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At Peace in the Present While Reaching for More · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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Speaker 1: Hi, it's Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio. And
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Speaker 1: this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, and metaphysical wisdom.
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Speaker 1: And let's talk about the tricky part of being on
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Speaker 1: the spiritual paths, particularly as a manifestor and wanting to
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Speaker 1: live your dream life because you know in your heart
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Speaker 1: you're meant for better. You know you've felt that calling
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Speaker 1: of spirit, of your soul, of your higher self drawing
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Speaker 1: you to greater places, more expansion. You feel it, you
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Speaker 1: sense it, you see it. You might recognize a part
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Speaker 1: of yourself in another and they're thriving in there, they're
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Speaker 1: doing all these really cool things, and you're like, oh,
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Speaker 1: I can feel that right. So in that it can
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Speaker 1: get a little tricky energetically because just even the example
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Speaker 1: I gave you about seeing something and someone else that
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Speaker 1: that feels like you, right, that can easily tip into jealousy,
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Speaker 1: easily tip into jealousy. So you have to stay really balanced,
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Speaker 1: which I think that's the whole purpose of this time
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Speaker 1: is to learn to stay very balanced when you're in
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Speaker 1: this place of knowing you're meant for better. You're doing
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Speaker 1: your part, you're taking the steps, and it hasn't all
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Speaker 1: fully come together, or some parts have come together but
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Speaker 1: not all of it, or you feel yourself getting stronger,
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Speaker 1: but you're not totally there energetically. So what do you
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Speaker 1: do again? I want to acknowledge this is the hard part, right,
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Speaker 1: And I think that's all a part of the process,
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Speaker 1: you know. And it can be very easy to look
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Speaker 1: around and get down or be frustrated with something, or
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Speaker 1: be critical of something, and you've got to call yourself back.
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Speaker 1: In those moments. You might even get rigid or resistant,
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Speaker 1: or you're holding judgment about where you are now. Right,
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Speaker 1: It's almost like your mind has this beautiful awareness of
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Speaker 1: what's possible, and then you come back to your present
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Speaker 1: reality and you're like, oh my god, it doesn't look
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Speaker 1: anything like that. Sure, I get it. You have to
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Speaker 1: be willing to be that vibrancy you see in your
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Speaker 1: dream life. You have to bring that vibrancy back with
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Speaker 1: you and let it live in your heart. And so
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Speaker 1: I'm going to give you some suggestions on how to
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Speaker 1: focus on the technicolor of your dream when your present
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Speaker 1: moment looks drab while being fully and completely present. See,
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Speaker 1: this is the other thing. You can't just live in
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Speaker 1: the future life right, you have to be here now
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Speaker 1: because there are some shifts, you know. I know this
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Speaker 1: is controversial in the metaphysical space about are there lessons?
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Speaker 1: I do one hundred percent believe that there are lessons
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Speaker 1: and things that show up that are designed to help
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Speaker 1: us be who were meant to be next And you
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Speaker 1: can only do that work in the present moment. So
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Speaker 1: I'm going to help you to the best of my ability,
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Speaker 1: but ultimately take this and use it for your good.
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Speaker 1: So in order to reach your next level, you must
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Speaker 1: be at peace with this one. You must be at
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Speaker 1: peace with this one. And again, the tricky part is
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Speaker 1: I see this all the time. I see it when
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Speaker 1: women come to me for dating and wanting a lasting,
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Speaker 1: loving romantic relationship. They can get themselves to the place
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Speaker 1: where they feel really good with their present life, but
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Speaker 1: then it's almost like they're afraid to let go of
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Speaker 1: it because they think if they let somebody in that
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Speaker 1: gonna they're gonna mess it up. But it again, it
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Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be that way, right. We have
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Speaker 1: to stay grounded, we have to say centered, and we
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Speaker 1: have to be good here while knowing that there's more
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Speaker 1: and greater and better available to us. So you don't
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Speaker 1: have to love and accept everything in your present moment,
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Speaker 1: but you do have to accept it. So how do
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Speaker 1: you do this? How do you stay grounded in the
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Speaker 1: moment when you're reaching for more? Well, Number one, I've
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Speaker 1: said this multiple times in my introduction here, you got
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Speaker 1: to accept your life without judgment, and so say it
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Speaker 1: out loud. This is where I'm at now. It's okay.
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Speaker 1: This is where I'm at right now. It's okay. And
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Speaker 1: one of the things I'll say to myself so I
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Speaker 1: don't tip is I'm perfectly safe right now, right now,
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Speaker 1: in this moment, I am perfectly safe right now, in
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Speaker 1: this moment. I am perfectly safe right now, in this moment,
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Speaker 1: I am perfectly safe. Because this time, this in between
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Speaker 1: is really designed to help you strengthen either your belief,
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Speaker 1: your willingness and commitment to taking action towards what you want,
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Speaker 1: and your energy, your energetic alignment was what you want.
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Speaker 1: So one of the ways to start doing that is
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Speaker 1: just believing moment by moment by moment. It's very much
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Speaker 1: has to be seeing the twelve step tradition one day
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Speaker 1: at a time. It's kind of that vibe here. You
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Speaker 1: got to be moment by moment by moment in your mind,
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Speaker 1: because your mind will want to be like, well, what
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Speaker 1: about this or what about this? Or this happened way
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Speaker 1: over here, and so that must mean it's going to
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Speaker 1: happen again. You just have to call your mind back.
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Speaker 1: You say, right now, in this moment, I'm perfectly okay.
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Speaker 1: Right now, in this moment, I'm safe. Right now, in
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Speaker 1: this moment, I'm okay, and breathe. You tend to have
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Speaker 1: to breathe with that statement, and you gotta be firm
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Speaker 1: with it. You gotta be firm with yourself that wants
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Speaker 1: to be all over the place, and then you have
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Speaker 1: to release the inner and outer critic. So the inner
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Speaker 1: critic is going to want to beat you up. The
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Speaker 1: outer critic is going to want to talk shit about
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Speaker 1: everything around you, which it might be accurate in sum regards, right,
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Speaker 1: it might be accurate. It might be something in your
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Speaker 1: life where you're like, ugh, this is just so frustrating
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Speaker 1: to me. But if it's something you can't change, you
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Speaker 1: know a circumstance that you can always change things. But
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Speaker 1: if it doesn't make sense right, then you have to
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Speaker 1: call your mind back and be like, nah, if there's
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Speaker 1: something I can do about this, then I will do
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Speaker 1: about it. I will do something about it. But if
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Speaker 1: it's just this is the way it is right now
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Speaker 1: and this is temporary, that's okay. I gotta let it
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Speaker 1: be right. So no way am I telling you to
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Speaker 1: put up with what doesn't work for you. But you
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Speaker 1: also a part of this journey is being mature enough
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Speaker 1: to know which battles you want to pick, you know,
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Speaker 1: because we're energetic beings, yes, but we're in a human body.
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Speaker 1: So if you get all up into an issue that
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Speaker 1: takes a lot of your energy and keeps you from
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Speaker 1: moving forward. Because criticism is a lot of energy. Oh
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Speaker 1: my god, it's a psychic. When I'll listen to people
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Speaker 1: criticizing a situation, there's one thing to talk about your
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Speaker 1: frustrations and your hurt and your pain and something you're
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Speaker 1: going through. It's another thing when you're not acknowledging your
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Speaker 1: feelings right and you're just looking at things and being
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Speaker 1: critical of them. It's a really a It takes up
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Speaker 1: a lot of juice, energetic juice, and it's just a drain.
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Speaker 1: Like there is nothing good that comes out of being critical.
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Speaker 1: So whether it's of yourself or whether it's of something
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Speaker 1: outside of you or someone outside of you, and so
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Speaker 1: you're going to have to really stop that whole process.
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Speaker 1: You got to stop listening to that anercritic, because the
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Speaker 1: antichritic is always going to tell you that you fuck
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Speaker 1: something up, even if you had your best day ever.
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Speaker 1: And you're gonna have to let go of the outer
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Speaker 1: critic that is all that's designed to be a tyrant
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Speaker 1: in the world. But you have control over that. You
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Speaker 1: can say, no, I don't have to engage any of
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Speaker 1: those energies, and don't have to engage any of those energies,
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Speaker 1: and I here's what I think you should do. So
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Speaker 1: there's something going on in your world right now that's
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Speaker 1: you're feeling like, yeah, it's not ideal, but it's not
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Speaker 1: something that I want to put energy towards because I'm
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Speaker 1: working towards this. And you really have tuned in to that,
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Speaker 1: like you're really trusting yourself on that, and you're saying, hey,
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Speaker 1: I don't want to put any energy towards solving that
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Speaker 1: because in the bigger scheme of my life, it's not
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Speaker 1: going to make that big of a difference. Then you
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Speaker 1: have to save yourself right now in this moment it's enough,
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Speaker 1: Or if you are beating yourself up about something, your
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Speaker 1: inner critics getn't going yeah, take a breath, and you
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Speaker 1: might eat a You know what I'll do is I'll
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Speaker 1: just pat my shoulder or rub my shoulder and say
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Speaker 1: it's okay, it's okay, it's enough. Right now, it's okay.
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Speaker 1: You did the best you could. You're okay, it's okay,
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Speaker 1: it's okay. And that soothing, comforting energy puts you in
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Speaker 1: a vibration that's in alignment with your desire. We just
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Speaker 1: shifted you completely away from the lower vibrational state of criticism.
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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't again I want to say
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Speaker 1: something about criticism. It's not just that it's a low
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Speaker 1: vibrational state. It is it will only attract more low
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Speaker 1: vibrational energies. It's just the biggest energy drain. Like if
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Speaker 1: you spend five minutes being hypercritical of yourself or of
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Speaker 1: someone else or something else or something in your experience,
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Speaker 1: you won't after you're done with that five minutes, it'll
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Speaker 1: be like it's been two hours, right, You'll need a nap.
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Speaker 1: Like you know, you know most of us push you know,
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Speaker 1: you see people push through it and stuff, but it's
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Speaker 1: showing up life like you're creating a data sit there's
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Speaker 1: somewhere where you can't focus all your goodness on a
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Speaker 1: situation because you just spent this time and criticism. So
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Speaker 1: you know, here's what I would do. If you're in
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Speaker 1: a situation right now that's not working for you and
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Speaker 1: you've really assessed that. Hey, Like, say you're in a
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Speaker 1: job right now, and you know you have plans to
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Speaker 1: start a business in a year, and you know that
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Speaker 1: your job's not terrible, but it's not ideal, right, And
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Speaker 1: no way am I saying put yourself in a situation
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Speaker 1: that is going to wreck you emotionally. Take care of yourself.
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Speaker 1: But if you're in a situation where you just need
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Speaker 1: the year, you know you're going to get some maybe
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Speaker 1: you have a stock option that's coming up and you'll
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Speaker 1: be able to cash out, like you have a plan right,
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Speaker 1: stick with the plan, and so just remind yourself if
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Speaker 1: you know, hey, I'm here right now, it's okay, it's enough.
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Speaker 1: In no way am I telling you to again go
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Speaker 1: against your truth or or put yourself in a bad
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Speaker 1: situation where it just you know, creates a trauma for
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Speaker 1: you but yeah, you can definitely say to yourself it's okay,
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Speaker 1: it's okay, and then shift into what you do appreciate.
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Speaker 1: Maybe you're again, let's go back to the example of
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Speaker 1: the job. You know, I love that I get to
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Speaker 1: work from home. I love that I have a really
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Speaker 1: great team. I love that I have the stock option
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Speaker 1: that I'm going to get the cash out and start
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Speaker 1: my business. I love that close to my house, right,
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Speaker 1: or you know, like start really thinking about what you
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Speaker 1: appreciate about by experience, and that's how you'll transcend it, right,
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Speaker 1: And that's how you'll keep blessings flowing in and miracles
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Speaker 1: flowing in and magic flowing in. And then you know,
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Speaker 1: as you move towards your breakthrough, whatever it might be,
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Speaker 1: you gotta be willing to see the small breakthroughs that
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Speaker 1: are occurring and choose choose to focus on those small breakthroughs.
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Speaker 1: I had a situation a couple of days ago where
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Speaker 1: I was like, huh, God, and I'd have no idea,
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Speaker 1: and you know, I winded up. You know, I cultivated
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Speaker 1: a solution to my situation I was doing. It wasn't ideal.
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Speaker 1: I was doubly saying to God, like, no, this is
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Speaker 1: not the ideal solution for me, but it's working right now,
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Speaker 1: and I'm so grateful that I do have it. And
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Speaker 1: I put my affirmations on and I did the thing,
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Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, like I had a
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Speaker 1: micro breakthrough, like you know, like a physical administration of
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Speaker 1: my manifestation. I was like, Oh, this is God, this
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Speaker 1: is God, this is God. Like it's okay, it's okay,
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Speaker 1: it's okay, right, And yes, no, did it was that
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Speaker 1: micro breakthrough anywhere close to the sides of the breakthrough
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Speaker 1: that I'm looking for? No, But was it enough right
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Speaker 1: there in that moment? Fuck? Yeah, it felt like felt
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Speaker 1: like flowers and rainbows and you know, all things good
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Speaker 1: in that ball way, right, And so you just get
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Speaker 1: to be willing to focus on those little micro breakthroughs,
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Speaker 1: those little shifts or you shift. There's something within you
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Speaker 1: that shifts and you don't look at it the same way,
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Speaker 1: or that thing that used to cause you a lot
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Speaker 1: of distress that you've been working on to clear out
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Speaker 1: and heal now it's has less charge. That's those dolls
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Speaker 1: are the breakthroughs, those little breakthroughs. That pay attention to
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Speaker 1: those because they all add up to your big breakthrough.
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Speaker 1: And then I've mentioned this throughout, but really think about gratitude,
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Speaker 1: really see gratitude moment by moment. You may even want
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Speaker 1: to stell a reminder in your phone that pops up
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Speaker 1: every hour. You know, be grateful for three things and
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Speaker 1: think of those three things. Because of course we know this,
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Speaker 1: But gratitude opens the door to peace. Gratitude opens the
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Speaker 1: door to manifestation one hundred percent. Gratitude opens the door
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Speaker 1: to physical manifestation, something manifesting into physical form. Gratitude strengthens
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Speaker 1: our faith, like we can get through with gratitude right,
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Speaker 1: And when I say get through the journey again, if
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Speaker 1: there's something that's causing you a great deal of distress
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Speaker 1: that you feel like I don't know how I can
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Speaker 1: handle this, then I do think you need to look
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Speaker 1: at that, you know, and consider a change to the
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Speaker 1: of your ability. And then, you know, really reminding yourself
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Speaker 1: that timing is on your side. You know, it can
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Speaker 1: feel often like timing's not lining up. It might not
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Speaker 1: be lining up to our human construct of time. It
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Speaker 1: might not be lining up to your what you think,
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Speaker 1: but timing God tends to come through. You know. It's
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Speaker 1: a very Christian God. God may not show up when
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Speaker 1: you want, but he's always He's right on time. Yeah,
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Speaker 1: one hundred percent true, one hundred percent true. The tricky
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Speaker 1: thing is is keeping yourself balanced and centered as you're
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Speaker 1: going through not knowing when God's going to show up.
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Speaker 1: Because when God does show up, you know, it could
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Speaker 1: be shocking. You're like, what finally you know? And so
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Speaker 1: so really do your best to stay happy, to you know,
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Speaker 1: really try to be happy as you move through that.
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Speaker 1: And believe me, I've had so many instances where I'm like,
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Speaker 1: oh my God, timing, timing, tell me, it's not Timing's
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Speaker 1: not coming together, and you know, I'm nervous, I'm frustrated
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Speaker 1: and scared. And then but I'm working it like I'm
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Speaker 1: working at you know, I'll have my little moment of
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Speaker 1: being down, and then I you know, I come back
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Speaker 1: to like working it, and then it does all come
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Speaker 1: together at the perfect time and in the perfect way.
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Speaker 1: And like, hmm, spirit, what if I just stop those
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Speaker 1: down moments? What if I just stop those down moments?
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Speaker 1: And that takes practice, That takes practice. And I'm not
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Speaker 1: saying we're wrong for those moments, but you know, when
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Speaker 1: it it takes you out of your groove. What if
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Speaker 1: you don't have to get out of your groove that
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Speaker 1: you can stay happy, and you can stay optimistic and
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Speaker 1: you can stay faithful. Now again, I believe the grace
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Speaker 1: of God. Obviously I just told you a story. There
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Speaker 1: are times where I dip in and out and it's
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Speaker 1: still manifest into form. That is the grace of God.
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Speaker 1: I also recognize on the other side of that, what
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Speaker 1: if I really just already was happy, you know, I
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Speaker 1: could you know, the ideas that could come forward, the
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Speaker 1: expansion and consciousness that could happen. What I have found
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Speaker 1: is is I forget. I forget. Like it's like I
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Speaker 1: go through a manifestation and I forget, And I'm like,
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Speaker 1: I bet it's those down moments they're playing with you.
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Speaker 1: Not if I really forget. But You're like, how can
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Speaker 1: I dupligate this again? Right? And now I'm starting to
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Speaker 1: leave myself notes. I'm like, oh, I felt that I
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Speaker 1: got into state right there. So in my notebook I'll
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Speaker 1: put a circle and like I was listening, I've had
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Speaker 1: this slash to listen to this thing and it really
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Speaker 1: lift up my spirits. But you know, the other piece,
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Speaker 1: all of This is as you're working in a manifestation, you
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Speaker 1: might do different things in that moment. Say, for example,
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Speaker 1: you're manifesting a job and you do all this stuff,
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Speaker 1: and then you're looking for a job again and you're like,
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Speaker 1: what did I do? There can be this sense that
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Speaker 1: A didn't do anything. That's not true. There can be
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Speaker 1: the sense, oh, it's not going to work unless I
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Speaker 1: absolutely duplicate the same same thing I did at that time. No, Now,
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Speaker 1: you just need to get into a feeling state that
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Speaker 1: attracts good to you, right which, at the end of
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Speaker 1: the day, it's feeling good if you're willing to feel good,
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Speaker 1: which is, you know, sounds simple, sounds simple, but is
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Speaker 1: quite a bit of work. I learned that Abraham Hicks
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Speaker 1: the first time I heard that my twenties feel good,
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Speaker 1: feel good. That has been it's such a simple state.
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Speaker 1: That's been the biggest lesson over the last two decades
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Speaker 1: is what is feeling good? How do I feel good?
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Speaker 1: And feeling good can change? You know, something that made
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Speaker 1: me feel really good in my twenties doesn't always make
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Speaker 1: me feel really good in my forties, or it doesn't
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Speaker 1: have the same juice like, ah, that's cool, but it
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Speaker 1: I think that is our our mission as humans is
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Speaker 1: you now. So accept this moment, flaws and all, stay faithful,
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Speaker 1: keep doing your part, keep showing up even when it's hard,
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Speaker 1: particularly when it's hard, when you're like, oh, I don't
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Speaker 1: and then get back up and start working towards what
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Speaker 1: you want. And you know when I say working towards
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Speaker 1: what you want, yeah, there's the action you take, But
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Speaker 1: it's the internal shifts that we make and hold that
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Speaker 1: really determine what we create. So trust that Stirit's always
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Speaker 1: guiding you to better. Trust that Stuirit's always guiding you
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Speaker 1: the better. And even if you haven't seen the physical
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Speaker 1: demonstration of that better, you can look around your current
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Speaker 1: circumstances and be in gratitude for them and keep doing
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Speaker 1: your part. And that's all. That's that's all that's required
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Speaker 1: of us. Thank you so much for listening to you
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Speaker 1: connecting with you on the next show. Take care of yourself. Goodbye.