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- 0:30Speaker 1: My name is Jim. This is Germ Warfare, the Battle
- 0:33Speaker 1: of Ideas.
- 0:34Speaker 2: One of my favorite people in the world, Steve Fishbine,
- 0:37Speaker 2: thank you for joining me in the Strangers.
- 0:39Speaker 3: It's pretty kind of you to say that, Jeremy, It's
- 0:41Speaker 3: really really kind of you. I mean, we've no what
- 0:43Speaker 3: you mean. Well, thank you, I mean I can't wait
- 0:47Speaker 3: to meet you in person.
- 0:48Speaker 2: Yes, well exactly. The feeling is mutual. And I say
- 0:52Speaker 2: that because, well, let me repeat the story. I've said
- 0:56Speaker 2: it before, but for those who are listening who might
- 0:59Speaker 2: not know the story, You've had a significant impact on
- 1:03Speaker 2: my personal life, and if you don't mind, I'm just going.
- 1:06Speaker 1: To just quickly go through the story.
- 1:08Speaker 4: What do you think people?
- 1:10Speaker 2: But it was it was maybe, shall we say, two
- 1:16Speaker 2: years ago, two nine years ago. I can't even remember
- 1:18Speaker 2: exactly when it was, but anyway, we were we were
- 1:21Speaker 2: driving back from the Kruger National Park and my wife
- 1:26Speaker 2: was pregnant at the time. And so you have to
- 1:29Speaker 2: understand that she is in the medical field. So for
- 1:32Speaker 2: her to change her views is a lot harder for
- 1:35Speaker 2: somebody like me because she's she's she's stuck within that paradigm.
- 1:40Speaker 2: And initially, when she fell pregnant. She was very petrified.
- 1:46Speaker 2: This is going to be scary. You know, everything that
- 1:50Speaker 2: Hollywood tells you is what you know. We thought we
- 1:54Speaker 2: didn't know any better until we started, you know, reading
- 1:58Speaker 2: or listening. Shall I say to the audio written by
- 2:00Speaker 2: Katain Graves, who I think you might know or know of.
- 2:04Speaker 2: And and this was on the on the road trip.
- 2:06Speaker 2: And then we finished the book and she looked on
- 2:09Speaker 2: her phone for some podcasts about hypno birthing or just
- 2:15Speaker 2: home birthing or anything that went against the mainstream narrative,
- 2:19Speaker 2: and she stumbled across this guy called doctor stew And
- 2:25Speaker 2: and she said, well, let's let's take a listen to this,
- 2:27Speaker 2: and she randomly pulled up some podcasts of yours and
- 2:30Speaker 2: we started listening, and we kept on listening. We just
- 2:33Speaker 2: found them so appealing, and eventually it became apparent to
- 2:40Speaker 2: us that what we had previously thought was bunk. And
- 2:46Speaker 2: in the car, she said to me, you have to
- 2:47Speaker 2: get doctor stew onto your podcast. And that's exactly what happened.
- 2:51Speaker 2: And you very kindly took up the offer. This was
- 2:54Speaker 2: a couple of years ago, and you kind of.
- 2:57Speaker 1: In a in a in a very far away manner,
- 3:01Speaker 1: were part of our journey because our journey was completely
- 3:05Speaker 1: different to what we had thought was going to be
- 3:07Speaker 1: the journey, and it was so much better than anything
- 3:10Speaker 1: we had planned and students. So that's why you're one
- 3:13Speaker 1: of my favorite people in the world, because you personally
- 3:16Speaker 1: had a huge impact on the birth of my son,
- 3:19Speaker 1: and now my wife's pregnant with another boy.
- 3:25Speaker 3: No, I think that I'm honored by what you're saying,
- 3:28Speaker 3: and it is tragic, you know. I just got done
- 3:31Speaker 3: with an interview this morning with a woman from England
- 3:34Speaker 3: who deals with birth trauma and so many women, they
- 3:40Speaker 3: all love their babies, but many of them actually some
- 3:43Speaker 3: of them have no memory of the birth of their
- 3:44Speaker 3: babies because they were put out. But many women have
- 3:47Speaker 3: traumatic birth stories and it's so unnecessary and it does
- 3:52Speaker 3: affect your psychology when you had a traumatic experience. And
- 4:02Speaker 3: the fact that what you're saying you listening to me
- 4:06Speaker 3: and bliss and making the experience, no matter how it ended,
- 4:14Speaker 3: a better experience, so that it's a good memory for
- 4:16Speaker 3: you and your wife. That means everything to me because
- 4:21Speaker 3: we're not you know, the medical model of pregnancy care
- 4:25Speaker 3: is not doing well. And when you said something about
- 4:29Speaker 3: you listened to everything you've been told, I've been bunk
- 4:31Speaker 3: or something. I think that's what you said. It's actually
- 4:35Speaker 3: mostly true, mostly true. The mainstream narrative about birth, whether
- 4:41Speaker 3: it's normal pregnancy, whether it's twins, whether it's women over
- 4:45Speaker 3: thirty five, is bunk. It really isn't It isn't true,
- 4:50Speaker 3: and yet it is propagated over and over again as
- 4:53Speaker 3: the mainstream narrative. And what I'm trying to do and
- 4:57Speaker 3: many people like me are trying to get the word
- 4:59Speaker 3: out there because taking the joy and pleasure out of
- 5:04Speaker 3: this life changing experience, this thing that a woman's body
- 5:09Speaker 3: is designed to do, this birthright that she has, and
- 5:12Speaker 3: making it into this scary thing filled with fear and anxiety,
- 5:18Speaker 3: is we're not doing mankind a service. So if I
- 5:22Speaker 3: in any way made your life better, your family's life better,
- 5:28Speaker 3: there's nothing more that you could say that would honor me.
- 5:31Speaker 2: Well, it is exactly that you did a big role.
- 5:34Speaker 2: And yes, the thing though, do you it's We were
- 5:40Speaker 2: on our way back from the Kruger National Park, which is,
- 5:43Speaker 2: I always argue, one of the best game parks in
- 5:45Speaker 2: the world.
- 5:45Speaker 1: And when we were there, she said to me in
- 5:50Speaker 1: the call.
- 5:52Speaker 2: Have you Have you ever wondered why these mammals don't
- 5:56Speaker 2: give birth an hospital. They find a white place behind
- 6:00Speaker 2: a tree or in a bush or somewhere, and they're
- 6:03Speaker 2: going to give birth. Why do we as humans go
- 6:06Speaker 2: to a loud, noisy hospital where there are loads of
- 6:10Speaker 2: people who are just poking and prodding and making everything
- 6:14Speaker 2: seem more scary.
- 6:17Speaker 4: Do you want any you want? You want a simple
- 6:19Speaker 4: answer to that question.
- 6:21Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, money, But you were there though, you were
- 6:26Speaker 2: in that in that space.
- 6:28Speaker 4: Yeah. But it's driven. It's driven.
- 6:31Speaker 3: Even in countries of socialized medicine, the system just builds
- 6:36Speaker 3: the government for what they do. So the more they do,
- 6:41Speaker 3: the more they make it. It's as simple as that.
- 6:46Speaker 3: And it was done purpose purposefully. I don't know the
- 6:48Speaker 3: history of South African obstetrics, but it's probably mirrors what
- 6:51Speaker 3: happened in the United States, which was in one hundred
- 6:55Speaker 3: years ago, ninety five percent of women were born at home,
- 6:58Speaker 3: babies were born at home, and within thirty years, ninety
- 7:02Speaker 3: plus percent of women were born gay birth in the hospital.
- 7:04Speaker 3: So what happened in those thirty years? Did birth suddenly collapse?
- 7:09Speaker 3: Was there a disaster? Was there a natural disaster that
- 7:12Speaker 3: caused people to have to go to No. There was
- 7:14Speaker 3: a propaganda campaign fueled by big pharma and big medicine,
- 7:19Speaker 3: and our country was fueled by the Rockefellers who owned
- 7:22Speaker 3: standard oil while the petroleum products make pharmaceutical products. They
- 7:27Speaker 3: put out a report called the Flexner Report, which people
- 7:31Speaker 3: can look it up and they can find out that
- 7:32Speaker 3: what that Flexner Report did was hilify all things that
- 7:36Speaker 3: came before, like natural apathy and midwiffree and homeopathy and
- 7:41Speaker 3: chiropractic and said that the only way to do medicine
- 7:45Speaker 3: was to do it through a medical cartel or a
- 7:49Speaker 3: medical organized control, and that they were going to do
- 7:54Speaker 3: it better. And it was essentially like anything else they
- 7:58Speaker 3: sold us. They sold us with COVID, they sold us
- 8:01Speaker 3: with anything, They sold us with SSRIs, they sold us
- 8:06Speaker 3: with statins for cholesterol. You know, they put on these
- 8:12Speaker 3: big things, and then twenty thirty years later they come
- 8:14Speaker 3: out and they realized that, you know, none of this
- 8:16Speaker 3: stuff made sense, but somebody made a lot of money
- 8:19Speaker 3: off of it, and once they get control of something
- 8:22Speaker 3: like that, they're not just going to let go. And
- 8:25Speaker 3: the reason I can say this bluntly is because First
- 8:28Speaker 3: of all, I've lived in both worlds, spent a lot
- 8:31Speaker 3: of time in the hospital.
- 8:32Speaker 4: I was medically trained.
- 8:33Speaker 3: I came out very medicalized, and then I ended up
- 8:36Speaker 3: evolving into a hospital home birth obstetrician working with midwives.
- 8:41Speaker 3: But all you have to do, Jeremy, is look at outcomes.
- 8:45Speaker 3: If any sane person who runs a business, if what
- 8:49Speaker 3: they're doing their sales are falling, they're going to revamp
- 8:52Speaker 3: their business. They're going to try to figure out what's wrong.
- 8:56Speaker 3: If people are not coming to their restaurant anymore because
- 8:59Speaker 3: their sandwiches suck, they're going to try to make better sandwiches.
- 9:06Speaker 3: But in business, that's not what happened. It happens they
- 9:09Speaker 3: try to quash the other sandwich shops. They don't try
- 9:13Speaker 3: to improve the necessarily prove their product. This is what's happened.
- 9:17Speaker 3: They've not improved their product. They've created more of the
- 9:19Speaker 3: same thing that made it bad in the first place.
- 9:22Speaker 3: More interventions, more testing, more labs, more monitoring, more inductions,
- 9:28Speaker 3: more sinesarean sections, all those things without creating any improvement
- 9:34Speaker 3: in outcomes over the general population. Yes, everyone can look
- 9:37Speaker 3: at a single case now and then and say, listen,
- 9:40Speaker 3: if it wasn't for the hospital.
- 9:41Speaker 4: I or my baby would have died.
- 9:43Speaker 3: And that's one true, But all the damage they're doing
- 9:47Speaker 3: to the women that didn't need that sort of intervention
- 9:54Speaker 3: that ends up going from a C section rate in
- 9:56Speaker 3: your country fifty years before we talked about this last
- 9:59Speaker 3: time five percent, and now it's close. You said it's
- 10:02Speaker 3: closing in on eighty percent in your country.
- 10:04Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's in the world.
- 10:07Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 10:09Speaker 3: What is that doing to the babies, the moms, the
- 10:11Speaker 3: mom's future babies, the epigenetics, the ability of these young
- 10:14Speaker 3: babies being born to these moms of having babies themselves.
- 10:18Speaker 3: No one cares because you can't really study it. It's messy,
- 10:22Speaker 3: it's it's nebulous.
- 10:24Speaker 4: You know.
- 10:24Speaker 3: All we care about is neonatal morbidity and neunomortality. And
- 10:29Speaker 3: even that isn't getting better. With a seven or eight
- 10:32Speaker 3: hundred percent increase in the caesarean section rate, your neonatal
- 10:35Speaker 3: mortality should get better.
- 10:38Speaker 4: It's not.
- 10:38Speaker 1: But Stu, But Stu, isn't it about getting the baby out?
- 10:45Speaker 4: Well? To them?
- 10:45Speaker 3: It is, Yeah, but how a baby is born matters.
- 10:49Speaker 3: And one of the things they don't consider is nature's design.
- 10:53Speaker 3: As you were talking about being at the wild animal park,
- 10:57Speaker 3: you know, watching or you don't get to see them
- 10:59Speaker 3: because they're I but when a mammal prepares to give birth,
- 11:05Speaker 3: she goes off to a quiet place by herself. No
- 11:08Speaker 3: one takes away her food and water, no one interrupts her.
- 11:11Speaker 3: What they that's what they do. Babies have to navigate
- 11:14Speaker 3: the birth canal, and there's a system of that. There's
- 11:17Speaker 3: a communication going on all through pregnancy between the mother
- 11:21Speaker 3: and the baby. That communication is hormonal, it's electromagnetic. It's
- 11:25Speaker 3: things we don't understand. And then when labor, baby decides
- 11:29Speaker 3: labors it's time to come out. Something in the baby
- 11:32Speaker 3: or the placenta trigger's mom to go into labor. That's
- 11:36Speaker 3: still mysteriously understood. And I'm really thrilled that we don't
- 11:39Speaker 3: understand that, because pretty soon there'll be a pill. It
- 11:41Speaker 3: just says, take this pill and it'll trigger labor. I
- 11:43Speaker 3: mean they already try it with side attack and potocin
- 11:46Speaker 3: and folly balloons and all kinds of different things they
- 11:49Speaker 3: used to induce labor. But if they ever discover it,
- 11:52Speaker 3: they'll come up with a pill and they'll charge a
- 11:53Speaker 3: lot of money for that. And then every woman at
- 11:55Speaker 3: thirty eight weeks will start taking this pill to try
- 11:57Speaker 3: to go into labor because they'll be to believe that
- 12:00Speaker 3: if they go longer than that, their baby will die
- 12:02Speaker 3: in utero and all these scary things that they use
- 12:05Speaker 3: to manipulate people. But when a mammal does all those things,
- 12:09Speaker 3: the baby has to navigate that, so there's reflexes. The
- 12:12Speaker 3: baby is exposed to the stresses of labor, and it's
- 12:14Speaker 3: communicating with its mom that may help prepare it for
- 12:18Speaker 3: later in life and dealing with stress in life.
- 12:20Speaker 4: The baby gets exposed to.
- 12:21Speaker 3: Mother's bacteria and what we call the microbiome, and that
- 12:26Speaker 3: sets us up for our immune system. Eighty percent of
- 12:28Speaker 3: your immune system is based on gut bacteria, which you
- 12:30Speaker 3: acquire through the birth canal. When you're taken out through
- 12:33Speaker 3: an abdominal decision in a sterile field that's aldered. And
- 12:38Speaker 3: this is just a simple statement. It's always true every
- 12:42Speaker 3: time you met with nature's design, there will be downstream consequences.
- 12:47Speaker 3: Rarely will they be good. Sometimes they'll be almost invisible.
- 12:52Speaker 3: Sometimes they may take years to determine, but there will
- 12:54Speaker 3: be downstream consequences. Nature isn't stupid designed this system of
- 13:01Speaker 3: conceiving a baby, growing a baby in the hormonally, you
- 13:04Speaker 3: that we're in a woman's uterus, not a pregnant person's uterus.
- 13:08Speaker 4: Okay, with all.
- 13:11Speaker 3: The blood supply and all the hormones and all the
- 13:14Speaker 3: things that mother and baby are sharing to then grow
- 13:17Speaker 3: to a nine month's gestation. You know, it's a lot
- 13:21Speaker 3: shorter in hamsters. I don't know what it is. I
- 13:25Speaker 3: think elephants it's a year and a half. It's a
- 13:27Speaker 3: long time. It takes a long time to grow, make
- 13:30Speaker 3: it properly, make it proper But nature designed it that way,
- 13:34Speaker 3: and then when it's ready, then nature does its thing
- 13:36Speaker 3: to bring it out. And then the idea that we
- 13:40Speaker 3: need to immediately cut a cord, or that we need
- 13:44Speaker 3: to take a baby away from its mother. In nature,
- 13:46Speaker 3: by the way, cords often snap in nature, and the
- 13:49Speaker 3: babies don't bleed to death. But if the baby, if
- 13:53Speaker 3: the cord doesn't snap, nobody rushes in to cut the cord,
- 13:56Speaker 3: and nobody ever takes the baby away from the mother.
- 14:01Speaker 4: Nature, you wouldn't do that.
- 14:02Speaker 3: Yet, as you said earlier, everything that's done in the
- 14:05Speaker 3: hospital seems antithetical to that.
- 14:08Speaker 4: Why do we do that why.
- 14:10Speaker 3: Again, if a woman gives birth at home, how much
- 14:13Speaker 3: money does the hospital make if a baby doesn't go
- 14:19Speaker 3: to the nursery or the Nike you, how much money
- 14:20Speaker 3: does the hospital make?
- 14:23Speaker 4: People think that that's cynical.
- 14:25Speaker 3: I don't think your audience will, because your audience is
- 14:28Speaker 3: already suspicious about life in general.
- 14:31Speaker 4: But there's no money in not meddling.
- 14:39Speaker 1: What was that documentary called Why Is Business Being Born? Yeah?
- 14:45Speaker 1: That's all right, we watch that.
- 14:46Speaker 4: I think it's Ricky like, yeah, the Business of being Born?
- 14:50Speaker 4: Ricky ANDBFT.
- 14:52Speaker 1: It's actually a very good documentary.
- 14:54Speaker 3: It's like fourteen years old now or whatever, and it's
- 14:57Speaker 3: still perfectly relevant. Nothing has changed for the better of anything.
- 15:02Speaker 3: The things on there, they could add more to the
- 15:06Speaker 3: stupid stuff that they're doing. Right, people should watch it
- 15:09Speaker 3: so they understand. Do we think it's better? In my generation, Jeremy,
- 15:17Speaker 3: they did something called Twilight Sleep. May have heard of it,
- 15:20Speaker 3: maybe not, But what they did was when women got
- 15:23Speaker 3: to completely dilate it, they gas them, they put them out,
- 15:27Speaker 3: and they pulled babies out with forceps.
- 15:31Speaker 4: So people like my.
- 15:32Speaker 3: Mom had no memory of my birth because she wasn't
- 15:38Speaker 3: awake when I was born the baby goes to the nursery.
- 15:43Speaker 3: Maybe two hours later, I come back to my mom
- 15:46Speaker 3: wrapped up like a burrito. Okay, you know, not bonding,
- 15:54Speaker 3: not the laid cord clamping, not skin to skin, not
- 15:57Speaker 3: the hormonal connection that's going on between mom and baby,
- 16:01Speaker 3: that flood of oxytocin that mom is putting out, that
- 16:04Speaker 3: she's seeing this off, the thing she just created, all
- 16:09Speaker 3: taken away in the idea that that was a good idea.
- 16:13Speaker 3: Somebody thought that that was a good idea.
- 16:17Speaker 4: Okay.
- 16:17Speaker 3: The arrogance of these people, the stupidity of these people,
- 16:21Speaker 3: knows no bounds. It makes me, you know, I'm at
- 16:24Speaker 3: the point now in my career where I'm angry with
- 16:28Speaker 3: the fact that these people are still not those people
- 16:32Speaker 3: in general, they're dead, but the people like them are
- 16:35Speaker 3: still in charge of this system.
- 16:39Speaker 4: This is it's.
- 16:40Speaker 3: Insane that they continue to do more stuff, outcomes continue
- 16:44Speaker 3: to get worse, and they continue to get paid more
- 16:47Speaker 3: for what they're doing because they're doing more stuff, and
- 16:51Speaker 3: they continue to then fight against anyone who wants to
- 16:55Speaker 3: change the system. Like in my country, ninety eight plus
- 16:59Speaker 3: percent of babies are in the hospital. What is the
- 17:02Speaker 3: American hospital Association in the American College of obg wan
- 17:05Speaker 3: busy with They're busy with attacking the one percent of
- 17:08Speaker 3: women who are giving birth at home, trying to make
- 17:10Speaker 3: it harder for them to give birth at home.
- 17:13Speaker 4: Why.
- 17:14Speaker 3: I think it's a competitive marketing thing. They see the
- 17:19Speaker 3: writing on the wall that they suck, and instead of
- 17:25Speaker 3: doing a mia kalpa, they want to squash the potential competition.
- 17:32Speaker 3: You know, it's more complicated than that, But in the
- 17:36Speaker 3: time we have and stuff like that, that's basically it. We
- 17:40Speaker 3: live in a world where we're not doing well and
- 17:42Speaker 3: we could do so much better. I was fortunate enough
- 17:46Speaker 3: to see my career take a different path, and I
- 17:50Speaker 3: saw what's possible when collaboration between midwives who know normal,
- 17:54Speaker 3: healthy birthing better than obs do, and obs who know
- 17:59Speaker 3: problems better than maybe midwives do, work together and collaborate
- 18:04Speaker 3: and let the midwives take care of the low risk
- 18:06Speaker 3: women who don't have a problem, and let the doctors
- 18:12Speaker 3: take care of these things that they're trained to take
- 18:13Speaker 3: care of, which are problem birth. And instead of just
- 18:16Speaker 3: saying that what the medicalized birth model, the maternal field
- 18:20Speaker 3: medicine model is trying to do is they're trying to
- 18:22Speaker 3: label all pregnant women to be high risk, and if
- 18:26Speaker 3: everyone's high risk, then no one should be able to
- 18:28Speaker 3: have a midwife or be at home. And they've been
- 18:31Speaker 3: very successful at it because they have a big lobbying thing,
- 18:34Speaker 3: and they have the ear of the politicians and in
- 18:36Speaker 3: the ear of the news media. And when my country,
- 18:40Speaker 3: I don't know what your college is there, but in
- 18:42Speaker 3: my country, when a cock speaks, or when the American
- 18:44Speaker 3: Medical Association speaks, journalists just bend over and take it
- 18:48Speaker 3: and say, well, that must be true, when it couldn't
- 18:51Speaker 3: be further from the truth.
- 18:54Speaker 4: It's a mess.
- 18:55Speaker 2: You actually put out a paper that we read back
- 18:58Speaker 2: in the day that come paid home births to hospital births,
- 19:04Speaker 2: and they're on bar in terms of mortality.
- 19:09Speaker 4: I didn't.
- 19:09Speaker 3: I didn't put out a paper comparing the two. That
- 19:11Speaker 3: wasn't That was not me. I might have promoted one.
- 19:14Speaker 3: There are there are many great studies out there that
- 19:17Speaker 3: look at the difference between home birth and hospital birth
- 19:20Speaker 3: for women who are considered low risk, and every single
- 19:23Speaker 3: one of them finds that the home birth the outcomes
- 19:26Speaker 3: in pretty much everything from emotional trauma to physical trauma
- 19:29Speaker 3: to valsual delivery rate, to shorter labors, to to less
- 19:36Speaker 3: babies going to the intensecure unit, to less blood loss.
- 19:42Speaker 3: The home births were better than the hospital births. Yeah,
- 19:46Speaker 3: those those articles are are ignored. I've published papers on
- 19:50Speaker 3: the success rate of home birthing for things that may
- 19:53Speaker 3: not be considered low risk by the standard medical community,
- 19:57Speaker 3: such as breaches and twins, and I put out the
- 20:00Speaker 3: fact that, again, I believe that the medicalized birth model,
- 20:03Speaker 3: run by maternal fetal medicine doctors mostly handles breaches and
- 20:08Speaker 3: twins all wrong.
- 20:10Speaker 4: And they would you know, ninety.
- 20:12Speaker 3: Eight percent of breaches are done by sea section, seventy
- 20:15Speaker 3: five percent of twins are done by sea section. We
- 20:17Speaker 3: had a section rate with twins of eight point seven percent,
- 20:22Speaker 3: and we had a section rate of zero percent from
- 20:26Speaker 3: multiparous women with a breach baby and about sixteen percent
- 20:30Speaker 3: with first time moms with a breach baby. Yet in
- 20:33Speaker 3: the hospital model, ninety eight percent of them we'll get
- 20:35Speaker 3: a sea section. In our model, sixteen percent got a
- 20:37Speaker 3: sea section. And I'm the outlier. I'm the one that
- 20:43Speaker 3: needs to be shut up. That's the kind of thing
- 20:45Speaker 3: that again, it's it's classic cognitive dissonance remediation. They it's
- 20:53Speaker 3: too hard for them to look and see that the
- 20:55Speaker 3: system that they're involved with is not working. So rather
- 21:00Speaker 3: than say, you know, we failed, they basically call us crazy.
- 21:04Speaker 3: Or they they cherry pick the data that supports their
- 21:06Speaker 3: position and ignore the data that doesn't, or they they
- 21:09Speaker 3: blame the system. I'd love to help a woman with
- 21:11Speaker 3: a breach baby, but my partners or my hospital system
- 21:14Speaker 3: won't let me.
- 21:15Speaker 4: So, God, where's your courage? Yeah?
- 21:19Speaker 3: You know it's the rarest of traits, courage, and and
- 21:21Speaker 3: most OB's don't have it. And by the way, the
- 21:24Speaker 3: way the way they're taught now, I know I'm going
- 21:27Speaker 3: off on a tangent, which you like when I do this,
- 21:28Speaker 3: but uh, the way the way they're taught now is
- 21:32Speaker 3: to be sheep, not shepherd. Who teaches OBEs in residency programs,
- 21:38Speaker 3: whether the high risk maternal fetal medicine specialists who benefits
- 21:43Speaker 3: when an OB doesn't know how to take care of
- 21:45Speaker 3: something high risk, the maternal fetal medicine specialist does. They're
- 21:50Speaker 3: creating more jobs. You know, it's it's it's a it's
- 21:53Speaker 3: a simple I know my mind is gets gets ahead
- 21:56Speaker 3: of myself. But imagine if a fireman got paid by
- 22:00Speaker 3: each fire they put out, how many firemen would kind
- 22:05Speaker 3: of think about maybe starting some fires. How many firemen
- 22:11Speaker 3: would become arsonists if you got paid. You know, hey, honey,
- 22:14Speaker 3: we need to buy that new car. Let's go burn
- 22:16Speaker 3: down mister Johnson's barn. Okay, why wouldn't they do that?
- 22:21Speaker 3: What's going to hold them back? Ethics? Morals, Well, we're
- 22:27Speaker 3: supposed to we have. If people were to read the
- 22:30Speaker 3: guidelines on medical ethics, they would find that every day,
- 22:35Speaker 3: in every doctor's office, in every hospital, they violate them constantly.
- 22:41Speaker 4: So they don't mean anything.
- 22:42Speaker 3: These things are all words without meaning, and they're used
- 22:46Speaker 3: to manipulate us and funnel us down a path that
- 22:49Speaker 3: that system wants us to take. It's very depressing news
- 22:54Speaker 3: for people who just want to trust their medical community
- 22:56Speaker 3: and trust their doctor. But I'm telling you you can't
- 23:00Speaker 3: because your doctor. If your doctor's either complicit or he's
- 23:04Speaker 3: just a hamster in a wheel.
- 23:07Speaker 1: But the problem Stu.
- 23:09Speaker 2: I mean, we've got close friends who are pregnant and
- 23:13Speaker 2: she's petrified yep of birth. In actual fact, she has
- 23:17Speaker 2: an electivecy section. She's already got the date. That's not
- 23:21Speaker 2: supposed to be like that.
- 23:23Speaker 3: No, No, it's not your country. Your country has really
- 23:26Speaker 3: done a number on it's women. You can't have an
- 23:30Speaker 3: eighty percent CE section rate and not convince women that
- 23:32Speaker 3: it's safer. So they've they've, they've they've done a great
- 23:37Speaker 3: job with propaganda and gaslighting to the point where a
- 23:41Speaker 3: woman doesn't enjoy her pregnancy and what is that doing
- 23:47Speaker 3: to her?
- 23:47Speaker 1: But she's actually scared, right, No, she's.
- 23:50Speaker 3: Yeah, So what is that doing to her? What is
- 23:53Speaker 3: that doing to her ability to be a good mother?
- 23:56Speaker 3: What is that doing to the biochemistry that's going on
- 23:58Speaker 3: in her body? What is that doing to the epigenetics
- 24:00Speaker 3: of the fetus that's developing inside of her? Nobody cares?
- 24:05Speaker 3: Nobody cares, I do you do? But the medical system
- 24:09Speaker 3: doesn't care. They don't care what happens to that baby
- 24:14Speaker 3: a year down the road, or twenty years old or
- 24:17Speaker 3: thirty years older, if the baby's dysfunctional or has ADHD,
- 24:22Speaker 3: or or what's its bed or can't relate to people,
- 24:28Speaker 3: doesn't make eye contact as mildly odds that they don't care.
- 24:32Speaker 3: There's no paper that looks downstream at these models and says,
- 24:35Speaker 3: you know, our kids were a lot healthier when we
- 24:38Speaker 3: have a c secuarate of five percent than when we
- 24:41Speaker 3: have a c secxuary of eighty percent. Our society was healthier,
- 24:45Speaker 3: our moms were healthier. Because you know, they always blame
- 24:48Speaker 3: it out. It's too it's too muddled. There's too many factors,
- 24:51Speaker 3: too many factors. You can't really you can't isolate. This
- 24:56Speaker 3: is one thing. Well, I can just go back to
- 24:58Speaker 3: the thing when nature designed us as them to work
- 25:00Speaker 3: a certain way, and we and only the hubris of
- 25:04Speaker 3: man in the last one hundred years has decided that
- 25:07Speaker 3: he know he or she knows better, and.
- 25:13Speaker 4: We get what we deserve. We're going to end up
- 25:15Speaker 4: where we end up.
- 25:17Speaker 1: But just for balance, though, you're not saying that there's
- 25:20Speaker 1: no there's no need for the hospital.
- 25:25Speaker 4: No, of course, not hospitals.
- 25:27Speaker 3: But hospitals can't survive if they only took care of
- 25:29Speaker 3: the fifteen or twenty percent of women who need them.
- 25:32Speaker 3: They need the revenue that comes in from all the
- 25:34Speaker 3: all the normal people who who they treat as abnormal.
- 25:38Speaker 4: No, we need hospitals.
- 25:39Speaker 3: Listen, you don't need a hospital if you cut yourself
- 25:43Speaker 3: on a fence, right, But if you get an infection
- 25:48Speaker 3: in the cut, or if you hit an artery then yeah,
- 25:53Speaker 3: then you need an urgent care or a hospital. So
- 25:56Speaker 3: we need we need hospitals, but nobody would go to
- 25:58Speaker 3: the You know, drawing baby is like I've said this
- 26:01Speaker 3: to you last time. I think it's like breathing or digestion.
- 26:05Speaker 3: It's the normal function of the body. You don't have
- 26:08Speaker 3: to think about it. Conception occurs whether you think about
- 26:11Speaker 3: it or not. Growing a baby grows. It grows whether
- 26:14Speaker 3: you think about it. Not. Going to labor will happen
- 26:16Speaker 3: if you let it, whether you think about it or not.
- 26:19Speaker 3: If the fact, the more you think about it, the
- 26:21Speaker 3: more likely are to delay labor because your cortical brain
- 26:24Speaker 3: takes over your primitive bodily functions. It's very similar to
- 26:27Speaker 3: breathing or digestion. Fortunately, we can go through our day
- 26:30Speaker 3: and not think once about breathing. But think of my
- 26:34Speaker 3: imagine if you had to remember to breathe every four seconds.
- 26:38Speaker 3: I mean, that would be crazy. But your higher mind
- 26:43Speaker 3: can screw up your breathing. Why do people hyperventilate? Hyperventilate
- 26:48Speaker 3: because they're nervous. You've got to go to court, they've
- 26:51Speaker 3: got to give a speech. Why do people get diarrhea?
- 26:56Speaker 3: I mean, sometimes it's patholopathology, but a lot of times
- 26:59Speaker 3: it's by the fact that you've got to go to
- 27:01Speaker 3: court or you know, you've got to give a speech,
- 27:05Speaker 3: and so you get upsets someone that's your cortical brains
- 27:07Speaker 3: strewing up your bodies normally functions. When a woman starts
- 27:11Speaker 3: to get fearful about her pregnancy, it's far more likely
- 27:15Speaker 3: to become a self fulfilling prophecy that you're going to
- 27:18Speaker 3: end up with a problem. And if I was if
- 27:21Speaker 3: I was a fireman who wanted to make more money
- 27:23Speaker 3: per fire, I'd start fires. If I was a maternal
- 27:25Speaker 3: fetal medicine doctor who makes more money off of doing
- 27:28Speaker 3: more scans and more consults, why would I not want
- 27:32Speaker 3: women to be scared? I mean, the only thing that's
- 27:36Speaker 3: keeping them from that would be ethics. And I'm telling
- 27:41Speaker 3: you that we've been fooled to believe that medical ethics
- 27:47Speaker 3: is actually not an oxymoron. So hospitals aren't So hospitals
- 27:52Speaker 3: aren't necessary for the women that need that have a problem,
- 27:56Speaker 3: and they do great work when there's trauma. You know,
- 28:01Speaker 3: there's no better place to be if you have a
- 28:03Speaker 3: car accident or a heart attack than going to a hospital,
- 28:08Speaker 3: but going there for something as normal as having a baby.
- 28:11Speaker 1: H yeah, exactly.
- 28:12Speaker 2: And something that you said a number of years ago
- 28:15Speaker 2: is that giving birth is not a medical condition. That
- 28:21Speaker 2: completely rewired my thinking.
- 28:26Speaker 4: You're right.
- 28:27Speaker 3: I mean, it's a normally bottle, it's a normal bodily function.
- 28:33Speaker 3: It's it's like any other bodily function I just mentioned.
- 28:37Speaker 3: It's not a medical gission. Giving birth is the only
- 28:40Speaker 3: thing women go to the hospital for that isn't a disease.
- 28:46Speaker 3: I'm also bound on this kick lately about how hospitals
- 28:48Speaker 3: are designed. Think about this for a second. When you
- 28:52Speaker 3: go to the hospital pregnant or in labor, what's the
- 28:57Speaker 3: first thing they do. They make you go to the bathroom,
- 28:59Speaker 3: pee in a cup, put on a hospital gown, and
- 29:02Speaker 3: then you come back to the room and what do
- 29:04Speaker 3: you do.
- 29:05Speaker 4: You get into bed, and.
- 29:08Speaker 3: Then they draw your blood, and then they start an
- 29:10Speaker 3: ivy and then they have your sign consent forms not
- 29:12Speaker 3: necessarily in that order, and then they put the belts
- 29:15Speaker 3: on you and you're laboring and you're in bed. Now,
- 29:19Speaker 3: think about it for a second. Why is the bed
- 29:22Speaker 3: the center of the labor room. Well, it's a hospital.
- 29:27Speaker 3: Hospitals are designed by architects. Architects go to architectural school
- 29:32Speaker 3: to learn how to design hospitals.
- 29:34Speaker 4: What do hospitals start? What do they do?
- 29:35Speaker 3: They're supposed to take care of sick people? Where do
- 29:38Speaker 3: sick people go in bed? So what are we going
- 29:41Speaker 3: to design? Every room in the hospital? Every patient room
- 29:44Speaker 3: in the hospital is going to designed to have a
- 29:46Speaker 3: bed in it, and the bed's going to be in
- 29:48Speaker 3: the center of the room, and there are going to
- 29:50Speaker 3: be lights that focus on the bed, and there's going
- 29:52Speaker 3: to be machines that go beat on each side of
- 29:55Speaker 3: the bed, and that's how it's designed. But text don't
- 30:00Speaker 3: know anything about a woman laboring. Hospital administrators don't care
- 30:05Speaker 3: about how a woman labors. How does a woman normally labor?
- 30:08Speaker 3: How does any mammal normally labor? They do they lay
- 30:11Speaker 3: in bed. When you go to a home birth. When
- 30:14Speaker 3: you when you go to in the wild, of course
- 30:17Speaker 3: they don't have bed. So let's just stick to homebirth.
- 30:20Speaker 3: When you go to a home birth, I can just
- 30:21Speaker 3: tell you because I've been to many, and most of
- 30:24Speaker 3: my medical colleagues had never been to one. You'll almost
- 30:28Speaker 3: never find the woman in bed. She'll be up, she'll
- 30:32Speaker 3: be pacing, she'll be in the shower, she'll be getting
- 30:36Speaker 3: her hip squeezed, she'll be getting ribosoed, she'll be getting
- 30:39Speaker 3: she might be leaning on the bed, but she's not
- 30:42Speaker 3: just laying in bed.
- 30:44Speaker 1: In the bed, isn't that? What's that in the bath? Perhaps?
- 30:48Speaker 3: Yeah, in water, that sort of thing. Yes, that's where
- 30:50Speaker 3: she's going to be. So why do the hospitals design
- 30:56Speaker 3: labor rooms to have the bed in the center of
- 30:57Speaker 3: the room because their mindset is that you're sick and
- 31:02Speaker 3: that when you come into the hospital they put you
- 31:04Speaker 3: in a hospital gown. What does the hospital gown signify
- 31:07Speaker 3: you're a patient? Patients are sick. Why does a woman
- 31:11Speaker 3: need to wear a hospital gown when she's in labor.
- 31:14Speaker 3: Why can't she wear nothing or why can't she wear
- 31:16Speaker 3: her own jammies. She can wear whatever she wants, whatever
- 31:19Speaker 3: she's comfortable in, they put them in a hospital gown. Again,
- 31:22Speaker 3: many money women are starting to maybe not your country.
- 31:24Speaker 3: They're starting to pull back from this, saying no, I
- 31:26Speaker 3: don't want that, I don't need that, I don't need
- 31:29Speaker 3: an IV right now.
- 31:31Speaker 4: Well, what happens if you start bleeding.
- 31:33Speaker 3: And then you say, well, if I came in with
- 31:35Speaker 3: a gunshot wound or a severed artery in a car accident,
- 31:38Speaker 3: you get an IV in me and you transfuse me
- 31:41Speaker 3: with own negative blood. It's not like I go out
- 31:45Speaker 3: to dinner every night put an IV in before I
- 31:47Speaker 3: leave my house just in case. They say, well, it's
- 31:50Speaker 3: more likely you might need something. Yeah, well it's more
- 31:52Speaker 3: likely because of the way you treat me in the hospital.
- 31:55Speaker 3: Plus you can't bill me for an IV if I
- 31:59Speaker 3: don't have one. Think about this for a second. They
- 32:05Speaker 3: draw blood on you. Do we drop blood on people
- 32:07Speaker 3: when we go to a home birth?
- 32:09Speaker 4: Nope?
- 32:10Speaker 3: Do we start an IV when we go to home
- 32:11Speaker 3: birth automatically nope? Do we interrupt them, Do we make
- 32:15Speaker 3: them sign consent forms?
- 32:16Speaker 4: Nope? Do we make them pee in a cup? Nope?
- 32:20Speaker 3: And yet somehow those mothers and babies generally do great
- 32:25Speaker 3: and they all live for the most part.
- 32:28Speaker 1: I don't know if I told you.
- 32:29Speaker 2: I never told you, but when my wife was pregnant
- 32:34Speaker 2: the previous time, we went to hypno birthing classes. Now
- 32:41Speaker 2: that the word, I think is quite unfortunate because it
- 32:45Speaker 2: makes it sound very weird and weird and everything, but
- 32:47Speaker 2: it really isn't And if anybody's interested, I think hypno
- 32:50Speaker 2: birthing is a really, really, really good concept. It's just
- 32:53Speaker 2: basically about getting your mind in the right place, that's all.
- 32:57Speaker 5: And the main body, by the way, and body getting
- 33:02Speaker 5: your mind and body you want, you really want to
- 33:05Speaker 5: get your body in tune with your with your pregnancy.
- 33:10Speaker 3: Having you know, the mind controls the body, And one
- 33:14Speaker 3: of the hardest things for most of us who live
- 33:16Speaker 3: in this society right now is to shut our minds
- 33:18Speaker 3: down and let our bodily, our body just be and
- 33:25Speaker 3: trust our body to do our thing without too much thinking.
- 33:29Speaker 3: Your friend who's actually fearful of birth, this is very
- 33:32Speaker 3: detrimental to her.
- 33:34Speaker 1: It'll be more painful as a result.
- 33:37Speaker 4: She'll probably just get an epidural. You know she won't.
- 33:40Speaker 4: She'll just get it the.
- 33:41Speaker 3: Final and have a C section and and the recovery
- 33:44Speaker 3: will be slower. But it's kind of like, you know,
- 33:48Speaker 3: you plant these seeds in women and it really benefits
- 33:51Speaker 3: the system. Who benefits, by the way, from all those
- 33:54Speaker 3: interventions I talked about when you show up at the hospital,
- 33:56Speaker 3: and who benefits from women being frightened about birth? Not
- 34:00Speaker 3: the family. The system benefits because they can you're compliant.
- 34:05Speaker 3: Now they'll do what you'll do what they want it.
- 34:08Speaker 3: It's like in the movie Inception. I don't know if
- 34:11Speaker 3: it made it to it's really one of my favorite movies.
- 34:15Speaker 3: There's a scene where they talk about planting this idea
- 34:18Speaker 3: into the silly and Murphy's head is the actor, and
- 34:22Speaker 3: they say, why can't we just suggest it to him?
- 34:24Speaker 3: And he said, because then he'll know where it came from.
- 34:25Speaker 3: And they go, what do you mean and he says, well, okay,
- 34:28Speaker 3: don't think about elephants. Everybody's thinking about elephants. So when
- 34:36Speaker 3: you say to woman, no, you're over thirty five, pregnancy
- 34:42Speaker 3: is scary.
- 34:43Speaker 4: We need you know, we need to monitor this.
- 34:45Speaker 3: You've just basically planted seeds in there that are almost
- 34:48Speaker 3: impossible to remove. And do my colleagues who do this
- 34:55Speaker 3: kind of thing, who do these kind of this kind
- 34:57Speaker 3: of counseling with that you want to call it that,
- 35:01Speaker 3: do they know what they're doing? Do they understand what
- 35:04Speaker 3: they're doing to destroy this beautiful event for that woman?
- 35:09Speaker 4: And do they care?
- 35:12Speaker 3: And by their actions, the answer is pretty obvious that
- 35:17Speaker 3: either they don't know what they're doing and don't care,
- 35:20Speaker 3: which is bad, or they know what they're doing and
- 35:22Speaker 3: don't care, which is even worse. So the answer is
- 35:28Speaker 3: these people, unfortunately, are not to be trusted with every
- 35:33Speaker 3: pregnant woman's care. Women should go there to doctors and
- 35:38Speaker 3: maternal fetal medicine specialists when there is a true problem,
- 35:43Speaker 3: and the best people to decide that are the experts
- 35:46Speaker 3: in normal birthing, which are generally midwives who are traditionally trained.
- 35:51Speaker 3: One of the things the other thing that the medical
- 35:53Speaker 3: community is doing now is they're trying to medicalize midwiffree.
- 35:57Speaker 3: They're trying to take over the term midwiffree. Like in
- 35:59Speaker 3: places like in some states, a woman who's not licensed
- 36:04Speaker 3: by the state cannot use the word midwife to describe herself. Now,
- 36:09Speaker 3: since when did governments get to take over the language
- 36:13Speaker 3: and decide who can be called a midwife and who can't.
- 36:17Speaker 4: I don't know.
- 36:18Speaker 3: So they come up with new titles. Now they just
- 36:20Speaker 3: call traditional birth companion her traditional birth attendant. But they
- 36:24Speaker 3: just can't use the word And that's crazy because it's
- 36:26Speaker 3: just language. You're just manipulating language. You're not you're not
- 36:29Speaker 3: fixing the problem.
- 36:33Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I was saying you. So this woman
- 36:35Speaker 2: who was who was giving us the classes and hypno
- 36:38Speaker 2: birth things, she was telling us.
- 36:39Speaker 1: When she gave birth her first child, it was in
- 36:43Speaker 1: the hospital. She says it was a traumatic experience. She
- 36:45Speaker 1: hated it. Her second child, she decided to do at home.
- 36:50Speaker 1: So she got to midwife to the house, and the
- 36:54Speaker 1: midwife was in the lounge talking to her husband, and
- 36:56Speaker 1: she was sitting on the toilet because that was the
- 36:59Speaker 1: best place to be for that for that motion. And
- 37:04Speaker 1: then she stood up and held the door and actually
- 37:07Speaker 1: just gave birth right there in the bathroom while the
- 37:09Speaker 1: midwife was talking to the husband. And then she said,
- 37:14Speaker 1: forty five minutes later, she was in the kitchen making
- 37:16Speaker 1: a chicken curry.
- 37:17Speaker 3: What you're describing is the normal experience at a home birth.
- 37:20Speaker 3: There's always things that can go wrong, which is why
- 37:25Speaker 3: I respect a woman's right to free birth. And when
- 37:29Speaker 3: the choice is limited between free birthing or going to
- 37:32Speaker 3: the hospital, and that tyranny that's there. I understand why
- 37:36Speaker 3: women choose free birth, but the insanity of a government
- 37:39Speaker 3: is to say, well, a woman can be a birth
- 37:41Speaker 3: at home, but if anyone who's qualified to help her comes.
- 37:45Speaker 4: That's a crime.
- 37:47Speaker 3: And there are many states in my country and probably
- 37:49Speaker 3: countries in the world.
- 37:50Speaker 4: That do that.
- 37:51Speaker 3: I know that they like Armenia, outlaws home birth. If
- 37:55Speaker 3: a woman gives birth at home, I don't think she
- 37:56Speaker 3: goes to jail. But if somebody comes to help her,
- 38:01Speaker 3: that person is committing a crime. Now that's crazy. By
- 38:05Speaker 3: the way, your grandmother or your neighbor can help you
- 38:08Speaker 3: have a baby, but a midwife who's trained can't in
- 38:12Speaker 3: these countries or these states. Why do we give any
- 38:17Speaker 3: power to people who make decisions like that? Who are
- 38:22Speaker 3: these people? You know they're taking They don't know anything.
- 38:25Speaker 3: Most politicians know nothing about this. They just they just
- 38:29Speaker 3: do what the lobbyists or what their benefactors tell them
- 38:32Speaker 3: to do. And who is the benefactors. They're the big
- 38:35Speaker 3: medical organizations, the hospital associations, the medical organizations, the obstetric organizations.
- 38:40Speaker 3: They're the ones with the money. They're the ones at
- 38:42Speaker 3: lobby And some guy who's a lawyer who happens to
- 38:46Speaker 3: be a a legislator in your Congress, he doesn't know
- 38:51Speaker 3: anything about birth, so he's going to do with these
- 38:54Speaker 3: experts tell him. But these people are not experts because
- 38:58Speaker 3: to me, an expert is somebody who consistently is correct,
- 39:02Speaker 3: who improves outcomes, that sort of thing. These people are
- 39:06Speaker 3: consistently incorrect and they're not improving outcomes, and yet because
- 39:10Speaker 3: they have letters behind their name, they're considered experts. Okay,
- 39:16Speaker 3: I have the same letters behind my name and I
- 39:18Speaker 3: think completely differently than them. Why am I not an
- 39:23Speaker 3: expert because I think differently? Yes, I would be labeled
- 39:27Speaker 3: a crazy person, because that's how you dismiss people with
- 39:30Speaker 3: ideas as opposed to debating them or engaging them in conversation.
- 39:35Speaker 3: You don't ever see this sort of debate going on.
- 39:37Speaker 3: I think we've talked about this before. Wouldn't it have
- 39:39Speaker 3: been nice during COVID for the leaders of your country
- 39:44Speaker 3: to get people who were pro vaccine, pro lockdown on
- 39:49Speaker 3: stage on television with people who thought that lockdowns were
- 39:53Speaker 3: not a good idea, bad for kids, that some people
- 39:56Speaker 3: don't need the vaccine, that ivermectin might be a good
- 39:59Speaker 3: choice as opposed to hospitalization, remdesevir, intubation and death, and
- 40:05Speaker 3: have them debate. But you never see the so called
- 40:09Speaker 3: experts have a conversation with people who disagree with them.
- 40:13Speaker 3: They're too uncomfortable. I have a saying that that says,
- 40:16Speaker 3: not my skepticism that should bother you. It's their certainty.
- 40:19Speaker 3: And people who are confident in their position, like me,
- 40:23Speaker 3: admit we don't know stuff. People who are insecure will
- 40:31Speaker 3: act like they know everything, and they'll they'll if you
- 40:34Speaker 3: ask them something outside of their comfort zone, they'll roll
- 40:37Speaker 3: their eyes, or they'll ridicule you, or they'll say, you know,
- 40:41Speaker 3: home birth, home deliveries for pizza, or or you wouldn't
- 40:45Speaker 3: want your baby to die, would you?
- 40:47Speaker 4: Or you know?
- 40:50Speaker 1: But there you go.
- 40:50Speaker 2: But that also, I mean that feeds into the vaccine thing.
- 40:53Speaker 2: So as you know, our child and our next child
- 40:57Speaker 2: won't be vaxab, well they're not vaccinated. And but the
- 41:00Speaker 2: other subtle one is the vitamin K one. Many people
- 41:04Speaker 2: don't know about vitamin K. We also have avoided vitamin K.
- 41:09Speaker 2: This is something that goes under the radar.
- 41:13Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a big pushback now from the pharmaceutical companies
- 41:16Speaker 3: and the press about calling people who don't who talk
- 41:20Speaker 3: about why vitamin K may not be necessary as being
- 41:24Speaker 3: bringers of misinformation and the terum. Misinformation is a funny
- 41:28Speaker 3: term because there is no such term misinformation is information
- 41:32Speaker 3: that those people who don't who just don't like the
- 41:35Speaker 3: information you're giving, because if it's true, it still could
- 41:38Speaker 3: be misinformation according to them, And if it's not true,
- 41:41Speaker 3: then it's a lie.
- 41:43Speaker 4: So call it a lie.
- 41:44Speaker 3: Say that not giving vitamin K is a reasonable choice,
- 41:49Speaker 3: Say well, that's a lie. Don't call it misinformation because
- 41:52Speaker 3: it's not misinformation. But there's been a pushback because people
- 41:56Speaker 3: are beginning to understand that this thing called laid onset
- 42:02Speaker 3: vitamin K efficiency bleeding, which is a serious thing that happens,
- 42:06Speaker 3: happens between one and ten thousand and one and sixteen
- 42:08Speaker 3: thousand children who don't get vitamin K. But that means
- 42:16Speaker 3: that there's fifteen nine hundred and ninety nine children who
- 42:18Speaker 3: don't have don't get this bad outcome, and they don't
- 42:24Speaker 3: have high vitamin K either. Children are born without Babies
- 42:27Speaker 3: are born without vitamin without high vitamin K. Now, again,
- 42:31Speaker 3: if you trust nature's design, you have to ask yourself
- 42:33Speaker 3: a question. If vitamin K is so important for babies
- 42:36Speaker 3: to have that we need to give injections to sixteen
- 42:38Speaker 3: thousand babies to prevent one case of this deficiency, why
- 42:42Speaker 3: didn't nature make vitamin K across the placenta and give
- 42:47Speaker 3: babies vitamin K when they're born, because maybe there's a
- 42:49Speaker 3: reason it's not supposed to be there. But that's not
- 42:53Speaker 3: how it works, because again it gets down to money.
- 42:58Speaker 3: How much money do you make and not giving sixteen
- 43:01Speaker 3: thousand babies vitamin K.
- 43:05Speaker 4: Zero?
- 43:06Speaker 3: How much money do you make if you give sixteen
- 43:08Speaker 3: thousand babies vitamin K of which fifteen nine hundred and
- 43:12Speaker 3: ninety nine didn't need it, And it might even be
- 43:14Speaker 3: detrimental to them because it's changing nature's design. And remember
- 43:18Speaker 3: what I said earlier, every time you change nature's design,
- 43:21Speaker 3: there will be ripples downstream.
- 43:23Speaker 2: But sorry, Stue, let me jumping quickly correctly if I'm wrong.
- 43:27Speaker 2: But isn't the reason for the vitamin K injection is
- 43:31Speaker 2: because of the deficiency that occurs due to cutting the
- 43:36Speaker 2: cord too quickly.
- 43:40Speaker 4: No, I don't think it's due to that.
- 43:42Speaker 3: I think that that's kind into shorth to quickly deprives
- 43:44Speaker 3: the baby of its blood, it's iron, its stem cells,
- 43:48Speaker 3: many other other things that the oxygen exchange is going
- 43:51Speaker 3: on while the baby is transitioning into this new world
- 43:54Speaker 3: where it's now using its lungs that never used them
- 43:56Speaker 3: before and all that. It does a lot of things.
- 43:59Speaker 3: But I don't I don't know that that early cord
- 44:05Speaker 3: cutting has affects the incidence of vitamin kate efficiency bleeding.
- 44:09Speaker 4: I don't think it does.
- 44:11Speaker 1: I mean, isn't it because.
- 44:14Speaker 2: Waiting allows more blood to go into the baby, and
- 44:17Speaker 2: therefore it helps to thicken the blood naturally.
- 44:21Speaker 4: Well, I don't know that. It's again, this is an
- 44:22Speaker 4: interesting thing.
- 44:24Speaker 3: More blood's going into the baby, But the blood everywhere
- 44:27Speaker 3: in that baby, in that cord, and in that placenta,
- 44:29Speaker 3: has the same thickness.
- 44:31Speaker 1: Okay, it's all.
- 44:33Speaker 3: It's like it's your hemoglobe and it's your hematocrit. So
- 44:37Speaker 3: the hemoglobin inside the placenta blood isn't any different than
- 44:40Speaker 3: the hemoglobin inside the baby. Some of the blood as
- 44:43Speaker 3: the baby comes through the vagina, or even if it's
- 44:46Speaker 3: yanked out through the skin at a sea section.
- 44:48Speaker 4: Is going to be squeezed out of the baby.
- 44:51Speaker 3: Backwards into the placenta, and so it takes time for
- 44:54Speaker 3: that to equilibraid. Now powers that be have decided that
- 44:59Speaker 3: sixty seconds of lad cord clamping is reasonable. Well that's something,
- 45:05Speaker 3: But I can tell you that sixty seconds is a
- 45:07Speaker 3: made up number, because if it's sixty seconds, why not
- 45:11Speaker 3: seventy seconds, why not two minutes, why not three minutes?
- 45:14Speaker 3: And it's because they don't want to wait, They want
- 45:16Speaker 3: to move on to the next task, so they decide
- 45:19Speaker 3: to sea say, oh, the baby will get too much blood,
- 45:21Speaker 3: and then it'll be it'll be it'll be the blood
- 45:23Speaker 3: will be too thick. Well, that doesn't really make a
- 45:25Speaker 3: whole lot of sense. Again, I understand the complex thinking
- 45:32Speaker 3: that's going on there, and sometimes I applaud that, but
- 45:35Speaker 3: sometimes I think we think too much. It's the baby's blood.
- 45:39Speaker 3: It belongs in the baby, and what stays in the
- 45:42Speaker 3: placenta stays in the placenta, and what goes into the
- 45:45Speaker 3: baby goes into the baby, and just let it equilibrate,
- 45:48Speaker 3: because that's nature's design. Again, in no other mammal does
- 45:54Speaker 3: anyone come in and cut the cord. And again I
- 45:58Speaker 3: know that sometimes it's severs. It's like an elephant falls
- 46:01Speaker 3: to the ground that bilical cord is gone. Okay, so
- 46:06Speaker 3: that baby doesn't get the advantage of delayed cord clamping.
- 46:10Speaker 3: But that's nature's design for humans. That's not how it
- 46:14Speaker 3: was designed for chimpanzees and orangutangs and stuff. Nobody rushes
- 46:19Speaker 3: in to cut the umbilical cord. Why would they do that.
- 46:24Speaker 3: The only reason that it was done here was for expediency,
- 46:28Speaker 3: is to get that baby over to the warmer, which
- 46:30Speaker 3: again completely unnecessary, so that the nurses can do their
- 46:34Speaker 3: thing over at the warmer. They can rub the baby down,
- 46:36Speaker 3: they can hyper stimulate the baby, which is not necessary.
- 46:39Speaker 3: If you've ever been to a home birth and you
- 46:42Speaker 3: leave a baby alone, you can tell rather quickly whether
- 46:45Speaker 3: that baby's going to need a little bit of help
- 46:47Speaker 3: or not.
- 46:47Speaker 4: By giving it some time.
- 46:49Speaker 3: And if you delay the cord clamping, that blood is
- 46:51Speaker 3: coming back into that baby. That baby's volume is increasing.
- 46:56Speaker 3: It's going to help with s lungs expand, it's going
- 46:58Speaker 3: to help push fluid out of the lungs. It's going
- 46:59Speaker 3: to do all the things that nature designed it to do.
- 47:04Speaker 3: When you intervene, you've just changed everything. So you have
- 47:08Speaker 3: to ask yourself the question, why are all these intelligent
- 47:10Speaker 3: experts intervening all the time. What is it that they're doing,
- 47:14Speaker 3: And if they're intervening is so important, how come our
- 47:17Speaker 3: outcomes aren't getting better.
- 47:20Speaker 4: It's not complicated. It's that simple.
- 47:23Speaker 3: Whenever you do an intervention, Jeremy, you should damn sure
- 47:27Speaker 3: that the intervention is safe before you do it. And
- 47:30Speaker 3: the problem with our history of obstetrics and medicine in
- 47:33Speaker 3: general is that hasn't been the case. We put things
- 47:37Speaker 3: out there long before we know if they're safe or not.
- 47:40Speaker 3: We've done it, you know, for over one hundred years.
- 47:44Speaker 3: They used to put mercury in baby's teething powder. That
- 47:49Speaker 3: doesn't seem very smart to it. Yeah, yeah, well they did.
- 47:56Speaker 3: And then they did X rays on women in labor
- 47:58Speaker 3: to see if their pelvis were big enough, and they
- 48:01Speaker 3: found that that was causing cancer, so they stopped doing that.
- 48:03Speaker 3: According to Mars and Wagner in that documentary you talked
- 48:06Speaker 3: about business of being born, and then they gave some babies.
- 48:10Speaker 3: Moms were had too much nausea and hyperameesis, throwing up,
- 48:14Speaker 3: and they gave them a drug called for lidamide. The
- 48:16Speaker 3: littamide could caused limb reduction defects, and then women were
- 48:19Speaker 3: having miscarriages, so they gave him another drug called diethel stilbesterol,
- 48:23Speaker 3: which caused mularian abnormalities, which is the uterus and tubes
- 48:26Speaker 3: and vagina in the fetuses inside the female fetuses, and
- 48:30Speaker 3: who knows what it did to the male fetuses, but
- 48:32Speaker 3: the female fetuses had problems. Shouldn't they have known this
- 48:35Speaker 3: ahead of time. Then they bring in continuous fetal monitoring,
- 48:39Speaker 3: saying it's going to prevent siruble palsy into partum death.
- 48:43Speaker 3: Over fifty years of use, it hasn't done either of those.
- 48:45Speaker 3: All it's done is create more c sections, more interventions.
- 48:51Speaker 3: It hasn't improved outcomes at all. That's what they said
- 48:54Speaker 3: it was going to do. They don't know what using
- 48:59Speaker 3: side atteck or using oxytocin or excuse me, potocin synthetic.
- 49:02Speaker 3: I think it's sintosin in South Africa. I don't don't.
- 49:06Speaker 3: They've never really studied long term what that's. What that
- 49:08Speaker 3: does to the mother and baby bonding. It saturates the
- 49:12Speaker 3: oxytocin receptors, moms own oxytocin is no longer reaching the
- 49:16Speaker 3: organs that it might need to reach, like the breasts,
- 49:20Speaker 3: like the babies oxytocin receptor. You know, there's there's there's
- 49:25Speaker 3: women like Sarah Buckley who study this, and you know,
- 49:28Speaker 3: they come out with some really bright things and we
- 49:30Speaker 3: don't always agree on everything, but nonetheless we all agree
- 49:34Speaker 3: that when you meddle with mother nature, you better be
- 49:36Speaker 3: damn sure that the meddling is going to do good.
- 49:39Speaker 3: And there are some things in life that you know,
- 49:42Speaker 3: we meddle with mother nature, like air conditioning. It's nice
- 49:47Speaker 3: having air conditioning. Wasn't nature's design? Man designed air conditioning.
- 49:53Speaker 3: Now are there downsized air conditioning? Yeah, sometimes you get
- 49:55Speaker 3: legion aerious disease through the air conditioning system. There can
- 49:59Speaker 3: be problems, but nonetheless, you know, there are benefits to
- 50:04Speaker 3: certain interventions and there are risks. But some of the
- 50:06Speaker 3: interventions that we've done in obstetrics there's been no benefit
- 50:09Speaker 3: from and they keep doing them and they keep coming
- 50:13Speaker 3: up with new ones. And that is classically Einstein's definition
- 50:17Speaker 3: of insanity. I have to tell you that the people
- 50:21Speaker 3: that are running my profession are bordering on being crazy.
- 50:27Speaker 3: They call me crazy, But I think I told you this.
- 50:33Speaker 3: You love getting me going, don't you.
- 50:36Speaker 1: When we met up with a doctor just as a backup,
- 50:42Speaker 1: because I think you know the story. My wife decided
- 50:45Speaker 1: to go for home birth.
- 50:47Speaker 2: It wasn't successful, and I remember contacting you and saying
- 50:51Speaker 2: it was a failure, and you said, no, it was
- 50:53Speaker 2: not a failure. But she tried home birth for about
- 50:56Speaker 2: four hours, and the midwife got a bit nervous by
- 51:01Speaker 2: the heartbeat that was dropping down to eight, which she
- 51:04Speaker 2: said was just a bit too low for her liking.
- 51:08Speaker 2: And she said, let's let's get hold of the doctor
- 51:11Speaker 2: who was on standby, and and so that's what we did.
- 51:15Speaker 2: And but when we when we chatted with him after
- 51:20Speaker 2: everything a few days later, whatever, he said, the reason
- 51:24Speaker 2: why he talks so much about sea sections is because
- 51:31Speaker 2: of lawsuits.
- 51:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 51:34Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to just talk about the failure thing
- 51:36Speaker 3: first because I think it's important.
- 51:38Speaker 4: Okay.
- 51:42Speaker 3: The reason I said that is because we need to
- 51:46Speaker 3: we need to change the narrative of how women feel
- 51:48Speaker 3: about their bodies. And your wife did everything right, and
- 51:56Speaker 3: sometimes even doing everything right, there's a reason that to intervene.
- 52:00Speaker 3: So it's you know, it's not the term failure is
- 52:05Speaker 3: just way too harsh and if you think you failed,
- 52:10Speaker 3: then that's going to haunt you for a long time,
- 52:13Speaker 3: if not the rest of your life.
- 52:15Speaker 4: So it's really important.
- 52:16Speaker 3: And it's not just word salad to come up with
- 52:19Speaker 3: saying other terms besides failure. But it's not a word
- 52:22Speaker 3: that we'd like to we like to see used because
- 52:26Speaker 3: you want to, you want to reaffirm to her all
- 52:28Speaker 3: the things she did right, Like she conceived a baby,
- 52:33Speaker 3: she grew a baby, baby was doing great inside of
- 52:37Speaker 3: her for nine months. She took care of herself and
- 52:41Speaker 3: in turn that takes care of her baby. Those are
- 52:43Speaker 3: all successes, Those are all things to be commended.
- 52:48Speaker 1: Any got vaccinated and she didn't.
- 52:50Speaker 3: Yeah, and she didn't succumb to the all that pressure
- 52:54Speaker 3: to do that. She did all those things right. And still,
- 52:57Speaker 3: despite doing all those things right, some outcomes aren't optimal
- 53:00Speaker 3: in the way we want them to be.
- 53:02Speaker 4: But it's not a failure.
- 53:03Speaker 3: That's why the term we don't like, the term failure
- 53:05Speaker 3: to progress is a reason a lot of women go
- 53:07Speaker 3: to cesarean section because they're not dilating fast enough. Well,
- 53:11Speaker 3: who decides what fast enough is?
- 53:13Speaker 4: Well? Mankind decided that, well, that's not you know, I
- 53:19Speaker 4: guess I have to talk about this. Okay.
- 53:20Speaker 3: There's something called a labor curve and it's called the
- 53:24Speaker 3: Freedman curve, and everybody knows and EB Centrics knows what
- 53:27Speaker 3: it is. Midwives through two and it's a labor curve,
- 53:30Speaker 3: and it basically says that a woman is having her
- 53:32Speaker 3: first baby should dilate at one or one and a
- 53:34Speaker 3: half centimeters per hour once she reaches it beyond four centimeters.
- 53:39Speaker 3: They might have changed that to six now, but they
- 53:41Speaker 3: should dilate at a certain rate. Well, think about basic
- 53:44Speaker 3: geometry and how do you get a curve. The curve
- 53:49Speaker 3: is the median of a bunch of samples. So you
- 53:53Speaker 3: have some people that are laboring slow, some people are
- 53:56Speaker 3: laboring fast, some people laboring medium. All those scattered points
- 54:01Speaker 3: to calculate a curve, and the curve runs right up
- 54:03Speaker 3: the middle. But now the curve is now being used
- 54:07Speaker 3: as the standard of labor speed. But it's the middle,
- 54:12Speaker 3: which means fifty percent of women are naturally labeling slower
- 54:16Speaker 3: than that. But using the labor curve means that all
- 54:20Speaker 3: the fifty percent of women are laboring too slow. Does
- 54:24Speaker 3: anybody think that's logical that that fifty percent of women
- 54:28Speaker 3: labor too slow?
- 54:29Speaker 4: No, of course not.
- 54:31Speaker 3: So the curve was misused, but it wasn't misused by accident.
- 54:36Speaker 3: It was misused on purpose so that they could speed
- 54:39Speaker 3: up labor and they could artificially induce or augment labor. Again,
- 54:46Speaker 3: maybe somebody at the beginning thought they were doing good,
- 54:49Speaker 3: but they had to understand that after watching it for
- 54:51Speaker 3: a while. We're not doing good, but we are generating
- 54:54Speaker 3: more revenue because we're using more drugs, more ivs, more nursing.
- 55:00Speaker 3: Women are ending up with vacuums or forceps or sea sections.
- 55:03Speaker 3: Charge for that. Babies end up going to the NIKEU.
- 55:06Speaker 3: We can charge for that. Moms stay in the hospital
- 55:08Speaker 3: for longer, we can charge for That's it's not it's
- 55:14Speaker 3: not that complicated, Okay, And then you got into the
- 55:19Speaker 3: legal aspect of things, and that is a problem. That's
- 55:23Speaker 3: definitely a problem. I mean, rarely do people get sued
- 55:26Speaker 3: for wrongful cesarean section. Rarely do people get sued for
- 55:30Speaker 3: altering a baby's microbiome so that by age two that
- 55:33Speaker 3: baby has ezema and ear infections. And theoretically you could
- 55:40Speaker 3: trace it all back to the fact that she had
- 55:41Speaker 3: a scheduled sea section as opposed to a long labor
- 55:45Speaker 3: and a vagil delivery, or even a long labor and
- 55:47Speaker 3: a cesarean, which is better for the baby because the
- 55:50Speaker 3: baby got exposed to some of the stresses of labor,
- 55:52Speaker 3: some of the reflexes needed for labor and ended up
- 55:55Speaker 3: with necessarean, but still got exposed to mom's bacteria for
- 55:59Speaker 3: a while with the the you know, as she dilated,
- 56:01Speaker 3: that sort of thing, But they don't get sued for that.
- 56:06Speaker 3: This gets back to my whole thing about the live
- 56:07Speaker 3: baby in the basinet theory, and all that matters to
- 56:09Speaker 3: the medical model is that and how the baby got there,
- 56:13Speaker 3: and how the mom did, and how the baby does
- 56:15Speaker 3: and how the mom's future baby does is not the
- 56:16Speaker 3: concern of the medical system. Their concern is revenue generation
- 56:21Speaker 3: and avoiding liability. And if I was running a hospital,
- 56:24Speaker 3: that would be my mantra. My mantra would be that
- 56:33Speaker 3: my job is not to give the woman the best
- 56:35Speaker 3: experience possible. My job is to make hospital money and
- 56:39Speaker 3: prevent us from getting sued. And having a wonderful birth
- 56:43Speaker 3: experience and a valsal delivery is not the same thing
- 56:47Speaker 3: as generating revenue and not getting sued. So their fiduciary
- 56:54Speaker 3: duty is not the same as the family or the
- 56:57Speaker 3: practitioner who's supposed to have the fiduciary duty to.
- 57:00Speaker 4: Take care of that woman.
- 57:02Speaker 3: But now because most doctors are now employed by the hospital,
- 57:07Speaker 3: they're in a they have a huge conflict of interest
- 57:12Speaker 3: because the hospital wants to avoid getting sued and wants
- 57:14Speaker 3: to expedite things and wants to renuerate revenue, and the
- 57:18Speaker 3: doctor has an obligation to do what the patient wants.
- 57:20Speaker 3: You may not want to do some of the things
- 57:22Speaker 3: the hospital wants them to do, but if a doctor
- 57:24Speaker 3: doesn't do what the hospital wants, the doctor's fearful that
- 57:26Speaker 3: you might get fired. So you've got the legal, legal pressures,
- 57:30Speaker 3: the job pressures. All those are antithetical to giving the
- 57:35Speaker 3: woman what she wants.
- 57:36Speaker 1: But that's what he said to us.
- 57:38Speaker 2: He said, look, it's protocol, because if something goes wrong,
- 57:43Speaker 2: then they'll come back and say, well, did you not
- 57:45Speaker 2: follow these steps?
- 57:47Speaker 4: Yep, yeah, the term policy or protocol.
- 57:52Speaker 3: People have to remember that policies are not laws, and
- 57:56Speaker 3: you are not bound by them as a patient. If
- 57:59Speaker 3: you're an employee of the hospital, you might be bound
- 58:01Speaker 3: by them in one sense, but your ethical obligation might
- 58:06Speaker 3: be in conflict with that. That's hard to deal with.
- 58:09Speaker 3: But that is a defense that they will use. But
- 58:11Speaker 3: that assumes that all women are the same, that all
- 58:16Speaker 3: women want the same thing, that all labors are the same,
- 58:19Speaker 3: we have a protocol. We have an algorithm, and you
- 58:22Speaker 3: have to follow the algorithm. And if you follow the
- 58:24Speaker 3: algorithm and something bad happens, we feel like we're okay.
- 58:29Speaker 3: But the experience matters too. It's like it's like the
- 58:33Speaker 3: whole thing. It's not just the destination, it's the journey too.
- 58:37Speaker 3: It's all backwards, Jeremy. It's just it's just the people
- 58:43Speaker 3: running the system have run it into the ground. I
- 58:47Speaker 3: don't think you could do worse. By the way, I'm
- 58:51Speaker 3: not saying this as an experiment. I'm just saying that
- 58:54Speaker 3: if you took a thousand women in South Africa and
- 58:56Speaker 3: had them have medical care through the African ep centrical system,
- 59:00Speaker 3: and he took a thousand women and told him to
- 59:02Speaker 3: birth at home with no medical care at all, who
- 59:07Speaker 3: would have better outcomes?
- 59:09Speaker 2: Well, I would argue the ones who birthed at home. However,
- 59:14Speaker 2: they're probably going to choose the hospital because no, No.
- 59:18Speaker 3: My point is is that it would be very interesting
- 59:20Speaker 3: to find out. Yes, some women who had birth at
- 59:22Speaker 3: home might have a very bad outcome they might have
- 59:25Speaker 3: avoided if they had been in the hospital, But how
- 59:28Speaker 3: many women birth in the hospital if they would have
- 59:30Speaker 3: stayed home would have had a better outcome. And I
- 59:33Speaker 3: can tell you that when you have an eighty percent
- 59:34Speaker 3: sea section rate and you have a fan, and you
- 59:38Speaker 3: have a woman who wants five kids and now she's
- 59:41Speaker 3: got to deal with a VBAC issue, or maybe you
- 59:44Speaker 3: have a second sea section and then a third sea
- 59:46Speaker 3: section and then a fourth sea section. You know, every
- 59:49Speaker 3: time you have a sea section, you increase the risk
- 59:51Speaker 3: of that mother and that mother's future babies from uterin rupture,
- 59:55Speaker 3: from placenta kreta, which is you know, what's called abnormal placentation,
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: from other problems that can occur. So cesarean section is
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: actually just deferring risk. You could argue theoretically that if
- 1:00:09Speaker 3: a woman wants only one baby, that a sea section
- 1:00:13Speaker 3: might be safer, but it is altering the baby's microbiome,
- 1:00:17Speaker 3: it is altering the baby's epigenetics. And again, because that's
- 1:00:22Speaker 3: not measurable, nobody talks about it. People don't get informed,
- 1:00:28Speaker 3: They don't give informed consent when you go to the
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: hospital to the doctor because they don't have enough information
- 1:00:35Speaker 3: to give true informed consent. So when the doctor only
- 1:00:39Speaker 3: feeds in the information like breach is dangerous, sea section
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: is safe. Well, okay, fine, but what's the downsides of
- 1:00:47Speaker 3: sea section? What's the benefits of vaginal breach delivery? Oh,
- 1:00:50Speaker 3: we're not to talk about those. We don't offer breach
- 1:00:53Speaker 3: delivery anyway. You know, you have to have a sea section.
- 1:00:57Speaker 3: It's fine, it's safe. I've done them for twenty years
- 1:00:59Speaker 3: and never had problem. That's not giving honest and unbiased,
- 1:01:05Speaker 3: unskewed information, which is what our ethical with our with
- 1:01:08Speaker 3: our with our organizations in their ethical guidelines say we
- 1:01:11Speaker 3: must do, and they don't.
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: Yeah, they're just thinking now.
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: I'm just thinking now it's too if I if I
- 1:01:21Speaker 2: think of our ten closest female friends who have all
- 1:01:28Speaker 2: had kids, I don't think any of them had natural birth.
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: I don't think any I think.
- 1:01:36Speaker 4: I think we've talked about this.
- 1:01:37Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yep.
- 1:01:43Speaker 3: And I can tell you that I know probably ten
- 1:01:46Speaker 3: women I could just pick out who've had beautiful homebers,
- 1:01:50Speaker 3: just because of my my life experience. But I would
- 1:01:52Speaker 3: tell you most of my ob colleagues don't see anything
- 1:01:57Speaker 3: wrong with what they're doing because they'd never looked elsewhere.
- 1:02:03Speaker 3: I become a home birth advocate, But you know that
- 1:02:05Speaker 3: for the first twenty four years of my career, I
- 1:02:08Speaker 3: supported Midwiffrey as a hospital based optetrician who took their
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: transports from home, most of which were non emergent. They
- 1:02:15Speaker 3: were just women who were tired and an epidural helped them,
- 1:02:18Speaker 3: and then maybe some potocin and maybe a vacuum, and
- 1:02:21Speaker 3: they all ended up with vagual deliveries. Every now and
- 1:02:23Speaker 3: then there was a true emergency that came in. But
- 1:02:28Speaker 3: I'd been backing midwives for twenty four years before I
- 1:02:31Speaker 3: started to switch to home birthing, and I have to say,
- 1:02:34Speaker 3: actually twenty eight years, excuse me, and I have to
- 1:02:37Speaker 3: say that when I decided that I didn't decide, I
- 1:02:40Speaker 3: was kind of forced to leave the hospital. They weren't
- 1:02:43Speaker 3: going to renew my privileges, which is their right to
- 1:02:46Speaker 3: do that, but it was really a nasty reasoning. They
- 1:02:50Speaker 3: just didn't like what I was doing. I made the
- 1:02:52Speaker 3: staff nervous because I was doing things that were outside
- 1:02:55Speaker 3: the scope of what the other doctors were doing. But nonetheless,
- 1:03:01Speaker 3: I had never been to a homebirth. Twenty eight years
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: of working with midwives and I had never been to
- 1:03:06Speaker 3: a home birth. And that's a mistake. And if I
- 1:03:11Speaker 3: can suggest anything to young physicians, who are in training
- 1:03:15Speaker 3: or whatever else is. Take the opportunity. If you can
- 1:03:17Speaker 3: go to some homeers just sit there as Uncle Bob visiting.
- 1:03:22Speaker 3: Don't do anything, just watch, sit in the corner, get
- 1:03:26Speaker 3: permission from the woman from her midwife, and to go.
- 1:03:30Speaker 3: If you really want an education on birth, if you
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: really want to be really good at your profession, then
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: you need to know what all the options are. Also, like,
- 1:03:39Speaker 3: get breach training. Even if you go to work for
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: a hospital, it won't allow you to do a breach delivery.
- 1:03:44Speaker 3: Sometime there's a woman that's going to come in with
- 1:03:47Speaker 3: the baby's feet or butt sticking out of the vagina.
- 1:03:49Speaker 3: You're not going to know what to do, and you're
- 1:03:52Speaker 3: going to panic and you're either going to pull on
- 1:03:54Speaker 3: that baby or you're going to shove it back up
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: inside and dats or knock her out completely and give
- 1:04:01Speaker 3: her a traumatic berth because you didn't know a maneuver
- 1:04:04Speaker 3: that could have got that baby out in fifteen or
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: twenty seconds. These are not I mean, obstetricians are supposed
- 1:04:12Speaker 3: to be experts in all things birth.
- 1:04:14Speaker 4: They're not.
- 1:04:16Speaker 3: They're experts in surgical birth and medicalized birth. But if
- 1:04:20Speaker 3: you've never seen a home birth. If you've never seen
- 1:04:22Speaker 3: a woman where you actually have done nothing but sit
- 1:04:27Speaker 3: quietly and listen in another room, or caught a breach baby,
- 1:04:33Speaker 3: you can't say that you're an obstetrician. You know, I
- 1:04:37Speaker 3: told you they want to take away the word midwife
- 1:04:39Speaker 3: from midwives. But I don't know how you call yourself
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: an obstetrician when six percent of babies at term are
- 1:04:45Speaker 3: going to be breach and you don't know how to
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: take care of them. That's one in every eighteen women
- 1:04:51Speaker 3: that walk into your office, and every seventeen women, and
- 1:04:55Speaker 3: you're supposed to be an expert, and you're not as
- 1:04:58Speaker 3: i as somebody who was like OCD and wanted to
- 1:05:02Speaker 3: be the best that I could possibly be. I would
- 1:05:03Speaker 3: have been really furious if in training, my mentors, my
- 1:05:09Speaker 3: residency training program didn't teach me how to take care
- 1:05:11Speaker 3: of one out of every seventeen women who walked into
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: my office, I'd be embarrassed. I go after them. I
- 1:05:19Speaker 3: try to change the system. I try to bring back
- 1:05:23Speaker 3: these skills because the women of our community deserve it.
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: Before we promote your podcast, stew I just quickly wanted
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: to give a shout out to some of the other
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: names who had a big influence Captain Graves I mentioned
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: at the beginning of this conversation. I would strongly recommend
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: anybody read her books on hypno birthing. What does the
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: name of that woman I've now gone Blanc who became
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: the face of the sort of hippie of Askin. That's
- 1:06:00Speaker 1: a that's a uh.
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: She wrote Spiritual Midwiffrey, and she read a couple other books.
- 1:06:06Speaker 2: We've got that book. Yeah, we read that book together.
- 1:06:08Speaker 2: It's an incredible it's incredible.
- 1:06:11Speaker 4: Yeah. A long time ago.
- 1:06:14Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm happy to report that lately, I think
- 1:06:16Speaker 3: she's doing appearances again.
- 1:06:19Speaker 4: For a while she wasn't, and I'm thrilled.
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: She's old.
- 1:06:22Speaker 4: No, we all are.
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: Yeah, she must be.
- 1:06:26Speaker 4: I think she.
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: I think she's in the eighties or even.
- 1:06:28Speaker 4: Well, yeah, in the seventies.
- 1:06:30Speaker 3: She must have been twenty, So that means, you know,
- 1:06:33Speaker 3: I was actually around that age too.
- 1:06:35Speaker 4: She's older than she's older than me. She's older and me.
- 1:06:37Speaker 4: She's got to be in her mid seventies or late seventies,
- 1:06:39Speaker 4: probably right.
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: But her well did she write that book? Always? It
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: a book about to our contra remember, but it's a
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: collection of stories all related.
- 1:06:48Speaker 3: To she in the Midwiest from the farm in Tennessee
- 1:06:51Speaker 3: wrote the book. They from what I understand, she got
- 1:06:55Speaker 3: permission to like put her name on the book. But
- 1:06:59Speaker 3: it doesn't matter who wrote it. She's responsible for it,
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: and she deserves credit. She deserves credit as to all
- 1:07:07Speaker 3: the pioneers of her age who you know, ran out
- 1:07:11Speaker 3: of gas in Tennessee. They left San Francisco on a
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: bus and they were just going across country. They ran
- 1:07:17Speaker 3: out of gas in Tennessee and that's where they put
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: down roots, the famous farm.
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: I can promise you now if you if you read
- 1:07:25Speaker 2: some of those stories about those those births, it will
- 1:07:30Speaker 2: certainly make you feel better about your pregnancy.
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 1:07:35Speaker 3: Well, they trusted that, they trusted women and they trusted
- 1:07:38Speaker 3: the bodies in those times. And by the way, in
- 1:07:40Speaker 3: the seventies, I mean even obsetricle, even though there were
- 1:07:44Speaker 3: you know, twilight sleep and foresteps and vacuums, I mean,
- 1:07:47Speaker 3: the C section rate was only five percent.
- 1:07:50Speaker 4: So it's only gotten worse since the seventies.
- 1:07:56Speaker 3: And again I know that there's lots of reasons for that,
- 1:07:58Speaker 3: but one of the reasons I've put on that was
- 1:08:01Speaker 3: the formation of the specialty of high.
- 1:08:04Speaker 4: Risk of cetrics.
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: The I again, I'm waiting for somebody from the Society
- 1:08:11Speaker 3: of Maternal Fetal Medicine to try to refute what I'm saying.
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: But they were founded in nineteen seventy seven, and they're
- 1:08:17Speaker 3: an American organization, but their influences worldwide, and ever since
- 1:08:22Speaker 3: nineteen seventy seven, everything about obstetrics has gotten worse. There
- 1:08:28Speaker 3: have been individual cases where they've done wonderful things, but
- 1:08:33Speaker 3: you know, in nineteen seventy about one in three women
- 1:08:35Speaker 3: had an ultrasound. Now, rarely does a woman make it
- 1:08:39Speaker 3: through pregnancy without four or five six ultrasounds. Every one
- 1:08:43Speaker 3: of those ultrasounds is a billable charge. If you label
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: every woman high risk, you create large volume of clientele.
- 1:08:58Speaker 3: Look I compare this, there's a lot. A little bit
- 1:09:02Speaker 3: of medical history is really interesting. Do you know that
- 1:09:05Speaker 3: prior to the mid eighties, a cholesterol under three hundred
- 1:09:09Speaker 3: was considered fine. Okay, Then in nineteen eighty seven they
- 1:09:15Speaker 3: changed the American Heart Association changed the cholesterol level from
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: three hundred down to two forty. Why did they do
- 1:09:20Speaker 3: that in nineteen eighty seven, do you know, Jeremy.
- 1:09:24Speaker 1: Probably because of the low fat diet that came out.
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: No.
- 1:09:27Speaker 4: Close.
- 1:09:27Speaker 3: It was because Lipitor was invented. Oh, it's a statin
- 1:09:33Speaker 3: and it was designed to lower your cholesterol. So by
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: lowering the level from three hundred down to two forty,
- 1:09:38Speaker 3: did they improve outcomes? No, but they got forty to
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: fifty million more people that could be labeled as having
- 1:09:44Speaker 3: high cholesterol who could then doctors could then write out
- 1:09:47Speaker 3: a prescription for lipitor, And then somewhere in the two
- 1:09:50Speaker 3: thousands that they lowered it to two hundred again, creating
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: another twenty thirty forty million people in my country who
- 1:09:58Speaker 3: are now labeled as high cholesterol. This is what they do.
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: They don't improve outcomes. They find more ways to generate revenue.
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: And that's what the maternal fetal medicine specialist has done,
- 1:10:09Speaker 3: because I can't you know if they say that they're
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: improving outcomes, and how come they're not improving outcomes? How
- 1:10:14Speaker 3: come we're not seeing a statistical improvement in our babies.
- 1:10:19Speaker 3: We're seeing by the way, in the last twenty years,
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: there's been a doubling of NICU admission rates new born
- 1:10:23Speaker 3: intense security in admission rates. In the last thirty years,
- 1:10:27Speaker 3: the rate of postpartum hemorrhage is tripled, I mean doubled.
- 1:10:29Speaker 3: Excuse me, it is double. Why if we're doing so good,
- 1:10:33Speaker 3: maybe it's because of what we're doing that's causing those things.
- 1:10:37Speaker 3: But they don't look at that stuff. They never want
- 1:10:39Speaker 3: to look at that stuff. They only want to look
- 1:10:40Speaker 3: at that one percent of people that are birthing at home.
- 1:10:42Speaker 3: And let's go after those crazy traditional midwives who aren't
- 1:10:45Speaker 3: following our protocols.
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: And something that really bothers me is seeing all those
- 1:10:51Speaker 1: babies in those little little cubicle things. I remember when
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: our boy was born, As I said earlier, the home
- 1:11:02Speaker 1: birth turned out to you know, we had to go
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: to the hospital. My wife said to me, he does
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: not leave my arms or your arms. That's it.
- 1:11:16Speaker 3: Because your wife was knowledgeable. She took the time to
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: listen to alter alternative ideas and then made up her
- 1:11:27Speaker 3: mind for herself as to what seemed reasonable to her.
- 1:11:31Speaker 3: And again it gets back to nature's design. A small
- 1:11:33Speaker 3: percentage of babies need help. A lot of times they
- 1:11:37Speaker 3: need help because of the way they were brought into
- 1:11:39Speaker 3: the world, so it's yatrogenic. But most babies don't. Most
- 1:11:44Speaker 3: babies should be left alone. The course should be left intact.
- 1:11:47Speaker 3: The baby should go on the mom's chest, whether that's
- 1:11:49Speaker 3: by sea section or whether that's by vaginal delivery. I mean,
- 1:11:52Speaker 3: I see section. You have to protect a sterile field.
- 1:11:54Speaker 3: I get that, But you can work it out where
- 1:11:58Speaker 3: you could have delay court clamping and then the mother
- 1:12:00Speaker 3: could have the baby right here. The baby doesn't need
- 1:12:02Speaker 3: to go to the warmer where three strangers from the
- 1:12:04Speaker 3: pediatric department upstairs are coming down to do all these
- 1:12:07Speaker 3: things to your baby while mom is sitting behind a curtain,
- 1:12:09Speaker 3: not being able to see or relate to her baby. Again,
- 1:12:13Speaker 3: these are just policies that have been put in place
- 1:12:15Speaker 3: that nobody ask why, or even if they ask why,
- 1:12:21Speaker 3: they get yelled at for asking why. I still want
- 1:12:24Speaker 3: to ask why do babies go from a mom in
- 1:12:27Speaker 3: lithotomy position pushing out her baby to having a cut
- 1:12:30Speaker 3: court and go over to the warmer on the other
- 1:12:31Speaker 3: side of the room.
- 1:12:34Speaker 4: That is still protocol and more than.
- 1:12:37Speaker 3: Half of all hospitals in the world, And the question
- 1:12:41Speaker 3: is why. And if you ask a nurse why they're
- 1:12:43Speaker 3: doing it, they'll say something like, well, it's our policy,
- 1:12:45Speaker 3: or we have to make sure the baby's okay, Well,
- 1:12:48Speaker 3: can't you make sure the baby's okay right here? No,
- 1:12:52Speaker 3: because I didn't learn to do it that way. And
- 1:12:55Speaker 3: when they get all caught up and they get all
- 1:12:58Speaker 3: agitated because you're messing with their world. And even when
- 1:13:04Speaker 3: their world isn't working well, they don't want you to
- 1:13:06Speaker 3: mess with their world. And if it's working well by
- 1:13:10Speaker 3: design to create generate revenue and keep people in power,
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: then those people don't want it to be changed either.
- 1:13:18Speaker 3: Change has to come from women like your wife, who
- 1:13:21Speaker 3: have to say no, you're not going to give my
- 1:13:24Speaker 3: baby via McKay. You're not going to give my baby
- 1:13:26Speaker 3: a hepatitis vaccine, a shot for a sexually transmitted disease
- 1:13:30Speaker 3: that me and my husband don't have. And you're not
- 1:13:33Speaker 3: going to take the baby away from me because I
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: want to be with my baby. I think it's nature's
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: design is for me and my baby to bond hormonally, sensory,
- 1:13:45Speaker 3: in every possible way. The baby does not need to
- 1:13:49Speaker 3: be wrapped up like a burrito. The baby does not
- 1:13:51Speaker 3: need to go off into another room that sort of thing. No, again,
- 1:13:58Speaker 3: going back to your example, the animal park, you know,
- 1:14:03Speaker 3: nobody walks in and takes a baby rhinoceris array from
- 1:14:06Speaker 3: its mother. Right, you just don't do it, and even
- 1:14:12Speaker 3: if that baby's struggling, you kind of let nature do
- 1:14:15Speaker 3: its thing.
- 1:14:15Speaker 4: Now in humans we want to intervene.
- 1:14:17Speaker 3: But why are so many more babies struggling now than
- 1:14:21Speaker 3: they were thirty forty years ago? And the system wants
- 1:14:25Speaker 3: to say, oh, women are older, women are fat, or
- 1:14:27Speaker 3: you know, there's you know, five G micro but they
- 1:14:31Speaker 3: want to blame something else. Why don't you take a
- 1:14:33Speaker 3: look at what you're doing first and see and compare
- 1:14:37Speaker 3: it to the same women who are birthing at home.
- 1:14:41Speaker 3: They drink in the same water, they have the same
- 1:14:44Speaker 3: five G you know, they have the same microplastic issues,
- 1:14:47Speaker 3: but their babies and their and their pregnancies are healthier.
- 1:14:51Speaker 3: Maybe it could be something you're doing. The same person
- 1:14:54Speaker 3: would think about that and say, yeah, we should look
- 1:14:56Speaker 3: at it. So I can only tell you what the
- 1:14:59Speaker 3: alternative is that these people are not necessarily saying they're
- 1:15:03Speaker 3: motivated by something other than outcomes.
- 1:15:07Speaker 1: All right, stew let's promote your podcast.
- 1:15:10Speaker 3: Okay, it's birthing instincts. Everything I have is birthing instincts.
- 1:15:13Speaker 3: So it's Birthing Instinct's podcast. It's on your podcast app
- 1:15:17Speaker 3: any one of them, and Bliss Young and I have
- 1:15:20Speaker 3: been doing it for a long time and we talk
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: about mostly things birth, but we have very interesting guests on.
- 1:15:27Speaker 3: We recently had Del Big Treon. I no, no, I
- 1:15:29Speaker 3: think you're probably hope your listeners know who he is. Yeah, yeah,
- 1:15:35Speaker 3: you've had him on, right, So yeah, I mean it's
- 1:15:38Speaker 3: just we don't always do birth, but we sort of
- 1:15:40Speaker 3: did focus on birth. But then Dell went off on
- 1:15:43Speaker 3: a tangent, which I loved because he just went on
- 1:15:46Speaker 3: to a rant and it was great because I'm usually
- 1:15:49Speaker 3: the one that goes off on a rant, so that
- 1:15:51Speaker 3: was kind of a.
- 1:15:51Speaker 4: Relief for me. Oh yeah, of course.
- 1:15:55Speaker 3: So we have that, and then my website is Birthing
- 1:15:56Speaker 3: Instincts dot com, where you have links to where I'm teaching.
- 1:16:00Speaker 3: I go around the world and I teach a two
- 1:16:02Speaker 3: day seminar on breach and twin skills. It's been very
- 1:16:05Speaker 3: well received. I do ten to twelve of them a year,
- 1:16:10Speaker 3: So that's.
- 1:16:11Speaker 4: On the website.
- 1:16:12Speaker 3: We have a Patreon membership at the podcast website, which
- 1:16:16Speaker 3: is birthing Andsincspodcast dot com, and you can join our patron.
- 1:16:19Speaker 3: We have almost I think we're up to about almost
- 1:16:21Speaker 3: near two thousand people. Very different levels, so some are
- 1:16:25Speaker 3: basic free and then there's a very more expensive levels
- 1:16:27Speaker 3: where we have extra content. You can see our podcast
- 1:16:30Speaker 3: without commercials. You can see us on video. We do
- 1:16:34Speaker 3: supplemental stuff that we put up for the podcast. We
- 1:16:39Speaker 3: do segments, and I do a deep dive every now
- 1:16:41Speaker 3: and then on a topic and it's.
- 1:16:44Speaker 4: A sense of community.
- 1:16:44Speaker 3: We have a peer review once a month where people
- 1:16:47Speaker 3: can come talk openly. You get see you credits for that.
- 1:16:52Speaker 3: We have a Q and A once a month and
- 1:16:56Speaker 3: people can come on and just ask questions and you
- 1:16:58Speaker 3: get a bunch of birth workers given you answers that
- 1:17:01Speaker 3: sort of thing. Bliss has what's called a Village Prenatal,
- 1:17:05Speaker 3: so she does that once a month where people can
- 1:17:06Speaker 3: come on and they do like what a prenatal visit
- 1:17:08Speaker 3: would be like, and they go through that and everybody
- 1:17:11Speaker 3: chimes in and it's it's a sense of community where
- 1:17:13Speaker 3: people can air out their grievances or their experiences or
- 1:17:16Speaker 3: share a wonderful story or maybe a tragedy.
- 1:17:20Speaker 4: And Bliss and I.
- 1:17:20Speaker 3: Will occasionally do debriefing with people who had an outcome
- 1:17:23Speaker 3: that wasn't great, whether it's a birth worker or a
- 1:17:26Speaker 3: family themselves, and give them some uneared to unear to
- 1:17:31Speaker 3: and a shoulder to lean on. So that's that's what
- 1:17:34Speaker 3: we do. And then I'm I published some papers. I'm
- 1:17:37Speaker 3: sort of working on books but I don't really want
- 1:17:40Speaker 3: to talk about them yet because I'm not sure how
- 1:17:43Speaker 3: far I'll get on them. But one of them will
- 1:17:46Speaker 3: be on twins, because I really do think that this
- 1:17:48Speaker 3: is a this is an area where the medical system
- 1:17:53Speaker 3: has failed miserably with twins. Pretty Much everything they recommend
- 1:17:57Speaker 3: about twins is not evidence based or not every not
- 1:18:00Speaker 3: good evidence based, and it's not supported. And there certainly
- 1:18:02Speaker 3: are other options, and you wouldn't know it if you
- 1:18:05Speaker 3: went to your typical maternal fetal medicine doctor, who again
- 1:18:08Speaker 3: treats everybody the same on an algorithm, and every woman
- 1:18:12Speaker 3: with twins is an individual, and medicine doesn't like that.
- 1:18:15Speaker 3: Their system isn't designed to deal with individuals. It's time
- 1:18:19Speaker 3: to work on volume and move people through. It's assembly line,
- 1:18:23Speaker 3: algorithmic and that's my mission in life. And then so
- 1:18:27Speaker 3: that's it. Birthing instincts, you'll.
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: Find me and your podcast, I'll reiterate, is very special
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: to me and my wife, so I can only recommend it.
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: But on that very uplifting note, doctor Stuart Fishbine, thank
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: you for joining me in the Strangers.
- 1:18:47Speaker 3: Jeremy, it's always a pleasure. Looking forward to coming to
- 1:18:49Speaker 3: South Africa at some point