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Love September... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: What's up, guys, gals? After Show Army, the After Show
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  Speaker 1: podcast is on. The Billy and Lisa show just ended,
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  Speaker 1: and then I turned this mic on, and we get going.
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  Speaker 1: It is Tuesday, September 1st, a brand new month, a
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  Speaker 1: new beginnings, as they say, a new month. God, time
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  Speaker 1: just goes quick. By the way, I have a birthday
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  Speaker 1: in September, September 22nd. Mark it down. I want all
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  Speaker 1: kinds of talkbacks on my birthday this year. Just kidding.
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  Speaker 1: One would be nice. But I do love September. It
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  Speaker 1: is fall. The changing of the seasons, it gets cooler.
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  Speaker 1: The weather is perfect. So I've always been a big
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  Speaker 1: fan of September. So here we go. Yesterday's podcast, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know if I have to apologize for that thing
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  Speaker 1: or what, but I did not listen to it, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it was wild. Had Billy, Ashley, and
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  Speaker 1: Santi on, which is always fun. I feel like the
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  Speaker 1: more people that come on the podcast, the crazier it gets.
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  Speaker 1: I wish I could do that every day, but people
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  Speaker 1: are busy and they're doing things. And I just like
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  Speaker 1: to pull people in, to be honest with you. Today
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  Speaker 1: is Tuesday. I have a class at 12, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to kind of skate out of here a little
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  Speaker 1: bit early to get my workout in and be done
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  Speaker 1: with it for the day. Today is my son Abel's
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  Speaker 1: last day of summer vacation, so I'm going to probably
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  Speaker 1: do something with him. And then he has boxing tonight. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's a whole thing with the kids and sports. If
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  Speaker 1: you're older and your kids are grown, you probably went
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  Speaker 1: through this, kind of the sports days. He's been in
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  Speaker 1: boxing and I signed him up for boxing at the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of the summer because baseball ended and then there
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  Speaker 1: was going to be a break before baseball came back
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  Speaker 1: and he has travel baseball and recreational. So I put
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  Speaker 1: him in boxing and he likes it. He doesn't love it.
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  Speaker 1: I think he doesn't mind the workouts, but he doesn't
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  Speaker 1: know anybody there. So it's kind of like he goes,
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  Speaker 1: but some days he's like, I don't want to go,
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  Speaker 1: but he still does. But now... We're going into baseball season.
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  Speaker 1: He's going to have his regular rec baseball, so one game,
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  Speaker 1: one practice a week, maybe two games a week. That
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  Speaker 1: kicks off next week. But then he's also in travel baseball,
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  Speaker 1: which really kicks off in January. But in the fall,
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  Speaker 1: they offered this membership where you can pay, I think
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  Speaker 1: it's like $ 40 a month, and you can go any
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  Speaker 1: weekday and a weekend day. They have a brand new
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  Speaker 1: facility with a gym and all kinds of baseball things,
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  Speaker 1: batting cages, pitching stuff. And you're free to use the
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  Speaker 1: gym and the facilities. And I thought to myself, man,
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  Speaker 1: like baseball is his sport. So I think I'm switching
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  Speaker 1: him from boxing to that. So instead of us going
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  Speaker 1: to boxing, we'll go there. He loves baseball more than anything.
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  Speaker 1: So I think he'll really like it. And also I
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  Speaker 1: can train him there. You know, I haven't always been
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  Speaker 1: into fitness before. A lot of you know my story.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I've been in fitness probably for, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like 15 years now. But, you know, I didn't work
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  Speaker 1: out my entire life up until then. I tried many
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  Speaker 1: times and I just never did. And it takes time
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  Speaker 1: to get into it. But I honestly believe like with
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  Speaker 1: my whole heart that exercise, physical fitness is one of
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  Speaker 1: the most important parts of life. That if you can
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  Speaker 1: build the discipline to work out and go to the gym,
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  Speaker 1: exercise in some way every day, or most days, it
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  Speaker 1: will have a positive impact on your life. That if
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  Speaker 1: you do hard things, and it's hard to explain that
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  Speaker 1: to a nine-year-old, right? It sucks to go, but I'm like, Abel,
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  Speaker 1: you know, you're doing something hard. You're doing something when
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  Speaker 1: you don't want to do it, but you still show up,
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  Speaker 1: you put the work in, and then you always feel
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  Speaker 1: good when you're done. See, he doesn't understand that. And
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  Speaker 1: I try to like, like really hit that home, hit
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  Speaker 1: that home when we're done, when we're walking out, because
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  Speaker 1: I work out too, right next to him. So when
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  Speaker 1: we're walking out, he always is like happy. And I
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  Speaker 1: said to him, Abel, see how you're happy right now?
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  Speaker 1: Those are the endorphins from working out. Yes, it's hard,
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  Speaker 1: but you did it. You got through it and you'll
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  Speaker 1: never leave worse than when you came. But it's just
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  Speaker 1: the getting there. And I'm not hard on him. I've
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  Speaker 1: told him like two days a week is good, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm not going to let him give up. That's the
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  Speaker 1: biggest thing. And I was talking to my wife yesterday
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  Speaker 1: about it. I'm like, I'm not going to teach him
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  Speaker 1: that it's okay to give up on things. Now that
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  Speaker 1: this came along with the baseball, I'm fine with switching
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  Speaker 1: it as long as we don't just stop going because
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't want to go. We don't give up on things.
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  Speaker 1: So he's switching over to baseball. So it's good. But
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  Speaker 1: in my mind, it's tough. Parenting is really a tough
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  Speaker 1: thing because, you know, I said to Jen, this is
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  Speaker 1: so important to me, you know, because I really, really
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  Speaker 1: do believe that if I can get this into him early,
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  Speaker 1: if I can instill this discipline in him early, this
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  Speaker 1: love early, it will take him. To great places. I really,
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  Speaker 1: really do. You know, I have a lot of regrets
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  Speaker 1: in my life. And one of the biggest regrets that
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  Speaker 1: I have is that I didn't start sooner. I started
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  Speaker 1: when I did and it's fine. But that, you know,
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  Speaker 1: when I was a kid, I remember the kids that
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  Speaker 1: were athletes and that worked out. And I remember seeing
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  Speaker 1: kids that would grow muscle and looked good. And you
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  Speaker 1: know what? They like got all the girls. And I'm not,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's why he should work out, but
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  Speaker 1: as a kid, that's what I saw. And I, and
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  Speaker 1: I thought to myself, man, if I just would have
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  Speaker 1: started when I was young, When I was 14 or
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  Speaker 1: 15 or 16, if I had started when I was
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  Speaker 1: like 10 or 11, just basic exercise. I'm not talking
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  Speaker 1: about like lifting weights. He's a kid. But just basic exercise,
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  Speaker 1: look where I'd be now. And I remember when I
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  Speaker 1: first started working out, losing weight, I would go to
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  Speaker 1: the gym and it was this time of year. It
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  Speaker 1: was September. And ask yourself, has this happened to you before?
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  Speaker 1: Because it happens every year. September comes, right? We get
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  Speaker 1: through September and then October starts. And then you're like,
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  Speaker 1: Christmas is coming. And then before you know it, Christmas
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  Speaker 1: is here. I'm telling you, October, November, December go very quick.
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  Speaker 1: So I remember that year I started working out probably
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  Speaker 1: around the summertime. But when it got to this time,
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  Speaker 1: I had the thought, if I don't keep going, Christmas
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  Speaker 1: is going to come. And I'm going to be like, wow,
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  Speaker 1: if I just kept going, that would have went by
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  Speaker 1: so quick. And so I did it. I stuck with it.
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  Speaker 1: And what do you know? Christmas came and I had
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  Speaker 1: stayed consistent through it all. So, you know, I don't
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  Speaker 1: want him to look back and be like, you know, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I should– like me. I should have started earlier. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to like– I'm going easy on him.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not like a tough, tough dad. I'm really not.
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  Speaker 1: So if you're listening to this and you're thinking like
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  Speaker 1: take it easy, Justin. I'm really not. I was asking
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  Speaker 1: for two days a week for an hour and I
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  Speaker 1: would take him, work out right next to him. He
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  Speaker 1: could see me. That's another thing I was saying to Jen.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, you know, I just had this idea,
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  Speaker 1: this expectation. in my head that he would see me
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  Speaker 1: working out when he was working out and be inspired.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that he isn't inspired, but it's
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  Speaker 1: not like how I pictured it. You know, I pictured
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  Speaker 1: him after a couple of weeks, a couple of months,
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  Speaker 1: even that he would say, you know, I can't wait
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  Speaker 1: to go and you can work out and I'll work
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  Speaker 1: out too. That hasn't happened yet. You know, so I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of like, eh, you know, but he'll get there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure he'll get there. But the good news is
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  Speaker 1: we're going to go to this new facility and they
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  Speaker 1: have the baseball and they also have a gym. So
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  Speaker 1: I can strength train with him. I told him this
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  Speaker 1: is what we're going to do. I'm going to teach you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to work out with you. And I think
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  Speaker 1: he likes that. He likes when I work out with
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  Speaker 1: him for sure. Because even with the boxing, a lot
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  Speaker 1: of days he'd be like, can we just work out
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  Speaker 1: in the backyard? Because we've done that. We've done kind
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  Speaker 1: of high rock style workouts, running and strength training in
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  Speaker 1: the backyard. And I think that he really likes that.
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  Speaker 1: So he likes to work out with me or his friends.
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  Speaker 1: So we'll see what happens. That's what's going on in
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  Speaker 1: my world there. So yeah, he starts school tomorrow. My
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  Speaker 1: daughter started school yesterday. She loved it, which was very good.
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  Speaker 1: She had a tough summer because she transitioned out of
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  Speaker 1: a class into another class with a brand new teacher
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  Speaker 1: that I think she wasn't familiar with. She was great.
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  Speaker 1: But a lot of her friends, especially her best friend,
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  Speaker 1: was not in that class. So she had a really
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  Speaker 1: hard time. So we have the new teacher and the
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  Speaker 1: kids that she was used to. The good news is
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  Speaker 1: she's in K-4 now and her friends are back, including
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  Speaker 1: her best friend is back. So that's good. We were
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  Speaker 1: very concerned about her crying about going to school because
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  Speaker 1: it was a really, really tough summer. But she's not.
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  Speaker 1: She's going and she's happy. So anyway, what's going on
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  Speaker 1: with all of you? Anything good? Remember, you can always
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  Speaker 1: leave a talk back for me on the after show.
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  Speaker 1: I'd love to hear from you. Things going on in
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  Speaker 1: your life. We're going into Labor Day weekend, having a
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  Speaker 1: cookout on Sunday. My mom is bringing the boyfriend, the
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  Speaker 1: new boyfriend, Tony, and Tony's daughter, I believe, is coming in.
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  Speaker 1: She texted me this morning and asked if it was okay.
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  Speaker 1: I said, of course. So I'll meet him and her,
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  Speaker 1: and things are moving along fast for my mom. If
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  Speaker 1: you missed it, she has a new boyfriend. It was
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  Speaker 1: her first boyfriend when she was like 16 years old.
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  Speaker 1: Fast forward 50 years, he knocked on her door. It
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  Speaker 1: was kind of a chance encounter. They had a mutual friend.
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  Speaker 1: He figured out where my mom lived, knocked on the
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  Speaker 1: door and said, hey, I'm sorry for breaking your heart
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  Speaker 1: 50 years ago. And they started talking, became friends, and
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  Speaker 1: soon enough became lovers. And now here they are later
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  Speaker 1: in life, boyfriend and girlfriend. And they're happy as can be.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm very happy for my mom. So she's coming
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  Speaker 1: with Tony. And, you know, all just our closest friends
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  Speaker 1: are going to come. The pool, it'll be open, but
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  Speaker 1: the water's kind of cold. I don't have a heater.
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  Speaker 1: I don't make enough money for a heater, I feel like.
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  Speaker 1: You've got to get the cover, the heater. And one
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  Speaker 1: of these years, I will get a heater, but I
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  Speaker 1: don't have one now. But it'll be fun. We'll be
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  Speaker 1: hanging out in the backyard. So anyway, I'm off to class.
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  Speaker 1: I love you guys so much. Thank you. You can
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  Speaker 1: always hit the talk backs. Any questions about the show,
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  Speaker 1: about anything that I say, anything you identify with or
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  Speaker 1: don't like, I'll take anything. You can use the talk
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  Speaker 1: back in any way you want. You know, you can
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  Speaker 1: weaponize it if you want to. You know, people love
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  Speaker 1: to weaponize social media, man. Oh, my God. Reading some
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  Speaker 1: of the comments on there. Jesus, man. Especially on the
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  Speaker 1: Matt stuff. Like, let it go, man. You know, it's like.
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  Speaker 1: It's no problem. If you're a big fan of Matt,
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  Speaker 1: of course, he's a legend on the air for so
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  Speaker 1: many years, part of everybody's life. That's great. But to
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  Speaker 1: go on and comment negative stuff about us, what are
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  Speaker 1: you doing, man? It's okay to not like our show.
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  Speaker 1: Just don't listen. you know the best when people are
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  Speaker 1: like i hate that show all they do is talk
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  Speaker 1: about this this this this and this obviously you're still
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  Speaker 1: listening and like for what to make him feel better
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  Speaker 1: he doesn't need your compliment matt's doing just fine just
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  Speaker 1: fine don't worry about matt he's chilling chilling chilling had
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  Speaker 1: a great career ended a little bit weird doesn't matter
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  Speaker 1: has plenty of money lives in florida Beautiful wife, beautiful kids.
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  Speaker 1: He's just fine. He doesn't need you to make him
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  Speaker 1: feel better. I'm like, look at these comments. Like, dude,
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  Speaker 1: just keep it to yourself. There's tons of comments that
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  Speaker 1: are like, I love you. I miss you. I'm like, yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Tell him. But I love you. I miss you. I
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  Speaker 1: don't listen to Kiss Run Away anymore. Haven't listened once.
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  Speaker 1: Billy and Lisa and Justin, awful. Oh, my God. All
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  Speaker 1: Justin cares about is his physique. God, take it easy, man.
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  Speaker 1: People are crazy. Anyway, love you guys. Talk to Marvel.