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Talk to us about ADULTING... and how that's going for YOU! · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Payton just got married Hellong two months ago, March, four
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  Speaker 1: months ago, in March. In March, so give us an
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  Speaker 1: update on wedding life, because the wedding kind of was
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  Speaker 1: a little impromptu.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lot of impromptu. We canceled our
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  Speaker 2: huge two hundred and fifty person wedding and got married
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  Speaker 2: in Vegas, and it was truly the best decision that
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  Speaker 2: we could have ever made. And earlier in the month
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  Speaker 2: of June, we had a big open house wedding reception
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  Speaker 2: kind of like party, just to get all of our
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  Speaker 2: friends and family together because not everyone was able to
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  Speaker 2: make it to Vegas since it was so last second. Well,
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  Speaker 2: from our reception, we got a ton of cash.
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  Speaker 3: Quite honestly, we.
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  Speaker 2: Got a lot of cash. We got a lot of checks,
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  Speaker 2: but we ran into the issue. We're on a lot
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  Speaker 2: of the checks. It's addressed as Peyton and Kadeem Strickland.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have a joint bank account, therefore we cannot
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  Speaker 2: cash these checks. Yeah, so they've kind of just been
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  Speaker 2: sitting like in my little filing cabinet that I had
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  Speaker 2: at home.
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  Speaker 3: And yesterday we did the biggest adult.
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  Speaker 4: Thing and went and opened up a joint checking account together. Yeah, like, wait,
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  Speaker 4: look at us like we're getting stuff done. But I
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  Speaker 4: will say I don't know when that awkward phase goes
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  Speaker 4: away or not. But when she asked us what our
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  Speaker 4: relationship was and I told her married, I like kind
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  Speaker 4: of like recoiled.
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  Speaker 5: I was like, that's a thing.
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  Speaker 2: It was like I was the same thing though, and
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  Speaker 2: it was like he was my boyfriend and then he
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  Speaker 2: was my fiance, Like it felt kind of weird, and
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  Speaker 2: now he's my husband, and it's just like just so
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  Speaker 2: weird because I've always wanted this.
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  Speaker 3: But then again, I'm like, am I too young for this?
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  Speaker 6: For checking account? Too young to be married to.
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  Speaker 2: Be married, too to be young to have a joint
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  Speaker 2: bike account, too young to have the house with him?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, is this okay?
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  Speaker 6: You're going to You're almost twenty eight? The adulting?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's kind of scary.
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  Speaker 6: What else are you doing this adult thing?
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  Speaker 3: Other than getting our checking account?
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  Speaker 2: I actually went on to the Social Security website to
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  Speaker 2: officially legally change my last name.
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  Speaker 5: I was going to ask that because if the chech
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  Speaker 5: was addressed to Peyton Strickland, then that might also pose
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  Speaker 5: an issue.
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  Speaker 3: Exactly Strickland.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, Strickland. Go, said Barbara, Go with Kennedy Schwarzenegger. Do
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  Speaker 6: you pick whatever name you want.
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  Speaker 2: I could pick whatever name I wanted, but I think
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  Speaker 2: I want his last name.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, like a pain in the butt to change your
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  Speaker 3: last name a little bit. I just have to go
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  Speaker 3: to Social Security first, and then you have to do
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  Speaker 3: all the other stuff.
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  Speaker 6: You like, got to go to the office.
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  Speaker 3: No, I can do it online.
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  Speaker 6: Oh you can. It's a lot of paperwork, Trina, you're
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  Speaker 6: adulting right now.
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  Speaker 7: Well, yeah, I'm trying to, and it's sort of backfiring.
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  Speaker 7: I feel like all the people who have their lives
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  Speaker 7: together have like an emergency fund, you know, that they've
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  Speaker 7: built up, and so I've been really trying to build
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  Speaker 7: one for myself, and you know, putting a lot of
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  Speaker 7: you know, my earnings in there. And I've been feeling
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  Speaker 7: pretty secure for the time, like I have a little
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  Speaker 7: nest egg in case anything bad should happen. And I
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  Speaker 7: was feeling so proud of myself, and then of course,
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  Speaker 7: out of the blue, I get a call from my
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  Speaker 7: landlord that there's been no joke. I'm you can't make
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  Speaker 7: this up. A ferret living inside my walls, and so
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  Speaker 7: I have to pay to get all new, like he's
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  Speaker 7: not going to cover it. I have to pay to
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  Speaker 7: get all new like paneling, and like the ferret like
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  Speaker 7: chewed all of the wirings for my TV, so now
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  Speaker 7: I have to like replace all of that. And then
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  Speaker 7: within the same week, my AC unit died, and then
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  Speaker 7: I got a call from my dentist saying that they
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  Speaker 7: were going to deny my claim for a new crown
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  Speaker 7: because like insurance looking at to cover it whatever. So
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  Speaker 7: now I have to pay out of pocket for that.
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  Speaker 7: And so literally within a week or like less, like
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  Speaker 7: within like seventy two hours, my entire nest egg is
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  Speaker 7: like totally drained.
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  Speaker 6: Oh that's terrible. Hold on, hold on.
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  Speaker 1: This is perfect timing because I mean, sorry about the ferret,
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  Speaker 1: but there's this video from twenty twenty four that's reviraling.
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  Speaker 6: It's being picked up again everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't know if you remember this store about
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  Speaker 1: this woman who was feeding raccoons near her house and
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  Speaker 1: it got out of control where she was surrounded by
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  Speaker 1: one hundred raccoons.
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  Speaker 6: I remember she called nine on one. It sounds like
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  Speaker 6: this sounds like.
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  Speaker 5: Trina, I need an officer.
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  Speaker 3: I'm right in my car.
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  Speaker 6: They chased me all.
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  Speaker 7: The way out through the backyard. You're not able to
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  Speaker 7: get out of your car. You're stuck in your vehicle.
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  Speaker 3: They know that you're a source of food.
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  Speaker 1: So I went thirty out.
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  Speaker 5: Oh, this is just this is probably one thing.
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  Speaker 7: A third of them, these big ones they fight.
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  Speaker 3: This call came out. I thought you were playing well,
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  Speaker 3: so I had to come out here and see.
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  Speaker 6: So you're looking at it all wrong. You only have
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  Speaker 6: one ferret she.
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  Speaker 1: Has was that something or something that they lost before
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  Speaker 1: you moved in?
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  Speaker 6: Had to be I guess, so, didn't you?
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  Speaker 2: Yea.
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  Speaker 7: I sincerely hope that that is what it is.
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  Speaker 5: It seems weird that you'd be responsible for it if
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  Speaker 5: it's not your ferret.
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  Speaker 7: I thought so too. I was like, excuse me, Like
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  Speaker 7: I don't have any pets. Also, the other thing is
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  Speaker 7: our building technically doesn't allow pets, So like, whoever s
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  Speaker 7: ferreit this is, that's just roaming around Like they should
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  Speaker 7: pay for me.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I know, an adulting horrible. Thanks Trina, have a
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  Speaker 6: great day. You know. It reminds me this just happened
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  Speaker 6: the other day too. Wow, this happens to me every
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  Speaker 6: couple of years.
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  Speaker 1: I was doing something and I was with my son Kemp,
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  Speaker 1: and he goes, hey, Dad, and I'm like, whoa, I'm
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  Speaker 1: that guy's dad.
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  Speaker 6: I swear. It freaks me out. Well, how can I
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  Speaker 6: possibly be this guy's dad?
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  Speaker 1: My my brain tells me I'm exact same age as him,
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  Speaker 1: but she's called me dad, and I put my arm
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  Speaker 1: around him, and I'm all proud, like I'm like this right,
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  Speaker 1: I am your dad.
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  Speaker 6: I can't explain it. I never answered this question.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, whatever, it was, because I got sidetracked in my
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  Speaker 1: brain thinking about how I'm this guy's dad.
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  Speaker 6: This guy.
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  Speaker 1: It's such a weird feeling to me still, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's so weird.
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  Speaker 6: It just goes by so fast