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- 0:02Here's your host, Alex Garrett. All Right, well, I feel like
- 0:07with spring right around the corner here on the Alex Garrett Podcast Network, you
- 0:11might be interested in a sport called disc golf. Now, this is a
- 0:15very unique kind of golf, and I'll have my next guest on. But
- 0:19what really appealed to me about Carter, Aaron's and his family is that Carter
- 0:24is a teenager that wants to do good for those with, if you will,
- 0:29dyslexia and other kind of disabilities that that might hold someone back. And
- 0:33Carter, thanks for joining me. First of all, yeah, thank you
- 0:37for having me. Well, Carter, to start off with, you know,
- 0:40dyslexia is very It's a big deal. Even the City of New York
- 0:44has combat at it in our schools. But how are you combating dyslexia through
- 0:48sports? I want to start there. Well, if it's okay if I
- 0:52speak a little bit to that sports is giving him kind of a pathway when
- 0:57school isn't really easy for him, and so sports is an outlet both for
- 1:03him to when he's during had school and school's going on, to kind of
- 1:07take a break from it, but also gives him a pathway to something that
- 1:11he can do once school's finished, especially at the high school level, and
- 1:15that is Chuck Aaron's the father of Carter. Now, Carter, I know
- 1:19that you've been also doing online schooling and you're combining both academics and athletics through
- 1:25online schooling. Talk about those benefits if you will. Yeah, well,
- 1:29with online learning, it's way easier to get all my school done since I
- 1:34can just like mold it around, like when I'm practicing and everything. So
- 1:38like if I'm doing like a tournament in the afternoon, I can first start
- 1:46by like doing some work in the morning, and if I don't get it
- 1:49all done, I can do it later in the day. And just like
- 1:53if I'm not having a tournament and just doing practicing, I can just practice
- 2:00whenever then just do schoolwork at another time. It's very cool you are actually
- 2:06going to compete. I believe I read twelve to different fifty twelve to fifteen
- 2:09different tournaments. So tell us the preparation that goes into each tournament and how
- 2:15how you do prepare for these kind of disco golf tournaments. Yeah, So
- 2:21for me, every tournament, I try to practice probably three hours a day
- 2:28now, and like in the morning, I try to practice like more of
- 2:34putting, so that's like throwing it into the basket from close range, since
- 2:39it's a little colder out than like once it gets hotter in the in the
- 2:45day, I go out to like a field and just work on like drives,
- 2:50so like longer shots and try to get it close to the basket.
- 2:54Well, I know that you are being supported by your family by way,
- 2:59and now tell us what wave it is. The Washington Virtual Academy tell us
- 3:01about their role in all of this making this possible for you. Yeah,
- 3:07their online thing is very nice because it's super flexible. I can do the
- 3:16work whenever and I don't have like certain times to do it. It's super
- 3:23flexible, and I have like only one or two Zoom meetings that I have
- 3:30to do. Then those other days I can just practice whenever then just do
- 3:38my school work in the other half of the day. Chuck, I want
- 3:43to ask you this. You know, homeschooling is becoming sort of a trend.
- 3:46But how did you know that homeschooling was the best route for Carter?
- 3:51And when did that start for him? Yeah, so it started last year
- 3:54and it got to the point where with him competing at such a high level,
- 3:59I mean copeting on the pro tour. He's the youngest player on the
- 4:02disc Golf pro Tour and competing literally all over the country. The school that
- 4:08he was at was supportive, but it was hard for teachers to get work
- 4:12to us, either ahead of time or during his competitions, so he wasn't
- 4:16able to keep up very well. So it meant he had to do a
- 4:18lot of work when he got back home to keep up. And now with
- 4:21the Washington Virtual Academy, it's great because it's a public school part of the
- 4:29Washington State school System, and so literally it allows him to do like you
- 4:33said, you know, be really flexible with the work. You know,
- 4:38it helps with us with travel because he's got really two different schedules that he
- 4:43works through. If he's at home and we're just we're at home based,
- 4:46he's literally doing work in the morning. He leaves for lunch and goes and
- 4:50practices, comes back and does some more work, and then if he needs
- 4:55so, he can do work at night. We happen to live in Seattle,
- 4:58so if it's ra he'll do his schoolwork and then once the sun comes
- 5:01out, he'll go. It's flexible enough that he'll go out and play and
- 5:05practice at that time. So it's really it varies through the day and then
- 5:10when we're on out at tournaments like we are now we're just leaving Florida.
- 5:15But he was able to spend, you know, a couple of nights doing
- 5:17homework, was doing homework this morning early, and during those times typically when
- 5:24he has a round in the afternoon, we're getting ready for it, and
- 5:28then by the end of the day he's able to do his work at night
- 5:30when it's dark out. I mean, that's a big thing for us,
- 5:32especially at this time of years, having him practice during the daylight and do
- 5:36his homework in the evenings when it's dark out. Carter and Chuck, this
- 5:40is a question for both of you. Actually, Carter, when did you
- 5:44know that disc golf was going to be your passion? And Chuck when did
- 5:47you know that Carter was going to be so into disc golf? Like,
- 5:50I want it from both perspectives here. Yeah, I'll first by saying,
- 5:55like how I got into it, and like when I knew it was what
- 6:00I wanted to do. I had a babysitter that brought me and my brother
- 6:05out every day for probably three summers straight, and me and my brother just
- 6:11fell in love with it just seeing like a frisbee fly and it just was
- 6:15super satisfying, and I just fell in love with it ever since. And
- 6:21for us, you know, he had a real passion for the sport,
- 6:26and that first tournament he ever played in he ended up winning. I had
- 6:30had a short time that I did a sport at a pretty high level,
- 6:33and I wanted to give him the same opportunity, both him and his brother.
- 6:38And last year we decided to hit the pro tour a little bit and
- 6:43see what would happen. And last year ended up taking a fifth place on
- 6:46the Pro Tour during one of the events, and then a fifteenth place on
- 6:49the tour in an elite event, which kind of just catapulted him on the
- 6:55disc Off Pro Tour. So he earned a tour card this year that he
- 6:59was granted and this year he's making a living. Basically, he makes a
- 7:03salary, makes a living doing disc golf. So for him, it was
- 7:06we got to find a way to allow him to have this career and finch
- 7:12up school at the same time. So this became like the best possible solution
- 7:15and the education's been fantastic. It almost seems like he gets more one on
- 7:20one with his online learning, and like he said, in the Flex program
- 7:26that he's in, he doesn't have to be in the actual certain times that
- 7:30classes are that they're like your typical online learning would be, there's a class,
- 7:32it's at two o'clock, you need to be watching at that time.
- 7:35With the Flex program, it makes it nice because he can actually watch those
- 7:40things later and are recorded. Carter, did you have any story actually in
- 7:45golf, you know, like the nine hole or eighteen hole kind of golf?
- 7:48And did Dad have an interest as well? Is that why you sort
- 7:51of adapted to disc golf as well. I did not play golf at the
- 7:58start, but then like now I'm started like gradually playing golf a little bit
- 8:05from disc golf actually, and now I think golf is like a really good
- 8:11thing. If I need to like have some time off from disc golf,
- 8:15and I'm like having any time. If I just have any time off,
- 8:20then I just go play golf or just do schoolwork. You know, it's
- 8:24an interesting question here about the healthy work life. We've kind of been covering
- 8:28that I want to know about the teammates because obviously disc golf is competitive.
- 8:35Do you have teammates along with you on the course? Result only you,
- 8:37right, it's kind of you just competing against the world here. Yeah,
- 8:43it's me and basically your cardmates that you have. So there's four people on
- 8:48a card and you just go through a round of eighteen holes. Then like
- 8:54after that round, then the next day if you place well, you're on
- 9:00a better card for the next day then just on and on. And I'm
- 9:03actually sponsored, so I've like sponsored teammates basically that we talk to and just
- 9:13hang out with. One of the most interesting things. And Dad, you
- 9:16can wait in here, and as well, Chuck Aaron's you're also passing it
- 9:20on to younger kids. You know that they are the younger than you with
- 9:26the with disc golf. Hey, Chuck, what does that mean to see
- 9:28your son become a teacher at this? And Carter, how does that help
- 9:33you up your game? And does the online schooling help you become a teacher
- 9:37also? Yeah, as far as you know watching it, it's fantastic.
- 9:41It's great that he can really share his passion with others. We do.
- 9:45We go to schools, we go to boys and girls clubs. So that
- 9:48he can teach. And what's really funn is he kind of becomes a celebrity.
- 9:52So we went to an elementary school and taught over four hundred kids disc
- 9:56golf and installed the disc golf course at the school. And it was pretty
- 10:00fun to see the kids wanting his autograph and all kinds of things because we
- 10:03showed some videos of what he does and who he is beforehand, and so,
- 10:07you know, that's fantastic, and he's he's in front of a camera
- 10:11a lot, he's doing interviews a lot, so he's learning some things that
- 10:13he might not even learn in school doing what he's doing currently, and so
- 10:18that's all, you know, really fantastic life lessons for the future. And
- 10:22so Carder, you can talk about that some more. Yeah, So like
- 10:26online learning really helps doing that too, just because if you're like on a
- 10:31trip somewhere and doing like a clinic or like helping other people and teaching other
- 10:41people the sport, you can because that has like a certain time that you
- 10:45have to do it, then you can just go and do that. Then
- 10:48the online school really helps because you can just do the online school at a
- 10:54later time, you know. When I talk and by the way, I
- 10:58have one leg, so I kind of have been around those with disabilities my
- 11:03whole life. So this whole dyslexia and my mom actually has dyslexi, So
- 11:07this whole story of how you're overcoming it is very interesting to me. But
- 11:11when we hear the words learning disabilities, I think of the word patient.
- 11:15So would you say Wava has sort of helped you grow patients with this dyslexia
- 11:20while you're overcoming it, and how have they been patient in this process as
- 11:24you do both of these different You know, you're athletically gifted and you're academically
- 11:30gifted. How does WAVA support you in both those as you're overcoming dyslexia.
- 11:35Yeah, it's really nice because in a classroom, you'll have like a certain
- 11:39time in every class and you might get rushed a little bit and not have
- 11:45enough time to finish it what you're doing in that class period. And with
- 11:48Wava, you can just you have basically unlimited time in your day to really
- 11:56get what you need to do done. So like you can just do your
- 11:58assignments very well with unlimited time. Yeah, the test you know, he
- 12:05used to has struggles with being able to take tests in school. Because he
- 12:07didn't have enough time to get through them, because with dyslexia takes them a
- 12:11little bit longer, and so this allows them, you know, that that
- 12:15time. And then it also is kind of nice because if he has questions,
- 12:18he can either ask his teachers, he can email his teachers, or
- 12:22gives them the ability to ask myself or my wife, you know, some
- 12:26questions to see if we can help him understand something a little bit better.
- 12:30And not only does he just have dyslexia, but he's got an executive function
- 12:35disorder where his executive function skills are really low, which makes it hard for
- 12:41him to kind of go through a typical directions on how to do things.
- 12:45He's more about the beginning and the end. And what we found through neuropsychology
- 12:50is that an interesting thing about that, And when you talk about adapting is
- 12:54his visual spatial skills are kind of off the charts, really really high compared
- 12:58to to most people, and the neuropsychologist skills. That's probably why disc golf
- 13:05is almost it's almost a super power for him in a way to have disc
- 13:09golf to do because of those skills. All right, well, what about
- 13:13those listening today that might be suffering from what they call learning disability and trying
- 13:18to overcome it, and they see you doing all this kick ass work and
- 13:24athleticism. What's your message to them today, Carter? Yeah, with like
- 13:30you can do anything with school, and if you need like extra time and
- 13:35like you need it to be flexible, you can just switch to online school.
- 13:41You don't always have to just stick to just ordinary public school. Dad,
- 13:48do you want to weigh in on that also, the whole public version
- 13:52schooling? Well? Yeah, absolutely, And I would say, you know,
- 13:54for those that are struggling, the biggest thing that we could do for
- 13:58Carter, you know, advocate for him. I mean that's so much of
- 14:01when we've talked to others that struggle with schooling, especially when it comes to
- 14:05you know, whatever the disability might be, but trying to have a parent
- 14:11or some a guardian or somebody advocate for the child is so important with that.
- 14:16And as far as if you have those things, I mean, there's
- 14:18find a passion, find what you're passionate about, and try to make it
- 14:22happen. You know, for us, it was trying to give the opportunities
- 14:26for Carter to get to tournaments and other people have other things that they're passionate
- 14:31about. So whether you know it's dance or football or baseball, he's had
- 14:35an individual that's kind of mentored him a little bit. And what he's always
- 14:39said is just show up, you know, for for Carter, show up
- 14:43at the tournaments. You might not do great at everyone, but keep showing
- 14:46up. So if it's dance, if it's something else, just always keep
- 14:48showing up and eventually that passion will turn into something bigger over time. And
- 14:54as far as you know, going from the public school to the online learning,
- 14:58which is still public school, but it's just it has the flexibility and
- 15:03for us, we've found how they're managing his learning disabilities have been better than
- 15:09in a typical school environment just because there's more it seems like there's more one
- 15:13on one time, you know, because you're actually able to set aside those
- 15:18times to help. And they've been really helpful in addressing his needs. And
- 15:24so that's been what's so important with the WAVA program. And if there's we've
- 15:28talked to a lot of athletes out there that are in his same situation.
- 15:31There's a small group of young kids that are doing the same thing and they're
- 15:35starting to switch to online schooling as well, because it has that flexibility,
- 15:39you're still doing the same learning. And I'd also say one of the things
- 15:43we found out during COVID is Carter really excelled on online learning where his brother
- 15:50didn't. You know, his brother's really much better about being in the classroom.
- 15:52So he's actually you know, at a public school where we live,
- 15:58and so they do it differently. Because this they both take to the type
- 16:00of learning differently. So this was the best version we could see for Carter,
- 16:04and he really took to it. All. Right, let's about the
- 16:07Washington Let's all about Waives social atmosphere, because obviously your homeschool, but are
- 16:12there times where you get to meet your classmates that you're literally in the same
- 16:18programs with Is there any opportunity for that. Yeah, Like homeroom is one
- 16:23of them where you can join. That's the one zoom meeting I have and
- 16:30there's all the students there and you can just meet all the students in your
- 16:36homeroom. And then they have a bunch of other programs outside of just their
- 16:41classes that they can do, all types of different clubs and things that you
- 16:44can be a part of at their school. As well. When you're at
- 16:48the disc golf tournaments, though, do you find yourself socializing while focusing on
- 16:52your game? Like, how has the socialization socialization been since it switched to
- 16:57homeschool. Yeah, with all my tournaments I have, you basically meet a
- 17:04whole group of people. And there's just so many people at every tournament,
- 17:10and all the fans come up to you, so you really get a bunch
- 17:14of social interaction with a lot of people. I think the million dollar question
- 17:21for me is because you know, I was around college athletics and all that,
- 17:23Hey, are you keeping an eye on whether disc golf will become like
- 17:27a sport in college or intramural? And is college and the plans for you
- 17:33Carter and then Chuck, you can to answer that too. Uh not for
- 17:37me. College is not for me. Basically, I just really don't really
- 17:45have a drive to do college. So and I'm already making a salary.
- 17:52So basically I just am gonna stick with disc golf after school and after I'm
- 17:59done with this, wava I can. I'm based, I'm on the pro
- 18:03tour right now. Then I can really hit it hard and travel everywhere and
- 18:08just like a graduation age or what is there a graduation that that comes with
- 18:14WAVA that that people should know about. Yeah, graduation is just like regular
- 18:18high school. So he'll end up going through next year. The one cool
- 18:22thing that Waba is allowing him to do is he's gonna end up taking a
- 18:26couple of classes this summer to lighten his load for next year, to make
- 18:30it even easier for him to be on the road and focus more on the
- 18:33disc golf, which is great. But I will say disc golf is now
- 18:37a college sport and there's scholarships being offered for it as well, and there's
- 18:41a big national disc golf tournament for a collegiate disc golf tournament that had I
- 18:47think this year, what six over six hundred players in it something like that.
- 18:52But yeah, it's a it's a big deal now and there's scholarships and
- 18:53actually Carter's brother is planning on he goes to college next year and will be
- 18:59on a collegiate disc golf team. All right, well, you're on the
- 19:02pro tour, you're what sixteen years old, I believe or seventeen, and
- 19:06you're the youngest, So what does that mean for both of you? When
- 19:08you read the headline Carter, Aaron's youngest pro you know on the tour that
- 19:14that's something that's got to be exciting and makes you proud both of you.
- 19:19Yeah, you're the youngest out of hundreds of people playing on the disc Golf
- 19:26Pro Tour. But then locally there's a bunch of young juniors also up and
- 19:32comers that are playing some of the pro Tour tournaments. Like I have someone
- 19:37from Seattle, he's seventeen and he was just at this Pro Tour event and
- 19:41we always play together. Knowing that you're the youth on the pro tour doesn't
- 19:49mean you're always going to be so you always basically need to practice and just
- 19:56practice and get really good so you can just do better on the pro Tour.
- 20:03Yeah, it's been kind of fun, is you know, once he
- 20:04started doing really well and people got to know him, the amount of autographs
- 20:08that he started signing, and you would think it was just kids, but
- 20:11it's a lot of adults looking to get his autographed for stuff. So it's
- 20:15been pretty fun to see that, and you know, it makes us his
- 20:18parents proud. You know that he's passionate about something and doing so well in
- 20:22it. But what's been cool is. Over his career, he's had a
- 20:26lot of firsts. So at twelve years old, he set the world record
- 20:29for distance at thirteen and under. Thirteen, he was the first player ever
- 20:33in history, the youngest player in history to reach a oneenty ten rating.
- 20:38You know, he is the first the youngest to ever get fifth on a
- 20:41tour event, those kind of things. So he's got a lot of really
- 20:45cool milestones that he set that are what's really nice is the people that are
- 20:49coming after him now are looking to break and we've got a player that we
- 20:53know that has actually broken a couple of his records as well. So that's
- 20:59really fun to see when people are doing that. All right, as a
- 21:02parent, obviously in the homeschooling world, how do you let Carter be a
- 21:07kid? Still? I mean, obviously he's doing all this stuff. How
- 21:08do you let him be a kid? I think listeners might want to know.
- 21:14Yeah, that's one of the interesting questions because he's competed at a very
- 21:18young age at a very high level. So it's one of the few sports
- 21:22maybe besides like a gymnastics where he's competing against true on adults. And so
- 21:27at twelve years old, he was playing at local as a local pro on
- 21:33against you know, adults, and so you know that's been you know,
- 21:37a super interesting piece of this is how do you grow up, you know,
- 21:41in the sport, and that he's constantly with adults and around adults,
- 21:45and for us, it was you almost started thinking about him more and more
- 21:48as an adult and we had to take a step back and be like,
- 21:52you know what, this guy's still a kid. And so if you look
- 21:55when he watches movies, they're kids movies, you know, and stuff like
- 21:57that. So it's kind of fun to have those when he actually is being
- 22:00a kid because he's just constantly in the adult world trying to compete against the
- 22:06dolls, trying to beat the best in the world. And he's got he's
- 22:08got competitors that make a million dollars a year that he's competing against and there
- 22:12dan good. So you know, for him, it's really trying hard to
- 22:18eventually one day get to that level. And he's showing, he's showing that
- 22:22he can do it. And so as he continues to grow and get better,
- 22:25it'scause it's just going to get better and better for that as well.
- 22:26Carter, what's the best what about you how do you feel do you feel
- 22:30like you're able to be a kid while going through all this? I got
- 22:33to ask, Yeah, I feel like I can. I can do basically
- 22:37anything I want as a kid, and I can just some of my friends
- 22:45also want to be able to be on the tour, so they we basically
- 22:52just practice all the time together and just like have fun conversations together. All
- 23:00I would say sports is a good way to say out of trouble. Wouldn't
- 23:02you both agree? Absolutely, it is a very good way. He spends
- 23:07more time on the disc golf course than really anywhere else, and then if
- 23:08he's at home, he's watching videos and things about either how he played or
- 23:14how others played that he wants to emulate. So absolutely, Now I don't
- 23:18know if you want angels, but what well, I'm curious to know the
- 23:21weather. Is there a typical kind of weather that they like to play this
- 23:25sporting because it is an outdoor sport, right, Yeah, Like though for
- 23:30me the best weather is like the best weather for me to have fun in
- 23:36is a nice sunny day, but for actually being from Seattle, Washington,
- 23:41it rains all the time there. So like if I'm in a pro tour,
- 23:45tournament. I would rather have it like rain so I can have an
- 23:51advantage on the field. Has has your hometown kind of considered you a prodigy?
- 23:57And what is that? How do you step take a step back from
- 24:00that and say, well, I'm only seventeen. I might be that,
- 24:03but I'm also you know, human? What tell us about that? Is
- 24:06there sort of labels on you now, Carter, that you're a big star
- 24:10in your hometown. Yeah, it's funny. Everywhere, Like I go around
- 24:15us, there's at least one or two people that know me at every single
- 24:18course, which is funny being just sixteen having adults come up to me and
- 24:25just want my autograph, and everybody that comes to tournaments locally just like knows
- 24:33me, And just it's cool being knowing that I'm just sixteen and everybody knows
- 24:40me. Chuck, I love that you have Carter available to talk because there's
- 24:45a good way to break in with the communication skills and what And I think
- 24:48you know as he gets older, he'll need that, right, the communication
- 24:51skills. Yeah, that's that's super important for in disc golf. Growing your
- 24:56brand is the term that we use all the time, and growing a big
- 25:00part of growing your brand is getting people to like you as a person,
- 25:06and so communication skills are a big part of that. And once he took
- 25:10fifth on the event last year, on the Pro Tour event, he was
- 25:14stuck in front of cameras, you know, instantly, like a couple of
- 25:15weeks after. So it's been fun to watch, I mean, for him
- 25:21in front of a camera and doing so well knowing some of the you know,
- 25:25the learning disabilities that he does have, but being able to talk disc
- 25:27golf and something he's passionate about and help get other people interested and interested in
- 25:33him, in who he is and his personal brand are all important things for
- 25:37making this a career. Guys, I'm seeing him throw the first pitch out
- 25:40of the Seattle Mariner game this year. What do you guys think he might
- 25:45be throwing this out of it? That's for sure. He's thrown at the
- 25:48Rainier Stadium. He's thrown this out of the field in front of people,
- 25:52So that is so cool. Well as a human on the human side,
- 25:56then, Carter, is there any favorite sports that you like that that maybe
- 26:00when you're not doing disc golf that you're you're following intensely. Yeah, when
- 26:06I'm not doing disc golf. I love watching football. I think it's a
- 26:10really fun thing to watch, and basically playing golf whenever I can when I'm
- 26:18not on the disc golf course. Now, did you both grow up Seattle
- 26:21fans? I'm guessing right, the Mariners, Seahawks, and even super Sonics
- 26:25back in the day. Chuck, Yeah, I moved there about twenty five
- 26:27years ago, so it's a little bit after the SuperSonics or I guess shortly
- 26:33after they went away. But for us, yeah, definitely Seahawks and Mariners
- 26:40fans. Well, this is this has been very cool and it's so exciting
- 26:44to get to talk to you guys. What's the toughest question do you face?
- 26:48You faced Carter in your press tour if you will, Uh, I
- 26:56don't really know. That is a few of them. I think a lot
- 27:03of times people are asking, you know, what's the key to being sixteen
- 27:06and being able to throw how he does? And sometimes it's hard to put
- 27:08that into words. He just kind of goes out and does it. Now,
- 27:14Chuck, how do you how do you coach your son? I mean,
- 27:17do you feel like you're coaching him on and off the field and in
- 27:19and out of the classroom? Right, So how are you able to coach
- 27:22him? And does it take a little patience for you as well, you
- 27:26know, working with Carter on these different projects and whatnot. Yeah, I
- 27:30mean a little bit patience is definitely important, especially for you know, I
- 27:34can't coach him much on the disc golf course because I don't play myself.
- 27:38But what I'm able to do is watch and so I can pick up on
- 27:42things that are working and things that aren't working that he doesn't maybe know is
- 27:47happening. So I'm able to do that. But disc golf is so mental.
- 27:51The mental side of it is a big piece of it. So when
- 27:53you can start to overcome, you know, things like getting angry when things
- 27:57aren't going your way and just being patient that year round will eventually come to
- 28:02you. Your disc golf game will come back to you and just throw what
- 28:04you know, those are the important things and that's what we try to coach
- 28:08on. You know. I gotta say this, Parenting in sports has kind
- 28:14of become controversial because everybody's so riled up at these little league games and whatnot.
- 28:18So I feel like you're you're bringing a new face to the parenting in
- 28:22sports world. Chuck so that's good because we gotta we gotta say that parents
- 28:26are vital in their kid sports, right. Oh, absolutely, we just
- 28:29need to sometimes stay out of the way. And you know, so for
- 28:32us, it's just hey, do you know that this is happening? What
- 28:33do you think of this? A lot of what we do is just ask
- 28:37questions, you know about his game, whether it's currently or what's happening.
- 28:40Hey, do you think that's the right disc do you what about this?
- 28:45But for him, you know, we're letting him make a lot of those
- 28:47decisions with just some reminders or some some questions and not trying to tell him
- 28:52what to do because he knows better than anyone. Uh is wava great for
- 28:56both of you in the terms of trying to and in terms of homeschooling,
- 29:02because I feel like homeschooling another thing in the news getting a bad rap.
- 29:04But here, you guys are success stories. So as weave a sort of
- 29:07changing the game for homeschooling, i'd like both of your insert on that.
- 29:12Absolutely. I think you know, we've been talking to a lot of people
- 29:15about the program, and so different folks in different sports are starting to explore
- 29:19it, especially since the school district that we were in got rid of their
- 29:25online schooling program WAB, but became one of our few choices and we're so
- 29:29glad that we went with him. You know, not only from the public
- 29:32school aspect, but the platform and the people. I mean, the teachers
- 29:36are phenomenal. That teach you know, the people are great. So they've
- 29:40the teachers, counselors, the people that are directors of the program have all
- 29:44been fantastic and nothing but great and what we have been able to do and
- 29:48allowing Carter to do this, Carter, any thoughts to add to that,
- 29:56Yeah, I would just say everything. Everybody is so nice in that online
- 30:00schooling and just having it being so flexible and just everything about it is just
- 30:08super easy to do. If you're an athlete and you don't have that flexible
- 30:15of a schedule. When I hear that you're salaried, I'm sure every seventeen
- 30:18year old wants to be a salaried athlete on a pro tour. But that
- 30:23takes work, doesn't it. Yeah, Like I started when I was six,
- 30:29and I've probably spent at least thirty hours a week I think every year.
- 30:42Wow, that's that's amazing, Chuck, that that and you guys in
- 30:47the pitch. You guys are so dedicated to him. When did you when
- 30:52did you latch on and say, you know what, Carter, we're gonna
- 30:53we're gonna do this. What was that six? Was it earlier? Was
- 30:56it about twelve? Like, when did you guys say, all right,
- 31:00invested this with you? Yeah, when he was nine, he ended up
- 31:03going to Junior Worlds and consecutively took something like a third place and a second
- 31:10place, and so we knew really early on that, you know, there
- 31:12was something special there. But as we started to put him against you know,
- 31:17adults, he was winning a lot. And once he started winning some
- 31:21of the bigger events, we we said, hey, let's just try the
- 31:23pro tour. And everything we've done for him has been playing against people that
- 31:29are better than him, which has made him. That was the right way
- 31:33to do it, you know. We always questioned, hey, should we
- 31:34move him up to the next level this early, and then six months later
- 31:38he would win at that level and so we were knew we were doing things
- 31:42right because he's learning from players that are better than him and you know adults
- 31:45and what they do. So, uh, that's been a big, you
- 31:48know, big part of it in doing it, and so that's kind of
- 31:51how we knew that, Hey, he kept winning and winning. We went
- 31:52to the pro first couple of Pro Tour events, did well, and literally
- 31:56the first you know year that he's in the first six months of being on
- 32:00last year's Pro Tour, he takes a fifth and a fifteenth, and we
- 32:06knew things were really ready to blow up from there. Do either of you
- 32:09see a day where Carter might actually, you know, go to tournaments on
- 32:14his own, like when he's a little older. Do you see that happening
- 32:16or will you guys stay by his side or will there be some independence if
- 32:21you will, he'll be able to travel on his own. What are your
- 32:22thoughts on that? Is there an expectation on that? Yeah? So for
- 32:28me right now, I'm sixteen, I could easily get my driver's license then
- 32:31travel to other tournaments and stuff, but I've actually chosen not to do Driver's
- 32:38ED and do all that stuff just to have that extra practice. Then when
- 32:44I turn eighteen, I can just take a test and get my driver's license
- 32:49without doing all that all those classes, and then like after that I could
- 32:55possibly go to like local tournaments in even further and Chuck, is it a
- 33:04daunting thought that he might travel on his own day or are you encouraging that
- 33:07along the way here? Yeah, it'll be. On one hand, it's
- 33:10going to be a sad, you know point, just because it's so fun
- 33:14to watch him. But yeah, he's going to need that independence. And
- 33:16you know, the one really cool thing is he's got some friends that are
- 33:21kind of following in his footsteps, and they've all already kind of made plans
- 33:25that they want to be together on tour. So who knows, they might
- 33:29have a big RV and four dudes just rolling around at seventeen, eighteen,
- 33:34nineteen years old, I'm going to play in these tournaments. So but that's
- 33:37I'm sure that's coming before we know it. And I'm sure, because you've
- 33:39been there in the teenage years, you want him to have that experience,
- 33:43don't you. Yeah? Absolutely, Well this has been great. One last
- 33:46thing because I got to say, you're sixteen year you're on the tour,
- 33:50you got fa do you have any fangirls? I gotta ask if you got
- 33:52girls on the tour. I'm being after you. I gotta ask that,
- 33:57Uh not really, it's all it's basically just guys that coming up to me.
- 34:06Yeah, as fans, Yeah, that are asking for autographs and stuff.
- 34:08There's not a lot of you know, there's not a ton of women
- 34:12in disc golf. We it's growing and growing more and more, so we
- 34:15definitely welcome that. Very cool. Well, thank you both for this,
- 34:20and I would definitely would love to have you back on as as you go
- 34:23through a few of these tours, come back on and tell us how he
- 34:25did. Yeah, that'd be cool. What a great story of Carter and
- 34:34Chuck Aaron's and I just told him as they were hanging up for Carter,
- 34:37always cherish his parents. You know, my dad at three years old and
- 34:43on a walk around one leg, said you're gonna run, and he put
- 34:45me in the pewe races when I was just three years old. So I
- 34:49felt a sort of symbiosis between what Carter's going through and how his family's supporting
- 34:53him and through my journey as well. And so there you have it.
- 34:58Always cherish your parents. They're gonna be by your side even when you empty
- 35:02the nest. And I've learned that over the last few months moving in with
- 35:06Gabby in Port Washington, that my mom and my stepdad Vic always there for
- 35:10me as they always have been for the last twenty five plus years, and
- 35:15mom thirty plus years on the Alex Garrett Podcast Network