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- 0:01Speaker 1: Happy Saint Patrick's Day, and yes, it's going to be
- 0:06Speaker 1: drunk women.
- 0:07Speaker 2: I guess green I never have been in the Saint
- 0:11Speaker 2: Patrian Yeah either, I.
- 0:14Speaker 3: Don't if it's not your thing, boy, could they're gonna
- 0:17Speaker 3: stop it. In Dallas, Man, they had a Saint Patrick's
- 0:19Speaker 3: Day parade that they normally have. Boy, there was more
- 0:22Speaker 3: brawls and fights and Ryan everybody was fighting.
- 0:24Speaker 2: Ye, come on, well it's Saint I could have a
- 0:28Speaker 2: day too. Yeah. They just get drunk, right, Yeah, pretty much? Yeah,
- 0:34Speaker 2: paint everything great?
- 0:35Speaker 4: Yeah, green Beer.
- 0:37Speaker 2: So what is it?
- 0:37Speaker 1: The biggest ones are in uh, Chicago, Boston, and why
- 0:43Speaker 1: do I want to say somewhere in Georgia? What is
- 0:45Speaker 1: the Savannah Georgia. I think some of the biggest ones are. Yeah,
- 0:51Speaker 1: they and they take it very I was in Indianapolis
- 0:54Speaker 1: and it was Saturday and they were walking around with
- 0:56Speaker 1: Green on.
- 0:56Speaker 2: It was crazy, but they still died the the river
- 1:00Speaker 2: and river. I agree.
- 1:04Speaker 1: Wow, I don't even know what he's The painters say though,
- 1:07Speaker 1: that New York is huge too. New York would be
- 1:10Speaker 1: New York Boston.
- 1:11Speaker 3: I think as you did, say, Savannah George is New York, Chicago, Boston, Savannah,
- 1:17Speaker 3: San Francisco, and other notables are Philly and New Orleans
- 1:21Speaker 3: and Denver.
- 1:22Speaker 2: Yeah, how about that there?
- 1:24Speaker 1: Yeah, faith and be jabbered. I just watched the Leprica
- 1:30Speaker 1: and that's the best I can do for you. That's
- 1:33Speaker 1: all I got.
- 1:35Speaker 2: Is that what you eat today? Corn beef and cabbage
- 1:38Speaker 2: on the same time. Yeah, and I like corn beefs
- 1:41Speaker 2: yet and cabbage. Yes, yeah, European food is that's just
- 1:44Speaker 2: not my thing. It's just you know.
- 1:47Speaker 1: Happy birthday to Rob Kardashi and a birtha to Tamar Braxton,
- 1:49Speaker 1: Happy birth of the Rob Low, Happy birth of to
- 1:51Speaker 1: Mia Ham, Happy birthday to Kurt Russell, Happy birth to
- 1:54Speaker 1: Kyle Korver. Have breath to Coco Austin iced Ty's, of course,
- 1:58Speaker 1: Happy breath of the John Boy. Happy reth to to
- 2:01Speaker 1: Patrick Duffy, Happy rep to the Dwight U. Banks, Happy
- 2:04Speaker 1: breath to the Terry Rosie or Happy breath to the
- 2:06Speaker 1: Danny Ainge. Happy refday possiblesly of course to Nat king Cole.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Happy birthday to the.
- 2:11Speaker 2: Comedy legend Rudy ray Moore.
- 2:13Speaker 1: Happy breathay the civil rights loving buyer resting uh the
- 2:16Speaker 1: organization of the nineteen sixty three March on Washington and
- 2:19Speaker 1: a gay dude, So yeah, yeah, who else canna teach
- 2:24Speaker 1: you about how to march bad?
- 2:26Speaker 2: Thank you? Thank you a hell of a parade. I'm
- 2:28Speaker 2: just follow me, honey. That boy has a throng on
- 2:35Speaker 2: that's crazy.
- 2:36Speaker 1: I'm we got a great show coming up, jazz and
- 2:41Speaker 1: gonna tell us which trendy?
- 2:42Speaker 2: I'm gonna have a little note from the GD section.
- 2:45Speaker 2: It's the deal hug Shop jazz Man, what Dad Taylor's
- 2:53Speaker 2: good people? Was trending?
- 2:54Speaker 4: Your friend Eric Bennet is trending? What was the song
- 3:02Speaker 4: need to Be First?
- 3:05Speaker 5: Oh?
- 3:05Speaker 2: My god, it is so good.
- 3:07Speaker 4: You haven't seen it? You gotta go look at it.
- 3:10Speaker 6: You remember, I don't remember that the young guy's name
- 3:14Speaker 6: who actually started this where you basically harmonize against yourself
- 3:18Speaker 6: and you know, you do all of these different grid
- 3:21Speaker 6: pictures of yourself and you sing your brave Yes.
- 3:26Speaker 5: It is so good.
- 3:28Speaker 2: If you haven't seen it, go check it out. It
- 3:30Speaker 2: is definitely going viral.
- 3:32Speaker 6: Also going viral which I did not know, is it
- 3:36Speaker 6: turns out black women are out earning their husbands by
- 3:40Speaker 6: two hundred and forty seven percent.
- 3:44Speaker 4: Guess why and guess how? You're not gonna do it.
- 3:47Speaker 6: Let me just tell you they have a side hustle
- 3:50Speaker 6: of taking pictures of their feet and put it online.
- 3:53Speaker 2: Not all black women, not all. I'm just saying there
- 3:59Speaker 2: is for everything, and even ugly feet. I know a dude,
- 4:04Speaker 2: they loves feet, loves it. Love.
- 4:07Speaker 1: Yeah, but openly less you're modeling cleats. You can't see everybody.
- 4:11Speaker 2: I mean you might be able to somebody.
- 4:13Speaker 6: I mean it's a platform called feet Finder, so you
- 4:16Speaker 6: can look for any kind of feet you on.
- 4:17Speaker 2: I guess I have great feet that you put mine
- 4:20Speaker 2: on there?
- 4:21Speaker 4: Don't you do that?
- 4:23Speaker 6: Nobody got to see you do that. Don't you put
- 4:25Speaker 6: your feet up there? I go online and see your feet,
- 4:28Speaker 6: recognize you, recognize the.
- 4:30Speaker 2: Feet, Recognize my Yeah, I doubt that these are my
- 4:33Speaker 2: club feet my work.
- 4:38Speaker 6: Anyway.
- 4:38Speaker 2: Also, finally trended.
- 4:39Speaker 6: People are hopping in on this trend and I actually
- 4:42Speaker 6: saw yours d l where you They questioned, what were
- 4:45Speaker 6: you like in the nineties trend? I mean you show
- 4:48Speaker 6: all of these pictures of yourself all.
- 4:50Speaker 4: Through Nah, not quite, I do, not quite.
- 4:53Speaker 2: I mean we can recognize you, but it stopped playing.
- 4:55Speaker 2: I don't look significantly different.
- 4:58Speaker 4: Man heavy in some of their pictures. Yes you were.
- 5:03Speaker 1: I was like, god heavier, But that's I don't know
- 5:09Speaker 1: who I thought you guys did that.
- 5:10Speaker 2: I don't know who did that.
- 5:12Speaker 4: I don't know I didn't do that. I was like,
- 5:13Speaker 4: look at the hell, well, look at deer, Look at deer.
- 5:22Speaker 1: So, of course a lot of people have upset about
- 5:24Speaker 1: the ever rising gas prices. It says a lot about
- 5:28Speaker 1: a nation that they are more angry about the rising
- 5:31Speaker 1: cost of gas than the fact that children were sexually assaulted.
- 5:37Speaker 1: If that is true, if people weren't angry about fuel costs,
- 5:41Speaker 1: then there are the predation of our children, then our
- 5:45Speaker 1: tanks aren't the only thing that's on low. A serious question.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Remember all of the promises, all of the promises.
- 5:52Speaker 2: That were made.
- 5:54Speaker 1: Remember people saying from the Trump administration, there's going.
- 5:58Speaker 2: To be no more wars, and there's not gonna be any.
- 6:00Speaker 1: More regime changed, and we're gonna stop the wars that
- 6:02Speaker 1: happened within days, and food prices are going to go down,
- 6:07Speaker 1: and you know, things are going to be better than
- 6:10Speaker 1: Kondomy's gonna be gonna win like we never did before.
- 6:12Speaker 1: Out of all those promises that were made, how many
- 6:16Speaker 1: do you think are happening. How many impact your life?
- 6:19Speaker 2: Isn't funny.
- 6:20Speaker 1: How we went from the dolls at fifty thousand till
- 6:24Speaker 1: we're gonna there's gonna be short term pain. It was
- 6:28Speaker 1: dizzying speed out of all the things that are your
- 6:31Speaker 1: eggs lower, is beef lower? Is chicken lower?
- 6:34Speaker 2: Is your gas lower? Those wars that were not supposed
- 6:37Speaker 2: to be started? Are they happening.
- 6:40Speaker 1: All of the people who Elon Musk was supposed to
- 6:43Speaker 1: get rid of in the name of fraud, he's going
- 6:45Speaker 1: to have to they're bringing back now they're bringing back
- 6:47Speaker 1: because apparently you need the government to run the government.
- 6:49Speaker 1: You just can't cut it and put it on life
- 6:51Speaker 1: support and think that it's going to function. And those
- 6:53Speaker 1: people who were let go, many of them wrongfully, are
- 6:56Speaker 1: going to get their back money back. So what was
- 6:58Speaker 1: the net result of all the promises that were made
- 7:01Speaker 1: besides the stupid ass hats you get to wear and
- 7:03Speaker 1: how you get to own the lives? Now you can
- 7:05Speaker 1: barely afford anything. It is expidentially more expensive. When Biden
- 7:09Speaker 1: had an inflationary problem, it was around the world. These
- 7:12Speaker 1: are specifically called by leadership of Donald Trump. It is
- 7:15Speaker 1: tariffs and it is wars. So what did you get?
- 7:19Speaker 1: What did you get for all the support? What did
- 7:22Speaker 1: the pot And I'm now they're talking about there may
- 7:24Speaker 1: be a draft, and if there are, I think all
- 7:26Speaker 1: the people, the twenty one percent of black men who
- 7:28Speaker 1: voted for it, the fifty five percent of lack men
- 7:30Speaker 1: who voted for the podcast Bros and Maga should be
- 7:33Speaker 1: the first ones to go, no new wars, NAI one promise.
- 7:37Speaker 1: This man is cap one. Even even immigration. His strongest
- 7:41Speaker 1: suit was the country supported overware overwhelmley. He bungled it
- 7:45Speaker 1: so bad now it's negative. Look at his cabinet full
- 7:49Speaker 1: of nincom poops. They couldn't think their way out of
- 7:52Speaker 1: a box. Every every one of his cabinet members has
- 7:55Speaker 1: a caveat next to him telling you how they've ruined
- 7:57Speaker 1: that department. Look at what RFK, look at it. We
- 8:00Speaker 1: have a mesa all break is anything going like you
- 8:03Speaker 1: were promised? Like it was promised?
- 8:05Speaker 2: And it would be much simpler if you simply told
- 8:07Speaker 2: the truth to yourself. You got Hoodwiek. He didn't do
- 8:11Speaker 2: anything you said he would. He said he would, and
- 8:13Speaker 2: chances are he won't get you. Now we're not.
- 8:15Speaker 1: Talking about a man that just you know, is up
- 8:18Speaker 1: for the first time. He's going into his six year
- 8:21Speaker 1: other job. Name me the promise that you that he kept.
- 8:26Speaker 1: Name me the thing that deserve your favorite support. All
- 8:29Speaker 1: of the things he promised you, none of them happened.
- 8:32Speaker 1: If this is America becoming great, then what were we before?
- 8:37Speaker 1: That's a little note from the GED section. It's the
- 8:39Speaker 1: del hug Shelfer.
- 8:41Speaker 2: She's jazz, It's the Jessey Report on the d L.
- 8:49Speaker 6: Joe Kent, the director of the National counter Terrorism Center,
- 8:52Speaker 6: announced his resignation, citing his concerns about the justification for
- 8:56Speaker 6: military strikes in Iran and saying he cannot and good
- 9:00Speaker 6: not just back to Trump administration's war.
- 9:02Speaker 4: His statement says.
- 9:04Speaker 6: I ram pose no eminent threat to our nation, and
- 9:07Speaker 6: it is clear that we started this war due to
- 9:09Speaker 6: pressure from Israel and it's powerful American lobby.
- 9:14Speaker 1: I have never seen a time, and I think where
- 9:18Speaker 1: people openly were blaming.
- 9:20Speaker 2: Israel ever, and not least in America.
- 9:23Speaker 1: I think that primarily stems from the fact because what
- 9:27Speaker 1: has traditionally happened is the Western world, and especially the
- 9:31Speaker 1: Western media, has tended to slant the news coming out
- 9:35Speaker 1: of the.
- 9:35Speaker 2: Middle East a certain way.
- 9:36Speaker 7: Correct.
- 9:37Speaker 1: This time, I think because of social media and TikTok
- 9:42Speaker 1: and the like, we saw an entirely different side.
- 9:45Speaker 2: Of these kind of these concepts.
- 9:46Speaker 1: These are conflicts, and I think Israel's never been more
- 9:50Speaker 1: unpopular here. I think you've never heard politician from Chucker
- 9:53Speaker 1: Cross into right wing pundits to podcast bros. To even
- 9:59Speaker 1: now this, a man who wasn't a solid Trumpet voted
- 10:02Speaker 1: for them all three times. Trump is like, we didn't
- 10:04Speaker 1: trust him. Why don'd you put somebody who in trust
- 10:06Speaker 1: in charge of our in charge? By intelligence, it is
- 10:10Speaker 1: clear we started this war, and it's clear we did it.
- 10:13Speaker 1: Jerry Kushner, Lindsey Graham, and and and and the Israeli
- 10:18Speaker 1: uh people, the Israeli Prime Minister had everything to do.
- 10:22Speaker 1: And in America is like, I'm not getting my bills paid,
- 10:25Speaker 1: I can't anybody grows, gas is too high, and we.
- 10:28Speaker 2: And I'm losing people and it ain't our war. Correct,
- 10:32Speaker 2: That's the first time I think that's happened. I think
- 10:34Speaker 2: it is.
- 10:35Speaker 1: I think and traditionally they they've always been very popular here.
- 10:38Speaker 1: And let's be clear, the only reason we are there,
- 10:41Speaker 1: or believe it is it is the whole of our
- 10:43Speaker 1: foreign policy is that right wing Christians believe that Jewish
- 10:48Speaker 1: Jewish people need to be in the Holy.
- 10:50Speaker 2: Land or Jesus ain't coming back. So people are dying
- 10:53Speaker 2: for your biblical beliefs. This is not it's not me,
- 10:57Speaker 2: you know it is.
- 10:58Speaker 1: It is how your religion and has worked his way
- 11:00Speaker 1: into actual policy, our Middle East policy. A great percentage
- 11:05Speaker 1: of that it's based on fundling this Christians, black and white.
- 11:07Speaker 1: I'm not just saying you who believe that, damn what
- 11:10Speaker 1: you believe?
- 11:10Speaker 2: Why I gotta pay for it? Correct? Why do people
- 11:13Speaker 2: have to die for it?
- 11:15Speaker 8: Jesus?
- 11:15Speaker 2: Did Jesus really need you to help him come back?
- 11:18Speaker 2: I don't think so. I'm sure you got a much
- 11:21Speaker 2: better to a guy than you are. Oh my god,
- 11:24Speaker 2: I know that's right. I know that's right.
- 11:26Speaker 6: Well, one month into the partial government shut down, hundreds
- 11:31Speaker 6: of TSA workers have gone without full pay and have quit,
- 11:35Speaker 6: while others have taken unscheduled time off, prompting more travel headaches.
- 11:38Speaker 6: As you know, all of these things are happening from
- 11:41Speaker 6: spring break and all of the things. At some airports,
- 11:44Speaker 6: way times have stretched up to nearly two hours long.
- 11:49Speaker 2: We were flying out of.
- 11:52Speaker 1: We were flying out of LaGuardia on Thursday Friday, and
- 11:56Speaker 1: it was so bad And the only reason I that
- 12:00Speaker 1: I could get through was because my Girlirl from the
- 12:03Speaker 1: view saw me and she had been in front of
- 12:06Speaker 1: the line and let me get it from her.
- 12:08Speaker 2: Wow. Wow on the reason it's crazy, Yeah, they are.
- 12:12Speaker 4: I'd be mad too.
- 12:14Speaker 2: And and you know here, here's the thing.
- 12:18Speaker 1: You're paying ICE and not paying air traffic controlers. That's
- 12:23Speaker 1: the funny thing. You're paying ice and not paying air
- 12:26Speaker 1: traffic controlers. And they exist primarily for the same reason,
- 12:31Speaker 1: ideally to keep the homeland safe. I don't know how
- 12:33Speaker 1: safe you're gonna be if I'm not getting my check.
- 12:36Speaker 1: Your planes ain't safe.
- 12:37Speaker 9: I know that.
- 12:39Speaker 2: What happened to play? What happened? I check the plane
- 12:42Speaker 2: my credit score?
- 12:43Speaker 4: See that works, right, I couldn't hear anything comes to
- 12:46Speaker 4: my stomach ground right.
- 12:48Speaker 1: And this is the second time, and that happened to
- 12:51Speaker 1: them in uh November, Yeah, October November.
- 12:56Speaker 2: This is second time. They just catching up from the
- 12:58Speaker 2: last time. They weren't get money, all.
- 13:00Speaker 4: Right, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I'd be like, you're
- 13:01Speaker 4: not gonna play with my money like that.
- 13:03Speaker 1: No other employee could do what the government does. No
- 13:06Speaker 1: other company could do baby soon. All right, this is
- 13:09Speaker 1: a very interesting question. I saw this yesterday on social media.
- 13:12Speaker 1: It's a young lady and she told the story of
- 13:14Speaker 1: how she thought her father a banded her but later
- 13:16Speaker 1: find out that it was not true, and it is
- 13:18Speaker 1: affected the way she has navigated a relationship with men
- 13:22Speaker 1: like thinking that she would be abandoned and it's very
- 13:24Speaker 1: obviously very emotional for her, and now she can't rectify
- 13:27Speaker 1: that because her father's dead. What should be the consequence
- 13:30Speaker 1: when one parent intentionally keeps the chot from the other
- 13:32Speaker 1: from the other, what should be the consequence of that?
- 13:35Speaker 1: Because I guarantee you that is a fairly common refrain.
- 13:39Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's pervctive. I'm gonna say it's fairly pervasive.
- 13:42Speaker 1: I'm not saying it's the majority of things, but it's
- 13:44Speaker 1: not an uncommon, friend, what do you think the consequences
- 13:47Speaker 1: that should be eight seven seven two four two two
- 13:49Speaker 1: four two six.
- 13:50Speaker 4: Also this up on Twitter or do O Hugley Radio
- 13:52Speaker 4: or on Facebook. The Doo Hugley Show.
- 13:54Speaker 2: On the website is the dhugu Show dot Com.
- 13:56Speaker 1: All Right, we getting to your calls directly. It's the
- 13:58Speaker 1: the O Huge show, very emotional, stuffy young woman is
- 14:00Speaker 1: talking about how for years she thought her father abandoned her, uh,
- 14:05Speaker 1: and then obviously come to find out that it was
- 14:08Speaker 1: not true, and it is affected the way she has
- 14:11Speaker 1: navigated a relationships with men, like thinking that she would
- 14:14Speaker 1: be abandoned and it's very obviously very emotional for her,
- 14:17Speaker 1: and now she can't rectify that because her father's dead.
- 14:19Speaker 2: I know the feeling, we're.
- 14:22Speaker 1: Gonna go to our social media platform. What do you
- 14:23Speaker 1: think the uh, the remedition for that should be juniors.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Can you see what they're saying out there?
- 14:28Speaker 2: All right?
- 14:29Speaker 7: I'm looking at Timmy from Cincinnati and he said, uh,
- 14:33Speaker 7: you know, secrets always have consequences.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think that that is either parent for
- 14:42Speaker 1: either parent, And I know there are so many people
- 14:47Speaker 1: who have parents, you know, who are dealing with mate
- 14:49Speaker 1: who have disappeared and abandoned children. That's that's uh, that
- 14:53Speaker 1: all that is terrible and also very pervasive. But situations,
- 14:57Speaker 1: and I think that that has its own set of
- 14:59Speaker 1: emotion so drawbacks too. But I think situations like this
- 15:03Speaker 1: where so one, you know, you grew up believing that
- 15:08Speaker 1: your parent was a certain way, be it mother or father.
- 15:12Speaker 1: Come to find out that the author of that story
- 15:16Speaker 1: wasn't telling it correctly and they were doing it for
- 15:18Speaker 1: their own reasons.
- 15:19Speaker 4: Yeah, and that which is what tends to happen.
- 15:22Speaker 6: I think, you know, a lot of times on either side,
- 15:24Speaker 6: there's some kind of hurt or blame game that's being played,
- 15:28Speaker 6: and you know, unfortunately they use a child as a
- 15:32Speaker 6: pawn in the game.
- 15:33Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's it's very said.
- 15:35Speaker 6: I'm not even thinking, you know, five ten years down
- 15:37Speaker 6: the road, when the child grows up and they have
- 15:39Speaker 6: this perception of their their their father or mother, which
- 15:42Speaker 6: isn't true.
- 15:43Speaker 8: You know.
- 15:45Speaker 4: I just I don't know.
- 15:46Speaker 6: I know there's no legal law unless it's a court
- 15:48Speaker 6: ordered situation. Uh, there's no legal thing that.
- 15:51Speaker 4: You can do.
- 15:52Speaker 9: But I do think.
- 15:55Speaker 6: We're gonna say the only thing that is going to
- 15:58Speaker 6: happen is when that child gets older, they're probably we're
- 16:00Speaker 6: going to resent you, and that in some cases can
- 16:02Speaker 6: be punishment enough.
- 16:03Speaker 1: I think that if you can make somebody pay arrears
- 16:06Speaker 1: and child support and you've mostly damaged somebody like that,
- 16:09Speaker 1: that should be some kind of consequence. I just do
- 16:11Speaker 1: I think that it's just not okay because there's what
- 16:14Speaker 1: is the deterrent for people doing it?
- 16:16Speaker 9: Then?
- 16:17Speaker 1: Is what because things happen because there's nothing to tell
- 16:21Speaker 1: them that there's no real consequence.
- 16:23Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and it has Yeah, I do think that
- 16:28Speaker 2: this should be something.
- 16:29Speaker 4: So you know what I love about this show?
- 16:31Speaker 10: D L says exactly what you're thinking at home, no filter,
- 16:36Speaker 10: no hold him back.
- 16:37Speaker 2: That's why you keep coming back to the d L.
- 16:40Speaker 10: Hugley Show.
- 16:41Speaker 2: We'll pick up this conversation in just a moment.
- 16:44Speaker 1: It is the dal Huge Show, your twenty twenty sixth edition.
- 16:47Speaker 1: Remember that if you were going to be in Cincinnati.
- 16:49Speaker 1: I will be at the Liberty City Funny Bone this
- 16:52Speaker 1: Friday and Saturday to Friday to Saturday.
- 16:54Speaker 2: Come check me if you take a notion, take a
- 16:56Speaker 2: listen to this audio.
- 16:58Speaker 8: My parents are married and then they had me. I
- 17:01Speaker 8: guess their marriage was difficult, so they later got divorced.
- 17:05Speaker 4: I don't know why.
- 17:06Speaker 8: I don't know the details. All I know is that
- 17:09Speaker 8: they separated. So I used to be with my mother
- 17:12Speaker 8: one week and then I'll go be with my father
- 17:14Speaker 8: the next week. Okay, so back and forth.
- 17:18Speaker 2: One week. My dad never.
- 17:20Speaker 8: Showed up to come and pick me up. I sat
- 17:22Speaker 8: by the door, literally waiting and waiting.
- 17:25Speaker 9: He never showed up.
- 17:26Speaker 8: The following week, I did the same thing. I did
- 17:28Speaker 8: this for months. Okay, he never came. So I fell
- 17:33Speaker 8: so rejected. Okay, I still.
- 17:35Speaker 2: Quite literally turn into that little girl when I talk
- 17:39Speaker 2: about it.
- 17:40Speaker 11: It has changed the trajectory of my life.
- 17:44Speaker 12: Okay.
- 17:45Speaker 13: So I didn't find out until literally recently as an
- 17:49Speaker 13: adult that my father did not abandon me. My mother
- 17:54Speaker 13: cut him off because she was afraid that he was
- 17:56Speaker 13: going to take me from her.
- 18:00Speaker 2: And we have discussions like this all the time. Sanders,
- 18:02Speaker 2: Obviously we come at this.
- 18:04Speaker 1: From two different perspective of based on our own individual experiences.
- 18:08Speaker 2: So you think, what about this?
- 18:11Speaker 6: Like I said, I know, from a legal perspective, there's
- 18:14Speaker 6: really not a lot that can be done unless it's
- 18:18Speaker 6: a court ordered situation. If it's court ordered custody or
- 18:22Speaker 6: a visitation plan is in place and you violate that,
- 18:25Speaker 6: there are consequences.
- 18:27Speaker 2: Outside of that. Legally, nothing you can do.
- 18:30Speaker 6: I do think it's unfortunate because I know for sure
- 18:34Speaker 6: there are cases where you're upset or the father is upset,
- 18:38Speaker 6: and you use the child as a pond I don't
- 18:41Speaker 6: know what you could do to deter that, I mean
- 18:44Speaker 6: mature relationships.
- 18:46Speaker 4: I mean, I have no idea.
- 18:48Speaker 6: But again, I do think when the child gets older
- 18:51Speaker 6: and they realize that you have lied to them, I
- 18:54Speaker 6: think there will be a lot of damage done to
- 18:57Speaker 6: that relationship.
- 18:58Speaker 4: And I think that that might end up being you know,
- 19:00Speaker 4: punishment enough. I just I don't know. It's a difficult thing.
- 19:03Speaker 1: You know, I have a very I don't see. I
- 19:07Speaker 1: can call it nuanced, and you guys might think it's simplistic,
- 19:10Speaker 1: but I don't. I think laws exist because people saw
- 19:15Speaker 1: there was a need for something to change in the dynamic. Right,
- 19:20Speaker 1: That's why laws exist. It wasn't always against the law
- 19:23Speaker 1: not to pay child support. It wasn't always against the law.
- 19:26Speaker 1: Some of the laws we have in place, all of
- 19:28Speaker 1: them came as a remedy, right, correct, right. And I
- 19:31Speaker 1: think that there is an inherent way that society looks
- 19:38Speaker 1: at somebody who's not financially responsible for a child.
- 19:42Speaker 2: There's an inherent way they look at that. And what
- 19:45Speaker 2: they did was they had a legal remedy for that.
- 19:47Speaker 6: Right.
- 19:49Speaker 1: I don't think that there's a requisite, uh you know,
- 19:53Speaker 1: a view of that in terms of the emotional damage
- 19:55Speaker 1: that that parents do the children that we have a
- 19:58Speaker 1: laws against abusing. So I think that because we know
- 20:03Speaker 1: that things like this happen, we write laws to remedy
- 20:06Speaker 1: societal eels.
- 20:07Speaker 4: To some degree, right, and so, but I think I think.
- 20:18Speaker 11: Carry on.
- 20:19Speaker 2: So here's the audio.
- 20:21Speaker 14: So I literally had to grow up without a father,
- 20:24Speaker 14: thinking that my father didn't love me.
- 20:27Speaker 11: So I would go on dating these men who were
- 20:30Speaker 11: amazing to me.
- 20:31Speaker 15: I've had wonderful relationships, and I would literally feel like.
- 20:36Speaker 11: The love was never enough because my father didn't love me.
- 20:40Speaker 11: How could another man love me?
- 20:43Speaker 2: What do you think the remedy should for that should be? Junius?
- 20:45Speaker 2: What do you think should it should be?
- 20:47Speaker 7: Well, these are always touching subjects, I mean, because they're
- 20:51Speaker 7: variables involved that you know, we're not exactly sure of,
- 20:53Speaker 7: you know, because depending on how the severity of the
- 20:55Speaker 7: breakup was or the trauma involved, you know, like say,
- 20:59Speaker 7: for instance, if as a rape or something you know
- 21:01Speaker 7: you just don't know, you would you would not share
- 21:04Speaker 7: that with a child, right, make up an inappropriate story.
- 21:07Speaker 2: But if it's just pure malice, then there should be
- 21:10Speaker 2: some kind of.
- 21:12Speaker 1: It can't just be nothing. I think that if it were,
- 21:15Speaker 1: if it were whenever, something like this is perpetrated, and
- 21:18Speaker 1: this is regardless of that. If it's a man perpetrating
- 21:22Speaker 1: a thing, society tends to think that that.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Needs a legal remedy. Yeah, When if a woman is.
- 21:28Speaker 1: Primarily perpetrating a thing, it has a different nuanced view.
- 21:31Speaker 1: The law feels like, well, that's just something that I
- 21:33Speaker 1: have to say. But I know, for me, for years
- 21:36Speaker 1: and years and years, my mother told me what a
- 21:39Speaker 1: horrible man my father was, and when I met him,
- 21:42Speaker 1: I had only her version of it. And when he died,
- 21:46Speaker 1: she when my mother called me and even Peter Sanders
- 21:49Speaker 1: like Mike like boohooing. And when she was I was
- 21:53Speaker 1: in New York. I'll never forget, She's like, your father died.
- 21:55Speaker 2: I was like, I was crying.
- 21:57Speaker 1: I mean, she was beside herself and I would like
- 22:00Speaker 1: my daddy, and she said, I gotta get home.
- 22:04Speaker 2: She's like, oh, no, no, your biological father. And I'm like,
- 22:06Speaker 2: what why do you for him?
- 22:10Speaker 1: But you called me with this crown for this, And
- 22:14Speaker 1: then she told me she had always had a relationship
- 22:16Speaker 1: with him and he wasn't as bad as she thought
- 22:18Speaker 1: she had put on.
- 22:19Speaker 2: Wow, now that to me.
- 22:21Speaker 1: I'm angry with her now because not only she treated
- 22:24Speaker 1: my father crazy, the one who raised me, but she
- 22:27Speaker 1: denied me an opportunity to know that man who had
- 22:30Speaker 1: been looking for me the whole.
- 22:31Speaker 2: Time, and shaped your opinion of him and shaped my
- 22:35Speaker 2: pin of the world. Yeah, like I always wanted to
- 22:39Speaker 2: be a huge guy.
- 22:40Speaker 1: Never was a huge I found out that the name
- 22:42Speaker 1: I had, the people that I come from, literally only
- 22:46Speaker 1: area I live in now, They came from the south.
- 22:49Speaker 1: They built there's a place in that like called Baller Mountain.
- 22:53Speaker 1: They called it mount and changed the battle. But those
- 22:55Speaker 1: were my forefathers. That is five minutes from where I live.
- 22:58Speaker 1: So you took my birth right away from me.
- 23:01Speaker 4: That's not me the fortunate part. It's hurtful. It's horrible.
- 23:07Speaker 6: It's a horrible thing to do, not only to a child,
- 23:09Speaker 6: but to a young man and certainly an older man period,
- 23:12Speaker 6: whenever you find.
- 23:13Speaker 4: Out the lie. Unfortunately, lying is not a crime. We
- 23:17Speaker 4: just by the world that we live in.
- 23:19Speaker 2: No, it's not.
- 23:20Speaker 6: Inherently it is not a crime. The only way it
- 23:22Speaker 6: is a crime is that if you commit perjury, if
- 23:24Speaker 6: you lot of federal officials, if you file a false
- 23:27Speaker 6: police report or fraud to obtain money, property benefits or
- 23:30Speaker 6: anything like that, or any kind of id lying. But
- 23:33Speaker 6: in terms of lying about whether or not this person
- 23:37Speaker 6: is this or that, in terms of their character, that
- 23:39Speaker 6: is not a lie. It's a horrible thing.
- 23:42Speaker 2: Now it should be And a lot of things weren't
- 23:46Speaker 2: laws until somebody made them that way.
- 23:49Speaker 1: The laws like that have champions, right, there are people
- 23:52Speaker 1: champion a law that happened. They go for Congress, they
- 23:56Speaker 1: tell stories, they supplicate bill makers.
- 23:59Speaker 2: So just because it is a law doesn't mean it
- 24:01Speaker 2: shouldn't be.
- 24:02Speaker 6: Yeah, oh absolutely, but I think you you you hit
- 24:04Speaker 6: the hand the nail on the head, and that is
- 24:07Speaker 6: someone has the lobby for that right.
- 24:09Speaker 4: No one has done it there because there's no extensive.
- 24:11Speaker 2: Stuce be done shown to start it off.
- 24:17Speaker 6: Oh okay, okay, okay, you want somebody else to do
- 24:20Speaker 6: the heavy I'm just saying.
- 24:22Speaker 1: I'm just saying I think that it is it is
- 24:25Speaker 1: unreasonable to say that this doesn't have something that I
- 24:29Speaker 1: think they should be a legal remedy for, even.
- 24:34Speaker 2: There could be a civil situation. But you can't, no,
- 24:37Speaker 2: I totally. You can be wrecked.
- 24:39Speaker 1: You reckon people's lives and and and there's no reconpuss.
- 24:42Speaker 1: I think that that's untendable. Take a listen to this audio.
- 24:45Speaker 8: My parents were married and then they had me. I
- 24:49Speaker 8: guess their marriage was difficult, so they later got divorced.
- 24:53Speaker 2: I don't know why. I don't know the details. All
- 24:56Speaker 2: I know is that they've separated.
- 24:58Speaker 8: So I used to be with my mother one week,
- 25:00Speaker 8: and then I'll go be with my father the next week. Okay,
- 25:04Speaker 8: so back and forth. One week, my dad never showed
- 25:08Speaker 8: up to come and pick me up. I sat by
- 25:10Speaker 8: the door, literally waiting and waiting.
- 25:13Speaker 7: He never showed up.
- 25:14Speaker 8: The following week, I did the same thing. I did
- 25:16Speaker 8: this for months. Okay, he never came. So I felt
- 25:20Speaker 8: so rejected. Okay, I still quite.
- 25:23Speaker 2: Literally turn into that little girl when I talk about it.
- 25:27Speaker 11: It has changed the traductory of my life.
- 25:31Speaker 12: Okay.
- 25:32Speaker 13: So I didn't find out until literally recently as an adult.
- 25:38Speaker 2: That my father did not abandon me.
- 25:41Speaker 13: My mother cut him off because she was afraid that
- 25:44Speaker 13: he was gonna take me from her.
- 25:47Speaker 2: What do you think the remedy for that shit be able?
- 25:49Speaker 2: Going right to the phones.
- 25:51Speaker 10: I feel very sad for the young lady that this
- 25:53Speaker 10: happened to I can't imagine not knowing my father.
- 25:58Speaker 9: I couldn't imagine it.
- 26:00Speaker 10: I knew both of my parents, they raised me and
- 26:02Speaker 10: all my siblings, and I just couldn't imagine being in
- 26:05Speaker 10: that situation.
- 26:06Speaker 5: But I do have one.
- 26:08Speaker 10: I did want to say that I learned a very
- 26:10Speaker 10: long time ago not to get involved in that revenge game,
- 26:13Speaker 10: because it feels like that's what happened with her parents.
- 26:16Speaker 10: They are playing some kind of revenge game or you know,
- 26:20Speaker 10: or whether they meant to do it or not, it
- 26:22Speaker 10: affected her in a very negative way. And I feel
- 26:27Speaker 10: like what should happen is what is already happening, which
- 26:31Speaker 10: is that now the other living parent is going to
- 26:34Speaker 10: have to deal with how this child feels about what
- 26:37Speaker 10: they did, what about what both of them did? Now
- 26:39Speaker 10: both of them can't confront it. Now it's just one
- 26:40Speaker 10: parent that has to confront what has happened. I hope
- 26:44Speaker 10: that this young lady does confront the other parent. I
- 26:47Speaker 10: hope that she finds, you know, peace and all that.
- 26:49Speaker 5: But I learned a long time ago, you don't.
- 26:51Speaker 10: Play this revenge game. I'm a Christian, so I believe
- 26:55Speaker 10: vengeance is the lords.
- 26:56Speaker 5: So I just got in my car, and I've heard
- 26:59Speaker 5: the conversation and I can resonate with that because I
- 27:02Speaker 5: have two daughters who are one is in her latter
- 27:05Speaker 5: thirty thirties and the other ones in their younger thirties,
- 27:08Speaker 5: and both of their mothers withheld them from me for
- 27:12Speaker 5: thirty plus years. And he both came to me.
- 27:14Speaker 2: One came to me about.
- 27:15Speaker 5: Five years ago and said, my mom finally admitted that
- 27:19Speaker 5: she lied about you and she kept me away from you.
- 27:22Speaker 5: And the other one did the same thing, said, my
- 27:25Speaker 5: mom admitted because she lied about you and kept me
- 27:27Speaker 5: away from you. So I'm going through the same thing
- 27:29Speaker 5: that you know. Most of me, I'm going through in
- 27:31Speaker 5: that situation. And I understand. I heard the girls, the
- 27:34Speaker 5: young lady's pain who was speaking out on it, so
- 27:37Speaker 5: I understand, and uh yeah, so it's suld Beit's wrong.
- 27:41Speaker 5: And right now I'm trying to bridge the gap with
- 27:43Speaker 5: my daughters and develop a relationship after thirty years.
- 27:47Speaker 16: My husband is actually going through something similar to that.
- 27:52Speaker 16: When we got together, he had land everything to me
- 27:55Speaker 16: and the house, his child's mother had them on child support,
- 27:59Speaker 16: and how the arrears and everything, and how he was
- 28:02Speaker 16: in he was in his child's life for the first
- 28:06Speaker 16: little bit of her life. And then the mother just
- 28:10Speaker 16: up and left and pretty much told the courts that
- 28:13Speaker 16: she was scared for her life and made everything private.
- 28:19Speaker 16: And he didn't know he's right up until I mean honestly,
- 28:23Speaker 16: when we got together and we started doing research and
- 28:26Speaker 16: we found out what you know, he actually had his
- 28:29Speaker 16: rights were, and you know, hey, they've got him on
- 28:33Speaker 16: false deligate or they not false allegations. He can he's
- 28:37Speaker 16: wanted to take her to court for false allegations for.
- 28:40Speaker 2: A child alienation.
- 28:41Speaker 16: His child is spect of sixteen years old, and he
- 28:44Speaker 16: hasn't got the seed hurts that she was stop.
- 28:48Speaker 4: We did our research and we found out what we
- 28:50Speaker 4: can do, we.
- 28:51Speaker 2: Can't do court, and it's it's just a whole lot.
- 28:55Speaker 5: Of mess that's going on.
- 28:56Speaker 16: When you all were talking about already, I was like, dang, like,
- 28:58Speaker 16: that's exactly what was.
- 29:00Speaker 5: I'm going through right now.
- 29:01Speaker 2: So here is a scenario.
- 29:03Speaker 8: My parents were married and then they had me. I
- 29:07Speaker 8: guess their marriage was difficult, so they later got divorced.
- 29:11Speaker 4: I don't know why.
- 29:12Speaker 8: I don't know the details. All I know is that
- 29:14Speaker 8: they separated. So I used to be with my mother
- 29:17Speaker 8: one week and then I'll go be with my father
- 29:19Speaker 8: the next week. Okay, so back and forth. One week,
- 29:25Speaker 8: my dad never showed up to come and pick me up.
- 29:28Speaker 8: I sat by the door, literally waiting and waiting. He
- 29:31Speaker 8: never showed up. The following week, I did the same thing.
- 29:34Speaker 8: I did this for months. Okay, he never came. So
- 29:38Speaker 8: I fell so rejected. Okay, I still quite literally turned
- 29:43Speaker 8: into that little girl when I.
- 29:44Speaker 2: Talk about it.
- 29:45Speaker 11: It has changed the trajrectory of my life.
- 29:49Speaker 12: Okay.
- 29:50Speaker 13: So I didn't find out until literally recently as an
- 29:55Speaker 13: adult that my father did not abandon me. My mother
- 30:00Speaker 13: him off because she was afraid that he was going
- 30:02Speaker 13: to take me from her.
- 30:04Speaker 14: So I literally had to grow up without a father,
- 30:08Speaker 14: thinking that my father didn't love me.
- 30:11Speaker 11: So I would go on dating these men who were
- 30:14Speaker 11: amazing to me.
- 30:15Speaker 15: I've had wonderful relationships, and I would literally feel like
- 30:20Speaker 15: the love was never at us because my father didn't
- 30:23Speaker 15: love me.
- 30:23Speaker 11: How could another man love me?
- 30:26Speaker 2: What do you think the remedy for that should be able?
- 30:27Speaker 2: Go right to the phones.
- 30:29Speaker 17: My son is going through the same situation. He pays
- 30:33Speaker 17: child support every week, He's caught up on his rears,
- 30:37Speaker 17: but he can't seem to talk.
- 30:38Speaker 6: To the kids.
- 30:39Speaker 17: And it's been some months now. I think the last
- 30:42Speaker 17: time the kid's been over to my house there Nana
- 30:45Speaker 17: was last year in the summertime, and that was the
- 30:48Speaker 17: last time we saw them. The last time. And the
- 30:52Speaker 17: mom she has this, I don't know, some sort of
- 30:55Speaker 17: vendetta against all because she want my son to be
- 30:58Speaker 17: with her and the kids. But I have a funny
- 31:01Speaker 17: feeling that she's seeding the kids a lot of negativity
- 31:03Speaker 17: about their dad, and when the only thing my son,
- 31:06Speaker 17: he won't reach out or anything. I mean, he has
- 31:08Speaker 17: been reaching out, but it's like it's like, well, I
- 31:11Speaker 17: guess I have to wait until the kids get older
- 31:13Speaker 17: in order for them to accept me. I said, But
- 31:15Speaker 17: whether they don't accept you because of.
- 31:17Speaker 9: What she's feeding them, Well, basically, I'm one who's going
- 31:21Speaker 9: through it myself, dealing with a woman that is, you know,
- 31:25Speaker 9: basically keeping me from my child. I've been going through
- 31:29Speaker 9: this for about three years, four years now, and still
- 31:33Speaker 9: there's no consequence in the courtroom at all. He's violated
- 31:38Speaker 9: plenty of times and I've never gotten any remedy over it.
- 31:42Speaker 9: And I tell her all the time that you're going
- 31:44Speaker 9: to make this ch sent you when he gets older,
- 31:46Speaker 9: because he's going to find out that I've never abandoned him.
- 31:50Speaker 9: I stay fighting. I stay fighting all the time, and
- 31:53Speaker 9: I'm not going to stop. But there needs to be
- 31:56Speaker 9: some kind of consequence to this.
- 31:58Speaker 2: Wow, you know what I was thinking?
- 32:00Speaker 10: That is?
- 32:01Speaker 12: So you know this, this is why the mother doesn't realize.
- 32:04Speaker 12: And I was a daddy's girl and my father's deceased.
- 32:07Speaker 12: I can't imagine not being able to have a chance
- 32:10Speaker 12: to ask questions and have closure. And what you what
- 32:14Speaker 12: she did was rob this child of having a bonding
- 32:18Speaker 12: experience that could damage her ability to trust in the
- 32:22Speaker 12: near future, not just with a possible mate, but with
- 32:26Speaker 12: any anybody else, because your parents are your first to
- 32:30Speaker 12: the world, and when you don't have the type of
- 32:33Speaker 12: bonding relationship that affects future relationships. So that's a very
- 32:38Speaker 12: uncomfortable conversation that you know that needs to be taking
- 32:42Speaker 12: place with mama.
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- 38:39Speaker 19: scared to death and think about dialing nine one one.
- 38:42Speaker 2: Bye, p d hegly. Well that's it for this week.
- 38:45Speaker 19: This has been easy, James, f U do Hugli correspond
- 38:49Speaker 19: until next week.
- 38:50Speaker 10: Bye.
- 38:51Speaker 1: This is now time for the human being of the week. Uh,
- 38:54Speaker 1: Jasmine Sanders. Somebody out there as human?
- 38:56Speaker 9: Who is it?
- 38:57Speaker 2: It's out a Bitton Harbor, Michigan. His name is Steven Michigan.
- 39:02Speaker 6: Yes, and this is a great human so he actually
- 39:06Speaker 6: went to a church with a young man who had
- 39:08Speaker 6: been diagnosed with a very mild case of a kidney disease.
- 39:12Speaker 6: But things spiraled quickly and in a matter of weeks,
- 39:15Speaker 6: you know, the guy actually went into full kidney failure
- 39:18Speaker 6: and needed a kidney right away. So his family took
- 39:21Speaker 6: to social media. They started recording videos and sending out
- 39:24Speaker 6: word and they finally sent the video to a church
- 39:27Speaker 6: where they actually went and this guy, Steven Spinner, went
- 39:31Speaker 6: to that church. Him and his wife talked about and
- 39:32Speaker 6: they said, let's just see if we're you know, a
- 39:34Speaker 6: potential match.
- 39:34Speaker 4: It turns out they were. He gave the guy kidney
- 39:37Speaker 4: and saved his life.
- 39:38Speaker 2: Hay, that's something that's a human now. I know that.
- 39:41Speaker 2: I know a guy, a really talented guy, very talented comedian.
- 39:44Speaker 1: He went on social media and he needed he needed
- 39:47Speaker 1: a liver transplant and he got it and they pooped
- 39:52Speaker 1: the The government didn't let it happen because it's illegal.
- 39:55Speaker 12: Why.
- 39:56Speaker 2: Yeah, because you can't you.
- 39:57Speaker 1: Can't go to social Well, kidney's are different, because you know,
- 40:00Speaker 1: you can, you can, you know, and I think whatever
- 40:03Speaker 1: he needed you can't get you can't.
- 40:06Speaker 2: Go online because there's a list. Yeah, yeah, Dick.
- 40:10Speaker 1: Cheney got two hearts. The average person lives seventy two
- 40:15Speaker 1: seventy five years. Dick Cheney got two hearts. You know
- 40:18Speaker 1: how evil you got to be to wear out a heart?
- 40:24Speaker 2: Is there hard? Yeah, we got two of it. If
- 40:28Speaker 2: it is Dick Channing got him, I know that's it.
- 40:31Speaker 1: But yeah, you got a horrible thing when you when
- 40:34Speaker 1: you are on the donor list, Like if you need
- 40:36Speaker 1: a if you need anything, you gotta pray every day
- 40:40Speaker 1: that somebody will have what you need.
- 40:42Speaker 2: Uh you know, you know if it's a heart you got,
- 40:45Speaker 2: it's a young person with their whole life ahead of them.
- 40:49Speaker 1: They have to have an accident that that you know,
- 40:51Speaker 1: death dam is a hard and they have to be
- 40:53Speaker 1: fall into a vata that they got to be right
- 40:56Speaker 1: there to harvest it.
- 40:57Speaker 2: You got to be next up. That's a very specific prayer.
- 41:01Speaker 4: It is indeed want to go. But he wanted to
- 41:04Speaker 4: be gentle.
- 41:06Speaker 2: It can't be gentle. It can't be It can't be sickness.
- 41:09Speaker 2: It can't be gentle.
- 41:10Speaker 1: It has to be traumatic and immediate because anything else damages.
- 41:15Speaker 2: Your organ You got to play. They hit the wall
- 41:17Speaker 2: and just damage their brain and that.
- 41:18Speaker 1: It's a really specific thing and they got to be
- 41:21Speaker 1: a donor and they got to be a donor or.
- 41:23Speaker 1: The person that you know is is that you don't
- 41:26Speaker 1: speaking for them, say yeah it was, it's great.
- 41:30Speaker 2: But this dude is the human being of the week.
- 41:32Speaker 2: And uh, but his name get jess Uh Stephen bitten
- 41:36Speaker 2: Stephen bitten Man with a good MANU I would get.
- 41:39Speaker 2: We give you the class there it is right right, bravo.
- 41:42Speaker 2: Now it's time for what you need to know with
- 41:43Speaker 2: the one on these Sybil Wilkes. It's Sybil Wilkes with
- 41:46Speaker 2: what we need to know.
- 41:47Speaker 20: A high stakes meeting on Capitol Hill, top US intelligence
- 41:51Speaker 20: and security officials were set to testify, but that hearing
- 41:54Speaker 20: has been moved to Thursday. The House Intelligence Committee will
- 41:57Speaker 20: be hearing from d n i's Tulsea Gabbert cash Betel
- 42:01Speaker 20: and CIA's director John Radcliffe. They are expected to dive
- 42:05Speaker 20: deep into foreign threats, cyber attacks, and the ongoing war
- 42:08Speaker 20: with Iran. This comes as federal investigators look into several
- 42:12Speaker 20: recent domestic attacks as potential acts of terrorism. A powerful
- 42:16Speaker 20: storm system is delivering blizzard conditions to the Midwest while
- 42:20Speaker 20: triggering a rare threat of severe storms along the East Coast.
- 42:24Speaker 20: Over forty seven hundred flights have been canceled, with ground
- 42:28Speaker 20: stops issued in major hubs like Atlanta and Charlotte. And
- 42:31Speaker 20: if you're headed to Chicago Haare or Atlanta's Hartfield Jackson Today,
- 42:34Speaker 20: check your app before you leave.
- 42:36Speaker 2: The FAA is warning of more delays as the system
- 42:39Speaker 2: moves through.
- 42:40Speaker 20: Kiki Shepherd, the longtime co host is the legendary music
- 42:44Speaker 20: showcase Showtime at the Apollo, died Monday. Her rep said
- 42:48Speaker 20: that she suffered a massive heart attack in Los Angeles,
- 42:50Speaker 20: adding her passing.
- 42:51Speaker 2: Was completely unexpected.
- 42:53Speaker 20: Keiky Shepherd became a familiar face to millions of viewers
- 42:56Speaker 20: during her long run on Showtime at the Apollo from
- 42:59Speaker 20: nineteen eighty seven into two thousand and two, where she
- 43:01Speaker 20: shared the stage with legends like Steve Harvey and helped
- 43:04Speaker 20: introduce aspiring performers to the iconic Harlem Theater. Over the years,
- 43:09Speaker 20: she continued working in television with appearances on TV shows
- 43:12Speaker 20: From a Different World, Too Mine to Business, and she
- 43:15Speaker 20: also appeared in the film Black Jack Christmas. Her career
- 43:18Speaker 20: in entertainment began long before Apollo. She started out as
- 43:21Speaker 20: a professional dancer in the nineteen seventies performing around the world,
- 43:25Speaker 20: including the DC Repertory Dance Company.
- 43:28Speaker 2: Kiki Shephard was seventy four.
- 43:30Speaker 20: To subscribe to my free daily newsletter, please visit Sybil
- 43:33Speaker 20: Wilkes dot com for all the neew twenty four seven
- 43:36Speaker 20: go to newswe dot com.
- 43:37Speaker 2: I'm Sybil Wilkes. Be Informed, we empowered. Thank you so much.
- 43:42Speaker 1: Civil jazzmin Yep, yep, yep. Pay All right, we keep
- 43:46Speaker 1: moving on. It's the Dlugli Show. It is the dal
- 43:48Speaker 1: Yougree Show.
- 43:49Speaker 2: You a twenty twenty six edition.
- 43:50Speaker 1: If you're going to be at Liberty City, Ohio, Cincinnati
- 43:54Speaker 1: or the Kentucky area, I will be there this Friday
- 43:56Speaker 1: and Saturday to Friday too.
- 43:58Speaker 2: Saturday, come check. You have to take it.
- 44:00Speaker 1: A shout out to Gary One who got married over
- 44:02Speaker 1: the weekend. Was the Topaz wedding. It was Yeah, he
- 44:06Speaker 1: got mad another black I mean, let me tell you something.
- 44:08Speaker 1: If I was saying when I broke one black woman,
- 44:10Speaker 1: I would not do it again, that's it. You get
- 44:12Speaker 1: a one hit of quitter.
- 44:12Speaker 2: That's it. Not plain stupid. I'm not even kidding.
- 44:19Speaker 1: If I was a white dude, I married a black
- 44:21Speaker 1: woman and we didn't work out, I wouldn't do it again.
- 44:23Speaker 1: I'd be moving down the rainbow.
- 44:24Speaker 2: That is what I do. Up next Yellow Well, India
- 44:30Speaker 2: is a closer match. Yeah, up next, Up up next
- 44:34Speaker 2: the Asian Pacific Rim. Next indiold China. That's not jump.
- 44:45Speaker 13: Man.
- 44:45Speaker 1: I would never if I if I broke uf, I
- 44:47Speaker 1: was a white dude, I married a black woman and
- 44:49Speaker 1: we broke up.
- 44:49Speaker 2: I wouldn't do it again. I wouldn't. Why would I
- 44:53Speaker 2: do that?
- 44:54Speaker 1: It's other places of the tawn. I taste the rainbow. Damn,
- 44:56Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be here. I mean, I'm stuck.
- 45:00Speaker 2: I can see me. But a dude who you know,
- 45:02Speaker 2: he volunteered for this job. That's crazy.
- 45:07Speaker 1: We were talking about a young man who donated the kidney.
- 45:11Speaker 1: I have a good friend whose wife donated him a
- 45:14Speaker 1: kidney and then they broke up.
- 45:17Speaker 2: And a really good friend of mine.
- 45:19Speaker 16: I know this.
- 45:20Speaker 1: If you break up with me after I got a kidney,
- 45:24Speaker 1: you give me my kidney back.
- 45:26Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
- 45:28Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that's impossible, But yeah.
- 45:30Speaker 2: No, it ain't impossible. It's not impossible.
- 45:32Speaker 9: It is.
- 45:33Speaker 4: How are we going to get it back?
- 45:34Speaker 1: Apparently you ain't never seen boys from Brazil. You never
- 45:37Speaker 1: seen what You've never seen Teresa. Have you ever seen
- 45:40Speaker 1: Teresa looking at him? Not look up, Teresa, He'll look up, Teresta.
- 45:46Speaker 1: It's about these dudes. They they harvest they when American
- 45:51Speaker 1: people come down. It's a clearly just a movie. But uh,
- 45:55Speaker 1: they harvest Organs. Whether you want him or not. Don't
- 46:00Speaker 1: go to sleep, Hey baby, you know, let's reconcile and
- 46:03Speaker 1: run on down here to Brazil.
- 46:05Speaker 2: Let's see what happened. What's in the ice? None of
- 46:09Speaker 2: your business? Oh, I have my heart. What you're doing?
- 46:18Speaker 2: You remember what did?
- 46:20Speaker 10: Uh?
- 46:20Speaker 2: What did Will Smith? Did that movie? Seven ounces? Where
- 46:23Speaker 2: was it come? Sixteen?
- 46:24Speaker 16: Oh?
- 46:24Speaker 4: Yeah, seven pounds, seven pounds, seven pounds.
- 46:29Speaker 2: I guess that's all the Organs gave up, right, that's right?
- 46:34Speaker 1: But I think that they they there are scientists that
- 46:37Speaker 1: say that there is a measure of weight, like you
- 46:40Speaker 1: lose a certain amount of weight when you die, and
- 46:44Speaker 1: they think that they contribute that to being your soul
- 46:46Speaker 1: in that right?
- 46:47Speaker 2: Am I get that right?
- 46:49Speaker 9: Oh? I don't know.
- 46:49Speaker 2: I've never heard that you should.
- 46:51Speaker 1: You're so mad about me working my way down the
- 46:55Speaker 1: color palette that now you can't even I'm saying, if
- 47:01Speaker 1: I was him, I wouldn't do it again. Yeah, I'm
- 47:05Speaker 1: he's no hell, no systems.
- 47:08Speaker 2: One more chain. He did, he did it. I'm telling
- 47:11Speaker 2: you you.
- 47:12Speaker 1: Might like to turn dirty, but there's something you should
- 47:14Speaker 1: never say. Jazz to give us five things you don't
- 47:16Speaker 1: want to hear during pillow talk by Nicka Samuel from
- 47:18Speaker 1: Madam No Water.
- 47:20Speaker 4: Number five. I want to see other people? Yeah, right now.
- 47:24Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, could you get to watch
- 47:26Speaker 2: rag for you? Number four of the top five things
- 47:31Speaker 2: you don't want to hear during pillow talk?
- 47:33Speaker 4: And I've had that.
- 47:34Speaker 2: This is cool. That is change pillows. Number three of
- 47:41Speaker 2: the top five things you don't want to hear during
- 47:43Speaker 2: pillow talk. I'll call you, okay, I can't number doing
- 47:51Speaker 2: the top five things you don't want to hear during
- 47:52Speaker 2: pillow talk. We need to talk.
- 47:56Speaker 9: We just did.
- 47:56Speaker 6: Yeah, we're talking about it's never going to be great.
- 48:00Speaker 6: And the number one of the top five things you
- 48:01Speaker 6: don't want to hear during pillow talk is I gotta.
- 48:03Speaker 2: Go oh yeah, yes, that was going to do it
- 48:09Speaker 2: for us. Lady and gentlemen, thank you sincerely for tuning in.
- 48:12Speaker 2: It is a d he will show you a twenty
- 48:14Speaker 2: twenty sixth edition.
- 48:15Speaker 1: So if you're going to be remember if you're going
- 48:17Speaker 1: to be a Liberty City Cincinnati or Kentucky area will
- 48:19Speaker 1: be there this Friday and Saturday to Friday to Saturday
- 48:23Speaker 1: to come check me ouf you take a notion.
- 48:25Speaker 2: We talked about this a couple of weeks back. Last week.
- 48:28Speaker 1: I think we're talking about how the draft is going
- 48:31Speaker 1: to be automatic for eighteenth to twenty six year old
- 48:33Speaker 1: males starting December sixteenth or seventeenth of.
- 48:37Speaker 4: Twenty twenty eighteenth six twenty sixth.
- 48:40Speaker 2: December eighteenth.
- 48:42Speaker 1: And I think, and I said this before, I think,
- 48:45Speaker 1: unlike the Vietnam Draft and all these other drafts we had,
- 48:47Speaker 1: when you know there's a war, people got a deferment.
- 48:50Speaker 1: I think the deferment should be public. The who got
- 48:54Speaker 1: it and what the reasons were should be public and online.
- 48:59Speaker 1: And I also, we have a bunch of rich people
- 49:01Speaker 1: who don't want to pay taxes or serve. I think
- 49:03Speaker 1: it's either or either you get a tax cut, but
- 49:06Speaker 1: if you get a tax cut, you can't get the
- 49:08Speaker 1: from it. You're gonna fight for this all this money
- 49:10Speaker 1: you make, just like everybody else. That's only fair that's
- 49:14Speaker 1: the only watching you watch it. My children die for yours.
- 49:18Speaker 2: Hell, no, you get all the breaks.
- 49:20Speaker 1: They don't pay tax They literally top five top corporations
- 49:25Speaker 1: in America don't pay taxes at all.
- 49:28Speaker 2: And they CEOs make a ton of money. Uh, you
- 49:31Speaker 2: can't have that.
- 49:31Speaker 1: If you're a wealthy dude and you you you you
- 49:34Speaker 1: benefit from our tax situation and you don't pay taxes,
- 49:38Speaker 1: your ass should have to go.
- 49:40Speaker 2: Baron one or the other. Baron, take your long legged
- 49:43Speaker 2: ass out there, long legged and get get to it,
- 49:48Speaker 2: and get to get you going, get you, get get
- 49:51Speaker 2: to it. Jason, Sandy, would you learn today?
- 49:54Speaker 4: You know, I want to say, very sad news.
- 49:56Speaker 6: We lost Kicky Shepherd lost all that show time at
- 50:00Speaker 6: the Apollo suffered a massive heart attack yesterday. So prayers
- 50:04Speaker 6: out to her family and all her friends obviously, and
- 50:08Speaker 6: yeah there's the news.
- 50:10Speaker 2: Thanks Jazz.
- 50:11Speaker 4: Yeah, you're welcome to bring down there you go, you
- 50:15Speaker 4: got it?
- 50:16Speaker 2: Uh, Tuni's hands the king. What'd you learn today?
- 50:18Speaker 7: Well, as we touched down early in the shows, of course,
- 50:21Speaker 7: to the happy st.
- 50:23Speaker 2: Patrick Ski you sounded like, yeah, you need.
- 50:29Speaker 7: Some black everyone knows you gotta be a we get
- 50:37Speaker 7: but happy Saint Patrick Ski.
- 50:40Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think I watched Leprakan and Need
- 50:43Speaker 2: Some Luck at You.
- 50:49Speaker 8: Over.
- 50:50Speaker 2: It was a great movie.
- 50:51Speaker 1: Oh, it's a great movie about the Irish mob called
- 50:53Speaker 1: State of Grace.
- 50:54Speaker 2: Did you ever see that? Great The State of Grace?
- 50:58Speaker 9: Yes. Great.
- 50:59Speaker 1: On the next day, we shure we're gonna be talking
- 51:01Speaker 1: to singer songwriter and my wife's number one Cruss Stokeally
- 51:04Speaker 1: we'll be giving to deserving someone to shoot who the
- 51:06Speaker 1: Week award. It is the deal here we show we
- 51:08Speaker 1: will definitely see you on the other side. Kyle, my
- 51:10Speaker 1: favorite show bus operator a pool let string.
- 51:13Speaker 2: We got to go. It's the deal, huge show see
- 51:16Speaker 2: you on the other side.