Latest / Legacy Living with Dr. Gloria Burgess / Create Your Life | Episode #454
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- 0:21Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to today's show, Legacy Living, Make Your
- 0:27Speaker 1: Life Count. I'm your host, doctor Gloria. Gloria Burgess, international
- 0:34Speaker 1: leadership expert and trusted advisor. Welcome to Legacy Living, Make
- 0:42Speaker 1: your Life Count. I am so delighted that you join
- 0:47Speaker 1: me today. Our topic is sewing and reaping. So what
- 0:53Speaker 1: do we mean by sewing and reaping, Well, it means
- 0:57Speaker 1: a lot of different things, but today I want to
- 1:00Speaker 1: focus on this one in particular, what we sow we
- 1:05Speaker 1: will reap. Now, most of us have heard something like
- 1:10Speaker 1: this before, right, we reap what we sow. What we sow,
- 1:16Speaker 1: we will reap.
- 1:17Speaker 2: So what's my point.
- 1:19Speaker 1: It's very simple. Be careful, be very very careful and
- 1:25Speaker 1: mindful about what you sow, because whatever seeds we sow,
- 1:30Speaker 1: whatever seeds we plant, whatever seeds we cast into the wind,
- 1:36Speaker 1: we will reap the harvest of those seeds, those ideas,
- 1:41Speaker 1: those thoughts that come into our consciousness and that flow
- 1:46Speaker 1: out of our mouth. Now, I'll share more about sowing
- 1:51Speaker 1: and reaping in just a few moments. Right now, I
- 1:54Speaker 1: want to take just a moment to welcome you. If
- 1:57Speaker 1: you're just joining us. I'm your host, doctor Gloria Gloria
- 2:02Speaker 1: Burgess and this is legacy living make your life count.
- 2:06Speaker 1: I want to extend a very special welcome to those
- 2:09Speaker 1: of you who are joining Talk Network Radio for the
- 2:13Speaker 1: very first time. You are in for a real treat.
- 2:17Speaker 1: I'm excited to have you listening in today, and I'm
- 2:21Speaker 1: deeply honored that you've allowed me to be part of
- 2:24Speaker 1: your day so you can be inspired by ideas and
- 2:28Speaker 1: resources to make your life count. Now, today's program is
- 2:34Speaker 1: all about sowing and reaping, and what a perfect topic
- 2:39Speaker 1: for today where I live. Gardeners who want to have
- 2:43Speaker 1: anything to harvest must.
- 2:45Speaker 2: Be very deliberate, very.
- 2:48Speaker 1: Intentional about planting seeds at just the right time so
- 2:53Speaker 1: those seeds will germinate and grow. Now, in my family,
- 3:00Speaker 1: my parents taught me and my sisters to be grateful
- 3:04Speaker 1: for the presence, just the simple presence of family. In fact,
- 3:10Speaker 1: we thought of family members as a present, as a gift. Now,
- 3:16Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, we certainly had our differences. I mean,
- 3:20Speaker 1: what family doesn't right, But when we gathered together as
- 3:24Speaker 1: a family, we set our differences aside. I'm so grateful
- 3:30Speaker 1: that my family had great spiritual wealth. We didn't have
- 3:34Speaker 1: much money, but we had a whole lot of honey
- 3:38Speaker 1: for one another. So when we gathered around the table
- 3:41Speaker 1: for our family meal, we rejoiced in one another. We
- 3:46Speaker 1: rejoiced by counting our blessings, and we rejoiced in God,
- 3:51Speaker 1: of course, the provider.
- 3:54Speaker 2: Of all of our blessings.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Just like most things in life, it's important to understand
- 4:02Speaker 1: what sewing and reaping is all about. It's important to
- 4:06Speaker 1: understand what it is and why it's significant, especially in
- 4:12Speaker 1: our gotta have it right here, right now culture.
- 4:15Speaker 2: Today, we are.
- 4:16Speaker 1: So accustomed, so used to instant. Right, we have to
- 4:21Speaker 1: have everything immediately in an instant. We have instant coffee,
- 4:26Speaker 1: instant tea, instant soup, instant meals for all kinds of food.
- 4:32Speaker 2: Right.
- 4:33Speaker 1: You can even order pre order your fast food so
- 4:37Speaker 1: it's hot, ready waiting and paid for so you can
- 4:40Speaker 1: make it instant get away. We have same day delivery,
- 4:45Speaker 1: so you no longer have to wait for several days
- 4:47Speaker 1: for standard shipping.
- 4:49Speaker 2: We have instant.
- 4:50Speaker 1: Communication, so what you say to a friend or an
- 4:54Speaker 1: audience can be streamed live. Everybody has something something that
- 5:02Speaker 1: they desire, a dream, a project, a goal. Everybody has
- 5:07Speaker 1: something that they want. We all do, So what do
- 5:10Speaker 1: you want. Do you want a new job, a new career,
- 5:16Speaker 1: better health, more money, more friends.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Perhaps you want to change your friends.
- 5:21Speaker 1: Change who you spend your valuable time with. Maybe you
- 5:25Speaker 1: want a better relationship with your husband or wife, or parents,
- 5:28Speaker 1: or sister or brother. Or maybe you haven't seen a
- 5:32Speaker 1: friend in a long long time and you want to
- 5:35Speaker 1: reach out to them. Maybe you want a new car,
- 5:39Speaker 1: or a new apartment or a new home. Maybe your
- 5:42Speaker 1: kids are grown up and you want to move into
- 5:45Speaker 1: a smaller home. Or perhaps you have several small children
- 5:49Speaker 1: and you simply want peace of mind, a few hours
- 5:52Speaker 1: a day that you can call your own, a few
- 5:55Speaker 1: hours a week where you.
- 5:57Speaker 2: Can have an adult conversation. Now, what I'm sharing with you.
- 6:02Speaker 1: Today is about sowing and reaping, and what I'm sharing
- 6:08Speaker 1: will help you understand how to get whatever you happen
- 6:11Speaker 1: to want in your life. So, whatever it is you want,
- 6:15Speaker 1: it will help you get from where you are now
- 6:18Speaker 1: point A, to where you want to go point B.
- 6:22Speaker 1: In other words, it will help you get from here
- 6:27Speaker 1: to there. Sewing and reaping, you reap what you sow,
- 6:35Speaker 1: You get out whatever you put in. Now, you invest
- 6:40Speaker 1: so you can earn, You study so you can learn,
- 6:45Speaker 1: you manifest the fruits of your labors. You plant trees today,
- 6:54Speaker 1: so you will have shade tomorrow. However you say it,
- 6:58Speaker 1: however you express it. This is what we call sewing
- 7:03Speaker 1: and reaping. Now, did you know that today is the
- 7:08Speaker 1: mother of tomorrow? Yes, let me say that again. Today
- 7:13Speaker 1: is the mother of tomorrow. In other words, what we
- 7:17Speaker 1: think about today, we will give birth to tomorrow, or
- 7:22Speaker 1: next week, or next month, or next year or maybe
- 7:25Speaker 1: two or five years down the road. How we live
- 7:30Speaker 1: today shapes our tomorrow. How we live our life is
- 7:35Speaker 1: called personal leadership. Now, if you've been listening to my podcast,
- 7:40Speaker 1: or if you've heard me speak before, maybe give a
- 7:43Speaker 1: keynote or teach or whatever. Maybe you've read one of
- 7:46Speaker 1: my books or taken one of my courses, you've heard
- 7:48Speaker 1: me say this before. Personal leadership is all about the
- 7:53Speaker 1: choices and decisions you make about your life. Personal leadership
- 7:59Speaker 1: is about the choices and decisions you make about everything. Right,
- 8:05Speaker 1: So here's what I know. You are what you eat.
- 8:10Speaker 1: That's right, You are what you eat. And this applies
- 8:14Speaker 1: not only to your physical health, right, it also applies
- 8:18Speaker 1: to your choices and decisions. So again, choose and decide wisely,
- 8:27Speaker 1: did you know that you are the sum total of
- 8:31Speaker 1: what you consume and the people that you hang out with,
- 8:35Speaker 1: the people you interact with, the people you spend time with.
- 8:39Speaker 1: So again, be mindful, be thoughtful, be choiceful about who
- 8:44Speaker 1: and what you listen to, about the books and magazines
- 8:47Speaker 1: you read, About what you watch on TV or on
- 8:51Speaker 1: the internet or in the movies. Right, be mindful and
- 8:55Speaker 1: thoughtful and choiceful about the images and photographs that you
- 9:00Speaker 1: have in your home and your office, and about what
- 9:04Speaker 1: you post on Facebook or Twitter or Instagram or TikTok,
- 9:08Speaker 1: right about who and what you allow people to post
- 9:13Speaker 1: on your timeline. Be mindful, be thoughtful, and be choiceful
- 9:20Speaker 1: about who you spend time with in your personal and
- 9:24Speaker 1: your professional life. Who you are in your daily life
- 9:30Speaker 1: informs and shapes you as a leader more than any
- 9:36Speaker 1: other single factor. Now why is that Because how you
- 9:41Speaker 1: live is how you lead. How you live is actually
- 9:46Speaker 1: how you do everything, lead, parent, work, community, service, your
- 9:52Speaker 1: interactions with family and friends, everything. Now, who you are
- 9:57Speaker 1: is comprised of your values, attitudes, and beliefs. Your values, attitudes,
- 10:05Speaker 1: and beliefs shape your character, and your character drives your choices,
- 10:11Speaker 1: affecting who and what you allow into your field of attention.
- 10:19Speaker 1: Your values, attitudes, and beliefs also shape how you lead,
- 10:24Speaker 1: not to mention who will follow you, or who will
- 10:28Speaker 1: want to reach out to you or to collaborate with you.
- 10:33Speaker 1: Sewing and reaping, It's all about the seeds we sow,
- 10:40Speaker 1: because what we sow is what we will harvest. Author
- 10:46Speaker 1: Annie Dillard reminds us how we spend our days is
- 10:53Speaker 1: how we spend our lives. My friend and mentor John
- 10:58Speaker 1: Maxwell says it this way. Today matters.
- 11:03Speaker 2: You got that.
- 11:04Speaker 1: If not, I'll say it again. Grab something to write
- 11:07Speaker 1: with and be sure to write this down. Today matters.
- 11:12Speaker 1: Two words, two very simple words. Today matters. Those two
- 11:18Speaker 1: simple words are powerful words. They are mighty words. I
- 11:24Speaker 1: love them. Today matters because when you think about it,
- 11:29Speaker 1: that's really what legacy living is all about. It's about
- 11:34Speaker 1: living with purpose and intention today so that you have
- 11:40Speaker 1: authority over tomorrow. If you want something to happen in
- 11:45Speaker 1: your life, you must give out something today. You must
- 11:50Speaker 1: put something out there right. You must sow and plant
- 11:54Speaker 1: seeds today. If you want to go to college, to
- 11:57Speaker 1: build a business, to have better relationships, better health, to
- 12:01Speaker 1: have children who grow up to be caring, compassionate, responsible citizens.
- 12:08Speaker 1: To have what we want tomorrow, we must be purposeful
- 12:14Speaker 1: and intentional about sowing the seeds today so we can
- 12:20Speaker 1: reap the harvest of our efforts tomorrow. What we sew
- 12:27Speaker 1: we will reap. Living with purpose and intention today assures
- 12:33Speaker 1: us that we will have authority and dominion over tomorrow.
- 12:41Speaker 1: Who and what we are today is the direct result
- 12:45Speaker 1: of who we have been spending time with, what we've
- 12:48Speaker 1: been reading, the images that we've allowed into our consciousness,
- 12:52Speaker 1: what we've been thinking, what we've been consuming, eating and drinking,
- 12:57Speaker 1: and paying attention to, even the those people, those opportunities
- 13:02Speaker 1: we have neglected.
- 13:04Speaker 2: All of the people.
- 13:05Speaker 1: In things and events that we have allowed into our
- 13:07Speaker 1: life have shaped us. They have formed us into who
- 13:12Speaker 1: we are today. If we've made wise choices, wise decisions,
- 13:18Speaker 1: lived wisely yesterday, we will reap the fruits of yesterday's
- 13:24Speaker 1: labors today, and we will harvest that wisdom to make
- 13:29Speaker 1: wise choices and decisions today and in the future. If,
- 13:36Speaker 1: for instance, we have invested wisely in our health, our relationships,
- 13:41Speaker 1: our finances.
- 13:42Speaker 2: We will see the fruits.
- 13:44Speaker 1: We will see the benefits the results of those investments
- 13:47Speaker 1: today and for months and years to come.
- 13:52Speaker 2: How will we know.
- 13:54Speaker 1: Well, we will have strong bodies, solid relationships, and a
- 14:00Speaker 1: strong sure financial footing, just like the story about the
- 14:06Speaker 1: ant and the grasshopper. The folks who invest wisely today
- 14:10Speaker 1: will have plenty tomorrow, just like the industrious ant. But
- 14:16Speaker 1: if you're careless, if you are reckless, if you are
- 14:19Speaker 1: a spendthrift, if you spend everything you have today, or
- 14:23Speaker 1: if you're idle and don't do any work, if you
- 14:26Speaker 1: don't do anything to store up for the months ahead,
- 14:29Speaker 1: you will come up short. Just like the grasshopper. You
- 14:34Speaker 1: will have little or nothing in the future. Why, because
- 14:39Speaker 1: you reap what you sew.
- 14:41Speaker 2: If you sew nothing, you will have nothing to reap.
- 14:46Speaker 1: If we do as little as we possibly can to
- 14:50Speaker 1: get by, or if we do nothing at all, guess
- 14:53Speaker 1: what When tomorrow comes, and it will come, we will
- 14:57Speaker 1: have little or nothing because we have made the choice.
- 15:01Speaker 1: We have decided not to sew. Therefore we will have
- 15:07Speaker 1: nothing to reap. The law of sowing and reaping applies
- 15:15Speaker 1: to so many areas of our lives, doesn't it It
- 15:20Speaker 1: applies to ourselves. Maybe you're developing a new skill, or
- 15:25Speaker 1: new knowledge or new awareness. Maybe you're focused on improving
- 15:30Speaker 1: some aspect of your life, your fitness, your finances.
- 15:34Speaker 2: Your marriage. It applies to our.
- 15:37Speaker 1: Relationships, our relationships with everyone, our spouse, our sisters, our brothers,
- 15:44Speaker 1: our parents. Or perhaps you know you're raising young children,
- 15:50Speaker 1: or perhaps your children are now grown and you have
- 15:53Speaker 1: an empty house or an empty nest. Sowing and reaping
- 15:58Speaker 1: applies not only to ourselves and our family life. It
- 16:02Speaker 1: also applies to our work, to our teams, our staff,
- 16:06Speaker 1: our boss, our board, our organization. Whether you're working as
- 16:11Speaker 1: an entrepreneur like me, or you work for a corporation,
- 16:14Speaker 1: a nonprofit, the government, an ngo, a school, a church.
- 16:21Speaker 1: Maybe you're a project manager, maybe you plan events, conferences, programs.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Or perhaps you work in healthcare as a doctor or
- 16:31Speaker 1: nurse or a physician's assistant. Maybe you're planning a garden
- 16:37Speaker 1: or building a home, or planning a wedding or a
- 16:40Speaker 1: bar mitzvah, or maybe you're planning a meal for your family.
- 16:45Speaker 1: The law of sewing and reaping applies.
- 16:50Speaker 2: Now.
- 16:51Speaker 1: I want to take a closer look at sewing and reaping.
- 16:56Speaker 1: There's actually a law about reaping, that's right, a law
- 17:01Speaker 1: just about the harvest. This law is all about actions
- 17:07Speaker 1: and consequences. This law says you harvest what you sew.
- 17:15Speaker 1: It also says you harvest what you sow in kind.
- 17:21Speaker 1: And this law also says you harvest more than you sow.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Okay.
- 17:29Speaker 1: So that's what the law of the harvest says. Again,
- 17:33Speaker 1: this law is about actions and consequences, about cause and effect.
- 17:39Speaker 1: In fact, some folks refer to the law of the
- 17:43Speaker 1: reaping the law of the harvest as the law of
- 17:46Speaker 1: cause and effect. But I like the law of the
- 17:49Speaker 1: harvest because that's from God, and I'm going to use
- 17:53Speaker 1: the language from his word, which is all about harvest. Now,
- 17:58Speaker 1: there are lots of interpretations, both negative and positive interpretations
- 18:03Speaker 1: of this law, so I'm going to focus on the positive, okay.
- 18:08Speaker 1: So today will shine the light on the positive interpretations
- 18:13Speaker 1: of this important law. This law says that no matter
- 18:18Speaker 1: where you live, if you plant seeds in good soil,
- 18:22Speaker 1: and if you tend to those seeds with loving care,
- 18:26Speaker 1: you can and will have a harvest. But what kind
- 18:33Speaker 1: of harvest? Well, that's the question, isn't it. As I
- 18:36Speaker 1: mentioned earlier, the law of the harvest says these three things. Now,
- 18:41Speaker 1: they sound similar, but they're very different. Okay, So write
- 18:45Speaker 1: these down, and then I'm going to say I'm a
- 18:47Speaker 1: little bit more about each one of them. The first
- 18:50Speaker 1: thing this law says is you harvest what you sew.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Number two, you harvest what you sew in kind. And
- 19:00Speaker 1: then number three, you harvest more than you sew. So
- 19:07Speaker 1: let's look at each of these parts of the law.
- 19:13Speaker 1: First of all, you harvest what you sew. Now, this
- 19:15Speaker 1: part of the law says that whatever you plant, okay,
- 19:19Speaker 1: whatever you put in the ground, whatever you water and nurture,
- 19:23Speaker 1: whatever you put out there into the world in terms
- 19:26Speaker 1: of your ideas, your books, your teachings, your whatever that
- 19:31Speaker 1: happens to be right, building a team, Okay, all of
- 19:36Speaker 1: those things that you put out there come back to you.
- 19:40Speaker 1: So this is a very basic understanding, a very basic
- 19:44Speaker 1: aspect of the law. The second aspect of the law
- 19:51Speaker 1: is you harvest what you sew in kind.
- 19:56Speaker 2: Okay.
- 19:56Speaker 1: Now, this part of the law is more specific. So
- 20:01Speaker 1: the first part says that what you plant will come
- 20:04Speaker 1: back to you. This part of the law says that
- 20:08Speaker 1: not only will it come back to you, but what
- 20:11Speaker 1: you sew, what you plant, what you put out there,
- 20:14Speaker 1: will come back to you in kind. This simply means
- 20:19Speaker 1: that if you want to harvest potatoes, then you plant
- 20:24Speaker 1: potato seeds.
- 20:26Speaker 2: Right.
- 20:26Speaker 1: If you want to harvest pumpkins, then you have to
- 20:29Speaker 1: plant pumpkin seeds. If you want love, then you sow
- 20:33Speaker 1: the seeds of love. You offer someone a hand, you
- 20:39Speaker 1: offer someone the encouragement of your warm smile, or words
- 20:45Speaker 1: of edification and upliftment and encouragement. What you put out
- 20:50Speaker 1: into the world will come back to you. What you
- 20:53Speaker 1: say to a coworker or your child or a team member,
- 20:57Speaker 1: or your parent or a friend or a name will
- 21:00Speaker 1: come back to you in kind. So you must be deliberate, thoughtful,
- 21:06Speaker 1: and intentional about what you put out there because the
- 21:11Speaker 1: essence of what you sew will definitely come back to you. Now,
- 21:18Speaker 1: listen to me very closely. I want you to hear this.
- 21:24Speaker 1: What you put out to a particular person may not
- 21:30Speaker 1: come back to you from that person. In fact, it
- 21:34Speaker 1: is very likely to come from or through somebody else. Right,
- 21:40Speaker 1: And what you put out there may not come back
- 21:42Speaker 1: to you today or tomorrow, or the next day, or
- 21:47Speaker 1: whenever you might be expecting it. But let me tell
- 21:50Speaker 1: you it will come back. It will come back to
- 21:54Speaker 1: you in some future time, some future moment, perhaps from
- 21:59Speaker 1: a total stranger. And when that harvest of what you
- 22:04Speaker 1: put out does come in, because it will come, it
- 22:08Speaker 1: will come back to you in kind. Okay, So the
- 22:13Speaker 1: essence will come back to you. And the key is
- 22:18Speaker 1: to be in tensional. Now, the third aspect of this
- 22:26Speaker 1: law is that you harvest more than you sow. This
- 22:32Speaker 1: means that your harvest will yield a bigger crop than
- 22:36Speaker 1: the number of seeds that you plant.
- 22:39Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna repeat that.
- 22:42Speaker 1: This means that your harvest will yield a bigger crop
- 22:48Speaker 1: than the actual number of seeds you plant, the actual
- 22:52Speaker 1: number of ideas or words or resources that you sow.
- 22:57Speaker 1: For example, if I plan a carrot seed, right, just
- 23:03Speaker 1: one little seed, I won't just reap a single carrot, right,
- 23:09Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a harvest of a whole bunch of
- 23:12Speaker 1: carrots from one tiny little seeds. Now, who knows how
- 23:17Speaker 1: many carrots will be in that bunch, but we know
- 23:20Speaker 1: it will be much more than a single carrot.
- 23:23Speaker 2: Right.
- 23:24Speaker 1: If I plant an avocado seed in the right soil
- 23:28Speaker 1: with the right conditions, and I nurture that avocado seed,
- 23:34Speaker 1: or somebody comes behind me and nurtures that seed. Guess what,
- 23:38Speaker 1: that one avocado seed will grow into an avocado tree,
- 23:44Speaker 1: a tree, and the yield, the production of that avocado
- 23:49Speaker 1: tree will be much much more than a single avocado seed.
- 23:54Speaker 2: Okay, the seed that I plant it.
- 23:56Speaker 1: Now, this is the basic concept in my work with
- 23:59Speaker 1: leaders when I sew into them. When I sow into leaders,
- 24:05Speaker 1: I'm also sowing into people who sow into other leaders
- 24:09Speaker 1: around them. Okay, so that my sowing reaps a harvest
- 24:14Speaker 1: in the tens or scores or hundreds or thousands of
- 24:19Speaker 1: other leaders that will be impacted. All right, So let's
- 24:26Speaker 1: talk about timing. We reap the harvest of what we
- 24:31Speaker 1: sow in a different season at a different time, in
- 24:35Speaker 1: other words, right than we actually sow in. Other words,
- 24:40Speaker 1: if we sow in one season at one time of
- 24:43Speaker 1: the year, we will harvest in another season. Sometimes the
- 24:48Speaker 1: period between sowing and reaping is huge.
- 24:52Speaker 2: It's immense.
- 24:54Speaker 1: Sometimes it's very very long. Sometimes it's not so long
- 24:58Speaker 1: at all. As my favorite book tells us, there is
- 25:02Speaker 1: a time for everything, and a season for every activity
- 25:09Speaker 1: under the heavens. A time to be born and a
- 25:14Speaker 1: time to die, a time to plant and a time
- 25:17Speaker 1: to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal,
- 25:21Speaker 1: a time to tear down and a time to build,
- 25:26Speaker 1: a time to weep and a time to laugh.
- 25:32Speaker 2: So much more.
- 25:34Speaker 1: I just love this passage from Ecclesiastes. What Solomon is
- 25:41Speaker 1: saying to us is that for everything and anything you
- 25:44Speaker 1: can possibly imagine, that you can possibly think of and
- 25:49Speaker 1: do in your life, there is a time for it.
- 25:54Speaker 2: Right.
- 25:57Speaker 1: Farmers know this, gardeners know this, Politicians know this, actors
- 26:04Speaker 1: know this, doctors know this, teachers know this, parents know this,
- 26:09Speaker 1: children know this.
- 26:11Speaker 2: Leaders know this.
- 26:13Speaker 1: Everything has its own time, and everything has its own
- 26:18Speaker 1: timing or season. So what we sow in one season,
- 26:24Speaker 1: we will reap the harvest of that sewing in another season.
- 26:30Speaker 1: Years ago, when I was first starting out in my
- 26:33Speaker 1: career in IT, I was a project manager and I
- 26:37Speaker 1: loved my work.
- 26:38Speaker 2: I think I.
- 26:39Speaker 1: Really loved being in charge of people. I just like
- 26:42Speaker 1: being in charge. Let's just be clear. So I loved
- 26:45Speaker 1: being in charge of people, the process, and I love
- 26:49Speaker 1: saying no to the engineers who wanted to add just
- 26:53Speaker 1: one more feature to the product.
- 26:55Speaker 2: Right.
- 26:56Speaker 1: Of course, they would always say, we can do this, right,
- 26:59Speaker 1: we just need to add a few more people to
- 27:01Speaker 1: your team to get it done, or maybe we can
- 27:04Speaker 1: increase your budget, give you more money so you can
- 27:06Speaker 1: pay the people you already have more, or maybe we
- 27:10Speaker 1: can just buy you.
- 27:11Speaker 2: More equipment or whatever.
- 27:13Speaker 1: Right, And I would commonly listen to their request, then,
- 27:17Speaker 1: just as calmly point out that more people would actually
- 27:21Speaker 1: add more time because the learning curve was way too steep, Right,
- 27:27Speaker 1: And I'd also point out that more money for the
- 27:30Speaker 1: people already on the team was not the answer. Most
- 27:33Speaker 1: people who work in it are not motivated by money.
- 27:37Speaker 1: I mean, we like money, but we're not motivated by money.
- 27:41Speaker 1: They're motivated by more interior things like solving complex problems.
- 27:46Speaker 2: Right.
- 27:47Speaker 1: So I would ultimately pull out my ACE card, Right,
- 27:52Speaker 1: and I'd simply say something like, you know, no matter
- 27:55Speaker 1: how much money or people or equipment this meant you add,
- 28:01Speaker 1: it still will take nine months to have that baby, right, Okay,
- 28:08Speaker 1: to produce that product in this case or service or
- 28:11Speaker 1: whatever we were working on now. To manifest anything requires
- 28:15Speaker 1: time and timing. You sow in one season, you reap
- 28:22Speaker 1: in a different season. And that's so true in any
- 28:26Speaker 1: aspect of our lives. Dancing visionary and pioneer Martha Graham
- 28:33Speaker 1: likens dancing to the art of living, and both, she
- 28:37Speaker 1: says require years of practice and development. In her autobiography
- 28:44Speaker 1: Blood Memory, Graham points out that we learn to dance
- 28:49Speaker 1: by practicing dancing, and we learn to live by practicing living.
- 28:57Speaker 1: She says, in dancing and in living, the principles are
- 29:02Speaker 1: the same. Each is the performance of a dedicated, precise
- 29:08Speaker 1: set of acts, physical or intellectual, from which comes the
- 29:13Speaker 1: shape of achievement, the sense of one's being, the satisfaction
- 29:19Speaker 1: of spirit.
- 29:22Speaker 2: You know what.
- 29:24Speaker 1: For dancing and for living, we learn what we need
- 29:28Speaker 1: to know through practice, which requires thousands upon thousands of repetitions.
- 29:37Speaker 1: In fact, the thousands of repetitions are the seeds we
- 29:43Speaker 1: sew to reap the harvest of becoming a dancer. In
- 29:50Speaker 1: daily living, you learn and master walking, talking, and feeding
- 29:54Speaker 1: yourself over several years of practice. Right, I mean you
- 29:59Speaker 1: learn to by practicing the basics, first learning to crawl
- 30:04Speaker 1: or scoot right, and then pushing and pulling into the
- 30:08Speaker 1: vertical realm to grasp the eager at encouraging hands of
- 30:13Speaker 1: your parents, or your sisters, or your brother, or a table,
- 30:17Speaker 1: leg or chair or anything else strong enough to give
- 30:21Speaker 1: you the confidence to begin again after the inevitable triumph
- 30:26Speaker 1: of gravity over your miniature yet ever aspiring body. Practice
- 30:33Speaker 1: is the act of doing something in some aspect of
- 30:37Speaker 1: our lives, over and over until the act becomes habit
- 30:43Speaker 1: or instinct, so customary, so usual, that it becomes integral,
- 30:51Speaker 1: integral to your way of doing whatever you're practicing, and
- 30:55Speaker 1: then integral to your way of being, inextricably connecting what
- 31:02Speaker 1: you do with who you are. I was just having
- 31:08Speaker 1: a conversation the other day with a friend and she said,
- 31:11Speaker 1: you know, Gloria, in your writing, you write a lot
- 31:14Speaker 1: about gratitude and faithfulness, right, and integrity and creative action
- 31:21Speaker 1: and love and vision, And those are the same things
- 31:27Speaker 1: we're talking about in terms of practice. Right, we get
- 31:32Speaker 1: good at gratitude, We get really good, okay, at loving,
- 31:37Speaker 1: We get really really good at being a person of
- 31:41Speaker 1: integrity by practicing. Now, dancers learn to dance by practicing
- 31:48Speaker 1: the fundamentals of their craft over and over and over
- 31:52Speaker 1: again until they can move on to intermediate.
- 31:56Speaker 2: And advanced levels.
- 31:58Speaker 1: Their training is to designed to build strength and shape
- 32:02Speaker 1: and hone their bodies, musculature, their reflexes, and memory. I
- 32:09Speaker 1: remember because I was a dancer. Now, I didn't train
- 32:14Speaker 1: rigorously until I was in junior high school. And I'm
- 32:18Speaker 1: telling you, you have to pound a lot of floors.
- 32:21Speaker 1: You have to plant a lot of seeds to become
- 32:24Speaker 1: a real dancer. Graham estimates that making a mature dancer
- 32:30Speaker 1: takes about ten years. This span of a decade in
- 32:36Speaker 1: the dancer's training is analogous to the formative years of
- 32:41Speaker 1: your life, when you learn the fundamental tasks and assignments
- 32:44Speaker 1: of living right, the basic arts of relationship, nourishment, mobility,
- 32:50Speaker 1: and possibility. As Graham reminds us, it is no small
- 32:56Speaker 1: wonder that dance holds an age allure, for she says,
- 33:02Speaker 1: it has been the symbol of the performance of living.
- 33:10Speaker 2: I love that in your life's.
- 33:13Speaker 1: Journey or your life's performance, some of the most important
- 33:17Speaker 1: questions that you grapple with may be questions about your
- 33:20Speaker 1: performance in whatever sphere of life that holds the most
- 33:25Speaker 1: prominence for you at the time. It could be questions
- 33:28Speaker 1: about your work life, your family life, your faith life.
- 33:33Speaker 1: It could be questions about your children, your health, your finances.
- 33:39Speaker 1: Host these questions, looking through the lens of the law
- 33:43Speaker 1: of harvest, host the questions as you would host a
- 33:48Speaker 1: special guest in your home, pay attention but avoid hovering
- 33:54Speaker 1: over them. Consider what you would like for your harvest
- 34:00Speaker 1: to be. Then think about and be intentional about what
- 34:04Speaker 1: seeds you plant, not just here and there, not just
- 34:09Speaker 1: with some things in your life, but with everything.
- 34:12Speaker 2: In your life.
- 34:14Speaker 1: So ask yourself, what do I want? What do I
- 34:18Speaker 1: want in my life? A new job, better health, more money,
- 34:22Speaker 1: more friends, children who are loving and kind, or maybe
- 34:26Speaker 1: for yourself, you want to be more generous or more grateful.
- 34:29Speaker 1: Maybe you want to lose weiter, have a better relationship
- 34:34Speaker 1: okay with people on your team, people in your household.
- 34:38Speaker 2: Or maybe you want to reach out to your.
- 34:41Speaker 1: Dad who you haven't seen or spoken to in twenty years.
- 34:46Speaker 1: Maybe you want to learn a new skill or a
- 34:48Speaker 1: new language. Maybe you have several small children under the
- 34:54Speaker 1: age of seven, and you simply want a quiet day,
- 34:58Speaker 1: a quiet afternoon. Hey, just a few hours that you
- 35:01Speaker 1: can call your own, A few hours a week where
- 35:05Speaker 1: you can have an adult conversation. What I'm sharing with
- 35:11Speaker 1: you today about the law of the harvest will help
- 35:15Speaker 1: you understand how to get whatever you want.
- 35:18Speaker 2: In your life. Again, if you want to get from point.
- 35:21Speaker 1: A to point B. It will help you get from
- 35:25Speaker 1: wherever you are now to where you want to be.
- 35:29Speaker 1: If you want any of those things that I just mentioned,
- 35:32Speaker 1: remember that what you want does not just happen overnight.
- 35:37Speaker 1: If you want a deep friendship, you've.
- 35:39Speaker 2: Got to sew into that relationship. Right.
- 35:42Speaker 1: If you want to lose twenty pounds to fit into
- 35:44Speaker 1: that suit or tuxedo or your beautiful dress for that
- 35:48Speaker 1: special party, you've got to change your eating habits today,
- 35:52Speaker 1: probably yesterday for most of us. Right, you've got to
- 35:55Speaker 1: start walking or jogging or running or swimming or you know,
- 35:58Speaker 1: getting on your elliptical. Right. If you want to publish
- 36:02Speaker 1: a book twelve months from now, you've got to start
- 36:05Speaker 1: writing those pages today, and you got to keep at
- 36:08Speaker 1: it tomorrow and the day after and the day after that. Okay, again,
- 36:13Speaker 1: we're talking about sewing and reaping right now. Years ago
- 36:18Speaker 1: I read a book by Anne Lamont, one of my
- 36:20Speaker 1: favorite writers. The book is called Bird by Bird. I
- 36:24Speaker 1: pulled it off the shelf because I was intrigued by
- 36:26Speaker 1: the title. Now, the title actually comes from a story
- 36:30Speaker 1: about her younger brother. It seems that her younger brother
- 36:34Speaker 1: had a knack for procrastinating, for putting things off, especially
- 36:39Speaker 1: his homework. Her brother had an assignment to write a
- 36:42Speaker 1: paper about birds, and he put it off and put
- 36:45Speaker 1: it off until the day before the paper was due.
- 36:49Speaker 2: Yikes.
- 36:50Speaker 1: Well, now he was in a jam. So her little
- 36:53Speaker 1: brother asked their dad for help since he was kind
- 36:56Speaker 1: of short on time right now. Aware of his pre dicament,
- 37:00Speaker 1: the dad told the little boy that his homework.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Was his to do.
- 37:06Speaker 1: Well, the son pleaded with his dad and asked him
- 37:09Speaker 1: how he was ever going to complete his homework assignment
- 37:12Speaker 1: since it was already late and it was due the
- 37:15Speaker 1: next day. Well, the dad looked lovingly at his little
- 37:19Speaker 1: son and he said, son, you will write and complete
- 37:25Speaker 1: your paper, how.
- 37:28Speaker 2: Bird by bird. Now a lot of us are like that,
- 37:33Speaker 2: aren't we.
- 37:34Speaker 1: We want what we want, and we want it yesterday,
- 37:38Speaker 1: we want it overnight right, and oftentimes we want it
- 37:42Speaker 1: without having to put in a whole lot of work,
- 37:44Speaker 1: a whole lot of effort, and truth be told, sometimes
- 37:47Speaker 1: we want what we want with no effort at all
- 37:51Speaker 1: on our part. Now people come up to me all
- 37:54Speaker 1: the time and they say, you know, doctor Gloria, I want.
- 37:57Speaker 2: To do what you do.
- 37:57Speaker 1: I want to write a book, I want to tea
- 38:00Speaker 1: which I want to coach. Oh, I want to be
- 38:01Speaker 1: a speaker. I want to start my own business. Can
- 38:04Speaker 1: you just tell me how you did it? In other words,
- 38:08Speaker 1: they want what I have, but most of them don't
- 38:11Speaker 1: want to put in the time I put in to
- 38:14Speaker 1: get from here to there. They want the results, but
- 38:18Speaker 1: they don't want the work right. They want the harvest,
- 38:22Speaker 1: but they don't want to go through the process. They
- 38:27Speaker 1: don't want to do what's necessary in seeding and sewing
- 38:32Speaker 1: and watering and nurturing and turning over the soil and
- 38:38Speaker 1: going back again and checking and watering over and over again. Now,
- 38:45Speaker 1: how many of you know that if you want to
- 38:47Speaker 1: improve your serve in tennis, or your pitch and baseball,
- 38:53Speaker 1: or your golf swing, you cannot improve your game overnight.
- 38:58Speaker 2: Right.
- 38:58Speaker 1: If you have a two two point five grade point average,
- 39:02Speaker 1: you can't slough off all year long and then wait
- 39:05Speaker 1: until the very last week of school and write one
- 39:08Speaker 1: bang up paper to bump your GPA up to four
- 39:11Speaker 1: point zero.
- 39:12Speaker 2: Right.
- 39:13Speaker 1: If you want to fit into that lovely, you know
- 39:16Speaker 1: swimsuit you have when it's time to hit the beach,
- 39:20Speaker 1: you are going to have to begin to tone and
- 39:22Speaker 1: maybe shed a few pounds weeks, if not months, before
- 39:27Speaker 1: beach season arrives. Now, a lot of us love to
- 39:31Speaker 1: make New Year's resolutions, right, and most of us love
- 39:35Speaker 1: making those special promises. We all want to change our life,
- 39:38Speaker 1: or kick some kind of habit, or achieve some kind.
- 39:41Speaker 2: Of goal in our life.
- 39:44Speaker 1: Now, most of you know that New year's resolutions fizzle
- 39:47Speaker 1: out after about.
- 39:48Speaker 2: Three or four weeks.
- 39:50Speaker 1: Right, Why do we begin with a bang and end
- 39:54Speaker 1: with a bust? We begin with lots of gusto and
- 39:58Speaker 1: energy and effort. Then over time we lose sight of
- 40:00Speaker 1: our goal, we lose interest, or we don't see immediate results,
- 40:06Speaker 1: or something else comes along to compete for that time.
- 40:10Speaker 1: And gradually, bit by bit we began to slack off,
- 40:15Speaker 1: and before you know it, we aren't putting in the
- 40:18Speaker 1: time or the effort anymore. No effort, no results, right,
- 40:24Speaker 1: or we get results, but not the ones we want
- 40:27Speaker 1: right now. Health clubs know this better than anybody. They
- 40:30Speaker 1: get their biggest spike in sales right after the New year.
- 40:34Speaker 1: That's reaping. And guess what you are the harvest.
- 40:39Speaker 2: Now?
- 40:40Speaker 1: I sing in my church choir and to prepare for
- 40:43Speaker 1: special concerts like special holidays, you know, like Christmas, we
- 40:48Speaker 1: actually start preparing many many months in advance. I mean,
- 40:52Speaker 1: people come from miles around, those who go to the church,
- 40:55Speaker 1: those who don't go to the church. They love Christmas
- 40:59Speaker 1: and they love Christmas music. Some of these folks may
- 41:03Speaker 1: only come to church once a year just to hear
- 41:07Speaker 1: that beautiful Christmas music. Right, So the folks in our
- 41:11Speaker 1: worship ministry prepare our hearts out. The choir and the
- 41:15Speaker 1: orchestra begin preparing for these Christmas concerts before summer is
- 41:20Speaker 1: even over. And get this, the choir and orchestra directors
- 41:25Speaker 1: actually begin listening to new Christmas music way back in
- 41:28Speaker 1: the spring so that they can order music and be
- 41:31Speaker 1: ready to rehearse that music when late summer arrives, so
- 41:36Speaker 1: that when December comes, we can pour our hearts and
- 41:40Speaker 1: souls into singing and playing those exquisitely beautiful Christmas.
- 41:46Speaker 2: Songs that everybody loves to hear.
- 41:50Speaker 1: You reap what you sew. We all know the saying
- 41:56Speaker 1: that Rome wasn't built in a day, or big oaks
- 42:02Speaker 1: from little acorns, grow or train up your child in
- 42:07Speaker 1: the way he should grow, and when he is old,
- 42:10Speaker 1: he will not depart from it. However, you say it,
- 42:14Speaker 1: however you express it. Today is the mother of tomorrow,
- 42:19Speaker 1: and it's all about the law of the harvest. If
- 42:25Speaker 1: you've been listening to this podcast, or if you've heard
- 42:28Speaker 1: me speak before, or if you've read any of my
- 42:31Speaker 1: books or taken any of my courses, you've heard me
- 42:34Speaker 1: say this before. If you want authority over tomorrow, you
- 42:38Speaker 1: must live with intention today. Why what we think about
- 42:43Speaker 1: today we will give birth to tomorrow or next week,
- 42:48Speaker 1: or next month or next year. How we live today
- 42:53Speaker 1: shapes our tomorrow. So, as I mentioned earlier in the show,
- 42:59Speaker 1: be mind be thoughtful, Be choiceful about who and what
- 43:04Speaker 1: you listen to, about the books and magazines you read,
- 43:08Speaker 1: about what you watch on TV or the internet. Be mindful,
- 43:13Speaker 1: be thoughtful, Be choiceful about the images and photographs you
- 43:18Speaker 1: have in your home and in your office, and what
- 43:21Speaker 1: you post on Facebook and Twitter and Instagram, and about
- 43:27Speaker 1: what and who you allow to post on your timeline.
- 43:32Speaker 1: Be mindful, thoughtful, and choiceful about who you spend time
- 43:36Speaker 1: with in your personal and professional life, because who you
- 43:41Speaker 1: are in your daily life informs and shapes who you
- 43:45Speaker 1: are as a leader more than any other single factor.
- 43:50Speaker 1: How you live is how you lead. It's how you
- 43:54Speaker 1: do everything. So we are talking about the law the
- 43:59Speaker 1: harvest specifically, and sowing and reaping all right. So if
- 44:05Speaker 1: you want something to happen in your life, you must
- 44:07Speaker 1: give something today. You must sow and plant seeds today.
- 44:13Speaker 1: I want a beautiful backyard next spring, which means I
- 44:17Speaker 1: must prune my roses in early and late fall. It
- 44:21Speaker 1: also means in early spring I need to feed them
- 44:25Speaker 1: right so that they will come back more vibrant, more
- 44:29Speaker 1: robust than ever.
- 44:31Speaker 2: Right now.
- 44:32Speaker 1: If I want a beautiful yard next spring, I have
- 44:35Speaker 1: to rake and pick up the last of the fallen
- 44:38Speaker 1: leaves so that the plants beneath them won't be smothered
- 44:42Speaker 1: by the load. It means I have to put parts
- 44:44Speaker 1: of the garden to rest so that next spring, tender
- 44:48Speaker 1: shoots will push forth from the earth. Who we are
- 44:53Speaker 1: today is a result of tending to the garden of
- 44:59Speaker 1: who we are, of who we spend our time with,
- 45:06Speaker 1: what we spend our time reading, watching, eating, the images
- 45:12Speaker 1: that we allow into our consciousness, what we think right,
- 45:15Speaker 1: All the things and people that we've been paying attention to,
- 45:20Speaker 1: that we've been consuming and processing and metabolizing. We are
- 45:24Speaker 1: the result of the people and opportunities that we have
- 45:29Speaker 1: neglected as well. So all the people, all the things,
- 45:33Speaker 1: all the circumstances that we have allowed into our life
- 45:37Speaker 1: or not, all of those people, moments, events have shaped
- 45:43Speaker 1: us have formed us into who we are today. All right, Okay,
- 45:53Speaker 1: Our topic today has been sowing and reaping, and we
- 45:58Speaker 1: now know that anything you want to harvest, you must
- 46:02Speaker 1: be very intentional about planting seeds for that harvest at
- 46:07Speaker 1: the right time so that those seeds will germinate and grow.
- 46:14Speaker 1: Every day matters. So if you want to make a
- 46:19Speaker 1: difference in your life, remember this. How you live is
- 46:24Speaker 1: how you lead. And be sure to listen to this
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- 48:36Speaker 1: Legacy Living is all about, not just living and learning,
- 48:40Speaker 1: but living and learning and serving so that you make
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- 48:47Speaker 1: of others. It's about being on purpose every single day.
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- 49:24Speaker 1: Make your life count. Don't just count the days in
- 49:29Speaker 1: your life. Make the days in your life count. That's
- 49:34Speaker 1: what legacy living is all about. Have a fantastic day,
- 49:39Speaker 1: and remember make the days of your life count. God
- 49:45Speaker 1: bless that's our show today. I'm your host, doctor Gloria
- 50:03Speaker 1: Gloria Burgess. I hope you'll join me again next time.
- 50:08Speaker 1: Until then, don't just count the days in your life.
- 50:12Speaker 1: Make the days in your life count. That's what legacy
- 50:16Speaker 1: living is all about. Here's to you have a fantastic
- 50:21Speaker 1: day and be sure to make it a yes kind
- 50:24Speaker 1: of day. Remember to celebrate the music of your life.
- 50:32Speaker 1: Make the days in your life count.