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Embrace 2026: Stop Worrying and Start Creating · Natty Unfiltered

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  Welcome back to Nadian Filter Podcast. This is my first episode
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  in 2026. I'm so excited to get back to
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  creating the content and sharing my
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  views, opinions, experiences with
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  you all. And I'm kind of always sad that
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  the holidays are gone. I do sometimes like
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  when the kids are home because that's selfishly
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  I don't need to be worrying about lunches and
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  always running to school to drop them off at school,
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  then pick them up from school, take them to activities, all the hustle
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  and bustle. And I do love the winter holidays, just with all
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  the festivity and just that happy
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  time. But in 2026,
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  we are no longer going to give to
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  them about what other people think, how other people
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  perceive us, what they think of us when we try to
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  create content, how we put ourselves out
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  there. I think that by sitting around
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  and just worrying about what other
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  people going to think of us, how are they going to judge us.
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  It just always I think puts that blockage
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  and that wall of what we want to
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  accomplish. I know that for years and I
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  think it maybe has to do with self confidence and
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  the insecurities that I've had since childhood.
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  I've always worried about how people are
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  going to perceive me. I wanted people to all people to like
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  me. I didn't like to be judged and
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  I think that's why it prevented me from
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  accomplishing, accomplishing a lot more things that I wanted
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  to accomplish. That's not to say about like going to college
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  and getting a job and doing things that
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  we sort of not programmed, but this is
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  something that like I knew that I needed to do,
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  but doing things that kind of out of
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  the norm, like being on social media,
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  creating content, whatever the content that is, either you are
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  influencer, either you are YouTuber
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  or you something that you put yourself out
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  there for people to see you and to criticize you.
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  When you're doing something that the public doesn't see,
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  nobody's going to judge you, criticize you. Well, there are some people
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  that will do it, like, you know, your family, your friends, your close people that
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  see you on the regular basis, which you can
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  handle it in one way. But then when you put yourself out there to be
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  on social media, you're always going to have somebody
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  that's going to criticize you and anything and everything
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  that you do, they're not going to like you,
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  let's say post something with a beautiful outfit, somebody can say
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  oh my God, you look so great and somebody else can pick on
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  one thing that you're wearing. Or how your makeup look or how your hair looks.
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  And in this year, what if you say, you know
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  what, it's my life, I'm not going to give
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  two damns what people are going to think. I'm going to,
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  if I wanted to be on social media, I'm going to put myself out
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  there and I'm going to try to stay consistent.
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  I'm going to do it on a regular basis because I
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  want to say I want to build a community.
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  I want to build financial independence,
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  financial abundance through social media
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  because there's so many people doing it. There are young people who are doing
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  it just by, you know, like they dancing or on YouTube.
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  How many people that showing that they're playing
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  games? I know that my kids watch that as least my youngest
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  one watches how other people play games. And do you know how
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  much money those YouTubers make? Because so many kids
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  like my son watch them play the same games
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  that our kids play. The social media,
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  it has its good and bad,
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  but I think that if you're going to sit around and worry
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  about what other people are going to think, then you doing
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  yourself injustice. You are putting the walls between
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  yourself and your future self and what you can
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  accomplish. I was thinking about this a lot and
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  you know the. There's a lot of people who decided
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  to just push the envelope and to say, you know what,
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  I'm able to create the financial
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  abundance that I can provide for my family.
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  Why would I be sitting around and just kind of being
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  afraid of what people are going to think, what people are going to judge?
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  Because there's going to be a lot of people who are not happy with
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  their life and they are going to spew hatred.
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  But there's going to be a lot people, a lot of people who are going
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  to back you up, who are going to root for you.
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  And so when you do something that you love and
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  brings you joy, then why not do it? And if you
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  don't know how to do it or you're afraid to do it, then it's all
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  it is, is just take a step. I had to look at others
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  and see how they're doing it. And I had to learn, you know, on the
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  regular basis how to make my content better, how to take better pictures,
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  how to make battle rails, how to
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  be monetizing social media, what are different
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  ways to do it. And then when something didn't
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  work, then I needed to change things. When you want something bad enough,
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  then you're not going to quit on yourself. You're going to
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  seek Other people's guidance,
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  there's coaches who can help you. When you find the right coach,
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  you better your craft by
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  doing it on a regular basis and
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  by. In order for you to improve, a lot of times you
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  need to fail. You're going to fail. There's so many,
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  so many people who are, have made so
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  much money and are very successful. Do you know how many times
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  they failed? 100 times, over and over.
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  But when you fail, that's how you know how you need
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  to get better. Not everything is going to turn out the
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  way you want it. When you first start, when you first
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  started, start driving the car, you're not going to be perfect at it.
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  You were not going to be that perfect driver.
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  But this, the more you do it and with time
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  and more experience, you, you are going to get better.
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  So stop thinking about what other people are
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  going to think. Yes. Does it hurt what people would say?
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  There's some people who can criticize, criticize you
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  in silence. And there's some people who find the need that
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  they need to get behind their keyboard and start tapping
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  away that nasty comment. But you know
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  what? There's a lot more good than bad. And if
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  you just try to tune it out and
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  build that, start building that kind of a thicker skin
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  and start building that community that can rally behind you,
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  you're going to feel so much. You're going to feel so much better.
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  You're going to feel so much better about yourself. And always
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  remember that hurt people try to hurt
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  others. Miserable people try to make other
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  people feel miserable. And it's very hard to
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  sometimes realize that when somebody
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  starts to talk trash to you or when they're trying to spew their
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  opinion, when they, like their own life sucks and they're not doing anything about
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  it, then you have to keep in mind is that you need to stay true
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  to yourself. You know who you are. And when you
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  know who you are, you're not going to let other
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  people's opinion affect you.
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  So stop worrying about other people's judgment,
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  what they're going to think, what they're going to say, and just
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  focus on you. Focus on what makes you happy,
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  where you want it to be later this
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  year, what do you want to accomplish and take the first step and continue
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  moving forward. And don't quit. Don't quit on yourself
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  because you deserve to have a better
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  life, a better financial standing, a better, you know,
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  financial abundance. And those who are
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  not happy with themselves and they can, you know, stay in their hole
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  and be miserable, but don't let their misery
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  affect your life and what you
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  want to accomplish. So that's kind of my sort
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  of spiel for so your dreams,
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  they're not distraction from your life, and somebody
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  else's opinion should not matter where you want it
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  to be in your life. One day you're going to realize
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  that. But you don't want to have this other year just
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  pass it by without you not doing anything about it,
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  without you taking the first step of where you wanted to be by
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  the end of this year. So take the first step, screw everybody
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  else's opinion, and live your life to the
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  fullest. Thank you for tuning in at Unfiltered Podcast.
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