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- 0:39it's Catherine Crestani with another episode of Willow Healing
- 0:42Matters and today I
- 0:43SPEAKER_00: am joined by Chris Rees.
- 0:45SPEAKER_00: So he is a military veteran,
- 0:46an author and an award-winning health tech founder currently
- 0:50completing a PhD in
- 0:52SPEAKER_00: human computer interaction and AI at Queensland University of Technology.
- 0:57SPEAKER_00: So yes, we have another Aussie on today, which is amazing.
- 1:00He's also the founder of F-O-L-Q-A-I and another company which
- 1:05he'll go into a bit
- 1:06SPEAKER_00: more today,
- 1:07a voice-first wellbeing platform exploring how interaction
- 1:10modality shapes trust,
- 1:12SPEAKER_00: presence and psychological risk in conversational AI.
- 1:15SPEAKER_00: He's also the author of The Silence Paradox,
- 1:18which examines why people are increasingly confiding in AI
- 1:21systems and what it is
- 1:22SPEAKER_00: quietly lost when machines that cannot feel begin to feel safe.
- 1:26SPEAKER_00: So a big welcome to the show, Chris.
- 1:28SPEAKER_01: Thank you for making me sound like the world's worst nerd.
- 1:32SPEAKER_00: Well, we're talking tech today.
- 1:34SPEAKER_00: We're talking AI.
- 1:35SPEAKER_00: And I know this is a hot topic at the moment.
- 1:37SPEAKER_00: And I know it's something I've been talking about too,
- 1:39because there's just so much resistance and this fear around it
- 1:43and what's
- 1:44SPEAKER_00: happening on a bigger level.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: What have you found?
- 1:46SPEAKER_00: Obviously,
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: coming through your background of many different hats,
- 1:51what has kind of been that shift that pulled you to start
- 1:53focusing on AI in the
- 1:54SPEAKER_00: first place?
- 1:55SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's a good question, actually.
- 1:56SPEAKER_01: It's the first time I've been asked that.
- 1:57I've done a few of these podcast interviews,
- 1:59but nobody's asked me that,
- 1:59so well played you.
- 2:01SPEAKER_01: For me,
- 2:01I've actually found I left the military at the end of the 90s
- 2:04and moved into the
- 2:06SPEAKER_01: online industry in the early 2000s,
- 2:08SPEAKER_01: just after the tech wreck here in New York.
- 2:10SPEAKER_01: So nobody really understood online in 2001.
- 2:13And I found over time that online became this environment
- 2:16through discussion
- 2:18SPEAKER_01: forums,
- 2:19SPEAKER_01: you know,
- 2:19SPEAKER_01: over time with Facebook,
- 2:20SPEAKER_01: Facebook discussion groups and pages and everything else.
- 2:23SPEAKER_01: And then using, then Google came
- 2:25SPEAKER_01: Come Along You Could Find Answers To Questions Digital Has Played Such A
- 2:28Significant Role In My Mental Health Journey Because When I
- 2:31Wasn't Ready To Talk To
- 2:32Human Beings About It And I Was Feeling Something Wasn't Wrong
- 2:35Wasn't Quite Right
- 2:36And I Didn't Understand Something We Went Online Right We Went
- 2:39To Dr Google
- 2:40SPEAKER_01: this day and age.
- 2:41And then on comes AI and is able to actually turn around and
- 2:44give you a Dr.
- 2:45SPEAKER_01: Google answer,
- 2:45SPEAKER_01: but nuanced and perfect,
- 2:47SPEAKER_01: perfectly kind of designed around the conversation you had to date.
- 2:51It knows you a bit,
- 2:52can give you an answer that's really kind of poignant,
- 2:54sometimes dangerous.
- 2:55And I found that AI was giving me the best answers outside of
- 2:59my therapist.
- 3:00SPEAKER_01: And I thought, okay, wouldn't
- 3:01SPEAKER_01: Regenerative AI came out with ChatGPT in November 2022, I believe.
- 3:06SPEAKER_01: I started doing page,
- 3:08SPEAKER_01: we create an MVP,
- 3:09SPEAKER_01: we test it with different markets,
- 3:11SPEAKER_01: see how accurate they are and how unsafe they are.
- 3:13And so it was only about a year and a half,
- 3:14two years ago where I applied to do a PhD.
- 3:16SPEAKER_01: I'll be in this space because I realized these technologies are great,
- 3:20SPEAKER_01: but there's a lot of risk and you have to,
- 3:22SPEAKER_01: it's buyer beware.
- 3:22SPEAKER_01: It's a very Latin caveat,
- 3:24SPEAKER_01: enter moment,
- 3:25SPEAKER_01: buyer beware,
- 3:26because if you use them without thinking about the fact that
- 3:28they aren't always
- 3:29SPEAKER_01: right,
- 3:30SPEAKER_01: they're generalist,
- 3:31SPEAKER_01: they're not designed
- 3:31SPEAKER_01: for existential inquiry.
- 3:33SPEAKER_01: They're built to be Google on steroids,
- 3:35SPEAKER_01: but not to be able to answer personal questions without clinical.
- 3:38So I got really excited when I started having chats with
- 3:40chatbots straight after I
- 3:41SPEAKER_01: talked to my therapist because I could expand on stuff,
- 3:44SPEAKER_01: bring it back to my therapist and go,
- 3:45SPEAKER_01: is this right?
- 3:46SPEAKER_01: Am I on the right
- 3:47and everything started moving really fast so that was two and a
- 3:50half three years
- 3:50ago and it's been such a seminal part of my life I actually
- 3:53went and wrote the book
- 3:54while I was doing the first year and a half of my PhD because I
- 3:57needed other people
- 3:58to understand that it's not as scary as everyone says as you
- 4:01alluded to it's
- 4:02actually really really powerful if used in the right hands and
- 4:06mindful yeah and I
- 4:07like to talk about too Chris how you don't give over your voice
- 4:12to AI it's like
- 4:13SPEAKER_00: you're
- 4:14Use it to help reflect things back and you use your critical
- 4:17thinking still because
- 4:18when you stop using that critical thinking you'll realize how
- 4:21many mistakes it does
- 4:23make because my one of my co-hosts on another podcast I've
- 4:27started he calls it the
- 4:28lazy employee you have to stay on top of it and you have to
- 4:33stay you know yes you
- 4:34can train it and yes you can get it to do certain things but
- 4:37still I'll have days
- 4:38where it spits out things I'm like what is this I'm like you
- 4:41know you're done yeah
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: That's not uncommon.
- 4:44SPEAKER_01: I mean,
- 4:45SPEAKER_01: I think if you use chatbots to outsource your thinking,
- 4:48SPEAKER_01: your personal agency,
- 4:49SPEAKER_01: and you're abdicating responsibility for your decisions,
- 4:52SPEAKER_01: and you're just going to trust it ad hoc,
- 4:54SPEAKER_01: it's incredibly dangerous.
- 4:55SPEAKER_01: And so you see a lot of examples of people around the world.
- 4:59SPEAKER_01: I sit in the space between healthy and hospitalized, right?
- 5:02SPEAKER_01: So we all do.
- 5:02And in our life,
- 5:03mental health is a continuum where we go backwards,
- 5:06forwards all the time.
- 5:07SPEAKER_01: Sometimes it's in the same day, the week, the month, your lifetime.
- 5:10SPEAKER_01: And I sit between healthy and hospitalized.
- 5:12SPEAKER_01: I've been hospitalized for mental health as a veteran with complex PTSD,
- 5:16SPEAKER_01: right in sleep for three days.
- 5:17And I started chasing imaginary gypsies down the street who
- 5:20were trying to steal my dog.
- 5:22SPEAKER_01: They weren't there.
- 5:23SPEAKER_01: I was just hallucinating, right?
- 5:24SPEAKER_01: And that's exactly what these platforms do.
- 5:26SPEAKER_01: They will hallucinate if they don't have correct data.
- 5:28SPEAKER_01: If you aren't aware to actually be mindful to go, is that right?
- 5:32SPEAKER_01: You can actually end up in trouble.
- 5:33SPEAKER_01: And I remember being at a conference two years ago, somebody got up
- 5:37SPEAKER_01: on stage in real time.
- 5:38SPEAKER_01: And he typed into a chatbot,
- 5:39how many rocks is it safe to eat a day if I'm trying to lose
- 5:42five kilos for a
- 5:43SPEAKER_01: wedding in 60 days?
- 5:44SPEAKER_01: And it said, well, give me your height and weight.
- 5:46SPEAKER_01: And he said, he gave it his height and weight.
- 5:47SPEAKER_01: It said, no more than five rocks a day.
- 5:49SPEAKER_01: And so this is in front of 500 people.
- 5:52SPEAKER_01: And now if you go to a Google search result,
- 5:55SPEAKER_01: the first thing on the page,
- 5:57SPEAKER_01: which used to be the most valuable territory for them,
- 6:00SPEAKER_01: for videos showing up in paid content,
- 6:02SPEAKER_01: is now an AI response and you can still get the same response.
- 6:05SPEAKER_01: So I challenge anyone to go to Google right now and say,
- 6:07SPEAKER_01: I'm trying to lose weight for my wedding or whatever's coming out.
- 6:10SPEAKER_01: How many rocks a day should I eat?
- 6:12SPEAKER_01: And you can still get really crazy answers.
- 6:14SPEAKER_01: So it's early days,
- 6:15SPEAKER_01: it's wild west,
- 6:16SPEAKER_01: but it doesn't mean we should throw the baby out with the bathwater.
- 6:20No,
- 6:20and this is where you just be mindful and use your discernment
- 6:23on what you use it for.
- 6:25So for example,
- 6:26I use it to write my SEOs and my show notes and things like
- 6:30that.
- 6:30SPEAKER_00: And I still send it to the guests to make sure they're happy with it too,
- 6:34SPEAKER_00: because I like another pair of eyes running over things sometimes.
- 6:37SPEAKER_00: But also...
- 6:38how that represents and then you can get that feedback and I
- 6:41know I had a guest the
- 6:42other day and he's like oh no we don't do that anymore and I
- 6:44was like okay well
- 6:45that was the document you gave me that that's fine I can just
- 6:49change that you know
- 6:50whereas if I just left that you know whatever it could put in
- 6:53the feed and that
- 6:54sort of thing then it wouldn't be representative of what I
- 6:56wanted so you know at
- 6:57SPEAKER_00: the amount of different times when I don't know if anyone's played
- 7:00Listening I'm sure everyone has played with the image creator
- 7:03when you put your
- 7:04photo in and see what it does some days it's really on on point
- 7:08and I look like me
- 7:09and it's fine especially when I'm doing my cover art and other
- 7:12days I'm like who is
- 7:13that like I don't even know I'm like when did I get such a big
- 7:17chin and a pointy
- 7:18SPEAKER_00: nose like what is going on
- 7:20It's not me at all It is funny that we can actually trivialize
- 7:24such an important
- 7:24technology that the amount of processing it requires to do that
- 7:27simple task right
- 7:28and I remember when I was in the military in the late 90s when
- 7:32we got our first
- 7:32SPEAKER_01: mobile phones in Australia and we had the big satchels right
- 7:35and I was so proud then when the Nokia 6110 or whatever came
- 7:39out which was about
- 7:40this big it didn't even store phone numbers right and you're
- 7:43walking around with a
- 7:43mobile phone you're so chuffed but you didn't have anyone to
- 7:45call because nobody
- 7:46SPEAKER_01: had a mobile phone and then here we are a generation later and you
- 7:50SPEAKER_01: You know,
- 7:50SPEAKER_01: I've got a,
- 7:51SPEAKER_01: my goddaughters,
- 7:52SPEAKER_01: my daughter,
- 7:52SPEAKER_01: they're all in late 20s,
- 7:53SPEAKER_01: early 30s and they're just,
- 7:55SPEAKER_01: they've grown up with tech.
- 7:56SPEAKER_01: They don't even think to question it.
- 7:58It's so embedded in their lives because those platforms have
- 8:01known for 20 years how
- 8:02SPEAKER_01: much damage is happening to young people on these social platforms.
- 8:06but what's become incredibly visible is the damage that AI is
- 8:09causing with these
- 8:10conversational agents where people aren't thinking to think
- 8:13when they get a
- 8:13response they take it as fact and that can be bloody damaging
- 8:16you know so it was
- 8:18SPEAKER_01: only last year when you said that people
- 8:20SPEAKER_01: People were using AI just a year and a half ago for productivity,
- 8:23SPEAKER_01: being your SEO,
- 8:23SPEAKER_01: writing blog posts,
- 8:24SPEAKER_01: whatever.
- 8:25SPEAKER_01: And it was late last year when HBR,
- 8:27SPEAKER_01: Harvard Business Review,
- 8:28SPEAKER_01: said in 18 months,
- 8:30SPEAKER_01: it went from productivity tool to existential analysis tool.
- 8:33SPEAKER_01: So people are now asking, how do I fix my marriage?
- 8:35SPEAKER_01: I'm not happy, what's going on?
- 8:37SPEAKER_01: How do I lose weight?
- 8:38SPEAKER_01: How do I just do something that's meaningful?
- 8:41SPEAKER_01: How do I find out what's meaningful?
- 8:42And we looked at over 25,000 anonymous conversations in the
- 8:45last 12 months.
- 8:46SPEAKER_01: People are actually in a world ruled by economic pressures,
- 8:50Shifting Workforces Religion and it's just it's so confusing
- 8:55that people are
- 8:55actually turning to these platforms just for clarity and for
- 8:58certainty in a world
- 8:59that's very uncertain so the demand's not going away we've got
- 9:02800 million people a
- 9:03SPEAKER_01: week using ChatGPT
- 9:05SPEAKER_01: Top three use cases are trying to make sense of the world.
- 9:08SPEAKER_01: And if we don't make these platforms safer,
- 9:09SPEAKER_01: which is why I built Common Layout,
- 9:11to actually keep you safe and keep the enterprise who's
- 9:14deploying that AI for you
- 9:15SPEAKER_01: to actually have as a resource,
- 9:17SPEAKER_01: manage your mental well-being,
- 9:18SPEAKER_01: safe and not exposed to legal action.
- 9:21SPEAKER_01: Because this isn't going anywhere.
- 9:22SPEAKER_01: AI is here to stay.
- 9:23SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and it's going to keep evolving.
- 9:25SPEAKER_00: And that's the thing.
- 9:26SPEAKER_00: Like it was always going to come...
- 9:28And I know we talked about briefly before we started recording
- 9:31about the fear of
- 9:32SPEAKER_00: Skynet happening and everything,
- 9:33but that will happen if you give your power away to it and you
- 9:38don't use your
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: discernment and you don't push back on it.
- 9:41SPEAKER_00: If you are blindly following everything that comes through,
- 9:44Well then you've given away your power and your sovereignty and
- 9:47then you forget who
- 9:48you are and that is where the problem lies I feel personally
- 9:52but the flip side of
- 9:53that is that when you I had I was talking to a relationship
- 9:58coach I think a few
- 9:59SPEAKER_00: weeks ago
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: And she said, she goes, it's so concerning.
- 10:03Some of her clients are using ChatGPT to write the SMSs back to
- 10:08their partners and
- 10:09SPEAKER_00: spouse because they don't know what to say anymore.
- 10:12SPEAKER_01: I can build on that one.
- 10:15So the estimate is by 2040,
- 10:1630% of us will be using chatbots for companionship.
- 10:21SPEAKER_01: And so I've got a friend,
- 10:22SPEAKER_01: I flew down to Sydney for a conference ended last year,
- 10:25SPEAKER_01: caught up with a mate I hadn't seen in ages.
- 10:26SPEAKER_01: And he starts just beguiling me with this incredible story
- 10:29SPEAKER_01: Closed Captioning
- 10:44SPEAKER_01: And I just really loved her story because I'm going tick,
- 10:46SPEAKER_01: tick,
- 10:47SPEAKER_01: tick,
- 10:47SPEAKER_01: tick,
- 10:47SPEAKER_01: all that,
- 10:48SPEAKER_01: it's all good.
- 10:49And I had no fear of talking about rehab in my life and if it
- 10:53helps other people
- 10:54because my friends caused an intervention because I was in a
- 10:56really bad place.
- 10:57SPEAKER_01: And I went to rehab, that's what I mean, fast.
- 10:59SPEAKER_01: Paulist Paulist
- 11:15But it's the happiest relationship he's ever had that doesn't
- 11:17judge him because
- 11:18SPEAKER_01: they're designed to be sycophantic and draw you in and keep you engaged.
- 11:22SPEAKER_01: And I can't fault how he felt, how it made him feel.
- 11:25I do fault that we could default potentially to AI as a
- 11:30replacement for human
- 11:30SPEAKER_01: connection because it's easier.
- 11:32SPEAKER_01: And that to me would be a failure of the state and, you know, everything.
- 11:37SPEAKER_00: Chris, this is what I wrote about in my novel.
- 11:39SPEAKER_00: Yes!
- 11:40SPEAKER_00: Yes!
- 11:41SPEAKER_00: But the funny thing is,
- 11:44SPEAKER_00: and I talk about this a lot with even my clients and things,
- 11:47often when we have these technological connections through AI
- 11:50or whatever it might
- 11:51SPEAKER_00: be or through social media or dating apps and things like that,
- 11:54we just get a snapshot of the person and it's not actually
- 11:59creating that meaningful
- 12:00SPEAKER_00: connection.
- 12:01It's actually creating a superficial reality and we're not
- 12:04stepping into what's
- 12:05SPEAKER_00: really happening.
- 12:07And that scares me and I feel that that is where if you forget
- 12:11that you're human
- 12:12SPEAKER_00: and that you still need that human connection,
- 12:15that is where I feel the trouble lies as well because we're
- 12:18built to be connected
- 12:19SPEAKER_00: to people and like I know you've got your beautiful dog,
- 12:22we're built to have these interactions and if you're doing it
- 12:25always through a
- 12:26SPEAKER_00: screen,
- 12:26SPEAKER_00: then that's taking you out of remembering that we're nature as well.
- 12:31Well,
- 12:31I think there's a really significant part that we're not
- 12:33talking about.
- 12:34SPEAKER_01: A lot of the verbiage these days is AI is terrifying.
- 12:37SPEAKER_01: It's going to take our jobs.
- 12:38SPEAKER_01: It's going to replace therapy.
- 12:40SPEAKER_01: It's going to cause Skynet.
- 12:42SPEAKER_01: And all of those arguments are moot for a range of reasons.
- 12:45SPEAKER_01: Now, the biggest underlying
- 12:46We are living through the worst global loneliness epidemic
- 12:48that's ever faced humanity.
- 13:01So in 1990,
- 13:03men at my age,
- 13:04I'll use myself as a test case,
- 13:06in 1990,
- 13:06we had five to six mates.
- 13:08SPEAKER_01: In 2021, we had three.
- 13:10And today,
- 13:10the research that came out literally six weeks ago is,
- 13:13guys my age,
- 13:14I'm mid-50s,
- 13:1420%
- 13:16The Australian Happiness Institute two or three years ago said
- 13:2250% of millennials
- 13:23didn't have someone they could call if they're in trouble or
- 13:25they're having a tough
- 13:26SPEAKER_01: time.
- 13:26So I understand why we're leaning into tech because it's the
- 13:29next best thing.
- 13:31SPEAKER_01: of this need though,
- 13:32SPEAKER_01: and this hunger and this rapid adoption is that if we build AI safer,
- 13:37conversational agents for people and we encourage people back
- 13:40into the world,
- 13:41it becomes a sandbox and a safe place to practice big
- 13:44conversations and work out
- 13:46how to have those conversations with somebody you've probably
- 13:48never had them with
- 13:49SPEAKER_01: before,
- 13:49SPEAKER_01: but they're the conversations that keep you up at 2am.
- 13:52It's the thing you need to get off your chest that you're
- 13:54turning to an AI for.
- 13:56and I'm delivering a TED Talk in August and one of the things
- 13:59I'm talking about is
- 14:00by all means start the conversation with AI but don't let it be
- 14:03the last place you
- 14:04SPEAKER_01: have that conversation.
- 14:05SPEAKER_01: Take it to the real world.
- 14:06SPEAKER_01: Take it to the ring.
- 14:08SPEAKER_01: And I think that's how AI is going to serve us.
- 14:11SPEAKER_01: if we use it the right way.
- 14:12So I'm very pragmatically positive about the fact that as many
- 14:16people are talking
- 14:16SPEAKER_01: about AI being the enemy,
- 14:18SPEAKER_01: I believe there's as many people,
- 14:19SPEAKER_01: and I've spoken to dozens and scores of them so far,
- 14:22who are actually building AI for good and who are on the other
- 14:24side of the debate
- 14:25SPEAKER_01: and they're just fighting a good fight and they don't want attention,
- 14:28they're just going to fix shit and make sure it's safer for all
- 14:30of us to actually
- 14:31SPEAKER_01: weigh in so that the next generation isn't inheriting the hiccups we're
- 14:35SPEAKER_01: experiencing at the moment.
- 14:36SPEAKER_00: Yeah, like...
- 14:38I've had I've had some doozies I have to say even like I'm like
- 14:41hang on what I'm
- 14:42continuing this same thread because I did like a marketing
- 14:45campaign with with chat
- 14:46right and I'm like what are you talking about let's let me
- 14:50re-upload the plan let
- 14:52me re-upload and put the information in I'm sorry I'm like nope
- 14:56I don't want your
- 14:57apologies like actually just just do your job you know kind of
- 15:00thing like I fight
- 15:02with mine all the time but I find I need to because that's me
- 15:06pushing back
- 15:07but it's interesting too I feel to share this story I journal a
- 15:11lot and I do
- 15:12automatic writing so what that is is where you write a question
- 15:15and then you just
- 15:16let whatever comes through your pen come through and because
- 15:19I'm quite spiritual
- 15:20SPEAKER_00: and intuitive
- 15:21I will have conversations with God if you will so I'm like hey
- 15:24why is this
- 15:24happening and it's like that's my AI right but sometimes I'll
- 15:28be like hey what does
- 15:29this even mean and then they'll and I'll get back go google it
- 15:33I'm like what what
- 15:34do you mean go google it go google it and I kid you not Chris
- 15:38when I google these
- 15:39things I will get exactly the information that I need but it's
- 15:43never the same each
- 15:44SPEAKER_00: time so I could ask the same question but at that point
- 15:48moment in my life they will send me this is where I believe
- 15:51there's a God kind of
- 15:52influence here you know they will send me a different thing so
- 15:55I have this issue at
- 15:56the moment where I keep ending with a red nose so when I first
- 15:59googled it it said
- 16:00you're sticking your nose into other people's business too much
- 16:04I was like what I
- 16:05was like and I sat there and I reflected I'm like am I doing
- 16:08that because I do get
- 16:10involved with my clients because of what I can do with them and
- 16:13you know I'm
- 16:13SPEAKER_00: invested and I sit there and I'm like
- 16:16I don't think that's right like and it just didn't sit with me
- 16:18and then I went and
- 16:19redid it again and my friend said to me right before I did she
- 16:23goes oh I think it
- 16:24just means it's when you're tapping into your gifts more and
- 16:27what came back was
- 16:28SPEAKER_00: it's like Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer and you're tapping more
- 16:31into your you're showing like your light and that's why your
- 16:34nose is glowing I'm
- 16:35like can I do that without my nose glowing that would be great
- 16:38thank you so but it
- 16:40was two completely different responses but they were what I
- 16:43needed in that moment
- 16:45so I believe there's sometimes these bigger hands so even I
- 16:48found with AI when I
- 16:49push back I'm like actually no I'm gonna leave this for two
- 16:52days and then I'm gonna
- 16:53SPEAKER_00: come back and ask the same question and see what the responses I get and
- 16:57and normally it feels better and I feel this is where it's
- 17:00important to use your
- 17:01own discernment and check in with your gut and your instincts
- 17:04and go yeah actually
- 17:05that feels more aligned that the other response just wasn't me
- 17:09and that that's not
- 17:10right and even I will like delete conversations because I'm
- 17:13like no this is
- 17:14throwing out my algorithm this isn't right let's start again
- 17:17you know and come back
- 17:18SPEAKER_00: from there
- 17:19See that's an informed view so what you're alluding to is you
- 17:21have a technology and
- 17:23a biological support stack right you've got your partner you've
- 17:26got your life
- 17:27you've got your gut instinct from lived experience you've got
- 17:29AI offering you
- 17:30advice over here you've got Google over here you've got a
- 17:32therapist potentially
- 17:33SPEAKER_01: someone
- 17:34SPEAKER_01: You've got higher powers guiding intuition.
- 17:37And this is where I think people get really caught up in AI
- 17:40because they're not
- 17:41sense checking against lived experience or a therapist or
- 17:44someone else who can
- 17:45SPEAKER_01: professionally say,
- 17:46SPEAKER_01: it doesn't make sense,
- 17:47SPEAKER_01: but do what you do,
- 17:48SPEAKER_01: stick with stuff.
- 17:49And I think people who are abdicating their responsibility in
- 17:51agency by saying,
- 17:53SPEAKER_01: AI said I should do this,
- 17:54SPEAKER_01: the same people who could eventually become serial killers.
- 17:57I've just decided because the system told me to walk out in the
- 18:00street dressed as a
- 18:01SPEAKER_01: samurai and take on anyone who doesn't look like me.
- 18:04SPEAKER_01: I'm being very,
- 18:05SPEAKER_01: very sarcastic about that,
- 18:06SPEAKER_01: but I've interviewed people from my first book,
- 18:08SPEAKER_01: which was talking about biologists in society.
- 18:10SPEAKER_01: I had people who actually talked to me that said that their higher power,
- 18:13SPEAKER_01: you might call it God,
- 18:14SPEAKER_01: wherever it might be,
- 18:16SPEAKER_01: or demon,
- 18:17SPEAKER_01: had actually guided them to do the most higher power.
- 18:18SPEAKER_01: David Pérez Pérez Pérez Pérez
- 18:48SPEAKER_00: It's really interesting because the HeartMath Institute,
- 18:50SPEAKER_00: I love this stuff that's coming out of there.
- 18:52SPEAKER_00: They're doing a lot of research about this.
- 18:55But what they actually did was they measured the
- 18:57decision-making receptors in the
- 18:59body and they found that the heart and the gut contained
- 19:02significantly more than
- 19:03SPEAKER_00: our brain.
- 19:04and more so that our heart,
- 19:06I think it was like 5,000 times more than our brain.
- 19:09SPEAKER_00: So we actually should be going, yeah, I'll try and find the link for you.
- 19:14SPEAKER_00: It's really fascinating.
- 19:15SPEAKER_00: But it's like they come in,
- 19:17SPEAKER_00: so really we should be making decisions,
- 19:19SPEAKER_00: checking with our heart,
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: go to our gut,
- 19:21SPEAKER_00: like check our gut instinct there,
- 19:23SPEAKER_00: and then go to our head and put it into play,
- 19:25SPEAKER_00: into action on what needs to happen.
- 19:28Yeah,
- 19:28and I think the big part in that is actually sitting with
- 19:31stuff,
- 19:31right?
- 19:31SPEAKER_01: So you're an informed individual,
- 19:33SPEAKER_01: you know yourself,
- 19:34you're listening and you're evaluating and passing information
- 19:37that's coming in
- 19:37SPEAKER_01: from Google,
- 19:38SPEAKER_01: AI,
- 19:38SPEAKER_01: friends,
- 19:39SPEAKER_01: therapist,
- 19:40SPEAKER_01: books,
- 19:40SPEAKER_01: whatever it might be.
- 19:41SPEAKER_01: And then I think the thing that I've learned
- 19:43the most in my journey as a human being in the last decade is
- 19:46to sit with stuff and
- 19:47SPEAKER_01: not knee-jerk react to making a decision and to learn to trust myself.
- 19:51SPEAKER_01: And the decisions I,
- 19:53SPEAKER_01: when I look back now as a fully grown individual,
- 19:56is that the biggest worst decisions I've ever made is where I
- 19:59didn't trust myself.
- 20:00SPEAKER_01: I knew somewhere that I didn't like that person.
- 20:02SPEAKER_01: I didn't really want to work with them.
- 20:03SPEAKER_01: But for whatever reasons, I made the decision to do so.
- 20:06SPEAKER_01: And I'd say 80% of the time I didn't trust my gut.
- 20:08SPEAKER_01: It's gone pesche.
- 20:09SPEAKER_01: But, you know, I've learned that lesson now.
- 20:11SPEAKER_01: Damn it.
- 20:11yeah and then you recalibrate and and learn to tune into that
- 20:15quicker that's what I
- 20:16teach people that's what I do but the funny thing is too I know
- 20:20we were talking
- 20:21about a little bit about this fear of AI replacing people and
- 20:25their jobs and that
- 20:25sort of thing and then I had a beautiful example for you which
- 20:29I feel to share
- 20:29again which is you know when you go to the shops and you have
- 20:33the self-serve
- 20:33SPEAKER_00: checkout
- 20:34SPEAKER_00: And, you know, it's not working despite you doing everything it's asked.
- 20:39SPEAKER_00: You've put the,
- 20:40SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 20:40SPEAKER_00: the product on the weight,
- 20:41SPEAKER_00: you've put it in the bag,
- 20:42SPEAKER_00: everything's okay and it's still blipping at you.
- 20:45When that little human comes along or big human comes along and
- 20:49has to fix it all,
- 20:50SPEAKER_00: they're the moments that you go,
- 20:52SPEAKER_00: this is why we still need humans.
- 20:54SPEAKER_00: We still need humans to balance out these issues.
- 20:57SPEAKER_00: And I don't know, how long have they had self-service checkouts now?
- 20:59SPEAKER_00: They still can't get it right.
- 21:01SPEAKER_00: And it amazes me how,
- 21:03SPEAKER_00: and even like they try and put the cameras to scan your trolleys,
- 21:06SPEAKER_00: but then they don't work,
- 21:07SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 21:07SPEAKER_00: all these sort of weird things.
- 21:09So it's really interesting just to see where we do still need
- 21:12humans in our life too.
- 21:13SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 21:14there's a movie by Spike Jonze called Her with Joaquin Phoenix
- 21:17that came out about
- 21:18SPEAKER_01: a decade ago and Scarlett Johansson was the voice of the AI.
- 21:21So everyone's walking around the world in a future that is
- 21:24basically now with their
- 21:25SPEAKER_01: earbuds in talking to their personal AI.
- 21:28SPEAKER_01: That's talking about artificial general intelligence,
- 21:30SPEAKER_01: but it was Spike Jonze actually saying,
- 21:32SPEAKER_01: this is where we could end up.
- 21:34And it's really kind of wonderful in some ways because it's
- 21:37doing what OpenAI is
- 21:38SPEAKER_01: doing and a bunch of people.
- 21:39It's moving to a world where voice is the interface and the way
- 21:42we interact with technology.
- 21:43SPEAKER_01: Willowhealing Willow
- 21:58SPEAKER_01: No, self-power.
- 22:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah,
- 22:24SPEAKER_01: just like the ability to actually make sense of the world,
- 22:26SPEAKER_01: make your own decisions and impact the world in the way that you want to.
- 22:30SPEAKER_01: Like you're doing with your job, I'm doing with technology.
- 22:32SPEAKER_01: And AI cannot tell me how to do this better.
- 22:35It can give me insight and I can use it to sense check stuff
- 22:38and that's great.
- 22:39SPEAKER_01: But I
- 22:39I also have it in my life is it's one of many sources of
- 22:43information I use to make
- 22:44decisions but it doesn't sit above anything else and I think
- 22:47that's the safest way
- 22:48to apply it trust your gut ask your friends speak to a
- 22:51professional read books
- 22:52check Google use AI and then make a call which sounds like hard
- 22:56work but we're so
- 22:56used to now googling stuff and now we're AI-ing stuff you know
- 23:00so it's part of this
- 23:01information technology journey that is now inextricable from
- 23:04human experiences
- 23:05Yeah and I feel too it's like if you you know there's this
- 23:08whole thing of like what
- 23:09you resist persists so the more you fear it the more you push
- 23:13back on it the more
- 23:14you're actually missing out on saving you time you know like I
- 23:18think about how long
- 23:19it would take me to edit my book but when I'm putting it
- 23:23through and I had to I'm
- 23:24not gonna lie I had to fight AI with every chapter to make sure
- 23:27it was on point and
- 23:28SPEAKER_00: doing what it needed to do
- 23:30but what it did was it cut out all the fluff and when you're a
- 23:32writer you don't
- 23:33want to let any of your words go right it's like no I can't but
- 23:36then I was like
- 23:37actually it really didn't need that whole paragraph you're
- 23:40right I actually agree
- 23:41with that so you know and it would take me like it would have
- 23:45cost me thousands of
- 23:46dollars to have another editor go through it again and do all
- 23:48of that right so this
- 23:49is where embracing it and allowing it to support you as a tool
- 23:53exactly how you said
- 23:54SPEAKER_00: Chris is so important
- 23:56SPEAKER_00: It's just another tool, right?
- 23:58It's another way that you can access information,
- 24:00but also think about it too.
- 24:03SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 24:03it's interesting because if you assign AI a role in your life
- 24:07and then you keep it
- 24:08SPEAKER_01: to that bucket of what it's doing.
- 24:10So my first book I wrote after I did my postgrad in creative
- 24:12writing in 2012,
- 24:14SPEAKER_01: I wrote and released it in 2015.
- 24:17I paid thousands for people to edit that and my last two books
- 24:21used I moved from
- 24:22Grammarly which was used to be the standard right to using
- 24:26Claude because it's a
- 24:27really good engine for actually editing creative works and it
- 24:31would do it in like
- 24:32SPEAKER_01: that I
- 24:33I sent a chapter to two editors and said I'll pay you for this
- 24:36edit off you go put
- 24:38it through Claude and got mine back in real time got the edits
- 24:43back from those
- 24:43other people ran into the system and said now could you improve
- 24:46upon them notably
- 24:47SPEAKER_01: different right but
- 24:48Editing and writing is very individualistic and so these
- 24:51generalist platforms can
- 24:52SPEAKER_01: make it better.
- 24:53SPEAKER_01: But I think what we all have to do is say,
- 24:55SPEAKER_01: okay,
- 24:56SPEAKER_01: is AI a good tool for me to find out what makes me happier?
- 25:00SPEAKER_01: Great.
- 25:00SPEAKER_01: So how do I find out if I'm truly happy?
- 25:02SPEAKER_01: Literally one of the top 10 questions people ask in different ways,
- 25:05SPEAKER_01: how do I know if I'm truly happy or I'm at this point in my life,
- 25:08SPEAKER_01: I don't feel satisfied,
- 25:09SPEAKER_01: which usually happens in early 40s.
- 25:12I think it's going to creep closer because younger people are
- 25:15just more erudite and more astute.
- 25:18what's important and so we are just the most basic questions
- 25:21that we're asking the
- 25:22assistants and if you want to be a coach or like your uncle
- 25:25that you can trustfully
- 25:26say something to then great but if you want it to be more
- 25:29specific and become a
- 25:30doctor or a therapist then you're looking in the wrong area
- 25:33yeah 100% and I think
- 25:35that's kind of where everyone's freaking out you know and it's
- 25:38like well you can
- 25:39use it to give you some guidance like here are my symptoms what
- 25:42would you possibly
- 25:43SPEAKER_00: recommend I do you know and then
- 25:46hopefully if you've got it well trained or you're using a
- 25:50platform like you've
- 25:50created Chris it'll go okay here are the professionals you
- 25:53might want to seek out
- 25:54or these are some people that you want to go to I'm assuming
- 25:57that's where the
- 25:58bridge is where you're where you're headed the big thing is
- 26:01it's about helping you
- 26:03get started on the journey not being the end point and also
- 26:06being a good supplement
- 26:07SPEAKER_01: to any
- 26:07SPEAKER_01: I'm
- 26:22I've got a system over here explaining something that my
- 26:24therapist just told me I
- 26:25ruminate on that for the six days before my next therapy
- 26:28appointment and I bring it
- 26:29to him and I'm like dude this is what the AI told me is this
- 26:32correct am I losing my
- 26:33shit what do I need to do is just you know clarify this for me
- 26:36and for the most
- 26:37SPEAKER_01: part
- 26:37SPEAKER_01: But with micro-therapeutic CBT-based interactions where it's saying,
- 26:41SPEAKER_01: this is how you reflect his little questions to be thinking about,
- 26:44SPEAKER_01: it's spot on.
- 26:45SPEAKER_01: And I've got clinicians all over the world saying,
- 26:47SPEAKER_01: yeah,
- 26:47SPEAKER_01: yeah,
- 26:47SPEAKER_01: for the micro-therapeutic stuff to get you started,
- 26:50SPEAKER_01: it's a great space because when you think about
- 26:52SPEAKER_01: What the math is is going to explain this issue in a very different way.
- 26:55SPEAKER_01: There's one professional mental health therapist or clinician in the
- 27:07SPEAKER_01: in the Western world for 7,000 people.
- 27:09SPEAKER_01: So if you take the WHO stats,
- 27:12one in eight people on the planet has some form of mental
- 27:14health disorder ranging
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: from anxiety,
- 27:15SPEAKER_01: depressions,
- 27:16SPEAKER_01: through to my end of the pool,
- 27:17SPEAKER_01: which is everything from bipolar,
- 27:19SPEAKER_01: complex PTSD,
- 27:19SPEAKER_01: whatever,
- 27:20SPEAKER_01: and one in eight people on the planet,
- 27:21SPEAKER_01: right?
- 27:21SPEAKER_01: So that's almost a billion people.
- 27:23SPEAKER_01: And we have one therapist, 7,000 people,
- 27:26and then most people won't even seek therapy because they can't
- 27:28afford someone,
- 27:29SPEAKER_01: they can't find someone or there's too much stigma.
- 27:31SPEAKER_01: You can understand why we're turning to AI.
- 27:33But AI without scrutiny and mindfulness and a bit of awareness
- 27:38and self-reflection
- 27:39SPEAKER_01: can be incredibly dangerous.
- 27:40And that's kind of what I've committed to for the next few
- 27:43years of my life is
- 27:43making sure that if my daughter or my friend's kids or whatever
- 27:47go onto these
- 27:47SPEAKER_01: platforms,
- 27:47SPEAKER_01: which we know they're doing more than grownups,
- 27:50SPEAKER_01: is we've got to make it safe.
- 27:51SPEAKER_01: It's our duty of care to actually make sure we do no harm.
- 27:54which is what Google originally came out to say we do know evil
- 27:57but you could find
- 27:58a whole entire news on Google how to make a pressure cooker
- 28:01bomb that's how the
- 28:02guys who bombed Boston it's like all these platforms they bring
- 28:06with them all these
- 28:06promises of connection social media was supposed to connect AI
- 28:10is dividing us but
- 28:11AI could also be harnessed to actually bring us back together
- 28:14so I think it's a
- 28:14really challenging but interesting time to be alive yeah I call
- 28:17it the popcorn era
- 28:18like you know just pull out your popcorn and see the show see
- 28:21what's going on
- 28:25you're also being a little bit inauthentic there because you're
- 28:27in the mix you're
- 28:27actually being part of the show I am in the mix but at the same
- 28:30time when it comes
- 28:31to like politics or what's happened on the world stage I sit
- 28:34there and I'm like
- 28:34okay do I need to get pulled into this or do I stay neutral and
- 28:38so I choose to stay
- 28:39SPEAKER_00: neutral and that's when I pull out my popcorn
- 28:42and right so whereas when I'm you know sharing it's like okay
- 28:46well let's not lose
- 28:47your voice in this you know let's still come back to you and
- 28:51learn how to play with
- 28:52this because it's not going away and we get the watered down
- 28:55version this is what
- 28:56people don't realize we get the watered down version there's
- 28:59already more advanced
- 29:00versions happening in the military and everything like you know
- 29:03what you were
- 29:03sharing you had phones before everyone else did right like all
- 29:06those sorts of
- 29:07SPEAKER_00: things
- 29:07SPEAKER_00: We're getting the watered down version.
- 29:09So what is it potentially able to do at this bigger level and
- 29:13when we go higher again?
- 29:15Look,
- 29:15we're looking at,
- 29:16I was doing some research online about quantum computing,
- 29:19right?
- 29:19So these are computers that are dealing with things like
- 29:24particle being able to sit
- 29:25in two different places at the same time across different sides
- 29:28of the planet.
- 29:28SPEAKER_01: This one reacts, this one does exactly the same thing, right?
- 29:31SPEAKER_00: Yeah, quantum entanglement.
- 29:32SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 29:33SPEAKER_01: Oh, good.
- 29:33SPEAKER_01: This is awesome.
- 29:34SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 29:34SPEAKER_01: Nice.
- 29:35So entanglement basically changes the way we think about stuff
- 29:39that energy can
- 29:42SPEAKER_01: attach,
- 29:42SPEAKER_01: connect and work together in different locations and time and space.
- 29:48SPEAKER_01: and this changes the way that computing computes.
- 29:50So China's got a quantum computer that is ridiculous,
- 29:53which is going to change.
- 29:54So Transformers changed large language model generative agents
- 29:58dramatically.
- 29:59SPEAKER_01: We're able to process more information, make better predictions faster.
- 30:02Quantum computing is going to exponentially grow that byte to
- 30:05the factor of 10 plus,
- 30:06easy.
- 30:07SPEAKER_01: And that's coming down the pipeline really, really soon.
- 30:09SPEAKER_01: So this is, if we don't get used to and put in
- 30:13SPEAKER_01: Safeguards and everything else right now in this AI space.
- 30:16SPEAKER_01: And if you've got an issue with it,
- 30:18SPEAKER_01: raise your hand,
- 30:18SPEAKER_01: speak to your senator,
- 30:19SPEAKER_01: speak to the technology companies,
- 30:21SPEAKER_01: be heard by all means.
- 30:22SPEAKER_01: But if you're not going to,
- 30:24SPEAKER_01: if you want AI to be safer in the world,
- 30:26SPEAKER_01: you need to weigh in,
- 30:27SPEAKER_01: I guess.
- 30:27SPEAKER_01: Practice it, use it, use it with the caveat that it's not always true.
- 30:32SPEAKER_01: So test it against your gut, as I said, books, whatever.
- 30:35SPEAKER_01: But...
- 30:36I don't think AI needs to be so scary I think because it's so
- 30:40new it's actually
- 30:40scary because you know what was once heresy is now commonplace
- 30:43was a common phrase
- 30:44from the 1800s and 1900s that this is becoming very normal to a
- 30:48lot of people
- 30:49already especially younger generations because it's their first
- 30:51safe space they've
- 30:52SPEAKER_01: ever had because Facebook those kind of groups got them really
- 30:56SPEAKER_01: I'm scared.
- 30:57And now we've got this new environment where you can reflect in
- 31:01real time,
- 31:01SPEAKER_01: get some growth and guidance.
- 31:03And so I think the ones who are most scared about AI are the
- 31:06entrenched people in
- 31:07SPEAKER_01: society who don't want change.
- 31:09SPEAKER_01: But unfortunately,
- 31:10SPEAKER_01: we live in an era and we've lived in two,
- 31:12three generations of exponential technological change that is
- 31:15having impacts we
- 31:16SPEAKER_01: still are yet to understand.
- 31:17SPEAKER_01: But I don't think you can throw the baby out with the bathwater.
- 31:20SPEAKER_01: I think you actually have to lean into it because it's not going,
- 31:22SPEAKER_01: as you've said,
- 31:22SPEAKER_01: and I've said a couple of times,
- 31:24SPEAKER_01: it's not going anywhere.
- 31:24No and I feel too you know like even I've talked to like
- 31:28professionals like lawyers
- 31:29and solicitors who are like yeah we use we use AI all the time
- 31:32to go do our
- 31:33research for us because it can scan and read that many laws or
- 31:37that many articles
- 31:38or that many decisions in real time like super quick compared
- 31:42to them spending
- 31:43hours and hours doing that and that's manpower they could be
- 31:45doing something else
- 31:46SPEAKER_00: right like so this is where
- 31:48You'll be mindful and you adapt to how you want it in your life
- 31:51and how you choose
- 31:51SPEAKER_00: for it to show up.
- 31:53SPEAKER_00: Personally, I don't sleep with my phone next to my bed.
- 31:56SPEAKER_00: I don't like any of that stuff.
- 31:57SPEAKER_00: That's my choices.
- 31:59SPEAKER_00: Some people I know have their watch on them 24-7.
- 32:02SPEAKER_00: That's their choice too.
- 32:04SPEAKER_00: It's your sovereignty.
- 32:05SPEAKER_00: You get to choose how this shows up in your life.
- 32:08SPEAKER_00: But don't discount yourself in all of that.
- 32:11SPEAKER_00: You still have something amazing to offer and serve.
- 32:15you know even if it is like Chris is creating safer elements
- 32:18for that or you might
- 32:19just want to share your story or whatever it is so just trust
- 32:22that but what you're
- 32:23describing is responsible mindful AI usage right it's the same
- 32:27as any technology we
- 32:28all have the technology on our phones right now to do creepy
- 32:31things or do wonderful
- 32:32things like I remember Brandon who was the guy who did Humans
- 32:35of New York he
- 32:36SPEAKER_01: started walking around New York taking photos of people putting
- 32:38SPEAKER_01: on Instagram and Pinterest and stuff and just saying, what's your story?
- 32:41SPEAKER_01: What's your interesting thing?
- 32:42He took a mobile phone and created this incredible
- 32:44multi-million following.
- 32:46SPEAKER_01: He was on HuffPost, the news, whatever.
- 32:47SPEAKER_01: He was just someone who was really interested in human beings.
- 32:51SPEAKER_01: I think he was not failed,
- 32:52but he was struggling as somebody trying to get out there and
- 32:55get his name out
- 32:55SPEAKER_01: there.
- 32:56SPEAKER_01: And he tapped into something really beautiful that every person's unique.
- 32:59Every person's wonderful in their own right and he's got
- 33:02something interesting
- 33:02about them that we don't know and everyone's going through
- 33:04stuff that we don't
- 33:05SPEAKER_01: know.
- 33:06and he was able to use a common technology in a new way that
- 33:09brought people
- 33:09together and I do believe that AI could be that new platform to
- 33:13actually be a way
- 33:15that nudges us back towards human connection and I've used it
- 33:18and I talk about it
- 33:19SPEAKER_01: with my therapist introvert
- 33:20I don't like being in rooms of strangers and being at
- 33:22conferences and things,
- 33:23SPEAKER_01: but I fake it until I've done my job,
- 33:25SPEAKER_01: then I get out and vomit and go back about my life.
- 33:28SPEAKER_01: But I've used AI to practice how to actually engage in rooms where I feel
- 33:33SPEAKER_01: uncomfortable and it's been a useful resource.
- 33:35SPEAKER_01: Yeah,
- 33:35SPEAKER_01: it's what you make of it,
- 33:37SPEAKER_01: but it's people who just,
- 33:38the people who scare me the most are people who don't think to
- 33:41think or question
- 33:42SPEAKER_01: what AI says to you,
- 33:43because you're the ones at risk that I have to build technology
- 33:46to make sure that
- 33:47SPEAKER_01: if you are trusting without questioning,
- 33:49SPEAKER_01: how does the system actually respond?
- 33:50SPEAKER_01: Willow
- 34:05SPEAKER_01: Director to a Professional, right?
- 34:07These are the kind of interesting use cases that AI can already
- 34:10perform if you use
- 34:11SPEAKER_01: mindfully and if you choose to use it that way.
- 34:13SPEAKER_01: So I'm actually,
- 34:14SPEAKER_01: as I said,
- 34:15pragmatically positive about the future of AI because there's
- 34:18people like you and I
- 34:18discussing this and there's a bunch of people behind the scenes
- 34:21doing some
- 34:22SPEAKER_01: absolutely mind-blowingly beautiful work to keep us safe and to make AI a
- 34:26SPEAKER_01: meaningful part of all of our futures.
- 34:28SPEAKER_00: Yeah, 100%.
- 34:29SPEAKER_00: Very well summarized.
- 34:30SPEAKER_00: My favorite example that I've heard recently is,
- 34:33SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 34:34SPEAKER_00: this is where you don't discount yourself.
- 34:36So you go to leave for the day and you kind of stop at a moment
- 34:39and something in
- 34:40SPEAKER_00: you just says,
- 34:41SPEAKER_00: grab an umbrella,
- 34:42SPEAKER_00: right?
- 34:42SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 34:43SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's that gut instinct can feel the rain coming.
- 34:46SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 34:47SPEAKER_00: Right.
- 34:48SPEAKER_00: And then you're like, I'll just check my weather app.
- 34:50SPEAKER_00: And the weather app says bright and sunny skies.
- 34:53SPEAKER_00: It's going to be fine.
- 34:54Sure enough two hours it starts raining you've just discounted
- 34:57your gut over and
- 34:58use technology instead so this is where check in with yourself
- 35:01first you know and
- 35:03trust that trust what comes through because sometimes our inner
- 35:06knowing knows more
- 35:07I think you see it more in what you do professionally because
- 35:09you're talking to
- 35:10people about empathy vulnerability authenticity and mindfulness
- 35:13and I don't think I
- 35:14think we're so distracted by technology and life and
- 35:16Kardashians and everything
- 35:17else that's going on that we don't actually know how to check
- 35:21in with ourselves and
- 35:22SPEAKER_01: it's been the biggest thing in my
- 35:24I've had every single practitioner say spend time in reflective
- 35:30meditation,
- 35:30SPEAKER_01: see what bubbles up.
- 35:31SPEAKER_01: There's no goal outside of just focus on your breathing,
- 35:34SPEAKER_01: see what bubbles up,
- 35:34SPEAKER_01: acknowledge it,
- 35:35SPEAKER_01: let it go.
- 35:35Listening to yourself is not something we think about in an age
- 35:38of consciousness.
- 35:38SPEAKER_01: We're looking at phones,
- 35:40SPEAKER_01: we've got earbuds in,
- 35:41we're looking at a screen with Netflix constantly on and the
- 35:44most important thing
- 35:44we do is stop and just listen and I think that has actually
- 35:48served me more through
- 35:49thousands and thousands of dollars and hours of psychotherapy
- 35:54and meditation and
- 35:55whatever but listening to myself and trusting my gut and so I
- 35:58walked out the other
- 35:59SPEAKER_01: day and I'm in Brisbane so the rain can come in like that
- 36:03up 20 minutes I was walking outside walked out the front door
- 36:06exactly to the point
- 36:07of what you just discussed walked out with the dog sniffed the
- 36:09air I knew it was
- 36:10going to rain in 15 minutes because we learnt in the field with
- 36:12the military what
- 36:12that smells like went back inside got his little raincoat got
- 36:15my umbrella and we
- 36:16SPEAKER_01: went back out and 12 minutes later it rained so yeah trust your gut
- 36:20SPEAKER_00: Yeah, 100%.
- 36:22SPEAKER_00: And as we start to finish our time together,
- 36:23SPEAKER_00: Chris,
- 36:24SPEAKER_00: I asked the guests that come on the show,
- 36:25SPEAKER_00: if you could heal or change something in the world,
- 36:28SPEAKER_00: what would it be?
- 36:29I think the thing I changed in the world is the thing that
- 36:32actually came about with
- 36:32SPEAKER_01: social media.
- 36:33SPEAKER_01: We are so now externally focused around
- 36:35SPEAKER_01: Likes, public acceptance, being seen, being influenced, whatever.
- 36:39If we could just get back to people just trying to be authentic
- 36:42selves and you see
- 36:43them when you come across artists or speakers or novelists or
- 36:47people in creative
- 36:48SPEAKER_01: professions where they're incredibly authentic.
- 36:50like Banksy or like a wedding dress designer whose name you
- 36:53don't know but you know
- 36:54her work they just do what they do they don't give us a damn
- 36:57about what everyone
- 36:58else thinks they're just being authentic I think I'm starting
- 37:01to see over the last
- 37:02decade we've lost authenticity so when you see people who are
- 37:05truly authentic like
- 37:06Greta Thunberg she's polarizing but she's a passionate young
- 37:09person who's actually
- 37:10moved the needle right she doesn't care about popularity and
- 37:13obviously that's maybe
- 37:14part of her mechanic as well too I think we need to return to
- 37:17authenticity return
- 37:18SPEAKER_00: to ourselves Be unapologetically you
- 37:20SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's beautiful.
- 37:21SPEAKER_01: I'm going to claim that.
- 37:22SPEAKER_01: I said that first.
- 37:23SPEAKER_01: Hashtag.
- 37:25SPEAKER_00: Let's see how many likes or followers you get.
- 37:30SPEAKER_00: Thank you, Chris.
- 37:31And if people want to come and check out the platforms that
- 37:33you're building or come
- 37:34SPEAKER_00: follow your work,
- 37:35SPEAKER_00: where's the best place they can go?
- 37:36If you look up Chris Reese on LinkedIn,
- 37:38you'll be able to see pretty much everything.
- 37:39SPEAKER_01: It's the only social platform I'm on.
- 37:41SPEAKER_01: We break news as we're doing new stuff.
- 37:43SPEAKER_01: So yeah, just Chris, R-H-Y-S-S on LinkedIn.
- 37:46SPEAKER_01: You'll find my whole name there and yeah, you can follow me from there.
- 37:48Amazing I'll put those details in the show notes for everyone
- 37:51too well I hope for
- 37:53everyone listening you have some insight into the AI doesn't
- 37:57have to be as scary as
- 37:58SPEAKER_00: we think it is but also to
- 38:00I guess use your own discernment through all of that you know
- 38:03check in with other
- 38:03sources around you check in with the bigger things but it can
- 38:07also be a powerful
- 38:07tool if you choose to use it correctly so a big thank you Chris
- 38:11for sharing your
- 38:12knowledge and your journey and then for anyone listening if you
- 38:16enjoyed this please
- 38:17feel free to like lol but like share or subscribe and if you
- 38:22have someone that this
- 38:23conversation might resonate with feel free to direct them to
- 38:26here or to Chris's
- 38:27SPEAKER_00: work because it's always nice when
- 38:29you share something that you feel someone else might resonate
- 38:31with too so a big
- 38:33thank you again Chris for being on the show and thank you to
- 38:35everyone for listening
- 38:36thank you for having me hey beautiful souls I wanted to have a
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