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S21, #11: All Things Dean · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: All right, let's hit the theme song and Ashley I
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  Speaker 1: Almost Famous podcast on iHeart Radio. This is the Benn
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  Speaker 1: and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with her radio. Hey, guys,
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  Speaker 1: Ben is still in Honduras being a saint. So I
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  Speaker 1: have a very special guest. I might be a little
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  Speaker 1: bit giddy um today because you know he is a
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  Speaker 1: cutie and his name is Dean also known as Deanie.
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  Speaker 1: Babies say hey, hello you guys. If you listen to
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  Speaker 1: the Ben and Actually I almost its podcast, you definitely
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  Speaker 1: watched The Bachelorrett and you definitely are obsessed with Dean
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  Speaker 1: and he is fourth place to the fourth place finisher
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  Speaker 1: on Rachel's season just got kicked off last week. How
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  Speaker 1: do you feel? That's yeah, that's that's stunk to watch back,
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  Speaker 1: but happy to be here. What how do you sell
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  Speaker 1: your lesson? I'd love to hear you try to say
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  Speaker 1: it first lt. Yeah, a lot of people don't pronounce
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  Speaker 1: the t at the end unglert unglert. Yes, you're very
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  Speaker 1: good at pronouncing your teath. I get really lazy, like
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  Speaker 1: winner say winners set of Winter. I'll consciously try to
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  Speaker 1: announce you as well as I can at times. You're
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  Speaker 1: so good He's just fully rounded human being right there.
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  Speaker 1: The most false You actually told me that you want
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  Speaker 1: to take your wife's last name because you're desperate to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of Unglert. It's not that I'm desperate to
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  Speaker 1: get rid of it. I just think that it's a
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  Speaker 1: bit chauvinistic to expect the woman to take the husband's
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  Speaker 1: last name. That's why. It has nothing to do with
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  Speaker 1: the fact that you have a very hard to pronounce
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  Speaker 1: last name. Well, there's part of that. I have two
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  Speaker 1: older brothers that they can live to linea John. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean I would have been Dean Lindsay. I would
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  Speaker 1: have been de Lindsey. Absolutely, that sounds nice. Yeah, den
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  Speaker 1: I Connettie. Maybe not. We have at least a discussion
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  Speaker 1: about it, because neither of those last names are very desirable.
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  Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, well what about den I? Uh,
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  Speaker 1: my last name has almost officially turned into I. But
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  Speaker 1: Dina is kind of funny because it sounds like den I, Deny. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: as long as it's negotiable. Um, alright, Dean. So if
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  Speaker 1: you had to do this whole process over again, would
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  Speaker 1: you change anything? No. I feel like I've been asked
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  Speaker 1: this question a couple of times. I know it's such
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  Speaker 1: a boring one, but like one of the ones that
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  Speaker 1: I'm just obligated to ask you. Um, I think, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: the only thing that I would change is I just
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  Speaker 1: would pack more. I didn't really pack anything the first
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  Speaker 1: time around. You know. It's so funny is that I
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  Speaker 1: was taping the Twin Show about a week into your
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  Speaker 1: season and I met one of your friends and he
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  Speaker 1: was like, Dean, my friend Dean, he just left the Bachelorette.
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  Speaker 1: He actually you know, had one of those early introductions
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  Speaker 1: on the show. But guess what. He only packed like
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  Speaker 1: a thirty pounds suitcase. And I'm like, that guy doesn't
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  Speaker 1: expect to get very far. So that you're talking about Mike,
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  Speaker 1: And actually he lent me his high school Deffel bag
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  Speaker 1: to pack things into. It was it was a small
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  Speaker 1: little Deffe bag and that's all I brought, Okay, and
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  Speaker 1: that's why you had to borrow a lot of clothes
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  Speaker 1: from Peter. Yeah, so Peter let me borrow some clothes.
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  Speaker 1: Funny enough, Brian let me borrow some clothes every once
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  Speaker 1: in a while. Um yeah, just you know, whoever is
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  Speaker 1: able and willing to let me borrow something. I just
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  Speaker 1: jumped in on it. And did you repeat outfits? I
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  Speaker 1: guess you'd have to. Oh yeah, if you look at
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  Speaker 1: the group dates, I literally wore the same thing and
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  Speaker 1: at least like two thirds of them. To be honest,
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  Speaker 1: you did a great job spreading them out because I
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  Speaker 1: didn't notice any outfit repeating. I appreciate that. I tried to, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, mix up the tops and bottoms. Maybe where um,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, like an undershirt every once in a while. Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: did you love Virtual? I go off back to the
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  Speaker 1: questions in hindsight? Did you love Rachel? Because when I
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  Speaker 1: left the Bachelor bubble, I thought, oh he was hot
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  Speaker 1: guy that I liked physically, um, and then when I
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  Speaker 1: was in there, I thought I was writing things in
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  Speaker 1: my diary like I would like to marry this man
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  Speaker 1: one day. Well, yeah, you know how it is. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you're in there for you know, X amount of time,
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  Speaker 1: and all you do is is talk, eat, sleep, and
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  Speaker 1: breathe the person the lead essentially exactly exactly. Did you
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  Speaker 1: use a daydream about her in your bunk? Yeah? Lots
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  Speaker 1: of daydreaming. So I'm not gonna say that I was
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  Speaker 1: in love with her. But yeah, in the moment, especially
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  Speaker 1: after the hometowns, I was all in love. I saw
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  Speaker 1: it getting to that point. Um, and especially you know
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  Speaker 1: you're in that Bachelor Batcheott bubble where in all your
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  Speaker 1: interviews with all other guys, all you're talking about is
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  Speaker 1: Rachel and all that kind of stuff. So, um, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's just a lots of process. It's like an on
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  Speaker 1: foreign I'm sorry, it's a foreign uh, I guess concept.
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  Speaker 1: So did you keep it? Okay, did you keep it back?
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  Speaker 1: You didn't keep a Bachelor diary, but if you did, like,
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  Speaker 1: can you describe what it would sound like? Um, that's
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  Speaker 1: a great question. It would be woke up, hungover, I
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  Speaker 1: had a bunch of eggs with avocado and eat rinse
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  Speaker 1: and repeat. I think is mostly what it was. Did
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  Speaker 1: you eat more avocado in your life, like collectively in
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor Mansion than ever before? Honestly, one of the
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  Speaker 1: best things about going on the show was just the
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  Speaker 1: endless supply of avocados and oreos in the mansion. I
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  Speaker 1: loved all of that. We have a jar of oreos
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  Speaker 1: and a jar of what peanut eminem Eminem's liquorice. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I asked to get me Briar's Mint chocolate chip ice cream,
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  Speaker 1: and they brought back like three tubs of it, which
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  Speaker 1: were immediately consumed, and lots of hot cheetos obviously too
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  Speaker 1: so amazing. Oh my god, that reminds me of damn
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  Speaker 1: it I left in the car. This is how I
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  Speaker 1: buttered Dean up. Like whenever I need him to do something,
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  Speaker 1: I bring him a bat bag of cheetah child loop,
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  Speaker 1: do what I want? All right? Well, um, let's get
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  Speaker 1: back to these questions. Is there a guy that you
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  Speaker 1: think deserved more of a chance with Rachel? Did she
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  Speaker 1: send anyone home too soon? Yeah? I think that the
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  Speaker 1: consensus was that she sent Diggie home. Everybody loved Diggie.
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  Speaker 1: We wanted to know more more about him in his
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  Speaker 1: shoe collection, he's great. Well, fortunately enough you guys get
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  Speaker 1: to know him in Paradise a little bit more. Give
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  Speaker 1: us a fun fact before about Diggie before we get
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  Speaker 1: him on the phone. Um, a fun fact about Diggie.
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  Speaker 1: He has a pit bull. Okay, um um? How about
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  Speaker 1: his glasses? How many payers of glasses as he? Good question?
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  Speaker 1: So actually that was gonna my fun fact. He I've
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  Speaker 1: asked him I was like, Diggie, why don't you just
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  Speaker 1: get lay six or he's like, well, the glasses are
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  Speaker 1: part of my aesthetic. The aesthetic. Yeah, it's part of
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  Speaker 1: his outfit. Hey, DIGGI, yeah, that's what's going on. Hey,
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  Speaker 1: it's Ashley, I and Dean. It was great the other day.
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  Speaker 1: It's great you as well. We were talking about your
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  Speaker 1: shoe collection and we're having an argument over how many
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  Speaker 1: you have. I forget what's the number? I think now
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  Speaker 1: we are just shy of stick hundred pears? Oh my
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  Speaker 1: good lord, was I off at two? Okay? Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: store these things? Yeah? Well, um, the state of Illinois,
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  Speaker 1: that's where, um no, I uh so in my house,
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  Speaker 1: like I have a lot of like part of my
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  Speaker 1: feeling is like blosses. So I have a lot sack
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  Speaker 1: to bear. And then I have a few closets in
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  Speaker 1: my apartment. And so one closet is realigious shoes, and
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  Speaker 1: then the other one I have something under my bed.
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  Speaker 1: And then the rest are back at home in the
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  Speaker 1: Bergs where I grew up, because I have a shoe
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  Speaker 1: classes there. Um so yeah, until I move out, didn't
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  Speaker 1: get a big place where I can store everything, I've
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  Speaker 1: to split it between my mom's house and my apartment.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you need a storage you know, just
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  Speaker 1: for your shoes. So how do you pick? Yes, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: do you have one? I know, but if you thought
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  Speaker 1: of it, that's just too much. So so no, it's
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  Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I definitely need to hear it, but
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  Speaker 1: it makes it hard for I want to wear something
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  Speaker 1: that I got to go to a storage unit to
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  Speaker 1: find it. Too much. Okay, that's that leads into the
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  Speaker 1: next question, how do you choose which pair you're gonna wear?
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  Speaker 1: You could honestly wear two pairs a day and barely repeat. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: for the year. I checked the weather. The weather is key,
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  Speaker 1: and then it's like if there's any chance of rain,
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  Speaker 1: that eliminates probably more than half of my collection. And
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  Speaker 1: so it's like, no, not trying to get this thirty
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  Speaker 1: or wet. And then I trying to look like I
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  Speaker 1: try not to repeat the shoes because a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people that know me know, um, I have so many.
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  Speaker 1: So when I wear one like like twice in a month, like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: what's going on? You wore that you like three weeks ago?
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  Speaker 1: So then how did you feel? Like? Good? Continue? Sorry, no,
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, I was just saying people keep to have
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  Speaker 1: on my shoes. So I was like, I have to
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  Speaker 1: only work one like once a year. So then, how
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  Speaker 1: do you feel about Dean repeating outfits on the Bachelorette?
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  Speaker 1: I think only about like three pairs of shoes. I
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  Speaker 1: think only only I'm not gonna lie like that. Legit
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  Speaker 1: killed me on the inside to see that happen. I
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  Speaker 1: just wish you were the same side because I would
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  Speaker 1: have been like, yo, you could just brought any of
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  Speaker 1: my stuff. Hey, at least we look good with our
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  Speaker 1: both ties together. Mental all, I know. But you know
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  Speaker 1: what when I told you I wearing a boat tie
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  Speaker 1: on roast there money day, you get cut right? Um, diggy,
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  Speaker 1: you are a fan favorite and you didn't get very far.
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  Speaker 1: What did you think it was? Why didn't it last
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  Speaker 1: longer with Rachel? And what could you do differently? You
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  Speaker 1: know what the funny thing is, I felt like I
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  Speaker 1: didn't I didn't go. I was so nervous as far
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  Speaker 1: as just like how things are gonna work, just like
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  Speaker 1: the different types, like when you walk in you have
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  Speaker 1: all those cameras everything, like I didn't want to say
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  Speaker 1: anything that could have been taking a long way. I
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  Speaker 1: was just trying to like stick a step back and
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  Speaker 1: try to like try to assess the situation. And what
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  Speaker 1: I think you have is a bunch of guys in
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  Speaker 1: the house that came in just like full forth and
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  Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, I think we could be together and
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  Speaker 1: all this, Whereas like I didn't know. This is a
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  Speaker 1: girl I met for the first time like two minutes ago.
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  Speaker 1: I only spent like five minutes getting in nowhere, but
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  Speaker 1: like so I wasn't really I thought she was cool,
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  Speaker 1: but I didn't come in and say, like, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I can see this together in the end and all
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  Speaker 1: this stuff. And I felt like a lot of the
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  Speaker 1: other guys did that. All right, that's that's true. You
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  Speaker 1: do agree with that. Yeah, that's a great answer. Um.
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  Speaker 1: I think a lot of guys jumped in head first,
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  Speaker 1: and the more realistic people decided to maybe play a
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  Speaker 1: little bit slower and sometimes it can see in the
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  Speaker 1: butt a little bit, all right, And I think what
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  Speaker 1: happened is like I kind of got once I finally
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  Speaker 1: got comfortable, it was like two a, yeah, Dean, did
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  Speaker 1: you Dean together? Last question? Who are your guys as
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  Speaker 1: best friends in the house. I know that Dean was
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  Speaker 1: really close to Peter. I would say between Iggy, Dean
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  Speaker 1: and Will were probably my three closes. What about your state? Oh,
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  Speaker 1: Ken King was definitely up there. So it was me
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  Speaker 1: and Iggy Spain's partners versus uh, Diggy and Kenny, and
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  Speaker 1: they always got whooped up on. Can I be for real?
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  Speaker 1: He's lying? But whatever, Nobody really liked watching Diggie, Like
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  Speaker 1: nobody really liked him while watching your season, but I
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  Speaker 1: hear good things about him from you guys who actually
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  Speaker 1: know him personally. Talking Iggy Iggy, we're talking to Dicky. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I know, we're talking to Diggy, a very well liked man,
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  Speaker 1: but Iggy is somebody who's Iggy. No, you know Iggy.
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  Speaker 1: This the troublemaker, the one who wore look like a
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  Speaker 1: reverend during the mentel all he looked like he was
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  Speaker 1: like rev ern Or something. Um. Yeah, he he kind
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  Speaker 1: of gets a bad rep. He just speaks his mind
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  Speaker 1: and sometimes it rubs people around way again. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like I said, literally, I lived next door to him,
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  Speaker 1: so it's kind of weird, but definitely speak his mind.
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  Speaker 1: Good dude, Um, but yeah, he just doesn't hide anything.
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  Speaker 1: That's far. I was like, how are you feeling, and
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, a lot of people got a bad rat.
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  Speaker 1: All right, well thanks for joining us, Diggy, not a problem.
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  Speaker 1: You guys, have a good day and I will talk
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  Speaker 1: to you later. A bye bye. Alright, Dane, I'm so
• 11:27
  Speaker 1: ready to do the speed round of questions with you.
• 11:30
  Speaker 1: I'm so bad at this rabid fire. What's your favorite
• 11:33
  Speaker 1: TV show? Office? One food you can't live without? One
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: food you hate? Oh man, I know. Can we talk
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: about that? Why do people like it so much? It's
• 11:48
  Speaker 1: the most bland food in the entire world. Still gross,
• 11:50
  Speaker 1: It tastes like sweaty fast water. I get angry when
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  Speaker 1: people choose fa or foe whenever you want to call
• 11:56
  Speaker 1: it over Ramen, like ramen has so much more flavor her.
• 12:00
  Speaker 1: I agree, but I still don't really like raman that much.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: It depends on where you get it. Have you ever
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: been a tattoo? And everyone's always like, oh no, you
• 12:06
  Speaker 1: just haven't had a good flo had good ramen. Go
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  Speaker 1: to this place and I go to that place. I'm like,
• 12:09
  Speaker 1: this still sucks, okay, but have you ever been a tattoo? No? Okay,
• 12:13
  Speaker 1: Well we're going to tattoo at some point. Um, what
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: how do you take your coffee black. I know I
• 12:19
  Speaker 1: remember that, Um, your first concert Woutang Klan when I
• 12:23
  Speaker 1: was fifteen. That's amazing. Uh your first kiss? Please tell
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  Speaker 1: us the entire story. This is not a speed round question.
• 12:30
  Speaker 1: This is a real storytime question. My first kiss, Um,
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  Speaker 1: I was in fifth grade. You know, I was dating
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  Speaker 1: Zoe Harriet. I don't know if I can say her name.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Zoe is so regretting everything about her life
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  Speaker 1: right now. We dated for a long time, like like
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  Speaker 1: a year. Were you one of those popular kids who
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: used to have girlfriends in fifth grade? No? No, The
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: only reason I was semi popular was because I was
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: dating Zoe and she ultimately realized that she was too
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  Speaker 1: good for me and the dunced me. I was heartbroken.
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  Speaker 1: But we were like so young that we were like
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  Speaker 1: the only couple out of all of our friends that
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  Speaker 1: were making out with each other, and so like literally
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  Speaker 1: made out in fifth grade. It was pretty hot and heavy. No,
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  Speaker 1: so okay. So anyway, so all of like the like
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  Speaker 1: the sporting events like we would go to like high
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  Speaker 1: school basketball games and stuff, and our friends would like
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  Speaker 1: literally like crowd around us just to like watch us
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  Speaker 1: make out because they're like, whoa, this is so crazy.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe they're doing that. And so it would
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  Speaker 1: be like this big, like hyped up thing, and then
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  Speaker 1: I got dumped. Did she kiss you first? Did you
• 13:23
  Speaker 1: kiss her first? I don't remember. That's a good question.
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  Speaker 1: You don't remember the actual first kiss? Like where was it?
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  Speaker 1: I think it was behind the high school, to be honest,
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  Speaker 1: but I can't speak. Why are we hanging out at
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  Speaker 1: the high school so often? Just like watching basketball games?
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  Speaker 1: Like we wouldn't go into the basketball games. We would
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: go out and you know, play tag and stuff. I
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: don't know, Oh my god, make out and play tech.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: What's your favorite band? Um? I love Atmosphere and I
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: love I don't know. Naked and Famous is really good too, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: favorite movie Interstellar? Favorite song? I don't know what's your
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  Speaker 1: favorite what's your favorite song? Um? My favorite song is
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: the handsOn song I just sent you. I told Dean
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  Speaker 1: we had this thing. Dean explain what our project was
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  Speaker 1: supposed to be our homemark. So I'm unfamiliar with the
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  Speaker 1: band Hanson, and obviously Ashley is a big advocate of them,
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  Speaker 1: and she wanted to send me the three best hands
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  Speaker 1: and songs for me to listen to and decide whether
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  Speaker 1: or not I can become a fan as well. And
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  Speaker 1: on Monday she said she was going to send me
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  Speaker 1: three songs, and literally twenty minutes before walking into the booth.
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  Speaker 1: Right now, she sends me three. She walks in. The
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  Speaker 1: first thing she says, well, did you listen to them?
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  Speaker 1: Which one is your favorite? Well? Actually, I didn't have
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  Speaker 1: any time to listen to them. Okay, it's for your love, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and then we're gonna take up It's for your Love
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  Speaker 1: by handsOn. Everybody listens to that. It's it's what I
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  Speaker 1: want to walk down the aisle too. Dean. Do you cook? Um?
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  Speaker 1: I actually don't cook really ever. What do you normally do?
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  Speaker 1: Eat out? Yeah? Sometimes my roommates will cook for me.
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  Speaker 1: Me too, unless I have a Blue Apron box. Blue
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  Speaker 1: Apron have you heard of them? I know the name.
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  Speaker 1: They're the number one fresh ingredient and recipe delivery service
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: in the entire country. It is their mission to make
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: incredible home cooking accessible to everyone, So even you, Dean
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  Speaker 1: can cook for your roommates. Now it sounds like definitely
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: something I should try, and we ordered it for you.
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  Speaker 1: So you are going to travel and you're gonna tell
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  Speaker 1: us how it went. It's going to get delivered straight
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  Speaker 1: to your door, and then you're gonna go out and
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: you're gonna be like, hey, guys, dinners out meat tonight.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: It is top quality. It's the best fish, best meats.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: You know, you're not gonna get any weird chicken bones
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: in there. It's not going to make you want to
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: become a vegetarian. And it gives you the exact amount
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: of each food that you need for the recipe that
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: they're giving you, so you're cutting down on food waste.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: And I want to like give you a little preview
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: on what you might be getting in your box. I
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: think Dean should have to make it for us and
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: then we eat it. Oh dinner, Oh my god, it's
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: such a good idea. I hope it's the meatball pizza
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: with the mozzarella and tomatoes. I like the sound of
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: the basil pesto chicken with summer vegetables. Sounds like you
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: can't go wrong. Do you have anything your you know
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: your specialty? Um? I in college, I made a lot
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: of spaghetti and what's your favorite color grain pasta with
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: summer vegetables and tomato, capraise salad. Alright, so it's affordable.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: It gives you a good variety different recipes each week.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: You'll never get bored. It's easy and there's guaranteed freshness.
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: You guys. All you have to do is go to
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: blue Apron dot com slash almost famous, and you will
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: get your first three meals for free. You guys, that's insane.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: You're getting free food, yes, and you're getting free shipping too.
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: You're gonna love how it feels, how it tastes, and
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: you know, if you're lucky, Dean, we'll maybe make it
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: for you one day. I think you'd be unlucky if
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: I heard cookie. But there's his easy With blue Apron,
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: I'll get that. Yes, you just have to chop some
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: things up, throw it on the stove. You look like
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: the man if you use blue Apron when you when
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: you have ladies over, because they'll think you can cook
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: and they do the hard part for you. Yes, okay,
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: we'll go to blue Apron dot com slash almost famous
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: this time. Dean won't get dumped if he only had
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: Blue Apron. I think I think had to cook. I
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: think I probably woe at least top three. What an idiot.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: She is. I'm sorry. I'm just sitting here with him,
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: and it's been like the seventh time in the past
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: two weeks, and every day I'm more and more confused
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: by Rachel's decision making. Anyway, let's move on to the questions.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: This one makes sense. Are you a good kisser? Dean?
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: What a weird question to ask. I didn't put it
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: on the rundown. I honestly, I honestly don't think I am.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: We'll all have to wait really tell us more. I
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like I'm awkward and that
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: carries over into my kissing abilities. Do girls think it's
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: creepy when no one's ever said anything? But sometimes I
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: just get the feeling deep in my stomach. Wait stop, really,
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: I'm down to give you a lesson. I've been to
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: hold I'm pretty good for being a virgin, especially. Okay,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: this is all getting a bit awkward. Do you use soap?
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: OKAYO told you to ask that question. Okay, I'm not
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: sure if Dean really wants to reveal this yet, maybe
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: on your second podcast you can talk about soap issues.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not It's okay. I don't use soap. Yeah,
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: he doesn't use soap. He uses really hot water and
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: then scrubs. He says, it's the exact same thing, only
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: when I only when I'm washing my hands, but like
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: in the shower. I don't know. I would actually really
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: like to call a doctor and ask if that should
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: get my dad on the line. Yeah, yeah, yea, yes,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: let's do it. I mean they scrub, they sanitize all
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: the time, hand sanitizers so bad for you. I hate
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: hand sanitizers that like a special soap. Let's find out
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: how they scrub in what are they using? I mean,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: it's got to be so it's just like that's because
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: they're in incredibly sterile environments where Hey Dad, Hey dad, Um,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: you're on the almost Famous podcast. I feel famous. Everybody
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: is listening to you right now, So don't say anything
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: too embarrassing. Alright, Dean is my co host filling in
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: for Ben this week. Um, he does be Hi, Mr Canetti,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Nice to meet you, doctor. Oh sorry, my apologies, Dot,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: it doesn't matter before it was dubas to meet you. Okay.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: So Dean doesn't use soap ever ever, not just in
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: the shower, but even after we're going to the bathroom. Um,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I know that this grosses you out because you don't
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: even like it when I don't wash my hair for
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: a couple of days. So is there like something? Is
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: there is this on sanitary? Does he need to really
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: start using soap? What does he use soap? I'm a
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: thorough rinser. Uh, you need to start using soap. I'll
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: tell you what. You know what, let me tell you something.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I'm very glad that I'm three thousand miles away and
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: I didn't meet you shake hands with you. Right, I'm
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: still a clean person. Dad. Can I tell you that
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: he still smells good? It's a little annoying. Well, you
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: know there there's cologne showers he does well. I don't
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: know how to say it, but yeah, I couldn't. I
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: couldn't condone. That is very very important. But one of
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: the medical reasons behind using soap well, because there's also
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: such a nasty bacteria that you're you know, keeping on
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: your skin and you're sharing with other people and putting
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: in your mouth and other people putting in their mouth
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: and putting on their food and their plates and their
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: forks and their steering wheels, and when you don't use soap,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: you're scaring it with everybody. Very nice of you to
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: be that sharing, but I don't know what you want
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: to do. But don't you think there's there's good bacteria
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: and there's bad bacteria, right, So the bacteria that I'm
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: not washing off is helping me build these antibodies to
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: fight the worst bacteria. Good try. But I kind of
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: agree with him because my mom and dad always get
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: on me for biting my nails and they're like, you're
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: gonna get sick, you know, doing germs are going in
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: your mouth, But then I never get sick, So I
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: think I'm building up immunity too. No, not really, You're
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: just lucky. Like the last thing you want to do
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: for your immune system is caudle it, you know, so
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: you're you're allowing it to fight for itself later on. We'll,
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: believe me. There are plenty challenges out there where you
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: don't have to you know. Okay, I mean maybe I'll reconsidered.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: So I have one more question for Dean. I want
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: you to tell everybody that that was the question. We're
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: on the same wavelength. That is exactly what I was
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: gonna ask. Okay, so we munnected something I guess. I mean,
• 21:43
  Speaker 1: there are a couple of reasons that I stopped using it.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I think that I wanted to have a more holistic
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: approach to my life. I noticed that there was less
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: of a difference between the way that I felt when
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: I used open when I didn't use soap. So I
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: I just decided to cut it out and stopped adding
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: those chemicals to my body necessarily. I also, um, I
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: don't know. I I just think that I just I
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not a fant of soap. I
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: think that's why there's something like soap commercials and stuff,
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: because they're trying to convince you that they need, that
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: you need to use it. Well, look look at it
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: this way. I mean, we didn't increase our life expectancy
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: and reduce the amount of illness that we had each
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: countries without changing our cleaning habits and our sanitary habits
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: and our sewers and all that stuff. So I can
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: understand how you're you're thinking. But if you look back historically,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: things have really improved a lot since we started staying
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: cleaner and using soap. That's a fantastic point. I don't
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: have a bottle for that. And Amy has one more question,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: because she and I are such big grays anatomy fans.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: You want to know what kind of soap do they
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: use to scrub in? Dad? Do you scrub in well,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: if I'm putting, if I'm putting in lines in, I
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: scrub in from doing blocks? Yeah, you wash your hands.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Things have changed a lot from medical perspective. It used
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: to be the turgeons would go out and scrub their
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: hands and uh with like beta dine or iodine soap
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: for like five ten minutes before they came into the ore.
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Now they are all these new products where what they
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: really do is just coat their hands with this um
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: and about or antiseptic solution and that's all that they
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: need to do, because not that five minute scrubbing. No,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: there's not the scrubbings are not. We don't do that anymore.
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Very interesting, Papa, All right, love you and I talked
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: to you after this by Dr Bye bye? Should I
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: continue with the rapid fire for Dan? Can we just
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: make this the entire podcast? It's good stuff. Backs your boys,
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: new kids in the block or Hanson or in Sync,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: none of them, come on, I mean, handsOn, just because
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: you're you're here. But love them all. Oh, um, New
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Kids on the Block. I don't think you know a
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: single New Kids song. I don't know anythink that's the
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: last of all of them you'd care about. I don't.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: I don't know any of them. Backstreet Boys, I think you.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I think I'm answering for you. I think you like Backspards.
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: Do you want to go to their show in Vegas
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: with me sometime? No? Thank you? Okay, all right, Well,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: I know you like Vegas if you get super drunk
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: and then goes back to I don't really like Vegas
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: that much. The only thing I like about gambling. Oh
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: that's right. But you like to gamble too well, I
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: just lose money though. Fine, we won't go to Vegas
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: and see backspars. Um celebrity crush, I know this. It's
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: like so classic Dean What um lifetime celebrity crush is
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: Lucy Lou? Yeah? Um, who's your backup celebrity crush? Are
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: we supposed to have a back Oh? I have I
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: know your other backup on Brenda's song? Okay, Brenda, if
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: you're listening right now, Brenda is twenty nine and she
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: lives in l A. And I'm not I don't know.
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: Let's move on to the next have a fire questions.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know. This is how you get your celebrity
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: cross is how you lander by should giving her a
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: shout because Ryan Philippie tweeted at you once or something
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: even more personal. Yes, okay, Um, who from Bachelor Nation
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: do you think is cute? And apparently you can't say me? Um,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: I think that Raven is really cute? Okay, great, good answer? Neutral.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I don't know her? Okay, Mary, Mary bang or kill
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Becca Andy Caitlin and and he doesn't know and I'll
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: kill and because I don't know her, Um, Mary Becca
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Bang Caitlin. Yeah, I agree with that. Um, But Andy,
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I love you too. I wouldn't kill you ever. And
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry I don't know you, and I'm sorry for
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: having to kill you. But I was thrust in this position.
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: So all right, guess what time it is? Dean. You're
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: off the hook with the rapid fire questions? Hey? Do
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: you can you play rapid fire questions with me? Yeah?
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Do you have questions? Yeah? Okay, let's take some calls
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: for us and then we'll go into that. I'll write
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: some questions down over here. All right, The fan girls
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: are going to freak out. Dean just has the best
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: teeny bopper following of all time. He is the Harry Styles.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: I told him, Oh god, you guys, this this is
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: a whole other topic. I told him the other day
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: that he's the Harry Styles of the Bachelor fandom. But
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: get this, he doesn't know who Harry Styles is. What? Okay, alright,
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: who's the first caller? Let's get whoa Nafisa from England?
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: All right, I'm hope I'm saying her name right and
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: the Nafisa, Hey, you live in you live in England?
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: You're calling all the way from England? Yes, Oh don't.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Oh you're not. Then he's not. Then we actually have
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Dean on the podcast right now as my co host.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: She's like, oh Sorr, I'm gonna hang up there. Do
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: you know Dean? Are you getting the current eat over
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: there in England? Are you up to date? Yes? I'm
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: up today. I loved like from day one. I mean,
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: is it's like the man. He is the man. He's
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: the greatest of his season is definitely. You guys are
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: too nice to me. Do you have a question for Dean? Yeah?
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I do, actually like my question is how have you
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: coaked with like being recognized, like on the streets, like
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: convert to your life before the bat in the Red,
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: before Rachel and now everywhere you go kind of like
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: maybe not everywhere, well more people know you, like is
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: it weird? Is it awkward? Or do you like it? Um,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: it's interesting obviously. So it's never happened me before. It
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: happens to me every once in a while now, and
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, I don't mind it. It's always great to
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: meet people that are fans. But what's funny is so
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I have been hanging out with actually a little bit,
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: like going to random things with her, and people recognize
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: me first, just because I'm the most recent, I guess,
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: and they'll be like, oh my god, I love you,
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Dean striking no, no, they freak out. They're like, oh
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: my god, Dean. And then they looked at their right
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: and they see Ashley and they freak out ten times more.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: And of course Athlee I is amazing, like I know,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: but it's the reason she does. It's so relatable, like,
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: oh my god, I've experienced this, Like why are more
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: people talking about it's amazing? She's amazing. My gosh, my
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: life is made right now whenever we go out together.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: It's a constant reminder that she's much more popular than
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: I am. And I'm okay with that. I guess okay,
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: then It's always nice to have a little somebody to
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: keep you going humble, keep your grounded. Yet exactly if
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: I think I'm full of it. People love her more exactly,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: and who wouldn't though it's actually she's the best. Thank you, Nafisa.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: You are the sweetest. You've truly made my day. We
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: have to move on to the next caller. Now. Before
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: we take the next call, I have to read this tweet.
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: I just got it, says I saw this tweet with
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: the number to call in and talk to Dean. Um,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but I just chickened down. I'm too nervous, I dude,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: Like it literally came up while I was doing something
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: on my phone, and I instantly doubted. And I'm so
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: glad because, like I just, I'm in heaven right now
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: and I love ways to listen to myself. That's amazing.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna move on to Megan in Florida. Hey, Megan,
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Hey Megan. Hey, it's Ashley and Dean. Megan. Do you
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: ever question? Yeah, I was wondering if it's been hard
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: for him in the past let his guard down in
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: relationships because of tough situations he's been in. Oh that's
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: a great question. Um, yeah, I mean it's definitely been difficult.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: I think that the thing that was striking about Rachel
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: is she was the one that kind of pressed me
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: to open up about it, and in my past relationships
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: I hadn't really been uh pushed to that point, I guess, um,
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: And so it was never really difficult, just because I
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm really good at deflecting, making the topic
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: not about me and what's your favorite website? Okay, I
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: don't know, I just to something from the someone. But
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: watching it all played back, I would say it's definitely.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: It was definitely very beneficial and cathartic from for what
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Rachel like allowed me to do. But um, yeah, I
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: mean all my prior relationships had been not quite as
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: deep as as the one I had at Rachel, you know,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: minus a couple of you and in friendships and of
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: course like all that kind of stuff. But but yeah,
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: it's always been kind of difficult for me to open up.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: All Right, we gotta move on to Jamie and Nebraska.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Thank you for calling Megan. Thanks Megan, Jamie, Jamie, Hi,
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: how's Jan? Hi good? Are you Do you have a
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: question for Dean? Yeah? I do you know? For it? Hi?
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: Um I mentioned before, Um I saw on snatchat you're
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: kind of around the pop the paparazzi, and um, I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: was just wondering if you if you like about being
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: in the limelight or if you care for more of
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: a private lifestyle. Um. I hate attention, So that whole
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: thing is it's very foreign to me. That was basically
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: just Ashley and I going to a movie premiere together
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, now we have to walk down
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: the red carpet and it was yes, dozens and doesn't
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: like Yeah, he wore his backpack, which is actually super cute. Yeah,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: I believe it. You read carpet trend. But yeah, long
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: story short, I don't really like it very much, but
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: I just I'm trying to my best to embrace it
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: as much as possible. Yeah. I think you've done an
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: awesome job of that. And I'm sure Ashley has helped
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: you out of time. Yeah, she's she's like my my mentor. Yeah,
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I believe it. I believe it. Well, it's awesome seeing
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: your guys friendship just Oliver social media and me and
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: my friend Christie though we love just catching up with
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: you guys, and it's pretty far so thank you. He's
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: pretty fun too, Thanks for calling it all right, Thanks Jamie.
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: All right, Jordan's in North Dakota. Hey, Jordan's Hey, you're
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: over there by the bad Lands where I got by Crystals. Yeah.
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: I actually grew up near there, so that's crazy. Have
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: you ever been surrounded there? Have I ever wet, sorry
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: stranded there? I have not, But if you were going
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: to be left there for much longer, I was going
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: to come get you. And I really appreciate that. Thank
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: you so much. I know that you really called in
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: to talk to Dean. Do you have a good question
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: for him? I do, Dean? Can we expect to see
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: you with anyone after Bachelor in Paradise? Um? I left?
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Well wait, actually I can't answer that question. I was
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: almost got it, and then he's censored. Excellent. I wish
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: I could tell you, but I guess you just anta
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: tune in to find out. Oh you know, I will.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: All right, It's going to be a good one, all right,
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Jordan's grace Grace in Philly. Hi. U uh,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: we're with Dean right now, just hanging. Do you have
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: a question for Yeah, UM, so were wondering, I'm here,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I'm actually out work with my coworkers. She and I
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: watched the show every Monday, and we talked about it
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: every Tuesday. UM. We were wondering if too much hesitant
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: to put his family dynamic on the show, um, given
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: that it was going to open his family up to
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: so much criticism. UM, I don't think that it really
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: opened us up to criticism. I mean, there's no real hesitation.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: I think at the end of the day, at that point,
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: you're considering getting engaged to this woman, and I wanted
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: her to know what my family was like and what
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: her in laws would be like. So that was essentially
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: where I was going with that. Um. There was there
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: was a scene that didn't get aired unfortunately, where she
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: met with like four of my closest friends. UM, but
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: I definitely just wanted her to be familiar with my
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: family dynamic before we ultimately potentially took that plunge. UM,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: and my family, like they all had to sign off
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: and approve on being on the show as well. So
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: it's not like any of them were had done so
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: against their will. Um, you know, they all have that
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: decision to make for themselves. All right, well, thank you,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: thanks for calling in grace. Yeah, no problem. All right,
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: one more question before we take a quick break. Let's
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: go with Ray in Texas. You've got a deep question
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: from him. I think, hey, Hi, you're a girl. Do
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: you get that all the time with the name Ray,
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: I can kind of go either way. Well, yeah, it's
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: I never get the right spelling, and I'm actually named
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: after a guy, So yes, okay, Hi Dean, how are
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: you how cute to see what? Yeah? I just said?
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: Are you like a little giddy? You'd be talking to Dean? Yes,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: And I'm like sneaking around because my boss is here,
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: so I'm like, put your boss on the phone. I
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: want to talk to them. Oh gosh, you don't want
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: to talk to him. I think do have a good
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: question for Dean. I do have a good question for Dane.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: UM two questions. The first one just to break the ice.
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: What is your favorite dog? My favorite dog? That's such
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: a tough question. I love all dogs, but I think
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: that maybe the cutest ones are corkies, especially corgy puppies.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: I would agree that's hilarious because I've tweeted you a
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: picture of my corky and you tweeted me back you
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: found my spot. I guess. Oh, I hope by thanks
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: for calling. Corky puppies are truly the most amazing thing.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: They're definitely on my must get dogless of my lifetime.
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: Also with a goal, I know I also need a
• 35:45
  Speaker 1: golden retriuer. Would be a cool duo a corky and
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: a golden trouver. But okay, so hey, Dean, your skin
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: is pretty damn perfect. You know what you may have?
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: You might be onto something here because you honestly have
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: perfect skin. Um, you just don't watch your face at
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: night or in the morning or anything like that. Just
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: perfect skin. I think they also don't wear makeup or
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: anything like that, so it's kind of easier for me,
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: But most normal people have to watch their face even
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: if they don't wear makeup. Well, I use Bioclarity. Bio
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Clarity is an awesome product that I've been using for
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: a couple of months now because it's completely natural, so
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: you can use it. There's no weird chemicals, and I
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: know you have a problem with that it's really soothing.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: It has green tea and camemeal and cucumber and oatmeal
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: kernel extracts, which are you know, pretty good, especially since
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: it doesn't have any benzel peroxide, which always causes meat
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: redness and dryness and irritation. And it has been significantly
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: proven to reduce the number of blumishes, not only in
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: my own skin, but basically anybody who uses it. After
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks of use, people see an overall appearance,
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: overall better appearance in their facial skin, and a reduced
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: amount of oiliness and shyness. But it doesn't dry you out,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: which is awesome, And it's cruelty and vegan free. You know,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about our animals being hurt. Yes,
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: it's a three step process. First you cleanse with a
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: rich foaming cleanser which gets sort of dirt oil and
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: environmental plutants. And then you treat it and it attacks
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: your pores and all that bacteria that Dean thinks is
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: okay to have on your skin, but it's just not.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: And then you use a restore gel that leaves your
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: skin feeling smooth and refreshed. That is Ben Higgins favorite
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: part of this process. He always feels, you know, just
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: so clean after it. So go to bio clarity dot
• 37:31
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• 37:34
  Speaker 1: only nine dollars and cents plus free shipping. What an
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: outrageous deal this is. It's a twenty dollar savings and
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: it comes with a risk free money back guarantee. But
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: you have to enter our code famous f A m
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: O U S. Go to bio Clarity and enter our
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: code of famous and if you don't like it, not
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: a big deal. You can always return it and get
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: your money back. And Dean dr I think you should
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: try it, all right, doctors eyed orders? Yeah, okay, alright,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: So go to clear dot com. Let's get back to
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: these fun questions alright. I like the one from Justine
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: and Cincinnati. Hi. Hi, it's Ashley and Dean. Oh my gosh,
• 38:19
  Speaker 1: Hi guys, how are you doing? I am so good
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: right now. You have no idea how much I love
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: both of you. Thank you. Should we just replace Ben? No,
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: absolutely not. I love Ben a little bit more than
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: I love Dean, but that's just because our friendship is
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: a little bit longer. Dean has to keep proving himself
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: to me. I honestly don't know what I'm saying. I'm
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: just rambling right now, Justine, what kind of questions because
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can't give give Dean any more compliments.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: He's really weird about them, and I give them to anyway.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, my question for Dean is do you
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: have any funny stories about your friendship with Alex and
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Peter on the show. Like while we were on the show.
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: I know one. I know one that you and Peter
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: had to share a bed multiple times. We didn't have to.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: We we wanted to know what a girl's day dream. No,
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: we've already talked about that one. You haven't, Yeah, So,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: I mean Peter and I were room together in the mansion.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: We room together every stop of the way pretty much.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: And there was one instance in Switzerland when we had
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: a big, like California king size bed and we had
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: to share it. But we built a pillow wall down
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: the middle, and every girl wants to be that pillow wall.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: There was no one necessary spooning. Now I'm gonna embarrasseding,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: but did you bring your stuffed animal that you sleep
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: with every night? You're not gonna embarrass me, but um,
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: I so I sleep with the Simba that I've had
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: since I was three, and I did not bring him
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: because I didn't want to risk losing him. Um, but
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: maybe like an Alex and Dean story. So when we
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: were in you've glossed over Simba, can you let's let's
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: make him feel better. I still sleep with my Lammy
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: and blank you when I'm home. I don't take her
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: them anywhere. I mean, yeah, they're they're they're Your home
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: is their home. So it's kind of unfair. Is there
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: a chance we could convince you to post a photo
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: of Simba on your Instagram? There's a chance? Um, how
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: about today that's unlikely. Maybe in the near future it's possible.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: I'll think about it all over ideas, um, Alex. So,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: Alex and I became really good friends, and by the
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: time we got to Oslo and they just didn't really
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: seem to be enough drama in the house. So what
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: we decided to do was have a fake feud with
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: each other. Every single time he went in an interview,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: he would talk crap about me. On the Viking date,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: you could see like we had the friendly feud, but
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I kept telling him I was talking crap about him.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: And every single I TM that I went into, nobody
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: knows what I means. So every interview that he went into,
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: he was talking very very lowly of me and expecting
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: me to do the same to him. But every single
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: time I went into an interview, I was talking incredibly
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: highly of him, And every time I walked out, I'd like, yo, Alex,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: I just talked so much crap about you, like you
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: get in there and do the same thing about me.
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: And I'm just really sad that they didn't really air
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: any of that stuff. But it was a fun, little
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: friendly future. Actually, can you tell people what I t
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: M means. I t M isn't in the moment interview.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: It's when we go back after something dramatic happened or
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: whether or not we just need to kind of summarize
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: what's happened during the day, and we talk about our feelings.
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: So many feelings, so many feelings. It's basically our therapy sessions.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I love them. Well, thank you so much to seeing
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: that was great. Are you still there? Thanks for listening.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Sorry I'm too nervous to talk. Thank you so much.
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. Thank you. All right, we're gonna take
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: one more question. All right, it's We're gonna go with
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Ashley from New York. Hey, Ashley, it's Ashley. Hi, Ashley Hide.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: How are you? You have a great question about food?
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I love food. Let's talk about it. Yeah, let's okay.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: So um, Dean, I know for a fact that you
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: love flame hot Cheetos. That's a very true fact. Okay, good,
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: so um. The other day I was on I don't know,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: I was on probably facebo or something, and I actually
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: saw something that said let me look at it. I
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: tweeted it to you and you didn't answer. I'm sorry.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: It's okay, um. It's called the Flaming Hot Cheetos Bloody Mary.
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: Have you seen it? Yeah, my friend actually sent that
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: to me today as well. I've never seen it. I'm
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: sorry I've never had it, but I would love to
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: try one. Yeah. Well, I'm not sure how I feel
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: about flaming hot Cheetos. I don't think i've ever actually
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: tried on what actually are you kidding? I send you.
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: I'm a little bit hurt by that. I mean, you
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: can introduce me to them if you want. I would
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: say your homework tonight is to go get a bag
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: of hot Cheetos. Preferably the Lamon kind. Give him a
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: shot and then tweet me again after you've tried it,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: and I promise you I will respond. Really you will, yes, yes,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: but you have to eat the whole back and you
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: have to uma lick the shut off your fingers at
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: the end to reach at this because um, I need
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: to remember it to do this. Okay, cool, I have
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: to go to the store and I have to get
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: the flame. Uh. Well, the thing with New York State
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: is New York State doesn't carry the Lemons. Wait do
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: you know? Sort of fact he's preparing because he's going
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: to New York this weekend to borrow and I'm kind
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: of bumped. Um, just a question. Did they sell them
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: in l A Because I will be moving there in
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: a month. They're everywhere in LA but tonight. Yeah. So
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: they don't have the Lamon and they don't have the
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: Lamon flavor. Just try the regulars, um, I promise you'll
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: still love them. I don't know if you like spicy
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: foods or not, but I do. I do. Okay, give
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: him a shot, let me know what you think, and
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: I promise I'll do my best to get back to you.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: Can we get sponsored by Cheetos. I mean please, Also, Ashley,
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: thank you for giving this idea to me, because next
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: time I need Dean to do something, I will give
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: him a flaming hot cheetos bluddy Mary and stad get
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: him a little loosey goosey. That's great idea. When you
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: do that, can you give me a cost? I can
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: join you. Guys. Absolutely, you're the greatest. Enjoy your last
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: month in New York. Thanks actually in l a bye,
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: and then going to take one more question. Okay, this
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: is a great question. Don't look all right? Hey, Sarah? Yeah, Sarah,
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: how's it doing over there in Kentucky? How's it doing?
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: It's doing good. I have no idea when that popped
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: out of my mouth. You know, when he talked for
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: an hour straight, you you really realize how inarticulate you are. Yeah,
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to just like keep everything together for like
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: my question, so I don't really blame you. Okay, recited slowly. Okay.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: My question for you, Deine is this is not offensive?
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Are your teeth real? Because boy they are gorgeous? Um? Yeah,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: they're super real? And what's funny? Actually, I that's my
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: least favorite compliment because It's like what I told him
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: within like a half an hour of knowing him, and
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: he was like, dude, don't look at my teeth. I'm like,
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: oh my god, you could be a Colgate Uh, you
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: can be a cold Gate Crest model. Do you use toothpaste?
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: I use toothpaste. I've lost twice to day. Um no,
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: I I saw. I got in this line in college
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: because my teeth are a little crooked and it didn't
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: completely straighten them like I wanted them too. So if
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: you look very closely at it, you'll see that they're
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: a little uh not, not the straightest things in the world.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: But I do appreciate that, and I just kind of,
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like when people look at
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: my mouth and my talk. But it's truly, we're a
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: remarkable set of teeth. It's the first thing. It's the
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: first thing that I look at whenever I meet someone new,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: especially um it's like the first feature that I noticed.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: I guess, so I appreciate that. Did you ever think
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: of becoming a dentist? Did I? Yeah? Um no, I didn't. Well,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: if you need a dentist, we know Dr Chris Cupcake
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: is around for you, right all right, well, thank you
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: so much, Sarah. That was a great question. Thank you Sarah,
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you guys. Looking forward to seeing you
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: on Paradise. Oh bye, thank you. Alright, Dean, this is
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: another favorite part of our podcast. We read, we read
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: listener emails, so this one is was sent in pretty recently.
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: It says, Hi Ashley Britt Niel sim recently opened up
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: about her alcohol addiction as well as having bulimia on
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: the show. I found this to be so brave of her,
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: and she's a wonderful role model for others who are
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: going through the same problems. But I was curious to
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: see if you had any idea that this was going
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: on on the show, and if you could say one
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: thing to Britt and any other girls struggling with the
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: same problems, what would it be. PSU and Ben make
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: a perfect podcast pair. I will be forever a devoted listener. Alright, hey,
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: alexis um Well, first off, to answer your last First off,
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: to answer your last question. I think what the world
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: needs is more people like Britt who are so open
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: about their struggles and vocalizing them helps other girls listen
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: and learn and not feel alone. And the more open
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: you're you are about it, the more apt you are
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: to solve your problems. And then to answer your other question,
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: I actually had no idea. I learned about this stuff
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: actually just last week. I had no idea that Britt
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: was going through this in the house. Um, Like she said,
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: she took a lot of effort to keep it hidden,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: and she really did. I was pretty closer in the
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: house too, So no, I have no idea, but she
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: was eating like a normal person. That also shows what
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: a debilitating, terrible thing it is because you can hide
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: it from people so easily. Yes, so people should really
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: reach out, tell them what they're going through get out.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: One of the greatest things about Britt is that she's
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: always been really honest about what she's going through. Of
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: course she didn't mention this in the house, but you know,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: and now she's trying to help other girls. Yeah, everyone
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: in their own time. Now was when she was ready
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, okay, next question. Okay, Hello Ashley,
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: ben Becca or special guesting. There you go. First off,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I love you Ashley every time I hear your podcast.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: You're refreshing wave of real in this world of filters
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: and photoshop. Please don't ever change. My gosh. The listeners
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: today they're really really, really nice. Okay, is it always
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: like this? I don't know. They've been really nice to
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: me specifically. Sometimes sometimes they hate us, But do they
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You read the emails, I'm not sure
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: what we're getting sent. You filter out the pretty stuff
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: for us. Now I'll put the bad ones in. If
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: people want to email us, they can do mean things.
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: I would love to read mean tweets. You know we'll
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: read mean emails. Benn and Ashley at iHeart media dot com. Yes, okay,
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: So onto the situation. Rachel calls it the X factor.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: I call it the fields. We all know that unexplainable
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: feeling you get when it's just there with someone. I'm
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: twenty six. I've had two serious relationships in the past.
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: Both men were great, both ended amicably. I think it
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: was a case of lust versus love in both situations.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: But I am a better but I am a better
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: person for them, and I would never regret either. However,
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: the field slash X factor were there instantaneously when I
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: met them. Both. The relationships ended when I was twenty
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: one and twenty three, respectively. I've literally been it's been
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: literally years since I felt the fields for anyone. My
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: question for you guys is do you think the X
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: factor can develop over time as you get to know
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: someone or is it something that you will always feel
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: during the first interaction. I have met some great men
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: but passed on opportunities because they've been lacking the fields.
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I'm afraid that. I'm afraid that maybe a youthful way
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: of thinking, and I need to give guys more of
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: a chance. But deep down, I know if the fields
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: aren't there right away, I won't be interested in the
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: long run. I'd love to hear a male and female
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: perspective on this. Thank you for being wonderful humans. This
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: has been Christie all right, Well, Christie, I am in
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: your bow. If I don't feel it immediately, or if
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I'm not immediately attracted to someone, it just doesn't grow
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: and I pretty much write them off. And I've tried
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: to give people chances, not that many, but I've tried
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: a time or two and it just doesn't happen for me.
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: I just think I'm wired in a way that I
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: need to feel that attraction right off the bat. Dean,
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: what about you? I love this question. Um. I think
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: I have a longer answer than you. Is that okay, yeah,
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: ok yeah, I love that. Um. Yeah. So I've definitely
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: had the feels before, as Christie puts it, Um, in
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: high school, I dated a girl who I was like
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: head over heels in love with, and ever since then,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: I had tried to like replicate that feeling in anyone
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: else or I just hadn't felt that way for anyone else,
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: I guess. Um, but I had still like long term
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: relationships and all that kind of stuff. Not too long ago.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I had that similar feeling of a for a girl
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: that I had in high school. Um. But that relationship
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: that I had in high school, it was it was
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: like very toxic relationship because just just that I didn't
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: make We were, you know, sixteen seventeen years old, so
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: we didn't really know how to treat each other. Um.
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: And So what's funny is when I had the feelds again,
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I kind of compared it to that same experience, and
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: I had to distance myself from that relationship because the
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: first time around it it hurts so much, I guess.
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: But how did you Why do you think that it
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: was going to end in the same way. I just
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: think that I noticed a lot of similar characteristics between
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: not only the individuals but the relationship itself. Do you
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: think that's something psychological where you only feel things for
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: girls that you know what's going to go, you know,
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: right with? Right? All right, you guys, this is like
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: the third podcast. I couldn't say Ryan, um um wait
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: what was the question? Do you think there's something psychological
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: when you like, you see those red flags, you tend
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: to have more of the fields. You know it's not
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: going to end right, Yeah, I guess. But on the
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: on the flip side of it, I've been in long
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: term relationship with long is term relationships with girls that
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: I don't have the feels for but because it just
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: feels like a much more healthy relationship. Okay, but can
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: I ask you something based on conversation that we've had
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: off off the record, please. Okay, So the one girl
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: that you dated for a year, you never really had
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: strong feelings for her, but you continue to date her
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: because she's an amazing woman. Okay, but you knew like
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: it was not going to go anywhere unless you had
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: like intense feelings and they just never grew. And I
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: think that when do you think that it's it's time
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: to stop dating someone because for me, if I didn't
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: have feelings like that within six weeks, I'd be like,
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna end this. I think what's difficult
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: for me in my situation is I still have a
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: lot of growing to do myself. So if I see
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: troubles or problems in a relationship, I'm like, okay, like,
• 52:26
  Speaker 1: this is something that I need to change, and if
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: and when I change it, then that's when it's going
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: to kind of kick into gear and things will start
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: feeling more right. It's not like anything ever felt wrong,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: but um, any any problems that we could have a
• 52:37
  Speaker 1: relationship I kind of attributed to myself. So it's like, Okay,
• 52:39
  Speaker 1: once I figure this out, then I can become ready
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: for a more long term, more serious commitment, that kind
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: of thing. So you think of them as learning experiences, well,
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: have relationship asolutely? Well, absolutely, But like I guess you're
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: not in a hurry to always end it because you're like, well,
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: I'm getting something out of it. Well not, I mean
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: that sounds so bad, But no, I'm saying I'm never
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: in a rush to end a relationship one because I
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: don't I don't know I don't like to make people upset.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: And I also know that I have a lot of
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: work to do on myself, and I think that if
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: I'm able to do that in a relationship with someone,
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: then it will not only strengthen our relationship, but each
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: of us as individuals. Does that make sense? Yeah? But
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: you and I both are the kind of people who
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: don't who don't crush very often. Would that be accurate?
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: Or do you crush very often but you don't feel
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: intense feelings very often? Um? Yeah, I guess I don't
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: feel intense feelings very often, but I can crush pretty
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: easily and quickly. I have a big heart, so it
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: like it opens up very very quickly. Got it all right? Well,
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: that was a great question. Let's move on to another
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: man who felt a lot of feelings alongside you on
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. Okay, his name is Matt. Matt, what's going on?
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Hey buddy, Hey Matt, nice to meet you via phone. Yeah,
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: you know, I see you all over the place. I
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: know you've been hanging out my friend a lout lately,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: so I've been jealous. And so Matt is the strapping
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: gentleman who stepped out of the limit in the Penguins costume,
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: and uh yeah, I mean unfortunately Matt and Adam were
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: the two at near the end that didn't get there
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: one on one time with Rachel. Um. But it was
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: very clear that Rachel was very upset to let Matt
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: go because obviously they're they're connection was something strong. It
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: just unfortunately didn't really get aired too much on TV. Yeah, hey, Mac,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: can I ask a question about that? Yeah? Go ahead. Shoot.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Rachel talked about how you guys were so similar and
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: how it would have lasted longer probably if it were
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: to happen in real life your relationship. Um, can you
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: explain that a little bit further for us? Okay? Sure? Yeah, Well,
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: you know, before before going on the show, UM, just
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: by watching Nick season and by reading two things about Rachel, Um,
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: it seemed to me like what she's saying now, UM
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: would be the case. You know, I were both thirty
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: two years and just turned thirty two, and we both
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: have siblings that were married starting fan Lea's um. Both
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: really close with our families, immediate families. UM. I think
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: we were just in similar stages of life. So I
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: think that's kind of where our connection was built and um,
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: you know, a big part. I remember there was a
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: time actually in of course it was on TV like
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: most things between untum in in uh Norway actually where
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: the first thing ever still said to me when we're
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: working room on the ninth portion of our group day
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: was that she was worried about me. And I asked
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: you to explain, and it was just that she saw
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: a lot of her and me, and she knew that
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: I was skeptical about the whole process and that it
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: was it was holding me back, and you know, I was,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: I was a lot more reserved then I needed to
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: be in order to make progress of her, and she
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: just basically, you know, laid it out there for me
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: and said, either you're gonna take a leap of faith
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: that you're not because if you don't, it's going to
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: cost you and uh so, so you have to buy
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: in or don't. So at that point, I think that's
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: when I started to loosen up a little bit and
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: started to get comfortable with the whole thing. And you know,
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: I had enough, I had enough information that I needed
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: at that point to move forward because I saw her
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: make a lot of decisions that um made me think
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: that this whole process was organic and and you know,
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: it was something that I could believe in and move
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: forward with love that. Yeah, one of my biggest pet
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: peeves is when people poo poo the show and say
• 56:28
  Speaker 1: that nothing's real. It's like, the feelings are real, definitely real. Um.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: You know, if I had a dollar for every time
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: I could ask that question now sent back. Um, it's
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: crazy because you know, it's a lot of times it's
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: older people who are skeptical about reality TV and the
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: way that I kind of describe it to them. My
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: rebuttal to them is usually, how do you meet your
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: significant other? If you're lucky enough to study with the
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: chances are you've probably had to actually have have face
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: to face interaction with that person in order to the relationship.
• 57:01
  Speaker 1: You know, you didn't hide behind a cell phone, you
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: didn't have technology. You know, those distractions just weren't around.
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: So I think it just enables you to um started
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: beyond the expedited check to love I can. Yeah, it's
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: it's nice. I love the way that it reverts us
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: back to old school dating, you know, before cell phones,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: before social media and all that. I think it really
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: makes us grow. People used to think the Bachelor was crazy,
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: But now y'all meet on Bumble and it's like, that's
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: way crazy crazy. Bumble makes sense. Yeah, for now you
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: can just do whatever you want. If Bumble works for you, great,
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: If the Bachelor works for you, yeah. Honestly, like a
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: little bit older, one of the older guys on the show,
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: I just I tried a lot of ways to you know,
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: make it work with with people in my past, and
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: I just figured, what do I have to lose, you know,
• 57:58
  Speaker 1: why not? Why not get something new the shot? Um.
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: I know that it must have been very frustrating for
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: you not to get much air time and for people
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: not to understand your relationship with Rachel. Can you share
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: a story with us, um about behind the scenes moment
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: besides the one you already mentioned, something that's a little
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: bit more lighthearted that you'd like you'd like to share.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: You know, there's a couple of them, you know, if
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: gorgeous is Rachel looked in every dress she wore and
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: everything she actually seemed most comfortable and jeans and swept
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: bands and dressed down and just in comfortable clothes. So
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: I had an idea too. After right before we went
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: to Hilton, our last night I mansion. I were the slippers,
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: and I brought Rachel her own pair of slippers and
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: she got out of her Um, she got out of
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: her heels and into the cozy slippers, and that was
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: I think. Um, she couldn't wait to get out of
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: her out of her heels. Actually, so she was. She laughed.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: We both laughed, and I don't know how they don't
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: hear that. You know, that's cute. It's very cute. It's
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: much cuter than any interaction I had. But then we
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: never saw it. Like most things, you don't end up
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: on the cutting room floor. But I'm content with my
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: time because I wasn't. I wasn't there to to get
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: on TV. You know, I really did look forward to
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: meeting her, and we shared some great moments together. It's
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: been just the people talking about it and asking about
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: it that's probably been the most rustrating. It's it's kind
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: of a double edged sword, at least for me specifically,
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: because I did a lot of really dumb things that
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: didn't get aired, But there was also a lot of
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: really cute things I didn't get aired. So it's like
• 59:32
  Speaker 1: you gotta take the bat with the good I guess, Yeah,
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: for me. All the moments that I thought would be
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: the cutest and the funniest, they usually don't make it anyway, Matt,
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. Yeah, I love
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: that the fans and get to know you a little
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: bit more than love. Be good. Alright, guys, we have
• 59:51
  Speaker 1: huge Bachelorette news about the finale. It's a super tease
• 59:55
  Speaker 1: and you won't hear anywhere other than the almost famous podcast.
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: But hang ti, We're going to have that news at
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: the very end of the podcast. Dean, I know that
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: you want to play the rapid fire with me before
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: we get get out of here. Yes, I just have
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: a couple of questions I want to ask you very
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 1: pressing stuff. Goodness, all right, let's do it. Um first
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: and foremost, If you were a deli meat, which deli
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: meat would you be? Turkey? Basic? You know what? That is?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 1: So basic? But can I add something like, I like
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: turkey with pepperoni. That's the best interesting, I think interesting combo?
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: Is it? Yeah? I like, I mean, yeah, a little
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: spice to your basic that that kind of defines me
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 1: to basics. To build off of that very important question,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: if you were a condiment to which condiment would you
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 1: be you know, I'd like to be spicy Mayo. Spicy Mayo,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: that's right, again, a little spice to the basics. I
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: don't think spicy mayo and pepperoni is too much spice. No,
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: it's so good. Are you one of those people that
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: puts chips on your sandwich? So? Could you put hot
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: Cheetos on your sandwich? I don't think hot cheets maybe
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: regular Cheetos. They had to be hot. Next question, which
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: celebrities have you d M? And of those which have
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 1: responded d M, we'll see d M would mean on
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: Twitter that they would need to follow me back in
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: order for me to d M them. Um. But on Instagram? Okay,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: there was one celebrity I d M on Instagram. It's
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: Jimmy Garoppolo from the Patriots. Okay, did you get back
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: to what did them? Can I clarify? This was two
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, this is coming off Christal season. So
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: you were like a hot commodity. No? I was like
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: still not. I still didn't have much of a following.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I think maybe now if he saw six D and
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: six do you remember what the d M said? Oh
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: my god, it was so basic. I cannot reveal this.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: I did the classic girl thing and I said, I
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: never do this, but I'm going to be in the
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: Boston area, so I love to grab a drink with
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: you or something. How could you not respond to that?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: That's so sweet? He did it. I said to him again,
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: I think I should and then I'll report back on
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: next week. All right, what is your favorite type of tree?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: My favorite type of tree is definitely a palm tree
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: or grandmother willow. Grandmother willow from Pocahon. That's right. You know.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: When I was little, I used to have a willow
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: tree in the backyard and I would go up and
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: I'd talk to it like grandmother Willow, and I'd tell
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: her about my day's events. We're all learning so much
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: about you right now. Did you talk to Simba where
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: you're like Yo, wors, Timon and Boomba. I still talk
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 1: to Simba a little gay, but more I just kind
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: of fill them in on my day because obviously isn't
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: part of it anyways. Um, if you were starting a band,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 1: like a TLC type band, who would be your two
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: front runners to be to to head the band with you? Um? Well,
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: probably my sister and people that are performers. Oh, already performers. Oh.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: Then Taylor Swift, even though I'm sure there'd be some
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: drama in the band with her. I love her, but like,
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: let's be real. And then the other one. Mm hmm um,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: Let's go with Celine Dion because Selene can do no
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: wrong vocally, especially what would be your guys hits on name? Well,
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: when I was younger and I was in my Spice
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: Girls Make Believe band, because every girl in the late
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: nineties had a group of friends that she used to
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 1: like that they used to perform Spice Girls, I was baby.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: My sister and I would fight over her. I would
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: normally win, and she would normally be scary. She'd like
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: to put the buns. I thought you were gonna be scary.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna be scary. Why anyway, I
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: think I'd be Pashia now okay, but yeah, So the
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: arch song because we decided that we couldn't just do
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: Spice Girls covers, but we also had to have an
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: original song, and it was called Waves of Wonder. So actually,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: I Taylor Swift, Celean Dion Waves of Wonder Just letting
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: you guys know. It tops the charts all right. I
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: think I might have already asked you this question before,
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: and tahoe, um, would you rather? Would you rather not
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: be able to tell the difference between muffins and babies
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: or change gender every time you sneeze? I would have
• 1:04:26
  Speaker 1: to just not be able to tell between muffins and babies.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: You know, you understand the repercussions of possibly eating a
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: muffin and realizing it's a baby and that I've been
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: eating a baby. You wouldn't notice it, but other people
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: would be watching on in shock. But how alarming would
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: it be to you if I'm sitting here and I
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: sneeze and all of a sudden I became a man?
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 1: You're right, I think I definitely think that would be
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: just as scary. I think I would rather have that
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: than have you be cannibalistic towards babies, though well I
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: would just have to I don't know, or like, what
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: if you're just like pushing a muffin around in a
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: stroller all day long and then you're even crazier. I
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: think you got me on this. I think you're right.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: Just something to think about. Okay, so you would for
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: certain probably become a girl every time, do you sneeze
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: at um. Sometimes this is a weird thing about me.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: I'll make myself sneeze very often. Oh yeah, we talked
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: about that. Sometimes I'll get a little itch in my
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: nose and I'll like vibrate my nose to the point
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: where it makes me sneeze just because I think it
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: feels good. I don't ever think sneezus feel good. I
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: try to keep them in as much as possible. I
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: do like bad thing where you don't blow it out
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: of your mouth, you just go. I think that's Isn't
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: that horrible for you? You're gonna have an aneurism or something.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: My God, don't say that. Aneurisms I think are the
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  Speaker 1: scariest in the entire world. They're pretty scary. Yeah, next time,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: we'll have my dad come on and talk. So dr
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: I should you hold in his knees or is it
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: healthy to let it all out? We need to know anymore?
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: For me? Is that it? That's all I got? Well? Actually,
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: let's see, let's see what's your what's your biggest fear.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: My biggest fear is probably this is so basic. I
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: would say, not getting married, having a family. Yeah, it's
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: very basic. You're right, Yeah, but it's really for real.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 1: That's I mean, that's all I got. Was your biggest
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: fear um heights? Heights, I'm just kidding. My biggest fear,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. You jumped off cliffs
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: yesterday with Robbie. Yeah, we went clip jumping yesterday. Is
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: not my biggest fear. I know. It's because these are
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: one of the This is a question that you would deflect.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: You want to know what's funny. I think my biggest
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: fear might be public speaking. That's really yeah, and how
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: here I am on a podcast. Yeah, but you're it's
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: totally different because it's not in front of anyone. Yeah,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: Like when I was in broadcasting school, I used to
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: be so afraid to talk in front of the class,
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: just so nervous and clammy. But then give me a
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: microphone and a private room like this, and I'm yeah.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: You know, it's funny about those group presentations in college.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: I always like stressed so much over them, Like the
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: class of fifty kids is going to listen to me present,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: But like when other people presented, I paid zero attention.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: And you know that, like other people aren't paying attention.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: Do you still stress out so much about it. You
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: just have to keep reminding yourself, nobody's actually listening. No
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: one cares except for the teacher, and even they don't
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: really care that much. But you ever have one of
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: those kids that they get really nervous and they start
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: shaking and stumbling and you're like, oh man, now I'm
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: paying attention. So it's like, yeah, you kind of like
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: dig your own grape. I guess, yeah, definitely. Alright, Well
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: that's that's all I got for you. Alright, guys, it's
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: time that we say goodbye to Dan Dean. Thank you
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: so much for being an amazing co host. We learned
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: so much about you. People saw a whole different sides
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: to Danny babies today. Yeah, absolutely last, thank you for
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: having me. Great. Please come back whenever Ben's gone and
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: or we'll just push Ben out altogether. The Dean and
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Ashley I Almost Famous podcast with I Heart Radio. He's
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: getting comfortable behind that. Mike has a great ring to it. Okay,
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: it is time for the moment you've all been waiting
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: for the big tease for the Bachelorette finale on Monday.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: You guys, we will be going live on Tuesday to
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: recap all the juicy details of what goes on during
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: this finale. We hear that no exaggeration, Like we promise
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: no exaggeration. This is one of the most dramatic finale
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: is of all time. The this is our exclusive scoop
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: for you, the final breakup between the two final guys standing.
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: And we're still not sure who the two final guys are,
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: but this breakup is one of the most heart wrenching, tough, brutal,
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: heartbreaking in all of Bachelor history. You guys, there's been
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: like over thirty seasons of the show, and this might
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: be truly the most dramatic. So the guy that is
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 1: not Rachel's fiance, he cries so hard, just a totally
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: emotional breakdown. He even cries so hard that when she
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: steps away from him and leaves, he collapses on the ground.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: This is our exclusive scoop for you. The guy who
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: is not Rachel's fiance cries so hard he beats me
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: and crying apparently, and collapses to the ground. All right, So,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, I got chills a little bit when you're
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: saying I don't want to be weird, but like I
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 1: just said, my best Ryan's seagrass, you did really well,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: thank you. R Yeah, alright, So another little exclusive tidbit
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: we can give you is that Rachel actually didn't decide
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: who she was going to pick until the very last minute,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: like day off. That's the kind of decision. Did you
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: get that vibe Dean of the last three that she
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: was so torn? Yeah, I mean it's pretty clear that
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: she's torn. She's very invested in all three of these guys. No, No,
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: that's what they always make it seem like. But they
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: always know, they always know where they're going to pick.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: Ben really knew, Um, Caitlin definitely knew. Everybody knows, but
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: Rachel waited till like the last day. I Mean, the
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: thing is, will never know exactly what Rachel was thinking,
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: but it really seems like she loves all three of
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: these guys. Yeah, we won't know until she comes on
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: the Almost Famous podcast, and we'll make sure to get
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: her some days in make sure I'm in studio. One
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: more question on that. Could you feel love between her
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: and the three guys? Could I feel it personally? Yeah, because,
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: like let's say I'm around a couple, you can feel
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: someone else's love. Did you feel that? I think the
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: last time that all four of us were in the
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: same room together, was in Switzerland, and I don't think
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 1: that she outwardly loved anyone at that point. She was
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: still figuring it out, so I didn't interact with any
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: of them in the same room at all since that point,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 1: so it's hard to say. Really, Okay, well, Ben, we'll
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: be back next week and they'll be discussing. No. No,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 1: I've loved our two guests. They've been the best villains
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: any girl could ever ask for. Um and don't forget
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: it'll be up in your podcast app on Tuesday next
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: week because we're ready to record it right after the
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: actual finale. We'll see you next week. I've been Ashley,
• 1:10:59
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• 1:11:02
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