Latest / Something Extra / Crafted with Purpose w/ Leah Spiros
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- 1:19Lisa Nichols: I'm thrilled to have Leah Spyros on the show today.
- 1:22Lisa Nichols: Leah is a calligrapher, engraver, painter, live event artist,
- 1:26Lisa Nichols: and the owner of Raft and Written.
- 1:29Lisa Nichols: Well, welcome to the Something Extra podcast, Leah Sparrows.
- 1:32Lisa Nichols: I'm so delighted that you are joining me today.
- 1:37Leah Spiros: I'm so glad to be here.
- 1:38Leah Spiros: I'm excited about this.
- 1:39Leah Spiros: I love listening to it.
- 1:40Leah Spiros: So it's an honor to be a part of it.
- 1:42Lisa Nichols: Well, I can't wait to introduce you to our listeners.
- 1:46Lisa Nichols: So, Leah, you and I are connected in several ways.
- 1:49Lisa Nichols: We are both on the board of directors for Rooted Sisters, and I think
- 1:53Lisa Nichols: that's how we first met.
- 1:55Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 1:56Leah Spiros: That's probably where we connected.
- 1:59Leah Spiros: We actually first met when you spoke at a little black book event
- 2:03Leah Spiros: at a luncheon
- 2:05Leah Spiros: a few years ago now.
- 2:08Lisa Nichols: Oh, my.
- 2:09Lisa Nichols: I remember that now.
- 2:10Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 2:11Lisa Nichols: That's when we first met.
- 2:13Lisa Nichols: And then yeah.
- 2:14Lisa Nichols: And then we've done a lot of things since then because I,
- 2:18Lisa Nichols: you know, our listeners will see in the picture that I have
- 2:22Lisa Nichols: been given several of your personalized gifts over
- 2:26Lisa Nichols: the years, and I just love them.
- 2:28Lisa Nichols: I have them in my office here.
- 2:30Lisa Nichols: And, so, yeah, we've just been and then you
- 2:34Lisa Nichols: recently my girls have a business, Kindred Spirits Designs.
- 2:38Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 2:38Leah Spiros: Love it.
- 2:39Lisa Nichols: You were so amazing.
- 2:41Lisa Nichols: You've supported them and championed them so beautifully, Leah.
- 2:44Lisa Nichols: And I just cannot tell you from a mama's heart how much that means
- 2:48Lisa Nichols: to me, but you recently did some calligraphy for them for an event they
- 2:52Lisa Nichols: were doing and just appreciate you so much.
- 2:57Leah Spiros: It was an honor.
- 2:58Leah Spiros: I love supporting young entrepreneurs at Paige and Ally are going
- 3:02Leah Spiros: places, and I love that they have that connection as sisters
- 3:07Leah Spiros: and in spirit, and they're both creative.
- 3:09Leah Spiros: They're making beautiful goods, so I love supporting that.
- 3:13Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 3:14Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 3:14Lisa Nichols: Well well, just a little plug for Kindred Spirits designs.
- 3:20Lisa Nichols: But let's we've got a lot to talk about, but I would love for
- 3:23Lisa Nichols: you to take me back to the beginning.
- 3:25Lisa Nichols: So how did your love for art really take
- 3:30Lisa Nichols: root?
- 3:31Leah Spiros: You know, I don't know exactly where it began, but as far back
- 3:35Leah Spiros: as I can remember, I think my mom would probably say about three years
- 3:38Leah Spiros: old, I was sketching.
- 3:40Leah Spiros: I would watch Olympics and gymnastics, and I would draw
- 3:44Leah Spiros: sketch, like, the motion of the gymnasts going across the screen doing a flip.
- 3:50Leah Spiros: My mom writes beautiful cursive and so did her mom, and so I
- 3:54Leah Spiros: really wanted to write like that.
- 3:56Leah Spiros: I just never pieced it all together as this could be my future.
- 4:00Leah Spiros: I just knew that I loved it.
- 4:02Leah Spiros: Anything pretty, anything
- 4:05Leah Spiros: beauty related, creating that, loved it.
- 4:10Lisa Nichols: I love that so much.
- 4:11Lisa Nichols: And I know you talk about your mom and how inspirational
- 4:15Lisa Nichols: and influential your mom has been on your journey.
- 4:19Lisa Nichols: And Absolutely.
- 4:20Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 4:20Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 4:21Leah Spiros: My mom was championed.
- 4:23Leah Spiros: I mean, really, any dream that I can think of,
- 4:27Leah Spiros: like, mom, let me put on this performance for you.
- 4:29Leah Spiros: She's like, okay.
- 4:30Leah Spiros: Her, my grandmother.
- 4:33Leah Spiros: And just
- 4:35Leah Spiros: just to support it, I can remember I actually had my own kindred spirits
- 4:38Leah Spiros: moment.
- 4:39Leah Spiros: When I was a kid, I actually made bracelets, beaded bracelets for Christmas
- 4:44Leah Spiros: with a jingle bell on them.
- 4:45Leah Spiros: And my mom took those and sold them at her office.
- 4:48Leah Spiros: And just, you know, as a kid, that really makes you feel
- 4:53Leah Spiros: believed in and, like, well, I can do anything.
- 4:57Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 4:57Leah Spiros: So yes.
- 4:58Leah Spiros: And she's just a woman of the word, a woman of the Lord.
- 5:01Leah Spiros: She loves the Lord, and just wisdom spills out when she speaks.
- 5:04Leah Spiros: So I'm very blessed to call her my
- 5:07Lisa Nichols: mom.
- 5:07Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so beautiful.
- 5:08Lisa Nichols: Well, I can say the same thing about my mom.
- 5:11Lisa Nichols: She really was
- 5:13Speaker 0: inspirational
- 5:13Lisa Nichols: to me.
- 5:13Lisa Nichols: In fact, I can't you can't see it here, but on my
- 5:18Lisa Nichols: my mom did all kinds of crafts.
- 5:20Lisa Nichols: She was an excellent seamstress.
- 5:23Lisa Nichols: Excellent.
- 5:23Lisa Nichols: I mean, she made a lot of my clothes.
- 5:26Lisa Nichols: I've got a purse on my, bookcase here that my
- 5:30Lisa Nichols: mom decoupage when I was a little you know, she did decoupage.
- 5:34Lisa Nichols: She did all that, but she always had me working with my hands.
- 5:38Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 5:39Lisa Nichols: I mean, I have a real love for the performing arts.
- 5:42Lisa Nichols: I have a real love for the fine arts, and she always had
- 5:46Lisa Nichols: me working with my hands and,
- 5:50Lisa Nichols: doing all kinds of music lessons and things like that.
- 5:52Lisa Nichols: But also just had something going all the time.
- 5:55Lisa Nichols: I was learning needlepoint or doing something all the time.
- 6:00Lisa Nichols: But now she did try to teach me how to sew clothes.
- 6:05Leah Spiros: How'd that go?
- 6:06Lisa Nichols: And I just never really got the hang of it.
- 6:09Lisa Nichols: You know, I'm sure if I'd maybe kept after it, maybe I could have
- 6:12Lisa Nichols: improved.
- 6:12Lisa Nichols: But, yeah, I pretty much left that to her.
- 6:16Lisa Nichols: But, I definitely think that love for art, really,
- 6:20Lisa Nichols: I think she inspired that.
- 6:22Lisa Nichols: And I think that's a good reminder for us what you just
- 6:26Lisa Nichols: said about your mom.
- 6:28Lisa Nichols: You know, for us and for those listeners out there with kiddos, you know,
- 6:32Lisa Nichols: let them explore things and champion whatever because you have no
- 6:36Lisa Nichols: idea where that's gonna take them.
- 6:38Leah Spiros: Absolutely.
- 6:41Leah Spiros: Every mind has so much potential to make great things.
- 6:44Leah Spiros: It might not always seem to be what we quantify as creative,
- 6:49Leah Spiros: but it's expressed differently for every person.
- 6:52Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 6:53Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 6:53Lisa Nichols: And even if it's not, you know, what they end up doing
- 6:57Lisa Nichols: later on, I think that love can come out in different
- 7:01Lisa Nichols: ways.
- 7:02Lisa Nichols: Like, I think about kids that love to draw.
- 7:05Lisa Nichols: Maybe they're gonna be a graphics designer one day or maybe
- 7:09Lisa Nichols: design clothing.
- 7:10Lisa Nichols: Who knows?
- 7:11Lisa Nichols: But I think all of those experiences are really important.
- 7:15Lisa Nichols: Well, you, have a degree in interior design.
- 7:18Leah Spiros: I do.
- 7:19Lisa Nichols: From Maryville University.
- 7:21Lisa Nichols: And upon graduating, you took a job as a store planner at Save A
- 7:24Lisa Nichols: Lot.
- 7:24Lisa Nichols: Now I don't really know the job of a store planner, but I'm thinking
- 7:28Lisa Nichols: you may have done the layout of the store and the
- 7:32Lisa Nichols: how things are presented in the store.
- 7:34Lisa Nichols: Is that what a store planner would do?
- 7:37Leah Spiros: That would be a good part of it.
- 7:38Leah Spiros: Another part would be, like, the egress, really understanding how people move
- 7:43Leah Spiros: throughout a space, throughout a store.
- 7:45Leah Spiros: You know, there's intentionality of why the produce is up front and why the
- 7:48Leah Spiros: milk is in the back.
- 7:49Leah Spiros: And getting to be on the backside of that, like, behind the scenes with
- 7:53Leah Spiros: that, I learned the purpose in every, like, grocery store design
- 7:58Leah Spiros: and why some work and why some don't.
- 8:00Leah Spiros: So it was a very,
- 8:03Leah Spiros: enriching job because it just taught me to see spaces, specifically
- 8:07Leah Spiros: one that we use every day,
- 8:10Leah Spiros: differently and with more depth of insight.
- 8:13Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 8:13Lisa Nichols: That is awesome.
- 8:15Lisa Nichols: Well, in twenty eighteen, you took that leap onto the entrepreneurial wagon.
- 8:19Leah Spiros: I did.
- 8:20Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 8:20Lisa Nichols: And founded, wrapped, and written.
- 8:23Lisa Nichols: You know, what made you finally decide to take that leap?
- 8:26Lisa Nichols: And I also want to know, I I don't know if you've been asked
- 8:29Lisa Nichols: this before, but where did the name come from?
- 8:32Leah Spiros: Oh, yes.
- 8:33Leah Spiros: I don't get asked that asked that often.
- 8:35Leah Spiros: So,
- 8:36Leah Spiros: I took that leap in twenty eighteen after my husband and I
- 8:40Leah Spiros: took some time to pray about it.
- 8:43Leah Spiros: We got married the year before, and my husband already had a kiddo.
- 8:48Leah Spiros: He had two, but one was an actual kiddo.
- 8:50Leah Spiros: And,
- 8:52Leah Spiros: really, on the day of our wedding, I just remember having this really strong
- 8:56Leah Spiros: feeling of, okay.
- 8:58Leah Spiros: I don't know that this I think the season is over.
- 9:01Leah Spiros: I knew I always wanted to be present and available to my kids wherever
- 9:05Leah Spiros: they came from.
- 9:05Leah Spiros: Just I want it to be accessible, and and I wanted them to know
- 9:09Leah Spiros: that too.
- 9:10Leah Spiros: Not just me, but for them to know if I call home, mom's gonna
- 9:13Leah Spiros: be there.
- 9:13Leah Spiros: If if the teacher calls home, she's gonna be there.
- 9:16Leah Spiros: Like, if I get in and I need help with my homework, she's going
- 9:19Leah Spiros: to be there.
- 9:20Leah Spiros: I just really had a high value on that.
- 9:23Leah Spiros: And so, we prayed about it a while.
- 9:26Leah Spiros: We tried to look at some remote options through my current job, which at
- 9:29Leah Spiros: that time, I was doing commercial kitchens for another company,
- 9:33Leah Spiros: back of house design, and it just didn't work with their model for me
- 9:37Leah Spiros: to be able to be remote.
- 9:41Leah Spiros: And so we took a year, a solid year, prayed about it.
- 9:44Leah Spiros: My husband gave me some opportunities to, like, hey.
- 9:47Leah Spiros: Take some time off and, like, just create and see if you like doing
- 9:51Leah Spiros: this all of the time.
- 9:52Leah Spiros: Like, it's different when you are doing it for a day or two, but,
- 9:55Leah Spiros: like, take two weeks.
- 9:57Leah Spiros: And I couldn't get enough of it.
- 9:59Leah Spiros: I loved it.
- 9:59Leah Spiros: And he's like, okay.
- 10:00Leah Spiros: I think I think we can do that.
- 10:02Leah Spiros: And so we felt connected and unified on it at the same time.
- 10:07Leah Spiros: And I put in a, like, a two months notice to make sure they
- 10:10Leah Spiros: had time to transition.
- 10:12Leah Spiros: And then I stepped into my first show the week after my last day.
- 10:16Lisa Nichols: Oh my goodness.
- 10:16Lisa Nichols: You're part of the so did you have product?
- 10:19Lisa Nichols: Did you have product at that point or was it a live event?
- 10:22Leah Spiros: It was, it was product.
- 10:24Leah Spiros: So in that time, in the early days of my business, I was more
- 10:28Leah Spiros: focused on home decor.
- 10:30Leah Spiros: And, I was doing a lot of, like, scripture passage signage
- 10:34Leah Spiros: for people to hang in their homes that were just calligraphy based or pretty
- 10:38Leah Spiros: lettering.
- 10:39Leah Spiros: And that was my focus, and then I went into stationery.
- 10:43Leah Spiros: So it was a lot of home goods that was that was more a
- 10:46Leah Spiros: main focus at that time.
- 10:47Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 10:48Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 10:49Lisa Nichols: Wow.
- 10:50Lisa Nichols: So, Leah, let me ask you.
- 10:52Lisa Nichols: What was going on emotionally for you from trans
- 10:56Lisa Nichols: you know, transferring from this corporate role that you'd had, the security
- 11:01Lisa Nichols: of that onto the entrepreneurial wagon?
- 11:03Lisa Nichols: I mean, what was going on emotionally?
- 11:05Lisa Nichols: Were there some transitions that you had to kinda work through?
- 11:09Leah Spiros: Absolutely.
- 11:09Leah Spiros: I will say I did have peace and probably because I was so purpose
- 11:13Leah Spiros: driven in it.
- 11:14Leah Spiros: It wasn't even just about let me launch my business, but it was let
- 11:17Leah Spiros: me be good for my family.
- 11:19Leah Spiros: So that gave me a lot of peace and just knowing that we had
- 11:22Leah Spiros: prayed about it and felt so secure in it.
- 11:25Leah Spiros: But you do have those uncertainties of will someone show
- 11:29Leah Spiros: up.
- 11:29Leah Spiros: This one got rained out.
- 11:31Leah Spiros: I don't know if this is going to yield as much as this last
- 11:35Leah Spiros: show went.
- 11:35Leah Spiros: I'm finding what areas work best for me.
- 11:37Leah Spiros: There were so many of those components that I couldn't guarantee that were outside
- 11:41Leah Spiros: of my control.
- 11:42Leah Spiros: And after years of having a paycheck from someone, decades
- 11:46Leah Spiros: of having a paycheck from someone, that's a big leap
- 11:50Leah Spiros: to know it all depends on me, obviously, with the help of the Lord.
- 11:54Leah Spiros: But still, I have to make that hustle.
- 11:56Leah Spiros: I have to make that grind to make those connections.
- 12:00Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 12:01Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 12:01Lisa Nichols: It is it is definitely risky, but when you take
- 12:05Lisa Nichols: the time to do it the way you did it, you know, the peace,
- 12:10Lisa Nichols: you know, was there and you knew that, hey, you know, me
- 12:14Lisa Nichols: plus God,
- 12:16Lisa Nichols: we can do this.
- 12:17Lisa Nichols: And and to your point, you had a greater purpose.
- 12:19Lisa Nichols: You had a greater purpose that was driving you.
- 12:21Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 12:22Lisa Nichols: Absolutely.
- 12:23Lisa Nichols: So I love that.
- 12:25Lisa Nichols: Do can you share, in this journey, in this entrepreneurial
- 12:29Lisa Nichols: journey, can you share a moment
- 12:33Lisa Nichols: maybe in time where, Leah, you knew that you knew that
- 12:38Lisa Nichols: you knew that you were doing what you were made to do?
- 12:42Leah Spiros: Wow.
- 12:45Leah Spiros: I mean,
- 12:47Leah Spiros: that moment is is multiplied because it's it's almost every time
- 12:51Leah Spiros: I'm creating something.
- 12:53Leah Spiros: There's an an unspeakable joy that comes from that
- 12:57Leah Spiros: level of expression for me, And it comes back to
- 13:01Leah Spiros: childhood, like I said, of making things, of creating things, of doing
- 13:06Leah Spiros: making things that are attractive that bring people joy.
- 13:09Leah Spiros: That's really what it comes down to.
- 13:11Leah Spiros: And so whenever I can do that, whether it's planning an event or
- 13:15Leah Spiros: creating a piece or writing a script, whatever,
- 13:20Leah Spiros: that gives me a great sense of joy.
- 13:22Leah Spiros: But there's something about doing it, working with my hands,
- 13:27Leah Spiros: that also makes that very,
- 13:31Leah Spiros: very fulfilling and helping me just feel confirmed, and this is
- 13:35Leah Spiros: absolutely where I can be.
- 13:37Leah Spiros: And I'm an extrovert.
- 13:38Leah Spiros: I like people.
- 13:39Leah Spiros: So, you know, I'm in my home studio, and I'm just going at it,
- 13:44Leah Spiros: But I still have that sense of joy and comfort and goodness because
- 13:48Leah Spiros: I know I'm doing something that on the other end, someone's going to have
- 13:52Leah Spiros: joy.
- 13:52Leah Spiros: They're gonna feel seen.
- 13:53Leah Spiros: They're gonna feel valued, and they're going to be appreciated.
- 13:56Leah Spiros: And I played a small part.
- 13:57Leah Spiros: I got to help.
- 13:59Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 14:00Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 14:00Lisa Nichols: I wanna talk about it more.
- 14:01Lisa Nichols: Well, I I love that.
- 14:03Lisa Nichols: And I've always thought, like, that process of creating
- 14:07Lisa Nichols: something from nothing.
- 14:09Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 14:10Lisa Nichols: There is something about that.
- 14:12Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 14:12Lisa Nichols: But, you know, Jordan Rayner is one of
- 14:16Lisa Nichols: my podcast guest and a popular author.
- 14:19Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 14:20Lisa Nichols: Maya, and I love I love love love what he says about
- 14:24Lisa Nichols: this.
- 14:24Lisa Nichols: You know, our father is a creator.
- 14:27Leah Spiros: That's right.
- 14:28Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 14:29Lisa Nichols: And we were meant.
- 14:30Lisa Nichols: We were born to create.
- 14:32Lisa Nichols: And whether that is creating in the way that you are or creating
- 14:36Lisa Nichols: a new product or a business or children.
- 14:41Lisa Nichols: Whatever the case is, we are co creators with him.
- 14:45Lisa Nichols: And, you know, that's the way God wired us.
- 14:47Lisa Nichols: It's it's a beautiful thing to be able to to participate in that,
- 14:52Lisa Nichols: I think.
- 14:53Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 14:54Lisa Nichols: Now you had this, interior design background.
- 14:57Lisa Nichols: How did that really influence your work today?
- 15:02Leah Spiros: You know, so much of design is some basic
- 15:06Leah Spiros: elements.
- 15:07Leah Spiros: There's line, there's space, there's placement, there's color,
- 15:11Leah Spiros: there's aesthetic.
- 15:12Leah Spiros: All of those basic principles that are the foundation of design play into
- 15:18Leah Spiros: into
- 15:20Leah Spiros: what I produce and and the output.
- 15:22Leah Spiros: So I can look at something or I can have a client ask me,
- 15:26Leah Spiros: well, what do you think about this?
- 15:27Leah Spiros: And I can say, you know, those colors will complement each other wonderfully.
- 15:31Leah Spiros: And if we add this, it will make that you know, you said that
- 15:35Leah Spiros: they really enjoy this kind of flower.
- 15:37Leah Spiros: If we incorporate that into it, I think that will make it pop and
- 15:40Leah Spiros: still give attention to this, you know, and and then they get excited
- 15:44Leah Spiros: because I can speak a language that,
- 15:47Leah Spiros: I can translate their vision and thoughts into
- 15:52Leah Spiros: reality in language that is executed.
- 15:55Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 15:55Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so good.
- 15:57Lisa Nichols: That's so good.
- 15:58Lisa Nichols: Well, I know, like, so much of your work and the work that's in
- 16:01Lisa Nichols: the picture that our listeners are gonna see is a work of calligraphy.
- 16:06Leah Spiros: Okay.
- 16:07Lisa Nichols: And some people think calligraphy and cursive are the same, but they're not.
- 16:10Lisa Nichols: You're not.
- 16:12Lisa Nichols: Tell our listeners a little bit of the difference.
- 16:14Lisa Nichols: I mean, you know, I I would love to hear it from your mouth.
- 16:17Speaker 0: What's the difference?
- 16:18Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 16:19Leah Spiros: The main difference is that cursive is a continuous line.
- 16:23Leah Spiros: You're writing if you're writing your name, it's all flowing into
- 16:27Leah Spiros: one.
- 16:27Leah Spiros: With calligraphy, it's really a series of strokes that come together
- 16:31Leah Spiros: to build the letter and to build the word.
- 16:35Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 16:35Leah Spiros: So you are lifting your pen.
- 16:37Leah Spiros: You're lifting your pencil sometimes.
- 16:39Leah Spiros: It is not just one line.
- 16:40Leah Spiros: You're repositioning to get angles and create that,
- 16:44Leah Spiros: continuity in your piece.
- 16:46Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 16:47Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 16:47Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 16:49Lisa Nichols: Tell us about,
- 16:51Lisa Nichols: can you work through the process, you know, from concept to
- 16:55Lisa Nichols: final piece?
- 16:56Lisa Nichols: And first of all, you have to have a client.
- 16:59Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 16:59Leah Spiros: You have
- 17:00Lisa Nichols: to have a customer that comes to you.
- 17:01Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 17:02Lisa Nichols: I just received a beautiful,
- 17:06Lisa Nichols: personalized wine bottle.
- 17:08Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 17:09Lisa Nichols: Progress sixty four, for a keynote that I did last year.
- 17:13Lisa Nichols: And did they come to you with that particular concept?
- 17:18Lisa Nichols: Or did you work with them to figure out what that could be?
- 17:22Leah Spiros: A little of both.
- 17:23Leah Spiros: So I've done some work with them before for gifting, and the
- 17:27Leah Spiros: go to tends to be the engraved wine bottle, which is a very special
- 17:31Leah Spiros: bespoke piece.
- 17:32Leah Spiros: And so, they gave me some words.
- 17:34Leah Spiros: We we workshopped a little bit about how many and where
- 17:39Leah Spiros: it would fit because, again, we want a strong design.
- 17:41Leah Spiros: We don't want just words, and it all just got on there.
- 17:45Leah Spiros: We want it to be beautiful and make sense.
- 17:48Leah Spiros: And so, we worked out what those needed to be, and
- 17:52Leah Spiros: I think there's a lot of value in the recipient's name being prominent,
- 17:56Leah Spiros: not the company or the giver's name.
- 18:00Leah Spiros: That says a lot to that recipient about where they're valued or prioritized.
- 18:04Leah Spiros: Right?
- 18:05Leah Spiros: And so, once I had that content, I
- 18:09Leah Spiros: sketched it out to see how I felt about how it looked.
- 18:12Leah Spiros: I have the bottle shape, and I I put the pieces on there and
- 18:16Leah Spiros: looked at how it would stack.
- 18:18Leah Spiros: And then I pulled out my engraver and
- 18:22Lisa Nichols: Went to work.
- 18:23Lisa Nichols: And Yeah.
- 18:25Leah Spiros: Went to work.
- 18:25Leah Spiros: Went to work.
- 18:26Lisa Nichols: And and I was a recipient, and I can tell you I had great
- 18:29Lisa Nichols: joy because it was a personalized piece specifically
- 18:34Lisa Nichols: for me commemorating that date, which was just so special.
- 18:38Lisa Nichols: Let me, you do a lot of personalized live
- 18:42Lisa Nichols: events too, Leah.
- 18:44Lisa Nichols: Can you tell our listeners about that and what does that process look like?
- 18:48Leah Spiros: Absolutely.
- 18:49Leah Spiros: So, one of the things that's really helpful for any company is
- 18:53Leah Spiros: to have brand activations.
- 18:54Leah Spiros: It gets eyes on your brand.
- 18:57Leah Spiros: It, provides your clients, customers, or potential clients
- 19:01Leah Spiros: and customers a sense of connectivity and engagement, and,
- 19:05Leah Spiros: and it's a value add.
- 19:07Leah Spiros: And so what companies will do is book me for an amount of time.
- 19:10Leah Spiros: They will let me know which service they want.
- 19:12Leah Spiros: Do they want calligraphy on cards?
- 19:14Leah Spiros: Do they want pieces engraved?
- 19:16Leah Spiros: Do they want product painting?
- 19:19Leah Spiros: And then once they've confirmed that, then I will bring my little
- 19:23Leah Spiros: case.
- 19:24Leah Spiros: And they provide the product, and I provide the service, and
- 19:28Leah Spiros: the clients or the guests, get the gifts.
- 19:33Leah Spiros: So, coming up, like, this weekend, we've got Mother's Day coming up, and,
- 19:38Leah Spiros: Neiman is going to have a Mother's Day event.
- 19:40Leah Spiros: And so in their fragrance department, when someone purchases a fragrance,
- 19:44Leah Spiros: they automatically will get this gift with purchase, so to speak, of having it
- 19:49Leah Spiros: engraved.
- 19:50Leah Spiros: So they'll have all kinds of messages like, happy birthday, mom, or I love
- 19:53Leah Spiros: you, mom, or I appreciate you in my life, and I'll engrave that.
- 19:57Leah Spiros: So then that fragrance becomes a keepsake because
- 20:01Leah Spiros: they don't throw those away.
- 20:03Leah Spiros: And I've had so many people tell me, I'm never throwing this away.
- 20:07Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 20:07Lisa Nichols: Exactly.
- 20:08Leah Spiros: And a lot of those luxury fragrance bottles are beautiful anyway.
- 20:10Leah Spiros: Right?
- 20:11Leah Spiros: And so that piece that just makes it that
- 20:15Leah Spiros: great conversation piece and and visual for that dresser top, it's
- 20:19Leah Spiros: that much more special.
- 20:20Lisa Nichols: So cool.
- 20:21Lisa Nichols: That is so cool.
- 20:22Lisa Nichols: We've been at events before, Leah, where there was an artist there.
- 20:26Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 20:28Lisa Nichols: And with a blank canvas and you're not really sure what's going to be,
- 20:32Lisa Nichols: you know, on the canvas at the end.
- 20:34Lisa Nichols: But that's that just always adds such a special element, I believe,
- 20:38Lisa Nichols: to to a live event.
- 20:39Lisa Nichols: Absolutely.
- 20:41Lisa Nichols: I have to ask you this.
- 20:43Lisa Nichols: How do you personally stay inspired creatively?
- 20:47Lisa Nichols: And do you ever experience creator's block?
- 20:50Lisa Nichols: You know, there's writer's block.
- 20:52Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 20:53Lisa Nichols: Do you ever experience that block?
- 20:55Lisa Nichols: And if you do, how do you get yourself out of it?
- 20:58Lisa Nichols: How do you stay inspired?
- 21:00Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 21:00Leah Spiros: I think the answer to both of those kind of goes together.
- 21:03Leah Spiros: So I do have creative block every now and then, and that
- 21:07Leah Spiros: typically comes when I'm forcing the issue.
- 21:10Leah Spiros: If I am trying to make myself make something, like, come up
- 21:14Leah Spiros: with an idea, come up with a concept,
- 21:17Leah Spiros: with such wondrous pressure driven creativity, you know, you're
- 21:21Leah Spiros: growing grapefruit.
- 21:22Leah Spiros: And so,
- 21:24Leah Spiros: I
- 21:26Leah Spiros: try to gain space, whatever that looks like.
- 21:28Leah Spiros: Maybe it's stepping outside for a moment, maybe it's getting in the word
- 21:32Leah Spiros: and finding a scripture like a psalm is always a great source
- 21:36Leah Spiros: of inspiration for me.
- 21:38Leah Spiros: Going to the Botanical Gardens, going to Forest Park, going to pretty spaces.
- 21:43Leah Spiros: If I can seek beauty outside myself, I can receive what I need to
- 21:47Leah Spiros: create more for others.
- 21:49Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's great.
- 21:51Lisa Nichols: Well, I have found that before, like, with writing.
- 21:54Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 21:54Leah Spiros: You
- 21:54Lisa Nichols: know, taking a walk in the park and just really
- 21:58Lisa Nichols: letting my senses Yes.
- 22:00Lisa Nichols: Just really hone in on what I'm hearing
- 22:03Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 22:04Lisa Nichols: What I'm seeing.
- 22:07Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 22:07Lisa Nichols: I've I've just gotten so many lessons just from
- 22:11Lisa Nichols: slowing down and observing, I feel, sometimes.
- 22:15Lisa Nichols: So that's good.
- 22:17Lisa Nichols: Well, you know, you say that your business was born from discovering the good
- 22:21Lisa Nichols: in God's word, and I know that you are a faith filled woman.
- 22:26Lisa Nichols: In fact, I don't know if we'll have a picture of this, but behind
- 22:30Lisa Nichols: Leah, there you see there's a whole wall of writing.
- 22:34Lisa Nichols: And I know from knowing Leah, that's all scripture.
- 22:37Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 22:40Lisa Nichols: How has your faith really influenced your creative process
- 22:44Lisa Nichols: and what you're doing?
- 22:45Leah Spiros: One of my favorite passages comes from Exodus, and it
- 22:49Leah Spiros: talks about it's when they're starting to work on the temple, and God
- 22:53Leah Spiros: is giving directions, and he is calling them to specifically work
- 22:58Leah Spiros: in, quote, artistic designs.
- 23:02Leah Spiros: There is something beautiful about knowing that the creator still perpetuated
- 23:06Leah Spiros: creating in his creation.
- 23:09Leah Spiros: Right?
- 23:10Leah Spiros: It just keeps going.
- 23:11Leah Spiros: And so feeling like I'm on mission with that just
- 23:17Leah Spiros: it just blows everything wide open.
- 23:19Leah Spiros: And, one of my other favorite passages is Philippians four eight,
- 23:23Leah Spiros: and it talks about thinking on whatever is true, noble, right,
- 23:27Leah Spiros: pure, lovely, and admirable.
- 23:30Leah Spiros: I like those components to be in what I do and what I put
- 23:33Leah Spiros: out.
- 23:33Leah Spiros: And so,
- 23:35Leah Spiros: you know, I will connect with the Lord and talk to him about designs.
- 23:39Leah Spiros: I will ask him when I have creative block.
- 23:41Leah Spiros: Like, god, why can't I not get past this?
- 23:43Leah Spiros: Like, what do I need to do right now?
- 23:46Leah Spiros: I try to pray over the recipients of the gifts that they'll be blessed,
- 23:50Leah Spiros: that they will feel loved.
- 23:52Leah Spiros: I don't know if it's gonna be a piece that changes their mind about
- 23:55Leah Spiros: a life choice or, you know, or makes them feel
- 23:59Leah Spiros: better in a day that was just completely felt wrong for them.
- 24:03Leah Spiros: And so if I'm saying missional, then I've gotta remember
- 24:08Leah Spiros: where my mission is coming from.
- 24:09Leah Spiros: I'm an I'm an ambassadress, and so I wanna make sure
- 24:13Leah Spiros: that I'm receiving what I need from him in his word and in my
- 24:17Leah Spiros: community communing with him to be able to give my best
- 24:22Leah Spiros: in excellence to other people because that's what he gave to me.
- 24:25Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 24:25Lisa Nichols: That's a mic drop.
- 24:27Lisa Nichols: Thank you, sister.
- 24:29Lisa Nichols: That's a mic drop.
- 24:30Lisa Nichols: I was gonna ask you about you've already quoted a couple of
- 24:34Lisa Nichols: scriptures, but, you know, the entrepreneurial journey
- 24:38Lisa Nichols: is not for the faint of heart.
- 24:40Lisa Nichols: I mean, there are times where,
- 24:43Lisa Nichols: I mean, it we've been in business for thirty one years, Leah, and I
- 24:47Lisa Nichols: can tell you almost weekly there's something new that's come up that we have
- 24:51Lisa Nichols: not had to deal with before.
- 24:52Lisa Nichols: And, you know, it can sometimes be really it's not all,
- 24:57Lisa Nichols: unicorns and rainbows.
- 24:58Lisa Nichols: It can be really scary or frustrating or, you know,
- 25:02Lisa Nichols: disappointing Absolutely.
- 25:04Lisa Nichols: Sometimes.
- 25:05Lisa Nichols: Are there anchor scriptures that you hold on to in
- 25:10Lisa Nichols: those really hard times that help you?
- 25:12Leah Spiros: How much time time do we have?
- 25:16Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 25:17Leah Spiros: There are.
- 25:17Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 25:18Leah Spiros: There are.
- 25:18Leah Spiros: I you know, and I can even right now, I can just go to
- 25:21Leah Spiros: my wall.
- 25:22Leah Spiros: I'm looking to my right, and I have, Matthew six, and
- 25:26Leah Spiros: it says, look at the birds, consider the lilies.
- 25:28Leah Spiros: Are you not of more value than they?
- 25:32Leah Spiros: Or but seek first the kingdom of god,
- 25:36Leah Spiros: and all these things will be added to you.
- 25:37Leah Spiros: I, you know, that reminds me to start my structure well.
- 25:41Leah Spiros: Like, I try to begin the day committing it to the Lord and his
- 25:44Leah Spiros: agenda.
- 25:45Leah Spiros: I have my plan of what needs to happen that day, but he might
- 25:48Leah Spiros: have you know what?
- 25:49Leah Spiros: That client's actually gonna need to talk to you for a minute.
- 25:52Leah Spiros: I need to be available to that.
- 25:54Leah Spiros: And if I'm focused on my agenda, if I've not sought him first, I
- 25:57Leah Spiros: can't be prepared or have the capacity I need to do that.
- 26:01Leah Spiros: So
- 26:02Leah Spiros: Definitely that one.
- 26:04Leah Spiros: And one of my favorites too is from Luke, and it says,
- 26:08Leah Spiros: and he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to
- 26:12Leah Spiros: pray and not lose heart.
- 26:16Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 26:17Lisa Nichols: Pray for me and not lose heart.
- 26:19Leah Spiros: Always pray and not lose heart.
- 26:21Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 26:22Lisa Nichols: I think about, you know, there's ones for me too.
- 26:25Lisa Nichols: I think about, you know, I look to the hills.
- 26:27Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 26:28Lisa Nichols: I know where my hope comes from.
- 26:29Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 26:30Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 26:31Lisa Nichols: And, yeah, I say, you know, we we walk through this
- 26:35Lisa Nichols: life and sometimes there's valleys and sometimes there's summits.
- 26:39Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 26:39Lisa Nichols: But we never walk alone.
- 26:42Lisa Nichols: We know that it's with us, and that always is encouragement to me.
- 26:45Lisa Nichols: Even in the tough times.
- 26:47Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 26:50Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 26:52Lisa Nichols: You know, we've already talked about the personalization of these pieces,
- 26:56Lisa Nichols: but, Leah, why do you think that people are so drawn
- 27:01Lisa Nichols: to these personalized handcrafted pieces in this very
- 27:06Lisa Nichols: digital world that we're living in now?
- 27:10Leah Spiros: Because it's digital, because technology is not a person.
- 27:16Leah Spiros: It might be created by people, and it
- 27:20Leah Spiros: obviously has its place and we need it.
- 27:22Leah Spiros: That is a need for our world as it operates today.
- 27:25Leah Spiros: But,
- 27:27Leah Spiros: no nothing artificial can replace a person because we
- 27:31Leah Spiros: have spirits and hearts, and we need things that speak to our spirits
- 27:36Leah Spiros: and our hearts and our souls.
- 27:39Leah Spiros: And that connection just as much as it's valuable to make
- 27:43Leah Spiros: sure that you don't just FaceTime your friend, but try to get together in
- 27:46Leah Spiros: person every so often to make an eye to eye connection,
- 27:50Leah Spiros: to be able to get that hug in person, to give that hug.
- 27:54Leah Spiros: All of that is re restoring our souls and resetting that,
- 27:58Leah Spiros: and we just we cannot get that from a download.
- 28:02Lisa Nichols: That's good.
- 28:03Lisa Nichols: That is so good.
- 28:04Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 28:05Lisa Nichols: I know for me, Jenny Hill, you know, my
- 28:10Lisa Nichols: my right hand woman, I've gotten so many beautiful
- 28:14Lisa Nichols: handcrafted things from her, like, over the years, afghans
- 28:18Lisa Nichols: and ornaments and all types of things.
- 28:22Lisa Nichols: And just, it's always so special because I know the time,
- 28:27Lisa Nichols: the time and the thought and the energy that has gone into that really
- 28:32Lisa Nichols: just an expression, I feel like, of her love.
- 28:36Lisa Nichols: You know?
- 28:36Lisa Nichols: And, yeah, I treasure those things.
- 28:39Lisa Nichols: Well, you know what?
- 28:40Lisa Nichols: I've got a lot more questions for you, girl.
- 28:42Lisa Nichols: But we have to take a quick break, and we'll be right back with
- 28:46Lisa Nichols: Leah Spyros on the Something Extra podcast.
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- 29:19Lisa Nichols: Welcome back, everyone, to the Something Extra podcast with my
- 29:23Lisa Nichols: sweet friend, Leah Spyros.
- 29:26Lisa Nichols: Leah, we've already talked about how these you know, the
- 29:30Lisa Nichols: that interaction with a human can really speak to our soul and heal
- 29:34Lisa Nichols: our soul and refresh our souls.
- 29:36Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 29:37Lisa Nichols: I just I could not agree more with you on that.
- 29:40Lisa Nichols: But how have you noticed a shift in how people are thinking
- 29:44Lisa Nichols: about art in the post pandemic?
- 29:47Lisa Nichols: Do you think that art has even become more important
- 29:51Lisa Nichols: to people?
- 29:52Lisa Nichols: I think so.
- 29:53Leah Spiros: I think so.
- 29:55Leah Spiros: I feel like it's one of those things where it's like you don't miss
- 29:57Leah Spiros: something till it's gone, until you don't have the access to it.
- 30:00Leah Spiros: Right?
- 30:01Leah Spiros: Like, I mean, there were so many things that we were so
- 30:05Leah Spiros: used to that we didn't really think about it.
- 30:07Leah Spiros: We maybe unintentionally took for granted because we're just going through our days,
- 30:11Leah Spiros: and when we didn't have the option of accessing it,
- 30:15Leah Spiros: you know, I think that's why so many people took to screens and more
- 30:19Leah Spiros: social media and broader points and and posting pretty things and,
- 30:24Leah Spiros: and looking for inspiration because they wanted that connectivity,
- 30:28Leah Spiros: because that's something that beauty
- 30:31Leah Spiros: provides that
- 30:33Leah Spiros: is just not easily easy to to access.
- 30:38Leah Spiros: And I know, like, there were several several lettering artists and calligraphers
- 30:42Leah Spiros: that took to the streets, and I ended up being one of them.
- 30:45Leah Spiros: And we would write out something encouraging on the street
- 30:49Leah Spiros: or on our windows so that when people were out walking, which was, like,
- 30:52Leah Spiros: the only thing we could do, they would see something.
- 30:55Leah Spiros: And so I would, like, scratch out a scripture that said something about,
- 30:59Leah Spiros: like, you know, do not lose hope or or something that would uplift
- 31:04Leah Spiros: and make it colorful and with a hopscotch behind it so that kids, you
- 31:08Leah Spiros: know, could engage with it.
- 31:09Leah Spiros: And I think all those things brought hope.
- 31:12Leah Spiros: When I just look at the comment section, people were really thankful for
- 31:16Leah Spiros: just just a word of hope.
- 31:19Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 31:20Lisa Nichols: Oh, that's so good.
- 31:21Lisa Nichols: I remember a podcast guest,
- 31:24Lisa Nichols: Leah.
- 31:25Lisa Nichols: In fact, it was, James Barnett from Dayspring.
- 31:28Leah Spiros: Okay.
- 31:29Lisa Nichols: And I remember
- 31:31Lisa Nichols: what he said that their team did because, obviously, they create beautiful
- 31:35Lisa Nichols: cards and, you know, gifts gifts, things like that.
- 31:39Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 31:40Lisa Nichols: And he said during the pandemic,
- 31:43Lisa Nichols: their their artists would take to go and the sidewalks
- 31:48Lisa Nichols: to hospitals.
- 31:50Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 31:50Lisa Nichols: That they would beautiful artwork on the sidewalks
- 31:54Lisa Nichols: to hospitals to not only encourage the patients, but encourage the health care workers
- 31:58Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 31:59Lisa Nichols: In this time and so that they know that they're being seen and they're
- 32:02Lisa Nichols: being appreciated.
- 32:04Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 32:04Lisa Nichols: And I've never forgotten that.
- 32:05Lisa Nichols: I thought that was really beautiful.
- 32:07Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 32:07Leah Spiros: I think I think that's where even the mirroring businesses started to take off
- 32:11Leah Spiros: more too because they started doing them on garages and
- 32:17Leah Spiros: and windows and storefronts and all these different things.
- 32:20Leah Spiros: Like, wherever a message of hope could be left, people were trying to do
- 32:23Leah Spiros: that.
- 32:23Leah Spiros: You know?
- 32:25Lisa Nichols: Agreed.
- 32:26Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 32:27Lisa Nichols: So there's always something new to learn.
- 32:29Lisa Nichols: I know you know how to engrave.
- 32:31Lisa Nichols: You're a calligrapher.
- 32:33Lisa Nichols: Are is there anything new that you're experimenting with right now
- 32:37Lisa Nichols: in your art?
- 32:41Leah Spiros: You know, I don't know about a new technique just
- 32:45Leah Spiros: now.
- 32:45Leah Spiros: I'm trying to really strengthen the current ones, but I keep getting challenged
- 32:50Leah Spiros: with new pieces to work on.
- 32:53Leah Spiros: I keep getting some of, can you do this?
- 32:56Leah Spiros: And it's like, you know what?
- 32:57Leah Spiros: I'm going to find that out.
- 32:58Leah Spiros: So, I just did a globe,
- 33:02Leah Spiros: and,
- 33:04Leah Spiros: yeah.
- 33:05Lisa Nichols: That's cool.
- 33:06Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 33:06Leah Spiros: That was really cool.
- 33:08Leah Spiros: I was sharing with you and Jenny earlier, I just did mint julep
- 33:12Leah Spiros: cups for Kentucky Derby seventieth birthday party.
- 33:16Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 33:18Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 33:18Lisa Nichols: Eighty of those, I think.
- 33:19Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 33:20Leah Spiros: Yes, ma'am.
- 33:21Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 33:21Leah Spiros: It was.
- 33:22Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 33:23Leah Spiros: So things like that.
- 33:26Leah Spiros: Looking at fabric and what I can do with that.
- 33:30Leah Spiros: So Okay.
- 33:31Lisa Nichols: Stay tuned.
- 33:32Lisa Nichols: Always growing.
- 33:34Lisa Nichols: Always growing.
- 33:35Lisa Nichols: Always evolving.
- 33:36Lisa Nichols: Well, let's, let's pivot over to just make more business questions.
- 33:40Lisa Nichols: Being a business owner, you know, what has surprised you the most
- 33:44Lisa Nichols: about being in business for yourself, Leah?
- 33:50Leah Spiros: There's a line from the Dowager Countess in Downton Abbey where she's talking about
- 33:55Leah Spiros: parenting, and she says, it's the on and onness of it.
- 34:00Leah Spiros: It it just you know, there's so many people that will say to me,
- 34:04Leah Spiros: like, oh, you're always busy.
- 34:05Leah Spiros: Like, are you busy right now?
- 34:06Leah Spiros: Is business busy?
- 34:07Leah Spiros: And, my answer is, like, yes.
- 34:09Leah Spiros: It's always busy.
- 34:10Leah Spiros: It doesn't matter if stuff is coming in of order or coming in or
- 34:14Leah Spiros: not because if it's not, then I've gotta be marketing.
- 34:17Leah Spiros: If I'm not marketing, I gotta I have to account.
- 34:20Leah Spiros: If I'm not accounting, I like, there's never not something to do.
- 34:24Lisa Nichols: It Right.
- 34:25Leah Spiros: Creating the space to not do something.
- 34:28Leah Spiros: That's the challenge.
- 34:29Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 34:31Lisa Nichols: So I agree.
- 34:32Lisa Nichols: I can attest to that, girl.
- 34:34Lisa Nichols: I we've been in business for thirty one years.
- 34:36Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 34:37Lisa Nichols: And I can tell you I can tell you there's never
- 34:41Lisa Nichols: been one day where I've been bored.
- 34:44Lisa Nichols: I said, I don't have enough to do today.
- 34:46Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 34:46Lisa Nichols: It's there's always something to do.
- 34:49Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 34:50Lisa Nichols: You're growing.
- 34:51Leah Spiros: And I think there's kind of a mindset shift with that.
- 34:55Leah Spiros: There were times earlier on where it would just feel like, well, I'm not
- 34:59Leah Spiros: getting any orders.
- 34:59Leah Spiros: I don't know what to do.
- 35:01Leah Spiros: And I remember even, like, saying that to like, why aren't you bringing me
- 35:05Leah Spiros: stuff?
- 35:05Leah Spiros: Why what's happening?
- 35:06Leah Spiros: And he was like, what are you doing with what you have?
- 35:09Leah Spiros: He's like, you have an email account?
- 35:11Leah Spiros: Have you reached out to everyone that you know?
- 35:13Leah Spiros: You have a phone?
- 35:14Leah Spiros: Have you called everyone that you know?
- 35:15Leah Spiros: You have feet.
- 35:16Leah Spiros: Have you visited everyone?
- 35:18Leah Spiros: Well, no.
- 35:19Leah Spiros: Okay then.
- 35:20Leah Spiros: You're not bored.
- 35:22Lisa Nichols: Then you're not bored.
- 35:24Lisa Nichols: So true.
- 35:25Lisa Nichols: So true.
- 35:27Lisa Nichols: Well, has there been a lesson that you've heard, you know, that you've actually
- 35:30Lisa Nichols: learned the hard way?
- 35:31Lisa Nichols: Is there been anything that, you know, has come up that you're like, oh,
- 35:35Lisa Nichols: you know, didn't know that and learned it the hard way?
- 35:39Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 35:39Leah Spiros: I'm sure there is.
- 35:40Leah Spiros: I'd I'd have to ponder on that a bit.
- 35:46Leah Spiros: I think
- 35:47Leah Spiros: I will say as as a creative, as an artist, as a very
- 35:52Leah Spiros: strongly right brain dominant person,
- 35:56Leah Spiros: cells and compartments are not my strength.
- 36:00Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 36:01Leah Spiros: Or my desire or my pleasure area.
- 36:04Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 36:04Leah Spiros: They're just not a joy for me.
- 36:06Leah Spiros: But,
- 36:09Leah Spiros: I have found myself maybe having to pull an all nighter or
- 36:13Leah Spiros: scramble to do something because of something that I should have compartmentalized
- 36:18Leah Spiros: sooner.
- 36:19Leah Spiros: And, you know, in my corporate job before this,
- 36:24Leah Spiros: I was really responsible for navigating a lot of those sheets, and I didn't
- 36:28Leah Spiros: love it.
- 36:28Leah Spiros: But man, did it help me keep my project tracking straight.
- 36:31Leah Spiros: And so getting into this and being like, can't throw the baby out with
- 36:35Leah Spiros: the bathwater.
- 36:36Leah Spiros: You need some of those tenants that were so valuable there.
- 36:39Leah Spiros: That's gonna be what keeps you afloat and, and embracing embracing
- 36:44Leah Spiros: the,
- 36:45Leah Spiros: I don't prefer into it's going to be profitable.
- 36:49Leah Spiros: Do it.
- 36:51Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 36:52Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 36:52Lisa Nichols: And, you know, I think that's such wise
- 36:57Lisa Nichols: sage advice there, Leah, because when you're in your own business, I
- 37:01Lisa Nichols: mean, until you get to the point where you can hire help for these
- 37:05Lisa Nichols: other things
- 37:05Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 37:06Lisa Nichols: You're gonna wear every hat for a while.
- 37:08Leah Spiros: Right.
- 37:09Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 37:09Lisa Nichols: You're gonna be the shipping department.
- 37:11Lisa Nichols: You're going to be the creative.
- 37:13Lisa Nichols: You're going to be the accounting.
- 37:14Lisa Nichols: You're going to be the marketing and sales.
- 37:16Lisa Nichols: All of those in there.
- 37:17Lisa Nichols: Just realize that there are going to be things that you don't
- 37:21Lisa Nichols: particularly enjoy doing, but you must do if you're going to
- 37:25Lisa Nichols: have a viable business.
- 37:27Leah Spiros: Right.
- 37:27Leah Spiros: Right.
- 37:28Leah Spiros: And to that point, if you have that person, which is a blessing,
- 37:32Leah Spiros: you also need to know what you want of them.
- 37:35Leah Spiros: You need to be able to articulate that.
- 37:37Leah Spiros: And I think some of the best bosses, the best leaders are the ones
- 37:41Leah Spiros: who have been there and can speak to it.
- 37:43Leah Spiros: Not because they are up here looking down, but because they've already been in
- 37:46Leah Spiros: the trenches and can articulate.
- 37:48Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 37:49Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 37:49Lisa Nichols: Great point.
- 37:50Lisa Nichols: Great point.
- 37:51Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 37:52Lisa Nichols: What would what advice would you give to someone who is wanting to
- 37:56Lisa Nichols: or thinking about starting a creative business like yours?
- 38:02Lisa Nichols: Or any business, really.
- 38:03Lisa Nichols: I mean, stepping out of that corporate role.
- 38:07Leah Spiros: I would say use your words.
- 38:09Leah Spiros: And by that, I mean, you know, if you are a person of faith,
- 38:13Leah Spiros: if you, you know, believe in the Lord, take it to him first, check-in
- 38:17Leah Spiros: with him, see what that plan is, and then get your people around you.
- 38:21Leah Spiros: Have others speak into it.
- 38:23Leah Spiros: Find out who, who supports you, who has team you,
- 38:28Leah Spiros: and is able to give and you be able to receive both the
- 38:32Leah Spiros: positive, uplifting, rah rah rah feedback and the, mhmm, I'm
- 38:36Leah Spiros: not sure about that, or I don't think that's going to work so great
- 38:39Leah Spiros: because you need all of it.
- 38:41Leah Spiros: Proverbs says that there is a benefit in many counselors.
- 38:44Leah Spiros: And so having your set village or consortium
- 38:49Leah Spiros: or whatever you call it to help give that insight
- 38:53Leah Spiros: and feedback,
- 38:55Leah Spiros: is very, very valuable.
- 38:57Leah Spiros: Very Mhmm.
- 38:58Leah Spiros: Have those partners.
- 38:59Lisa Nichols: I'm so glad.
- 39:00Lisa Nichols: I am so glad that you mentioned that, Leah, because,
- 39:04Lisa Nichols: you know, our tendency sometimes as human beings
- 39:09Lisa Nichols: is not to enjoy the feedback that's not rah rah rah.
- 39:13Leah Spiros: Right.
- 39:14Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 39:15Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 39:15Lisa Nichols: But it is critical
- 39:19Lisa Nichols: to have that humility and to have that posture of saying no,
- 39:23Lisa Nichols: this person.
- 39:24Lisa Nichols: Now you have to you have to make sure that the people I always
- 39:27Lisa Nichols: say there is wisdom in many advisers.
- 39:29Lisa Nichols: Just make sure that you've got the right advisers Yes.
- 39:32Lisa Nichols: Around you.
- 39:32Lisa Nichols: But people that, like you said, that are that are people that are for
- 39:36Lisa Nichols: you Mhmm.
- 39:37Lisa Nichols: That you know that are for you, that want to have your best interest.
- 39:41Lisa Nichols: You've got to be willing to take the good, bad, and the ugly because
- 39:44Lisa Nichols: how else are you gonna improve?
- 39:46Lisa Nichols: And we're all we I say we all have blind spots.
- 39:48Leah Spiros: Right.
- 39:49Lisa Nichols: There's all things that we don't see ourselves.
- 39:51Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 39:52Lisa Nichols: But somebody else looking from the outside in could say, you know, maybe
- 39:56Lisa Nichols: your whatever the case may be, you do need to spend a little bit
- 40:00Lisa Nichols: more time on sales.
- 40:01Leah Spiros: Right.
- 40:03Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 40:03Lisa Nichols: Or something like that.
- 40:05Lisa Nichols: You know, just having that really honest feedback is important.
- 40:09Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 40:09Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 40:10Lisa Nichols: You're a wife to Jason.
- 40:12Lisa Nichols: You're a mom.
- 40:13Lisa Nichols: You're an active board member.
- 40:15Lisa Nichols: I mean, you are a community leader.
- 40:18Lisa Nichols: How do you balance it all,
- 40:20Lisa Nichols: Leah?
- 40:22Leah Spiros: Practicing the power of the pause.
- 40:26Leah Spiros: Practicing the power of the pause and embracing the no, which is
- 40:31Leah Spiros: hard.
- 40:32Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 40:33Leah Spiros: I would like to say yes to everyone because I want everyone to be
- 40:35Leah Spiros: happy.
- 40:38Leah Spiros: But it is better I believe that it is better to do three things
- 40:42Leah Spiros: at a hundred percent than a hundred things at three percent.
- 40:45Leah Spiros: And so if I find that that I am taking on too much or
- 40:49Leah Spiros: doing more than will allow me to be actively
- 40:54Leah Spiros: beneficial
- 40:55Leah Spiros: to the mission, then I need to make the heart know
- 41:00Leah Spiros: or press the pause of I can help, but not with this specific thing
- 41:04Leah Spiros: or not within this season.
- 41:05Leah Spiros: Let me check back with you here.
- 41:08Leah Spiros: My heart is for helping and serving and loving, and I want
- 41:12Leah Spiros: to say yes to every opportunity for that.
- 41:15Leah Spiros: But I also need to be humble enough to not take that blessing from
- 41:19Leah Spiros: someone else.
- 41:20Leah Spiros: I'm not the answer to all the questions.
- 41:22Leah Spiros: And it might be that I'm supposed to be aware of who can be
- 41:25Leah Spiros: that and be the caveat or the conduit between
- 41:30Leah Spiros: the two parties.
- 41:32Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 41:33Lisa Nichols: That's so good.
- 41:34Lisa Nichols: And I think that is truly like knowing yourself
- 41:38Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 41:38Lisa Nichols: Knowing what your principles are, your boundaries.
- 41:42Lisa Nichols: You know, I experienced this recently with you.
- 41:44Lisa Nichols: I said, I give you the little nameplates, and then I give you another
- 41:47Lisa Nichols: one.
- 41:48Lisa Nichols: And you're like, Lisa, I can do these, but not this.
- 41:51Lisa Nichols: I'm like, no problem.
- 41:52Lisa Nichols: We'll do that one later.
- 41:53Lisa Nichols: But, you know, I appreciated that about you, though, Leah, because you knew
- 41:57Lisa Nichols: what else you had on the docket.
- 41:59Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 42:00Lisa Nichols: And I think it's really important to to and I
- 42:04Lisa Nichols: always say when you say yes to something, when you say yes to something,
- 42:08Lisa Nichols: you're saying no to something else.
- 42:10Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 42:11Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 42:11Lisa Nichols: I mean, it's not yes.
- 42:13Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 42:13Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 42:13Leah Spiros: Right.
- 42:14Lisa Nichols: It's gonna be yes and no.
- 42:15Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 42:16Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 42:16Lisa Nichols: So, very, I want you to talk about this because I love this about
- 42:21Lisa Nichols: you.
- 42:21Lisa Nichols: I love this discipline that you have.
- 42:23Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 42:24Lisa Nichols: We do time blocking.
- 42:26Speaker 3: Yes.
- 42:27Lisa Nichols: When we talk about managing, I always say we manage our time.
- 42:31Lisa Nichols: We have, what, a hundred and sixty eight hours in the week Mhmm.
- 42:35Lisa Nichols: Whatever it is.
- 42:37Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 42:37Lisa Nichols: I think that's right, isn't it?
- 42:38Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 42:38Lisa Nichols: Hundred and sixty eight hours in the week.
- 42:41Lisa Nichols: You also were managing our time, but, also, we're managing our energy.
- 42:44Lisa Nichols: Mhmm.
- 42:45Lisa Nichols: So, you know, you do time blocking.
- 42:47Lisa Nichols: Can you tell our listeners about that?
- 42:49Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 42:49Lisa Nichols: Because I love it.
- 42:50Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 42:51Leah Spiros: And I you know, full transparency, I really just started that this year, so
- 42:55Leah Spiros: I've been at it for a few months.
- 42:56Leah Spiros: But it it was born of of having too many,
- 43:01Leah Spiros: oh, oh, dear moments of I almost dropped that.
- 43:04Leah Spiros: I almost broke that.
- 43:05Leah Spiros: You know, moments in my business of I barely made that deadline
- 43:09Leah Spiros: because I did too many things this day, and now I need to get
- 43:13Leah Spiros: back to this.
- 43:14Leah Spiros: And, you know, all the things are good, but the timing for everything needed
- 43:18Leah Spiros: to be divvied up better.
- 43:22Leah Spiros: And so I
- 43:24Leah Spiros: I had a workshop and was working on learning what strategic
- 43:28Leah Spiros: planning is for your business.
- 43:31Leah Spiros: And I started hearing about time blocking, and I said, well,
- 43:35Leah Spiros: let me think about what it would look like for me to designate
- 43:39Leah Spiros: days.
- 43:40Leah Spiros: And so what I have now is I have studio workdays.
- 43:43Leah Spiros: I have allotted three of those for me per week, and then I have
- 43:47Leah Spiros: two days that I allot for meetings and comp you know,
- 43:51Leah Spiros: collabs and those kinds of things.
- 43:53Leah Spiros: And so they're not hard and fast if there's a an exception
- 43:57Leah Spiros: of something urgent that I need to connect on and it falls on one
- 44:00Leah Spiros: of the other days.
- 44:01Leah Spiros: There's grace for that.
- 44:03Leah Spiros: But it has given me designated time for production.
- 44:09Leah Spiros: I might be a small business owner, but I'm also the implementer
- 44:13Leah Spiros: of everything that I'm gaining the business for.
- 44:15Leah Spiros: And so I haven't had time to not just take the orders, but to
- 44:18Leah Spiros: actually make and create those orders.
- 44:21Leah Spiros: And I was finding that I would be coming from a a chamber meeting
- 44:25Leah Spiros: and then running over to this thing.
- 44:26Leah Spiros: And then, oh, no.
- 44:27Leah Spiros: I've got this in the evening, and I've got an hour to work on
- 44:30Leah Spiros: this project.
- 44:31Leah Spiros: So I'm going to need to take all this time tomorrow to try to
- 44:34Leah Spiros: catch up.
- 44:35Leah Spiros: I felt like I was behind the ball every single day, and then
- 44:39Leah Spiros: it's no way to live.
- 44:41Leah Spiros: And it just bring there was no peace from that.
- 44:44Leah Spiros: It was just always feeling like a struggle and a scramble.
- 44:47Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 44:48Leah Spiros: And so time blocking allowed me to to quantify
- 44:52Leah Spiros: and compartmentalize in a way that has been beneficial.
- 44:55Leah Spiros: It's helped me balance out my home life because that doesn't stop.
- 45:00Leah Spiros: My church life, my my board life, which I'm on the Rooted board,
- 45:04Leah Spiros: but I also am on the board of One Heart Family Ministries.
- 45:07Leah Spiros: And so these are things that all require time, but
- 45:11Leah Spiros: this has created space.
- 45:12Leah Spiros: Blocking has actually made space.
- 45:15Leah Spiros: Sounds kind of intuitive, but
- 45:18Lisa Nichols: No.
- 45:18Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 45:19Lisa Nichols: And there is such a,
- 45:22Lisa Nichols: a term out there, if you will, kind of a mindset called
- 45:26Lisa Nichols: flow.
- 45:27Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 45:28Lisa Nichols: It's like when you get in that creative flow Yes.
- 45:32Lisa Nichols: I mean, to be in that flow for a longer period of
- 45:36Lisa Nichols: time, Leah, is probably just you can't even put a price on that
- 45:40Lisa Nichols: Yes.
- 45:40Lisa Nichols: Rather than saying, okay.
- 45:41Lisa Nichols: I've got one hour.
- 45:42Lisa Nichols: Okay.
- 45:43Lisa Nichols: Let me get in the creative flow.
- 45:44Leah Spiros: Right.
- 45:45Lisa Nichols: Send me go do something else or go send out emails or respond or
- 45:49Lisa Nichols: whatnot.
- 45:50Lisa Nichols: So I just I love it so much that you're doing it.
- 45:54Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you a question, then we'll talk about something extra.
- 45:57Lisa Nichols: When people receive one of your pieces Mhmm.
- 46:01Lisa Nichols: What is it that you hope they feel?
- 46:05Leah Spiros: Delight.
- 46:07Leah Spiros: Delight because I think that incorporates the surprise aspect
- 46:12Leah Spiros: and the joy, both of it.
- 46:14Leah Spiros: I love when they don't know about it.
- 46:17Leah Spiros: I love when a client reaches out to me and says, hey.
- 46:19Leah Spiros: We're doing this, and this is what's happening, and then we're gonna present
- 46:23Leah Spiros: it on this date.
- 46:24Leah Spiros: And I will not post about it.
- 46:26Leah Spiros: I will not show anything that indicates.
- 46:27Leah Spiros: I won't tag them.
- 46:29Leah Spiros: Nothing to spoil that surprise because I I support what
- 46:33Leah Spiros: they're trying to bring out from the recipient.
- 46:36Leah Spiros: So
- 46:37Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 46:38Leah Spiros: Yeah.
- 46:38Leah Spiros: Delight is really, really it.
- 46:42Lisa Nichols: That's I love that.
- 46:44Lisa Nichols: That our core values follow the acrostic delight because we
- 46:48Lisa Nichols: say we want delighted clients.
- 46:50Lisa Nichols: So every letter of delight is one of our core values.
- 46:54Lisa Nichols: Love that.
- 46:56Lisa Nichols: That's cool.
- 46:57Lisa Nichols: That's cool.
- 46:58Lisa Nichols: Well, let me ask you this.
- 46:59Lisa Nichols: This is called something extra.
- 47:01Lisa Nichols: Leah, what do you believe is a something extra that every leader
- 47:05Lisa Nichols: needs?
- 47:07Leah Spiros: I believe that every leader needs connected creativity.
- 47:13Leah Spiros: And I phrase it like that because I I believe every single one of
- 47:16Leah Spiros: us is created with creativity.
- 47:19Leah Spiros: I think that because we we expect that to be expressed in art,
- 47:24Leah Spiros: if we are not artistic, we don't consider ourselves creative, and it's
- 47:28Leah Spiros: simply not true.
- 47:29Leah Spiros: We have it.
- 47:30Leah Spiros: And so to me, connected creativity is awareness, knowing
- 47:34Leah Spiros: that you have creativity,
- 47:36Leah Spiros: then tapping into the source of that.
- 47:39Leah Spiros: Maybe it's implemented in spreadsheets for you.
- 47:41Leah Spiros: It's how you create them.
- 47:42Leah Spiros: You know?
- 47:43Leah Spiros: Maybe it's an art piece.
- 47:45Leah Spiros: And then implementation, actually doing the output, actually taking
- 47:50Leah Spiros: it from concept to creation.
- 47:52Leah Spiros: I think every single one of us has the potential to do that, and
- 47:55Leah Spiros: we need to tap into it and use it because it will benefit our
- 47:58Leah Spiros: business and keep them from going flat.
- 48:01Lisa Nichols: Oh, I love it so much.
- 48:03Lisa Nichols: I love that so much because when I think about it, like,
- 48:07Lisa Nichols: even being in business, when you are I say you we're problem solvers.
- 48:11Leah Spiros: Mhmm.
- 48:12Lisa Nichols: Right?
- 48:12Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 48:13Lisa Nichols: And I believe we need creativity when we're solving problems.
- 48:17Lisa Nichols: I believe that we need creativity when we're figuring out how
- 48:21Lisa Nichols: to maybe love someone better
- 48:23Leah Spiros: Yes.
- 48:24Lisa Nichols: In our life.
- 48:25Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 48:25Lisa Nichols: With relational kind of intelligence.
- 48:28Lisa Nichols: Yeah.
- 48:28Lisa Nichols: That is that's really good.
- 48:30Lisa Nichols: And I I hear people sometimes say, well, I'm just not a
- 48:34Lisa Nichols: very creative person.
- 48:35Lisa Nichols: Right.
- 48:36Lisa Nichols: Don't you hear that sometimes?
- 48:38Leah Spiros: So much.
- 48:38Leah Spiros: So much.
- 48:40Leah Spiros: Yep.
- 48:41Leah Spiros: And I think that sometimes comparison has worked its way into.
- 48:44Leah Spiros: They're saying it because I define you as creative, and I'm not like you.
- 48:49Leah Spiros: But god gave you your own pocket of creativity.
- 48:52Leah Spiros: He gave you your own sense, and that's why I say connected creativity because
- 48:56Leah Spiros: that's having all of that work together, having that awareness and using it.
- 49:01Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 49:01Lisa Nichols: I love it.
- 49:02Lisa Nichols: Well, Leah, this has been so much fun.
- 49:05Lisa Nichols: Thank you so much for being on the show today.
- 49:08Lisa Nichols: I've absolutely loved every minute of my time with you today.
- 49:11Lisa Nichols: So thank you.
- 49:12Leah Spiros: I appreciate you having me.
- 49:13Leah Spiros: This has been my delight today.
- 49:15Leah Spiros: Thank you, Lisa.
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