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#RWTK: Shot Topics with Claudia & Dustin · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
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  Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
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  Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey
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  Speaker 1: and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and
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  Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the
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  Speaker 1: Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in
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  Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
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  Speaker 1: scripted as well. All right, so let's break up Claudia
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  Speaker 1: Dusted to see how they're gonna respond to this.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, Hi, First of all, you forgot the biggest hit
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  Speaker 2: of them all with none other than the Goat Candy,
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  Speaker 2: Birds on the hook, Legs to the motherfucking Moon for.
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  Speaker 3: Retret, and you already know. So you know we're gonna
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  Speaker 3: be in front row hit rolling legs to the moon.
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  Speaker 2: That's right, let's go, let's go, and we're going to
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  Speaker 2: get outfits from press.
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  Speaker 3: Yep, Carlos.
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  Speaker 4: That's right, Bruce Carlos doing is he showing those lights?
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  Speaker 4: Because I feel like he's got white shorts on today.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like Carls has no draws on.
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  Speaker 2: They called him shorts move something. Remember that song by
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  Speaker 2: the Two Lives Move.
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  Speaker 4: Shorts.
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  Speaker 5: That's all.
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  Speaker 4: Let them plain. I'm short saying that's got planned after
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  Speaker 4: the show. That's what that kind of I know those
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  Speaker 4: kind of.
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  Speaker 5: I before the show, I'm jealous.
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  Speaker 2: They had pall doing that ship. Did you see it?
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  Speaker 2: They had paid the bill. Yeah, you gotta go online.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's on her social media. It was so funny.
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  Speaker 3: I love y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, y'all, he felt it look good. I went and
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  Speaker 4: my dad had a cook out this weekend. I want
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  Speaker 4: to coast. And then my mom texted me when I
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  Speaker 4: was on the East Coast and she's like, today it
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  Speaker 4: would be a good day to go to the beach.
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  Speaker 4: She didn't know that my dad's because I didn't tell her.
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  Speaker 4: So I was like, well, what you doing tomorrow? And
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  Speaker 4: I just like surprised her and went to Providence for
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  Speaker 4: six hours and then got it.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I just less a good daughter.
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  Speaker 4: Oh no. And since last week and we last for Shirlly,
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  Speaker 4: I had to put her down like the next two
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  Speaker 4: days later, so on Wednesday, So thank you for the flowers,
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  Speaker 4: thank you for the well wishes, all the messages. Thank
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  Speaker 4: you so much. I feel like she said bye, so
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  Speaker 4: I'm in a good place. They said, my dad's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Girl. I've been caught that you are beautiful, so you know,
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure you have you no great jeans on both
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  Speaker 1: bands seemed.
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  Speaker 4: I first got that he didn't have his teeth in.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, I text my brother. I was like, yo,
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't ready for this, like it was giving crack.
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  Speaker 4: And then he went paid him in and I was
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  Speaker 4: like it made such a difference, Like it made a
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  Speaker 4: huge difference. So anyways, you know, because the whole yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you know, it makes the big difference. So anyways, put
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  Speaker 4: him he did. He look like he's a great drama.
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  Speaker 4: He was killing it to go to my page, Like
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  Speaker 4: what you guys know, I have Tourette's. Okay, if Amanda
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  Speaker 4: Fields can self diagnosed and say she has she's autistic,
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  Speaker 4: then I can self diagnosedurette.
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  Speaker 2: I just say Chris Cross made a whole song about it.
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  Speaker 3: Now I'm just playing, let me chill out jump.
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  Speaker 4: What was he saying? I was kind of trying to
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  Speaker 4: catch him on some clips. Is he is he working
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  Speaker 4: out for the Rashida show, the pre show. We're gonna
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  Speaker 4: do the pre show.
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  Speaker 5: So don't talk to think that's a good listen. And
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  Speaker 5: I'm not being funny. I'm not ver funny.
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  Speaker 1: I am okay. So I want to have a real conversation,
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  Speaker 1: as you all know. As you all know, when it
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  Speaker 1: comes to Rashida, there is this trend that's happening on
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  Speaker 1: social media, especially TikTok, of people calling their friends they Mama,
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  Speaker 1: they auntie's, they bestie about surprising them with Rashida tickets and.
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  Speaker 5: Listen.
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  Speaker 1: I know that sometimes we all can't get our own bubble.
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  Speaker 1: I am a huge fan of Fema rappers, huge, I
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  Speaker 1: love all Fema rappers right, So I love Rashidah's music.
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  Speaker 1: Even before I met her, I used to play Rashidah
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  Speaker 1: all the time. So when people started to play on
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  Speaker 1: her discography, I'm like, okay, this is like fun shade.
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  Speaker 1: But then it happened so much that I was like,
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  Speaker 1: why are people dissing Rashida? So we're all around the
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  Speaker 1: same age, and am I the only one that grew
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  Speaker 1: up listening to Rashida of theerground music?
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  Speaker 6: No?
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  Speaker 3: I remember when my bubble gum was really popular.
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  Speaker 2: I remember it. Shout out to my friend Quinton. Quinn
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  Speaker 2: used to blast the shit out of that song all
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  Speaker 2: the time, my bubble gum. So I was familiar with
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  Speaker 2: Rashida's music for a long time. That's why she ended
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  Speaker 2: up landing a spot on Love and Hip Hop Atlanta
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  Speaker 2: because people knew who she was, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: So it's funny.
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  Speaker 2: It is hilarious because it is an unlikely concert, right,
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  Speaker 2: It's not one when I used to Rashida performing, So
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  Speaker 2: people were surprised, I think, when they were offered the
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  Speaker 2: opportunity to attend one of her concerts. And that is
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  Speaker 2: funny to see people's reactions to that. I think as
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  Speaker 2: long as people leave it in like the comedic space,
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  Speaker 2: it's funny. But once you start trying to say Rashida
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  Speaker 2: ain't shit, you know what I mean, that is when
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  Speaker 2: it becomes mean spirited. But it's funny, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying. Somebody call you or ask you to go
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  Speaker 2: to a concert that you've never seen happen before. That
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  Speaker 2: is funny, you know what I mean. It just I
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  Speaker 2: think she was a good sport about it too, because
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  Speaker 2: then she posts that she posted a comment laughing at
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  Speaker 2: the joke, so she oh, she don't give a fuck.
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  Speaker 3: They got money, you.
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  Speaker 4: Know, personally, I don't know much about her music. I
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  Speaker 4: know her more of a personality and love and hip hop.
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  Speaker 4: I got the hosts of Reunion a couple of times,
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  Speaker 4: and I've worked with her.
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  Speaker 1: I liked with you.
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  Speaker 4: I saw her at Candy's birthday party a last month
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  Speaker 4: Atlanta at a mc K. Apparently everybody goes to Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I love that spot in Atlanta. Great food, great lofster bite, amazing,
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  Speaker 4: amazing you. Every time I'm there, you will see me there.
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  Speaker 5: And you'll see a lot of married men there too.
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  Speaker 4: I don't. I don't. They don't register in my eyes
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  Speaker 4: ever since I had that eye surgery.
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  Speaker 5: I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Mind surgery.
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  Speaker 4: It's a filter. I don't see married man. I'm like,
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  Speaker 4: oh yeah, I would never fit on a housewives. But anyways,
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  Speaker 4: uh so, what was I saying?
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  Speaker 1: Oh?
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  Speaker 4: I saw Rashida there and I was like I went
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  Speaker 4: up to her. I was like, yo, I like you.
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  Speaker 4: I really love your personality and you look beautiful every
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  Speaker 4: time I see you. And she's always out here working.
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  Speaker 4: I did through the trend at first. It's funny. I
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  Speaker 4: think it's kind of getting a little mean now though,
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  Speaker 4: Like it feels like the pylon with everyone like being
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  Speaker 4: anti Rashida, and I don't know what she did to
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  Speaker 4: deserve that, Like I keep it light and cute, like
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  Speaker 4: Dustin was saying, it's one thing, but to take it
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  Speaker 4: a step further and trash as women like she's not
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  Speaker 4: with over a billion with streams. She made money, she
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  Speaker 4: had a business that's doing well. The girl woman has
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  Speaker 4: kept herself relevant for many years, you know what I mean? Like,
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  Speaker 4: let's you know, Like I don't know. I feel like
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  Speaker 4: sometimes people on social can get a little carried away. Meanwhile,
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  Speaker 4: what they driving, what's in their account and what marks
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  Speaker 4: have they made on the culture. So I don't know
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  Speaker 4: much more music, I know I make want to marry me.
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  Speaker 4: I know that song of cod one song loud of
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  Speaker 4: Tell at the pre show, you make this happen, Okay.
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  Speaker 5: I'm gonna make it, lift it so okay.
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  Speaker 1: So that's in Claudia, mark my words, because I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: it publicly live for the thousand people. If I'm able
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  Speaker 1: to secure Monding, I live for all of us to
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  Speaker 1: do the pre show, to host it, and to interview
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  Speaker 1: carly Rid, to interview a lot of the celebrities right
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  Speaker 1: before Rashida hops on. I want us to have backstage
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  Speaker 1: access to Rashida's concert so that we can get hurt
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  Speaker 1: minutes before she gets on stage, and we could also
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  Speaker 1: do the post interview if I'm able to secure that
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  Speaker 1: dust in a Claudia with y'all com.
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  Speaker 2: Not only will I come, I'll lead the backstage prayer
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  Speaker 2: before she goes out on stage. We're gonna hold hands,
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  Speaker 2: goddamn it. So yes, we're coming.
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  Speaker 4: I think it'll be fun. I'll be there.
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  Speaker 3: Listen.
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  Speaker 4: I like going to Atlanta, so iur in twenty minute
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  Speaker 4: flight for me. Let's do it when we find you
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  Speaker 4: this now, when's the show?
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  Speaker 5: I will call Kirk myself.
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  Speaker 1: And listen, right job, y'all think i'll make the best
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  Speaker 1: to a joke, I'm actually not.
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to call Kirk myself and I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: pitch this to him, and we're.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna see what happens. Because again, I believe in giving
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  Speaker 1: people their flowers while they are alive, and I also
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  Speaker 1: believe in seizing a moment. So I want all of
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  Speaker 1: us to be there because I think it'll be great
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  Speaker 1: for the three of us to show, right, she does
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  Speaker 1: some love. But I think I think it's such a
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  Speaker 1: culture shifting movement that I think is dope for the
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  Speaker 1: three of us to be a part of something so iconic.
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  Speaker 4: Culture You're doing too much. Now, I gotta like stop.
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  Speaker 1: Cultureship.
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  Speaker 4: Wait now you're gaslight in the audience. Now I have
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  Speaker 4: to call you. I don't know, you're doing too much.
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  Speaker 4: If cut, it's gonna be fun, gorgeous. There's a whole
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  Speaker 4: bunch of people in the comments. I don't know what
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  Speaker 4: you want but to read here. There's a lot of
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  Speaker 4: energy right now. I'll leave it alone until we get
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  Speaker 4: more information. But Cultureship, you're doing wait you you be
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  Speaker 4: gassing you you no.
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  Speaker 5: No, no no no no no no no no.
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  Speaker 4: Not get it together. Dick out and I thing any time.
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  Speaker 1: You're trending for three weeks on TikTok, that's a ship
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  Speaker 1: in the culture. That's all I.
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  Speaker 4: Meant to Carlos, we love you, We calum be lyon. Sometimes.
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  Speaker 3: Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the bridge, right, here's the bridge. Rashitah needs to
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  Speaker 2: have a concert. She needs to throw a concert right
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  Speaker 2: now for real, now that people are talking about this,
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  Speaker 2: Rashida needs to start.
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  Speaker 3: She needs to plan a performance.
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  Speaker 2: I know she's on the bill for like the I
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  Speaker 2: think she's performing at one music fest in Atlanta. She's
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  Speaker 2: a part of a down South tribute performance or something
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  Speaker 2: at one music fest coming up in Atlanta. But she
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  Speaker 2: needs to throw a concert while the getting is good,
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  Speaker 2: while people are talking about this and doing all that.
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  Speaker 2: Rashida totally needs to throw a concert in Atlanta, invite
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  Speaker 2: some other people to perform as well, you know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying, and have a concert. She needs to make
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  Speaker 2: it a thing now that it's a joke and into
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  Speaker 2: some money. She needs to do what Candy did with
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  Speaker 2: that Dungeon tour. How Port was talking shit about Candy
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  Speaker 2: having a sex dungeon and she turned that shit into
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  Speaker 2: a dungeon tour and made all that money doing it.
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  Speaker 3: That's exactly what Rashida needs to do with this, Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm gonna make it happen. So I do want
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  Speaker 5: to get into the fact that one.
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  Speaker 1: Thing is this. Kirk and Rashida also have been trending
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  Speaker 1: because kay Michelle is now singing a song that she
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  Speaker 1: created on the spot on Love and Hip Hop. She
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  Speaker 1: had the piano and she wore a yellow blazer. She
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  Speaker 1: is now singing this song at her concerts. It has
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  Speaker 1: gone viral. Kirk and Rashida responded by showing the stats
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  Speaker 1: of how much of their music has been streamed. It's
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  Speaker 1: over rebellions. They are alleging that they have more streams.
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  Speaker 5: Than Camus Shell. So I'll say this much.
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  Speaker 1: I like it when the beef is funny, and I
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  Speaker 1: and and and Dustin. You said something earlier how Rashida
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  Speaker 1: is aware of what's going on. She is is poking
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  Speaker 1: fun at it like it's it's not that serious. What
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  Speaker 1: do y'all think about Tate Michelle's song? And Dustin, do
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  Speaker 1: you actually know the words to it? Because you are
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  Speaker 1: the reality historian.
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  Speaker 3: I wish I had a piano.
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  Speaker 2: Let's go back and forth, Dustin, come on, you take
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  Speaker 2: it off, take it off the top and get that key.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, bags her husband and girl, her career is over.
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  Speaker 3: All over the world.
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  Speaker 2: Then it's a beata lady, bad lady.
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  Speaker 3: She's a prune. Get her husband out of the room.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta go, you gotta go, you gotta get.
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  Speaker 4: Because like I like the boat.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, she't.
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  Speaker 4: Of course, you know said some things about Came a
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  Speaker 4: show of the past, and rightfully so Came a show
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  Speaker 4: was upset for many years and you know there's a
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  Speaker 4: reason to be it said, someone denies what you've been through.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know what the facts are because I wasn't
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  Speaker 4: following it back then. But damn, this is like a beat,
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  Speaker 4: This is like road Runner and I was it the coyote. Yeah, did.
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  Speaker 1: Nothing?
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  Speaker 5: You are so.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know why. I can't help it. Arries love
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  Speaker 4: going to the end of trying it all right, and
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  Speaker 4: then a little bit further and then be like, what
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  Speaker 4: what did we do?
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  Speaker 3: What?
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  Speaker 4: There's two here and a Libra sandwich in between us,
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  Speaker 4: so there's no system of checks and balances here.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, it was a funny ass moment back in the
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  Speaker 2: day when it happened. I remember I can see her
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  Speaker 2: fingers right now, the way that they were positioning while
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  Speaker 2: she was she was playing the piano on this part
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  Speaker 2: of her fingers playing like this. I can see it
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  Speaker 2: right now. Shout out to Chemischelle for that moment. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it was funny. It's still funny. One thing about it
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  Speaker 2: came Michelle knows how to crack a good joke in
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  Speaker 2: the month to be used as an insult. You know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. She's good at that. Some people are
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  Speaker 2: just good at it. She's one of those people that
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  Speaker 2: can do that. She's a great, world class arguer, you
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  Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. And so that song is just
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  Speaker 2: the manifestation of that. It was funny then it's funny
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  Speaker 2: now and you know that's what it is.
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  Speaker 4: You want to take it from the top.
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  Speaker 3: One, Yeah, can you laughed?
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  Speaker 5: That's the ass show.
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  Speaker 3: Rashida got bags.
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  Speaker 4: Her career is over her.
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  Speaker 3: Husband or girl, Claudia.
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  Speaker 1: See that's why, Claudia, go get your luggage. Claudia, you
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  Speaker 1: are kicked off the group.
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  Speaker 3: Baby bye.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, girl, who knows that? That's that's what's up?
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  Speaker 4: My second earlier and I said it right. I think
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  Speaker 4: I got nervous because of the cameras.
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  Speaker 1: That's okay, No, no, no, that's exactly why. And listen, listen.
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  Speaker 1: They are so best to hear it. Go dust it, Claudia,
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  Speaker 1: jump to Carlos. Although I was a part of the show,
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  Speaker 1: clip it. If I I will say this, you.
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  Speaker 3: Knew them both. You love k Michelle and Rachida. You
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  Speaker 3: knew love.
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  Speaker 1: I love them both.
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  Speaker 7: And I will say this, I think too if if if, hey,
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  Speaker 7: Michelle is going to be a part of the Hospalts
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  Speaker 7: of Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: I will say this, that is a type of comedy
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  Speaker 1: that shows like it's that type of just funny. And
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  Speaker 1: I like the fact that Rashida and Kirk because even
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  Speaker 1: in my interview with them, Claudie and Dustin, they spoke
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  Speaker 1: about that. They spoke about ky Michelle saying Kirk in
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  Speaker 1: his three ear rings.
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  Speaker 5: They even laughed at it and get.
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  Speaker 1: It and they gave it and listen all just aside,
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  Speaker 1: they gave Chemi show her property in the interview, saying
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  Speaker 1: that girl came up with something that is will live
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  Speaker 1: the test of time.
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  Speaker 5: And in my opinion, in my opinion, I think they're
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  Speaker 5: all sitting back laughing at it.
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  Speaker 2: And that was before she got on stage where she
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  Speaker 2: didn't probably want to tell her to kiss they ass
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  Speaker 2: now you know what I'm saying, That was before she
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  Speaker 2: brought it back up, now back up feelings, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying out there.
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  Speaker 5: But I feel like if all.
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  Speaker 4: Works out, do you think they'll ever like think, after
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  Speaker 4: all this kind of dietown, do you think that Rashida
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  Speaker 4: and came Michelle would ever sit down and swash it?
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  Speaker 1: What?
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  Speaker 4: Do you think? It's one of those.
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  Speaker 2: It's I'm sorry, go ahead, loose, go ahead, No, I was.
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  Speaker 1: Gonna say, and that was okay. I think I think
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  Speaker 1: what Ca Michelle is requesting is an apology to her face.
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  Speaker 1: In case you guys don't know, there were some allegations
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  Speaker 1: and I'm saying allegations because.
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  Speaker 5: This is legally vetted.
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  Speaker 1: There were allegations that were set on the show from
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  Speaker 1: Ca Michelle's experience, and ky Michelle and Rashida had a
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  Speaker 1: conversation and I forgot the exact words, so guys forgive me.
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  Speaker 1: But Rashida questioned whether or not it happened to her
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  Speaker 1: and k Michelle rightfully, so you know, had a big
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: reaction to it. That was season one and I was
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: I was on set for that moment and oh yeah,
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: and came Michelle.
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Listen when when that scene.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: What people don't know is this, oh my god, exclusive
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: teeth for the rain drops.
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: What people don't know is this, when ky Michelle and
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Rashida started loving hip hop Atlanta, they filmed that scene
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: like within the first not this scene I'm talking about.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: They were filming scenes together where ky Michelle spoke about
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: her experience and what the world does not know, I
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: don't think is that scene that we saw where Rashida
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: questioned it the show was airing already and Rasheeda is
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: friends with parties involved, and Rashidah felt the need, being
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: a friend to just ask the opposing question because the
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: episodes were already airing, so that scene was happening weeks
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: after the show aired. The feedback was at its height
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: based on the allegations Rashida was friends, I mean, she's
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: still Rashidah was in a circle and based on my understanding,
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: the block was hot and she just felt the need
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: to have a posting opinion. I don't think any of
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: them knew that this will live on forever. But I
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: think what ky Michelle wants based on what she posted
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: on her Instagram story, she in my opinion, and I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: haven't spoken to ky Michelle. Yeah, she more than likely
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: wants an apology to her face, because I think Dustin
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: tell me if I'm wrong. I think Rashida may have apologized,
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: but not to her face. I think that's what I've read.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: I want to apology from key Michelle because she cuts
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: my friend out for no reason in public. Years ago
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: at the Love and Hip Hop Season two Love and
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Hip Hop Atlanta Season two premiere. She had a gripe
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: with an organization that my friend was representing. He introduced
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: himself as a part of the organization, and she went
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: completely to fuck off and made personal text his appearance
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: and to him on beout half of her beef with
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: the organization, and then as soon as the camera stopped rolling,
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: she called him and I up to the stage and
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: she offered apologies once the camera stopped rolling. So I
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: want to apology to my co host of SANTE on
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: camera too. I understand how she feels. I hope she
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: gets it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: Well, damn, I wanted kid.
• 20:19
  Speaker 8: I don't have money.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: And based on the rain drops, again, I don't know
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: if it is true or not. I go to do
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: my research based on this being a hot topic. But
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: based on the comments justin the Claudia, they are saying
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: that Rashida did not.
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: Apologize to ca Michelle, that she's she never knows all right,
• 20:40
  Speaker 5: So so that's that. But listen, I hope that so
• 20:44
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I have to rats.
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: Remember me and a man of disabilities. Someone said they
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: wanted her to apologize to Tamar. I remember they had
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: that beef.
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Remember that that'll never happen.
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: I know because I was out one time when I
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: saw Camra schell out and that's a me, Tamar. We're
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: in a good place and she gave me airful that night.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: Sorry in New York. But yeah, so there's some pathnic
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: beefs there calls. Maybe there needs to be a show
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: of healing where you get these two tightened together, like
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: like Mimi and Jacksonlyne, Rashida Cay, Michelle tamor came Michelle.
• 21:20
  Speaker 8: I would love.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: That dusting in the comments.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Salon where falcon you guys and the truth.
• 21:35
  Speaker 8: On that note.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: All right, so that was Saggy the.
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: Gun license, you know, saying that's so many things. I know,
• 21:43
  Speaker 4: they just show called the conversations that I think you
• 21:45
  Speaker 4: could do it for like the grown up version with
• 21:48
  Speaker 4: something think about whose weak would you want to be? Scott?
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: That's never ended me? Who do you think? Sut Kenny Natasha?
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, ty Bardiya see that Scott video she released. I
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: guess she got some music coming out when she was
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: somebody pushed off that you.
• 22:09
  Speaker 5: Tweeted, That's how I saw it. That's just so messy.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: She had she she can rolled out of a car
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: in the mid the desert, and she had shackles. She
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: had shackles on and there was a voice over playing
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: and they made a sound when she broke the shackles.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: You hear the chain breaking. It was the most ridiculous
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: thing I have seen in my life.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: Oh, Kenya and Kim Fields, come on now.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: They gotta be standing up. There no chairs, They got
• 22:38
  Speaker 3: to be on their feet.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: You know what's so funny about that is Kenya did
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: apologize to Kim Fields, but not in person.
• 22:45
  Speaker 5: She didn't go on your show, Cocktails.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: She apologize just to be able to say its face
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: because sometimes.
• 22:50
  Speaker 8: I was not open.
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: I was healing in this this era, we need healing.
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: I'm ready for some healing.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: I am too. I am too.
• 23:00
  Speaker 5: I am too, I am too, I am I know
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: you fucking line.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: Oh I may be available for that.
• 23:13
  Speaker 5: All right?
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: So listen. That was our We have a new segment,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: rain Drop, So listen rain Drops. We have a segment
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: called shot Topic. Okay, so that was our icebreaker into
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: our new game that well, we will be playing weekly
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: because a month and alive. I do want us to
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: get into the hot topics of things happen in the
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: reality world. So right, before we breaking our guests, I
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: would like for us to get ready to take a shot.
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: I don't drink, so I got my green juice.
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: This next, my god, I have she's already acting up.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: I haven't drinking. I haven't drank.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay you all ready wait?
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: What are we drinking to?
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 24:16
  Speaker 5: Shot our new segment called Shot Topics.
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: You ready?
• 24:20
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Teers one, two three, love.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: Y'all love? Okay.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: So I would like to break in our first guest
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: of the evening as we get ready.
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: To talk about a hot talk bic before we get into.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: The latest episode of Love and Marriage, Huntspille, rain drops, ladies, jentlemate,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: Days and Days give it up for the Golden Child himself.
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  Speaker 5: Maurice Jefferson.
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I love doing.
• 25:03
  Speaker 6: I love doing.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: What's up, Maurice?
• 25:06
  Speaker 8: What's going on? Dustin?
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: What's going on?
• 25:08
  Speaker 8: Carlos?
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: Hey, Claude, I'm good.
• 25:12
  Speaker 8: I'm good.
• 25:12
  Speaker 4: I think were you listening to us acting up?
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Are you ready to? Like?
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: You already see what we right now?
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 25:17
  Speaker 8: Yes, everybody took this shot. Dustin took some honey. So
• 25:21
  Speaker 8: you know my going on?
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: Well? You and you from yack town.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: So I felt like it was only appropriate, you know,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: to be on a yak.
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean?
• 25:29
  Speaker 6: We go down?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Do you have a drinks?
• 25:36
  Speaker 8: Do I have a drink?
• 25:37
  Speaker 6: I can? I can?
• 25:38
  Speaker 8: I can arrange one.
• 25:39
  Speaker 4: You should get a drink to people.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: That is that Jay you're summoning.
• 25:50
  Speaker 4: Oh good, that's why you feel away.
• 25:55
  Speaker 6: Man.
• 25:55
  Speaker 8: Listen, listen, I get my annual from Carlos. I did
• 26:00
  Speaker 8: an annual baptism from from love marriage.
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: The social media streets.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Let's get back into the show. No, it's funny because
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: at the lamp Reunia listen, I listen. I'm very blessed
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: to do what I do. I love hosting Hunter Rejulias
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: because the cast Claudia A Dusted be sitting already for Washa, Datigants, Yes,
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: and Maurice and I plus plus is why Kenny had
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: some of the best exchange last It was funny. It
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: was funny. It was funny. So No, Maurice is a
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: good sport. So before we get into the latest episode,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: I love and matche hants bell I wanted to bring
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: in Maurice, Claudia and Dusta to join us on our
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: shot topic of the evening, and that is from my
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: friend Keisha Kiyor Davis. So Keisha Kiyor Davis recently, excuse me,
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: went viral because she did speak about her husband, Gucci Man,
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: and how the only thing that Gucci Man has to
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: worry about is taking a shower, because she takes care.
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: Of everything else.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: She buys, the food, she cooks, the food, she buys
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: his clothes, she helps him with everything. And she said
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: that she would be miserable if she did not cater
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: to her husband in this way because she wants her
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: husband to need her and not need another woman, another person,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: and that's what she finds to be the happiness in
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: her marriage. So that's our hot topic of the evening,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: starting with Claudia. Okay, only female in the crew.
• 28:02
  Speaker 5: Hey, look, Cam, what's your thoughts on that?
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: Claudia, Well, because the way he provides so much financially
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: where she doesn't have that stress on her. And then
• 28:14
  Speaker 4: of course she returned the favor when he was in
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: prison and flipped that money and she showed that she's
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: a good stewardess and guardian for his assets. She'd go
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: blow it on herself. I think they deserve each other
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: and I'm totally for this. I think though, you know,
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: that's the way it should be. Like he provides a
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: soft life for her financially, so she doesn't have that
• 28:34
  Speaker 4: burden of stress, so she can make provide the vibes
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: at pen he has no worry. She can feed him,
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: she can cater to him, and I think most women
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: will properly take care of and that's one thing off
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: their plate. What else are you supposed to do? You
• 28:47
  Speaker 4: know what I mean? Like if you don't have to
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: be out there hustling, I think that. I think that's
• 28:51
  Speaker 4: a beautiful thing. I'm a little traditional. If you paint
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: all the bills, your food, all that stuff. I'm doing
• 28:56
  Speaker 4: all that because that's kind of like what my job
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: is now right now. These fifty to fifty dudes, you
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: can't yahhing like that, like because you're both working and
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: you both should be contributing to the house. But that's
• 29:07
  Speaker 4: the benefits and what we ask for when we want
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: a man to lead and to provide, and then we
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: can be in our soft error and give you those things.
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: I love it, and I think it makes her feel
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: like that's what her value is. And the other girls
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: want to come try to throw some ass at him,
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: some kouchie that's cute, but he knows with her, he
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: gets all that a badass ship. She's beautiful and she
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: loves and it actually really enjoys doing all that stuff.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: And because he takes care of us so well like that,
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: I guarantee you their sex is still very passionate because
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: she still respects him. So I'm with it. I'm yes, I.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: Love it okay, and also does so I'm able to
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: add to it. She makes her own money too, like
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: she has her own businesses, not my life when out,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: she has her own businesses, and she is somebody that
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: still wants to take care of her man. That's one
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: of your thoughts on that she hasn't.
• 29:59
  Speaker 4: Half to work. She's she works. She isn't like he's
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: not like you better have this mortgage.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: I don't think so, and you know right, yeah, So
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: number one, I think the most important piece here is
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: that this is what Keisha has said that Keisha wants
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: to do. This is not a request nor a requirement
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: from Gucci Maine, nor is it a rule in their household.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: This is what she expressed that she wants to do,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: and it makes her happy and fulfilled to do so,
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: and to that, I say kudos number two. We're not
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: gonna sit on this podcast and act like niggas aren't filthy.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: There's a what's It's a poet, so you listen. You
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: want something done, right, damn it, you do it yourself.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: She probably don't want to smell his butt.
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: There's a guy what's that? What's that podcast? So it's
• 30:43
  Speaker 3: a light.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Skinned niggah chant ain't. I can't remember his name, but
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: he literally was saying he was saying he don't wash
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: his ass, and he looks like he don't wash his ass.
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: And Keisha probably don't want to deal with none of
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: that ship, so she don't. She ain't seeing no doodos
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: things in no under here. She's lifting up balls, getting
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: back there, making sure everything is clean. So they probably
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: do have a great sex life, and I admire that.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: So I think Keisha or you got it, figure it out,
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: and it looked like it's working for her, So there
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: you have it.
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: I don't know that's it. If talking about Claudia, we
• 31:18
  Speaker 5: all aware.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: He talked about chatting Crowder and the podcast is called
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: The Pivot.
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah you can be a pivot.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: What you mean you got your grown self on that
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: podcast Mike and said, you're don't wash your ass. I
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: was so disgusted by that, and Keisha probably was too,
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: and she said, not in my house. She got that
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: rag and got up in there. Okay, so that I
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: ain't mad at her. Go ahead, Keisha.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: Henny has entered the chat.
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: So Marie as the only married person on this chat,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I would love to get your thought on what Keisha
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: Kior said. She said just to refresh her memory mares
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: that Listen, She's a working woman.
• 32:07
  Speaker 5: She makes her own money. She earns the bacon too.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: However, she did say she would be miserable if she
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: wasn't able to cater and take care of her husband
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: because she loves to do it. She said, she only
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: wants him to worry about getting in the shower and
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: she takes care of the rest as.
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: A married man.
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: Is that something that you know all married men want
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day.
• 32:32
  Speaker 8: I think all married men want to partner, you know,
• 32:35
  Speaker 8: and how that you know comes about and how that
• 32:37
  Speaker 8: looks different for each person. However, the Bible does talk
• 32:41
  Speaker 8: about a Proverbs thirty one woman, and seems like that's
• 32:44
  Speaker 8: what she's doing. She can make the bread, she can
• 32:47
  Speaker 8: go and get her own, and she takes care of them.
• 32:49
  Speaker 8: So I think Gucci got and if you look at Gucci,
• 32:54
  Speaker 8: Gucci now looks different than Gucci did forward.
• 32:58
  Speaker 6: He's a whole.
• 32:58
  Speaker 8: Different dude right now. And I think that you know
• 33:01
  Speaker 8: that connection and that trust in the fact that he
• 33:04
  Speaker 8: has the right partner on his team, you know what,
• 33:07
  Speaker 8: that can make you look different too.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and Claudia, I would love to get your thoughts
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: with before I do for the rain drops for Dustin
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: as well. I would like for you guys to know
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: that the Proverbs thirty one woman is described in a
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: poetic depiction as a virtuous woman, not a literal historical figure.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: She is presented as an ideal embodying qualities like diligence, wisdom, generosity,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: and devotion to God, particularly within the context of her
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: home and her community. Claudia, Oh, is there the question
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: are you are you a Props thirty one woman?
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah? Sure, then.
• 34:02
  Speaker 8: I don't really read the Bible.
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: I lived my life as a good person, Okay. I
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: feel like when I lived in Atlanta, there was a
• 34:08
  Speaker 4: lot of people I could quote the Bible and they
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: were so trifling. They were saying all the things. They
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: had a great memory to quote versus in the Bible.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: But they were some of the biggest whores, skanks, liars,
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: DL double life line to everyone in their circle, credit cards, scams,
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: epp all, God and shit. So I don't do any
• 34:29
  Speaker 4: of that stuff, but I know I treat people right
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: and I do believe in somewhat traditional roles. I don't
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: think you should be a demand from a guy like
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: this woman caveman shit. I think the way they have
• 34:39
  Speaker 4: to set up is he provided that, you know, financially,
• 34:42
  Speaker 4: and then she liked to step into that feminine role.
• 34:44
  Speaker 4: And then she's also like, you know what, I still
• 34:46
  Speaker 4: have time. Let me go flourish my business, be a
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: billionaire over here on my own, and they think I
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: would be. It works some and like like Murray said,
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: Gucci lost that fat stomach he had that was like
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: that the body that he had before. It looks like
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: a cortisol body, like when you hold stress eating poorly.
• 35:05
  Speaker 4: It looks like the woman once he got her, look
• 35:07
  Speaker 4: the woman in his life got him like slim down.
• 35:08
  Speaker 4: He looks like he's glowing teeth so much. So remember
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: there was a conspiracy theory going around that Gucci Man
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: was closing. But when you have phone nuts in your
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: life making you like like happy, and you glow and
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: you just look like you can tell when someone's happy,
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. So it's worked for that.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: But yeah, yeah, I'm all those things in the Bible.
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: I'm all those things. I'm all those things, the fantastic things.
• 35:35
  Speaker 5: Well, no, well that's.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: The famous thing. I will say this, And obviously, Maurice,
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: your brother Marcella was on last week and he was
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: trying to give Claudia some advice too.
• 35:46
  Speaker 5: But I will say this as well.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I think it's one of those things whereas this every
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: relationship operates differently for those two people involved, and I
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: think what Keisha and she have is a system that
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: works for them. And I applaud Keisha for being a
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: woman in this day and age, speaking her truth and
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: being proud to be a woman who says I would
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: be miserable if I don't take care of him, and listen,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say this and we're gonna be popular, and
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: it's fine. I think there is something nice to be
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: with somebody that desires to be there for you in
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: whatever way they need.
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: The needing right, Like.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: She said, Gucci just has to shower and get in
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: the studio and she takes care of the rest.
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: But the beauty of that, to me is this. The
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: beauty of that is the fact that.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: It doesn't diminish Keisha's accomplishments and how she is still
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: able to go to work every single day. And Keisha
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: k Or Davis has a mask a billion dollar business.
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: So for me, what I got from that is for
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: women and men that you can't take care of your
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: partner but also take care of yourself and do things
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: that makes you happy. And I think the unhappiness and
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: most marriages is when you spend so much time taking
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: care of one person and you feel depleted and you
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: don't have enough time to take care of yourself.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: So that's what I don't want to be labor this.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: But what I love the most and what I want
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: to make sure we highlight here is the fact that
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: Keisha spoke from her own perspective. Now one time did
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: she say as a woman, I feel like I'm supposed
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: to do this in a relationship, as a wife, I'm supposed.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: To do it was none of that language.
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: And we're by no means promoting archaic, out of touch
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: gender roles. In this conversation, what Keisha said was that
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: she liked doing those things, and she wanted to do
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: those things for her man Gucci. It wasn't even really
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: a husband wife conversation. It was much of a this
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: is how I like to show up in this relationship,
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: and I like that. She made sure that it was
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: focused that way because it was encouraging as opposed to oppressing.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: And I like that.
• 38:10
  Speaker 4: And if you take the money out of the equation, right,
• 38:12
  Speaker 4: you don't have to have like a Gucci man level
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: of money coming in. She clearly is still in love
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: with her husband, Like, be that something that you can
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: be broken and be in love with your person and
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: just feel safe with them no matter however he makes
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: you feel safe, Like when you're crazy about someone, you
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: want to do those things like you go above and
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: be I know, I do. Like when I'm looking to
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: love someone, I'm like, I want to think about Okay,
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: what else can I do? Say? I made French toes
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: with the cinnamon and the vanilla and it like you like,
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: or I made the pasta that you like, you know,
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: I mean, like whatever it is like when you're still
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: love with someone. You do those things just because you're
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: thinking about them, like what would make them smile? So
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: they're just on a much bigger high level, like the
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: you know, grander scale, I guess you say, But those
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: people they still look good, they're in love.
• 38:55
  Speaker 8: You know. I got a question for that, Claudia, because
• 38:58
  Speaker 8: you're a proverb story will women or the like right,
• 39:02
  Speaker 8: do you think that you could do the same thing
• 39:04
  Speaker 8: if the finances or the provisions weren't there, Like if
• 39:08
  Speaker 8: Gucci didn't have those provisions, do you think that she
• 39:10
  Speaker 8: could do the same thing or she would do the
• 39:13
  Speaker 8: same thing.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: I don't know her to say, but I do think that,
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: of course. I think that sometimes the greater like population
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: to women gets a little misrepresented because of social media.
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: We see the worst of the worst a lot of times,
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: people that just focus on bags and material things. But
• 39:30
  Speaker 4: I know a lot of women in my real life
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: that they make more money than their men, and they
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: spoil them men. They love them then because their men
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: provide them something that makes them feel secure and feels
• 39:39
  Speaker 4: good and feel safe in other ways. When I was
• 39:42
  Speaker 4: with kJ and we were together for four years, four
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: years and he's still a best friend to the day.
• 39:46
  Speaker 4: We didn't get married, but like I made weigh more
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: money than him, but that man made me feel so
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: safe and taken care of, like he has my back
• 39:54
  Speaker 4: even to the day, like if I'm out of town,
• 39:57
  Speaker 4: like I might show to my house and he's mowing
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: the lawn. Now, a rich guy wouldn't do that, Like
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: they would just go het thrown and do that. I
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: appreciate that. So it depends like you can make your
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: woman feel safe without enormous amounts of money, you know,
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: by just showing up to her where she feels like
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: you got my back, you know, like and you're listening
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: to me. So yeah, I don't know her, but I
• 40:16
  Speaker 4: think there's a lot of women that the answer will
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: be yes. But we got to stop like believing everything
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: we see on social media and reality show because I
• 40:23
  Speaker 4: don't really think that's so much more. I don't think
• 40:26
  Speaker 4: that's as close to reality as I think.
• 40:29
  Speaker 5: You know, yeah, maur babe, you.
• 40:35
  Speaker 8: Yes she has, but those were for intimate moments, not people.
• 40:39
  Speaker 8: You know, like Dustin said earlier, to make sure that
• 40:42
  Speaker 8: my my draws are good, right, it's not.
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: A hard thing for men to keep like it like.
• 40:51
  Speaker 5: That hard for me, it's not hard at all.
• 40:54
  Speaker 8: It's not hard, and it shouldn't be hard for boys.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: It shouldn't be hard for nobody.
• 40:59
  Speaker 8: That's not a hard thing.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: You learn.
• 41:02
  Speaker 8: Really, you turned the brown purch white.
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I would think that would know. Oh my god,
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: they're saying that Cage is the cock block. Yes, well
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: he is. I know for a long time he I
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: know he is. Trust me, I know he's a professional
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: cock block. Like, sorry, I'm not going to come, you know,
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: don't worry. He ain't gonna want come for much longer
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: because I'm I'm ready. It's been too long.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, go there the light, Caroline. So the big is
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: this I do want to get into this season eleven
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: America tians Ville.
• 41:36
  Speaker 5: So, Marie, the biggest storyline that we're seeing thus.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Far has a lot to do with you and your
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: step son Jayleen.
• 41:45
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: It has caused a star on social media, it has
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: caused a star in the commentary where your wife's son Jalen,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: and and you and Kimmy just recently set the is
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: it seven years of marriage?
• 42:02
  Speaker 8: We'll be celebrating seven years on the twenty fifth.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: Okay at the university.
• 42:07
  Speaker 8: Thank you, thank you, and love a marriage.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Wow, yes they got they got married season one of
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: the show.
• 42:15
  Speaker 4: I mean on TV in the public eye is like
• 42:18
  Speaker 4: fourteen years.
• 42:19
  Speaker 5: I think, Oh, he's easy, you know.
• 42:22
  Speaker 8: I mean, I think it's easier for us because, you know,
• 42:25
  Speaker 8: we were a little more mature when we got married,
• 42:28
  Speaker 8: so we kind of knew who we were. Now. Mind
• 42:31
  Speaker 8: you having a lot of feedback about your marriage, that
• 42:34
  Speaker 8: can also present some new challenges. But I think that
• 42:38
  Speaker 8: as you know that old saying that you know, reality
• 42:42
  Speaker 8: television breaks up your marriage, I don't believe that. I
• 42:45
  Speaker 8: think it's the individual that are in the marriage. Are
• 42:48
  Speaker 8: you guys, are you guys gonna make it? Or if
• 42:49
  Speaker 8: you guys are not. You know, if there's some cracks,
• 42:52
  Speaker 8: people can find a way, they can find a way in.
• 42:55
  Speaker 8: If you present a crack.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: No, for sure, for sure, for sure. I do want
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: to get into you and Jalen's relationship.
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: Jayleen made a comment this.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Season on the show that he never felt that you
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: were somebody that he looked to as a father figure,
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: that in fact, he looked to your brother Marcel as
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: the father figure. When you first heard that, did that
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: shock you and did that hurt your feelings?
• 43:26
  Speaker 8: I'd say that it definitely hurt my feelings. Shocking. I
• 43:31
  Speaker 8: think that the relationship that you have, or a person
• 43:35
  Speaker 8: can have with their uncle was different than they would
• 43:41
  Speaker 8: with their dad, right, And I think that when you
• 43:45
  Speaker 8: don't have as much discipline, like parents have to also
• 43:48
  Speaker 8: discipline as well.
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 43:50
  Speaker 8: So, first of all, Jalen was a teenager and Kimmy
• 43:54
  Speaker 8: was doing a phenomenal job of raising Jalen and you
• 43:57
  Speaker 8: it's with every relationship because I have two older daughters too, right,
• 44:02
  Speaker 8: so I've been raising children that weren't mine that are
• 44:06
  Speaker 8: still mine and I still claim them and we still
• 44:09
  Speaker 8: have conversations with all that stuff even till today. So
• 44:12
  Speaker 8: the relationship that that most people think, oh, you love
• 44:16
  Speaker 8: differently because they're not yours. No, I've been choosing to
• 44:18
  Speaker 8: love children that I didn't create for for all you
• 44:22
  Speaker 8: know of my marriage and my previous marriage as well.
• 44:25
  Speaker 8: So I think that really the relationship that he had
• 44:29
  Speaker 8: with Marcel, and not just Marsa, he had another relationship
• 44:33
  Speaker 8: with the dark as well, it was different because you know,
• 44:37
  Speaker 8: it's more of a I can share more, I can
• 44:40
  Speaker 8: open up more. There's a little bit of an apprehensiveness
• 44:43
  Speaker 8: that Jalen also had with uh. He grew really close
• 44:47
  Speaker 8: to one of Kimmy's old boyfriends, and then that relationship
• 44:51
  Speaker 8: soured and then they went apart, but Jalen was still
• 44:54
  Speaker 8: close to that guy and he lost that connection. So
• 44:57
  Speaker 8: I think that there's a lot of different moving parts
• 44:59
  Speaker 8: to it, and I really wish that I would have
• 45:02
  Speaker 8: done better, you know, seeing that, because you know, at
• 45:06
  Speaker 8: the end of the day, I look at him like
• 45:07
  Speaker 8: my son.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: Did that make you feel jealous?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Though?
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: Like what you said about your brother like I had.
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: It's hard fitting it jealousy at you know, and like
• 45:17
  Speaker 4: I don't want to say that, you know.
• 45:18
  Speaker 6: What I mean.
• 45:19
  Speaker 8: Yeah, No, I wouldn't say jealous. I'm just happy that
• 45:23
  Speaker 8: we were able to get that, he was able to
• 45:24
  Speaker 8: get it, Like there's a lot of young men that
• 45:27
  Speaker 8: don't get the father figure, right my my pops. He
• 45:32
  Speaker 8: he was locked up for a little while, and some
• 45:34
  Speaker 8: other men that were in our village had to step up,
• 45:37
  Speaker 8: and we're better off because of it. You know, a
• 45:41
  Speaker 8: lot of a lot of the individuals I grew up with.
• 45:46
  Speaker 8: By the time I was twenty one thirty, one of
• 45:47
  Speaker 8: my friends were dead, yeah, dead, And then we had
• 45:53
  Speaker 8: other ones that went to jail, and you know, some
• 45:54
  Speaker 8: of them got out when I'm in my forties. So
• 45:59
  Speaker 8: the fact that you have someone there that you can
• 46:01
  Speaker 8: that you feel comfortable to share with is meaningful to me.
• 46:05
  Speaker 8: And if I can't give it all, of course, I
• 46:07
  Speaker 8: want someone else around me to be able to get
• 46:09
  Speaker 8: you what you need.
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: Mary's what do you have to say to the people
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: who because again you've been clear even tonight you said
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: plainly that you see Jayleen as your son and that
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: you love him.
• 46:19
  Speaker 3: You love Jalen.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Right, there's some viewers who have decided that there's an
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: emotional piece that you don't see when you're in a
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: confrontational conversation with someone that you care about. This is
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: family shit we talking about, so it's deeply personal, you.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: Know what I mean?
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: What do you want to say about the emotional component there?
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: Because Jalen was expressing his feelings in that scene, right,
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: He felt like you did not love him fully and
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: totally as your son, and he felt like you parented
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: your son monster differently than him, and you cited examples
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: of things that you had done for him. You brought
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: up you know, material things and and other things to
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: try to sort of illustrate right that you do make
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: an effort and you are you do feel that way
• 47:06
  Speaker 2: about him, but we didn't see you necessarily speak to
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: the emotional piece. What do you have to say about
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: how Jalen feels and what do you want him to
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: know about how you feel about him?
• 47:16
  Speaker 8: Okay, there's two parts to that dustin. First part is
• 47:23
  Speaker 8: and some of this is gonna come out in the
• 47:25
  Speaker 8: new season. Okay, I looked at life completely different than
• 47:31
  Speaker 8: most people did, right. I completely eliminated a lot of
• 47:35
  Speaker 8: the emotional aspect to life. Right, most of my life
• 47:40
  Speaker 8: has been just is this logical? Does this make sense?
• 47:44
  Speaker 8: If it doesn't make sense, then I don't kind of
• 47:46
  Speaker 8: understand how it works and how you think like that.
• 47:49
  Speaker 8: Like for me, one of the greatest things I even
• 47:52
  Speaker 8: told Carlos when we first got on the show is
• 47:55
  Speaker 8: man the comment section, like some of this stuff is
• 47:58
  Speaker 8: like I can't believe y'all think like this. Some of
• 48:01
  Speaker 8: its comedy, some of it's like where the hell did
• 48:03
  Speaker 8: y'all get this stuff from? You know, one sentence leads
• 48:06
  Speaker 8: to a whole. You can write a book off of
• 48:09
  Speaker 8: just one sentences, right, So it's it's it's it's amazing
• 48:13
  Speaker 8: to see all of these different aspects. But some of
• 48:17
  Speaker 8: that stuff comes from an emotional standpoint and an emotional
• 48:20
  Speaker 8: place where that individual is from. So when Jalen said
• 48:25
  Speaker 8: that he didn't feel like monster, I'm looking at him
• 48:28
  Speaker 8: like monster, only you're older, right, So I treat I
• 48:33
  Speaker 8: treat Monster differently as he gets older than he does
• 48:36
  Speaker 8: when he's younger. You know what I mean? And part
• 48:38
  Speaker 8: of it is I grew up in a big family, right,
• 48:42
  Speaker 8: And the older siblings they have more responsibilities because the
• 48:47
  Speaker 8: younger siblings naturally looked up to them more struggle than
• 48:51
  Speaker 8: the parents. They have more influence over their younger siblings
• 48:54
  Speaker 8: than the parents. So it's like, if I can get
• 48:57
  Speaker 8: you on my side, then you know it may easier
• 49:00
  Speaker 8: for the younger guy.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: So what do you have to say, Marie about how
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: Jalen feels about the emotion Because I get trust me,
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: I get what your I get the influence on taking
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: and removing that from the way that you view the world.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: But we saw a scene where your son, Jalen was
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: saying to you, Hey, I don't feel like you love
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: me as much as my brother, who is your biological son.
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: What do you want.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: Jalen to know without having to explain why you arrived
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: at those feelings are what your makeup is per se,
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: but just strictly focusing on the emotional piece. What is
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: there anything that you want to say about that scene
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: or about how you feel about Jalen or what you
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: want to what you want him to know about how
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: you feel about him?
• 49:41
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I absolutely or Jalen just like you. If I
• 49:44
  Speaker 8: would have made him and I would have had the
• 49:46
  Speaker 8: pleasure of raising him from a boy all the way
• 49:48
  Speaker 8: into a man, I love him just like that. And
• 49:52
  Speaker 8: I dropped the ball like there's a there's a significant
• 49:56
  Speaker 8: there's a significant piece to this puzzle missing, and that
• 50:01
  Speaker 8: is mental health, right, the whole idea of living until
• 50:06
  Speaker 8: I'm in my I'm in my late forties, going through
• 50:11
  Speaker 8: the world, navigating without the whole emotional aspect. That's like,
• 50:15
  Speaker 8: that's that's the motivation oftentimes of why people do what
• 50:19
  Speaker 8: they do. And I'm divorced from that, not really you know,
• 50:26
  Speaker 8: not really understanding the feeling aspect of it. So I'm
• 50:29
  Speaker 8: looking at the situation like I'm here right but going
• 50:33
  Speaker 8: through therapy. This is this is just something I just
• 50:36
  Speaker 8: want to put out there in the atmosphere.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: We need to have.
• 50:40
  Speaker 8: We need to have emotional and intellectual conversations as black men,
• 50:47
  Speaker 8: and to widely accept mental health like we do physical health.
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: Absolutely, I agree.
• 50:57
  Speaker 8: It should be really available, like they should have mental
• 50:59
  Speaker 8: gen just like they have, you know.
• 51:02
  Speaker 5: Physical jibs. It's called the strip clod.
• 51:05
  Speaker 8: No, it's called doesn't it's called black.
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: Marie.
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: Do you think because it sounds to me like you're
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: very logical and like I'm looking at the comments in
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: this and he doesn't emot he doesn't show emotion. And listen,
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: everyone doesn't. Everyone's not mushy like I don't show up
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: for people like that. It's very hard for some people,
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: depending on how you're raised. Like me and my mom,
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: we've never said I love you, but we do things
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: in our actions. You ever said your mom does loving
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: like you are to your goudy of mind, she is
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: because she does this, she does that, she does this right.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: Do you feel that maybe you're being misunderstood or do
• 51:44
  Speaker 4: you show an emotion or do you do you see
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: them with the comments that have you heard that before?
• 51:49
  Speaker 8: They're actually calling it like it is I'm learning emotion.
• 51:53
  Speaker 8: I'm actually learning this. This is something that's new to me.
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: Learning emotions.
• 51:56
  Speaker 8: Absolutely, this is a whole different world. I don't as
• 52:01
  Speaker 8: a matter of fact, I don't know any black men
• 52:03
  Speaker 8: that's in my circle that just sits around and talks
• 52:04
  Speaker 8: about how they feel.
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: Are you like that with your wife as well? Or
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: is it just an other like is it hard for
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: you with her as well, because that can be something
• 52:11
  Speaker 4: that's across the border. Or is it just like with
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: with children?
• 52:15
  Speaker 8: It is in general? Like in general, like me and
• 52:19
  Speaker 8: my wife, we've been going to therapy and it's been
• 52:22
  Speaker 8: eye open, like legitimately eye opening. I look at the
• 52:25
  Speaker 8: world now with color, and it used to be black
• 52:29
  Speaker 8: and white, you know all you know, no shades of grade.
• 52:33
  Speaker 8: It's like writing lane like at the end of the day.
• 52:36
  Speaker 8: Even in it was hard for me in law school,
• 52:40
  Speaker 8: like I had to actually make it logical, like so
• 52:43
  Speaker 8: for example, I'll give you a perfect example of this.
• 52:47
  Speaker 8: A five to four decision means that one person makes
• 52:51
  Speaker 8: the law to land right. So going into law school,
• 52:57
  Speaker 8: everything had to have a right answer. It's either right,
• 53:00
  Speaker 8: room and until I got to that point, like these
• 53:03
  Speaker 8: are the greatest minds in law, how do you come
• 53:05
  Speaker 8: up with a five four decision. That's because there's shades
• 53:08
  Speaker 8: of great.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: Do you see what I'm saying, Listen, I have a
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: lot of respect for anybody that's brave enough to admit
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: that they're and be open to learning and understanding systems
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: better to improve the relationships in their life. So I
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: have a lot of respect for you admitting that you know,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: understanding and acknowledging feelings and emotion is something new that
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: you are willing to do. Obviously is critically important because
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: your son just told you that he had a challenge
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: with emotions when it came to connecting, and I know
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: it's important for you to connect to Jayleen.
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: You've said it plainly tonight alone.
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: So I just applaud you for being open to that,
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: and I wish you and Kenmya and Jalen the best
• 53:45
  Speaker 2: with that work in therapy. I think that's wonderful and
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: you're incredibly self aware to even admit that, So I
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: respect that.
• 53:53
  Speaker 3: Marius, Thank you, classy.
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: One thing, seeing how this emotion piece has been a
• 53:58
  Speaker 4: struggle few and I'm glad you and that people are
• 54:00
  Speaker 4: very appreciative of that. Like while we've never heard you
• 54:03
  Speaker 4: say this and opening up a lot of people don't
• 54:05
  Speaker 4: say that. Have you been accused of being a narcissist,
• 54:07
  Speaker 4: because that's what some people will say. They'll be like, oh,
• 54:09
  Speaker 4: they're a narcissist. They don't feel anything, they're always right.
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: Has that ever been thrown your way? That label?
• 54:15
  Speaker 3: Man?
• 54:15
  Speaker 8: People say whatever, Like I listened to professionals. So like,
• 54:19
  Speaker 8: at the end of the day, when I sit down
• 54:22
  Speaker 8: with a professional and these people have actually went to school,
• 54:26
  Speaker 8: they've actually got you know, real training behind this, then
• 54:30
  Speaker 8: they are the ones that I actually think should diagnose
• 54:33
  Speaker 8: because your friends, they kind of have their perspective, they
• 54:37
  Speaker 8: want the best for you, but that doesn't mean that
• 54:39
  Speaker 8: they're professionally trained for this, you know. So yeah, and
• 54:43
  Speaker 8: in general, I try not to be wrong, Like I
• 54:46
  Speaker 8: don't know anybody it was to go in wrong.
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 54:49
  Speaker 8: And what's important to me about this even more so,
• 54:53
  Speaker 8: is I don't want Jalen to have the same relationship
• 54:57
  Speaker 8: with his children because the truth is based on the statistics,
• 55:01
  Speaker 8: he may wind up marrying someone that already has a kid.
• 55:06
  Speaker 8: So how do you connect, how do you how do
• 55:09
  Speaker 8: you work your way through that blended family?
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: You know, I do want to I do want to
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: talk to you a little bit about this too, because
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: when you were talking to your brother in the scene
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: in last week's episode that's also finished off in the
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: beginning of this past Saturday's episode where your you, you
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: and Marcel are a part of is it nine siblings
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: or eight?
• 55:35
  Speaker 5: Hey, so it's it's a kids total.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: Marcel said that growing up you were considered the golden child,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: and that the reason why the audience and and the
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: world and the people around you feel like you're so
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: hard on your son Monster is because you want him
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: to be the golden child. Help and that Jalen feels
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: like his stepbrother is a golden child just like you
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: are his father. What was going on as you being
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: a part of the construct of having southern siblings where
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: your brother Marcel even said, like, of all the kids,
• 56:17
  Speaker 1: you were the golden child, Like what made you the
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: govern child of all of them?
• 56:21
  Speaker 8: I really don't know. I tried my best not to
• 56:24
  Speaker 8: do stuff wrong. I tried to do things right, but
• 56:29
  Speaker 8: you know I got my fair share of trouble, and
• 56:32
  Speaker 8: one of the number one things was because I was stubborn.
• 56:35
  Speaker 8: You know that my personality fits my profession to a
• 56:40
  Speaker 8: t Like I'm stubborn I'll do what it takes to
• 56:43
  Speaker 8: work hard. I'm an advocate all of those things. I've
• 56:47
  Speaker 8: always had. Like matter of fact, one time, man, my
• 56:51
  Speaker 8: family jumped me. They jumped me because my mom was
• 56:56
  Speaker 8: Marcell had gotten out the line, and I felt like
• 56:58
  Speaker 8: Marcell had had enough, right and uh, I was like, well,
• 57:03
  Speaker 8: why don't he just ent her back? And they were like, wait,
• 57:05
  Speaker 8: what hit your mom back? I learned that lesson very
• 57:12
  Speaker 8: very very clearly. You kind of need to stay in
• 57:15
  Speaker 8: a child's place.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: Please talk about.
• 57:20
  Speaker 8: My siblings helped me figure that out.
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: Please don't bring us a crowd hitting their mama on
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: this podcast.
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: We're just now getting over that, all right. But wait,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: they jumped you because you said you were going to
• 57:40
  Speaker 1: do that.
• 57:41
  Speaker 8: I said that Marshall should hit my mom back, and
• 57:43
  Speaker 8: my older sister, now, mind you. I grew up in
• 57:46
  Speaker 8: a blended family, so the step we never called anybody
• 57:50
  Speaker 8: in our house step siblings like that. That never that
• 57:54
  Speaker 8: didn't need That concept doesn't even exist in my world, right.
• 57:58
  Speaker 8: My older sister said, you do what he should do?
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: What?
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: Oh?
• 58:03
  Speaker 8: And it was on like my mom actually, now mind you.
• 58:06
  Speaker 8: My mom stopped to address me after I got mine
• 58:11
  Speaker 8: from my mom. Then the siblings all jumped in and
• 58:14
  Speaker 8: took care of it. And you know what, I never
• 58:17
  Speaker 8: had to learn that again.
• 58:19
  Speaker 5: So so your mom, your mom whooped you.
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: And then then.
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: At a job Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: Are you crazy?
• 58:28
  Speaker 6: I was a little bit that day.
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: Okay, I'll call you crazy and a little little blue.
• 58:36
  Speaker 8: Hey, Claudia, I need to see I need to see
• 58:38
  Speaker 8: the words behind your name in order for you to
• 58:41
  Speaker 8: you know, diagnose me.
• 58:45
  Speaker 4: Well, I as someone who's fifty one, eighty forty years,
• 58:50
  Speaker 4: thirty years, I'm saying you and you never answered my question.
• 58:54
  Speaker 4: What has anyone ever accused you of being that? Whether
• 58:58
  Speaker 4: or not letters behind the name, it is not the issue.
• 59:02
  Speaker 8: The check the check and and social media they do
• 59:05
  Speaker 8: it all the time, like a narcissist.
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: By the way, for your wife, but people like your
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: wife or your brother.
• 59:12
  Speaker 8: No, none of no. But once we learned the term
• 59:17
  Speaker 8: as like a culture, we'll use it.
• 59:20
  Speaker 4: I know, I know, but you didn't answer me until
• 59:24
  Speaker 4: just now. But okay, thank you.
• 59:26
  Speaker 3: Hobout I said it the first time.
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: Oh you give a.
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: Whole We went around the lock and down the street
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: impact and that's why me and Dustin took a shot
• 59:34
  Speaker 4: low key. I said, Okay, you went back on.
• 59:38
  Speaker 3: The brown back on the brown Man. We're back on
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: the brown Man because I'm over here swinging for you, Marise.
• 59:46
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to help you, brother. I think, Carlos, let's
• 59:51
  Speaker 2: have a real conversation. Rights. We have watched you on
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: this show for so many years. Right, it's a lot
• 59:56
  Speaker 2: of people that are rooting for you. We all remember
• 59:59
  Speaker 2: the conversation that were very controversial that you bravely showed
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: between you and Kimmy when she was going through her
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 2: diagnosis and her treatment and her sex drive had been affected.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: And y'all had a very honest conversation about that on camera,
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: and you experienced people misunderstanding your intentions and painting you
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: as a person who didn't give a damn about a
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: fam of familial connection or caring how a person was
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 2: made to feel.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: Right, So now.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: Here we are again, where we're in an opportunity. You
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: have an opportunity to show people how you care about
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: these people in your life, and it is again, deeply personal.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: So ain't nobody trying to step on your toes or
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: disrespect these real issues that you all are sharing. But
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: we want to see you say we don't want to
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 2: see you say anything. Are surrounding what you need to say.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: You want to just hear you say, Yo, I care
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 2: about you. I care about you, Jaalen. You are my son.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: I love you, and I'm sorry that I made you
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: feel that way. I never wanted to do that. That's
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 2: all people want to hear you say. And when you
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: offer up these very honest and very brave because you're
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: sharing all this real personal stuff, right, so we respect it,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: but it's not helping to get people to understand that
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: you actually do care. You actually are concerned with Jalen's
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: feelings toward you, you know what I mean, more so
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: than being defensive or trying to change his mind about it,
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: because he shared with you a feeling, right, So you
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: can't cite experiences to try to change the perspective. You
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: could just reassure. And I think people just really want
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: to see you be reassuring in that way and it'll
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 2: make them feel a little bit more understanding of like
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: where you're coming from, because I feel like you explained
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: it beautifully and you were honest tonight, right, But there's
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: just that missing piece where you kind of like hit
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: the bull's eye and say like, this is what I
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 2: want you to know for sure, now why I feel
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: like this or what happened or what else could be,
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 2: how it could be different. This is how I feel
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: and I want you to know. I think that's what
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 2: people want to see. And this is a great opportunity
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: for you to you know what I'm saying. You have
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 2: you have shared that tonight, like Yo, I love Jalen.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: He is my son, and that's what I want him
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: to know. I think people just want to see you
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 2: do that.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: Man. You're a black lawyer.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, business owner like real estate mogul,
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: got a beautiful black, blended family that people need to see.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of people rooting for you that want
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: to see you or be successful and have thriving relationships,
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: and they just really want to see you show up
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: in that way.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: I think that it's really that simple, bro.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 8: You know what, Dustin, I'll tell you. I take that,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 8: you know wholeheartedly. Ultimately I'm crossing that bridge. Yeah, I'm
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 8: coming from a place to where I know that there's
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 8: the feeling side of life and I'm trying to get there.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 8: You can say it so much better than I do,
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 8: because you've already been experiencing that for so long, right,
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 8: and I'm trying to get there. I'm also saying, Okay,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 8: that's not what I meant that. I'm trying to tell
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 8: you why I said this, and that's that's meaningless. Really
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 8: know that, Hey, I got it. As a dad, I
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 8: got it. You know what, son? I love you. I
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 8: should have never dropped the ball. I should have been better.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 8: That's I can't from here forward.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: That's it, right there, bro, that's it man, m h.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: I think that's like the best thing that you said tonight.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 4: With with what you're saying, and I understand a person
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 4: that feels I'm constantly being misunderstood. So you want to
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 4: train your stance. No, I didn't mean like that. No,
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 4: I didn't mean to make it.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 5: No, I didn't do that.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 4: And then I get that, and then the balance of
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 4: do you want to be right or do you want
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: to be happy? And sometimes that's the adults or the
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 4: older person we have to like sometimes suck it up
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 4: sometimes and understand that everyone's not going to understand how
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 4: we think and we process things. And that sucks, right
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 4: because especially you're doing in front of an audience and
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 4: you have all these people trying to I say, skilled
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: with the comma, the saying right. It's between how your
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 4: son and your wife feel that's right, they're lacking. It's
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 4: about how they feel school. We say we gonna do
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: commentary regardless, and so the comments right. But like, and
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 4: I think you are going in the right direction because
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: you did say tonight, which I've never heard someone say
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 4: I was black and white before, and now I think,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 4: mm hmm, that is a major first step. And if
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 4: you just leaning keep leaning to that light, that's major.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 4: It's so hard for people to change. It's so easy
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: for us to sit back and say, well, why can't
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 4: you just do it the way I would do it. Right,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: the fact that you are going in that direction and
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: just lean more towards that, and I think you'll be fine.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: Like acknowledging it is the hardest part, and like seeing
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 4: it from someone else's perspective is so hard. But it
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: sounds like the night you're saying you have.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 8: And I want to be better. I don't want to
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 8: be you know, the more East is right and lose
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 8: his family and lose his children and all the rest
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 8: of this stuff. Because this principle that I think that
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 8: works right, should have worked or whatever. It doesn't matter.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 8: If your kids don't love you, right, you could give
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 8: them the world and then I don't even like you. Yeah,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 8: So the thing is, do you have the connection with
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 8: your children? This is my lineage, right, What am I
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 8: doing all this stuff for if they're not the ones
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 8: that that connect with me and see, you know, all
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 8: the best that I want for them in the world.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 8: That's yeah. Outside of that, man, you know, just to
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 8: keep the same perspective that I've had. There's no growth far.
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 6: That's good.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: And listen, I'm happy we're able to really listen to
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: Claudia and DestinE about that too, because I think they
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: helped you sort of like drive home your point. One
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: thing I did want to ask you to is you
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: know and that scene between you and your brother, it
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: ended with you calling your brother Marcell a liar and
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 1: pretty much saying that he lies all the time. What
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: did you mean by that? Because the world had a
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: reaction to it, and your brother Marcel said that did
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: piss them off.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 8: I did that to pis Mars off because I knew
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 8: that there was because he was trying to intentionally piss
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 8: me off. And the thing is, Marsa siblings know what
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 8: you can say and how to say it to piss
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 8: you off. It's one thing you know to say, Hey, Maurice,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 8: you know what, Let's sit down and have a conversation
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 8: with Jalen or whatever. And then Marcell brings up, hey,
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 8: but you're the golden child and this I'm like, man,
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 8: come on, that's the stuff that you used to say
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 8: when we were kids. You don't have to bring that
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 8: up to try to make this point. At the end
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 8: of the day, the most important thing is how does
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 8: Jalen feel?
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 8: Let me correct that, let me see where he's coming from.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 8: Let me deal with that situation. But and Marcel, like Carlos,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 8: you know anybody, and especially you Dustin because you're a
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 8: comedian too, right. Y'all know how to pour sauce on
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 8: some stuff. Y'all know how to go ahead and add
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 8: a little bit air to it. Marcel adds flair whether
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 8: it's for a reaction or whether it's to make a joke.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 8: But he knows what gets people going. That's the thing
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 8: about comedians. They know how people think, so they know
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 8: how to get a reaction out of people.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 4: Did you think he brought up the golden child thing
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 4: because it's a relatable like position. He feels like, well,
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 4: I feel kind of like how Jalen feels seeing a
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 4: fellow golden child. Do you think he meant it? I
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 4: thought maybe he was doing that and not Jabba. Did
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 4: you feel like he was javingue?
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 8: I think Marshall was jabbing me. And I also think
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 8: that Marshall knows what's commuter reaction m hm.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: And indeed, what we did see in the premiere episode,
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: am I happy feedback?
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah? You sound fine to me. Okay, okay, all right,
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 3: I'll keep it going.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: So one of the things that occurred in the premier
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: episode was the top of conversation with.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 5: Martell doing an interview.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: That he felt was a response to what Tsha said
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: about him on Actually.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 5: A Mother Night Live.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 8: And we're going.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: To see what happens in that conversation in two weeks
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: when Maurice sits down with Martel to talk to him
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: about that interview. What I do want to ask you
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: before we see that episode in two weeks, I do
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: want to ask you, how did you feel knowing that
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: somebody who you considered a friend did an interview in
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: response to what Tisha was saying, but that your name
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 1: was brought up in that interview with you being accused
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: of doing things per.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 8: The interview, Yeah, I didn't. First of all, I didn't
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 8: like it, right, I don't. I don't like the mess
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 8: like I think they had a little light shade. I
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 8: understand the back and forth, but we don't have to
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 8: go scorch earth. I think we should be above that, right,
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 8: There's no need for us to dress up in suits
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 8: and talk about business and as you tay it and
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 8: then you know, do dumb ship like that. So yeah,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 8: I think that that was offensive. But you know, I
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 8: also understand that you know, Martell has been battling with
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 8: his back to the wall for seven years, six years,
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 8: seven years, right, and we've actually seen the demise of
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 8: his whole family in front of the world. Like at
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 8: the end of the day, I don't know. I don't
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 8: know any person that was on reality television that was
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 8: hated more than Martell, Like it was right, you're laughing, right.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: But he's very nasty.
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 8: Right after a little while, you probably need to feel like,
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 8: you know what, man, it's mere versus everybody. And if
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 8: I think that you may do something, I'm going to
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 8: do it pre emptively. That's where Martell has been and
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 8: I want, I've been wanted him to get out of
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 8: that because there's a completely different side of Martel that
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 8: the world hasn't seen. There's a reason why he was
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 8: well liked by people. That's the side that people that
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 8: haven't seen yet, and that's the side that I really
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 8: liked for him the show.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 3: It's probably too late now.
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 8: I mean, he's been he's they put him in a space,
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 8: but you.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: Know, he put itself in that space to be honest,
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: because we watched him make and not judging him for
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: making a mistake, because everyone makes mistakes. But the problem
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: is that we watched Martel time after time not take
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: any accountability, place the name on everybody else, you know
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying, and those things just compile a profile
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: that does not reflect someone giving a damn enough to
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: even know if you're fund and got a good, you know,
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 2: fun loving side and connect your side.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: And unfortunately it's just been so much at this point.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: Bro, Like, we watched him in this week's episode have
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 2: a conversation and go all over the place to a
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: dialogue concern in the demise of his marriage, not one time,
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 2: but lightly alluding to you know what, I did do
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 2: this and it wasn't hurt it was me.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 3: Just still no.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 2: Accountability, no clear understanding. You just want to shake your
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: fucking TV when he starts talking about stuff because you
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 2: can't believe that he's ignoring this real, blatant thing that
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: has influenced everything else falling apart.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: So it's just, you know, he.
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 4: Seems like he would be a nightmare to deal with.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: Like I got to push your button, deflect, get people
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 4: look over here and say the things Maurice's I want
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 4: to give you a positive comment for you, Rodney made
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 4: in nine real or six as after the interview. I
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: have a greater understanding and empathy for Maurice, give him
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: grace and let him grow.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: So that's right.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 4: I feel like you should share the positive comments with folks.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 5: So yeah, yeah, no, that's why.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: No. You if listen, we thank you for coming onto
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: this show because you know it's live and invested. You know,
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: ask tough questions too, so it's nice for you guys
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: to get that experience. One thing I do want to
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: talk about that we saw this episode was Chris Fletcher.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: Chris Fletcher made a comment that you and your brother
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: do have women sign in das he repeated that to
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: in the Huntspell sais his wife, Tsha and your wife.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: Kimmy confronts miss Nell about it, and then Tisha and
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: her him and see that she got from Justin's bar
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: started to check everybody about it in this past week's episode.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 5: But I do want to ask you this, when you
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 5: saw that Chris Fletcher.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: Said that you, Maurice, you have women sign n DA's
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: as well, what does where did he get that from?
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: Because you know when people when people here Martell say something,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: everyone tries to say, well take that from the grain
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: of salt. So with Chris Fletcher that people do see
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: as sort of like the godfather of Huntsville. A lot
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 1: of people don't see Chris Fletcher to be a liar.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: Why would he say something like that?
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 8: I have no idea? And that's kind of why I
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 8: really felt like I had some smoke for Chris, because
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 8: it's like, bro, where is this stuff coming from? And
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 8: then this is the unfair part, right, The unfair part
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 8: is I'd rather you make a criticism about me personally
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 8: that my wife doesn't have to defend it. Doesn't impact
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 8: my wife. Right, if you're gonna if you have something
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 8: that you have negative to say about me or whatever,
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 8: I can handle, you know, extreme levels of criticism, right.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 8: But at the end of the day, it's it's like, man,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 8: where did this come from? I don't even we never
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 8: really hung out really like that, so I don't even
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 8: know where you're where you're getting this information from so
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 8: much so to put it out there like this is
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 8: something that I do.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: And then he lied about it when y'all asked him
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: about it. When Marceau asked him about it, he straight
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 2: up live, well, no, no, no, I no, I ain't
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: say that, but he.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the record, right, and for the record, he said,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: it sounds like something y'all would do.
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 8: Right, But even even if if where would you get
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 8: that from? Like if if it sounds like something that
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 8: I would do, where would you get it from? Like
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 8: when Basis on.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 4: That Martel, do you think Martel said that seems like
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 4: he's a little bit of a hater with you guys
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 4: at times. So you know, he seems like he's the
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 4: messiest one on there that likes to gossip and ship
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 4: and run his mouth. I'm just saying there's.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 8: A fair of sure gossip from all of the men.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 4: Technique I'm out to call in. I want from it.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 4: Bring him on, I don't care.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: No, but.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: Are saying they're they're throwing his name out there, and
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 4: you know some of the Matthew thinks. Martel calls your
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: wife a side chicken, calls you a cheap damn and
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: y'all so cool. He's saying, only thing it's about y'all.
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 8: This is the thing, Martell. This you could tell Martel
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 8: is about to lie. Normally he'll just like clear his
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 8: throat before it does it, Like there are certain mannerisms
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 8: that you can't get away from that people tend to do.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 8: Like some people scratch their neck, other people clear their throat,
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 8: other people, you know, look away.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but what does he do before he lies?
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 8: Typically clears his throat.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: But mind you, my mind is racing back to I'm
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: thinking about maruh Martella and his confessionals shrugging his shoulders
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: and clearing his so you know, I can see it.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: Alic, what do you think about this? I know you
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 4: like Martel. I like everybody, don't Martell?
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 1: I like everybody.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 4: I think he's the poor shot. No, ye oh, police.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 1: No, I will say this. Listen, it's funny, which is
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: why that's a good question. You asked funny about how
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 1: you can tell I.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 4: Think you like take another realities.
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 6: I think.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 1: They're all great. No, the thing is this, what's funny
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: is I never.
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 5: I'm like Dustin.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 9: I never even I don't know, I've never took clear
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 9: his throat. But that but again, I don't. I'm not
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 9: in the hotspale. But that's why I'm.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 1: I'm laughing because I'm like Dustin. I'm trying to like
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 1: rewind and roll the tape of of those things. But
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have a moment to say, watch this,
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 1: this is what is going on. That's hilarious, Maurice, that's funny.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 8: I couldn't be wrong.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 4: We need one of the rain Drops to put a
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 4: compilation video together.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah, something, we need a Martell clearing his throat, scuper cat.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: That's what I want.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 5: I want to ask the ray Drops.
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: So, ray Drops, does Martell clear his throat before he
• 1:17:15
  Speaker 1: starts to say anything? Let me know, ray Jobs, because again.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 2: They must be where he lies. That's what that's what
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: we're looking for. Lies that man.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 4: In the words of Colors king.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: I love all.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 5: Y'all are shady tonight. I love it, thought, I love it.
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 4: We need another drink on this one.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: Come home, get that green drinking.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 4: Get you something here, your clear.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: Claudia.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, wait the Copps, I said, he surely does he does.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Wait wait, Missus, Jones says, wipes his nose.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 5: And mouth, you are hilarious.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: He looked down to he always started looking down at
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 2: his right shoe and left.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 3: Just look down every time. I can see it, Mari.
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 4: When he gets a little smirk like that little what
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 4: a lot of men do they smirk they when they
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 4: they know they're about to try to.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 8: Be an Easter hunt.
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 5: Miss said, can't forget thinks of that nature?
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 3: Oh where is that to down to the ground. He's
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: always saying that.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: You know, I think, damn Martell d'afaniel's tell.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 3: To take that to the reunion this year.
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 2: You gotta let me clear my throat to this year.
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 4: Let me clear mindself.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 3: That's right.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: Music are hilarious. Okay, So Maurice, thank you for stepping
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 1: it to mother. And I like what I will say
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: is this you guys this season will see I think
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: I told din I tell you this. I may have
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: told this Kimmy. I told Kimmy because we did pressed
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 1: a few weeks ago. There's the theme between Kimmy and
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 1: Maurice that happens this season that.
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 5: Shook me to my core.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, Love Plant, Season one, episode seven. So look,
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: there's the theme between Jimmy and Maurice where they talk
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: about their marriage. And this is post. I don't want
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 1: to get too much away, so just watch it. But
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: what I will say it is, in my opinion, the
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: most dynamic scene between a married couple where they talk
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 1: about issues that leaves your mouth on the floor like
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 1: it's oh, it is shocked. It's shocking. Do you know
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, Maice? I think so okay, yes, yes, yes,
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 1: yes it was.
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 8: It was.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: It was shocking.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 4: But are we gonna be mad?
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 6: I hope not. I'm growing. People give a measure of greatness.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 6: It's listen.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 1: I will say that, Yes, all was progress.
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 4: We don't made tonight, missus Scott here, we don't think tonight.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 1: You are he already felt.
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 5: It is already filmed, is it the cab?
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 1: I watched that scene. I was on a flight. I
• 1:21:05
  Speaker 1: watched that scene three times cause I was and I
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 1: called my producers when I land and I said, wait
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 1: a minute, y'all to tell me it happened like that,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: like it's a real The beauty of this show is
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: these couples have real conversations to each other like like like,
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 1: like Marie said early, listen, all the men on the
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 1: shows gossap. It's what they do. But but what I
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 1: love about this show is when the couple themselves can
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: have a real conversation and does in the CLAUSEA, it
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: was so real and raw the conversation that I felt
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 1: that they forgot their own camera.
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: I can't wait too well, it.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 1: Was, it was, it was, It was good. So listen.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 1: Love Match Husville is back every Saturday, eight o'clock, seven
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: Central on the Upper Winfrey Network. It is the number
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 1: one show in the network. Congratulations Maurice Scott. He is
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: an og. Like he said, he and Kenny got married
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 1: first season on the show. We are celebrating our tenth season.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 1: So my thanks to the crew, the cast, the fans
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: for keeping the show alive and it's been good. So
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: thank you Maurice for coming online and good job because
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: you journalism back.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 8: Tonight, y'all, take it easy.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 1: You have a good one, don't worry, and I will
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: and Maurice, I will see you at the Hieta concertn't
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: get to me all right, thank you, Marie. Reality with
• 1:22:34
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• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: by Lizzie Nimitz.
• 1:22:41
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• 1:22:44
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• 1:22:47
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