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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to HBr Talk three ninety one. Get
- 0:04Speaker 1: your hip, waiters, it's getting deep. I'm your host Tanna Wallen,
- 0:08Speaker 1: here with nonsense annilator Lauren Brooks, the persona I can't.
- 0:12Speaker 2: Talk hello.
- 0:14Speaker 1: You guys, but I like to reverse a M and
- 0:19Speaker 1: PM because I work nights, so I can't talk this morning,
- 0:23Speaker 1: the personification of perceptivity Mike Stevenson and Uh, I've got
- 0:28Speaker 1: to come up with a nickname for you, Richard, because
- 0:30Speaker 1: you're gonna be on UH as much as you want.
- 0:33Speaker 1: How about I know, I know, I know, since I.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Know I'm Adams, That's all I'm saying.
- 0:41Speaker 1: There we go, Oh, yes, yes, I have not actually
- 0:48Speaker 1: done that. Yeah, yeah, I just realized. No, Brian's telling
- 0:57Speaker 1: me in the background because I just realized I did
- 1:02Speaker 1: not share my screen with my co hosts. And if
- 1:05Speaker 1: I don't share my screen with my co host, y'all
- 1:07Speaker 1: can't see it either. So we are still going over
- 1:11Speaker 1: the deep article. It's deep and shallow at the same time. Guys.
- 1:18Speaker 1: The the attitude is shallow as fun with the bullshit
- 1:22Speaker 1: is deep. It is so deep, really scary because I'm
- 1:27Speaker 1: in a valley. You know, we have we have a
- 1:31Speaker 1: valley in a valley here in the Dayton area with
- 1:34Speaker 1: we have the Ohio Valley and the the the Miami
- 1:38Speaker 1: Valley and uh in the bullshit. If there were mountains,
- 1:43Speaker 1: the bullshit would be higher in this article. Uh but uh,
- 1:48Speaker 1: but yeah, I think I'm gonna I think I'm gonna
- 1:50Speaker 1: go with Lionhearted because it does take a lot of guts.
- 1:53Speaker 1: Both of my my UK co hosts are here on
- 1:58Speaker 1: pain of possibly get being arrested for saying the wrong
- 2:01Speaker 1: thing and being heard by the wrong person. Because that's
- 2:04Speaker 1: the other part of the formula, Like it's not magic. Somebody,
- 2:08Speaker 1: somebody has to get a get get you know, somebody
- 2:12Speaker 1: has to carry you in order for that to happen.
- 2:17Speaker 1: So and we have the doge in charge working in
- 2:21Speaker 1: the background to make sure I don't fuck up too much,
- 2:23Speaker 1: because like I said, for me, it's like seven o'clock
- 2:27Speaker 1: in the morning on a on a short night of sleep.
- 2:32Speaker 1: So here we go. Uh and I have lost my
- 2:36Speaker 1: page already, So I did fuck up too bad? Why
- 2:38Speaker 1: does it keep putting itself in the background all right
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- 4:27Speaker 1: the mistakes. There we go, and I can put this away, now,
- 4:33Speaker 1: go away, extra page. There we go. I have on
- 4:38Speaker 1: my screen right now, one, two, three, four, five, six
- 4:46Speaker 1: separate windows, one of which has a split view so
- 4:50Speaker 1: I can see both chats. So if you hear me
- 4:53Speaker 1: talking to my computer. That's why I lost my desktop
- 4:57Speaker 1: computer a couple of months ago. And so I am
- 5:02Speaker 1: just using the one laptop and everything is on one
- 5:05Speaker 1: screen and it's all like overlapping and shit, it looks
- 5:09Speaker 1: it looks really funny from my perspective, but I can
- 5:11Speaker 1: tell when people make comments and oh I love this
- 5:18Speaker 1: like a misthrowt Hey it looks like she took adderall.
- 5:21Speaker 1: That's because the AI keeps putting the eyeballs in my
- 5:23Speaker 1: eyes behind the glasses, and the cartoon version of glasses
- 5:31Speaker 1: usually has them be a little opaque, like there's a
- 5:35Speaker 1: reflection and you can't see through the reflected light, and
- 5:38Speaker 1: so glasses. People aren't supposed to have eyes unless they're
- 5:42Speaker 1: viewed up close. Yeah, gets that wrong.
- 5:47Speaker 3: My panda cottoon kind of looks like he's on Molly,
- 5:50Speaker 3: just staring at his finger, going, oh, look at my fingers,
- 5:53Speaker 3: so amazing.
- 5:55Speaker 1: That's funny. Oh, but but there we go. So yeah,
- 6:05Speaker 1: if you all have suggestions, questions, or comments about the
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- 6:12Speaker 1: But in the meantime, I also wanted to go with
- 6:17Speaker 1: a bit of a reminder before I get more into
- 6:19Speaker 1: this story. In twenty fourteen, we had the first ICMI
- 6:27Speaker 1: International Convention or Conference on Men's Issues in Detroit, Michigan,
- 6:34Speaker 1: and we had Jeff Charlotte, I mean Charlotte from the
- 6:41Speaker 1: GQ magazine, you know I franchise came and interviewed a
- 6:46Speaker 1: whole bunch of us and wrote a hit piece on us.
- 6:50Speaker 3: And we weaponized aile.
- 6:54Speaker 1: Yeah, he was a he was a real piece of work.
- 6:56Speaker 2: Right.
- 6:56Speaker 1: This guy came. He brought the pedophile with him. Now,
- 7:02Speaker 1: I was working security. I didn't know about this because
- 7:06Speaker 1: nobody said to me, hey, this guy brought a pedophile.
- 7:09Speaker 1: Because if somebody had said that to me, I would
- 7:11Speaker 1: have gone straight to our head of security and said,
- 7:14Speaker 1: do we do we want this person here, and we
- 7:19Speaker 1: probably would have had some questions for that guy. But
- 7:24Speaker 1: in the meantime, and what actually ended up happening was Charlotte. Charlotte,
- 7:33Speaker 1: I just can't help but thinking of him as a
- 7:36Speaker 1: little tiny shark. Sorry, he took that guy around and
- 7:42Speaker 1: harassed people using that guy. He he went, he took
- 7:46Speaker 1: the Badgers to lunch. I did not go because I
- 7:50Speaker 1: was actually keeping an eye on the crowd. But he
- 7:55Speaker 1: did take the Badger's for lunch, and there were at
- 8:00Speaker 1: least two people I think three actually at the table
- 8:04Speaker 1: that had been victims of childhood sexual assault or exploitation.
- 8:10Speaker 1: And he sprung this this pedophile on them, like, look,
- 8:16Speaker 1: this guy is your friend, he's one of you. And
- 8:19Speaker 1: it was really bad, just absolutely, And then he tried
- 8:23Speaker 1: in his article to associate that guy with the men's
- 8:26Speaker 1: rights movement. And honestly, the only thing any of us
- 8:31Speaker 1: has said is that when someone starts having weird impulses
- 8:37Speaker 1: like that, they should be encouraged to get psychological help
- 8:43Speaker 1: and not ignored. And it is better especially when you
- 8:48Speaker 1: this was a younger person. When you have somebody who's young,
- 8:53Speaker 1: who is starting to behave oddly in a manner like that,
- 8:57Speaker 1: and they start having criminal impulses. And I'll say this,
- 9:00Speaker 1: whether it's kleptomania, pedophilia, I can't think of the psychological
- 9:07Speaker 1: term for a habitual arsist. Pyromania, that's what it is, pymermania.
- 9:11Speaker 1: Anybody that has anything like that, they want to hurt animals,
- 9:15Speaker 1: anything like that. People should be encouraged to seek help,
- 9:21Speaker 1: not go underground and only talk about it in their
- 9:25Speaker 1: own private little forms and everything. And so what Charlotte
- 9:29Speaker 1: did by doing this was create an environment that is
- 9:35Speaker 1: hostile to persuading people with harmful and dangerous impulses to
- 9:43Speaker 1: come forward to the people in their lives who can
- 9:46Speaker 1: help them and say that they need help so that
- 9:49Speaker 1: they can get psychological treatment and overcome those impulses. But
- 9:55Speaker 1: he also Smeared advocates for the rights of fathers to
- 10:01Speaker 1: protect their children from from people like that, advocates for
- 10:08Speaker 1: men and boys who have been victimized by people like that.
- 10:14Speaker 1: It was it was it was heinous. It was quite
- 10:16Speaker 1: a heinous act. It was quite a malicious article.
- 10:21Speaker 3: Ironically. On quite the other hand, if you want to
- 10:23Speaker 3: join a group of like minded people and have your
- 10:26Speaker 3: impulses verified and downplayed as though it's it's just another
- 10:33Speaker 3: kind of sexuality, have you considered joining the feminist movement?
- 10:37Speaker 3: There you go, there's there's there's an arm of that
- 10:40Speaker 3: bullshit for every kind of sexual deviancy. And yep, and yeah,
- 10:47Speaker 3: that's that's where you'll find the people who are who
- 10:49Speaker 3: are who are merely calling them maps, who just have
- 10:53Speaker 3: another way of thinking that should be embraced, if anything,
- 10:58Speaker 3: And yeah, it's not us, it's very much the people
- 11:01Speaker 3: who hate us.
- 11:02Speaker 1: Yeah, anything that anything they say about maps that cannot
- 11:05Speaker 1: translate over to pyromaniacs, you obviously should be able to
- 11:10Speaker 1: tell that it's wrong.
- 11:12Speaker 3: They just fire a fire attracted passes fats.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they you know, they just want to set
- 11:19Speaker 1: your house on fire. It's completely harmless. It's just the
- 11:22Speaker 1: sexuality guys. Come on. But in any case, the point
- 11:27Speaker 1: of me bringing this up is, you know, I know
- 11:30Speaker 1: that's old news, right, but there was a particular thing
- 11:34Speaker 1: that happened. During that There were two men that were
- 11:40Speaker 1: that were interviewed. One of them was honey trapped, and
- 11:46Speaker 1: he didn't fall for the honey trap. So when he
- 11:48Speaker 1: wrote his article, Charlotte just lied about it. He said
- 11:51Speaker 1: that he did, you know, none of that stuff happened.
- 11:54Speaker 1: The other one, who who goes by any boy cdn
- 12:00Speaker 1: on X if you want to follow him, he he
- 12:05Speaker 1: was interviewed and Charlotte just completely whole cloth made up
- 12:10Speaker 1: a bunch of lies and said he said things that
- 12:14Speaker 1: he hadn't said. Uh and so on, and so there
- 12:19Speaker 1: was there was just this complete manufactured fake article. They
- 12:26Speaker 1: took pictures and they made the people they took pictures
- 12:29Speaker 1: of look like they had just been released from some
- 12:33Speaker 1: sort of prisoner of war camp. Like they were. The
- 12:38Speaker 1: colors were pasty, that the background looked bad because of
- 12:43Speaker 1: how pasty they altered things to make it was. It
- 12:47Speaker 1: was really bad. Like I would be if I was
- 12:52Speaker 1: a journalist at a magazine like that, and uh, you know,
- 12:56Speaker 1: or if the newspaper I worked for had published pictures
- 12:59Speaker 1: of mine I took and they looked like that, I
- 13:03Speaker 1: would be humiliated. I would want to crawl in a
- 13:06Speaker 1: hole and die. For people thinking that I did photography
- 13:09Speaker 1: that looked like that. It was so bad. And you know,
- 13:14Speaker 1: I say this as somebody who worked as a professional photographer,
- 13:17Speaker 1: But if you're even just an amateur that likes to
- 13:19Speaker 1: take pictures of your family gatherings, you get, you know,
- 13:22Speaker 1: a neat shot where you have four generations of family
- 13:26Speaker 1: members sitting together at the table talking and stuff. You
- 13:29Speaker 1: would be embarrassed if your pictures looked that bad, even
- 13:33Speaker 1: if you have no training and you were just making
- 13:36Speaker 1: a snapshot with an old phone.
- 13:40Speaker 2: Who was that bad? All right?
- 13:41Speaker 1: So they it was a hit piece just like this,
- 13:45Speaker 1: and the majority of what was published in it was
- 13:48Speaker 1: just bald face lives like it was completely made up.
- 13:52Speaker 1: There was no connection with the truth. It was completely
- 14:00Speaker 1: completely fabricated. Oh one minute, Crime Time says, I just
- 14:06Speaker 1: actually disagree with what you guys are saying. I don't
- 14:09Speaker 1: think we should open the door to normalize it. That's
- 14:11Speaker 1: the first mistake you're making right there. When we call
- 14:15Speaker 1: something mentally ill, and we say people who have these
- 14:20Speaker 1: types of weird ass impulses need psychological treatment and help,
- 14:27Speaker 1: and it's important that before they offend, they feel comfortable
- 14:34Speaker 1: asking for that help. So that they can overcome those
- 14:37Speaker 1: impulses and not commit the crimes. There is nothing about
- 14:40Speaker 1: that that normalizes it. There's no behavior that is normal
- 14:45Speaker 1: that anyone would say something like that about. If you
- 14:50Speaker 1: have violent impulses toward people and you just want to
- 14:53Speaker 1: take them out on the weak minded, you can admit
- 14:56Speaker 1: that like that's and probably you should seek help for it,
- 15:01Speaker 1: just like I've suggested with these people. But don't pretend
- 15:06Speaker 1: that suggesting something is weird and sick and that people
- 15:12Speaker 1: should be seeking help for it and not hiding in
- 15:15Speaker 1: forums and talking about it with each other like you know,
- 15:19Speaker 1: friends with the same problem and reinforcing each other like that's.
- 15:28Speaker 1: It's pretty idiotic. It's one of the most idiotic arguments
- 15:31Speaker 1: people make against mental health treatment. That you would say,
- 15:37Speaker 1: somebody has murderous impulses, it's better if a psychiatrist can
- 15:42Speaker 1: help them unpack that, overcome those impulses and possibly eliminate them.
- 15:48Speaker 1: Then to have them go kill someone and go to
- 15:50Speaker 1: jail and that person's dead and this person's no longer
- 15:53Speaker 1: going to pay taxes.
- 15:55Speaker 3: Yeah, I bear in mind a lot of these people
- 15:57Speaker 3: have been to school, you know, ordinary state schools where
- 16:02Speaker 3: they've been subjected to teachers who will at the very
- 16:05Speaker 3: least implicitly give you the impression that it's okay for
- 16:10Speaker 3: adults to impose their sexual deviance on on children. And
- 16:16Speaker 3: and if you can just sort of take them out
- 16:17Speaker 3: of that environment and sort of go Sorry to tell
- 16:21Speaker 3: you this, but you've been lied to and groomed, then
- 16:25Speaker 3: you should probably do that. And not just in schools,
- 16:27Speaker 3: you know, there's this there's a lot of people who
- 16:31Speaker 3: have been subjected to the views of their single mothers
- 16:37Speaker 3: who have also been to these schools, and and and
- 16:40Speaker 3: have and and have seen nothing but the mainstream media
- 16:43Speaker 3: that has also only gone on to verify and normalize
- 16:48Speaker 3: these these sicknesses. And yeah, it's it is possible to
- 16:55Speaker 3: undo these sicknesses if you take if you take them
- 16:59Speaker 3: on board as soon as possible and slap that share
- 17:03Speaker 3: out of them. Not not literally, you know what I mean.
- 17:07Speaker 1: Actually, it's it's almost the opposite. There's a high high
- 17:13Speaker 1: degree of victimization by adults in the during during childhood,
- 17:19Speaker 1: in the histories of a sexual deviants who offend. It's
- 17:25Speaker 1: it's higher than is normally present among people who don't offend.
- 17:32Speaker 1: So more people per capita more offenders have been molested
- 17:38Speaker 1: or otherwise sexually abused or exploited as children than non offenders,
- 17:45Speaker 1: and that indicates that there is something about being being
- 17:52Speaker 1: molested that makes you more likely to offend. So would
- 17:56Speaker 1: you suggest, in order to avoid the normalization of saying
- 18:02Speaker 1: that there's something wrong with these people and that their
- 18:05Speaker 1: thought pattern is messed up and they should be treated
- 18:08Speaker 1: out of it by medicine, Which I still don't understand
- 18:11Speaker 1: how that's normalization, because we don't say that about mentally
- 18:14Speaker 1: healthy people. But so would the people that suggest that
- 18:22Speaker 1: we avoid providing a way out, a therapeutic way out
- 18:29Speaker 1: of these thought patterns to people who have been molested
- 18:33Speaker 1: suggest that we just when we find out a kid's
- 18:36Speaker 1: been molested, that we just put them down. Yeah, I'm
- 18:41Speaker 1: asking for a friend.
- 18:43Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I often talk about the wood chipper,
- 18:46Speaker 3: and yeah, there are many cases in which there is
- 18:49Speaker 3: no choice but the wood chipper. But let's not forget
- 18:53Speaker 3: it's very easy to falsely accuse people of these crimes,
- 18:59Speaker 3: especially men, and I get the feeling this is what
- 19:04Speaker 3: governments very often do. For all the people that we've heard,
- 19:08Speaker 3: you know, accused of of having terror bytes of pawn
- 19:14Speaker 3: on their hard drive. I you know, sometimes I think
- 19:19Speaker 3: terror bytes? Are there even terror bytes of CP anywhere
- 19:25Speaker 3: in the world. I mean, when you think about a
- 19:27Speaker 3: fucking terribyte drive, you can fit almost early any Hollywood
- 19:30Speaker 3: movie ever made on a terrbyte drive, Like why does
- 19:33Speaker 3: anyone need terror bytes of CP? And that always makes
- 19:38Speaker 3: me think, hmmm, maybe that shit's been planted on someone
- 19:42Speaker 3: who just said the wrong thing, someone who criticized the government.
- 19:47Speaker 3: And you know, I'm not saying that, you know, there
- 19:50Speaker 3: aren't people with gigabytes of CP on the hard drive.
- 19:56Speaker 3: I mean that's feasible, but when it comes you know,
- 20:00Speaker 3: if if you if you set up any crimes as
- 20:04Speaker 3: though it's something that can instantly get you, you know,
- 20:07Speaker 3: locked up and possibly even wood Sheppard. And you need
- 20:11Speaker 3: to be very careful when it comes to how easy
- 20:13Speaker 3: it is.
- 20:13Speaker 1: To Yeah, it's becoming easy.
- 20:16Speaker 3: Accused people and plant it on them, just like just
- 20:20Speaker 3: like the police can plant drugs on someone. It's not
- 20:23Speaker 3: is it.
- 20:24Speaker 1: Doesn't have to go to the police. Did you know that
- 20:27Speaker 1: Jodiarius tried to do that to her victim? Of course
- 20:31Speaker 1: she put she went and found VP and put it
- 20:37Speaker 1: on his his computer. They figured out that she had
- 20:42Speaker 1: done it, but it's because she was an amateur. Somebody
- 20:47Speaker 1: who actually knows what they're doing, say somebody uh from
- 20:54Speaker 1: from a you know, organization or an agency with maybe
- 21:01Speaker 1: three letters, they would be able to do it very easily.
- 21:04Speaker 1: And there have been instances where they have done things
- 21:07Speaker 1: just like that and been caught. So that is that
- 21:11Speaker 1: is a consideration as well. But so uh the the
- 21:19Speaker 1: other question then, since we shouldn't treat mental health conditions
- 21:24Speaker 1: because it opens the door to giving people who have
- 21:29Speaker 1: impulses they don't like that aren't considered dangerous to other people, uh,
- 21:36Speaker 1: and out where they might seek treatment to overcome those impulses.
- 21:40Speaker 1: Does that Does that also include uh, obsessive compulsive disorder
- 21:45Speaker 1: and obsessive compulsive personality disorder because uh, again I'm asking
- 21:51Speaker 1: for a friend. This is this is getting a little dumb, right.
- 21:57Speaker 1: We have to be able to recognize that childhood trauma
- 22:02Speaker 1: and other causes of trauma and mental health conditions are
- 22:09Speaker 1: caused by a lot of things. There could be genetics involved,
- 22:12Speaker 1: there could be injuries involved. Brain injuries can cause mental
- 22:18Speaker 1: some mental health conditions that treatment for things that are
- 22:25Speaker 1: actually harmful doesn't become unmerited just because some slippery slope
- 22:36Speaker 1: argument says, well you could you could be going into
- 22:40Speaker 1: conversion therapy for your homosexuality or whatever. It's a bullshit argument.
- 22:48Speaker 1: You can sort out what is necessary and right from
- 22:54Speaker 1: what is overkilled, and there is no reason to argue
- 22:59Speaker 1: as if human he doesn't have the capacity to do that.
- 23:02Speaker 1: The more important thing to do is argue that humanity
- 23:05Speaker 1: is obligated to use its capacity to do that. But
- 23:11Speaker 1: in terms of in terms of this discussion, we've gone
- 23:17Speaker 1: off the off the rails here a little bit. The
- 23:20Speaker 1: point is journalists, when they are looking at stories like this,
- 23:25Speaker 1: like that that guy that Charlotte brought, he didn't do
- 23:29Speaker 1: anything to protect children from that guy, and he didn't
- 23:33Speaker 1: do anything to help that guy become a non threat,
- 23:39Speaker 1: to become someone that you don't have to protect children
- 23:42Speaker 1: from him because he's not going to do anything to them.
- 23:46Speaker 1: He did none of those things. He did nothing to
- 23:48Speaker 1: benefit society by bringing that guy. His entire goal and
- 23:54Speaker 1: he met that goal was to smear innocent people by association,
- 24:00Speaker 1: and it worked. There have been people for the last
- 24:05Speaker 1: gosh thirteen years, just about the last twelve years that
- 24:11Speaker 1: have shoved that article in our faces, like every time
- 24:17Speaker 1: the Men's Rights Movement or ICMI or anything like that
- 24:20Speaker 1: comes up, and that that doesn't go away, right. I
- 24:27Speaker 1: remember when he interviewed me. He talked to me for
- 24:31Speaker 1: more than an hour, but I recorded the conversation, and
- 24:37Speaker 1: so he didn't use my interview now my phone malfunctioned.
- 24:44Speaker 1: He didn't know the recording didn't work. He just knew
- 24:47Speaker 1: that if he lied about me, there was at least
- 24:51Speaker 1: a significant chance that I could prove it was a lie.
- 24:55Speaker 1: So he didn't publish anything because he couldn't say anything bad.
- 25:01Speaker 1: The thing that you need to do if somebody approaches
- 25:05Speaker 1: you for an article like this, and I don't care
- 25:07Speaker 1: if it's somebody from you know, the mainstream Newsweek, CNN,
- 25:15Speaker 1: any anything like that, vice the establishment media, the left
- 25:21Speaker 1: wing media. I don't care if it's somebody from the
- 25:24Speaker 1: right wing establishment media like Fox News or the newer
- 25:30Speaker 1: establishment mediah one American news like in in the United
- 25:35Speaker 1: States or anyplace else. The Guardian, the Daily Mail. Oh,
- 25:43Speaker 1: what's the one that comes out of Russia that everybody's like, Oh,
- 25:49Speaker 1: you got you got published in that You're you're communist
- 25:51Speaker 1: from Russia? Which is ironic. But any of those you record,
- 25:58Speaker 1: always be recording because they're going to do this. And
- 26:02Speaker 1: so when we're reading through this article, I want you
- 26:05Speaker 1: to remember that, like her comment about the guy having
- 26:08Speaker 1: ketchup on his face, it's entirely possible and quite likely
- 26:13Speaker 1: in fact, that that never happened. The conversations that are
- 26:17Speaker 1: published in this article, maybe they happened. It's possible that
- 26:22Speaker 1: they happened, because I mean, Charlotte, he kind of sought out,
- 26:29Speaker 1: he went looking for that guy. That guy didn't contact him.
- 26:32Speaker 1: He contacted that guy. So these guys will, these writers will,
- 26:40Speaker 1: they'll seek out the worst examples that they can then
- 26:47Speaker 1: attempt to associate with and use to color your opinion
- 26:51Speaker 1: of the movement. That is part of the smear tactics.
- 26:56Speaker 1: That's part of the hit piece. Rtie.
- 26:58Speaker 2: That's it.
- 26:58Speaker 1: Thank you, Lake Coyote. That was a wily answer, but
- 27:05Speaker 1: that was correct, rt is what I was thinking of
- 27:08Speaker 1: any of those, if you have somebody approach you, I
- 27:11Speaker 1: want to do an interview for this publication or that
- 27:14Speaker 1: radio show or this live stream or TV show or whatever,
- 27:18Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, always be recording.
- 27:24Speaker 4: This all.
- 27:25Speaker 1: What we're reading, this all could be fabricated. It could
- 27:30Speaker 1: be made up whole cloth, and we wouldn't know because
- 27:34Speaker 1: it's damn difficult to hold the writer accountable if you
- 27:41Speaker 1: don't have proof, especially if it's an American publication. You
- 27:46Speaker 1: have to have proof not just that they lied, but
- 27:50Speaker 1: there are damages from the lie. So if you if
- 27:54Speaker 1: somebody writes a hit piece about you, and you can't
- 27:57Speaker 1: prove that you got fired because of it, or uh
- 28:01Speaker 1: you got you know, your your bank canceled you and
- 28:05Speaker 1: said you have to take your money somewhere else or
- 28:07Speaker 1: some other inconvenience that could cost you money, and and
- 28:12Speaker 1: you can't prove that you suffered that loss of money
- 28:16Speaker 1: and are deserving of some sort of compensation to make
- 28:23Speaker 1: up for that, then you you don't have a case
- 28:28Speaker 1: in in American courts for for defamation, for slander, for libel.
- 28:34Speaker 1: Libel is really hard because we have free speech and
- 28:42Speaker 1: it does include the right to lie about other people,
- 28:45Speaker 1: believe it or not, as long as that lie doesn't
- 28:49Speaker 1: rise to the level of causing damages. And if you
- 28:56Speaker 1: say something is that's true about somebody then and it
- 29:01Speaker 1: causes damages, you then have to prove that it was
- 29:05Speaker 1: not the business of the people, like you shouldn't have
- 29:08Speaker 1: had the the cause to say it was it the
- 29:10Speaker 1: business of the people that you lied to to hear
- 29:15Speaker 1: that that it was. You know, like somebody, if somebody
- 29:18Speaker 1: takes pain medicine that's a narcotic, it's privately or it's
- 29:25Speaker 1: it's medical privacy. You're not supposed to be sharing that
- 29:29Speaker 1: with everybody in the world, right And so if somebody
- 29:34Speaker 1: has damages because you said, oh, by the way, x
- 29:38Speaker 1: y Z person in at this job or at this
- 29:41Speaker 1: address or whatever is on methadone and you know, or
- 29:47Speaker 1: percocets or whatever the variety of different pain medications, there
- 29:53Speaker 1: are somebody breaks into their house to steal it. You know,
- 29:56Speaker 1: then you know there might be damages even though it's true.
- 30:00Speaker 1: But it's even harder two to get somebody who like
- 30:06Speaker 1: honey traps you and then writes about it in a
- 30:10Speaker 1: way that makes it sound worse than it is when
- 30:14Speaker 1: they're telling the truth and they're just framing it as
- 30:17Speaker 1: some you know, you being a pervert for being honey trapped.
- 30:22Speaker 1: So all of that, like it's it's quite heinous behavior
- 30:26Speaker 1: and journalists know they can get away with it, and
- 30:28Speaker 1: you should never ever just trust what you see. And
- 30:35Speaker 1: in an interview or an expose a where somebody has
- 30:39Speaker 1: spent a day with a group of people and they're
- 30:41Speaker 1: writing about the kind of person that that that that
- 30:44Speaker 1: those people are and the kind of people that might
- 30:46Speaker 1: be associated with them and so on. Right, So with
- 30:50Speaker 1: that in mind, we will go on here and and
- 30:55Speaker 1: read about this this Alex guy that that she has
- 30:59Speaker 1: talked about. And remember, this is the guy that she
- 31:03Speaker 1: said talked about hypergamy and was upset. She characterized him
- 31:13Speaker 1: being upset about being lumped in with violent men as
- 31:18Speaker 1: if he was one of them when he hasn't done anything,
- 31:22Speaker 1: and said he had ketchup on his face instead of
- 31:26Speaker 1: talking about what he was saying and what its implications
- 31:30Speaker 1: actually are. So she goes on, he had just said
- 31:35Speaker 1: a thing about men getting excluded from social circles if
- 31:41Speaker 1: they don't have status, they don't have money. He had
- 31:44Speaker 1: just talked about hypergamy. And for anyone who wasn't listening
- 31:48Speaker 1: last week, the basic understanding of hypergamy would be marrying
- 31:53Speaker 1: up financially or marrying up socially. Somebody who has more
- 32:00Speaker 1: it is more socially important than the woman is before
- 32:05Speaker 1: she gets married, even if he's not rich, or somebody
- 32:09Speaker 1: who has more money makes more money than she does.
- 32:13Speaker 1: And interesting note, by the way, younger women are having
- 32:18Speaker 1: a harder time engaging in hypergamy because there is no
- 32:23Speaker 1: wage gap, and there hasn't been a wage gap for decades.
- 32:31Speaker 1: There is only an earnings gap, and that is only
- 32:36Speaker 1: for women who don't do the work that men do.
- 32:42Speaker 1: So it's not equal work.
- 32:44Speaker 3: It depends where you draw the lines. I mean, the
- 32:46Speaker 3: wage gap has always been drawn along the lines of
- 32:50Speaker 3: that men work harder working jobs than women, they work
- 32:56Speaker 3: more hours than women. And nowadays you have fucking millions
- 33:01Speaker 3: of jobs that are essentially just adult day care for
- 33:05Speaker 3: women where they go in every day and they do
- 33:08Speaker 3: but fuck nothing and they get paid untimely fucking wages
- 33:14Speaker 3: for doing that nothing, and men don't have that option,
- 33:17Speaker 3: Like if men want to get employed, but employed by
- 33:19Speaker 3: a company, they have to actually do something. I'm sure
- 33:22Speaker 3: there are like male HR representatives in some companies, but
- 33:27Speaker 3: it is it is mostly women because because we've had
- 33:34Speaker 3: not just DEI, but the equivalent of DEI that's been
- 33:40Speaker 3: going on for long since before it was called DEI.
- 33:45Speaker 3: It was enforced for the sake of employing women, long
- 33:49Speaker 3: before it was enforced for the sake of employing racial minorities.
- 33:53Speaker 3: By the way, it's going on since the nineties, and
- 33:56Speaker 3: probably before that. So if you take that into account,
- 34:01Speaker 3: if anything, there is a wage gap that favors women
- 34:04Speaker 3: because because of all these millions of women who are
- 34:07Speaker 3: getting paid to do but fuck nothing, whereas men in
- 34:11Speaker 3: the same jobs, as they like to call it, I'm
- 34:15Speaker 3: not going to be able to keep those jobs unless
- 34:19Speaker 3: they actually do something. When when when you factor in
- 34:22Speaker 3: the jobs where people don't fucking do anything other than
- 34:25Speaker 3: you know, harass people for being male, then if anything,
- 34:32Speaker 3: the wage gap favors women. There are many countries in
- 34:35Speaker 3: in in which the wage gap already favors women, even
- 34:39Speaker 3: without taking that into Denmark I think is one of
- 34:42Speaker 3: them where where the wage gap actually favors women, presumably
- 34:46Speaker 3: because because they're factoring in something or other. I say,
- 34:53Speaker 3: it's because we have all these useless jobs that women
- 34:57Speaker 3: are doing, and men are still doing all of the
- 35:00Speaker 3: incredibly useful I mean indispensable jobs like actually keeping the
- 35:05Speaker 3: infrastructure going.
- 35:08Speaker 1: And most farmers and ranchers are men. Actually growing your
- 35:12Speaker 1: food as long as.
- 35:14Speaker 3: Your own as long as your own of jobs that
- 35:18Speaker 3: men do.
- 35:19Speaker 1: Who built your house? Men? Men build your house, Men
- 35:23Speaker 1: built your apartment building. Men built the roads that you
- 35:26Speaker 1: drive on or that you know, ride the bus on
- 35:30Speaker 1: to get to and from work. Men built the bus.
- 35:34Speaker 1: Men built your car. Men. Men built the uber that
- 35:38Speaker 1: you're calling. Men produce the electricity, did the work to
- 35:44Speaker 1: produce the electricity that you use in your home and
- 35:48Speaker 1: your workplace. They're the reason that you have water. They're
- 35:52Speaker 1: the reason the water is clean. They're the reason that
- 35:55Speaker 1: when the water is dirty, it gets taken away from
- 35:57Speaker 1: your house to a place where it gets re cleaned
- 36:00Speaker 1: and sanitized. Right. They're the reason why you can have
- 36:05Speaker 1: You can choose to eat your house with electricity, or
- 36:07Speaker 1: you can choose to eat your house with natural gas.
- 36:11Speaker 1: They're the reason. They're the reason why when when food
- 36:17Speaker 1: is grown and produced and harvested, they're the ones harvesting
- 36:20Speaker 1: it that it gets transported to warehouses, stored there, guarded there,
- 36:27Speaker 1: and then transported to grocery stores. They're the ones that
- 36:32Speaker 1: set up a system to make sure that there's nothing
- 36:34Speaker 1: wrong with it, or at least not anything so wrong
- 36:37Speaker 1: with it that you can't eat it. Uh and and
- 36:41Speaker 1: they are the ones, generally speaking, who created the grocery systems.
- 36:48Speaker 1: And you know, aside from a few situations the I
- 36:54Speaker 1: can't think of her name, but the woman who initially
- 36:58Speaker 1: inherited mar Lago recognized the innovativeness of one man's work
- 37:05Speaker 1: freezing uh freeze flash freezing fish and other frozen foods,
- 37:11Speaker 1: and incorporated it into her family's grocery business. But she
- 37:19Speaker 1: was still basically just helping a man's work be delivered
- 37:24Speaker 1: to the rest of the population. So where women have contributed,
- 37:30Speaker 1: they have contributed in between things that would never have
- 37:35Speaker 1: happened without men.
- 37:40Speaker 3: So yeah, if you can, if you consider the wages
- 37:44Speaker 3: that people get against the capital that they're actually producing,
- 37:52Speaker 3: the work that men do generally produces the raw materials
- 37:56Speaker 3: and you know, and the food and the energy and stuff,
- 38:01Speaker 3: versus the wages that they're getting, I would imagine most
- 38:07Speaker 3: women are taking far more wages than they produce in capital.
- 38:12Speaker 3: So if you factor all that in the wage gap
- 38:16Speaker 3: in terms of wage versus capital, I mean seventy seven
- 38:22Speaker 3: a fucking joke, I imagine it's close to ten percent
- 38:26Speaker 3: that the amount of boost to the economy that women
- 38:33Speaker 3: are actually producing versus the wages they actually get. I
- 38:36Speaker 3: mean it's a minuscule.
- 38:38Speaker 1: It's yeah, women, women, men. Men create wealth, women spend it,
- 38:46Speaker 1: and that's that's That's kind of how it's gone throughout
- 38:48Speaker 1: the entire industrial age. So it becomes harder for women, though,
- 38:56Speaker 1: to to be hypergamous if women are getting paid thousands
- 39:02Speaker 1: of dollars a year to basically do nothing but deny
- 39:06Speaker 1: workers' comp claims and make payroll late. As what happens
- 39:12Speaker 1: when you get men in HR is payroll comes out
- 39:16Speaker 1: on time. If people have questions about their sick days,
- 39:18Speaker 1: they get answered the same day that they get the email.
- 39:21Speaker 1: As somebody calls and wants to know about company benefits,
- 39:25Speaker 1: the employee that they're talking to actually knows what they're
- 39:30Speaker 1: talking about and and doesn't give incorrect answers, and then
- 39:35Speaker 1: come back later and say, well, you're supposed to to
- 39:37Speaker 1: already know that it's in your handbook that we don't
- 39:40Speaker 1: give you that you have to ask us for a
- 39:42Speaker 1: link to online to find out the information. FMLA gets
- 39:47Speaker 1: properly applied and tracked, And like I've I've seen all
- 39:55Speaker 1: these problems happen with women in HR where they it
- 40:00Speaker 1: didn't didn't occur to them that a holiday was coming,
- 40:03Speaker 1: and so payroll ended up being late because they didn't
- 40:06Speaker 1: do the correct preparations. Or one of my coworkers almost
- 40:09Speaker 1: lost her job because they didn't properly apply and track
- 40:12Speaker 1: her f m L a time. And you know, I like,
- 40:15Speaker 1: I've I've seen that.
- 40:17Speaker 5: That was.
- 40:18Speaker 1: That was when I worked at the gas station. It
- 40:19Speaker 1: was really bad too, because she did her end of everything.
- 40:24Speaker 1: She she did her homework, she did everything she was
- 40:26Speaker 1: supposed to do, and HR dropped the ball at that company.
- 40:31Speaker 1: It was a big company too, right, like they've they've
- 40:37Speaker 1: had a long run of business. We'll just I'll just
- 40:42Speaker 1: say that. Uh and and uh, they just completely whiffed
- 40:48Speaker 1: on on her and we almost lost a good coworker
- 40:52Speaker 1: because of it. But uh yeah, when you get men
- 40:56Speaker 1: in HR actually do the job. But usually you also
- 41:01Speaker 1: they're usually either older and more experienced, or they have
- 41:08Speaker 1: expertise in something else, and they end up in HR
- 41:11Speaker 1: because there's a recession, or they've been injured, and they
- 41:14Speaker 1: end up in HR because they can't do what they
- 41:16Speaker 1: used to do anymore. And yeah, women in HR will
- 41:23Speaker 1: demand men or deny men parentally. Even then you have
- 41:27Speaker 1: to appeal it because most companies don't allow you to
- 41:31Speaker 1: deny that.
- 41:33Speaker 2: Uh.
- 41:34Speaker 1: And the worst part is, depending on how long the
- 41:41Speaker 1: bureaucracy has been under control of Democrats, even the Equal
- 41:46Speaker 1: Opportunities Commission isn't always help with that. But so let's
- 41:52Speaker 1: get into this, this pile of bullshit. This this is
- 41:56Speaker 1: put your hip waiters on, guys. This is getting going
- 41:58Speaker 1: to be deep. So she points out Alex doesn't have
- 42:03Speaker 1: status in quotes. Uh, he's been out of work for
- 42:07Speaker 1: a while and lives in a council house on benefits.
- 42:10Speaker 1: He hasn't had a girlfriend in many years and has
- 42:12Speaker 1: given up looking for one. So what she is describing there,
- 42:17Speaker 1: he hasn't had a girlfriend in many years and has
- 42:19Speaker 1: given up looking for one. That is an insult. She
- 42:24Speaker 1: is going to try to use him to paint in
- 42:27Speaker 1: Cels as stupid, lazy, not not very bright, you know,
- 42:37Speaker 1: like not just stupid in terms of not intelligent, but
- 42:42Speaker 1: making dumb choices and having inappropriate, disapproved, verbotan opinions.
- 42:53Speaker 2: She just described, she discribed she described my life.
- 42:57Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit in the in the in the
- 43:01Speaker 4: in the power of.
- 43:03Speaker 1: Well, the only thing that's missing is uh, having a
- 43:06Speaker 1: disability as the reason. Yeah, and she might you know, Alex,
- 43:12Speaker 1: this Alex that she's you know, whatever his real name is,
- 43:16Speaker 1: might have that same circumstance because aren't aren't a significant
- 43:21Speaker 1: number of in culs artistic.
- 43:25Speaker 4: Yeah, but they will didn't, but they will deny that
- 43:28Speaker 4: they're autistic, some of them all.
- 43:31Speaker 3: Sorry, and at least by no means do you need
- 43:36Speaker 3: to be disabled to have found yourself in in that
- 43:39Speaker 3: circumstance circumstance as a man, a normal man will will
- 43:43Speaker 3: will find himself going yeah, no, I it's I don't
- 43:48Speaker 3: have the six figures in any of the any of
- 43:53Speaker 3: the parameters, don't have any of the sexes.
- 43:56Speaker 2: So go on.
- 44:01Speaker 4: Getting on benefits in the UK as a man, it's
- 44:03Speaker 4: very difficult even for me. You're getting on discipline. I
- 44:07Speaker 4: was rejected three times.
- 44:09Speaker 1: So use on benefits. The chances are he's probably disabled.
- 44:17Speaker 4: You don't have to be disabled to be on benefits
- 44:19Speaker 4: in the UK, you don't. We've got to think called
- 44:22Speaker 4: you know, we've got to think called universal credit that
- 44:25Speaker 4: people can apply for so unless and that covers like
- 44:29Speaker 4: people four months, but you have to look for a
- 44:33Speaker 4: job by on universal credit. Well, the disability. You don't
- 44:37Speaker 4: really have to look for a job.
- 44:38Speaker 3: You just have to go to the job center and say, hey,
- 44:41Speaker 3: I'm looking for a job. Can you help find a job?
- 44:45Speaker 3: And they'll feign this helping you find a job, and
- 44:50Speaker 3: as long as you show them like like ten or
- 44:54Speaker 3: twenty instances of you applying for a job over the
- 44:58Speaker 3: space of the month, they'll go all right, his, his, his,
- 45:02Speaker 3: your council taxes, here's like one hundred and fifty quid
- 45:05Speaker 3: a month or something, and we'll keep doing this until
- 45:11Speaker 3: you actually get a job. It's I was on jobs
- 45:17Speaker 3: because once upon a time when I when I like
- 45:20Speaker 3: moved to London and I was between jobs, and I'm
- 45:23Speaker 3: glad for it because I used my spare time to
- 45:25Speaker 3: learn how to animate.
- 45:27Speaker 1: There you go. Yeah, See, in the US, we have
- 45:32Speaker 1: two different systems, well, three different systems. We have one
- 45:34Speaker 1: for disability, but when you're not disabled, we have two
- 45:36Speaker 1: different systems to help you, depending on how you ended
- 45:40Speaker 1: up jobless and what your circumstance was right before you
- 45:43Speaker 1: ended up jobless. So like if you're laid off from
- 45:48Speaker 1: an employer without a recall date, even if you do
- 45:52Speaker 1: have a recalled eate, there's there's unemployment, but if you
- 45:56Speaker 1: don't have a recalled date, things are a little bit
- 45:58Speaker 1: different than if you do. Recall date is like, yeah,
- 46:01Speaker 1: you're laid off for the next ninety days and then
- 46:06Speaker 1: we get back. And some factories do that because they
- 46:08Speaker 1: have dry seasons where they don't have as many orders,
- 46:13Speaker 1: and then they have busy seasons where they have more orders. So,
- 46:17Speaker 1: for instance, I used to work at a place called
- 46:21Speaker 1: Consolidated Biscuit and they made cookies, but they also made
- 46:26Speaker 1: they they packaged potato chips. I think they made the
- 46:31Speaker 1: potato chips there. I just never saw the part where
- 46:33Speaker 1: they do that. I just saw the packaging park because
- 46:36Speaker 1: the conveyor belt area that I worked in was mostly
- 46:39Speaker 1: the packaging area. But they did oh gosh, one of
- 46:44Speaker 1: the things we packaged. I can't think of the STUPI
- 46:50Speaker 1: stupid name. It sounds like wellness. It's something I don't
- 46:54Speaker 1: buy and eat because it's it's you know, prepackaged cookies
- 46:57Speaker 1: and stuff. We don't get a lot of those, like
- 47:00Speaker 1: on occasion, but not very much because I like to
- 47:02Speaker 1: make my own, Like half the fun of having cookies
- 47:06Speaker 1: is making them. I don't I don't understand why people
- 47:09Speaker 1: don't get that. But in any case, we used to.
- 47:14Speaker 1: We used to package a whole bunch of different stuff
- 47:16Speaker 1: like that, and and it would go out and part
- 47:21Speaker 1: of the year we would get you know, shit tons
- 47:23Speaker 1: of orders, and they would have a big workforce and
- 47:26Speaker 1: everybody was full time, and sometimes there was mandatory overtime
- 47:30Speaker 1: and everything, and then there was this three months yeah,
- 47:35Speaker 1: prepackaged wellness, next night motorcyclists. They're totally not by the way,
- 47:41Speaker 1: so I won't say the brand name. But in any case,
- 47:46Speaker 1: you know, the three months out of the year, uh,
- 47:48Speaker 1: they would cut the workforce almost in half, and everybody
- 47:53Speaker 1: was still full time, that was working, but for you know,
- 47:58Speaker 1: about ninety days you would be you'd be laid off.
- 48:02Speaker 1: And if they knew they were bringing you back for
- 48:06Speaker 1: the next round, you got a recall date. But if
- 48:11Speaker 1: they weren't sure, like maybe your rate was too low
- 48:16Speaker 1: or whatever, then you didn't get a recall date. But
- 48:19Speaker 1: you still get recalled if they didn't get enough applicants.
- 48:23Speaker 1: And so if the economy was really good, people who
- 48:26Speaker 1: didn't do a great job could could still come back
- 48:30Speaker 1: and they would be employed for nine months out of
- 48:32Speaker 1: the year and they'd be on unemployment for three months
- 48:34Speaker 1: out of the year. But if the economy sucked and
- 48:38Speaker 1: you didn't get a recall date where it was that
- 48:41Speaker 1: you should be looking for a different job. And if
- 48:46Speaker 1: you're on unemployment, you must every week apply for a job,
- 48:52Speaker 1: and you have paperwork that you had to fill out.
- 48:55Speaker 1: Now this this is me talking about. This would have
- 48:58Speaker 1: been nineteen ninety six, ninety five somewhere in there, and
- 49:05Speaker 1: that was with a recalled eight. You still had to
- 49:07Speaker 1: apply for jobs every week, but the job had to
- 49:10Speaker 1: offer more than what your job would was paying. And
- 49:14Speaker 1: I was told that if I didn't have a recalled eate,
- 49:20Speaker 1: I would have had to The stipulation would have been,
- 49:22Speaker 1: you have to take whatever comes along, because you're not
- 49:27Speaker 1: quitting a job to take that other job. They're not
- 49:31Speaker 1: saying they're going to bring you back, so you have
- 49:33Speaker 1: to take whatever, or you're if you're not in compliance
- 49:38Speaker 1: and you're not gonna get your your benefits. And so
- 49:43Speaker 1: the trick that people would use would be to apply
- 49:45Speaker 1: for stuff that they didn't qualify for but that you know,
- 49:49Speaker 1: paid more than their job, because they didn't want to
- 49:54Speaker 1: apply for anything that would be a lower pay in
- 49:57Speaker 1: case they got hired and and then they wouldn't have
- 50:01Speaker 1: the opportunity to go back to the factory. So personally,
- 50:09Speaker 1: you know, I looked for higher paying job anyway, and
- 50:13Speaker 1: I looked for something that didn't lay off when I
- 50:15Speaker 1: found all that out, because I don't want to be
- 50:18Speaker 1: laid off. But there was a whole community of people
- 50:23Speaker 1: that worked for that factory, like a whole little you know,
- 50:28Speaker 1: network that ordered the way that they worked in their
- 50:33Speaker 1: lives and everything around collecting unemployment for three months out
- 50:37Speaker 1: of the year, and they treated it like a vacation.
- 50:41Speaker 1: And all I could think of was, you know, that
- 50:45Speaker 1: kind of sucks, right, because you're you're essentially screwing yourself
- 50:49Speaker 1: out of half of your wages for three months out
- 50:51Speaker 1: of the year instead of finding a better job. I
- 50:55Speaker 1: found a better job right away, by the way. So
- 50:59Speaker 1: that's that's essentially how that works. But the other end
- 51:02Speaker 1: of it is just straight up various types of welfare.
- 51:07Speaker 1: If you are under the poverty level under well, actually
- 51:11Speaker 1: you can be at a I think one hundred and
- 51:12Speaker 1: fifty percent the poverty level and get food stamps here.
- 51:17Speaker 1: But if you're under the income levels that the state decides,
- 51:23Speaker 1: you know, merit getting assistance. There's all kinds of you
- 51:28Speaker 1: can get cash assistance. There's housing assistance. There's assistance making
- 51:35Speaker 1: your utility payments if you're poor. There's assistance getting to
- 51:40Speaker 1: and from work. There's assistance with childcare, and there are
- 51:45Speaker 1: people who get assistance with childcare despite not working. There's
- 51:51Speaker 1: assistance with getting a degree, getting job training you know
- 51:56Speaker 1: outside of a degree, getting a job, getting a car,
- 52:03Speaker 1: keeping your car running, getting refrigerator. Like, it's so many
- 52:08Speaker 1: different programs out there that you would not believe, and
- 52:14Speaker 1: there are people who make use of as many of
- 52:16Speaker 1: those programs as they possibly can. They maximize everything by
- 52:21Speaker 1: staying the specific amount under the poverty level that puts
- 52:26Speaker 1: them at maximum payout from the government will still having
- 52:33Speaker 1: some income, and since they're working, they don't have to
- 52:36Speaker 1: apply for any employment. If you don't have any employment,
- 52:41Speaker 1: if you're not working at least part time, and you
- 52:43Speaker 1: do these these programs, then they make you donate work.
- 52:50Speaker 1: And it's you know, like you go to goodwill and
- 52:55Speaker 1: you sort items at goodwill, or you go to a
- 52:58Speaker 1: certain church organisations and you work in a soup kitchen,
- 53:02Speaker 1: or you know, there are a couple of other different
- 53:05Speaker 1: things that they have out there. You might work in
- 53:09Speaker 1: a food pantry, you know, which is different from a
- 53:13Speaker 1: soup kitchen, and that a soup kitchen serves a meal
- 53:16Speaker 1: at a time, where a food pantry sends home canned
- 53:20Speaker 1: goods and boxed goods and stuff like that, and even
- 53:25Speaker 1: fresh produce and stuff like All that gets donated either
- 53:32Speaker 1: in cash to the food pantry and then they go
- 53:34Speaker 1: buy it, or it gets donated by people in the
- 53:39Speaker 1: public or or by local grocery stores. I have it
- 53:42Speaker 1: set up. I let Kroger take my data, and you
- 53:47Speaker 1: know what I buy, They know what I buy, they
- 53:49Speaker 1: know what to market to me and stuff like that,
- 53:52Speaker 1: and then in my name they donate to the local
- 53:54Speaker 1: food bank. And it's one of those things. I know
- 53:57Speaker 1: they're going to get my data even if I don't
- 53:58Speaker 1: sign up for that. But if I do sign up
- 54:02Speaker 1: for that, I get they don't charge me as much
- 54:04Speaker 1: for some some of my groceries sometimes. So it's it's
- 54:08Speaker 1: either you you get your data stolen and you get
- 54:10Speaker 1: nothing for it, or you get your data stolen you
- 54:12Speaker 1: get something for it. So when I shop there, I'm donating,
- 54:16Speaker 1: but I don't. They're not the only place that I shop.
- 54:19Speaker 1: There's a neat little market here in the Dayton area
- 54:21Speaker 1: called Dorothy Lane Market that has a lot better groceries.
- 54:27Speaker 1: But in any case, all of that, when it comes
- 54:31Speaker 1: down to it, it's all specialized depending on what your
- 54:35Speaker 1: circumstances are. And men are funding all of it with
- 54:41Speaker 1: their tax dollars and uh for the most part, the
- 54:47Speaker 1: majority of people that are benefiting from it, because there's
- 54:49Speaker 1: a lot of those benefits payments, those charities from the
- 54:56Speaker 1: government that you have to have custody of dependence in
- 55:02Speaker 1: order to be eligible for it, dependent children. You can't
- 55:06Speaker 1: be a working, age able bodied adult and receive it
- 55:14Speaker 1: without working, you know. So mostly it's families with children
- 55:21Speaker 1: or single moms with children.
- 55:25Speaker 4: You know.
- 55:25Speaker 1: Men are much less likely to rely on any of
- 55:28Speaker 1: that stuff. Now, it's not true with disability. With disability,
- 55:31Speaker 1: you just have to be disabled. You have to prove
- 55:33Speaker 1: that you're disabled, and the government makes it hard as
- 55:36Speaker 1: hell to do that, like I've seen I've literally seen
- 55:39Speaker 1: them deny people who were able to see and lost
- 55:45Speaker 1: their eyesight. Because some people blind from birth are not
- 55:50Speaker 1: disabled by it. And obviously the difference is if you
- 55:55Speaker 1: grow up blind from birth, you have an opportunity to
- 55:58Speaker 1: learn to navigate the world without your eyes. But if
- 56:02Speaker 1: you get to like thirty years old and you lose
- 56:06Speaker 1: your eyesight suddenly due to an accident, it's not the same.
- 56:11Speaker 1: You don't have any idea how to navigate the world
- 56:13Speaker 1: that way. But the argument was that some people who
- 56:17Speaker 1: are blind or not disabled, So you have to prove
- 56:21Speaker 1: that being blind disabled you. But if the individual it
- 56:28Speaker 1: was blind from birth, if their family had applied for
- 56:30Speaker 1: them when they were a kid, they would have gotten disability.
- 56:35Speaker 3: So remember, we used to have this fun, we used
- 56:38Speaker 3: to have this fun part of game. What would be
- 56:40Speaker 3: worse being blind or being deaf? And this was something
- 56:45Speaker 3: worth discussing back in the day before everyone was using
- 56:50Speaker 3: computers and screens of the incident all the time, and
- 56:52Speaker 3: nowadays it's just yeah, well, I clearly blind would be worse,
- 56:56Speaker 3: because how the fuck are you supposed to use a
- 56:58Speaker 3: computer when you're Oh, there's there's quite a number of
- 57:01Speaker 3: there's there's some ways. Yeah, but if like you said,
- 57:05Speaker 3: if if you're not used to it, then it's it's
- 57:08Speaker 3: this whole fucking overhaul. Everything has to go through some
- 57:12Speaker 3: kind of text to speech stuff, and it's uh.
- 57:18Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's exactly what it is. You can there
- 57:20Speaker 1: are devices that that can help you if you're if
- 57:26Speaker 1: you're blind, but yeah, that are that are that are
- 57:30Speaker 1: now being improved by computers and even AI, especially with
- 57:34Speaker 1: the use of little cameras and everything.
- 57:37Speaker 2: Uh.
- 57:37Speaker 1: Similarly, if you're deaf, you know, there are devices now
- 57:42Speaker 1: that can assist you in ways that that people who
- 57:46Speaker 1: were in any type of hearing impaired they wouldn't have
- 57:48Speaker 1: had that, you know, twenty or thirty years ago, or
- 57:51Speaker 1: even five years ago. There are a lot of neat
- 57:53Speaker 1: things that computers can do, as long as they're not
- 57:56Speaker 1: being exploited to to doom the masses to a police state,
- 58:02Speaker 1: which is what's happening here in the US right now.
- 58:05Speaker 1: They're even talking about using people's personal security systems to
- 58:11Speaker 1: track the movements of people their neighbors and people in
- 58:17Speaker 1: their neighborhood without their consent like that, that's on the
- 58:22Speaker 1: table right now. People have gotten mad about it. Amazon
- 58:25Speaker 1: was talking about doing it, and they protested them out
- 58:28Speaker 1: of it for a while at least for now. But
- 58:33Speaker 1: we'll see what happens. I think these people want this,
- 58:37Speaker 1: they'll they'll find a way to do it. In any case.
- 58:41Speaker 1: But getting back to that, so she doesn't go into
- 58:47Speaker 1: what what is the reason why if Alex actually does
- 58:52Speaker 1: live in a council house on benefits, why why is
- 58:55Speaker 1: he any council house on benefits? Is he unemployed? Is
- 58:58Speaker 1: he off temporarily from a company? Is he disabled?
- 59:04Speaker 2: Right?
- 59:05Speaker 1: Was he raised by a single mom in a man
- 59:09Speaker 1: desert and she never taught him how to get a job, Like,
- 59:12Speaker 1: we don't know any of that. We don't know any
- 59:14Speaker 1: of that history. We don't know. We don't even know
- 59:18Speaker 1: if this just happened to him or if that's been
- 59:21Speaker 1: his whole life. She says, he sleeps weird hours. I
- 59:27Speaker 1: feel I feel called out here. He sleeps weird hours
- 59:32Speaker 1: and plays video games in the day and night. I
- 59:38Speaker 1: scrub toilets in the middle of the night. Sometimes I
- 59:42Speaker 1: play video games on my phone if I don't have
- 59:45Speaker 1: work to do. Uh, but not very often, because I
- 59:48Speaker 1: almost always have work to do after we eat.
- 59:51Speaker 3: You can get paid for playing video games, by the way,
- 59:53Speaker 3: A lot of people do on Twitch.
- 59:55Speaker 1: Just saying yeah, yeah, that's true. Well I can't. I
- 59:57Speaker 1: can't do that because I'm playing. When I do that,
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: I'm playing like fifteen minutes at a time, you know,
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: while I'm having my lunch at three o'clock in the
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: morning at somebody else's house as a direct support professional
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: for intellectually disabled adults, where it is fairly normal for
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: them to be on some degree of disability in other
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: public assistants, because that's what it was made for. But
- 1:00:30Speaker 1: in any case, Yeah. Although Alex doesn't define himself as
- 1:00:35Speaker 1: an inceell, he claims to have moved past the sexual
- 1:00:38Speaker 1: desperation of his youth. His views sound pretty similar to one.
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: Notice his consent doesn't matter here. He has an identity right.
- 1:00:50Speaker 1: He does not identify as an inceel, which means he's
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: identified since he has stopped looking for a girlfriend. He's
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: identifying his celibacy as voluntary. But does the writer give
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: him permission to self identify? No, because his consent is
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: not required for her to identify him for you know,
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: his his own benefit. He is now identified by her
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: as an insult.
- 1:01:26Speaker 3: You know, I recently discovered the German word for island
- 1:01:30Speaker 3: island is in cell, which is funny because as they say,
- 1:01:35Speaker 3: no man is no man is an island, na manner
- 1:01:40Speaker 3: is an in cell.
- 1:01:42Speaker 2: There we go WI.
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: He posts about men's rights on his ex account and
- 1:01:50Speaker 1: enjoys reporting feminists for transphobia. Now, when this was written
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: and when Musk first took over Twitter, it took it
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: took a few months for him to change the uh,
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: the rules it for a while, you know, like you
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: can't really report somebody for transphobia. They will they they
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: won't do anything about it now. But when he first
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: took over, if somebody misgendered you, uh, and you reported
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: them for it, which I preferred to just make fun
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: of them for it. But if if they misgendered you know,
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: a trans woman or transman, they would report them for
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: it and their account would get banned. So there are
- 1:02:36Speaker 1: feminists who are anti trans who they're mis indry, anti trans.
- 1:02:45Speaker 1: They don't object to trans men the same way they
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: object to trans women. Their objection to trans women is
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: that it's men usurping women's place right. But their objection
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: to trans men is that it is women being pushed
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: into living like a man. So trans men they would
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: treat like victims. Trans women they would treat like perpetrators
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: or some wrong thing. And so they would deliberately get
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: into confrontations with people within the trans community and deliberately
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: misgender them, dead, name them whatever to piss them off
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: and make them feel hurt. And of course it all
- 1:03:30Speaker 1: surrounds the bathroom argument. And my simple answer to the
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: bathroom argument is i'm. You know, I'm. The law has
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: to go both ways. If you're going to arrest trans
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: women for using the women's bathroom, then you must also
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: arrest every woman who uses the men's bathroom to skip
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: the line for the lady's room. And if you are
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: not going to do that, then you're not treating men
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: and women equally under the law. Problem solved fifty percent
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: of women. Just about fifty percent of women admit to
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: using the men's bathroom for that or other reasons. And
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: I will point out one other thing about that. Right
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: you walk into a public bathroom for women, there will
- 1:04:16Speaker 1: be a row of sinks. If there's more than one toilet,
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: there'll be a row of sinks, and there will be
- 1:04:23Speaker 1: a row of stalls with walls in between them and
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: doors on the front and an outer wall, so you
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: can't see the toilet unless you open the door. If
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: you you know somebody's in there, all you see is
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: a pair of feet sticking out below the height of
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: the toilet right, and it's usually high up enough that
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: you would have to be very obvious about it if
- 1:04:48Speaker 1: you wanted to climb up and look down, and it's
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: the wall usually goes down far enough that you'd have
- 1:04:53Speaker 1: to be pretty obvious about it if you wanted to
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: peek in underneath. So there's not anybody exposed to the
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: public that's in there. Everybody that's dropping trow is inside
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: a little cubicle with a door. But in the men's room,
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: if you go into a men's bathroom that has more
- 1:05:15Speaker 1: than one unit for elimination, there will be that same
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: row sinx, you know, mirrors and all that. There will
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: be maybe some stalls with toilets, and then there's urinals,
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: and the urinals are just right out there, fully exposed.
- 1:05:36Speaker 1: Often there's not even a little wall in between the urinals.
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: I know this as a person who has had to
- 1:05:44Speaker 1: clean bathrooms. Right you walk in, you better make sure
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: it's empty before you walk in. If you're female and
- 1:05:51Speaker 1: you're gonna clean that bathroom, because you could embarrass the
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: shit out of some guy. And there's a particular type
- 1:05:57Speaker 1: of crime if you go into a public bathroom to
- 1:06:01Speaker 1: google somebody's private parts. That is called voyeurism, And if
- 1:06:08Speaker 1: you do it accidentally, you can still get accused of it. Right,
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: if you do it accidentally in a women's room, you
- 1:06:16Speaker 1: go in and somebody's sitting there on the toilet with
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: the door wide open, it's not their fault, it's your fault. Right,
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: if you're a guy and you get busted for that,
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: why you shouldn't have been in there, right, But women
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: will go in, they will not even knock. They just
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: walk right into the men's bathroom. They don't they'll walk
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: right past men who are sitting there trying to shield
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: themselves and maintain dignity at the urinals, and they will
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: completely ignore all complaints. They'll actually I've had women get
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: outraged at me for bringing this up, that you are
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: essentially committing voyeurism anytime you walk into a men's bathroom
- 1:07:02Speaker 1: as a woman and there are patrons in the bathroom
- 1:07:09Speaker 1: using the urinals, and if one of them is underage,
- 1:07:14Speaker 1: you're committing voyeurism against an underage person, Like you should
- 1:07:19Speaker 1: stay out of there, that's their space. But women won't
- 1:07:23Speaker 1: do that, And yet they complain that trans women are
- 1:07:27Speaker 1: biological males using the women's restrooms so they can see
- 1:07:31Speaker 1: what's hidden behind closed doors even after they walk into
- 1:07:35Speaker 1: the restroom, Like, you can't kick them in the face
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: if they stick their head under the door. Sorry, I'm
- 1:07:44Speaker 1: not I hate to say this, but I think the
- 1:07:49Speaker 1: issue is dramatically overblown. But yeah, so he probably enjoyed
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: reportings for miss gendering and stuff like that and probably
- 1:08:05Speaker 1: got a few of them banned. If again, this is real.
- 1:08:12Speaker 1: He's not personally invested in the conflict between feminists about
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: trans rights, but if it's a way to get some
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: of them banned, why not. On his YouTube channel, he
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: discusses the marriage trap and hell men are persecuted. You
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: should do a series with me. He says, feminism has
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: a meltdown over men's rights. We get lots of views.
- 1:08:30Speaker 1: He says, you could get famous. Never heard of this guy?
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: But okay, And of course here again she will not
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: discuss the marriage trap, right, Alex.
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: He gets semi famous on the internet. Yeah, I mean
- 1:08:54Speaker 3: there's like a one chance. Well, if if you're particularly
- 1:09:01Speaker 3: for both in a certain way, you could get z
- 1:09:06Speaker 3: list celebrity famous on the Internet. Let's just ignore that.
- 1:09:12Speaker 3: If you indulge in feminism, you can get famous in Hollywood.
- 1:09:17Speaker 3: You could become the fucking prime minister or whatever it
- 1:09:21Speaker 3: is in your country of choice. Like the people have
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: got famous for feminism for the last fifty years or so,
- 1:09:29Speaker 3: uppards of one hundred and and they've got famous from lying.
- 1:09:35Speaker 3: But yeah, some guy goes, you know, if if you,
- 1:09:39Speaker 3: if you actually tell the truth about about these these
- 1:09:45Speaker 3: these gender subjects, then you might find what is it?
- 1:09:51Speaker 3: I think it's roughly forty people are listening to us
- 1:09:54Speaker 3: right now. Yeah, roughly forty two people. Lol, it's forty two.
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: Yeah, forty two people because we're the answer.
- 1:10:01Speaker 3: It's because we're the answer. Some people like the answers,
- 1:10:06Speaker 3: a tiny minority of people like the unpleasant answer. But
- 1:10:17Speaker 3: literally millions of people, if not billions, will make you
- 1:10:21Speaker 3: famous because of the wrong answer. And that's why this
- 1:10:26Speaker 3: ship has flooded our universities and our mass media. So
- 1:10:32Speaker 3: whatever point you're trying to make, lady, it might have
- 1:10:36Speaker 3: blown up in your face there if for a moment
- 1:10:38Speaker 3: you examine what you're saying and what the truth is.
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: But never mind, Yeah, she won't examine the the bit
- 1:10:46Speaker 1: about the marriage trap, that's for sure. And here here's
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: how it goes right. Let's let's imagine you go into
- 1:10:54Speaker 1: a business looking for a financial arrangement. You're going to
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: go to a bank and make a financial arrangement so
- 1:11:04Speaker 1: that you know you'll have money to start a business with.
- 1:11:08Speaker 1: Or you go to a company and your financial arrangement
- 1:11:12Speaker 1: is I will work for you, and you will pay
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: me money and give me insurance benefits and such. And
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: they hand you a contract. Right and at the top
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: of the contract it says, you are bound by this contract,
- 1:11:27Speaker 1: but we are not. Would you sign it because I wouldn't.
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: I wouldn't sign a contract that put me in that situation.
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: I am bound by this contract, but the person I'm
- 1:11:41Speaker 1: making the contract with can just quit at any time.
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: Oh and by the way, underneath it, it says, if
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: we break the contract, you still have to hold up
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: your end of it. You're still bound by the contract.
- 1:11:58Speaker 1: It's not dissolved. Our side of the contract is not dissolved.
- 1:12:02Speaker 1: Even if we abandon it with impunity, you still have
- 1:12:08Speaker 1: to do your in. So the bank says we can,
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: we can take your collateral for the loan, but you
- 1:12:16Speaker 1: still have to pay us back. Even if we are
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: completely compensated by that collateral. We can give you bad
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: credit reports even if you're making your payments on time,
- 1:12:27Speaker 1: and there's nothing you can do about it, right, and
- 1:12:31Speaker 1: we can just debank you without warning, but you still
- 1:12:37Speaker 1: have to keep your money here and uh, it's ours
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: now and you're not allowed to spend it. Would you
- 1:12:44Speaker 1: sign that, because I don't think I would sign that either,
- 1:12:50Speaker 1: or your employer. Your employer might say, oh, well, we
- 1:12:56Speaker 1: could fire you and we don't have to pay you
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: anymore after we fire you, but you still have to
- 1:13:02Speaker 1: come to work every day and do your job. That's
- 1:13:05Speaker 1: how firing works in this contract. Would you sign that
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: because I would not sign that. I don't think I would.
- 1:13:13Speaker 1: And those are all things that are applicable to what
- 1:13:15Speaker 1: men are signing up for if they get married. Every
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: single one of.
- 1:13:19Speaker 5: Them marriage decline anyway, Sorr. It's Valentine's Day apparently, Yep,
- 1:13:28Speaker 5: this has been the low because no one bought anything
- 1:13:32Speaker 5: this Valentine's Day. I lead a woman did men just
- 1:13:35Speaker 5: checked out?
- 1:13:36Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: I can see why. I can see why women have
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: made demands after demands after demands for being treated like
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: something special, for having the legal system set up for
- 1:13:48Speaker 1: their benefit, and for being able to do reprehensible things
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: to their partner with impunity and then still expect their
- 1:13:58Speaker 1: partner to do everything that a partner does out of
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: love because they were once married. And I think women
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: are going to have to understand that's not how partnership works.
- 1:14:12Speaker 1: And I don't think any woman would sign up for
- 1:14:15Speaker 1: that if the roles were reversed.
- 1:14:19Speaker 2: I don't think.
- 1:14:22Speaker 4: The relationships are not going to happen like they once
- 1:14:26Speaker 4: did in a pause, and then it's going.
- 1:14:28Speaker 2: To be on the decline.
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: Yeah, it is right now. In fact, the marriage rate
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: is down and the birth rate is down, and we're
- 1:14:38Speaker 1: looking at a massive decline at this point.
- 1:14:42Speaker 3: I mean, hopefully women will notice the difference between the
- 1:14:49Speaker 3: men on the street just going up to them saying, oh,
- 1:14:52Speaker 3: so beautiful, you are coming back to me. You give
- 1:14:56Speaker 3: me your beauty for.
- 1:14:58Speaker 6: I do you you think and they'll sort of go, uh,
- 1:15:05Speaker 6: maybe I can find the middle ground between those guys
- 1:15:09Speaker 6: and the guys who who are millionaires and.
- 1:15:12Speaker 3: Are sex foot all and have sex packs.
- 1:15:15Speaker 2: Like that's that's that middle ground for woman.
- 1:15:18Speaker 3: That there hasn't been for the longest time because they've
- 1:15:23Speaker 3: been trained only to seek the absolute apex male, to
- 1:15:28Speaker 3: only climb up the ladder of hypergamy.
- 1:15:33Speaker 2: But.
- 1:15:35Speaker 4: Gone when you grow up, they just grow old h anymore.
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: Yeah, it's very difficult. You know, there's the number of
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: women who reach adulthood is shrinking, and like I know
- 1:15:49Speaker 1: women personally that have reached adulthood. Yeah, I feel like
- 1:15:52Speaker 1: I have. But I it took me longer than it
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: should have. Yeah, it wait, took me way longer than
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: it did to be become legally an adult and legally
- 1:16:03Speaker 1: able to sign contracts and take in take out alone
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: and things like that as an adult. But heck, I
- 1:16:16Speaker 1: was almost thirty before I grew up. And I only
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: grew up because I became responsible for another person. And
- 1:16:24Speaker 1: the thing is, when we grow up as girls, we
- 1:16:32Speaker 1: don't get treated like we're responsible for the people around us,
- 1:16:38Speaker 1: you know, maybe as older siblings. Like I was the
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: oldest kid in my family. There were just two of us,
- 1:16:44Speaker 1: me and my little brother, and I was enough older
- 1:16:47Speaker 1: than him that I could be the responsible one. It
- 1:16:51Speaker 1: wasn't considered babysitting. It was really emphasized that I wasn't
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: the babysitter and I was not his boss. But if
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: we had something go wrong, I was the one you
- 1:17:01Speaker 1: know that was in charge if we were left home
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: alone for any period of time, and when we were
- 1:17:09Speaker 1: out in the neighborhood playing and stuff, because I was
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: the older kid. But when my brother and my our
- 1:17:18Speaker 1: friend and I were mugged by older kids for our
- 1:17:23Speaker 1: candy one Halloween when we were out trick or treating
- 1:17:26Speaker 1: the first year we went out without an adult. By
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: the way, I was like eleven years old and our
- 1:17:31Speaker 1: friend was ten, and my brother was nine, and he
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: broke a fourteen year old kid's nose to protect me
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: because he was the boy and I was the girl. Right,
- 1:17:46Speaker 1: That's how That's how boys are raised. And if he
- 1:17:50Speaker 1: had not defended me, everyone in our neighborhood would have
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: treated him like he did not live up to his responsibilities.
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: Was a nine year old third grader against a fourteen
- 1:18:06Speaker 1: year old freshman in high school. Granted, like I said,
- 1:18:11Speaker 1: he did break that kid's nose, which you know it
- 1:18:15Speaker 1: was predicated too by like this slow mo. The kid
- 1:18:19Speaker 1: had grabbed my bag of candy and I had it.
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: It was a pillowcase and I had the top part
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: of it wrapped around my wrist and was holding it
- 1:18:31Speaker 1: like I was going to use it. As a mace,
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: because we knew we were going to get attacked at
- 1:18:36Speaker 1: the point when it happened, and this kid got me
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: from behind and dragged me down the sidewalk by my
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: bag of candy, which tightened around my wrist so I
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: literally couldn't let go and was sitting there trying to
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: yank it off of my arm yelling let go, let go,
- 1:18:54Speaker 1: over and over again. And I was trying to maneuver
- 1:18:57Speaker 1: around so I could kick him and maybe get him
- 1:19:01Speaker 1: to stop so I could get myself loose and run
- 1:19:03Speaker 1: away from him. And my brother's feet come pounding along
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: the sidewalk, and I swear it sounded like the voice
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: of God coming out of this nine year old little
- 1:19:13Speaker 1: boy that's my sister. And the next thing I know,
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: the back of his fist is an inch off of
- 1:19:20Speaker 1: my nose, and then he just launched it up into
- 1:19:22Speaker 1: that kid's face, and there's this split second of absolutely nothing,
- 1:19:28Speaker 1: and then the kid's nose exploded, and of course blood
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: all over both of us. When Dad came to pick
- 1:19:35Speaker 1: us up at the whole of the little old lady
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: that came out and kind of chased off the bad
- 1:19:43Speaker 1: kids and took us inside and gave us cookies and
- 1:19:47Speaker 1: had us weight, you know, for a parent to come
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: and get us. The first thing he saw my brother,
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: He's like, oh my god, where did all that blood
- 1:19:56Speaker 1: come from? This is the last year I ever heard
- 1:19:59Speaker 1: anybody say it's okay, it's not my blood. Like ten
- 1:20:03Speaker 1: years later, those were the most terrifying words a kid
- 1:20:05Speaker 1: could say to the parents whose blood is on you.
- 1:20:08Speaker 1: You know, oh my god, we're going to the hospital.
- 1:20:11Speaker 1: There's no vaccine, parraids, and for a long time that
- 1:20:14Speaker 1: was the scariest idea that you could get infected by
- 1:20:17Speaker 1: somebody else's blood, right, But yeah, it was. It was
- 1:20:24Speaker 1: his responsibility in nine years old to protect his sister,
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: just because I was a girl. And even with those
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: boys being that big and that old, nobody would have
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: given him a pass. And it's one of those we
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: tell guys that they're guilty of toxic masculinity for being
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: stoic and tough and acting fearless when they're not fearless.
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: That's being courageous in the face of something that a
- 1:21:04Speaker 1: woman would run away from, but we impose that on
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: them as a society. It's their responsibility to have toxic
- 1:21:14Speaker 1: so called toxic masculinity.
- 1:21:18Speaker 3: And like I said, women tend to want above average men.
- 1:21:25Speaker 3: I mean, that's not going to change evolutionarily anytime in
- 1:21:28Speaker 3: the next million years. But in the last few thousand years,
- 1:21:34Speaker 3: men have improved on average in every given sense because
- 1:21:39Speaker 3: of men's innovations in state draft in improving not just
- 1:21:48Speaker 3: the technology but the general politeness of men. And this
- 1:21:52Speaker 3: is why Western women have noticed that all the men
- 1:21:55Speaker 3: around them, like even the working class up to and
- 1:21:59Speaker 3: including the upper class, have become so much more polite
- 1:22:01Speaker 3: and so much more accepting of women's behavior. And so
- 1:22:07Speaker 3: women looked across these these these men in the Western world,
- 1:22:14Speaker 3: and they've gone, well, I want the above average of that, Like,
- 1:22:18Speaker 3: it's not enough for me to have like a normal
- 1:22:21Speaker 3: working class man who's perfectly polite and perfectly respectful. I
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: want a six figure earning six packs six further. And
- 1:22:32Speaker 3: they're like, well, why wouldn't I want someone who's above
- 1:22:34Speaker 3: the average of that? But since a feminist policies have
- 1:22:40Speaker 3: flooded the country with men who don't really meet that standard,
- 1:22:46Speaker 3: men who just who just come up to you in
- 1:22:49Speaker 3: the street and go, oh beautiful and all that. And
- 1:22:53Speaker 3: then if you if you don't follow them back to
- 1:22:55Speaker 3: their complementary hotel room, they fucking punch you out. I'm
- 1:23:00Speaker 3: thinking that there's a recent video of some guy in
- 1:23:04Speaker 3: Ireland who just walked past this woman and the just
- 1:23:06Speaker 3: punched her out for no particular reason, particularly because he's
- 1:23:12Speaker 3: come from a country where women don't just walk around
- 1:23:15Speaker 3: dress like hawes, and so if he sees a woman
- 1:23:18Speaker 3: dressed like a whore, he just punches her out. And
- 1:23:21Speaker 3: you can sort of see why. But you know it's
- 1:23:24Speaker 3: because women in the West have become so accustomed to
- 1:23:27Speaker 3: men just seeing average women walking around dress like cars,
- 1:23:32Speaker 3: and they're like, Okay, I guess that's what women want
- 1:23:36Speaker 3: to do a lot of whatever. I'm gonna see if
- 1:23:42Speaker 3: I can ignore my impulses and hold out for a
- 1:23:47Speaker 3: woman who's just as respectable as I am. But because
- 1:23:51Speaker 3: we've flooded the country, and when I mean the country,
- 1:23:54Speaker 3: I mean most western country, We've flooded the country with
- 1:23:58Speaker 3: men from other cultures who say their their average level
- 1:24:08Speaker 3: of politeness has not raised like it has in the West.
- 1:24:13Speaker 4: Uh.
- 1:24:15Speaker 3: There these are men from countries who I don't know
- 1:24:21Speaker 3: how to say this without, you know, sounding like a
- 1:24:24Speaker 3: traad con misundersted. But you know, the people were bringing
- 1:24:30Speaker 3: in from these countries tend to be criminals, I tend
- 1:24:34Speaker 3: to be men who don't really respect people's boundaries. And
- 1:24:39Speaker 3: so we flooded the country with men who will just
- 1:24:42Speaker 3: fucking knock you out if if you seem too immodest,
- 1:24:45Speaker 3: they'll just knock you out if if you don't give
- 1:24:49Speaker 3: them what they want at a moment's notice. They think
- 1:24:52Speaker 3: if they just call you beautiful and say come back
- 1:24:56Speaker 3: to my place, then you're doing them some kind of disservice.
- 1:25:03Speaker 3: And so hopefully, like I said, hopefully women will finally
- 1:25:09Speaker 3: finally realize that the average when it comes to men
- 1:25:13Speaker 3: is not the high average of Western men who will
- 1:25:18Speaker 3: who will just forgive you for all your horror. Ways,
- 1:25:22Speaker 3: like when you take into account the men of the
- 1:25:24Speaker 3: third world, the average is kind of kind of much
- 1:25:29Speaker 3: lower than Like, there's a lot of men out there
- 1:25:33Speaker 3: who won't take your bullshit and and and your feminist policies,
- 1:25:39Speaker 3: your euicophobic policies have have found you surrounded with those men.
- 1:25:45Speaker 3: So hopefully they can they can reevaluate their their their
- 1:25:54Speaker 3: evaluation of what the average man is given the lower
- 1:25:59Speaker 3: averages with which they are now surrounded, and it's it's
- 1:26:06Speaker 3: it's my hope that they can finally go well, yeah,
- 1:26:08Speaker 3: actually we had it good for a long time with
- 1:26:12Speaker 3: these with these Western men who will who will just
- 1:26:16Speaker 3: love us, even if we have flaws, They will just
- 1:26:22Speaker 3: love us. And maybe that's a lot better than these
- 1:26:25Speaker 3: men who will fucking knock us out for our for
- 1:26:30Speaker 3: our flaws. But I don't hold much hope.
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: What's really dumb is it's like, what you're noticing is
- 1:26:41Speaker 1: the difference between traditionalism in Western nations and traditionalism in
- 1:26:52Speaker 1: some some Eastern nations, Middle Eastern and other some other
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: Eastern nations, where it is a much older fashioned traditionalism,
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: less changed traditionalism, where it is impolite male or female
- 1:27:10Speaker 1: to put a bunch of skin on display, And so
- 1:27:14Speaker 1: from their perspective, it's rude as hell for you to
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: walk down the street with your entire back showing, your
- 1:27:22Speaker 1: arms showing, your belly showing, and your cleavage showing. But
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: from their perspective it is not unreasonable for them to
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: respond by slugging you. But at the same time, a woman,
- 1:27:37Speaker 1: if a woman walks down the street and some guy
- 1:27:39Speaker 1: approaches her and says something reprehensible, and sexually explicit, which
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: is what he sees if from that other culture, when
- 1:27:51Speaker 1: he sees someone walking down the street in a sport top,
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: it's reprehensible and vulgar to him. If you hit him
- 1:28:01Speaker 1: for making a lud suggestion, lots of people will back
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: you up, right. So it's a matter of perspective, and
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: a culture where it is acceptable for a woman to
- 1:28:15Speaker 1: walk down a street in a sport top and expect
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: that nobody will make a lude comment toward her is
- 1:28:21Speaker 1: not compatible. It's not compatible with a culture where walking
- 1:28:28Speaker 1: down the street in a sport top is the equivalent
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: of a leude comment, making a lude comment at everyone
- 1:28:38Speaker 1: around you. It's only compatible with other cultures where you're
- 1:28:44Speaker 1: not supposed to notice that she's almost naked. And so
- 1:28:49Speaker 1: this idea that it's about masculinity and not about culture,
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: it's kind of silly and it's very self defeating because
- 1:28:59Speaker 1: you're not going to solve the problem by ignoring the
- 1:29:02Speaker 1: culture clash. You're only going to create. It's very much
- 1:29:08Speaker 1: like you're not going to solve the problem of pyromania
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: by ignoring the fact that it is a disorder of impulses,
- 1:29:20Speaker 1: intrusive thoughts, and inability to control one's reaction to one's impulse.
- 1:29:28Speaker 1: They call it impulse control, but it's actually behavioral control.
- 1:29:31Speaker 1: You don't control the behavior that you exhibit in response
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: to your impulses. I can't count how many times a
- 1:29:39Speaker 1: day I have the impulse to say, oh my god,
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: what is wrong with you to somebody, and I don't
- 1:29:49Speaker 1: do it because that's just mean and rude. Right, that's
- 1:29:54Speaker 1: impulse control. If I had no impulse control, I'd be
- 1:29:59Speaker 1: wh and around with a giant can of almonds, just
- 1:30:02Speaker 1: eating out of it all day long, non stop impulse control. Right,
- 1:30:09Speaker 1: But it's really behavioral control because you're not controlling the impulse.
- 1:30:12Speaker 1: The impulse is still there, you're controlling the behavior that
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: you exhibit in response to the impulse. No, I don't
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: have to check the lock on my door five times
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: after I've locked it to make sure it really is locked.
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: I know I did it. And behavioral control, so again,
- 1:30:32Speaker 1: you don't have compatibility with that those two cultures. You
- 1:30:37Speaker 1: should not flood the homeland of the culture where you're
- 1:30:46Speaker 1: expected to have more behavioral control in regard to your
- 1:30:49Speaker 1: impulses should you have less.
- 1:30:52Speaker 3: Nor should you flood your culture with women who have
- 1:30:55Speaker 3: no impulse control. Now that's what we're facing right now.
- 1:30:58Speaker 3: We've developed thisulture where women can do whatever they like,
- 1:31:02Speaker 3: they can indulge any impulse they like, and now we've
- 1:31:06Speaker 3: flooded the country with foreign men who are completely incompatible
- 1:31:11Speaker 3: with that impulse control and they have their own impulse controls.
- 1:31:15Speaker 3: And the general normally populous and the normy media I
- 1:31:22Speaker 3: kind of at odds as to what they do about this.
- 1:31:27Speaker 3: When women have no self Native women have no self control,
- 1:31:32Speaker 3: and foreign men have no self control, what do we
- 1:31:34Speaker 3: do other than punish Native men? And all they can
- 1:31:38Speaker 3: do is punish Native men over and over again, because
- 1:31:42Speaker 3: they already have this ideology where everything is the fault
- 1:31:47Speaker 3: of native men. And I, you know, I'm losing patience
- 1:31:53Speaker 3: with any of this, like especially when it comes to
- 1:31:59Speaker 3: even our own native right wing, in our own nativist
- 1:32:03Speaker 3: right wing, even when it comes to you know this,
- 1:32:07Speaker 3: this Restore Party, he never mind reform, fuck reform. But
- 1:32:11Speaker 3: even even the Restore Party can't sort of get their
- 1:32:14Speaker 3: heads around this idea that we've brought this upon ourselves
- 1:32:18Speaker 3: by letting women do whatever they want and like it.
- 1:32:23Speaker 3: I like Rupert Lo, Rupert Low, even understands to some
- 1:32:27Speaker 3: degree the degree to which women have been fucked over
- 1:32:32Speaker 3: in family courts. He gets he gets that to some degree.
- 1:32:37Speaker 3: He sort of he understands where that's going. But he
- 1:32:41Speaker 3: keeps focusing on the problems of the impulses of native men.
- 1:32:48Speaker 3: And sure, that makes sense because that's the problem that's
- 1:32:52Speaker 3: been layered on top of the previous problem. The previous
- 1:32:55Speaker 3: problem being letting women do whatever they want. But the
- 1:32:59Speaker 3: fact that we that our country has been flooded by
- 1:33:02Speaker 3: foreign men who do whatever they want happened because we
- 1:33:06Speaker 3: let native women do whatever they want. Because native women
- 1:33:08Speaker 3: sort of they have this relational aggression where they where
- 1:33:15Speaker 3: they just want to punish their own kind. I call
- 1:33:18Speaker 3: it akophobia. You know where I'm coming from by now,
- 1:33:22Speaker 3: and the exactly the exact is oichophobia by flooding the
- 1:33:25Speaker 3: country with foreign men to teach their own family a lesson,
- 1:33:30Speaker 3: to teach their own countrymen a lesson. And yeah, I'm
- 1:33:39Speaker 3: hoping after the Restore Britain has come into power, we
- 1:33:47Speaker 3: can do away with labor, we can do away with conservatives,
- 1:33:49Speaker 3: we can do away with reform, and then we'll be
- 1:33:53Speaker 3: a two party system between Restore Britain and whatever party
- 1:33:57Speaker 3: comes along with ree on the front of its name
- 1:34:01Speaker 3: actually get around to defeminizing the country. And I'm sure
- 1:34:06Speaker 3: even Rupert Low will be like, oh no, that's that's
- 1:34:09Speaker 3: part too misogynist, and the new re Party will be Yeah,
- 1:34:15Speaker 3: everything you said about foreign men, we're saying about native women.
- 1:34:19Speaker 3: You know, everything you fixed about all that previous ship,
- 1:34:23Speaker 3: we're going to fix about the next thing. I'm not
- 1:34:25Speaker 3: sure what we what we're what we're going to call it.
- 1:34:27Speaker 3: There's a whole bunch of words that start with red, remasculinize.
- 1:34:32Speaker 3: We're going to do the Remasculinized Party. And I hope
- 1:34:35Speaker 3: Restore Britain wins the next election. It's a thin hope,
- 1:34:40Speaker 3: it really is. But if and when they do, like
- 1:34:44Speaker 3: I say, I hope we can spend the rest of
- 1:34:46Speaker 3: eternity arguing between us with people who who put the
- 1:34:52Speaker 3: British people first and people who put the British people
- 1:34:56Speaker 3: first without putting the British women first.
- 1:35:00Speaker 1: What has to happen is balance. We have to that
- 1:35:04Speaker 1: there are aspects of women that can that have the
- 1:35:08Speaker 1: potential to be great. And if we bring forth men's
- 1:35:14Speaker 1: best selves and we bring forth women's best selves, and
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: those best selves work together instead of working against each
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: other to raise families that are they create an environment,
- 1:35:30Speaker 1: a home environment specifically for the purpose of bringing forth
- 1:35:35Speaker 1: the best selves of their children. Then you get a
- 1:35:39Speaker 1: civilization in which people can be happy and comfortable, mostly safe.
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: There's always danger in the world, but not like this. Right,
- 1:35:50Speaker 1: you get a civilization where you don't need huge, all
- 1:35:56Speaker 1: encompassing social systems to handle able bodied people can't support themselves,
- 1:36:04Speaker 1: and it becomes a lot easier to fund the systems
- 1:36:08Speaker 1: for helping people who have disabilities that are bad enough
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: that they cannot support themselves because they are disabled, that
- 1:36:17Speaker 1: they are unable to work, or they're unable to work consistently. Right,
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: and that would be the best thing. But unfortunately, if
- 1:36:28Speaker 1: the feminine is not allowed to dominate, instead of keeping
- 1:36:32Speaker 1: in balance with the masculine, feminists get angry and they
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: throw temper tantrums in the streets, and they get young
- 1:36:38Speaker 1: people to set whole neighborhoods on fire. It's terrible. I
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: will have two things in the chat to address before
- 1:36:46Speaker 1: moving on. Zer Inx gave us five dollars in a
- 1:36:50Speaker 1: super child and said, funny that you need to prove
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: you're disabled to get government aid, but you just have
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: to undermine your ability to scrape buy for the same thing.
- 1:37:00Speaker 1: Basically in the welfare system, almost like having a good
- 1:37:04Speaker 1: reason as an inconvenience. But it's a happy thing for
- 1:37:07Speaker 1: the powers that can that be if they can regard
- 1:37:10Speaker 1: you as pathetic and people wonder why there's so much corruption,
- 1:37:14Speaker 1: and that is true.
- 1:37:16Speaker 4: You know.
- 1:37:18Speaker 1: When I was the last year before I conceived my
- 1:37:24Speaker 1: son with my husband, I was in two car accidents.
- 1:37:30Speaker 1: I was rearinded twice as a passenger in another person's car,
- 1:37:35Speaker 1: two different people. The first time it was by a
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: tow truck for semis, so it was as heavy as
- 1:37:42Speaker 1: a semi maybe more. And the second time it was
- 1:37:45Speaker 1: I was in a little Ford Festiva, which anybody that's
- 1:37:49Speaker 1: ever seen a Ford Festiva you could park one of
- 1:37:51Speaker 1: those on your dinner table and still have room for
- 1:37:54Speaker 1: a full meal. And a buick came around the corner
- 1:37:59Speaker 1: at top speed and just rammed into us so hard
- 1:38:02Speaker 1: that we went airborne. Flew an entire car length granted
- 1:38:07Speaker 1: it was the car length of a Festiva, but still
- 1:38:09Speaker 1: an entire car length, and rammed the vehicle in front
- 1:38:12Speaker 1: of them in front of us hard enough to move
- 1:38:14Speaker 1: them and the person in the vehicle in front of
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: us got whiplash. And so in the space of eight months,
- 1:38:24Speaker 1: I had two times, two instances where I was just
- 1:38:28Speaker 1: kind of thrown around the inside of a vehicle like
- 1:38:30Speaker 1: a rag doll. And I weighed about one hundred and
- 1:38:34Speaker 1: twenty pounds five foot nine, about one hundred and twenty pounds, nothing,
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: no muscle structure, no, nothing to protect me. And so
- 1:38:46Speaker 1: my parents thought my injuries were going to be permanent
- 1:38:49Speaker 1: and disabling, because my mom was injured like that in
- 1:38:54Speaker 1: her thirties and her accident that we were in, the
- 1:39:00Speaker 1: driver was doing more like fifty to fifty five miles
- 1:39:03Speaker 1: an hour, went through a field and directly impacted the
- 1:39:09Speaker 1: door outside of her seat, and the accident was bad
- 1:39:14Speaker 1: enough they had to use the jaws of life to
- 1:39:15Speaker 1: get her out of the car and she almost died
- 1:39:19Speaker 1: and she had pain her entire life from that. And
- 1:39:24Speaker 1: we did not know that on my mom's mom's side
- 1:39:29Speaker 1: of the family, we had the vascular form of Ailer's
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: danloaps writing in the family, so we did not know
- 1:39:36Speaker 1: that it was abnormal for us to recover much more
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: slowly if at all from soft tissue injuries. Mom just
- 1:39:47Speaker 1: knew that what had happened to me was going to
- 1:39:51Speaker 1: cause a lifetime of pain, and it has, but it's
- 1:39:56Speaker 1: not the only thing that caused it. And when I
- 1:39:59Speaker 1: realized that, like, I stopped the process of dealing, doing
- 1:40:04Speaker 1: lawsuits and everything else. And just because it's not necessarily
- 1:40:09Speaker 1: I can't measure what the other person did to me,
- 1:40:12Speaker 1: and it's not fair to just sue them for something
- 1:40:16Speaker 1: that isn't entirely caused by their actions. Right, But in
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: the meantime, they had me apply for disability, and the
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: plan was, you know, I would I would use that
- 1:40:30Speaker 1: until I figured out a way to not be disabled,
- 1:40:33Speaker 1: because we knew I would eventually, but at that moment,
- 1:40:41Speaker 1: it looked like it might be years and years before
- 1:40:45Speaker 1: I could do any kind of work again. And the
- 1:40:48Speaker 1: first thing they do is deny you, no matter what
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: reason you put down. Ninety five percent of people who
- 1:40:57Speaker 1: fill out an application and turn it in it denied.
- 1:41:01Speaker 1: And I think it. I don't think they even look
- 1:41:03Speaker 1: at the application. And then you have to file an appeal.
- 1:41:06Speaker 1: And when you file the appeal, then they send you
- 1:41:09Speaker 1: to physicians and stuff like that. And because I was
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: being treated for depression at the time. Being temporarily disabled
- 1:41:18Speaker 1: is very fucking depressing, by the way, especially if you're
- 1:41:22Speaker 1: accustomed to working two or three jobs at a time
- 1:41:25Speaker 1: and all of a sudden you can't do jack shit
- 1:41:27Speaker 1: and you have to rely on other people to support you.
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the Ford Festival was a lot of fun
- 1:41:35Speaker 1: to drive night motorcyclist. It was. It was just awesome.
- 1:41:39Speaker 1: But it wasn't much fun to get hit in, I
- 1:41:43Speaker 1: will tell you that. But it was manual transmission, so
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: it was great. It was a little It was like
- 1:41:51Speaker 1: having your own little race car on the street. I'm
- 1:41:54Speaker 1: lucky I didn't get into an accident when I was driving.
- 1:41:59Speaker 1: But so I applied. I appealed, and they sent me
- 1:42:03Speaker 1: to the psychiatrist and he did an IQ test and
- 1:42:06Speaker 1: he's like, oh, this is great. Your result is great.
- 1:42:09Speaker 1: Dey'll send you to job training and you won't have
- 1:42:12Speaker 1: to be on disability for too long. So I was
- 1:42:15Speaker 1: really encouraged. And I get the results back of my
- 1:42:20Speaker 1: appeal and it says you can't possibly be disabled you
- 1:42:24Speaker 1: have a very high IQ, which was true. I did
- 1:42:27Speaker 1: have a very high IQ, and everybody around me was
- 1:42:29Speaker 1: all outrage right, Oh my god, gude, what are you
- 1:42:32Speaker 1: gonna do? Sit there and think really hard, and money
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: will just appear on the table so you can use
- 1:42:36Speaker 1: it to pay your bills. But I sat there and
- 1:42:40Speaker 1: I thought about it for a while. I thought about
- 1:42:42Speaker 1: it for days, because they were talking about getting a
- 1:42:44Speaker 1: lawyer and all kinds of advice. But eventually I decided that,
- 1:42:52Speaker 1: you know, they they were right. I do have a
- 1:42:57Speaker 1: very high IQ. I had to be able to figure
- 1:42:59Speaker 1: out something I could you, something that I could pay
- 1:43:03Speaker 1: my own way, that my income wouldn't be limited to
- 1:43:08Speaker 1: what you get for disability. And so I started working
- 1:43:13Speaker 1: on it, and I went back into retail, but specifically
- 1:43:18Speaker 1: in a retail store that sold cameras. Because I do photography.
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: I was I used to have professional equipment. I haven't
- 1:43:26Speaker 1: done that for a while, but I had a twenty
- 1:43:28Speaker 1: five year career preceding and following that space and time
- 1:43:37Speaker 1: as a professional photographer. And so if anybody was going
- 1:43:41Speaker 1: to be good at helping people connect with what camera
- 1:43:44Speaker 1: was going to be right for their purposes, it was
- 1:43:46Speaker 1: going to be somebody who used cameras for a living.
- 1:43:51Speaker 1: And you know, I was a bit of a nerd
- 1:43:53Speaker 1: about it. Like we would get a new camera in
- 1:43:55Speaker 1: and I would dig through the box and get out
- 1:43:57Speaker 1: the manual and read the whole thing and then go
- 1:43:59Speaker 1: back can start playing with the camera and checking out
- 1:44:02Speaker 1: all the features and everything. And I became the person
- 1:44:05Speaker 1: that helped people understand the techanese in the manual right.
- 1:44:10Speaker 1: I also figured out a way to coordinate with the
- 1:44:14Speaker 1: three different photo labs that we worked with to get
- 1:44:17Speaker 1: the best lab for the best service for the customer's needs.
- 1:44:20Speaker 1: And as a result, I ended up making pretty good
- 1:44:23Speaker 1: commission and it served me right. It served me well
- 1:44:31Speaker 1: to listen to that you can't be disabled. You have
- 1:44:34Speaker 1: a very high IQ. You should be able to figure
- 1:44:36Speaker 1: this out. Our country is so accustomed to wallowing and
- 1:44:44Speaker 1: self pity and giving up too easily and deciding I
- 1:44:50Speaker 1: can't I can't do that, I can't handle that, this
- 1:44:53Speaker 1: is too hard, especially when the individual in that situation
- 1:44:58Speaker 1: is a woman. All this poor women shouldn't have to
- 1:45:02Speaker 1: suffer like that, When they would let a man sleep
- 1:45:04Speaker 1: on the street for the rest of his life. Under
- 1:45:08Speaker 1: that circumstance, that we have become weak, And I think
- 1:45:15Speaker 1: if I was on disability for the rest of my life,
- 1:45:17Speaker 1: I would be miserable. I know it's there for people
- 1:45:20Speaker 1: who really need it, and I'm glad it's there for
- 1:45:22Speaker 1: people who really need it, but it's cruel to encourage
- 1:45:32Speaker 1: people who don't need it to use it. Anyway. If
- 1:45:37Speaker 1: I'd have been in a different situation where like I
- 1:45:40Speaker 1: couldn't walk, you know, I would have had to find
- 1:45:43Speaker 1: a desk job. I probably could have done the job
- 1:45:45Speaker 1: I did without being able to walk. I'd just had
- 1:45:47Speaker 1: to get there in a wheelchair. But in any case,
- 1:45:53Speaker 1: you know, I went from being a stayed tested nurses
- 1:45:57Speaker 1: aid in that moment as my my second job, to
- 1:46:03Speaker 1: being a sales representative as my primary job for a while,
- 1:46:08Speaker 1: and then eventually it became my second job, you know,
- 1:46:12Speaker 1: and to this day, like for a while when I
- 1:46:15Speaker 1: was working there, I just did that, and then I
- 1:46:17Speaker 1: went back slowly into wedding photography, got to the point
- 1:46:21Speaker 1: where I could be on my feet for twelve hours again,
- 1:46:26Speaker 1: and you know, eventually built my strength back up right
- 1:46:30Speaker 1: and I when I we had to move to Dayton,
- 1:46:34Speaker 1: all of a sudden, I was teaching photography at the
- 1:46:41Speaker 1: at the Salina branch, the business branch of Wright State University,
- 1:46:45Speaker 1: the Lake Campus, and I continue to do that until
- 1:46:51Speaker 1: I replaced that income. I did that for three years.
- 1:46:56Speaker 1: This is something that used to be normal. You were
- 1:46:59Speaker 1: looking for a job when you got that one. All Right,
- 1:47:02Speaker 1: you can't do this anymore. The question isn't how are
- 1:47:06Speaker 1: you going to survive? It's the starting question is, Okay,
- 1:47:09Speaker 1: well what can I do? Because that's where I start
- 1:47:13Speaker 1: to figure out how I'm gonna survive? What can I do?
- 1:47:17Speaker 1: And you go from there. And unfortunately, our system has
- 1:47:23Speaker 1: gotten to the point where it's all or nothing, So
- 1:47:32Speaker 1: you don't get help getting back on your feet after
- 1:47:36Speaker 1: you've been knocked down farther than you were prepared to handle,
- 1:47:41Speaker 1: and you don't get encouraged to ask, okay, but what
- 1:47:44Speaker 1: can I do? I can't do that, Okay, I'm done
- 1:47:48Speaker 1: with that. That's over and and you know sometimes that's
- 1:47:52Speaker 1: not always true either I can't do that the way
- 1:47:55Speaker 1: I did it before, but maybe I can do it
- 1:47:56Speaker 1: a different way. You know, doesn't get consideration anymore. You
- 1:48:02Speaker 1: never get to what can I do? Because you stop
- 1:48:06Speaker 1: at no. We need to go back to being a
- 1:48:10Speaker 1: can do country. And so my family decided, since I
- 1:48:16Speaker 1: had decided I was going to figure out what can
- 1:48:18Speaker 1: I do? They figured out how they could support my
- 1:48:22Speaker 1: effort at getting back on my feet instead of being
- 1:48:25Speaker 1: held up by the rest of society for the rest
- 1:48:27Speaker 1: of my life. And so I stayed with my parents
- 1:48:33Speaker 1: for a few years and got my ship back together,
- 1:48:38Speaker 1: and got married to my husband, and got legally married
- 1:48:44Speaker 1: to my husband, and because it does kind of sound funny,
- 1:48:48Speaker 1: got married to my husband. We got legally married three
- 1:48:51Speaker 1: years after we made our first vows. And then we
- 1:48:59Speaker 1: moved when we had to in order to prevent our
- 1:49:03Speaker 1: family from being broken up after his ex wife decided
- 1:49:07Speaker 1: to take his two daughters and move to the southern
- 1:49:11Speaker 1: part of Ohio from the northern part of Ohio to
- 1:49:15Speaker 1: get outside of the area that she had to allow
- 1:49:19Speaker 1: him to have his visitation. And she was really surprised
- 1:49:23Speaker 1: when we moved. It's not used to people being able
- 1:49:28Speaker 1: to just pull up stakes and start over again someplace else.
- 1:49:32Speaker 1: But that used to be the norm. That used to
- 1:49:35Speaker 1: be people used to do that all the time, and
- 1:49:40Speaker 1: women are too scared to do that now. They will
- 1:49:44Speaker 1: live in the farmer's rabbit warren of Watership Down, knowing
- 1:49:51Speaker 1: that they or their neighbors might be sacrificed at any
- 1:49:55Speaker 1: time because they're afraid to go where they don't have
- 1:49:58Speaker 1: a supply of food just handed to them. When we
- 1:50:04Speaker 1: fix women, when we fix that attitude. And it's funny,
- 1:50:13Speaker 1: you know that that story I just told I was
- 1:50:17Speaker 1: twenty twenty seven, twenty eight years ago, and today my
- 1:50:24Speaker 1: job is taking care of people with disabilities, and I
- 1:50:29Speaker 1: work with people who fight battles every day that are
- 1:50:31Speaker 1: harder than anything I've ever fought for any length of
- 1:50:35Speaker 1: time in my entire life. And you feel like I
- 1:50:39Speaker 1: made the right choice. So but you know, like I said,
- 1:50:44Speaker 1: you know you have to you have to think not
- 1:50:48Speaker 1: what this lady writing this article is doing. He's not
- 1:50:52Speaker 1: even looking at this guy's life, not even considering how
- 1:50:55Speaker 1: did he get here, what is his origin? What is
- 1:51:00Speaker 1: the reason that he has ended up in this situation?
- 1:51:03Speaker 1: What harms or damages has he suffered that has put
- 1:51:08Speaker 1: him into a position of eligibility. So the other one
- 1:51:14Speaker 1: I wanted to consider. I saw the phrase suicidal empathy.
- 1:51:22Speaker 3: I fucking hate that phrase.
- 1:51:24Speaker 1: I have a really solid reason for hating that, all right.
- 1:51:27Speaker 1: I was raised by two school teachers whose primary subject
- 1:51:33Speaker 1: throughout their school careers that they taught. My mom was
- 1:51:36Speaker 1: straight up an English teacher. My dad was an elementary
- 1:51:39Speaker 1: school teacher, but for the last many many years of
- 1:51:43Speaker 1: his teaching career he was teaching reading in English. In
- 1:51:46Speaker 1: my school system. There is no such thing as suicidal empathy.
- 1:51:54Speaker 1: There is suicidal compassion. People misuse the word empathy all
- 1:52:00Speaker 1: the time and it drives me nuts. Empathy is the
- 1:52:05Speaker 1: literal definition, is feeling the other person's feelings, not necessarily
- 1:52:11Speaker 1: in the psychic way. If your dog died and then
- 1:52:18Speaker 1: your best friend's dog died, you can feel his pain
- 1:52:22Speaker 1: because you went through that. You know what that's like.
- 1:52:25Speaker 1: If you have a dog and your best friend's dog
- 1:52:29Speaker 1: died and you go through a period of panicky grief
- 1:52:37Speaker 1: over your dog, that's empathy. You're feeling the other person's
- 1:52:42Speaker 1: grief and it makes you worried about your dog. Right.
- 1:52:46Speaker 1: Sympathy is knowing your friend is going through grief and
- 1:52:52Speaker 1: understanding that he's experiencing that set of emotions. Compassion is
- 1:53:02Speaker 1: caring about your friend's grief and compassion can be impractical.
- 1:53:09Speaker 3: And psychopath Psychopaths have empathy, but they don't have compassion.
- 1:53:14Speaker 1: Yeah, and when you have empathy and you don't have compassion,
- 1:53:18Speaker 1: and you don't have a set of ethics that bars
- 1:53:23Speaker 1: you from exploiting your empathy to take advantage of people,
- 1:53:30Speaker 1: you become very dangerous.
- 1:53:33Speaker 4: Right.
- 1:53:35Speaker 1: Compassion can also be dangerous if your friend your best friend.
- 1:53:41Speaker 1: Let's say your best friend doesn't have a dog. He
- 1:53:43Speaker 1: has a drug addiction and it hurts you to see
- 1:53:49Speaker 1: him go through this. You're sympathetic to his plight and
- 1:53:54Speaker 1: he is. You can see him destroying himself, and you're
- 1:53:57Speaker 1: sad that he can't pay his bills and you want
- 1:54:00Speaker 1: to help. And he's about to be thrown out in
- 1:54:02Speaker 1: the street because his rent isn't getting paid because he's
- 1:54:06Speaker 1: spending it on some kind of addictive substance. Compassion can
- 1:54:13Speaker 1: mean wanting to pay that bill so he doesn't get
- 1:54:16Speaker 1: thrown out on the street. Practical compassion, on the other hand,
- 1:54:22Speaker 1: can mean tough love, not where you let him get
- 1:54:25Speaker 1: thrown out on the street, but where you make a
- 1:54:27Speaker 1: deal with him that you'll be there for him through
- 1:54:31Speaker 1: the whole process of rehab and you're going to take
- 1:54:34Speaker 1: him and at least ask him to listen to what
- 1:54:38Speaker 1: they have to say at the front office of the
- 1:54:42Speaker 1: rehab center and consider you know, going in for rehab.
- 1:54:50Speaker 1: That's practical compassion. Practical compassion is not paying your unemployed
- 1:54:57Speaker 1: friend's rent, but helping him find a job and then
- 1:55:02Speaker 1: helping him make it through till he gets his first
- 1:55:04Speaker 1: paycheck and expecting him to pay you back at a
- 1:55:10Speaker 1: reasonable level, reasonable rate, so that he doesn't feel beholden
- 1:55:16Speaker 1: to you. That's practical compassion. And the biggest problem in
- 1:55:20Speaker 1: our society isn't this so called suicidal empathy. It is
- 1:55:24Speaker 1: practical compassion. Practical compassion is when, instead of receiving thousands
- 1:55:32Speaker 1: of so called refugees from a nation that is having political,
- 1:55:36Speaker 1: social political issues, we work with that nation to fix
- 1:55:41Speaker 1: those issues, and if we have to accept refugees, it's
- 1:55:45Speaker 1: on a temporary basis while we work to fix those issues.
- 1:55:50Speaker 1: To help fix those issues so that they can go
- 1:55:52Speaker 1: back to their homeland where their culture is the prevailing culture,
- 1:55:57Speaker 1: and they can and be with their families and their
- 1:56:01Speaker 1: friends and their neighborhoods in the places where they grew
- 1:56:05Speaker 1: up that are familiar to them and not uprooted and
- 1:56:08Speaker 1: living somewhere else. That's practical compassion. Impractical compassion is creating
- 1:56:15Speaker 1: the environment that the left created in the United States
- 1:56:21Speaker 1: and in the UK. People who come here should come
- 1:56:27Speaker 1: here because this is the place they want to be,
- 1:56:31Speaker 1: that they're interested in the culture here and that they
- 1:56:34Speaker 1: want to contribute to it and be a part of it,
- 1:56:40Speaker 1: not because they're trying to escape something. You know, it's awful.
- 1:56:46Speaker 1: I would not want to have to try to escape Ohio.
- 1:56:50Speaker 1: My whole family is here, except for a very small
- 1:56:54Speaker 1: number who have moved to other states, and I can
- 1:56:56Speaker 1: still visit them because they're still in the US. But
- 1:57:00Speaker 1: if I had to flee to another country, it would
- 1:57:03Speaker 1: break my heart. It was hard enough to move from
- 1:57:08Speaker 1: a rural area to an urban area that terrified the
- 1:57:11Speaker 1: shit out of me. I just to go someplace, especially
- 1:57:14Speaker 1: to go someplace where I don't speak the language, that
- 1:57:16Speaker 1: would just be horrible. I wouldn't want to do that.
- 1:57:19Speaker 1: I would much rather if Ohio became such a black,
- 1:57:22Speaker 1: bad place, work to change that, make it better. And
- 1:57:27Speaker 1: I think that most people in the world would rather
- 1:57:30Speaker 1: have what they grew up with, what is familiar to them,
- 1:57:34Speaker 1: what they value, and what they know, what their traditions are,
- 1:57:39Speaker 1: the people they love be around them, and not go
- 1:57:43Speaker 1: someplace where everyone is a stranger and try to make
- 1:57:48Speaker 1: the surroundings fit them. But in any case, that's the
- 1:57:56Speaker 1: difference between empathy, empathy and compassion and practical compassion.
- 1:58:06Speaker 3: This all became all but crystal clear after Charliekirk's assassination.
- 1:58:11Speaker 3: We saw all manner of these people saying, I'm glad
- 1:58:14Speaker 3: he's dead. I'm glad he died in pain. I'm glad
- 1:58:18Speaker 3: his children have no dad, I'm glad his wife has
- 1:58:23Speaker 3: no husband. And I'm glad that you're all sad. I'm
- 1:58:26Speaker 3: glad that you're all angry, because I want you all dead.
- 1:58:32Speaker 3: I want anyone who loves their own family dead. I
- 1:58:37Speaker 3: want anyone who loves their own country dead. I want
- 1:58:40Speaker 3: anyone who loves their own people dead. And I'm glad
- 1:58:45Speaker 3: about it. And then some people ostensibly opposed to this
- 1:58:52Speaker 3: will sit there and go, oh, you poor dear, you
- 1:58:55Speaker 3: have suicidal empathy. Like what you're witnessing there is the
- 1:59:02Speaker 3: opposite of empathy and the opposite of suicidal. They're straight
- 1:59:08Speaker 3: up telling you they have no empathy. They're even fucking
- 1:59:11Speaker 3: scrolling it across gravestones and shit, No, we have no
- 1:59:15Speaker 3: empathy for you, and we want you dead. See that's
- 1:59:20Speaker 3: not suicidal, that's homicidal, well, is genocidal when you take
- 1:59:28Speaker 3: it to its to its logical end. When you're looking
- 1:59:31Speaker 3: at there is genocidal hatred. But the people ostensibly opposing
- 1:59:38Speaker 3: this are looking at it and going, oh, you poor dear,
- 1:59:42Speaker 3: you have suicidal empathy. Now, what does that sound like
- 1:59:46Speaker 3: to you, ladies and gentlemen in the audience. I invite
- 1:59:51Speaker 3: you to examine the irony that the person in that situation,
- 1:59:57Speaker 3: who can even be in potentia described as having suicidal empathy,
- 2:00:04Speaker 3: is the person saying, oh, you poor, you have suicidal
- 2:00:07Speaker 3: empathy because they're they're viewing hateful, genocidal as dickheads. There's
- 2:00:19Speaker 3: nothing more than people with suicide empathy, you see. And
- 2:00:23Speaker 3: this has this infinite regress and you know, for me
- 2:00:27Speaker 3: to describe them as as as suicidal empaths, it can
- 2:00:32Speaker 3: land me with the same charge of suicidal empathy. But
- 2:00:38Speaker 3: if if there is such a thing as suicidal empathy,
- 2:00:41Speaker 3: it's that it's looking at hateful genocidalist dickheads as nothing
- 2:00:48Speaker 3: but suicidal empaths.
- 2:00:50Speaker 1: No, well, it's not them that's being called impaths. It's
- 2:00:53Speaker 1: the people who are uh acting as though you can't
- 2:00:59Speaker 1: criticize them and you can't. So, in other words, the
- 2:01:03Speaker 1: people who voted for the Democrats to let the borders
- 2:01:08Speaker 1: remain open and not vet immigrants coming in to make
- 2:01:13Speaker 1: sure that they're not cartel members and stuff. The people
- 2:01:15Speaker 1: who voted for that system are the ones being accused
- 2:01:19Speaker 1: of suicidal empathy, not the people that are coming across
- 2:01:22Speaker 1: the border.
- 2:01:23Speaker 3: But if you examine their thoughts for a moment, you're
- 2:01:28Speaker 3: not just that they don't give a shit about the Native.
- 2:01:31Speaker 1: People, right, And that isn't empathy.
- 2:01:34Speaker 3: That's not empathy. They hate their own people.
- 2:01:38Speaker 1: Yeah, well they're not. They're not even considering the experiences
- 2:01:44Speaker 1: of the Native people, much less knowing them and understanding them.
- 2:01:48Speaker 1: So it's not empathy. It's not empathy of any kind.
- 2:01:53Speaker 1: And it's not really sympathy either. The people that they're
- 2:01:57Speaker 1: bringing in honestly aren't people they care about, because if
- 2:02:03Speaker 1: they really cared, they would be very upset knowing that
- 2:02:07Speaker 1: a portion of the people who are coming across the
- 2:02:10Speaker 1: border are not coming because they want to be here,
- 2:02:13Speaker 1: but because they got kidnapped and are being forced to
- 2:02:16Speaker 1: come here, or are being used as drug mules. You know,
- 2:02:20Speaker 1: they're they're either being exploited on the way across, or
- 2:02:23Speaker 1: they're coming here to be sold as slaves when they're
- 2:02:27Speaker 1: coming through illegally and they're not coming through checkpoints. That
- 2:02:32Speaker 1: is a major issue. And yet when you bring it up,
- 2:02:37Speaker 1: the people who support open borders don't want to talk
- 2:02:42Speaker 1: about that. They don't want to talk about the slave
- 2:02:45Speaker 1: trade that exists today right now while we are talking
- 2:02:51Speaker 1: in the country that prides itself and the satellite that
- 2:02:58Speaker 1: became an independent country. Here in the US and in
- 2:03:01Speaker 1: the UK, there are slave trades of immigrants who are
- 2:03:06Speaker 1: here illegally. There is a sex trade of immigrants who
- 2:03:13Speaker 1: are here illegally, who have been forced to come here
- 2:03:16Speaker 1: against their will, and many of them are underage boys
- 2:03:19Speaker 1: and girls. And practical compassion says, you want to prevent that.
- 2:03:27Speaker 1: You don't want it to be easy for human traffickers
- 2:03:31Speaker 1: to use your border or your lack of a border
- 2:03:34Speaker 1: to impose sex slavery on children. You want talent here,
- 2:03:43Speaker 1: You want, you know, people to enjoy contributing to the country.
- 2:03:49Speaker 1: You want neighbors that are interesting and fun and want
- 2:03:53Speaker 1: to be part of your culture, and so on. But
- 2:03:59Speaker 1: you don't want I don't think anybody in their right
- 2:04:04Speaker 1: mind wants children to be trafficked. And yet that discussion,
- 2:04:11Speaker 1: When that discussion happens, the first thing that these people
- 2:04:16Speaker 1: with this so called suicidal empathy, who really what they
- 2:04:19Speaker 1: really have is impractical compassion. They want to feel like
- 2:04:24Speaker 1: they're doing something good for other people. They don't want
- 2:04:27Speaker 1: to hear it, and they will call you racist. Nobody
- 2:04:31Speaker 1: said all the traffickers are of a particular background when
- 2:04:36Speaker 1: you get into the United States. Nobody said all the
- 2:04:40Speaker 1: people who are purchasing, all the buyers for these human
- 2:04:44Speaker 1: traffickers are of any particular background or race. In fact,
- 2:04:51Speaker 1: many of the many of the upper class, middle aged
- 2:05:00Speaker 1: what do they call them, wasp or whatever.
- 2:05:03Speaker 4: Uh.
- 2:05:04Speaker 1: You know, there are people in in that particular bracket,
- 2:05:10Speaker 1: right the the the not the Bill Gates bracket, but
- 2:05:14Speaker 1: the people who uh, people who maybe live in Silicon
- 2:05:18Speaker 1: Valley and work for Bill Gates. That that income bracket,
- 2:05:23Speaker 1: actors and actresses, income bracket A listers, some of them have,
- 2:05:30Speaker 1: some of them have some very illicit backgrounds. And it's
- 2:05:36Speaker 1: it's all coming out now with the Epstein stuff. But
- 2:05:39Speaker 1: like I said on Tuesday, we talk about Epstein Island
- 2:05:44Speaker 1: like it's in an abnormality. I really wish it was,
- 2:05:50Speaker 1: But what's happened there is a microcosm of what's going
- 2:05:55Speaker 1: on around in the world with the open borders issue.
- 2:06:01Speaker 1: This is happening everywhere. It is happening. I guarantee you
- 2:06:07Speaker 1: it is happening in the town where you live. There
- 2:06:10Speaker 1: is somebody in your neighborhood that is trying to manage
- 2:06:15Speaker 1: being having been brought here illegally and against their will.
- 2:06:21Speaker 1: There's at least one person in your neighborhood where you live,
- 2:06:24Speaker 1: wherever you live, if you're in the United States, if
- 2:06:27Speaker 1: you're in the continental United States, in your neighborhood somewhere,
- 2:06:32Speaker 1: one of your neighbors has done this, has exploited somebody.
- 2:06:37Speaker 1: Unless you live in the poorest of neighborhoods like that,
- 2:06:43Speaker 1: that is the case. That is the situation. And if
- 2:06:46Speaker 1: you if you're still supported after that. It's not sympathy.
- 2:06:53Speaker 1: It's sure a shit not empathy. You clearly don't have
- 2:06:58Speaker 1: a concept of what's being experienced by these people. And
- 2:07:02Speaker 1: it's not compassion. It's just you being selfish treating the
- 2:07:06Speaker 1: issue and the people in it like your purse puppy.
- 2:07:11Speaker 1: Look what I've got on display. I has this cute
- 2:07:12Speaker 1: little puppy. I have this cute little little ideology. I
- 2:07:15Speaker 1: have this cute little belief system. I'm a nice person.
- 2:07:17Speaker 1: No you're not. You support human trafficking. Shut the fuck up.
- 2:07:21Speaker 3: Yeah. To summarize as best I can, suicidal empathy is
- 2:07:27Speaker 3: a homological phrase or an autological phrase. I hope, I
- 2:07:34Speaker 3: hope some of you at least already know what that means.
- 2:07:37Speaker 3: Homological slash autological. It means a word or phrase that
- 2:07:41Speaker 3: describes itself as a word or phrase, such as English
- 2:07:46Speaker 3: is an English word and small is a small word.
- 2:07:50Speaker 3: That kind of thing. Suicidal empathy is exactly that it
- 2:07:55Speaker 3: can only be used by someone who is already guilty
- 2:08:01Speaker 3: of of of the charge which it prescribes to its
- 2:08:10Speaker 3: to its subject. It cannot possibly make any sense because suicide.
- 2:08:15Speaker 3: It's because because it's being applied to someone who's who's
- 2:08:20Speaker 3: not enacting it on their self, they're enacting it on
- 2:08:24Speaker 3: other people who are like them. I mean, if there
- 2:08:30Speaker 3: could be such a thing as suicidal empathy, as in
- 2:08:33Speaker 3: like if you're if you're married to the love of
- 2:08:37Speaker 3: your life and they commit suicide, and so then you
- 2:08:41Speaker 3: commit suicide because you can't live life without them. I
- 2:08:44Speaker 3: mean that that is a situation in which it could
- 2:08:47Speaker 3: be a heterological phrase. But when you're dealing with people
- 2:08:52Speaker 3: who are only interested in in destroying their own people,
- 2:09:00Speaker 3: I mean, the fact that you don't understand what lycophobia
- 2:09:03Speaker 3: is sort of unravels how that's nothing but a homological phrase.
- 2:09:13Speaker 3: Like what the vast majority of times when the phrase
- 2:09:17Speaker 3: suicide empathy is used, and yes I am talking about God, sad,
- 2:09:22Speaker 3: the vast majority of times is used, it's only describing
- 2:09:27Speaker 3: what you're doing. These people aren't suicidally empathetic. They want
- 2:09:34Speaker 3: you dead, and they're using other people to get you dead.
- 2:09:40Speaker 3: They don't care if they die. And that's not suicidalism,
- 2:09:43Speaker 3: that's nihilism. If anything, it's they want you dead. And
- 2:09:51Speaker 3: if all you're doing is euphemizing what they're saying as
- 2:09:58Speaker 3: merely empathy, ethic, or suicidal, then you are the suicidal EmPATH.
- 2:10:07Speaker 3: And yeah, I'm trying to break this recursive spell by
- 2:10:13Speaker 3: pointing out that this is a completely useful, the useless
- 2:10:17Speaker 3: phrase in every sense that it's being used nowadays. No,
- 2:10:23Speaker 3: what they what they are is hateful. If you keep
- 2:10:26Speaker 3: describing hateful people as loveful, then yeah, you're you're you're
- 2:10:33Speaker 3: you're another layer in the spell of hateful genocide. You're
- 2:10:41Speaker 3: you're just you're just appreciating and exacting the hateful genocide.
- 2:10:49Speaker 3: So yeah, I I am averse to ever telling anyone
- 2:10:54Speaker 3: to stop using a word or a phrase because I'm
- 2:10:58Speaker 3: I'm for free speech. I would like you to use
- 2:11:02Speaker 3: any word or phrase you feel is apposite, But I
- 2:11:06Speaker 3: would challenge you to ask yourself what the fuck you're
- 2:11:09Speaker 3: even saying. If someone wants you dead, they're not being empathic.
- 2:11:14Speaker 3: If someone wants you dead, they're not being suicidal. They
- 2:11:19Speaker 3: want you dead. See you see the fucking difference.
- 2:11:23Speaker 1: The whole point of free speech is the ability to
- 2:11:28Speaker 1: freely communicate thoughts, beliefs ideas, you know, a hash them
- 2:11:34Speaker 1: out and all that. You can't very well do that
- 2:11:36Speaker 1: if you're not communicating, and you cannot communicate, if you
- 2:11:39Speaker 1: use words differently than what they mean, and people don't
- 2:11:43Speaker 1: understand what you're saying, it's the whole point behind you
- 2:11:47Speaker 1: speak Richard, you were speaking up. Yeah, this article finished,
- 2:11:57Speaker 1: We've still got we've still got more. We'll probably we'll
- 2:12:01Speaker 1: read the next paragraph just because uh it gets into
- 2:12:05Speaker 1: another bullshit argument. And then and then we'll we'll quit
- 2:12:09Speaker 1: for the night. But this is this is great, right.
- 2:12:12Speaker 1: She called him an insult after he defined his celibacy
- 2:12:17Speaker 1: as voluntary, and then she acknowledges Alex joined a separatist
- 2:12:23Speaker 1: movement in the Manisphere once Men Going their Own Way
- 2:12:27Speaker 1: or make Tao. It emerged in the two thousands and
- 2:12:34Speaker 1: urged men to distance themselves. And by the way, miketaw
- 2:12:37Speaker 1: is not a movement, it is in a phenomenon.
- 2:12:42Speaker 2: It's a philosophy.
- 2:12:43Speaker 1: Yeah, and it didn't emerge in the two thousands. It's
- 2:12:49Speaker 1: been it's at least as old as recorded human history.
- 2:12:55Speaker 1: It's just that the term used to be different. We
- 2:12:57Speaker 1: used to call people hermits. You know, like a man
- 2:13:02Speaker 1: who went his own way, lived in the woods or
- 2:13:05Speaker 1: out in the wilderness, somewhere away from everybody else and
- 2:13:08Speaker 1: didn't I didn't have too much to do with other
- 2:13:12Speaker 1: people unless he really wanted to or had to. It
- 2:13:16Speaker 1: was a hermit. And uh, you know in stories all
- 2:13:21Speaker 1: the time, they're they're used to like provide information. They're
- 2:13:25Speaker 1: like the the the Magic Blackman trope. Except before before
- 2:13:31Speaker 1: the Magic Blackman trope, there was the Magic Loaner trope.
- 2:13:37Speaker 4: For you said you could you could say the magical,
- 2:13:40Speaker 4: but you can't say that.
- 2:13:43Speaker 1: Uh, I suppose you can. It's just it's it's not
- 2:13:45Speaker 1: a word that occurs to me to use very much.
- 2:13:47Speaker 3: Can we still say negro even even if we have tourets?
- 2:13:52Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 2:13:52Speaker 4: Well that's that's that's least defensive.
- 2:13:55Speaker 1: It's not a that way. People might take it as one,
- 2:14:02Speaker 1: but it's not a racial slur. That's that's hilarious. It
- 2:14:08Speaker 1: just didn't occur to me, right because it's usually it's
- 2:14:12Speaker 1: usually a man. But at least in the stories that
- 2:14:16Speaker 1: i've I'm like more into the stories where somebody is
- 2:14:21Speaker 1: using his sword and hunting treasure. So maybe there's it's
- 2:14:25Speaker 1: it's not really gendered, and I'm just not reading the
- 2:14:27Speaker 1: right stories.
- 2:14:29Speaker 3: From what I've gathered from the Black Andese language, Niggas
- 2:14:35Speaker 3: means men, bitches means women. Like when when when black
- 2:14:41Speaker 3: people talk talk about niggas that they're talking about men.
- 2:14:45Speaker 1: It depends, right, Yeah, that one that one I do
- 2:14:52Speaker 1: that I recall of that from past article.
- 2:14:58Speaker 2: The article mention slower baits.
- 2:15:00Speaker 1: Oh god, I forgot she existed. Wow, Okay, so we'll
- 2:15:07Speaker 1: go on. It im merged in two thousands out of nowhere,
- 2:15:11Speaker 1: because there was never a tradition of men going off
- 2:15:14Speaker 1: to be by themselves before the early two thousands. Guys,
- 2:15:19Speaker 1: that's like a brand new behavior that never happened in
- 2:15:22Speaker 1: the past. Don't read on walden Pond or anything, you know,
- 2:15:26Speaker 1: because even temporarily doing that, it's probably weird. Uh mik
- 2:15:30Speaker 1: Tau adherents believe a lot of men have found success
- 2:15:33Speaker 1: by shunning women. That's the way to put it. I
- 2:15:37Speaker 1: wonder what she would say about training rules, you know,
- 2:15:40Speaker 1: where you don't drink alcohol, you you know, only eat
- 2:15:44Speaker 1: healthy food, you exercise every day, and you don't you
- 2:15:47Speaker 1: abstain from sex, and that probably would I wonder what
- 2:15:52Speaker 1: she would say.
- 2:15:55Speaker 4: They will call you, They will call you a neo Nazi.
- 2:15:59Speaker 1: How about the Betan monks that go out up into
- 2:16:01Speaker 1: the mountains and don't see a woman their entire lives.
- 2:16:04Speaker 3: The right brothers were make tales. They didn't have wives.
- 2:16:08Speaker 3: They just they just set about their their.
- 2:16:13Speaker 4: And that's why you want, That's why you want.
- 2:16:17Speaker 2: By a pic, there's a.
- 2:16:19Speaker 3: There's a bunch of men thracty. I think Nicola Tesla
- 2:16:23Speaker 3: was technically a maketown. I mean whatever it means to
- 2:16:26Speaker 3: be technically a maketaw is if you if you don't
- 2:16:28Speaker 3: take a wife, and you don't particularly pursue a wife.
- 2:16:32Speaker 3: There's all manner of men throughout history who have changed
- 2:16:38Speaker 3: everyone's life for the better, largely because they didn't bother
- 2:16:42Speaker 3: with the bitches.
- 2:16:45Speaker 1: Yeah, it's uh, it's almost as if the history of humanity,
- 2:16:54Speaker 1: in which people who are hyper focused on a particular project,
- 2:17:01Speaker 1: and whether it be themselves or something like creating the
- 2:17:05Speaker 1: first device that people might use to fly around the world,
- 2:17:11Speaker 1: it might need to remain hyper focused on that in
- 2:17:15Speaker 1: order to achieve the outcome that they are attempting to achieve,
- 2:17:19Speaker 1: and distractions would slow them down. And sometimes relationships can
- 2:17:23Speaker 1: be a distraction. And there are so many men in
- 2:17:27Speaker 1: the world who have been highly successful and then gotten
- 2:17:31Speaker 1: divorced and you hear from the wife, well, he wasn't
- 2:17:35Speaker 1: very focused on the relationship, no, because he was focused
- 2:17:40Speaker 1: on building this highly successful company, or creating this great invention,
- 2:17:47Speaker 1: or creating whole new areas of the study of mathematics.
- 2:17:53Speaker 1: Like maybe he had something going on there while he
- 2:17:58Speaker 1: was doing that. Did you focus on providing care and
- 2:18:01Speaker 1: supporting his goals or did you focus on whether or
- 2:18:04Speaker 1: not he was focused on you. And so for men
- 2:18:09Speaker 1: to not have to that a woman to make sure
- 2:18:13Speaker 1: she's not going to be the latter, and for men
- 2:18:16Speaker 1: to not have to deal with that that fallout. Some
- 2:18:24Speaker 1: of them choose not to focus on women at all.
- 2:18:27Speaker 1: They don't get distracted. They just pursue this one thing,
- 2:18:31Speaker 1: and in religion, that that goes becomes institutionalized, right, it's
- 2:18:40Speaker 1: part of the institution in some religious practices that and
- 2:18:46Speaker 1: in some religions it's both men and women that are
- 2:18:49Speaker 1: hyper focused on being the best they can at their
- 2:18:57Speaker 1: spiritual relationship with God and maintaining that in order to
- 2:19:04Speaker 1: be the best guides they can for other people's spiritual
- 2:19:07Speaker 1: relationships with God. And the minute they get distracted with
- 2:19:12Speaker 1: impulses and interest in other humans that that's not a
- 2:19:18Speaker 1: spiritual interest, they fall and then they usually fall on
- 2:19:24Speaker 1: the people that they went into that practice to support.
- 2:19:30Speaker 1: So it's it's very important that if people make that
- 2:19:34Speaker 1: choice to go their own way from the norm of
- 2:19:42Speaker 1: having a partner and focusing on your relationship, that that
- 2:19:47Speaker 1: our society should support that. When the individual is attempting
- 2:19:53Speaker 1: to strive for some sort of success and to to
- 2:20:00Speaker 1: optimize something that they are doing that would be hindered
- 2:20:06Speaker 1: by that type of distraction, and it's not something you
- 2:20:12Speaker 1: can Like. A night motorcyclist mentioned that being placed in
- 2:20:18Speaker 1: a monastery used to be a punishment in itself, and yeah,
- 2:20:22Speaker 1: those would be people that would fall. They wouldn't be
- 2:20:25Speaker 1: able to maintain that because it's not something they're dedicated to.
- 2:20:27Speaker 1: It's not a goal. It's something that people should be
- 2:20:33Speaker 1: able to choose, and their choice should be supported. But
- 2:20:38Speaker 1: when you try to impose it on them, you create
- 2:20:42Speaker 1: a situation where that individual is dedicated or not dedicated,
- 2:20:46Speaker 1: but doomed to fall and to fall on other people.
- 2:20:55Speaker 1: But let's see, she goes on. She goes on to
- 2:21:01Speaker 1: say women could only ruin their lives with false allegations. Well, yeah,
- 2:21:09Speaker 1: it's not that Mike tal think that women can only
- 2:21:13Speaker 1: ruin their lives with false allegations. It's that they recognize
- 2:21:16Speaker 1: that if a woman decides she's going to ruin a
- 2:21:20Speaker 1: man's life with false allegations, he has zero protection under
- 2:21:26Speaker 1: the law.
- 2:21:28Speaker 3: They don't ruin their lives with false allegations. They make
- 2:21:31Speaker 3: millions from it.
- 2:21:33Speaker 1: Yep, they ruin the men's men's lives, but they make
- 2:21:38Speaker 1: millions from the women's lives or from the fallout. But yeah,
- 2:21:46Speaker 1: and abuse and miss indry. Also, yeah, women can ruin
- 2:21:50Speaker 1: your life by abusing you because you have difficulty escaping that,
- 2:21:55Speaker 1: and miss inry, that just leads to the abuse and
- 2:21:59Speaker 1: the false salegies. So it's not unreasonable for a man
- 2:22:05Speaker 1: if he doesn't feel comfortable trying to vet women for character,
- 2:22:07Speaker 1: if he doesn't feel capable, if he's not sure that
- 2:22:12Speaker 1: a woman can maintain the character she has when he
- 2:22:15Speaker 1: vets her for character, which is another issue. He does
- 2:22:18Speaker 1: know that if she chooses to display bad character, lie
- 2:22:24Speaker 1: about him, cheat on him, abandon him, and try to
- 2:22:27Speaker 1: take half his shit, that the system we have today
- 2:22:32Speaker 1: will facilitate that, it will not protect him from that abuse.
- 2:22:38Speaker 1: And that is abuse.
- 2:22:42Speaker 3: And none of this is to deny that there are
- 2:22:44Speaker 3: some magatailes out there and who have been out there
- 2:22:47Speaker 3: for many years now who will go ahead and tell you, yeah,
- 2:22:51Speaker 3: you should sleep around. You should as long as as
- 2:22:56Speaker 3: you're using protection, you can fuck around with as many
- 2:23:00Speaker 3: women as you like and it'll be fine. And as
- 2:23:03Speaker 3: I've always said, I you're skating on thin nice there, bro,
- 2:23:10Speaker 3: You're staring into the barrel of the bazooka. Yeah, you
- 2:23:15Speaker 3: will understand that reference. And you know, I still like
- 2:23:20Speaker 3: to think of myself as Magdao, even though I've been
- 2:23:23Speaker 3: in a devoted relationship for over seven years now. Some
- 2:23:30Speaker 3: people still think of me as like some kind of
- 2:23:33Speaker 3: guru of Magdow, perhaps because they don't know that I've
- 2:23:37Speaker 3: been in a devoted relationship for several years.
- 2:23:40Speaker 2: But.
- 2:23:42Speaker 3: It is theoretically possible in any sense.
- 2:23:48Speaker 7: It's it's still okay for me to to tell most
- 2:23:53Speaker 7: men that they should go their own way, because you're
- 2:23:57Speaker 7: unlikely to find a honey badger for yourself.
- 2:24:00Speaker 3: There aren't many honey badges. That is to say, there
- 2:24:03Speaker 3: aren't many women who actually understand the fucking situation. And
- 2:24:10Speaker 3: if you're an average man that then the best you
- 2:24:13Speaker 3: can do is find an average woman. And the average
- 2:24:16Speaker 3: woman is not going to understand. The average woman has
- 2:24:21Speaker 3: had their brains scrambled by the mass media and the
- 2:24:24Speaker 3: education system, and you have an awful lot of vetting
- 2:24:29Speaker 3: to do if you're going to if you're going to
- 2:24:36Speaker 3: be able to enter a relationship, a long term relationship
- 2:24:40Speaker 3: with a woman that's not going to end in disaster,
- 2:24:44Speaker 3: and so you it just means you have to be
- 2:24:47Speaker 3: really vigilant, incredibly vigilant you have, and that means you
- 2:24:54Speaker 3: have to set boundaries as soon as possible and as
- 2:25:00Speaker 3: vigilantly as possible. And I did that because you know,
- 2:25:04Speaker 3: I've spent hundreds of hours online sort of setting the
- 2:25:11Speaker 3: boundaries that I think men should have. And Lauren was
- 2:25:15Speaker 3: with me all the way because she's been with on
- 2:25:17Speaker 3: a Badger Radio since twenty fourteen, just like I have.
- 2:25:20Speaker 3: And and we were able to get together because we've
- 2:25:24Speaker 3: always both mutually understood this and we mutually understood this
- 2:25:30Speaker 3: together for like four or five years before we got together.
- 2:25:34Speaker 3: And that's you know, that's the sort of thing it takes.
- 2:25:38Speaker 3: It means you getting together with a men's rights group
- 2:25:41Speaker 3: like Honey Badger Radio for four or five years, and
- 2:25:46Speaker 3: that's not an avenue that's available to most men, Like
- 2:25:51Speaker 3: most men are just living their lives, just doing jobs
- 2:25:55Speaker 3: and just trying to be a normal person. And you know,
- 2:25:59Speaker 3: it's it's very difficult for you to actually know a
- 2:26:03Speaker 3: woman and understand where she's coming from for long enough
- 2:26:08Speaker 3: for her for her to be interested in you before
- 2:26:12Speaker 3: she loses interest in you. And that's fucking difficult, like
- 2:26:15Speaker 3: and I understand how difficult that is, and and yeah,
- 2:26:20Speaker 3: that's that's all I'm saying. You need to understand how
- 2:26:22Speaker 3: difficult that is, and society needs to be changed from
- 2:26:29Speaker 3: the bottom up.
- 2:26:31Speaker 1: There's a there's another aspect of men. I think a
- 2:26:34Speaker 1: lot of people don't consciously consider right. Very very rarely
- 2:26:41Speaker 1: in the world does anyone ever become a rock star
- 2:26:47Speaker 1: by trying to become a rock star.
- 2:26:51Speaker 2: Right.
- 2:26:52Speaker 1: There's there's obviously the people that become rock stars by
- 2:26:56Speaker 1: knowing the right people. And we all we all know
- 2:27:00Speaker 1: bands that we think maybe that's that's all they had
- 2:27:03Speaker 1: going for them, was that they knew the right people.
- 2:27:05Speaker 1: But the greatest rock stars of all time, the people
- 2:27:08Speaker 1: who are remembered generation after generation, whose whose original fans,
- 2:27:15Speaker 1: grandchildren love their music, their people who became rock stars
- 2:27:23Speaker 1: because they focused on their love of music and and
- 2:27:30Speaker 1: their creation of their type of music, their particular idiom
- 2:27:36Speaker 1: right and and put the work in and took all
- 2:27:42Speaker 1: the steps of improving their skill and blending their group
- 2:27:48Speaker 1: together and being dedicated to the group and so on,
- 2:27:55Speaker 1: all of the performing, all of the years, in years
- 2:28:00Speaker 1: of living in poverty while they went from gig to
- 2:28:03Speaker 1: gig and you know, had beer thrown up on the
- 2:28:07Speaker 1: stage and everything and eventually made it. And if they
- 2:28:15Speaker 1: had been focusing on just being rock stars, many many
- 2:28:21Speaker 1: young musicians that have stars in their eyes but not
- 2:28:28Speaker 1: dedication behind them. They fail because they expect to make
- 2:28:35Speaker 1: it right away. And I think a lot of young people,
- 2:28:38Speaker 1: men and women, think about becoming a husband or a
- 2:28:42Speaker 1: wife and a mother or a father and having the
- 2:28:47Speaker 1: picket fence in the white house and the neighbors you
- 2:28:52Speaker 1: know on their street and you know, two point five
- 2:28:56Speaker 1: kids and a dog and a cat and a treehouse
- 2:28:59Speaker 1: in the backyard. But they don't do the work. They're
- 2:29:05Speaker 1: not focused on how do we get there. They're not
- 2:29:11Speaker 1: focused on becoming partners, finding somebody that they love because
- 2:29:19Speaker 1: they have the same values, and they have the same
- 2:29:22Speaker 1: goals and interests, and they love things about each other.
- 2:29:28Speaker 1: They admire characteristics of the other person, and they want
- 2:29:34Speaker 1: to raise a family with that person because they trust
- 2:29:40Speaker 1: that person to be the other caregiver for their children.
- 2:29:45Speaker 1: And so you end up in a situation where, you know,
- 2:29:49Speaker 1: women focus on romance and being romanced, and men focus
- 2:29:53Speaker 1: on being romantic and being the best romancer of women.
- 2:29:58Speaker 1: They can be, and but they don't focus on creating
- 2:30:04Speaker 1: real partnership to scaffold their relationship. They don't focus on
- 2:30:13Speaker 1: real connection. They focus on making her happy. Making her
- 2:30:18Speaker 1: happy is a side effect of the end goal. The
- 2:30:23Speaker 1: end goal being solid connection and solid love, family love,
- 2:30:31Speaker 1: and you're happy when you have that that connection. And
- 2:30:39Speaker 1: so they spend the part of their lives where they
- 2:30:42Speaker 1: should be building the adult they're going to be and
- 2:30:47Speaker 1: looking at the people around them as you know, possible
- 2:30:52Speaker 1: future partners and not current partners. And the ways that
- 2:31:02Speaker 1: dating and going through the cycle of getting into a
- 2:31:06Speaker 1: sexual relationship breaking it off, not understanding all of the
- 2:31:10Speaker 1: feelings that come out of breaking off a sexual relationship
- 2:31:13Speaker 1: that shouldn't have happened, and then moving on to another
- 2:31:15Speaker 1: sexual relationship. Well, how is somebody supposed to find a
- 2:31:19Speaker 1: real life partner in that circumstance. So when men go
- 2:31:23Speaker 1: their own way and they choose to focus on building
- 2:31:28Speaker 1: their character and optimizing the person that they are, and
- 2:31:34Speaker 1: they reserve their trust and their intimacy for someone else
- 2:31:40Speaker 1: who has done the same, that they can vet for
- 2:31:43Speaker 1: character and that they can form a trust with and
- 2:31:51Speaker 1: regarding mutual goals in life, mutual values, mutual ethics, and morality.
- 2:32:00Speaker 1: If one does get married, by the time that happens,
- 2:32:04Speaker 1: he's far more likely to be someone be with someone
- 2:32:09Speaker 1: that is going to be supportive of him in a
- 2:32:12Speaker 1: relationship just like he is of her, and he's far
- 2:32:17Speaker 1: more likely to be in a lifelong marriage and not
- 2:32:22Speaker 1: get divorced five or six years down the road. But
- 2:32:29Speaker 1: I think a lot of women that are more stunted.
- 2:32:34Speaker 1: I always say shallow, but it's really like somebody withheld
- 2:32:39Speaker 1: an important nutrient from your personal growth. It's like having
- 2:32:43Speaker 1: rickets of the soul that you want to be the
- 2:32:50Speaker 1: focus of attention and you want to be treated like
- 2:32:54Speaker 1: a princess instead of a partner. You want to lean
- 2:32:57Speaker 1: on him, but you don't want him to lean on you.
- 2:33:00Speaker 1: A lot of women who are in that situation are offended.
- 2:33:04Speaker 1: Then a man might work on himself first and then
- 2:33:07Speaker 1: work on vetting a potential partner for character if he
- 2:33:12Speaker 1: even has consideration for the idea that there might be
- 2:33:15Speaker 1: a woman he can trust. And the more stunted we
- 2:33:22Speaker 1: allow women's intellectual and spiritual psychological growth to become in society,
- 2:33:29Speaker 1: the more men are going to turn away because they're
- 2:33:33Speaker 1: not allowed to do that, and so they can see
- 2:33:36Speaker 1: it for the handicap that it is, and they don't
- 2:33:41Speaker 1: want to be the support network for somebody who has
- 2:33:45Speaker 1: the handicap where they can just never grow up. Women
- 2:33:50Speaker 1: criticize men who like to be with women who are
- 2:33:55Speaker 1: younger but still adult, and they equate them to men
- 2:33:59Speaker 1: who want to be with children. And yet those same women,
- 2:34:03Speaker 1: if you expect them to grow up, they will call
- 2:34:05Speaker 1: you a misogynist. They want normal femininity to be childish,
- 2:34:10Speaker 1: not childlike, not possessive curiosity and innovativeness, but selfishness and
- 2:34:22Speaker 1: attention seeking narcissism. And yet they want men to treat
- 2:34:28Speaker 1: them like they're mature, and they want men to differentiate
- 2:34:31Speaker 1: between women who are of age and women who are underage.
- 2:34:36Speaker 1: How are they supposed to do that if you never
- 2:34:39Speaker 1: mature past the age of fourteen, so she says, And
- 2:34:50Speaker 1: they cite Schopenhauer and Jesus as examples of high achieving virgins.
- 2:34:56Speaker 1: There are tears to the big Tail movement. Level one
- 2:34:58Speaker 1: is avoiding only long term relationships, well Level four means
- 2:35:01Speaker 1: dropping out of society altogether. In her book Men who
- 2:35:05Speaker 1: Hate Women, Laura Bates traces Migtaw roots to Iron John
- 2:35:08Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety men's self help book that argued men
- 2:35:13Speaker 1: need to reconnect with each other and the deep masculine.
- 2:35:17Speaker 1: It's a bit like Lysis Strata and Aristophanes play in
- 2:35:25Speaker 1: which the women of Athens go on a sex strike
- 2:35:28Speaker 1: to fork force men to negotiate peace in the I
- 2:35:33Speaker 1: believe this is Peloponnesian war. It's been a while since
- 2:35:37Speaker 1: I've seen that word. I don't remember how to pronounce it.
- 2:35:40Speaker 3: You did. I think it's less strata, but it doesn't.
- 2:35:43Speaker 1: Matter, like I haven't read this description of this and
- 2:35:48Speaker 1: so long. I ask Alex if that inspired the idea
- 2:35:52Speaker 1: of a love strike. It wasn't that coherent, He admits
- 2:35:54Speaker 1: it was ego defense. Alex eventually left the group who
- 2:35:58Speaker 1: found it too right wing. So again, let's let's go
- 2:36:03Speaker 1: back to that nineteen ninety self help book she's she
- 2:36:08Speaker 1: refers to this describes this right that argued men needed
- 2:36:12Speaker 1: to reconnect with each other and the deep masculine, and
- 2:36:15Speaker 1: then compares it to to this history, but doesn't make
- 2:36:24Speaker 1: the connection that it has to do with the gender
- 2:36:28Speaker 1: war to force women to negotiate peace in the gender war.
- 2:36:36Speaker 1: The thing is women are getting to the point with
- 2:36:39Speaker 1: Magtao where negotiating peace might not be a possibility. There
- 2:36:45Speaker 1: are men who will never trust women again after the
- 2:36:47Speaker 1: things that have been done to them, and it's not
- 2:36:50Speaker 1: unreasonable for them to feel that way. It's and that
- 2:36:57Speaker 1: number is growing. I can't I can't have an experience
- 2:37:04Speaker 1: in life without running into at least one person who
- 2:37:08Speaker 1: has had a men's rights issue. Experience I had. I
- 2:37:15Speaker 1: had to get my car toad, my van toad actually
- 2:37:19Speaker 1: a couple of years ago. From northwest Ohio to southwest
- 2:37:24Speaker 1: Ohio was like an eighty mile toe and you know,
- 2:37:29Speaker 1: I called a toying company, paid the guy I had.
- 2:37:33Speaker 1: I blew a gasket while visiting my son, and you know,
- 2:37:40Speaker 1: didn't have a way to get home, right, So I
- 2:37:42Speaker 1: called this tow truck company. We get talking and everything,
- 2:37:45Speaker 1: and I don't even remember how it came up, but
- 2:37:51Speaker 1: you know, we were talking about different jobs and everything,
- 2:37:53Speaker 1: and I mentioned something to the fact that, well, I'm
- 2:37:56Speaker 1: at least really glad that you were available to do this,
- 2:37:59Speaker 1: because I think he was talking about the expense, and
- 2:38:01Speaker 1: I was like, are you kidding? I can't do what
- 2:38:03Speaker 1: you're doing, don't I don't have a complaint here. You
- 2:38:07Speaker 1: are getting paid what you are working for. You deserve
- 2:38:10Speaker 1: the money. There's no way I could do the job
- 2:38:13Speaker 1: that you do. I don't think very many women could.
- 2:38:16Speaker 1: I imagine it takes a lot of upper body strength
- 2:38:19Speaker 1: to lug those chains around and get them into place,
- 2:38:22Speaker 1: and make sure that the vehicle is properly secured so
- 2:38:26Speaker 1: it doesn't come off the back of the because it's
- 2:38:28Speaker 1: one of those where the vehicle is pulled up onto
- 2:38:32Speaker 1: a flatbed because it was it was a big van,
- 2:38:37Speaker 1: and so, you know, and we get to talking about
- 2:38:39Speaker 1: that and everything, and then we get to talking about
- 2:38:43Speaker 1: how it's not really fair that I can say that
- 2:38:47Speaker 1: but he can't without getting called a misogynist. And from
- 2:38:50Speaker 1: there I ended up getting the story of a false
- 2:38:56Speaker 1: allegation experience that occurred in his family, and a divorce
- 2:39:01Speaker 1: experience is basically a divorce rape experience that occurred in
- 2:39:05Speaker 1: his family. And we're talking immediate family, right, And you know,
- 2:39:12Speaker 1: it just like one after another, and the issues came up,
- 2:39:18Speaker 1: and he knew somebody, somebody I had just met that night,
- 2:39:23Speaker 1: knew somebody for every single men's issue I could discuss
- 2:39:29Speaker 1: with him, and that's happened to me at work, that's
- 2:39:33Speaker 1: happened to me at the store, that's happened to me
- 2:39:38Speaker 1: running into somebody at random on the bus on the
- 2:39:42Speaker 1: way home from ICMI twenty fourteen, a group of moms
- 2:39:45Speaker 1: we sat around to discuss the boy crisis and education.
- 2:39:50Speaker 1: It's every single person I run into, it seems like
- 2:39:54Speaker 1: I can talk about these issues, and they know somebody
- 2:39:58Speaker 1: who some guy who has been through hell because of
- 2:40:01Speaker 1: our society's treatment of men and because women are not
- 2:40:06Speaker 1: expected to grow up. They know somebody who's been a
- 2:40:11Speaker 1: victim of the accountability gap between men and women. And
- 2:40:19Speaker 1: they understand in almost every case, they understand the importance
- 2:40:25Speaker 1: of masculine strength and masculine stoicism, masculine self accountability, and
- 2:40:35Speaker 1: connection with other men in order for a man to
- 2:40:39Speaker 1: survive and recover from those circumstances. And yet this writer
- 2:40:46Speaker 1: can't even understand why men might not fully trust women,
- 2:40:51Speaker 1: why men might want to keep us at arm's length
- 2:40:55Speaker 1: a little bit, you know, especially in the current legal environment.
- 2:41:00Speaker 1: And she can't make the connection between men going on
- 2:41:07Speaker 1: a romance strike and a partnership strike to force women
- 2:41:14Speaker 1: to come to the negotiating table in the Gender War
- 2:41:18Speaker 1: and women in an ancient play that went on a
- 2:41:22Speaker 1: sex strike to force Mending to negotiate peace in an
- 2:41:26Speaker 1: actual violent war. Not that the gender war isn't violent.
- 2:41:32Speaker 1: I mean throwing somebody in jail for something they didn't
- 2:41:34Speaker 1: do is pretty violent. But any other thoughts on that
- 2:41:45Speaker 1: Laura Bates is a fucking moron. Well, in that case,
- 2:41:52Speaker 1: I think this will be the end of tonight's show.
- 2:41:55Speaker 1: We have run really late, and I think I will
- 2:42:00Speaker 1: call it. We do not have another super Chow, but
- 2:42:06Speaker 1: we do have another super chat, and I am trying
- 2:42:08Speaker 1: to scroll there we go. I think we might have two,
- 2:42:12Speaker 1: so I'm gonna just double check here. Nope, just the one.
- 2:42:16Speaker 1: So our our final super chat of the night that
- 2:42:21Speaker 1: I am aware of. Uh, senior sticks times three. Our
- 2:42:26Speaker 1: senior tick Senior Sticks three thirty eleven gave us two
- 2:42:30Speaker 1: dollars and said one should not negotiate with bad actors. Well, yeah,
- 2:42:34Speaker 1: because they lie.
- 2:42:35Speaker 3: I feel attacked.
- 2:42:38Speaker 1: No, No, I think you're a pretty good actor, but
- 2:42:43Speaker 1: you can't really, you can't negotiate with liars.
- 2:42:47Speaker 2: I think that I share a terrorists.
- 2:42:51Speaker 1: Yeah, that is true. That is true, all right, And
- 2:42:55Speaker 1: I don't have any other super chats or super chows.
- 2:42:58Speaker 1: So with that, I will thank my co hosts for
- 2:43:01Speaker 1: joining me to continue to discuss this uh the the
- 2:43:04Speaker 1: ever deepening pile of ovine excrement. Thanks to the audience
- 2:43:10Speaker 1: for listening to us ramble and occasionally get back to
- 2:43:14Speaker 1: the article. Thanks very much Brian for going late on
- 2:43:18Speaker 1: this and not not speaking up. It's thanks not complaining
- 2:43:24Speaker 1: about it really, and good night all