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- 0:00Speaker 1: On the Dog Cast, the questions asked if movies have
- 0:04Speaker 1: women and um are all their discussions just boyfriends and
- 0:07Speaker 1: husbands or do they have individualism? The patriarchy Zef and
- 0:12Speaker 1: Best start changing it with the beck Del cast. Caitlin,
- 0:18Speaker 1: I just wish that Jamie got her miracle? Are you
- 0:24Speaker 1: talking about you, Jamie? I'm talking about or I'm talking
- 0:27Speaker 1: about Jamie Sullivan, Jamie, you know, the one with the
- 0:31Speaker 1: brown hair. Okay, so you. I hope that she got
- 0:35Speaker 1: her miracle. I hope that Jamie got her miracle too,
- 0:39Speaker 1: and I'm talking about you specifically. Well she did, it's you.
- 0:44Speaker 1: I'm your miracle. Oh my god. I this I liked, Okay,
- 0:53Speaker 1: of all that, there's so many corny moments in A
- 0:55Speaker 1: Walk to Remember, which is today's episode, and we'll get
- 0:57Speaker 1: to what this show is in a second. But I
- 1:00Speaker 1: really some of the like flourish of bad writing, where
- 1:03Speaker 1: there's like moments in this movie where the line is like, Okay,
- 1:07Speaker 1: that's like corny, but it's not bad. But then they'll
- 1:10Speaker 1: add more to the line and it gets worse, like
- 1:12Speaker 1: they could the priest should have just said she did,
- 1:16Speaker 1: but then he said she did dot dot dot and
- 1:19Speaker 1: like assuming. People in the audience were like, what does
- 1:21Speaker 1: he mean by that? Because it was you? And and
- 1:25Speaker 1: then Shane west cost Oh it was me. It was me, Okay, me,
- 1:32Speaker 1: And that's why I'm never going to stop going to church.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Welcome to the Bachtel cast a k A church. Uh,
- 1:41Speaker 1: my name's Jamie Church Church. Oh God, just for for
- 1:48Speaker 1: one week only. Welcome to the Bechtel Church. My name
- 1:52Speaker 1: is Jamie Loftus. My name is Caitlin Darante. And this
- 1:56Speaker 1: is our little podcast where we we talked about your
- 2:00Speaker 1: favorite at least favorite and also other movies using an
- 2:03Speaker 1: intersectional feminist lens, and we use the Bechtel test as
- 2:10Speaker 1: a jumping off point. It initiates a larger conversation that
- 2:15Speaker 1: will have and the Bechdel Test, of course, is a
- 2:20Speaker 1: media metric created by queer cartoonist Alison Bechtel, sometimes called
- 2:26Speaker 1: the Bechtel Wallace Test. Our variation on the test requires
- 2:32Speaker 1: that two people of any marginalized gender have names speak
- 2:38Speaker 1: to each other about something other than a man. For
- 2:42Speaker 1: ideally it's a meaningful, narratively relevant conversation yea which which
- 2:49Speaker 1: does come into play with this movie in particular, where
- 2:55Speaker 1: not to blow it. But there are women do speak
- 2:58Speaker 1: to each other in this movie, but it's never very important.
- 3:02Speaker 1: It's not very important when they're talking, unless I mean
- 3:05Speaker 1: they're bullying Mandy Moore. The women are talking to each other,
- 3:09Speaker 1: they're like, Mandy Moore sucks, and then other girls like,
- 3:13Speaker 1: I know, I hate her sweater, and you're like, I
- 3:16Speaker 1: guess that's sort of Narratively, it's relevant. I suppose it is.
- 3:19Speaker 1: It's relevant because but also for some reason, bullying doesn't
- 3:23Speaker 1: affect Jamie, because Jamie's are famously impervious to bully. I
- 3:29Speaker 1: know this from experience, having constantly tried to bully you,
- 3:33Speaker 1: and it never works. I always just go I do
- 3:36Speaker 1: with Mandy Mordez, I guess I go, they're so mature,
- 3:40Speaker 1: they need God. That's what I do whenever someone tries
- 3:42Speaker 1: to bully me. I said, you should come to my
- 3:44Speaker 1: dad's church sometime. Yeah. Well, we're doing a walk to
- 3:48Speaker 1: remember today and we have an incredible guest. That's right.
- 3:52Speaker 1: She is a comedy producer. You can see her stuff
- 3:54Speaker 1: at Naked Comedy dot org. It's Sam Farella. Welcome, Welcome,
- 4:01Speaker 1: Welcome to me. I don't want to spoil anything either,
- 4:06Speaker 1: but I do have to say, I think I think
- 4:09Speaker 1: there was one instance of the bully, of the of
- 4:12Speaker 1: Jamie being cracked by the bullying, which might also be
- 4:16Speaker 1: something relative to the name of this podcast. That's true.
- 4:19Speaker 1: That is true there because Belinda, I believe this movie.
- 4:24Speaker 1: This movie is so like it's just like bizarre in
- 4:27Speaker 1: so many ways where I it's the book takes place
- 4:31Speaker 1: in the nineteen fifties. The movie takes place allegedly in
- 4:34Speaker 1: the nineteen nineties, but it seems like it's still Everyone
- 4:38Speaker 1: still looks like it's the nineteen fifties. Everyone's still dressed
- 4:42Speaker 1: like Greaser's but they have Missy Elliott c ds. It
- 4:46Speaker 1: was really bizarre, But yeah, there was. There was a
- 4:50Speaker 1: Becktel test pass where Belinda says want a tik tak
- 4:53Speaker 1: and Jamie says, no, thanks. There it is right there.
- 4:59Speaker 1: It is it. If you argue that's not impactful, I
- 5:02Speaker 1: have an whole essay high completely. This is one of
- 5:07Speaker 1: those movies that I just simply forgot to pay attention
- 5:09Speaker 1: to whether or not it passes the Bechdel test. But
- 5:12Speaker 1: I do remember that exchange, and it's it's crucial to
- 5:17Speaker 1: understanding the film. Right before some very two thousand and
- 5:21Speaker 1: two photoshop bullying, which is one which is one of
- 5:26Speaker 1: the main which I think is one of again one
- 5:28Speaker 1: of the only things that firmly roots that movie in
- 5:33Speaker 1: the late nineties, because I swear to God, like I
- 5:35Speaker 1: think most of the movie could convincingly take place in
- 5:38Speaker 1: any year in the second half, any decade of the
- 5:40Speaker 1: twentieth century, except they have photoshop, and they have switch
- 5:45Speaker 1: Foot and they have like that's about it, right, Oh
- 5:53Speaker 1: my gosh, Well I this movie. I'm gonna this is
- 5:57Speaker 1: gonna be a challenge. Uh Sam, what is your history
- 6:01Speaker 1: with a walk to remember? Well, I have a very
- 6:06Speaker 1: particular history. That is that I this movie I think
- 6:11Speaker 1: was one of my first boyfriend's favorite movies. I think
- 6:15Speaker 1: he was the one that brought it to me, brought
- 6:16Speaker 1: it to the table, and you know, in high school
- 6:21Speaker 1: seduction classic move I of course memorized only hope and
- 6:26Speaker 1: saying it I think a few times, you know, to
- 6:30Speaker 1: get in the mood. It's very complicated. I have a
- 6:37Speaker 1: complicated romantic past. But um, definitely on the rewatch, you know,
- 6:43Speaker 1: toxic Romance definitely made a lot more sense to my
- 6:47Speaker 1: personal connection to this movie. So you would sing, wait,
- 6:52Speaker 1: how does the song go and my hands and pray
- 7:04Speaker 1: to be only yours. I pray to be only yours. No, no,
- 7:12Speaker 1: you're oh, oh my god beautiful. If I ever had
- 7:21Speaker 1: an SNL audition, it would be that one song, because
- 7:24Speaker 1: I rememorized it that like, I've taken singing lessons since
- 7:28Speaker 1: and tried to learn to sing that song, and they're
- 7:31Speaker 1: like pointing out the issues. I'm like, but that's how
- 7:33Speaker 1: Mandy Moore sings it. That's how I know how to
- 7:35Speaker 1: sing it. That is the beauty of Mandy Moore in
- 7:39Speaker 1: many ways, where she was a pop star who was
- 7:42Speaker 1: not necessarily a great singer, but she was like a
- 7:45Speaker 1: solid high school sopranos, so her songs are like not
- 7:48Speaker 1: hard to sing if you were in choir, Like anyone
- 7:53Speaker 1: in choire can sing Mandy Moore's entire discography no problem.
- 7:58Speaker 1: Though I didn't know till this one, and my you know,
- 8:01Speaker 1: subsequential obsession of googling a bunch of stuff. I didn't
- 8:05Speaker 1: know that. I didn't know the Switchfoot story, and I
- 8:07Speaker 1: didn't know this was originally a switch Foot song, which
- 8:10Speaker 1: really blew my mind. It sounds weird. If you wait, yeah,
- 8:14Speaker 1: you would guess it's the other way around. They're covering her,
- 8:17Speaker 1: but no, no, she's covering them. Who is switch Foot?
- 8:22Speaker 1: What is that? Are they of? Like for real Christian
- 8:26Speaker 1: band or they This was one of my googles. So
- 8:30Speaker 1: they have come out as they are Christian and Faith
- 8:33Speaker 1: not in format. They are not. They do not consider
- 8:36Speaker 1: themselves Christian music. But it's highly debated online. But Faith
- 8:41Speaker 1: not in format. Wow, that's good dodgy language. I like that.
- 8:46Speaker 1: But I guess Mandy Moore was obsessed with them and
- 8:50Speaker 1: turned the music supervisor of this production onto them, and
- 8:55Speaker 1: they were like, we gotta have switch Foot. This is
- 8:58Speaker 1: the sound of the movie. So there's four or five
- 9:01Speaker 1: songs from Switchfoot on the soundtrack, which in an interview
- 9:05Speaker 1: so that I watched again, I went real deep. Shane
- 9:08Speaker 1: West said it might have gone platinum the album for this.
- 9:10Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true. I couldn't um, but yeah,
- 9:15Speaker 1: so I guess Only Hope was a song that they
- 9:17Speaker 1: had written even before the movie. This was just a
- 9:20Speaker 1: song of theirs and they were like, that's her song
- 9:23Speaker 1: for the movie. So at least if you hear a
- 9:27Speaker 1: man singing it, it does read more Christian than in
- 9:31Speaker 1: this movie where It is like some sort of sexual
- 9:34Speaker 1: power play song. Also, the song gets performed in its
- 9:40Speaker 1: entirety in the movie during a high school production of
- 9:45Speaker 1: like twenties Mobster. What is that play about? What's going
- 9:50Speaker 1: on in that play? Why would you sing that at
- 9:52Speaker 1: a nightclub? Right? I went back to like rewatch the
- 9:57Speaker 1: set uppre scene, and I still can't make answer tells
- 10:00Speaker 1: of what sets up that song or why this mobster
- 10:03Speaker 1: would be her only hope. I he was trying to
- 10:06Speaker 1: remember a dream and then he got shocked by her
- 10:10Speaker 1: body and then he just was like the song you
- 10:12Speaker 1: messing for me? Yeah? Blew, my mind doesn't make any sense.
- 10:19Speaker 1: I don't know what the play is about. There's a
- 10:21Speaker 1: really long montage also where they're rehearsing for the play
- 10:25Speaker 1: that's like edited in a way where you're like, what
- 10:30Speaker 1: on earth am I watching? So? Yeah, the play is confusing. Okay,
- 10:36Speaker 1: So Sam, you have a you have a maybe a
- 10:38Speaker 1: torrid history with this film, Jamie, what's your relationship in
- 10:44Speaker 1: history with it? Um? It's not quite that level, but
- 10:48Speaker 1: it's pretty intense where this I I loved this movie
- 10:53Speaker 1: when I was a kid. I don't think I saw
- 10:55Speaker 1: it in theaters, but there. I remember my cousin telling me,
- 11:01Speaker 1: which is in retrospect, it was like, this was not nice.
- 11:04Speaker 1: She was like, she's like, Mandy Moore is in a
- 11:06Speaker 1: movie and she has your name, and she has the
- 11:09Speaker 1: same color hair as you. You have to see it.
- 11:11Speaker 1: What she did not say is that she dies there,
- 11:14Speaker 1: so so she and so I guess if you haven't
- 11:17Speaker 1: seen A Walk to remember, Mandy Moore famously dies in
- 11:20Speaker 1: the movie. But I but I remember like going to
- 11:23Speaker 1: the movie not being like whenever like nine, not realizing
- 11:27Speaker 1: that Mandy Moore was doomed, and being like, oh my god,
- 11:31Speaker 1: this is so me. I'm not like the other girls.
- 11:34Speaker 1: My name is Jamie, I have brown hair. And then
- 11:37Speaker 1: in the like when it becomes clear that she's doomed,
- 11:40Speaker 1: I was like, this sucks. No one's ever no one's
- 11:43Speaker 1: And then I've really turned on the movie hard. I
- 11:46Speaker 1: was like, why would you have why would this be
- 11:48Speaker 1: the only movie character named after me? And then she
- 11:50Speaker 1: dies that said, I really I've seen this movie. I
- 11:56Speaker 1: haven't seen it in easily ten years, but I saw
- 11:58Speaker 1: it a lot when I was younger. It's like, oh,
- 12:03Speaker 1: I I really I feel like this movie. I was like,
- 12:06Speaker 1: not raised particularly religious at all, Like we went to church,
- 12:12Speaker 1: but it just felt like, I don't know, it was
- 12:14Speaker 1: I didn't grow up especially religious, and once I was
- 12:17Speaker 1: like twelve, we just were like, well, I feel like
- 12:20Speaker 1: we've done the whole religion thing and we left. But
- 12:24Speaker 1: this was as close to being religious as I ever got.
- 12:30Speaker 1: Was being like A Walk to Remember is a really
- 12:33Speaker 1: powerful story, you know, like it I really loved. I
- 12:36Speaker 1: had a huge crush on Mandy Moore and Shane West
- 12:40Speaker 1: and I just I really and oh oh. The other
- 12:44Speaker 1: thing about this movie was that when I was little,
- 12:47Speaker 1: I had like a one of those pull out of
- 12:50Speaker 1: a magazine posters of Mandy Moore, and I forgot I
- 12:54Speaker 1: feel like I might have brought this up on the
- 12:55Speaker 1: show years ago, but I had this poster of Mandy
- 12:58Speaker 1: Moore hanging in my room and I thought that she
- 13:01Speaker 1: could see me and watch me, and I was so
- 13:03Speaker 1: scared of the poster. So this would be in that
- 13:07Speaker 1: time too, where I was like I was, I loved
- 13:11Speaker 1: Mandy Moore and I wanted her on my wall, but
- 13:14Speaker 1: I also was really scared of her because I thought
- 13:15Speaker 1: she knew what I what I was doing amazing, And
- 13:18Speaker 1: so eventually my mom took the poster down and I
- 13:22Speaker 1: got mad, but she was just like, let's end this,
- 13:25Speaker 1: Mandy Moore can't see you. It was it must have
- 13:28Speaker 1: been one of those like bizarre pictures where it just
- 13:31Speaker 1: like it. I felt like the eyes were following me.
- 13:33Speaker 1: That was the thing. It was like a Mona Lisa
- 13:36Speaker 1: kind of thing. Um, so maybe Moore is my Mona Lisa.
- 13:41Speaker 1: That's my history with the movie, Caitlin, with your history
- 13:45Speaker 1: with a walk to remember, I don't have an extensive one.
- 13:49Speaker 1: This movie came out when I was a sophomore or
- 13:53Speaker 1: junior in high school sometime around then, so I was
- 13:56Speaker 1: like peak demographic for this movie. But this was also
- 14:01Speaker 1: when I was very firmly like I don't like girl things,
- 14:07Speaker 1: no things. So this movie came out and it was
- 14:10Speaker 1: a huge hit among my friends, and I saw it
- 14:14Speaker 1: because of that. Probably it's like a sleepover or just
- 14:19Speaker 1: I don't know. We're hanging out and we watched it
- 14:21Speaker 1: and I was like, this movie is not for me.
- 14:25Speaker 1: And that was really the only time I saw it.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Part of Stone, I am my truly. My heart is
- 14:34Speaker 1: a lump of coal in my chest, and I have
- 14:37Speaker 1: no feelings. I'm sure I was like moved by it,
- 14:41Speaker 1: but I don't know this. That's my history with it
- 14:47Speaker 1: that I was like, Okay, this movie exists, I'll watch
- 14:50Speaker 1: it once in two thousand two and then never again.
- 14:54Speaker 1: So but watching it back was interesting, and I will
- 14:59Speaker 1: say that it is while it's still has its issues,
- 15:04Speaker 1: it's less full of issues than I thought it would
- 15:07Speaker 1: be for a teen movie that comes out in two
- 15:09Speaker 1: thousand two, I would agree with that. Yeah, it had
- 15:12Speaker 1: it held up better than I was expecting, which isn't
- 15:14Speaker 1: to say that it super holds up, but it for
- 15:17Speaker 1: what it was. Where I like Christian E teen movie
- 15:20Speaker 1: Nicholas Sparks early two thousand's, you would think that it
- 15:24Speaker 1: would be much worse than it actually did. I think
- 15:27Speaker 1: this is my favorite of the Nicholas Sparks adaptations I've seen.
- 15:31Speaker 1: This remains my favorite one. I um took it upon
- 15:36Speaker 1: myself to just here's what I'll suggests the listeners do
- 15:40Speaker 1: google Nicholas Sparks movies, and I think like eleven different
- 15:47Speaker 1: things come up because he's had many adaptations of his
- 15:50Speaker 1: novels into movies, and all of the posters will just
- 15:54Speaker 1: like be right there in front of you all side
- 15:56Speaker 1: by side every poster is identical. Wait, this is funny.
- 16:02Speaker 1: You can also google the Nicholas Sparks collection that just
- 16:05Speaker 1: has all four has like four matching posters as its cover.
- 16:11Speaker 1: Two straight white people with their heads really close together. Yes,
- 16:15Speaker 1: either facing away from each other or facing towards each other.
- 16:18Speaker 1: Like some of them they're like face to face. Other
- 16:20Speaker 1: ones like the man is behind the woman. They're all
- 16:24Speaker 1: in some kind of like warm pink or yellow. A
- 16:28Speaker 1: lot of heads are being grabbed to a lot of
- 16:31Speaker 1: grabbing of heads. Richard Gear is grabbing Diane Lane's head
- 16:35Speaker 1: for Knights of Road, Danty. He's like like a real vice.
- 16:39Speaker 1: Same thing with safe Haven, which is I think Josh Dumel,
- 16:43Speaker 1: And then I don't know who the lady, who the
- 16:46Speaker 1: woman is in it. I don't know what half of
- 16:48Speaker 1: these are. Yeah, I don't know safe Haven. I don't
- 16:50Speaker 1: know the best of Me. I don't know the Lucky One.
- 16:53Speaker 1: I don't know the longest ride these there's so many.
- 16:57Speaker 1: I've seen the Lucky One because I will watch to
- 17:00Speaker 1: anything that zac Efron is in. Do you guys know
- 17:02Speaker 1: if the other Nicholas Sparks movies are as religious? I
- 17:06Speaker 1: couldn't get a clear answer on the Internet. I think
- 17:09Speaker 1: it's not really because I've I've seen probably half of
- 17:13Speaker 1: these and the only one I've seen multiple times is
- 17:16Speaker 1: The Notebook and now A Walk to Remember. But of
- 17:19Speaker 1: the other ones, I think they're not. The religious over
- 17:22Speaker 1: or undertones are not quite there the way they are
- 17:26Speaker 1: in the Walk to Remember, at least for the ones
- 17:28Speaker 1: I've seen. I kind of wonder where that comes from,
- 17:31Speaker 1: like because I don't I might have read the book
- 17:35Speaker 1: when I was in like junior high or something. I
- 17:37Speaker 1: don't remember anything about it. I know a lot was changed,
- 17:39Speaker 1: but I wonder if like the book is as like
- 17:42Speaker 1: bonking you with the like have faith in people message,
- 17:46Speaker 1: because I know that she was religious the person that's
- 17:49Speaker 1: based off of, and she did have a Bible she
- 17:52Speaker 1: gave away kind of thing. But I tried all the Googles.
- 17:56Speaker 1: I couldn't find anything to be like, why is this
- 17:58Speaker 1: movie so not just religio just but like like it's
- 18:01Speaker 1: hammering you with the moral elements of religion. I was like,
- 18:04Speaker 1: who paid for this? Like what's happening? Well? I did
- 18:09Speaker 1: a like google of Nicholas Sparks and his life to
- 18:13Speaker 1: see if there's been anything of note, and it seems
- 18:17Speaker 1: like he personally is quite religious and founded a Christian
- 18:21Speaker 1: school which tried to form an l g B t
- 18:25Speaker 1: Q club, which he then tried to ban, know what, Yeah,
- 18:31Speaker 1: and then students were protesting that, and then he banned
- 18:35Speaker 1: the protests of it, so like he can't ban protests.
- 18:39Speaker 1: What did you see his quote about it? Yeah? Oh
- 18:44Speaker 1: my god. And then sometime later he backtracked on all
- 18:47Speaker 1: this and he's like, no, wait, I'm an ally, and
- 18:50Speaker 1: the reason that my school has no diversity in it
- 18:53Speaker 1: doesn't have anything to do with the school. It's these
- 18:57Speaker 1: other flimsy reasons. So he like saying all this problematic
- 19:01Speaker 1: stuff in like I don't know or something, and then
- 19:04Speaker 1: he's walked it all back and been like no, no, no,
- 19:08Speaker 1: I'm actually an ally. Please let me still have a career. Like,
- 19:12Speaker 1: but did you see the quote where he was like,
- 19:15Speaker 1: we don't need this. He was the reason he said
- 19:17Speaker 1: the reason he banned those organizations was because essentially it
- 19:20Speaker 1: was we don't need these out and open these kind
- 19:23Speaker 1: of clubs like they have always been gays in Catholicism.
- 19:26Speaker 1: They just handled it more delicately and like that was
- 19:30Speaker 1: his stance on it was like, stay in the closet
- 19:33Speaker 1: and we'll all get along. Yikes, that's such horseshit, especially
- 19:38Speaker 1: because it's like this, this movie is directed by an
- 19:41Speaker 1: openly gay man who was openly gay at the time
- 19:44Speaker 1: the movie was directed. I believe, like it's like, yeah, god,
- 19:48Speaker 1: that's so. I mean, I guess I'm not surprised that
- 19:50Speaker 1: Nicholas Sparks fucking sucks, but I did not know that
- 19:55Speaker 1: portion of his life. That's horrible. Yeah, his his history
- 20:00Speaker 1: isn't great, but now he's an ally so everything's fine.
- 20:05Speaker 1: All's well, that ends Well, we just need a movie
- 20:09Speaker 1: poster of like the same sex couple holding their heads. Yeah,
- 20:13Speaker 1: we need we need someone grabbing someone else's head. Um,
- 20:17Speaker 1: but it's a queer movie this time. That'll fix everything.
- 20:21Speaker 1: That one everything, You know what would really fix everything?
- 20:25Speaker 1: If we gave Nicholas Sparked more money. I think that
- 20:28Speaker 1: would fix everything. Oh my gosh. Absolutely. Why don't we
- 20:31Speaker 1: take a quick break and then come back and do
- 20:34Speaker 1: the recap and we're back. Okay, all right, so let's
- 20:44Speaker 1: shall we shall we get into it. Let's get into it.
- 20:47Speaker 1: So we meet Landon Carter. That's Shane West. He's with
- 20:53Speaker 1: his friends, who are these popular kids who are mean,
- 20:58Speaker 1: and Landon gets in trouble after a classmate of theirs
- 21:02Speaker 1: gets hurt because of a prank all the popular kids
- 21:06Speaker 1: pulled on him, brutal. Just quick quick reminder at the top,
- 21:10Speaker 1: Shane West is a stage name. Shane West's actual name
- 21:14Speaker 1: is Shannon Bruce Snaith. I did not know that. It's
- 21:18Speaker 1: one of my favorite celebrity facts is his name is
- 21:23Speaker 1: Shannon Snaith, And so they were like, that's not gonna work.
- 21:27Speaker 1: We need I think it would be fun if he
- 21:29Speaker 1: was just allowed to be Shannon Snaith. I also think
- 21:33Speaker 1: I wonder if anyone else picked up on this, or
- 21:35Speaker 1: if I'm just being tall girl syndrome. I also think
- 21:39Speaker 1: that Shane West is shorter than Mandy Moore. His height
- 21:43Speaker 1: fluctuates throughout the movie, and I think that the movie
- 21:47Speaker 1: does not like the movie is very rigid and its values.
- 21:50Speaker 1: And I think that they also must have said, we
- 21:53Speaker 1: can't have a male lead who is shorter than our
- 21:56Speaker 1: female lead due to societal pressures, because anymore is five ten.
- 22:02Speaker 1: Shane West is six ft allegedly, but but that's impossible
- 22:08Speaker 1: because he's shorter than her in anything where you can
- 22:10Speaker 1: see his feet, he is shorter than her. Any scene
- 22:13Speaker 1: where you cannot see his feet, he is taller than her,
- 22:17Speaker 1: meaning that he's wearing some sort of acting shoes acting
- 22:21Speaker 1: shoes or they they stuck him on like an apple box?
- 22:24Speaker 1: Is that what those are called? And yeah, you want
- 22:26Speaker 1: to go rewatch the dance scene. It's the dancing where
- 22:30Speaker 1: it's most obvious because she's teaching him how to dance,
- 22:33Speaker 1: and you're like, oh, he's shorter than her. I never
- 22:35Speaker 1: see that in movies. Why didn't I notice that? And
- 22:37Speaker 1: then it cuts to the next scene and he's taller
- 22:39Speaker 1: than her in the next scene, and I was like,
- 22:41Speaker 1: why can't men just be five seven? Sometimes it's fine, relax,
- 22:47Speaker 1: So I'm sorry I have so many deep dive facts.
- 22:49Speaker 1: But fun fact, along with other parts of this set,
- 22:53Speaker 1: a lot of the sets were from like Dawson's Creek
- 22:55Speaker 1: and other highly popular areas or a filming zone. But
- 22:58Speaker 1: so whatever that water basins that they did this first
- 23:01Speaker 1: prank at, apparently it was full of like algae and
- 23:05Speaker 1: eels and they had scula divers clearing the water for
- 23:10Speaker 1: the stunt. So like, just to put us in Shane
- 23:13Speaker 1: West and whoever that guy's names had. They're diving and
- 23:17Speaker 1: swimming and eels, their belly flopping straight into an eel. Holy,
- 23:23Speaker 1: that is dangerous. Once you I, I did know about
- 23:27Speaker 1: the Dawson's Creek stuff, and like, once you've I watched
- 23:32Speaker 1: two seasons of that when I was sick, like two
- 23:35Speaker 1: years ago, And once you know it's the same high school,
- 23:38Speaker 1: you can't unsee it. You're like, oh, I've I've seen
- 23:41Speaker 1: drama in these halls before. Okay, So then we meet
- 23:48Speaker 1: Jamie Sullivan, who is Mandy Moore. She's very religious, her
- 23:53Speaker 1: father is a reverend. She sings in the church choir,
- 23:57Speaker 1: the whole thing. She is also popular, unlike Landon Carter,
- 24:03Speaker 1: and she gets mocked by Landon's friends because she's not
- 24:09Speaker 1: stylish and she wears the same sweater every day, which
- 24:12Speaker 1: is also for one of the that was from the
- 24:15Speaker 1: real person. Okay, so the real person is based off
- 24:18Speaker 1: of Nicholas Sparks's sister, right, Yes, who in my favorite
- 24:23Speaker 1: power move never read his book. It did. Yeah, she
- 24:30Speaker 1: said she didn't want to know how it ended, which
- 24:32Speaker 1: I feel like he took as a sweet sentiment and
- 24:35Speaker 1: I took as a burn she's just like, um, look,
- 24:38Speaker 1: I've only got so much time and I'm not wasting it. Yeah,
- 24:42Speaker 1: I thought it was. I didn't realize. This was my
- 24:44Speaker 1: first time realizing that it was at least based on
- 24:48Speaker 1: a true story. But there are deviations where I believe
- 24:52Speaker 1: his sister was thirty when she passed away, and then
- 24:56Speaker 1: in the book, I guess that it's not specified that
- 24:59Speaker 1: Jamie eyes that. It's just it says. This is what
- 25:03Speaker 1: the Wikipedia page says. I'm like, I don't really know
- 25:06Speaker 1: what this means, but it said that it is ambiguous
- 25:10Speaker 1: whether Jamie died or simply disappeared into the shadow world.
- 25:14Speaker 1: Now I don't know what hang on, wait, wait, hang on, Now,
- 25:19Speaker 1: that is not unlike the ending of Titanic, where Rose
- 25:24Speaker 1: was it a dream the shadow world. I did, in
- 25:27Speaker 1: fact make some notes about the similarities between this movie
- 25:31Speaker 1: and Titanic. Amazing spoiler Switchfoot says the word Titanic. Yes,
- 25:39Speaker 1: they do, amazing. I have some parallels I would like
- 25:44Speaker 1: to draw between A Walk to Remember and another movie,
- 25:47Speaker 1: which I will I will reveal. I guess now it's
- 25:52Speaker 1: like there's no reason to hold back any longer. Okay,
- 25:57Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone else noticed this or thought this.
- 26:00Speaker 1: But the way Shane West looks in this movie, to
- 26:05Speaker 1: me is identical to the way Robert Pattinson looks in Twilight.
- 26:08Speaker 1: He looks exactly like Edward Cullen to me, I get
- 26:12Speaker 1: I see it for him to like notice this pale,
- 26:18Speaker 1: brown haired, bookish girl, be really mean to her at first,
- 26:23Speaker 1: and then be like, hey, maybe we could be friends,
- 26:25Speaker 1: and then they start dating and fall in love. Except
- 26:29Speaker 1: that's basically Twilight. Jamie Sullivan, I will say, in defense
- 26:33Speaker 1: of Jamie Sullivan, she at least has some semblance of
- 26:36Speaker 1: a backbone, unlike Bella Swan who just does whatever Edward
- 26:41Speaker 1: Collin tells her to do. At least Jamie Sullivan is like, no,
- 26:44Speaker 1: you can't be my secret friend, get out of here. True,
- 26:49Speaker 1: that was like good for her. Most movies in two
- 26:51Speaker 1: thousand two were not doing that. That's true. They're like, okay,
- 26:55Speaker 1: we can be friends. This is a secret, Like fuck you,
- 26:58Speaker 1: Shane West. But I was the whole Both times I
- 27:02Speaker 1: rewatched this movie to prep for this episode, I was like,
- 27:04Speaker 1: oh my gosh, am I just watching Edward Cullen right now.
- 27:08Speaker 1: The resemblance is simply uncanny. True, I see it anyway. So,
- 27:13Speaker 1: because Landon has gotten in trouble for this prank, he
- 27:16Speaker 1: has to do a bunch of community service, which includes
- 27:19Speaker 1: tutoring underprivileged students at a nearby sychool. Yeah yeah, yeah,
- 27:27Speaker 1: the coding there is yikes. And then also he has
- 27:31Speaker 1: to participate in the school play, which he gets cast
- 27:36Speaker 1: as like the lead of. And I'm just like, you know,
- 27:39Speaker 1: when you're in trouble with the law and your punishment
- 27:43Speaker 1: is to be the lead in a high school theater production,
- 27:46Speaker 1: which also, like, aside from the fact that that is
- 27:50Speaker 1: completely absurd and like it just makes no sense. On
- 27:54Speaker 1: top of that, that sucks for all the theater kids
- 27:58Speaker 1: who told in the first scene it's like, oh, they're
- 28:02Speaker 1: really into it. Like it's not like they're desperate for
- 28:05Speaker 1: people to audition for this part. There's a room full
- 28:07Speaker 1: of people who want this part, and they're like, no,
- 28:10Speaker 1: Shane West, you have to do a really bad job
- 28:12Speaker 1: as punishment, Like why does everyone need to suffer through
- 28:16Speaker 1: Shannon Snaith's acting, Because like he committed a crime, he
- 28:21Speaker 1: also committed a crime, didn't you guys? Have that um
- 28:26Speaker 1: drama teacher who she cast her children as. All the stars.
- 28:29Speaker 1: I feel like it's not that uncommon for school the
- 28:32Speaker 1: high school theater to be corrupted by those in power.
- 28:36Speaker 1: I had we had, like our our high school drama
- 28:39Speaker 1: instructor with like cast football players to like try to
- 28:44Speaker 1: get to like yeah, yeah, I mean like that. That
- 28:47Speaker 1: is like definitely, at least in my experience, something that
- 28:50Speaker 1: happens Jamie. That is what happened in this movie right
- 28:53Speaker 1: right there, just like oh, jocks, you get to cut
- 28:56Speaker 1: the line in every area of life apparently, and it's well, okay,
- 29:00Speaker 1: I guess the rest of us will just die. I
- 29:04Speaker 1: I like that. In the play, Mandy Moore, Moore is
- 29:07Speaker 1: wearing a prom dress underneath a trench coat. What an
- 29:12Speaker 1: interesting reveal. That wasn't a trench coat, that was like
- 29:15Speaker 1: a cult coat. That was a cloaked like weird ass
- 29:19Speaker 1: CULTI cloak, and underneath it it's like a two thousand
- 29:23Speaker 1: and two prom dress and you're just like, all right,
- 29:27Speaker 1: oh gosh. So Jamie is also involved in these activities,
- 29:33Speaker 1: so she and Landon keep running into each other, and
- 29:36Speaker 1: one day she gives him a ride home after the
- 29:39Speaker 1: school play rehearsal. She tells him about this to do
- 29:42Speaker 1: list that she has, but she won't tell him what
- 29:45Speaker 1: number one on the list is. Then he wants her
- 29:51Speaker 1: to help him run lines for the play and she's like, okay,
- 29:54Speaker 1: I'll help, but you have to promise not to fall
- 29:56Speaker 1: in love with me. Oh my god. Okay. That that
- 29:59Speaker 1: really sent me back because I think that that was
- 30:02Speaker 1: the first time I've ever heard that line in a movie,
- 30:04Speaker 1: even though it's in so many movies, And it's the
- 30:06Speaker 1: funniest thing anyone can say to another person because how
- 30:11Speaker 1: many if people have said that in real life, how
- 30:14Speaker 1: many times has the other person actually been interested in them?
- 30:17Speaker 1: I feel like zero. That's gonna be a really funny
- 30:23Speaker 1: bit that I'm going to start doing where a friends
- 30:25Speaker 1: just like, Hey, I haven't seen you in a while.
- 30:27Speaker 1: Do you want to go get coffee? And I'll be like, okay,
- 30:29Speaker 1: but you have to promise not to fall in off
- 30:32Speaker 1: with him. Oh my god. She said. There are parts
- 30:37Speaker 1: of JV's character that I don't like, dislike, but they
- 30:42Speaker 1: feel a little dissonant where she's like made out to
- 30:45Speaker 1: be like, oh, she's like a misfit, but she acts
- 30:49Speaker 1: with such confidence in moments like that where I'm like
- 30:53Speaker 1: this is cool girl ship, Like what's going on where
- 30:55Speaker 1: like I feel like the like uncooled girl at school
- 30:59Speaker 1: doesn't say you have to promise not to fall in
- 31:01Speaker 1: love with me, but I appreciate that she does. She
- 31:05Speaker 1: takes a stand for all uncool girls. And I'm sure
- 31:08Speaker 1: that at least one person who saw that movie who
- 31:11Speaker 1: wasn't cool then said that at school and humiliated themselves.
- 31:15Speaker 1: So I know that they made a really big effort
- 31:19Speaker 1: to avoid like some character tropes, um specifically the glasses.
- 31:24Speaker 1: They insisted no glasses. Yeah, I just feel like her
- 31:31Speaker 1: charisma is like the taking off of the glasses, like
- 31:35Speaker 1: whenever she turned, whenever she's like unusually flirty for this
- 31:38Speaker 1: like Bible girl, it's like, okay, that's the glasses coming off, right.
- 31:43Speaker 1: And I don't dislike that she is confident in herself.
- 31:48Speaker 1: It just like I guess maybe it was just like, oh,
- 31:50Speaker 1: I wouldn't have expected like the least cool girl at
- 31:53Speaker 1: school to be like fuck you and then or like
- 31:57Speaker 1: or like on the date where she they have that
- 31:59Speaker 1: like erotic temporary tattoo moment that I totally forgot about,
- 32:02Speaker 1: like Titanic hot car scene, hot Carr, the Christian version
- 32:07Speaker 1: of the Titanic scene where they're like, it's temporary. It's temporary.
- 32:12Speaker 1: He's going to blow on it, but he's not touching her.
- 32:15Speaker 1: When he blows on it, it's hot. It is hot
- 32:17Speaker 1: when he blows on the temporary tattoo. Okay anyway, So
- 32:21Speaker 1: she's like, don't fall in love with me, and he's like, yeah, right,
- 32:24Speaker 1: that won't be a problem, and then they start running
- 32:27Speaker 1: lines together at her house. Her dad, by the way,
- 32:31Speaker 1: does not like this landing fellow. No um, Also, isn't
- 32:37Speaker 1: it it's Peter Coyote too, Yes, who I like sometimes
- 32:42Speaker 1: learn who that is and then I promptly forget. He's
- 32:45Speaker 1: an iconic. I feel like he's he has that experience
- 32:48Speaker 1: a lot. He's just a famous character actor. He is
- 32:51Speaker 1: an ET. He's in He's in a lot of ship.
- 32:55Speaker 1: He's an Aaron Brockovich. He's in all sorts of ship.
- 32:58Speaker 1: And then you see him, you're like, oh, that guy. Anyways. Also,
- 33:03Speaker 1: Landon's mom is played by Daryl Hannah in the worst
- 33:07Speaker 1: way I've ever seen in my life. By the way,
- 33:10Speaker 1: you read the Wikipedia, you saw the savage commentary on her. Yeah,
- 33:15Speaker 1: then wait about her that she got like lip injections
- 33:20Speaker 1: and that whole thing, and they're really focused on her wig.
- 33:25Speaker 1: They really well because it's I saw like a bunch
- 33:27Speaker 1: of different explanations for that. I thought, I like what
- 33:31Speaker 1: my takeaway was that they the wig was bad, but
- 33:34Speaker 1: I guess that she was so like famously blonde that
- 33:37Speaker 1: they're like, I guess they made a lot of famous
- 33:39Speaker 1: blonde women into Brunett's in this movie, because Brunette equals
- 33:44Speaker 1: dramatic turn or it did in two thousand and two.
- 33:49Speaker 1: Brunette equals agency, right, Brunette equals a little little more serious. Yeah, Okay.
- 33:57Speaker 1: So Jamie and Landon are hanging out their running lines together.
- 34:01Speaker 1: It seems like maybe they could be friends. But then
- 34:04Speaker 1: he's a jerk to her at school so that he
- 34:07Speaker 1: can seem cool in front of his cool friends, and
- 34:11Speaker 1: Jamie's like, you're a jerk, and we cannot be friends.
- 34:14Speaker 1: Love that for her, she's really taking a stand for now,
- 34:18Speaker 1: for now. But then Landon starts to get serious about
- 34:24Speaker 1: the school play, about his role as a tutor, and
- 34:29Speaker 1: then the school play happens. Jamie a k a. Mandy
- 34:33Speaker 1: Moore sings that song and she's so breathy. I love her,
- 34:54Speaker 1: I love her, and and she loves switch Foot and
- 34:58Speaker 1: she loves switch I'm like, that's the those teen girl
- 35:00Speaker 1: because she's, like, I think, like a rare example of
- 35:04Speaker 1: a teen girl playing a teenager in a movie, even
- 35:06Speaker 1: though no one, I don't think any of the other
- 35:08Speaker 1: teenagers are actual teenagers, but Mandy Moore is. No. I mean,
- 35:13Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys are going to mention
- 35:14Speaker 1: it later, but you know, Shane West was twenty three
- 35:18Speaker 1: at the time of filming and Mandy was seventeen. Yeah,
- 35:22Speaker 1: he was like eight full years older than her, which
- 35:24Speaker 1: is uh not not great good based on what happens
- 35:28Speaker 1: next in the story, which is they're on stage together
- 35:31Speaker 1: in the play and they kiss, and then they kissed
- 35:35Speaker 1: a bunch of other times throughout the movie they sure do,
- 35:38Speaker 1: but this but this first kiss is forced because it's
- 35:42Speaker 1: not in the play. It's not in the script. It's
- 35:45Speaker 1: a surprise kiss, yes, which they had to rehearse on
- 35:48Speaker 1: their first day. Yeah, I and it's it seems like
- 35:52Speaker 1: Mandy Moore and Mandy Moore has uh I mean, she
- 35:55Speaker 1: she came out with a bunch of me too stuff
- 35:58Speaker 1: a couple of years ago that isn't relevant to the
- 36:00Speaker 1: content of this episode, but she seems to still be
- 36:04Speaker 1: friends with Shane West. I feel like that that's more
- 36:06Speaker 1: of a fault of the production for like putting them
- 36:09Speaker 1: in this scenario in the first place, Like that's just
- 36:12Speaker 1: especially for a teen actor and then an adult, like
- 36:15Speaker 1: that's that's just irresponsible on the productions. And they knew
- 36:19Speaker 1: that they had crushes on each other, and the production
- 36:21Speaker 1: knew they had crushes on each other, and he I
- 36:25Speaker 1: don't again, I didn't see anything about anything you know,
- 36:28Speaker 1: storied taking place. It's they were had to crush on
- 36:31Speaker 1: each other. They never dated um and Shane was, you know,
- 36:34Speaker 1: teaching her how to act because she didn't know how
- 36:36Speaker 1: to act. So it's a little there's a little a
- 36:39Speaker 1: little weird, there's a little I yeah, I read that
- 36:41Speaker 1: he taught her what a what a mark was and
- 36:43Speaker 1: how to hit it. He was like, oh, poor Mandy Moore,
- 36:46Speaker 1: she didn't know. I guess that this movie was shot
- 36:49Speaker 1: before The Princess Diaries because that's like her first credit,
- 36:53Speaker 1: but it was shot after. Yeah, yeah, okay, which is
- 36:58Speaker 1: I I liked it. In the early two thousand's there
- 37:00Speaker 1: Mandy Moore was given us more range than a lot
- 37:04Speaker 1: of teen actresses because she played sweet Girl and she
- 37:07Speaker 1: played bully right, because she's she's mean and Saved and
- 37:11Speaker 1: Princess Diaries, but she's an angel from heaven in this movie, right,
- 37:16Speaker 1: And then in both Saved and A Walk to Remember,
- 37:19Speaker 1: she plays a very devout Christian character, but on two
- 37:24Speaker 1: very different ends of a of that spectrum. And now
- 37:27Speaker 1: she's on a TV show that my mom talks about
- 37:30Speaker 1: on the phone all the time that I'm never gonna
- 37:32Speaker 1: watch this is us, Yeah, exactly. Okay, So they kiss
- 37:39Speaker 1: on stage and then Landon's like, wait a minute, do
- 37:43Speaker 1: I like Jamie? Do I want to be with her?
- 37:46Speaker 1: He's breaking the one rule. He's falling in love with her,
- 37:50Speaker 1: and he wasn't supposed to a rule breaker. You know,
- 37:54Speaker 1: he's a bad boy. He's canonically a bad boy. He
- 37:56Speaker 1: almost kills a student in the first scene. Yeah, but
- 38:01Speaker 1: he does go visit him in the hospital and say sorry,
- 38:05Speaker 1: so that redeems him question mark um, even though the
- 38:10Speaker 1: student is like not understandably not very receptive to the apologies, like,
- 38:14Speaker 1: get the funk out of here. I don't know why
- 38:16Speaker 1: I want to be your friend. You like push me
- 38:18Speaker 1: off of a cliff, or like whatevers a bed of eels.
- 38:27Speaker 1: So yeah, Jamie is like rejecting him and pushing him away,
- 38:32Speaker 1: and she's like, you don't know how to be a
- 38:33Speaker 1: good friend. So then he tries harder. He gives her
- 38:39Speaker 1: a new sweater. He stands up for her when his
- 38:42Speaker 1: friends play that photoshop related prank on her at school, which, truly,
- 38:47Speaker 1: if you haven't seen the movie, just like look up
- 38:49Speaker 1: that scene because it's even like, even though it's like
- 38:53Speaker 1: from a plot standpoint of like, oh my god, your
- 38:55Speaker 1: heart goes out to her and and maybe that would
- 38:57Speaker 1: be a horrible thing to happen to you in two
- 38:59Speaker 1: thousand too, but if that happened to me now, I'd
- 39:02Speaker 1: be like, uh so, what is the joke here? It's
- 39:07Speaker 1: such a bad photoshop. It's like it's more embarrassing for
- 39:10Speaker 1: the person who photo shopped it than for her. But
- 39:15Speaker 1: I do feel like that scene really captures the like
- 39:18Speaker 1: cruel scene laugh that like still haunts me to this day. Yeah,
- 39:22Speaker 1: you run into that in real life. Oh boy, all
- 39:25Speaker 1: logic goes out the window. You're scarred, that's true. Yeah,
- 39:30Speaker 1: So he defends her and stands up for her when
- 39:33Speaker 1: this happens, and then he asks her out on a date,
- 39:37Speaker 1: but her dad doesn't let her date, so then Landon
- 39:40Speaker 1: asks her dad permission to take her out, which he
- 39:44Speaker 1: relents to. So then they go out to dinner, they dance.
- 39:49Speaker 1: It is revealed that Shane West is shorter than Mandy Moore. No, no, no,
- 39:53Speaker 1: we don't know it in that scene. It's then we don't.
- 39:56Speaker 1: It's after we find out she's sick, and then he says,
- 39:59Speaker 1: you too, to dance, and that montage that's where you
- 40:02Speaker 1: learn he is. He is a couple inches shorter than her,
- 40:05Speaker 1: hasn't He asked his mom to teach him how to dance? There, Yeah,
- 40:09Speaker 1: the dances before because the leukemia reveal is like, to me,
- 40:14Speaker 1: where the movie totally shifted. Well, sure, yea once our
- 40:19Speaker 1: protagonist is doomed, yes, but yeah, maybe I'm messing up
- 40:25Speaker 1: the order. It's whatever. In there's a scene in the
- 40:28Speaker 1: middle of a montage where she teaches him how to
- 40:32Speaker 1: dance and you can see both of their full bodies
- 40:35Speaker 1: and then you're like, he's shorter than her because you
- 40:38Speaker 1: can't wear your acting shoes in a full body shot.
- 40:40Speaker 1: You're right, yeah, because she teaches his mom. He asked
- 40:43Speaker 1: his mom to teach him when they later dance on
- 40:46Speaker 1: the balcony with no door, right right right right the
- 40:50Speaker 1: balcony door. Yes, it's that's fascinated me for years. I
- 40:55Speaker 1: didn't pick up on it, just like you're gonna make
- 40:58Speaker 1: this sickly girl climb out a window to look at
- 41:00Speaker 1: her stars all the balcony with no doors. I wonder
- 41:06Speaker 1: if it's like if it's like a an Aladdin kind
- 41:08Speaker 1: of deal where it's just a curtain that leads into
- 41:11Speaker 1: a room. No, it's it's just four windows. They also
- 41:16Speaker 1: are looking through a telescope that he builds right in
- 41:21Speaker 1: front of her, Like you would think that he would
- 41:24Speaker 1: have done that as like a surprise gift, but he
- 41:26Speaker 1: just like sets up a workshop outside of her house,
- 41:30Speaker 1: and it's like, don't look, I love it what I'm doing.
- 41:34Speaker 1: This movie is so goofy and corny in so many
- 41:37Speaker 1: ways where you just have to be constantly suspending your logic.
- 41:39Speaker 1: Where there's like one scene where you find out what
- 41:43Speaker 1: Jamie's ambition in life is, which is to like witness
- 41:46Speaker 1: a miracle. But you find out because Shane West happens
- 41:50Speaker 1: to be going through the yearbook at home alone, Like
- 41:54Speaker 1: why is he doing that he's just we're to believe
- 41:57Speaker 1: he's just sitting at home, like to day night, better
- 42:01Speaker 1: look through my yearbook, like I don't want to break
- 42:04Speaker 1: your mind, But I feel like that might be one
- 42:07Speaker 1: of a few instances in this film where traditionally he
- 42:12Speaker 1: would then in a real world start checking off. And
- 42:15Speaker 1: that can't be alluded to at all. Know, he's just
- 42:18Speaker 1: like a plot point. She wants a miracle, does she?
- 42:22Speaker 1: She wants for it all. Wait, I'm gonna klen as
- 42:29Speaker 1: you continue to summarse, I'm gonna just just to put
- 42:32Speaker 1: my own mind at ease. I'm going to screen cap these. Uh,
- 42:36Speaker 1: these shame west height toscripancy is to share with the
- 42:38Speaker 1: class because I swear to God, I swear to God,
- 42:41Speaker 1: it's the thing. Yes please um. So, meanwhile, they go
- 42:46Speaker 1: out to dinner, they dance. He helps her knock some
- 42:50Speaker 1: stuff off of her to do list, like to be
- 42:52Speaker 1: in two places at once and to get a tattoo.
- 42:56Speaker 1: That scene is really sweet, It is pretty nice. It's
- 42:59Speaker 1: so corny, but the I remember the two places at
- 43:02Speaker 1: once seemed really vividly because Maddie Moore gets so excited,
- 43:06Speaker 1: She's like, who so cute? And then they kiss and
- 43:12Speaker 1: he tells her he loves her, and she's like, I
- 43:15Speaker 1: told you not to fall in love with me. Are
- 43:18Speaker 1: we going to know? He had one job? And then
- 43:22Speaker 1: her dad is like, Jamie, you have to be fair
- 43:26Speaker 1: to him before things get worse, and we're like, huh,
- 43:30Speaker 1: what does that mean, which we find out shortly. But
- 43:33Speaker 1: before that, Jamie and Landen Star gaze together and then
- 43:37Speaker 1: she tells him the number one thing on her list,
- 43:39Speaker 1: which is to get married in the church where her
- 43:42Speaker 1: parents got married. And then the big reveal, which is
- 43:46Speaker 1: that she tells him that she is sick with leukemia
- 43:49Speaker 1: and that she has stopped responding to treatment, the implication
- 43:52Speaker 1: being that she does not have long to live. And
- 43:57Speaker 1: then he broods for a while. God, but then he
- 44:00Speaker 1: goes to his Okay, this scene is just story logic wise,
- 44:06Speaker 1: it is so silly. Where he goes to his He has,
- 44:09Speaker 1: of course, because every movie has to be about fathers
- 44:12Speaker 1: and sons for some reason. Yes, he has a bad
- 44:15Speaker 1: relationship with his dad, who's like a doctor, but he
- 44:19Speaker 1: left and it's all very like vague divorced parents stuff.
- 44:24Speaker 1: But he goes to his dad's house and it's like,
- 44:26Speaker 1: my girlfriend is dying of cancer? Can you save her?
- 44:30Speaker 1: And his dad's kind of like, well, no, there's not
- 44:34Speaker 1: a cure for cancer that's known, and Shane West responds
- 44:39Speaker 1: by being like, you were never there for me, Like
- 44:43Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, but these two, these two things
- 44:46Speaker 1: are sort of unrelated, you know. Also, his dad's like,
- 44:50Speaker 1: I'm not an oncologist. I'm a cardiologist. For someone who
- 44:55Speaker 1: wants to be a doctor, he really did not understand
- 44:59Speaker 1: anything about medicine at this point. True, it's so funny
- 45:04Speaker 1: that whole scene because then it's like a million years
- 45:07Speaker 1: of brooding and Shane West driving around in his cool,
- 45:10Speaker 1: cool car and it's like, dude, listen, like, your dad
- 45:14Speaker 1: is not the right kind of doctor. Like the situation
- 45:17Speaker 1: is still very sad, but like, of the many things
- 45:20Speaker 1: that maybe your father's faults, this is not one of them.
- 45:24Speaker 1: Is not one of them. So yeah, he's brooding for
- 45:28Speaker 1: a while, he's driving around in his Camaro, and then
- 45:31Speaker 1: he comes back around and he's like, Jamie, baby, I'm
- 45:35Speaker 1: not going anywhere. And then one day she collapses and
- 45:40Speaker 1: is rushed to the hospital and Landon stays by her
- 45:43Speaker 1: side until she's able to go home. Because Landon's dad
- 45:48Speaker 1: arranges to pay for her private home care, which is
- 45:51Speaker 1: really nice, and I guess a more realistic thing that
- 45:54Speaker 1: he can do instead of knowing the care for cancer
- 45:58Speaker 1: that doesn't exist. I forgot about that plot point and
- 46:02Speaker 1: I liked it. I thought that was very nice. But
- 46:05Speaker 1: I also feel like that whole dad plotline, like I
- 46:08Speaker 1: don't really care about it at all, except for the
- 46:11Speaker 1: moment where at the wedding that's about to happen. The
- 46:16Speaker 1: way that his dad looks at him at his wedding
- 46:18Speaker 1: is so she looks like he's about to burst into tears.
- 46:22Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even know who this man is.
- 46:24Speaker 1: Like what am I looking at? Anyways? I'm getting handed well,
- 46:30Speaker 1: so then, uh, what's his name? Landon asks Jamie to
- 46:35Speaker 1: marry him so that she can accomplish the number one
- 46:38Speaker 1: thing on her list. So they get married, and then
- 46:43Speaker 1: Landon's voiceover explains that they have a beautiful summer together
- 46:47Speaker 1: and that she passes away a few months after their wedding,
- 46:51Speaker 1: and then we get a flash forward to four years
- 46:54Speaker 1: later where Landon pays a visit to Jamie's father. He
- 46:58Speaker 1: has gotten into medical school. Hopefully, He's like, he's hopefully
- 47:03Speaker 1: made amends with his dad to be like, I'm so sorry.
- 47:05Speaker 1: I didn't know how doctors worked when I was seventeen. Whoops,
- 47:10Speaker 1: I overreacted my back. And then Jamie's father is like Landon,
- 47:17Speaker 1: by the way, Jamie did find her miracle and it
- 47:20Speaker 1: was you. And then there's some more voice over about
- 47:25Speaker 1: how Landon will always love Jamie and he'll always feel
- 47:29Speaker 1: their love. So that's the story. Let's take another break
- 47:32Speaker 1: and we'll come back to discuss, and we're back. M hmmm,
- 47:43Speaker 1: We're I feel like we've we've actually covered a fear
- 47:45Speaker 1: amount of ground. Actually the recap, yeah, we have. Since
- 47:50Speaker 1: we were briefly talking about like the fathers and sons thing,
- 47:53Speaker 1: I wanted to just say a little bit about that,
- 47:57Speaker 1: which is to me, it feels like the big emotional
- 48:00Speaker 1: beat of this movie. That's like the big like tear jerker.
- 48:05Speaker 1: Everyone in the audience is crying. Is that moment where
- 48:08Speaker 1: Landon goes to his dad to say, thank you for
- 48:11Speaker 1: paying for my girlfriends like private home care. Because he's
- 48:16Speaker 1: he's crying. They hug each other. The music swells like
- 48:20Speaker 1: lingers on this moment for quite a while, and the
- 48:23Speaker 1: cinematic language tells you that that's the big crime moment,
- 48:29Speaker 1: and then a short time later, couldn't care less Jamie
- 48:32Speaker 1: dies off screen. We only know about a via voiceover.
- 48:36Speaker 1: It is not played for like that big tear jerker
- 48:39Speaker 1: moment the same way, which I'm kind of surprised I
- 48:44Speaker 1: watching it back. I guess it would have really emotionally
- 48:47Speaker 1: wrecked me at any age to like I didn't want
- 48:51Speaker 1: to like see her die, But they do wrap it
- 48:53Speaker 1: up so quick. I guess. I don't know the argument
- 48:56Speaker 1: there is, like it goes out on a high note,
- 48:58Speaker 1: like you see her like she's accomplished her life's goal
- 49:02Speaker 1: of getting married, and and then it's like, well, you know,
- 49:07Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how I feel about
- 49:09Speaker 1: that choice. Yeah, I just I found it really kind
- 49:12Speaker 1: of bizarre that the big tear jerker beat of the
- 49:16Speaker 1: movie is the like father son reconciliation rather than the
- 49:24Speaker 1: death of the woman that the main character loves. I
- 49:30Speaker 1: feel like the tormal shift I was saying with the
- 49:32Speaker 1: leukemia was actually like more I feel like when the
- 49:36Speaker 1: movie kind of became what I understand might be more
- 49:40Speaker 1: like the book, where you know the book is like
- 49:42Speaker 1: clear that it's coming from Landon's perspective, and the book
- 49:45Speaker 1: is kind of well Nicholas Barks's Uh. When Nicholas Barks
- 49:50Speaker 1: spoke about writing the book, it was like he equally
- 49:53Speaker 1: wanted to like it wasn't really about Jamie. Like when
- 49:57Speaker 1: he read the book, his thoughts are like her husband
- 50:01Speaker 1: was such a miracle, Like who would marry a girl
- 50:05Speaker 1: they know is going to die? Like this guy needs
- 50:07Speaker 1: to be celebrated. Like that's kind of where he was
- 50:11Speaker 1: coming from. And so I feel like that would make
- 50:14Speaker 1: sense then why his big emotional opening is what's important.
- 50:18Speaker 1: It's like, oh, Jamie taught him how to feel, and
- 50:21Speaker 1: now he feels with his dad. I agree, And I
- 50:24Speaker 1: feel like that is like the big true or or
- 50:27Speaker 1: one of the biggest trophy issues with this movie. Right.
- 50:32Speaker 1: It's like it in I mean, I think even from
- 50:35Speaker 1: like a screenwriting sampoint, it's clearly Landon's story, but it
- 50:39Speaker 1: but it like uses the trope that that has been
- 50:42Speaker 1: in a lot of movies and stories over the over
- 50:46Speaker 1: time of like a woman dies to like teach a
- 50:52Speaker 1: guy how to kind of be a better person. Like
- 50:55Speaker 1: that is ultimately the narrative function of like Jamie in
- 50:59Speaker 1: this world at these And I don't mean to, like,
- 51:02Speaker 1: you know, because because I know that Nicholas Sparks's sister
- 51:05Speaker 1: inspired this, but it's not her life story. She was
- 51:09Speaker 1: a different person living at a different time, who was
- 51:13Speaker 1: in her late twenties, not in high school, you know.
- 51:15Speaker 1: And I like the way this movie was adapted clearly
- 51:19Speaker 1: falls into that trope of like Jamie, while I feel
- 51:22Speaker 1: like Jamie is like a better developed character than most
- 51:26Speaker 1: young women who are put in that role, and like
- 51:30Speaker 1: there are things that I was kind of not like
- 51:32Speaker 1: impressed as a little bit strong, but I was surprised
- 51:36Speaker 1: that there was a lot about Jamie that like she
- 51:38Speaker 1: didn't do the the grease thing or the what the
- 51:42Speaker 1: like she's all that thing where she totally changed and
- 51:45Speaker 1: at the end she's popular, like she does stay. She
- 51:49Speaker 1: she changes a little bit, but like for the most part,
- 51:51Speaker 1: she's pretty consistent and like she's always church girl and
- 51:55Speaker 1: she's not gonna like change what her values are. And
- 51:59Speaker 1: for the for the most part, like I thought that
- 52:01Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's a little bit different, but she
- 52:03Speaker 1: still ultimately is like sacrificed and what the takeaway feels
- 52:08Speaker 1: like And now Shane West knows that he can go
- 52:11Speaker 1: to med school and he doesn't need to be a
- 52:13Speaker 1: high school bully. And it's like, well, was it worth it?
- 52:17Speaker 1: Was it really worth it? I don't know, right, Yeah,
- 52:21Speaker 1: that is such a trope where the function of a
- 52:25Speaker 1: lot of female characters, whether or not they die depends
- 52:30Speaker 1: on kind of the story, but the function of a
- 52:32Speaker 1: lot of the of characters. It's sort of like the
- 52:35Speaker 1: burden is on women to teach men how to be
- 52:41Speaker 1: a good person and like how to feel feelings and stuff.
- 52:45Speaker 1: I don't know too much, Like I I do recognize
- 52:48Speaker 1: this trope, I don't know too much about it, like uh, scholarly.
- 52:52Speaker 1: But I also feel like this kind of has to
- 52:54Speaker 1: do with the religious overtones too, because I feel like
- 52:58Speaker 1: the tone it's basically like it feels like this movie
- 53:03Speaker 1: is celebrating the mercy that land In bestows upon Jamie,
- 53:07Speaker 1: and it's really about like his like not only his transformation,
- 53:11Speaker 1: but like how much he put into this relationship by
- 53:15Speaker 1: being with a person with leukemia, which feels very ablest,
- 53:19Speaker 1: but also like the idea of mercy. Like even in
- 53:23Speaker 1: the Bible, you know, women are often literally just plotlines
- 53:27Speaker 1: for male characters in the Bible. Um, so I feel
- 53:30Speaker 1: like there's also that aspect of it that, like I
- 53:34Speaker 1: guess only hearing you talk about the trope really connected
- 53:37Speaker 1: the two for me. And when I was googling, like
- 53:39Speaker 1: I was trying to find out what the genre is
- 53:41Speaker 1: of like Christian movies, and the only thing I could
- 53:44Speaker 1: find that was like scholarly was connecting them to the
- 53:48Speaker 1: religious melodramas like plays and stuff. Um, So it feels
- 53:54Speaker 1: like this, even though I could not find any confirmation
- 53:57Speaker 1: why this was so Christian or that this is even
- 54:00Speaker 1: seemed to be considered a Christian film, it's not on
- 54:02Speaker 1: pure Flix. I just feel like it's definitely that we
- 54:08Speaker 1: have to do a pure Flix. I only found that
- 54:11Speaker 1: from this it's oh yeah, there. I think I'm pretty sure.
- 54:16Speaker 1: Maggie may Fish has covered a couple of movies on
- 54:19Speaker 1: her YouTube channel that are I think they were originally
- 54:21Speaker 1: on pure Flix. But like Rob Schneider appears in a
- 54:24Speaker 1: lot of pure Flix movies, there's like it's it's it's
- 54:28Speaker 1: exactly what it sounds like. It's Christian Netflix, but it
- 54:32Speaker 1: just sounds absolutely wild, which I did watch again, I
- 54:37Speaker 1: went on too deep of the dive. I did watch
- 54:40Speaker 1: a YouTube clip of the VHS commercials from the VHS
- 54:44Speaker 1: release of this film, um, and they did include a
- 54:49Speaker 1: preview for a movie that is on Pure Flix. So
- 54:53Speaker 1: again I'm like, where is this Christian money coming from?
- 54:55Speaker 1: And why is it unngogle able? Like it's very strange.
- 55:00Speaker 1: I it is. I mean, I guess I I didn't
- 55:03Speaker 1: go back and do the full like recap. I feel
- 55:07Speaker 1: like for a very mainstream, successful movie, this movie is
- 55:11Speaker 1: unusually Christian, where, if you know, the further you go
- 55:16Speaker 1: back in American movies, I like, the more Christian outwardly
- 55:19Speaker 1: Christian they get, and more you like you see the
- 55:22Speaker 1: themes of mercy and faith come up more often. But
- 55:25Speaker 1: by the early two thousands, I feel like it is
- 55:27Speaker 1: kind of a usual. I don't know but that, but
- 55:30Speaker 1: I could be wrong, but you think like Saved came
- 55:33Speaker 1: out after this and that is very critical of Christianity,
- 55:37Speaker 1: Like I feel like that was more common by that point.
- 55:38Speaker 1: I don't know. I will say that, and this is
- 55:41Speaker 1: coming from someone who was raised as an atheist and
- 55:47Speaker 1: tends to shy away from Christian media or any like
- 55:52Speaker 1: entertainment that has strong Christian under or overtones. I didn't
- 55:58Speaker 1: necessarily I didn't mind the Christianity in this or like
- 56:05Speaker 1: the I didn't mind the religious themes in this because
- 56:10Speaker 1: none of the characters who have a strong Christian faith
- 56:13Speaker 1: are using their faith to justify toxic attitudes and ideologies
- 56:18Speaker 1: that some Christians have, such as you know, homophobia, transphobia, racism,
- 56:26Speaker 1: anti choice, anti bodily autonomy, you know, all that stuff.
- 56:30Speaker 1: And when I'm critical of religion, it's those displays of
- 56:33Speaker 1: toxicity and intolerance that I'm critical of. But we don't
- 56:37Speaker 1: see any of that in this movie. The characters aren't
- 56:40Speaker 1: doing anything like that. They're just you know, living their
- 56:43Speaker 1: lives and not hurting anybody or being prejudiced towards anybody.
- 56:49Speaker 1: But there's not really anyone to be prejudice of, you know,
- 56:52Speaker 1: because everyone is straight at this high school. Well, but
- 56:56Speaker 1: there's also there maybe people of color, and that's not
- 57:01Speaker 1: counting if they reuse background actors, Like I think, to me,
- 57:05Speaker 1: it's like I could get into the headspace of this
- 57:07Speaker 1: being like, I agree with you, it's not used. When
- 57:11Speaker 1: you were talking, it made me think of Josie and
- 57:13Speaker 1: the Pussycats, Like I feel like religion in this movie
- 57:15Speaker 1: is like product placement in that where it's like almost like, no,
- 57:19Speaker 1: we get it, like we're putting it in front of there,
- 57:22Speaker 1: but then because it's religious and like, but wait, maybe
- 57:24Speaker 1: they're like, I don't know, it feels sinister, but that
- 57:27Speaker 1: might just be because the church is weird. I kind
- 57:31Speaker 1: of I I agree with with what you're both saying
- 57:35Speaker 1: where I felt like the way that Christianity was presented
- 57:37Speaker 1: in this movie was pretty inoffensive. But then I was like,
- 57:40Speaker 1: but maybe that's not good, you know, because because this
- 57:45Speaker 1: movie I don't I don't know, And ultimately it's it's
- 57:49Speaker 1: I get kind of like lost in the sauce there
- 57:51Speaker 1: because it's like either someone is not really thinking about
- 57:54Speaker 1: it very hard, or someone's thinking about it really hard.
- 57:58Speaker 1: Has it in the way that like Christian and He's
- 58:00Speaker 1: presented in this movie, because I feel like it is.
- 58:02Speaker 1: It's you know, like less harmful tenants that are being
- 58:07Speaker 1: used in this movie of like forgiveness and like give
- 58:11Speaker 1: people a chance, And I mean the way that that's
- 58:14Speaker 1: kind of implemented does lend itself to a lot of
- 58:17Speaker 1: Shane was toxic behavior kind of being forgiven a little
- 58:21Speaker 1: to christ Like maybe, but but it does I don't know. Yeah,
- 58:27Speaker 1: Like ultimately I'm like I do. I do remember recognizing
- 58:32Speaker 1: that there were christian elements to this story, but I
- 58:34Speaker 1: think because someone else pointed it out to me. I
- 58:37Speaker 1: don't think I would have gotten there on my own,
- 58:39Speaker 1: but there was like a parent or someone who was
- 58:41Speaker 1: just like, oh, it's like churchy ship makes me sick
- 58:45Speaker 1: or like whatever, But like, how did we not pick
- 58:47Speaker 1: it up as a kid? It was just kind of there. Well,
- 58:49Speaker 1: how how old were the two of you? Because like
- 58:52Speaker 1: that was the only thing I remembered about this movie.
- 58:54Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, it's the movie about the girl
- 58:57Speaker 1: with cancer and she's very devoutly Christian like that. That
- 59:02Speaker 1: was like the main thing I remembered about this movie.
- 59:05Speaker 1: I was your age, but I was, you know, not
- 59:08Speaker 1: aware of my bisexuality at the time, So I was
- 59:11Speaker 1: just horny this whole movie, and that was all I
- 59:13Speaker 1: could see. I was nine, so I didn't know shit
- 59:17Speaker 1: about shit. I just wanted people kissing and singing. Uh.
- 59:25Speaker 1: But but I do I mean, it's like, I don't know.
- 59:28Speaker 1: I think that there's definitely arguments for both sides of
- 59:30Speaker 1: the way that Christianity is presented in this movie, where
- 59:33Speaker 1: I'm glad that the negative aspects of Christianity didn't enter
- 59:37Speaker 1: the plot, but also it feels bizarre to just ignore
- 59:40Speaker 1: them as if they don't exist, and it's like it's
- 59:43Speaker 1: it's completely uncritical presentation of Christianity to the point where
- 59:47Speaker 1: I feel like they almost like reverse a priest trope
- 59:51Speaker 1: that you like. When you start watching the movie, you're like, oh,
- 59:55Speaker 1: you know her, her dad is by nature of his job,
- 59:58Speaker 1: very religious, so he's going to be very a Steve
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: and he doesn't want her to date. But it turns
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: out the reason that he doesn't want her to date
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: is not just because he's a priest. It's because he
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: doesn't like she's also sick and there's like other things
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: going on that we don't know. So I feel like
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: that the movie kind of makes the priest look better
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: as the movie goes on, because you're like, oh, he's
- 1:00:17Speaker 1: not being mean because of religion. He's being mean because
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: his daughter is really sick and he doesn't know what
- 1:00:22Speaker 1: to do, like which kind of I don't know. For
- 1:00:25Speaker 1: me on this rewatch made me not be like, oh,
- 1:00:28Speaker 1: he should be restricting his daughter's behavior, but at least
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: it gave some context and it wasn't just the trope
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: of like religious dad equals controlling and oppressive. The more
- 1:00:40Speaker 1: we talk about this, I wonder because the first time
- 1:00:43Speaker 1: we see the father, who is the pastor at the
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: only church in town where all the bad kids go, no,
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: but when we meet him, it's the mom. The line
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: right before is the mom saying you need a father,
- 1:00:57Speaker 1: and she's talking about how he doesn't talk to his dad,
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: and then it us to him. And now I'm just thinking, like,
- 1:01:02Speaker 1: because Mandy Moore didn't know how to act. Apparently Shane
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: West taught her the Marker thing, but she was very
- 1:01:07Speaker 1: natural and this was her first film. Like I wonder
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: if the like not intention but like I wonder if
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: it hadn't been her, would we be reading more into
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: like how the pastor kind of becomes his father figure,
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: and like how their relationship is actually more about like
- 1:01:24Speaker 1: both of them men, like learning how to have a son,
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: learning how to have a father, learning how to be
- 1:01:30Speaker 1: family with boys. And Mandy Moore was just so good
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: at the role that she was given that that kind
- 1:01:37Speaker 1: of got pushed aside for more of like us caring
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: about Jamie. Like I feel like we as the audience
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: care a lot more about Jamie than it feels like
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: the script in like intended or pushed for. Yeah, I
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: mean she really is, Like I think Mandy Moore's performance
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: does hold up in this movie. She's so Mandy Moore,
- 1:01:58Speaker 1: Like she's just so Flee and you're even when the
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: character is like kind of all over the place, You're like,
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: I'm rooting for I wanted to hit her mark. I
- 1:02:10Speaker 1: wanted to take off her scary cloak and sing a song.
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: Um I I agree with you, Sam, I think that, Yeah,
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: there are certain I hadn't even it hadn't even occurred
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: to me that the priest kind of ends up taking
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: on this fatherly role. I mean, what is the Bible
- 1:02:24Speaker 1: but yet another story about fathers and sons true, the
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: ultimate one maybe the Father's son and the Holy Spirit
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: is Mandy wo wow. I bet that's Cannon. That's gotta
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: be Cane. I mean, that's Catholic. Nicholas Sparks is Catholic.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: Print It all makes sense. And I do think that
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: there's like it's implied or I feel like the story
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: is suggesting that the reason that Shane West character is
- 1:02:53Speaker 1: such a rebel, bad bad kid, you know, like on
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: the wrong side of the tracks at the beginning of
- 1:02:58Speaker 1: the movie is because his parents are divorced. There is
- 1:03:02Speaker 1: a part where Daryl Hannah says to Shane West's character,
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: She's like, you need a father, because she's trying to
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: get him to forgive his dad, who he's estranged with,
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: and she's like a boy needs us dad kind of thing,
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: and which I think is like kind of mean to
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: her character because she seems to be a really good
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: mom who really cares about her son, and like, we
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: don't really the only thing we know is that something's
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: going on over their lips. Her hair is a mess,
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: but she loves And the other thing you know is
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: that she loves and is very supportive of Shane West.
- 1:03:35Speaker 1: Like the way he's acting out would not suggest that
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: he like that the parent he lives with is very
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: doting and caring about him. I don't know. I just
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: thought that was like he ends with an evil boy
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: he's friends with, like a truly evil boy. That boy
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: was really evil. Yeah. I don't know that character's name,
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: but I don't need it. We're talking about the guy
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: that like later in the cafeteria, he's like, get away
- 1:04:04Speaker 1: from me, man, Like we're through. He's the guy. Yeah,
- 1:04:07Speaker 1: that broke up with Shane West and You're like, who
- 1:04:10Speaker 1: are you? Yeah, I was like, who the hell is
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: this man? No idea. UM. What I want to make
- 1:04:17Speaker 1: clear here is that and I don't know a whole
- 1:04:20Speaker 1: lot about the teachings of Christianity, not having grown up
- 1:04:24Speaker 1: in the church but sick, but like, I want to
- 1:04:29Speaker 1: make it clear that, like, there are many Christians, including
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: many listeners of this podcast, who because I want to
- 1:04:37Speaker 1: avoid making any sweeping generalizations about religious people and Christians specifically,
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: because again, there are a lot of Christians who are
- 1:04:45Speaker 1: very tolerant and very progressive and who are the opposite
- 1:04:49Speaker 1: of that kind of stereotypical Bible thumping religious right that
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: I think some people have come to associate Christianity with.
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: And this is this is like kind of one of
- 1:05:02Speaker 1: the best depictions of Christianity because it does like you said,
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: it doesn't have any opportunities for the bad stuff. It's
- 1:05:09Speaker 1: all just about kindness and love and coming together. It
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: is very Christian in the true sense of the word.
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: I think my my fascination with it just comes from
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: not the religion and not the um, not people who
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: are religious, but from the way that the Church operates
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: specifically the Roman Catholic Church. So that's kind of where
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: my perspective comes in of like, it's not the word,
- 1:05:32Speaker 1: and it's not the people that are in my opinion,
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: that's not really where the problem lies as much as
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: the people who are administering things and the specific you know,
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: we all know about the Roman Catholic Church. There's lots
- 1:05:45Speaker 1: to be suspective, right, It's more, Yeah, it's the institution
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: of religion that or the people who use Christianity as
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: an excuse to perpetuate their own bigotry. Like that's obviously
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: what there is to be critical about, not the things
- 1:06:02Speaker 1: that Jesus taught and promoted according to the Bible, and
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: not the idea of the religion itself kind of thing. Yeah, Yeah,
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: it's more like the indoctrination, which could be said of
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: any organization. To me, that's always what's fascinating and any
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: organized religion too. Yeah, but there's always some sort of
- 1:06:22Speaker 1: indoctrination process for different organizations, and that always fascinates me,
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: Like how do you take a nonbeliever to a believer? Right?
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: And it's I mean, in Jamie's case, it's almost certainly
- 1:06:33Speaker 1: that she's just like indoctrination since birth stuff. Um either
- 1:06:38Speaker 1: that or she is like there is a lot of
- 1:06:40Speaker 1: argument for and again it's like, yeah, the the the
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: elements of Christianity that are presented in this movie are
- 1:06:47Speaker 1: not bad things necessarily. It's like Jamie is presented as
- 1:06:52Speaker 1: this as this very like almost like a very christlike
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: figure who is extremely forgiving of the people around her,
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: to the point we're coming from a teenager, You're like, huh, Like, uh,
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: you know, is very forgiving, has faith in people's ability
- 1:07:08Speaker 1: to grow and change in a way that most teenagers
- 1:07:12Speaker 1: do not. Uh, and on and on and then and
- 1:07:16Speaker 1: then she's sacrifice at the end of the movie, and
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: then her love exists in the wind, and I'm like,
- 1:07:22Speaker 1: she's basically the Jesus of the movie. And I don't
- 1:07:25Speaker 1: hate It's like I do like Jav's character. I like her.
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: I'm rooting for her. I like when I don't know,
- 1:07:33Speaker 1: even just like remembering seeing the movie as a kid
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: and like watching for all of its flaws, Like as
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: a kid seeing the like girl who's like a little
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: different be asked like you don't care what people think
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: of you? And she just says no. I was like
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: that's kind of cool, Like, even though it's maybe not
- 1:07:50Speaker 1: the most realistic reaction, that's a cool thing to see
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: in a movie if you're like a kind of weird
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: kid where you're like, wow, this girl doesn't give a
- 1:07:59Speaker 1: ship and like, I don't know, there are things to
- 1:08:03Speaker 1: be said for for the way her characters presented. It's
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: not hyper realistic teen chit, but like, nothing in this
- 1:08:09Speaker 1: movie is she's a superhuman Christian angel sent from God
- 1:08:15Speaker 1: to sing choir songs in the play. Yeah, she's not
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: a real person. I guess what I'll say is like
- 1:08:22Speaker 1: that is how I viewed the movie too, and I
- 1:08:25Speaker 1: feel like it would still be that movie without the
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: religious element. So that's my only question is like it
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: feels layered on in a way that I wonder why.
- 1:08:34Speaker 1: I wonder how religious his sister was, like, or how
- 1:08:37Speaker 1: big of a part of her story that was. Yeah,
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: all I could find was that she did carry a
- 1:08:41Speaker 1: Bible around. But like they even took the Bible out
- 1:08:43Speaker 1: of this film. They made it a book full of
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: quotes like Dolly Parton. I like Dolly Parton. I was like, wow,
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: Jesus thought Dolly Parton was really smart, because that's what
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: Jamie said, did Dolly Parton fund this movie? Oh my god?
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: What if Dolly Parton Christian? Yeah? Okay, I did not.
- 1:09:04Speaker 1: I was like, I guess I don't know anything about
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: her relige. I don't know. I just other than the
- 1:09:09Speaker 1: fact that she's Miley Cyrus's godmother. Miley Cyrus another Nicholas
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: Sparks star. Oh that's true. Which one is that? That's
- 1:09:16Speaker 1: the last song? Question mark? I'm pretty sure I saw
- 1:09:20Speaker 1: that in theaters. Is that the one Channing Tatum isn't
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: or is that a different movie? I think so? Oh no, wait,
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: he's I hope not. Wait he's like kind of old
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: for her, isn't he? No? I think that it's Isn't
- 1:09:32Speaker 1: that how she met her? The guy that she married
- 1:09:34Speaker 1: was through that Nicholas Sparks movie. And it's Chris Hemsworth's brother.
- 1:09:38Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's it's Liam Hemsworth. Okay, so the okay,
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: what's the Channing Oh the Channing Tatum one is Dear John?
- 1:09:48Speaker 1: Which is him? Cyphrid God? So many white actors? Uh? Wild?
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: I wanted to I wanted to talk really quick about
- 1:10:04Speaker 1: another character slash storyline that I found baffling and maybe
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: I'll say it not necessary to the movie, which is
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: Langdon's ex girlfriend or Landon. I keep wanting to say
- 1:10:17Speaker 1: Langdon as in Robert Langdon from another Christian text, the
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: Da Vinci Code. Oh my gosh, we did bring up
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: Mona Lisa earlier, so I always have Da Vinci Code
- 1:10:29Speaker 1: on the brain Baby, I'll never stop. But the whole
- 1:10:36Speaker 1: thing was so so the deal with I don't think
- 1:10:40Speaker 1: she even came up really in the summary because she
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: doesn't need to be in the movie. I left her
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: out of the of the summary. So her deal is
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: what's her name? Her name is like Barbara, have no idea, Josephine, Belinda, Belinda, Belinda,
- 1:10:57Speaker 1: so Belinda, which again I'm like, what year is this
- 1:11:00Speaker 1: movie taking place in. Belinda is Shane West's ex girl
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: friend who wants to get back together with him, but
- 1:11:10Speaker 1: he's not interested. She is really forcing the issue. She
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: gets very jealous of Jamie when it becomes clear that
- 1:11:17Speaker 1: Shane West is interested in Jamie. She does the photoshop
- 1:11:22Speaker 1: praying Jamie's hurt, and then Belinda later apologizes to Shane
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: West about that, but not to Jamie, who is in
- 1:11:33Speaker 1: the adjacent I think she's like, right, there isn't she like,
- 1:11:36Speaker 1: doesn't she apologize to Shane West for what she did
- 1:11:39Speaker 1: to Jamie in front of Jamie's house, And it's like,
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: you need to apologize to her? Oh okay, I was like,
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: she needs apologize to Jamie. All of those guys none
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: of them apologized to Jamie. They all apologize to him, right,
- 1:11:51Speaker 1: No one apologizes to the right people in this movie,
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: because we'll get to this later. But when we talk
- 1:11:55Speaker 1: about like the relationship between Landon and Jamie, but she
- 1:11:59Speaker 1: apolo gize is to him after he gets mad that
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: she has cancer and she's like, I'm so sorry that
- 1:12:07Speaker 1: I have cancer. I should have told you sooner. And
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: he's like it's okay, Well that's like he's not. He's like, no,
- 1:12:14Speaker 1: you doubt you're perfect, You're eighteen, and then she runs away.
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: He doesn't chase her. Instead, he drives to a mysterious
- 1:12:22Speaker 1: city where his dad is and then he drives into
- 1:12:24Speaker 1: the night, and then the one person of color main
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: character in the film, Eric comes to check and Rand
- 1:12:32Speaker 1: the most like the most hyper sexual racist depiction and
- 1:12:36Speaker 1: also the best, the most complex of the group, and
- 1:12:39Speaker 1: the best friend of them all. It seems yes, so
- 1:12:43Speaker 1: quick sidebar about that character. So that's Eric. He easily
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: he falls into the black best friend trope because he's
- 1:12:51Speaker 1: Landon's best friend. He has characterized in a very harmful
- 1:12:55Speaker 1: trophy way in which he in basically every scene he's
- 1:12:59Speaker 1: in is making comments that are extremely like sexually aggressive,
- 1:13:04Speaker 1: and that's really all we know about that character. So
- 1:13:08Speaker 1: that's bad. It's really frustrating. Yeah, it's like falling into
- 1:13:12Speaker 1: all of the tropes of the black best friend is
- 1:13:16Speaker 1: like we know nothing about him other than he is
- 1:13:20Speaker 1: there to deliver, you know, Devil's advocate views on what's
- 1:13:24Speaker 1: going on to Shane West. Like he'll come in and
- 1:13:26Speaker 1: be like, well, well, what if Jamie isn't the love
- 1:13:29Speaker 1: of your life? And Shane West is like, never she is,
- 1:13:31Speaker 1: and he's like all right, like there, he's just like
- 1:13:34Speaker 1: there to like he's only there to demonstrate at various
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: scenes in the movie that Shane West is changing as
- 1:13:40Speaker 1: a character, like that's the only and Eric, I guess
- 1:13:44Speaker 1: you could argue changes a little bit where he becomes
- 1:13:46Speaker 1: less of an asshole unless of a bully about the
- 1:13:50Speaker 1: fact that Shane West is dating Jamie, But that's such
- 1:13:53Speaker 1: a small change. That's only in relation to his friend,
- 1:13:56Speaker 1: Like you know nothing about him outside of that it. Yeah,
- 1:14:00Speaker 1: it's it sucks because I don't I don't think I've
- 1:14:03Speaker 1: seen that actor in anything else. But I enjoyed his performance.
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: I thought it was fun. I read that he and
- 1:14:08Speaker 1: Shane West made up that really long handshake that they do,
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: which I was like, well, that's fun. I guess that's
- 1:14:17Speaker 1: the only time in the film that smoking is alluded to,
- 1:14:20Speaker 1: which I thought was an interesting bad boy trope. Yeah,
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: they do a little like smoking weed thing. That actor's
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: name is al Thompson. He's been working pretty steadily, it seems,
- 1:14:35Speaker 1: over the years, So good for him. Okay, I just
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: I just saw his Wikipedia page was a stub so
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: and that was where my research ended. I think he
- 1:14:43Speaker 1: does a lot of TV in mostly kind of like
- 1:14:46Speaker 1: small bit roles kind of thing, got it. But yeah,
- 1:14:50Speaker 1: so I thought like his performance was really fun and
- 1:14:53Speaker 1: there was room to include him more meaningfully where he like,
- 1:14:59Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like why not get rid of
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: the like girlfriend ex girlfriend, like evil girl side plot,
- 1:15:05Speaker 1: and like make room for the best friend. I like,
- 1:15:08Speaker 1: all of his scenes are enjoyable, but he only exists
- 1:15:10Speaker 1: in relation to Land in right, Like, I agree that girl.
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: I didn't even know she was an ex girlfriend until
- 1:15:17Speaker 1: I looked on Wikipedia. Um, I just knew that she
- 1:15:20Speaker 1: was some girl who wanted to be with him somehow.
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: One thing I noticed that I don't. I might just
- 1:15:26Speaker 1: be drawing a string to nowhere. But did you notice
- 1:15:29Speaker 1: how when she does apologize, she's wearing a pink sweater,
- 1:15:31Speaker 1: just like the one that he gave Jamie. WHOA, I
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: didn't not notice that. I don't know if that's like
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: her signal like now she's a good person too or whatever.
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: Everyone who wears a pink sweater is a good person.
- 1:15:48Speaker 1: Amazing God. So back to the Jamie does apologize to Shane.
- 1:15:53Speaker 1: That so after that scene where he's talking to Eric
- 1:15:56Speaker 1: and they like have a little bit of a reckon
- 1:15:59Speaker 1: silly and I think that's the that part of the movie.
- 1:16:02Speaker 1: But then Jamie comes up to Landed as he's like
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: fixing his Camaro and she's like, I'm sorry, I should
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: have told you sooner, and he's like shrug, let's kiss,
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: and it's like, why are you apologizing Jamie? Yeah, anyway,
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: it was That's like another one of the more obvious,
- 1:16:22Speaker 1: like ablest scenes where it's like you ditched her, you
- 1:16:25Speaker 1: didn't support her when she was like coming out with
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: this big news, and now you're like, she makes a
- 1:16:29Speaker 1: joke like something about dying. Does anybody remember? Yeah, she says.
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: He's like, are you scared? And she says to death
- 1:16:37Speaker 1: and then he's like geez, and she's like, lighten up.
- 1:16:40Speaker 1: I'm the one who's dying. I can joke about this
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: if I want. She's like, can you can chill for
- 1:16:45Speaker 1: a second. So and so that was on a tangent
- 1:16:49Speaker 1: of no one apologizing to Jamie right when it's she's
- 1:16:55Speaker 1: owed several apologies, but everyone's like, oh, she's she's so
- 1:16:59Speaker 1: christ Like, she'll forgive. I guess I'll just apologize to
- 1:17:02Speaker 1: a random person who has nothing to do with the situation,
- 1:17:05Speaker 1: or I'll make her apologize to me for some reason,
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: Like it is. It is frustrating, and I feel like
- 1:17:10Speaker 1: that is like one of the something we haven't really
- 1:17:13Speaker 1: gotten to yet is just like, especially in the early
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: days of this relationship, just like how toxic and fraud
- 1:17:20Speaker 1: this relationship is from the jump, and how Jamie's extreme
- 1:17:25Speaker 1: willingness to forgive and believe that people can change absolves
- 1:17:30Speaker 1: him of this behavior in a way that he never
- 1:17:32Speaker 1: really meaningfully apologizes for. Where at the beginning of the
- 1:17:36Speaker 1: like for the whole first half hour of the movie
- 1:17:39Speaker 1: before he's like, Okay, I want to be in this
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: play and I want to work with you. Up unto
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: that point, he is like mean to her. He's like,
- 1:17:48Speaker 1: I know I've known you my whole life, but I
- 1:17:50Speaker 1: don't I don't give a shit about you, essentially, and
- 1:17:53Speaker 1: then once he realizes, oh, I do like her, he
- 1:17:56Speaker 1: comes the most Like the moment that I didn't remember
- 1:18:00Speaker 1: in the movie that I was like, how dare you
- 1:18:02Speaker 1: was when he goes to her house and asks her
- 1:18:05Speaker 1: to be his friend but in secret so you can
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: still be popular. And I was like, the fucking nerve
- 1:18:10Speaker 1: like that for me is where I'm like, no matter
- 1:18:14Speaker 1: how forgiving a person I am, I'm tapping out right there.
- 1:18:17Speaker 1: That is that is a horrible thing to do, to
- 1:18:21Speaker 1: even attempt to do. It's also like you said, like
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: what time period are you in? Like I could see
- 1:18:26Speaker 1: in the fifties a guy asking that, like, you know,
- 1:18:29Speaker 1: how it is I'm the popular guy. I don't know,
- 1:18:31Speaker 1: I don't know what voice that was, but you know,
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: I'm the popular kid. We all know the rules of
- 1:18:37Speaker 1: the high school. Like, I feel like that would have
- 1:18:38Speaker 1: been much more nineteen fifties, where it's like, you know,
- 1:18:41Speaker 1: this relationship, it's so common to us, but not in
- 1:18:45Speaker 1: the nineties. Yeah, and it's like, I'm glad that Jamie
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: tells him to funk off in that moment and she's like,
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: you know, but but the fact that he still gets
- 1:18:55Speaker 1: a second chance without really apologizing and just by being like, hey,
- 1:19:00Speaker 1: I've decided to be your friend publicly, like that is
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: very warranting of a second fuck you. But she's like, Okay,
- 1:19:07Speaker 1: let's try it, you know. But she's Jesus, so it's hard, right,
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: And he's like, but I got you this sweater. Everything's
- 1:19:15Speaker 1: fine now, right. Um. We talked about this on the
- 1:19:18Speaker 1: Beauty and the Beast episode and other episodes. But like
- 1:19:21Speaker 1: the the idea of like the burden of forgiveness, often
- 1:19:25Speaker 1: in a like hetero romantic context, is often placed on
- 1:19:30Speaker 1: the woman to forgive the man for his often toxic
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: bad behavior, which again we see a lot of in
- 1:19:42Speaker 1: this movie, where for the first several of their interactions
- 1:19:46Speaker 1: he's really mean to her, he makes fun of her,
- 1:19:49Speaker 1: He's like, oh, you're carrying around this bible, you loser
- 1:19:52Speaker 1: with your one sweater, you like stars and planets. Gross,
- 1:19:57Speaker 1: Like he's like bullying her for the random ist ship.
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: He's like, how dare you have an interest in astronomy.
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: I'm like, I've never seen someone bullied for this before.
- 1:20:07Speaker 1: This is interesting and I like that. She's like, yeah, sure,
- 1:20:10Speaker 1: I'm the pastor's daughter, but but science does exist as
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: like okay, movie not not not too bad. And then
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: there's that scene where he, even after he starts to
- 1:20:21Speaker 1: fall for her, he comes at her after school and
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: like tells her how she feels. And then plot wise,
- 1:20:29Speaker 1: that ends up being that he's right where he's like,
- 1:20:32Speaker 1: you're hiding behind religion and astronomy and all this stuff.
- 1:20:38Speaker 1: Like he just names all of her interests and it's like,
- 1:20:40Speaker 1: and that's what you're doing instead of admitting that you're
- 1:20:43Speaker 1: in love with me? And then and then she's like,
- 1:20:45Speaker 1: wait a minute, maybe he's onto something. And we're like
- 1:20:48Speaker 1: what you just like you can like things and have
- 1:20:52Speaker 1: a crush on an asshole. I was gonna say again,
- 1:20:56Speaker 1: coming from the horny lens that I first viewed this in,
- 1:21:00Speaker 1: it was like I don't care he's hot and now
- 1:21:02Speaker 1: he's into me, Like I feel like my my horny
- 1:21:05Speaker 1: brain doesn't doesn't register. And I do feel like this movie.
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: One of the reasons I want to talk about it
- 1:21:10Speaker 1: was just because, like the thing you're saying about forgiveness
- 1:21:13Speaker 1: coming from the woman, I feel like a lot of
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: tropes that are in this movie can contribute to like
- 1:21:19Speaker 1: toxic masculinity in the way that a boy would interpret it.
- 1:21:23Speaker 1: And I know with the guy who my that first
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: boyfriend that was obsessed with this movie, you know, had
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: of a lot of the toxic romantic kind of ideas
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: of like, no, I'm making the romance for you know,
- 1:21:35Speaker 1: I broke up with him and he did not take
- 1:21:37Speaker 1: it well like I guess trigger warning. But nothing happened.
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: But um, you know, just like how this is the
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: perfect this the way the tropes are in this movie
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: are like the perfect timeline and the perfect way it
- 1:21:49Speaker 1: could go. But a lot of the habits that are
- 1:21:51Speaker 1: being reinforced, you know, can be used in a toxic
- 1:21:55Speaker 1: way in other situations. Yeah, and then another one that
- 1:22:01Speaker 1: I mean we haven't specifically defined, but something that happens
- 1:22:07Speaker 1: is that he basically he just wears her down the
- 1:22:09Speaker 1: way that we've seen in tons and tons of movies,
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: and this seems to be a Nicholas Sparks thing that
- 1:22:18Speaker 1: he recycles over and over again. Because he's writing very
- 1:22:21Speaker 1: popular heterosexual love stories, there's probably a lot of that
- 1:22:25Speaker 1: going on. But that's like the Notebook, Oh gosh, one
- 1:22:27Speaker 1: oh one. So we see that with the Landing character.
- 1:22:31Speaker 1: She keeps saying, no, we can't be friends. You've treated
- 1:22:35Speaker 1: me badly, leave me alone, and then he keeps coming
- 1:22:40Speaker 1: back around and basically trying to sweeten her up with
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: gifts and friendship. And it's like what get away quick
- 1:22:49Speaker 1: comment was when he was first trying to get back
- 1:22:52Speaker 1: in her good graces after I forget what thing he did,
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: but where he was like bringing her flowers obviously every day.
- 1:22:58Speaker 1: I was just like, Okay, you know this girl is
- 1:23:01Speaker 1: dying and now you've made her house to look like
- 1:23:02Speaker 1: a memorial. Like take a step back, maybe, thinking through Landing,
- 1:23:07Speaker 1: like she's not dead yet, She's not right because they're okay.
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: So there are kind of two separate times where he
- 1:23:14Speaker 1: needs to or he's trying to redeem himself. The first
- 1:23:17Speaker 1: time when he realizes he likes her and he's actually
- 1:23:20Speaker 1: trying to get with her. Then they get together and
- 1:23:23Speaker 1: they profess their love for each other, and then when
- 1:23:27Speaker 1: she tells him I have leukemia, I'm dying, and he
- 1:23:32Speaker 1: flips his ship about it and is like, why didn't
- 1:23:37Speaker 1: you tell me this sooner? You owed telling me this?
- 1:23:40Speaker 1: And then he like storms off, and then we don't
- 1:23:44Speaker 1: even know how she reacts to that, because the movie
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: does not check in with her at all during this period.
- 1:23:50Speaker 1: We just watch him brooding for like and minutes of
- 1:23:54Speaker 1: screen time that it is dead for not knowing the
- 1:23:57Speaker 1: cure to cancer right. And then when he finally does
- 1:24:02Speaker 1: come back around, he talks to her dad. He doesn't
- 1:24:05Speaker 1: even talk to her at first. He's just like, don't worry,
- 1:24:08Speaker 1: I'm not going anywhere. Tell Jamie, can you pass along
- 1:24:12Speaker 1: the message? It's like, well, can you talk to her
- 1:24:14Speaker 1: face to face and apologize to her? But instead of
- 1:24:17Speaker 1: that happening, when they do finally come face to face,
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: she's the one to apologize to him, and it's just like,
- 1:24:23Speaker 1: are you joking me right now? So bless Her dad
- 1:24:27Speaker 1: was also in that, like telling her like, you gotta
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: tell him before it's too late. Like obviously that messaging
- 1:24:32Speaker 1: was not just coming from Landed, it was coming from
- 1:24:35Speaker 1: the people around her, right. Well, That's like part of
- 1:24:38Speaker 1: what I find frustrating about the love story in this movie,
- 1:24:40Speaker 1: because it's not like I don't know I it's not
- 1:24:45Speaker 1: like you can't in life start with like, you know,
- 1:24:50Speaker 1: how do I want to phrase this? I feel like
- 1:24:52Speaker 1: this this movie could have been an interesting opportunity to
- 1:24:56Speaker 1: write someone someone's behavior meaningfully changing and a way that
- 1:25:00Speaker 1: could have felt authentic, and also could have like been
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: sort of a character map for young for young people
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: who especially young men watching this movie, because it's not
- 1:25:11Speaker 1: like even in the context of the movie, I don't
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: doubt at any point that Landon cares about Jamie, and
- 1:25:17Speaker 1: I don't doubt that you know that teenage boys very
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: often are deflective towards people that they're attracted to, especially
- 1:25:26Speaker 1: in a hetero context, and like whatever. It's like that's
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: something that I experienced in high schools, Like so when
- 1:25:31Speaker 1: I had a crush on not being nice to me
- 1:25:33Speaker 1: and then like having to apologize and over time like
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: maybe of a friendship build, but it's like you have
- 1:25:42Speaker 1: to especially with like movies for young people, I feel
- 1:25:44Speaker 1: like there is some responsibility to like really track that
- 1:25:49Speaker 1: journey in a way that is responsible and not just
- 1:25:53Speaker 1: like randomly putting the onus on Jamie to be the
- 1:25:56Speaker 1: world's most forgiving person. And I don't think that it's
- 1:25:59Speaker 1: like impossible if this story were written differently or a
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: little more deliberately, I don't think it would be impossible
- 1:26:06Speaker 1: to get Landing from the beginning of the story to
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: a place where maybe he has meaningfully earned Jamie's trust.
- 1:26:13Speaker 1: But that's just like not how we see the story
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: play how or is or is very choppy, uh in
- 1:26:20Speaker 1: the way it plays out. I do wonder how much
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: how much that has to do with her maybe not
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: being available, Like I know that she's a teen so
- 1:26:28Speaker 1: she can only work ten hours a day, and they
- 1:26:30Speaker 1: shot this in thirty nine days, So I wonder, Like
- 1:26:34Speaker 1: at first, I was like, I think this has to
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: go back to the you know, kind of Christian ethics
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: that they're displaying in this where it doesn't make it
- 1:26:43Speaker 1: doesn't make sense for that storyline to really get into Jamie.
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: But also maybe Mandy Moore decided to mount one day
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: because it does seem like after her leukemia diagnosis, like
- 1:26:53Speaker 1: she has that scene in the bed, but really she's
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: kind of gone from the movie at that point. She's
- 1:26:59Speaker 1: like not an active heart, Like she only says like
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: thank you for thank your dad, and like a look
- 1:27:05Speaker 1: at this comment. And then does she She doesn't mean
- 1:27:08Speaker 1: to say I do. She just like hugs him and
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: then they're married, right, yeah they don't did they even
- 1:27:13Speaker 1: get married? Uh we don't know? Yeah, why aren't we
- 1:27:18Speaker 1: checking in to see like how she feels about like
- 1:27:23Speaker 1: she knows that she's dying, Like, and there's a part
- 1:27:27Speaker 1: where she says something like I don't need a reason
- 1:27:30Speaker 1: to be angry with God, Like can we explore that's
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: a cool Like that's an interesting thing to bring up
- 1:27:36Speaker 1: of like a crisis of faith for a priest daughter,
- 1:27:40Speaker 1: like and it's all set up, but instead, Yeah, I
- 1:27:42Speaker 1: fel like the movie diverts and ends up focusing on
- 1:27:44Speaker 1: boring land and side plots and and gives a shit
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: about because it should be a movie that's about her,
- 1:27:50Speaker 1: not about him. I hate to keep bringing up religion,
- 1:27:53Speaker 1: but again, like that is very Jesus, Like like Jesus
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: had crisis of faith, but he never lost a faith.
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: He would just be like, Dad, what's this God? Damn it? Yeah?
- 1:28:07Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I don't know. It's it's like Jamie is
- 1:28:11Speaker 1: perfect to a fault. But the moments that you see
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: her human side and the movie doesn't seem interested in
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: exploring when it's like watching it back this time, those
- 1:28:21Speaker 1: are the most interesting moments where she is affected by
- 1:28:26Speaker 1: how people treat her and she is angry that she
- 1:28:31Speaker 1: is dying, and like there there are like she does
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: have these really human emotions. But then she Yeah, I
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: guess like in the christ like way you're describing Sam,
- 1:28:40Speaker 1: she just kind of like transcends them off screen. Then
- 1:28:44Speaker 1: it's like and it's all and it's all good, and
- 1:28:46Speaker 1: Shane West went to medical school the end, right, I
- 1:28:52Speaker 1: don't know, it's it's but I still like it. I
- 1:28:55Speaker 1: don't know. And there's um I wanted to go through
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: the product ship the people behind this production. So there
- 1:29:04Speaker 1: is people we've discussed on the show before. There is
- 1:29:07Speaker 1: a female screenwriter here. Her name is Karen Jansen. Uh.
- 1:29:10Speaker 1: This is another Denise dn Novi movie who I know
- 1:29:13Speaker 1: has come up on the show a lot. She seems interesting. Yeah,
- 1:29:18Speaker 1: she was like a millennial childhood shape er big time.
- 1:29:22Speaker 1: She I think we talked about her kind of extensively
- 1:29:24Speaker 1: because she got both Little Women's the Winona one and
- 1:29:27Speaker 1: the Greta Girlwig one made but a quick rundown In
- 1:29:32Speaker 1: case you forgot who, Denise says, uh some of some
- 1:29:35Speaker 1: of the hits Edward says, her Hands Nightmare before Christmas,
- 1:29:38Speaker 1: both of the Little Women's, Practical Magic, Walk to Remember
- 1:29:41Speaker 1: What a Girl Wants, Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, New
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: York Minutes, Failed, Mary Kay Nashley movie Uh, and Crazy
- 1:29:48Speaker 1: Stupid Love, which we just discussed on the show. So
- 1:29:52Speaker 1: she's behind a lot, a lot, a lot of big movies,
- 1:29:57Speaker 1: and even I mean in a lot a lot of
- 1:29:58Speaker 1: them are movies that are specifically marketed at teen girls.
- 1:30:03Speaker 1: But I feel like a Watch to Remember even stands
- 1:30:05Speaker 1: out in her catalog because it seems like the only
- 1:30:07Speaker 1: kind of aggressively Christian movie in this in this catalog.
- 1:30:11Speaker 1: And then I just try to shout out that the
- 1:30:13Speaker 1: director of this movie, uh and openly gay director who's
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: who was openly gay at the time of this movie. Uh.
- 1:30:20Speaker 1: Started as a choreographer, then switched into directing. Also directed
- 1:30:25Speaker 1: The Wedding Planner, which we've covered on Marion. Yeah. Oh yes, yes, yes, yes,
- 1:30:32Speaker 1: the Hairspray, the two thousand seven one. Uh, he just
- 1:30:36Speaker 1: directed What Men Want, which everyone didn't like. And uh,
- 1:30:42Speaker 1: he's also directing something that I wasn't aware existed, which
- 1:30:45Speaker 1: is a sequel to Enchanted starring Ammy Adams. The final
- 1:30:51Speaker 1: fun fact about the director, whose name is Adam Shankman,
- 1:30:53Speaker 1: which I don't think I've said um, is that he
- 1:30:56Speaker 1: officiated Sarah Michelle Geller and Freddie Prince Jr. His wedding.
- 1:31:02Speaker 1: I know they're also still married. They've been married for
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: twenty years. Dishwasher commercial what there's a dishwasher commercial where
- 1:31:10Speaker 1: they're like making a bunch of innuendoes about doing it
- 1:31:13Speaker 1: every night and then it's like, yeah, we run our
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: dishwasher every night. It saves water, and like that, I
- 1:31:19Speaker 1: and this. I don't hopefully this is but like I
- 1:31:22Speaker 1: think I can. I confuse their marriage with Carson Daly
- 1:31:26Speaker 1: and Tera read a lot, because it's like brunette guy,
- 1:31:28Speaker 1: blonde lady and Carson whatever. That other relationship definitely didn't last,
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: but it was a big deal. Freddie Prince Jr. And
- 1:31:37Speaker 1: Sarah Michelle Geller three names, you know, six names between
- 1:31:41Speaker 1: the two of them. It's destined to last. Yeah, of course,
- 1:31:44Speaker 1: I hope they're washing dishes right now. Also, that's really
- 1:31:48Speaker 1: I'm like, they have how many years has it been
- 1:31:50Speaker 1: since they've done a dish. Let's be real, seriously, use
- 1:31:54Speaker 1: a dishwasher. That's true, that's because they use the dishwasher.
- 1:32:01Speaker 1: Another quick behind the scenes thing. This movie was edited
- 1:32:04Speaker 1: by a woman, Emma E. Hiccox's shout out to Emma. Yeah, oh,
- 1:32:11Speaker 1: the last thing I wanted to say. We called attention
- 1:32:13Speaker 1: to this, I think in the recap. But there is
- 1:32:16Speaker 1: a surprise kiss in this movie. That's a really really
- 1:32:18Speaker 1: sneaky surprise kiss because I didn't even realize it was
- 1:32:21Speaker 1: a surprise kiss until my second rewatch. But it's when
- 1:32:26Speaker 1: in the play Landing kisses Jamie after she sings her song.
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: And I originally just thought that that was like a
- 1:32:36Speaker 1: scripted part of the play that the high school student
- 1:32:40Speaker 1: playwright wrote into the thing. But then I picked up
- 1:32:43Speaker 1: on a line that the playwright says on my second
- 1:32:47Speaker 1: rewatch where he's like, oh, interesting, rewrite you did their landing,
- 1:32:51Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, he's referring to the kiss. Yeah,
- 1:32:56Speaker 1: he's surprise kissed her on stage in front of everybody.
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: Feel like Mandy acted out the way you would a
- 1:33:02Speaker 1: actual surprise kiss, Like she didn't seem psyched. There is
- 1:33:05Speaker 1: a look of shock and surprise on her face, which
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: I I guess just chalked that up to like, oh,
- 1:33:15Speaker 1: this is probably her first kiss ever and that's why
- 1:33:19Speaker 1: she's reacting that way. But then I was like, oh, wait, no,
- 1:33:22Speaker 1: that was a surprise kiss and she wasn't expecting it
- 1:33:27Speaker 1: and he just used the school play as an excuse
- 1:33:30Speaker 1: to kiss her. Also, I feel like the cringe eest
- 1:33:32Speaker 1: part of this movie for me is when he's like, uh,
- 1:33:36Speaker 1: when she takes off her cloak. To me, that was
- 1:33:38Speaker 1: the most uncomfortable moment. He forgot all of his lines,
- 1:33:43Speaker 1: so ridiculous this whole I mean the fact, and that
- 1:33:47Speaker 1: was like, I think one of the closer moments to
- 1:33:50Speaker 1: like a true trophy, Like wow, I didn't realize that
- 1:33:53Speaker 1: Mandy Moore is very like Western beauty standards beautiful before
- 1:33:58Speaker 1: she removed this colloak like what are you doing? Um? Anyways? Yeah, um,
- 1:34:05Speaker 1: does anyone have anything else they would like to talk about?
- 1:34:10Speaker 1: I have to click things. I just I appreciated that
- 1:34:14Speaker 1: the music. They used the music to indicate bad kids,
- 1:34:19Speaker 1: you know, in a very old man kind of way.
- 1:34:21Speaker 1: The first the first the whole first scene up until
- 1:34:24Speaker 1: when the bullied kid gets there, I could barely hear
- 1:34:27Speaker 1: because the music was blaring so loud. And then that's
- 1:34:30Speaker 1: a recurring theme with Landon wearing blasting headphones, and it
- 1:34:34Speaker 1: just seemed like a get off my lawn kind of person.
- 1:34:38Speaker 1: That indicated that part of the script that made me
- 1:34:41Speaker 1: and you laugh, right because the bad boy kids, like
- 1:34:44Speaker 1: they're heavy metal rock and roll music. Yeah, and a
- 1:34:48Speaker 1: lot of you know, a lot of the with that
- 1:34:50Speaker 1: scene where they're flipping the radio thing, it's like no mercy,
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: like just like still biblical, but like the best side
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: of it, right, he's yeah, he's listening to his devil
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: music and she's listening to her god music. Yeah. And
- 1:35:05Speaker 1: then the only other thing was that, oh two things.
- 1:35:08Speaker 1: One also in the VHS commercials, there was a commercial
- 1:35:12Speaker 1: for a O L online and in the trailer for
- 1:35:15Speaker 1: this film it does have like below the rating like
- 1:35:19Speaker 1: a O L keyword a walk to remember for when
- 1:35:22Speaker 1: we still didn't know how to search things. I just
- 1:35:26Speaker 1: thought that was a nice time capsule. It was a
- 1:35:29Speaker 1: simple time. My last thing was that I kept reading
- 1:35:34Speaker 1: about how this film was released in theaters, but then
- 1:35:37Speaker 1: also released in a family edited version, and I could
- 1:35:41Speaker 1: not find what that means, Like what was edited out
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: of this version for the family edited version. Maybe the
- 1:35:51Speaker 1: handshake between Landon and Eric where they reference smoking weed.
- 1:35:57Speaker 1: I was wondering if they just edited out that guy
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: and made it a fully cast right, because he's always
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: making again, very sexually aggressive comments and jokes. So yeah,
- 1:36:08Speaker 1: maybe they just eliminated that character altogether. I guess just
- 1:36:12Speaker 1: if your fans can sound off that was it still
- 1:36:15Speaker 1: bugs me. I just want to know what is what
- 1:36:18Speaker 1: was edited out? Yeah, it's true. I'm curious. Yeah, this
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: has to be the kind of movie this this movie,
- 1:36:24Speaker 1: I can't I wonder, it's hard. It's hard to describe
- 1:36:27Speaker 1: how it's like that, like I know it when I
- 1:36:30Speaker 1: see it kind of thing. But you can tell when
- 1:36:32Speaker 1: a movie when a lot hit the cutting room floor,
- 1:36:35Speaker 1: and this movie seems like the kind of movie where
- 1:36:37Speaker 1: a lot hit the cutting room floor. They did say
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: that they did a lot of cuts to make sure
- 1:36:42Speaker 1: it was PG not PG thirteen, one of which was
- 1:36:44Speaker 1: cutting Shane singing to Mandy in the hospital only Hope,
- 1:36:49Speaker 1: which I would like to hear. How did that make
- 1:36:51Speaker 1: a PG thirteen. Is that too sexy? Made it too depressing? Oh?
- 1:36:56Speaker 1: It was too sad? Okay. I thought it was like
- 1:36:59Speaker 1: in a PG the movie you can only say shit
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: or fuck once, and you can also only sing only
- 1:37:04Speaker 1: hope one, oh my god, or it's adult. Yeah that
- 1:37:11Speaker 1: was all I had. All right, Well, I believe the
- 1:37:15Speaker 1: movie on some technicalities, passes the Bechtel test, but I
- 1:37:20Speaker 1: think that the bullying, it's only it only passes in
- 1:37:24Speaker 1: scenes where Jamie is being actively bullied, which, now that
- 1:37:28Speaker 1: we've talked it through, is a like narratively significant thing
- 1:37:33Speaker 1: that happens. It's just sad, Yeah, I think it is.
- 1:37:36Speaker 1: I think the passing is literally just a photoshop scene
- 1:37:39Speaker 1: when Belinda has to like get her to follow her
- 1:37:43Speaker 1: to the cafeteria, right, and then like we see Jamie
- 1:37:47Speaker 1: almost make a female friend and then actually, no, she's
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: not allowed to have any female friends. Sorry, James. I
- 1:37:55Speaker 1: remember the lines now. It was like, Jamie, you would
- 1:37:57Speaker 1: look really pretty with makeup here, come with me? Do
- 1:38:00Speaker 1: you want to? Oh my god? It really is like
- 1:38:04Speaker 1: the one of the worst passes we've ever had is
- 1:38:08Speaker 1: even an egg. Right. She's basically like, your face is bad.
- 1:38:13Speaker 1: Your breath is bad. Come with me so that I
- 1:38:16Speaker 1: can keep bullying you. Yeah, come to the table so
- 1:38:20Speaker 1: I can keep bullying you with all my cool friends.
- 1:38:22Speaker 1: Also like to like fourteen people go to that school
- 1:38:25Speaker 1: that just all of it's so bizarre. I feel like
- 1:38:29Speaker 1: I saw fourteen kids that went to the entire school
- 1:38:32Speaker 1: and all of them hate Jamie. You know, Jamie does
- 1:38:36Speaker 1: seem to have a friend who is the other co
- 1:38:41Speaker 1: star of the school play. Oh yeah, but we don't
- 1:38:45Speaker 1: know that character's name. I don't even think we don't
- 1:38:47Speaker 1: know anything about her. She barely says anything. Let Jamie
- 1:38:51Speaker 1: have a friend. Seriously, I did love how her friend
- 1:38:54Speaker 1: was like the perfect drama nerd. Yeah, you know, highly identifiable.
- 1:39:00Speaker 1: And it's like that seems like and you would think that,
- 1:39:03Speaker 1: like it seems like Jamie is kind of like well
- 1:39:05Speaker 1: liked by the drama club. We have no reasoning that
- 1:39:08Speaker 1: she isn't. So it's like, why can't we see her
- 1:39:10Speaker 1: thriving outside of this relationship with Shane West a little bit?
- 1:39:15Speaker 1: And also you would now that I'm like, wouldn't they
- 1:39:18Speaker 1: have visited her as she was dying? They appeared to
- 1:39:21Speaker 1: be her friends, right, I will say it sounded like
- 1:39:24Speaker 1: she had kept her diagnosis secret from everyone from outside
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: of her father. That's true. So by the wedding, did
- 1:39:31Speaker 1: they know she's sick? I don't know. I mean they
- 1:39:33Speaker 1: know because of the gossip, Like Shane West kind of
- 1:39:35Speaker 1: blew up her prophecy, right because all all his friends
- 1:39:38Speaker 1: find out about it. Damn they all come around and
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: they're like, oh, I'm sorry, I was such a jerk before.
- 1:39:44Speaker 1: I know that. My personal experience, not with cancer, but
- 1:39:48Speaker 1: with like major injuries and stuff is like I did
- 1:39:50Speaker 1: have a tendency to isolate. I still do. Also could
- 1:39:54Speaker 1: be depression and stuff, but like that's like me inferring
- 1:39:57Speaker 1: that is her reasoning, It isn't the Only thing we
- 1:39:59Speaker 1: know for the movie is that she was like I
- 1:40:02Speaker 1: found out two years ago. I didn't want people to
- 1:40:04Speaker 1: treat me weird and I was cool until I met you. Right. Ah,
- 1:40:08Speaker 1: so much unexplained, right, But if yeah, but if we
- 1:40:11Speaker 1: knew more about her character or saw things more from
- 1:40:14Speaker 1: her point of view, we would have a better sense
- 1:40:16Speaker 1: of what the circumstances were there. So we just don't know,
- 1:40:21Speaker 1: because we don't even know. She was really unpopular. The
- 1:40:23Speaker 1: popular kids just didn't like her right, but it's like, yeah,
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: it's it's you can be disliked by popular kids and
- 1:40:30Speaker 1: still be the coolest kid in the drama club, like
- 1:40:34Speaker 1: or that star club that she ran that we saw
- 1:40:38Speaker 1: that one. See. Well, that kind of like brings us
- 1:40:40Speaker 1: to the nipple scale because I feel like, ultimately, for me, uh,
- 1:40:46Speaker 1: this movie would have worked a lot better for me
- 1:40:49Speaker 1: if it had been centered around her and not Landing.
- 1:40:53Speaker 1: You don't even need to get rid of Landing for
- 1:40:55Speaker 1: my I'm like, okay, it's a heteroteene romance whatever, like,
- 1:41:01Speaker 1: but but there's no reason other than the movie the
- 1:41:04Speaker 1: story is being told by Nicholas Sparks's authorial voice, that
- 1:41:09Speaker 1: the story is being told by Landon at all, Like
- 1:41:12Speaker 1: I don't it shouldn't be told by him. He can
- 1:41:14Speaker 1: be there, but it can't be his story. I don't
- 1:41:16Speaker 1: know which. Again, it makes her her burn his sister's
- 1:41:20Speaker 1: burned so much like I don't want you telling the
- 1:41:22Speaker 1: world about my life. I'm not going to read this
- 1:41:26Speaker 1: interpretation you had of me. So shall we shall we?
- 1:41:32Speaker 1: Shall we bust out that nipple scale. Let's do it.
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: Zero to five nipples based on examining the movie through
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: an intersectional feminist lens. I'm going to give this movie,
- 1:41:45Speaker 1: I don't know, like a one and a half, maybe
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: a two, maybe somewhere split in the middle of that.
- 1:41:52Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's not high. It really adheres
- 1:41:56Speaker 1: to a lot of the tropes of like the teen
- 1:42:00Speaker 1: romance genre of like a boy nigging and being cruel
- 1:42:08Speaker 1: to a girl and wearing her down when he does
- 1:42:11Speaker 1: decide that she's worthy of him, and then falling in
- 1:42:16Speaker 1: love and still being shitty to her a lot of
- 1:42:19Speaker 1: the time. And yeah, the fact that, like you said, Jimmie,
- 1:42:22Speaker 1: it's that it's told from his point of view, even
- 1:42:27Speaker 1: though he doesn't have an interesting perspective on this narrative
- 1:42:31Speaker 1: at all. And I would much rather learn, like know
- 1:42:34Speaker 1: about what a like very devoutly Christian girl how she
- 1:42:39Speaker 1: feels about having a terminal illness. That's a way more
- 1:42:43Speaker 1: interesting story. I don't give a shit about landing like anyway.
- 1:42:49Speaker 1: So yeah, I think there's a lot of missteps, at least,
- 1:42:54Speaker 1: though it doesn't fall into the territory of like a
- 1:42:59Speaker 1: million racist and homophobic jokes that get made in a
- 1:43:03Speaker 1: lot of comparable movies of this era. But like, obviously
- 1:43:07Speaker 1: that bars so low that like, the movie doesn't deserve
- 1:43:10Speaker 1: to be congratulated for not doing that, but that but
- 1:43:14Speaker 1: that's why I was like, Oh, it's not as problematic
- 1:43:16Speaker 1: as I thought it was going to be. They compressed
- 1:43:19Speaker 1: it all into that one person, into Eric. Yeah, exactly,
- 1:43:23Speaker 1: um for justice for Eric. So yeah, that it's it's
- 1:43:28Speaker 1: not the worst example we've seen, but it's certainly not great.
- 1:43:31Speaker 1: So I'll give it. I'll give it one and a
- 1:43:34Speaker 1: half nipples. I'll give one nipple to Jamie Loftist. I
- 1:43:40Speaker 1: was gonna say this episode has been very stressful for
- 1:43:44Speaker 1: me overall. You guys, I keep being like, um, and
- 1:43:49Speaker 1: I'll get I'll give one nipple to you Jamie, and
- 1:43:52Speaker 1: my half nipple too. And wait, how does the song go?
- 1:43:57Speaker 1: And I'm thinking of listening to this and we're all
- 1:44:05Speaker 1: singing it in wildly different keys, and they're like, I'm
- 1:44:10Speaker 1: gonna have to like edit it so it like actually
- 1:44:12Speaker 1: sinks up because I think, could you please pitch correct
- 1:44:16Speaker 1: all three of us that were singing. Of course, I'll
- 1:44:19Speaker 1: put some auto tune onto at least my voice, because
- 1:44:23Speaker 1: I have the worst singing voice. Um. Yeah, so that
- 1:44:26Speaker 1: amazing song gets my half Nickel and uh yeah one
- 1:44:31Speaker 1: and a half. Yeah, I'll do one and a half
- 1:44:34Speaker 1: as well. I feel like, and I agree with We're
- 1:44:37Speaker 1: coming from Caitlin. I feel like this movie like shouldn't
- 1:44:41Speaker 1: be congratulated for what it dodges. I think the truly
- 1:44:43Speaker 1: the one thing that I felt like, oh, this movie
- 1:44:47Speaker 1: seems to be intentionally dodging this trope is the fact
- 1:44:51Speaker 1: that Jamie doesn't get this big makeover at any point
- 1:44:56Speaker 1: for core. You know, she doesn't do ah like Sandy
- 1:44:59Speaker 1: from Grease thing. She just like her personality changes, and
- 1:45:02Speaker 1: I think all of the asshole popular kids think she's
- 1:45:05Speaker 1: cool and you're like, why are we here? Um? But
- 1:45:09Speaker 1: you know, like Jamie retains her core values and qualities
- 1:45:13Speaker 1: and is loved for them, which I feel like is
- 1:45:15Speaker 1: a generally more positive message than most teen movies we're
- 1:45:18Speaker 1: giving us at that time. That is, I think like
- 1:45:21Speaker 1: the main strength of the movie, which I think I read,
- 1:45:27Speaker 1: was the director's hard choice, Like he made that a
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: strong rule, like I don't want to do a reveal.
- 1:45:32Speaker 1: I don't want to do shank Man, all right, Yeah
- 1:45:35Speaker 1: that makes me really happen, Like yeah, I I totally.
- 1:45:39Speaker 1: I mean, we've we've I think I criticized this movie
- 1:45:42Speaker 1: pretty from a lot of ankles, um Ultimately, I it
- 1:45:46Speaker 1: holds up way better than I thought it would. This
- 1:45:48Speaker 1: will not be the last time I watched this movie.
- 1:45:50Speaker 1: It feels it's just like a very comfort movie to watch.
- 1:45:55Speaker 1: And yeah, you know, her dream is to get married
- 1:45:58Speaker 1: will Gross whatever her right. I wish that we had
- 1:46:01Speaker 1: seen a more a better characterization of Landon's character and
- 1:46:06Speaker 1: that it wasn't so centered around him, because outside of
- 1:46:08Speaker 1: the fact that it's not really fair to Jamie's character,
- 1:46:13Speaker 1: it also like everything else going on in Landon's life
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: is really boring to me, and I don't care about
- 1:46:19Speaker 1: him and his father, except I love the scene where
- 1:46:21Speaker 1: he's mad at his father for not knowing the cure
- 1:46:23Speaker 1: to cancer. That's hilarious, but I don't care. It's also
- 1:46:27Speaker 1: another example of like a male redemption story, and not
- 1:46:31Speaker 1: that those can't be done well and aren't valuable, but
- 1:46:36Speaker 1: I don't think this was done well, nor was this
- 1:46:39Speaker 1: redemption earned to me, so I think it could have
- 1:46:44Speaker 1: been earned, which is kind of frustrating. It could have
- 1:46:46Speaker 1: been earned, but it wasn't. The way that the story
- 1:46:48Speaker 1: plays out, but iconic Mandy Moore performance. Love her, love
- 1:46:54Speaker 1: her high school soprano voice. That is literally a voice
- 1:46:57Speaker 1: you would hear on stage in a high school as
- 1:47:00Speaker 1: Mandy Moore style, like she is not singing from the
- 1:47:04Speaker 1: diaphragm at all, like it is it is. I love it.
- 1:47:08Speaker 1: Those were some of the things my voice teacher was
- 1:47:10Speaker 1: trying to correct right there, like trying not to sound
- 1:47:14Speaker 1: like Mandy Moore. But it's so easy to sound if
- 1:47:18Speaker 1: you just I don't know. I highly recommend Mandy Moore
- 1:47:21Speaker 1: is one of my favorite karaoke go toos because it's
- 1:47:24Speaker 1: so easy and it's so effective. I'm sure something to
- 1:47:28Speaker 1: give it one and a half and I'll give one
- 1:47:32Speaker 1: to Jamie Sullivan and then I'll give the other half
- 1:47:36Speaker 1: to Darryl Hannah's wig. Oh yes, good Sam, what about you? Yeah?
- 1:47:42Speaker 1: I mean I still on this viewing where I also
- 1:47:46Speaker 1: did you know an obsessive deep dive? Um. I'm really
- 1:47:50Speaker 1: just taking away and wanting to rewatch the film again
- 1:47:53Speaker 1: from the lens of you know, the brother of a
- 1:47:56Speaker 1: dying woman who's obsessed with her husband who's going out
- 1:48:00Speaker 1: of his way to marry a dead person. I feel
- 1:48:02Speaker 1: like that are dying person. Um, I feel like that
- 1:48:06Speaker 1: really makes everything make a little more sense. Um. And
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: I you know, I am gonna go high. I'm gonna
- 1:48:14Speaker 1: give it to nipples, and I'm going to give those
- 1:48:17Speaker 1: nipples to every person who got horny during this movie
- 1:48:23Speaker 1: as a kid or as an adult or whatever. Um,
- 1:48:26Speaker 1: because I do feel like, you know, I I don't
- 1:48:29Speaker 1: know how I feel as an adult in the entertainment
- 1:48:32Speaker 1: industry about they're being real chemistry between a sixteen seventeen
- 1:48:36Speaker 1: year old and a twenty three year old, but it is,
- 1:48:39Speaker 1: it is palpable, and for me it was a big
- 1:48:45Speaker 1: bisexual awakening. And I can't imagine I'm the only one
- 1:48:49Speaker 1: sure you're not. Yeah, It's like, it's just that the
- 1:48:53Speaker 1: industry should not present opportunities for that to be the
- 1:48:57Speaker 1: case for a under a age actor and a of
- 1:49:02Speaker 1: age actor. That should never be a thing where they're
- 1:49:06Speaker 1: on screen together in a romantic context and where the
- 1:49:10Speaker 1: crew is you know, aware there, everyone's aware of a
- 1:49:14Speaker 1: romance forming I r L and not inhibiting that because
- 1:49:20Speaker 1: it helps the performance, right, So if you had an awakening,
- 1:49:25Speaker 1: it's not your fault, it's but it is the fault
- 1:49:27Speaker 1: of the production for making those casting choices you're so anyway,
- 1:49:38Speaker 1: maybe it will make you feel better to know that
- 1:49:40Speaker 1: this movie made Mandy Moore get back into her religion.
- 1:49:44Speaker 1: So if you're feeling guilty about her horny nous, it
- 1:49:48Speaker 1: seems like she might have. She got she got to horny,
- 1:49:51Speaker 1: and then she's like, I need to go, I need
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: to find God again. She wasn't. The horny nous didn't
- 1:49:58Speaker 1: take her down a wicked path. I love great Andy Moore.
- 1:50:04Speaker 1: I hope she's not shitty is because I just I
- 1:50:07Speaker 1: love her. Although she was famously for a while watching
- 1:50:10Speaker 1: Me Asleep, which I didn't care for. That's kind of
- 1:50:13Speaker 1: that's kind of mean, and she's never apologized for that,
- 1:50:16Speaker 1: which I do think is very telling of her character.
- 1:50:18Speaker 1: I did very briefly meet her one time. She did
- 1:50:21Speaker 1: a show at Nerd Melt and I saw her and
- 1:50:27Speaker 1: showed her where the green room was. So she was
- 1:50:31Speaker 1: very nice, she seems to me in that moment, So
- 1:50:35Speaker 1: that means she's nice to everyone all the time forever.
- 1:50:38Speaker 1: That is how that works. Thank you so much for
- 1:50:42Speaker 1: being here, Sam, This was such a blast. I'm so
- 1:50:44Speaker 1: glad we did this movie. Thank you for having me.
- 1:50:47Speaker 1: I'm so honored. To be here. This is one of
- 1:50:49Speaker 1: my favorite podcasts and I love having these discussions. I
- 1:50:53Speaker 1: r l or on pod and I appreciate you guys
- 1:50:56Speaker 1: giving me the opportunity to kind of process this home
- 1:51:00Speaker 1: now as an adult. Oh anytime, any time, come on back.
- 1:51:06Speaker 1: Oh wait, I had one more connection to Titanic. Yes,
- 1:51:10Speaker 1: so we have the hot car, we have somebody dying
- 1:51:13Speaker 1: slowly and yeah switch Foot mentions Titanic that those are
- 1:51:17Speaker 1: my three got it? Yeah it's Cannon. Well there's I
- 1:51:21Speaker 1: would say there aren't enough Titanic connections in this movie,
- 1:51:25Speaker 1: but that's just me. Yeah, I could have I could
- 1:51:28Speaker 1: have staid to have a couple more and there was
- 1:51:30Speaker 1: room for it. And yeah they were they were like
- 1:51:33Speaker 1: weren't they seaside or somehow? There were boats there were
- 1:51:38Speaker 1: there were both. There's water, they go into the water.
- 1:51:40Speaker 1: They belly Some characters belly flop into the water in
- 1:51:43Speaker 1: both movies. There is there are there are near near
- 1:51:46Speaker 1: fatal belly flops, and there's a and there's a wearing
- 1:51:51Speaker 1: down relationship that we're rooting for and who is Belinda?
- 1:51:56Speaker 1: But cal Hockley played by Billy's Andrew makes you think,
- 1:52:03Speaker 1: makes you think Billy Zane should have been in this movie.
- 1:52:05Speaker 1: Alfred Molina could have played the priest Dad no offense
- 1:52:09Speaker 1: Peter Coyote, but he's already played. He was a priest
- 1:52:12Speaker 1: in Chuckle Law, so I guess he was like no, wait, no,
- 1:52:16Speaker 1: he was the mayor in Chuckle Law. He was a
- 1:52:18Speaker 1: priest in the Da Vinci Code. Back to Da Vinci. Yes,
- 1:52:22Speaker 1: oh my god, langdon, langdon. The Da Vinci code is Apple.
- 1:52:28Speaker 1: Never forget code was the word apple. I'm never I'm
- 1:52:33Speaker 1: never going to get over that. Sorry, Uh Sam? Where
- 1:52:37Speaker 1: can people follow you online and check out your stuff? Yeah?
- 1:52:42Speaker 1: I do live events online events this last year, but
- 1:52:46Speaker 1: you know, as things start to open, maybe more live
- 1:52:49Speaker 1: events in New York and l A as it's safe
- 1:52:51Speaker 1: my shows. My website is naked Comedy dot org. My
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- 1:53:23Speaker 1: Because comedy inspires me one of the greatest in the game. Also,
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- 1:53:39Speaker 1: chick like criticizing Christianity and talking about being horny, actually
- 1:53:43Speaker 1: it's not. That's not the vibe of all my stuff. Yeah,
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