Latest / From the Coach's Mouth / Episode 31: Emma Lemley
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- 0:00Even if you're not throwing change ups for a strike one, the
- 0:04more you throw a pitch in a game, the better it's going to
- 0:07become. That real game experience is
- 0:10really what you need for that pitch to become comfortable for
- 0:14you. But also just throwing a change.
- 0:17It's it's really just to get their timing off.
- 0:20Like I don't throw a change up for a swing and miss pitch.
- 0:23I rarely get swing and misses on change UPS, but I throw it just
- 0:28to get their timing off a little bit so then I can come back with
- 0:32something hard and hopefully get them to swing and miss or get
- 0:36their timing off enough to where they pop up or something.
- 0:38Whether you live northeast, West or South, the best basket info
- 0:44comes from the coach's mouth. Welcome to the From the Coaches
- 1:01Mouth podcast with your host Jay Bolden and Ken Krause.
- 1:22Hello everyone and welcome to the From the Coach's Mouth
- 1:24podcast. This is Ken Kraus coming to you
- 1:27with my good buddy and the best looking man in softball, Jay
- 1:31Bolden. Jay, how you doing today?
- 1:34I don't even know how to respond to that.
- 1:36So if there's any, if there's ever been a falsehood, that was
- 1:39the absolute falsehood. Like like we tell all of our
- 1:42guests before they get on here, Ken, is that we both have faces
- 1:45for radio. So that's.
- 1:47True. Very true.
- 1:49So outside of outside of that, I'm doing good.
- 1:53It's been a busy couple of weeks back to work now, but starting
- 1:57to settle in a little bit and and get going with lessons again
- 2:00and and all that good stuff. How about yourself?
- 2:02Yeah, everything's been going well for me.
- 2:04You know, again, the start of fall ball means that kids are
- 2:08kind of in and out. You know, you getting those last
- 2:10minute messages. I'm sure you are too.
- 2:13We're having an extra practice and not going to make it today.
- 2:16But you know, I think, you know, it's been definitely staying
- 2:19busy. It's interesting seeing some of
- 2:22the kids. You know, I've had a couple of
- 2:23kids where one kid went to one team and then the kid who was on
- 2:28their team went to her old team. You know, a lot of flipping
- 2:31around. So trying to keep up with it.
- 2:34I'm sure you keep notes too. So I keep notes on all my kids
- 2:37and they try to remember to change, you know, what team
- 2:41they're on. So I know what to follow on Game
- 2:43Changer. But honestly, sometimes I forget
- 2:45to even up their age when they have a birthday.
- 2:48So I'll see a kid that's going into high school and I have them
- 2:51listed as still being a 10U. Yeah, I use Google Keep a lot.
- 2:55So that is it's a good little thing that I kind of go in there
- 2:59and after every lesson, I'll just throw some notes in real
- 3:01quick as to what we worked on and that kind of stuff.
- 3:03So, you know, I do that and even like all the way through their
- 3:06commitment, I'll put committed and they're still in the Google
- 3:09Keep. So because I'll see some of them
- 3:10in the in the summer and stuff like that too.
- 3:12It's funny you say that about fall because I was had a couple
- 3:16of lessons this week and the parents are like, well, you know
- 3:19what's we've got this coming up and a volleyball game here.
- 3:22And I'm like, listen, you know, fall, let these kids be
- 3:25athletes, let them do their thing.
- 3:27You know, fall is a time for you to work on some things.
- 3:31You know, I know we're probably not going to see each other on a
- 3:32consistent basis, which is fine, right?
- 3:35You know, for me, the consistency piece kind of
- 3:38starts, you know, when we get into November when volleyball
- 3:42dies down and and fall ball dies down a little bit.
- 3:45So I'm like, hey, just, you know, if they're out playing and
- 3:47and I'm doing other things, it's a good thing.
- 3:49So yeah, I'm kind of like you. Like there's some hit and miss.
- 3:52I've got some, you know, work related things I have to be at
- 3:55and so I'll have to miss days here or there for for this.
- 3:58And then again, you know, Saint Xavier's getting ready to fire
- 4:00up here in the next week. So practice is there and games
- 4:04coming up in the fall. So yeah, fall's a busy time.
- 4:07You know, it's also my favorite time of the year.
- 4:09Like I tell you, it's, you know, windows open and pumpkin spice
- 4:13lattes and sweatshirts at night. I'm I love that weather, man.
- 4:16Yeah, yeah, I I noticed that throughout my life, I don't want
- 4:20to get too philosophical here, but seemed like throughout my
- 4:22life, fall was like the best time of the year for me.
- 4:26Just personally is like, you know, I met, I think I met every
- 4:29significant girlfriend I ever had in the fall.
- 4:33Things would just kind of change.
- 4:34Things would get better. And.
- 4:36And so, you know, I have a special place in my heart for
- 4:39fall, even though it is sad when you have to put away the, the,
- 4:43the lawn mower and take out the snow blower and put away the,
- 4:47the, the umbrella for the table that we never use the patio
- 4:50table, but but I still put it up every year.
- 4:56Of course you do. Yeah.
- 4:57Yeah. You got to.
- 4:57You got to, you know, we put everything together and tie it
- 5:00down because you know, out here in Windiana, it's, you know,
- 5:04he'll get a 65 mile an hour wind here in the the back of my
- 5:08house. You know, there's nothing behind
- 5:09us yet. Well, enough about us, Ken, why
- 5:11don't you tell people about this amazing guest that we have
- 5:14today? I'm super excited about this
- 5:16person. Please tell them about this
- 5:18person. All right, well we are
- 5:19definitely thrilled to welcome today's guest to the From the
- 5:22Coaches Ma podcast with a special thanks to the amazing
- 5:25Rick Paulie for helping us get connected.
- 5:28While she's done a little coaching at various camps, she's
- 5:30primarily known as one of the top college and now professional
- 5:34pitchers in the country. Growing up, she was a multi
- 5:36sport athlete. In addition to softball, she
- 5:39played basketball, volleyball and was a competitive swimmer
- 5:43when she was young and later went on to letter in softball,
- 5:46basketball and swimming in high school.
- 5:48Never one to sit around doing nothing in her spare time, she
- 5:51also played the violin and sang in the choir.
- 5:54One of the top prospects in the nation as a high school senior,
- 5:57she stayed close to home by continuing her softball career
- 6:01at Virginia Tech. In four years there, our guest
- 6:03amassed an impressive career 68 and 30 record with a 2.88 ERA
- 6:09and 849 strikeouts, 4th all time in Virginia Tech history.
- 6:14That was all in 640.1 innings pitched.
- 6:18She also holds the all time record for saves at Virginia
- 6:20Tech with 12. And to add to her accolades, our
- 6:23guest was a four time all Atlantic Coast Conference
- 6:26selection and four time first team NFCA All Mid-Atlantic
- 6:31Region honoree. In her senior year, she became
- 6:34the first hockey in program history to throw back-to-back
- 6:37perfect games. She also played for Team USA in
- 6:40the 2022 Canada Cup, helping the team to a championship while
- 6:45giving up no earned runs in three innings pitched while
- 6:48striking out seven. Earlier this year, she became
- 6:52the first college player and one of only 12 to receive a Golden
- 6:55Ticket, an invitation to be drafted into the Athletes
- 6:58Unlimited Softball League. A member of the Blaze, she
- 7:02appeared in seven games, striking out 32 in 44 innings
- 7:05pitch in a rookie season. There's more we could say, but
- 7:09we'd rather hear it directly from her.
- 7:11Ladies and gentlemen, please welcome MLM Lead to the From the
- 7:15Coach's Mouth podcast. Hi, Emma, thanks for having.
- 7:22Me, thanks for being a Yeah, Thanks for being a part of this
- 7:24today. We appreciate you.
- 7:26Yeah. Thanks for joining us.
- 7:27We, we love this. So I have to ask you, as a
- 7:30musician myself, do you still play the violin or?
- 7:34I do not. I do not.
- 7:36So I actually started on the piano and then I played the
- 7:41violin for about probably 3 or 4 years.
- 7:45And then during COVID I started playing the piano again, but
- 7:50haven't been able to really stay on it.
- 7:53But singing, I do still sing. Love it.
- 7:57Yeah. I was just going to say that I
- 7:58think that, you know, playing the violin, that's great
- 8:00training for pitcher parents because if you know kids
- 8:04learning the violin, it takes a long time before it doesn't
- 8:07sound like a cat being tortured. So parents learn to be patient
- 8:12and wait for the outcome. I'm just.
- 8:16Going to buy a lemon just say just about every instrument
- 8:19sounds like that Ken when they're first starting so.
- 8:21You know, if you're playing guitar, you can get credible on
- 8:24it actually fairly quickly. Might sound choppy, but it, I
- 8:28mean, there's nothing like the sound of a bow going across a
- 8:30string on a violin. I've tried it.
- 8:33I can play just about any instrument, some with more
- 8:36competency than others. I even was able to play
- 8:40instruments that I had no idea. Like, I picked up a trombone
- 8:43once. It was playing a part to when
- 8:45the Saints go marching in for something or another in school.
- 8:48And I never played the trombone. But yeah, violin, yeah, that
- 8:52takes some special skills. Nice.
- 8:57All right, Well, I'm going to break off into some softball
- 8:59now. Ken, since you went, you got us
- 9:01down. The We're not doing a music
- 9:03podcast. No, that's after this one.
- 9:07We'll get into that after this one.
- 9:08So we're going to kind of start you out like we start just about
- 9:12all of our guests out if you can, you know, take us back to
- 9:15when you first fell in love with softball and you know what
- 9:18sparked the passion and and you know, where did it begin for
- 9:21you? Give us, give us a little
- 9:22background. I started playing softball when
- 9:24I was seven years old, first grade, and I remember my first
- 9:30practice ever. I got a black eye.
- 9:32I got hidden face, but hey, I, I came back, I, I got back up.
- 9:40I kept playing, but my first time ever pitching I my dad
- 9:44wasn't even there, which my dad was my pitching coach all the
- 9:47way up until college. My dad wasn't even there and
- 9:50they put me on the mound and I struck out three batters my my
- 9:57first time pitching. So that kind of sparked that
- 10:01like competitive love of like, oh wow, I can, I can be in a
- 10:06position where I have the I have control of this game and and,
- 10:11you know, the outcome kind of depends on me.
- 10:13I love this. This is awesome.
- 10:15So yeah, right there. That's good.
- 10:17So did you start out as a pitcher right away or was it was
- 10:20it like coach pitch or something like that in the beginning?
- 10:23I was a catcher 1st and it was not for me.
- 10:28I was, I was too hot. I was, I got way too hot, but I
- 10:32was. But I was like OK, well where
- 10:34else can I be in the action? Every single, every single time.
- 10:37OK, pitcher. OK, let's try pitching.
- 10:40So when you were growing up, did you have, you know, I asked this
- 10:43question all the time, Emma, Ken and I both do pitching lessons
- 10:46and, you know, and Latin hitting lessons too.
- 10:48And, and a lot of times like, you know, I'll watch your videos
- 10:52or I'll watch, you know, we'll, we'll breakdown videos of other
- 10:55pitchers, you know, the, the legends, of course.
- 10:58And I'll ask these kids that come in, I'm like, you know, do
- 11:00you know who, you know, Emma Lemley is or do you know who
- 11:03Rachel Garcia is? And these kids are like, no.
- 11:06And I'm like, what? Like how do you like, you want
- 11:09to be a pitcher? Why are you not looking at some
- 11:11of the best pitchers in the world?
- 11:13And so my question really to you is, did you have somebody that
- 11:17you kind of, you know, that was a role model for you that you
- 11:20looked up to and you're like, man, you know her mechanics or
- 11:23the way she throws her rise ball?
- 11:24Was there somebody like that for you when you were growing up,
- 11:26say around 12/13/14? Well, my dad and I actually
- 11:30started pitching or learning how to pitch through Amanda
- 11:34Scarborough's videos. So that I mean, because my dad
- 11:39was my pitching coach and my dad when I was younger, we kind of
- 11:43learn together how how to pitch and he learned how to become a
- 11:47pitching coach when I was learning how to become a
- 11:50pitcher. So I looked up a lot to a man to
- 11:53Scarborough throughout my career just because that's that's
- 11:56really how we learned how to pitch.
- 11:58Is your dad? Still is your dad still a
- 12:00pitching coach? He coaches kids every now and
- 12:02then, he helps them out, but most of the time he's on the
- 12:05road with me as much as he can, watching my games.
- 12:10That's awesome. Yeah.
- 12:11I think once then I got into middle school and kind of
- 12:15started the recruiting gauntlet. I think my inspiration was
- 12:19really I was, I was watching Keely a lot, Keely Rashard a
- 12:23lot. We played for the same travel
- 12:24organization. And then once I was going to
- 12:27Virginia Tech. I really, I watched her a lot,
- 12:30especially when she got to Virginia Tech and I was, I was
- 12:32lucky enough to be able to play with her my freshman year and so
- 12:36I look to her a lot. Yeah, she's excellent.
- 12:38So anybody who's listening to this, please go and look up
- 12:42videos of Keely Richard, another fantastic, another fantastic
- 12:46pitcher. Awesome.
- 12:47And, and I think too, like you, to be honest, Virginia Tech has
- 12:50had some really great pitching minds there.
- 12:54You know, Josh is, I know Josh really well and he's been on our
- 12:58podcast too. But you also have some really
- 13:01good men's fast pitch guys there too, if I'm not mistaken, right?
- 13:04So, you know, and, and with Pete, I think, you know, he has
- 13:08that background in there, but I think Doug Gillis was there for
- 13:11a while, right? And then Josh, and then you have
- 13:14Mata there too, right? Yeah, yeah, Mamo, he is.
- 13:18Yeah, he, Oh my gosh, I watch him throw.
- 13:23I watch him throw. Yeah, yeah, He, he throws to
- 13:26our, to our batters. Well, he tones it down a little
- 13:30bit. He, he, he throws halfway and
- 13:34it's still like 72, but like, but I mean, he watching him
- 13:40pitch, it's like, Oh my gosh, That is he's, he's crazy.
- 13:44He's awesome to watch. So Emma, I do want to tell you
- 13:47it's something, you know, because Jay was talking about,
- 13:49you know, the kids looking up. I mentioned last night to
- 13:52someone that we were going to be talking to you this morning and
- 13:54they were all excited. They knew who you were.
- 13:56Yeah. So yeah, they follow AUSL and
- 13:59then, you know, follow college softball.
- 14:01And they were like, oh, that's that's really cool.
- 14:02They were excited to hear that. So.
- 14:05So, you know, you mentioned Virginia Tech.
- 14:07Why'd you choose there? You know, I assume you had your
- 14:10choice of schools. And what made you choose
- 14:12Virginia Tech? So I originally committed there
- 14:16in the eighth grade under Scott Thomas, and in the eighth grade
- 14:21I wanted somewhere that was close to home.
- 14:26I live in Lynchburg, so it's about an hour and a half close
- 14:30enough, but still far enough. But then when the rules changed,
- 14:36and then I think it was in the ninth grade, the NCAA rules
- 14:41changed and then you couldn't commit until September 1st of
- 14:44your junior year. And then right after that rule
- 14:47change, then Coach Pete came in. And so I was kind of in this
- 14:52like Gray area of do I still want to go to Virginia Tech or
- 14:58should I start looking for other places?
- 15:01Does Virginia Tech still want me?
- 15:02I don't know. But in my heart, I always, I
- 15:07still wanted to go to Virginia Tech.
- 15:08And then I saw what coach Pete kind of did with the program
- 15:14with in the first just like 2 years that he was there, just
- 15:18saw what the, what him and his coaching staff did for the
- 15:22program. And so that kind of sealed the
- 15:26deal of OK, I, I still, I definitely still want to go to
- 15:29Virginia Tech. And I told my travel coach that.
- 15:32He said, you know, you should probably have a backup or or two
- 15:36or and I was like, OK, but I really want to go to Virginia
- 15:39Tech. So yeah.
- 15:40Then on September 1st, there was a, there was actually a camp on
- 15:43September 1st that year and they reoffered me and I immediately
- 15:48took it and it, it really just it feels like home.
- 15:52I wouldn't trade Virginia Tech for anything.
- 15:55I love it there. So what was the transition like
- 15:59for you? I want to ask you about two
- 16:00transitions, if you can. What was the transition like for
- 16:03you going from that high school athlete right to college?
- 16:07And then if you can take us down that little bit now because
- 16:10you're in the Athletes Unlimited league, right?
- 16:12What does that transition been for you going from, you know,
- 16:16the college player at the top over to the Athletes Unlimited?
- 16:20I will say going from high school to college, freshman fall
- 16:25was the hardest time of my life. And I think a lot of student
- 16:31athletes, a lot of just students in general will tell you that
- 16:34same thing just because the routine is so different going
- 16:38from high school to college. Like you're having to get up at
- 16:425:30 in the morning and go to 6:00 AM lift and then you have
- 16:47to go straight to practice for three hours.
- 16:49And then you have to go straight to class and you actually have
- 16:53to walk to all your classes. And it's, I think just freshman
- 16:58fall. I didn't know how exhausted I
- 17:01would be all the time just because there was, there was so
- 17:05much on my plate, so much more than there was even in high
- 17:09school. And I thought I was working hard
- 17:11in high school, you know, to get where I was.
- 17:14But I did not know what working hard was until I got to college.
- 17:20And I was, I was hit with a wave of exhaustion and also just the
- 17:26the responsibility of having to do everything yourself once you
- 17:30get to college too, It's new for, you know, most, most people
- 17:35having to rely on yourself to, you know, fix your meals, get
- 17:40yourself places on time. You know, you don't have your
- 17:44parents to be on you all the time of you got to get to
- 17:47practice at this time. No, it's all your responsibility
- 17:50now. You've got to make sure you are
- 17:52up at your alarm clock time like you, you got to make sure
- 17:55everything is everything is right.
- 17:57It's all on you now. I think that was the biggest
- 17:59transition. But then once the my freshman
- 18:03spring hit, it was that was a little bit easier.
- 18:06It gets a little bit easier every year.
- 18:07So that's the nice part about it.
- 18:10And then transitioning to AUSL from college, the level of play
- 18:17is just so amazing here. I mean, stepping from high
- 18:23school to college, that level of play was a huge, a huge step up.
- 18:28I mean, the game is faster. Everyone is a good hitter.
- 18:32But then here it's like an even different level because I mean,
- 18:39the the game is so much faster. Our pitch clock is 15 seconds.
- 18:44The the batters, I mean, all Americans, the best in the
- 18:48country, the best hitters in recent history and you're going
- 18:54up against them every single pitch.
- 18:57So you really do not have a single pitch off.
- 19:00So I mean, I think the I've learned a lot this summer with
- 19:04this transition to pro softball. And I think the biggest things
- 19:10I've learned were one, you definitely need to throw a
- 19:14change up. And two, you just you have to
- 19:17slow the game down in your mind because it is so fast-paced.
- 19:21And especially with that 15 second pitch clock, you can get
- 19:24so wrapped up in it because they're going to hit the ball.
- 19:27You're going to give up big hits in this in this league, and if
- 19:32you have a runner on second and one out and you're like, Oh my
- 19:35gosh, I have to get 2 outs. Oh my God, no, you have to throw
- 19:38the next pitch. So you really have to just slow
- 19:40the game down for yourself and throw change UPS.
- 19:44That's a that's a big one. You have to throw change UPS so
- 19:47that. You know, when you say throw
- 19:49change UPS, that's interesting because Jane and we're going to
- 19:51kind of get into this, you know, talking about a little bit
- 19:55before we got started recording and isn't it?
- 20:00How, how, I don't know how you feel about this, but we were
- 20:03talking about you got to throw a change up even if it's not going
- 20:06to be for a strike, even if you know you're not going to get it
- 20:09over the plate, you've got to throw it just to change the way
- 20:12hitters are looking. Get in their heads a little bit,
- 20:15I'll give them something else. And sometimes a change up that
- 20:19you float in a high that nobody swings at still serves as a set
- 20:23up pitch for something else that you want to throw later.
- 20:26Do you agree with that? Is that your experience?
- 20:28Oh yeah, I definitely agree. I think, well, I mean, I've been
- 20:33such, you know, a power pitcher throwing rise balls, throwing
- 20:37curveball 70 miles an hour. Like I don't really I wish I
- 20:41would have discovered the importance of a change up
- 20:44sooner. I think that would have, I think
- 20:48I, I even like, I think it was last week I was playing with
- 20:53Kayla Kwalik and I told her I was like, hey, call as many
- 20:57change UPS off speeds as you want.
- 21:00Everybody here has faced me probably 20 times by now this
- 21:05summer. So call as many change UPS as
- 21:09you want because I haven't thrown like that all summer.
- 21:11You know, they know I'm going to throw them a curveball.
- 21:14They know I'm going to throw high end on them.
- 21:17Just just, you know, call a change up.
- 21:19Let's see what happens. Even if it's not for a strike,
- 21:24let's let's go for it. And it worked out really well
- 21:27actually. But yeah, I think even if you're
- 21:29not throwing change ups for a strike one, the more you throw a
- 21:33pitch in a game, the better it's going to become.
- 21:37That real game experience is really what you need for that
- 21:42pitch to become comfortable for you.
- 21:44But also just throwing a chain. It's, it's really just to get
- 21:48their timing off. Like I don't throw a change up
- 21:51for a swing and miss pitch. I rarely get swing and misses on
- 21:55change UPS, but I throw it just to get their timing off a little
- 21:59bit so then I can come back with something hard and hopefully get
- 22:03them swing and miss or get their timing off enough to where they
- 22:06pop up or something. It's great that you said that,
- 22:09Emma, and I think a lot of people think that the change of
- 22:11pass to be thrown for a strike like it's you know, it's a setup
- 22:15pitch, honestly, right, or it's a weak, weak contact.
- 22:17I mean, you're happy with a weak fly ball to left field, right?
- 22:20I mean it's just and I think too, you said something that's
- 22:23really important and I want to touch on this.
- 22:25I just finished up. I had two pitchers both play at
- 22:28the Division One level. They, they had their last lesson
- 22:30with me last night. And I think with all the, the
- 22:34data that's out there now with the 643 charts, everybody knows
- 22:37what everybody does in college. And I was trying to tell them,
- 22:40you know, the one kid is predominantly drop ball, drop
- 22:43ball, drop ball. Well, everybody in NCAA Division
- 22:47one knows that she's a drop ball pitcher.
- 22:48However, she has a really good curve and rise.
- 22:50And I'm like, you have to do something different this year or
- 22:53else you're going to get the same result.
- 22:55And the pitch calling has to be different this year or you're
- 22:58going to get the same result. And so we worked a little bit on
- 23:01an on an off speed rise, like a fatty rise where you get the
- 23:03thumb off. I'm sure Josh has talked a
- 23:06little bit with you and stuff like that.
- 23:08So giving her that and even an off speed curveball a little bit
- 23:11with her too. So I think that what you the
- 23:12point that you made is great. Like you did something that
- 23:15people were not expecting and it kind of threw their game off a
- 23:18little bit. So I think that's, that's,
- 23:21that's awesome that you said that and hopefully people
- 23:22listening, you know, pay attention to that as well too.
- 23:25Yeah, I think, I mean with all the data that is on pitchers
- 23:30now, and I mean we have pitching machines now that will throw the
- 23:34exact same spin and speed and the exact same pitch as a
- 23:40pitcher will. I know at Tech we have a few of
- 23:42them. And so I mean, pitching now,
- 23:46especially with all this data, it's, it's become even more of a
- 23:50mind game. Like you're not just going to
- 23:53overpower these hitters as much as you want to.
- 23:56Like that is really what you want to do.
- 23:58And a pitcher's heart is you want to get that swing and miss.
- 24:01It's like, no, you, you have to almost you have to out think
- 24:04that you have to be smarter than them.
- 24:06How can I get them off balance? How can I trick them almost or
- 24:11how can I throw them something that they're not expecting?
- 24:14You know you can't. You can't let them get
- 24:16comfortable. Right there it is, right there.
- 24:18Right. Well, and I think the other
- 24:19thing too, that's important that, you know, coaches need to
- 24:22remember when they're calling these pitches is all right, I've
- 24:24seen it so many times. So they'll call, you know,
- 24:27they'll call it change up and the change up doesn't quite
- 24:30work. It drops early, maybe it even
- 24:32rolls in or goes flying high. And then they just decide, well,
- 24:36OK, I I we can't throw that. It's not a good pitch.
- 24:38It's like, wow, hasn't she thrown away a fastball or
- 24:42whatever, you know, rise ball or whatever her best pitch is?
- 24:45You're going to keep calling those.
- 24:47Why are we so afraid to call a change up just because one
- 24:50didn't work? I agree, yeah.
- 24:53And like, to my point of you have to throw them in game to
- 24:57become comfortable with them, because I mean, you can't wait
- 25:00until the pitch is perfect to, to throw it, to throw it in a
- 25:04game, because how, how are you ever going to know that it
- 25:08works? And, and honestly, the, the
- 25:10feeling in a game is so different than a feeling in
- 25:14practice. Even if you try to put yourself
- 25:17in that mindset of, OK, I'm in a game right now, I'm visualizing,
- 25:21you know, game time right now. It's your adrenaline is so much
- 25:25more in a game. Your whole feeling is so much
- 25:29different in a game. And so you really, you just got
- 25:31to take a chance on those either new pitches or pitches that are
- 25:35you're still work shopping like you just, you really got to take
- 25:39a chance on them. And if they don't work, OK,
- 25:42maybe not that at bat, but the next batter, yeah, throw it
- 25:44again, try it again. Yeah, it's the old Edison thing,
- 25:47you know, as I didn't fail 10,000 times to build a light
- 25:50bulb, I just figured out 10,000 ways not to build it.
- 25:53You know, it's the same thing you threw that pitch didn't
- 25:56work. OK, well, I got to make an
- 25:57adjustment here. All right, So you know, it's
- 26:00since we're talking about pitches, you know, you mentioned
- 26:02the rise ball, mentioned the curve ball, mentioned the change
- 26:05up, Anything else that you throw in there?
- 26:08Do you have other pitches in your arsenal that you even use
- 26:10occasionally? Sometimes I'll use a drop.
- 26:13I don't use that very often. I would I I think in this
- 26:17offseason I'm really going to focus on making that a more
- 26:22stable pitch to throw. It's really it's I really just
- 26:26use it to shift their eyes down and to to maybe throw a low rise
- 26:31for watch strike for a looking strike looking.
- 26:34But yeah, mainly I just stick with rise rise curve and a
- 26:39changer off speed. So I want to I want to touch
- 26:42base a little bit on a couple of things.
- 26:45It's more mental health, if you don't mind.
- 26:47I don't know if you've seen Brie Ellis post her stuff, right?
- 26:50So that's and that's just heartbreaking to me that that
- 26:53that she a person like that has to go through something like
- 26:57that. And it just it, you know, I, I
- 26:59just want to, I want to talk to you about how do you mentally
- 27:02prepare for your games? How do you, you know, especially
- 27:04against, I mean, your athletes unlimited.
- 27:07There's no everybody there can just hit the hit the ball till
- 27:10till, you know, I mean. Everybody's not right.
- 27:13Yeah. How do you mentally prepare for
- 27:17that? And then even if, like you have
- 27:18a bad game? Emma, what is your, you know,
- 27:21how do you handle those days when things aren't going well
- 27:24for you? Yeah, well, before the games I
- 27:29like to listen to my music and just kind of get into a good
- 27:32headspace of trying to prepare myself, OK, who am I going up
- 27:37against? Have I have I thrown to them?
- 27:40How many times have I thrown to them?
- 27:41What has worked off of them? And then during games, I really,
- 27:46really try my best just to keep it pitch by pitch, just focus on
- 27:52just the pitch at hand and just try to win that moment.
- 27:55Because if you know, if you let your mind start wandering too
- 27:58much of well, I've given up three hits so far and blah,
- 28:03blah, blah. And then it just spiral.
- 28:05So you really have to focus on just that next moment that is
- 28:09coming up. And then I've had some, I've
- 28:12definitely had some games this summer where things did not go
- 28:15my way. But I, I always call my dad
- 28:19after and kind of debrief, maybe rant a little bit of what was
- 28:24working and what was not working for me.
- 28:27But I always try to remember if I, you know, what, what did I do
- 28:31well during that game, even if it wasn't something physical,
- 28:35did I did I fight during that game?
- 28:39You know, I didn't give up. I, I attacked the next pitch
- 28:44just trying to find something positive that I did every time
- 28:48because, you know, even if you don't get a, a win out of you
- 28:51know what you were trying to do, just trying to find a small win
- 28:55and then looking to see, OK, well, what can I do differently
- 28:58next time to maybe get a better outcome?
- 29:01Well, and has that been tough too?
- 29:02I mean, you're used to getting the wins, you know, I every time
- 29:05you step up another level, you know, there's always that risk
- 29:08that, you know, you're just not going to get the same level of
- 29:11outcomes. So, you know, it sounds like you
- 29:13focus a little bit more on the process.
- 29:14Did I do what I wanted to do? And, you know, realize that
- 29:19sometimes the outcomes just beyond your control.
- 29:22Yeah. And in this season, we, my team
- 29:25blaze, we underwent some some unfortunate injuries on the
- 29:30pitching staff. We had some injuries.
- 29:31And so I had to take a little bit of a bigger role than I
- 29:35thought I was going to have to for a while there in kind of the
- 29:38middle of our season. I was, I was pitching way more
- 29:41than I thought I was going to. And with that comes, you know,
- 29:45seeing batters more and giving up a few more hits and a few
- 29:48more runs. They're here and there.
- 29:50But I think just trying to communicate with my coaches,
- 29:54trying to communicate with the the veteran pitchers on our team
- 29:58of like, okay guys, am I doing OK?
- 30:01Is this like, is this am I, is this OK?
- 30:04Like do you guys need more from me?
- 30:06Like let me know what you need them.
- 30:08But just keeping in, you know, contact with my coaches and my
- 30:13teammates was was so helpful just to kind of push me through
- 30:18that. And they are they were so
- 30:20encouraging and just yeah, they they really helped me.
- 30:24Cool do. You use any routines or mental
- 30:27training techniques, you know, visualization, journaling, any
- 30:31of that kind of stuff that's kind of, you know, internal.
- 30:34Yeah, so this started with coach Josh, really.
- 30:38We did a lot of mental work at Tech.
- 30:41I I think Virginia Tech, yeah, we have the Calm app.
- 30:44They give us all the subscription to the Calm app.
- 30:48And so we would love to do as a bullpen last year, we would love
- 30:52to do meditations and just visualizations, different
- 30:56drills, different breathing exercises, either before or
- 31:01after almost every bullpen just to work on the mental side of
- 31:05it. Because I mean, the mental side
- 31:06of it, it's not something that just comes to you like you
- 31:10really have to practice it. There was a while there where I
- 31:14thought I had the yips and I really had to focus on the
- 31:18mental side of the game before I kind of got into the the
- 31:24physical side, back into the physical side of it.
- 31:27But I've really taken that mental side of it to this next
- 31:32level of I still have my Calm app.
- 31:34I love listening to my meditations either in the
- 31:37mornings before games or on the way to games.
- 31:42And then just focusing on my breathing exercises.
- 31:45I still love doing this one where it's kind of like box
- 31:49breathing where you like inhale for three seconds, hold, exhale.
- 31:54Love doing that. And then before I go out, every
- 31:57time I have an appearance, before I go out, I say 20
- 32:01positive things to myself. This is something that Coach
- 32:03Josh taught me also, counting down from 20 and saying 20.
- 32:07It doesn't even have to be about softball.
- 32:09It can be about softball, can be about, you know, just my life,
- 32:12just about me, my family, my friends.
- 32:16It could be about anything. And so I still do that every
- 32:19time I go out just to put myself in kind of a positive mindset
- 32:23and start start the game off on a good note.
- 32:26Awesome. So I want to talk to you a
- 32:29little bit about are you guys still currently playing Emma or
- 32:32are you guys now? Is it done?
- 32:34What are they doing now with the?
- 32:35Yes, we have actually we have two more games right now.
- 32:40We're in All Star Cup. So that's like the traditional
- 32:43AU where you switch teams, it's point system.
- 32:46So we have our last two games today and tomorrow and then
- 32:50that's. Here in the Chicago area, right,
- 32:52Rosemont, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, we're
- 32:55in. Rosemont Cool.
- 32:57What I wanted to ask you was this season's going to be ending
- 33:00here in a couple games. What's your offseason going to
- 33:03look like? What are you working on, right?
- 33:05People think like you've made it to that level.
- 33:07You don't have to work on anything, right?
- 33:09So what are what are some of the things that or give us a little
- 33:12bit of what your offseason kind of looks like for for people
- 33:15that are are listening to this for you?
- 33:17Well, luckily for me, I'm going back to Virginia Tech to be a
- 33:21graduate assistant, so I will still have access to Coach Josh
- 33:26and to all of the facilities. So lucky for me I have that.
- 33:33But so right after this, I am going to take about a month,
- 33:40month and a half off of pitching.
- 33:42I have been going non-stop since January, so I think it's time
- 33:47for a little bit of a little bit of a break on that shoulder.
- 33:50But I, I really plan on, you know, hitting the gym really
- 33:54hard in this next, you know, month and a half playing so
- 33:58much, you don't have a lot of time to really get in the gym.
- 34:02So I really want to get back into the gym, really focusing
- 34:06more on my health for the next month and a half rather than
- 34:09pitching. And then probably around
- 34:12mid-october, towards the end of October, get into more, you
- 34:17know, just moving step throwing a little bit, not too much
- 34:21pitching yet. And then I think for first,
- 34:26honestly, I'm going to work, change and drop a lot because
- 34:31I've been throwing a rise ball for, I don't even know, eight
- 34:35years. That's that's never going to,
- 34:38that's never going to leave. That's never going to leave my
- 34:40mind how to throw a rise ball. It's it's ingrained in me.
- 34:44It's natural for me now. I think I really want to focus
- 34:47on learning or getting that drop down and getting, getting that
- 34:52change up really consistent first before I move into
- 34:57anything else. And then just probably take a
- 35:01maybe a little bit of time off around the holidays.
- 35:04And then probably once I get back in January, moving back
- 35:10into, you know, getting a rise ball down a little bit, moving
- 35:13back into it. And then probably around March
- 35:18or 8th, probably around March is when I'll start like throwing
- 35:21live and really start ramping it up, getting ready for season.
- 35:24But yeah, it's gonna, this is like the first time I've
- 35:28actually had a long break, a 10 month break to really focus on
- 35:35myself and my pitching journey and what I need to work on.
- 35:40So I've never had this much time in my life to work on something
- 35:44like this. So I'm excited.
- 35:47I'm really excited. To take full advantage of it.
- 35:50Absolutely. I am, yes.
- 35:52Yeah. Can you share a memorable moment
- 35:54with a team that sticks out? And it doesn't necessarily have
- 35:56to be AUSL or even Virginia Tech, but something, you know
- 36:00what? What's something where you look
- 36:02back on and you say, yeah, guess that's that's the memory.
- 36:05If if my memory is ever going to go, that's the one I want to
- 36:07hang on to the most. Oh my goodness.
- 36:11Probably, probably when I got my golden ticket for the USL Draft.
- 36:17I since I got the first one, I didn't.
- 36:19I didn't know that they were even doing that and the only
- 36:22person that knew was Cassie Grizzard.
- 36:24She's the only one that knew what was going on because she
- 36:27was tasked with putting me in the right position for all the
- 36:29cameras. So what did you think was going
- 36:32on? It's it's a great video.
- 36:34If anybody that's listening, check out that video when she
- 36:37gets a golden ticket. But you know, somebody from the
- 36:39AUSL comes out and is kind of doing this whole speech and
- 36:42everything. What do you think was going on?
- 36:44I mean, I thought they were. Promoting.
- 36:47I didn't. I thought they were just, yeah,
- 36:49promoting it. Because I knew Jenny Dalton
- 36:52Hill, she was the general manager for the Bandits, and I
- 36:56knew that she was calling our game that day, and I knew that
- 37:00she was associated with the AUSL.
- 37:02So I thought, oh, they're just promoting it.
- 37:04Like, OK, cool. But then I started kind of
- 37:10looking around and realized that there were 8 cameras pointed
- 37:17right up at me. And so I'm like I'm like looking
- 37:21around I'm like oh what's going on?
- 37:23What is what is happening? And then she started talking
- 37:26about the golden ticket and I was like Oh no way.
- 37:30I was me. I was like no way I'm getting
- 37:33the first one me. Oh my gosh.
- 37:35And I was like so shocked when she said my name that the only
- 37:40thing I could say to her was this is so awesome.
- 37:44Like, that's all I could get out.
- 37:46This is so awesome. But my my parents didn't know.
- 37:53Nobody, nobody knew. And so but my parents were there
- 37:57because they came to every game and they were crying and I was
- 38:02crying. Everyone was crying.
- 38:05But so it was just, it was just such a special moment.
- 38:09I saw you did have. I did.
- 38:10So you did have the presence of mind to take your glasses off
- 38:13when you were going over for the pictures and stuff?
- 38:19I know, but nobody told me to take my jacket off.
- 38:21I was like, guys, I'm a big puff on.
- 38:23I was, I was cold that game and I have my jacket on.
- 38:27No one told me to take it off. But no, it was just it was so
- 38:31special. That's definitely something that
- 38:32I will. I will never forget just having
- 38:34everyone there with me. Awesome.
- 38:36SO I want to go back and talk a little bit about Virginia Tech.
- 38:39Since you talked about that moment, can you give us a little
- 38:42background of like the culture that Pete has built there with
- 38:45Josh? I mean, you know, you like you
- 38:47said when Pete got there, I think like there was a big
- 38:49change in in Virginia Tech softball and just give us a
- 38:53little bit of an idea of some of the things they did there for
- 38:55culture. We cannot always talk about like
- 38:58how culture is really important, especially when nowadays when
- 39:01you're dealing with the teams and all of the transfer portal
- 39:04stuff. So what kind of culture things
- 39:06do they do at Virginia Tech? With you there, Emma?
- 39:08Yeah, I think the biggest thing is like the attention to detail
- 39:12and a lot of it is honestly, Pete is very chill.
- 39:18He is. He kind of lets the players
- 39:20handle a lot of stuff and he gives us a lot of
- 39:23responsibility, which is he trusts us, which is very
- 39:27appreciated because I mean, he trusts us, we trust him.
- 39:31So just kind of that mutual trust and respect is there and
- 39:35that that's a big part of it. But also, so last year he
- 39:40brought in, his name is Jason Kuhn.
- 39:43He was a Navy SEAL. I don't know if Josh talked to
- 39:46you about him, but he brought him in and had him talk to us
- 39:51and he stayed with us for the whole season.
- 39:53Wow. And I believe, I believe
- 39:56actually he is there with them right now.
- 40:00I don't know if the players know that, but I know that that he is
- 40:03there right now, yes. But he we did like a whole
- 40:11training day with him. Just where we learn mainly about
- 40:15just like mental toughness and we learned about just being
- 40:18there for your teammates and leaning on your teammates and
- 40:21about going through hard times with each other.
- 40:23And he stayed with us all season.
- 40:26And we would have, you know, regular meetings with him over
- 40:29Zoom and sometimes he would be in person too.
- 40:32And I think that really kind of just one help bring us together.
- 40:38After that training, we were ready to run through a brick
- 40:40wall together. But just I think it's, it was,
- 40:45it brought along a huge culture of, you know, leaning on your
- 40:49team mates. You don't have to do everything
- 40:53yourself, but you have to be 100% bought in yourself.
- 40:58You know, you don't, it doesn't all have to be on you, but you
- 41:01do have to give everything to the team.
- 41:04And I think that's really the, you know, the, the mindset, the
- 41:07culture that Coach Pete wants to instill in in Virginia Tech
- 41:13softball. So also, I mean that I I just
- 41:17love the way that they do things there.
- 41:19I watched, you know, I follow Pete on Twitter and, and I know
- 41:23Josh, I talked to him, text him, you know, just just the, the way
- 41:26that they handle themselves there I think is really good
- 41:28too. So I mean, it's, it's definitely
- 41:30a great culture. Did that help you, that culture
- 41:33help you when you went to the Athletes Unlimited, the league?
- 41:36Oh, definitely. I mean, I think our coaches
- 41:40give, like I was talking about, they trust us.
- 41:43They give us that responsibility to kind of handle things
- 41:45ourselves sometimes, which is huge once you get to the AUSL
- 41:49because for the most part, like we do have coaches, but for the
- 41:51most part, it's what do you need?
- 41:54What do you need to work on today?
- 41:57You know, you're really responsible for yourself at that
- 41:59point, like. And so I think that really
- 42:02helped me kind of transition to this league and also all the
- 42:07mental stuff that Coach Josh has worked on with us has that made
- 42:13huge differences in my pitching in college.
- 42:16And I think the transition where I was mentally, that really
- 42:21helped, yeah. You know, it's funny you say
- 42:23that the, you know, the kind of the, what do you need to work
- 42:25on? I actually do that with a lot of
- 42:27my students, especially the pitching students.
- 42:30There's so much. And then you'll say, OK, So what
- 42:32are we working on today? And they're, you know, kind of
- 42:34shocked. And it's a lot of times because,
- 42:36you know, everything is good. OK, so if I say throw a change
- 42:39up, you're going to hit that thing right off.
- 42:40And if you don't hit it, you can owe me 20 push ups.
- 42:44Well, maybe we should work on it.
- 42:45Yeah. You know, so, but yeah, I I
- 42:48think that that's a good thing is to get players.
- 42:52You know, in our society now, there's so much helicopter
- 42:54parenting and helicopter coaching, so many coaches that
- 42:58want to make it all about themselves.
- 42:59And I really think it's important for the players to
- 43:01learn to take responsibility for their own careers and to learn
- 43:06how to say this is what I need. Here's, you know, I'm not sure
- 43:10what you're planning on for my practice.
- 43:11But me, I feel like if I don't work on my curveball, I'm not
- 43:15going to be ready for the weekend.
- 43:16Yeah, I mean, I think one of the biggest or the most important
- 43:21parts of being a pitcher and growing as a pitcher is 1.
- 43:26Learning how to feel how your body moves and learning like
- 43:30what you need as a pitcher and advocating for yourself and
- 43:34saying, OK, like this is this is what I'm going to need.
- 43:37Or even if it's like the hey, my body's really hurting today.
- 43:42I don't need something super heavy today.
- 43:45Because that is one thing I have had to learn how to do is to not
- 43:49throw a million pitches every single day and just keep myself
- 43:52on a pitch count. If I if my body's not feeling
- 43:56good. I'm on month 8 of playing right
- 43:58now. Do a light day, take a day off
- 44:00if needed. Like rest days are important and
- 44:04especially for the younger girls, rest days are OK,
- 44:07sometimes you need them. Thank you for saying that.
- 44:10So many people don't, so many parents are like, you can't take
- 44:14a day off. You're going to fall behind.
- 44:15You're going to be this and that sometimes.
- 44:17And you know, I'm sure Jay experiences the same thing, but
- 44:20I'll sometimes I'll have a kid that hasn't had a lesson in
- 44:22three weeks and all of a sudden they, they hit a personal best,
- 44:26you know, they hit a new high speed and I'll be like, maybe,
- 44:30maybe I'm not doing any good. Maybe they'd be better off just
- 44:33doing it on their own. But you know, it's the guidance.
- 44:36And I think it's, it's that fact that maybe that time they didn't
- 44:40come to see me, you know, they got a little bit of rest or
- 44:42something else happened and their bodies recovered.
- 44:46Yeah, sometimes that's what you need.
- 44:48Sometimes that's the key. I.
- 44:49Want to ask you real quick, Emma, about the Athletes
- 44:51Unlimited. How does that work?
- 44:52Do you guys just have you do your bullpens by yourself, you
- 44:55have somebody in the bullpen or are you guys collaborating with
- 44:58each other? Is there anything you've learned
- 45:00from some of the other pitchers on your staff?
- 45:03Yeah. I mean, so during our regular
- 45:06AUSL season, our pitching coach, which my pitching coach was Cara
- 45:09Dill. She was usually, she was always
- 45:12in the bullpen with us when we would be throwing.
- 45:14But also I really challenged myself to ask as many questions
- 45:19as possible of like, oh, well, how do you throw your change up?
- 45:23Or like, how do you grip that? Or what are you thinking when
- 45:26you when you throw this or hey, when you're in a tough
- 45:29situation, like what, what do you think to, you know, get you
- 45:34through that next pitch? So it has been a lot of
- 45:36collaboration of even people asking, like my teammates asking
- 45:40me, well, how do you throw your rise ball?
- 45:42And so I think at this level, you know, you do listen to your
- 45:46coaches, but a lot of it is collaboration and just knowing
- 45:53your craft, knowing how you throw, like I said, knowing your
- 45:56body and honestly just tweaking things yourself.
- 46:01And the catcher is also at this level know when you're not doing
- 46:04something correct. And so the catchers also will
- 46:07speak up a lot and say, hey, you did not get your backside
- 46:10through on that or hey, you, you fell off really bad on that
- 46:14pitch and you're like, OK, let me fix it.
- 46:17Yeah, sometimes the catchers are probably the least gentle.
- 46:23That's a catch, a personality thing, just like.
- 46:26Honestly, sometimes that's what I need to hear.
- 46:28Like. Direct.
- 46:29So one thing I want to ask you, so you know, you're talking
- 46:31about you have the regular season where you're on a team
- 46:33and everybody's kind of together and you're working that way.
- 46:36And then you get to the All Star Cup and do you find it fun?
- 46:40I mean, the fact that, you know, the the team changes and you
- 46:43know, the last week this was my catcher.
- 46:45Now it's the girl I'm pitching to.
- 46:47Yeah, yeah. I mean, it's, it's a crazy
- 46:51format. I've never, you know,
- 46:53experienced something like this. So this is definitely new.
- 46:57You know, you can't worry about the leaderboard too much.
- 46:59You just got to play. You just got to play and help
- 47:02your team win. But it is really fun, honestly,
- 47:05getting to play with different people, just getting to meet new
- 47:08people and stuff. Like, I mean, you're, you're
- 47:11playing with the same team for, you know, a month and a half.
- 47:14It's fun. It's really fun to get to play
- 47:17with new people. And it's fun for me as a pitcher
- 47:20to get to pitch to new people and just work with different
- 47:24catchers of hey, like I've never caught you before.
- 47:27What how do you like to like, what sequences do you like and
- 47:30stuff like that. So, and it's and it's such a
- 47:33quick turn around too, week to week that you you really got to
- 47:37talk to each other, You know, you really got to get to know
- 47:39each other. But it is, it is.
- 47:43It's really fun getting to play with everybody.
- 47:46No, I was just going to ask you, So what are your goals then for
- 47:49next year? You've you've had your first
- 47:51year in the in the athletes unlimited in this.
- 47:53What are your goals next year? Next year I'm definitely, I want
- 47:59to First off get, I want to throw my change up about 30 to
- 48:0435%. Right now it is not that, but I
- 48:07would like to throw my change up, you know, even 30 to 40%.
- 48:10I would like to throw it a lot more than I am right now.
- 48:13I think that would really help me and who let's see, I would
- 48:19like to help my team to a winning record and get to the
- 48:22championship series. We didn't have the best record
- 48:26this year, so I would like to have a winning record and make
- 48:30it to that championship series next year.
- 48:33And it'll be even harder because there are 16 now.
- 48:35Awesome. Yeah, awesome.
- 48:36Yeah, You know, and it's funny too, because you know, when
- 48:39people watch professional athletes and yeah, I think about
- 48:42with football, it's really easy to come down on quarterbacks,
- 48:45you know, in in softball, on pitchers and all that.
- 48:47But you think about in football with a quarterback and say, oh
- 48:50man, this guy sucks. You know, our team is the worst.
- 48:52You know, our quarterback is awful.
- 48:54Your quarterback is like one of the top 30 people or, you know,
- 49:0040 people at that position in the entire world.
- 49:04They are not bad. They may not have had the best
- 49:06season you wanted to have, but they are incredibly amazing.
- 49:10And, you know, it's kind of that same thing in here is that you
- 49:13could say, yeah, you know, it wasn't quite the season we
- 49:16wanted. But really, when you look at it
- 49:17and say, wow, the people that I was playing with and you know,
- 49:21and all of this the worst player in our league, you know, worst
- 49:24in air quotes, but you know, we're playing like is just an
- 49:27amazing softball player. Yeah, yeah.
- 49:31No, truly. And you know, it's not even that
- 49:34we, we did not play bad whatsoever.
- 49:37Like we played very well. It's just we would lose by like
- 49:41one run. We just couldn't get over that
- 49:43little bump sometimes because like we, we, we played very
- 49:48well. We have really good players on
- 49:50our team, but yeah, it was just we ran into some unfortunate
- 49:55circumstances sometimes and that's just how it goes.
- 49:58Well, and again, I think people have to remember that it, you
- 50:00know, at any level, you can just be unlucky, you know, one hop
- 50:03here or there, you know, 1 little imperfection in the field
- 50:06where somebody's cleat caught in and created a little divot that
- 50:10caused that ball to deviate a little bit and the shortstop
- 50:13couldn't make the play and it put a runner on base.
- 50:15And then it just kind of, you know, all goes from there.
- 50:18So, you know, at any level. And that's again, Jay and I talk
- 50:23about sometimes with coaches and it the youth levels and being so
- 50:27hard on their players. And it's like it happens at
- 50:30every level. It does.
- 50:31Everybody makes errors. Everybody.
- 50:34I mean, I still walk people. I give up home runs, I throw
- 50:38balls to the backstop. It happens like people, even
- 50:42even at our level there are still errors made like it.
- 50:45It happens so. So, So what do you do?
- 50:48You know, you, you throw a ball, it didn't quite go where you
- 50:50wanted to go and it leaves the yard.
- 50:53How do you know? How do you get yourself kind of
- 50:55back on track? Are you able to sort of laugh it
- 50:57off and go, well, that wasn't a good idea?
- 51:01Yeah, if I know sometimes I know coming off my hand, I'm like,
- 51:05that is piped that is right down the middle.
- 51:08And please don't swing at that. But you know, on the off chance
- 51:12that they do and it goes out, I I have, I've been very good
- 51:16about, you know, being able to take responsibility and be like,
- 51:19that was on me. That was my fault.
- 51:21I threw that right down the middle.
- 51:23The only time it really makes me mad is if I throw a really good
- 51:27pitch and they hit a really good pitch and I'm just like, Dang,
- 51:34like that was that moved? How did you hit that?
- 51:37That was exactly what I wanted to do.
- 51:39That's the only that's the only time it makes me mad is when I
- 51:43do exactly what I want to and they just beat me and I'm just
- 51:46like, are you kidding me? Like you just beat me on that.
- 51:50But but, you know, whenever I give up a home run, I just look
- 51:54at it of, well, no runners on right back where I was.
- 52:01Try that riskier pitch because there's no consequences now, no.
- 52:06Literally. Yeah.
- 52:07Might. Might as well all.
- 52:09Right, just a few more questions for you today, Emma, again,
- 52:11thank you so much for being with Ken and I today.
- 52:13We really appreciate it. So and these are a little bit
- 52:16more personal. So just some good things like
- 52:19what? Tell us your favorite hype song
- 52:20before before the game. Well, I always listen to Ready
- 52:24for It by Taylor Swift. That is my walk out song.
- 52:28I did Something Bad by Taylor Swift.
- 52:29So lots of lots of lots of T Swift, are you?
- 52:33Excited about the engagement? Yes, yes, I immediately texted
- 52:40my whole family. That's awesome.
- 52:42That is. Awesome.
- 52:43That is awesome. Last time Travis got off his
- 52:45butt and put a ring on it, right?
- 52:47Right, that's what I'm. Yeah, exactly.
- 52:51So what about a go to meal after a big win?
- 52:54Oh, I love Italian food. I love Italian food.
- 53:01Spaghetti and meatballs is my go to.
- 53:05Everyone knows. As if we're getting Italian, I'm
- 53:07getting meatballs of some sort on something.
- 53:11Good. For you I I just have to share
- 53:14guys. I've, you know, I'm the same
- 53:15way. I've been to, you know, cheap
- 53:17Italian restaurants. I've been to very expensive
- 53:19Italian restaurants and I always order the same thing.
- 53:21It's spaghetti and meatballs. I remember going with my
- 53:25mother-in-law once, you know, and my wife, we went to, you
- 53:29know, a restaurant and I order spaghetti and meatballs and she
- 53:33just looks at me and she goes, you can make that at home.
- 53:35Why are you doing this? It's what I love.
- 53:37It's like my favorite. It's.
- 53:39Good. It's good.
- 53:41I like it. Good.
- 53:42All right, So what would one more here, I think.
- 53:46Well, two more actually. I got 1.
- 53:47I think Ken has one more too. What is something fans would be
- 53:50surprised to learn about you hidden talent?
- 53:54You did say you like to sing, so you can't use that one.
- 53:56You got to pick something else. And I'm guessing you like to
- 54:00sing a lot of Taylor Swift songs too, so.
- 54:02I do, actually. Fun fact Sunday I'm singing the
- 54:06national anthem at our last game.
- 54:08Congratulations. That's awesome.
- 54:10Yeah. Yeah.
- 54:12So that's going to be the. Swifty version of it or?
- 54:16I wish. No, no.
- 54:20Well, Taylor Swift, on the off chance you're listening, you've
- 54:22got a big fan here and, you know, get a.
- 54:25Got to bring her up, come to some AUSL games.
- 54:27Come out to a game, you know, we'll treat you right and maybe,
- 54:30you know, you can return the favor and Emma can come up and
- 54:32do a number with you. We're putting out that call.
- 54:36OK, fun fact about me, I owe. This is kind of an odd fact, but
- 54:41I am not scared of bugs. I'm not scared to pick any bug
- 54:46up. My favorite bugs are cicadas and
- 54:51people. Yeah.
- 54:51And people are always like, you don't pick that up and it's like
- 54:54they're not going to bite you. It's fine.
- 54:56Like, most bugs won't bite unless you look like you're
- 55:00trying to kill them. But yeah, I'll pick up any bug
- 55:03and remove it and, you know, put it somewhere else.
- 55:07And people are like, EW, it's fine.
- 55:10It's fine. That's funny.
- 55:14All right. So if you weren't playing
- 55:15softball, what else would you be doing?
- 55:17What would you? What's your dream job?
- 55:22OK, well, I always wanted to be a basketball player.
- 55:26Actually, up until about the 7th grade, I wanted to go to college
- 55:34to be a basketball player, really.
- 55:36So I would say basketball. And then I kind of, I figured
- 55:41out I could throw, I could throw a ball really hard.
- 55:43And so I was like, OK, well, I'm only 5-6, I'm going to move over
- 55:48to softball and I'm going to stick with softball, but either
- 55:52basketball or be a sports broadcaster.
- 55:55Or a backup singer. That's what I got my degree.
- 55:57In or a backup singer for Taylor Swift.
- 56:02Yeah, yeah, yeah. Awesome.
- 56:06Well, all right, Emma, thank you again so much for joining in.
- 56:09Ken and I, we really appreciate your time and we wish you the
- 56:12the best of luck and, and Ken will take us out, but just want
- 56:15to say thanks again and excited to see you as a grad student
- 56:18over there at Virginia Tech. Make sure you tell coach Josh we
- 56:21said hi. He's a we're big fans of him and
- 56:23and Pete too. So.
- 56:25Awesome. Yeah, definitely.
- 56:27Thanks for having. Me, thanks for being here and
- 56:29good luck in your games. By the time this airs, people
- 56:32will know what the outcomes were, but as we're doing it, we
- 56:35don't know yet. So we're hoping, Emma, you know
- 56:36for all the best and that you have a great game and throw that
- 56:39change up. All righty.
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