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2nd DATE UPDATE: Luis & Nikki · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update.
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  Speaker 2: Because that's what we're going to try and get and
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  Speaker 2: that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 1: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and
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  Speaker 1: Rich one.
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  Speaker 2: A four to seven Kiss FM. John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 2: It's time for Second Date Update. You meet somebody, you
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  Speaker 2: got a date, you have a good time, you expect
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  Speaker 2: her to be second date.
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  Speaker 3: It doesn't happen to become.
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  Speaker 1: To us.
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  Speaker 2: We're gonna figure out your date and figure out what
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  Speaker 2: went wrong. Luis, good morning morning. Tell us about your date.
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  Speaker 2: Tells you who you went out with. What's the story?
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  Speaker 4: Well, all right, well this is a weird one because
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  Speaker 4: I mean I went on a date with this girl
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  Speaker 4: and I thought it was actually good to be going great.
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  Speaker 4: We had already been talking texting for a couple of
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  Speaker 4: weeks by that point, you know, good talks, joking, flirting,
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  Speaker 4: all of that stuff. And then it was confusing when
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  Speaker 4: we actually got on the date because I pick her
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  Speaker 4: up and we're out on the date, but before like
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  Speaker 4: she gets into the car, she just immediately kiss me.
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  Speaker 4: But she kisses me and we don't even stay high first.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm like, all right, it's a quick kiss, but
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, all right, that off guard, but I'm guessing
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  Speaker 4: that's like a decent start. Yeah, right. And then so
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  Speaker 4: so she's she's confident and she's feel good, so I'm
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  Speaker 4: feeling good. But then after that, immediately after that, we
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  Speaker 4: get to the place and it gets really awkward. The
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  Speaker 4: conversation wasn't flowing away. It did over the phone. There
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  Speaker 4: was like a lot of weird pausing and I really
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  Speaker 4: couldn't like read what she was like, like what was
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  Speaker 4: wrong with her or anything that. I mean, it's not
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  Speaker 4: like a terrible date, but it wasn't amazing. It wasn't
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  Speaker 4: like we were comfortable, Like I didn't feel comfortable after
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  Speaker 4: a while. And then after that she just like completely
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  Speaker 4: ghosted me and it was like no texts, no nothing,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm just and I don't I'm not necessarily dying
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  Speaker 4: to go on a second day with her. It was
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  Speaker 4: it wasn't that good of a date. It just was
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  Speaker 4: such a really big ramp up and then nothing happened.
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  Speaker 4: And so yeah, after she disappeared, it's just kind of
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  Speaker 4: been bugging me just to figure.
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  Speaker 3: Out what happened.
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  Speaker 1: Blind you know, they can't see each other and they
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  Speaker 1: fall in love because they're just talking and they can
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  Speaker 1: hear each other's voices. But once you guys saw each other,
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't the same connection.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, that's possible, but you would almost think, like
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  Speaker 5: you see that physical connection immediately, you would almost think,
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  Speaker 5: if that was it, why would she still kiss him
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  Speaker 5: right away?
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  Speaker 6: Something had to have happened in the car from when
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  Speaker 6: you picked her up to when you got to the
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  Speaker 6: restaurant she got the X she got the is your
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  Speaker 6: car disgusting? Do you have like roaches in your car?
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  Speaker 4: Nos? A. It's a new car, you know, Like I
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  Speaker 4: don't even need to clean it out because it's so new.
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  Speaker 4: It's a new cross smell, I mean. And I didn't
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  Speaker 4: even put on any music because I thought we would
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  Speaker 4: like talk, and it was a short drive from her
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  Speaker 4: place to the rest of us, so, like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: I didn't. I don't think there was anything that could
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  Speaker 4: have triggered anything at.
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  Speaker 2: That point, all right, So if we get her on
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  Speaker 2: the phone, is she going to drop something huge that
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  Speaker 2: you're leaving out?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, something that's like totally obvious.
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  Speaker 2: It was a problem you sat, you decided to look
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  Speaker 2: through a bunch of black and white photos of World
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  Speaker 2: War Two on the thing, like she's gonna be like,
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  Speaker 2: we did.
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  Speaker 3: That for an hour. I don't want to deal with
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  Speaker 3: that because there's something strange like that.
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  Speaker 4: No, No, I can't think of anything.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know, she could be one of those people.
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  Speaker 2: I think we all know those people that always, you know,
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  Speaker 2: when you say hi, they kiss. They do it in
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  Speaker 2: Europe a lot, you know, they kiss cheek cheek cheek.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe. So she gets in and she's like, oh, it's
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  Speaker 3: good to see you, Luis.
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  Speaker 2: She kiss, kiss, kiss, and be like oh okay, But
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  Speaker 2: that's just how she says hi to people. And then
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  Speaker 2: the date goes on and she's like, oh, there's nothing
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  Speaker 2: there on fine, right, I mean there was nothing dramatic.
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  Speaker 3: She just didn't return your tech. She's over it, right,
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  Speaker 3: I mean yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I guess it's just that she was so engaged in
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  Speaker 4: those previous conversations. I guess it just swept so cold.
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  Speaker 3: So she did something.
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  Speaker 2: All right, let's get her on the phone. Then, let's
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  Speaker 2: get her on the phone. Let's find out what went wrong.
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  Speaker 2: What is her name, Louise Niki? All right, we'll get
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  Speaker 2: Nicky on the phone. We're going to find out why
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  Speaker 2: she's not interested in the second way? Why she blown? What
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  Speaker 2: went wrong?
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  Speaker 3: Second date up? They continues next with John Jay and
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  Speaker 3: Rich John Jay and Rich. From the middle of second update,
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  Speaker 3: it's Louise and Nikki.
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  Speaker 1: Louise, this smooth, low talking lover boy who gave such
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  Speaker 1: good phone at the beginning of his date. His first
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  Speaker 1: date with Nikki. It started with a kiss, but then
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  Speaker 1: once the date started, it got a little awkward. No conversation.
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  Speaker 1: She shut it down and now she is vapor, no
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  Speaker 1: reply at all. What's up with Louise?
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 2: What did he do?
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  Speaker 3: That's a good recap. You ready, Louise. Yeah, we're gonna
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  Speaker 3: call her right now. Get Nicky on the phone. Final shoo.
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  Speaker 3: How long it was his date?
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  Speaker 2: By the way, week two weeks yesterday?
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  Speaker 4: It was about two weeks ago.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, love Wike?
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  Speaker 6: Hello, Hi? Is this Nikki.
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  Speaker 4: Hei?
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  Speaker 2: Nikki?
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  Speaker 6: My name is Say. I'm with John Jaye Rich and
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  Speaker 6: we just wanted to talk to you on the radio
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  Speaker 6: really quickly this morning.
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  Speaker 7: If you're down, sure, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: We're talking to this guy about a date. He went on.
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  Speaker 3: I said it a great time.
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  Speaker 2: The girl's fantastic, and now she's blowing him off and
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  Speaker 2: he came to us because he said he talked to
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  Speaker 2: his friends, he talked to people. He can't figure out
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  Speaker 2: why she's blowing him off. So we were like, we
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  Speaker 2: want to hear your story. He tells us the story.
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  Speaker 2: We're like, maybe we could just call the girl long
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  Speaker 2: story short. You are the girl Nikki and we're talking
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  Speaker 2: about a guy named Luis. What happened. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: he's leaving something out. But we thought maybe you could
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  Speaker 2: tell us about your date with him and why you're
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  Speaker 2: not interested.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, like I guested him. Yeah, to be honest, like,
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  Speaker 7: I don't feel bad about it, so what Well, the
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  Speaker 7: reason is because look on the date. On the date,
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  Speaker 7: I realized he had like some bad karma, okay, and
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  Speaker 7: that's I just don't I don't mess with bad karma.
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  Speaker 7: He picks me up and he had one of those
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  Speaker 7: like handicapped records hanging in his car. You know, I thought,
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  Speaker 7: oh gosh, it must belong to a family member because
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  Speaker 7: he looked perfectly fine, nothing was wrong with him. And
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  Speaker 7: when we got to the restaurant, he parked in the
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  Speaker 7: handicapped spot, hopped out of his car, and he was
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  Speaker 7: just like completely fine. He had nothing wrong with him.
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  Speaker 7: He was just like walking like a regular person, you know,
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  Speaker 7: no limb, no injury, nothing, and I just that gave
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  Speaker 7: me the ick. I cannot stand with people that take
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  Speaker 7: shortcuts in life like that is not okay for me.
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  Speaker 7: I just feel like, you know, there's something wrong with you,
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  Speaker 7: Like that's meant for people who actually need it, and
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  Speaker 7: you are scum of the earth if you are using that.
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  Speaker 7: I just feel like it's really selfish, it's disrespectful, and like,
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  Speaker 7: the more I thought about it during the day, it
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  Speaker 7: just really bothered me. So yeah, after I just decided
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  Speaker 7: that I didn't want to do anything with him, I
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  Speaker 7: just I'm just like, I believe in karma and paying
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  Speaker 7: it forward and bringing that kind energy to the world,
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  Speaker 7: and that's just not He's not that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. This is like are you serious
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  Speaker 4: right now?
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  Speaker 7: Oh gosh, Louise, wait, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So you know I had a traumatic brain injury from
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  Speaker 4: a car accident a few years ago. It was like
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  Speaker 4: a big deal. I didn't really necessarily get into it
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  Speaker 4: with you when we were talking about over the phone,
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  Speaker 4: but it's whatever. It happened, and it hit something within
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  Speaker 4: the back of my brain that ended up causing like
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  Speaker 4: severe vertical and it's not a thing where it's super
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  Speaker 4: effective in the sense of where I can't drive. But
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  Speaker 4: the doctors actually said that they needed me to make
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  Speaker 4: sure that I was here when I was able to
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  Speaker 4: get in and out of the car. And that's the
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  Speaker 4: reason why the plaque was given to me. I didn't
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  Speaker 4: ask for it. I didn't want it, and I wasn't
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  Speaker 4: trying to play anything about it. It was given to
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  Speaker 4: me by a doctor. That means that I get really yeah, no,
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  Speaker 4: I mean, but I don't understand why that makes so
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  Speaker 4: much sense because you didn't say anything. But why didn't
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  Speaker 4: you say anything?
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  Speaker 3: Why did you say anything?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, but I feel like that's that's something that
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  Speaker 4: you don't I didn't think I'm gonna have to say
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  Speaker 4: that within the first four seconds of her getting into the.
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  Speaker 2: Well, dude, handicapped plaque hanging from your rear view mirror.
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  Speaker 2: I think you would exit by the way I got
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  Speaker 2: to just to let you know I was in a
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  Speaker 2: or or you just put it under the seat and
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  Speaker 2: just walk to your car or watch your dinner. I
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  Speaker 2: mean you you you had this huge thing dangly there.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't bring it up.
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  Speaker 4: No, I've had it for over thirteen months. I've been
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  Speaker 4: using it. It's almost become a second major thing. I
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  Speaker 4: didn't even think about That's.
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  Speaker 1: What I was gonna saying.
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, I wouldn't even think about that. I would
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  Speaker 6: just park where I usually park and then get in.
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  Speaker 1: Not thinks a brain injury. He's not thinking twice.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, what if it's like traumatizing to talk about the
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  Speaker 6: brain injury a date.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I think that's a I think that's a
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  Speaker 3: legitimate gripe she has.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like both of them are valid because I
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  Speaker 6: can't understand why she would feel like why immediately she
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  Speaker 6: would feel that way. But now that you understand, Niki, like,
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  Speaker 6: do you still feel like Luis is like my.
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  Speaker 7: God, no, But I just wish he would have just
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  Speaker 7: been like, hey, this is no big deal, but like
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  Speaker 7: I had an accident, right, I totally.
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  Speaker 4: You know, in the back of my mind, I thought
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  Speaker 4: it would have been something that either I would have
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  Speaker 4: made a mention too, because I would have noticed the
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  Speaker 4: placard again. But it's it's something that's so in my
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  Speaker 4: like it's always in my car now that I forget
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  Speaker 4: about it, and I thought she would have mentioned it
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  Speaker 4: and it would have been the first thing we would
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  Speaker 4: have talked about. But when she never talked about it,
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  Speaker 4: then the day just continued, and then it just seemed
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  Speaker 4: like like I wasn't going to mention it, because why
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  Speaker 4: would I mention it while we were already sitting down
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  Speaker 4: at the restaurant. I didn't even think about it. But
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  Speaker 4: I didn't think that you would think that I'm trying
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  Speaker 4: to pull a fast one, or that I'm a jerk
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  Speaker 4: with that car.
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  Speaker 7: So healthy, I mean, like handicapped. That's a pretty big
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  Speaker 7: deal to have a handicapped placard, So you know, I
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  Speaker 7: don't have friends to have that like that are my age,
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  Speaker 7: and also those.
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  Speaker 3: Usually have an expiration date. What's your expiration date?
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  Speaker 4: Well, technically the expiration dates on twenty twenty seven, the
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  Speaker 4: middle of the year. I have to check with my neurologists.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sure that I feel.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like if I got in the car and
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  Speaker 2: someone was driving, like, what's this about?
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  Speaker 3: And then you tell it?
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  Speaker 2: But also if someone got in my car and I
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  Speaker 2: when I go, heye me, do it happen? Like both
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  Speaker 2: of you guys.
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  Speaker 5: But now that we know, like without the miscommunication, do
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  Speaker 5: you think this could have been like a good date,
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  Speaker 5: Like without that, do you feel like there was chemistry there?
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  Speaker 6: I was distracted, so I don't know, right, they probably
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  Speaker 6: didn't even get to really experience to do over. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I'm with you because the.
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  Speaker 1: Phone was good, right when you guys just talked.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, I don't know. I feel like I.
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  Speaker 5: Mean it's a miscommunication on both your parts. You could
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  Speaker 5: have asked him and he could have told you. So
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  Speaker 5: it's kind of like, okay, knowing that it's so need
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  Speaker 5: to wash just like maybe hang out again and see
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  Speaker 5: if there's something there.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it'll be something to.
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  Speaker 3: Laugh about it. You can laugh about this park further away.
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  Speaker 3: Do you work out, Luis? Are you exercise guy? Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: No, of course I have to mean I do naturally,
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  Speaker 4: but then I have to, you know, just to keep everything.
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  Speaker 2: And then I would feel that if you go on
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  Speaker 2: a date and you work out and you do PT
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  Speaker 2: that you could probably park in a typical parking space
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  Speaker 2: and walk into the restaurant.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so you would be out. You don't think out
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  Speaker 3: to be irritated that it didn't come up.
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  Speaker 2: But I also would have brought it up if I
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  Speaker 2: see a big handicap my grandmother had one of those,
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  Speaker 2: and I whenever I was driving her car, I wouldn't
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  Speaker 2: I would park far away. I didn't want I felt
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  Speaker 2: badcarm I still have bad karma, but I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to step on the spaces. I don't want to park here.
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  Speaker 2: I want everybody to be able to park in those
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  Speaker 2: spaces whenever they can. Anyway, all right, dude, So are
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  Speaker 2: you guys gonna try to get another shot or no?
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  Speaker 4: I don't think I can. I don't because honestly, it's
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  Speaker 4: just it's one of those things when the first thing
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  Speaker 4: she said, or one of the things she said, she
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  Speaker 4: that's bad karma.
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  Speaker 3: Bad it is.
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  Speaker 6: And actually, like the first thing Louise said was like,
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  Speaker 6: I'm not dying to go on a second day with her,
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  Speaker 6: So why.
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  Speaker 2: Don't That's why you got all right, man, thank you
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  Speaker 2: both for going narrow with us. All right?
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  Speaker 3: That second day update with John J. Rich