Latest / HBCWestminster / 11.15.23 Proverbs 2:1-22 Pastor Danny Gardner
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- 0:00I've divided chapter two into two major portions, what I'm calling the ifs and thens of the biblical
- 0:06wisdom. And I'm going to attempt to preach the entire thing in about 35 minutes. And so would
- 0:10you stand with me in honor of God's word as I read our text for this evening, Proverbs chapter two
- 0:18and verse one. My son, he says, if you receive my words and treasure up my commands within you,
- 0:26making your ear attentive to wisdom and inclining your heart to understanding. Yes. If you call out
- 0:31for insight and raise your voice for understanding, if you seek it like silver and search for it as
- 0:36hidden treasures, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God
- 0:40for the Lord gives wisdom from his mouth comes knowledge and understanding. He stores up sound
- 0:45wisdom for the upright. He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, guarding the paths of
- 0:51justice and watching over the way of his saints. Then you will understand righteousness,
- 0:55justice and equity. Every good path for wisdom will come into your heart and knowledge will be
- 1:00pleasant to your soul. Discretion will watch over you. Understanding will guard you, delivering you
- 1:05from the way of evil, from men of perverted speech who forsake the paths of righteous uprightness
- 1:11to walk in the ways of darkness, who rejoice in doing evil and delight in the perverseness of evil
- 1:16men whose paths are cricket and who are devious in their ways. So you will be delivered from the
- 1:22forbidden woman, from the adulteress with her smooth words.
- 1:25Who forsakes the companion of her youth and forgets the covenant of her God for her house
- 1:31sinks down to death and her paths to the departed. None who go to her come back, nor do they regain
- 1:37the paths of life. So you will walk in the way of the good and keep to the paths of the righteous
- 1:42for the upright will inhabit the land and those with integrity will remain in it.
- 1:46But the wicked will be cut off from the land and the treacherous will be rooted out of it.
- 1:51And you pray with me. We ask living.
- 1:55And faithful God, the God in whom we live and move and have our being and who is made known to us
- 2:01in Jesus Christ. Lord, we ask you to bless us as we look to your word this evening.
- 2:08Remove from our minds, Holy Spirit, remove from our hearts, whatever impediments hinder
- 2:13our worship and dampen our joy. Increase within us that holy longing for closeness,
- 2:20which can open up our lives to fuller delight and to a deeper commitment.
- 2:26By you and through you and for you, may our lives publish your praise.
- 2:34May our hymns and our prayers, our searching thoughts, our hearing of the scriptures be
- 2:39pleasing in your sight, O Lord, our rock and our redeemer. In the name of Christ Jesus, we pray.
- 2:46Amen. Amen. Thank you, church. Are all lifestyles created equal? Are there paths which, if chosen,
- 3:01will more likely produce happiness and longevity? Is it possible to gauge how long someone is going to
- 3:08live and how happy they will be based on the lifestyle choices that they make?
- 3:14Our culture would argue that any choice you make is a good choice. Anything our culture would say
- 3:22you're passionate about and devoted to is good for you and is right for you, they would say.
- 3:27Any path you take ends with blessing.
- 3:31It seems as though the only people who are willing to admit the truth
- 3:34are life insurance agents. When I turned 40, I took out a life insurance policy because I thought
- 3:43it's time to put on my big boy pants. I got to make sure at this point that I'm doing what I'm
- 3:49supposed to do in order to ensure that Hallie and my boys are taken care of if something horrible
- 3:53happens to me. And the process of taking out a significant, a large life insurance policy is
- 3:58funny. They ask all kinds of personal questions. They came to me and said,
- 4:03do you smoke? And if so, how often? Do you drink? And if so, how often? Do you exercise?
- 4:14And if so, how often? Do you have a criminal record? How often do you receive speeding tickets?
- 4:22That was one of them they asked. Do you travel often? And where to? How much money do you make?
- 4:30How much money do you have?
- 4:33What is your waist size? And do you mind if I confirm that?
- 4:38They really did. The lady came in. What's your waist size? And I was like, I don't know, 34?
- 4:42I mean, that's the size pants I wear, right? So I just assumed. She literally pulled out a tape
- 4:47measure. Do you mind if I confirm that? I was like, I kind of do, actually. I kind of do.
- 4:51Can you imagine if I just said, you know what? Listen, that's personal.
- 4:55My personal choices shouldn't make any difference to you. And how dare you imply that what I do with
- 5:02my own life might not make any difference to you. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
- 5:03know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
- 5:04You can't judge me. But what would her response have been?
- 5:10Mr. Gardner, thank you for your time. I don't think we have a life insurance policy that is
- 5:16going to fit your lifestyle choices. I don't think we're going to provide life insurance
- 5:20for you. Why do they ask those questions? Why are they the only ones who will say some things
- 5:25are right and some things are wrong? Because it's obvious that your lifestyle determines
- 5:31your longevity.
- 5:33They know it. If you have certain habits, those habits tend to either increase or decrease your
- 5:39life expectancy. And not all decisions are the right decisions. It is possible to waste your
- 5:48life. Ask your life insurance agent. It is possible to destroy your own life based on the decisions
- 5:54you make. Now we know, we all know that the word if, which you're going to notice happens three
- 6:00times in our text, right at the beginning, if, if, and if. We know that that word if begins a
- 6:06conditional clause, it's called. Now in Proverbs chapter two, it means that whatever blessing
- 6:11follows will only be granted if certain conditions are met. If you will do this, then these blessings
- 6:17will flow. It also implies that humanity, you and I, as we sit here this evening, actually have a
- 6:23choice about whether we want to be blessed by God or not. We actually get to choose whether
- 6:30this blessing will be granted or not. We get to choose whether this blessing will be granted or
- 6:30not. We get to choose whether these blessings will apply to us or not. It implies not only that we
- 6:35have a choice, but it's actually saying, as I said last week, and I ended with this, if you were here
- 6:38last Wednesday, that the wisdom is about to be laid at our feet. And so we're going to have to
- 6:42decide if we're going to pick it up. And logically then Proverbs chapter two is saying that the
- 6:48acquisition of wisdom is an active pursuit. It's not a passive endeavor. Wisdom doesn't just happen
- 6:58to you. You have to do it. You have to do it. You have to do it. You have to do it. You have to do it.
- 7:00You have to go and get it. Wisdom doesn't just automatically pile up in those of us who are
- 7:07the oldest. If that were true, then the oldest people would automatically be the wisest. And
- 7:11that's sometimes true, but it's not always true. Unfortunately, some of the biggest complaining
- 7:17self-absorbed babies I've ever known have been full-grown men. They haven't acquired wisdom.
- 7:24They haven't sought for it as hidden treasures. They haven't pursued it as silver. And yet you're
- 7:29looking at a full-grown man who is actually a full-grown man. And you're looking at a full-grown
- 7:30man acting like a child who is pouting and having a temper tantrum. Why? Because wisdom doesn't just
- 7:35automatically come with age. On the flip side, there have been some very young people who have
- 7:43exhibited maturity and wisdom and discernment well beyond their years. Why? Because they have
- 7:50employed these conditional clauses. They have done what the scriptures have said. And the promise of
- 7:55God never fails because they have pursued wisdom. God has given it.
- 8:00So what I'm going to give us this evening are three conditions, three ifs, and then seven thens.
- 8:06And isn't it just like our Lord to say, listen, if you'll do three things, I'll do seven. He'll give
- 8:13us so much more. All you got to do is this, and I'll do this. And so let's go through it tonight.
- 8:19If you're taking notes, feel free to use those notes or not. It doesn't matter to me. You can
- 8:22set them aside. It's hopefully just to help you kind of follow along since there's a lot
- 8:26of text this evening. But first, how do we actively pursue wisdom or
- 8:30what are the ifs? Number one, we must be receptive. And notice again in verse one,
- 8:36my son, if you, there's that conditional clause, if you receive my words, how many times have you
- 8:46heard something, gotten advice and thought, you know what? Why didn't anyone tell me that earlier?
- 8:53Have you ever gotten advice like that? You were like, man, if somebody had told me this when I was
- 8:57young, that would have been good to know. Only then to realize,
- 9:01but they did tell you. And you didn't listen. You didn't have ears to hear. Has that ever
- 9:06happened? Do you ever go to your parents or somebody and say, why didn't you tell me this?
- 9:09And your parents were like, we did. Danny, we told you exactly this. This is exactly what we
- 9:16said would happen. But you wouldn't listen to us in the moment. Here's another funny one. How many
- 9:21times have you read in God's word, something that is complete, totally revolutionary only to realize
- 9:31you underlined it last year in your Bible reading? You're like, this is the first time I've ever seen
- 9:38this. This is incredible. And then realize, no, I actually underlined it last year.
- 9:44The question posed to us by the author here is what happened last year that caused you not to
- 9:51apply it this year? Why have you been sitting on it this whole time? We know that dogs bark at
- 9:59fences and they howl at the moon and they smile at the moon. And so we know that we've done a great
- 10:01smell the perimeter of their yard. Why? Because they're dogs. That's what dogs do. Rabbits hide
- 10:08in the grass. They're skittish. They twitch their noses. Why? Because they're rabbits and cats claw
- 10:13up furniture and use their neighbor's lawns as a toilet and are a nuisance to humanity. Why? Because
- 10:19they're cats. Animals act according to their instincts. That's what they do. But unlike animals,
- 10:28animals, humans have been gifted by God with the ability to change their behavior according
- 10:34to whatever governing principles they choose. John Phillips words it this way. God, he said,
- 10:42oh, I might've missed that one. John Phillips said it this way. He said, God made people
- 10:46not puppets. God made people not puppets. And prior to the fall, Adam and Eve could walk with
- 10:52and respond in perfect oneness to the spirit of God. We know the story. Sin marred humanity.
- 10:57It cursed us.
- 10:58It bent our minds and it bent our hearts toward evil. And in that fallen state, we now found that
- 11:03we have little success, that we have the uncanny ability to be weak against temptation. Isn't that
- 11:11true? And yet stubborn against righteousness. How can we be both weak and stubborn at the same time?
- 11:18The answer is because of the fall. We've all been cursed. And so we are weak when it comes
- 11:24to temptation and yet stubborn against the right things to do.
- 11:27And the spirit of wisdom has been offered again through the blood of Christ.
- 11:32That governing force that has been missing since sin that broke the communication communion between
- 11:37God and man has now been regifted as the spirit of wisdom through the work of the cross.
- 11:43You say, well, what does that mean? John Phillips, I think says it succinctly when he says wisdom is
- 11:48available to us. That's what it means. We can now pursue and seek and ask for the wisdom that we
- 11:56used to have in the garden. We can now pursue and seek and ask for the wisdom that we used to have in the garden.
- 11:57But which was lost to us, it is available to us. And by virtue of our regeneration, in other words,
- 12:02we are now Christians. We have a predilection, a bias toward the word of God, the ultimate
- 12:10depository of divine wisdom. But wisdom must be received. We must be receptive to it.
- 12:18Psalm 40 says it this way, in sacrifice and offering, you have not delighted,
- 12:21but you have given me an open ear. Literally saying ears, you have dug out,
- 12:27for me. Like the little kid who's plugging his ears and screaming at the top of his lungs.
- 12:34The psalmist says, no, you caused me to stop screaming and pulled the fingers out of my ears
- 12:39so that I could hear the truth. And in hearing it, we can understand the mind of God. We can begin
- 12:49to understand his heavenly wisdom. We must be receptive to wisdom. But not only that,
- 12:54the second with the other if clause,
- 12:57we must be responsive. We must be responsive to wisdom. Notice it continues. If you receive my
- 13:02words and treasure up my commandments within you, making your attentive to wisdom, inclining your
- 13:08heart to understanding. Yes. If you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding,
- 13:14we must not only have open ears, we must also have open hearts. It's been said,
- 13:20there's no greater distance than the 18 inches that separate a man's head from his heart.
- 13:27And we must allow,
- 13:28the word not only to enter our ears, but to penetrate our hearts. Here in verse one,
- 13:34it says that scriptures, the scriptures of wisdom were a treasure to the author.
- 13:42Can I ask honestly, are the commandments of God, your treasure? Are they honestly your most
- 13:47prized possession? Is the Bible you are holding in your lap, the most valuable thing in your life?
- 13:54I've been confronted with my own ignorance.
- 13:58I've been confronted with my own ignorance. When it comes to the word of God, you'd think that by now
- 14:04I'd be an expert in it. Having been saved for almost 34 years at this point,
- 14:11having multiple degrees in it, having studied it for so long, you'd think I'd be an expert in it.
- 14:17And yet there are still so many things. I don't know. Not only have I been saved for 34 years
- 14:22and have all of these degrees and whatever, but I live in a country, in a Christian country,
- 14:26historically Christian country,
- 14:28in a Christian culture that has been historically Christian for 2000 years.
- 14:33I would think at this point, the church would be loaded with experts.
- 14:38We should be loaded with teachers. And it's kind of embarrassing to admit maybe how much time we've
- 14:44wasted. We should probably be further down the road than we are in our ability to discern truth
- 14:51from error and our ability to preach in season and out our ability to provide an answer for the
- 14:57reason for the hope that we have.
- 15:01It's interesting. The letter to the Hebrews was written to this
- 15:04church that should have been the same way. They should have been mature,
- 15:08but they weren't. He says this about this. We have much to say, and it's hard to explain
- 15:11since you become dull of hearing, though, by this time you ought to be teachers.
- 15:16And I wonder how many of us in here have been saved for years, even decades,
- 15:21decades, and are still feeling inadequate and incapable of teaching it to others.
- 15:28Like, man, if that's true, what have we been doing?
- 15:30What have we been doing? We have ought to be teachers, but he says instead, he's rebuking
- 15:36this church. Instead, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of
- 15:41God. You need milk, he says, not solid food. For everyone who lives on milk is unskilled,
- 15:48not good at his job, he says, in the word of righteousness, since he's a child, but solid
- 15:52food is for the mature. For those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice
- 15:56to distinguish good from evil.
- 15:59And the Lord has given us days, hours, weeks, months, years, decades, even centuries at this
- 16:05point in the Western church to get to know him through his word. And can we all agree
- 16:12to stop using the lamest excuse in the book, which is that we don't have time.
- 16:18The problem is not lack of time. The verse one would say the problem is that we don't consider
- 16:24the book our treasure. That's the problem. We prioritize other things.
- 16:29Above it, Psalm 19 says this, the law of the Lord is perfect, reviving the soul. The testimony of
- 16:34the Lord is sure, making wise the simple. The precepts of the Lord are right, rejoicing the
- 16:38heart. The commandment of the Lord is pure, enlightening the eyes. The fear of the Lord
- 16:42is clean, enduring forever. The rules of the Lord are true and righteous altogether. Now,
- 16:46look what he says. More to be desired are they than gold, even much fine gold and sweeter also
- 16:51than honey and drippings from the honeycomb. Several years ago, I was having lunch
- 17:00with a bunch of, and this is what they called themselves. There was a whole group of them. Some
- 17:05of them coaches that I was coaching with others of them, family members of baseball players that
- 17:10I was coaching. All of them had grown up Catholic. It was interesting. They had all, I was the only
- 17:15pastor there and all of them were all now Christians. They'd all converted out of
- 17:20Catholicism into Christianity. And they called themselves, I didn't call them this. They called
- 17:25themselves recovering Catholics, having lunch with all of them. And they just started talking.
- 17:30I wasn't even saying,
- 17:30you know, it's interesting by their own admission, by their testimony, they weren't allowed to read
- 17:36the Bible without a priest present. They weren't allowed to read it. One of them even says, you
- 17:43know, when I was a little girl, this mom says, when I was a little girl, we were told not to
- 17:48bring our Bibles to church. Isn't that crazy? No, what a privilege we have not only to own a copy
- 17:57of God's word, but we own a copy of God's word in our own.
- 18:00Language. And we're actually part of a church that encourages us to treasure it,
- 18:07to commit our way to it, inclining our hearts to understanding.
- 18:16The person who hears, but then doesn't do is like the man who hears the tornado siren,
- 18:22but continues along his merry way. Internalizing the scriptures, the Proverbs say will always pay
- 18:28rich dividends. And then the verse three,
- 18:30says, if you call out for insight and raise your voice for understanding, wisdom, we know comes
- 18:35from the mouth and mind of God. And so it makes sense that we who desire wisdom would ask him for
- 18:38it. And yet it seems that we rarely do. And verse three says, call out for it and raise your voice
- 18:44for it. The beg the Lord for it. Like Solomon did. Do you remember this? First Kings chapter three,
- 18:52the Lord comes to Solomon, King of Israel, young Solomon, before he'd blown it and said,
- 18:57ask what I shall give you.
- 18:59What do you want, Solomon? I mean, this is what a blank check from the Lord.
- 19:04What do you want? You remember what Solomon said? Your servant is in the midst of a great people,
- 19:12too many to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant, therefore,
- 19:17an understanding mind to govern your people that I may discern between good and evil for who is
- 19:22able to govern your great people. And you know, the Lord has granted us the same privilege.
- 19:30Jesus,
- 19:31said, ask, ask me and you will receive. And everyone who receive asks, receives. And for what
- 19:40do we ask? He's given us this promise. Ask invitation, ask whatever you want. And for what
- 19:46do we ask? Lord, I'm tired. Lord, my knees hurt. Lord, I want more stuff. Lord, I don't want to be
- 19:52uncomfortable. I got to give a disclaimer here. There's nothing wrong with praying for those
- 19:56things. But I think, I think that sometimes we miss the greater offer.
- 20:01There's a heavenly offer because our minds are set on earthly things.
- 20:06Can you imagine how our requests would be transformed if we actually set our minds
- 20:10on things above, Colossians 3 says, and not on earthly things. And you know,
- 20:14what's interesting, the testimony of Solomon concludes with the Lord's blessing. It says this,
- 20:21after he'd asked for wisdom, it says, it pleased the Lord that Solomon had asked this. And God
- 20:25said to him, because you have asked this for wisdom and have not asked for long life or riches or for
- 20:31the lives of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right.
- 20:35Behold, I now do according to your word. Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind so that none
- 20:42like you has ever been before. And none like you shall arise after you. And I'm going to give you
- 20:48everything you didn't ask for. Right? I also give you what you have not asked. Riches, honor,
- 20:55no other King shall compare with you all of your days. Because Solomon asked,
- 21:01for heavenly things, he received earthly things as well. But the reciprocal is not true.
- 21:10Minds that are set on earthly things will often receive them, right? We know that to be true,
- 21:16but the Lord does not offer the promise of heavenly things when they are never sought.
- 21:21Not only do we need to be receptive to the scriptures, but we've also got to be responsive
- 21:29to the scriptures.
- 21:31Notice third, the third conditional statement is that we've got to be resolute.
- 21:35Resolute. The third, if verse four, if you seek it like silver and search for it as for hidden
- 21:42treasures. I used to enjoy watching those shows about gold miners. And remember that
- 21:49like three year span where those were the hot thing on discovery channel.
- 21:53There's an entire season of television about guys in Alaska and do whatever they got to do to find
- 21:58gold. And it always disturbed me at the end of each of those seasons when they held up this
- 22:02little masonry.
- 22:02It was a little mason jar of gold that they had unearthed. I couldn't believe they had spent their
- 22:07lives fortunes. They had taken months away from their families. They had literally moved mountains
- 22:14for such a small amount of gold, right? This little jar like this. Now, most of the time they
- 22:20couldn't even cover their own expenses. And it was disturbing to me. I would often at the end of
- 22:24those seasons wonder who could waste so much time seeking such a small treasure. And then one day,
- 22:31the Holy Spirit just opened my eyes and said, I'm going to go find gold. I'm going to go find gold.
- 22:32I'm going to go find gold. I'm going to go find gold. I'm going to go find gold. I'm going to go find gold.
- 22:33And he opened my eyes and asked me, and who would spend the summer watching it?
- 22:38All right. Touche, Holy Spirit. The promise of divine wisdom is so much greater than minerals
- 22:47and precious stones. It will always deliver. It will always cover your expenses. But verse four
- 22:56says we must mine for it as diligently as those men who were seeking their fortunes. We must push
- 23:03aside mountains of gold. We must mine for it as diligently as those men who were seeking their
- 23:05fortunes. We must be willing to divert rivers. We must toil and agonize, understanding that the
- 23:12payoff is worth far more than the effort expended. If you receive, if you respond, if you are
- 23:20resolute, then, then the Lord says, you will understand. Then you will understand. We get to
- 23:29the thens. Does following the Lord pay off? And what are some of the immediate benefits or
- 23:35blessings of heeding, wisdoms, call? Notice verse five. You're going to understand. Then you will
- 23:41understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God. Understanding might be the
- 23:46most underrated of all of God's blessings. In layman's terms, understanding means the Lord
- 23:52turns on the lights. Your life will begin to make sense. But the text continues by saying that you
- 23:58will also find the knowledge of God. And that's an interesting statement. Not only does this mean
- 24:02that those who seek the words of God will have the mind of God. You'll have,
- 24:05you'll have God's perspective. You'll have God's knowledge. You'll have God's wisdom. You'll begin
- 24:09to think like God thinks, but it also means that you will come to know God himself in a greater way.
- 24:17Franz Delitzsch has said this. This is translated from his commentary in German.
- 24:21He who strives after wisdom earnestly and really reaches in this way, fellowship with God,
- 24:28strive after the Lord, seek me, the Lord says, and I will be found.
- 24:34For just as you seek the word of God, you will find the word of God.
- 24:35Just as he gives wisdom, it is nowhere else found, but in him. And it never comes from any
- 24:40other source, but from him as communicated through the medium of his word. We do not glorify God.
- 24:50I'm sorry. We'll, we'll continue that in just a moment. First, you will understand. But second,
- 24:55notice you will receive. Look at verse six. Not only will you understand, you will receive. For
- 24:59the Lord gives wisdom. From his mouth come knowledge and understanding. The Lord gives,
- 25:04and that means that we get.
- 25:08We don't serve a stingy God. In fact, we don't serve a God who needs to be served.
- 25:15We've got to break from the mentality that God needs us in some way, or that
- 25:18God takes from us, or that God wants what we have. We've got to break the mentality that the
- 25:24Lord is our employer, who depends upon and who benefits from our labor. Do you remember that day
- 25:32in John chapter four, where Jesus is walking through Samaria, he sits down next to a well,
- 25:35the woman comes out and he has this conversation with the woman at the well. Do you remember that?
- 25:39And he asked her for a drink, right? And then he said this, he said, if you knew who was asking
- 25:46you for a drink, you would ask him for a drink and he would satisfy you with living water. You
- 25:53would never thirst again. John Piper words it this way. He says, the implication is that those
- 26:01who do ask Christians who spend time in prayer, they do it because they see that God is a great
- 26:05giver. Christ is wise and merciful and powerful beyond measure.
- 26:09And therefore their prayer glorifies Christ and honors his father. The chief end of man we know
- 26:14is to glorify God. Therefore, when we become what God created us to be, we become people of prayer.
- 26:21Here's a great discovery. We do not glorify God by providing his needs,
- 26:27but by praying that he would provide for ours and trusting in him to answer. Let me, let me just say
- 26:33that I'll, I'll repeat that last line. We don't glorify God by providing his needs. He's not the
- 26:39one who needs us. He's not the one who needs us. He's the one who needs us. He's the one who needs
- 26:39us. Do you see what he's saying? We don't glorify him by providing for him. Instead, we pray that he
- 26:45would provide for us, take care of us, Lord. And then we trust him to answer. The Lord is a giving
- 26:51God and we will receive. Notice third, third, we'll be shielded. Verse seven, he stores up sound wisdom
- 26:58for the upright. He is a shield to those who walk in integrity. The person of integrity is the one
- 27:03who walks in perfect innocence and full submission, who seeks good without exception and perhaps
- 27:09nothing protects a person's testimony and upholds the reputation of Christ like a life
- 27:13of integrity. Perhaps nothing tears it down more quickly than compromise. You'll be shielded,
- 27:22he says, but notice fourth, another, then you'll be watched over. Verse eight, he guards the paths
- 27:30of justice and watches over the way of his saints. You ever confronted with the precarious nature of
- 27:38life?
- 27:41It feels as though we just flit through our lives, blissfully unaware of the imminent danger posed to
- 27:45our souls at nearly every turn. We can treat sin so recklessly and casually as though it were a
- 27:51playful puppy whose teeth couldn't possibly harm our thick skin. When in reality, sin is an entire
- 27:59pack of ravenous wolves waiting to descend upon us at the smallest opportunity. My youngest son,
- 28:06Chase, who is now 13, he's in the eighth grade. He's sitting next door in youth group right now
- 28:10when he was a little boy. He was a little boy. He was a little boy. He was a little boy. He was a
- 28:10tiny little dude. I don't know, eight or nine months old, you know, couldn't walk yet,
- 28:15but was kicking around and using his legs and doing all of that. We sat him in one of those
- 28:19little baby saucer things, you know what I'm talking about, right? You stick them down in
- 28:23this thing and it's got like a tray thing that they can spin and look around and whatever. But
- 28:28it's nice because your kid is entertained, but you know where they're, you know, you know,
- 28:33when I come back in five minutes, he's still going to be in this thing, right? And so he was
- 28:37sitting there. It was a nice, cool day outside when we lived in the city. He was sitting there
- 28:40in LA, nice, cool day. We opened up the front door to let a breeze come through. Our next door
- 28:46neighbor, who was a very kind woman, but lived by herself and had a very large black dog, right?
- 28:53And not a friendly one. Our next door neighbor, Nancy, let accidentally, I think, let this dog
- 29:00out. And the dog just had a foul temper, you know? And so I was watching, I was watching inside of
- 29:06our house and Chase was right inside of our front door. And one of these little jumper saucer
- 29:10things bouncing around and giggling and just, you know, having fun and doing whatever nine month
- 29:14old little boys do. And the front door was open and I could see out the front door. I was in the
- 29:19living room. I could see out the front door, the dog out in her front lawn, kind of looking around
- 29:24and smelling and doing this thing and whatever. And then look, I saw him look up and look through
- 29:28our front door and I saw him look at Chase. I could see it. And you know, you can tell dogs
- 29:34kind of, you can tell what they're thinking, right? You can see the gears spinning. He sees
- 29:37this little baby there and just turned.
- 29:40Like this. And he looked straight at him and just jumped down on haunches and just started
- 29:45booking after this dog. And it became a race, um, between me and next door neighbor's dog,
- 29:50you know, next door, Nancy's dog, uh, who is going to make it to the front door first.
- 29:55Right. And I just started running and I'm, you know, making my way over. And this dog is
- 29:59trucking like German shepherd, big black German shepherd dog, uh, running to the front door.
- 30:04And we got to the front door at the same time. And you guys, I grabbed that big, we had a big
- 30:09oak front door.
- 30:10I grabbed that front door and I slammed that thing shut on next door, Nancy's dog, you know,
- 30:18and I was not concerned with the consequences, um, because that dog was going to eat my son.
- 30:23He was not thinking I'm going to come lick the baby's face. I mean, it was snarling, drooling
- 30:29fangs bared coming at my boy, you know, and I was like, there is no way. And if, if I accidentally
- 30:35pinch this dog's head off, I'm fine with that. Right. I mean, I was okay with it. I am going
- 30:40to be a dog. Right. There is no way the dog, you know, it's interesting. I slammed this thing
- 30:44shut. I hear it smash against the door and just kind of turn around and ran away. It was perfectly
- 30:50fine. You know, my heart is pumping or whatever. I'm like, did anybody see that? You know, I'm like,
- 30:56Holly, you know, I turned around and chase was oblivious, smiling, laughing, flipping the thing,
- 31:04hitting the buttons, doing whatever. Right. You guys read again.
- 31:11Verse eight, he guards the paths of justice and he watches over the way of the saints.
- 31:17We are sitting in the baby saucer. That's us completely oblivious. And we've got a heavenly
- 31:24father who is looking out for us and watching out for that ravenous pack of wolves that is
- 31:29ready to come and eat us and is willing to pinch their heads off in the front door is willing to
- 31:35just consider that if we will be receptive to the word and responsive to the word and resolute in
- 31:40suit of wisdom. The promise is that God will shield us. That means that for those who choose
- 31:48wisdom, the Lord actually keeps them from trouble. He preserves us during troubling times. And
- 31:53honestly, most of the time, I think that we're completely unaware. We don't even realize that
- 31:58he's doing it. It's an awesome promise. Notice fifth, we will understand right from wrong.
- 32:05Verse nine, you will understand righteousness and justice and equity and every good path that
- 32:10God has given us. We will understand righteousness and justice and equity and every good path that
- 32:11we know is not just having a high IQ, but rather having a moral understanding of good versus evil.
- 32:16It's the ability to see life in the world from God's perspective and then to act
- 32:21accordingly. Notice sixth, this says you will be happy. What a promise this is. Verse 10,
- 32:29for wisdom will come into your heart and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul.
- 32:34That makes sure that you notice the text does not say your lives will be easy. Ease of life
- 32:38should never be confused with happiness.
- 32:41Oftentimes those who have the easiest lives are the most miserable.
- 32:46But consider for a moment, the testimony of the first apostles,
- 32:50the first disciples of Christ after his resurrection, Acts chapter four, the very first church, Peter and
- 32:55John answered, whether it's right in the sight of God to listen to you rather than to God, you got
- 32:59to judge, but we cannot but speak of what we have seen and heard. When they'd further threatened them,
- 33:04they let them go, finding no way to punish them because of the people for all were praising God
- 33:09for what had happened. So they stand trial. The next chapter, Acts chapter five, when they had called
- 33:14in the apostles, they beat them and charged them not to speak in the name of Jesus. And then they
- 33:19let them go. They left the presence of the council rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer
- 33:26dishonor for the name of Jesus. These men's lives were not easy and yet they were filled with joy.
- 33:33What a promise this is. If you pursue wisdom, you'll actually be happy.
- 33:40Verse 11, notice seventh, you will be delivered. And with this, we end, you will be delivered. And
- 33:48notice there are two specific people. Our text says you will be delivered from the first is the
- 33:53indiscreet man. Look at verse 11, discretion will watch over you. Understanding will guard you
- 33:59delivering you from the way of evil from men of perverted speech. You know, that word perverted
- 34:06speech literally means seductive speech, enticing you away from the way of evil.
- 34:09Away from the voice of your father, away from the voice of God. This man seeks to distort reality
- 34:15so that his victims can't think straight. Whether he means well or not, whether he actually believes
- 34:22what he's even saying or not, doesn't matter. His counsel and advice go against the truth
- 34:26of God's word. Notice it continues in verse 13. They forsake the paths of uprightness.
- 34:33They walk in the ways of darkness. They rejoice in doing evil. They delight in the perverseness
- 34:38of evil.
- 34:39Men whose paths are cricket and who are devious in their ways. Anyone who seeks to justify sin
- 34:45or explain away sin because of extenuating circumstances. Anyone who calls bad good and
- 34:51good bad is a perverse speaker. That person is leading you down dark paths,
- 34:58paths, which will only lead to hurt. And let me tell you their script. I can even tell you how
- 35:03they word it because their script hasn't changed in generations. Sin is not a big deal.
- 35:09Sin can be handled. You can handle it. Or this one. If they loved you, they'd let you do what you
- 35:15want. Or if they loved you, they'd be happy for you. If it were bad, they wouldn't have legalized
- 35:22it. Here's another one. Follow your heart. Treat yourself. Get whatever it is you want.
- 35:30How can that be true? It happened so long ago. Or swearing. It's just a word. It's just how
- 35:35people talk. It's not wrong if it doesn't hurt anyone.
- 35:39How can they call themselves Christians if they keep telling you what to do?
- 35:43These are the speech patterns of the perverted man, the seductive man. Notice you'll be delivered
- 35:50not only from him, you'll also be delivered from the indecent woman. This is the first time we've
- 35:56ever met the forbidden woman in Proverbs, but it will not be the last. Second in frequency,
- 36:01only to Princess Wisdom herself, who we talked about last week, is the adulterous woman.
- 36:06She's given a lot of airtime because nothing else will ever be able to get her out of the way.
- 36:09We'll separate a man or woman from God faster than seeking happiness where it cannot be found.
- 36:13And that is what she represents. There is a promise. And this woman, the forbidden woman,
- 36:18represents a promise of happiness where happiness cannot be found. We're going to see in verse 16
- 36:25that her purpose is clearly to rival the father for his son's affection. Remember last week when
- 36:31I said, what better way for a father to tell his son, what the better picture of a father to
- 36:36communicate to his son, something to chase after than to call wisdom.
- 36:39A beautiful woman, right? Chase after her. So now the enemy is creating a counterfeit beautiful
- 36:47woman. And you pick up in verse 16. He says, you will be delivered from the forbidden woman,
- 36:51from the adulterous with her smooth words, who forsakes the companion of her youth,
- 36:55who forgets the covenant of her God. Her house sinks down to death and her paths to the departed.
- 37:02None who go to her come back, nor do they regain the paths of life.
- 37:08We see that her,
- 37:09her purpose, right? Like I said, is to rival the father's advice. And he says here, adulterous
- 37:15adultery is never in the will of God. Never. It will always end in a heart that is distant from
- 37:19the Lord. Always. I'm not saying that it can't be repented of and forgiven of. I'm not saying that
- 37:25God and his infinite wisdom cannot still work all things for the good of those who love him. Consider
- 37:30the author. The author was the result of an adulterous affair between David, his father,
- 37:35and Bathsheba. But an adulterous relationship is never,
- 37:39ever God honoring. The adulterer of Proverbs two had forsaken her husband. She'd forsaken her God
- 37:46would only ever lead her victims to do the same.
- 37:50And can I implore you? I mean, there's a hundred of us here tonight. Maybe there's someone here who
- 37:54is having an affair or who's thinking about having an affair, tempted even by the thought
- 38:00of having an affair. The only God honoring response is to stop, stop, repent,
- 38:11confess, get off of the path of the wayward, adulterous woman, and go back to your God.
- 38:21And you say, well, what if I do? What if I do? Is there really any good reason to do it God's way?
- 38:27Yes. Look at verse 20. If you do, you will walk in the way of the good. You'll keep to the paths
- 38:33of the righteous. The upright will inhabit the land and those who with integrity will remain in
- 38:39it. But the righteous will keep to the paths of the good. And the righteous will keep to the paths of the
- 38:39wicked. The wicked will be cut off from the land. The treacherous will be rooted out for it. Don't
- 38:44fall for the lie that all lifestyles are the same. They are not created equal. Don't believe the
- 38:48liars who say that no choice is the wrong choice. It's not true that you should live your life
- 38:53however you want. And that's what will make you happy. It's not true. The happiest, fullest,
- 38:59and most satisfied we will ever be is when we are obeying the Lord and submitting to his will.
- 39:03And as an added bonus, our life insurance premiums will go down.
- 39:09Let me pray. Lord, thank you for your word, which speaks so clearly. And God, I pray
- 39:16that you would bless us as we apply it. Lord, I pray that we would be a people
- 39:23who are receptive to your word and that respond to your word. Lord, we know that it's good to own
- 39:29the Bible and it's good to read the Bible, but it's even better still to actually do what it says.
- 39:33And so, Lord, make us a people who not only hear your word, but do it. And God, I pray that we would
- 39:39be resolute in our pursuit of your word as a treasure. And God, if we do those things, we pray
- 39:49that all of those blessings we just listed for understanding and joy and life and even
- 39:54prosperity and all of those promises that you give to us in your word would be fulfilled.
- 40:01Lord, thank you for being a giving God. In Jesus' name, amen.