1: he was standing above me on the stairs. It was
20:50
Speaker 1: such a powerplay, ug, but he was standing above me
20:53
Speaker 1: to none apologize, saying that he was drunk and has
20:56
Speaker 1: been stressed out with work lately. He assures me that
20:58
Speaker 1: he's seeing a therapist, which whatever, okay. So fast forward
21:02
Speaker 1: a few months, tensions ease up between us. We can
21:04
Speaker 1: tolerate being in the same room together and even occasionally
21:07
Speaker 1: interact in a neutral manner. I mostly ignor them, though
21:10
Speaker 1: I then announced that I'm moving out in tensions worsen.
21:13
Speaker 1: He can no longer tolerate being in the same room
21:15
Speaker 1: as me, as in my presence seemed to literally repel him.
21:19
Speaker 1: If I walked into a room and stayed for more
21:20
Speaker 1: than five seconds, he would leave. I once tried to
21:23
Speaker 1: point out to him that his phone flashlight is on
21:26
Speaker 1: in his pocket, and he snapped at me, saying, I know, geez, John,
21:31
Speaker 1: just letting you know. I also snapped a little. After
21:33
Speaker 1: five months of this bullshit, I felt it was all right,
21:36
Speaker 1: though I do know it's petty, and told him to
21:38
Speaker 1: calm down, after which he said, never talk to me. Again,
21:42
Speaker 1: what solves that. I was like, Okay, there you go.
21:46
Speaker 1: So I haven't since. Now it's been two months since
21:49
Speaker 1: I've moved out, and David and I are still dating.
21:51
Speaker 1: I spent the weekend at the house because David and
21:53
Speaker 1: I went to the beach on Saturday and they had
21:55
Speaker 1: a Westworld viewing party on Sunday. I had a good
21:58
Speaker 1: time hanging out with the house, still friends with everyone
22:01
Speaker 1: there except John, and I've even gotten to know the
22:03
Speaker 1: new girl who replaced me. She's nice. The other people
22:06
Speaker 1: in the house seem to like me, and David agrees. However,
22:09
Speaker 1: John still exhibited the same weird behavior of not being
22:12
Speaker 1: able to tolerate being in the same room as me,
22:14
Speaker 1: and even escalated it slightly. I was standing in the
22:17
Speaker 1: kitchen talking with another housemate. John walked through the kitchen,
22:20
Speaker 1: greeted the other housemate, and then retired to his room.
22:23
Speaker 1: We continued chatting when we hear a off come from
22:26
Speaker 1: John's bedroom. I'm like, was that directed at me? WTF?
22:30
Speaker 1: Probably he was uptight the whole time I was there,
22:33
Speaker 1: not even being able to fully relax. The new girl
22:35
Speaker 1: was like are you okay to him, and he just
22:37
Speaker 1: shook his head. Looked at me and exhaled loudly. He
22:40
Speaker 1: was constantly exhaling loudly, as if my existence physically pained him.
22:44
Speaker 1: I greeted another housemate with some enthusiasm due to conflicting schedules.
22:47
Speaker 1: We hadn't seen each other for a while, and he
22:49
Speaker 1: muttered under his breath, get the f out of here
22:52
Speaker 1: and left. See, you have fantastic vocabulary, whereas our friend
22:57
Speaker 1: John here has a very poor vocabulary, given how many
23:02
Speaker 1: f's he's using in his vocabulary. Right right, you can
23:06
Speaker 1: just tell he's just mad and he has no way
23:08
Speaker 1: of like telling you how he actually feels. Because he
23:11
Speaker 1: loves you. He loves you, Jillian, I'm gonna call you, Jillian.
23:14
Speaker 1: I feel like he's in love with you, and he
23:16
Speaker 1: just is dealing with it in an extremely poor manner,
23:20
Speaker 1: childish even anyway, It's just so bizarre and not behavior
23:23
Speaker 1: anyone would expect from a thirty year old man. He's
23:26
Speaker 1: much bigger and stronger than I am, so I'm afraid
23:28
Speaker 1: that if I confront him he might actually hurt me.
23:31
Speaker 1: Assume he will, and don't do that. You don't need
23:33
Speaker 1: to worry about it, because you don't. You're not in
23:35
Speaker 1: the same vicinity to him. You don't put yourself in
23:37
Speaker 1: those situations anymore. Avoid him. David doesn't want to escalate
23:40
Speaker 1: things because he likes the house and doesn't want to move,
23:43
Speaker 1: all right, because David still lives there. Fuck so annoying.
23:47
Speaker 1: Come on, David, step up. I think he may underestimate
23:51
Speaker 1: the gravity of the situation. But am I overestimating it?
23:54
Speaker 1: But I'm afraid that this situation may become untenable. Oh
23:57
Speaker 1: my god, I want to hang out with this woman.
23:59
Speaker 1: I love this vocabulary. Sorry, I keep going off on tandrds.
24:02
Speaker 1: It's just fantastic. I want to keep visiting the house
24:04
Speaker 1: as I have friends there, But John is starting to
24:07
Speaker 1: scare me. Should I contact the landlord to sit down
24:09
Speaker 1: with John and David and talk about it? No, I genuinely,
24:13
Speaker 1: I really don't think sitting him down and talking to
24:15
Speaker 1: him will help. He's already shown you how unstable he is,
24:19
Speaker 1: how mean he is, and who knows. I mean, maybe
24:24
Speaker 1: the next step is being physical, and maybe he'll direct
24:28
Speaker 1: it towards David, but maybe he'll direct it towards you.
24:30
Speaker 1: Both are horrible. If you're going to confront anything, if
24:34
Speaker 1: you really want to do that you and David can
24:36
Speaker 1: do it. I don't even know, like on the phone
24:39
Speaker 1: or something, and like make sure David stays at your
24:42
Speaker 1: place for a significant amount of time. But I hope
24:46
Speaker 1: David gets out of that house because he is I'm
24:50
Speaker 1: also just safely assuming that he actually really loves you, John,
24:55
Speaker 1: like he had feelings for you, and he's upset at David,
24:57
Speaker 1: and he's upset up you. I mean, you didn't tell
24:59
Speaker 1: us any history. If you guys had history, but maybe
25:02
Speaker 1: he's just like built it up in his head. You know,
25:04
Speaker 1: he's disappointed. I just can't think of any other reason
25:07
Speaker 1: why he would be so emotional about this and so
25:10
Speaker 1: angry about this. If you're going to confront him, though,
25:13
Speaker 1: I would I would talk to a landlord first and
25:16
Speaker 1: just say like, hey, this person's making me, because David
25:19
Speaker 1: still lives there, incredibly uncomfortable. You know, I'm afraid that
25:23
Speaker 1: I'm going to get hurt and all this stuff like
25:25
Speaker 1: put it on somebody else. I mean, he will know
25:28
Speaker 1: that it's you, guys, though this is a tough situation.
25:31
Speaker 1: I would completely remove yourself from that house from now
25:35
Speaker 1: on as long as he's in there, though, and so
25:37
Speaker 1: should David. But you know, that's a it's a woman
25:40
Speaker 1: thing where it's just like danger danger, and guys just
25:43
Speaker 1: don't They're like, I'm a guy, what can go wrong.
25:45
Speaker 1: It's like when we're like we're programmed to be like, oh,
25:48
Speaker 1: he could kill me. I'm not. I'm just going to exit,
25:51
Speaker 1: you know. So yeah, I'm I feel like you need
25:54
Speaker 1: to just leave this man's life. I would try not
25:57
Speaker 1: to confront him if it was me, honestly, but let's
25:59
Speaker 1: say the common saying. It sounds like the guy liked
26:02
Speaker 1: you maybe yes see and then totally had a complete meltdown.
26:05
Speaker 1: Me and Redda I was on the same page. Stop
26:07
Speaker 1: going over to that house. Yes, your BF has a
26:10
Speaker 1: choice to move or stay, but either way I would
26:13
Speaker 1: not go over there. And if it's a big deal
26:15
Speaker 1: breaker for your relationship, I'm sorry that sucks, but your
26:17
Speaker 1: safety is more important. Has your bef ever talked to him?
26:20
Speaker 1: Why is let that happen? Yeah, it's just like that
26:22
Speaker 1: absolutely is a deal breaker for a relationship. It's like, oh,
26:25
Speaker 1: so my safety doesn't matter, or like you don't care
26:29
Speaker 1: about your own safety and that like it's just it
26:32
Speaker 1: seems dumb. Oh he said to that. Oh God, this
26:34
Speaker 1: seems to be the consensus of the thread. I really
26:36
Speaker 1: don't like the idea of that, but you're all probably right.
26:39
Speaker 1: I talked to my boyfriend before about this, but I
26:41
Speaker 1: think it was poor communication on my part that I
26:44
Speaker 1: constantly downplayed how nervous this was really making me feel.
26:47
Speaker 1: I talk to him now, and I think he understands.
26:49
Speaker 1: He'll be coming over to my place more now, and
26:51
Speaker 1: I'll be going over there for large gatherings where I
26:54
Speaker 1: will definitely not be alone with this. Dude, don't even
26:57
Speaker 1: do that, or if you're going to do that, David
27:01
Speaker 1: needs to take the steps to get him kicked out,
27:03
Speaker 1: like talk to the landlord for real. Just don't put
27:06
Speaker 1: yourself in that situation. Another comment said, is he physically imposing?
27:10
Speaker 1: Why is everyone letting him get away with this? Why
27:12
Speaker 1: is your boyfriend letting him get away with this? He's
27:14
Speaker 1: been throwing around fighting words with no consequences. Yeah, it's odd,
27:18
Speaker 1: like this house is full of I've read in the
27:19
Speaker 1: other comments like twenty and thirty year olds like what
27:22
Speaker 1: is what is happening? Protect this lady? You know? And
27:24
Speaker 1: this meant whatever, Like it's very confusing, But we actually
27:28
Speaker 1: have an update, so we might get a little bit
27:30
Speaker 1: of a little bit more context and hopefully conclusion. So
27:32
Speaker 1: let's read a little over two years later. No one
27:35
Speaker 1: asked for an update, but I thought i'd provide a
27:37
Speaker 1: short one shortly after this post, and David and I
27:40
Speaker 1: had to sit down talk in which I said I
27:41
Speaker 1: was no longer comfortable going over to his place. I
27:44
Speaker 1: showed him this post and how he was getting roasted
27:46
Speaker 1: in the comments. He agreed and started coming over to
27:48
Speaker 1: my place more. However, this became more lax with time
27:51
Speaker 1: and laziness, and he started asking me to come over
27:53
Speaker 1: to his house, which I hesitatingly did. Basically, it backslid
27:57
Speaker 1: into how things were before, and he made no real
28:00
Speaker 1: effort to change anything. David leave leave, David leave them
28:05
Speaker 1: he sucks and no point to David consider moving out.
28:08
Speaker 1: And as far as I know, they're still roommates. Oh
28:10
Speaker 1: so you're not together anymore? Good? Oh my god, another
28:13
Speaker 1: independent queen. Hopefully let's keep reading. It's been a while now,
28:16
Speaker 1: so I honestly can't remember if John ever made an
28:18
Speaker 1: attempt at making an apology, but at any rate, he
28:21
Speaker 1: never made an apology I deemed to be genuine, and
28:23
Speaker 1: he always made me uneasy. No more serious incidents occurred.
28:28
Speaker 1: John never touched me physically. For this, I feel exceedingly fortunate.
28:31
Speaker 1: A few months after I made that post, I started
28:33
Speaker 1: wanting to move away for various reasons, mostly wanting a
28:36
Speaker 1: change of scenery and culture. And I realized that I
28:39
Speaker 1: didn't consider my relationship valuable enough to make me want
28:41
Speaker 1: to stay. That was over a year ago. We broke up,
28:44
Speaker 1: I moved away, and in quarantine, I've reconsidered my sexuality
28:47
Speaker 1: and I am now dating a lovely, thoughtful and supportive woman.
28:50
Speaker 1: I don't read any of these before. I read like
28:52
Speaker 1: the title, and I'm like, that sounds interesting. But the
28:54
Speaker 1: fact that the last story was like independent Queen and
28:57
Speaker 1: this story is like independent Queen now with another indipenden queen.
29:00
Speaker 1: It's just, you know, I'm just happy that these people
29:04
Speaker 1: got out of these situations, you know, physically unscathed, but
29:07
Speaker 1: just with their selves intact. That makes me, Oh, it
29:11
Speaker 1: brings me warmth. Anyway, my life is much better now,
29:15
Speaker 1: and I see that I was allowing myself to be
29:17
Speaker 1: treated in a very horrible and toxic way. I also
29:20
Speaker 1: see that everyone in that house was in a way
29:22
Speaker 1: gaslighting me into thinking that John's abuse wasn't so bad
29:25
Speaker 1: in an effort to not rock the boat disgusting behavior.
29:30
Speaker 1: I can't stand those types of group dynamics where it's like, ooh,
29:35
Speaker 1: you know, I know he's doing horrible things, but like,
29:38
Speaker 1: I don't want to make it awkward at the house
29:40
Speaker 1: party in my thirties, take a walk, David, shut up, gud.
29:45
Speaker 1: You know, no one at any point made any effort
29:48
Speaker 1: to stand up for me, including my supposed romantic partner,
29:51
Speaker 1: which honestly now disgusts me. I'm not in touch with
29:54
Speaker 1: anyone from that circle anymore, and honestly, good riddens. I'm
29:57
Speaker 1: so relieved that I never have to see any of
29:59
Speaker 1: them again. Anyway. Despite being in lockdown and living in
30:02
Speaker 1: a deep existential anxiety, I am very happy and life
30:05
Speaker 1: is drama free, aside from the fact that I still
30:08
Speaker 1: have to come out to my family. Well, thanks everyone
30:11
Speaker 1: for pushing me in the right direction. I'm so happy
30:13
Speaker 1: for you. I'm so glad that you're just just living
30:16
Speaker 1: your own life. You cut that whole group off, which
30:18
Speaker 1: that was like the best case scenario, but I know
30:20
Speaker 1: that was That's a lot to ask of somebody, but
30:23
Speaker 1: I'm glad it just worked out that way organically. I'm
30:25
Speaker 1: just oh again we have a warm hug in the
30:29
Speaker 1: conclusion sector of this video. Oh, I need to read
30:32
Speaker 1: one more, but I'm scared. I'm so scared, but let's
30:37
Speaker 1: do it. Let me know what you guys think of
30:38
Speaker 1: this whole situation. Everybody in the in the comments, it seems,
30:42
Speaker 1: is stoked, as I you know, comment says sad how
30:45
Speaker 1: everything that was happening to Op was downplayed that much
30:47
Speaker 1: by everyone, Like no one person in her life was
30:49
Speaker 1: like that is very much not normal. Yeah, that really
30:52
Speaker 1: does suck. And you know, it's just you got to
30:55
Speaker 1: surround yourself with people that really truly care about you,
30:59
Speaker 1: your safety and your well being. It's so important the
31:02
Speaker 1: people you surround yourself with. So I'm glad she learned
31:06
Speaker 1: that tough life lesson. But man, she got out of there.
31:08
Speaker 1: She got out of there, and I'm very happy. All right.
31:11
Speaker 1: Next one, I don't have a lot of words for this.
31:13
Speaker 1: I'm just going to read the title because it seems crazy.
31:15
Speaker 1: Naked wine parties. I twenty two females have a big
31:20
Speaker 1: issue with my boyfriend twenty one male, six months and
31:23
Speaker 1: his relationship with his best friend, twenty one female. This
31:28
Speaker 1: smells messy as hell, and I'm ready to dive into it.
31:33
Speaker 1: I'm going to keep the short. By the way, this
31:35
Speaker 1: was eleven years ago. They've known each other for four years.
31:39
Speaker 1: He told me when we started dating that she was
31:42
Speaker 1: a lesbian. I didn't believe him because she's got a kid.
31:45
Speaker 1: Come on, lesbians can't have kids. They can be in
31:48
Speaker 1: a straight relationship and then get out and be lesbian.
31:50
Speaker 1: Just so you know, Okay, glad we covered that. He
31:52
Speaker 1: then explained that everyone else he's dated left him because
31:55
Speaker 1: of their friendship.
31:56
Speaker 2: Okay, so maybe maybe she's by She's nuts saying so
32:02
Speaker 2: are they're keeping it secret. I'm just going to vote
32:04
Speaker 2: right now that they've had history and that's why his
32:07
Speaker 2: relationships don't last.
32:08
Speaker 1: But let's continue. I'm going to shut up. I finally
32:10
Speaker 1: met this girl and she was really cool. I call
32:13
Speaker 1: her Anne. Anna and I started hanging out one on one,
32:16
Speaker 1: like if my boyfriend was working. We'd go and get
32:19
Speaker 1: drinks and talk about stuff. We became friends, and then
32:21
Speaker 1: she told me a bit about their history. I'm not
32:23
Speaker 1: a jealous person normally, and I've fooled around with my
32:26
Speaker 1: best friend before. Oh shit, I better, I just said that. Sorry,
32:31
Speaker 1: So it didn't really phase me to hear they hooked
32:33
Speaker 1: up at first to this hole. This time, I started
32:38
Speaker 1: having issues with my parents and my boyfriend was moving
32:40
Speaker 1: into a new apartment. He asked me to move in
32:43
Speaker 1: with him. I did, and then Anna moved into the
32:46
Speaker 1: same building. She started spending the night at our apartment
32:48
Speaker 1: and it bothered me. She lives across the hall. Why
32:51
Speaker 1: can't she sleep in her own apartment? I don't know?
32:54
Speaker 1: What is she twelve? What is the sleep? What is happening?
32:56
Speaker 1: Friday was the first day of my boyfriend and I
32:59
Speaker 1: had off together. She called and invited him over. He
33:01
Speaker 1: left me to go be with her. It really bothered
33:04
Speaker 1: me because they were having a naked wine party. This
33:08
Speaker 1: is not real. I can't believe this is real. I
33:10
Speaker 1: ended up packing my stuff and he came back because
33:12
Speaker 1: our roomy told him I was flipping out naturally. He
33:16
Speaker 1: talked to me about it and said I was being
33:17
Speaker 1: too insecure. That's crazy. You need to leave him. This
33:21
Speaker 1: is weird and that's not normal. Naked wine parties aren't
33:24
Speaker 1: normal with a bestie. Yeah, that's all I have to say.
33:27
Speaker 1: What are the comments say it's fine. Ope, I have
33:29
Speaker 1: naked wine parties with my friends all the time. Why
33:32
Speaker 1: do I feel like they're being facetious? Op says When
33:36
Speaker 1: I say naked wine party, I mean you take your
33:37
Speaker 1: clothes off when you walk in. There were pictures on
33:40
Speaker 1: Facebook of everyone being nude and drinking wine on Facebook.
33:43
Speaker 1: This is twenty fifteen. What I just know at least
33:46
Speaker 1: one of you out theres is like Facebook naked wine
33:51
Speaker 1: parties in my area. Let me know the comments if
33:55
Speaker 1: it's actually a thing, I'm not looking at up. Another
33:57
Speaker 1: cord said why weren't you invited? Says he's trying to
34:01
Speaker 1: preemptively give us space from each other so we don't
34:03
Speaker 1: feel smothered. This guy sucks, and so does she. Another
34:08
Speaker 1: comment says, naked wine party. Now you see why no
34:10
Speaker 1: relationship he's had has outlasted his connection with Ann. This
34:14
Speaker 1: is one of those learning moments of your early twenties.
34:17
Speaker 1: When you are closer to thirty, you'll be shaking your
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Speaker 1: head at how you ever considered this acceptable for half
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Speaker 1: a moment. Start looking for a new roommate, or patch
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Speaker 1: things up with your folks because you are a living
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Speaker 1: side piece. Nope, No, no no no no no no
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Speaker 1: no no no no. The end exactly my thoughts, exactly
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Speaker 1: person that wrote that comment. But somehow we have an update.
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Speaker 1: So let's read that edit. Okay, I get it. I'll
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Speaker 1: be packing up an apartment hunting. Thank you all. Four
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Speaker 1: days later though, that was a little at it, so
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Speaker 1: I said i'd update when I moved out. I want
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Speaker 1: to thank everyone who commented on the original post. You
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Speaker 1: guys gave me a lot of perspective and that helped
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Speaker 1: me phrase the conversation in a more mature way. He
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Speaker 1: and I talked the next day about how the relationship
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Speaker 1: had crossed A lot of lines, crossed some up things
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Speaker 1: I think as well, but we won't get into that.
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Speaker 1: How I understood that Anne had been around longer than
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Speaker 1: I had, but I wouldn't tolerate that kind of disrespect.
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Speaker 1: We talked for hours. Bottom line, he said he'd stop
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Speaker 1: talking to her altogether, but I had to tell her
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Speaker 1: and tell her why. I told him I was not
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Speaker 1: interested in being the bad guy and giving him a
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Speaker 1: loophole to be her bff again. If and when we
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Speaker 1: broke up. Yeah, I went back to packing my things
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Speaker 1: and called my dad. My boyfriend went to her apartment
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Speaker 1: and I called him and I dumbed him. Then I
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Speaker 1: left another independent queen. It just happens. The Reddit gods
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Speaker 1: looked upon me and said, here, here are all the
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Speaker 1: Reddit stories where the woman just walks out on top
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Speaker 1: and she's independent. She's slaying life. Yes, we love it.
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Speaker 1: Since then, I have deleted both of them from Facebook.
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Speaker 1: They've both been blowing up my phone, alternating between apologetic
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Speaker 1: and angry. She is accusing me of ruining her best
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Speaker 1: friend's life and their friendship. I guess he's mad at
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Speaker 1: her now. I don't know, I don't care. Ah, that's fantastic, fantastic.
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Speaker 1: I love to hear it. I'm glad you're out of that.
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Speaker 1: You're too young for this shit. Life is so much
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Speaker 1: more than letting your significant other go to naked wine
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Speaker 1: parties with the potential lesbian. There's just so much more
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Speaker 1: to life that's wild and that's crazy, and I'm glad
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Speaker 1: you're out of there. That's it again, No notes, you
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Speaker 1: handled that perfectly. Comment says I kind oft believe he
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Speaker 1: tried to get you to tell her they couldn't be
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Speaker 1: friends anymore. I mean, I can believe it because he
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Speaker 1: seems like an asshole, but still the audacity. I am
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Speaker 1: glad you put your foot down and left. You deserve
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Speaker 1: so much better. And they both deserve each other because
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Speaker 1: of how shitty they are, agreed. Another comment says, my
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Speaker 1: wife and I have naked wine parties sometimes just us
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Speaker 1: and the cat, though he's always naked. I like that.
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Speaker 1: I like that a lot. Look at all these conclusions.
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Speaker 1: See how nice it is to get updates, and we
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Speaker 1: just now we all we can all walk away from
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Speaker 1: this video, go eat a jar pickles and just be
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Speaker 1: happy with our lives. This was awesome, See you next week.
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Speaker 1: This was great me any way else you guys want
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Speaker 1: to see on like Saturday videos and stuff. I you know,
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Speaker 1: I can do whatever. I like doing these once in
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Speaker 1: a blue moon on here, but I I am yeah,
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Speaker 1: I'm open to whatever, truly. Yeah, I'm just happy right now.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go, love you bye,