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- 0:07>> Loren Richmond: Welcome to the Future Christian Podcast, your
- 0:10source for insights and ideas on how to lead your church in
- 0:13the 21st century. At the Future Christian
- 0:16Podcast, we talk to pastors, authors,
- 0:19and other faith leaders for helpful advice and practical
- 0:21wisdom to help you and your community of faith
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- 0:30of your faith community, this podcast is
- 0:33designed to challenge, inspire, and equip
- 0:36you with the tools you need for impactful ministry.
- 0:39And now for a little bit about the guest for this episode.
- 0:45>> Martha Tatarnic: Welcome to the Future Christian Podcast. Today,
- 0:47Loren Richmond Jr. Is in conversation with
- 0:50Raymond Chang. Raymond is the
- 0:53Executive Director of the 10x10
- 0:55Collaboration Part of Fuller Seminary,
- 0:58which is a collaborative movement that is geared
- 1:01toward reaching 10 million young people over
- 1:0310 years with the gospel. He is also the
- 1:06president of the Asian American Christian
- 1:09Collaborative, a pastor and a writer.
- 1:12Prior to his role at Fuller, Raymond served
- 1:15as the Associate Chaplain for Discipleship at
- 1:18Wheaton College. He has worked in the for
- 1:21profit and nonprofit sectors and served
- 1:24in the Peace Corps in Panama. He and his
- 1:27wife, Jessica Min Chang, are proud
- 1:30parents of Sophia, and they reside in
- 1:33Chicago. A reminder, before we start
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- 2:12>> Loren: All right. Welcome to the Future Christian Podcast. This is Loren Richmond
- 2:15Jr. And I am pleased to be welcoming today Pastor Raymond
- 2:18Chang. Hello and welcome to the show.
- 2:20>> Speaker D: Hey, Loren, it's great to be with you.
- 2:23>> Loren: Yeah, thanks. Anything else you want to say about yourself?
- 2:27>> Speaker D: I mean, uh, my Social Security number is
- 2:301, 2, 3, 4, 5678.
- 2:32>> Loren: Just the last four digits, maybe.
- 2:34>> Speaker D: No, I mean, um, yeah, my name is Ray.
- 2:37Uh,
- 2:40I lived all over the world. Uh,
- 2:43I enjoy traveling, although I don't get to do it as much because I
- 2:46have a beautiful, uh, baby that's two years old
- 2:49and, uh, she occupies most of my free time. And, uh,
- 2:53uh, married and happily, uh, married to my lovely
- 2:56wife Jessica. And we're just trying to
- 2:58advance the kingdom together.
- 3:00>> Loren: That's awesome. That's awesome.
- 3:02>> Speaker D: Share.
- 3:02>> Loren: If you would just come out your faith journey. What that looked like in the
- 3:05past, what that looks like today.
- 3:07>> Speaker D: Yeah, well, I mean, I got to honor the
- 3:09ancestors for me because I have seven
- 3:12and eight generations Christian, uh, going back
- 3:15and so, uh, I have the privilege of having a long
- 3:18heritage of Christianity and faith
- 3:21uh, in my family. And uh, that's been a really
- 3:24significant and important part of my identity as well
- 3:27as uh, I think kind of the
- 3:30spirituality that I've embraced and I'm
- 3:32trying to carry on and pass on to my daughter,
- 3:35um, which is very rare because I'm a Korean American.
- 3:38Uh, and ah, the major
- 3:41waves of Christianity began in the late
- 3:441800s and 1900s in Korea. And then
- 3:47I was born here in the US as the first
- 3:50of our generation to do so. So I'm second generation Korean American.
- 3:53Um, I've lived all over the world and so I've lived in
- 3:56uh, Chicago, Korea, Hawaii, California,
- 3:59Guatemala, Panama, Spain, China. Uh,
- 4:02and so I feel like I've seen the world and I've seen
- 4:05the world's needs and hungers as well as
- 4:08the beauty of Christ expressed throughout the. And
- 4:11I've seen faith communities flourish in
- 4:13places where Christianity isn't welcome
- 4:16and faith communities uh, not
- 4:19flourish so much in places that think that they're Christian. And
- 4:22so just seeing a lot of different uh, things.
- 4:25And um, I love the Bible,
- 4:28uh, uh, I love everything about
- 4:30the activity of God throughout history. Um,
- 4:33and I love the Asian American church
- 4:36as well as the broader kind of church and the
- 4:39immigrant church has really been a significant part of my own formation.
- 4:42And so uh, shout out to all those uh, under
- 4:45resourced ministers that basically on top of
- 4:48a full time job ran uh, a church
- 4:51uh, with zero time and zero budget that they had just
- 4:54so that they can provide a spiritual community and space
- 4:57for people to convene and gather. I don't know if I
- 5:00shared a little too much, but that's just a little bit about me.
- 5:02>> Loren: No, I appreciate the shout out for bivocational pastors
- 5:06and uh, those who do it for love of ministry
- 5:08and love of God without a huge
- 5:11paycheck. So I appreciate you sharing that.
- 5:13Anything else? Uh, we always ask guests anything
- 5:16about a spiritual practice or discipline that's meaningful for you.
- 5:20>> Speaker D: Yeah, so I've been thinking a lot about the difference between
- 5:23spiritual practices and spiritual postures, um,
- 5:26and how I mean practices are going
- 5:29to be a part of our spiritual formation no matter
- 5:32what. But um, I
- 5:35was reading a book recently and she was articulating
- 5:38how uh, the challenge
- 5:41of Western Christianity is how
- 5:44spiritual formation is viewed in such a linear
- 5:47manner that it leads
- 5:50to the practices being a kind of
- 5:52mastery over God and over your spiritual life
- 5:55instead of allowing God to be mastered over you. And I've been thinking
- 5:58a lot about that these days and trying to figure out, okay, what are the
- 6:01postures I need to embrace so that the practices
- 6:03actually bear fruit in a way that's not
- 6:07deformative in making me think that I
- 6:11can kind of go and, um, master
- 6:14Jesus and instead allow myself to be
- 6:17mastered by Jesus.
- 6:18>> Loren: Oh, that's. That's. That's wise. That's wise.
- 6:21I appreciate you sharing that.
- 6:23Well, Ray is the author, along with Cara Powell and
- 6:26Jake Mulder, of the book Future Focused
- 6:29Church. Uh, but rather than do, like, the generic,
- 6:32like, oh, what inspired the book, I kind of want to start
- 6:35this way because I think this was one of the most
- 6:37intriguing lines from the book that y' all
- 6:40write, that you believe that the future of the
- 6:43church is brighter than the past. And I think
- 6:46for many pastors, for many church leaders, for many folks
- 6:49even in the pews, that seems pretty shocking
- 6:52to hear or to read. So talk about
- 6:55that.
- 6:56>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean, we know that. We know the
- 6:59data. We know that the church is shrinking, that the
- 7:02church is aging, and that the church
- 7:05is feeling more and more irrelevant. You know,
- 7:07we've seen how, you know,
- 7:11political and social
- 7:13ideologies have basically split the church
- 7:16and defined the church and taken over the church.
- 7:19We see how young people are actively leaving the
- 7:21church. And so we're not,
- 7:24um, naive to those realities.
- 7:27But at the same time, the church really
- 7:30flourishes when it's squeezed because
- 7:33the church tends to have
- 7:36to lean in or lean
- 7:39away from God in the moments of
- 7:42greatest difficulty. Uh, in the US I don't think
- 7:44we're quite at the levels of persecution or
- 7:47anything like that. But I do know that
- 7:50whenever the church is persecuted or whenever the
- 7:53church is, um, put in a corner,
- 7:56God shows up in some amazing ways because
- 7:59the people of God actually begin to depend on God.
- 8:02And I think one of the greatest challenges of Christianity
- 8:05in the US Right now is that we've created a
- 8:08Christian ecosystem in the world world where dependency
- 8:11on God is optional. And when you look at the Bible,
- 8:15that's never the case. And so,
- 8:18um, the other thing we know is
- 8:21that nothing is going to prevail against
- 8:24the kingdom's advancement. And the primary
- 8:27unit and, uh, means by
- 8:30which God works is through the church.
- 8:33Now, the church might look differently, its form
- 8:36might look differently over time, but,
- 8:38uh, when people are gathered and they're assembled to
- 8:41worship and they meet on a regular basis, and they are,
- 8:45uh, worshiping God together, praying with one another,
- 8:48serving together, um,
- 8:51and meeting with one another and healing each other
- 8:54and proclaiming God's Truth and promoting
- 8:57justice. We know that good things
- 9:00follow because the kingdom is being proclaimed.
- 9:03And so in some way we just know that
- 9:07Jesus is in control. And all throughout
- 9:10history nothing has been able to eliminate the church.
- 9:13And we don't think anything's going to be able to do that,
- 9:15uh, even if we do it to ourselves.
- 9:18>> Loren: Yeah, yeah. I appreciate you sharing that.
- 9:21I want to ask about because I think one of the things that was
- 9:24really important, as I
- 9:27understand it throughout the book, increasingly
- 9:29or repeatedly, excuse me. Was this idea of
- 9:32creating culture change in order to create
- 9:35lasting change. Do you want to talk more about the importance of
- 9:38creating culture change versus just trying to create change
- 9:41on its own?
- 9:43>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean so you know, culture
- 9:46eats strategy for breakfast. Right. And so
- 9:49without, and without a vision, people perish. And
- 9:52so if you want change to last, it has
- 9:55to be deep within the bones of the
- 9:58culture, of the community. And
- 10:02it's one thing to just have practices or kind
- 10:05of a shallow uh, acquiescence.
- 10:08It's another thing when people actually uh, kind
- 10:11of embrace and internalize and
- 10:14the community begins to move in different ways. And
- 10:17that's what we're calling for.
- 10:18>> Loren: Yeah, well I think it speaks to something else y' all
- 10:21write about is that people support what
- 10:24they help create. And I think this was interesting because we're
- 10:28in our current at least the last 10, 15,
- 10:3020 years as society kind of de
- 10:33institutionalizes and things become more
- 10:36bottom up and even populist. I think in many
- 10:39ways, as we're seeing today,
- 10:41um, I guess talk about the
- 10:44importance of engaging people then. I'm m also curious if you have some
- 10:47thoughts on some of the dangers or perhaps
- 10:49guardrails you might want to have in place. So it's not
- 10:52just like um,
- 10:56m majority rules or you know, um,
- 10:59whatever the biggest population wants.
- 11:02>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean one of the core principles that we
- 11:04promote is that people support what
- 11:07they have, you know, that they are able to create. I mean I used
- 11:10to lead small groups in um, at a Christian
- 11:13college. And uh, one of the things that we would always say
- 11:16is nobody feels like they're part of the group until
- 11:19um, until they hear the sound of their own voice.
- 11:23And because of that we know
- 11:27that if you're going to do something then you have to
- 11:30invite people into it. Otherwise it just becomes
- 11:33a mandate where you're just telling people what to do. And so
- 11:36people just aren't interested in that. And so one of the things that we
- 11:39encourage people to do is to help people create or help
- 11:42people participate,
- 11:44uh, in the provision of input and,
- 11:48and we kind of offer several steps in order to do that.
- 11:51Um, you know, uh, that
- 11:54the first is figuring uh, out like who
- 11:57is a part of this. And one of the things that we encourage
- 12:00people to do is create a transformation team if you want
- 12:02to lead change within a larger organization, to identify some
- 12:05key people out of a diverse
- 12:08group of people to help speak into the change that you want
- 12:11to see. Um, and then of course,
- 12:14as we map out the who, uh, we also want
- 12:17to figure out how do we actually help create a
- 12:20sense of support, uh, for that.
- 12:23And so we want to allow people to
- 12:26practice something called keychain leadership, which is,
- 12:29uh, handing people more keys,
- 12:32uh, that their capabilities,
- 12:35power and access that they carry, the potential to empower
- 12:38all generations, but especially young people.
- 12:41Um, we want to say, hey,
- 12:44here are some of the ways that you can
- 12:48lead change and be clear with that, with
- 12:51the parameters of their authority that you're handing
- 12:54to them. And then of course, um,
- 12:58thinking about what they create,
- 13:00uh, while you hand over these
- 13:03substantive keys, clarifying the desired end
- 13:06goal and giving all sorts of freedom on how to accomplish the
- 13:08goal. One of the things that we want to
- 13:11do is invite people to help create God's future
- 13:14for our faith community together. And
- 13:17a part of it is just asking, asking the right people the right
- 13:20questions, um, just having them
- 13:23ask questions that are very practical. We offer a bunch of those
- 13:26in the book, spend time getting the input
- 13:29of those who resist division. I think it's so
- 13:32important to spend time getting
- 13:34input from those who are kind of resistant.
- 13:37And then I think the third thing is, um,
- 13:40and actually that I cite my
- 13:43father in law, he would always talk, talk
- 13:46about the ways that the most passionate people, the people that
- 13:49care most about your faith community or your church
- 13:52are those that, um,
- 13:55oftentimes might resist and that those who might
- 13:58resist and challenge are sometimes those who want to protect
- 14:01the community. Not just protect their preferences, but
- 14:04actually protect the community. Ah.
- 14:07And of course, then returning with
- 14:10them after you hear the feedback from people,
- 14:13uh, to report on how you use the feedback. And
- 14:16so there's a few ways that we encourage people to support what
- 14:19they, uh, that we encourage people to,
- 14:21um, uh, create
- 14:24the avenues for people to support what they create.
- 14:27>> Loren: In 142, page 142, you talk
- 14:29about like a transformation team, their
- 14:32leadership, and the threefold process of looking
- 14:35back to the past, looking around, and then
- 14:38looking forward to the future. So talk about those
- 14:41three time frames and why it's important to understand
- 14:45all those metrics.
- 14:48>> Speaker D: Yeah. So
- 14:53we know that God is working
- 14:57in, um, eternity past, eternity
- 15:00present, eternity future.
- 15:03And in our current day and age,
- 15:07we, uh, don't have to reinvent the wheel,
- 15:10nor do we have to ignore the beautiful
- 15:12traditions that have carried us through in the
- 15:15past. And so looking at
- 15:18through the past, it's helpful to understand
- 15:23why your community is where it is. So one of the
- 15:26things that we encourage people to do is investigate your church's
- 15:29founding narrative. Like, what was it that led
- 15:31the church to emerge? Because there's something about
- 15:34that that probably still remains in the DNA of the
- 15:37community today. And then the other thing we encourage people
- 15:40to do when they get past is to, I think it's construct a, uh,
- 15:43congregational timeline. So, like, what are some large
- 15:46events that had happened throughout history? And then, of course, to
- 15:49explore key questions about what things emerged,
- 15:52um, in the past, to figure out why certain decisions
- 15:55were being made at the time. You know, when were we
- 15:58at our best? Uh, when did we. How do
- 16:01we handle something similar to what we're hand. How do we handle
- 16:04something in the past that was similar to what challenges
- 16:07we're facing right now? You know, how have our
- 16:10church's culture, uh, leadership kind of helped
- 16:13or hindered us? Then we got to look at the present, right?
- 16:15Because we know that we can't just live in the past. We
- 16:18have to honor the past. But we can't just live in the past and,
- 16:22uh, especially honor the good things of the past. And so, uh,
- 16:25we want to figure out what is happening
- 16:27at the moment. Now, some people are
- 16:30so, um, past focused that
- 16:33they're living in a heyday that no longer exists.
- 16:36And so it's really helpful to name your church's current
- 16:39reality. I think the other thing,
- 16:41um, that would be helpful is
- 16:44to, uh, kind of conduct a swot analysis
- 16:47of where you are right now and then
- 16:49uncovering some mixed messages,
- 16:52um, to make sure that you're not confused in a
- 16:55variety of ways. The other thing is looking
- 16:58ahead to the future. We want
- 17:00people to move from here to there
- 17:04with the who and the how, which is our kind of a
- 17:06fourfold framework. And you can learn more if you read the book.
- 17:10Um, we have to think about,
- 17:13uh, in terms of the future, what are some of the obstacles that are going to be
- 17:15there, uh, on the way there, what are some problems and
- 17:18opportunities, what are some barriers and
- 17:21challenges? And then, of course,
- 17:24why we're trying to move to the there. What
- 17:27is it that needs to lead to the change?
- 17:30Because sometimes we don't articulate all these things. Or we don't even take
- 17:33the time to reflect on what's happened in the past and what's
- 17:36happening now. We come up with
- 17:39visions that might not be tethered to
- 17:42our current reality or even our past reality.
- 17:44And so those are some of the things that we want to encourage people
- 17:47on.
- 17:48>> Loren: Well, speaking of doing the long, hard work, this
- 17:51struck Me too. Page
- 17:53166 you write about. Pastoral and
- 17:56congregational imagination don't
- 17:59simply happen overnight, but the result of, uh, faithful
- 18:02and intentional work honed over time.
- 18:05I feel like this is like the one
- 18:08missing ingredient that is so often lacking is just that
- 18:11time part. And part of it is, I don't know
- 18:14if you'd agree, but it seems like churches just wait too long to do
- 18:17this. So by time they get to what
- 18:19feels like a crisis opportunity or crisis
- 18:22moment, that they're just like, we need to make decisions now. Like,
- 18:26you know, there's eight people in worship, or the
- 18:28budget is like in a disaster scenario or what have you,
- 18:32uh, talk more about that faithful
- 18:35and intentional work honed over time.
- 18:38>> Speaker D: Um, so one of the things that we encourage people to do is
- 18:41maintain disciplined, um, action
- 18:44and attention. And the reason
- 18:47we encourage this is because change
- 18:49efforts require intentionality.
- 18:52They're not just willy nilly, they
- 18:55aren't just something that you kind of just decide one
- 18:58moment and you don't have to continue on with. And
- 19:01so that's a big part of, um, what we
- 19:04try to emphasize and we try to walk people through.
- 19:07Um, mostly because
- 19:10if you are leading change,
- 19:13it's likely that as you
- 19:16go through the process, things are going to change
- 19:19in your change process. And
- 19:22so you might decide that you're moving in a direction
- 19:25and then realize, oh, this isn't the right direction. But we
- 19:27know that these steps that we've taken here
- 19:31are the right steps, but these steps are not.
- 19:34And, and so if you're not disciplined,
- 19:36you can literally just throw the baby out
- 19:39with the bathwater and go in one direction instead of another.
- 19:42And one of the things that we really want people to do is,
- 19:45um, just to
- 19:48know where they're going. Because otherwise
- 19:51you end up packing with, um, whatever
- 19:54wind blows.
- 19:54>> Loren: Uh, it's interesting that you use the word
- 19:57discipline because I'm thinking about how in the
- 20:00book y' all talk about everything in church
- 20:03being fundamentally about discipleship. You
- 20:06know, you use that reference of what from
- 20:09James, right, Chapter one of being
- 20:13blown about by the wind. If I'm thinking of the right text,
- 20:17talk more about
- 20:20the importance of these things being grounded in
- 20:23discipleship I mean.
- 20:25>> Speaker D: Everything we do should be grounded in discipleship.
- 20:28Right. Uh, one of the great mandates is to go and make
- 20:30disciples of all nations, teaching and
- 20:33baptizing them in the name of the Father, Son and Spirit. And
- 20:36so that is a big piece
- 20:39for us, uh, that we are trying to, uh,
- 20:42emphasize and lean into. And so,
- 20:44um, yeah, I don't think
- 20:47that anything we do should be
- 20:49untethered from our commitment to discipleship.
- 20:52In fact, our first key checkpoint is relationally
- 20:55discipling young people. Because that
- 20:58seems like, uh, something that the church claims to
- 21:01do but doesn't often do enough,
- 21:04especially when you kind of look under the hood.
- 21:07And so discipleship is central to everything that we're doing. Is
- 21:10that answering your question?
- 21:11>> Loren: Yeah, uh, yeah, because I'm thinking about it through the lens of
- 21:14having a groundedness or a foundation
- 21:17or something holding.
- 21:20I mean, there's lots of data right out about
- 21:25how young people are shifting so
- 21:27significantly, especially apart from each other. Like, like young men and young
- 21:30women are like going to opposite poles.
- 21:33And it seems like many of these social
- 21:36movements that were like, oh, like we can count on young
- 21:39people for equity and justice causes,
- 21:42it seems to me that because so many of them didn't
- 21:45have the foundational grounding, a
- 21:47Christian word, we might say, of discipleship, like, to me
- 21:50it seems like that's why folks can be so
- 21:53easily swayed against these same kind of
- 21:56social ground, good causes. Uh, so I'm wondering
- 21:59similarly, can that happen like in church where
- 22:02folks don't really understand like why we're making these changes,
- 22:05why we're trying to do this? It's because discipleship,
- 22:08because we're discipling him, like faithfulness
- 22:11to God and the gospel message of
- 22:14Jesus.
- 22:15>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean, uh, we have to start with why
- 22:18and like, we have to begin with why. It's really important to
- 22:21continue to articulate the why and then
- 22:24go back to the why over and over and over. Because we can easily
- 22:27drift away from the mission, we can easily drift away from the
- 22:30purpose. We can do a lot of what. And the what
- 22:32really doesn't matter unless it's tethered to uh, a compelling
- 22:35and substantive why.
- 22:38And so yes to everything that you're saying.
- 22:41>> Loren: Do you think, then thinking
- 22:43about, you all write about the importance of follow through.
- 22:46Do you think that why, again, that ah, disableship
- 22:49why is also important? Because if we
- 22:52don't really understand the why, we're going to lack
- 22:55that, that endurance, that
- 22:57perseverance.
- 22:59>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean, I think that's uh, that. Yeah, I think so
- 23:02because why is the motivation behind things. And
- 23:05so it's also the kind of the,
- 23:08the root reason for why we do things. And
- 23:11so I would say
- 23:13yes. Uh, I mean there's two
- 23:16ways in which you can motivate people. You can either kind of
- 23:19dictate the terms and tell them this is what we're doing, or you
- 23:22can compel them and motivate them by showing them
- 23:25the deeper reasons into know
- 23:28what you are doing, uh,
- 23:31and why you're doing them. And so when people understand
- 23:34the why, the
- 23:37nature of a, uh, compelling move oftentimes work.
- 23:40>> Loren: And that's I guess, the big time challenge. Right. Because doing
- 23:44that why work of
- 23:46explaining the why takes so much more time and buy
- 23:49in than just mandating. This
- 23:52is what we're doing and this is when we're going to do it and
- 23:55so forth. Right?
- 23:58>> Speaker D: Yeah, I think so. Yeah. No, I think the why work
- 24:00is taking the time to sit down
- 24:03with someone that might not understand what you're doing and
- 24:06why you're doing it, uh, explaining it to them
- 24:09sometimes multiple times, especially if it's
- 24:13uh, significantly different than what you've been doing in the past,
- 24:17uh, especially if it disrupts what you,
- 24:20um, uh, what they're accustomed to.
- 24:24And this is partially why we encourage people to begin with
- 24:26listening or start with listening.
- 24:28>> Loren: Yeah.
- 24:28>> Speaker D: And then to listen really for the losses that people might be
- 24:31experiencing.
- 24:31>> Loren: Yeah.
- 24:32>> Speaker D: Because when you do like, you can understand
- 24:35that they have a why, that they're operating what
- 24:37operating with. And their why might
- 24:40be just as, just as significant as your
- 24:43why and you just don't know, you
- 24:46know, like why that is. And so,
- 24:49um, yeah, so I, but so the
- 24:52explanation of the why is,
- 24:55is, is really important. But you also have to know
- 24:57that sometimes you might, and it might not
- 25:00land and require you to sit
- 25:03with things or even change your own mind on
- 25:06some things. Or if you feel like
- 25:10you uh, have the authority and you think that the community
- 25:12will go with you to say, and you
- 25:15have a very clear idea of what needs to be done.
- 25:18But it's hard to convince everyone else,
- 25:21um, to work
- 25:23with as many people but then try to figure out like
- 25:26what do you do with the person that will not follow
- 25:29and actually wrestle through, think about those things
- 25:32and try to um, ensure uh,
- 25:35that they are cared for in the process.
- 25:38>> Loren: Yeah.
- 25:38So let's talk more about that because again, I'm thinking of kids. I
- 25:41mean your kid is young, right? What'd you say, one? Two?
- 25:46>> Speaker D: Uh, she's two.
- 25:47>> Loren: Yeah. So you don't have to deal with too much of this, I suppose, quite
- 25:50yet. But why?
- 25:52>> Speaker D: Why, why?
- 25:54>> Loren: As she continues to grow older, they get
- 25:57from experience, they get less compliant, so to
- 26:00speak. And as a parent,
- 26:03we can explain all we want, like the rationale why
- 26:05they need to brush their teeth or take a bath or
- 26:09do their homework. Uh, but it seems
- 26:11like maybe I'm wrong on this, but it seems like in every
- 26:14parent's life, perhaps also in every leader's life,
- 26:17there needs to be some kind of. There's got to be
- 26:20some kind of moment of truth where it's like
- 26:23we're doing this my way or the
- 26:26highway, and maybe certainly not frame it that way.
- 26:29But, I mean, what about
- 26:32when we come to those real hard points in the
- 26:34road where clearly it's like
- 26:37we need to go left, but
- 26:40they want to go right. You talked about
- 26:43carrying through that. Talk a little bit more about that.
- 26:46>> Speaker D: Yeah, I mean, at some point, there are
- 26:49decisions that have to be made that
- 26:53are not going to be easy for everyone. And the
- 26:56best thing you can do in those moments is to be as
- 26:58pastoral as possible. Make sure you've done the
- 27:01job of listening and actually listening
- 27:04deeply. Uh, because a lot of people listen just
- 27:07to move on. And so you don't listen just
- 27:10to check a box, but you listen to hear the heart. And
- 27:13if they're saying something in a way that you might not be
- 27:15understanding, then I would say
- 27:18it's incumbent on the leader to draw out the
- 27:20clarity they need from someone. Because oftentimes,
- 27:25especially if you're a spiritual kind of authority
- 27:28or you sign their paycheck,
- 27:31they can't be as candid and honest as they
- 27:34want with you. And so you're going to have to find ways to draw that
- 27:37out by being someone that's safe
- 27:40to share those things. And then from
- 27:43that place, it's like, if you really can't move in a
- 27:45direction that's together,
- 27:48um, you know, like letting them know,
- 27:51you know, like, I like. And hopefully
- 27:54you had other people in the community to share this, like, to
- 27:56discern with you. But, you know, I think at the end of the day,
- 27:59it's, you know, that there has to be some decision made.
- 28:02And the reason you're leading the change is because the, uh,
- 28:05status quo is untenable.
- 28:07>> Loren: Yeah. Yeah. And I think that's where it's helpful.
- 28:10I'm appreciating so much of what you're saying about understanding
- 28:13their why, because I can imagine if you're
- 28:16really listening well, understanding their why,
- 28:19there might be some opportunity for connection
- 28:23or at minimum, maybe just some kind of
- 28:27respectful agree to disagree
- 28:30situation where it doesn't have to be,
- 28:33ah, harsher or
- 28:36grading is the word I'm looking for.
- 28:38>> Speaker D: Yeah, no, I mean, if someone
- 28:41feels. I mean, I think our job as leaders
- 28:44is always to, um,
- 28:47treat people with the dignity that they deserve. And
- 28:51the way, you know, you
- 28:54hold them to a dignified regard
- 28:57is how you engage
- 29:00with them in differences and differences of
- 29:02opinion. And if you can't handle their
- 29:05objections or their questions or their,
- 29:08um, uh,
- 29:12challenges, then,
- 29:13uh, I'd be more
- 29:16concerned about
- 29:20the state of the leader that's trying to lead
- 29:23than the person that's offering the
- 29:26concerns and vocalizing them. Because
- 29:30again, if we believe in the imago DEI in
- 29:33everybody, and we believe that everyone has a very unique
- 29:36and important vantage point, and that even
- 29:39if they're not right or we agree with them on everything, there are
- 29:42some things that we can agree with them on. And so trying to figure out
- 29:45where those alignments are and agreements are, and then
- 29:48figuring out, like, okay, are they actually right or are they
- 29:50not? Because sometimes the people that we
- 29:54least want to listen to are the prophets. And
- 29:56we know that
- 30:00God sent prophets, uh, to be among
- 30:02us so that we can align with his heart
- 30:05and will. And whenever that the people of God
- 30:08didn't listen to the prophets, trouble
- 30:11ensued. But they were always
- 30:13inconvenience. Right. Prophets were never a convenience
- 30:16to the community.
- 30:18>> Loren: I'm thinking about this way too, about commonality, like,
- 30:21uh, we can at least have in common with people.
- 30:24Imago dei, all
- 30:27were created in the image of God and Christ died for all. So we have that
- 30:30in common. Right.
- 30:32Let's do one more question before we take a break. This
- 30:35was kind of a funny thing when I read it because it's so
- 30:38obvious, yet not
- 30:41so simple, but so many miss it.
- 30:44Why is the worship service the worst
- 30:47place to initiate change?
- 30:49>> Speaker D: Yeah, um, because that's usually like the.
- 30:51>> Loren: First place we go.
- 30:53>> Speaker D: Yeah. Well, because I think,
- 30:55um, a lot of people think if you want to change,
- 30:58I think that inherently we all know that if you want
- 31:01to change culture, go to the places where
- 31:04the masses are. And m. The one place
- 31:07everyone is gathered is going to be the
- 31:10worship service on a weekend.
- 31:12And so you want to initiate change, that's where you
- 31:15initiate change. And sometimes that's appropriate.
- 31:18Like sometimes you need to lead through
- 31:21the pulpit. And we saw that with the
- 31:24civil rights movement. We saw that through other kind of
- 31:27major movements, uh, in the church.
- 31:29Um, and
- 31:33we should certainly lean on that where
- 31:36it's appropriate and needed vast
- 31:39majority of change efforts within a community, because communities
- 31:41are essentially organisms that
- 31:45have established ways of knowing, being,
- 31:48and doing. Uh, sometimes it's
- 31:50helpful to introduce new things from
- 31:53the edges. And so one of the things that we encourage people to do is experiment
- 31:56from the edges, because change is always going to be disruptive.
- 32:00And if you lead
- 32:03change out the gate, you might shock the system
- 32:07to the degree that I don't know who.
- 32:10I was just talking. Was it. You just said the thing about the
- 32:12carpets and the music. I literally was just having
- 32:15a conversation today where a new
- 32:18worship leader came in and was
- 32:21completely disrupting the entire traditional
- 32:24service. And in his mind. And
- 32:27it's not. I wasn't having this conversation with you. I was having.
- 32:30>> Loren: No, but keep going, Keep going.
- 32:32>> Speaker D: Yeah. Um, and in
- 32:34his mind, he was, like, softly introducing new things,
- 32:38but he was doing it at the main sanctuary in the
- 32:41center of it all. And I said, you have
- 32:44a church where there
- 32:47are 50
- 32:50years of people being accustomed to one
- 32:53type of worship. The best
- 32:55way to do that is by starting to introduce
- 32:58new music in other venues.
- 33:01Maybe you start in the foyer and the lobby
- 33:04where they're introduced to different type of music.
- 33:07Maybe it's not the Sunday morning service, but the
- 33:10Sunday evening service. Maybe it's something
- 33:12else, you know? And so those are some of the things that we should think about.
- 33:15>> Loren: Yeah, that's good. That's good. Uh, those things can
- 33:18be interesting.
- 33:19Well, let's take a quick break week. We'll come back with some closing
- 33:22questions.
- 33:26Okay. We're back with Pastor Raymond Chang. Really appreciate
- 33:29this conversation. For our guests, we always tell
- 33:32them, you can take these closing questions as seriously or not
- 33:35as you'd like to, but if you're Pope for a day,
- 33:39what might that day look like for you?
- 33:41>> Speaker D: I mean, if I was Pope for the day, I'd probably want
- 33:44to drive around in the Vatican mobile.
- 33:47So that's probably what I want to do the whole day. And just like the Pope
- 33:49mobile, go around Rome and
- 33:52hang, uh, out, eat some gelato, and then spend
- 33:55time with those that are most
- 33:58hungry for kind of spiritual
- 34:01nourishment. Um, because there is a
- 34:04unique place and space for clergy to be
- 34:07amongst the people. And so I'd probably do one of two
- 34:10things. I'd do the popemobile thing for fun
- 34:12and eat some gelato in Rome, and then
- 34:15I'd probably spend time with the poor.
- 34:18>> Loren: Hey, that's good. That's good. That's funny.
- 34:21The. The episode we just released, the. The guy gave the
- 34:24same Answer. Popemobile through, a drive through. So. Makes
- 34:26sense.
- 34:28>> Speaker D: Well, if he gave that answer or she gave that answer, then I'd
- 34:31probably say if I was pope for the day,
- 34:33um, I'd wanna, uh, add
- 34:36a stroke of paint to the Sistine
- 34:39Chapel.
- 34:41>> Loren: Now we're really getting, really getting
- 34:44sacrilegious.
- 34:45Okay. Um, a historical Christian figure you'd want to
- 34:48meet or bring back to life besides Jesus.
- 34:51Yes.
- 34:51>> Speaker D: Well, Jesus is still alive.
- 34:53>> Loren: Yeah.
- 34:53>> Speaker D: Um, I mean, probably Martin
- 34:56Luther King Jr. There's so much I want to learn, you know, from
- 34:59his life.
- 35:02>> Loren: Okay. Um, what do you think history will
- 35:04remember from our current time and place?
- 35:07>> Speaker D: Political syncretism. I think
- 35:10that history will look back
- 35:12on the church as widely
- 35:15being syncretistic with
- 35:18politics.
- 35:19>> Loren: Mhm.
- 35:20>> Speaker D: And simultaneously silent
- 35:22in addressing it.
- 35:26>> Loren: That's the most interesting response I've heard of that
- 35:29in some time.
- 35:32And it's dead on.
- 35:35Like, I was just having that conversation, but not in that way,
- 35:39the way you're framing that. Really,
- 35:42really accurate.
- 35:44>> Speaker D: Yeah.
- 35:45>> Loren: Really accurate.
- 35:46>> Speaker D: Yeah. I mean, a big part of it is churches. Churches
- 35:49are already feeling the dividedness, you know, that they
- 35:51are trying to be a church that is, you know, either
- 35:54multicolored or purple.
- 35:57And the reality, uh, is what that often means
- 36:00is that they, they don't engage with any
- 36:03of the things that they need to be engaged with when it comes to
- 36:06politics.
- 36:07>> Loren: Yeah. What do you hope for the future
- 36:09of Christianity?
- 36:11>> Speaker D: So besides the obvious answer
- 36:15of the church being future focused along the lines of what
- 36:18we're writing about in the book.
- 36:19>> Loren: Right.
- 36:20>> Speaker D: I, uh, really think that I would
- 36:23love the church to better reflect the
- 36:26kingdom of God and,
- 36:29uh, reflect the kingdom of God in ways that
- 36:33is so compelling that it doesn't
- 36:36need power
- 36:39in order to be relevant,
- 36:43but that it simply needs to love
- 36:46and speak the truth
- 36:49and serve the needy and
- 36:52care for the hungry and
- 36:57prioritize the poor
- 37:00in ways that we saw Jesus doing.
- 37:03>> Loren: Yeah. Well, I appreciate your time. Appreciate
- 37:06the conversation. Do you want to share how folks can
- 37:09connect with you? Get the book, all that?
- 37:11>> Speaker D: Yeah. Connect with me on social media. I'm on,
- 37:14uh, all the major platforms. Uh, you can find me
- 37:17on Facebook, on Instagram, on bluesky,
- 37:20on Twitter. I'm trying to figure out if I need to be on TikTok
- 37:23or not. I never want to be one of those people
- 37:26that try to dance on TikTok. If you ever see me do
- 37:28that, um, feel free to send me a private
- 37:31message shaming me, uh, so that I am not one
- 37:34of those Christians that do the dancing stuff.
- 37:37Uh, no. Shade to those that do. I get it. It's just
- 37:40not me. Um, and then,
- 37:43uh, yeah, so
- 37:46Instagram is raychang502. Um,
- 37:49Twitter is Tweet Ray Tang. And then if you're
- 37:52interested in, uh, connecting with, uh, us, it's
- 37:54futurefocuschurch.com, you can get the book.
- 37:57Um, and, uh, I also lead the
- 38:00Asian American Christian Collaborative. And so you can go to aacristcollab.
- 38:03I am with the 10x10 collaboration and so you can go
- 38:061010. Org. There are so many
- 38:09links that you should follow and so check out all
- 38:12of them.
- 38:13>> Loren: Yeah. Awesome. Well, I really appreciate your time
- 38:16your the conversation. We, uh, always leave folks with a word of
- 38:19peace. So may God's peace be with you.
- 38:22>> Speaker D: Peace with you too.
- 38:30>> Loren Richmond: Thanks for joining us on the Future Christian Podcast. The
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