Latest / Drawn of History / Craigslist Founder Craig Newmark _ This Past Weekend w_ Theo Von _550(M4A_128K)
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- 1:18Speaker 1: Today's guest is an entrepreneur and a philanthropist. He worked
- 1:22Speaker 1: at IBM. He worked at Bank of America. But most
- 1:24Speaker 1: people know him as the founder of Craigslist. a site
- 1:29Speaker 1: that has given so many unique experiences to the world.
- 1:34Speaker 1: We're so happy to get to spend time today with
- 1:37Speaker 1: Craigslist's own Craig Newmark. And just want to let you know, like,
- 1:59Speaker 1: we're just excited you're here and we don't have any,
- 2:02Speaker 1: this isn't like a, like a got you podcast.
- 2:04Speaker 2: We're not trying to do anything uncomfortable.
- 2:06Speaker 1: Um, you know, obviously you've had a very unique life and, um,
- 2:10Speaker 1: we just want to, I think we're curious about it,
- 2:13Speaker 1: you know?
- 2:13Speaker 2: Well, two episodes ago you had Ryan Martin. Yeah. And
- 2:17Speaker 2: I learned one big thing on, uh, on thinking about
- 2:21Speaker 2: what he had said. So, uh, I'm, I'm prepared to
- 2:25Speaker 2: even mention that because, uh, he made me realize something
- 2:30Speaker 2: which I won't be able to do anything about, but
- 2:32Speaker 2: at least understanding helps. Oh, about anger. Yes.
- 2:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 2:37Speaker 2: Yeah. He's a, yeah. I thought Ryan Martin was really interesting.
- 2:39Speaker 1: He's a professor over in green Bay because I think
- 2:42Speaker 1: anger is something that's kind of enveloping people a lot
- 2:45Speaker 1: these days. You know, I find it a lot in
- 2:46Speaker 1: myself and you almost get him. I mean, obviously it's,
- 2:49Speaker 1: it's kind of embarrassing. You know, it's a weird feeling.
- 2:52Speaker 1: That's like, you know, it can lead to a lot
- 2:54Speaker 1: of negativity can lead to, you know, dangerous activities, but
- 2:57Speaker 1: it also, you, I feel that you get embarrassed of it,
- 3:00Speaker 1: you know, and it kind of just takes you over.
- 3:01Speaker 2: Well, in my case, it's tied in with some traumatic stress.
- 3:06Speaker 2: And my deal is I learned the hard way that
- 3:09Speaker 2: no good deed goes unpunished. I learned that a person
- 3:13Speaker 2: who's basically honest will never be able to successfully deal
- 3:17Speaker 2: with a person who lies for a living. Uh, that's
- 3:21Speaker 2: very frustrating because I have to keep it in. Someday
- 3:25Speaker 2: somebody may, uh, be able to do it, to deal
- 3:28Speaker 2: with it, maybe with some help from me someday, uh,
- 3:31Speaker 2: some situations may turn into, uh, some real drama, possibly
- 3:37Speaker 2: criminal referrals, but I'm the kind of guy who people
- 3:42Speaker 2: for years have been told, have been telling me that, uh,
- 3:45Speaker 2: some areas I just don't have the skills and I
- 3:48Speaker 2: contribute by not talking. Hmm. So do you feel like
- 3:53Speaker 2: you're kind of a quiet guy sometimes? Uh, Generally quiet,
- 3:58Speaker 2: generally restrained, except for reasons of comedy. I know that
- 4:06Speaker 2: I'm not as funny as I think I am. And yet, like,
- 4:11Speaker 2: I tell my philanthropic grantees that I would like for
- 4:16Speaker 2: them to tolerate my sense of humor, but not encourage me. Okay, nice.
- 4:20Speaker 2: And so far that's worked out well, particularly last night,
- 4:25Speaker 2: the Bob Woodruff thing. I did briefly hang out. What
- 4:28Speaker 2: was it last night, just so we can tell our
- 4:30Speaker 2: listeners now? Yeah. Last night, there was a fundraiser for
- 4:35Speaker 2: the Bob Woodruff Foundation. They run a network called Got
- 4:39Speaker 2: Your Six. Got Your Six? Got Your Six, like in
- 4:42Speaker 2: the military sense. Right, got your bet.
- 4:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 4:45Speaker 2: And about 350 organizations who are actually good at helping.
- 4:50Speaker 2: And many philanthropic organizations are, challenged when it comes to
- 4:55Speaker 2: actually helping. But these guys are good. They need a
- 4:58Speaker 2: lot of money to help out, help out vets and
- 5:01Speaker 2: their families. And this was both a comedy concert and
- 5:05Speaker 2: a music concert. The guys, I think it was Mark Norman. Oh,
- 5:10Speaker 2: Mark Norman was there? Yeah. Yeah, he's great. We're both
- 5:12Speaker 2: from New Orleans. Well, starting from there, there's Jim Gaffigan. Wow.
- 5:19Speaker 2: Jerry Seinfeld and Jon Stewart. on the comedy side, which
- 5:25Speaker 2: was great for me.
- 5:26Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:27Speaker 2: Um, and then on the music side, Nora Jones, and
- 5:30Speaker 2: then there's this guy, uh, uh, Springsteen.
- 5:34Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:34Speaker 2: Cause I, I had spoken to him before and I
- 5:37Speaker 2: told him, uh, that, uh, as a nerd, I, I
- 5:41Speaker 2: understood that he was very popular, but that I don't
- 5:44Speaker 2: know his music. And he reacted, uh, uh, quite, uh, satisfactorily, um,
- 5:52Speaker 2: His jaw dropped. His wife, this was a few years ago,
- 5:56Speaker 2: but his wife got the joke immediately. The better part
- 6:00Speaker 2: of the joke is I was being literal. I really
- 6:03Speaker 2: am a nerd. I'm the kind of guy in the
- 6:06Speaker 2: late 60s in high school. I wear a plastic pocket protector,
- 6:12Speaker 2: thick black glasses taped together. No social skills.
- 6:15Speaker 1: So you really, you, did you kind of embody that
- 6:18Speaker 1: nerd vibe? Like you were like, you saw a nerd
- 6:20Speaker 1: and you were like, I'm going.
- 6:21Speaker 2: To be over here. I'll be there. I had to
- 6:24Speaker 2: originate to say, you found the store of old photos. Oh, wow.
- 6:31Speaker 2: That's me in high school. Those are the thick black glasses. Oh, yeah.
- 6:35Speaker 2: Not taped together at the time. Now, see, I can
- 6:38Speaker 2: simulate or fake normal human social behavior now. but it
- 6:43Speaker 2: is a simulation. I have to work hard on it
- 6:48Speaker 2: all the time. And after a while, I will start
- 6:53Speaker 2: getting cranky. Okay. But the nerd cliche originated right around
- 6:58Speaker 2: when I was around, so I do take credit for it.
- 7:01Speaker 1: Well, we're glad to have one of the most nerd-torious humans,
- 7:07Speaker 1: Craig Newmark. Thanks for hanging out, man. I appreciate it.
- 7:11Speaker 1: And we're in the Chelsea Hotel No. 2. Do you
- 7:13Speaker 1: know that? I know you're a Leonard Cohen fan.
- 7:15Speaker 2: Yes.
- 7:16Speaker 1: And he had songs that were based out of here.
- 7:19Speaker 1: I think he spent time with Janis Joplin here.
- 7:21Speaker 2: He did. Yeah, allegedly. And, well, near where I live
- 7:27Speaker 2: in the village not far away, walking distance, I have
- 7:32Speaker 2: a friend, my comedy consultant, and he lived here during
- 7:36Speaker 2: that heyday. He knew both of them. and others. He
- 7:40Speaker 2: was intimidated by Leonard Cohen. See, this friend was in
- 7:45Speaker 2: the process of transitioning from music to comedy, which turned
- 7:49Speaker 2: out to be easier for him to do. He was
- 7:52Speaker 2: really big in the 70s and 80s. He may not
- 7:55Speaker 2: have invested well. Because I saw him yesterday. But he's
- 8:03Speaker 2: much funnier than I am, for real. And That's why
- 8:08Speaker 2: I know that I'm not as funny as I think
- 8:10Speaker 2: I am. Very fair.
- 8:11Speaker 1: Look, you're doing okay with me so far.
- 8:15Speaker 2: Thank you. If I knew you better, I'd, I believe
- 8:18Speaker 2: comedians indulge in a practice called breaking balls. Oh, yeah.
- 8:25Speaker 2: I will introduce my friends sometimes as a guy who
- 8:28Speaker 2: used to be funny. I will tell them, oh, yeah,
- 8:31Speaker 2: comedy requires actually funny material. Yeah. Yeah, that's a good
- 8:37Speaker 2: starting point. But he's given me a couple jokes to use,
- 8:41Speaker 2: reminding me that at his age and my age, when
- 8:45Speaker 2: you get down to tie your shoes, you look around
- 8:48Speaker 2: and you think, what else can I do while I'm
- 8:50Speaker 2: down here? And unfortunately, that's turned true. When I do
- 8:57Speaker 2: get down, I'm... I have some worries about being able
- 9:00Speaker 2: to get back up again.
- 9:01Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Once you get down to the ground
- 9:03Speaker 1: floor again, sometimes you kind of want to stay down there.
- 9:05Speaker 1: We used to listen to Leonard Cohen when I was
- 9:09Speaker 1: a kid. My mom would put it on when we
- 9:10Speaker 1: would have to clean the house on Saturdays and my
- 9:13Speaker 1: mom would put it on. I remember that song, when
- 9:18Speaker 1: the walls came down.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Okay, that's older school even for Leonard. All the way
- 9:25Speaker 2: to hell.
- 9:26Speaker 1: And we'd be like, all right, I'll... I'll clean.
- 9:28Speaker 2: Yeah. I vaguely remembered him, well, in like 88 or so,
- 9:35Speaker 2: I'm Your Man premiered, and I love that. First, We'll
- 9:39Speaker 2: Take Manhattan, and then I found Various Positions.
- 9:43Speaker 1: What is that first, We'll Take Manhattan?
- 9:47Speaker 2: Then We'll Take Berlin.
- 9:48Speaker 1: Then We'll Take Berlin. Yeah, dude, that's crazy. Those lyrics
- 9:52Speaker 1: have mildly been in my head over the years, and
- 9:54Speaker 1: I didn't even know that that's where they were from.
- 9:56Speaker 2: They were from Leonard Cohen. Yeah, he influenced a lot.
- 10:00Speaker 2: of musicians after. He's my favorite in an obsessive way.
- 10:06Speaker 2: And now and then when I'm in the right mood,
- 10:08Speaker 2: I will listen to him. He's not cheerful by the
- 10:13Speaker 2: way most people think about him. He's a little dark. Yeah,
- 10:17Speaker 2: but he's uplifting if you're into it.
- 10:19Speaker 1: Yeah, he reminds me of a kind of a darker
- 10:21Speaker 1: Anthony Bourdain of music in a way.
- 10:25Speaker 2: I haven't thought about that, but I'm trying not to
- 10:29Speaker 2: think too much about food. Okay, okay. Well, my problem
- 10:34Speaker 2: simply is that since I've been on the run all morning,
- 10:38Speaker 2: I did pass a place which had what looked like
- 10:41Speaker 2: a good slice of pumpkin pie. Oh, yeah, brother. I, however,
- 10:45Speaker 2: may have been disappointed. So I'll think of something... Later
- 10:50Speaker 2: this afternoon. Something a little less risque, huh? Well, my
- 10:53Speaker 2: problem is that food is just too delicious. Yeah. And
- 10:58Speaker 2: it's hard to know when to stop. Yeah.
- 11:00Speaker 1: Well, it's funny because they don't put a stop sign
- 11:02Speaker 1: at the bottom of a dessert or something.
- 11:05Speaker 2: That may or may not be helpful. I will face
- 11:09Speaker 2: the challenge in roughly two hours. Okay. There we go.
- 11:13Speaker 1: Well, we have you for a limited time today. I
- 11:15Speaker 1: do want to talk. You are the Craig from Craigslist. Yeah.
- 11:19Speaker 2: That is true. Yes. Okay.
- 11:21Speaker 1: And how did Craigslist start? I know it's a basic question,
- 11:25Speaker 1: but you don't even think about it. As a regular human,
- 11:29Speaker 1: we don't even know that you're real. You don't even know.
- 11:33Speaker 2: Yeah. And I occasionally tell people that Craig is fake,
- 11:37Speaker 2: like Betty Crocker. My deal is that I moved to
- 11:41Speaker 2: San Francisco mid-93. Okay. And I saw there were a
- 11:46Speaker 2: lot of people helping each other out. on the net,
- 11:50Speaker 2: sometimes doing so giving away expensive consulting time. And I
- 11:55Speaker 2: took advantage of that. People helped me settle in, told
- 11:58Speaker 2: me about neighborhoods and restaurants and events that I might
- 12:02Speaker 2: get interested in.
- 12:04Speaker 1: So you were communicating on the internet just with people
- 12:07Speaker 1: looking for information about living in a new area.
- 12:09Speaker 2: Yeah. A lot of this was from the well, an
- 12:12Speaker 2: early virtual community, some from Usenet newsgroups, which were the
- 12:17Speaker 2: first big deal discussion boards, and there is this spirit
- 12:21Speaker 2: that we were all going to use the net to
- 12:23Speaker 2: help each other out. Yeah. So I thought I should
- 12:26Speaker 2: give back, started a simple CC list, telling people about
- 12:31Speaker 2: what I thought were cool events, usually arts and technology,
- 12:35Speaker 2: like Joe's Digital Diner or the Anon Salon, which was
- 12:40Speaker 2: a party fundraiser for a local theater, highly entangled with
- 12:45Speaker 2: the very earliest Burning Man. And I never got involved
- 12:50Speaker 2: with that because I realized that I'm not a burner
- 12:53Speaker 2: at heart. But this mailing list started growing via word
- 12:58Speaker 2: of mouth. And I started asking for more stuff than
- 13:03Speaker 2: just events. Like if people wanted to sell something, if
- 13:07Speaker 2: people had a job or an apartment. So that's how
- 13:10Speaker 2: it started.
- 13:11Speaker 1: You started just emailing people with information about things to
- 13:14Speaker 1: do in the area. It started to grow, and it
- 13:17Speaker 1: was just an actual list of people you were sending
- 13:19Speaker 1: a message to.
- 13:19Speaker 2: Yeah, it was literally an email CC list, and that
- 13:22Speaker 2: broke at 240 addresses. I had to use a listserv.
- 13:27Speaker 2: I had to give the thing a name. I'm very
- 13:31Speaker 2: literal as a nerd. I wanted to call it San
- 13:33Speaker 2: Francisco Events since it was still mostly that. Yeah. I, yeah,
- 13:39Speaker 2: I don't have much of an imagination. Well. But then
- 13:42Speaker 2: I was going to call it SF events. People around
- 13:45Speaker 2: me told me they had given the name Craigslist. Ah.
- 13:50Speaker 2: They told me I had accidentally created a brand. Then
- 13:55Speaker 2: they explained to me what a brand is because I
- 13:58Speaker 2: was that naive. They were right. Called it Craigslist. Just
- 14:03Speaker 2: kept growing increasingly for the first three years after Just me.
- 14:07Speaker 2: And how often was the list going out? Whenever somebody
- 14:11Speaker 2: had something, I would send it out. Okay. So was
- 14:14Speaker 2: that once a week or twice a month? If I
- 14:16Speaker 2: was lucky, it could be, let's say, something worthwhile a
- 14:20Speaker 2: few times a day. Oh, nice. Okay. The deal is
- 14:23Speaker 2: not that big, but let's say high value. And I
- 14:28Speaker 2: was being careful. I didn't want to spam anyone. Right.
- 14:31Speaker 2: And it just kept growing via word of mouth. And
- 14:35Speaker 2: we've never really done any advertising. I should be careful.
- 14:40Speaker 2: I'll wrap around to it, but I'm not involved with
- 14:42Speaker 2: the thing nowadays. I'm retired, busier than I've been, but retired.
- 14:48Speaker 2: But the deal is it's just me for a few years.
- 14:50Speaker 2: And you're the only staff member. Yes.
- 14:52Speaker 1: And what were some of those early high value items?
- 14:54Speaker 1: Like what was something that would come across? Are we
- 14:56Speaker 1: talking like kind of like a, like a painting? Are
- 14:59Speaker 1: we talking like a little catamaran? What are we talking about?
- 15:03Speaker 2: Mostly I was thinking about jobs. Okay. Because one of
- 15:07Speaker 2: the best things you could do for someone is to
- 15:10Speaker 2: help them get a job. Um, sometimes then help them, uh,
- 15:14Speaker 2: well find a place to live. Uh, what Craigslist is
- 15:18Speaker 2: about in a lot of ways is helping put food on,
- 15:20Speaker 2: helping people put food on the table. Right.
- 15:22Speaker 1: You would say, yeah, that's a great point. If you
- 15:24Speaker 1: can help somebody get a job, it's such a, yeah,
- 15:27Speaker 1: that's residual.
- 15:28Speaker 2: And it was, uh, completely free the first three years.
- 15:33Speaker 2: but the people who were putting jobs on there wanted
- 15:37Speaker 2: me to charge them for to post for jobs.
- 15:39Speaker 1: Because they felt some like indebted in some way.
- 15:42Speaker 2: Well, they felt that, uh, they were paying a lot
- 15:46Speaker 2: more money for job ads and other places with fewer results,
- 15:50Speaker 2: less quality results. So they said, uh, charge us a
- 15:55Speaker 2: little bit, that'll pay the bills. And they were right. Um,
- 16:00Speaker 2: experimented a little bit with volunteers, and charging for jobs
- 16:04Speaker 2: in 98, but I got the idea from people in 97,
- 16:09Speaker 2: running with volunteers didn't work. What do you mean running
- 16:12Speaker 2: with volunteers? You mean to help you? Yes. Okay, and
- 16:14Speaker 2: at that point, you're just doing it out of your home?
- 16:17Speaker 2: Exactly right. First three years off of your home computer. Yeah.
- 16:20Speaker 2: How big did the email list get? Sorry, Craig. You know,
- 16:23Speaker 2: I don't really know how big it got through that time,
- 16:26Speaker 2: because in 96, I remembered that I'm a programmer, I
- 16:31Speaker 2: can write software, which turns emails into web pages. And
- 16:36Speaker 2: so I started doing that, which gave me web publishing
- 16:40Speaker 2: for free. And when something started taking too much of
- 16:44Speaker 2: my time, I wrote some more code, which reduced what
- 16:48Speaker 2: might take an hour a day to a few minutes
- 16:50Speaker 2: a day. Got it. And that happened a number of times.
- 16:54Speaker 2: But in 1998, I tried running it with volunteers. The
- 16:59Speaker 2: people who... cared for the thing, who were doing job
- 17:02Speaker 2: postings in particular, said, volunteer thing isn't working. Sometimes things
- 17:08Speaker 2: would take a while to get posted. So I had
- 17:10Speaker 2: to make the thing into a real company. Right.
- 17:12Speaker 1: So at that point, you're like, if I wanted to
- 17:13Speaker 1: keep this going, there needs to be some checks and balances,
- 17:17Speaker 1: and obviously salaries help create that.
- 17:20Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to hire other people to do coding,
- 17:24Speaker 2: customer service, billing. And that meant... making it into an actual, uh,
- 17:31Speaker 2: corporate structure. Was that scary to think about that? Uh,
- 17:35Speaker 2: very scary. But the hard part was at that point,
- 17:39Speaker 2: you know, at events parties, I would talk to bankers
- 17:43Speaker 2: and venture capitalists who wanted me to do the usual
- 17:46Speaker 2: Silicon Valley thing. Yeah. Monetize everything. And they would throw
- 17:51Speaker 2: a billions at me. And, uh, I was thinking I
- 17:57Speaker 2: don't need billions. I don't understand why people would do that.
- 18:01Speaker 2: And that has to do with in Sunday school, Mr.
- 18:05Speaker 2: and Mrs. Levin, they taught me that you should know
- 18:09Speaker 2: when enough is enough. They taught me to treat people
- 18:14Speaker 2: like you want to be treated. So nothing altruistic. This
- 18:18Speaker 2: is just a return to Sunday school values literally. And
- 18:23Speaker 2: so we– Craigslist's philosophy is to monetize only those ads
- 18:28Speaker 2: for people who are paying more money for less effective ads.
- 18:33Speaker 2: So not an altruistic decision, right? Just basics.
- 18:38Speaker 1: Yeah, but also a little bit of barrier to entry,
- 18:40Speaker 1: which not in a negative way, because you still everybody
- 18:44Speaker 1: needs to hire someone or has the opportunity and maybe
- 18:47Speaker 1: they can't afford the ad. But but it provides a
- 18:51Speaker 1: little more structure to even just some basic.
- 18:53Speaker 2: Yeah, it does provide some structure.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Right.
- 18:55Speaker 2: Well, that's useful in the sense that, well, everyone is
- 19:02Speaker 2: struggling trying to get through the day.
- 19:03Speaker 1: Right. And.
- 19:05Speaker 2: Some people are doing things for profit, like brokering apartments
- 19:09Speaker 2: in New York City. And sometimes with questionable ethics. And
- 19:16Speaker 2: I found one year that new apartment brokers might make
- 19:20Speaker 2: like $ 20, 000 in a year, which even 15 years ago,
- 19:24Speaker 2: you had to work two or three other jobs. So
- 19:27Speaker 2: I said, how do you balance the idea that you
- 19:30Speaker 2: want to give everyone a break and I was able
- 19:34Speaker 2: to suggest stuff to the people running the company at
- 19:38Speaker 2: that point, because also in, again, I made Craigslist into
- 19:43Speaker 2: an actual company in 99. Okay, so that's when it
- 19:46Speaker 2: became an actual company in 1999. Yeah. And at that point,
- 19:49Speaker 2: are you guys having office? you guys have uh we
- 19:52Speaker 2: turned it from running it in a room in my
- 19:55Speaker 2: house into a room in a commercial strip way out
- 20:01Speaker 2: in the neighborhoods of san francisco wow that's cool and
- 20:05Speaker 2: the other hard decision i had to make that year
- 20:08Speaker 2: 99 was that I started to realize with help that
- 20:13Speaker 2: as a manager, I suck. Oh, yeah. It's hard to
- 20:16Speaker 2: be a manager, isn't it? Very hard.
- 20:19Speaker 1: Because you don't realize once you start to have employees
- 20:22Speaker 1: and stuff, you're like, suddenly I'm a boss. And if
- 20:24Speaker 1: you never wanted to be a boss, it's a very
- 20:27Speaker 1: precarious situation to be in.
- 20:28Speaker 2: I've been there, man.
- 20:30Speaker 1: What were some of the things that you noticed you
- 20:32Speaker 1: were not good at?
- 20:33Speaker 2: Well, mostly hiring and firing as a nerd. I am
- 20:38Speaker 2: not good at reading people. And I needed to promote
- 20:42Speaker 2: someone who would be good at that. And I'd already
- 20:46Speaker 2: stopped coding because I hired a bunch of people who
- 20:49Speaker 2: are better than me. Okay. I stepped down to just
- 20:52Speaker 2: do full-time customer service. I'm a great customer service rep. Okay.
- 20:57Speaker 2: Not a manager of customer service, but... I was a
- 21:01Speaker 2: customer service rep and did that for maybe around 15 years.
- 21:05Speaker 1: Okay, so you ended up just being a customer service
- 21:07Speaker 1: rep at your own company.
- 21:08Speaker 2: Yes.
- 21:09Speaker 1: Wow, so if somebody had a customer service issue, they
- 21:11Speaker 1: would contact you on the phone or email?
- 21:13Speaker 2: Well, with some luck, they would contact someone else on
- 21:18Speaker 2: phone first. Okay. I took that luxury for myself of
- 21:23Speaker 2: not having to answer the phone. Okay. But they would
- 21:25Speaker 2: generally email me because I was just Craig at Craigslist.org.
- 21:30Speaker 2: Easy to guess. So I spent a lot of time
- 21:34Speaker 2: doing that kind of thing and got a lot of
- 21:37Speaker 2: stuff done. And you find yourself effective there. Yeah. Well,
- 21:42Speaker 2: I saw what I mostly saw was a lot of good.
- 21:46Speaker 2: That is people on the net are overwhelmingly good. The
- 21:51Speaker 2: bad guys, bad actors get a lot more press because
- 21:55Speaker 2: sometimes mainstream media generates clicks and by emphasizing the bad.
- 22:01Speaker 2: This is kind of a normal thing. Especially nowadays.
- 22:04Speaker 1: What were some of the things you saw in there
- 22:08Speaker 1: early that helped you to believe in the good and
- 22:11Speaker 1: continue to make it go?
- 22:12Speaker 2: Consistently, I saw people helping each other out. Consistently, I
- 22:17Speaker 2: saw people give away stuff that they could have sold
- 22:21Speaker 2: for some cash. Like sometimes you don't need the cash.
- 22:27Speaker 2: and then you would just give away something of actual value,
- 22:31Speaker 2: like old computer equipment. That was pretty good. Oh, yeah.
- 22:35Speaker 2: A lot of baby cribs on there, a lot of
- 22:36Speaker 2: stuff like that. In fact, that's in particular, that's particularly true.
- 22:42Speaker 2: Baby cribs, baby carriages, and moving boxes.
- 22:46Speaker 1: Which could also be a baby carriage, depending on, you know.
- 22:49Speaker 2: Or a cat toy. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. But the
- 22:52Speaker 2: idea is that when you move, you have a lot
- 22:54Speaker 2: of boxes on, which are still really good, and the
- 22:58Speaker 2: chances are nearly 100% someone not far away needs good boxes. Yeah.
- 23:07Speaker 2: I used to live with a guy.
- 23:08Speaker 1: I lived with this guy named Kenny for a bit,
- 23:10Speaker 1: and he was a pretty big stoner, right? And I
- 23:12Speaker 1: didn't know him. Met him on Craigslist, right? I'd get
- 23:15Speaker 1: over there, and I ended up living over there. And
- 23:18Speaker 1: he would stack– he had a couple cats and stuff,
- 23:20Speaker 1: and at night he was kind of like a– I
- 23:23Speaker 1: guess kind of an avant-garde, like circus-y kind of animal
- 23:27Speaker 1: trainer guy. But he would stack all the boxes, these
- 23:30Speaker 1: empty boxes in the room, and he would make the
- 23:31Speaker 1: cats play on them, and he'd make me come out
- 23:34Speaker 1: of my room to watch.
- 23:35Speaker 2: The show, you know.
- 23:37Speaker 1: So it was crazy, but it was like something I
- 23:40Speaker 1: still kind of remember about him. I guess it was pretty,
- 23:42Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting. But, yeah, people use boxes, yeah.
- 23:45Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, the deal is that people everywhere in the
- 23:49Speaker 2: country are okay with, I when you're doing customer service
- 23:55Speaker 2: at that deeper level, you see a lot of stuff
- 23:58Speaker 2: and most of it is great. I did see some
- 24:00Speaker 2: stuff I wish I didn't. And that's the problem with
- 24:05Speaker 2: content moderation. It's a very tough job, especially if it's
- 24:09Speaker 2: full time and you're not getting paid much. And so
- 24:13Speaker 2: these people are only seeing questionable stuff. And that can
- 24:17Speaker 2: do some damage.
- 24:19Speaker 1: So at that point, yeah, I guess because Craigslist started
- 24:22Speaker 1: to be this place, it kind of became everything really
- 24:25Speaker 1: fast is what it felt like just as a user, right?
- 24:28Speaker 1: It became like a first place where you could get
- 24:32Speaker 1: a blender or an air balloon or a roommate. But
- 24:35Speaker 1: then it started to escalate to where there was like
- 24:39Speaker 1: people would buy drugs on there or you'd see people
- 24:42Speaker 1: like I would do it. you know, and you would
- 24:44Speaker 1: see people, but they also had code names for the drugs.
- 24:47Speaker 1: So it made it to be this kind of like,
- 24:52Speaker 1: it had a fun spot to it. You know, you'd
- 24:54Speaker 1: be on there. I mean, they had like, I remember
- 24:56Speaker 1: Beef Jerky was a code name. Those mini bennies they had,
- 25:00Speaker 1: that brain dander, that baby hay was one of them.
- 25:04Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of any other, that Pedrito Blanco
- 25:07Speaker 1: was a Span, but you know what it was, that
- 25:08Speaker 1: Dragon de Negro they had.
- 25:10Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 25:12Speaker 1: Uh, I'm trying to eat that whispering mother. That was,
- 25:15Speaker 1: that was a kind of a native one that they were,
- 25:17Speaker 1: it was peyote.
- 25:18Speaker 2: Well, I know that, uh, the mainstream press greatly exaggerated
- 25:23Speaker 2: a lot of this. They didn't point out that what
- 25:25Speaker 2: you see on the street always makes it online and
- 25:29Speaker 2: online everywhere. You guys weren't producing it. Well, what they,
- 25:33Speaker 2: what the mainstream press doesn't point out that if you're
- 25:36Speaker 2: a conscientious site, you, uh, keep around the digital forensics.
- 25:43Speaker 2: And because people leave a lot of trace evidence around
- 25:46Speaker 2: CSI style. And that years and years ago, I talked
- 25:51Speaker 2: with a lot of cops who were real pleased with
- 25:55Speaker 2: the way that we kept around the forensics. And because
- 25:59Speaker 2: of high school history, I learned the balance between fighting
- 26:04Speaker 2: crime and the rights of the accused, what's in the
- 26:08Speaker 2: Bill of Rights, what's in the constitution. Wow.
- 26:11Speaker 1: So you had to, so you took that upon yourself to,
- 26:13Speaker 1: it must've been kind of a tough navigation.
- 26:15Speaker 2: Was it tough to navigate that personally?
- 26:17Speaker 1: Because you have this, this atmosphere that people can kind of,
- 26:21Speaker 1: it's a, it's just a pathway, right?
- 26:23Speaker 2: Well, what I did is I mentioned this to the
- 26:27Speaker 2: boss and to the lawyers and said that we got
- 26:30Speaker 2: to do this balance. We had the advantage of having
- 26:33Speaker 2: the electronic frontier foundation available and because they're the big
- 26:37Speaker 2: pioneers of all this stuff online. What does that mean,
- 26:39Speaker 2: the Electronic Frontier Foundation? Well, what they did is they're
- 26:42Speaker 2: a great voice in standing up for the rights of
- 26:46Speaker 2: regular people and that balance. You've got to do the
- 26:50Speaker 2: right thing for victims and cops. You've got to do
- 26:54Speaker 2: so in an American way, meaning looking at the Bill
- 26:57Speaker 2: of Rights. And if a cop wants to see the forensics,
- 27:02Speaker 2: there needs to be something like a subpoena or a
- 27:04Speaker 2: search warrant.
- 27:05Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
- 27:06Speaker 2: That's the way things are done in our country. Those
- 27:09Speaker 2: are the laws. That's judicial overview. And that's the ultimate
- 27:13Speaker 2: purpose of that was to prevent the kind of abuse
- 27:17Speaker 2: we saw under King George, literally speaking. I did have
- 27:21Speaker 2: that really good high school history teacher. He taught the
- 27:25Speaker 2: kind of civics that you don't have nowadays. But I
- 27:28Speaker 2: took this in 1970. I'm really old. You look great. Well,
- 27:35Speaker 2: thank you. This teacher was great because he even took
- 27:38Speaker 2: us once to a taping of a firing line, which
- 27:42Speaker 2: was William F. Buckley Jr. He invented American conservatism, at
- 27:48Speaker 2: least the modern form of it. And that really influenced
- 27:51Speaker 2: me because at that point, I'm going to get off
- 27:54Speaker 2: on a tangent, but at that point I was looking
- 27:56Speaker 2: at that. I was starting to take a bit of
- 27:58Speaker 2: a look at libertarianism, that kind of stuff. And this is,
- 28:03Speaker 2: More than 50 years ago.
- 28:05Speaker 1: So it's funny because you kind of ended up in
- 28:06Speaker 1: this space later on where you're trying to look at
- 28:09Speaker 1: the ethics of communication, who has rights, how do you
- 28:14Speaker 1: protect people, but also give people the freedoms that they
- 28:18Speaker 1: deserve under their own life.
- 28:20Speaker 2: Is that what you're kind of saying? That's pretty much it.
- 28:23Speaker 2: These days, frankly, I've given up on politics for some years.
- 28:28Speaker 2: I now regard terms like liberal and conservative, as kind
- 28:32Speaker 2: of a bullshit. And I gotta, well, I gotta focus
- 28:37Speaker 2: on helping people who protect the country. Like there's vets
- 28:42Speaker 2: and their families, there's active service members and their families.
- 28:48Speaker 2: And right now we're beginning to see battles on our soil,
- 28:53Speaker 2: on our own systems as a precursor to a cyberspace warfare.
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- 31:24Speaker 1: an influencer, you're a target. Yeah, we get stopped for things,
- 31:28Speaker 1: and we have to take certain things down, things that
- 31:30Speaker 1: we think are just fair speech.
- 31:32Speaker 2: We have to put it all through a filter. Well,
- 31:35Speaker 2: I'm more worried about our foreign adversaries, and I'm most
- 31:39Speaker 2: worried about our foreign adversaries starting to compromise our utilities, water, power,
- 31:47Speaker 2: and even our cars, because that's a thing that's happening
- 31:51Speaker 2: in the here and now. Really? You could do a
- 31:53Speaker 2: search online for something called Volt Typhoon. How do you
- 31:57Speaker 2: spell it? Vault, like electrical vault. Okay, vault. Typhoon, like
- 32:00Speaker 2: a big storm. And the FBI have been warning everyone
- 32:04Speaker 2: that right now... What is a vault typhoon?
- 32:08Speaker 1: A cybersecurity expert explains that Chinese hackers targeting U.S. critical infrastructure.
- 32:14Speaker 1: What is this? Can you tell me a little bit
- 32:15Speaker 1: about it, do you mind, Craig?
- 32:17Speaker 2: Right now, what they're doing is they're infiltrating home systems
- 32:22Speaker 2: to be used to attack other systems. What's worse is
- 32:25Speaker 2: they're attacking... the programmable controllers which control the flow of
- 32:30Speaker 2: water into our taps. They're controlling the flow of electricity
- 32:36Speaker 2: into our homes. And a lot of those systems for
- 32:40Speaker 2: much of the country are not protected. The deal is
- 32:45Speaker 2: that most of the country, there are rural water systems,
- 32:50Speaker 2: rural electrical systems. They don't have the resources to protect them.
- 32:56Speaker 2: So a Chinese hacker, a Chinese military hacker, could get
- 33:00Speaker 2: in there. And sway our elections and stuff? Well. Or
- 33:04Speaker 2: sway our waterways? Sway if we have access to water? Well,
- 33:07Speaker 2: what they can do is turn off the water supply.
- 33:11Speaker 2: And so if, let's suppose you wanted to invade a
- 33:14Speaker 2: small island country, which was our ally. And if the
- 33:20Speaker 2: other country, our adversary, wanted to discourage us, from fighting
- 33:25Speaker 2: on behalf of our ally, they could just start shutting
- 33:29Speaker 2: off water and power. And, you know, if they did
- 33:34Speaker 2: that where you're living, that would kind of ruin your day.
- 33:38Speaker 2: And for that matter, they could compromise cars, which are
- 33:44Speaker 2: internet devices.
- 33:45Speaker 1: Oh, that's true, especially as cars become more electric and
- 33:48Speaker 1: more like digital, really.
- 33:50Speaker 2: Yes, they could shut off your car, stall it out,
- 33:53Speaker 2: in the middle of rush hour traffic, if they did
- 33:56Speaker 2: that in a city like New York, if they could
- 33:59Speaker 2: just do 100 cars, that snarls traffic indefinitely. Wow.
- 34:04Speaker 1: Yeah, you do that, and then they shut the power down,
- 34:05Speaker 1: and now things are getting really weird.
- 34:07Speaker 2: Yeah, and all they would have to do is show
- 34:09Speaker 2: they could do it, and that's where the military is
- 34:14Speaker 2: headed these days. It is not replacing shooting wars, but
- 34:20Speaker 2: it's more powerful now Like in World War II, the
- 34:25Speaker 2: war came to our shores a little bit. In whatever's
- 34:28Speaker 2: happening next, it's going to be a much bigger thing.
- 34:32Speaker 2: I'm planning to issue a national call to action wherein
- 34:38Speaker 2: we tell everyone that we need to protect our homes.
- 34:42Speaker 2: Utility companies need to protect themselves. We're trying to build
- 34:46Speaker 2: the networks of networks where everyone can protect each other.
- 34:49Speaker 2: I'm I'm not the guy to really be Paul Revere. Right.
- 34:56Speaker 2: Because that would require, like, social skills. And remember, I'm
- 35:00Speaker 2: a nerd. But you could be his horse, maybe. Well,
- 35:02Speaker 2: I need to be something. But the deal is, as
- 35:05Speaker 2: I issue this call to action, as I point out
- 35:09Speaker 2: that many utilities are not protected, I'm going to piss
- 35:13Speaker 2: off a lot of people. You think so? Why would
- 35:16Speaker 2: they be upset? I don't understand that part. Well, sometimes
- 35:19Speaker 2: people kill the messenger. Right. So I'll do it carefully.
- 35:23Speaker 2: We're ramping up slowly. We have this pause, take nine campaign.
- 35:29Speaker 2: So when you get a suspicious email, that could be phishing.
- 35:34Speaker 2: And our adversaries are really smart. They're as smart as
- 35:37Speaker 2: our guys. And we need to know how to fight back.
- 35:42Speaker 2: I need to consider helping out a new group being
- 35:46Speaker 2: funded at Vanderbilt. At Vanderbilt? Yeah. Oh, nice. That's where
- 35:50Speaker 2: I live in Tennessee. Well, they've just started, within the
- 35:54Speaker 2: past couple weeks, started a new facility, which is going
- 35:58Speaker 2: to be led by General Paul Nakasone, who led, I
- 36:02Speaker 2: think it was Cyber Command. And they have this philosophy
- 36:05Speaker 2: of defense forward, where they're not waiting for the adversary
- 36:12Speaker 2: to come and get us. We're taking more active measures.
- 36:15Speaker 2: And that's a big concern for you. So that's something
- 36:17Speaker 2: you donate to, right? Well, that's a big area, like
- 36:21Speaker 2: one big area in veterans and military families. And I've
- 36:27Speaker 2: now committed to $ 200 million.
- 36:29Speaker 1: Wow.
- 36:30Speaker 2: And I've already spent more than half of it. For cybersecurity,
- 36:34Speaker 2: I've also committed a couple hundred million. This is not altruistic.
- 36:39Speaker 2: This is just, well, I was raised in the 50s
- 36:43Speaker 2: to be a patriot. This is just me following through with... Basics.
- 36:49Speaker 2: And I got the cash. I'm not much for luxuries.
- 36:55Speaker 2: I do get all the streaming services I want. And
- 36:59Speaker 2: I do have a larger TV than I should. I
- 37:02Speaker 2: won't say anything. And beyond that, well, again, back to
- 37:10Speaker 2: Sunday school, you want to know when enough is enough. Right.
- 37:13Speaker 2: You have to give back. Yeah. We talk about that
- 37:15Speaker 2: on here sometimes. I wonder if there should almost be
- 37:16Speaker 2: a law.
- 37:17Speaker 1: I mean, you couldn't make it a law, but that
- 37:18Speaker 1: at a certain point, people, somebody doesn't need any more money,
- 37:21Speaker 1: you know, like, because then it becomes, you see some
- 37:24Speaker 1: people that just have, so it's like, what are you doing? Like,
- 37:27Speaker 1: you know, it becomes almost this obsessive thing where, um,
- 37:31Speaker 1: I don't know. It just, it seems scary to think
- 37:33Speaker 1: that some people have so much money.
- 37:34Speaker 2: Well, I don't judge any of that. Everyone decides what's
- 37:38Speaker 2: right for themselves. And that's none of my business. Okay.
- 37:43Speaker 2: I figure I should put my money where my mouth
- 37:46Speaker 2: is and then try to get some good stuff done,
- 37:52Speaker 2: make the occasional mistake. And some of my decisions weren't great,
- 37:58Speaker 2: but they weren't really mistakes.
- 38:00Speaker 1: You mean like in what, investing and stuff like that
- 38:02Speaker 1: you mean?
- 38:02Speaker 2: Well, I don't invest really. Okay. I do, I guess, yeah.
- 38:08Speaker 2: What in the libertarian movement and the related financial stuff,
- 38:13Speaker 2: In the 70s, early 70s, there was this idea of
- 38:16Speaker 2: capital preservation because inflation was really bad then. So people
- 38:21Speaker 2: were finding assets where they could preserve their capital. Of course,
- 38:27Speaker 2: I was in college. I didn't have much.
- 38:28Speaker 1: Right.
- 38:29Speaker 2: But I invest, in the literal sense, very little. I
- 38:34Speaker 2: just want to keep what I have for nonprofits and
- 38:37Speaker 2: some for myself, and I want to keep that safe.
- 38:41Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 38:42Speaker 2: And- But that's the old libertarian background. These days, my
- 38:48Speaker 2: philosophy is much more mixed because I am told in
- 38:54Speaker 2: Sunday school and elsewhere that you do want to, well,
- 38:58Speaker 2: now and then you go on to be your brother's
- 39:00Speaker 2: or sister's keeper. Now and then you want to help
- 39:03Speaker 2: people out who need a hand. How you do that effectively,
- 39:07Speaker 2: no one knows the real answers for. But I can
- 39:10Speaker 2: do a couple things. Not altruistic. It's just basics. And
- 39:16Speaker 2: I learned all that over 60 years ago. I mean,
- 39:19Speaker 2: I realized recently how formative that was. That's when I
- 39:23Speaker 2: started reading science fiction.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny how those young years, there are little
- 39:28Speaker 1: things you'll keep. I still remember like certain things that
- 39:30Speaker 1: I told someone I would do like 25 years ago.
- 39:34Speaker 1: And every day or every couple of days, someone's like, hey,
- 39:36Speaker 1: don't forget, you still have to do that little thing.
- 39:38Speaker 1: You know, it's funny how like those formative years and
- 39:41Speaker 1: things that we hear when we're young, you know, can
- 39:44Speaker 1: have such an in in uh such an effect on
- 39:46Speaker 1: us even as we grow older um i want to
- 39:49Speaker 1: talk a little bit more about the actual site so
- 39:51Speaker 1: the company starts growing right and in addition to people
- 39:55Speaker 1: helping each other get jobs people were helping each other
- 39:58Speaker 1: people were starting relationships on there i went on dates
- 40:01Speaker 1: off of um craigslist before you know good did you
- 40:04Speaker 1: yourself ever go did you.
- 40:06Speaker 2: No, I always felt like a conflict of interest. Yeah,
- 40:11Speaker 2: that's true. You're like, hey, I'm Craig. Yeah, I got
- 40:16Speaker 2: lucky in a local cafe. Oh, you met your wife.
- 40:20Speaker 2: Your wife, okay. And we've been together for over 20
- 40:23Speaker 2: years now.
- 40:24Speaker 1: Wow, and if you have some social awkwardness, what was
- 40:26Speaker 1: that like for you?
- 40:28Speaker 2: I decided I would take a big chance. Yeah, I've
- 40:31Speaker 2: been there, dude. And told her that she's beautiful. The
- 40:37Speaker 2: guy next to me, she tells me, rolled his eyes.
- 40:40Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 40:41Speaker 2: And because he rolled his eyes, that's why she started
- 40:44Speaker 2: talking to me. Oh, wow.
- 40:48Speaker 1: So there was a little bit of some empathy there,
- 40:50Speaker 1: human empathy.
- 40:52Speaker 2: Well, it could have been a pity discussion. That's another
- 40:55Speaker 2: way of saying empathy, yeah. Obviously, I charmed her. Yeah,
- 41:00Speaker 2: that's the spirit. So last night, we were at this fundraiser. Mm-hmm.
- 41:05Speaker 2: because I think she wanted to meet Jerry Seinfeld in particular,
- 41:09Speaker 2: and I don't blame her. I had nothing to say.
- 41:13Speaker 2: I was tongue-tied, but that's how I normally act when
- 41:19Speaker 2: I talk to celebrities, particularly if you're backstage and there's
- 41:24Speaker 2: a show going on. And having done a little bit
- 41:28Speaker 2: of that, you've got to get your head into the moment,
- 41:31Speaker 2: and you don't want a distraction.
- 41:34Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, that's a good point. You just want to
- 41:35Speaker 1: kind of be a fly on the wall in some sense.
- 41:37Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow.
- 41:39Speaker 1: So you started off, said hello in a cafe, and
- 41:41Speaker 1: then how long was that? Was your relationship, how long
- 41:47Speaker 1: did that kind of dating life.
- 41:49Speaker 2: Go for you guys? Well, after about nine years, I think,
- 41:55Speaker 2: I brought her over to, I showed her Facebook on
- 41:58Speaker 2: a screen. I don't really use it anymore, but I said,
- 42:01Speaker 2: Is it okay if I change my relationship status to engaged? Wow.
- 42:06Speaker 2: And it took her a moment, but she said, oh,
- 42:08Speaker 2: that's good. Because I calculated at that point that parental
- 42:14Speaker 2: pressure had grown significantly. From yours and hers? Hers. Okay.
- 42:20Speaker 2: And that worked out pretty well.
- 42:23Speaker 1: That's a pretty suave online move. That's almost the most
- 42:27Speaker 1: online way you could ask someone to marry you, I
- 42:29Speaker 1: feel like.
- 42:30Speaker 2: Well... I hate to say it, but if you consider
- 42:33Speaker 2: that a suave, you may also be a bit of
- 42:35Speaker 2: a nerd.
- 42:36Speaker 1: I think when it comes to, yeah, talking with women,
- 42:43Speaker 1: it definitely, it's not my, you know, I wouldn't, yeah.
- 42:48Speaker 2: Yeah. You're not, yeah. Yeah. Okay. That's the nerd cliche again. Yeah.
- 42:54Speaker 2: I'm still socially awkward. Sometimes I can disguise that. Yes.
- 42:59Speaker 2: But that's still me. And it's not going to change
- 43:03Speaker 2: now that I'm in my sunset years. Yeah. Yeah.
- 43:07Speaker 1: Yeah. Sometimes it doesn't go away. You kind of start
- 43:08Speaker 1: to learn it. I think I've just had the, I
- 43:11Speaker 1: have the tough thing of asking a girl out. Like
- 43:14Speaker 1: sometimes I'm okay with talk. I'll get good with talking
- 43:16Speaker 1: with a woman, but it's just that next part. And
- 43:18Speaker 1: we'll just be standing there and we'll be like, well,
- 43:21Speaker 1: somebody should ask somebody out or walk away from somebody.
- 43:24Speaker 1: And then you're just still just standing there.
- 43:26Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, that's the purpose of Miss Connections. Yeah. Which- Anecdotally,
- 43:32Speaker 2: I know works once in a while because I've encountered
- 43:36Speaker 2: over the years a bunch of couples which had gotten married. No,
- 43:41Speaker 2: off of misconnections. Yes. And I like that a great deal.
- 43:45Speaker 2: It is romantic in an understated way. Oh, yeah. Well,
- 43:50Speaker 2: how did that start? How did that misconnection start? Well,
- 43:52Speaker 2: Jim decided he wanted to put it up. He was
- 43:55Speaker 2: the boss then, so he did.
- 43:56Speaker 1: Oh, Jim was the guy running the company.
- 43:58Speaker 2: At that point?
- 43:59Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 44:00Speaker 2: When I realized that, again, I'm a terrible manager, I'd
- 44:04Speaker 2: already hired Jim, who's a good manager. Jim, what's his name?
- 44:07Speaker 2: Jim Buckmaster. Jim Buckmaster, yeah. You'll see pictures of us together,
- 44:12Speaker 2: and if it looks like we're at eye level, it's
- 44:15Speaker 2: because I'm standing on a box.
- 44:17Speaker 1: Okay. He's a smaller guy? He's a foot taller than me.
- 44:22Speaker 1: He's a taller guy, okay. So it makes for a good... Oh,
- 44:25Speaker 1: there you are.
- 44:26Speaker 2: You actually do have your box. That's... the old office space.
- 44:30Speaker 2: And I was the one who, who suggested the, the
- 44:35Speaker 2: gag there. Yeah. And, and kudos to your guys for
- 44:39Speaker 2: being really good at pulling stuff up. Craigslist.org.
- 44:44Speaker 1: Yeah, man. When you guys were the first one to do.org,
- 44:47Speaker 1: people were like, what is it? People thought it meant Oregon.
- 44:50Speaker 1: People didn't even know what, you know, where is it?
- 44:52Speaker 2: Well, it was an early use of it. And, our
- 44:55Speaker 2: approach was to be this minimal monetization thing and there's
- 45:00Speaker 2: no category for that online. So that caught the spirit
- 45:05Speaker 2: and worked. Yeah.
- 45:07Speaker 1: And, um, and so misconnections, do you remember like the
- 45:09Speaker 1: first misconnection that was ever put up or the first
- 45:11Speaker 1: personal that was ever put up?
- 45:12Speaker 2: I'm sure people ask you that a lot. Don't remember
- 45:15Speaker 2: much of that at all. Um, I, everything is a
- 45:19Speaker 2: blur and unfortunately I wasn't smart enough to keep a
- 45:23Speaker 2: lot of records.
- 45:24Speaker 1: Hmm.
- 45:25Speaker 2: And so a lot is lost. Like from the internet
- 45:30Speaker 2: archive in the Wayback Machine, I could see the first
- 45:33Speaker 2: site that I put up was mid or late 96.
- 45:38Speaker 2: And that was pretty good. And I evolved that kind
- 45:42Speaker 2: of minimal style. Like right now our site hasn't changed
- 45:47Speaker 2: much in appearance in 30 years. Why is that? Well,
- 45:52Speaker 2: I talk to a lot of people, and they want
- 45:55Speaker 2: it simple, fast, effective. They want what you see is
- 45:59Speaker 2: what you get. And we've heard from a lot of
- 46:02Speaker 2: designers who want fancy. Yeah. And fancy may not be
- 46:09Speaker 2: the answer for a lot of things. Yeah. Sometimes, you know,
- 46:13Speaker 2: you do see something which is impressive, fancy and yet effective,
- 46:17Speaker 2: but that seems to be the minority. Wow. Yeah. Yeah.
- 46:21Speaker 1: Yeah, this is you know what you want. What do
- 46:23Speaker 1: you want? You want heavy equipment outside of South Jersey?
- 46:26Speaker 1: What do you want? You want biotech out in Mendocino?
- 46:32Speaker 1: You want legal issues? You want ride shares? You want
- 46:36Speaker 1: rodeo interests outside of Fort Worth? It's just it's all
- 46:39Speaker 1: right there. You can put it together quick. Even someone
- 46:43Speaker 1: who isn't technologically advanced could go here. And even the
- 46:48Speaker 1: terms you have on there, it's like child care, right? pets,
- 46:52Speaker 1: rants and raves. It's like, it's just, it's every, anything
- 46:54Speaker 1: you could need is kind of right here.
- 46:57Speaker 2: And that means the site is always a fast and
- 47:01Speaker 2: it's not a lot of big back it back in
- 47:03Speaker 2: the ground. Wow. And see, we've helped people in the
- 47:08Speaker 2: tens of millions or more put food on the table,
- 47:11Speaker 2: but also jobs you mean and selling things. Uh, exactly. Okay.
- 47:15Speaker 2: And advertise their services. But also we've, The site is
- 47:20Speaker 2: so simple, we've shown tens or maybe hundreds of millions
- 47:25Speaker 2: of Americans that the internet could be useful and reasonably
- 47:32Speaker 2: easy to use. And that meant a lot of people
- 47:36Speaker 2: who may have been hesitant to get on the net,
- 47:39Speaker 2: they get on the net. And again, that's fairness for everyone.
- 47:43Speaker 2: That's treating people like you want to be treated. And
- 47:47Speaker 2: that ain't bad.
- 47:48Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 47:49Speaker 2: Fairness. That's an important word, huh? It's important to you. Uh,
- 47:53Speaker 2: very much so because, uh, you try, sometimes it's hard.
- 47:58Speaker 2: There are often tough decisions to be made. And, uh,
- 48:03Speaker 2: but Jim, uh, took over that for the company and,
- 48:07Speaker 2: you know, maybe he's done a better job than I
- 48:09Speaker 2: ever could. And I did make for a great customer
- 48:12Speaker 2: service rep.
- 48:13Speaker 1: What, what made you choose Jim Buckmaster? What was it
- 48:16Speaker 1: about him when you interviewed him?
- 48:18Speaker 2: Uh, He believed in the mission, and he was good
- 48:22Speaker 2: on the technology side because he, in a way, had
- 48:26Speaker 2: two jobs, manager and programmer, because getting good programmers is hard.
- 48:34Speaker 2: And Jim, over time, hired a tech staff, everyone better
- 48:39Speaker 2: at their job than I was. Wow. Wow. That's cool.
- 48:43Speaker 2: It's also cool to hear you recognize that.
- 48:45Speaker 1: Like, yeah, these people are better than I was, you know,
- 48:46Speaker 1: to learn where your spaces were best.
- 48:49Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm funnier than any of them are. Yeah, of course.
- 48:53Speaker 2: But that may not be a high bar. They sometimes
- 48:59Speaker 2: did great things, and like they would sometimes pull out
- 49:04Speaker 2: great ads of all sorts, particularly Miss Connections, and for
- 49:08Speaker 2: a while ran a running best of Craigslist. although I
- 49:12Speaker 2: haven't looked at that in a while. You see, with
- 49:15Speaker 2: the uh philanthropy stuff i'm doing that's consuming i'm now
- 49:20Speaker 2: working harder than i've ever been wow um because i
- 49:24Speaker 2: i guess i am in a mission uh you know
- 49:27Speaker 2: vets and their families need our help.
- 49:29Speaker 1: So that's one of your important causes i know independent
- 49:31Speaker 1: journalism veterans um what is another philanthropic cause.
- 49:36Speaker 2: You enjoy specifically also active service members and their families. Okay.
- 49:41Speaker 2: Without going on in length, I'm shocked that military families
- 49:45Speaker 2: aren't paid enough to get both a good place to
- 49:50Speaker 2: live and food. And the model used to be the
- 49:55Speaker 2: volunteer army would be single guys. Well, there's a lot
- 49:59Speaker 2: of families. They're relocated about 600,000 times a year. Oh, yeah.
- 50:04Speaker 2: And that's where Blue Star Families comes in, I can
- 50:07Speaker 2: go on a great length, and I think I'll stop there.
- 50:10Speaker 2: But that's the name of an organization that you help support? Yes. Well,
- 50:13Speaker 2: Bob Woodruff Foundation for Vets. Okay. $ 25 million from last night. Wow.
- 50:18Speaker 2: And I happen to have a meeting, an event with
- 50:21Speaker 2: Blue Star Families, which could also use something like that,
- 50:26Speaker 2: but which I won't pre-announce.
- 50:28Speaker 1: A fundraising event? Well, if you guys ever need a
- 50:30Speaker 1: comedian at one, I'd love to come. I can't believe it.
- 50:32Speaker 1: I wish I'd have known last night. I would have gone.
- 50:34Speaker 1: That would have been awesome.
- 50:35Speaker 2: Well. The connection is through Caroline Hirsch, who used to
- 50:38Speaker 2: run Caroline's and now runs the New York Comedy Festival. Yeah,
- 50:42Speaker 2: that's going on this week. Yeah, that's a world I
- 50:45Speaker 2: know nothing about. I kind of would like to, but
- 50:51Speaker 2: people are busy. I should do other things. The comedy
- 50:56Speaker 2: cellar is down the street from me. I've never gone in. Really? Yeah, well,
- 51:01Speaker 2: they seem to be busy.
- 51:02Speaker 1: Booked all the time they're pretty and it's limited seating
- 51:05Speaker 1: too in there yeah and.
- 51:06Speaker 2: They're supposed to open at least one more space and
- 51:08Speaker 2: uh yeah i uh should get off my butt and
- 51:15Speaker 2: do something but there's always lots more work um not
- 51:20Speaker 2: only my own work but let's say my in-laws need
- 51:22Speaker 2: some help oh yeah they always do god fortunately we
- 51:26Speaker 2: we can do a good job about that but uh
- 51:30Speaker 2: I got to stay focused on the areas where I'm
- 51:32Speaker 2: doing some good. The cybersecurity part is part of that
- 51:37Speaker 2: because this is the new war.
- 51:41Speaker 1: And did you start to learn that? Where did that
- 51:44Speaker 1: interest come from? Or where did that realization that cybersecurity
- 51:47Speaker 1: is going to be such a big thing? Was there
- 51:49Speaker 1: a lot of attacks on security at Craigslist? Did that happen?
- 51:54Speaker 2: Well, there was always something. But we had a good
- 51:57Speaker 2: team for that. Right. But did you have to have that?
- 52:00Speaker 1: Say if someone was attacking Craigslist, this is what I'm asking,
- 52:02Speaker 1: what would they be trying to get?
- 52:05Speaker 2: Well, they would be trying to disrupt service. Okay. They
- 52:09Speaker 2: would try to steal proprietary information, which did happen. What
- 52:15Speaker 2: does proprietary information mean? I'm sorry, Craig. Proprietary information at
- 52:18Speaker 2: any company is like secret information, like payroll, client list.
- 52:24Speaker 2: We didn't have much of that because we were a
- 52:26Speaker 2: simple classified site. But people thought that we had some, quote, unquote,
- 52:33Speaker 2: secret sauce. Yeah, some big fancy stuff. And the irony
- 52:37Speaker 2: is that that was never the case. And yet people
- 52:42Speaker 2: tried to do things. There were some problems with leakages
- 52:46Speaker 2: of that information. But the problem that I'm not concerned
- 52:52Speaker 2: with that at Craigslist now I'm concerned, well, I've been
- 52:56Speaker 2: reading about this for decades, and now I see that
- 53:01Speaker 2: an adversary would do something like, well, you know, they
- 53:06Speaker 2: would try to, a form of warfare would be to
- 53:09Speaker 2: try to jam or hack a drone. Right. If they
- 53:13Speaker 2: turn your drone against you, you're going to have a
- 53:16Speaker 2: bad day. If it's an autonomous drone, one that's figuring
- 53:20Speaker 2: out where the enemy is for itself, if they could
- 53:24Speaker 2: subvert it, they would turn our autonomous drone back against us.
- 53:30Speaker 2: That would make for someone's bad day.
- 53:32Speaker 1: Yeah, imagine if we sent out a drone and it's
- 53:35Speaker 1: supposed to get information, send it to an artillery unit
- 53:40Speaker 1: or a missile that's supposed to fire automatically from the
- 53:43Speaker 1: information from that drone and they're able to hack it.
- 53:45Speaker 2: You could literally... Our army could do it themselves. Wow.
- 53:48Speaker 2: There's a lot of mundane things like our... Well, our
- 53:54Speaker 2: hot water heaters at home are becoming internet connected, so
- 53:59Speaker 2: sometimes they could diagnose it remotely. Boilers like that in factories.
- 54:06Speaker 2: There are painting robots. And those things, if hacked, they
- 54:10Speaker 2: could start running them at high. Another could be just
- 54:15Speaker 2: told to run at high until it burns, causes a fire.
- 54:21Speaker 2: And if there's a few fires like that, your first
- 54:23Speaker 2: responders can deal. But if there's a thousand, you have
- 54:28Speaker 2: a problem.
- 54:28Speaker 1: Yeah, if somebody hacks your ovens, you don't even think
- 54:30Speaker 1: about that. Somebody hacks your ovens, next thing you know,
- 54:33Speaker 1: there's 1,100 fires in an area.
- 54:35Speaker 2: Now the deal is that there's room for optimism for
- 54:38Speaker 2: help because there are already people who are really good
- 54:42Speaker 2: at dealing with this. What I'm doing is gathering together,
- 54:47Speaker 2: funding them so that they could work together, starting to
- 54:50Speaker 2: work with local governments everywhere, everywhere through the country, starting
- 54:56Speaker 2: to come up with, let's say, some best practices because
- 55:00Speaker 2: we have some breathing space, we think. Got it. And
- 55:03Speaker 2: the idea is that water supplies, power supplies, they also
- 55:08Speaker 2: go down because of natural disasters. They need to be resilient.
- 55:12Speaker 2: They need to be where you knock them down, they
- 55:15Speaker 2: can come back up in a small amount of time.
- 55:19Speaker 1: It's even funny, like even with drones, like when I
- 55:21Speaker 1: was a kid, you had to do a little bit
- 55:22Speaker 1: of peeping Tom and right. If you wanted to look
- 55:25Speaker 1: into somebody's window, you had to go over there.
- 55:26Speaker 2: I don't know anything about that. Yeah. I'm not saying
- 55:29Speaker 2: you do. Yeah.
- 55:30Speaker 1: And I, you know, and I'm not saying I do,
- 55:32Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying? But I did, you know,
- 55:34Speaker 1: but I did, I know, but yeah, somebody here does.
- 55:37Speaker 2: And it's me.
- 55:38Speaker 1: Well, what I'm saying is this now as a kid,
- 55:40Speaker 1: you can use a drone. Uh, and that's the laziest
- 55:44Speaker 1: thing we, you had to go risk getting beat up
- 55:46Speaker 1: by a woman's husband. To look in their window, even
- 55:49Speaker 1: if they were just cooking or whatever, right? I'm not
- 55:52Speaker 1: getting lewd with it. I'm just saying, you know, but
- 55:55Speaker 1: now you can just get a drone and go do it.
- 55:57Speaker 1: It's like, just breaks my heart, some of.
- 55:59Speaker 2: That kind of stuff. Well, in Manhattan, apparently that's illegal.
- 56:04Speaker 2: And like, oh, right now I wonder, I like my
- 56:09Speaker 2: tech toys. Yeah. I would get a drone and I
- 56:12Speaker 2: would be bored with it after a few minutes. Yeah.
- 56:14Speaker 2: My neighbor kids would enjoy it. Because they would learn
- 56:17Speaker 2: how to use it really well, and their parents have
- 56:21Speaker 2: vetoed the idea for the reason you mentioned. I'm sure.
- 56:24Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. Yeah, because I'm still, like,
- 56:26Speaker 1: just squinting real hard and hoping I'm seeing something.
- 56:29Speaker 2: Well, it's a big problem in New York. I bet.
- 56:32Speaker 2: That's awesome. Lots of big problems, lots of big cities
- 56:36Speaker 2: all near each other.
- 56:37Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 56:38Speaker 2: And a contested airspace because we need the cops to
- 56:42Speaker 2: have drones.
- 56:44Speaker 1: That's just getting crazy. You don't think about all those things.
- 56:49Speaker 1: You don't think about all the ways that we could
- 56:50Speaker 1: be hacked and the immediate effects of it.
- 56:52Speaker 2: Yeah. So we need to protect ourselves in all sorts
- 56:56Speaker 2: of ways. And that's why the idea is to build
- 57:00Speaker 2: networks of volunteers who are running, let's say, the nonprofit world,
- 57:08Speaker 2: the NGO world. And that way, then they cooperate with
- 57:12Speaker 2: other parties and But we do have to, well, it's
- 57:16Speaker 2: like World War II. We looked out for each other.
- 57:19Speaker 2: Everyone tried to play their part. And the looking out
- 57:23Speaker 2: for each other in that positive way isn't bad. Yeah.
- 57:28Speaker 2: And like right now, if something starts happening weird with
- 57:34Speaker 2: my baby camera equivalent, I would like to be able
- 57:38Speaker 2: to get help from someone. Right. And- Even worse, if
- 57:43Speaker 2: the oven started running away, I would want to know
- 57:47Speaker 2: what to do about that.
- 57:48Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. When Craigslist, when you, at what point were
- 57:55Speaker 1: there ever, like, categories that you wouldn't do?
- 58:00Speaker 2: Were there ever? Right very early on, we heard in
- 58:05Speaker 2: large numbers that people didn't want gun sales on the site. Mm-hmm.
- 58:12Speaker 2: And there I am thinking, because I still have some
- 58:14Speaker 2: influence then, there are constitutional rights there. But one of
- 58:19Speaker 2: them is property rights. So if you have a site,
- 58:24Speaker 2: it's your property. You get to set the rules. So
- 58:27Speaker 2: you decide what's right and wrong there. So I believe
- 58:31Speaker 2: in property rights and freedom of choice. And that's what
- 58:35Speaker 2: you exercise. And that's what people do through the net.
- 58:40Speaker 2: It's your site, your thing. You decide what the rules are.
- 58:44Speaker 1: So you actually got to decide that or not decide it,
- 58:47Speaker 1: or you and your team?
- 58:49Speaker 2: Team. Okay. I had an opinion, but I wanted the team,
- 58:54Speaker 2: as such as it was, to work it out. That
- 58:58Speaker 2: was a little bit of good management, but I couldn't
- 59:03Speaker 2: consistently deliver good leadership. And even now I'm not a
- 59:08Speaker 2: top down kind of leader maybe I could lead by
- 59:11Speaker 2: example my frustration in a way is that I want
- 59:15Speaker 2: to be able to lead by example when it comes
- 59:18Speaker 2: there's a lot of people with a lot of discretionary
- 59:21Speaker 2: money billionaires who maybe could be doing really good stuff
- 59:26Speaker 2: with that and I'd like to have the skills to
- 59:31Speaker 2: inspire them. Understood. I don't have those skills. Well, I
- 59:35Speaker 2: don't even.
- 59:35Speaker 1: I mean, I think even here and today, the things
- 59:38Speaker 1: that you care about are things that sometimes I don't
- 59:40Speaker 1: even think to care about in some ways or fears
- 59:43Speaker 1: that I don't think that... You know, you don't even
- 59:45Speaker 1: think that, oh, somebody has to... We need to have...
- 59:48Speaker 1: A person needs to donate to this because maybe our
- 59:51Speaker 1: country isn't worried about it enough yet.
- 59:52Speaker 2: You know, it's... You know, so I think it sounds
- 59:55Speaker 2: like you're doing a good job. When you.
- 59:59Speaker 1: Did your company, because I'm trying to think like, so
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: guns was a thing.
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: Did you guys end up selling them on there or no? No,
- 1:00:05Speaker 2: he said no guns. Swords, anything? I have a feeling
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: swords are okay, but I've never thought about it. Yeah.
- 1:00:16Speaker 2: I'm trying to think of some, I mean, because he,
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: I mean. Drugs are illegal. They're off.
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: So drugs were off. But people would try to skirt
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: around that. But even then, some of that was sometimes also... Now,
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: were there ever.
- 1:00:30Speaker 2: Could the cops use your.
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: Site as well if they wanted to, like as decoy
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: type of stuff?
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: I hear gossip about that. I don't know how true
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: that really is. Right, because you don't know, right? I
- 1:00:43Speaker 2: do know that the cops have used the site in
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: different ways to fight crime. Sometimes, let's suppose they think
- 1:00:51Speaker 2: they see a stolen item being listed on the site,
- 1:00:57Speaker 2: then they would, well, this is true for anything on
- 1:00:59Speaker 2: the net. If a cop sees something they think is
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: wrong and they have a shot at doing something about it,
- 1:01:04Speaker 2: they send a subpoena or a search warrant to the site,
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: and then the site, the operators usually pass it to
- 1:01:13Speaker 2: their lawyers, and then the site operators provide the forensic
- 1:01:19Speaker 2: evidence to the cops. which again is like CSI and
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: just fighting, uh, fighting crime there. The deal is in
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: this country, we have these checks and balances, uh, in
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: the constitution and bill of rights. And, you know, the
- 1:01:34Speaker 2: founders of the country did a really good job of that.
- 1:01:37Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:01:38Speaker 2: You know, there are amendments and so on, which we
- 1:01:41Speaker 2: only thought of years after, but the, uh, the people
- 1:01:45Speaker 2: who did the initial work did great work and it, uh,
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: for the most part, stands up today. They built a
- 1:01:53Speaker 2: good structure over there.
- 1:01:54Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's funny because you guys, there was, yeah,
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: it's just like, it's such a part of history, you know,
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: it's such a, I mean, I went on dates from it.
- 1:02:02Speaker 1: I remember I met a girl, we, I met a
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: girl on, I mean, I would use casual encounters too,
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: you know, it's like, that was sometimes, I met a
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: girl one time and we watched a Nets game and
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: made love, honestly, and she let me sign her cast, right?
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, And we had a
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: great time.
- 1:02:21Speaker 2: I think we dated for a little bit. Well, there's
- 1:02:25Speaker 2: no accounting for taste. Yeah. But I'm glad you left. Yeah,
- 1:02:29Speaker 2: I know. Who wants to be a Mets fan? Yeah,
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: your guys can remember that one for later years. Oh,
- 1:02:35Speaker 2: they've been on there, dude. I think we accidentally met
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: up once.
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: But there was a place, you know, I was like,
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: I had such a tough time at a certain point
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: in my life dating. There was something that added a
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: level of mystery about it that I really liked.
- 1:02:48Speaker 2: I've never thought about that. Oh, yeah. Everyone works differently.
- 1:02:53Speaker 2: Everyone does have different tastes. And that's none of my business. Yeah.
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: You know, as long as it's legal. Oh, yeah. It
- 1:03:03Speaker 2: was legal.
- 1:03:04Speaker 1: It's funny to say that people started marriages. So people
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: even got married off of putting out a dating, like
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: I would like to meet someone.
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: Wow.
- 1:03:14Speaker 2: Did you ever get invited to a wedding or anything?
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: I have gotten invited a number of times. I'm not
- 1:03:19Speaker 2: much for ceremonies or galas or anything like that. And
- 1:03:24Speaker 2: my relatives know this very well. I have a dispensation
- 1:03:29Speaker 2: to not go to some of the more obscure events
- 1:03:32Speaker 2: on my wife's side. And on the record, I'm very grateful.
- 1:03:38Speaker 2: I think your comedy is getting better. I've promised... So
- 1:03:47Speaker 2: if I'm offered open mic night, I will not do it.
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- 1:05:28Speaker 1: When you guys, at what point did you realize, okay,
- 1:05:31Speaker 1: I need to, had you had enough of the day-to-day,
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: what made you start to decide I want to sell
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: the company?
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: I haven't sold the company. Oh, you haven't sold. Okay. Sorry.
- 1:05:41Speaker 2: Here's the, well, the history to prevent some confusion. Okay.
- 1:05:44Speaker 2: I gave a guy some equity. I made it a gift. Okay.
- 1:05:47Speaker 2: On the expectation that he'd deliver. Mm-hmm. That may have
- 1:05:51Speaker 2: not happened. Mm-hmm. But he wanted to sell. Mm-hmm. Sold
- 1:05:55Speaker 2: to eBay. Mm-hmm. Didn't work out, and we bought that
- 1:06:00Speaker 2: equity back from eBay. Nice. Now what I've done is
- 1:06:05Speaker 2: I had a chunk of equity stock, and again, thinking,
- 1:06:09Speaker 2: I don't need this. So I created a 501c4 foundation,
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: put all the equity in there, and that's what generates
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: dividends and sales. And that's what I'm using to fund
- 1:06:23Speaker 2: these things. So I now have a good idea of
- 1:06:27Speaker 2: of how much money I have to give away in
- 1:06:30Speaker 2: the rest of my life.
- 1:06:31Speaker 1: Because you can look at the dividends and the earnings.
- 1:06:35Speaker 2: That kind of stuff. And I figure I've got five
- 1:06:39Speaker 2: to 20 years, and I know roughly how fast I
- 1:06:44Speaker 2: should do it. And my trouble, though, is that I'm 72.
- 1:06:48Speaker 2: 20 years out, I may have to conduct due diligence
- 1:06:53Speaker 2: via a seance. Yeah. And... Ouija boards don't have the
- 1:06:59Speaker 2: bandwidth I need, so I may just come back and
- 1:07:03Speaker 2: haunt people. Yeah, hey, that would be awesome, yeah.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: Oh, I could definitely see a spirit looking for a
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: place to stay, you know?
- 1:07:10Speaker 2: You have an excellent point there, although computers don't operate
- 1:07:15Speaker 2: very well in the afterlife. Although I'm making an assumption.
- 1:07:20Speaker 2: I don't know if that's true. So you still own it?
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: Oh, I.
- 1:07:27Speaker 2: this is an important distinction. I now own no equity.
- 1:07:31Speaker 2: It's in that, uh, foundation 501 C four. Okay.
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: So the company was transferred into a foundation or sold
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: to a foundation.
- 1:07:38Speaker 2: My parts of it. Other people do own chunks of
- 1:07:41Speaker 2: the company and they do what's right for them. Okay. Me,
- 1:07:45Speaker 2: what's right for me is frankly to keep a little
- 1:07:48Speaker 2: for myself. Um, because, uh, the wife insists that she
- 1:07:53Speaker 2: needs to buy socks. Yeah. Oh yeah. And, uh, So
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: we have some leftover, which we do share with family.
- 1:08:02Speaker 2: But the vast bulk of it is now for charity.
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: I mean, just yesterday, a guy, I guess an economist,
- 1:08:11Speaker 2: analyzed what I would have made had I done the
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: usual Silicon Valley thing. He said, now I'd be worth
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: $ 11 billion. If you had saved the company and just
- 1:08:20Speaker 2: sold it? Well, if I did the usual. Right. And-
- 1:08:24Speaker 2: Maybe he's right. I don't understand the analysis. Right. But
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: I don't know what I would do with that. $ 11 billion? Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:08:31Speaker 2: what would you even do it?
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: How many... Yeah, because how much money can you put
- 1:08:35Speaker 1: in your bank?
- 1:08:37Speaker 2: Well, I don't think about it. There are some luxuries
- 1:08:41Speaker 2: I like, but I don't own a car. Really? Frankly,
- 1:08:45Speaker 2: between the subway and Uber, cabs, or Lyft, that's what
- 1:08:51Speaker 2: I need. Yeah.
- 1:08:52Speaker 1: And.
- 1:08:53Speaker 2: Again, this is not altruistic or anything like that. This
- 1:08:56Speaker 2: is just being sensible. just so our listeners know. Altruistic
- 1:09:02Speaker 2: means that you sometimes value helping other people more than yourself. Okay.
- 1:09:08Speaker 2: It's the Bible thing.
- 1:09:10Speaker 1: Right.
- 1:09:10Speaker 2: And I, uh, agree. I just, uh, my variation of, uh,
- 1:09:17Speaker 2: have enough to be comfortable and to indulge your family,
- 1:09:21Speaker 2: maybe friends sometimes, and then better to give stuff away.
- 1:09:26Speaker 2: It's a difficult balance because the future is unpredictable, and
- 1:09:31Speaker 2: I guess it's gotten more unpredictable, but there are people
- 1:09:34Speaker 2: who need a lot of where I can help without
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: digging into my personal stuff. Yeah.
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: Understood yeah i just wanted to know because yeah sometimes
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: i forget and sometimes maybe some of our listeners forget
- 1:09:46Speaker 1: did you ever feel like other tech companies even though
- 1:09:50Speaker 1: they were probably i bet secretly jealous look down at
- 1:09:53Speaker 1: craigslist because it was this.
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: Like what was that like i just wonder oh they've
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: uh they're they're quite explicit they don't it's not a
- 1:10:01Speaker 2: secret they don't like this model we have of doing
- 1:10:06Speaker 2: well by doing good um sometimes uh Let's say they're
- 1:10:11Speaker 2: not respectful of it, and that's okay. The thing is,
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: I remember what I learned in Sunday school, and people
- 1:10:19Speaker 2: often forget. And again, not pious of me or anything
- 1:10:23Speaker 2: like that.
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: No, I think it's fair to stand up for also
- 1:10:26Speaker 1: what you were aiming for.
- 1:10:27Speaker 2: Well, I've met a bunch of rich people. None of
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: them are all that happy. And yeah, having too much
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: money is a big trap, and you get surrounded by people,
- 1:10:44Speaker 2: by yes men, and you get insulated from the needs
- 1:10:50Speaker 2: of regular people, and that does some real damage.
- 1:10:56Speaker 1: How do you keep yourself balanced from that? Yeah, because
- 1:10:59Speaker 1: it's interesting, because you seem like someone who would have
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: a fair answer to what are some of the side effects,
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: the negative side effects of.
- 1:11:06Speaker 2: Well... The deal is that it. Money. I've had some money,
- 1:11:10Speaker 2: you know, or coming into some money. Yeah. The deal
- 1:11:13Speaker 2: is to be a little bit as cheap as I
- 1:11:17Speaker 2: was when I grew up in the 50s. And to
- 1:11:22Speaker 2: do things for yourself or by yourself, like especially going
- 1:11:26Speaker 2: cross town. I don't need to take a car. The
- 1:11:29Speaker 2: subway is usually better. And so I do that. Although
- 1:11:33Speaker 2: I did get here on a limo because someone else
- 1:11:36Speaker 2: paid for it. Yeah. And they really wanted to. Good.
- 1:11:41Speaker 2: So the deal is that now and then I will
- 1:11:45Speaker 2: go to a fancy dinner. Oh, yeah, that's nice. You
- 1:11:47Speaker 2: have to treat yourself to good food. Well, the thing
- 1:11:50Speaker 2: is that you could find good food a lot more
- 1:11:53Speaker 2: cheaply and with a little bit more fun. And so
- 1:11:58Speaker 2: a lot of those things I just don't get. And I...
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: wouldn't mind having a smaller house, but the wife's side
- 1:12:10Speaker 2: of the family is very, very large. Yeah. I have
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: one nephew and one niece. The nephew just got married,
- 1:12:19Speaker 2: and I had to attend that one. Yeah. However, on
- 1:12:24Speaker 2: my wife's side, we have 20 nephew and nieces. Oh,
- 1:12:27Speaker 2: that's too many. Well, it mostly means that I've learned
- 1:12:30Speaker 2: to control my language. Yeah. Because I don't want to...
- 1:12:35Speaker 2: I don't want to catch shit from any of my relatives. Yeah.
- 1:12:38Speaker 2: And it works out pretty well. Typically, I know, as
- 1:12:43Speaker 2: they say, that when the kid is allowed to watch HBO,
- 1:12:47Speaker 2: I'm allowed to use saltier languages.
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. I like that, buddy. Yeah, only salt in
- 1:12:53Speaker 1: our languages. Yeah, I was just wondering, what was, was
- 1:12:58Speaker 1: there one thing, like it was, whether it was something
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: like a, like a, like a specific Leonard Cohen piece,
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: a record that he made that he'd autographed. Was there
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: one nice thing you bought for yourself that, um, what
- 1:13:11Speaker 1: was something that was meaningful to you?
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: I bought some of the prints that he made. Oh,
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: you did. Okay. He's an artist for real. The thing
- 1:13:19Speaker 2: which I regret is that around here, there was an
- 1:13:22Speaker 2: auction of a lot of his letters and stuff. And
- 1:13:26Speaker 2: I should have, uh, I should have, uh, overindulged myself. Yeah. Um,
- 1:13:31Speaker 2: But it was the first auction I actually seriously participated in,
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: and I just didn't get anything. Yeah, man. I don't
- 1:13:41Speaker 2: recognize it. I didn't have anything in color. I did
- 1:13:44Speaker 2: as a black and white prince, and you're heading into
- 1:13:47Speaker 2: some of the ones that just passed. The ones in
- 1:13:49Speaker 2: the middle right now, two of them I think I have. Wow,
- 1:13:53Speaker 2: that's cool. Yeah, especially the one that's exactly what I have. Really? Yeah,
- 1:13:59Speaker 2: and I may have that one on a T-shirt. Wow. Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: Something like that's nice, man. Especially if it's art or
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: something like that. It's like, you know, if I could
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: go back in time, there was like a time, one
- 1:14:10Speaker 1: time I was in, I was in Tanzania, you know,
- 1:14:15Speaker 1: and I was doing a Mount Kilimanjaro.
- 1:14:17Speaker 2: Okay. Right.
- 1:14:19Speaker 1: And we, and afterwards we went someplace and they had
- 1:14:21Speaker 1: a piece of art in there and it was like $ 500. Right.
- 1:14:25Speaker 1: And I could spend like maybe $ 300, but I wished
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: I'd have spent, cause going like, it was 15 years
- 1:14:31Speaker 1: ago and it's like, you know, the $ 200 didn't, wouldn't
- 1:14:34Speaker 1: have changed my life that much. You know, it was
- 1:14:36Speaker 1: a lot of money at the time, but it's like,
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: I didn't even think about it two weeks later for
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: two months later, you know? So I just wish that
- 1:14:42Speaker 1: I would have, cause I really liked the painting, you know?
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: And I was like, God, I just, and sometimes I
- 1:14:47Speaker 1: wish like every now and then there's little things like that.
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: I wish I'd have gotten like a nice piece of
- 1:14:51Speaker 1: art or something, you know?
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: Yeah. And the, uh, let's see on my side of the, uh,
- 1:14:56Speaker 2: the house, that's the, uh, biggest investment I've made in art.
- 1:15:01Speaker 2: My wife was an art major, so she knows this stuff,
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: and a lot of it these days is cheap at auction,
- 1:15:07Speaker 2: and she's good at that. She's gotten good at a
- 1:15:10Speaker 2: number of things, including free upgrades while flying. Oh, yeah,
- 1:15:14Speaker 2: it's a deal. That's her new hobby, and she's good
- 1:15:17Speaker 2: at it. I'm trying to think of something else. Were
- 1:15:24Speaker 2: there other... So Craigslist was kind of the....
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: The stepchild of the tech industry in a weird way.
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: Was it looked at like that? Cause I could imagine
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: how jealous, cause here's people putting billions and millions of
- 1:15:37Speaker 1: dollars in a building, this thing, this new Avenue and
- 1:15:40Speaker 1: all these venture capitalists and stuff like that. And then they,
- 1:15:44Speaker 1: all this advertising and here you are with this basic
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: kind of peer to peer. How can I offer something
- 1:15:50Speaker 1: that could potentially help my neighbor or connect to neighbors
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: that could use something?
- 1:15:54Speaker 2: Yeah. We've always been an outlier and, As one person
- 1:15:57Speaker 2: put it, we're one of the few un-gentrified sites on
- 1:16:01Speaker 2: the net. And I guess we like it that way.
- 1:16:06Speaker 2: Not everything has to be expensive or fancy. To give
- 1:16:11Speaker 2: credit to a site I consider un-gentrified, that's Wikipedia. Wikipedia
- 1:16:18Speaker 2: is where facts go to live. And in the long run, Wikipedia,
- 1:16:22Speaker 2: I think, is the Most important of all sites, I
- 1:16:27Speaker 2: work with them. And even in New York, I'm working
- 1:16:30Speaker 2: with their local chapter to give classes Wikipedia for beginners. Really? Well,
- 1:16:37Speaker 2: when you get to write an article or change an article,
- 1:16:41Speaker 2: that gives you a lot of power. Well, in a
- 1:16:45Speaker 2: small way to determine how people think of things, you
- 1:16:50Speaker 2: get to write history.
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: Oh, and some of it's not true. Like, there's stuff
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: on my Wikipedia, like, attaching me to, like, a part
- 1:16:56Speaker 1: of my family. Like, they have half my family members
- 1:17:01Speaker 1: wrong on it and stuff, and it, like, puts me
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: in a.
- 1:17:03Speaker 2: It's crazy. I'm like, all right. The deal, unlike newspapers, well,
- 1:17:08Speaker 2: they don't correct themselves normally, especially not in a big way.
- 1:17:11Speaker 2: But in Wikipedia, you can do that, and basically you
- 1:17:17Speaker 2: can get a good citation, some evidence... of what's right
- 1:17:22Speaker 2: and wrong, and then send it to someone who knows
- 1:17:24Speaker 2: how to edit it. And they can do it. They
- 1:17:27Speaker 2: can do that. Oh, dang. I've got to get in there. Yeah.
- 1:17:30Speaker 2: You guys know how to get hold of me. Okay.
- 1:17:33Speaker 2: And then I know I can get hold of someone
- 1:17:38Speaker 2: who knows how to do the edits. At least how
- 1:17:39Speaker 2: to do it. I have not gone to the class yet. Okay. And, yeah,
- 1:17:44Speaker 2: the deal is that the system isn't perfect. Hmm. but
- 1:17:48Speaker 2: it's better than anything anyone else has tried. Yeah, it's true.
- 1:17:51Speaker 2: And things do get fixed. It may not happen as
- 1:17:55Speaker 2: fast as anyone wants. Um, but again, there's things, uh,
- 1:18:00Speaker 2: let's say in the, uh, newspaper of record, uh, and
- 1:18:04Speaker 2: things which I know are wrong and which have been
- 1:18:08Speaker 2: presented to them and they're just not going to fix it. Yeah.
- 1:18:12Speaker 2: And they don't want to, uh, I don't understand the
- 1:18:15Speaker 2: reason they want to shape history. Sometimes you think, well,
- 1:18:18Speaker 2: The deal is they were brought something which was wrong.
- 1:18:24Speaker 2: It was proven to be wrong. And they say they
- 1:18:27Speaker 2: weren't going to be truth vigilantes. And I guess I disagree. Yeah.
- 1:18:35Speaker 1: Yeah, that's interesting. Well, that's a big thing about information now.
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: It's like it's something I worry about with AI because
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: if there's and even just the history of the web,
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: like things in the history of the web, because people
- 1:18:47Speaker 1: can alter that over time.
- 1:18:48Speaker 2: Uh there's uh big problems with that now uh a
- 1:18:53Speaker 2: number of ai systems are feeding on the output of
- 1:18:56Speaker 2: other ai systems which could be hallucinating or it could
- 1:19:01Speaker 2: be if you compromised uh yeah well that's one way
- 1:19:05Speaker 2: to do that and i like the idea of uh
- 1:19:09Speaker 2: really good AI replacing or supplementing search. But I worry
- 1:19:17Speaker 2: about that also because even if I just casually screw around,
- 1:19:22Speaker 2: I can get the AI systems to produce wrong information.
- 1:19:28Speaker 2: And I talk about it with some of the people
- 1:19:31Speaker 2: at these companies and hope that they get it right.
- 1:19:36Speaker 2: I do have a lot of hope for AI doing
- 1:19:38Speaker 2: customer service because if it's done with commitment, if it's
- 1:19:42Speaker 2: done right, um, it can be done much better because
- 1:19:47Speaker 2: sometimes like you call up for a customer service, you
- 1:19:51Speaker 2: get a call center someplace where they just don't know
- 1:19:55Speaker 2: how to do it. They don't know. And I try
- 1:19:58Speaker 2: to be kind to people who have been effectively sabotaged
- 1:20:03Speaker 2: by their management. Sometimes I, uh, become less impatient than
- 1:20:08Speaker 2: I should be. Yeah. Oh yeah.
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: Oh, you'll call a customer service and they're like, we
- 1:20:13Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about, but they still
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: answer the phone.
- 1:20:15Speaker 2: I'm like, well, who are you? Yeah. Yeah. Instead of
- 1:20:19Speaker 2: complaining about that, I'm trying to talk about it and
- 1:20:24Speaker 2: I am putting my money where my mouth is like
- 1:20:26Speaker 2: for consumer reports, which I'm involved with and working with
- 1:20:30Speaker 2: a lot. With the magazine website? Yeah. Okay. Because they're
- 1:20:33Speaker 2: trustworthy and the idea is, is that, yeah, I would
- 1:20:39Speaker 2: enjoy working with an AI system which would be responsive
- 1:20:44Speaker 2: and give me good information. And even if it can't,
- 1:20:49Speaker 2: maybe it would kick it to a person who might
- 1:20:51Speaker 2: have to do research, but at least they would be
- 1:20:53Speaker 2: good at it. Understood.
- 1:20:55Speaker 1: Yeah, I actually have a question about that, but I
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: want to remember to ask this. How did Craigslist make money?
- 1:21:02Speaker 2: Oh, oddly enough, since we run very lean... Jim runs
- 1:21:06Speaker 2: us very lean. And even though we minimally charge, that
- 1:21:11Speaker 2: makes enough because we're not, we're not expected to produce
- 1:21:16Speaker 2: great results for VCs. For venture capitalists. Yeah.
- 1:21:20Speaker 1: So you don't have these, you don't have these money guys,
- 1:21:22Speaker 1: like I need my return.
- 1:21:24Speaker 2: Right. Uh, if no one's invested millions in us, we
- 1:21:28Speaker 2: don't have to go public. No one's looking to get, uh, uh, billions. And, uh, I'm, uh,
- 1:21:35Speaker 2: happy with the current results. Yeah. The future is scary sometimes,
- 1:21:41Speaker 2: but this works out pretty well. You've also talked a
- 1:21:44Speaker 2: lot about, yeah, that's your water. Yeah, thank you. I
- 1:21:47Speaker 2: have just like one or two more questions. Sure. I
- 1:21:53Speaker 2: can get it for you. I'm stubborn. You're stubborn? I
- 1:21:58Speaker 2: am stubborn. What?
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: Oh my God, dude, you're crazy, Craig, because... I've never
- 1:22:05Speaker 1: heard somebody imagine I'm trying to open a water, right?
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: I can't open it. And then I say, I'm stubborn.
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: Like I'm stubborn. I don't know. It didn't even make
- 1:22:20Speaker 1: sense to me. It was very, that was very funny. Well,
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: you're like, I can't open it. And I was like,
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: I don't know if you could open it out. I
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: was just trying to, I don't know, but I was like, oh,
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: can I help you? And then you're like, I'm stubborn.
- 1:22:33Speaker 1: But to me, in my head, I was like, he
- 1:22:35Speaker 1: can't open it, but he just, the bottle's stubborn.
- 1:22:40Speaker 2: Anyway, this didn't make any sense. My deal is that
- 1:22:42Speaker 2: as an old man, I'm happy when I can still
- 1:22:45Speaker 2: do some things. Oh, I see what you're saying. You've
- 1:22:49Speaker 2: talked a lot about independent journalism, right? Okay.
- 1:22:52Speaker 1: And that's something that I've read anyway is near and
- 1:22:55Speaker 1: dear to your outlook.
- 1:22:58Speaker 2: In the world. Okay. Well, what we learned in U.S.
- 1:23:02Speaker 2: history in this high school class is that a free
- 1:23:07Speaker 2: and trustworthy press is just required to keep a republic alive.
- 1:23:13Speaker 2: And the whole media system is fractured in all sorts
- 1:23:17Speaker 2: of unpredictable ways. You're part of that. I'm a lesser
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: part of it. And I don't know what to do now,
- 1:23:24Speaker 2: except that I try to support things that I know work,
- 1:23:27Speaker 2: like the journalism school at the City University of New York. Okay.
- 1:23:32Speaker 2: And Wikipedia is now modern journalism. There are other things
- 1:23:37Speaker 2: that I try to help, but I'm confused and I'm
- 1:23:42Speaker 2: kind of paralyzed around a lot of this. So I
- 1:23:45Speaker 2: did a lot in the past, but these days I'm
- 1:23:47Speaker 2: just trying to focus in those areas where I can
- 1:23:50Speaker 2: help Americans defend the country because that's a well-defined good
- 1:23:58Speaker 2: which we need in a big way right now. Like
- 1:24:03Speaker 2: service members, active or veteran, and their families have given
- 1:24:08Speaker 2: up a lot for us, and we don't treat them right,
- 1:24:10Speaker 2: so I could do something about that. Cyberwarfare, is a thing,
- 1:24:15Speaker 2: and it needs help, because the government can do some stuff,
- 1:24:19Speaker 2: but everyone needs to play a role, like in World
- 1:24:22Speaker 2: War II, everyone needs to harden their systems a little bit,
- 1:24:27Speaker 2: depending on how much of a target you are.
- 1:24:30Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny, I didn't realize until you said some
- 1:24:32Speaker 1: of those things, like, what if suddenly all of our
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: cars were compromised, or half of them, or all of
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: our ovens were compromised to the point where they started
- 1:24:40Speaker 1: fires in all of our homes, you know?
- 1:24:43Speaker 2: It was just kind of fascinating to me, you know? Well,
- 1:24:46Speaker 2: it means also I've read too much science fiction in
- 1:24:48Speaker 2: my time. But if 1% of those systems were compromised,
- 1:24:56Speaker 2: that alone is a big problem. Yeah, and we don't
- 1:24:58Speaker 2: even realize it.
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: Were there other businesses that you tried to start before
- 1:25:03Speaker 1: or after?
- 1:25:04Speaker 2: No, I am not a real businessman. It's been a
- 1:25:08Speaker 2: happy accident. I'm like any success I've had. has been
- 1:25:13Speaker 2: by accidentally being in the right time at the right place.
- 1:25:18Speaker 2: And that makes me the farthest gump of the internet.
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: But also with the right attitude to bring one person
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: to another, you know, try to keep the golden rule
- 1:25:27Speaker 1: in your mind, things you learned from Sunday school. Um,
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: what about, are your parents pretty proud of your parents
- 1:25:34Speaker 1: still alive, Greg?
- 1:25:36Speaker 2: Uh, they passed long ago. They did. I'm sure they, uh,
- 1:25:40Speaker 2: would be. I, uh, know that my high school history
- 1:25:44Speaker 2: teacher learned about his contributions to all my stuff. He
- 1:25:50Speaker 2: heard about it while he was still around, and that
- 1:25:54Speaker 2: was a big deal. Oh, that probably meant a lot, huh?
- 1:25:56Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:25:56Speaker 2: And, well, because teachers work hard for little pay.
- 1:25:59Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
- 1:26:00Speaker 2: So anything, anytime they have any long-term effect is a
- 1:26:04Speaker 2: big deal. Yeah.
- 1:26:06Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so funny. I still keep in touch with
- 1:26:08Speaker 1: a lot of my teachers, you know? It's important to me.
- 1:26:12Speaker 2: I should, but at my age, there may not be
- 1:26:14Speaker 2: many left. Well, that's why we got to get that
- 1:26:18Speaker 2: Ouija board going. Yes.
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: You know, I think that's the next level. What are some,
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: what are some small, before you leave, Craig, what are
- 1:26:24Speaker 1: some goals in your life like right now? I know
- 1:26:26Speaker 1: you've talked about some of the kind of work oriented
- 1:26:28Speaker 1: and giving back. Are there any kind of personal goals
- 1:26:31Speaker 1: or are there anything like, I don't know, is there
- 1:26:35Speaker 1: any kind of goals you have, even if they're just
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: like human goals?
- 1:26:38Speaker 2: To yourself, things you still want to learn or do? Professionally,
- 1:26:41Speaker 2: I want cybersecurity to be a household word that everyone
- 1:26:46Speaker 2: takes seriously. Personally, I'll be glad if the dentist tomorrow
- 1:26:53Speaker 2: uses nitrous oxide.
- 1:26:55Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 1:26:56Speaker 2: And I will make the same joke over again. That is,
- 1:27:00Speaker 2: can I take the bottle home? And he will refuse me.
- 1:27:05Speaker 2: But we like to do that.
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: No, we do like to do that.
- 1:27:09Speaker 2: I think that's good, guys. Pretty good. Is there anything
- 1:27:11Speaker 2: else that you want to share that's important to you?
- 1:27:14Speaker 2: I think you got it all, and I think people
- 1:27:15Speaker 2: will be tired of hearing from me after 90 minutes.
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: Well, look, I do know if you really want to
- 1:27:21Speaker 1: get some nitrous oxide, you might be able to find
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: some on Craig's list.
- 1:27:26Speaker 2: I've been advised by my medical team against it. All
- 1:27:30Speaker 2: I can remember, well, for sure, is like the Batman says,
- 1:27:35Speaker 2: I'm not the nerd you want, but I'm the nerd
- 1:27:38Speaker 2: you got.
- 1:27:40Speaker 1: Man, I don't know how somehow I almost get your
- 1:27:42Speaker 1: sense of humor now, Craig.
- 1:27:44Speaker 2: It's very interesting. That might be tragic. Yeah. Well, thank you, man.
- 1:27:48Speaker 1: Thank you for, uh, I like, I just like some,
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: I like your initial goals of like, my goal is
- 1:27:53Speaker 1: to help one person find something. This person's in need.
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: This person might have this. How can I be of
- 1:27:58Speaker 1: service there? Um, learning when you notice that I'm not
- 1:28:02Speaker 1: a good manager of this. So I need to get
- 1:28:03Speaker 1: some help here, right? It's not a strong suit of mine,
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: maybe this world, but the customer relations is a strong
- 1:28:09Speaker 1: suit of mine, you know, and And that's interesting just because,
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: you know, sometimes we all feel like we have to
- 1:28:13Speaker 1: do everything in different spaces. And then, yeah, and I'm
- 1:28:17Speaker 1: glad you found a lady.
- 1:28:18Speaker 2: Along the way.
- 1:28:19Speaker 1: How long has your marriage been now?
- 1:28:21Speaker 2: Married 12 and together 20. That's great. And it's good
- 1:28:25Speaker 2: that I'm better at remembering those dates than she is. Yeah, amen.
- 1:28:30Speaker 2: Craig Neumer, thank you so much, man. Hey, it's my pleasure.
- 1:28:33Speaker 2: I appreciate your time.
- 1:28:36Speaker 3: Now I'm just floating on the breeze And I feel
- 1:28:39Speaker 3: I'm floating like these leaves I must be cornerstone Oh,
- 1:28:47Speaker 3: but when I reach that ground I'll share this peace
- 1:28:51Speaker 3: of mind I found I can feel it in my
- 1:28:54Speaker 3: bones