Latest / Man In Your Corner with Shaun Tucker / Ep. 61 | Reclaiming True Masculinity: Leadership and Mental Fitness for Founder Dads
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- Shaun: Welcome back to the reset episode 61 with me, Sean Tucker. I'm going to ask you something. You might've heard of or might've seen the documentary or the docu series. It's not really a series documentary of the Manosphere on Netflix. What the hell kind of society do we live in where people like the people in the documentary that are featured can get away with such rot? Honestly, I'm not surprised. There is such a big yearning for male leaders, for men to really own their masculinity. and show up and do what it takes to be a man. There has never been a time more important for men to rise and to actually really take care of themselves. It's not about, it should not be about anti-feminism, feminism. It should not be about misogyny. Yet the people who are influencing this space, the people who are influencing the minds, the men of tomorrow, the children of today. These are the men who are leading it. Misogynistic, arrogant, mofos. and I have nothing against. men who will fight to the death on their beliefs. If that's what they believe, that's what they believe. But when you're operating in a social status that has so much influence over the minds of young men and the next generation of men to become leaders, we are in some times where Men really need to connect to each other and they really need to understand what it takes to be a man. This is exactly why I run a men's club every Sunday morning. We get together, we do a 45 minute workout, and we go for coffee. because the idea and the expectation that you need to be a man who belittles women and has multiple women in your marriage relationship you have multiple affairs and mistresses each to their own right? but if you're pushing that agenda it's much the same as any religion ever once you start pushing agendas onto people and beliefs and ideas that sound like too good to be true. AKA there is a deep yearning for these boys to become men. I was there too. There is this really deep yearning for boys to become men. And I tell you objectifying women is not the right path. Objectifying women and making them They're all sexual objects that you can dress up, that you can... Make your bitch. This is not masculinity. This is not even toxic masculinity. This is the most stupid and childish behaviour of a teenage boy I've ever heard. Someone who probably needs to get whooped by his mum. Or his dad. probably whooped by his because his dad probably is not in the picture. His dad is probably too busy working right now. Or at that time. I haven't even finished watching the documentary. part of me couldn't take my eyes off it. Just because of how stupid, how ridiculous of a time we live in. where people are literally getting attention. for watching. saying how much ladies they've slept with, how many girls, how many players are out there, you know, saying how many people they've slept with, how many girls they got with last night. I remember those times too, but I tell you what, they were certainly much more in my teenage years or early 20s, know, maturing young men. No man. No man and certainly no father would ever, ever do that. Because you have to realize those women that you are objectifying, that could be your daughter. That could be your mother. And that is just sick. That is disgusting. That you would even think and it takes a really truly disturbed mind. to think that way, to behave that way. And guess what? You're not to blame either. If you think about it, you probably didn't have really strong role models when you were growing up. And this is why it's now more important than ever. for men who actually understand what it takes to rise, to build, create a body, a life that a man can actually have for his family and to show up every single day even when it's hard. This is the kind of leadership that we need. We don't need these. Stupid money, money drunk teenage boys dressed in adult men's suits influencing the minds of our young generation. Because what that does is it gives permission and it gives... It not only gives permission, it's actually telling your daughter, your young ones, that it's okay to go and be an adult model, to go and sell their body. to a man who's horny. It's disturbing. It's disgusting. And this is the first time I'm speaking about such a topic because I believe that other men need to hear it too. Do these guys say some good things? Do they have some good beliefs when it comes to money? And hustle and creating a life worth living? Yeah they do. But when it comes down to belittling someone else to get what you want? Man, That is not a life worth living. That is not a life worth dying for. but it is a life where you are controlled by your lower urges. I get that. I get that because I, like all men, have been there. When that energy has got nowhere to go, it's only natural for it to want to come out and to be used and to be used on someone who's vulnerable, someone who's a victim, essentially. And if you've seen the documentary, part of it's quite cringy, but a lot of it You know, it makes sense. These boys probably didn't have great role models. They probably still don't. They're looking up to people who are literally predators. Apex predators of the jungle. A human being is not an apex predator. A human being can choose whether something lives or dies. A human being has choice. And on all choices... are ones that actually create a future worth living in, especially when it comes to our kids. So I don't care if you disagree or if you agree with what I'm saying today, but all I'm saying is to be aware of the impact that some of these male influences, these hyper, hyper-masculine voices have on the youth of today. That's all I want you to be concerned of. And so if you have found value listening to today's podcast, go back and listen to some of the other ones that I've made. But also I want you to share it with just one person, someone who might even agree or disagree. Doesn't matter. Someone who you think will find value in this podcast. I want you to share it with them. That is how we grow and that is how we make more impact. Thank you so much for tuning in. I look forward to seeing you in tomorrow's episode.