Latest / Day Drinking With Dog / Tony Giannattasio joins the show!
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- 0:02Day drinking, drinking, Dog Day drinking, Welcome Back Day, drinking with
- 0:15dog. We're gonna get right into it. Today. I met this gentleman.
- 0:20Well, I haven't known you for a little while, but formally introduced
- 0:23ourselves about a month and a half ago. I don't want to botch this
- 0:28Tony Gentasio. Is that close enough, you freaking Italians? I tell you,
- 0:35Tony Tony G is our Republican officially, our Republican nominee for the mayor
- 0:40of Milford. As everyone knows, I've had been on before on the show,
- 0:44and Ben had stepped down to take a job with the state, and
- 0:47now Richard Smith is filling out his term, and so we will have two
- 0:51apparently two fresh fresh faces come November. What is the date this year?
- 0:56November November seventh, okay, And I am the new face of the Republican
- 1:02Party that I like to hear. That's cool. I like the new face
- 1:04of the Republican Party. So, Tony G. So we're gonna actually have
- 1:08you on again closer to election day to really go through what you're running on.
- 1:15We're gonna touch on some of it today, okay, but I look
- 1:18at today more of is like a meet and greet. Uh, tell us
- 1:21about yourself why you want to run for mayor Uh, you know, maybe
- 1:26your school and your history, like a little bit about yourself. And I
- 1:27know you're Milford born and raised exactly without dating yourself, you know, without
- 1:33I'm from Milford for Milford nice. So, yeah, I grew up here,
- 1:40went to school here, went to Live Oaks School when it was a
- 1:42K through eight So I was at Live Oaks from yeah, from kindergarten up
- 1:47to eighth grade, and moved on to Foreign High School. So I'm a
- 1:52Foreign High grad go Lions. My kids as well went to live Oaks and
- 1:59feign High. So you know, it's it's very unique to have someone that
- 2:04you know, lives in Milford, you know, from Milford, educated in
- 2:07Milford, and have your kids, you know, follow your footsteps through education.
- 2:13And I'm very proud of our education system. So you know, it
- 2:17was a great time. It was a great place to grow up. You
- 2:21know, it was a fun time. You know. I remember, you
- 2:25know, playing sports growing up. I played on the Woodmont Packers, the
- 2:30Model Brothers Packers. It was like a wreck football. Yeah, and then
- 2:34I moved on to the Milford Elks won two state champions here. It is,
- 2:38yeah, championships. So I'm proud of that. You know. It
- 2:40was the quarterback I learned a lot, learned a lot about leadership, you
- 2:45know, at a very young age. Had some great coaches along the way.
- 2:49Bob Boss was one of my coaches. There's actually the Bob Boss Tournament
- 2:52that they have at the Eagles host and you know, it was a great
- 2:57inspiration. You know, also coach Ernie Peppy. I played for him on
- 3:04the Demno Brothers Packers. And you know, these are people that lived in
- 3:07Milford and gave back to the community. And that's what I'm doing here today
- 3:12is uh, you know, giving back. And I want to run for
- 3:15mayor. I want to be the mayor Milford. I love it. So
- 3:20you have been on the board, Alderman for what twelve years than actually sixteen
- 3:25years? Okay, sixteen years. So you've worked with the likes of Richard
- 3:30Lly and Blake and now Richard Smith. Yea a short period. Yes,
- 3:35I've had the privilege of working with three mayors and I've had a front row
- 3:38seat, you know, to city government. So i have a lot of
- 3:44experience and knowledge, you know, and I'm capable of moving Milford forward with
- 3:49that, what are some of your current high standing issues you have with the
- 3:57town? So the most relevant shoe, I would say right now, because
- 4:00I'm knocking on doors and I'm as a sitting alderman. You know, I've
- 4:04seen people come to city Hall and you know, voice their opinion on the
- 4:10uptick of crime. And people know we're between Bridgeport and New Haven. We
- 4:15have five exits off A ninety five. So as the next mayor, if
- 4:21I can help in any way collaborate with the Chief of Police and bring down
- 4:29crime, that's something that I want to work diligently on. I think it's
- 4:33very important because it's affecting our neighborhoods, it's affecting our post mall. There's
- 4:41a lot of you know, people coming in from out of town. So
- 4:45I think this is an area where we could improve upon. So I just
- 4:49told you a little story about when we kind of first introduced ourselves to each
- 4:54other. In the very next morning, a car in my I live in
- 4:57Colonial Manor was basically four minutes like like NASCAR pit crew came in, jacked
- 5:03up, this car, stole all four tires and was gone in an instant.
- 5:08In a black van. We have video surveillance, no license plate,
- 5:12just in and out, you know, and I'm three minutes four in the
- 5:15morning, I'm probably two minutes from the highway. They get in and out,
- 5:20and so what what what? Like? Is it more? Do we
- 5:26need more funding for police? Do we need more community outreach? Uh?
- 5:31You know, neighborhood watch type stuff. I literally just had a conversation in
- 5:34the laund room when the lady lives above me and a couple of cars got
- 5:39broken into again recently, stuff stolen, and you know, we put the
- 5:43cameras up. She's like, well, what do we do now? Do
- 5:45we get gates? Do we uh, you know, hire security guard?
- 5:47You know, this is all h o a ship and you know we're already
- 5:50tapped out as much as it is. You know, where where do we
- 5:54want to like, do we personally want to try and prevent this because it's
- 5:58not just our place. This happened over off at exit thirty six too.
- 6:02I think they got four cars the same way in a parking garage. You
- 6:06know where you're thinking I should be safe in there. You know, what
- 6:10are some of the you know, things that you think could help us moving
- 6:15it, moving it opposite direction of where we're moving now. I think by
- 6:19collaborating with the police chief and an understanding, you know, his long term
- 6:27plan. I truly believe that, you know, the police department could use
- 6:31more officers. I think recruiting officers is a big problem. There's a lot
- 6:36of officers that have retired, so we need to give these new officers incentives
- 6:44to come to Moford to you know, provide us with their services. So
- 6:49I would look into incentivizing new police officers and recruiting them. I think this
- 6:58will help, you know, with the with having more of a police presence.
- 7:02I can tell you that the community has been very diligent. I you
- 7:06mentioned reach out. I know that they've reached out to me personally about certain
- 7:13things. We just had that big party, that big pool party. Yeah,
- 7:17yeah, that was that was mentioned on this show. Yeah, he's
- 7:21gone wrong. I happened to visit with the neighbors this past weekend because unfortunately
- 7:29there was another pool party. The music was loud. I would agree,
- 7:33and you know, it's it's not something that you know, the neighbors should
- 7:38have to tolerate. So, you know, we're looking at the different ways
- 7:43of tempering that down. I think, you know, going out there and
- 7:49learning about the different types of crime. As you know, they started with
- 7:53the catalytic converters and from there they went to you know, stealing the whole
- 7:59car, the entire car. You know. Yeah, these things are progressing,
- 8:03you know, and you know, I think having more of a police
- 8:09presence is going to be probably one of the biggest things that we can do
- 8:15immediately. And you know, this way we can better patrol. You know,
- 8:20we have the beaches, especially this time of year. You have downtown
- 8:24with the nightlife, the restaurants, you have the whole industrial corridor of Milford
- 8:31that they have to obviously protect businesses. I have no businesses that have had
- 8:35vehicle stolen, you know, property stolen from you know, literally from outside
- 8:41their building. You know, these things, you know obviously are problematic.
- 8:48And we have you know, the whole commercial corridor. We have you know,
- 8:54the mall, we have all of the retail, so you know,
- 8:58it's a lot, it's a lot, and it's a busy time of year.
- 9:01And you know, I think the more support that we give our police
- 9:07and you know, let them know that they're valued and incentivize them, I
- 9:11think we're gonna turn the corner. So a full disclaimer, some of my
- 9:16opinions do not necessarily reflect yours. I want to make that clear. Some
- 9:22of my thoughts on crime in this town. I think you hit the nail
- 9:26on the head. We obviously need more resources, meaning more police officers.
- 9:31I think with everything that happened, just the way the state of the nation
- 9:37is, a lot of these guys are retiring because they can, and they
- 9:41get their full pension at twenty years in Milford. And I don't blame a
- 9:45single one of them first saying see you later. It's a hardest job as
- 9:50there is. Uh, it's you don't get I don't think they get the
- 9:54respect they deserve anymore like they used to. I mean when I was a
- 9:56kid growing up. Now I'm not from Milford, I'm from Massachusetts, but
- 10:00penn and Milford for twenty five years, you know, a cop was half
- 10:05scary to see and half like you were like, oh, that's a cop.
- 10:09You know, like there was that level of respect and authoritative you know,
- 10:13and law and order. And I just don't I don't I don't think.
- 10:16I don't think there's enough punishment to warrant these kids or criminals to care.
- 10:26Well. You know, it's funny that you mentioned when you were younger,
- 10:28because I remember, you know, when I was younger too, and
- 10:33I felt the same way about police officers. And I my thoughts are,
- 10:37if we had a community outreach, because we talked about outreach with the schools,
- 10:45you know, to get to know the police officers at a very young
- 10:48age. I think that that will, you know, speak volumes, you
- 10:52know, as they grow older, to learn what the police actually do and
- 10:58how they do it, you know, so they can see it firsthand.
- 11:01I actually had the opportunity to go through the Citizens Police Academy as as an
- 11:07alderman, so I saw a firsthand. I did a ride along with one
- 11:11of the sergeants. I mean, we have the biggest truck stop, okay
- 11:16in the state. I mean when you drive by it, you don't you
- 11:20can't really appreciate how many trucks are parked there. If you drive through there,
- 11:24Jeremy, there's hundreds, hundreds at any given time every night, you
- 11:31know, and there's a lot of people coming in and out of Milford and
- 11:33that needs to be patrolled. And these are the things that you learn,
- 11:37you know, by going through that academy as a citizen and the things that
- 11:41they have to deal with. And you never would have thought of it,
- 11:45you know, never never would to a lot of really what's what can go
- 11:48on? Not saying it does necessarily, but how easy it is? So
- 11:54all levels of crime, right, you know, from just stupid pick pocketing
- 11:58all the way up to you know, trafficking and you know, sex trafficking.
- 12:01We got a lot of motels in Milford and a lot of that stuff
- 12:05is happens right there and they all have to be patrolled. And you know,
- 12:09it's not an easy job. And this town is huge, like like
- 12:13it's a big town. Yes, there's a lot of I mean there's there's
- 12:16parts of this town there are twenty five years. I'm like, where are
- 12:18you talking about? Where's that? You know, like, oh down Oh
- 12:22I've never been down there, you know. Like so I think it's through
- 12:26investment, you know. And I advocated for more police officers when when you
- 12:33know, Mayor Blake was in office and this was a couple of years ago,
- 12:37not this past budget cycle, but prior to that, and uh,
- 12:43you know, we voted on it, but it didn't pass. You know,
- 12:46the Republicans wanted it, you know, it was it was brought to
- 12:52our attention by the police chief. It was part of his long range plan,
- 12:56you know, because, like you said, these guys are retiring,
- 13:00you know, and we need to replace them. And you know, the
- 13:05only way we're going to stay ahead of it is we gotta you know,
- 13:07we gotta keep looking for more police officers to do that job, you know.
- 13:13And it's not an easy job, no, not at all. I
- 13:16mean I see it firsthand downtown, you know, late night, and ye
- 13:22know, we pretty much I'm not going to name the officers that work,
- 13:24but I'm sure you know some of them. And you know, they pretty
- 13:28much just stay on their ground. They just get abused, you know,
- 13:31at the end of the night. You know, I try to tell everybody,
- 13:33these guys don't want to arrest you. They don't want the paper work
- 13:37at fucking three in the morning, they don't. They just just be respectful.
- 13:41You know, you're the idiot that started something, not the police,
- 13:46you know. And I just I see these guys, you know, they
- 13:48immediately pull out their cell phones and they're waiting for a reaction from the officer.
- 13:52And these guys are so they're pros. They're like you're not not a
- 13:56fall of fears. Shit, Yeah, you know, I want to go
- 13:58home to my wife and kids later and you know, and finish my shift,
- 14:01you know. Yeah, I mean the police they want everyone to go
- 14:03home safely, you know. I mean everyone wants to have fun. You
- 14:09know, everyone's entitled to have fun. But you know, sometimes unfortunately things
- 14:13get out of hand, and that's you know why they're there, and you
- 14:18know, they're very effective, you know, and in those situations, and
- 14:24you know, just the presence alone, you know, as a lot of
- 14:28you know, meaning so people think twice. You know, people should think
- 14:33twice. You know. I think this is a topic that we could just
- 14:39you know, there's there's so many facets to it. And I mean I
- 14:41don't have statistics in front of me. I don't know if you know,
- 14:43on the top of your head. But is the percentage or crime up from
- 14:48let's say, pre pandemic levels. Is there any well? The unfortunate part
- 14:52is I from what I am being told, the violent crimes are up,
- 14:58you know, and that's always very concerning to me. You know, overall
- 15:03in Milford's very safe. I mean I truly believe that, you know,
- 15:07this is an influx of people coming in from out of town, you know,
- 15:13and basically you know, committing crimes and like you said, they're in
- 15:16and they're out. I mean, they jump on the highway and they're gone.
- 15:20I mean the police can't chase, you know, So it gives the
- 15:24criminals more incentive, I guess, I mean, And and that's what we're
- 15:30dealing with. It's the aftermath you know, of of maybe a bad policy,
- 15:35police accountability bill, you know, and this is what we're all dealing
- 15:41with. We're dealing with it, you know, on a state level.
- 15:43And you know, and Milford you know, has its challenges. But I'm
- 15:50confident enough that once elected mayor, I want to work with the police department
- 15:56hand in hand and see if there's any way that we can you know,
- 16:00possibly make it safer. You know, that's what people expect and they're entitled
- 16:07to that. They're they're paying talk tax dollars and they should feel safe and
- 16:11people want to feel protected, and you know, and that's how I grew
- 16:15up. You know, I never questioned or my parents never questioned where I
- 16:19went, if I was going to the mall, that there was going to
- 16:22be you know, an issue. Yeah. So you know, but these
- 16:27are the things you know now that are parents that have kids that are going
- 16:34out outside outside of the mall. The police department have other substations or was
- 16:40it just the one on the post road at the name just on the post
- 16:42road. But you know, at one time they did have a substation in
- 16:45the mall. They don't have that anymore, I you know, Jeremy,
- 16:49I don't. I don't know. I don't think so. I know that
- 16:53they patrol the mall, but I don't know if they have a substation there.
- 16:59But at one time, they remember they did because they had a lot
- 17:00of problems going on with the kids. Well we had the mall brawl,
- 17:03which made world news. Yeah, you know, and that's what they did
- 17:08to, you know, to control the environment at that time. But you
- 17:12know, a lot of this stuff is happening not just inside, but it's
- 17:17the parking lot, you know, it's when you're coming out of the mall,
- 17:21going into the mall. You know, you have to be careful.
- 17:23You have to you know, watch around you and be and be aware of
- 17:30your surroundings. That's one thing I teach my girlfriend son. He's thirteen.
- 17:36It's going to be eighth grade at east Shore, and you know, I'm
- 17:41just you know, he like he likes to fish downtown by himself. And
- 17:45this this actually this happened just the other day. So it was what's today,
- 17:51Tuesday. It was Saturday, and he went down and he's fishing at
- 17:56the duck pond and I was running some area and it started to rain,
- 18:02so he texts me, can you come grab me? It's rain and I
- 18:03said, no problem, I'd be there in like ten minutes. So I
- 18:08drive down and as I'm almost I could see him and I see him texting
- 18:11me at the same time. And you know, I don't know texting and
- 18:15driving, but I looked down. I just looked down at it. And
- 18:18he says, there's a guy here like scaring me. Yeah, but I
- 18:22don't see anyone around him, because I could, I could visibly visually see
- 18:25him. And I'm like, I don't. I don't even respond like I
- 18:29see him. So I go up. I tell him I come around by
- 18:32Parsons and he's right there by the what's that what's in the middle, City
- 18:36Hall's city all in the middle. Yeah, yeah, So he's right by
- 18:38city Hall, fishing right there. So you know, I rolled down my
- 18:41window. So everything, oh good. He goes, yeah, I see
- 18:42that guy outside of the courthouse. I said, yeah, he goes,
- 18:45he's screaming really bad stuff. I said, all right, get in the
- 18:49car. So he packs all the ship up in the car and now I
- 18:53have my brother on the phone. I'm just shooting the ship with him,
- 18:56right, and I rolled the windows down and it's just a I don't want
- 19:00to call him a homeless man, but he looked like a homeless man,
- 19:02because that's another one. That's one issue we will tackle in the future.
- 19:07But he had like a bunch of luggage with him, and Braden was not
- 19:14wrong. This guy was screaming at the top of his lungs FU and I'm
- 19:22like, He's like, what should we do? And I'm like, well,
- 19:26I'm just gonna call somebody first that knows that I know that can get
- 19:30police over there, because this is not going to end well probably for that
- 19:34guy, and he's probably had mental health issues. And he's screaming racial epitaphs
- 19:40at the top of his lungs on a Saturday at two o'clock in downtown Mille.
- 19:44I'm like, what the hell is going on? So I get home
- 19:48and make the call. The unfortunately that call did not help. And then
- 19:51now it's like an hour later, not even an hour later, twenty five
- 19:53minutes later, and I'm like, all right, so I call the non
- 19:59emergency police number and just tell them, and they're like, they said it
- 20:03was taken care of. Let's say, well, you know, so I'm
- 20:07sure somebody else saw this guy. Yeah, you know, Like I'm like,
- 20:11I don't know, I was just I and so I. So the
- 20:14point of that story is I actually was like, listen, you see that
- 20:18walk away. And we kind of have some entry points in Milford where I'd
- 20:22want him to go, one being stone Bridge where he knows everybody and can
- 20:26wait wait it out there, or tell somebody what's going on, or to
- 20:32my buddy Isaac at the barbershop, like he cuts us here. I'm like,
- 20:34go see Isaac. Isaac will take you in. If you're you know,
- 20:37fearful of a crazy person or whatever it might. You know, who
- 20:41could be twenty kids on bikes that are you know, just walk away and
- 20:45walk the other direction, but be aware, you know, be aware.
- 20:49Well I think that's great. I mean, you know, we have to
- 20:52educate our kids, right and we have to give those you know, recommendations
- 20:56out to them to give them something to think about, you know, when
- 21:00they're you know, potentially in that type of situation. So that's good sound
- 21:04advice. I think some of these people get dispersed from other communities and they
- 21:10end up in Milford and they could possibly have mental health issues, you know,
- 21:15challenging issues. But we do have an outreach. We have the best
- 21:18you know on nonprofits. I mean, we have a lot of resources that
- 21:23you know, would help these types of you know people if they needed it.
- 21:29But yeah, I mean, you know, it's all part of you
- 21:32know, Milford. I mean it's things happen. You just have to know
- 21:37how to deal with them, right, you know. And I see it
- 21:40walking out of work at who Am, you know some of the some of
- 21:42the kids, Yeah, and you know of them are just you know,
- 21:47having a good time, had some drinks. But you know, we never
- 21:52let girls walk alone. We walk everybody out. We walk out as a
- 21:56group. Uh you know, you know what kind of business we're in,
- 22:00so sure it could be targets very easily, so we try to be as
- 22:04safe as we can, you know. And the cops, you know,
- 22:07they're always like you want to ride your car. They're always super nice,
- 22:10you know. So because like back in the day, when we were done,
- 22:15we were done, there was no one on the streets. Now all
- 22:17these kids are waiting for ubers. Yeah, so we're literally heading home before
- 22:21the patrons are, you know, like it was never like that before,
- 22:25you know, they were all you were the last ones to leave. Yeah,
- 22:27god, it was, you know, but now it's we don't count
- 22:30as much money because it's it's all credit cards now. So we're done,
- 22:36you know, two fifteen heading home and there used to be three thirty.
- 22:40Yeah, they're out there till yeah, because you know, one they jack
- 22:41up the uber prices, you know, so they get here for twenty bucks,
- 22:45but they got to spend one hundred to get home, and and they
- 22:48gotta wait. There's only so many ubers, you know. On a Saturday
- 22:52night in Milford, I remember seeing the police command of Oh they had to
- 22:56use it down there. Yeah, yeah, I haven't seen it this summer
- 22:59though, see, not recently. Yeah, it might have been there at
- 23:03some point, but the big command unit center thing, which is good.
- 23:07I mean that's yeah. They would park it right on the hill of the
- 23:11train station there, right, Yeah, and then I remember seeing police on
- 23:14bicycles. I don't know, do you remember that. I remember cops on
- 23:17bikes? Yeah, have you seen I haven't seen that now, Like that's
- 23:19something you know, I want to look into. I'm just you know,
- 23:23curious because I used to see, you know, police on bikes. But
- 23:30maybe, you know, maybe it's staffing, you know, maybe staffing at
- 23:34this point, you know. I mean I even talked to the cops at
- 23:38my place and I said, hey, you know twice at night, if
- 23:42you're on the beat, you stopped out colonial manner, just drive through,
- 23:45you know. And I don't want preferential treatment, but yeah, I do,
- 23:48you know, But like you know, it's it's the complexes that seem
- 23:52are the ones getting hit. But like, but you know, there's people
- 23:56that live in houses and their cars are getting robbed right in their driveway too.
- 24:00So I know it. And my advice is, don't confront them.
- 24:04It's just material stuff. You can get it back. Yeah, have insurance.
- 24:11Like I think somebody confronted somebody at the Walmart stealing a cac inverter.
- 24:15Yeah, and somebody got shot or beaten with a tire iron or something.
- 24:18I don't know. Yeah, well prior to that, somebody heard a noise
- 24:23from inside their house at night. This gentleman walked out his front door and
- 24:27his driveway to confront you know, whatever the noise was. Wasn't sure,
- 24:30but it was obviously a saws off somebody you know, cutting and take out
- 24:36and got assaulted by the saws all and got cut cut on his face.
- 24:41I mean, you know, these are the things that you know, you
- 24:45don't know if they're packing heat, you don't know what they're bringing with.
- 24:47You don't want to take matters into your own hands. You just want to,
- 24:49you know, make the call and let the professionals deal with it.
- 24:53Right. The guy will probably on the highway by the time they get there,
- 24:57but maybe maybe not. They could be read around the corner too exactly,
- 25:02you know, And I don't even I mean, it's it's it's you
- 25:04know, you think of cops coming, and that's still scary for them because
- 25:07they don't know what they're up against either, right, you know, Yeah,
- 25:11like you don't know how many guys aren't. Like this van was like
- 25:14three to four people, and like I said, and they're probably not there
- 25:18to hurt anybody. They're just you know, they're they're collecting a paycheck from
- 25:22them. Yeah, why don't we go to them? Why don't they they
- 25:25invest they get the chop shops a little more because they're selling them somewhere.
- 25:29Some of these guys are so praising they sell them right on Facebook marketplace.
- 25:32Yeah, they shouldn't be doing that. But they put some legislation in place
- 25:36to the scrap yards. Yeah, not to take the catalytic converters, you
- 25:41know, unless it's documented, right, almost like a pawn shop, like
- 25:45right, you know, show id this extract, right, I mean,
- 25:48you know, and I think that's you know, deterred a lot of people
- 25:52from doing it. But to your point, these guys are selling them online,
- 25:56you know, so it's hard. It's how do you stop that?
- 26:00But at the same time, I mean, isn't it traceable? Like you
- 26:06know, like like you know, Bob from New Haven? You know,
- 26:08it's selling four brand new Honda Core tires with rims, you know, eight
- 26:15hundred dollars obio. You know, like, well, who the hell is
- 26:18Bob from New Haven? I don't know. I think when things like that
- 26:22happen, you know, these these these people are almost you know, you
- 26:26know, watching you know, they're they're they're watching and if they see something,
- 26:33you know, they're gonna act on it. You know, that's premeditated,
- 26:38you know, when it comes to things like that, I mean,
- 26:41there's no way that you can do that. It's got to be premeditated.
- 26:44Like what you saw coming out of stone Bridge, right, you saw the
- 26:48car on what Creates or that my apartment building? Yeah? Yeah, so
- 26:52you got to bring the crates right right? Yeah, they were like,
- 26:56oh, you got some crates out there. So it was it was so
- 27:00surreal, Like I'm like, I didn't even know it was a crime.
- 27:03Yeah, I'm like, maybe this dude was changing the tigers and they only
- 27:07had milk creates the rest of on I don't know. And then I'm like,
- 27:10oh wait, yeah they did that. Holy shit. You know.
- 27:14So listen, we got the Oyster Fest coming up this weekend. We do
- 27:17So are you going going? You're gonna be there? What's going on?
- 27:21I'm working? Oh, you're working. It's gonna be busy. It always
- 27:26is. It's goods good. It does earlier. I know, it's fucking
- 27:30been a wacky year of weather, but it does. And you know,
- 27:33you know what I'm excited about is the Friday night because it's a lot of
- 27:36you know Milford people. Yeah, what do they call that oyster oyster Ea?
- 27:40Yeah, oyster eat. Yeah. So I'll do a little plug for
- 27:44me and then we'll plug your event as well. Uh So stone Bridge is
- 27:47basically uh, you know the staple. It's so funny. So so I've
- 27:52been working there. You know, it's my twenty fourth year. Yea.
- 27:55And let's go back ten years, right. You know, people would just
- 28:00go to the event and then they'd come in around five and watch the run
- 28:04Runners play and it was just kind of a thing. Not anymore. These
- 28:08guys come their Stormbridge at like one o'clock and then they just stay there.
- 28:11They try to get their table. They don't care who's playing down in the
- 28:15green or who's because you guys, like after the Oyster Fest ends, right,
- 28:21everybody just walks up. It just walks up there. It's great.
- 28:23And the run Runners so they actually played at the top of the stairs down
- 28:27into the crowd and it's it's awesome. And like you know, the sun
- 28:33gets sets a little earlier every day now, so by like seven thirty is
- 28:37dark and they got their light show going. It's it's quite a scene like,
- 28:40if you guys, I recommend doing the Oysterfest, go see Luke Graham.
- 28:44I think everyone's gonna know every song he sings from Foreigner. I almost
- 28:48wished when they press released that out they said Luke Graham from Foreigner because everyone's
- 28:52texting me, who the fucks Luke Graham? I don't know. I'm like,
- 28:55I don't all, so I had to google it. I'm like,
- 28:57you all could google yourselves, by the way, it's not that hard.
- 29:02But I'm like, oh, to two from Foreigner. And then I looked
- 29:03at his last setlist he had, and I knew every single soft chord.
- 29:07I'm like, everyone does this every year with me and they're like, oh,
- 29:11this is gonna suck. And then they come up. I'm like,
- 29:12wow, what a great time. You know, like listen, Jeremy I'm
- 29:15an eighties kid. Yeah, Foreigner, I mean Double Vision, Yeah,
- 29:18yeah, yeah, all those albums. I mean, that's when you went
- 29:22out and bought an album that was before you actually read the covers and all
- 29:26the and everything sucks now. Man actually went to the movies yesterday by myself.
- 29:32Kind of weird, but it was show research and they still give your
- 29:36tickets like I got a ticket. It wasn't on your phone or nothing I
- 29:40could have. But I'm like, I walked up and I didn't know what
- 29:41I what show, what time I was supposed to look at, and I
- 29:45just so everyone's at the kiosk getting their ship, and there's poor Lane,
- 29:48lonely lady just wait for someone to help. So I decided I always do
- 29:52that, Like I always go to the bank teller. Yeah, I don't
- 29:55go to the ATM. I was mitched, you know, I always well,
- 29:57I do self check out a stop it shop. But it's so funny
- 30:00story when I was growing up and I went to the movies, if it
- 30:03was like a really good movie, yeah, you had to go back to
- 30:07see it. Oh yeah, I mean I think I saw Star Wars like
- 30:11eighteen times. I saw it. I saw it. I'm the one I
- 30:14remember. So I was born in seventy four, so Indiana Jones the Temple
- 30:18of Doom, Okay, I remember we saw it opening night and we waited
- 30:22like an hour in line for tickets. Wow. And then I think I
- 30:26saw it five times after that when it's like started to dissipate and I could
- 30:29just go see it without waiting. But yeah, I mean it was awesome.
- 30:32Like, especially as a kid, You're like, yeah, this is
- 30:33great. It was great. Returning the Jedi. I think I was I
- 30:37was eighty. Star Wars was seventy four, right or seventy two somewhere around
- 30:44there. Yeah, yeah, so I was. I was too young.
- 30:45I mean, obviously I've seen the movie, but I was too young to
- 30:48see it in the theater. But I think Return of the Jedi was the
- 30:49first time I saw Star Wars movie in the theater. It was different back
- 30:52then. I don't know, it seemed like things had more to an event,
- 30:56right, it's not. I mean, actually the movies are pretty cool
- 30:59now. We got the recliners. You know, you're just you're just chilling.
- 31:03You're not on top of each other, you know. Granted there's four
- 31:06other people at one o'clock in the afternoon watching this movie with me, I
- 31:08felt like Pebe Harman. But but I know, I saw a Sound of
- 31:12Freedom and I'm actually doing a podcast tomorrow, but I don't I don't think
- 31:18I'm gonna release it tomorrow. But with a friend of mine that saw it,
- 31:21and I actually had a girl on here that is a super advocate.
- 31:26She is on the front lines, and she's been dealing with a lot of
- 31:30politics and East Haven about trying to do fundraisers for her company, We Are
- 31:36One, Inc. And basically she goes after the massage parlors and tries to
- 31:41get them shut down. And it's kind of a I've done two shows whether
- 31:45her name is Ashley fan but like she's this whole thing with East Haven Fire
- 31:49Department, Police department, Like they gave her her blessing to use her their
- 31:52logos and do a touch of truck and then the city mayor shut it down,
- 31:57cease and desist. Yeah. Yeah, so she still went on with
- 32:01a fundraiser, but you know, it's kind of crazy crazy, you know,
- 32:06it's it's a wacky world. Yeah, but I recommend going to see
- 32:10the movie. It's probably coming out soon on I will. I'll definitely do
- 32:15that. But it barely got any press, barely got any fanfare. But
- 32:19it's a true story. Yeah, follows a guy that worked for Homelame security,
- 32:22Uh left his job. So he had he had busted a lot of
- 32:27pedophiles, but never got a kid back. Because once these kids are taken,
- 32:31it's like you're basically it's a nail and Haystack trying to find him and
- 32:37found one and realized that that boy not to be a spoiler had a sister
- 32:42and they both got abducted at the same time. But they were down in
- 32:45like South America, and he were for homeland security, so they can't really
- 32:47do anything outside the United States. A fun guy quit his job, so
- 32:52I'm going to find this girl. And watched the movie and see how it
- 32:54ends. It is pretty pretty crazy shit. And he testified before Congress and
- 32:59got more funding and got more awareness to it all and pretty interesting movie.
- 33:02Sad, yeah, very sad, very sad. Yeah. I hate when
- 33:06they go after the children. Not good, no, not good God's children.
- 33:12But seeah, I told you. We go off tangent a little bit
- 33:15here. Yeah. No, it's fun. It's fun. I'm enjoying it.
- 33:19So what do you do? I know, Easter fast or you got
- 33:21you're gonna be obviously promoting your campaign. Yeah, that's a big part of
- 33:24it. Now that I'm running from there. You got something, you're setting
- 33:28up something or no, I'm gonna walk around. I'm gonna walk around,
- 33:30but I'm gonna volunteer a few hours. You know. The Republicans we have
- 33:35a tent down there. We raise money for our under ticket for our Republican
- 33:38Town Committee because you know, we have people running for all their men Board
- 33:43of ed Planning and Zoning. So that's one of our big fundraisers. And
- 33:49we sell food. So I'll be down there volunteering as well. I mean,
- 33:54if you make it up to stone Bridge, I mean I'll take a
- 33:58plate. Yeah, okay, all right. As much as I love stone
- 34:00Bridge food, I can't eat it every time out there. I like outside
- 34:04food sometimes. Yeah. Stone Bridge they do a great job, and they're
- 34:07they're great to the community. They're very generous, they give back. Yeah,
- 34:12Ridge's great with that stuff. It's a great place. Yeah. You
- 34:15know, I love the fountain. Oh. I mean, I gotta tell
- 34:19you. I drove by it the other day and I said to my wife,
- 34:21I says, the fountain just makes the fool the whole. It was
- 34:24the best idea they had, and it was whose idea was that? So
- 34:29that was Phil's, his son, Philka And we actually had a tragedy through
- 34:35work. We lost Tommy Brocker. I do remember motorcycle accident. It happened
- 34:38like literally like right before it was either right before right after we put the
- 34:42fountain up. So now it's literally called the Tommy Brocker Memorial Fountain. So
- 34:47we dedicated to him. He was he started there before I did. He
- 34:52started there. I think he was like sixteen years old. Wow, and
- 34:53I passed away about three years ago. Yeah, sad, but he was
- 34:57such a good kid, such a hard worker. But yeah, it was
- 35:00all all kind of but yeah, it's it's and it lights up and you
- 35:04know, it goes green for St. Patty's Day and red, white and
- 35:07blue on fourth. Then also it's it's pretty neat and sometimes oh it it's
- 35:09windy. It just blows, does it We gotta shut it off. Yeah,
- 35:14you guys have like a boat or a raft. You go out there
- 35:16string I think you pull it. We can pull it in some of the
- 35:21big storms. It actually the last the storm, big storm we had last
- 35:23year, it got trapped underneath like the big you know, like wood and
- 35:29you know, tree branches were coming down and it trapped underneath. We had
- 35:31to get a diver and get it out. I like the lights to it
- 35:35night. Yeah, yeah, no, it's uh, it's it's cool.
- 35:37It's it's definitely a great addition to the downtown area. So yeah, so
- 35:44so Oysterfest obviously Saturday Park where park, whatever the hell you can, I
- 35:49say, uber to uber and uber out. A lot of people come here
- 35:52from out of town. Oh, it's huge, out of town day.
- 35:57Yes, it's good for downloads, tendance. I've heard fifty thousand. I've
- 36:00heard thirty thousand. Is there. I mean it's no, it's not a
- 36:04ticket at an event, so you really can't. Yeah, gauge it.
- 36:07I don't know. That's a good question. But you know, if the
- 36:10weather's you know, good, it could be up to fifty I would think
- 36:15I would think so too. You know, when we had Brett Michaels,
- 36:16I think that was like the that was the best. That was That was
- 36:21probably the best, the best festival ever. But but I gotta tell you,
- 36:25you know, I've been going to it faithfully. H Eddie Money.
- 36:30I got a chance to eat Eddie, meet meet with him when he came
- 36:37and I'm in line and he's there with his daughter, and his daughter had
- 36:40this little dog, Bogart. She called him bow Guard. Yeah, because
- 36:45she she was singing backups and and she was, you know, performing as
- 36:49well. And I come up to the line and I says, hey,
- 36:52Eddie, I says, you know, it's pleasure to meet you. You
- 36:54know, I grew up with MTV. I watched all your videos. He's
- 36:58like, oh cool. He's like listen and he's like he just came out
- 37:00of the trailer to do a little meat and greet. He's like, this
- 37:04is the oyster Fest, right, I go, yeah, I go,
- 37:06why what's up? He goes, you know they're serving me cheese and crackers,
- 37:08you know. Yeah, so I said, no problem. I took
- 37:13care of it. I'm some oysters, I mean, regular guy. You
- 37:16know. It's a shame, you know, but just honored to have met
- 37:21him, you know, just a nice guy. Took so much time to
- 37:24spend with the fans. Was in no rush. You know, you could
- 37:29just tell you know, Jeremy, you know, like just he was just
- 37:34one of those guys. And he was a police officer, yeah, a
- 37:37New York police officer. And then he always was in a band and it
- 37:40just took off, yeah you know, and became Eddie Money and still listen
- 37:46to his music today. Yeah, you know, I loved it when he
- 37:49came back and did like the Geico commercials or whatever it was he did.
- 37:52Yeah, like ten years ago, remember that no, like he was like
- 37:57making fun of himself, which I appreciate about celebrities to no end, Like
- 38:00when you can actually like look at the yes, humility is a huge thing
- 38:04for me, and I just remember that. I don't it might not have
- 38:07been Geico, but it was like Afflac or Geico or one of those insurance
- 38:09commercials and yeah, yeah, YouTube it. They were funny, but the
- 38:15quick Brett Michael's story. I never met him, but his uh two right
- 38:19hand man stage hands came up to stone Bridge for lunch that day and me
- 38:24and Campy were trying to like, yo, I think I think Brett could
- 38:28come up and and sing with the rum Runners for a couple of songs like
- 38:30no one's got to know, just like pop in and pop out. And
- 38:34he's like, I don't know. I'll ask him, mean all blah bla
- 38:35blah blah blah. So I pour him a diet coke and he's like,
- 38:38what kind of diet cocus this? And I'm like, well, it's actually
- 38:42a local company called Castle Beverage. He goes, can I take something to
- 38:46go? And I'm like sure why. He's like, Brett Michael's is gonna
- 38:52love this diet Cola and I'm like, okay, so the guy like takes
- 38:57two sodas to go. H They never came back, but the word was
- 39:02is the guy kind of said this to us. He goes, it's you
- 39:06probably have a five percent chance of this actually happening because this was the last
- 39:10stop of their tour for four weeks. So literally after the show, everyone
- 39:15just scatters and goes back to their home lives and does it, which I
- 39:20completely understand it. But he said if he said, if we didn't have
- 39:22a show, let's say we didn't have a show on Money or Tuesday,
- 39:24yeah, they probably would have come up and done it because he's done ship
- 39:27Like yeah, they like jump on separate planes. Yeah yeah, yeah,
- 39:30they're gone. They scattered, Like how cool would that event of Brett Michaels
- 39:34was popped in and started thinking for Johnny and the rum Runners. Well,
- 39:37the rumor was that he was going to go to stone Bridge and play because
- 39:40he knew that the rum Runners were Fireman and he had a connection with Fireman.
- 39:46I don't know if it was his dad, but somebody in his family
- 39:50was a fireman, and you know, he always appreciated, you know,
- 39:55Fireman for their service, and you know, he was a type of guy
- 40:00that would do something like that. But you know, maybe it was just
- 40:02a long day, you know, a long tour. Yeah, those guys.
- 40:06Yeah, you know, but try to sneak him in the stone Ridge.
- 40:09I mean he won the Apprentice, Brett Michaels, he was on the
- 40:13Apprentice? Yeah, yeah, does that mean he's a trumper? Maybe?
- 40:17I'm not sure. We're not talking about that today. Come on, you
- 40:21got a pre show about this, all right, Well, let's get to
- 40:25your fundraiser now. So obviously saturday's Doingsterfeston. If you want to see Tony,
- 40:30he'll be. He'll be around walking, walking the streets, handing out
- 40:32five our bills to everybody. Absolutely, so, Jeremy, this is a
- 40:37fun, a fun fund raiser, all right. It's all about having fun.
- 40:43And you know, I've been going to these political fundraisers for many years
- 40:47and we're trying to do something different, kind of boring for the most part,
- 40:52be boring. You know I used to work. Yeah, everyone wants
- 40:57the stiffs in here. Yeah, everybody wants to speak. You know,
- 41:00I'm gonna say a few words, but you know, I want to give
- 41:04back in my way too. I mean the people that supported me, I
- 41:07think they're gonna really enjoy the venue. You know, Stonebridge is great.
- 41:13We're bringing in this band, YouTube Nation. Yes, so if you like
- 41:16Bono, if you like you Two, I mean, you know, there's
- 41:20a lot of inspirational music, a lot of meaning, and you know we're
- 41:24gonna we're gonna have a blast. So this is Tuesday, August twenty second.
- 41:30I know you come. When you call me the other day, I'm
- 41:31like, fuck, I'm out of town. I'm like no, I'm like,
- 41:35did we go to Lake Winnipesaki or somewhere every year? And it's always
- 41:37right after the Oyster. I'm like, I'm like Bret Michaels I scattered.
- 41:43I was ready to have you MC the event. But I'll do abvious something
- 41:46for you Tuesday, August twenty second at my restaurant, stone Bridge Restaurant,
- 41:52six to eight. YouTube Nation is playing the whole time or no. So
- 41:57what we're gonna do is we're gonna have a DJ from like six to seven,
- 42:00Okay, okay, yeah, because when people come in, I'm gonna
- 42:05have a little red carpet set up nice and we're gonna do a little you
- 42:07know, photos you know, I want to meet and greet to people,
- 42:12a little backtrap, little yeah, you know. Yeah, So, uh,
- 42:16we're gonna do that and then the band will come on at seven,
- 42:20played about eight thirty, you know, and uh, we're gonna have a
- 42:23blast, and you know we're gonna be there probably probably way into the wee
- 42:30hours of a Tuesday night. I think so yeah, I think we're gonna
- 42:32draw the Friday night crowd on a Tuesday night. Oh man, I'm a
- 42:37little upset. I'm not gonna be there a pitch. Uh. So there's
- 42:40a suggested donation forty dollars online, fifty at the door. Don't be cheap.
- 42:45It's not going into Tony's pocket. No, not entirely. Uh.
- 42:51Like I said, he's hand to fight dollar bills out to every every person
- 42:53he sees an oyster fest. I gotta come up to ten different costumes.
- 42:59You know, Jeremy, these these events, it sounds great. It's it's
- 43:04yeah, it's it's different. It is. I've seen a million of these
- 43:07Country stone Bridge, and uh, like I said, it's usually, you
- 43:09know, we put out some pasta and they get a drink ticket and that's
- 43:14it and they come and go I could see them hanging out, having a
- 43:17good time and drawing interest from maybe passers by, people sitting in a different
- 43:23restaurants around town. Here in the music on a random Tuesday night. A
- 43:27good band. Obviously, you two, I could tell you this, you
- 43:30two nation. They've played Caesar's Palace down in Atlantic City. They've played I
- 43:35think it's called the Stone Pony. Have you ever heard of in New Jersey?
- 43:38Yeah, on the shore, on the shore, yeah, you know,
- 43:44and they travel, they travel all over the country. And you know,
- 43:47they were nice enough to work with us. You know, I'm very
- 43:51appreciative of that. I ran into them one night, you know, they
- 43:55were doing a little acoustic and you know, it really touched me. So
- 44:00I want to bring in the Milford. I want to introduce, you know,
- 44:04all my supporters to them, you know, and it's gonna be a
- 44:07great time. You know. The money is going towards obviously, the campaign
- 44:13we're doing. You know a lot of social media. I did a video.
- 44:16Did you see my video? Come on, you gotta see my video.
- 44:21I want you to watch my video because you know, the guy that
- 44:27did it did a great job, you know, trying to get my message
- 44:30out there. By raising the money. We're doing mailers. We got billboards
- 44:36on reserve. We're gonna have a big billboard across from stone Bridge. So
- 44:40it's coming. It's coming. Yeah, it's a tough it's a tough get
- 44:45the billboard. Yeah, you know, I know they reserve it this time.
- 44:49They do, they do. They're they're very up fair, I should
- 44:52say. So I'm looking forward to that. I wanted to put my logo
- 44:57up there for a month, but I think, oh really, yeah,
- 45:00like when I first started, like get the word out pickle driving around,
- 45:04I didn't give a funk about the price, butch, let's just get it
- 45:06up there. And then you know, I think the realtor guy might have
- 45:10had it for like the eleven months or ten months of the year outside of
- 45:14the political spectrum, okay whatever. And I was like, I don't worry
- 45:16about it. But if I was ever going to put a billboard anywhere in
- 45:20Milford, that's the one you want to be on. Yeah. Yeah,
- 45:22gonna be cars coming around that corner. Yeah, it's all day long,
- 45:24and and you know it's funny now I've noticed there's like traffic. Oh yeah,
- 45:29like it's especially like on a Friday and people are getting out of work.
- 45:34It's like all backed up to New Haven Avenue just to go through downtown.
- 45:37It takes me fifteen minutes to get to work. This should take me
- 45:40too, So you know, I think that they're gonna have time to look
- 45:45at the billboard. Oh yeah, is your pretty face gonna be on it?
- 45:51Milford? We're talking about it. We're gonna you know, it's possible,
- 45:55It's possible. I love the logo. I like it. You know,
- 46:00the tony G thing. From a very young age, a lot of
- 46:02people couldn't pronounce my last name. So one of my coaches back in the
- 46:08day, he just started with the Tony J Tony J and it just kind
- 46:13of stuck. So now you are officially or unofficially running against Carrie Rowland.
- 46:20Officially, I am the endorsed Republican candidate. Yes, that would be correct.
- 46:24Do you have any debates coming up? Anything like that? Not that
- 46:29I know of, not that I heard of. But guys want to sit
- 46:30in this room. Yeah, well it's a great room. I like it.
- 46:35Yeah, I mean i'd probably have to put up a Carrie Rowland sign,
- 46:38but just to be fair, you have to be fair. No,
- 46:40that would something like that, I'd be biting my tongue a lot of the
- 46:45time. But no, just kidding. Yeah, I mean I think it's
- 46:49you know, what's I when I had bet on, Yeah, I had
- 46:52him on right after he won his reelection, which which which was his last
- 46:58one? Okay, and uh, I had talked to him beforehand, and
- 47:01I was like, you know, you want to come on with I forget
- 47:04who was I was who was running against Ben last time? Oh, Pete
- 47:09Ba Ruby, Yeah, Peter, he's on the board of all he's running
- 47:13to be Yeah, he's running for the board of last Ben. I said,
- 47:15you know, it doesn't have to be like a freaking CNN debate hall,
- 47:20town hall or anything. But you know, if you guys have some
- 47:22opposing views on something, come on, let's let's let everyone hear about it.
- 47:27Yeah, you know in which direction you might want to take that,
- 47:29Like maybe Carrie has different ideas on how to deal with crime than you do,
- 47:32or advice for you know, whatever, whatever the topic. Maybe okay,
- 47:37but it's something I'm always down for. I love it. Yeah,
- 47:39I'll keep it fair and uh and short and sweet, you know, keep
- 47:43it to about forty five minutes and okay, can shake hands and she can
- 47:46leave and we can have a bear. That sounds like that could be interesting.
- 47:52Yeah, that could be interesting. You know, I feel like everything
- 47:57is consumed through video audio. Now, where is someone going to read print
- 48:04on what you want to do or is somebody more inclined to watch or listen
- 48:07to you two actually have an intelligent debate. Everything's consumed through social media now.
- 48:15It's something that you know, just just you alone. You have all
- 48:19these socials, which is great, and we'll promote those right as we're about
- 48:21mister Shell will promote those. But I think that's a great it's a great
- 48:24outlet. Obviously helps me as well. I mean I have my own ambitions,
- 48:30but it's something i'd be willing to mediate. Uh should your two camps
- 48:38want to actually face to face? But I don't know. I don't know,
- 48:43So I don't know if she was she didn't even consider anything like it,
- 48:45and if she did, she probably wants to go something a little higher
- 48:47than me. I don't know, but I'm the one willing to do.
- 48:52Well. I appreciate what you do because you know, in your own way,
- 48:55it's like giving back. You have your finger on the pulse and Milford.
- 49:00You know, you invited me on here. You went out of your
- 49:01way to reach out to me, and you know that says a lot about
- 49:05you as a person and your character, you know, giving me the opportunity
- 49:08for people to get to know me through your you know listeners, you know,
- 49:13And I've heard all good things about you personally. I've gotten to know
- 49:17you, and you're You're very friendly and you know, I know that all
- 49:22your intentions are good. But I mean, you know, Milford people in
- 49:28Milford, they just want what's best for Milford, right. We all want
- 49:30to be safe. We all want our kids to have a great education and
- 49:34and and grow up you know, in a great city. And you know
- 49:37we have great recreational facilities now, I mean you see the fields we have.
- 49:42Oh my god, I mean it's crazy. We just just that far
- 49:45and alone, those stills down there, another spot I didn't know existed earlier
- 49:51this yeah, earlier this summer. I was just like I went on a
- 49:52walk and I was walking down I'm like, yeah, he's come from.
- 49:57Well that's what I tell the kids, you know, Like when I went
- 50:00to form, we didn't have that, right, I didn't have that when
- 50:01I played popcorn Warner football. These kids are practicing up at the Why we
- 50:06didn't have a field like that. I mean I would feel like a Dallas
- 50:08cowboy walking out onto the astro turf field. Yeah. You know, so
- 50:13we've come a long way, you know. And I tell everybody this town
- 50:16is it offers. There's I don't think there's a thing it doesn't offer.
- 50:22Like, you know, you have the post road side of town, the
- 50:24big mally. Then you have you know, multiple private and public beaches,
- 50:30a state beach. The downtown is one of the best in Connecticut, you
- 50:35know, rivals some of the best like Mystic and Nice downtowns. You know,
- 50:39it's about the second largest green in Connecticut. Yeah, the flagpole is
- 50:45the tallest. Yes, yeah, I mean there's just so many things,
- 50:47and so check this out. What about the music? Think about that the
- 50:52culture here, right, I mean there's a lot of live music. We
- 50:55do all these porch fests. I mean people have bands come to their house.
- 51:00I mean, how great is that? Three hundred bands that might be
- 51:01oh no, it might be something crazy like that. I Mean I had
- 51:05those guys on last fall when we were promoting it last fall, and I
- 51:07was like looking at the list I'm like, and just the guys that take
- 51:10the time, they're not making any money, they're taking the time to organize
- 51:14something of that grand scale is impressive. And you know, just coming through
- 51:20this show, I've had like six seven you know, young musicians on that
- 51:24are all aspiring to be great. It's great to see their passion sitting across
- 51:30from me, like your passion to be mayor, like it's it's it's it's
- 51:32inspiring for you know, for a lot of people. Well for me,
- 51:37I want to promote the city. You know, I want to increase the
- 51:40tourism. You know, I want to have people come here and you know,
- 51:45enjoy themselves and you know, have a night out, you know,
- 51:49entertainment. I mean those are the things that really, you know, people
- 51:52talk about and just build on it, right, you know, just build
- 51:57on it. I mean that's what it's all about. And you know,
- 52:00Milford has the potential. I mean we got people coming over here on boats
- 52:04now, you know for the weekend. I'm sure they come up to stone
- 52:07Bridge, right, you talked to him. I made friends that I go
- 52:09visit when I'm in Long Island. Oh really come over on a boat.
- 52:13Yeah, I just met him through work and I heard there they're big tippers.
- 52:15Oh yeah, they got a lot of money over there, but I
- 52:22think they got the forty foot they're the kids, Yeah, I mean they
- 52:27bring the whole family and you know, and they're looking forward to coming to
- 52:31Milford and experiencing the whole downtown, you know, and we just gotta you
- 52:36know, and the restaurant seeing downtown rivals some of the best places I've been.
- 52:40Yeah, Like, I mean, there is not I don't think there's
- 52:44a restaurant downtown that I wouldn't go to. There is one. But you
- 52:46know what I want to ask you. I want to know where a bartender
- 52:51goes on his night off to hang out. That's what I want to know,
- 52:57all right? So where do you go? I mean, come on,
- 53:00Jeremy, where do you go? Where do you like to hang out?
- 53:02I'll give you, I'll give you tell me, all right. So
- 53:07this is so you know I'm a whore Milford. Oh yeah, I'm also
- 53:13I'm almost fifty, right, So like the days of like going out on
- 53:16a Monday night and getting hammered or kind of long con doesn't say it doesn't
- 53:21happen. Yeah, Uh, I really like Archies. Okay, uh,
- 53:25you know we usually go there Sunday night after work. See'all. Are
- 53:30you know cr regular? See you know Todd behind the bar, Hutch behind
- 53:34the bar. All good dudes. Great community's by the way, it's funny
- 53:38ask that question because there really is a strong community of service industry people that
- 53:45we all know each other. You know, I want to I don't want
- 53:49to sound selfish, but I kind of call storage home base for you know,
- 53:52because you know me and can't have been there twenty five years almost,
- 53:55so we've seen people come and go. But you know Josh at SBC,
- 54:00and you know the guys at Elis Drew and all those cats over there,
- 54:04and then you got the guys at Archies and everyone is Citrus, and Citrus
- 54:07is a big spot for me too. Nice. You know, I lived
- 54:10near Dive Bar, so okay, I'll hang out. I know that's West
- 54:14Aven, but yeah, you know I know everyone. I used to work
- 54:16there, so you know, okay, good friends of the owner. So
- 54:21so you know in Fortellities, the voice are for Tellies. You know,
- 54:24they're they're always uh, they come in late night on Friday and Saturday when
- 54:28they work their asses off all day and just want to wind unwind a little
- 54:31bit and have a drink with me. So so you guys support each other,
- 54:37yea and Colony. I go see Lance at Colony, like I try
- 54:40to you know, hit most of them. Uh, but I would say
- 54:45I would say Dive, Archies, Citrus, not in that order, you
- 54:49know, just probably the three. I would probably stop it in the most.
- 54:52But on my nights off like with like with going out with my girlfriend,
- 54:54we try to get out of Dodge. So like we went we went
- 54:59to uh dock Side on a Thursday night and I walked in. I'm like,
- 55:04I don't want to be here. She's like why, I'm like,
- 55:07I fucking know everyone here? Oh really, Like it's not it's just I
- 55:09just like want to have dinner with my girlfriend. Yeah, you know,
- 55:13and it's I love everybody, but like some days you're just like, what
- 55:16are they talking to you about the podcast? No? Not really no,
- 55:20I just I just know them, like you hit them all personally and like
- 55:22you know, on a personal level, not just from the bar. And
- 55:27it's just like, you know, and she's always like, you fucking you
- 55:30should be the bear Milford. You know everybody, And I'm like I'm wanting
- 55:34us no job I want. I'm not qualified second of all. And uh,
- 55:37you know, it's just that's why we like, you know, we
- 55:39actually had up the shoreline. We go to Westbrook, this place called oh
- 55:45Man, what the he's the name of it. It's a little burger joint
- 55:47right on Route one and Westbrook. We kind of discovered it years ago,
- 55:52and we'll hit there twice this summer. Just take a ride up, get
- 55:54out of Dodge. You know, I don't need to know anybody. Yeah,
- 55:58you know, almost meet new people, talk to the bartender, I
- 56:00don't know, you know, stuff like that. Yeah, but I love
- 56:02all the bars downtown. I try to you know, I go to SBC,
- 56:07I go to you know, Elis, And I can tell you this
- 56:09being the mayor. It's a lifestyle. Yeah, oh definitely, definitely.
- 56:15I mean I move around a lot. I want to support, you know,
- 56:20all the businesses you know in any way. I asked Ben Blake when
- 56:23he was on the show. I said, I assassd them two questions.
- 56:27What's one are your hidden gems of Milford the restaurant wise that people wouldn't know,
- 56:30and what like if you have a favorite restaurant and he wouldn't answer.
- 56:34He wouldn't. Hey he's a politician. Come on, I could say,
- 56:37before you become mayor let me ask you, what are your what are your
- 56:40three favorite spots that you go to when Milford. I go to Stonebridge.
- 56:45I always feel comfortable there. I've been going there. You have to remember,
- 56:47though, when the Capitol Theater was next door, right right, that's
- 56:52how far back? Yeah, I mean that I became twenty one. Yeah,
- 56:57that was that was the place where I went, you know, and
- 57:01I've been going back there ever since. And I remember walking in the bar
- 57:05at that time. Richie. I don't know if you know this or not,
- 57:07you probably do. Had it's kind of like this, Yeah, all
- 57:12all these autographs from all these golf tournaments, all these professional football players,
- 57:15and you know, he's just kind of I can't believe he took it down.
- 57:17I used to love walking through there. Yeah, you know, that's
- 57:21like old school. Yeah, you know, so I think it was like
- 57:23through his father, was it. Yeah, So it's well he I think
- 57:28his father had some kind of ties to the Redskins. Okay, so he
- 57:30knew all the Redskins and knew you know, the Hogs, all those guys.
- 57:36And so when I was playing football, I always went to football camp,
- 57:38like offense defense, John Dockery football camp. So I met a lot
- 57:43of those guys you know that played back then. You know a lot of
- 57:45the Jets guys. You know, Tony Dorsett was at offense defense. So
- 57:52you know, yeah, Richie introduced me to the doorset at the casino once,
- 57:54did he Yeah? Yeah. And Joe Dyisman yeah he uh he.
- 58:00He just had a I'm trying to get in my podcast. But Lawrence Phillips,
- 58:06No, not Lawrence Phillips, he's dead. Tommy Frasier the quarterback for
- 58:09Lawrence Phillips. So Tommy Frasier was Nebraska quarterback in the nineties. I think
- 58:15he went back to back national championships. He got drafted, but he had
- 58:22a real bad like hip injury or some kind of leg injury, and it
- 58:25just it just never healed and he just never could perform. Like if he
- 58:29were to be drafted. I had a conversation with my best friend and I
- 58:31said, if he were to be like playing today's game and drafted, like
- 58:35he's like Lamar Jackson, like that was you know, kind of run first
- 58:38but could still throw and there's a highlight of him and he broke like ten
- 58:44tackles. It was like one of the most famous highlights in the NCAA Championship
- 58:47game against Miami. And he was sitting at the corner of my buck as
- 58:52they do all the Walter Camp stuff. So they had the golf they do
- 58:57the golf tournament in the summer, and they do the Walter Camp founday in
- 59:00January. So Richie brings them all down and they have dinner, and he
- 59:04just sat He sat in my corner like you know, I worked that bar
- 59:07when he first walk in. Yeah, campy corners like to the left.
- 59:09Yeah. He sat in my corner for four hours, just drinking vodka Red
- 59:14Bulls, talking to every girl that walked up to like the character a character.
- 59:17I'm like, dude, I gave him my card, like you gotta
- 59:20come on the show. He's like, yeah, I'm down. But he's
- 59:22got no social media. I don't know how to get a hold of him.
- 59:24So I'm like kind of getting on Richie, like, Yo, call
- 59:27your boy Tommy, tell him to come on the show. What are these
- 59:30people drinking now? I feel like everyone in general, it's all gone to
- 59:32the rtts. They called the Seltzers, the Seltzers, the High Noons,
- 59:36the White Claws, these Vivas, stuff like that. So it's is it
- 59:39relatively easy to be a bartender? Not? You don't have to mix as
- 59:43many drinks? Would you already have? See I started personality, So yes,
- 59:45if you have the personality, you can figure out the rest as you
- 59:49go, all right. When I could, I could when I used to
- 59:52do hiring. Yeah, and I have a Merriott background as well. You
- 59:57you would sit down here and I would talk to you for about a minute.
- 1:00:00Yeah, I'd be like I would know right away he's got it or
- 1:00:02doesn't, and you got it? I got it? Got it? Listen,
- 1:00:07I gotta tell you sometimes I walk up. You need the job if
- 1:00:08you don't become This is an interview right now. Sometimes it's not. It's
- 1:00:13not easy getting a drink though. At a bar you have to make eye
- 1:00:15contact with the bartender, and some of them do they do it like on
- 1:00:19purpose. They almost like sometimes not look at you, I am because they're
- 1:00:24like one that like I I peripherally see you. Yeah. Uh. If
- 1:00:30if I know you've been waiting a little bit, yeah, I'll do the
- 1:00:32eye contact and give you like you know, like like your next okay thing
- 1:00:36cool not to toot my own horn or camps. We're so fucking fast.
- 1:00:42Yeah, like you really don't have to wait at our bar like oyster FETs
- 1:00:45gets a little crazy because one we know everybody, so our names are being
- 1:00:50screamed all day. Wow you know dog dog k Okay, it's like you
- 1:00:53have to fight. I know what you drink, I'll get it in a
- 1:00:54second, you know, Like I don't know this person. I gotta ask
- 1:00:58it what they want, you know, so but yeah I don't. I
- 1:01:00don't get too overwhelmed there. Sometimes I'm always surfess. It gets a little
- 1:01:04like because it's such a long day too. Yeah, but you're gonna have
- 1:01:07help though, right, It's not just gonna be your just me and camp
- 1:01:10behind that bar and a bar back. Yeah that's all we need. You're
- 1:01:14gonna hold it down. D You have no idea these kids today, Like
- 1:01:19I got some good kids at work. But like like I go to bars,
- 1:01:22like I go, you know, I travel a little bit, and
- 1:01:24when I go, I'm just like just kind of what you just said,
- 1:01:27Like, you know, sometimes it's it's kind of hard to get a drink
- 1:01:30sometimes and and I'm you know, I've been doing this forever and I just
- 1:01:32I just look. I'll like this, how stupid. I am like,
- 1:01:36I'll look behind the bar to see how they're set up. Are they set
- 1:01:39up for failure or they set up for success? You're studying, like like
- 1:01:45when people come behind my bar, like bartenders I work with, and they'll
- 1:01:47be like, it's so easy over here. I'm like, because we make
- 1:01:50it easy. It just set it it up correctly. Know what people want,
- 1:01:54know what liquors need to be in the well, have your fruit,
- 1:01:58have everything. Just just streamline, streamline and streamline it and it's easy.
- 1:02:01And I go, I remember when the Buffalo Wild Wings opened at the mall.
- 1:02:06Yeah, it was on my birthday, whatever year it was, oh,
- 1:02:08seven, oh nine, whatever, went there and I merely looked behind
- 1:02:13the bar and their whole speed well was filled with like creamed the banana and
- 1:02:16triple sec and I'm like that that is not a recipe for success. And
- 1:02:22we took forever to get Drakes there, and you know, people running into
- 1:02:25each other and bouncing off each other. But you guys, you guys run
- 1:02:29a tight ship. And you know, I just noticed that going to other
- 1:02:31places. You know, some people you know, they don't. You know
- 1:02:37a lot of it's training too, is it, Yeah, I mean with
- 1:02:40anything else. Yeah, I mean it's not hard to open. You know,
- 1:02:45a can of white claw. What's the big flavor though, I mean
- 1:02:47you got so many flavors, right, black chair and the white claw.
- 1:02:51We carry the watermelon, pineapple, the high noon, the vehicle we carry
- 1:02:53the huckleberry and grapefruit. But the new craze now is the surface. So
- 1:03:00that's a hard iced tea. So I see you got a hat on,
- 1:03:04yes, and tease tease the viva. Yeah, tell me about that.
- 1:03:07So those are tequila Seltzer's. Wow. So they actually are very good,
- 1:03:15but their their thing is, you know, tequila. Tequila's kind of the
- 1:03:19new craze. Like we we sell probably just as much as tequil as we
- 1:03:22do vodka now, and a lot of it's because it's classified as healthier for
- 1:03:28you. Yeah, it's less calories, it's it's cleaner, it's cleaner.
- 1:03:31But in the Seltzer form, well, so I know I'm talking, I'm
- 1:03:36talking regular tequila, so less, the hangover is less, there's less sugar,
- 1:03:43all that stuff. This is all good advice Yeah, so that boys
- 1:03:46Viva decided to do because you know, high Noon's all vodka. Everyone's doing
- 1:03:51vodka vodka. Well we're missing out on a tequila craze right now. And
- 1:03:55so they went to somebody in Mexico and branded out the tequila. And it's
- 1:04:00a litt tequila and Seltzer with natural flavorings and it's like eighty eight calories a
- 1:04:04can, zero sugar carbs, you know, and it's all about it's what
- 1:04:10it wants now, but it's all about calories. Yeah, you drink like
- 1:04:14a twisted tea. Yeah, it's got like fifty grams of carbs in one
- 1:04:16twisted tea can and like all this sugar. Wow, they taste good,
- 1:04:21but yeah, it's terrible for you. Right, You're better up drinking a
- 1:04:25coke, you know, with vodka in it. What do you like to
- 1:04:28drink? I am a Viva guy, Okay, I drink the Seltzer's.
- 1:04:32Uh. I will do a vodka soda Tito soda every once in a while.
- 1:04:38I like tetos. Yeah, and I'm a Jamison guyre you go.
- 1:04:43Yeah, Saint Patrick's Day, Yeah, that's that's a big day for me.
- 1:04:48So stuff gets consumed I think it's a big day for Jamison, so
- 1:04:51yeah, yeah, they do well that day. I love walking in the
- 1:04:56sea. I drink Tetos. Yeah yeah, I'm not I'm not a big
- 1:05:00drinker. No no, no, I don't really even consider myself a drinker,
- 1:05:04but you know, I'd like to have a drink once in a while.
- 1:05:09But I gotta tell you, walking in that Saint Patrick's Day parade,
- 1:05:12yea, through all the years that I've been on the board of Alderman is
- 1:05:15like one of the best parades ever. I gotta tell you. It's just
- 1:05:20everybody comes out, there's so much energy. Then everybody goes out afterwards,
- 1:05:28and you guys have the rum Runners on set Patty's Day too, right yeah,
- 1:05:30I mean you guys, what do you like book them like in you
- 1:05:34you know what? No, they it's just it's just it's all hat now,
- 1:05:38like we don't everyone knows. It's easy. Yeah. Yeah. They
- 1:05:41love playing there, We love having them and uh you know it's funny like
- 1:05:45the year of COVID, right, yeah, so we shut down the parade
- 1:05:50got canceled last minute. I never Marty rest is so hard. H yeah,
- 1:05:55Marty, he was on the board. Yep. And he came in
- 1:05:58and he said, uh, you know, I think we're gonna do it.
- 1:06:00That was like Tuesday or Wednesday, and Thursday they shut it down and
- 1:06:06then we all knew. We're like, are we even gonna be open like
- 1:06:10at all? Like when are they shutting the restaurants down? Because I mean,
- 1:06:13we're smart people. We see what's going on, what's getting shut down
- 1:06:16every day at work. And so they shut the NSA tournament down, they
- 1:06:18shut this down, this down't know, they're not going to allow all these
- 1:06:20people in stone Ridge. There's no fucking way. So the phrade gets canceled.
- 1:06:27We're like, well, there's no protocols yet. Ben hasn't told us
- 1:06:30anything. So we just opened the patio and I was so proud of everyone
- 1:06:35that showed up that day. It was like the parade happened. It was
- 1:06:41crazy, and then two days later it was over. It was over,
- 1:06:45and uh, you know that's what we got. We gotta we gotta work
- 1:06:48on getting more people to come out for the veterans. So that is accurate.
- 1:06:56I think it's a shame. I think somebody had just posted the other
- 1:07:00day about the Milford Little League girls softball team. It's a great run.
- 1:07:03They had two years in a row. Just I think they just got tired,
- 1:07:06they played so many days in a row. But somebody that's, you
- 1:07:11know, is there a parade for them? And somebody had mentioned, well
- 1:07:15why don't they march at the Veterans Day parade? Perfect? And some you
- 1:07:19know, you get the Schneide remarks and then you get but somebody's like,
- 1:07:21you know what, that's a great idea, because you know that that parade,
- 1:07:27whether it's injected through something like that or more organically, but it needs
- 1:07:32more people, it needs more presents, and especially over a drunk. As
- 1:07:35much as we love Saint Patrick's Day, it means nothing to us but drinking,
- 1:07:40you know where the veterans don't. I don't they don't get their respect
- 1:07:44they deserve. Yeah, I don't feel well, we have, you know,
- 1:07:47done a lot for the veterans, and I think we should work on
- 1:07:50possibly doing more. I think there's always work that needs to be done.
- 1:07:55And I agree, I would love to have more people, you know,
- 1:07:58come to that parade. You know, I don't do it all the time,
- 1:08:01but I try to. I try to always think a veteran when I
- 1:08:04see him. Yeah, I can't say him a hundred percent on it,
- 1:08:06but yeah, you know, I'm batting over five hundred though, like I
- 1:08:11try to be conscious of it. Yeah, you know, my grandfather was
- 1:08:14World War Two and wow, my father wasn't the army, but he just
- 1:08:18missed being deployed to Vietnam. But he's, you know, a veteran of
- 1:08:23the army, but he never served overseas. But you know, it's just
- 1:08:27these guys have helped me do this and have you freedom of speech right,
- 1:08:30you know, you know, and if it wasn't for them, right,
- 1:08:33I wouldn't have elections. We'd be speaking German. Who knows, who knows
- 1:08:39what it would be right? But God blessed the veterans. Yeah, you
- 1:08:44know, I I don't know. I'm really excited about this, this election.
- 1:08:49You know, it's an open seat. There's a lot of energy.
- 1:08:54I can see you. We got a lot of Yeah, you know,
- 1:08:57I'm knocking on doors, which is always cool. It's just sometimes people think
- 1:09:00I'm selling like Jehovah's witness over like solar panels. You know, you walk
- 1:09:05up, you know, and you got your palm cards in your hand,
- 1:09:11and no, no, I'm all set. I got offered a John to
- 1:09:14solar panels. And I was on like a call and I called a guy
- 1:09:17and I said, before I waste ended for your fucking time. Is this
- 1:09:21door to door? He says yes. I said, sorry, I mean
- 1:09:27I know it was, but like I don't know, it's crazy, all
- 1:09:30right, So Tuesday August twenty second, Stormbridge. Yes, six to eight.
- 1:09:34They're probably gonna go longer than eight. I'm actually, uh, well,
- 1:09:38you'll see it through Instagram. I'm gonna post a picture of us and
- 1:09:41put a picture of the this fundraiser. There's a QR code, one of
- 1:09:45those fancy cure cads. Scan it. Donate through there. Again, not
- 1:09:49a mandatory, but please be generous. Yeah, you know he's he's spending
- 1:09:55a lot of his time and energy to help this town be better. I
- 1:10:00think the town is great, but improvements are always made. Absolutely. If
- 1:10:03you want to stay great, you've got to keep working. Yeah, you
- 1:10:08could visit Tony G from Milford dot com www dot Tony G from Milford dot
- 1:10:12com. And you have the same sites on Instagram and yes, is that
- 1:10:15Instagram? Facebook? And you know Tony and twenty three Tony G. I
- 1:10:20like that twenty three. Uh and also for me. My website was tempered.
- 1:10:29I'm still kind of new to this ship. So I got a website
- 1:10:30too, Dot Day Drinking with Dog dot com. It's up. There's some
- 1:10:34merch on there now. The shows you can link right through it mean I
- 1:10:39released. This show goes right through the websites. You can watch it on
- 1:10:42there. Uh my YouTube channel. You could actually see Tony in person on
- 1:10:45YouTube that will be loaded up later tonight. Uh Day Drinking with Dog.
- 1:10:48Just look it up on YouTube. My channels right on there. And I'm
- 1:10:54sorry, I'm not going to be there Tuesday. I'm gonna be actually,
- 1:10:57I think I'm gonna be on a one of those tiki hotbar is to go
- 1:11:00out in the water. Yeah, yeah, up at Lake Winnipisaki. Okay,
- 1:11:03Yeah, my girlfriend booked it. So well you enjoy. I'll send
- 1:11:06you a little little selfie, a little FaceTime. Yeah, please do absolutely,
- 1:11:11I'll be thinking of you. And after the show, right now,
- 1:11:14we'll pick a date. We'll have you back on September early October. Really
- 1:11:18start ramping up the election season. Well, thank you, Jeremy. I
- 1:11:23appreciate I look forward to coming back. And you know, the campaigns in
- 1:11:26full swing. Yep, and you know there's always more to talk about,
- 1:11:30absolutely, and I appreciate you actually, uh, I don't think people realize
- 1:11:33where really goes into politics at the time. You got to spend and you
- 1:11:38know, and you know when you become mayor how how your life will change,
- 1:11:42absolutely know for the better, for the better, absolutely And I would
- 1:11:46love to have you as our mayor. So you know, you got my
- 1:11:48vote and maybe we can set something up and have a little heart to heart
- 1:11:53with the challenger. It sounds like you just gave me an endorsement. Thank
- 1:11:59you can't do that until the debate, Okay, Tony, thanks so much
- 1:12:02for coming on my friend. We will talk to you in about a month
- 1:12:04or so. And again go check him out Tuesday or you'll see him around
- 1:12:09Saturday for the Oysterfest and always good weather at the Oysterfest and that Tuesday as
- 1:12:14well. So thanks for listening. Guys, I'll talk to you soon.
- 1:12:16Thanks Tom, Thank you,