Latest / Networking Unleashed: Building Profitable Connections / Networking Unleashed: An Interview with Sébastien Night and Michael A Forman, Professional Speaker
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- 0:00Welcome to Networking Unleashed, Building Profitable
- 0:04Connections, the show where real relationships
- 0:06create real results. I'm your host, Michael Foreman.
- 0:10Let's be honest. Most professionals have experienced
- 0:14networking that felt more like a sales pitch
- 0:17than a conversation. Too many people enter the
- 0:20room focused on closing a deal instead of building
- 0:24a relationship. But the truth is... The most
- 0:27successful professionals often grow very differently.
- 0:33They begin knowing their knowledge, ability,
- 0:38and their trust that they build with others in
- 0:42their industry. My guest today believes that
- 0:45authentic relationships consistently outperform
- 0:48traditional sales tactics. We're talking about
- 0:52how deep industry knowledge positions you as
- 0:56a resource, how trust develops you through genuine
- 1:00conversations, and why people are far more likely
- 1:03to do business with someone they respect than
- 1:06someone who they're trying to sell them something.
- 1:08If you want to build connections that naturally
- 1:11lead to opportunity, this episode is for you.
- 1:15I'd like to welcome to the podcast, Sebastian
- 1:18Knight. He's going to tell us more about his
- 1:20background and everything else. But Sebastian,
- 1:24welcome to the podcast. And could you give us
- 1:26the cliff notes of how you got where you are
- 1:28today? Hi, Michael. Yes, of course. Thanks for
- 1:32welcoming me to the podcast. The cliff notes
- 1:35of how I got how I... where i am so first of
- 1:38all where am i i am the leader of one take ai
- 1:41we are a company that sells an ai agent that
- 1:45edits videos for experts podcasts hosts and online
- 1:50course creators and we have clients using our
- 1:53software in 119 languages And before that, I
- 1:59was the founder of the Free Entrepreneur Movement,
- 2:02which I started in 2010. We helped 300 ,000 French
- 2:08-speaking entrepreneurs in 41 countries to start
- 2:11and grow their businesses. And how I got to both
- 2:16places is by using video to share content and
- 2:21also to create the relationships with the key
- 2:24people. that were able to help us through partnerships
- 2:27to grow the businesses. That's great. That really
- 2:33sounds great. Sounds like you were a busy man
- 2:35for a while. For a while, yes. For the last 20
- 2:40years since I started my first business. You've
- 2:43mentored over 300 ,000 entrepreneurs. What patterns
- 2:48did you see in the people who successfully built
- 2:52relationships and opportunities? versus those
- 2:55who stayed stuck? One of the things that I think
- 3:00is important to realize is there are different
- 3:05psychologies of entrepreneurs. And since we are
- 3:10talking about networking and being in touch with
- 3:13other people that can help grow your business,
- 3:15most people will assume that this is an extrovert's
- 3:19game. And that extroverts have a huge advantage
- 3:23because if you just like connecting with people
- 3:27in general, then of course you have a leg up
- 3:30in that game. However, I was very lucky that
- 3:33I was part of the introvert group. So I had to
- 3:36figure out like, how do you get these business
- 3:39relationships? Because when I started any of
- 3:42my businesses, I mentioned the two most recent,
- 3:45but I had several other businesses and every
- 3:47time. I have needed to get those business started
- 3:52without a large amount of advertising budget
- 3:55and getting started in industries that were just
- 4:01starting to get into motion. And every time you
- 4:05do that, then partnerships are your best bet
- 4:09because if you can partner with someone that
- 4:11has already the audience of the perfect customer
- 4:14that you need, then... They can kickstart your
- 4:19business without you having to advertise to find
- 4:22the customers. However, if you are an introvert,
- 4:26then it might not be your dream vacation to go
- 4:30tour all of the conferences and networking events
- 4:33that you can find. And in my case, what really
- 4:36helps me is I realized if I don't have the natural
- 4:41inclination to try to open the conversation.
- 4:45with hundreds of different possible people, then
- 4:48the best option is to have these people know
- 4:52me ahead of time so that the doors are already
- 4:55open and the opportunities are already there.
- 4:58And for my businesses, what has been the most
- 5:00successful is using video as a way to share my
- 5:04expertise. I was one of the very first people
- 5:08to have, we called it a web television. At the
- 5:11time, that was before YouTube existed. YouTube
- 5:13started in 2006. I started doing online video
- 5:16a couple of years before that. I was one of the
- 5:18very first people to use YouTube in the French
- 5:22market to grow. I had a dating advice coaching
- 5:26company and basically packaging expertise into
- 5:32books. But using this, like all of the contents
- 5:36for my books, I packaged into videos so that
- 5:39you didn't need to buy the book. You could just
- 5:41watch the videos. Created the opportunities where
- 5:44when I reached out to potential partners or when
- 5:47I was at an industry event, people already had
- 5:51the knowledge of who I was, what my expertise
- 5:54was. And so those conversations were much easier
- 5:58to start. Very good. You eventually shifted from
- 6:04mentoring into building software. What did that
- 6:09transaction teach you about scale, communication,
- 6:14and where entrepreneurs struggle most? So first
- 6:19of all, I did that change because I already had
- 6:23the experience as an engineer by training. I
- 6:26was an engineer from one of the, let's say, the
- 6:30French equivalent of the Ivy League. in terms
- 6:32of training. And so I knew what I could accomplish
- 6:39in terms of the product. But then again, when
- 6:43starting an AI company, that was a year before
- 6:47ChatGPT came out. So nobody knew what AI was.
- 6:51The only way to get started and bring in customers,
- 6:56since they didn't know, that was not a thing
- 6:58that people were Googling or talking about. The
- 7:01only way to get that was to be in front of warm
- 7:04audiences. The best medium for us was to use
- 7:07webinars. I would do the demo of the software
- 7:10and then make an offer. And the best way to get
- 7:13people onto the webinars was not to advertise
- 7:16for them because you don't know yet how well
- 7:19the webinar is going to convert. So you don't
- 7:20want to spend thousands of dollars or tens of
- 7:22thousands in advertising it. So the best way
- 7:25to do that was I spoke at a few conferences.
- 7:28At those conferences, I... I just talked with
- 7:32other speakers and attendees who had the relevant
- 7:36audiences for the business. And those connections
- 7:39are what enabled us to get our first audience
- 7:44for the software. So when you're asking what
- 7:48I learned about that process, I think that one
- 7:52of the important things is if you want to create
- 7:57lasting relationships, And you have to realize
- 8:00that even when switching from one industry to
- 8:02another, those relationships, as long as you've
- 8:05added value over the years to these people, they
- 8:09will look out for you and try to help you with
- 8:13creating more connections. So that has been very
- 8:16helpful for me. I have had people reach out and
- 8:19I use Signal. I don't use WhatsApp. And they
- 8:22would reach out on Signal and say, hey, I want
- 8:25to connect you with because maybe. They are looking
- 8:28to do webinars. You've been doing them for a
- 8:31while. There's a potential connection there.
- 8:33Without the person trying to be a middleman or
- 8:36earn commission for the referral or anything
- 8:38like that, but just because we had this positive,
- 8:42long -lasting relationship. And I think if you
- 8:45cultivate that, whatever your current business
- 8:47is, then it definitely will help for the next
- 8:51project. You mentioned that you started this
- 8:55before. ChatGPT actually came out. How do you
- 9:00see AI changing the way that entrepreneurs, they
- 9:06built trust with audiences? So there's the positive
- 9:09and the negative part of how AI is going to influence
- 9:13how people create relationships. We have, at
- 9:16One Take AI, we have a fairly contrarian stance
- 9:20regarding AI and video or content creation. Most
- 9:24startups that are in the space create, their
- 9:28goal is basically to replace the content creator
- 9:31with a puppet or AI avatar that will speak instead
- 9:34of them, which is very appealing, like from a
- 9:37deep seated human desire to sit back and do nothing.
- 9:43This is a very appealing proposition, but it
- 9:46has one tiny drawback, which is nobody wants
- 9:49to watch those videos. And as soon as people
- 9:53realize that they've been watching animated set
- 9:59of pixels, there's no human there, they lose
- 10:01all interest. There was a tiny novelty aspect
- 10:05to it, but people don't want to watch that. And
- 10:08so I think what's already happening is that as
- 10:13people are getting inundated with AI -generated
- 10:16content, there is a growing drive. for people
- 10:22to be consuming actual real information from
- 10:26whether it is a podcast, whether it is a straight
- 10:29face -to -camera video, but something that has
- 10:32the host's humanity and presence and history
- 10:35and stories in it. So I do think that now is
- 10:39a great time if somebody is considering using
- 10:42video to create that relationship with their
- 10:44audience, it's a great time to have those videos.
- 10:48They don't have to be perfect. There are tools
- 10:50like our own. If people just go to try .wantake
- 10:53.ai, they are able to try our software to edit
- 10:56their videos for free. Those tools will make
- 10:59the video more professional looking, but without
- 11:02removing the humanness of the video. And I think
- 11:06that would be the most important part because
- 11:09Michael, your audience, they are looking to create
- 11:12these human connections because they know that
- 11:14opening those doors are the key to growing their
- 11:18business. you're not going to have those connections
- 11:22if all the content that people have seen from
- 11:25you is a generated AI avatar. Because if they
- 11:30wanted to have synthetic content on whatever
- 11:33topic, they could just have asked ChatGPT or
- 11:37Gemini or just tell me something about XYZ, right?
- 11:41They could have asked the machine so they didn't
- 11:44need the machine to have your face. Because that's
- 11:47not creating the relationship with you if the
- 11:49machine has a face. Being the actual person behind
- 11:52it, infusing it with your actual stories, not
- 11:55just reading off generated scripts, but having
- 11:58your real life experience inside of that is,
- 12:02I think, what will make the difference in the
- 12:04coming years. I agree. And yes, the stories,
- 12:09AI can do all the technical behind what you want
- 12:14to talk about. But when I put in stories and
- 12:18I put in emotion, and that's one thing that AI
- 12:21cannot do. So when I'm putting in the emotion
- 12:24behind the stories and everything else, it makes
- 12:27me much more interesting than listening to an
- 12:30AI -generated podcast, for instance. So it goes.
- 12:34So you focus on video. You kept on saying you
- 12:38focus on video. meaningful relationships there
- 12:48is a saying that people come from the for the
- 12:52content and stay for the personality or the relationship
- 12:56i think this is an important part of it you can
- 13:00be very visible the same way that a few years
- 13:04back you could have a website that had very good
- 13:08search engine optimization seo and you could
- 13:12have thousands, tens of thousands, hundreds of
- 13:15thousands of people browsing the website or hitting
- 13:18the website per day without ever having an audience.
- 13:24And I think the best example of that in the real
- 13:27world is if you ever go to Paris. Paris is a
- 13:32great city. It has some of the best restaurants
- 13:34in the world. But you might not want to go to
- 13:38any of the restaurants that are inside of the
- 13:40big train stations like Gare Montparnasse. They
- 13:43have a restaurant that looks great from the outside.
- 13:44It's in the train station. So millions of people
- 13:47go to this station every year. And the service
- 13:52is probably the most awful on the planet. Why?
- 13:58Because they know that you're there. you're captive
- 14:02you're sitting here you're gonna eat whatever
- 14:05they give you and then go take your train and
- 14:08so it doesn't matter how long it takes for the
- 14:12food to arrive because worst case scenario you'll
- 14:15pay without having finished your food it doesn't
- 14:17matter how bad the food is it doesn't matter
- 14:20how the waiter or waitress spoke to you because
- 14:24in france they don't once and it was like the
- 14:28one of the worst mistakes and so it is AI results
- 14:32or search engine results. You can have a large
- 14:36viewership of people who find your content on
- 14:41whatever social media or video platform like
- 14:44YouTube, TikTok, whatever. If that first interaction
- 14:49does not create this relationship, if that first
- 14:54interaction doesn't have a compelling story,
- 14:57doesn't have the empathy that makes the viewer
- 15:01feel understood and seen and talked not talked
- 15:07at or down at if you fail at this then you can
- 15:11have a large viewership without ever having a
- 15:14large audience or an engage but you also lose
- 15:18those people really fast like one day to the
- 15:21next if the algorithm changes and so what i think
- 15:24is important is to when you record content so
- 15:28i focus a lot on video because Today, that's
- 15:31the medium that has the highest return on time
- 15:34spent. I've written books, but I also know that
- 15:36now, if you don't also put all the content of
- 15:40the book in a bunch of videos, then it will not
- 15:43reach as many people as it could. And what I've
- 15:46noticed is if you speak the video as if you're
- 15:51recording it for one single person from the audience,
- 15:54somebody from the comments of a previous video,
- 15:56someone you know, client or customer you have
- 15:59helped personally, the video, like the warmth
- 16:02of it, the impact of it will be much more powerful.
- 16:06I know that, for instance, we are doing this
- 16:07podcast. We are talking to potentially hundreds,
- 16:11thousands of people that are going to watch this
- 16:14asynchronously from when we record it. But before
- 16:19I jumped on the Zoom call, I tried to visualize
- 16:22one of my people, somebody that needs the advice,
- 16:26somebody that needs... the connection as Michael
- 16:30you like to emphasize like the importance of
- 16:32creating those relationships so that everything
- 16:35that I would answer to your questions would be
- 16:37relevant to that need and that person instead
- 16:40of trying to be generic like or talking to an
- 16:45audience and a good exercise that I've done for
- 16:49the last more than a decade is if I'm sending
- 16:52an email to my email list 60 ,000 people are
- 16:54on it but I still write it to one person and
- 16:57Like intending it to one person. I used to have
- 17:01an audio, like a subscription where people would
- 17:04get an audio from me every day. There was several
- 17:06thousand people were signed up to it. But what
- 17:09I would actually do is I would send the voice
- 17:14note to a single person. So I would select for
- 17:17my entrepreneurial friends and send them an audio
- 17:20and then take that and forward it to the... 5
- 17:24,000, 8 ,000 subscribers afterwards. Instead
- 17:27of recording it to the 8 ,000, I would make it
- 17:31a personal message without saying the name of
- 17:33the person. And then I would just send it to
- 17:37everybody so that everybody getting it felt like
- 17:40I was sending them a personal message. And the
- 17:43same works for video as well. Okay. Signals make
- 17:50investors or creators. or even potential partners
- 17:54take someone seriously without a massive network?
- 17:59You were talking about your network of 8 ,000
- 18:03subscribers or 60 ,000 subscribers. What if they
- 18:07don't have that type of network? What could they
- 18:11do to take them seriously? First of all, everybody
- 18:14starts at zero. I guess everybody starts at one.
- 18:19Everybody has... a mom for at least the first
- 18:23few minutes of their lives so there's at least
- 18:25one person that would that would be in connection
- 18:28with you but that's the video and then you're
- 18:30on your own so yeah so i was mentioning i had
- 18:33these people i was sending the messages it was
- 18:36too many chats that i was facebook messenger
- 18:38i had 8 000 people there i've had tens of thousands
- 18:41or hundreds of thousands depending on which one
- 18:43of my businesses of people on email lists But
- 18:47every single time I had to start with zero subscribers
- 18:51and starting from zero subscribers, the key elements
- 18:57to focus on are what can I provide that is of
- 19:00value and not in abstract, but that is of value
- 19:05in the current environment. So I wouldn't be
- 19:08able to build these audiences today by giving
- 19:12the same content or PDFs or videos that I did
- 19:17when I started my business like many years ago.
- 19:22Because if I did that now, the content, like
- 19:25some of the concepts that I created and I shared
- 19:27in a French language have become common words
- 19:30in the marketing space and the entrepreneurship
- 19:32space. And it's even happened to me once that
- 19:35I tried to trademark one of my concepts and the
- 19:39French trademark office said, no, actually this
- 19:41word is already in wide circulation. So you cannot
- 19:45trademark it. And then because they quoted to
- 19:48me the Google results on the keywords. And I
- 19:52tried to point out that all of like the first
- 19:5410 results were people interviewing me about
- 19:57those concepts. So it was still proof that it
- 20:00came from me, but it was too wide open. And so
- 20:03if I came today with some of those ideas that
- 20:06were very fresh and new in 2010, nobody would
- 20:10give their email to hear about it because it
- 20:13sounds like. It's been there. It's been done
- 20:15a lot, right? And so you have to figure out first,
- 20:18looking at the current landscape, what's missing
- 20:21where I can provide value for free. Usually it
- 20:27would be a video because that's how people consume
- 20:29the content. But today there's also the opportunity
- 20:31to go further. Thanks to AI, you can create tools
- 20:35that people can use and implement straight away.
- 20:39So one of the things that we... teach our customers
- 20:42at One Take AI is that you can create quizzes,
- 20:46assessments, visual tools, things that help people
- 20:50implement what is taught in the free video or
- 20:52what is taught in the coaching program so that
- 20:54they get success faster. So that's one way to
- 20:58create the value. So because you create the value,
- 21:01you can ask for people's WhatsApp number. email
- 21:05phone number ask them to come to a telegram channel
- 21:10or signal or whatever but then you still need
- 21:13this audience before they become an audience
- 21:17you still need the viewership in the first place
- 21:19and the way that you get that is by bringing
- 21:23this unique value to the channels and the podcasts
- 21:27and the webinars and the online courses and the
- 21:30masterminds of those who already have this audience
- 21:34just come up here and say, I'm not trying to
- 21:37sell you something. I'm not even trying to sell
- 21:39your audience. I just want to contribute this
- 21:41to as many people as I can. And I think it could
- 21:44be a great value builder. I'll give an example.
- 21:47Recently, I did a presentation for someone who
- 21:50had a strong following on school .com, S -K -O
- 21:54-L in the platform. And so they wanted me to
- 21:58do a presentation to their audience. So technically,
- 22:04This person is charging their audience to be
- 22:07part of this membership group. So they are getting
- 22:11compensated for bringing great content to that
- 22:15audience. So they are always looking for great
- 22:17content to offer to these people. They are not
- 22:21paying me to do a presentation to that group.
- 22:25So what are they getting from inviting me as
- 22:30a speaker? They are getting... New content that's
- 22:33really interesting to the audience. There are
- 22:35people getting more results, which helps drive
- 22:38more people. Being able to add my face and name
- 22:41to their roster of previous speakers in their
- 22:45marketing, which will drive them more sales.
- 22:48And what do I get from this collaboration? I
- 22:52get additional people that get to hear me speak,
- 22:55present, I won't take AI. And some of those decide
- 22:59to jump in and take a subscription on our software
- 23:02as well. At the very beginning, when you're getting
- 23:04started, you don't want to start hunting for
- 23:11customers. Instead, what you should be trying
- 23:14to do is figure out which value you can bring
- 23:17in the current zeitgeist. And second, find places
- 23:21where this audience is already congregating and
- 23:25where you can bring this value because... That's
- 23:27how you build your first audience. Very good.
- 23:32Outstanding. Outstanding. Can entrepreneurs avoid
- 23:36becoming trapped in content creation mode and
- 23:41instead turn visibility into a real opportunity?
- 23:48I would say that, first of all, being in content
- 23:51creation mode is great. So they should still.
- 23:56be in content creation mode there are again two
- 24:00different types of psychology here some people
- 24:03like my client and good friend erico roca a legend
- 24:08on the brazilian internet he has more than a
- 24:10hundred million people watching his content online
- 24:14in the portuguese and now english language some
- 24:17people like erico are great at saying i'm gonna
- 24:20do daily content like every single day for the
- 24:25next and you would say okay for the next 500
- 24:28days i'm going to do that and stick to it and
- 24:31do 500 days and beyond some other people i'm
- 24:35one of them if we decide to do that then on day
- 24:38five we're going to get tired of it on day eight
- 24:41we're going to get terminally bored with it and
- 24:43on day 11 If offered the choice of sticking a
- 24:46fork to your hand or recording video number 12,
- 24:49you'd be like, ah, tell me more about the fork.
- 24:52What's this option? So if you're part of the
- 24:56first group, then it's amazing. Just decide now
- 25:00to do one day short video for the next year.
- 25:04This will grow your business tremendously. If
- 25:06you're part of the second group, then you need
- 25:08to learn like batching. And batching means...
- 25:12You just decide what is your target of publication
- 25:14rhythm, but the creation rhythm can be completely
- 25:18separate from that. So you could say, I'm going
- 25:21to have three videos a week come out. And I did
- 25:26that for like three long form videos per week.
- 25:29So I had three different, I called them podcasts,
- 25:31but they were not like interview style podcasts.
- 25:33It was face to camera. And what I would do is
- 25:37just spend two days every quarter. and I would
- 25:42record a series. So I had a series where in each
- 25:45video, I would, it was on the Mondays, each video,
- 25:48I would give the top tips from one of the best
- 25:50500 books I've read. I had another one about
- 25:53how to get, how to create new habits and the
- 25:57psychological and scientific effects of each
- 26:00habit. So one episode is one ritual. And I had
- 26:04one where I would share, it was on Sundays, Les
- 26:07Entrepreneurs Dimanche. There is no good translation
- 26:11to that in English. It means it was about all
- 26:13the mistakes you can make as an entrepreneur.
- 26:15And I would have one different story of something
- 26:17that I did that cost me tens or hundreds of thousands
- 26:20of dollars. And so what I would do is I would
- 26:23just take those two days, have a friend come
- 26:27in to man the camera because I could do it myself,
- 26:29but I would procrastinate. So I would just have
- 26:31somebody in there to hit record and hit stop.
- 26:34And we would record as many videos I could do.
- 26:37and still be breathing by the end of the day
- 26:40so my record was about it was 93 videos in a
- 26:43single day and so I would just do that like two
- 26:47days of recording and then all of my content
- 26:49is good to go for the next quarter so this way
- 26:53I was never feeling pressure to record something
- 26:57for the next day because I already had enough
- 27:00content in advance that was already ready And
- 27:04also because it was Bash, it was easier to do
- 27:07it in a format that was consistent, having the
- 27:11same kind of intros and kind of call to action
- 27:13at the end, just like being very consistent with
- 27:15it. And it was easier to just be in that because
- 27:20you have to get in the mindset, just like when
- 27:24you are going to... in -person networking session
- 27:29or going to an event you have to set your mind
- 27:32like i visualize it as putting your brain is
- 27:35in a certain shape for the task that is going
- 27:37to be required and so it's always counterproductive
- 27:42to mold your brain in the i'm going to talk to
- 27:46video shape and maybe it takes you 10 minutes
- 27:49to get there 15 minutes for some people it takes
- 27:51them an hour to get like in the mood for it And
- 27:55if you just only do one video and hit stop recording
- 28:00and then go to something else, you've wasted
- 28:02so much of that potential and you will hate it
- 28:04very quickly. Whereas if you just said, this
- 28:07is my video recording day. Yes, I took an hour
- 28:10of procrastinating and cleaning the house and
- 28:14whatever before I hit record. But now that I'm
- 28:16doing it, I can do 10 in a row, 12 in a row and
- 28:20be done for the quarter. Absolutely. And you're
- 28:24right on so many points. I didn't want to interrupt,
- 28:27but you're right on point for just about all
- 28:30of it. Let's bring this podcast full circle.
- 28:33And if a listener wants to become more visible,
- 28:37credible, and connected over the next 90 days,
- 28:41what one habit would you tell them to start immediately?
- 28:47So for someone who wants to become more visible,
- 28:50credible, and connected, I will say that, first
- 28:56of all, in terms of order of priority to get
- 29:00it done, it's easy to be visible if you're well
- 29:05connected. Because if you have the connections
- 29:07that have the audience, they will promote you
- 29:11to their audience. So you want to be connected
- 29:13before you become visible. And... If you want
- 29:18to create those connections, then it's much easier
- 29:21to create those connections if you are credible.
- 29:24Because again, if you're the introvert and you
- 29:28don't want to spin yarn for hours until the person
- 29:31says, fine, okay, I will email, which might work
- 29:34for some people. I don't know. That's not the
- 29:37way I think it works. So if you want instead
- 29:40that when you reach out and say, oh my God, yeah,
- 29:43you're the guy that did the seven keys to X,
- 29:46Y, Z or whatever. If you want them to already
- 29:49get who you are and why what you have to say
- 29:52matters, then you need the credibility first.
- 29:54So in terms of order, I would go with that. And
- 29:58the way you build this credibility is not to
- 30:01your pedigree. It's great once you have built
- 30:04it. So today I'm able to say, I built the French
- 30:07Entrepreneur Movement. We have 300 ,000 entrepreneurs.
- 30:10I've written 11 books. I've done things. So it
- 30:14helps. It opens doors because... In the French
- 30:17market, at least, somebody, like it has happened
- 30:20to me, I would go to a conference and go to the
- 30:23speaker. And before I opened my mouth, it happened
- 30:25recently. That person said, oh my God, I started,
- 30:30they told me they started their business by being
- 30:33an attendee at one of my seminars, like in 2016.
- 30:37And then she was a female speaker. And then her
- 30:41husband came in and he said, oh my God. approached
- 30:46her when he was single based on a dating advice
- 30:51I had recorded in a video on my YouTube channel
- 30:54in 2009. So they were married thanks to that
- 30:57YouTube video. And so in terms of creating that
- 31:01connection, I didn't need to do any effort in
- 31:04the 2020s because my content had done the work
- 31:08in the 2000s and the 2010s. So the way that you
- 31:12create this credibility... is not to think, oh
- 31:18my God, I'm at a disadvantage because I don't
- 31:20have this curriculum of content and things from
- 31:24the past, but instead start creating it today.
- 31:27Start figuring out today, how do I show my expertise?
- 31:32How do I create that expertise if I don't have
- 31:34it yet? One of the great ways is to hang out
- 31:37with the experts. One of the great ways to hang
- 31:39out with the experts is to reach out and to...
- 31:43interview them for a podcast, interview them
- 31:45for an article, interview them because then you
- 31:48create that first connection, but still the expertise
- 31:52and the brand name is associated to you. So for
- 31:55instance, we are on Michael's podcast. And so
- 31:59even somebody that might have found the video
- 32:02because they Googled Sebastian Knight interview
- 32:05or whatever to see if somebody from my audience
- 32:07now knows Michael Foreman and we on your podcast.
- 32:12are talking about networking and connections,
- 32:15which is a topic that I haven't ever approached
- 32:18in the last year of different interviews that
- 32:20I've done. So in the mind of someone that came
- 32:25in for me or randomly on this episode, the topic
- 32:30gets associated with Michael because it's Michael's
- 32:33home here. It's his podcast here. And so that's
- 32:37what I would say. If somebody wants to create
- 32:38this visibility, they need to... connections
- 32:41if they want to be connected they need the credibility
- 32:44and the way to create the credibility is to share
- 32:46from your own expertise about what's the unique
- 32:49need that's missing in the market that you can
- 32:52fulfill or connecting with the experts to grab
- 32:56this to grab the essence of that out of their
- 32:59brains and package it in a way that people can
- 33:01consume and some people have built empires by
- 33:04doing this tim ferris for instance his podcast
- 33:07is a great example of that Absolutely. That's
- 33:11fantastic. Sebastian, first of all, this was
- 33:14wonderful. I'm so glad you came on my podcast
- 33:17because you have so much knowledge and you wanted
- 33:20to share it. And it was just spectacular. If
- 33:24somebody wanted to get hold of you, what's the
- 33:26best way that they can get hold of you? Two things.
- 33:31The first is if somebody is interested. Because
- 33:34they're interested in creating videos and using
- 33:37our amazing AI, they could go to our main website,
- 33:40which is onetake .ai. But if they go to try,
- 33:44which is T -R -Y, so try .onetake .ai, then they
- 33:48are able to try it for free on their videos.
- 33:51And if they want to reach out to me, then it's
- 33:54really easy. It's my first name at onetake .ai
- 33:57is my email. They can just reach out. That's
- 34:02fantastic. This conversation reminds us that
- 34:06strong business relationships are rarely built
- 34:09through pressure. They're built through trust,
- 34:12consistency, and genuine interest in helping
- 34:16others succeed. When people see you as someone
- 34:20who understands the industry and genuinely cares
- 34:23about relationship, opportunities follow naturally.
- 34:27That's the power of credibility over tactics.
- 34:31Take one step this week. Instead of trying to
- 34:34impress someone in your next conversation focus
- 34:38on understanding them and sharing something useful
- 34:41from your experience. You'll be surprised at
- 34:44how quickly trust begins to grow. If you found
- 34:48value in today's episode, make sure you like,
- 34:51follow, and subscribe to Networking Unleashed,
- 34:54Building Profitable Connections, so you keep
- 34:56getting the best insights on networking and communication.
- 35:00And share this episode with someone who believes
- 35:03relationships are the foundation of business
- 35:06success. If you'd like to help strengthen and
- 35:09communicate and build meaningful professional
- 35:12relationships, visit michelaforman .com to learn
- 35:17how I work with professionals, teams, and organizations.
- 35:21Sebastian, I want to just thank you again for
- 35:24coming on my podcast. You are a blessing. Thank
- 35:27you, Michael. All right, folks. A huge thank
- 35:33you to our guests for sharing such incredible
- 35:35insights today. And of course, a big shout out
- 35:39to you, our amazing listeners, for tuning in
- 35:42and spending your time with us. If you're interested
- 35:45in my digital courses, being coached, or having
- 35:48me come and talk to your company, just go to
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- 35:55networking isn't about being perfect. It's about
- 35:58being present. So take what you've learned today,
- 36:01get out there, and make some meaningful connections.
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