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There's Gotta Be A Better Way pt2 Feat @Mel.Vybz · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, If
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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so shameless, If you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: So shameless, If you know what I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Saying so shameless, if you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: So.
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  Speaker 4: Said spring Every spring got from the grip dub and
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  Speaker 4: Irish springing oatmeal.
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  Speaker 3: I use oatmeal soap and black castile soap.
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  Speaker 5: All right, you get rid of the Irish spring That
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  Speaker 5: ship stink. I hate niggas that, like, why y'all do that?
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  Speaker 5: It's so many soaps in the world and y'all niggas
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  Speaker 5: want to use the one that smells.
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  Speaker 2: Let it go, give it up, give it.
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  Speaker 4: A welcome back to part two. It's so shameless. How
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  Speaker 4: y'all feeling we back? Yes, last episode was kind of
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  Speaker 4: kind of I don't want to say dark, but I
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  Speaker 4: like I enjoyed it me too.
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  Speaker 2: I enjoy serious conversations that that are.
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  Speaker 3: Not like men women. Yeah, men will constant debate, the
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  Speaker 3: constant typical he about.
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  Speaker 4: To do it through you know he love it. Male
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  Speaker 4: vibes in the house, Yo, man, what we're doing. My
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  Speaker 4: boy reached out to us. He was like, I want
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  Speaker 4: to be on your platform. I really appreciate that male
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  Speaker 4: because his platform is about four times the size of Hours.
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  Speaker 4: So for him to say like, yo, that's mad respect.
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  Speaker 4: And he's a content creator for real, Like he literally
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  Speaker 4: puts out something in there every days, dedicated to his craft.
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  Speaker 4: He's a great follow on Instagram and TikTok, mel dot,
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  Speaker 4: v y b z, nel vibes. You got a song
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  Speaker 4: or you just was out here playing around, you just
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  Speaker 4: walk around? I gotta we gotta hit song in the city. Man,
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  Speaker 4: we got we got a big song in the city.
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  Speaker 4: Is you know around bending You'll tell you.
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  Speaker 3: You're a good man. You do Gunman song?
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  Speaker 4: You can't talk about. We can't talk about that. You
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  Speaker 4: can't talk about again it is a Gunman song. Technically
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  Speaker 4: it's you. I mean that music it is.
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  Speaker 3: It is.
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  Speaker 4: You know, sad that that one took off, but it is.
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  Speaker 4: It was something for New York City and then it
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  Speaker 4: took off and it was like, oh wow, it's interesting
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  Speaker 4: to start After last Gunman song is heard, the tune,
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  Speaker 4: the tonality it's the accent. Why do y'all keep doing that?
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  Speaker 3: Is great?
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  Speaker 4: I do have a I want to end this the
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  Speaker 4: last conversation off. We were speaking about kids. We were
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  Speaker 4: speaking about parenting, we were speaking about showing up for
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  Speaker 4: your children, and we were speaking about the experience of
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  Speaker 4: our children in those teen years the fourth fourth grade
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  Speaker 4: to teen years.
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  Speaker 3: Right. I did see a clip on it and that
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  Speaker 3: they said, I'd be robbing people content by playing the clips, Like.
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  Speaker 5: How but when the clip has the clip in the clip?
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  Speaker 5: Are your niggas dumb?
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  Speaker 3: Get it back in blood? Get it.
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  Speaker 4: It's stupid. And they had like what four or five
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  Speaker 4: hundred thousand? Fuck, they ain't worried about us.
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  Speaker 3: Shout out to the people who we be stealing from, though,
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  Speaker 3: shout out to y'all we is crazy. I did see
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  Speaker 3: a clip on the Internet that I decided to rob
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  Speaker 3: to hear it is do it here we go and Jil.
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  Speaker 6: Of America Incorporated exist or does it do us more
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  Speaker 6: harm than should Jack and Jil of America Incorporated exist?
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  Speaker 3: Or does it do us more harm than good?
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  Speaker 6: Now, if you don't know what Jack and Job of
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  Speaker 6: America is, you can go to the organization's website for
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  Speaker 6: a proper definition, but you can also go to an
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  Speaker 6: HBCU or hair salon or barbershop for a shorthand definition
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  Speaker 6: where someone will tell you Jack and Jill is where
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  Speaker 6: boogie black people go to have community with each other.
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  Speaker 3: It is application based.
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  Speaker 6: I was part of Jack and Joe growing up, and
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  Speaker 6: some of my friends who were outside if it teased
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  Speaker 6: me about that, and it wasn't until I was an
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  Speaker 6: adult that I could really see it through their eyes.
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  Speaker 6: That's when I saw some of those same friends arguing
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  Speaker 6: in loud, yelling matches, even crying in some instances with
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  Speaker 6: other friends of ours who were inside the organization about
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  Speaker 6: the rejection and hurt and outcasting and judgment that their
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  Speaker 6: families felt when they were not accepted into the organization
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  Speaker 6: years ago. So I asked, is it even worked it
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  Speaker 6: for us to have organizations like this that connect certain
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  Speaker 6: black families and make others feel outcasts? Or are we
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  Speaker 6: just taking the same status and elitism and hire that
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  Speaker 6: we always feel at the bottom of and the rest
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  Speaker 6: of society and bringing it into our world so that
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  Speaker 6: we can look down our noses at each other.
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  Speaker 5: Second option, let me tell you something right now, if
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  Speaker 5: anybody can get me into Jack and Jail, Please reach
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  Speaker 5: out because I'm definitely trying to get my baby into
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  Speaker 5: Jack and Jail, and I have been for quite some time.
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  Speaker 5: Either that or the links, I don't really care how
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  Speaker 5: y'all feel about it. All things can be true. However,
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  Speaker 5: hit me up, y'all can DM My dm is are
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  Speaker 5: opens for that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, that's my that's my opinion. Connected, but not in
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  Speaker 2: Jersey right connected.
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  Speaker 3: I asked you before, though I don't remember that.
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  Speaker 2: You don't remember nothing.
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  Speaker 4: I think you asked me. I think we spoke about this.
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  Speaker 4: I think you already you already tried to do.
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  Speaker 2: No, I didn't. I'll be procrastinating, but like, come on, friends.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah I wasn't.
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  Speaker 4: I wasn't in Jack and Jail, and I definitely felt
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  Speaker 4: a way troum was in it, and I definitely felt
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  Speaker 4: classed out. I think I couldn't afford it, or I
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  Speaker 4: just didn't have the I had none to do with financials.
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  Speaker 4: I just didn't have the community relations connected literally had
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  Speaker 4: to do it.
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  Speaker 7: So I don't think there's no application, but a family
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  Speaker 7: has to kind of sponsor. Yeah, refer you in and
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  Speaker 7: some of it has changed. But in the past when
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  Speaker 7: I was growing up, it was kind of I don't
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  Speaker 7: know if this is a thing or if this is
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  Speaker 7: just what I noticed, but it was kind of more
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  Speaker 7: two parent households than a single parents. So I don't
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  Speaker 7: know if they would discriminate on that basis. But other
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  Speaker 7: than that, I thought, I thought it was kind of dope.
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  Speaker 7: And to expand on what oh Boys said in the clip,
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  Speaker 7: it was, it's also for a lot of kids that
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  Speaker 7: grow up and go to like predominantly white.
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  Speaker 2: Schools, private schools, boarding schools, all the things I want
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  Speaker 2: for my child.
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  Speaker 7: It don't even have to be like I went to
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  Speaker 7: a white elementary school, but it wasn't a private school.
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  Speaker 3: It was a public school, right, But so.
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  Speaker 7: You know, I'm growing up in the elementary school or
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  Speaker 7: my friends are white, Jack and Jail. Jack and Jill
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  Speaker 7: gave me an opportunity to have black friends, black minded families.
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  Speaker 7: So yeah, I got friends on my block and in
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  Speaker 7: my neighborhood. But other friends that's you know, like minded,
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  Speaker 7: where you're not just whitewashed, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 7: So you could go to the quote unquote good schools,
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  Speaker 7: private schools or whatever, but still be in community with
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  Speaker 7: other black kids and other Black families. That's super important,
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  Speaker 7: and I thought that was dope. A lot of the
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  Speaker 7: ship that we had to do as kids, I did
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  Speaker 7: not appreciate until I was older, but we had things
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  Speaker 7: like the Black Family Dinner every year. We had to
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  Speaker 7: learn about our History week. We had to dress up
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  Speaker 7: and Dasha's at the Black Family Dinner and shit like that.
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  Speaker 2: DeBie taunt bulls, right.
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  Speaker 7: Nah, I didn't jabawaks do that?
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  Speaker 3: Right? Need that my mom was a link to our
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  Speaker 3: can connect you with.
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  Speaker 2: Them to see all the things.
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  Speaker 7: So and besides that, like as a jack and jail kid,
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  Speaker 7: we had to do community service. We had to do activities,
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  Speaker 7: and it was a certain amount of activities were for
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  Speaker 7: fun and entertainment. You can have your bowling parties and
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  Speaker 7: shit like that, but a certain part you had to
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  Speaker 7: fulfill community obligations. Right, So we went to nursing homes
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  Speaker 7: and same Christmas carols, we did volunteer work.
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  Speaker 3: I'm still jealous, I'm saying here, get mad all over.
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  Speaker 5: Again, But I think that that's also something that's like
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  Speaker 5: necessary because for some people, like if you don't have
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  Speaker 5: the wherewithal or the connections to do with yourself, then
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  Speaker 5: you can join and be a part of an organization
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  Speaker 5: and teach your kid from young how to do and
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  Speaker 5: how to be a part of the community in a
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  Speaker 5: positive way.
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  Speaker 2: I think that for me, I know, I know what happened,
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  Speaker 2: what was my.
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  Speaker 5: Issue with being able to be a jack and jail kid, Like,
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  Speaker 5: I know exactly when it was going to happen, and
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  Speaker 5: I know exactly when it stopped. But I don't I
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  Speaker 5: think that that's an experience that a lot of children
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  Speaker 5: need outside of school, outside of parenting, Like I think
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  Speaker 5: that I don't want my kid with everybody's kids. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 5: I know it might sound elitist. I know what it
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  Speaker 5: sounds like, but I'm still very dead ass about it.
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  Speaker 3: That's what it is.
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  Speaker 5: I understand that, and I will stand ten tolls on it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want my kid around everybody's kid. I don't
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  Speaker 5: want my kid to be influenced by certain kids and
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  Speaker 5: certain families that I don't want her to be around.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm so very sorry, because at the end of
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  Speaker 5: the day, you have a very finite amount of time
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  Speaker 5: to be a child, and you have a very small
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  Speaker 5: window to nurture and grow your child into or dump
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  Speaker 5: these experiences in your child while they're young, so that
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  Speaker 5: they might appreciate it when they're older, versus having to
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  Speaker 5: work up to it when you're an adult.
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  Speaker 3: Like I don't.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not playing I want it done. I'm not playing
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  Speaker 5: Russian Roulette with this one. Like I'm giving her all
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  Speaker 5: of the opportunities. You never going to say you had
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  Speaker 5: to get out the mud. You never want to say
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  Speaker 5: that you had to struggle. You never going to say
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  Speaker 5: that you didn't have access. You never There's so many
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  Speaker 5: things that you're never going to be able to say,
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  Speaker 5: and I'm going to give it to you.
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  Speaker 4: Do you think that putting your child in jack and
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  Speaker 4: Jail is teaching them some sense of classism?
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  Speaker 5: Being the fact that I've never been in Jack and jail,
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  Speaker 5: I can't say yes or no. However, sure, no, I don't.
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  Speaker 7: Think it's classicism because, like I said, it's not separated.
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  Speaker 7: There's no application, it's not separated on financial lines. To
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  Speaker 7: Dodger's point, it's about being around like minded people.
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  Speaker 3: Which is like which is what?
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  Speaker 7: Which is whatever you consider like minded?
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  Speaker 4: If there's a like minded people that are in jack
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  Speaker 4: and jail, what is the like mind?
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  Speaker 3: It's not what I consider it. What do they consider
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  Speaker 3: like minded?
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  Speaker 2: I will say people that care about family keep people
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  Speaker 2: that care about education, people that care about the preserve
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  Speaker 2: the preservation of legacy, people that care.
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  Speaker 5: About like saying that you want the best for your
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  Speaker 5: child and actually putting them in position to actually having
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  Speaker 5: access to what the best looks like instead of just
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  Speaker 5: cosplay and saying it saying like, oh, yeah, I care
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  Speaker 5: about my kids education, but you just threw them in
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  Speaker 5: his own school, Like you didn't even actually go around
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  Speaker 5: some research. What's the best school? Why is this school
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  Speaker 5: best for your kid? What kind of kid do you have?
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  Speaker 5: If your kid is into sports, do they need to
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  Speaker 5: be going to a STEM school? If your kid is
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  Speaker 5: into stem, do they need to be going to a
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  Speaker 5: fucking art school? Like actually doing the work to put
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  Speaker 5: your kid in and have them around people that care
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  Speaker 5: as much about them in the way that you care
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  Speaker 5: about them.
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  Speaker 7: What she said is perfect, right, It's not about like
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  Speaker 7: bougie is a way that I described it growing up too,
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  Speaker 7: for lack of a better term. You can say that,
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  Speaker 7: but that's not a complete definition of it. And I'm
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  Speaker 7: a part of this WhatsApp group called Bedstar Black Parents
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  Speaker 7: right fires groups like four hundred people. The conversations in there,
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  Speaker 7: These are like minded people. Not everybody is rich in there.
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  Speaker 7: Some people rent, some people own, some people have little kids,
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  Speaker 7: some people have teenage kids. But it's like the conversations
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  Speaker 7: in there, you could tell everybody is about progressive stuff.
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  Speaker 7: They want their kids to have a great life, and
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  Speaker 7: that's the common denominator. It's not about no bullshit, it
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  Speaker 7: ain't about no ignorance. It's about providing a better life
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  Speaker 7: for your kids, legacy and things like that. If you're
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  Speaker 7: on board with that, then that's what it is. I'm
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  Speaker 7: on board with that. What are you talking about? I
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  Speaker 7: ain't never get the link to the group chat. I'm
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  Speaker 7: in bedstar you know, I got five kids.
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  Speaker 3: I've never gotten.
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  Speaker 4: The bedsty parent chat. That's so great. We're still there
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  Speaker 4: talking about.
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  Speaker 3: Jack and Ji.
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  Speaker 4: No, I'm just talking about the idea of classism and
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  Speaker 4: how y'all hold on to your space and other people
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  Speaker 4: get denied that don't fit the look of your space.
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  Speaker 4: Right now, you got your bedside thing right now. You
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  Speaker 4: live a block away from me. You know I got
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  Speaker 4: more kids.
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  Speaker 3: Your kids, Huh? How old are they? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's old as shit.
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  Speaker 3: So what's that? What's the point? I have two kids
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  Speaker 3: that are going to be five for ever.
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  Speaker 7: My youngest daughter is twelve, and I feel like I
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  Speaker 7: have an old kid in compared to the kids, Like
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  Speaker 7: a lot of the stuff they talk about is not
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  Speaker 7: really loving to me. I'm still bringing it up as
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  Speaker 7: an example of what of what Jack and Jill is
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  Speaker 7: and how I was formed. I wasn't bringing it up
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  Speaker 7: in any other way, right.
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  Speaker 5: But also again, when we're talking about like minded people,
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  Speaker 5: and this is not like a job to you in
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  Speaker 5: any way, shape or form, So I have to preface
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  Speaker 5: that at first. The fact of the matter is there
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  Speaker 5: are things that you're going to research and you're going
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  Speaker 5: to look out and you're going to reach out four
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  Speaker 5: and like when you want certain things for your kids.
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  Speaker 2: It's not our yo, No fuck it.
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  Speaker 5: It's not our responsibility to tell you what groups or
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  Speaker 5: what you should want to be a part of as
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  Speaker 5: a parent. You're gonna figure it out your own way
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  Speaker 5: and kind of do your own thing. I'm in a
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  Speaker 5: couple of groups too, I'm in I'm in a Black
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  Speaker 5: Mom's group. I'm in a a like a worldwide or
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  Speaker 5: nationwide Black moms group, and they like pump out things
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  Speaker 5: like different like camps and services, Like I'm gonna send Parker,
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  Speaker 5: not this year she's seven, when she turns ten, I'm
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  Speaker 5: gonna send her down to Atlanta where Spellmen they have
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  Speaker 5: like a camp for kids from around the nation that
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  Speaker 5: they come and they like actually live in the dorms
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  Speaker 5: and they go to camp and they have like different experiences.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm gonna send her there one because her godmother
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  Speaker 5: is there. So these are things that I researched myself.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't need to ask anybody.
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  Speaker 4: I sent you to Jack and Jiling. You didn't ask
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  Speaker 4: me about it. I sent it to you. What are
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  Speaker 4: you talking about two three years ago? I sent you
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  Speaker 4: two years ago. I believe I sent you the information
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  Speaker 4: about Jack and Jail. Me sent because community about it.
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  Speaker 3: Community.
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  Speaker 4: No, No, you didn't, I said, okay, fun. But at
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  Speaker 4: the end of the day, and so when you say, oh,
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  Speaker 4: you're not supposed to, yes, it takes a village to
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  Speaker 4: raise a child. It takes a village. And you said
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  Speaker 4: that that they can deny you from Jack and Jail, right.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know how that works, but I will say
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  Speaker 7: that there's two things that I remember growing up. I
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  Speaker 7: don't know if it's still the case. One, it's definitely
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  Speaker 7: preferred for you to come in at an early age
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  Speaker 7: so the kids go grow up together. So I met
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  Speaker 7: you when we was thirteen. I don't even know if
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  Speaker 7: he's already in, right, but I was in since I
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  Speaker 7: was a little kid.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know.
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  Speaker 7: I don't know if they would have not that you
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  Speaker 7: were asking, but I don't even know if there was
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  Speaker 7: an option to bring you in at that age.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 7: The other thing, and this is speaking to back then,
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  Speaker 7: I don't know what has changed. It's and this is
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  Speaker 7: why I didn't put my kids in jack and jail,
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  Speaker 7: because it's historically been a mom's organization, right, so if
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  Speaker 7: you're not a two parent household, as a dad, I
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  Speaker 7: couldn't necessarily facilitate it unless the mom was the one
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  Speaker 7: taking charge. And I'm the legacy one. Jack don't exist.
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  Speaker 7: It's just really again, I don't know if that's changed,
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  Speaker 7: but it was definitely a mom's organization.
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  Speaker 3: Well, how do you feel about this?
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  Speaker 4: The jack and jail thing is not so much new
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  Speaker 4: to me, but the conversation is never something that really
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  Speaker 4: crossed my like my understanding hearing what you guys are
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  Speaker 4: saying about it. I definitely think it's necess It's a
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  Speaker 4: necessary thing though, because now it shows you a different
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  Speaker 4: side of life that but then what you were automatically
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  Speaker 4: programmed to believe in life is right. This shows you that, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you can, you can be a black person and do
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  Speaker 4: be like a normal individual per se. It's not just
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  Speaker 4: playing basketball in the crates. And so I think I
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: think I think it's necessary. And when you ask, when
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: you discussing it from a level of elitism and classicism,
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: it can.
• 17:13
  Speaker 3: Feel like that.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: Okay, right, it can feel like that, especially if you'ren outside,
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: when you're an outside looking at it, like what about me,
• 17:18
  Speaker 4: I'm not good enough? Don't actual well, sh ain't good enough?
• 17:21
  Speaker 4: And so on and so forth. But you also just
• 17:24
  Speaker 4: got to respect people that create the groups. And I'm
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: a big papron of the If I'm not invited to.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: At the table, I'll be alone.
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: It's like the quickness that I value very quickly. Just
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: hold that though, because I'm old. This one here got
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: pulled it as it says, what does it say?
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: I left it because you take a picture of it
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: to sens.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: You a merry Mother's day. You're doing amazing. Sweetie.
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: Also spoke to somebody about getting parking into Jack and
• 17:47
  Speaker 4: Jill if you're interested, and I.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: Said, thank you a word.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Do tell two hours two and a half hours later.
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: Don't matter. Then they can never responded. He never sent
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: me like I said.
• 17:57
  Speaker 4: Spoke on the phone. You what we spoke. You can't
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: see that. I don't remember what the situation was, but
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: I told you what the situation was. I called you,
• 18:08
  Speaker 4: so we spoke on the phone about you, and I
• 18:11
  Speaker 4: believe I believe I connected you with somebody.
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: There's no fucking way because I would have did it.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: This is twenty three.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: We had more conversations about this.
• 18:21
  Speaker 4: We have not.
• 18:22
  Speaker 7: Yes, we did well. We can pick up where you
• 18:24
  Speaker 7: left off. I got some folks.
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: Okay, great. So what I was going to say is,
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Baby gets out.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: I reached out to you, my baby about to get
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: to our community.
• 18:33
  Speaker 7: Go ahead, tro I can't see how you can be
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: on the outside looking in and feel the ways because
• 18:38
  Speaker 7: it is somewhat of an insulated community. But that's kind
• 18:42
  Speaker 7: of the point. Like that allowed us to have certain
• 18:45
  Speaker 7: class activities where you feel safe. Like one of my
• 18:52
  Speaker 7: we used to have sleepover parties when I was like
• 18:54
  Speaker 7: eight years old. We had sleepover activities because you knew
• 18:59
  Speaker 7: the family. It wasn't just that you knew the kid.
• 19:01
  Speaker 7: You knew the families, right, And I remember, like that
• 19:04
  Speaker 7: was some core memories growing up. Like I remember the
• 19:08
  Speaker 7: first time seeing like a hip hop video on the TV.
• 19:12
  Speaker 7: I'm had a sleepover at a black family's house, and
• 19:16
  Speaker 7: then were all in there gym into like plant rock
• 19:19
  Speaker 7: and ship.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: You know what I mean, It's like a core memory.
• 19:21
  Speaker 7: Before that, I had only been to sleepovers with white kids,
• 19:24
  Speaker 7: you know what I mean. You know, and it's a
• 19:26
  Speaker 7: different it's different. So now you got this safe, different
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: smell and everything.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: Right right, And then you slept over white people's house.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Your parents.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: That was before he met.
• 19:44
  Speaker 7: You, watching Friday thirteenth and all that ship.
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: Yo, the niggas trying to kill you, bro.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: So then he was a black kid. Oh my god.
• 19:51
  Speaker 7: Again, like some of the stuff, when you were a kid,
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: you don't really get it, except for like sleepovers and ship.
• 19:56
  Speaker 7: But then when you get to like a certain age
• 19:58
  Speaker 7: and this you can remember this. The parties, fucking popping boy,
• 20:04
  Speaker 7: the parties. And then the best part is when we
• 20:09
  Speaker 7: get into high school and it wasn't just the Brooklyn
• 20:13
  Speaker 7: chapter parties.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: It was everybody.
• 20:15
  Speaker 7: It was like we had the whole East Coast regional.
• 20:20
  Speaker 7: So we go down to a hotel and Maryland whatever,
• 20:23
  Speaker 7: and you got Virginia all the way up to New
• 20:28
  Speaker 7: Jersey and Boston and the Jersey everything in between. I
• 20:32
  Speaker 7: still got great friends from this day that I'm in
• 20:34
  Speaker 7: high school. And then I go to Howard University. I
• 20:38
  Speaker 7: only knew like one person going to school with me.
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: But yeah, now I got mad friends off the rip
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: and they're from Virginia, They're from d C. They from Jersey,
• 20:48
  Speaker 7: they from I'm like, yo, this ship is actually kind
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: of fire, you know what I mean?
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Yep, exactly. You feel he feels the way he feels
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: the way that he was not he was not.
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: I'm jealous, to be honest, I don't don't think that.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: I just think it's dope that him, as a child
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: had this outlet. They did all of these things to
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: help shape him, help shape his character, help extend his network,
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: like get him out of right here in the middle
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: of Bedstide, where there were crack vows everywhere. Every He
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: grew up right there with me. Meanwhile, because I didn't
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: have that network. My world was a lot smaller and
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: my experiences were more central.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: To outside right here.
• 21:36
  Speaker 4: And yeah, I'm jealous, not because of you, your family,
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: or the jack and jail experience, but the opportunity to
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: this world, the shaping of my character right because I
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: had to. I felt like I had to do certain
• 21:56
  Speaker 4: things for attention and become this certain person for attention.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: And I would think that Trump would have.
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Balked on that, like I can't do that, Like I
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: was taught all of this other stuff, and I grew
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: up this other way, not going to be out here,
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: just you know, doing this certain being a certain way.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: And I wish that for all our kids. Yeah, I
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: wish that experience for.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: All of our children. I think we need it. And
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: in the video, go ahead, wait second mail, real quick.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: I know you want something to say. But in the video,
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: the question was asked, are we adopting what white people
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: have done to us and doing that in our community
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: where we have an elitist, you know, black group and
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: that actually separates itself from the others. And I don't
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: think it's intentional, but I do think it's what happens,
• 22:42
  Speaker 4: and it's it's kind of.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: Like, ah, if you don't you know. If you don't know,
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: you don't know.
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, if you don't know, you don't that's right.
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: But I feel like the onness is now on us
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: now that we do know, right, and now that we
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: can't walk too because well, technically you can't. You can't
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: change the fact of his his life experienced opportunity that
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: was presented to him, or whatever ever the universe had.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: In store for him. But now as we are all
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: collectively parents and you had that experience that you can say,
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: you know what, Yeah, my kids need to have distance.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: And even if you don't put them in a jack
• 23:09
  Speaker 3: and jail or something like that, you've been exposed to
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: certain things that they need to know and very important
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: for them. So now we can have the ability to
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: come together us for as a group and create our
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: own little shit and create our own little networking, create
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: out and so that's kind of what that does from
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: a standpoint of you having that experience. Now now that
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: we're all aware and the knowledges out there, it's not
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: like it's some sort of hidden ship anymore. Now it's
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: not been sitting with us.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: For nine years seeing the baby, I'm not even that
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: and I'm trying to find ways to get a parking.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I need both of y'all.
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: Thank you guys so much for all of your unwavering
• 23:45
  Speaker 5: help and support to make sure that my child is
• 23:48
  Speaker 5: able to do that I want her to do.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: But that's what I'm talking.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: About with our community and gatekeeping, because I know you've
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: got a million other things in your world. I'm not
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: saying that, but we do need to be thinking for
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: our neighbors kids and for the other kids. But she
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: said neighborhood dad, Like, yo, I know ways that I
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: help you, you know, do this and do that, like
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: we need to do it. But sharing information, we even
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: need to even him sharing the information that he may
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: have learned from those experiences very very important because what
• 24:16
  Speaker 4: you didn't learn on the inside, he didn't. He can
• 24:18
  Speaker 4: help shape help give you that. Without him, I would
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: have been on the corner to this day without his
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: family took me in and they gave me.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: A level of like.
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: I was able to scale life differently because I saw
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: what I didn't have. I saw a million things, whether
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: it was deparchments like embedded into his wall like he has,
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: like like I would look around his crib like and
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: I saw his family, his mom and Pops would take
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: time by himself. We couldn't talk to them. They would
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: go in the room and they would have good wine.
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: They would just sit there and we could not talk
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: to them. During this half hour of the week. We
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: could not say nothing. They moved me in and they
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: fed me, and they talked to me, and they made
• 24:58
  Speaker 4: sure that you're gonna do this today, You're gonna, you know,
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: be successful today or whatever.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: I never seen them yell. I never seen them raise
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: their voices. And I saw disappointment sometimes when we funked up,
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: But it wasn't disrespectful. It didn't make you feel less
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: of a person. It was just like we want more
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: for you, Like, don't do that, you know what I mean?
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: I was able, Yes, when life came at me a
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: certain way, I knew, I knew better, I knew I
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: saw better.
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: I knew that there was another one.
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: We have another example versus me not knowing, and a
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: lot of my friends didn't have that, you know what
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: I'm saying. So this nigga, you changed my life. You
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: and your family and Jack and Jill definitely changed my life.
• 25:33
  Speaker 4: You don't see what I'm saying, and so I definitely
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: want that for other Black children.
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. I want that experience for other Black.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Children because we're missing I mean, but it's all black children.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: We're missing it. Not everybody wants it through.
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah, that's true too. It's it's it's it's also something
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: you gotta. It's an acquired taste. It's not for everybody.
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: Which if it was for everybody, it would be for
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: everybody's some things.
• 25:59
  Speaker 2: It's just not for everyone trying to.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: Push it on them.
• 26:00
  Speaker 4: I just saying I want I want the education for
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: our kids, and the network, for the network. The network
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: is the most important, very important. The network is important.
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: Let's have fun, all right, seventeen TRAUMAM done throwing you
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: under the bus.
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: Apologize, that's all right.
• 26:18
  Speaker 5: I can't wait to take you out tomorrow and put
• 26:20
  Speaker 5: you in a group chat some somebody.
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: I don't have it. I can't remember who I knew.
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: That was years ago. I don't remember. See what I
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: go through. It's crazy. How can I fuck your lives up?
• 26:34
  Speaker 3: Right now? Let me see?
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Why would you want to? We're doing such a great job.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: You're such a great place, you know, right, such a
• 26:41
  Speaker 3: positive show. We were attacking Tron. It was it was great,
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: it right, all right, go ahead.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: The world has been on fire yesterday. I want to
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: hear your voice today. I see you over there on Instagram.
• 26:54
  Speaker 3: Wake up, niggas, niggas parents and nigga. Yeah, niggas. I
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: was having a parent of us.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Parent is crazy?
• 27:04
  Speaker 3: What does that mean?
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: This guy community, I'm gonna do some whole thing while
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: we're talking about the influences on our children. There's another
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: segway we can use. The world has been up creased his.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Ass with all my skin man guys, what you said something?
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: Y'all spin spin ship.
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: They have really been like from for the negative influence
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: of spending that in d I R had something to
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: say which I think actually kind of started it. Kicked
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: it off in d I R. Who made the like
• 27:56
  Speaker 4: you know, the curly head you know, keep you on hair.
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: Aluminum, No, no, nobody.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: It was one hundred degrees two days last week. I
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: want you to go to hell, to.
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: Go to.
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: What do y'all think about the backlash is getting from
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: the song I shot the funk up?
• 28:32
  Speaker 7: You know what's funny when the first when the song
• 28:34
  Speaker 7: first came out, so I still haven't downloaded the song
• 28:39
  Speaker 7: that I'm working DJ, and I'm in some some rooms
• 28:42
  Speaker 7: where the song can go crazy. I haven't cad I'm
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: not canceling her. I'm not gonna say I would never
• 28:45
  Speaker 7: download it. I'll never play it. But the reason why
• 28:48
  Speaker 7: I didn't download it was because of the bullshit that
• 28:51
  Speaker 7: Young Miami was on. She was performing and she was
• 28:55
  Speaker 7: balking on the d J. I don't know if you
• 28:56
  Speaker 7: remember that. That's viral, right She was, you don't like,
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: I don't like people that's disrespectful to DJs. You come
• 29:08
  Speaker 7: on stage, and then she on the microphone disrespected the
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: DJ in real time, and he handled it really well
• 29:18
  Speaker 7: and professionally. But it's like, Yo, you don't do that,
• 29:20
  Speaker 7: and DJ is supposed to support you and play your record.
• 29:23
  Speaker 7: So I was already like I'm cool with her, you
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: know what I mean?
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: DJ. She did apologize, She did apologize the next day.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: She did apologize, but it was still like she was.
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: Look, she was like, yo, you gotta turn this ship up,
• 29:37
  Speaker 4: Like what what type?
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: What do? What type of music? You're playing?
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: Like, nah, you gotta like I'm here, we ain't here,
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: y'all want to hear some fly ship, come on DJ, Like.
• 29:47
  Speaker 7: She went in there and then he dropped something. She
• 29:49
  Speaker 7: was like, get the funk out of here with that ship,
• 29:51
  Speaker 7: like you've been sucking up the whole night, like.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: Like really is it true? Embarrassing? But was it true?
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: It was because at the end of the.
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: You but you know what I'm talking about. I hate
• 30:02
  Speaker 5: a fucking DJ. That that that that's all over the place.
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: Transition sloppy, like I'm not even a fucking DJ, and
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: I'm sitting here one minute you got me listening to
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: the Mighty Cyrus. The next minute you gotta be listening
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: to Vibes Cartel. How how do we get here?
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: What are we doing? I will say the same ship the.
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: DJ Buddhist like that's happened, Trump, It's happened sometimes you
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: got to he's a.
• 30:26
  Speaker 7: Performer relying on the DJ to play your track. It
• 30:30
  Speaker 7: would behoove you not to berate him on the stage
• 30:33
  Speaker 7: and embarrass him when you're the performer with the microphone,
• 30:36
  Speaker 7: like you know, it's like you don't first of all,
• 30:39
  Speaker 7: if he used his platform and his microphone for the
• 30:42
  Speaker 7: next hour to brate you, how would that feel like
• 30:44
  Speaker 7: you don't use your platform with both artists. At the
• 30:47
  Speaker 7: end of the day, we're supposed to work off work
• 30:49
  Speaker 7: with each other. Come talk to me on the side, Yo,
• 30:52
  Speaker 7: boom boom, boom boom, because that's happened to me before.
• 30:55
  Speaker 7: Not in that way, but there's been like especially like
• 30:57
  Speaker 7: you go to like what his open mics or some
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: ship or unsigned artists ship, they be like, yo, DJ,
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: drop my ship and then I played. They be like, no,
• 31:05
  Speaker 7: it's supposed to be tracked too. I'm like, Nigga, you
• 31:07
  Speaker 7: ain't never come say something to me and tell me
• 31:09
  Speaker 7: what track to play.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Nothing.
• 31:11
  Speaker 7: I'm over here just but I'm supporting your art and
• 31:16
  Speaker 7: you want me to get it, but you ain't even
• 31:18
  Speaker 7: have the nervous or uh you know, have the.
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: This feels like me, not like when people put out
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: their garbage and it's not tied.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: It's like Yah, from a performance standpoint, right, nobody's gonna
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: be like, Yo, Kureshi DJ was terrible last night, like
• 31:35
  Speaker 4: that been sucked on stage. And then even if it's
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: DJ fault, she thinks she didn't fly. And I can
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: look at it from both sides. So it's like I
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: get it, but I'm not saying it's right.
• 31:45
  Speaker 2: You gotta you gotta play spend that ship.
• 31:47
  Speaker 7: So yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. So I was gonna say
• 31:50
  Speaker 7: that that's the reason why I didn't download it immediately.
• 31:52
  Speaker 7: And then when I heard the song, I was like, oh,
• 31:54
  Speaker 7: this song is trash and I still feel like it's trash,
• 31:57
  Speaker 7: but I would play it because although I INDI has
• 32:00
  Speaker 7: great points, I'm I'm all about it. I play ignorant
• 32:04
  Speaker 7: music all the time exactly, and I'm not. But it's
• 32:07
  Speaker 7: like there's a space for it.
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: What's here's my And I was talking to somebody about
• 32:11
  Speaker 4: this too, like there's so much ignorant music out on
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: a daily basis. What is it that we're picking about
• 32:19
  Speaker 4: her talking about scammers and boosters like what? And I'm
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: not agreeing with the song with I can tell you like,
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: but there's literally every single day there's artists making dumb
• 32:28
  Speaker 4: ass shit and it's being promoted and this one.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: Is just it.
• 32:32
  Speaker 4: It's a summary like it's a summery vibe. It's like
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: it's like it's a groovy beat. So everybody like, eh, I.
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: Could tell you, I'm gonna play a clip and then
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: try and you go right after that, And.
• 32:42
  Speaker 8: This is when I say it goes back to the
• 32:43
  Speaker 8: music because culture, this is what we're listening to. I
• 32:45
  Speaker 8: got homegirls whose kids is telling you to try at
• 32:48
  Speaker 8: thirteen because we listen to the city girls. I know
• 32:51
  Speaker 8: he ain't cashing out y'all not thinking about the youth.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: I just had a conversation with right, and then I said,
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I'm already like, I'm like what a delp, Like, I'm
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: I'm a whore that.
• 33:02
  Speaker 8: Like, y're not thinking about the younger generation and how
• 33:06
  Speaker 8: the music and the lifestyle is affected. I'm telling them,
• 33:10
  Speaker 8: you gotta have self respect, you gotta glove yourself because.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: This ain't You're being brainwashed. This is gonna destroy you.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: You're gonna start suppressing. When is why you depressed?
• 33:19
  Speaker 8: You emotionally detached one, and why you just want to
• 33:21
  Speaker 8: have SEXU all day like most men who are emotionally detached.
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: My gosh, let me do it, Let me do it,
• 33:32
  Speaker 5: all right, this is the thing, right, Go raise y'all,
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: fucking kids, Go raise y'all kids.
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: This doesn't even make no sense.
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: Like, oh, my gosh, I remember my mom telling me
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: that I cannot listen to Little Kim's album. She had
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: Little Kim's album and she looked me on my face
• 33:54
  Speaker 5: and said, you cannot listen to that album.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: I don't care what you do. Don't put it on.
• 33:57
  Speaker 9: You know what.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: I'm like that Ship anyway.
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: As a child, I played it anyway, and I listened
• 34:03
  Speaker 5: to it anyway, and I didn't. But but the fact
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: of the matter is because kids are gonna do what
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: they want to do regardless.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: But as a parent, you have to give your child
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: guard red.
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: Anyway.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: No, but this is what I'm saying.
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: But this is what I'm going back to raise your
• 34:17
  Speaker 5: kids because Parker can't listen to Young Miami in front
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: of my face.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: I'm not in the house singing the Ship with my kid.
• 34:26
  Speaker 5: I'm not in the house playing the unfiltered records in
• 34:29
  Speaker 5: front of my kids. I'm not in the car playing
• 34:32
  Speaker 5: the unfiltered records in front of my kids.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: You have to tell your child this is not for you.
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: Now, the kids are going to try, They're gonna sneak,
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: they gonna want to see, they're gonna want to get
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: to know. But as a parent, you have to let
• 34:44
  Speaker 5: them know this is not for you. This is not
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: for your age range. It is that you cannot play
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: in your house in front of your children.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: I don't give a fun.
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: We have to admit that the culture that we are
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: celebrating is deteriorating us as a society.
• 35:04
  Speaker 10: That we grew up on better. First of all, he
• 35:07
  Speaker 10: just mentioned ex clan public enemy. He mentioned I'm not talking.
• 35:12
  Speaker 10: I can I can tell when ship went downhill and
• 35:17
  Speaker 10: Uncle Lucan them this all types and juice and.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: Out here things were celebratory.
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: They danced.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: It wasn't about violence, and then it became that it
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: became bitches and holes and drugs and beers, and it
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: just everything went.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: Now he cannot let me hold war because me tight.
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry forgetting you type, but I have a I disagree,
• 35:47
  Speaker 4: and I think that there needs to be some personal
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: responsibility from us on what we are influencing our kids.
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: And they're looking at us, they emulate us. They look
• 35:57
  Speaker 4: and see who's cool, and there only with you from
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: six to nine, they go to sleep. They wake up
• 36:03
  Speaker 4: at five thirty six, and they go and they spend
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: the rest of their day looking at what society thinks
• 36:11
  Speaker 4: is fucking cool.
• 36:12
  Speaker 5: No, and that's that's where parenting comes in. Because I
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: remember sitting on this fucking couch and y'all niggas telling
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: me like I'm mad.
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: You're not either that I'm.
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: Mad straight in my house either.
• 36:23
  Speaker 5: But no, it is straight because as a parent, right,
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: my kid is not allowed to watch YouTube. My kid
• 36:29
  Speaker 5: is not watching music videos. I do feelter the music
• 36:32
  Speaker 5: that she listens to.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: I do go.
• 36:34
  Speaker 5: She's not allowed to do certain things, She's not allowed
• 36:36
  Speaker 5: to watch certain things, be around certain things, because that's
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: what parenting is. There are songs like I said, I'm
• 36:42
  Speaker 5: gonna listen to the Young Miamis and the Plutos of
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: the world. I'm gonna listen to Monolay. I'm listening to
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: all that shit, but not in the house with my kid. Well,
• 36:50
  Speaker 5: my kid is in the house that's never getting played.
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 36:53
  Speaker 7: I just got jumping real quick before because I could
• 36:57
  Speaker 7: agree and I could personally give a testimonial to what
• 37:01
  Speaker 7: Tah was saying. Like we even as growing up in
• 37:04
  Speaker 7: a two parent household with great role models in the house,
• 37:08
  Speaker 7: we were still impression impressionable with these rappers and stuff
• 37:14
  Speaker 7: like I remember in like the late eighties early nineties
• 37:17
  Speaker 7: ex Clan, Public Enemy Brand Nubian, everybody was god body,
• 37:21
  Speaker 7: everybody was positive, black medallions, no gold, like that was
• 37:24
  Speaker 7: the move that was the vibe. We was all on it.
• 37:27
  Speaker 7: And then ninety three switch it was. It was a
• 37:30
  Speaker 7: switch Wu Tang Mob Deep Death Row Records, and I
• 37:36
  Speaker 7: remember this were the same kids, but now we got
• 37:39
  Speaker 7: bandana's wrapped around the head, ball heads, Onyx and all
• 37:43
  Speaker 7: this shit. And what happened. We get in a fucking
• 37:46
  Speaker 7: big fight and get kicked out of college and we
• 37:48
  Speaker 7: back home. I cannot tell you that that shit was
• 37:52
  Speaker 7: not an influence. Was an influence like we were. That
• 37:56
  Speaker 7: was That's who we were influenced by. That was the
• 37:59
  Speaker 7: culture that I smoke weed every day, five times a day,
• 38:03
  Speaker 7: partially because my favorite rappers were doing the same, red Man,
• 38:06
  Speaker 7: black Wood, all of them. I can't say I wasn't influenced.
• 38:09
  Speaker 7: And this I'm come. I grew up the way you're
• 38:12
  Speaker 7: supposed to grow up with parents. That was in my life.
• 38:14
  Speaker 7: But it's still we can't we can't give that argument
• 38:17
  Speaker 7: that we are not impressiable. These kids are impressionable.
• 38:20
  Speaker 5: These kids are super impressionable. And this is what I'm saying,
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: like there are guardrails as a parent. You have to
• 38:26
  Speaker 5: be super hyper vigilant. It's these damn phones you need
• 38:29
  Speaker 5: to get off your phone to and see what the
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: fuck your kids are doing. And I don't care if
• 38:33
  Speaker 5: I run a strict program in my house. I run
• 38:35
  Speaker 5: a strict program in my house. I don't care if
• 38:37
  Speaker 5: I say everybody in this house got to stop for
• 38:39
  Speaker 5: a hour and read a book. And when I say everybody,
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: I mean everybody in this house. I don't care if
• 38:44
  Speaker 5: you're just visiting this house. This man, everybody in this house,
• 38:46
  Speaker 5: it doesn't matter.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: Like this man just told you how much program in
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: his parents put it in Jack and I don't believe it.
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: They had him in days Chiki's, they had him doing
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: all these things around positive black successful. But the minute
• 39:00
  Speaker 4: keep find somebody that you too, we don't like that.
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: So so let me let me, let me spend this.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: All right, because you talking about early ninetyes hip hop,
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: and I could I could spend to you right from
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: the cribbean side, all right. I grew up listening to
• 39:16
  Speaker 4: lib Scart Big Massive. My name is mel Vimes because
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: I thought I wanted to be like Vibecar. I'm talking
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: about everything he's saying about live even though it was
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: completely toxic and pointanus toxic.
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: STU tell me when set me free, come on. Everybody say,
• 39:30
  Speaker 3: I got it right.
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: We all singing and we won't want to be And
• 39:33
  Speaker 4: it is true, like no matter how much upbringing you
• 39:36
  Speaker 4: may have had, the minute something resonates in your brain.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is in your psyche all
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: of a sudden, this like that ship. What he said?
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: What he on?
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: So yes, the young and yes, yes, I don't necessarily
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: agree with the kind of music that are influencing our women.
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: I can say that, But who's in control of that?
• 39:56
  Speaker 4: And why are they allowing that to happen? That is
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: the bigger question. It's not even a young man, young
• 40:00
  Speaker 4: young Miami's not the problem.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: I definitely don't agree. She's the problem. Is not the problem.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: That is not the problem. Cardi b ain't a problem.
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: It's why are these things constantly being allowed to be
• 40:11
  Speaker 4: forced into our heads and into our kids heads? Why
• 40:14
  Speaker 4: are these things constantly being allowed to force the other
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: kids and kids head? That is where the bigger question lies.
• 40:18
  Speaker 4: And once we figure out, once we really get to
• 40:20
  Speaker 4: the root of that, and we can kind of figure out,
• 40:21
  Speaker 4: like the rest of the shit, I think I.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Think I realized why I don't understand y'all are men.
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: We listen to the same music, and I was not
• 40:33
  Speaker 5: as impressed upon the music as y'all probably were because
• 40:37
  Speaker 5: I'm a girl. But I think that now that the
• 40:41
  Speaker 5: music is more female rap centered than it is male
• 40:46
  Speaker 5: rap centered, that the that the girls have more of
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: like the toxic type of music as the boys did
• 40:52
  Speaker 5: growing up, and that the boys do have so now
• 40:54
  Speaker 5: it's becoming like a different issue. But I also think
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: that we raise our daughters.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: Like daughters are raised.
• 41:04
  Speaker 5: We have way more rules and restrictions and all of
• 41:07
  Speaker 5: that from birthday y'all probably ever had, which is another
• 41:11
  Speaker 5: reason why I don't. I don't see it as being
• 41:14
  Speaker 5: like a big issue because I know, like I would
• 41:16
  Speaker 5: have got my ass handed to me like rag dragged
• 41:20
  Speaker 5: if I even tried to emulate any of the music
• 41:23
  Speaker 5: that I listened to, So I kept it just to
• 41:26
  Speaker 5: listening to it.
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: You only had you had.
• 41:29
  Speaker 5: Yes, Kim fove No, he was like that even she.
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: Had left, it was a limited amount left. I want
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: to I want to be I want to be clear.
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: I do not want to focus just on the women
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: with this. I'm talking about the entire culture of what
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: we're putting out there as cool and fire.
• 41:53
  Speaker 3: The drill rap. My God, send me a drill rap.
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: That's all he talked about was putting people in and
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: he had to live that he was doing all this shit.
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: I didn't even understand. I'm telling you that gone, and
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: this is what they all do. So once you we
• 42:10
  Speaker 4: have to realize that what we are what we are
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: pushing out there. You and I have built certain systems
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: in our life that we like. I can fuck whether
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: I'm at and staying on the couch at for am,
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: I'm on my way to.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Work at six thirty, Yeah, I don't. If I'm dragging
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: myself to work at eight o'clock, I gotta be at work.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: These kids don't have that.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: They will literally go to school and be in the
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: stairwell or in the bathroom and fuck, they hold shit
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: up and us as parents, we can't. We have to
• 42:44
  Speaker 4: realize what the programming is doing to us. And I'm
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: also gonna say I tried to say it before you
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: was trying to prove your point, and I think the
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: women are just balking at the fact, like, Yo, what
• 42:55
  Speaker 4: y'all think it's talking about a k's and and y'all
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: wasn't y'all not doing nothing? But as soon as Meg
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: twerk or as soon as your Miami does this. It's
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: a whole thing which is going into patriarchy misogy. You
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: want to know whatever whatever it is, but very quickly,
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: it's fucking us up too. It's fucking the men and
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: the women relationship ship up to. It's fucking the way
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: the men are viewing themselves too, in our behaviors. It's
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: fucking with the way the women are showing up and
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: y'all behaviors. It's fucking like the oh, spend your money, yo.
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: I was over here last week with niggas that was
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: talking about spend it. They bought a table and the
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: table was five grand, and why this nigga didn't put
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: up thirteen hundred for the table? But he ain't have enough,
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: He didn't buy nothing. It's like, yo, bro, why is
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: that our culture?
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: We ain't got.
• 43:48
  Speaker 4: Enough, We don't own shitt to be trying to prove
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: to each I got thirteen hundred to be putting down
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: because you, my man is sitting at a table and
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: drink liquid that five more expensive inside this club then
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: it is outside.
• 44:02
  Speaker 3: I just did that, So why are we doing this?
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: Niggas is crazy?
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: Two three thousand dollars outfits and going to sleep in
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: their moms cris So let me say this, Let me
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: say this about the Creacian thing real quick before you'all
• 44:14
  Speaker 4: move on to that. Right here is where the issue
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: is always going to lie because the thought processes. Women
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: are the first mothers, the first teachers, right, the women.
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: And I'm people gonna disagree, but this is some of
• 44:28
  Speaker 4: the thought process that I can. I can gather women
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: the first teachers. So what are you teaching if that's
• 44:33
  Speaker 4: what you're promoting? Like, what do you I mean the
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: first thing you're supposed to be teaching is in the
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: house as a mom?
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: What are you right? Is how to conduct yourself? How
• 44:47
  Speaker 4: do how do how to structure yourself? How are you
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: supposed to be outside? How are you supposed to function outside?
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: But then they may look at somebody that say that, God,
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: I mean no, seriously.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: No, I mean seriously, right, friend, Now you have fun?
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: No, finish? No, I'm not I'm not scared. I'm saying no,
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: I'm not.
• 45:06
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is like, So that's why that's why
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Karesha particularly is gonna take this taking the flat like
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: or you said you make the saion or they're going
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: to take the flat, because that's how some people are
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: looking at this.
• 45:16
  Speaker 5: Same Listen, everybody got to parent their kids. Like mothers
• 45:23
  Speaker 5: are not the first teachers. Your parents are your first teachers.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: Your father being there or not being there is your
• 45:28
  Speaker 5: first teacher. What your parents allow you to be around
• 45:32
  Speaker 5: and be exposed to at a certain age are your
• 45:35
  Speaker 5: first teachers. I think this goes back to the conversation
• 45:38
  Speaker 5: that we had a couple of weeks ago to how
• 45:39
  Speaker 5: when we were talking about how there's no like separation
• 45:43
  Speaker 5: between what we listen to and what our kids listen to,
• 45:46
  Speaker 5: like we're doing all the same things. And I think
• 45:49
  Speaker 5: that that's also part of the problem. And a lot
• 45:51
  Speaker 5: of households, you your Sunday clean up music cannot be
• 45:55
  Speaker 5: motherfucking Kreisha agree, like it can't. Like you have to
• 45:59
  Speaker 5: make a con just decision on how you choose to
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: show up in the eyes of your child, point blank, period.
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: But there's nothing else to talk about. This is what
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: people are, This is what people are giving. Like a
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: lot of these female artists some flack about like I
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: feel that that's part of the reason they.
• 46:14
  Speaker 5: Get just the same way, Kim said back in the day.
• 46:18
  Speaker 5: It's not my job to raise y'all kids. It's your
• 46:20
  Speaker 5: job to raise your kids. I'm rapping for and I'm
• 46:23
  Speaker 5: talking to motherfucking adults at the end of the day.
• 46:27
  Speaker 5: What the music the music industry is kind of putting
• 46:30
  Speaker 5: our kids at a disservice because we don't have the
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: beat K's anymore. We don't have the Little bow Wows
• 46:35
  Speaker 5: and the Little Romeos anymore. Like the kids don't have
• 46:38
  Speaker 5: their own artists to look up to anymore, so they're
• 46:41
  Speaker 5: listening to the same thing that the adults and the
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: parents are listening to. What we have more of, We
• 46:46
  Speaker 5: have more of a variety when we were growing up
• 46:49
  Speaker 5: back in the day, like the Britney spears Is and
• 46:51
  Speaker 5: the Christina and the Backstreet Boys, and they don't exist
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: any the insyncts.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: They're not here. So that's part of the problem, yes,
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: But as a parent all so, you have to filter
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: what you have and what you do around your kids.
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: It can't be I'm grown, so no, you gotta turn
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: shit off when your kids is in the house. You
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: gotta put your own headphones on when your kids is
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: in the house.
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: You gotta your kid walk in the room. You gotta
• 47:15
  Speaker 5: pause Love Island. You can't let the shit play out
• 47:17
  Speaker 5: when the kid, the baby walking in the room. Like
• 47:19
  Speaker 5: there's certain things you can't do. Maybe you can't watch
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: Love Island in the house like me. Sometimes I gotta
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: watch that shit on my work computer.
• 47:26
  Speaker 3: I agree with you, Dosh.
• 47:27
  Speaker 7: My only pushback is it reminds me of when you
• 47:31
  Speaker 7: tell kids do what I say, not do what I do.
• 47:34
  Speaker 7: So if we're listening to it in our spare time,
• 47:36
  Speaker 7: even if the kids aren't around, then you're still setting
• 47:40
  Speaker 7: an example. If you don't want the kids to absorb
• 47:43
  Speaker 7: it and you think it's toxic, then maybe I think
• 47:46
  Speaker 7: the best thing we should do is not support that music. No,
• 47:49
  Speaker 7: if you personally don't feel like this is it's appropriate
• 47:52
  Speaker 7: for black people. And here's the thing, And I'm not
• 47:55
  Speaker 7: saying that we will. I'm not saying that we boycott here.
• 47:58
  Speaker 7: I'm not saying that we cancel her. I think there's
• 48:00
  Speaker 7: room for everybody to exist as an artist, especially if
• 48:03
  Speaker 7: you're authentic. If that's who you are, authentically are, then
• 48:07
  Speaker 7: and that's your art.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: No, I disagree with you.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: Listen send that all summer.
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: I'm be on the table to going to have a summer,
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: and I do, and I am having. I'm having agreed
• 48:19
  Speaker 5: to take the consequences. I don't have no cous with
• 48:22
  Speaker 5: my child though.
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: Listen because you don't know yet, I know, yo, I
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: don't want no. She ain't going to a combo you
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: listen none that stuff around your kid when you're driving it.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: Come on, you ain't singing along?
• 48:40
  Speaker 7: Good question in the coming Do y'all think these types
• 48:43
  Speaker 7: of songs affect adults?
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: Of course?
• 48:49
  Speaker 7: I remember when I was DJing in the strip club. Yo,
• 48:51
  Speaker 7: there's certain songs that come on niggas.
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: Automatically, automatically your energy, automatically, psychology, more money.
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: He's crazy, crazy, crazy niggas is going crazy.
• 49:03
  Speaker 7: It's crazy. Just off the vibrations of a certain song
• 49:05
  Speaker 7: is crazy.
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: My man just came home from prison, right we spoke
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: about his son, passion man.
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: Don't clip this, Drew, don't clip this.
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: The nigga so he's been get if y'all been seeing
• 49:20
  Speaker 4: me with a lot of designer cloak, he's a super
• 49:22
  Speaker 4: crazy boost, probably the crazy burger craziest boost in the world.
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: Like when he when he needs something, he'll go get
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: whatever and return it for the credit to be like, yo,
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: I got the credit or yo, I got these whatever.
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: He knows my size is everything now right, so he's
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: bringing me proud of I just got some fucking ship
• 49:43
  Speaker 4: that I ain't never seen before. Ship that's pants seventeen dollars.
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: He sold many pants for three hundred dollars. Seventeen hundred
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: dollars pants right. Wait, so he because he's like, I
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: need this flight. I gotta get to Ruggs party and
• 49:58
  Speaker 4: uh Miami in the Miami right this weekend, five in
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: the morning. This nigga, Yo, I need five hundred, I
• 50:08
  Speaker 4: need five hundred.
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: I got you.
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: I got Valentine Valentino jacket, these two Valantino shirts. This
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: done that ever because he's in the party that he
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: needs to buy it up.
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you ain't even got.
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: Nothing, but listen, he always gonna have Burger. Don't do
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: that's gonna have. But it's the influence of what's going
• 50:28
  Speaker 4: on around you to have to stay in the Joneses
• 50:32
  Speaker 4: and calling your working homeboy with five kids, that you
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: willing that grand not a five.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: I don't believe spending full price for Yeah.
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: I like I support the booster, Yes I do. I'm sorry,
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: I will give the boosters my money. I'm sorry, I do.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: I do as well. Gate Keeper. You're worringing for a time, Bro,
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: I need a link, bro, you're talking about you don't want.
• 51:05
  Speaker 5: A jay z T shirt. I want a Valentino jacket.
• 51:08
  Speaker 5: That's not even comfortable. Bro, you're a wow.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: That time.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: I feel like we're too comfortable as the people. I
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: feel like and I feel like we go for anything.
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: I feel like we know a lot of people are
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: right now like the shut fuck it, yo. That's a
• 51:30
  Speaker 4: lot of a lot of people, a lot of people
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: in that frame, a lot of people on that mind frame.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: It's like, you know what I mean, Like that good face.
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: I like that face that you just.
• 51:40
  Speaker 7: When I said Krisha, that's authentically who she is and
• 51:43
  Speaker 7: she got a right to make the music. You disagree
• 51:45
  Speaker 7: with why so.
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: I disagree that we should I disagree that we like Yo,
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: we should have that. That should be Yo. They're pushing
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: that on us because they see the effect the black
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: dollar don't even stay in the community at all, Bro.
• 52:02
  Speaker 4: We are suffering because we are not in control of
• 52:05
  Speaker 4: our own power. They're doing whatever they want with us.
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: We're spending our money just to stay in the Joneses
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: or whatever, and they're pushing it on its every which way.
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: You think it's a it's by it like happens since
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: that all of the ship is in front of us.
• 52:19
  Speaker 4: They're the ones who control hours degradation of our people.
• 52:22
  Speaker 4: It's on purpose, they control it, and they're doing it
• 52:25
  Speaker 4: in every which way.
• 52:26
  Speaker 3: Listen.
• 52:28
  Speaker 4: When I first heard the ship, I said, no, this
• 52:31
  Speaker 4: is gonna slap and I knew it was too slow.
• 52:33
  Speaker 4: I remember they sped it up to like one point
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: five and shit, and I was like, yesterday I was
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: talking about the ship. I was like, Yo, why y'all
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: hate and let the girl do her thing. I'm not
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: proud that she's doing her thing on on a deeper,
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: deeper level, so much more. It's so much more to
• 52:52
  Speaker 4: it and what are we and what do we stand for?
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: Can be true, Yes, the music industry does push certain
• 53:00
  Speaker 7: records and that might be part of the whole propaganda
• 53:03
  Speaker 7: and everything, but also the alternative is what censorship. You
• 53:07
  Speaker 7: don't think that the artists that grew grow up and
• 53:10
  Speaker 7: that's their truth, that's who they authentically are, should be
• 53:13
  Speaker 7: able to make art reflecting that, whether it's negative or positive.
• 53:17
  Speaker 7: He has a point he has. Artistry is artistry.
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: But we also shouldn't be pushing certain people's trauma onto
• 53:24
  Speaker 4: our community. Here's just a whore because you was out
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: selling pussy and all that. No, I don't want my
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: daughter listening to your music. I'm sorry, but you don't
• 53:36
  Speaker 4: support say that.
• 53:37
  Speaker 7: I don't have to support it. But people that identify
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: with that, let them support it.
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: But y'all can't say that because again, you talk about
• 53:43
  Speaker 5: the music that that that y'all was, y'all was already
• 53:46
  Speaker 5: kind of grown. When I'm talking about the music that
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: I'm growing up on. You're talking about like the n
• 53:51
  Speaker 5: W as you're talking about the selling of the drugs,
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: the fuck the police and all of that stuff. These
• 53:55
  Speaker 5: are real life experience and people, I fun up your
• 54:00
  Speaker 5: ship because what why did it fuck up your ship?
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: Because I listened to the music too, and I was
• 54:06
  Speaker 5: not fucked up. I'm telling you it's just.
• 54:08
  Speaker 4: Because I didn't identify with the artists we was just
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: raised identify. It opened your mind mentally to something different,
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: like if you if you were from the suburbs, like
• 54:16
  Speaker 4: if you was a kid from a suburbs fun and
• 54:18
  Speaker 4: then the NW ain't came on ICEQ came on all
• 54:20
  Speaker 4: of a sudden, you be like, yeah, I could.
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: Like it automatically changed.
• 54:26
  Speaker 4: It literally does something to the psychia the people, and
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: it's it's like literally by I really just thought.
• 54:31
  Speaker 5: I just think that music is fun and and certain
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: songs are meant to have fun with. It's not meant
• 54:37
  Speaker 5: to be serious. I don't want to be deadass about it.
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: I don't want to do a whole like dissect of
• 54:41
  Speaker 5: what the music means and it's deeper meaning and that.
• 54:43
  Speaker 5: I think some things are just supposed to be fun
• 54:45
  Speaker 5: and some things are supposed to be intentional.
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but in the grand scheme of things, that's kind
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: of what they want people to feel. Like, Nah, just
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: enjoy the music, not realizing the psychological impact that it
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: truly is having consistently like that's that's literally by design.
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: Like but I think then that and as adults again
• 55:01
  Speaker 5: we are allowed to control that and control our spaces.
• 55:04
  Speaker 5: Like for me personally, I my my my younger friends
• 55:08
  Speaker 5: make fun of me all the time because I have
• 55:10
  Speaker 5: a Pandora. I don't really do Spotify Apple Music, It's
• 55:13
  Speaker 5: kind of trash, but I do have Pandora. If I'm
• 55:16
  Speaker 5: listening to music on Pandora. If I open my Pandora
• 55:19
  Speaker 5: right now, it's like Anita Baker station.
• 55:22
  Speaker 3: It's like.
• 55:24
  Speaker 5: What Aretha Franklin station, Erika Bad station? Like these are
• 55:27
  Speaker 5: the things that I listen to all the time, Like
• 55:29
  Speaker 5: I'm really in my Auntie vibe. But when I want
• 55:31
  Speaker 5: to go out and I want to have fun, I
• 55:32
  Speaker 5: want to hear all of these stupid as songs. But
• 55:35
  Speaker 5: these are not the songs that are that are in
• 55:37
  Speaker 5: my house. These are not the songs that I'm playing
• 55:39
  Speaker 5: all the time. I have like my my barsts and
• 55:42
  Speaker 5: all of this stuff, Like these are the songs that
• 55:44
  Speaker 5: I'm playing in my house all the time on my speakers.
• 55:47
  Speaker 5: I'm not playing bullshit because I understand that I have
• 55:50
  Speaker 5: a seven year old at home, not that I don't
• 55:53
  Speaker 5: listen to it, not that I don't enjoy it. I
• 55:55
  Speaker 5: just have to enjoy things in the spaces in which
• 55:57
  Speaker 5: I'm supposed to enjoy it, which is out, which is
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: the club, which is at the lounge, which is when
• 56:02
  Speaker 5: I'm out with my girls.
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: But when I'm with my kids, I can't. I can't
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: turn it on.
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: Does that not go back to the point I was
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: trying to make about women being the first teachers and
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: the first example leaders.
• 56:12
  Speaker 3: Does that go backs parents?
• 56:14
  Speaker 4: No, No, But I'm talking about the female artists that
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: becauld Now if Kresia and female artists are taking flak
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: for what they're also kind of pushing out. So does
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: that kind of go back to the well like you
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: lead by example.
• 56:27
  Speaker 2: I guess.
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: But I think that that also goes into I really
• 56:30
  Speaker 5: believe that there is a time and place for things,
• 56:32
  Speaker 5: and I think that certain things kids should not be
• 56:34
  Speaker 5: exposed to. They just shouldn't. I'm gonna continue to run.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: A tight ship in my house for as long as
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: I possibly can.
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: I can't even say I got a gun song, So
• 56:42
  Speaker 4: I can't even I can't and it works, but I
• 56:45
  Speaker 4: know I can't. But I'm also we're making it. We're
• 56:48
  Speaker 4: looking at like you said, two things could be true
• 56:50
  Speaker 4: at the same time. The song has a groove that
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: you can deny when you hear it, whether you like
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: the message or not the song, because me, I don't.
• 56:57
  Speaker 4: I don't necessarily agree with the message. But when you're
• 56:59
  Speaker 4: hearing it and you got a little slippy your hand,
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: you got a girlfriend, you and can come on and
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: like look the work because the question not trying to
• 57:07
  Speaker 4: hear sins scamming. You ain't trying to hear when you
• 57:09
  Speaker 4: but when you're in that mood, like you said, when
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: you're in that zone, that space is like.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: There's our older scamming as niggas.
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: Okay, there's a question asked. I just showed you one.
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: There's a a video that I was listening to that
• 57:25
  Speaker 4: I saw, but it brought up a different question for me. Obviously,
• 57:30
  Speaker 4: I am going to play it.
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: That's what I do. I really like playing videos on
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: clip inside of the clip right inception in this.
• 57:38
  Speaker 8: Whole my uncle Webluce, I've ever heard of my foot
• 57:41
  Speaker 8: wove Uncle Weblus, I've ever heard of my fucking life?
• 57:44
  Speaker 2: Three five Il cool Day.
• 57:46
  Speaker 9: The single clap.
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: Hands mcs really make me sick. I'm so bad.
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: I gotta say Vera. However, before Extreme Bean her single bite,
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: if I had the chance to grin advising his hit,
• 58:04
  Speaker 3: I'm just fucking by said the.
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: Seat to huh. He'll know, he'll know what I'm talking.
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: Number three m C like on too Young for what
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: was absolutely fucking tweaking.
• 58:15
  Speaker 8: It may sound nasty and it may sound mean, but
• 58:17
  Speaker 8: I'm into little boys that are about seventeen.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know why, but they put up for fucking
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: damn that excites the MC like, man.
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: You know my love for young, the purepulum.
• 58:30
  Speaker 5: Whole, your whole generation, crazy Christ back to a make
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: it and if you got an order, old feeny.
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: Ooh that's not what it was.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: The attended pause brow. A lot of y'all like to argue, Oh,
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: it's just just sat tire for some metaphor was just
• 58:45
  Speaker 2: the thing, But it's song. I don't give a fuck.
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: We would really do that.
• 58:47
  Speaker 2: You don't know that, man, You don't know that, lady.
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: Somebody out there would.
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: And they use this as fuel at the number one
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: spot after the prayer.
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: After this it's ugk the song.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: I don't want to repeat this preignants.
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: I can say this clock give a kid split up?
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: BA know, if she gotta it ain't fun. But if
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: she gotta girl.
• 59:12
  Speaker 2: Tennis to the store a PC of one, what the funk?
• 59:17
  Speaker 11: Like?
• 59:17
  Speaker 3: What the fuck?
• 59:20
  Speaker 9: God?
• 59:21
  Speaker 2: I've been telling y'all generation y'all are fucked up. Y'all
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: are really y'all was really fucked up, and y'all was
• 59:26
  Speaker 2: really young. Y'all ain't have no there was no I
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: never heard them.
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: I never scamming ass niggas spinning spinde.
• 59:37
  Speaker 12: Yeah, that's why the whole ship is man funny to
• 59:39
  Speaker 12: me because it's like the whole Yah, I don't even understand.
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: I don't even know wherey'll take this question. Yeah, damn, I.
• 59:47
  Speaker 7: Do want to make a difference, though. There are certain
• 59:51
  Speaker 7: songs that the subject matter is terrible, but not all
• 59:56
  Speaker 7: of them. The hook, it's like a singalong song. It's
• 59:59
  Speaker 7: like infectious. I'm encouraging you to sing with me, like
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 7: the whole crowd sings a lot. It's different if it's
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 7: a sing a long hook. And it's also different if
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 7: it's like like the drill music, as terrible as it is.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 7: None of the drill music hit records, they're not. None
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 7: of them is a song of the summer, like widespread
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 7: It's within a certain type community.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: It's like a it's like a New York.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 7: There's no sing along part of computers where where on
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 7: the level of the hook on spend that'work.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: The thing for that from artistan point. I'm not saying that.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 7: All these other songs were ignorant, but.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 3: You could.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 7: And again I'm not for canceling her or not playing
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 7: the song. But I could argue, like, yo, you got
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 7: to draw the line somewhere like some ship. It's a
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 7: little over the top because of how oh the song
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 7: is placed in the sing along aspect and it's in
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 7: the hook, it's not in the verse.
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 3: You know what's funny. It's funny to me that I
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 3: feel like people would have a conversation about Miami song. First,
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 3: let me say I apologize saying Miami I wrote her off.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 3: I thought she was done.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 12: So I want to apologize and say, Yo, my bad,
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 12: I thought you were done right, because it's important to
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 12: come back and be like, yo, I got that wrong.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 12: So I definitely did that. Congrats on her for her song.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 12: The record is moving, But I think it's funny that
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 12: people have this conversation about her in this record, and
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 12: it's like people are more mad at her for making
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 12: a record than the niggas that are actually scamming. Like
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 12: nobody will say nothing time, Like nobody's going to ever
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 12: say like hold on, why are we why these niggas,
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 12: Why are we just around these niggas, Like why are
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 12: we saluting these guys?
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 7: It's one thing for people to do, it's another thing
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 7: to celebrate it and.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 12: But that's the same thing as hip hop though it's
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 12: one thing that gang bang is and I think it's
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 12: celebrated drug The drug deal was right, it's the same thing.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: It can't we can't move rather a drug dealer than
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 3: a drug user. So, I mean, I don't know two
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: things can be true the same time. I think that's
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: just really what we got to kind of, especially with
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 3: this on this partictive topic. Two things can be true
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: at the same time.
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: But like, what was wrong with y'all?
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 5: Like, so y'all used to hear this ship on records
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 5: when y'all was growing up? Never I'm asking y'all specifically.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 4: The reason I asked about this is because I saw
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 4: the criticism, and I've always seen the criticism for biggies
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 4: so good, yeah, crazy, and I just always felt like
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: nobody thought he was gay for that something.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: What like what did y'all think? Did y'all think back
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: then singing that ship too?
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: Like we yo, we were in the era of Slick
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 4: Rick saying that he looked inside the girl's pushing He's
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: seen crabs and spears and Indian drums going hey, y'all, hey, y'all, hey,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 4: y'all hate it was the era of just being as
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 4: impossible as ever, and it was shocked and we didn't
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: and everything to me wasn't paused. We wasn't gay people,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: was not in the heterosexualm We wasn't thinking about gay people.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 4: They was over there and they we had they that
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: was what they did and what we did with us,
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: and nobody was thinking about fucking niggas.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: If you wasn't gay, we wasn't thinking about I see that.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 12: I gotta disagree with you there because I think you're
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 12: you're taking the homosexuality part and replacing it with the
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 12: predatory part. And that's where I think that's where the
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 12: issue is not necessarily homosexuality. I think the predatory nature
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 12: of some of these records and some of the things
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 12: that sorry, some of the things that people are saying,
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 12: it's not that it's not about it being gay, it's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 12: about it being predatory. It's about it being almost.
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: No, you're afraid to Paul, you're referring to it. I'm
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: talking about I'm not.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 2: You're talking about all of them, about all this.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 4: No, No, I was talking about Okay, big ship No, no,
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 4: not not the BIGGI ship was crazy, but mel the
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 4: mic I'm sorry, sorry, I'm sorry.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 3: I got tired of us.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, but this is what I'm saying.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 5: Right for us to have this argument about young Miami
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 5: or any of like the rapping music that's starting, that
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 5: that's happening now, and the influence on children, but y'all
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 5: came from an error where y'all were saying things like
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 5: like you can't get none of those bars off today,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 5: like not one of them.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: No, you're listen.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: We're talking about we went through the influence. We saw,
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: we felt that, we experienced it. We suffered from the influence.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 4: That's what we're telling you.
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 3: But like we're telling you first hand why this is
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 3: a problem. Yeah, that this help shaped who we were.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 3: Music is powerful. Yeah.
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 12: I definitely used to hear people back in the day
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 12: say that, like the records like any up ship like
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 12: that used to make them want to go.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: We would fight, came out that get your brother. I've
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: heard that that growing up. That's I'm not always heard
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: growing up.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 4: That was banging me. That was that was music, that
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 4: was that was So I think I think what it
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 4: is right, let me let me let me just say
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 4: this right even, let's just go back to the Miami
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 4: a whole country of ten year olds and eleven year
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 4: olds are singing yeah man, because and to to our point,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: it's influential, right even just like the Biggie was and
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 4: all that stuff. But I don't know, did it seem
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: the same then, like did it seem as as potent
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 4: like a lot of the I want to say poisonous music?
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 4: Like the way it is now like is it's all
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 4: over in our face because it's from social media. It's everything.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: Back then you to buy certain records to hear it.
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: It wasn't played on the radio, It wasn't in social media,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: it wasn't on TV shows.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 3: Biggie didn't have.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: Uh not Love Island. They have reality TV to be
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 4: on to be singing that ship. So you heard it,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 4: like if you bought the album, you knew the music.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 4: You heard that, so you took good Suck your daddy.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 4: They pause, right, But now it's creatious everywhere for every
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 4: age range. Again, whether you got your daughter, got an iPad,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 4: you got a little iPad, it'll be clipped in somewhere
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 4: with some of the legos crap. And so that's that's
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 4: kind of what I feel like where the argument comes
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 4: in again, I agree with you. If the artist reflecting
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 4: a life that you live and you can sing about
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 4: it and make it sound harmonious, and then by all means,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 4: then hell rock.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 3: I don't. I don't, I'm not. I don't know why
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 3: people giving that that much, like, yeah, it's it's what
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: you're talking about, the trash, yes, but it's groovy and.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 12: There like oh okay, I think it says more about
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 12: what hip hop is is today, where hip hop is today,
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 12: more than anything. Right, And the other day I went
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 12: to look just randomly sometimes I just go look at
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 12: the charts just to see what hip hop is up there, right,
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 12: because I want to know, you know, who's competing, who's
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 12: dominating along with the other genres. You know who's in
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 12: the top forty right now pop wise, hip hopwise Drake,
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 12: Drake Drake, and a bunch of people we can't even name,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 12: Don Tolliver. There might be one person I'm missing in
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 12: young Miami. This is scattered from one to forty, right.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 12: And as I looked at and Miami's record has gone
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 12: up like a good amount.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: Of spots, like twenty five right now or something like that, right.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: Nineteen or something like that. So what that tells me
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: is that the people.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 12: Not only are the labels going to push it, right,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 12: they're seeing that it's working online, so they're going to
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 12: push it, but also the people are consuming this.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 12: We've gotten a lot of music this year from multiple
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 12: hip hop people, right, but it's not cutting through in
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 12: the same way that some of the music used to
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 12: cut through.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: Right. Take it back to Little Baby right twenty eighteen. Right,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 3: we always swing Baby, we.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 12: Always see gun, and we always see certain people, and
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 12: you know, and that was I feel like what people
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 12: was listening to at a high clip. That's why you
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 12: see Baby and these people with the crazy metrics for
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 12: the last decade. So I think it's a mix between
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 12: the industry pushing that and only supporting that and what
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 12: we're listening to and buying as consumers, you know what
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 12: I'm saying. So I feel like both of those things
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 12: are winging on us right now in hip hop. And
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 12: that's why that's the record that we're looking forward to
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 12: because it's one of the only records that's bringing everybody
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 12: together outside of the Drakes of the world.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: Right, It's not many.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 12: It's not many records that guys and girls both universally
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 12: like together and sing along together with you know what
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 12: I'm saying, like that even that style of music is
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 12: like you know, it's not that many records. And you're
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 12: a DJ Trump, so you know very few records that
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 12: you know, like yo, I could go to this everybody.
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 3: There's no good party records.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: That's the problem.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 5: Like, so this is this, I feel like we're taking
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: a summer anthem and we're turning it into like talking
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 5: about it as if it's like a classic song, like
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 5: it's going to I don't think it's going to stand
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 5: the test of time.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: I think it's just a party song. It's the summertime.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 5: It's just a song that's going to get the party
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 5: going in the clubs right now in the summer. Remember,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 5: nobody's gonna care now.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 4: But it's also opening the debate for what is good
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 4: music and what is not? What should what should we
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 4: be pushing to our to our audiences, to the younger generation.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 4: This really opens up the song a conversation that either
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 4: has been constantly skipped over or just really really just
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 4: needs to be had because realistically, like he's saying, it's
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 4: like you're saying it's summer or something, but it's also
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 4: opened to there's a lot of good music that people
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 4: to put in positive music, and it will never get airplay,
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 4: It will never get spun, it will never because the
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: labels are like, M we're going on that, yeah, give give.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: Us, don't get the party going.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 9: I do.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 4: I do think that God is approaching this from the
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 4: wrong way because is this not just misogyny? Like, seriously,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 4: this isn't the song that we need to be making
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 4: this argument.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 3: Right this song? We were like, yo, we need to
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 3: change all of this. This isn't it.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: If we was going to do that, we should have
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 4: did that way board with wop wet ass pussy, wet
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 4: ass pussy, which they did it, They did it, they did,
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 4: But that was the one where social media should have
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 4: been like, I mean, we see and then, but not
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 4: spend that fourth, fifth, sixth, and seventh grade, eighth grade
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 4: girls talking about and this and and because it became cult.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: It became a cultural part of surredictionary. So what is it?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: What is it?
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 4: If it is misogyny, then what is men's problem with
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 4: the song? What's the male problem? Because right, realistically, it's
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 4: sounds like it's gonna sound like hate, it's gonna sound
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 4: like a lot of hate because why because you're mad
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 4: that that song is doing well and something's going sound.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 5: You don't want your daughter's negatively influenced. But y'all are
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 5: okay with y'all sons being negatively influenced. And once you
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 5: have a female ledge song that talks about certain things
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 5: that y'all think that little girl going to attached to,
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 5: now everybody is going crazy. But you can have every
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 5: fucking song in the world talking about shoot them up,
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 5: kill them, fucking percocet, Molly peroset, everybody on lean, everybody
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 5: like everybody on these drugs and shit, because that impacts
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 5: your sons. But once you start talking about wet ass pussy,
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 5: and once you start talking about with all my scamming
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 5: ass niggas at the now everybody got a feeling.
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: Now everybody has an opinion because.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 5: God forbid women put out music that are that that
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 5: is going to quote unquote influence young girls the wrong way.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 5: It goes back to the same thing, y'all care more
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 5: about raising y'all daughters than y'all care about y'all fucking sons.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 5: Y'all sons can listen to the bullshit all day.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 9: Like Meg Dastagen is a good barometer for what you
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 9: think about black women.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: I love Vin Smithson.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 9: We recently told me she can't keep trying to ruin
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 9: people's lives by getting shot a cheato.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 11: How you ruining somebody like that by them shooting you?
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 11: How could you do this to me? You ran your
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 11: body directly into my bullets. Male artists are celebrated for
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 11: shooting people. On the other hand, female artists are denigrated
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 11: for getting shot. Let a rapper kill somebody.
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 9: They sails through the goddamn roof people like man, that's
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 9: a real nigga man, or if they get shot, the
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 9: general consistus is man. He artists fuck man. The niggas
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 9: survive anything a nigga like Iron Man. Male artists is
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 9: celebrated for having as much sex as humanly possible. For women,
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 9: relationships you've had are used as justification.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 3: For you to die.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 9: What's that meme of the white girl with the math
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 9: in the sky. Here's another thing, young Miami song. It's
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 9: an amazing melody. The subject matter is decrepit, but it's
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 9: a very American record. I feel like the Founding Fathers
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 9: could have been singing that song. Well, my scamming ass
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 9: nigga's at all them damn treaties they was breaking with
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 9: the Native Americans. It was scamming. Point being American society
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 9: is based on scamming. But it seems the women artists
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 9: are invariably blamed for the situations they inherit Janet Jackson
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 9: case in point, her tity get pulled out, she gets
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 9: a man gets shot. It's her fault. Make it make sense.
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 9: I essay about this ship on the Substance this week comments.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 9: Subscribe to read it.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 4: I love him, I mean, yeah, yeah, the point he's
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 4: always saying misogyny this this, this is what I'm saying
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 4: that I know the word is run down because we
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 4: you know, he's thrown at us so much and be
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 4: like also too like.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 12: I think it's not just the song a subject matter.
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 12: I think it's also the person too right. I think
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 12: because we viewed her, especially coming off of the right,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 12: there's a certain view of her right, maybe being you know,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 12: too sexual, I would say too sexual or less less
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 12: than I guess maybe viewing her from a lesser perspective.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 12: I guess JT left right is she she didn't really
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 12: look good with the music, So I think for her
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 12: to come back with this type of force, it was like,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 12: it's like people are like, come on, how she get it?
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 3: Like like like you said, now, how she get it?
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 3: But I didn't get it. My man overhead didn't get it.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 12: And that's literally and you see everybody, like I said,
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 12: men and women, I said, remember charm, that's rare men
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 12: and women celebrating your music. So for both people to
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 12: celebrate that at the level, it's like, oh, hell no,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 12: how did she get that to happen?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 4: I love seeing the redemption story. Yeah, I think it's great.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 4: That's why I started. Glad you apologize.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: You know that.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 12: I said that when I when I was after the
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 12: teacher I died. When I went home, I said, yo,
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 12: I said, yo. The next time I part, I have
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 12: to apologize her. I'm really proud of him for doing
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 12: that because I look at Cardi seven years not releasing
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 12: the album. We've been wrote her off.
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 4: We was like, man, she getting hushed off on Twitter,
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 4: on spaces. She she just on Instagram just to girl,
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 4: you don't want to make no more music?
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 5: You good?
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: You got enough money? Fuck it?
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 4: And then she drops This sophomore project is one of
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: the I don't know how many sophomore projects that were
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 4: that good from any artists, like in a long time,
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 4: in a long fucking time.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 3: Redemption Drake, I know we got the you know, drop
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 3: over there not Jo Listen. I love Drake.
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say I counted him out, but I
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 4: did not expect this to happen, that Nigga went nuts.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 3: Redemption, Redemption right, Karsha.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 4: Outside right now, everything she went through with that, the
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: whole public breakup of City Girls, all those different songs
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 4: that just went blop blop, getting dropped, the podcast, getting.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 3: Dropped off the boat, but not the music, the music
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 3: not It was just looking sad.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 4: Bro and we was JT's fucking just looking horrible. He
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 4: was like, y'all need to get back together.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 3: This is this is bad. What are you'all doing.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 5: I don't understand why so many people wrote Karsha off,
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 5: like Karisha didn't keep the City Girls lit while JT
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 5: was in jail.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 3: It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't even the songs wasn't.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: I don't think that ever wrote anything.
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 3: They didn't have any song.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 12: Something she got rolled over because she I think JT
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 12: is the person that really does the music, right, Cretia,
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 12: I think is just she's there for the life, right,
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 12: She's not really like I don't get yeah like that.
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 12: So I feel like when that when JT was locked
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 12: up and creature, I had to hold it down. It's like,
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 12: all right, I can hold this down for this time
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 12: period because I'm not you know, it's not like I
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 12: got to be making the music and I gotta really
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 12: be out here rapping and putting together the songs. So
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 12: when j C comes back, j T, you know, she's
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 12: she's full on dropping music, freestyles and all that. And
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 12: Miami was doing what chillum Diddy vicious.
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, wa, j T, your body looks amazing right now.
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. So you've seen that. I've
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 3: seen her since she got out. Yeah, show me that.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 4: She is damning and lingerie rapping. She got this ship
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 4: this song out, it's like black and white.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 3: Something new. Yo. I don't see whatever you did, but yeah,
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 3: she gotta come outside now. She can't stand so with
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 3: with the with you got your got to see j T.
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 2: I said, when she got all this, when you get
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 2: this from oz a.
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: Bag on that new body, Jesus, you think they're having
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 4: a toork off. And when you see when you see
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 4: a chick, wow, when you see what when you see
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 4: a chick that clearly get some surgery to get their
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 4: body like you really admire it. Like I'm saying, you
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 4: can look at it and be like, okay, that that
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 4: looks nice.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 3: But I don't.
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 7: I don't be like, y'all her body is dope because
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 7: I'm like that, ain't your body like it is?
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 4: Now?
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 3: I don't know. That's not the same. But don't hit
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 3: the same. It's just don't hit the same.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 4: Can't I can't give you your flowers? Yeah, that's like
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 4: like with a six pack. But then you find out
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 4: he had surgery to get it done, and you're like,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 4: you're looking at you like, would.
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 3: Y'all get you if you was with your baby mothers? Right?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 4: They use with your baby mothers still and they body,
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: you know, did what happens during pregnancy? They couldn't They
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 4: work hard at it? Would you get the mommy make up?
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 3: They work hard like they.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 4: Try to lose it. They try to like you will,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 4: I will work out with you for a year straight.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 4: If it doesn't whatever, and if it's just the breast,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 4: go long the like they used to have super perky titties.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 4: The milk dries up and they get long and just
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 4: like flappy. I mean, how long would you long and
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 4: flappy as wild?
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: Would you get the mamami makeover?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 4: If it helped, If it helped her confidence and this
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 4: is what she needed to be confident? Yeah, so am
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 4: I am I other woman doing it? Am I in
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 4: support of that? As like women are flaunting that this
• 1:18:44
  Speaker 4: is this is you just said, if it helps them.
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 4: If I'm with if I'm with my woman and she
• 1:18:50
  Speaker 4: got flappy titties, now I get it, Like if you
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: have Perkin tit and then your titties are flapping now
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 4: and you want to rather women walk around with a
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 4: fucking iron board by body that are not comfortable fitting
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 4: this into these machine dresses.
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 3: They just don't look right.
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 4: It's just not body, and they go spend a couple
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 4: of dollars so they can feel confident about their body.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 7: WENOK at them. I do not want to like a
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 7: natural knock. Nobody know what they want to do. If
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 7: you want to get the surgery of beauty like right,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 7: but that doesn't I'm not going to admire it the same.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 7: It's almost like if if somebody like loucks up and
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 7: wins the lottery, I'm not going to look at you
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 7: for your business skills the same way I would somebody
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 7: that actually got into school and really developed their acumen
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 7: and their business knowledge and their financial literacy. I'm looking
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 7: at y'all different. Y'all might be looking the same physically
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 7: or you know, on paper, but it's not the same admiration.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 4: I'm looking out out to ironboard body. You get in
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 4: the car, shot at you. You look great, You come
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 4: with me? What are you talking about? Like a natural
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 4: stay with iron board. I like a natural bud, just
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 4: staying with iron board personality iron board. No, I like
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 4: to chick with some curves, but I have your natural curves,
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 4: and it don't be out to be only to be
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: over the top where it's like, we know they don't
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 4: all got to do that. We know, we know, we
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 4: can see, we can see certain things you would knock
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  Speaker 3: Have a great summer. We will see y'all next week.
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