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Who is in the wrong: The babysitter or the parents who wouldn't be home until 2 am? · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang hi, work up and the
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  Speaker 1: club on nine four seventh.
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  Speaker 2: Now, okay, so you have got a job and you
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  Speaker 2: are a babysitter.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you.
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  Speaker 3: Are babysitting two kids.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 2: The parents said they'll be back at five pm, and
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  Speaker 2: you said shweet because I start work at seven. So
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  Speaker 2: five pm works wonders for me because then you guys
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  Speaker 2: get back. Can be a little bit late. By six o'clock,
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  Speaker 2: I'll be out of here and I'll be your time
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  Speaker 2: for it feels normal. Yeah, it's normal, right, that's what
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  Speaker 2: we had agreed upon. Great, Okay, now walk with me
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  Speaker 2: through the story.
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  Speaker 3: We won't be home until two am. Sorry for the
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  Speaker 3: late notice. Hey, that's actually not gonna work. I have
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  Speaker 3: to go to my other job tonight at seven pm.
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  Speaker 4: See you.
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  Speaker 3: So we weren't asking, We were just giving.
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  Speaker 1: You a heads up.
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  Speaker 3: Our plans aren't flexible.
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  Speaker 2: Sorry, Unfortunately, you're gonna need to find somebody to watch
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  Speaker 2: a child after five pm, like we agreed.
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  Speaker 1: Actually not f y.
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  Speaker 5: It's illegal to leave a child alone, so I wouldn't
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  Speaker 5: leave at five if I was you.
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  Speaker 3: Okay. It's also legal to blacklil.
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  Speaker 1: And we aren't coming, so that's what happens.
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  Speaker 2: Right, So she's taken these texts between her and this
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  Speaker 2: boss and she's turned them into a song. And this
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  Speaker 2: is why it absolutely went viral.
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  Speaker 3: So think about it.
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  Speaker 2: You're the family that you are babysitting for.
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  Speaker 3: They said okay, they'll be back at five.
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  Speaker 2: You get a message and says, hey, we won't be
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  Speaker 2: home until two am, sorry for the late notice.
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  Speaker 3: You reply, no, sorry.
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  Speaker 2: That's not gonna work for me because I have to
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  Speaker 2: be at work at seven. She replies. The mom of
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  Speaker 2: these kids that you're babysitting says, ha ha. We weren't asking,
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  Speaker 2: We're just giving your heads up. Our plans unflexible. Sorry
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  Speaker 2: two a m.
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  Speaker 1: Like the next.
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  Speaker 2: Morning, yes, which I don't think is the issue if
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  Speaker 2: you were told, because babysitters know that they work odd hours.
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  Speaker 2: That's why they babysitters. But the agreement upfront was we'll
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  Speaker 2: be done at five. Hence the babysitter said, okay, great,
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  Speaker 2: then I can go to my other job at seven.
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  Speaker 3: I'm accountable somewhere else. I'm not here.
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  Speaker 2: And to say, our plans unflexible, but mine are.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta drop your you gotta drop everything you're
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  Speaker 1: doing to look after these.
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  Speaker 2: Kids, and then she says, I'm actually not for FYI.
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  Speaker 3: Oh no.
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  Speaker 2: She then says, I'm you're joking, right, wait, let me
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  Speaker 2: get the proper and under the Unfortunately, you're gonna need
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  Speaker 2: to find somebody to watch your child after five pm, like.
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  Speaker 3: We had agreed.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I have to go to my other job,
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  Speaker 1: right you know, this is what.
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  Speaker 3: The babysitter say.
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  Speaker 2: Then the parent comes back and says, I'm actually not joking.
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  Speaker 2: For your information, it's illegal to leave a child alone,
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  Speaker 2: so I wouldn't leave at five if I was you.
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  Speaker 3: It's your child.
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  Speaker 1: This is wild.
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  Speaker 5: This is one of the craziest things I've seen online
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  Speaker 5: in a very long time, because this family was literally
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  Speaker 5: holding this babysitter hostage.
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  Speaker 2: You can't leave my kids alone. Then come home because
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to leave them because I must go.
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  Speaker 1: But it gets worse.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's absolutely Oh it's also.
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  Speaker 2: Illegal to blackmails so I can see people.
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  Speaker 1: Know they're right here.
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  Speaker 2: And then the babysitter says to them, see you at five.
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  Speaker 2: The mom replies, we aren't coming. You are a terrible parent.
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  Speaker 3: Guys.
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  Speaker 2: If somebody was dreating me that they're going to leave
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  Speaker 2: my child alone, I would drop whatever I'm doing, whomsoever
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  Speaker 2: i'm doing it with, and I'll just go home and
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  Speaker 2: both my child.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, what a lack of respect of somebody else's time.
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  Speaker 6: Imagine if our busses walked in here and she said, okay, guys,
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  Speaker 6: you're on it till five o'clock this afternoon.
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  Speaker 3: Scrap whatever else you had planned, and.
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  Speaker 2: Then we're like, no, but we have to be somewhere
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  Speaker 2: at twelve o'clock AD midday. Know, sorry, our plan's unflexible.
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  Speaker 2: But here's the wild thing. This woman we all call
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  Speaker 2: her Karen, the mother of the of the kids. She
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  Speaker 2: actually got support. She opened a Facebook group and people
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  Speaker 2: were supporting us, saying the babysitter was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: The babysitter lab is look this up.
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  Speaker 3: There is an entire Facebook group.
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  Speaker 2: And she managed to get the babysitter fired from her
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  Speaker 2: other job because other mothers were going to her job
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  Speaker 2: to you know, to try and to find her, to
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  Speaker 2: harass her because she because so Ultimately, she just took
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  Speaker 2: the kids and left them next door.
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  Speaker 1: And went, Okay, that's what it was gonna ask. So
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  Speaker 1: that's what happened.
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  Speaker 2: Didn't leave the kids by themselves, took the kids put
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  Speaker 2: them next door, and then she lived and.
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  Speaker 3: Then there was it.
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  Speaker 2: But then this mom was harassing her. She ended up
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  Speaker 2: blocking the mom. The mom then found the babysitter's fourteen
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  Speaker 2: year old sister's number started harassing the.
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  Speaker 3: Fourteen year old.
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  Speaker 5: She also started an online campaign from what I saw,
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  Speaker 5: where she basically left bad reviews online so other families
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  Speaker 5: that have used her to babysit was saying rather not.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, this mom is a problem.
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  Speaker 2: I don't I don't know in which world, and please
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  Speaker 2: I'm willing to be convinced otherwise, so please ring us
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  Speaker 2: oh one one eighty eight thirty eight nine four seven.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know in which world you think that the
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  Speaker 2: mom here is correct and not the babysitter.
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  Speaker 5: And my issue is, here's the thing. The mom is
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  Speaker 5: absolutely in the wrong because if you have plans you
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  Speaker 5: cannot move, then you should have confirm this before leading
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  Speaker 5: your children with someone who you knew was supposed to
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  Speaker 5: leave earlier.
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  Speaker 3: And also, what's happening at two am?
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  Speaker 2: There's nothing important happening at two am, you're just getting boothed.
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  Speaker 1: No, this is a party, obviously, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: You at a party. It's nice and you don't want
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  Speaker 3: to come.
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  Speaker 6: Home to your children, who this is crazy, but then
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  Speaker 6: to then badly google review a child like a babysitter
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  Speaker 6: is so wrong, and then get a.
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  Speaker 2: Fight from her other job because you're sending people over
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  Speaker 2: there to go and create a bad atmosphere for other customers. Literally,
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  Speaker 2: the owners of her other job say to her, listen,
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  Speaker 2: we like you within you're great, but we cannot take
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  Speaker 2: this heat any longer.
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  Speaker 3: Bullying on another level.
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  Speaker 1: That's wild.
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  Speaker 2: It gets wilder on one one eight thirty eight, nine
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  Speaker 2: four seven.
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  Speaker 1: How does it get wilder?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know in a which world?
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  Speaker 2: In which world you think that the babysitter is wrong?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it you know what it is. It's a
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  Speaker 1: tough one. Maybe maybe you were stuck in traffic, maybe
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  Speaker 1: an hour late, right or two hours late, But which
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  Speaker 1: even if that case is going to be a problem
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  Speaker 1: because she's got another job to go to.
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  Speaker 5: But do you know what it is for me, Frankie.
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  Speaker 5: It speaks to there's an overall entitlement to the time
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  Speaker 5: and service of helpers, anyone who works in that space.
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  Speaker 5: It's almost as though, because people do jobs that no
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  Speaker 5: one else that most of us wouldn't want to do,
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  Speaker 5: you assume they should be so desperate that they put
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  Speaker 5: up what's whatever crazy demount you have?
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  Speaker 2: And also, as a babysitter, I'm working with you, you're not
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  Speaker 2: necessarily like in.
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  Speaker 1: Charge of the area.
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  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You're not in charge of me.
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  Speaker 2: You're not my permanent boss, and even my permanent boss
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't be treating me like that. So why do you
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  Speaker 2: think that I'm at your like I'm not your slave.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I feel a little bit like that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, caring is running a bit of a slave trade. Oh,
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  Speaker 2: one one, eight thirty eight, nine for seven. I'm also
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  Speaker 2: interested to know has somebody ever left their kids with
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  Speaker 2: you and you're just.
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  Speaker 1: Like, ma'am, where are you? You said, eight o'clock? Can
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  Speaker 1: you and this can be your sister's kids. Hey, I'm
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  Speaker 1: just saying.
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  Speaker 3: No, yeah, sister, family.
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  Speaker 1: Everyone.
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  Speaker 2: I've got a story Rose, a friend of mine. Dude,
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  Speaker 2: I'm talking midnight on a Sunday. Wow, she's calling the
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  Speaker 2: other parents.
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  Speaker 3: We be like, ah, hi, you can get to your child. Please.
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  Speaker 2: My kids are going to school tomorrow, so yours. I
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  Speaker 2: should assume you're a babysitter and the parents of the
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  Speaker 2: kids say to you will be back by five pm.
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  Speaker 2: You're like, great, I have to be at my other
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  Speaker 2: job at seven o'clock, which means that I can stick
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  Speaker 2: around until six five o'clock.
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  Speaker 3: You get not even not even the.
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  Speaker 2: Decency to do this at three maybe so you can
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  Speaker 2: make another plan at the time when they're supposed to
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  Speaker 2: be back.
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  Speaker 3: At the five o'clock that was agreed upon. You get
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  Speaker 3: a text.
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  Speaker 2: From the mom saying, hey, we won't be home until
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  Speaker 2: two am, sorry for the late notice.
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  Speaker 3: You reply, Hey, that's.
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  Speaker 2: Actually not gonna work.
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  Speaker 3: I have to go to my other job tonight at
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  Speaker 3: seven pm. See you soon. You see you're stopping friendly
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  Speaker 3: be like, oh.
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  Speaker 1: My word, I can't do this sorry.
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  Speaker 3: Reply from the mom.
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  Speaker 2: Ha ha, We weren't asking, We're just giving you a
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  Speaker 2: heads up. Our plans unflexible. Sorry, of course your plans
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  Speaker 2: are flexible because your first plan was five pm. So
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  Speaker 2: actually they are flexible because now you're flexing saying you're
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  Speaker 2: gonna come home at two am instead of five pm.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you changed your plans to go to whatever thing
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  Speaker 1: is at two am.
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  Speaker 2: You then reply and say, unfortunately, you're gonna need to
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  Speaker 2: find somebody to watch your child after five pm.
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  Speaker 3: Like we agreed.
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  Speaker 2: Mom comes back, I'm actually not joking. For your information,
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  Speaker 2: it's illegal to leave a child alone, so I wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: leave it five if hours you smiley face.
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  Speaker 3: Oh she's dripping.
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  Speaker 2: The babysitter says, okay, it's illegal to blackmail seriod five.
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  Speaker 3: Mom, we aren't coming. We aren't coming.
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  Speaker 2: Babysitters says, I'll have to call the police because this
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  Speaker 2: is child neglect. And then she says, wow, this is
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  Speaker 2: misuse of nine one one, which is a crime.
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  Speaker 3: By the way, Wow, this is so very so they made.
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  Speaker 2: I called a non emergency line and they suggested to
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  Speaker 2: leave them with the neighbor.
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  Speaker 3: They'll be stopping by.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: So now child Protection stops by the neighbors to go
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  Speaker 2: check if the children are fine.
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  Speaker 3: The mom says to.
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  Speaker 2: The babysitter, Oh, you are evil. How could you do
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  Speaker 2: that to my kids? This is your responsibility.
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know. Now we're overstepping lines.
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  Speaker 3: Here, babysitter.
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  Speaker 2: It's five PM. I've just left them with Susan and
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  Speaker 2: Tom next door.
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  Speaker 1: I would if I was the babysitter, I did the
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  Speaker 1: same thing. I'd just be like, hey, I'm gonna put them,
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  Speaker 1: They're gonna go to the neighbors because I've got to
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  Speaker 1: go to my other job. Sorry, Like I need to
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: make money elsewhere and I've got another job. Sorry, dude.
• 9:34
  Speaker 2: I think even if you had nothing to do and
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  Speaker 2: you just wanted to do nothing and take a break, right,
• 9:39
  Speaker 2: this mom.
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  Speaker 3: Is absolutely wrong. But this is the thing.
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  Speaker 2: She has garnered so much support against the babysitter. There
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  Speaker 2: are thousands or hundreds and thousands of people on that
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  Speaker 2: Facebook group saying the babysitter is wrong.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, do we live in different worlds?
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  Speaker 1: Well?
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  Speaker 5: Because people assume that because you paid for a fraction
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  Speaker 5: of my time, you have the right to extend it
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  Speaker 5: at a women.
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  Speaker 7: I definitely agree that the babysitters actions were correct and
• 10:04
  Speaker 7: the mother was wrong, but by posting it on social media,
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  Speaker 7: the minute you do that, you remove all privacy and
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  Speaker 7: everyone will always get involved.
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  Speaker 8: The baby see timas take their kids to the nearest.
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  Speaker 3: Good riddance to bad rubbish.
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  Speaker 8: So maybe she'll start finding the right clientele for herself
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  Speaker 8: of reasonable people that actually respond respect people's time.
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  Speaker 7: How dare they get her fired and harass her?
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  Speaker 1: Who do they think they are?
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  Speaker 7: Actually?
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  Speaker 3: That woman is evil? That mother?
• 10:33
  Speaker 2: But you see that already can you listen to those
• 10:35
  Speaker 2: voice notes already someone is like, yeah, but she should
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  Speaker 2: have posted it on social media.
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: Why yeah? But look, I mean I struggle with that
• 10:41
  Speaker 1: stuff because when you do so, yes, this person is wrong. Right,
• 10:45
  Speaker 1: maybe take whatever steps you need to take. But as
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  Speaker 1: soon as you put on social media, now you're dragging
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  Speaker 1: us all into this.
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  Speaker 5: No butt, I don't think that's fair because ultimately the
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  Speaker 5: mother started a whole Facebook campaign against her and got
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  Speaker 5: her fired. So if the mother gets to be the
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  Speaker 5: one going crazy, it's all fun and games and all
• 11:00
  Speaker 5: the monkeys holding the gun, isn't it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but if the mother did that after you posted
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  Speaker 1: on no guys.
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  Speaker 5: Or gloves of if you are threatening me, here's the thing.
• 11:08
  Speaker 5: If you start a fight with me, matt All, you're
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  Speaker 5: not in charge of the response because ultimately, mother, if
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  Speaker 5: you're such a good parent, why are you not concerned
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  Speaker 5: with your kids?
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: About your children? You're running a campaign because you want
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  Speaker 1: to gone a jowl.
• 11:22
  Speaker 5: You're abusing a woman who's saying to you, actually, she's
• 11:24
  Speaker 5: been quite reasonable. I have to leave at five because
• 11:27
  Speaker 5: I've got other work to do. You then say to her,
• 11:30
  Speaker 5: well you can't leave, threaten to call the cops call
• 11:33
  Speaker 5: her job, instigate bullying by other unreasonable Karens in your state,
• 11:40
  Speaker 5: then she also has the right to go on Instagram
• 11:43
  Speaker 5: and air you out.
• 11:44
  Speaker 2: I'm just laughing at it's not so much fun when
• 11:46
  Speaker 2: the monkeys holding the can know it.
• 11:50
  Speaker 3: I just imagined that the gun and it was reckless.
• 11:53
  Speaker 2: It was reckless. We were ducking and diving. Honey in Boxburg, Grifila.
• 11:58
  Speaker 3: What do you think money everybody?
• 12:01
  Speaker 9: Unless you left some of the neighbors. I was gonna
• 12:04
  Speaker 9: leave the babies at the police station. Take a screen shot,
• 12:07
  Speaker 9: send it to a teep out. I don't have time
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  Speaker 9: to play. I'm very glad to you.
• 12:13
  Speaker 10: Guys me.
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  Speaker 9: No, yeah, if you could have said, I will give
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  Speaker 9: you an extra hundred, is it possible for you to stay?
• 12:21
  Speaker 9: Don't threaten me with your kids.
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  Speaker 3: Like double the rate, make it sweet or something? Oh? Please?
• 12:26
  Speaker 3: Can I call you other jobs? Some you know what?
• 12:28
  Speaker 3: It is, just something.
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  Speaker 2: But the entitlement, and it goes back to Ticulus saying,
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  Speaker 2: is that as soon as people do what we dem
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  Speaker 2: our lesser jobs, you think that you can treat them
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  Speaker 2: any which way. But guys, what's less about a job
• 12:39
  Speaker 2: of somebody looking after your children?
• 12:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but even if you offered more money, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think that. That's not the point for me here. So
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: maybe she did. Maybe that's the standing rule. The point
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: is I can't do it. I've got another thing I
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: need to do.
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  Speaker 5: It's also about the approach. You're not trying to negotiate
• 12:53
  Speaker 5: with someone. You're saying you must stay no, and.
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  Speaker 2: She was rude about it. We ah, we weren't asking.
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: We're just giving you a heads up. Our plans unflexible. Sorry,
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  Speaker 2: oh my.
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  Speaker 3: Words, you're your fans? Are you in the ruderpot? Good morning?
• 13:13
  Speaker 10: Good morning, guys, Good morning.
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  Speaker 3: Is this the first time of the radio? No, it's okay, cool, okay,
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  Speaker 3: what do you think we're looking for?
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  Speaker 2: Somebody who thinks that the mom was right here and
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  Speaker 2: not the babysitter.
• 13:29
  Speaker 10: Oh no, I could never be on that horrible human
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  Speaker 10: feat ride. That mother is so bad that I feel
• 13:36
  Speaker 10: so bad for her children. Why does she teaching kids?
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  Speaker 3: No, she's raising equally entitled kids, shame poor things.
• 13:43
  Speaker 10: And those same kids mix with our children and they
• 13:46
  Speaker 10: bully our children.
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  Speaker 3: And you you're talking, I'm listening.
• 13:50
  Speaker 10: I was saying in that entire conversation, guys, when things
• 13:53
  Speaker 10: like this happen you itally be nice and say I'll
• 13:57
  Speaker 10: tear you double. I'll tell you triple. No way, Hey,
• 14:00
  Speaker 10: did she make that offer? Can't you phone somebody else
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  Speaker 10: to take on your second job since you're already on
• 14:06
  Speaker 10: this one. You know it's just throwing the money to
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  Speaker 10: try and ruin it over. I techude Ooh, I am trumped, honestly,
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  Speaker 10: So then Facebook page guys so that you can go
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  Speaker 10: and defend them.
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  Speaker 3: Lenny, I think I'm also going in No, no, but
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  Speaker 3: listen to this. The conversation continues.
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  Speaker 2: The babysitter sayds this to the mom because the mom
• 14:28
  Speaker 2: sent police to her work. She said, sending police to
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: my place of work is insanity. Those are your kids, lady,
• 14:34
  Speaker 2: the mom you abandon them. I'll make sure you never
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: work as a nanny in this town again. Check Facebook.
• 14:39
  Speaker 2: Thirty local moms are on my side already.
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: So do you see?
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Did you let them know that you failed to return
• 14:46
  Speaker 2: home and at our great time, and then had the
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: cops come to my job after safety place them elsewhere
• 14:50
  Speaker 2: and are now slanding me.
• 14:52
  Speaker 3: Oh, by the way, you haven't paid me the money
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: you owe me.
• 14:54
  Speaker 2: So then she didn't she hasn't paid her the fee
• 14:57
  Speaker 2: for the until five o'clock. Oh honey, you're not getting
• 15:00
  Speaker 2: a dime. I should be suing you, let alone pay you.
• 15:03
  Speaker 2: And then the babysitter comes back. I guess we'll be
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: seeing each other in court.
• 15:07
  Speaker 1: Now we're going to court.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the post that this woman posted. I
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: hired this name to watch my two kids, and after
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: letting her know be coming back a little later, she
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: calls the police to my house because she left, and
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: now we have cops involved. She even dumped them off
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: at our poor neighbor's house, who didn't.
• 15:21
  Speaker 3: Need that disturbance.
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Alo do you see how she's a liar?
• 15:24
  Speaker 5: She leaves out the fact that she messaged in the
• 15:26
  Speaker 5: wee hours of the morning about coming back at five
• 15:28
  Speaker 5: pm a little later.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: That's not a little later.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: How are we supposed to find good help when jame
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: Z are dumping our kids and calling the police on.
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: Us struggling moms?
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Now it's a gen Z issue.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: Pick off her in the comments, and then she posted
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: the picture what's the beginner is right?
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: The mic?
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: You got the gun and now you guys are upset
• 15:46
  Speaker 2: because it's the mom that went in first. Before this
• 15:48
  Speaker 2: exchange was just between the babysitter and the car. But
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: because this mom then went to Facebook with her picture
• 15:55
  Speaker 2: with the picture no Liz picture, that's when she started
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: said okay, fine, now let's tussle. And the thing about
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: gen Z is do they make their stories much more interesting?
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: Because all all.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: This current could do is post our little jen Z babysitter.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: She made songs out of the tics.
• 16:10
  Speaker 5: No, she's got about more than twenty posts detailing it
• 16:13
  Speaker 5: all wild.
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: Like literally made a song of every single, every single posts.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Can you stop embarrassing me? It's like, dude, you started it.
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: You started it. Is there any place in the world
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: where you think, okay, fine, you would join this Facebook group?
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Now this I can't see myself joining the mom's side.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: But now here's the thing. You are.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: You two are the only man who've commented on this,
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: even on the I went into the Facebook groups.
• 16:41
  Speaker 5: I went onto all the posts, and there's no means
• 16:44
  Speaker 5: my status is debatable, A bit.
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: About bit about better about that.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: The husband got involved. Finally, the wives. The wive's husband Wow,
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: he DMed her on Instagram. Oh more on that later.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: So I'll bring it up to speak quickly. Off where
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: we are. Yeah, babysitter looking after the kids. Parents say
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: they'll be home at five pm, five pm. Then she
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: gets a message saying, hey, sorry about that five pm time.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: We're only going to be home at two am. Got
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: something else we're going to do. She goes, no, you can't.
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: I'll look forward to seeing you at five because I
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: have another job at seven. Obviously she's working in the
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: evening somewhere else. Right.
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: The mom says, I wasn't asking you, I'm telling you.
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: I'm telling you.
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: That's where she got me messed.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Up, she says. The babysitter then decides no, no, no, no,
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: this is not going to work. There's a back and
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: forth that happens, gets really nasty very quickly. Babysitters then says, no,
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: I'm dropping your kids off at the neighbor and I'm
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: gonna let the police know because this is unacceptable. You
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: can't just abscond.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Babysitter then leaves the kids with their neighbors Tom and
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Sandra and cause the cops child Services to go and
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: check up on them because she wants to cover her basis.
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: The mom is upset that she called child services. I'm
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: going to call child services. Unignating your children.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, then the mom starts a Facebook group to basically
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: because he gets ready for Flander, right.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Gets so fired at her job because she sends women
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: over there to go and like call cause a bit
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: of her ruckers. First, the owners of the restaurant that
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: the babysitter works that say, you know.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: Just go and leave.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: So they give her like two weeks off, and then
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: in two weeks time it's not dying down.
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: They're like, hey, buddy, we have to let you go.
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: This is this is not good for our business. This
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: is a big now no for me.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 18:36
  Speaker 6: If you've got kids, you wanted those kids, so look
• 18:39
  Speaker 6: after your kids.
• 18:40
  Speaker 8: The absolute audacity of these parents, and I can guarantee
• 18:45
  Speaker 8: you it's the mother to think that this is normal
• 18:49
  Speaker 8: and then on top of it, to go out and
• 18:52
  Speaker 8: make it their life's mission to ruin this woman's.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Life because she refused to adare to be a.
• 18:58
  Speaker 8: Crazy expectation rules last.
• 19:01
  Speaker 6: Minute at that guys, I used to volunteer in our
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: youth church at my church, and you would have your
• 19:07
  Speaker 6: mind blown away by how often what you're describing happens
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: a lot. So when we have sleepovers at the church,
• 19:14
  Speaker 6: and a camp at the church with the children. When
• 19:16
  Speaker 6: the children are supposed to be picked up at eight am,
• 19:19
  Speaker 6: at twelve pm at two pm, you're standing there.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: Huh.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: This used to happen a lot at our church at
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: BMC where because there's like a youth side, right, kids
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: church and it's nice and they do Sunday school and
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: then they get like slushy and churn and and then
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: they play games. But it runs as long as we
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: the adults are inside the church.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Some moms not coming to the church, drop their kids
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: off at Sunday school, go across the road to dop
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: your zero, have themselves long islands, iced teas, cocktails, and
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: then come back at two pm to.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Pick up their because the kids are safe at the.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Church, but you're not attending church, so you know how
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: to use the service.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: What do you think this is?
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because obviously you want your kids to get their education,
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: but also you're what you're banking on is the good
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: will of the people at the church. Exact, stay and
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: look after.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: The prison you in Midrand. What do you think?
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: Good morning Annelia and the club.
• 20:21
  Speaker 11: I hope you guys are well.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: With great Christan.
• 20:23
  Speaker 11: How are you good?
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Good?
• 20:26
  Speaker 4: Just but annoyed with the mom. And you know, I
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: actually think the baby is such a.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Good great.
• 20:35
  Speaker 11: Reason being one saying this. You know, I was an
• 20:38
  Speaker 11: uber driver and.
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: I've experienced this a lot where you know, a person
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: would book a trip and a trip ends at the gates,
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: and they would not ask you if you could please
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: drop us off inside the state. But they will tell
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: us no, you have to go inside the state. And
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: then from the gate to the place is about another
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: killer beach and no one pays you for that.
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: Oh but hang on, the trip has come to an
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: end at the gate, so you you've stopped the trip and.
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: They don't re request you, and then you.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: Have to grab a further two three k's and then
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: you don't get the money correct.
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: And you know when when people used to ask, and
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: you know, they asked if you could please drop them
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: off inside? By all means, we would go and do
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: it because it's common courtesy. But when people say no
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: you have to for me, that just didn't work for me.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: You don't have to.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Why don't they just okay, because you guys have ended
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: the trip. Because this has happened with me before where
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: I absent mind, you forget that oh, I must put
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: the address on, not the estate of a place, right,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: And then when when the Uber driver got to the gate,
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: they were like, okay, I'm here, and I was like, oh,
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: hang on, no, sorry, I need you to go to
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: the house. Then you update the address on the trip.
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: Yes, but people shouldn't do that. They just book it
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: to the gate and then they tell you no, but
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: you have to take me inside, and I'll be like, no,
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: it's ended long ago. I don't have to do anything.
• 22:12
  Speaker 2: And most of the time you you you probably have
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: another trip requesting.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: You're calling you so that you can go off to
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: the next trip.
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: Right arect direct.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: I didn't know that that's how it works. So if
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: I ask you to drive another block, it doesn't automatically
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: calculate that as part of the trip.
• 22:27
  Speaker 11: If you know that's the gate, yeah, yeah.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: Ended the trip.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: Then there's no ways unless you re request for that
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: last kilometer pason.
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: No one's ever told me I don't do this offen,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: But no one's ever told me that. That's quite interesting.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I don't know that you have.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: To change the address on there's most there's that option
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: to change the dress or to add another stop. Yeah,
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: you just put press plus on the side.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Yeas, And I feel you because you guys live in
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: the States that it's fifty five kilometers from the gate
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: where you live, right and you got to drive past
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: twenty shopping centers to get there. I understand.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Who's petrol is what you must ask them when they
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: say no, just who's petrol? My baby, who's petrol? You're
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: gonna give me one hundred grands cash right now? See
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: are you in Rosebank? What do you think?
• 23:11
  Speaker 7: Oh?
• 23:12
  Speaker 11: Oh, my days. We are in the same situation. Me
• 23:14
  Speaker 11: and my girlfriend. Oh talk, she's she's an old pen
• 23:21
  Speaker 11: and the mother is a flight attendant. And so the agreed.
• 23:26
  Speaker 11: The agreement was, you know, send me your schedule and
• 23:29
  Speaker 11: then I can work around it because you know, as
• 23:31
  Speaker 11: a flight attendant it's always go everywhere. That never happened, uh,
• 23:37
  Speaker 11: And so she basically was working on you know, last
• 23:41
  Speaker 11: minute plans or you know, she'll get a message in
• 23:43
  Speaker 11: the morning you must be at work at you know,
• 23:46
  Speaker 11: three o'clock and then you know, be there until about
• 23:50
  Speaker 11: five foot plus five. Sometimes she would have to stay over.
• 23:55
  Speaker 11: But it is is an entitlement towards because I mean
• 23:59
  Speaker 11: there's the kids also undisciplined. Like, so it's not. You
• 24:04
  Speaker 11: wouldn't believe me if I told you. They are just undisciplined, no.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: Man like.
• 24:11
  Speaker 11: Yeah, just so undisciplined. And she hates she can't deal
• 24:15
  Speaker 11: with disrespect. My girlfriend can't, so that was a big
• 24:18
  Speaker 11: thing for her. But yeah, the thing was nothing was
• 24:24
  Speaker 11: ever unscheduled.
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: So let me ask, this, is this the only family
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: your girlfriend looks after?
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: Because surely's difficult. Okay, I think that's what that mom is.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Totally not justified, by the way, totally wrong. But she
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: thinks that your girlfriend is like a full time employee
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: of hers at her bacon call. What she needs to
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: do is get a live in nanny, right and pay
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: her accordingly.
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because this I can see how your girlfriend gets.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: I mean, this is terrible. Now the plane's delayed in Pe. Now, Hi, sorry,
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: you're gonna have to stay another two hours. That must
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: happen all the time, all the.
• 25:00
  Speaker 11: Time, exactly. And I mean she she's still a learner
• 25:03
  Speaker 11: driver as well, so I still gotta I still have
• 25:05
  Speaker 11: to drive it here there everywhere and work for me. Yeah,
• 25:11
  Speaker 11: exactly exactly.
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: Because you actually have hours and a job and and
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: and the schedule that you need to stick by so
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: you can't stop what you're doing to take your girlfriend
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: to work.
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: Has she has.
• 25:21
  Speaker 11: Only so many times I can teach work and come favor.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well exactly.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: And have you had the conversation with her to talk
• 25:28
  Speaker 3: to the to the mom.
• 25:30
  Speaker 11: Yes, yeah, so I managed to tell her that, you know,
• 25:32
  Speaker 11: this is I mean for me as well at work.
• 25:34
  Speaker 11: I can't keep pitching meetings because somebody else can't plan
• 25:38
  Speaker 11: DA day properly. I can't keep doing all of that.
• 25:42
  Speaker 11: And yeah, I spoke to her and said, you know,
• 25:44
  Speaker 11: you gotta put your foot down, and I convinced her
• 25:47
  Speaker 11: and yeah, she's finishing at the.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: End of this month. Oh yeah, there's no you know
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: what the problem is with her, There's no solution here.
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: This is always going to keep on happening. When when
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: she's a if the mom is a flight attendant, you
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: know that's irregular. It's always going to be irregular. There's
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: no way that planes are on time every day.
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: She needs to live in nanny And like I say, guys,
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: you live in Nannie's, can't go and work elsewhere. They
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: can't go and and you know, freelance elsewhere, so you
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: need to pay them accordingly.
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: You're paying them to be there the whole time, and
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: then you also need to give them time to go
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: home to their families. I mean the estate that I
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: once lived in, there was a nanny there where she
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: was full time the entire year.
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: They would let her go home for four days in December.
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: No, that's wild, that's slavery. Slavery's slavery.
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: Oh and they give her one hour on Sundays to
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: go to church.
• 26:45
  Speaker 3: Do you know what I'm saying. I really feel like
• 26:47
  Speaker 3: oust in that family.
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: And if you're listening to us, yes, you can't do that.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: You can't do that just because somebody is desperate for
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: a job.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: You simply cannot do that.
• 26:56
  Speaker 8: Guys to making your morning and the Club on nine
• 27:04
  Speaker 8: four seven