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- 0:05Speaker 1: next to
- 0:06Speaker 1: Kicking off your day in the best way. It's Sonia
- 0:10Speaker 1: and Joakim on the shock circuit. Hey, it's your birthday.
- 0:13Speaker 1: We're gonna party like it's your birthday. Wow, I'm entering
- 0:17Speaker 1: my 39th cycle of life. I'm 38 today. Yeah, yeah.
- 0:21Speaker 1: Can you not say 39 when you just turned 38?
- 0:24Speaker 1: I was like, did I count wrongly? What's going on?
- 0:27Speaker 1: Singapore's number one hit music station.
- 0:32Speaker 1: Now, while we reflect over your 38 years of life
- 0:35Speaker 1: so far, um, we'll do that more in depth later on,
- 0:38Speaker 1: but just, just to ask you, you know, waking up
- 0:40Speaker 1: this morning, did you feel like, oh man, I'm one
- 0:43Speaker 1: step closer to another phase of life very soon? No, no.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Or no, how do you feel? But I realized I'm
- 0:50Speaker 1: that much closer to 50. 0, come on, 50, you're
- 0:54Speaker 1: not even 40 yet. What are you talking about? I
- 0:56Speaker 1: am 21. 0, OK, I should have let you finish
- 1:00Speaker 1: that sentence. So thankfully I've grown a bit.
- 1:05Speaker 1: Wiser Wiser, thankfully, would you agree? Please say yes. He
- 1:09Speaker 1: was thinking very hard. I'm very sure I'm not the
- 1:12Speaker 1: same guy you met 16 years ago. Look, if both
- 1:15Speaker 1: of us are the same people that we remember, that's
- 1:18Speaker 1: a problem. Yeah, exactly that many years ago, then we
- 1:20Speaker 1: haven't done much development or growing. Can't say the same
- 1:24Speaker 1: for most people. Oh damn. I was gonna say the
- 1:26Speaker 1: first of 38.
- 1:30Speaker 1: Feels like any other day. I've come to a point
- 1:32Speaker 1: in my life now where I prefer to celebrate milestones. Like,
- 1:35Speaker 1: I'm waiting to celebrate the day I buy my first house. OK, yes,
- 1:39Speaker 1: I'll be there to celebrate it with you as well. Yeah,
- 1:43Speaker 1: housewarming housewarming, yeah. So housewarming that you may or may
- 1:46Speaker 1: not remember because I might bring tequila. Hey, if anything
- 1:50Speaker 1: you bring, bring your cooking, yeah, but tequila is easier
- 1:53Speaker 1: to bring la.
- 1:55Speaker 1: 22nd of July, a Wednesday, I love this date, to
- 1:59Speaker 1: be honest with you. You know what, I was just
- 2:01Speaker 1: doing some research yesterday on people that I share my
- 2:05Speaker 1: birth date with. OK, so who are they? Can I,
- 2:08Speaker 1: can I just list you some notable names? Yeah, OK,
- 2:11Speaker 1: you ready?
- 2:12Speaker 1: From reverse, OK. Prince George of Wales, wow, same birthday.
- 2:18Speaker 1: Football players Mark Cucua and Federico Valverde, I have no
- 2:22Speaker 1: idea who they are. Born on this date in the
- 2:24Speaker 1: year 1998, you have Selena Gomez, you have me.
- 2:30Speaker 1: You have Verneta Lopez, our colleague. Oh, she also shares
- 2:33Speaker 1: the same birthday as you. Yeah. My favorite wrestler of
- 2:36Speaker 1: all time, Shawn Michaels, William Dafoe. What? And I do
- 2:41Speaker 1: not find this a coincidence. The man Singh, no, no,
- 2:45Speaker 1: I wish I'm joking, I'm joking. The man who wrote
- 2:47Speaker 1: our national anthem.
- 2:49Speaker 1: No way. No way. You guys share the same. What,
- 2:52Speaker 1: what was the year? 22nd of July 1907. You know,
- 2:57Speaker 1: now I, I got really interested about that because I've
- 2:59Speaker 1: never searched that up before was born was born. So
- 3:03Speaker 1: I searched up Stan Lee is born on 28th of December.
- 3:07Speaker 1: What's up? OK, who else? Um.
- 3:09Speaker 1: Uh, Denzel Washington. Wow, John Legend, born on the twenty-eighth. Bro,
- 3:15Speaker 1: that's an elite. So far, female-wise, not too much. Sienna Miller,
- 3:20Speaker 1: I mean, she's an actress. I can name you one
- 3:23Speaker 1: person I know who was born the same day as you. Joelolo. OK,
- 3:33Speaker 1: can we, can we add one more person that we
- 3:33Speaker 1: both know, my ex-girlfriend. Oh yeah.
- 3:36Speaker 1: OK, who we're still on talking terms with, we always
- 3:39Speaker 1: joke about it. We always joke about it because, uh,
- 3:42Speaker 1: back then when Joakim would celebrate her birthday as well,
- 3:46Speaker 1: then sometime like either the previous night or the same night,
- 3:50Speaker 1: I'm also having like a birthday thing and then both
- 3:52Speaker 1: of you will come. Exactly. So I want you to
- 3:54Speaker 1: 8 years ago and I asked her, oh, when's your birthday?
- 3:57Speaker 1: 28th of July.
- 4:00Speaker 1: December of December, yeah, yeah, had to do a split,
- 4:04Speaker 1: same birthday, same year. I know, I know what the odds, right?
- 4:08Speaker 1: Did you, in, in that moment, did you take that
- 4:10Speaker 1: as a sign? Like, OK, I have to date this girl,
- 4:12Speaker 1: I don't know, like numbers wise, oh, this can't be
- 4:15Speaker 1: a coincidence. Maybe it's a good sign. I mean, I
- 4:17Speaker 1: took it as a sign that if I were to
- 4:19Speaker 1: have married her, I'm stuck with these cosmic twins for life.
- 4:23Speaker 1: I know you as my good friend and she is
- 4:25Speaker 1: my wife in the future, you know, sometimes these things
- 4:28Speaker 1: work out to be quite funny, right? Because I realized
- 4:31Speaker 1: that I have a lot of people around me who
- 4:33Speaker 1: are also born around December, for example, or like even
- 4:36Speaker 1: my own, my own partner, like he's born on the twenty-seventh. Wow, yeah, exactly.
- 4:40Speaker 1: So yeah, so it's it's just funny and we laugh
- 4:42Speaker 1: about it all the time. I mean, November and December
- 4:44Speaker 1: are quite popular for people to be born in.
- 4:48Speaker 1: Because Valentine's Day, November and December sort of think about
- 4:57Speaker 1: it that time, that time.
- 4:59Speaker 1: Anyway, um, we're gonna catch up a little bit more
- 5:01Speaker 1: about this later on. So, we're just, you know, in
- 5:03Speaker 1: holiday mood today because it's Joakim's birthday, so it should
- 5:05Speaker 1: be a public holiday. So early on I said, um,
- 5:08Speaker 1: an end of an era for this particular department store,
- 5:11Speaker 1: a place that my mom and I used to shop
- 5:12Speaker 1: at a lot. I remember as a kid, I was
- 5:14Speaker 1: so excited to go here and then she might just
- 5:16Speaker 1: buy me something, you know, and as an adult even,
- 5:19Speaker 1: they've got, sometimes they've got great deals on like skincare
- 5:21Speaker 1: or like essentials that I need. Give me a hint.
- 5:25Speaker 1: Um, there's one over in, there's one prominent one over
- 5:28Speaker 1: in town, like in Orchard Road. Which part of town?
- 5:32Speaker 1: Uh, be, be more specific. OK, it is very near.
- 5:41Speaker 1: Well, my directions are are really bad. OK, it's a
- 5:44Speaker 1: place that jams up quite a lot.
- 5:46Speaker 1: And right opposite it, there's a very big sports store. Paragon. Yeah, Paragon.
- 5:51Speaker 1: What's in Paragon? Metro Metro, yeah, end of an era
- 5:55Speaker 1: for Metro. I know, I was shocked too. They are
- 5:57Speaker 1: closing their remaining Paragon and Causeway Point stores after their
- 6:00Speaker 1: leases expire, and they quoted that it's been a challenging
- 6:04Speaker 1: time here in Singapore. Um, it's a strategic review of
- 6:07Speaker 1: its retail business amidst all the operating challenges faced in Singapore.
- 6:12Speaker 1: So it's quite, it's quite sad because they've been here
- 6:15Speaker 1: for more than 6 decades, if I just break it
- 6:19Speaker 1: down for you that way. Are they pivoting to online
- 6:21Speaker 1: sales or something? Yeah, so they're saying that um they're
- 6:25Speaker 1: intending to progressively transit into specialized retail concepts. So I
- 6:29Speaker 1: don't really know what that means for now. Will they
- 6:32Speaker 1: open up smaller ones with, you know, their best selling products.
- 6:35Speaker 1: And brands, but we'll see. They still expressed interest in
- 6:39Speaker 1: remaining in Paragon under a new concept, but they've yet to,
- 6:43Speaker 1: they've yet to announce what exactly it is. OK, so
- 6:45Speaker 1: at least there's like a plan. So maybe it might
- 6:47Speaker 1: not be called Metro, but maybe the logo. Maybe they'll
- 6:52Speaker 1: change it to something else or freshen it up, which
- 6:54Speaker 1: could be a good time to pivot to. Yeah, I mean,
- 6:56Speaker 1: if you've been around for 6 decades.
- 6:59Speaker 1: There's one point that you might have to change. Change
- 7:02Speaker 1: how you play the game for a sustain for another
- 7:04Speaker 1: 6 decades. Yeah, exactly. So all the best guys. I mean, look,
- 7:07Speaker 1: we always have fond memories, so we're rooting for you. Um, so,
- 7:11Speaker 1: you know, we promised how we're gonna spread out our
- 7:13Speaker 1: NDP preview 2 tickets, right?
- 7:15Speaker 1: Yesterday we did it during this time. Today we're gonna
- 7:18Speaker 1: do it just past 9 a.m. So take note, if
- 7:21Speaker 1: you're tuning in and you were hoping to get it,
- 7:23Speaker 1: it's rotating around the different timings throughout the week. So
- 7:25Speaker 1: we have a pair for you to win to be
- 7:28Speaker 1: at preview to. That is August 1st and
- 7:32Speaker 1: Having done a couple of NDPs, Sonia and I, we
- 7:34Speaker 1: both know that preview too, right? It's pretty much there already.
- 7:38Speaker 1: You get the director's cut. You get to see everything.
- 7:42Speaker 1: Whether will everything make the actual day, we don't know. Yeah,
- 7:46Speaker 1: only time will tell, so you have to be there.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Give us a call then, 669-11987. We'll be taking your
- 7:52Speaker 1: dedications and your shoutouts this morning before you get to
- 7:54Speaker 1: school or to work, whichever it is that you want,
- 7:56Speaker 1: you can give us a call. If you want to
- 7:58Speaker 1: give your old school a shout out also can, or
- 8:00Speaker 1: your teachers or whatever, doesn't matter. Chongon Secondary. Yeah, where
- 8:04Speaker 1: are you guys at? No.
- 8:07Speaker 1: Hi, I'm Elijah. Hello, Elijah. Good morning. Which school are
- 8:11Speaker 1: you from? Canton Primary Primary. Elijah, are you in primary
- 8:15Speaker 1: 5 by any chance? Primary 60, Primary 6. So you
- 8:19Speaker 1: were there last year. You saw us at NDP. Yeah, yay.
- 8:22Speaker 1: So what song can we get you today and any
- 8:24Speaker 1: shout out to your school or, you know, want to rave.
- 8:27Speaker 1: About your school, go ahead. Yeah, shout it out to
- 8:30Speaker 1: my friends in my class. I'm in 6 resilience. What
- 8:33Speaker 1: makes you beautiful? We'll get that for you coming up
- 8:35Speaker 1: right now. OK, have a great day. Bye-bye, Elijah. OK,
- 8:39Speaker 1: you know me. I'm a huge wrestling fan. That's why
- 8:42Speaker 1: I'm quite surprised that I share the same birth date
- 8:46Speaker 1: as my favorite favorite wrest.
- 8:47Speaker 1: Wrestler of all time, Heartbreak hit Shawn Michaels. I was,
- 8:51Speaker 1: I was gonna ask you do you know? I was
- 8:53Speaker 1: like the Undertaker. I don't know. You don't like the Undertaker.
- 8:56Speaker 1: I'm surprised you know him. So, yeah, yeah, but there's
- 9:00Speaker 1: one other wrestler that I really respect for his career
- 9:04Speaker 1: growth and all the behind the scenes that he has done.
- 9:08Speaker 1: To really elevate WWE, and that is John Cena, who
- 9:13Speaker 1: retired earlier in the year from the ring, but he
- 9:16Speaker 1: still makes appearances here and there to boost the profile
- 9:18Speaker 1: of WWE given how he has mainstream fame now, almost
- 9:22Speaker 1: like Dwayne The Rock Johnson. Yeah, but can I ask,
- 9:25Speaker 1: which was, who was it that paved the way for
- 9:28Speaker 1: like wrestlers to become actors? Was it the Rock? Hulk Hogan? Oh,
- 9:31Speaker 1: Hulk Hogan, OK. He, he was really the epitome.
- 9:35Speaker 1: Of, of like do it all going for the best
- 9:38Speaker 1: of both worlds. Then Dwayne The Rock Johnson followed and
- 9:42Speaker 1: elevated it. If I'm not wrong, he became like the top,
- 9:45Speaker 1: the top paid actor at one point in a particular year, yeah.
- 9:49Speaker 1: And then Dave Batista. Oh yes, yes, whom I met actually, yeah,
- 9:53Speaker 1: and he lifted you. He lifted me with 11 arm,
- 9:56Speaker 1: and I'm pretty sure it's just his forearm. It wasn't
- 9:58Speaker 1: even much effort. And now we have John Cena. So
- 10:01Speaker 1: Netflix and WWE.
- 10:03Speaker 1: They have a partnership where all the premium live events
- 10:06Speaker 1: will get streamed on Netflix. I won't say for free
- 10:09Speaker 1: because you're paying for a Netflix account, right? But it's
- 10:11Speaker 1: a lot easier to watch wrestling premium live events now.
- 10:13Speaker 1: I've noticed that that and also they have this series
- 10:16Speaker 1: called Unreal where they unveil the curtain. They, they, they
- 10:21Speaker 1: breakcafa and they show you all the planning and all
- 10:23Speaker 1: the happenings that go behind the scenes for a wrestling
- 10:26Speaker 1: match or an event. So season one, season two is done.
- 10:31Speaker 1: Season 3, they focused on John Cena's final run with WWE.
- 10:36Speaker 1: So whether you're a wrestling fan or not, go watch
- 10:39Speaker 1: it to understand how the business works. So you mean
- 10:41Speaker 1: they actually show you how they plan the show? Yeah,
- 10:44Speaker 1: so interesting because I thought for the longest time they
- 10:47Speaker 1: were like, yeah, this is real wrestling. Exactly. So some
- 10:51Speaker 1: old school wrestlers and even some current wrestlers as well,
- 10:54Speaker 1: they are uncomfortable that so much is being shared about
- 10:57Speaker 1: their business. It's like you.
- 10:58Speaker 1: But then a magic show, then the next day Netflix
- 11:00Speaker 1: drops a special about how they did the magic trick,
- 11:02Speaker 1: you know, exactly. There you go. But I feel that
- 11:05Speaker 1: this show has introduced a whole brand new audience to wrestling,
- 11:11Speaker 1: and they're very smart because this is a new way
- 11:13Speaker 1: of making even more money. And people who have been
- 11:16Speaker 1: like maybe even skeptical or, you know, criticized like you
- 11:20Speaker 1: follow wrestling is so staged, blah, blah blah, they might
- 11:22Speaker 1: actually want to watch this. It's still real to me,
- 11:25Speaker 1: damn it. I know, I know.
- 11:29Speaker 1: I, yes, this is my partner friends. That's celebrating his
- 11:32Speaker 1: thirty-eighth birthday today.
- 11:35Speaker 1: 38, but I'm still sometimes 12. That's true. I mean,
- 11:38Speaker 1: look at muttons, right? That's true. We're really good friends
- 11:43Speaker 1: with them. Just joking, just joking. Good times right here
- 11:46Speaker 1: on 987, Singapore's number one hit music station. Sonia and
- 11:49Speaker 1: Joakim here with you.
- 11:50Speaker 1: Um, Lucas Graham always, you know, making me feel nostalgic
- 11:53Speaker 1: and taking walks down memory lane and all that with
- 11:56Speaker 1: his music, right? So if you are tuned in today,
- 11:59Speaker 1: be sure to send us a message 90050987. Please wish
- 12:03Speaker 1: Joakim a very happy birthday. Our boss already did. Hello Arena.
- 12:07Speaker 1: She already sent a message to the group chat earlier
- 12:09Speaker 1: this morning, do it, do it only if you want to.
- 12:11Speaker 1: It's of course, I think people just may not realize
- 12:14Speaker 1: because they wake up, it's just a normal day for everyone,
- 12:17Speaker 1: so I'm just reminding them.
- 12:20Speaker 1: Anyway, early on, like I said, this has happened way
- 12:23Speaker 1: too many times and it's, it's kind of worrying in
- 12:26Speaker 1: a way that you never know if it might be you.
- 12:29Speaker 1: It's almost like a blind box situation. public transport. Yeah,
- 12:32Speaker 1: so over at Woodlands MRT station, some uncle's phone was
- 12:35Speaker 1: blaring loud music. No, but your clothes has got to
- 12:39Speaker 1: do with the device. A power bank caught fire again.
- 12:43Speaker 1: Like this seems to be happening pretty often, not just
- 12:44Speaker 1: in Singapore. Can I ask which? Yeah, so they're going
- 12:49Speaker 1: to reveal, not going to reveal what brand it was. Anyway, um,
- 12:53Speaker 1: it caught fire and the staff actually had to go
- 12:56Speaker 1: put it out. So I'm just scrolling through some of
- 12:58Speaker 1: the images, although they're quite blurry because I think people
- 13:01Speaker 1: took like, you know, videos and photos from afar, right?
- 13:05Speaker 1: But it was seen like smoking. It was literally emitting smoke, right?
- 13:09Speaker 1: Um, and, and this was in a, in a commuter's bag,
- 13:13Speaker 1: if I'm not wrong. So, another commuter actually alerted the staff.
- 13:16Speaker 1: So they said, you know what, don't worry, um, the
- 13:19Speaker 1: station has exhaust ventilation system that was activated to clear
- 13:22Speaker 1: the smoke and everyone else is safe, so don't worry.
- 13:25Speaker 1: The staff knew exactly what to do, but they did say,
- 13:28Speaker 1: we like to remind commuters to use only power banks
- 13:31Speaker 1: that have built-in safety features. OK, not to shade.
- 13:35Speaker 1: At the stores that we have here in Singapore, but
- 13:39Speaker 1: if you go to places like Funan or even Sim
- 13:42Speaker 1: Lim and if you're buying a power bank from an
- 13:44Speaker 1: unknown brand, I don't trust. Like there are only two
- 13:47Speaker 1: brands I look out for, and I don't mind paying
- 13:49Speaker 1: a bit more for the extra assurance, Belkin or Xiaomi. Belkin, yeah, yeah, exactly.
- 13:53Speaker 1: I have a Belkin one. These two power banks are
- 13:56Speaker 1: tried and tested, and you know they are more or
- 13:58Speaker 1: less safe as compared to your Pasar malam brands or whatsoever,
- 14:01Speaker 1: and you buy it.
- 14:02Speaker 1: And then things like that happen. Yeah, so I, I
- 14:05Speaker 1: think Casify also came, you know, Castify, the very popular phone.
- 14:09Speaker 1: they've entered the market. Yeah, they've got, they've got, um,
- 14:12Speaker 1: Maxave ones. OK. So it may not be as high
- 14:16Speaker 1: performance as your Belkins and the, you know, those brands
- 14:18Speaker 1: that you usually get where you can charge like multiple times,
- 14:21Speaker 1: you know, um, but it's good like on the go.
- 14:23Speaker 1: I've only had good experiences with it. And again, another reminder,
- 14:26Speaker 1: if you're charging your power banks or even your.
- 14:29Speaker 1: MDs and all that, try your best to not charge
- 14:32Speaker 1: it overnight. If you're charging it, be next to it
- 14:35Speaker 1: so you're alert in case anything were to happen. Touch wood. Yeah, yeah,
- 14:39Speaker 1: for sure. So just be safe. When we come back
- 14:41Speaker 1: here on the shock circuit though, everyone sit down. Your
- 14:44Speaker 1: podcast is on. Why? Why, why, why? OK, let me,
- 14:46Speaker 1: let's discuss this, Sonia. As a woman here in Singapore,
- 14:51Speaker 1: are you not outraged at the comments involving the influencer?
- 14:56Speaker 1: Whose, uh, I mean, whose photo got taken without her permission, right? Yeah, OK, yeah,
- 15:02Speaker 1: inappropriate photo. And look, I'm not gonna defend or attack anyone.
- 15:07Speaker 1: I want to give my personal two cents on this. OK.
- 15:10Speaker 1: So I'm glad you are here. OK, let's let's break
- 15:13Speaker 1: it down in a bit first because I think for
- 15:14Speaker 1: some people who may not know what's going on or
- 15:16Speaker 1: what the context is, another week, another situation online.
- 15:21Speaker 1: Involving an influencer, but, but, but, but this one will
- 15:24Speaker 1: break down the whole story for you. Another situation has
- 15:27Speaker 1: broken out on social media. Everyone sit down. Yeah, your
- 15:30Speaker 1: podcast is on. Let's go. My favorite show. OK, so
- 15:34Speaker 1: I'm gonna break it down for you, and Sonia, you
- 15:36Speaker 1: answer me as two different versions of yourself, a media personality, OK,
- 15:42Speaker 1: and a woman here in Singapore. OK, gotcha. OK, you ready? Gotcha. So, uh,
- 15:46Speaker 1: a social.
- 15:46Speaker 1: Media influencer from Singapore. I think her name is Casey.
- 15:50Speaker 1: I think it's being blasted all over social media now
- 15:53Speaker 1: so we can even on some of the news channels. Yeah,
- 15:55Speaker 1: she shared about how while she was playing pickleball, she
- 15:59Speaker 1: realized there was an uncle taking photos of her secretly.
- 16:03Speaker 1: Was it identified that it was her uncle? Yeah, the
- 16:06Speaker 1: older guy, the video. Oh, OK, OK. So she goes
- 16:09Speaker 1: to confront the uncle and makes him.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Delete the pictures of his album and the deleted folders
- 16:15Speaker 1: as well. I believed that acting a bit sass and
- 16:19Speaker 1: he looked like he was zooming in on something. So
- 16:22Speaker 1: she shared the video of her confrontation online in a
- 16:27Speaker 1: way of hoping to inspire other women here in Singapore
- 16:31Speaker 1: going through the same thing, yeah, you know, you know,
- 16:33Speaker 1: hopefully you find courage through whatever I've done and you confront.
- 16:37Speaker 1: Any perpetrators who might be taking photos of you, but
- 16:40Speaker 1: the comment section is not on Instagram, on Facebook, there's
- 16:45Speaker 1: a Reddit forum now and all that. Some are saying, yeah,
- 16:48Speaker 1: she wants her 15 minutes of fame. She, she wants
- 16:51Speaker 1: her following to grow, but
- 16:54Speaker 1: OK, OK, you share your thoughts. I'll I'll share mine
- 16:57Speaker 1: in a bit. Yeah. My thoughts, I, I want to
- 17:01Speaker 1: hold my thoughts first. OK. How does this make you feel?
- 17:05Speaker 1: So I, I actually saw some of the pretty atrocious
- 17:09Speaker 1: comments that were going out criticizing her body, criticizing the
- 17:13Speaker 1: kind of content that she puts out and all that.
- 17:16Speaker 1: I, I actually want to say that in no circumstance
- 17:20Speaker 1: is it OK for a stranger to take any sort
- 17:23Speaker 1: of photos of another stranger, especially since it was pretty inappropriate.
- 17:27Speaker 1: It doesn't even matter whether she's a matter whether she's
- 17:31Speaker 1: an influencer or celebrity or a regular person. I don't
- 17:34Speaker 1: think it should happen regardless. And it's just so sad
- 17:38Speaker 1: to see, I mean, the kind of people that are
- 17:39Speaker 1: making
- 17:40Speaker 1: Um, terrible comments on these platforms and forums, right? They
- 17:45Speaker 1: are your keyboard warriors, typical keyboard warriors. Again, I hope
- 17:48Speaker 1: they don't represent the majority of us here in Singapore,
- 17:52Speaker 1: because if we were to use the Facebook comments section
- 17:54Speaker 1: or Reddit as a way to
- 17:56Speaker 1: of society, I think we're screwed. You know what, to
- 17:59Speaker 1: be honest, um, when news about my wedding went out,
- 18:02Speaker 1: you know, I can't control it, right? Like people write
- 18:04Speaker 1: whatever they want to write, right? I saw a couple
- 18:07Speaker 1: of comments on Facebook and I just shut it down.
- 18:09Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, I'm not gonna look.
- 18:10Speaker 1: It was a happy occasion.
- 18:12Speaker 1: No matter how they twisted it to like make clickbaity
- 18:15Speaker 1: sort of headlines just to make people triggered or like
- 18:18Speaker 1: just just to rile some comments up, it's beyond my control.
- 18:21Speaker 1: I'm just gonna not look at it. OK, I'm gonna
- 18:22Speaker 1: give you my two cents now, see if you agree
- 18:25Speaker 1: with me, OK? And I'm gonna quote some examples, people
- 18:27Speaker 1: that we know. I mean, you look at someone like
- 18:31Speaker 1: Jade Rassif, OK, OK, for example, who she knows she
- 18:36Speaker 1: has what it takes to show off whatever she's worked
- 18:38Speaker 1: hard for in terms of her physical appearance, OK.
- 18:41Speaker 1: And she's very open about it. She shares about it
- 18:44Speaker 1: on social media. Does that give a random person the
- 18:48Speaker 1: right to photograph her randomly or you know in a
- 18:51Speaker 1: very creepy way on his or her phone? No, absolutely not,
- 18:55Speaker 1: because I think you want to be in control of
- 18:58Speaker 1: your narrative. You want to be in control of what
- 19:01Speaker 1: you share on social media. Yeah, never mind if you're
- 19:03Speaker 1: sharing bikinis.
- 19:05Speaker 1: and all that, but if someone else were to take
- 19:07Speaker 1: a photo of you that's right. Yeah, so I think
- 19:10Speaker 1: this could also be the case for an everyday person
- 19:13Speaker 1: here in Singapore. Never mind if you're not a social
- 19:15Speaker 1: media person. You could be sharing a picture of yourself
- 19:17Speaker 1: doing yoga or whatsoever. You are comfortable with that because
- 19:20Speaker 1: you are sharing your own narrative. But if someone takes
- 19:23Speaker 1: a photo of you without your knowledge and it's a,
- 19:26Speaker 1: you know, creepy photo.
- 19:28Speaker 1: And all that, it will make you uncomfortable, 100%. And
- 19:31Speaker 1: you know what, have you ever tried to cross Jade Rasi?
- 19:34Speaker 1: She will catch you in 2 seconds. Yeah, by the way,
- 19:36Speaker 1: she will call you out and she will put your
- 19:38Speaker 1: face on her social media. I love her. I love her.
- 19:41Speaker 1: We are using you as an example because we know
- 19:43Speaker 1: you are confident enough to handle this. Yeah, yeah, I
- 19:45Speaker 1: love her. And, and, OK, we, we really need to
- 19:48Speaker 1: stop the comment. What was she wearing? Yeah, yeah.
- 19:51Speaker 1: Dude, she was playing pickleball. She was wearing shorts. What
- 19:54Speaker 1: were you wear? What were you wearing pants and long blazers. No, right?
- 19:58Speaker 1: But even, even so, yeah, a woman wearing a long
- 20:01Speaker 1: pants or a blazer will somehow still get weird things
- 20:05Speaker 1: said about her. You see, here's the unfortunate truth about,
- 20:10Speaker 1: you know, the, the keyboard warriors and social media platforms, OK.
- 20:14Speaker 1: Nothing we do is ever right. It doesn't matter whether
- 20:17Speaker 1: you're a celebrity, or influencer or a normal person. Look
- 20:19Speaker 1: at how viral that story went about the lady who
- 20:22Speaker 1: was in a, in a private hire car, and then
- 20:24Speaker 1: she said that the driver propositioned her with something inappropriate.
- 20:28Speaker 1: Do you remember that one? It was just like last week.
- 20:31Speaker 1: The comments are not in also, man. People are like,
- 20:33Speaker 1: like that also can, ah, the, the, the driver blind,
- 20:36Speaker 1: you know, that kind of stuff. I'm like, guys, you're
- 20:37Speaker 1: missing the point. The point is, it's not OK for
- 20:41Speaker 1: you to make a total stranger or just anyone here
- 20:45Speaker 1: in Singapore around the world uncomfortable. On the other side
- 20:48Speaker 1: of the coin, I know the online universe here in
- 20:51Speaker 1: Singapore feels a certain way towards influencers. Yes, some influencers
- 20:56Speaker 1: don't give the industry a good name. We know and
- 20:58Speaker 1: we acknowledge it. We know some names as well.
- 21:00Speaker 1: We won't say live on air, but be discerning. Yeah,
- 21:03Speaker 1: there are some situations that call for those kind of
- 21:05Speaker 1: comments and some that don't, and this isn't it. Yeah,
- 21:08Speaker 1: there we go. But was there a conclusion about whether,
- 21:11Speaker 1: I mean, I know they made the guy delete all
- 21:13Speaker 1: the photos. Yeah, yeah, I mean they didn't take any
- 21:15Speaker 1: other action to read Casey's post, I think at the
- 21:19Speaker 1: last part, she says, I should have called the police
- 21:21Speaker 1: but they didn't she didn't call. Just made him delete
- 21:24Speaker 1: the pictures. That's about it. Well, he's not identified, I'm
- 21:28Speaker 1: assuming at this point, but
- 21:30Speaker 1: Well, to, to be very honest, this is worthy of
- 21:35Speaker 1: a report. I feel it is worthy of a report.
- 21:37Speaker 1: So the next thing I want to tackle this. If,
- 21:40Speaker 1: for example, this happens to you, it could be a
- 21:42Speaker 1: man as well, you know, if I call the police,
- 21:46Speaker 1: can the police actually help? Is it a civil case
- 21:48Speaker 1: or is this not an offense because, OK, here's the thing,
- 21:52Speaker 1: he was taking photos, he zoomed in photos of her posterior, right,
- 21:56Speaker 1: and her, her shorts and like in a, in a
- 21:58Speaker 1: very creepy way.
- 22:00Speaker 1: What makes you think he's not doing this with other
- 22:02Speaker 1: strangers and other girls out there? You know, he could
- 22:04Speaker 1: have taken way worse photos. This is an open call
- 22:08Speaker 1: to our friends from SPF. How does this work? If
- 22:11Speaker 1: anyone from the PR or marketing team is listening, I
- 22:14Speaker 1: would like to invite someone to our show to explain
- 22:17Speaker 1: what we can and cannot do when faced with a
- 22:20Speaker 1: situation like this. Yeah, yeah, that would be good to know, right? Anyway,
- 22:24Speaker 1: their social media, admin very active, so maybe they might
- 22:26Speaker 1: be tuning in. Come on guys.
- 22:28Speaker 1: And after the World Cup final, you want to stop
- 22:30Speaker 1: playing this song, is it? No, no, no, no, no, OK. Respectfully, Shakira.
- 22:34Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know. So I was going
- 22:37Speaker 1: to address that actually. Um, funny enough, you mentioned it
- 22:39Speaker 1: because her performance, her live performance went absolutely viral because
- 22:45Speaker 1: she looks so good.
- 22:45Speaker 1: Good as well, right? Can I just share that Shakira
- 22:49Speaker 1: is 49 years old. Insane. So it was interesting because
- 22:53Speaker 1: I saw a couple of videos, especially this one particular
- 22:56Speaker 1: one that went viral. I think it was a, it's
- 22:58Speaker 1: a doctor from the US, an Asian-American doctor that does aesthetics, OK.
- 23:03Speaker 1: And she actually said, OK, here's the reason why Shakira
- 23:07Speaker 1: still looks so good and looks like herself, which means
- 23:11Speaker 1: her doctor has been doing the right things, OK? So
- 23:13Speaker 1: she's been doing like more maintenance, more than, you know,
- 23:17Speaker 1: putting fillers, Botox, like plastic surgery and all that, because
- 23:20Speaker 1: those things, you're going to start seeing them like as.
- 23:23Speaker 1: As you get older, right? And I think Hollywood has
- 23:26Speaker 1: an issue right now because a lot of their iconic
- 23:28Speaker 1: superstars are aging, and they started to get um procedures done, right?
- 23:34Speaker 1: But as a result, they're saying that there's a lack
- 23:37Speaker 1: of expression and emotion on a lot of screens now
- 23:40Speaker 1: in a lot of movies, which is true. If you
- 23:41Speaker 1: go and look at it, it's, it's, it's, it's true.
- 23:44Speaker 1: And in the latest, um, that horror, horror movie called Obsession,
- 23:48Speaker 1: I think there's a rating to it, so not encouraging
- 23:50Speaker 1: you to watch it, but, um, they did say that,
- 23:53Speaker 1: you know, because the main actress, she did not have
- 23:56Speaker 1: any work done. Her expressions were what reeled you in. So, um,
- 24:01Speaker 1: basically what the doctor is saying is that Shakira has
- 24:03Speaker 1: done it right. She looks the same.
- 24:06Speaker 1: Since she was what, in her 30s all the way
- 24:08Speaker 1: till she's pushing 50 right now, and, and she still
- 24:12Speaker 1: looks gorgeous and beautiful and embracing a little bit of
- 24:15Speaker 1: wrinkles and age, but she still looks perfect. And shout
- 24:18Speaker 1: out to Shakira for featuring the ghetto kids during the
- 24:20Speaker 1: halftime show. The the dancing was amazing, but Shakira, it's expected.
- 24:26Speaker 1: Well done to her. I know, I know. So what
- 24:27Speaker 1: was
- 24:28Speaker 1: be up to next? I mean, who was that, that
- 24:31Speaker 1: footballer that was married to her and then he choked?
- 24:34Speaker 1: Gerard PK PK, dude, fumbled, man. jinx. You know, um,
- 24:40Speaker 1: this is Joakim's birthday today, and he, he's just stretching
- 24:44Speaker 1: right now, cracking, cracking his back, cracking your neck.
- 24:50Speaker 1: I, I mean, look, uh, coming to work or working
- 24:54Speaker 1: during our birthdays is not that uncommon in our industry.
- 24:58Speaker 1: It does happen. And to be honest with you, I'm
- 25:00Speaker 1: at that phase of life now where for me birthdays
- 25:03Speaker 1: have now become just another day.
- 25:05Speaker 1: I always say that, but then when I wake up
- 25:07Speaker 1: in the morning and I see a slew of texts
- 25:09Speaker 1: coming in from people that I love, sending me wishes,
- 25:11Speaker 1: I'm like, Oh, OK lah, it's nice to be loved
- 25:14Speaker 1: on a day like this. But yeah, in terms of
- 25:17Speaker 1: work and how I see it, it's another day. I'd
- 25:19Speaker 1: rather celebrate a milestone. So for example, if I were
- 25:22Speaker 1: to buy a house in the future, I'll definitely take
- 25:26Speaker 1: a wife, a wife.
- 25:30Speaker 1: I mean, OK, when Jeremy and I got engaged, we
- 25:32Speaker 1: went out. Yeah, you took us out. Yeah, exactly, um,
- 25:36Speaker 1: last year, well, I'm gonna have birthday dinner with you
- 25:39Speaker 1: when I come back from my work trip. So that's happening, um,
- 25:42Speaker 1: although I was quite surprised you said let's do it
- 25:44Speaker 1: after you're back because I'm guessing leading up to it,
- 25:47Speaker 1: you know, you have your dinner with your mom.
- 25:49Speaker 1: Family, and it will be a little bit busy and
- 25:52Speaker 1: I realized I have work today as well after our show. OK, OK, OK.
- 25:55Speaker 1: So there's no point taking leave. Yeah, yeah, if, if
- 25:58Speaker 1: I take leave and I'm still in Singapore, right, rest
- 26:01Speaker 1: assured I'm taking leave to sleep in. Yeah, there you go.
- 26:04Speaker 1: And because I guess your birthday falls on a Wednesday,
- 26:07Speaker 1: it's kind of a random.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Yeah, in the middle of the week, neither here nor there,
- 26:12Speaker 1: you're right. Um, but both of us have had experience
- 26:14Speaker 1: working through our birthdays before, like 100%, especially in our industry, right? Um,
- 26:20Speaker 1: the world is not going to stop, or production is
- 26:22Speaker 1: not going to stop just because it's your birthday. Exactly. Yeah,
- 26:26Speaker 1: it still spins. So we want to open up the
- 26:28Speaker 1: phone lines right now, 669-11987. Do you also find yourself
- 26:32Speaker 1: working through your birthday, or are you very particular like, OK.
- 26:36Speaker 1: It's my day. I'm definitely gonna make time. I'm gonna
- 26:39Speaker 1: take off in advance and I'm gonna do it. I
- 26:41Speaker 1: think most companies do have a birthday leave now, I think. Yeah,
- 26:46Speaker 1: if your birthday is on a Friday for you. Fantastic.
- 26:51Speaker 1: 669-11987 to call us or WhatsApp us at 90050987. If
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- 27:15Speaker 1: a lot of attention to their traits cuisine. So you
- 27:18Speaker 1: can imagine like your nonya laksa, things like that that
- 27:21Speaker 1: are available. So I'm very excited for you to try it.
- 27:23Speaker 1: Give us a call 669-11987. Do you find yourself also
- 27:27Speaker 1: working through your birthdays, or does it mean enough for
- 27:30Speaker 1: you to like, OK, I want to take leave. This
- 27:31Speaker 1: is my day. I'm going to chill.
- 27:33Speaker 1: Relax and spend it with my loved ones. Let us
- 27:35Speaker 1: know right now. People in the media industry will understand
- 27:37Speaker 1: how this feels, like I mentioned, right? And I'm sure
- 27:40Speaker 1: there are some other industries that also are very similar. Like,
- 27:43Speaker 1: it doesn't matter whether it's your birthday, your wedding anniversary,
- 27:45Speaker 1: or what, you will still work, OK? So the question is,
- 27:48Speaker 1: do you feel that way, like you're OK with working
- 27:51Speaker 1: on your birthday, or are you the kind that, OK,
- 27:53Speaker 1: on my birthday, I definitely have to take off. I,
- 27:55Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do anything. I just want to do
- 27:58Speaker 1: the things that I like. I'm not gonna work. I'm
- 27:59Speaker 1: totally fine with working on my birthday, you know.
- 28:01Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but, but if my birthday is on a
- 28:05Speaker 1: Friday or a Monday, you are definitely taking the day
- 28:09Speaker 1: just to sleep. It's true, you know what I mean,
- 28:11Speaker 1: because Wednesday, like we mentioned earlier, is a very random
- 28:13Speaker 1: in the middle of nowhere kind of, it's like having
- 28:15Speaker 1: a public holiday in the middle of the week. Yeah,
- 28:17Speaker 1: which is terrible. Yeah, OK, let's go to our messages
- 28:19Speaker 1: first to find out what you're saying. So I want
- 28:21Speaker 1: to say good morning to Vanessa on WhatsApp. I will
- 28:24Speaker 1: not work on my birthday because if I get scolded
- 28:26Speaker 1: at work, I will get scolded the whole year.
- 28:30Speaker 1: My birthday date for me should be a peaceful and
- 28:34Speaker 1: happy day. I agree. I agree. Yeah. One more also
- 28:38Speaker 1: coming in from Jay, who remembers the nickname you gave me, Sonia. Krojo.
- 28:44Speaker 1: Happy birthday, Krojo.
- 28:46Speaker 1: I mean, I've given him many nicknames, so it's, it's
- 28:49Speaker 1: which one sticks the most? stop it, man. Hey, Sojo,
- 28:52Speaker 1: been working for 16 years now. I would never work
- 28:55Speaker 1: on my birthday. I will always take leave and fly
- 28:57Speaker 1: to Bangkok for a solo trip. Unfortunately this year was different.
- 29:01Speaker 1: As I had a job change and it was a
- 29:03Speaker 1: horrid birthday I had at work. Oh no, did you have,
- 29:07Speaker 1: are you still in that same job? I'm curious. And
- 29:09Speaker 1: one more from David. Happy birthday. Thank you so much, David.
- 29:12Speaker 1: Just like both of you, I work on my birthday.
- 29:14Speaker 1: I have learned that birthdays come once a year, but deadlines.
- 29:17Speaker 1: Show up every single day. Responsibilities never take a break.
- 29:21Speaker 1: I could take leave, but tomorrow's workload will just throw
- 29:24Speaker 1: me a happy belated birthday present. So I celebrate the
- 29:27Speaker 1: adult way by showing up to work, convince myself every
- 29:29Speaker 1: meeting is actually a surprise birthday party, and I hope
- 29:32Speaker 1: someone remembered the cake.
- 29:34Speaker 1: So I hope, I hope it happened for him over
- 29:36Speaker 1: the past few years. That's for sure. OK, when we
- 29:39Speaker 1: come back, we've got some callers hanging on the line.
- 29:41Speaker 1: We still have time for you to send your messages
- 29:43Speaker 1: in and give us a call 669-11987. Would you work
- 29:47Speaker 1: on your birthday or is it a strict no for you?
- 29:49Speaker 1: Talking about whether you would work through your birthday or
- 29:53Speaker 1: it is a must for you to take off and just,
- 29:56Speaker 1: you know, tend to your mental health and uh spend
- 29:59Speaker 1: time with your loved ones. Mental health on your birthday. Yeah,
- 30:01Speaker 1: I mean, you know.
- 30:02Speaker 1: Give yourself a mental health break from work and stuff
- 30:06Speaker 1: on your birthday. Say hello to Amir. Morning, Sonia and Joki.
- 30:09Speaker 1: I generally work on my birthday because I want people
- 30:12Speaker 1: in the office to wish me. On a more serious note,
- 30:16Speaker 1: I generally enjoy doing what I do and I wouldn't
- 30:18Speaker 1: mind spending my time with some of the people who
- 30:20Speaker 1: keep me going at work and I think my friends
- 30:22Speaker 1: would know that I wouldn't have it any other way too.
- 30:25Speaker 1: Love that. It's really sweet. I understand how Amir feels. Yeah,
- 30:28Speaker 1: just that when you come to the office, it's only me. Great.
- 30:32Speaker 1: Please keep it that way. Nobody else. I don't need
- 30:35Speaker 1: anybody else. This early in the morning, there ain't nobody here. Yeah,
- 30:38Speaker 1: keep it that way, please. If it's anybody take leave.
- 30:41Speaker 1: Take one week leave.
- 30:43Speaker 1: Hate to break it to you, but, uh, our bosses
- 30:45Speaker 1: are definitely tuning in. It's OK. Uh, one more coming
- 30:48Speaker 1: in from Cindy. Happy birthday, Joakim. Interestingly and fortunately, I
- 30:53Speaker 1: never had to work on my birthday because I was
- 30:54Speaker 1: born on National Day. Oh wow, love that. So it
- 30:59Speaker 1: is always a public holiday for me, which many of
- 31:01Speaker 1: my friends envy. So this year she gets Sunday and
- 31:04Speaker 1: Monday off. Hilarious. Cindy, well done. Cindy, thank you so
- 31:08Speaker 1: much for your service. You see, we have public holiday
- 31:10Speaker 1: because of you.
- 31:12Speaker 1: By the way, she's 10 years younger than Singapore. I see. Well,
- 31:16Speaker 1: you know what, um, the same could be said about
- 31:19Speaker 1: people who are born on the 1st of January, for example.
- 31:22Speaker 1: New Year's Day, New Year's Day, always a holiday, but
- 31:25Speaker 1: I don't know whether sometimes people don't want it to coincide.
- 31:28Speaker 1: There's so much celebration. It's honestly, for my birthday on
- 31:30Speaker 1: the 28th, there's already
- 31:31Speaker 1: It coincides with so much festivities during that month. Can
- 31:34Speaker 1: I ask, do you know anyone who born on February, Feb,
- 31:40Speaker 1: the leap day. No, I don't, I don't know. Do you? No,
- 31:44Speaker 1: I don't, their age would be a very interesting, they
- 31:47Speaker 1: have a very interesting age right now. It's interesting. Yeah,
- 31:50Speaker 1: it's always count. Gary is on the line. Gary, what
- 31:53Speaker 1: about
- 31:53Speaker 2: you? Definitely, I had a mentor who told me that
- 32:00Speaker 2: Uh, if you are successful, every day is your birthday.
- 32:03Speaker 1: Hey, hey, that's a good one. You're right. Every day
- 32:06Speaker 1: is a celebration. Yeah. What do you do for a living, Gary?
- 32:09Speaker 2: Self-employed, lah. Yeah, so I do like my own business,
- 32:12Speaker 2: e-commerce business, that kind of. So every day is like firefighting,
- 32:16Speaker 1: lah, honestly. It's like hustling every single day.
- 32:18Speaker 2: Yes, every day, right? Checking email, looking through, getting sales
- 32:22Speaker 2: and marketing, that kind of thing, right? So I understand, uh.
- 32:25Speaker 2: that if it takes off, definitely try to rest and recover,
- 32:30Speaker 1: yeah, sure. Well, OK, then in that case, let's just
- 32:33Speaker 1: say it is your birthday as well. Then what would
- 32:35Speaker 1: you do? Like, would you still do a mini celebration,
- 32:38Speaker 1: like just a dinner or like with your special ones? Um,
- 32:42Speaker 2: honestly, I don't. I always tell my family and my wife, right, um,
- 32:46Speaker 2: like thank you guys for the wishes, and I'm also
- 32:49Speaker 2: happy like joking that receiving that.
- 32:51Speaker 2: Those are messages. Happy birthday messages clearly then, um, but, um,
- 32:55Speaker 2: I will not want them to like really surprise me.
- 32:58Speaker 2: But although some of them sometimes they still surprise me,
- 33:00Speaker 2: but maybe my love language is that I really appreciate
- 33:03Speaker 2: that as long as they wish me happy birthday, a
- 33:06Speaker 2: word of affirmation, I'm OK already.
- 33:09Speaker 1: A simple man, I love it. 26 sparkle right here
- 33:11Speaker 1: on 987.
- 33:13Speaker 1: And fingers crossed, we might just have them in our
- 33:15Speaker 1: studio very soon. Just giving you a spoiler of what
- 33:18Speaker 1: happened the previous two weeks, right? So you know the
- 33:22Speaker 1: chorus goes, come on, Sparkle, sparkle when the P5 kids
- 33:26Speaker 1: scream sparkle back to you or goosebumps's great. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 33:31Speaker 1: Well done, Gareth and Drew. You know, if there's one
- 33:33Speaker 1: thing we know Gareth and Drew, they got, they got
- 33:36Speaker 1: voices on them, right? They can't sing.
- 33:38Speaker 1: For sure. So I'm hoping it happens here in the studio.
- 33:40Speaker 1: But anyway, we're back to our topic of the day
- 33:42Speaker 1: since it's Joakim's birthday and he's working through it. Um
- 33:45Speaker 1: I know I keep saying that you make it sound
- 33:47Speaker 1: like I'm giving the ultimate sacrifice. No, I mean, OK,
- 33:50Speaker 1: to you and I, it is pretty normal because of
- 33:53Speaker 1: our industry and the work that we do and in
- 33:55Speaker 1: certain industries as well. I know people work through their
- 33:57Speaker 1: birthdays for sure, but for some of my friends, there
- 34:00Speaker 1: ain't no way they're going to work on their birthday.
- 34:02Speaker 1: They will.
- 34:03Speaker 1: Reject their leave like a month in advance. It also
- 34:05Speaker 1: shows how much I love doing what I do and
- 34:08Speaker 1: who I'm doing it. Think about it. Nice twist there.
- 34:12Speaker 1: We come to play, but play seriously in work when
- 34:15Speaker 1: work doesn't feel like work. Yes, there you go. OK.
- 34:18Speaker 1: I want to say good morning to Maddy. Morning, Joe.
- 34:21Speaker 1: Happy birthday. Thank you so much, Maddy. I always try
- 34:24Speaker 1: to take leave on my birthday because I want to
- 34:26Speaker 1: just have some time with my husband, especially.
- 34:28Speaker 1: Now with our kids, we also take the time to
- 34:30Speaker 1: say thank you to my mom for giving birth to
- 34:32Speaker 1: me on this day. Without her going through all that
- 34:35Speaker 1: pain that day, I won't be here. Oh, I love that,
- 34:38Speaker 1: so sweet. Yeah, I remember my birth giver too. My
- 34:40Speaker 1: mom wanted to say good morning to Christy, who says,
- 34:43Speaker 1: Morning soldier. I'm already in my late 50s. When younger,
- 34:47Speaker 1: I always take leave for my birthday. I would treat
- 34:49Speaker 1: myself to a nice meal, facial or spa to pamper myself.
- 34:53Speaker 1: After I became a mom, I started to appreciate my
- 34:57Speaker 1: mom more and will make sure I treat her and
- 35:00Speaker 1: give her flowers on that day. My birthday is her
- 35:02Speaker 1: Labor Day. Now my mom is no longer with me,
- 35:05Speaker 1: so our work is just another day. Oh, thank you
- 35:07Speaker 1: so much. And one coming in from a person who
- 35:12Speaker 1: wants to stay anonymous. Lucky you saw that. Yeah. Tomorrow
- 35:16Speaker 1: is my birthday and I'm turning 37. Yeah.
- 35:19Speaker 1: Happy birthday in advance. And yes, I'll be taking leave.
- 35:22Speaker 1: I usually plan a one week holiday trip. However, due
- 35:25Speaker 1: to a very tight deadline, I'm only allowed to take
- 35:28Speaker 1: the day off and I'll be spending my day to
- 35:30Speaker 1: do housework and spend time with my little son. Please
- 35:33Speaker 1: don't say my name because my colleagues are in the
- 35:35Speaker 1: office and we blast 987 during our working hours. They
- 35:38Speaker 1: will know it's me. They will still know it's you.
- 35:41Speaker 1: I feel, I feel. Anyway, thank you for your messages.
- 35:44Speaker 1: When we come back, we've got Ashraf hanging on the
- 35:46Speaker 1: line and more of your messages too. I'm sure half
- 35:49Speaker 1: of them are wishing you happy birthday and the other
- 35:51Speaker 1: are answering the question, would you work through your birthday? Yeah,
- 35:55Speaker 1: or are you the sort that you must take leave
- 35:57Speaker 1: because you just don't want, you just don't want to
- 35:59Speaker 1: deal with work on your actual day? We've got some
- 36:01Speaker 1: very sweet messages coming in, not directed towards me, but
- 36:04Speaker 1: the stories that you share here on 987. Again, thank
- 36:07Speaker 1: you very much every morning.
- 36:09Speaker 1: You text in. We really appreciate you just being open
- 36:12Speaker 1: and vulnerable with us here on the show. Wanna say
- 36:15Speaker 1: hi to Jacqueline.
- 36:16Speaker 1: Hey Sojo, as I have a special needs son, every
- 36:20Speaker 1: year on his birthday, which is tomorrow, 23rd of July, hey,
- 36:23Speaker 1: my boss will be the one to remind me to
- 36:26Speaker 1: take leave instead of me applying it myself. My boss
- 36:29Speaker 1: knows I may be busy with sales for my clients,
- 36:32Speaker 1: and he's scared that I'll forget to take leave. So
- 36:35Speaker 1: he will actually remind me almost every day, every year.
- 36:38Speaker 1: But for myself, I seldom take leave as I have
- 36:40Speaker 1: a very busy sales job daily. I remember I last
- 36:44Speaker 1: took leave in January.
- 36:45Speaker 1: This year. After that, it will only be MC. Tomorrow
- 36:48Speaker 1: I'll be on leave as my mom, as my boss
- 36:51Speaker 1: told me to go take it and go celebrate with
- 36:53Speaker 1: my son. I'm so blessed with this company I'm working with.
- 36:57Speaker 1: That's a great manager right there. Very sweet. Yeah, OK.
- 37:01Speaker 1: Any other messages? One more coming in from, I don't
- 37:03Speaker 1: have a username, but your picture is a very nice
- 37:05Speaker 1: baby freeze. Hey guys, every year during my birthday, I'll
- 37:08Speaker 1: always go to work because that's the only time when
- 37:10Speaker 1: people actually wish me happy birthday. OK.
- 37:15Speaker 1: And one more coming in from Gabriel. Hi, Joakim. Happy birthday, bro.
- 37:19Speaker 1: May all your wishes come true, and I hope your
- 37:22Speaker 1: beloved Manchester United will do better this coming season. But
- 37:25Speaker 1: they've been doing well. They can be better, better. OK.
- 37:29Speaker 1: Yours truly, you'll never walk alone, Liverpool fan.
- 37:34Speaker 1: So you don't know whether that is a genuine. Just kidding.
- 37:39Speaker 1: Asraf is on the line right now. What about you?
- 37:41Speaker 1: I got married Ida's celebrate my birthday. So I would
- 37:49Speaker 1: definitely take my birthday nowadays, yeah.
- 37:51Speaker 1: What is a typical birthday like for you guys? What
- 37:54Speaker 1: would you do? Oh, my wife would be the one
- 37:56Speaker 1: and 2 and she will book me. Happy birthday. Hey, thanks.
- 38:02Speaker 1: If your birthday happens on a random Tuesday, Wednesday or Thursday,
- 38:06Speaker 1: what happens then? I will take leave. I will take.
- 38:10Speaker 1: He said, he said proudly. I will take MC. OK,
- 38:13Speaker 1: last few messages before we wrap it up here. Thank
- 38:16Speaker 1: you for an overwhelming response here today.
- 38:18Speaker 1: Um, the question being, would you work on your birthday
- 38:22Speaker 1: or would you make sure, yes, I'm definitely taking leave.
- 38:24Speaker 1: There is no way I'm going to the office. Wanna
- 38:27Speaker 1: say hello toy planning.
- 38:31Speaker 1: Hey Sojo, if my birthday falls on a weekday, I'll
- 38:34Speaker 1: take a half day leave. I'm OK treating myself to
- 38:37Speaker 1: a nice hairdo at the salon. Since my birthday is
- 38:40Speaker 1: this Saturday, I get the whole day to myself, shopping
- 38:43Speaker 1: and a good break. Can't wait. Nice. There you go.
- 38:46Speaker 1: There you go. And one final text coming in from Candice.
- 38:51Speaker 1: Candice says, Hey, Joakim and Sonia, I always make it
- 38:53Speaker 1: a point to take leave because I'm not giving work
- 38:56Speaker 1: a chance to spoil my.
- 38:57Speaker 1: This is the day to focus on myself and the
- 39:00Speaker 1: important people in my life, AKA my parents and husband.
- 39:03Speaker 1: So I make it a point to spend time with them. Also,
- 39:05Speaker 1: my birthday is coming up this Friday. Long weekend for me, yay!
- 39:09Speaker 1: Taking my parents out for a bowling session, so cute,
- 39:11Speaker 1: followed by my husband and I checking out the local
- 39:13Speaker 1: stand-up comedy scene in the evening. Happy birthday, Joki. Dude,
- 39:17Speaker 1: that sounds like a perfect weekend coming up. Happy birthday
- 39:21Speaker 1: in advance. A lot of Leo's, um.
- 39:24Speaker 1: Leo, right? I mean now would be fully Leo because
- 39:26Speaker 1: you're on the cast. I'm a Leo by then at
- 39:30Speaker 1: the end of the week, they're definitely full Leo. But
- 39:32Speaker 1: like Miley Cyrus, what does it mean? What does it mean? OK, OK.
- 39:38Speaker 1: I can tell you what it means. Apparently Mercury in
- 39:40Speaker 1: retrograde now, no nonsense. When is it not in retrograde? Yeah, exactly.
- 39:44Speaker 1: It's a poor excuse for human behavior. OK, OK, thank
- 39:46Speaker 1: you very much. Can we give the prize? Can you
- 39:48Speaker 1: not be grumpy on your birthday? No, when you talk
- 39:50Speaker 1: about astrology, I will get grumpy lah. But can we
- 39:52Speaker 1: give the prize now? Can I say the name? And
- 39:54Speaker 1: it goes to. Congratulations.
- 40:01Speaker 1: Candice, what's coming your way? A very nice dining experience.
- 40:04Speaker 1: All thanks to our friends over at Racine. Sophieel Singapore
- 40:08Speaker 1: City Center. You can go try Nonya Assam fish, Singapore
- 40:12Speaker 1: chili prawn and roasted suckling pig alongside premium oysters and sashimi. Honestly,
- 40:18Speaker 1: it sounds so good. They also have, um, so many
- 40:20Speaker 1: desserts to choose from that combine French and local flavors.
- 40:23Speaker 1: How about champak?
- 40:24Speaker 1: Creme brulee or the one on cake. So this buffet
- 40:27Speaker 1: is available every Saturday from 12:30 to 3:00 p.m. at
- 40:32Speaker 1: $128 plus plus for adults and $64 plus plus per child.
- 40:37Speaker 1: But you're bringing a loved one with you and going
- 40:39Speaker 1: for absolutely free on us, OK. Please follow Sofitel Singapore
- 40:43Speaker 1: City Center on Facebook and Instagram. You just take note
- 40:46Speaker 1: of how much her music has grown.
- 40:48Speaker 1: and developed ever since then, like Ray of today and
- 40:52Speaker 1: then Ray of the past is super different and she
- 40:54Speaker 1: used to do a lot more collaborations with like party
- 40:57Speaker 1: type music, DJs and all that. Again, I say this,
- 41:00Speaker 1: I would not be surprised if her album wins Album
- 41:03Speaker 1: of the Year for the Grammys next year. She could
- 41:07Speaker 1: be up against maybe Rosalia for the Luxe album and
- 41:09Speaker 1: my personal.
- 41:12Speaker 1: Pick the gorillas for the mountain. And in the world
- 41:16Speaker 1: of music, you might not be familiar with this guy,
- 41:19Speaker 1: but if you want some decent and very good R&B
- 41:22Speaker 1: easy listening, check out this guy called Masego, M A
- 41:26Speaker 1: S E G O. Listen to his most recent album,
- 41:30Speaker 1: then go on a rabbit hole to the previous albums.
- 41:31Speaker 1: It's beautiful. Yeah, yeah, it's such a vibe, honestly, such
- 41:34Speaker 1: a vibe. Anyway, now we've got your pair of tickets
- 41:38Speaker 1: to NDP 2026 preview too. Come on Spark.
- 41:43Speaker 1: OK, Gareth, sit down, Gareth. Oh, OK. Oh yeah. Oh,
- 41:46Speaker 1: Gareth is deeper. Yeah, OK, OK. He has a great
- 41:48Speaker 1: singing voice. Really love the guy. OK, well, give us
- 41:52Speaker 1: a call 669-11987 as we promised, we're moving this, um,
- 41:57Speaker 1: ticket giveaway around during different timings of our show. Yeah.
- 42:00Speaker 1: So on yesterday we did it early, like around 7,
- 42:04Speaker 1: and then the day before we did it at 8.
- 42:06Speaker 1: So today we're doing it at 9. So tomorrow I'll
- 42:07Speaker 1: do it at 7 a.m. again. OK.
- 42:10Speaker 1: But for now, 669-11987 for a pair of preview two tickets.
- 42:16Speaker 1: Very hard to come by. That's happening August 1st. I
- 42:19Speaker 1: want to make it very simple for you, OK? Call
- 42:22Speaker 1: us and give us your best memory of any NDP
- 42:25Speaker 1: or Singapore so far. Yeah, because if people, if you
- 42:29Speaker 1: are tuning in, if you've never attended NDP, because I
- 42:31Speaker 1: know some people who have never attended it except for
- 42:33Speaker 1: the time that they go for the preview in Primary 5,
- 42:35Speaker 1: which could have been like eons ago.
- 42:38Speaker 1: So give us a call 669-11987. Let us know. It
- 42:41Speaker 1: could be a memory of Singapore, it could be a
- 42:43Speaker 1: memory of NDP. It doesn't matter as long as it's
- 42:45Speaker 1: related to our country. Here we go. Hunting for our
- 42:47Speaker 1: next winner for those NDP preview two tickets. OK, I
- 42:50Speaker 1: want to give you a bit of a spoiler here
- 42:52Speaker 1: on the shock circuit. We have confirmed this.
- 42:55Speaker 1: Jasmine Soko, we got Jude Chen and Gareth Hernandez. They're
- 43:00Speaker 1: gonna be here in our studio on separate dates. So
- 43:02Speaker 1: Jasmine Soko 1st, 31st of July, it's a Friday at
- 43:07Speaker 1: 9 a.m. and for Gareth and Jude Chen, 7th of August,
- 43:11Speaker 1: also a Friday at 9:00 a.m.
- 43:13Speaker 1: They're gonna give us an acoustic performance of their respective
- 43:16Speaker 1: NDP songs and we, we all know that they can sing.
- 43:19Speaker 1: It's not the first time they've been to our studio,
- 43:21Speaker 1: but this time around it's something very special. So we
- 43:24Speaker 1: are really excited. I cannot wait to hear how Jasmine
- 43:26Speaker 1: does like an acoustic or a stripped down version of.
- 43:29Speaker 1: OK. Yeah, it'll be interesting. And she has performed here
- 43:31Speaker 1: in our studio before. Many times. Exactly. OK, we're gonna
- 43:34Speaker 1: head to the phone lines. Easy question for you here today.
- 43:36Speaker 1: Do you have a specific favorite memory of any NDP
- 43:40Speaker 1: or of Singapore in general? So we're gonna head to
- 43:42Speaker 1: the phone lines. Hello. Hi.
- 43:45Speaker 1: Sorry, what's your name again? I bet you she's calling
- 43:50Speaker 1: from calling from work. What's your name again? Tell us. OK,
- 43:57Speaker 1: we whisper. Why are you whispering? Where are you? What
- 43:59Speaker 1: do you do for work? I'm at work because the
- 44:03Speaker 1: office is too quiet.
- 44:06Speaker 1: It's OK. You got to be loud and proud about this.
- 44:08Speaker 1: Tell us what's your favorite memory of Singapore or any
- 44:10Speaker 1: NDP that you've attended. I used to perform for NDP.
- 44:14Speaker 1: There's a lot of memories being a performer. I, I
- 44:17Speaker 1: love the energy of being the performance there. And so
- 44:21Speaker 1: now I want to be the audience to watch the show. Oh,
- 44:25Speaker 1: you know what's it.
- 44:26Speaker 1: To her. There you go. A pair of preview two
- 44:30Speaker 1: tickets coming your way for the August 1st show. So
- 44:34Speaker 1: yesterday we spoke about Avengers Doomsday and the latest trailer
- 44:37Speaker 1: that was dropped. Oh goosebumps that we got actually. Loads
- 44:40Speaker 1: of my favorite YouTube channels are breaking down the trailer,
- 44:43Speaker 1: giving us Easter eggs and all that. But knowing Marvel, yeah,
- 44:46Speaker 1: the trailers, right?
- 44:47Speaker 1: It's not 100% accurate. You will see something different in
- 44:51Speaker 1: the movie, OK, but I think as of yesterday night
- 44:55Speaker 1: Singapore time, they dropped the latest Spider-Man trailer. We'll touch
- 45:00Speaker 1: on that in just a bit here on the shock circuit.
- 45:02Speaker 1: Literally nonstop hits from this entire week. Their admins busy
- 45:05Speaker 1: at work, man. Yeah, OK, so Spider-Man.
- 45:12Speaker 1: They've just released a brand new trailer for Spider-Man Brand
- 45:15Speaker 1: New Day, and this one's a bit touching. It might
- 45:17Speaker 1: get you in all the fields. I'm gonna cry for
- 45:19Speaker 1: sure because it chronicles Peter Parker's journey as Peter Parker
- 45:23Speaker 1: in Spider-Man, and then they also show how everyone forgets
- 45:26Speaker 1: who Peter Parker is, right? And then he tries to
- 45:29Speaker 1: reconnect with Mary Jane, or rather MJ, not Mary Jane, MJ,
- 45:33Speaker 1: who's played by Zendaya, and yeah, if I make it go, please,
- 45:37Speaker 1: please remember him. Remember.
- 45:40Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, OK, I, I wonder how that's gonna
- 45:43Speaker 1: translate on screen. I'm very curious. And look, there are
- 45:47Speaker 1: lots of things about the Spider-Man Brand New Day movie
- 45:51Speaker 1: that we will only find out in the movie itself.
- 45:53Speaker 1: I think this one they are keeping lots of surprises
- 45:55Speaker 1: under wraps. I'm very curious how Tom Holland and Zendaya
- 45:59Speaker 1: function as a couple because
- 46:00Speaker 1: This isn't the only movie that they're working together on
- 46:03Speaker 1: or have worked together with, right? Were they in Odyssey? Yes,
- 46:06Speaker 1: they were in Odyssey together. And I don't think that's
- 46:08Speaker 1: the only one. There are other shows that they start
- 46:10Speaker 1: in the same, they're in the same cast. So it's
- 46:12Speaker 1: like you're always around each other, which is super cool,
- 46:15Speaker 1: and they're still so sweet and loving. I'm like, wow,
- 46:18Speaker 1: this one really goes, man. Tom and Zendaya.
- 46:20Speaker 1: Both of you are our last hope. You've given us hope, man.
- 46:23Speaker 1: You've given the world, yeah. So I think on twenty-ninth
- 46:26Speaker 1: of July, I'm going for the Spider-Man Brand New Day premiere. Oh,
- 46:31Speaker 1: you are to watch the movie. Yeah, because when it
- 46:32Speaker 1: comes to a Marvel Cinematic Universe movie, I want to
- 46:34Speaker 1: make sure I watch it first so that it won't
- 46:37Speaker 1: get spoiled for me on TikTok or whatsoever by me.
- 46:41Speaker 1: And we have a bad memory of Spider-Man together, yeah,
- 46:44Speaker 1: of me spoiling it for Joe because I watched it
- 46:47Speaker 1: before him. Yeah. Anyway, what's in the past in the
- 46:51Speaker 1: past la? Don't dig up the skeletons from the closet.
- 46:56Speaker 1: What a, what a hilarious fun show. We've been just
- 46:59Speaker 1: laughing and cackling, and I noticed my mom texted you.
- 47:03Speaker 1: So sweet. She also forwarded me the same picture, that's
- 47:06Speaker 1: the same wish that she sent you. She said, I
- 47:08Speaker 1: sent Joakim this he he nice or not.
- 47:11Speaker 1: To which it's a picture of you running on a
- 47:14Speaker 1: football field. Yeah, that was in 2018 when a Singapore
- 47:18Speaker 1: celebrity on the Bollywood celebrity team. Is that Lionel behind
- 47:22Speaker 1: you in that picture? As in Lionel Lewis? Yeah, it
- 47:25Speaker 1: looks like him. He's on the same team. And, and
- 47:28Speaker 1: my mom actually photoshopped or rather she pasted a picture
- 47:31Speaker 1: of Maxi running next to you.
- 47:35Speaker 1: I like my mother, right, I tell you, she, every
- 47:37Speaker 1: morning she'll give me something new and because it's your
- 47:39Speaker 1: special day, you know what, she's she's our mom now.
- 47:42Speaker 1: She's our, that's for sure. Yes, that's for sure. And
- 47:47Speaker 1: Jeremy also sent you a message earlier this morning. What
- 47:50Speaker 1: did he say?
- 47:53Speaker 1: Honestly, right, you know, I sent the photo link of my, uh,
- 47:57Speaker 1: evening photos from the wedding out to my friends, and
- 48:00Speaker 1: so you would know her, Georgina Cheng, our mutual friend
- 48:03Speaker 1: and mentor from the past. She texted me back. Can I,
- 48:07Speaker 1: can I read out what she said? She said, OK,
- 48:10Speaker 1: and maybe she will, she will tell you the same
- 48:12Speaker 1: thing too. OK. Let me just scroll back, let me
- 48:14Speaker 1: just scroll back. OK.
- 48:16Speaker 1: She goes, um, wow, your photos look so great. Even
- 48:19Speaker 1: the crying ones look nice, but, it actually looks like
- 48:22Speaker 1: Joakim's wedding.
- 48:25Speaker 1: Except that he looks like the bride. Why is he
- 48:28Speaker 1: always hanging out with your parents?
- 48:31Speaker 1: Literally she said that in the text.
- 48:34Speaker 1: Aiyo burst out laughing. I really burst out. It's a
- 48:38Speaker 1: nice picture of your mom and dad with me son
- 48:41Speaker 1: never had.