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- 0:01SPEAKER_02: Are you recording?
- 0:01SPEAKER_03: I wasn't paying attention.
- 0:02SPEAKER_01: No, I think it is.
- 0:08SPEAKER_03: Yep, we're recording.
- 0:08SPEAKER_03: Look at that.
- 0:09SPEAKER_03: We can just leave this in.
- 0:13I did quite intentionally hit record,
- 0:16so that is the logical conclusion to my action.
- 0:19SPEAKER_03: I think that's fair.
- 0:21We missed last week because of me,
- 0:22because I was off gallivanting around amongst state capitals.
- 0:27in the deep south so that was does it count as gallivanting if
- 0:31you're in the deep
- 0:32south yeah it's always gallivanting if you if if if you're you
- 0:37know trucking around
- 0:38all sorts of different places i think that is always
- 0:40gallivanting personally that's
- 0:42just my thought then i am a gallivander you you are definitely
- 0:46a gallivander
- 0:47SPEAKER_00: there's no question there i do i'm addicted to it i'm kind of no
- 0:52SPEAKER_03: Traveling is a lot of fun.
- 0:54SPEAKER_03: I love traveling.
- 0:57SPEAKER_03: For a period.
- 0:59SPEAKER_03: After a while, I start missing my home and my stuff.
- 1:02SPEAKER_03: Mostly my stuff.
- 1:03SPEAKER_03: I'm sitting there being like, ugh.
- 1:05SPEAKER_03: I'm behind on whatever show I'm watching.
- 1:07I can't watch it on this tiny little computer screen I have
- 1:09with me when I have my
- 1:11SPEAKER_03: big TV at home.
- 1:12SPEAKER_03: I'm not going to do that.
- 1:13SPEAKER_03: That's like, you know, like a college student.
- 1:16SPEAKER_00: Well, some of us watch on our phones from our bed.
- 1:19SPEAKER_03: God, you're the worst.
- 1:21SPEAKER_03: That's the worst.
- 1:22I watch sometimes on my phone in my bed and we have like a big
- 1:27TV in our room.
- 1:28SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:29SPEAKER_03: You watched the entirety of Severance on your phone.
- 1:33SPEAKER_00: No, I didn't.
- 1:34SPEAKER_00: I didn't watch a single episode of Severance on my phone.
- 1:37SPEAKER_03: 4K filmed Severance with Atmos on your telephone.
- 1:42SPEAKER_00: No, I didn't watch even a single episode of Severance on my phone.
- 1:45SPEAKER_00: But I did watch... Good for you.
- 1:47SPEAKER_00: I did watch a couple White Lotus on my phone.
- 1:51SPEAKER_03: Again, also, I believe, filmed in 4K with Atmos.
- 1:58SPEAKER_03: Yeah, no, so I was...
- 1:59SPEAKER_03: my, my family were, uh, we were trucking around the deep South.
- 2:04SPEAKER_03: We went to,
- 2:06SPEAKER_03: uh,
- 2:06SPEAKER_03: what's at a capital of Mississippi,
- 2:11SPEAKER_03: Jackson,
- 2:12SPEAKER_03: Jackson,
- 2:12SPEAKER_03: Mississippi,
- 2:14SPEAKER_03: uh,
- 2:14SPEAKER_03: Montgomery,
- 2:14SPEAKER_03: Alabama and Baton Rouge,
- 2:17SPEAKER_03: Louisiana.
- 2:17SPEAKER_03: It was very nice.
- 2:19SPEAKER_03: Uh, well, Montgomery, Alabama wasn't very nice.
- 2:21SPEAKER_03: I wasn't a big fan of Montgomery, Alabama.
- 2:23SPEAKER_03: Sorry, Montgomery, Alabama people.
- 2:25SPEAKER_03: But, um,
- 2:27SPEAKER_03: But yeah, I've actually been to Baton Rouge before.
- 2:31SPEAKER_03: Baton Rouge isn't that spectacular a city.
- 2:35I don't think people from Baton Rouge would say it's that
- 2:37spectacular a city.
- 2:38SPEAKER_03: The statehouse is nice.
- 2:42The Louisiana statehouse in Baton Rouge,
- 2:43big skyscraper built by Huey Long.
- 2:46SPEAKER_03: Huey Long, he built the thing, then he got shot in it.
- 2:49SPEAKER_00: Can we back up and say why you are visiting state capitals?
- 2:54SPEAKER_00: Because I think it's really cute.
- 2:56SPEAKER_03: Oh, because I've referenced this on Twitter periodically.
- 3:01We have made a goal to try to take our kids to all 50 state
- 3:06capitals before they
- 3:07SPEAKER_03: reach college age.
- 3:09It may ultimately shake out that we'll go to Hawaii or
- 3:12something when they're in
- 3:13SPEAKER_03: college or something.
- 3:15Some of the more far-flung Juneau,
- 3:17Alaska,
- 3:18seems like it's going to be pretty far down the list.
- 3:21SPEAKER_03: But so far,
- 3:22we've mostly been sticking to states that we can drive to from
- 3:27where we live
- 3:27SPEAKER_03: without too much trouble.
- 3:30SPEAKER_03: But yeah, so we can't say off the top of that how many we've been to.
- 3:35SPEAKER_03: We've been to a decent number so far.
- 3:37SPEAKER_03: We've been up and down the eastern seaboard.
- 3:39SPEAKER_03: I think we haven't been to Tallahassee yet.
- 3:42SPEAKER_03: I think we might try to do that next spring.
- 3:44SPEAKER_00: You should buy,
- 3:45SPEAKER_00: there are on Etsy,
- 3:47SPEAKER_00: people do scratch-off maps,
- 3:49SPEAKER_00: and you can get custom ones,
- 3:50and you could get scratch-off maps that your kids could scratch
- 3:55out the states that
- 3:55SPEAKER_00: they've been to the capitals of.
- 3:57SPEAKER_03: I think we actually have one of those, or a couple of those.
- 4:02SPEAKER_03: I think the girls have been using it, which is the same thing.
- 4:06They've been using it to scratch off the states they've been to,
- 4:11so it works out the same thing.
- 4:12SPEAKER_00: There's also an app called Bin, like places I've been to.
- 4:18SPEAKER_03: No, I'm not.
- 4:19SPEAKER_03: They don't have phones.
- 4:20SPEAKER_03: I'm not getting them into apps.
- 4:22SPEAKER_00: Okay, fine.
- 4:25SPEAKER_03: I'm sorry.
- 4:26My kids have it because when they have phones,
- 4:28my kids are older than your kids.
- 4:30SPEAKER_00: But also,
- 4:32we've been to a couple countries and it's fun for them to tick
- 4:34off the countries
- 4:35SPEAKER_00: they've been to.
- 4:36SPEAKER_00: Because I think my kids have been to like 10 countries?
- 4:40SPEAKER_00: 12?
- 4:41SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 4:43SPEAKER_03: I still haven't gotten my kids passports.
- 4:44SPEAKER_03: My wife and I don't currently have a passport.
- 4:46We,
- 4:47we,
- 4:47we need to,
- 4:48we,
- 4:48we,
- 4:48cause we haven't traveled overseas in so long.
- 4:50SPEAKER_03: We both let our passports lapse.
- 4:53SPEAKER_03: We need to take care of that.
- 4:54SPEAKER_00: Actually,
- 4:55I'm glad that you just said that because I need to renew my
- 4:58kids passports because
- 4:59SPEAKER_00: there's expired next year.
- 5:00SPEAKER_00: So I have to get done now.
- 5:03SPEAKER_03: It takes a while.
- 5:06SPEAKER_00: I always expedite and you get it back within like two to three weeks.
- 5:14SPEAKER_03: No, so, yeah, no, we don't – my kids have not been to other countries.
- 5:19And they have been told that they will not get a smartphone
- 5:24until they can pay for one.
- 5:25SPEAKER_03: That is my stance.
- 5:28They get a smart – we actually have an old dumb flip phone that
- 5:32we got,
- 5:32and I'm going to get a –
- 5:36SPEAKER_03: Yeah,
- 5:36SPEAKER_03: I'll probably just get a prepaid SD card from,
- 5:38SPEAKER_03: not SD card,
- 5:39SPEAKER_03: whatever card from Mint or something.
- 5:42SPEAKER_01: Call the SIM card.
- 5:43SPEAKER_03: SIM card, that's the one, to put in there for them.
- 5:47SPEAKER_03: But yeah, I don't want them.
- 5:51SPEAKER_03: They don't have social media accounts.
- 5:54My stance is that it's hard enough as an adult to forge your
- 5:58identity without
- 5:59having weird vestiges of your childhood identity floating
- 6:03around on the internet.
- 6:05SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 6:06SPEAKER_00: My kids don't have,
- 6:07SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 6:09SPEAKER_00: my daughter has,
- 6:10SPEAKER_00: well,
- 6:10SPEAKER_00: they have some accounts,
- 6:11SPEAKER_00: but they're very locked down private.
- 6:13SPEAKER_00: I have the password.
- 6:14SPEAKER_00: I set the password.
- 6:16SPEAKER_00: They actually use our old phones.
- 6:18So when Luke and I like get upgrades,
- 6:21then we gave our old phones to the kids.
- 6:24SPEAKER_00: And we have, like, a really cheap basic plan for them.
- 6:27SPEAKER_00: But because they're homeschooled, too, it's also different.
- 6:31SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 6:33SPEAKER_03: They're friends they're coordinating with and talking to.
- 6:35SPEAKER_03: There aren't people they would necessarily see at school on that day.
- 6:41SPEAKER_00: I've vetted it a lot more, and my kids know that I'm nosy.
- 6:45SPEAKER_00: I go through anyone's phone.
- 6:47SPEAKER_00: I pay the phone bill in my house.
- 6:49SPEAKER_00: I can go through any phone that's on that plan.
- 6:51SPEAKER_00: That's fair.
- 6:52SPEAKER_03: I don't...
- 6:57SPEAKER_03: Yeah, no, I could see that.
- 6:59SPEAKER_03: It hasn't really been an issue.
- 7:00SPEAKER_03: But my daughter has, my older daughter has friends that she'll text.
- 7:05SPEAKER_03: But she'll use one of my, usually my wife's phone to do it.
- 7:09SPEAKER_03: Because my wife has,
- 7:11it's cute and somewhat old fashioned that she like texts the
- 7:14parents of the people.
- 7:17SPEAKER_03: They have to get the phone from their parents.
- 7:19SPEAKER_00: I had that for a while.
- 7:20SPEAKER_00: And then, oh, well.
- 7:23I'm glad I'm not doing that now because now there's a boy
- 7:25texting my daughter.
- 7:28SPEAKER_03: Oh, no.
- 7:29SPEAKER_03: It's all downhill from there.
- 7:30We actually have a whole bunch of old iPhone SEs,
- 7:36not the new SE,
- 7:37like the old SE.
- 7:39SPEAKER_03: My wife and I were big into those for a while.
- 7:42SPEAKER_03: They were so nice and compact.
- 7:44But I don't think any carrier still uses those or is willing to
- 7:48use those.
- 7:49SPEAKER_00: I have, I don't know that I ever had one of those when they were.
- 7:56SPEAKER_00: I've always had like the megaphone because I just need Tamra.
- 8:01SPEAKER_03: Well, you professionally need the camera, yes.
- 8:05SPEAKER_03: I like the very small form.
- 8:07SPEAKER_03: I have large hands.
- 8:07My wife does not have large hands,
- 8:09so she really liked the very small form.
- 8:10I finally got her to upgrade to the new iPhone SE because
- 8:16everyone stopped
- 8:17SPEAKER_03: supporting the old one.
- 8:18The old ones were all running horribly because they're not
- 8:21built for any of the new
- 8:22SPEAKER_03: builds of iOS.
- 8:25SPEAKER_00: How did we get on this tangent?
- 8:28SPEAKER_00: We were talking about family vacations.
- 8:31SPEAKER_03: That's how it works.
- 8:34SPEAKER_03: Back to family vacations.
- 8:36SPEAKER_03: Yeah, so Baton Rouge, not great, but cool building.
- 8:40SPEAKER_03: I really like the, yeah, the state house, big.
- 8:46SPEAKER_03: I'm a sucker for Art Deco.
- 8:49SPEAKER_03: So in Louisiana, state house is dripping in Art Deco.
- 8:53SPEAKER_03: It's wonderful.
- 8:54SPEAKER_03: It looks like straight out of an Ayn Rand novel.
- 8:57SPEAKER_00: Have you ever been to Kansas City?
- 9:01SPEAKER_03: Is it also Art Deco?
- 9:02SPEAKER_00: Kansas City has a lot of Art Deco.
- 9:04SPEAKER_00: And like really, really cool Art Deco buildings.
- 9:07SPEAKER_00: I'm going in May.
- 9:10SPEAKER_03: Is Kansas City the... That's not the capital of Missouri, is it?
- 9:15SPEAKER_03: I don't remember the capital.
- 9:16SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 9:17SPEAKER_01: I literally don't know.
- 9:18SPEAKER_03: There you go.
- 9:19SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 9:19SPEAKER_00: I mean, I have lived in Missouri in the past.
- 9:27SPEAKER_03: It's the great Midwest.
- 9:28SPEAKER_03: It's basically, you hear there be dragons.
- 9:30SPEAKER_00: No!
- 9:35SPEAKER_00: More good face work that I have going on.
- 9:37SPEAKER_00: I'm a huge defender of the Midwest.
- 9:38SPEAKER_00: I realize that some people lump Colorado into the Midwest, which is not.
- 9:43SPEAKER_00: No, it's mountain.
- 9:44SPEAKER_00: It's mountain.
- 9:45SPEAKER_00: Okay, but I don't know that you've been to Denver.
- 9:48SPEAKER_00: Like, we are on the plains.
- 9:49SPEAKER_03: Yeah, but the plains are a mile high in the air.
- 9:54SPEAKER_03: It's still a mountain.
- 9:55SPEAKER_03: It's not a plain, it's a plateau.
- 9:57SPEAKER_03: A plateau is not a plain.
- 10:00SPEAKER_00: It's a gentle slope up.
- 10:01SPEAKER_03: Yeah, sure.
- 10:03SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 10:07SPEAKER_00: Anyways, I'm a huge defender of the Midwest.
- 10:10If you have to modify your baking times because of the altitude...
- 10:15I don't.
- 10:17SPEAKER_03: You're absolutely supposed to.
- 10:18SPEAKER_03: All the recipes call for it.
- 10:20SPEAKER_00: I don't.
- 10:21SPEAKER_00: And I also don't bake very much.
- 10:22SPEAKER_03: Well, there you go.
- 10:26There might be a reason that your stuff isn't coming out well
- 10:29enough that you want to bake more.
- 10:30SPEAKER_00: Actually, that is because I...
- 10:34have the attention span of a gnat and can't like follow a very
- 10:40scientific process to bake.
- 10:43SPEAKER_02: Fair enough.
- 10:43SPEAKER_00: I'm a cook.
- 10:44SPEAKER_00: I'm not a baker.
- 10:45SPEAKER_00: My husband actually bakes and he doesn't modify anything.
- 10:49SPEAKER_03: I do both,
- 10:50SPEAKER_03: but I don't,
- 10:51SPEAKER_03: because I only,
- 10:52SPEAKER_03: I can do both fine,
- 10:53SPEAKER_03: but it's only because I don't,
- 10:54SPEAKER_03: I don't forge new things.
- 10:56SPEAKER_03: I just follow recipes.
- 10:57SPEAKER_00: We're at about a mile high now.
- 11:01SPEAKER_00: It really impacts you like 8,000 feet up.
- 11:04SPEAKER_00: We have about 3,000 feet to play with.
- 11:08It matters with things like souffle and macarons,
- 11:12but otherwise,
- 11:14for bread,
- 11:15it's not much.
- 11:17SPEAKER_00: Unless you're in the mountains, and then it is.
- 11:19My parents used to live in Beaver Creek,
- 11:21and I'd have to modify everything.
- 11:25the uh baton rouge nice we went to new orleans i think we spent
- 11:28the most time in
- 11:28new orleans we're in new orleans for two days new orleans is
- 11:32it's new orleans it's
- 11:33fine it's night it was it's during lent new orleans is
- 11:36obviously a bit sleepier
- 11:37during lent um which is better i was just in new orleans like
- 11:41two weeks ago and it
- 11:43was kind of nice that it was sleepier yeah no no i'm i'm not
- 11:47complaining that was
- 11:48SPEAKER_03: you don't have
- 11:49SPEAKER_03: The vomit on the,
- 11:50SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 11:51they're having to hose the vomit off of Bourbon Street after
- 11:54the parties for
- 11:55SPEAKER_03: leading up to Lent.
- 11:59SPEAKER_00: I actually, it wasn't my intention when I was there.
- 12:02I was there for an ad conference and I was with,
- 12:05you know,
- 12:06colleagues and my ad company.
- 12:08SPEAKER_00: And we ended up going out onto Bourbon Street at like 1 a.m., which, ugh.
- 12:14horrifying horrifying really truly horrifying stuff but it
- 12:17wasn't that bad there
- 12:18were like 10 people out and it was a bunch of olds like me so
- 12:24yeah was this was
- 12:25this before before lent was this during the season oh this was
- 12:29like okay two weeks
- 12:30ago okay i don't know how long lent's been going on it was
- 12:35right after i'm not
- 12:36SPEAKER_03: catholic
- 12:37SPEAKER_00: You're married to a Catholic.
- 12:39SPEAKER_00: You should know.
- 12:40SPEAKER_03: I know.
- 12:40SPEAKER_03: I don't pay attention.
- 12:42SPEAKER_03: I can barely remember when my own birthday is.
- 12:45SPEAKER_03: Which, by the way, was like last week.
- 12:48SPEAKER_03: It was my birthday.
- 12:49SPEAKER_00: Happy birthday.
- 12:50SPEAKER_00: It was my birthday the week before that we talked about.
- 12:54SPEAKER_03: We're both March babies.
- 12:56um but uh yeah so so new orleans was nice we uh but i had some
- 13:02some work i had to
- 13:03do so my wife took the girls just to the jazz museum by herself
- 13:08which was nice but
- 13:09you had work to do that wasn't recording it was it wasn't
- 13:13recording yeah it was uh
- 13:14it was it was really annoying because i had to i had to do a
- 13:17meeting and it was
- 13:18SPEAKER_03: like a
- 13:19half hour meeting and i but i had to do it so then i couldn't
- 13:23go to with they were
- 13:25gone for like four hours um so just hanging out in our hotel
- 13:29this is where people
- 13:30think that i have and i'm i'm not gonna lie my life is pretty
- 13:34fun but people think
- 13:36that i have like this awesome gig that i get to just do
- 13:39whatever i want i'm like no
- 13:40like half the time when i'm going places i'm sitting working in
- 13:44a hotel room
- 13:46It is very difficult to dodge meetings if you're working in any capacity.
- 13:52You're always on someone else's schedule because you've got to
- 13:54meet with somebody.
- 13:55And if you work remote or you own your own business,
- 13:59you never clock out,
- 14:00which is really fun.
- 14:02SPEAKER_00: I've built myself this amazing golden handcuffs here.
- 14:07SPEAKER_03: Well, we were in New Orleans.
- 14:08SPEAKER_03: Our last night in New Orleans.
- 14:11SPEAKER_03: I should look up the name of the restaurant.
- 14:12SPEAKER_03: I should actually tweet about this because I feel like it was cool.
- 14:17SPEAKER_03: We decided we wanted Italian food.
- 14:20SPEAKER_03: We went to this restaurant.
- 14:21SPEAKER_03: It was this Italian restaurant.
- 14:23SPEAKER_03: That I looked up,
- 14:24and apparently it had been at Buga de Beppo or something like
- 14:27that up until,
- 14:29SPEAKER_03: like,
- 14:29SPEAKER_03: a few years ago.
- 14:30SPEAKER_03: And that place closed, and this place opened up in it.
- 14:33SPEAKER_03: Because I guess there was a guy who wanted to start a restaurant that...
- 14:38SPEAKER_03: And it came with all the equipment.
- 14:41And it was interesting because they explicitly said on their
- 14:47information that what
- 14:49they wanted to do is they wanted to be a place where people
- 14:51feel comfortable both
- 14:52SPEAKER_03: bringing their families...
- 14:54And where they'd feel comfortable going if someone was watching
- 14:58the kids.
- 14:59Like,
- 14:59it was,
- 14:59like,
- 14:59a high-end,
- 15:00but not too...
- 15:00Like,
- 15:00it was very nicely decked out.
- 15:02SPEAKER_03: It was a high-end, but not too high-end.
- 15:04SPEAKER_03: So, like, and they had a kid's menu.
- 15:07SPEAKER_03: It was kind of a sweet spot for us.
- 15:09SPEAKER_03: We like to bring our kids where places we go.
- 15:11I know a lot of parents like to ditch their kids and just go
- 15:13off and do something.
- 15:14SPEAKER_03: We generally will try to include our kids in everything we do because we,
- 15:18SPEAKER_03: like,
- 15:18SPEAKER_03: have them around.
- 15:19SPEAKER_03: Cool.
- 15:19SPEAKER_03: But...
- 15:24SPEAKER_00: We're half and half.
- 15:25I mean,
- 15:25thankfully,
- 15:26my kids are old enough now that I mean,
- 15:28my kids are teenagers.
- 15:29SPEAKER_00: So
- 15:30SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 15:31SPEAKER_00: when we were in Scotland,
- 15:32Luke and I went out to dinner and left them in the apartment
- 15:36because they're old enough.
- 15:38SPEAKER_03: Left him a haggis to eat dinner.
- 15:42SPEAKER_00: Actually, we did one night for my son.
- 15:47SPEAKER_00: My son tried haggis and loved it.
- 15:49SPEAKER_00: And we didn't tell him what it was until we got home.
- 15:52SPEAKER_00: And we told him and he's like, still like it.
- 15:54SPEAKER_00: And I was like, great.
- 15:56SPEAKER_03: Did you tell him it's illegal in America?
- 15:59Yeah.
- 16:01SPEAKER_00: I gotta give him that street crowd.
- 16:04SPEAKER_03: But this restaurant we went to, we had this very nice waiter.
- 16:08SPEAKER_03: We came over, he was like chatting with the kids, really great.
- 16:13SPEAKER_03: And then he was asking us, we've been there before.
- 16:15SPEAKER_03: We said no.
- 16:15SPEAKER_03: And he went off and he
- 16:18SPEAKER_03: Came back.
- 16:18SPEAKER_03: He's like, I just talked to my manager.
- 16:20Because it's your first experience with us,
- 16:21we want to pick anything from the appetizer menu.
- 16:23SPEAKER_03: That's on the house.
- 16:24SPEAKER_03: I was like,
- 16:25SPEAKER_03: that is really,
- 16:25SPEAKER_03: especially because if we're from out of town,
- 16:27SPEAKER_03: we're not going back there anytime soon.
- 16:30SPEAKER_03: I was like, that is really cool.
- 16:32SPEAKER_03: So we got this delicious,
- 16:33SPEAKER_03: it was like a cheese and tomato sauce thing with crostinis to put in it.
- 16:39SPEAKER_03: It was very good.
- 16:41SPEAKER_03: Appetizer.
- 16:42SPEAKER_03: They comped it.
- 16:43SPEAKER_03: It was fantastic.
- 16:44SPEAKER_03: I love that place.
- 16:44SPEAKER_00: If only you knew what the name of the appetizer was.
- 16:49SPEAKER_03: I can figure it out.
- 16:50I don't want to be sitting here on my phone while you riff
- 16:53while I figure out the
- 16:54SPEAKER_03: name of this place.
- 16:54SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
- 16:55Okay,
- 16:59how else am I supposed to occupy the time that it takes to get
- 17:06a thought out of you?
- 17:08SPEAKER_03: It's true.
- 17:08SPEAKER_03: I'm chatty.
- 17:10SPEAKER_00: It's okay.
- 17:11SPEAKER_00: I am too.
- 17:14We also one of the genesis genesis of the trip was that there's
- 17:19this restaurant in
- 17:20SPEAKER_03: Baton Rouge called Piranes that my wife has been to in the past.
- 17:24I'd actually been there once before that had in the past served
- 17:28blackened alligator.
- 17:30And my wife has often talked about this blackened alligator
- 17:32with our kids and they
- 17:32SPEAKER_03: really wanted to have this blackened alligator.
- 17:34So we went to Baton Rouge,
- 17:35we go to Bahrain to get the blackened alligator.
- 17:38SPEAKER_03: And I didn't do research beforehand,
- 17:39SPEAKER_03: sadly,
- 17:40SPEAKER_03: because apparently the blackened alligator was,
- 17:42SPEAKER_03: it was like an off menu thing.
- 17:44SPEAKER_03: They sold fry.
- 17:45SPEAKER_03: They used to sell fried alligator and they just wouldn't fry it.
- 17:47SPEAKER_03: We're blacking it for you.
- 17:49SPEAKER_03: But apparently they no longer sell it, which is unfortunate.
- 17:52SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 17:54SPEAKER_03: But we got grilled oysters instead, which were quite good.
- 17:59SPEAKER_03: Paranes.
- 18:00Anyone who's been to the area,
- 18:01I gather,
- 18:02doesn't need to be told about Paranes.
- 18:04As far as I can tell,
- 18:05it's a kind of local institution of the Baton Rouge area.
- 18:08So everyone is told,
- 18:09oh,
- 18:10you got to go to Paranes,
- 18:11which it was very good.
- 18:13SPEAKER_00: That's awesome.
- 18:15SPEAKER_00: It sucks that they didn't have it, though.
- 18:18No,
- 18:18I mean,
- 18:19I actually,
- 18:19a while ago,
- 18:20our local butcher was selling alligator.
- 18:24SPEAKER_03: And I bought some with...
- 18:25SPEAKER_00: If you had talked to your food blogger friend,
- 18:28SPEAKER_00: she might have helped you pull up the menu beforehand and plan.
- 18:33SPEAKER_03: I don't need to talk to you to pull up a menu.
- 18:36SPEAKER_00: Apparently.
- 18:36SPEAKER_03: I know how to pull up menus.
- 18:38SPEAKER_00: Apparently you might need...
- 18:40SPEAKER_00: I had been there.
- 18:41SPEAKER_00: Reminder to do it.
- 18:44SPEAKER_03: Now,
- 18:44SPEAKER_03: granted,
- 18:45SPEAKER_03: when I was there,
- 18:46SPEAKER_03: when I was there last was like eight years ago and my wife,
- 18:49SPEAKER_03: I think maybe six or seven years ago.
- 18:53So,
- 18:53you know,
- 18:54it should have occurred to me that things might have changed.
- 18:56SPEAKER_03: I don't need your help to do online research.
- 18:58SPEAKER_03: I know how to do online research.
- 19:00Do not act like you have some kind of great researching ability
- 19:07that only an online
- 19:08SPEAKER_03: food blogger is capable of.
- 19:10SPEAKER_00: I don't,
- 19:11but I do have the memory of screwing a lot of things up when I
- 19:16don't look and do
- 19:18SPEAKER_00: the homework.
- 19:19SPEAKER_00: I'm really good.
- 19:20SPEAKER_00: This is awesome.
- 19:22SPEAKER_00: That was great.
- 19:23SPEAKER_00: You just sprayed water all over yourself.
- 19:25SPEAKER_00: It was amazing.
- 19:26SPEAKER_03: That was soda.
- 19:27SPEAKER_03: That was soda I sprayed all over myself, actually.
- 19:29SPEAKER_00: It would have been so much easier if it was water.
- 19:34SPEAKER_00: We're unhinged today.
- 19:36SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 19:38SPEAKER_03: We're always unhinged.
- 19:38SPEAKER_03: A little bit.
- 19:40SPEAKER_03: You'll make reference to this sometimes.
- 19:41SPEAKER_03: It's like, we're no different than we ever.
- 19:43SPEAKER_03: No, that's true.
- 19:44SPEAKER_03: Because we're chatting.
- 19:45SPEAKER_03: People want to hear us chat.
- 19:47SPEAKER_00: All five.
- 19:48SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 19:49all five people out of here is chat thank you all five people
- 19:54one of them is my
- 19:54wife she always listens and then she texts me comment comments
- 19:58and references to
- 19:59what i've said oh we we then went to mobile alabama i had never
- 20:05been to mobile
- 20:05SPEAKER_03: alabama i had been to both baton rouge and um
- 20:09SPEAKER_03: New Orleans before.
- 20:10SPEAKER_03: Mobile is a great city.
- 20:12SPEAKER_03: I loved Mobile.
- 20:12SPEAKER_03: Mobile was a very nice city.
- 20:16SPEAKER_03: It felt like the most southern feeling town I think I've been in.
- 20:22SPEAKER_03: It just felt very southern.
- 20:24SPEAKER_03: It had that just kind of
- 20:25look to it and we stayed at a place called the malaga inn which
- 20:29is was built in 18
- 20:30it was built in 1862 which i found surprising because i was
- 20:33surprised that in 1862
- 20:36construction was still going on in mobile alabama because i
- 20:39think there were others
- 20:40there was other stuff happening down south but apparently they
- 20:44were building a
- 20:44hotel down in mobile but it was it was like an old style hotel
- 20:49so it was like
- 20:52The beds were these big four poster beds and it had all wood
- 20:55floors and there was a
- 20:57SPEAKER_03: central courtyard in the place,
- 21:00SPEAKER_03: which was very pretty and had this big fountain.
- 21:02SPEAKER_03: It was very nice.
- 21:03SPEAKER_03: Not that expensive.
- 21:04SPEAKER_03: Wonderful place.
- 21:05SPEAKER_03: I'd recommend the Malaga Inn.
- 21:07SPEAKER_03: It is apparently haunted.
- 21:08SPEAKER_03: I found out the next day.
- 21:12SPEAKER_03: I was looking it up online,
- 21:13SPEAKER_03: and after we had stayed there,
- 21:15SPEAKER_03: I found that it is apparently haunted.
- 21:17SPEAKER_03: You know, whatever.
- 21:18SPEAKER_03: The online thing, it doesn't sound like it's a violent ghost.
- 21:22SPEAKER_03: It's just,
- 21:22SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 21:23SPEAKER_03: a ghostly apparition who paces around,
- 21:27SPEAKER_03: and,
- 21:27SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 21:27SPEAKER_03: lights can turn themselves off.
- 21:28SPEAKER_03: Who cares?
- 21:29SPEAKER_03: You can just turn it back on.
- 21:29SPEAKER_03: It doesn't matter.
- 21:31SPEAKER_00: I drove up to a haunted hotel yesterday, so.
- 21:33SPEAKER_03: Oh, yeah, the Overlook, wasn't it?
- 21:36SPEAKER_03: The Stan Lee.
- 21:38SPEAKER_03: The Overlook Hotel.
- 21:39SPEAKER_03: No one knows it as the Stan Lee.
- 21:42SPEAKER_00: Everyone knows that this is Stanley.
- 21:44SPEAKER_00: So many people have been to Estes Park.
- 21:47SPEAKER_03: More people have watched The Shining than have been to Estes Park.
- 21:49SPEAKER_03: I will guarantee.
- 21:51SPEAKER_00: I don't think that's true.
- 21:52SPEAKER_03: 100% true.
- 21:55I'm not going to bother to finally find the statistics on this
- 21:57because I'm
- 21:58SPEAKER_03: confident in my being correct.
- 22:00SPEAKER_00: Rocky Mountain National Park is so crowded.
- 22:03SPEAKER_00: They have to limit.
- 22:04You have to make a reservation to go to the National Park and
- 22:06you have to do it
- 22:07SPEAKER_00: like weeks in advance.
- 22:08SPEAKER_00: Like Estes Park is very, very trafficked.
- 22:12SPEAKER_03: That sounds communist.
- 22:13SPEAKER_00: No, it's awful.
- 22:14SPEAKER_00: We never go.
- 22:15SPEAKER_00: This is why we have that group chat that we're in.
- 22:18SPEAKER_00: And people are like, oh, I love Estes.
- 22:20I'm like,
- 22:20I never go to Estes because it's always so crowded,
- 22:23especially in the summer.
- 22:25SPEAKER_03: It's for the tourists.
- 22:27SPEAKER_03: It's so busy.
- 22:27SPEAKER_03: That's why no one goes.
- 22:29SPEAKER_03: You all right over there?
- 22:30SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 22:31SPEAKER_00: Sorry, I was coughing.
- 22:32I was really irrationally angry at my CPA yesterday and just
- 22:38went for a drive
- 22:39SPEAKER_00: because it's April,
- 22:41SPEAKER_00: which is my
- 22:43least favorite month because i hate paying taxes yeah well i
- 22:48don't do my taxes i
- 22:49have accountants but i have to pay them and that really sucks
- 22:55yeah no no that's a
- 22:57that's a everyone gets a little bit libertarian in april i'm
- 23:00always a little bit
- 23:02SPEAKER_03: but you're getting a little bit more
- 23:05SPEAKER_00: I shouldn't say that loudly, but actually I'm getting a lot less.
- 23:08SPEAKER_00: I used to, for a while, when I was in Maryland, I think I was registered.
- 23:14SPEAKER_00: I don't, I won't say that out loud, but.
- 23:16SPEAKER_03: You just did.
- 23:17SPEAKER_03: I know.
- 23:17SPEAKER_00: I heard it.
- 23:19SPEAKER_03: I heard it news.
- 23:19SPEAKER_03: It's on, it's on, it's recorded now.
- 23:22There was a very brief period of my life that I was a
- 23:25registered libertarian.
- 23:27Everyone goes to a libertarian phase when they're younger or,
- 23:30you know,
- 23:30approaching libertarian.
- 23:33SPEAKER_03: It's the thing.
- 23:34SPEAKER_03: You're young.
- 23:35SPEAKER_03: You don't have context of what the government actually does do.
- 23:39My really good friend was fairly,
- 23:43I didn't know her then,
- 23:44but,
- 23:44and now she's like super Marxist.
- 23:46SPEAKER_00: So, Hey, we all have our own paths.
- 23:50SPEAKER_03: How do you, how do you make that journey?
- 23:53SPEAKER_00: She really is the horseshoe.
- 23:55SPEAKER_00: And we talk about the horseshoe theory all the time,
- 23:57SPEAKER_00: but she like is the horseshoe that we talk about.
- 24:00SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 24:01hopped out completely on the other side she's absolutely my
- 24:05favorite friend to talk
- 24:06about politics with because we're both like well you're wrong
- 24:09but I don't care I
- 24:09SPEAKER_00: get why you think that it's
- 24:12SPEAKER_03: I like that.
- 24:14SPEAKER_03: I have a general belief that most people that I encounter have the same,
- 24:21SPEAKER_03: roughly the same information that I do.
- 24:23SPEAKER_03: They've just, you know, contextualized differently than I have.
- 24:27SPEAKER_03: And that's fine.
- 24:28SPEAKER_00: I don't think we have anywhere near the same information.
- 24:33SPEAKER_00: My friend and I,
- 24:34we have very different information sources and that's why she's
- 24:39getting stuff off
- 24:40SPEAKER_03: daily costs.
- 24:42SPEAKER_00: Does that still exist?
- 24:43SPEAKER_03: Yeah, it's still around.
- 24:44SPEAKER_00: Really?
- 24:45SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 24:47SPEAKER_03: Daily Kos, Mother Jones, they're still out there.
- 24:49SPEAKER_03: They're still out there being commies.
- 24:51SPEAKER_03: Jackman Magazine.
- 24:53SPEAKER_03: They sell Jackman Magazine in Barnes and Nobles.
- 24:57SPEAKER_03: Did you know that?
- 24:59SPEAKER_03: Shocking.
- 24:59SPEAKER_00: I did not.
- 25:00SPEAKER_00: I also don't go to Barnes and Noble really ever.
- 25:03SPEAKER_03: Oh, because you go to bougie local bookstores.
- 25:09SPEAKER_00: They're not bougie, but yes.
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: I mean,
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: yes,
- 25:12SPEAKER_00: I love a local bookstore,
- 25:14SPEAKER_00: but we usually go to – there's a bunch of really awesome,
- 25:18SPEAKER_00: huge used bookstores near us that have everything.
- 25:21It's like why would you go and pay a Barnes & Noble tax and I
- 25:25can buy the exact
- 25:25SPEAKER_00: same book from the used book shop?
- 25:29SPEAKER_03: Generally go to Barnes and Noble once a year.
- 25:33SPEAKER_03: They do a half off their Criterion movies sale for a month a year,
- 25:39and I go and try to pick up some Criterion films that I don't
- 25:42already own.
- 25:44We actually went to a Barnes & Noble outside New Orleans
- 25:49because my wife only
- 25:50SPEAKER_03: brought one book and she finished her book.
- 25:53SPEAKER_03: So she wanted to buy herself another book.
- 25:56SPEAKER_03: So she did.
- 25:57SPEAKER_00: But there's all those beautiful used bookstores.
- 26:01SPEAKER_00: I'm a big used bookstore fan.
- 26:04Well,
- 26:04we went to Barnes & Noble and she bought herself a big copy for
- 26:09the Brothers Karamazov.
- 26:11SPEAKER_03: And she, she, she's been reading that.
- 26:13SPEAKER_03: I told my kids,
- 26:13SPEAKER_03: if they read Brothers Karamazov,
- 26:16SPEAKER_03: they'll knock out all their AR points for school.
- 26:18SPEAKER_03: And like, you know, just like right there.
- 26:20SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 26:21SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 26:21SPEAKER_03: You gotta, you gotta, you gotta think ahead like that.
- 26:24SPEAKER_00: They sure would.
- 26:26SPEAKER_00: They might give up reading completely.
- 26:30SPEAKER_00: You know, way to go out with a bang.
- 26:34SPEAKER_03: But, uh,
- 26:37SPEAKER_03: But yeah,
- 26:38SPEAKER_03: so that was,
- 26:39SPEAKER_03: we spent a nice,
- 26:42SPEAKER_03: probably,
- 26:43SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 26:43SPEAKER_03: 45 minutes,
- 26:44SPEAKER_03: hour hanging out in Barnes & Noble.
- 26:46SPEAKER_03: I always liked Borders better than Barnes & Noble.
- 26:48SPEAKER_03: I liked Borders to buy books.
- 26:50SPEAKER_03: Barnes & Noble was always, I felt like, better to hang out in.
- 26:53SPEAKER_03: I don't know, did you have Borders out there?
- 26:54SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 26:56SPEAKER_03: I don't know how natural they were.
- 26:57SPEAKER_00: I don't.
- 27:00SPEAKER_00: Wild West.
- 27:01SPEAKER_00: I know people think it is, but.
- 27:03I don't know if they were like Midwest and East or if they
- 27:06actually went all the
- 27:07SPEAKER_03: way out to California or not.
- 27:09SPEAKER_00: This East Coast main character syndrome.
- 27:12SPEAKER_03: Because the East Coast is the main character.
- 27:15SPEAKER_00: No, it's, ugh.
- 27:17SPEAKER_03: Yeah, it is.
- 27:17SPEAKER_03: I'm sorry.
- 27:18SPEAKER_03: Where's the capital?
- 27:20SPEAKER_03: Where's the capital of the United States?
- 27:23SPEAKER_03: Where's the city that never sleeps?
- 27:26SPEAKER_03: Is it San Francisco?
- 27:27SPEAKER_03: San Francisco sleeps on a big bunch of poop.
- 27:30San Francisco does not sleep because everyone is tweaking out
- 27:34all the time.
- 27:34SPEAKER_00: If you're on that amount of drugs, you don't need sleep.
- 27:40SPEAKER_00: That's why... Well, fair enough.
- 27:41SPEAKER_00: That's why they're like zombies.
- 27:42SPEAKER_03: Speed capital of America.
- 27:48SPEAKER_03: So anyway, that was what I was doing.
- 27:50SPEAKER_03: I was trucking around.
- 27:50SPEAKER_03: What were you doing?
- 27:51SPEAKER_03: How are you doing?
- 27:53SPEAKER_00: I was trying to not die of a man cold that ripped through my house.
- 27:58SPEAKER_03: The eternal struggle.
- 27:59SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 28:00SPEAKER_00: And just planning summer stuff.
- 28:02SPEAKER_00: I've decided that I need to start traveling a lot more.
- 28:06SPEAKER_00: Of course.
- 28:07SPEAKER_03: That's what you do.
- 28:08SPEAKER_00: It is what I do.
- 28:10SPEAKER_00: So a little bit of an occupational thing.
- 28:12SPEAKER_00: But also just...
- 28:13SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 28:14SPEAKER_00: the realization is hitting that,
- 28:16SPEAKER_00: like,
- 28:16SPEAKER_00: especially with my son,
- 28:17SPEAKER_00: I have,
- 28:17SPEAKER_00: what,
- 28:18SPEAKER_00: three years with him until he graduates?
- 28:21SPEAKER_03: Yeah, goes off to college somewhere, presumably.
- 28:24SPEAKER_00: Actually, it's four years, but it's three years until he's 18.
- 28:27SPEAKER_00: So I got to start kicking up the hanging out with the kids.
- 28:33SPEAKER_03: And,
- 28:35SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 28:36putting in stuff so you could keep making money to pay for that
- 28:39college you're
- 28:40SPEAKER_03: going to go to.
- 28:40SPEAKER_03: That's important.
- 28:41SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 28:42SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 28:44SPEAKER_00: It's generally a good thing for me to keep my business afloat.
- 28:50SPEAKER_03: Of course.
- 28:51SPEAKER_00: I do at some point have to start traveling.
- 28:53I've been really nervous to travel because I had all the weird
- 28:56like blood clot risk
- 28:58stuff and my insurance won't pay for the surgery that I need to
- 29:02have for it.
- 29:02SPEAKER_00: So I'm a little like sketched out doing my job at the moment.
- 29:07SPEAKER_03: You could just drive.
- 29:09SPEAKER_00: I could.
- 29:11SPEAKER_00: But you know why that doesn't work for me?
- 29:15SPEAKER_03: Is it because you have an electric car and you have to,
- 29:19SPEAKER_03: you can't reliably charge your Rivian everywhere along the way?
- 29:23SPEAKER_00: Okay, you can.
- 29:25And I just charted it out like when I'm going to Kansas City
- 29:28soon because I want to
- 29:29SPEAKER_00: stay longer and flying just kind of.
- 29:32SPEAKER_00: I'll fly my husband there and probably.
- 29:34take my kids and i and go see my cousins in kansas but there
- 29:38there are supercharger
- 29:40stops along the way and if you go through so i don't have a
- 29:45tesla but teslas have
- 29:47upgraded to allow other cars use their superchargers and it
- 29:51makes sense if you go
- 29:53on the tesla website um not yeah they'll map it out for the map
- 29:57that map trips out
- 29:58for you they map it out for you and they'll tell you how long
- 30:01to charge at each
- 30:02SPEAKER_00: time and
- 30:04SPEAKER_00: That's helpful.
- 30:05SPEAKER_03: That makes sense.
- 30:07I think my husband would be a nervous wreck,
- 30:10though,
- 30:10because I'm really bad.
- 30:13SPEAKER_00: I'm always like, oh.
- 30:16SPEAKER_00: And it texts him.
- 30:17SPEAKER_00: So unlike with a gas car,
- 30:20SPEAKER_00: it will text him and tattle on me and be like,
- 30:23SPEAKER_00: you only have like 10 miles left.
- 30:26SPEAKER_00: Excuse me?
- 30:27SPEAKER_00: I know.
- 30:30SPEAKER_00: Why is your car narcing on you to your husband?
- 30:32SPEAKER_03: What?
- 30:33SPEAKER_00: Because he's a co-owner.
- 30:34SPEAKER_00: It texts me as well.
- 30:35SPEAKER_00: But it's like, go recharge now.
- 30:38So he'll get the text at work and he'll be like,
- 30:40Court,
- 30:41what are you doing?
- 30:42SPEAKER_00: Go plug in.
- 30:45SPEAKER_03: Good Lord.
- 30:45SPEAKER_03: I'm against this.
- 30:46SPEAKER_03: This is madness.
- 30:48SPEAKER_00: You also don't have a tracker on your wife.
- 30:54SPEAKER_03: No, no, I do not.
- 30:55SPEAKER_03: I do not low jack my wife.
- 30:57SPEAKER_03: Absolutely not.
- 30:57SPEAKER_00: I know you do.
- 31:03SPEAKER_03: That's the thing, though.
- 31:05Gas cars are just so much more convenient for trucking around
- 31:09in because there's
- 31:11SPEAKER_03: always a gas station.
- 31:12SPEAKER_03: I remember I watched a years ago.
- 31:15SPEAKER_03: I don't know if it was a Ken Burns documentary or
- 31:18But I watched a documentary about there was a guy who did
- 31:22basically the first
- 31:23SPEAKER_03: cross-country car trip.
- 31:26SPEAKER_03: And that's what it discussed.
- 31:28SPEAKER_03: This was in like 1910, maybe.
- 31:30SPEAKER_03: How much trouble there was getting gas along.
- 31:34SPEAKER_03: He had to have a whole bunch of gas cans strapped to his car so that...
- 31:40SPEAKER_03: wherever he did find gas,
- 31:42he could fill up because he didn't know where he was going to
- 31:44find extra gas.
- 31:46SPEAKER_03: Electric is not quite at that phase,
- 31:49SPEAKER_03: but with electric,
- 31:50SPEAKER_03: sadly,
- 31:51SPEAKER_03: you can't just bring an extra battery.
- 31:57SPEAKER_03: It's kind of SOL.
- 31:59Luke and I are annoyed that our roof isn't just like,
- 32:03why isn't the roof a charger?
- 32:06SPEAKER_03: Yeah, I'm confused by that.
- 32:07SPEAKER_03: I don't...
- 32:10SPEAKER_03: Can you see out of it?
- 32:12SPEAKER_03: That's the ambiance.
- 32:15Although I think that they have technology that allows them to
- 32:21do see-through solar panels,
- 32:23SPEAKER_03: I'm pretty sure.
- 32:24They're not as efficient,
- 32:25but basically it's a solar panel,
- 32:28but it's also a window.
- 32:30SPEAKER_03: I don't know why.
- 32:30SPEAKER_03: Maybe it just costs more to install,
- 32:33and they're trying to keep the price down where they can
- 32:36because they're already
- 32:37SPEAKER_03: spending so much on the battery.
- 32:38SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 32:40SPEAKER_00: Not a clue.
- 32:44SPEAKER_03: One solar panel doesn't really collect that much electricity.
- 32:47SPEAKER_03: It's a little bit, but it's not that much.
- 32:50SPEAKER_03: You've got to have a feel of them before it's really efficient.
- 32:54We do have other cars,
- 32:55though,
- 32:55so I could just drive one of the other cars.
- 32:57SPEAKER_03: Isn't one of those a Tesla?
- 32:59SPEAKER_00: No.
- 32:59SPEAKER_03: Okay.
- 33:02SPEAKER_00: There is a Tesla at our house, but we live with my in-laws.
- 33:05SPEAKER_00: They have a Tesla.
- 33:06SPEAKER_03: Okay, so not your Tesla.
- 33:07SPEAKER_00: That's not mine.
- 33:09SPEAKER_03: No, we have... Like a Yugo or something, right?
- 33:12SPEAKER_00: Don't make me say it.
- 33:14SPEAKER_00: You are always trying to make me sound snappy.
- 33:17SPEAKER_03: It's a Yugo.
- 33:18SPEAKER_00: It's a Mercedes.
- 33:19SPEAKER_00: Oh, wow.
- 33:19SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 33:24SPEAKER_03: I'm not trying to make you sound snobby.
- 33:26SPEAKER_03: I'm just, you know, discussing the facts on the ground.
- 33:29SPEAKER_03: And if those facts make you seem snobby, that's not my fault.
- 33:34SPEAKER_03: I actually forgot what your other car was.
- 33:36SPEAKER_03: I drive a Volvo, man.
- 33:37SPEAKER_03: Who am I to judge?
- 33:39SPEAKER_00: Okay, but actually, wait, there's two.
- 33:43SPEAKER_03: How many drivers in your house?
- 33:45SPEAKER_00: Two.
- 33:46SPEAKER_03: I can see why you need three cars.
- 33:50SPEAKER_00: Well,
- 33:50SPEAKER_00: my son is about to let he in the next calendar year,
- 33:56SPEAKER_00: we'll get his learner's permit,
- 33:57SPEAKER_00: which makes me want to vomit.
- 34:00SPEAKER_00: And also we didn't want to get rid of my husband has this old Sequoia.
- 34:04SPEAKER_00: That's just like our, how we haul trash with it.
- 34:08SPEAKER_00: We go camping with it.
- 34:10SPEAKER_00: When we go skiing, we take that.
- 34:12SPEAKER_03: Um, did he give that to your son?
- 34:14SPEAKER_00: I think we might,
- 34:15SPEAKER_00: but I don't know because if he wrecks it,
- 34:17SPEAKER_00: I'm going to be really pissed because it's a beater of a car,
- 34:21SPEAKER_00: but it's a great old car.
- 34:23SPEAKER_03: It's fine, but it's fine.
- 34:26SPEAKER_03: You could just buy him another beater, but you've already got a beater.
- 34:29SPEAKER_03: I actually think driving an old beater is very good for learning drivers.
- 34:34There's a lot of different people have differences of opinion
- 34:38on this because on
- 34:39SPEAKER_03: the one hand,
- 34:40SPEAKER_03: they don't have the safety features of a new car.
- 34:41And obviously,
- 34:42a learning driver should have a lot of safety features on the car.
- 34:45SPEAKER_03: But at the same time, just learning to...
- 34:48SPEAKER_03: Get to know an old beater car,
- 34:51SPEAKER_03: get to know its quirks,
- 34:51SPEAKER_03: get to know its weirdnesses,
- 34:54SPEAKER_03: and ideally understanding to some degree how to maintain it,
- 34:57SPEAKER_03: what needs to be maintained,
- 34:58which is going to be a lot different and more frequent on an
- 35:01older car than a newer car.
- 35:02SPEAKER_03: I think it's good.
- 35:03SPEAKER_03: My first few cars were just complete piece of crap.
- 35:05SPEAKER_03: I loved those things.
- 35:06SPEAKER_03: They were great.
- 35:07Most of my cars in my life are complete pieces of crap,
- 35:09I'm going to be honest here.
- 35:11only recently got better cars i always had hondas i never paid
- 35:17more than like 2000
- 35:18for a car i remember the adam sandler song piece of s car no
- 35:25okay but anyways it
- 35:27was of the time um my friends used to sing it when i would get
- 35:31to school because
- 35:32they're like oh that's not nice no my car was the worst it was
- 35:36so bad and we just
- 35:37SPEAKER_00: laughed at it
- 35:38SPEAKER_03: I,
- 35:38SPEAKER_03: I,
- 35:39SPEAKER_03: even,
- 35:39SPEAKER_03: even by the time I was in college,
- 35:41SPEAKER_03: I was one of the few people I knew who had a car.
- 35:43SPEAKER_03: I used to,
- 35:45SPEAKER_03: it was an old bit,
- 35:45SPEAKER_03: an old beater car,
- 35:47SPEAKER_03: but,
- 35:47SPEAKER_03: uh,
- 35:47SPEAKER_03: I mean,
- 35:48SPEAKER_03: uh,
- 35:48SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 35:49SPEAKER_03: I'm not a,
- 35:51SPEAKER_03: perhaps wasn't as,
- 35:52SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 35:53SPEAKER_03: bourgeois in areas.
- 35:54SPEAKER_03: You were good.
- 35:56SPEAKER_03: Everybody was all happy that I had a car.
- 35:58SPEAKER_03: I used to drive people out to Walmart with it.
- 36:01SPEAKER_03: I'd be like, I'll drive you to Walmart.
- 36:03SPEAKER_03: You got to get by me a candy bar there.
- 36:06SPEAKER_03: I had this whole economy going on.
- 36:07SPEAKER_00: The bourgeois.
- 36:10SPEAKER_00: I was in Kansas City for half of it.
- 36:14You know those Kansas City people Richie Rich Kansas City Not
- 36:26where rockers are
- 36:27SPEAKER_00: Jesuit schools are not necessarily in good neighborhoods Well that's true
- 36:31SPEAKER_00: No, we used to play a game.
- 36:33SPEAKER_00: This is so effed up.
- 36:35We used to play a game in the dorms where we would hear
- 36:38gunshots and then you would
- 36:40have to shotgun a beer for every 10 minutes that went by that
- 36:44the cops didn't come.
- 36:45SPEAKER_00: And we'd be like hammered by the end of the night.
- 36:48SPEAKER_00: Oh, we had like helicopters overhead all the time.
- 36:52We had a really secure campus,
- 36:57but I was not like in some bougie nice area.
- 37:00SPEAKER_03: That was not my collegiate experience.
- 37:02SPEAKER_03: That sounds unpleasant.
- 37:04SPEAKER_03: Congratulations on getting shot.
- 37:05SPEAKER_00: My CSU experience was very different.
- 37:09SPEAKER_00: And that area is fine.
- 37:11SPEAKER_00: I lived there, but it's not what you were picturing.
- 37:19But you knew many people with cars,
- 37:20and I'm just saying,
- 37:23nobody had a car.
- 37:24SPEAKER_00: Not that many people did,
- 37:25SPEAKER_00: but my parents lived in Wisconsin,
- 37:29SPEAKER_00: and at the time,
- 37:30SPEAKER_00: my boyfriend lived in Colorado,
- 37:31SPEAKER_00: so I was driving.
- 37:33SPEAKER_00: That's fair.
- 37:35SPEAKER_00: A lot.
- 37:37SPEAKER_03: I think it's good to have your first couple cars be beaters.
- 37:45SPEAKER_03: It builds character.
- 37:46SPEAKER_03: It builds character in kids, and character's important.
- 37:49SPEAKER_00: Yeah, my kids have a lot of character.
- 37:51SPEAKER_00: I don't know that they need more.
- 37:55SPEAKER_00: My daughter, especially, she's crazy.
- 37:57SPEAKER_00: When she starts to drive, I'm so scared.
- 38:01SPEAKER_03: You were telling me a story about your daughter and ducks.
- 38:04SPEAKER_03: I want you to tell me the story about the ducks, please.
- 38:07SPEAKER_00: Oh, okay.
- 38:08SPEAKER_03: The travel ducks, the European travel ducks.
- 38:11So my daughter's obsessed with ducks,
- 38:12but not just the European travel ducks,
- 38:14but there are.
- 38:16SPEAKER_03: Explain.
- 38:18SPEAKER_03: People can't see this.
- 38:19SPEAKER_03: Explain to me, because I was unaware of this existing.
- 38:22SPEAKER_03: Explain to me what a European travel duck is.
- 38:24So across Europe,
- 38:25and I'm sure in other countries as well,
- 38:28it's just like a tourist phenomenon.
- 38:30There are stores that just sell rubber ducks and they're like
- 38:34themed rubber ducks.
- 38:35SPEAKER_00: So we're not doing the video for this,
- 38:38but like over my shoulder is a rubber duck that's in a dirndl
- 38:42that my parents got
- 38:44SPEAKER_00: in Germany.
- 38:45SPEAKER_00: And we go around to rubber duck stores.
- 38:49SPEAKER_00: Like I, this is what I bring my children home.
- 38:51SPEAKER_00: I bring magnets that I collect anywhere we go.
- 38:55SPEAKER_00: And then we bring rubber ducks.
- 38:57SPEAKER_00: Rubber ducks.
- 38:59So it's basically a duck-based Funko Pop for culturally
- 39:07significant things.
- 39:08SPEAKER_03: Yeah,
- 39:09SPEAKER_00: like we were in Venice two Christmases ago,
- 39:12SPEAKER_00: and she got a little one that's a guy,
- 39:14SPEAKER_00: like a duck,
- 39:16SPEAKER_00: making a pizza.
- 39:16SPEAKER_00: Shouldn't it be in a gondola?
- 39:20SPEAKER_03: I feel like a duck in a gondola would make more sense.
- 39:22SPEAKER_03: Why is it making a pizza?
- 39:23SPEAKER_03: I don't think of pizza when I think Venice.
- 39:25SPEAKER_03: I think pizza's like Nepalese.
- 39:28SPEAKER_00: Fair enough.
- 39:29Also,
- 39:29it could have had the carnival mask,
- 39:33but that could have just been what she picked.
- 39:36SPEAKER_00: I don't remember.
- 39:37SPEAKER_03: Because apparently there's entire shops with selections.
- 39:39SPEAKER_03: Maybe in the shop there was a... They're small.
- 39:44SPEAKER_00: These are small.
- 39:46SPEAKER_00: It's a tiny one-room shop, but they have just rubber ducks everywhere.
- 39:52SPEAKER_00: I get them everywhere we go.
- 39:56SPEAKER_00: In Scotland, we got Loch Ness Monster looking ducks.
- 40:00SPEAKER_00: Oh, that's fun.
- 40:01SPEAKER_02: They have a long neck.
- 40:02SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 40:04SPEAKER_03: Oh, nice.
- 40:05SPEAKER_00: It's a really weird thing.
- 40:08SPEAKER_00: My daughter is very, very quirky.
- 40:10SPEAKER_00: I don't know where she gets that from.
- 40:12SPEAKER_03: I couldn't imagine.
- 40:13SPEAKER_00: I have no clue.
- 40:15SPEAKER_00: And she also collects random crap like I do.
- 40:17SPEAKER_00: But now she's obsessed with ducks and with geese,
- 40:22SPEAKER_00: which horrifies me because I'm permanently at war with all birds.
- 40:27SPEAKER_00: I don't know if you know this about me.
- 40:28SPEAKER_00: I hate birds.
- 40:29SPEAKER_00: No, I don't.
- 40:29SPEAKER_00: Birds hate me.
- 40:30SPEAKER_00: This is a mutual thing.
- 40:32SPEAKER_00: Why?
- 40:33SPEAKER_00: No, I'm like deadly afraid of birds.
- 40:35SPEAKER_00: Birds and bridges.
- 40:36SPEAKER_00: Birds and bridges.
- 40:37SPEAKER_00: I'm out.
- 40:39SPEAKER_00: I hate birds.
- 40:40SPEAKER_02: Why?
- 40:40SPEAKER_00: I don't know.
- 40:41SPEAKER_03: Do you hate anything air-based?
- 40:43SPEAKER_03: We like airplanes.
- 40:44SPEAKER_03: That doesn't make sense.
- 40:44SPEAKER_03: That doesn't follow.
- 40:45SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 40:46SPEAKER_00: I like traveling.
- 40:48SPEAKER_00: I don't know that I love airplanes.
- 40:49SPEAKER_00: I am, for someone who travels a lot, I am a very, very skittish flyer.
- 40:56SPEAKER_03: Oh.
- 40:57SPEAKER_03: So what is your daughter doing with these ducks?
- 41:01SPEAKER_00: She takes them and hides them all over her house.
- 41:03And she had one,
- 41:04a really large duck,
- 41:07that she was just hiding everywhere.
- 41:09SPEAKER_00: And my husband and I were totally clueless.
- 41:11And she was sending pictures to my mom every day like,
- 41:15oh,
- 41:15I hid it in the vegetable thing.
- 41:16SPEAKER_00: She had it in the refrigerator.
- 41:18SPEAKER_00: We didn't see it.
- 41:20SPEAKER_00: She's like, yeah, it was behind the food.
- 41:21SPEAKER_00: And she's sending all these pictures to my mom.
- 41:23SPEAKER_00: And my mom was finally like...
- 41:25SPEAKER_00: Dude, have you looked around and noticed a duck moving?
- 41:29SPEAKER_00: And I was like, yeah.
- 41:30SPEAKER_00: Actually, I did see a duck under the TV the other day.
- 41:33SPEAKER_00: What was that about?
- 41:35SPEAKER_00: A little scavenger hunt.
- 41:37SPEAKER_00: That's cute.
- 41:37SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 41:38SPEAKER_00: It's really cute.
- 41:40SPEAKER_03: I like that.
- 41:43I had a friend in high school who at one point we he got a I
- 41:50don't know where he acquired it.
- 41:51SPEAKER_03: He got a bag of rubber ducks.
- 41:54SPEAKER_03: He's like very smaller than those ones.
- 41:56SPEAKER_03: They were like little.
- 41:56SPEAKER_03: They're meant for carnival games, I think.
- 41:59SPEAKER_03: But it was a hot summer day,
- 42:01so we trucked around town and we found cars with their windows
- 42:04slightly open and we
- 42:06SPEAKER_03: popped them in to the cars.
- 42:10SPEAKER_03: We were big fans of doing that odd Dada humor like that.
- 42:15SPEAKER_00: My friends and I used to drive when we'd be on big road trips in college.
- 42:18SPEAKER_00: We would take cameras and take pictures of people as we drove past.
- 42:24SPEAKER_00: Which is a little bit sketchy.
- 42:26SPEAKER_02: It's a little... That's a little peculiar.
- 42:29SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 42:30SPEAKER_00: But we...
- 42:33A friend of mine and I did this amazing photo series of random
- 42:36people's reactions
- 42:37SPEAKER_00: as we drove.
- 42:40SPEAKER_03: Sounds like... Those are hijinks.
- 42:42SPEAKER_03: I think hijinks are important for children.
- 42:45SPEAKER_00: But we weren't trying to like... It wasn't...
- 42:49SPEAKER_00: We weren't trying to make fun of people.
- 42:50SPEAKER_00: We were just trying to get reactions to people.
- 42:53SPEAKER_03: You don't need to justify yourself.
- 42:55SPEAKER_03: It's hijinks.
- 42:56SPEAKER_03: Hijinks are okay.
- 42:58Yeah,
- 42:58but then you get into,
- 42:59like,
- 42:59pranks,
- 43:00and we just had April Fool's,
- 43:01which I wanted.
- 43:02SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
- 43:04SPEAKER_03: It's not bad spirit.
- 43:06SPEAKER_03: I suppose taking pictures of people,
- 43:08SPEAKER_03: people can get jumpy about that,
- 43:09SPEAKER_03: but I don't feel like that's bad spirit.
- 43:12SPEAKER_03: Pranks, I don't have a problem with as long as they're not poor-spirited.
- 43:18SPEAKER_03: Like, cruel pranks I don't like.
- 43:20SPEAKER_00: I'm not a prank person.
- 43:21SPEAKER_00: I'm not a joke person.
- 43:22SPEAKER_00: We didn't do anything for April Fool's.
- 43:24SPEAKER_00: I hate April Fool's Day.
- 43:28SPEAKER_03: No.
- 43:29SPEAKER_03: I used to be more into it.
- 43:30SPEAKER_03: I'm not as much now.
- 43:31SPEAKER_00: I've never, I don't know.
- 43:35So you,
- 43:37I want to point out,
- 43:39are unhappy because I always call you bougie.
- 43:42SPEAKER_00: No, not bougie.
- 43:44SPEAKER_00: It's the snobby.
- 43:46SPEAKER_03: I'm going to put my cards on the table here.
- 43:50SPEAKER_03: So it should be clarified.
- 43:52SPEAKER_03: You travel well.
- 43:53SPEAKER_03: You travel well.
- 43:58SPEAKER_03: You travel in style.
- 44:02SPEAKER_00: Only when I'm with myself and when it's for work.
- 44:04SPEAKER_00: Because if I'm traveling,
- 44:07SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 44:07SPEAKER_00: 15 hours to go to meetings and stuff,
- 44:09SPEAKER_00: I'm going to have nice seats on a plane.
- 44:13SPEAKER_00: But with my family, it is not that way.
- 44:16But what I'm saying is,
- 44:18you're not spending,
- 44:19this isn't a major spend for you necessarily.
- 44:23SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 44:24SPEAKER_03: It's you are leveraging points to do this, correct?
- 44:29SPEAKER_00: Yes.
- 44:30So a lot of people look at the fact that we go to Europe so
- 44:34often and say like,
- 44:36SPEAKER_00: oh,
- 44:36SPEAKER_00: I wish I could go to Europe someday or I wish I could do this.
- 44:39SPEAKER_00: And a lot of people don't realize how easy it is.
- 44:41SPEAKER_00: We are stuck going to Europe a lot just because we have family members.
- 44:45SPEAKER_00: who cannot come to the US because of visa issues.
- 44:50SPEAKER_00: But we can go see them in Europe.
- 44:51SPEAKER_00: So we just end up going all the time.
- 44:53SPEAKER_00: So it's the only way to see my niece and my sister-in-law.
- 44:57SPEAKER_00: But we're there a lot.
- 44:59SPEAKER_00: We put everything,
- 45:00I put all of my work and my personal spending on United cards
- 45:06and then just pay it
- 45:07SPEAKER_00: off as cash.
- 45:08SPEAKER_00: But you get all the points.
- 45:09SPEAKER_00: It helps you maintain status.
- 45:11SPEAKER_00: When you have status, you get like 11 times points.
- 45:14And I just,
- 45:16I always have like hundreds of thousands of miles in my United account.
- 45:20So when the four of us go overseas,
- 45:24it's usually,
- 45:25I bought the tickets for like $500 total.
- 45:29SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 45:29SPEAKER_03: And that's, I do a similar thing.
- 45:31SPEAKER_03: I don't, I don't have brand loyalty kind of things.
- 45:35SPEAKER_00: Which I do have to say brand loyalty does pay off.
- 45:40SPEAKER_03: It does.
- 45:41So I just do the simpler,
- 45:44the more brand agnostic version of this with chase cards.
- 45:48SPEAKER_03: I have.
- 45:49different types of chase cards that i'll pay different points
- 45:51of different
- 45:51purchases and then i just save up the points and like on this
- 45:55trip we took most of
- 45:57the cost of our hotel we drove but most of the cost of our
- 46:00hotels i'd afraid with
- 46:02chase points so i booked the chase portal i i got sweets so not
- 46:08like you know wild
- 46:09SPEAKER_00: fancy you know but not courtney sweets no
- 46:14SPEAKER_03: But, like, you know, embassy suites, residence inn kind of thing.
- 46:18SPEAKER_03: Two-room suites when you have young kids,
- 46:20SPEAKER_03: great,
- 46:20SPEAKER_03: because that way my wife and I don't have to go to bed when the kids do.
- 46:23SPEAKER_03: I don't like going to bed at 8, 830.
- 46:28SPEAKER_03: But so that's – so I would get those,
- 46:32and I would just pay in points to bring the price down to about
- 46:36$100 for cash,
- 46:38which I feel like is a perfectly reasonable price to pay for it
- 46:41nightly for a hotel
- 46:41SPEAKER_03: when you're on a trip.
- 46:43SPEAKER_00: So a lot of times when we're in Europe,
- 46:45SPEAKER_00: we rent houses just because I have boy,
- 46:49SPEAKER_00: girl,
- 46:49SPEAKER_00: teenagers.
- 46:50SPEAKER_00: They're not like they will share a room.
- 46:52SPEAKER_00: They will not share a bed.
- 46:54SPEAKER_00: But it's just easier for us if they have their own room, you know.
- 46:59SPEAKER_00: Especially because they're like young teenagers and stuff's changing.
- 47:04SPEAKER_00: It's just easier.
- 47:05SPEAKER_00: So we always end up renting.
- 47:08SPEAKER_00: We'll just stay at Airbnbs and Furbos and things.
- 47:11SPEAKER_00: And I keep the price under $200 easily a night.
- 47:17SPEAKER_03: It's my understanding.
- 47:17SPEAKER_03: Airbnb and Furbo...
- 47:19And that style of thing is by saying Europe is somewhat
- 47:23different and better than
- 47:25SPEAKER_03: it is in America.
- 47:26SPEAKER_03: I mean, that's the American experience.
- 47:29SPEAKER_03: I, I'm not sure.
- 47:31SPEAKER_03: I think I've only really stayed in one of those kinds of things once.
- 47:34SPEAKER_03: And I didn't,
- 47:35SPEAKER_03: I don't like having to clean up after yourself at the end of it is just,
- 47:40SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 47:40SPEAKER_03: I,
- 47:41I am happy to pay for the extra to have a hotel with a front
- 47:45desk person.
- 47:46SPEAKER_03: So if something goes wrong, I can talk to the front desk person.
- 47:49SPEAKER_03: I don't have to clean up.
- 47:50SPEAKER_03: I have to clean my stuff.
- 47:51I don't have to make sure all the beds are stripped and the
- 47:56bathrooms are thoroughly clean.
- 47:57SPEAKER_03: I'm not interested in that.
- 47:58SPEAKER_03: But as my understanding,
- 47:59SPEAKER_03: in Europe,
- 48:00it's much more overall economical because especially a lot of –
- 48:04let's be honest.
- 48:05Most of Europe's economy,
- 48:06especially depending on where you are right now,
- 48:08is tourism.
- 48:10And their population is declining,
- 48:13so they had a lot of free housing to put up on Airbnb.
- 48:18SPEAKER_00: They also have really strict rules in hotels,
- 48:21SPEAKER_00: especially if your kids are over 13,
- 48:23SPEAKER_00: and my son is.
- 48:26SPEAKER_00: They don't always count as kids in certain countries.
- 48:31SPEAKER_03: Do they charge you extra for having kids?
- 48:32SPEAKER_00: No, you need a different room.
- 48:36SPEAKER_02: Oh, what?
- 48:37SPEAKER_00: So this is why we do houses like that most often.
- 48:40SPEAKER_00: But like,
- 48:42SPEAKER_00: I'll say Budapest,
- 48:43SPEAKER_00: for example,
- 48:44SPEAKER_00: when we were there,
- 48:45SPEAKER_00: the Airbnb we were staying in was being inspected that day.
- 48:48SPEAKER_00: Like they have to be inspected every year.
- 48:51SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 48:52SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 48:52SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 48:55SPEAKER_00: That makes sense.
- 48:57I feel like we'd be better off doing more of that in America,
- 49:00to be honest.
- 49:01SPEAKER_03: This is one of the reasons I'm not a libertarian.
- 49:06I think that having government regulations and inspections on
- 49:09specific things is
- 49:10SPEAKER_03: sometimes a good thing.
- 49:11SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 49:13SPEAKER_00: It works a lot better in places like that.
- 49:15SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 49:16SPEAKER_00: You know,
- 49:16SPEAKER_00: I've stayed in so many cities like solo and then,
- 49:21SPEAKER_00: you know,
- 49:21SPEAKER_00: rented a big house with either my family or with friends.
- 49:24SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 49:26SPEAKER_00: You can keep the costs down a lot more there.
- 49:29SPEAKER_00: It's also so much cheaper than being in the U.S.
- 49:32SPEAKER_00: Food is a lot cheaper.
- 49:34Cost of living in general is cheaper in Europe because the
- 49:40Europeans are poorer
- 49:41SPEAKER_03: than Americans by a pretty substantial margin,
- 49:43especially when you figure in that the salary they are getting
- 49:49is taxed at a much
- 49:51SPEAKER_03: higher rate for the social programs they have to pay.
- 49:54SPEAKER_03: You don't have to pay that tax.
- 49:57SPEAKER_03: You're just visiting.
- 49:58SPEAKER_00: Unless you're in Stad or something.
- 50:01SPEAKER_00: It's definitely a lot cheaper.
- 50:03SPEAKER_03: I don't know why you'd be in Stad.
- 50:05SPEAKER_00: I've always wanted to go to Stad.
- 50:09SPEAKER_03: No.
- 50:10SPEAKER_00: You don't ski.
- 50:10SPEAKER_00: No.
- 50:10SPEAKER_02: That's true.
- 50:12SPEAKER_00: So, like, the whole Opry, you know, circuit isn't really calling to you.
- 50:19SPEAKER_03: I'm not interested in going to the places that everyone wants to go to.
- 50:23SPEAKER_03: And this is true when I travel into cities.
- 50:25SPEAKER_03: I think I've said this before.
- 50:26SPEAKER_03: When I travel into cities,
- 50:28SPEAKER_03: or if I travel anywhere,
- 50:30SPEAKER_03: I try to find the place that the people who live there go,
- 50:34SPEAKER_03: not the place that the people who visit there go.
- 50:37SPEAKER_03: This is true for in general in travel.
- 50:41SPEAKER_03: The places I want to go are the cities that...
- 50:45are the actual working cities,
- 50:47not the showcase cities for tourists to gawk at.
- 50:52SPEAKER_00: I like both.
- 50:54SPEAKER_00: Which is fine.
- 50:55Tourist stuff is popular because there's a lot of really good
- 50:58things to see as you
- 51:01SPEAKER_00: travel the world.
- 51:02SPEAKER_03: But there's a lot of people there.
- 51:03SPEAKER_03: There's a lot of people there.
- 51:05SPEAKER_03: People are the worst.
- 51:06SPEAKER_00: So here's my other tip.
- 51:08SPEAKER_00: I never travel in summer.
- 51:10SPEAKER_00: Like I would rather,
- 51:11SPEAKER_00: this is going to be the snobbiest thing that sounding,
- 51:15SPEAKER_00: but it actually makes total sense.
- 51:17SPEAKER_00: I would never go to Europe in summer.
- 51:19SPEAKER_00: Just like Europe in summer is a nightmare.
- 51:22SPEAKER_00: Everything is so much more expensive.
- 51:25SPEAKER_00: It's so hot.
- 51:26SPEAKER_00: They don't believe in AC.
- 51:28SPEAKER_00: It's just like, for me, it's a miss for so many reasons.
- 51:32But I do off-season travel and that helps with a lot because
- 51:35then you can go to
- 51:36SPEAKER_00: really crowded places.
- 51:37Like we took our kids to Venice at Christmas and it was crowded
- 51:43in the square,
- 51:44SPEAKER_00: but you stepped off the square and we had the city to ourselves.
- 51:48SPEAKER_00: It was great.
- 51:49SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 51:50SPEAKER_03: The next level, you need to go to Finland in winter.
- 51:53SPEAKER_03: That's hard to be winter.
- 51:56SPEAKER_03: Northern Finland.
- 51:57SPEAKER_00: I actually am dying to go to Lapland sometime.
- 52:00SPEAKER_00: There you go.
- 52:02SPEAKER_03: The land of the laps.
- 52:03SPEAKER_00: Well,
- 52:04SPEAKER_00: they do whole Christmas packages where you can go,
- 52:07SPEAKER_00: they bring you out and you're sledding and you're in the Arctic Circle.
- 52:11SPEAKER_00: So you watch the Northern Lights and they have like,
- 52:14I would love to do that before my kids graduate and leave me or
- 52:18while they're still
- 52:19SPEAKER_00: in college,
- 52:19SPEAKER_00: whatever.
- 52:20Before they're like fully on their own,
- 52:22I would love to go to Lapland in winter.
- 52:24SPEAKER_00: It's like a dream vacation for me.
- 52:26SPEAKER_03: It's going to be cold though.
- 52:28SPEAKER_03: Also, it's going to be night for most of the time.
- 52:30SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 52:34SPEAKER_03: I'm fine with that.
- 52:35SPEAKER_03: Honestly,
- 52:36SPEAKER_03: but honestly,
- 52:37SPEAKER_03: that sounds better to me than going anywhere like,
- 52:39SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 52:40SPEAKER_03: in the South in America or anywhere that's going to be hot this summer.
- 52:44SPEAKER_03: I'll take super cold over super hot any day of the week.
- 52:46SPEAKER_00: Even just France.
- 52:48SPEAKER_00: We did France in September and we were all dying, dying, dying.
- 52:52SPEAKER_00: It was so, so hot.
- 52:53SPEAKER_00: And like Germany in July.
- 52:56SPEAKER_00: We did legitimately almost die.
- 52:58We ended up leaving my brother-in-law's house for a while
- 53:02because it was like the
- 53:03SPEAKER_00: hottest summer on record.
- 53:04SPEAKER_00: This was like five years ago.
- 53:06SPEAKER_00: And his apartment is on the third floor, no AC.
- 53:12SPEAKER_00: It was like 90 degrees inside.
- 53:16SPEAKER_03: And they don't believe in fans in Germany.
- 53:18SPEAKER_03: They they're very fiercely against.
- 53:20SPEAKER_00: No, they they are.
- 53:21SPEAKER_00: They like air movement.
- 53:23SPEAKER_00: And I am with the Germans on this.
- 53:25Luke was making fun of me last night because I had the window
- 53:27wide open and I was
- 53:28SPEAKER_00: freezing in bed.
- 53:29SPEAKER_00: And he's like, you're freezing.
- 53:30SPEAKER_00: And it's you have the window open.
- 53:33SPEAKER_00: And I'm like, I need fresh air.
- 53:34SPEAKER_00: Like, I need that.
- 53:35SPEAKER_00: And Germans are like that.
- 53:37SPEAKER_00: They'll always have the windows open.
- 53:38SPEAKER_00: They have a fan on.
- 53:39SPEAKER_00: They need air circulation.
- 53:41If they will say,
- 53:42like,
- 53:42if you don't have enough fresh air,
- 53:44that's how you get cold.
- 53:46SPEAKER_00: However, my Belarusian sister-in-law is like...
- 53:50SPEAKER_00: There can't be any draft.
- 53:51SPEAKER_00: You can't have the windows open.
- 53:53SPEAKER_00: It's so crazy.
- 53:56SPEAKER_03: That's a regional thing in Germany because I will tell you,
- 54:00SPEAKER_03: there's a German word for the dangers of a draft.
- 54:06SPEAKER_00: It would have to be an East German thing.
- 54:09SPEAKER_00: West German are very much like... It might be.
- 54:13Because you have to think if you were in East Germany or if you
- 54:17grew up in...
- 54:20soviet country like my sister-in-law is from if you had a draft
- 54:25you were getting
- 54:25SPEAKER_00: sick because that meant like yeah maybe my asthma
- 54:33I assume they most don't have as much issues with bugs in Europe,
- 54:36which I find fascinating.
- 54:37SPEAKER_03: When we were in England, they don't have screens in their windows.
- 54:43SPEAKER_03: We were staying in this hotel.
- 54:46SPEAKER_03: No screens in the windows.
- 54:48SPEAKER_03: No bugs got in.
- 54:49SPEAKER_03: I don't know how it happened.
- 54:50SPEAKER_03: As soon as you open the windows of my house, we get swarmed.
- 54:54SPEAKER_03: There's going to be flies all over.
- 54:56SPEAKER_03: There's going to be carpenter bees trying to burrow into the woodwork.
- 54:59SPEAKER_03: But England, no problem.
- 55:02SPEAKER_00: It depends where you are.
- 55:03SPEAKER_00: I am one of those people who's a mosquito magnet.
- 55:07SPEAKER_00: And I can tell you I've been bit by mosquitoes even in the UK.
- 55:13SPEAKER_03: There just seems to be less.
- 55:15SPEAKER_03: Or they don't care.
- 55:16SPEAKER_03: I don't know.
- 55:17SPEAKER_00: I think they just don't care.
- 55:19SPEAKER_03: I find that unfathomable.
- 55:20SPEAKER_03: I don't like bugs in my house.
- 55:22SPEAKER_03: I don't like ants.
- 55:23SPEAKER_03: We have ants on our countertops.
- 55:26SPEAKER_03: I don't know how to get rid of them.
- 55:26SPEAKER_03: I got borax.
- 55:27SPEAKER_03: We're going to try to put that down.
- 55:28SPEAKER_03: Vinegar.
- 55:32SPEAKER_03: Vinegar?
- 55:33SPEAKER_03: Really?
- 55:33SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 55:36SPEAKER_03: They just take over and they're all over the place.
- 55:40SPEAKER_03: I don't like the ants.
- 55:41SPEAKER_00: I'm used to ants.
- 55:42SPEAKER_00: That's a Western thing.
- 55:44SPEAKER_00: I grew up in Los Angeles.
- 55:45SPEAKER_00: Ants?
- 55:46SPEAKER_00: Okay.
- 55:48SPEAKER_00: Day that ends in Y. Yeah.
- 55:51SPEAKER_03: I did not.
- 55:52SPEAKER_03: I grew up in the Northeast.
- 55:54There are ants,
- 55:55but they're normally on the outside if you see them inside.
- 55:57We're not far enough south where roaches become an everyday occurrence,
- 56:01thank God.
- 56:04SPEAKER_03: Or in New York City where roaches are also an everyday occurrence.
- 56:07SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we don't really have a ton of bugs.
- 56:10If we leave our doors open,
- 56:11we're full of mosquitoes and flies,
- 56:13but that's it.
- 56:14SPEAKER_03: Yeah, that's because you're so high up.
- 56:17SPEAKER_03: Again, you're in the stratosphere.
- 56:19SPEAKER_00: It's also because it's dry.
- 56:22SPEAKER_03: Well, yes.
- 56:23SPEAKER_00: My yard is brown.
- 56:25SPEAKER_03: Not dry here.
- 56:29SPEAKER_03: So I was looking, you were talking about Hungary earlier.
- 56:35I was looking at traveling to,
- 56:42I can't remember the name of the capital of Hungary.
- 56:44SPEAKER_03: Tell it to me.
- 56:44SPEAKER_01: It's Budapest.
- 56:46SPEAKER_03: Budapest.
- 56:46SPEAKER_03: That's it.
- 56:47SPEAKER_03: Uh, I was looking at tickets of Budapest.
- 56:49SPEAKER_00: I was actually, I'm sorry.
- 56:52SPEAKER_03: I just forget things.
- 56:54SPEAKER_03: I'm getting old.
- 56:56SPEAKER_03: I was looking at the tickets were surprisingly not expensive to fly.
- 57:01SPEAKER_03: And I tried to sell my wife on this.
- 57:03SPEAKER_03: I was like, yeah, we can go to Budapest.
- 57:04SPEAKER_03: Julie.
- 57:05SPEAKER_03: No, we're not.
- 57:05SPEAKER_03: We're not just going to spend.
- 57:07SPEAKER_03: But it was I was like, it wasn't bad.
- 57:09SPEAKER_03: It was like five hundred dollars a ticket or something.
- 57:11SPEAKER_03: It's reasonable to go to Budapest.
- 57:14SPEAKER_03: Google Google flight said it was a low price.
- 57:18SPEAKER_00: Under she's not buying it.
- 57:20SPEAKER_00: Under 800 is pretty good.
- 57:22SPEAKER_03: I married a practical woman, which has its ups and its downs.
- 57:25She's very much like,
- 57:25well,
- 57:26we have better things to spend the money on it.
- 57:27SPEAKER_03: Yeah, we do have better things.
- 57:28SPEAKER_03: That's true.
- 57:29SPEAKER_03: But I want to go to spur of the moment by taking us to Budapest.
- 57:34SPEAKER_00: Unfortunately, in my marriage, neither of us are very practical.
- 57:39SPEAKER_02: It's dangerous.
- 57:40SPEAKER_00: We're very fanciful in very different ways.
- 57:44SPEAKER_00: I would travel full-time if I could.
- 57:46SPEAKER_00: My husband would not be happy with that.
- 57:49SPEAKER_00: It gives him a mess.
- 57:51SPEAKER_00: I actually had never really traveled until we got married.
- 57:54SPEAKER_00: I had been to UK like on a, you know, they do high school trips.
- 57:58SPEAKER_00: It was like a high school history trip.
- 58:00I did one and then I had been to Canada and Mexico because I
- 58:04lived in Washington
- 58:05SPEAKER_00: State and California.
- 58:07SPEAKER_00: So we just like drove.
- 58:09SPEAKER_00: But I hadn't really, really left the country until...
- 58:13SPEAKER_00: I got married and, and now I'm like addicted to traveling.
- 58:18SPEAKER_00: And my husband is like,
- 58:19SPEAKER_00: well,
- 58:20SPEAKER_00: we'll go a little bit,
- 58:21SPEAKER_00: but I don't really,
- 58:21SPEAKER_00: I'm like,
- 58:22SPEAKER_00: you lived,
- 58:23SPEAKER_00: he lived abroad a lot.
- 58:26SPEAKER_03: Men become homebodies as we age.
- 58:28SPEAKER_03: For the most part,
- 58:29SPEAKER_03: we just like,
- 58:30SPEAKER_03: you know,
- 58:30we get comfortable and get into our comfortable little rut and
- 58:32don't want to get
- 58:33SPEAKER_03: out of it.
- 58:34But I do want to say that we should try to talk your wife into
- 58:39a family trip for
- 58:40SPEAKER_00: you guys to Budapest because it's such a great city.
- 58:43SPEAKER_00: It's so clean.
- 58:44SPEAKER_00: It's so safe.
- 58:44SPEAKER_00: It's great for kids.
- 58:46SPEAKER_03: She would love to go to Budapest.
- 58:48But again,
- 58:48she is the practical one who makes the decent point that,
- 58:51you know,
- 58:52we have...
- 58:53other things for our money we need to get you to have more
- 58:56twitter engagement and
- 58:58we'll get some extra funds for it budapest is seriously make
- 59:02enough money off of
- 59:03twitter to fly myself make me and my family to budapest it's
- 59:06such a great city i
- 59:07haven't done it with my kids yet and i'm dying to there's this
- 59:10kids railway that i
- 59:11really want to go on so kids operate everything on this railway
- 59:16and it it's like a
- 59:17SPEAKER_03: funicular i think that's i think that's illegal in america
- 59:21SPEAKER_00: It is illegal in America, but it's not in Hungary.
- 59:27SPEAKER_02: You're describing child labor here.
- 59:30SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 59:31SPEAKER_00: It is.
- 59:31SPEAKER_00: It's great.
- 59:34SPEAKER_00: It's good to learn about the railway and it's a fun project.
- 59:38SPEAKER_03: I'm fine with that.
- 59:39SPEAKER_03: I think we were better.
- 59:41SPEAKER_03: The children yearn for the mines.
- 59:44SPEAKER_03: This is, I think, true.
- 59:46SPEAKER_03: They're obsessed with the TikToks because they're not down mining.
- 59:50SPEAKER_00: That's why my kids still play Minecraft.
- 59:56But,
- 59:57so,
- 59:59what is,
- 1:00:01because this is useful information to have and I don't know it,
- 1:00:04SPEAKER_03: How far out should you buy tickets?
- 1:00:06SPEAKER_03: I was looking at the flights to Budapest.
- 1:00:11A year out seemed cheaper,
- 1:00:13although the flights weirdly cut off in mid-February up to now.
- 1:00:18I wouldn't buy a year out because a lot of times it will change
- 1:00:21the schedule on you,
- 1:00:22too.
- 1:00:24Oh,
- 1:00:24and do they honor your ticket at another time where you have to
- 1:00:27pay the price differences?
- 1:00:29SPEAKER_00: No, no, no.
- 1:00:29SPEAKER_00: It just changes the time.
- 1:00:31SPEAKER_00: But then sometimes if you,
- 1:00:33SPEAKER_00: depending on your connection,
- 1:00:35SPEAKER_00: if you don't know the timetable as well,
- 1:00:36SPEAKER_00: you will have to change.
- 1:00:39SPEAKER_00: And I do just have to caution anyone.
- 1:00:42SPEAKER_00: Google Flights is a great tool.
- 1:00:45SPEAKER_00: I'm not talking anyone against it.
- 1:00:47SPEAKER_00: But never book through like,
- 1:00:51SPEAKER_00: the third-party sites when you're booking tickets,
- 1:00:54SPEAKER_00: because if you need to get a refund or you need to change it,
- 1:00:57SPEAKER_00: a lot of those you can't change.
- 1:01:00I've had to eat the cost of really low-cost tickets that I've
- 1:01:05done when things
- 1:01:06SPEAKER_00: changed and I needed to get somewhere else,
- 1:01:08SPEAKER_00: and I had to just eat the cost.
- 1:01:11SPEAKER_03: So you save money, but at what cost?
- 1:01:16SPEAKER_00: I definitely did not save money on that one, but...
- 1:01:22SPEAKER_00: It was a really cheap one way,
- 1:01:24but I want to say it was like a $350 ticket to Paris that I had
- 1:01:29to just ignore and rebook.
- 1:01:32SPEAKER_03: I think a lot of airlines have now cracked down.
- 1:01:38SPEAKER_03: For a while,
- 1:01:39SPEAKER_03: there was this weird heyday where you could do the,
- 1:01:42SPEAKER_03: oh,
- 1:01:42SPEAKER_03: it's what they call a flag skip or skip lag.
- 1:01:45SPEAKER_03: There was a thing where you,
- 1:01:49SPEAKER_03: I want to go to Paris,
- 1:01:50SPEAKER_03: so I buy a ticket to Stuttgart because Stuttgart is cheaper.
- 1:01:55SPEAKER_03: And then you just don't take the Stuttgart leg.
- 1:01:58SPEAKER_00: I'm kind of the queen of this because I do try to pack.
- 1:02:01Well,
- 1:02:02lately I have given up on it,
- 1:02:04but sometimes I would try to pack just in carry-ons.
- 1:02:08And on those times I'm like,
- 1:02:10oh yeah,
- 1:02:11I'll just get a cheap flight to blah,
- 1:02:12blah,
- 1:02:12blah.
- 1:02:13SPEAKER_00: But you can't, you haven't been able to do that for years.
- 1:02:16SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 1:02:16SPEAKER_03: Cause,
- 1:02:16SPEAKER_03: cause they,
- 1:02:17I think they started banning people from like flying on the
- 1:02:21airline for doing it,
- 1:02:22SPEAKER_03: like for doing it.
- 1:02:23SPEAKER_00: They cancel your legs of your trip.
- 1:02:25SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
- 1:02:26SPEAKER_03: Which is a shame.
- 1:02:27SPEAKER_03: I kind of get it, but at the same time, what do you care?
- 1:02:32Why do they care if you're...
- 1:02:34But it's because they're factoring a lot of stuff in.
- 1:02:37I think a lot of people don't appreciate how much stuff is
- 1:02:39factored into running an airline.
- 1:02:42SPEAKER_00: I think you're giving the airlines a lot more credit than they deserve.
- 1:02:46SPEAKER_03: I don't think you're giving them enough credit.
- 1:02:48SPEAKER_00: The airlines...
- 1:02:51yeah there's so many ways that you can make it really
- 1:02:53affordable like this summer
- 1:02:55I'm not thrilled pricing Scotland stuff and I'm trying to be
- 1:03:00like hey can we just
- 1:03:02go to Scotland for the concert and go somewhere else on the
- 1:03:06continent that's
- 1:03:07cheaper like Budapest this is your back door to go to Budapest
- 1:03:13and I haven't taken
- 1:03:14my kids there my husband's obsessed with it like he really
- 1:03:16wants to go it's so
- 1:03:17SPEAKER_00: beautiful and
- 1:03:19SPEAKER_00: I love it so much.
- 1:03:20SPEAKER_00: I had my parents go there last December and it was great.
- 1:03:23SPEAKER_00: I was FaceTiming them all the time.
- 1:03:24SPEAKER_00: I'm like, no, no, no, don't go to that restaurant.
- 1:03:26SPEAKER_00: Go to this one.
- 1:03:28SPEAKER_00: I love that city.
- 1:03:30SPEAKER_00: And I need to take my children there.
- 1:03:32SPEAKER_03: Perhaps one day we'll be able to record this very podcast from Budapest.
- 1:03:37SPEAKER_03: Wouldn't that be nice?
- 1:03:39SPEAKER_00: Coordinating two families.
- 1:03:40SPEAKER_00: You think we're going to be able to do that?
- 1:03:44SPEAKER_00: You can't even get your family out there.
- 1:03:45SPEAKER_00: You think we're going to be able to coordinate two families?
- 1:03:50SPEAKER_00: A nice thought though.
- 1:03:52SPEAKER_00: Maybe I can just take my daughter with.
- 1:03:57SPEAKER_03: There you go.
- 1:03:57SPEAKER_03: I think we've covered what we're going to cover today.
- 1:04:01SPEAKER_03: We've had a nice chat.
- 1:04:03SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
- 1:04:04SPEAKER_00: We'll try to do these more often.
- 1:04:08It was our intention to start doing two a week,
- 1:04:10and we couldn't even get one up last week.
- 1:04:15SPEAKER_03: Well, I was traveling.
- 1:04:15SPEAKER_03: We do need to start doing two a week.
- 1:04:17SPEAKER_03: I'll have more time coming up.
- 1:04:18SPEAKER_03: I think we need to do that.
- 1:04:20SPEAKER_03: You'll have more time.
- 1:04:21SPEAKER_00: And I need to not be so blonde about recording when I'm not at home.
- 1:04:26SPEAKER_03: It's okay.
- 1:04:27SPEAKER_00: I need to find better sound.
- 1:04:29SPEAKER_03: You do fine.
- 1:04:30SPEAKER_03: No.
- 1:04:32SPEAKER_00: No,
- 1:04:32SPEAKER_00: like I need to figure out,
- 1:04:33SPEAKER_00: because remember we did the newer,
- 1:04:34SPEAKER_00: when I was in New Orleans,
- 1:04:36SPEAKER_00: we did one and the sound is so horrible.
- 1:04:38SPEAKER_01: Yes.
- 1:04:39SPEAKER_00: It was so bad.
- 1:04:42SPEAKER_00: I also have room service in the middle of that one, so.
- 1:04:45SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it was awkward.
- 1:04:46SPEAKER_00: It'll never see the light of day.
- 1:04:48SPEAKER_03: Get yourself one of those little, well, the Yeti snowball.
- 1:04:51SPEAKER_03: I think those are made for traveling.
- 1:04:53SPEAKER_03: Maybe.
- 1:04:53SPEAKER_03: It's like, it's like a little Yeti.
- 1:04:55SPEAKER_00: I need to look through my piles of camera gear.
- 1:04:57SPEAKER_00: I'm sure I have something.
- 1:04:58SPEAKER_00: But we will try to do more and maybe come up with actual themes.
- 1:05:05SPEAKER_03: I think it works okay as just chatting.
- 1:05:08SPEAKER_03: I think we did a good job today.
- 1:05:09SPEAKER_03: We were a little unfocused, but we also just had a good chat.
- 1:05:12SPEAKER_03: Talked about interesting stuff.
- 1:05:15SPEAKER_00: Family travel.
- 1:05:15SPEAKER_00: Everyone should do it.
- 1:05:17SPEAKER_03: Yep.
- 1:05:17SPEAKER_03: Very important.
- 1:05:18SPEAKER_03: All right.
- 1:05:19SPEAKER_03: Bye-bye.