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The Dating Conversation That Has Everyone Picking Sides · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: I'm a homegrow that knows a little bit about everything
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  Speaker 1: and everybody.
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  Speaker 2: You know, if you don't lie about that, right Lauri, Hey, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: what's up.
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  Speaker 1: It's Laura and Rosa and this is another episode of
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  Speaker 1: the Latest with Laura Rosa. This is your daily digg
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  Speaker 1: on all things pop culture, entertainment, news and all of
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  Speaker 1: the conversations that shake the room.
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  Speaker 3: Baby. Now today we are back with an episode.
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  Speaker 1: I know I've been giving you guys a lot of
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  Speaker 1: conversations that shake the room, because lord, we have been
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  Speaker 1: all over the place. But today I want to get
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  Speaker 1: into some news in real time. Y'all know, before we
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  Speaker 1: get into the Latest, we always check in behind the
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  Speaker 1: scenes of the grind.
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  Speaker 3: So let's do it all, are y'all.
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  Speaker 1: So we came back off of that long break that
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  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club took, but you guys didn't even feel
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  Speaker 1: it over here, because of course I kept the episodes
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  Speaker 1: coming here on the podcast The Latest with Lauren Rosa,
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  Speaker 1: And thank you guys for tuning in. We've done numbers
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  Speaker 1: across the episodes, even across social Uh. My conversation with
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  Speaker 1: deb Antony that exclusive sit down a really in depth one, honestly,
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  Speaker 1: and she doesn't do much of those has picked up
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  Speaker 1: very well, and I've received a lot of feedback just
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  Speaker 1: from people who love the interviews that we do here
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  Speaker 1: at the Latest.
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  Speaker 3: So I hear you, guys. I appreciate you, guys.
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  Speaker 1: I see y'all on social all in the comments, hash
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  Speaker 1: check low Riders whenever I'm posting things from the podcast.
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  Speaker 1: So keep doing what y'all do, because it lets me
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  Speaker 1: know what y'all like and what y'all want to hear.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna lie to you guys though. This
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  Speaker 1: week getting back to work at the Breakfast Club after
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  Speaker 1: being technically out of work at the Breakfast Club for
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  Speaker 1: a week, even though we were still working. We were
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  Speaker 1: at Essence Festival, we were at the BT Awards.
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  Speaker 4: It's been a little rough.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold y'all like, you know, getting up
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  Speaker 1: out of bed at four fifteen, four thirty in the
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  Speaker 1: morning on a good day when I ain't running late,
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  Speaker 1: and just you know, there's a lot of mental preparation
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  Speaker 1: that I try and do now before I hop on
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  Speaker 1: the mic for The Latest with Lorna Rosa, whether it's
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  Speaker 1: here on the podcast or on the Breakfast Club. And
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  Speaker 1: a big part of that is because I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: like I feel like seeing how people who are doing
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  Speaker 1: this at a really high level and have been for
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  Speaker 1: some years that are very successful, like Envy, Charlomagne, Oprah.
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  Speaker 3: And y'all know.
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  Speaker 1: I watch a ton of podcasts too, so I'm watching,
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  Speaker 1: you know, people do this at such a high level
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  Speaker 1: all the time. The feeling that I get when I
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  Speaker 1: walk away from watching them do what they do is
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  Speaker 1: the feeling that I want the people to get. And
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  Speaker 1: I think over this last week of me ripping and
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  Speaker 1: running at all these different places and getting to interact
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  Speaker 1: with all of you guys in real life, I'm really
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  Speaker 1: grateful and I'm really appreciative. And I tell y'all that
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  Speaker 1: every episode, and I don't just do it because it's
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  Speaker 1: our tagline and how we wrap up the podcast. It's
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  Speaker 1: really a true meaning, Like I'm honestly grateful to be
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  Speaker 1: on this journey to learn and to understand where my
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  Speaker 1: voice sits in the world of all of the media
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  Speaker 1: and all of the things. So that that impact that
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  Speaker 1: I feel watching these greats that I mentioned and listening
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  Speaker 1: to these grapes that I mentioned, it's the same thing
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  Speaker 1: that you guys feel every single time you press played
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  Speaker 1: on an episode here on the Lates, along the Roads
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  Speaker 1: of the podcast, the breakfast Club, the view, wherever you
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  Speaker 1: see me at, I want you to feel that. So
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  Speaker 1: there's a different mindset, there's a different flow state I
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  Speaker 1: have to tap into, you know, just to keep myself.
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  Speaker 3: Not a lot.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say keep myself align because I feel like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, God does that, Like that is like a
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  Speaker 1: divine thing that is not anything that human or man
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  Speaker 1: can control.
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  Speaker 3: It's more so.
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  Speaker 1: Just making sure I'm quieting the noise to understand the
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  Speaker 1: why not understand, but to always put the why any
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  Speaker 1: intention first, regardless of we just having a good time,
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  Speaker 1: we're doing a little key key, we getting all in
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  Speaker 1: the business.
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  Speaker 3: Just understanding that.
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  Speaker 1: So, you know, coming back into this week of work
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  Speaker 1: and not really having.
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  Speaker 3: The break of it, I had to like really use.
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  Speaker 1: And pull from all of the people that I met
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  Speaker 1: and all the experiences I've had over this last week
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  Speaker 1: to do that. And I think one of my favorite
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  Speaker 1: things that I like ever ever ever, like people think
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  Speaker 1: I just like being out and ribbon and running because
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  Speaker 1: Brono grinding is the motto, and you know, we on
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  Speaker 1: the grind, right now and we building and this is
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  Speaker 1: the season for that. But no, it energizes me and
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  Speaker 1: it keeps me going. Like I told y'all, it was
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  Speaker 1: for anybody else, having a full week off and having
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  Speaker 1: to get back up at four a m. Again right
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  Speaker 1: after that and really not really taking a break honestly,
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  Speaker 1: would have been difficult. But for me, what I'm out
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  Speaker 1: and about and I'm talking to you guys, and I'm
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  Speaker 1: getting to see, like what it is that you care about,
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  Speaker 1: what impacts you that we care about or we talk about,
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  Speaker 1: and just the excitement and the joy. I asked the
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  Speaker 1: question all the time on this podcast, especially in the
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  Speaker 1: earlier days of it.
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  Speaker 3: Are we impacting people?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 1: It's what I'm doing every single day, leaving an impact
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  Speaker 1: that people can really feel.
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  Speaker 3: And I think when I'm out and about, I feel that.
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  Speaker 1: And it's what I'm trying to to say in so
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  Speaker 1: many words, because y'all know I can get wordy, is
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  Speaker 1: that the motivation and the inspiration now is really felt
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  Speaker 1: when I'm on the ground, when I'm outside with the folks.
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  Speaker 1: So that's why I love bringing those conversations back here
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  Speaker 1: to you guys.
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  Speaker 3: When I do have them and get a chance to
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  Speaker 3: experience them.
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  Speaker 1: Because if I feel the motivation, the inspiration and the
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  Speaker 1: push to keep going, keep dreaming, keep figuring all the
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  Speaker 1: things out, I want you guys to feel that as
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  Speaker 1: well too. I'm back, Baby, We are back on the
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  Speaker 1: podcast Bring you the Latest. Let's get on into it. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: talk about being outside and all of the things. Cheetah Girls,
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  Speaker 1: the Cheetah Girls, and I don't know how depends on
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  Speaker 1: how old you are if you're listening to this right now,
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  Speaker 1: the Cheeta Girls movie is back, baby.
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  Speaker 3: The Cheeter Girls are reassembling.
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  Speaker 1: So Raven Simone, Disney Channel, Star Entrepreneur Icon. In my opinion,
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  Speaker 1: Raven Simone announced that Cheeta Girls for is happening, so
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  Speaker 1: it will be with Raven Simone in the original cast.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, Raven Simone, Adrian Baylon, Sabrina, Brian Lynn, Whitfield Alter,
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  Speaker 1: they are all coming back. At the time, Keighley is
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  Speaker 1: not attached. Williams is not attached to the film. I
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  Speaker 1: wasn't really surprised about that, to be honest, but it
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  Speaker 1: would have been nice to see your end. I think
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  Speaker 1: it would have been nice to see all the girls together.
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  Speaker 1: But if you've been following, you know, her journey post
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  Speaker 1: Cheetah Girls and post some of the Disney Channel stuff.
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  Speaker 1: You know, there have been some hiccups there, so so yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but anyway, the movie is coming back. It's going to
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  Speaker 1: be called The Cheetah Girls Next Gin and it was
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  Speaker 1: officially greenlit right as Raven Simone broke the news. So
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  Speaker 1: the storyline for the film is picking up right when
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  Speaker 1: the Cheetah Girls, Galeria who's played by Raven Simone and
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  Speaker 1: Chanell who's played by Adrian Bailon, they have kids and
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  Speaker 1: their daughters, Faith, who was new to the franchise, and
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  Speaker 1: her three friends traveled Africa to volunteer at a wildfire
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  Speaker 1: wildfire sanctuary. At a wildfire sanctuary. Now along the way
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  Speaker 1: of all of this volunteering and the traveling, the four
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  Speaker 1: girls test their friendship, find their voice, and discover the
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  Speaker 1: true Cheetah Girl spirit as they preserve and ultimately take
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  Speaker 1: the stage as the new Cheetah Girl. So this is
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  Speaker 1: Raven Simone's second return to Disney Channel as one of
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  Speaker 1: her previous characters. You guys will remember she did Raven's Home.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was like, yeah, it was five or
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  Speaker 1: six seasons. It was six seasons of Raven's Home in
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  Speaker 1: twenty seventeen, and that went on from twenty seventeen to
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  Speaker 1: about twenty twenty three, and that was a spin off
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  Speaker 1: of that So Raven, which is another archives show that
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  Speaker 1: is just like the essence of a lot of our childhoods.
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  Speaker 1: Like the Unks are so excited because this weekend jay
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  Speaker 1: Z is in New York. He got the three shows
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  Speaker 1: at Yankee Stadium. It's gonna be lit, Okay. But when
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  Speaker 1: I see them get excited and they talking about laying
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  Speaker 1: they outfits out and can't wait the same the songs
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  Speaker 1: and all that, I get it. But you know, we
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  Speaker 1: encountered jay Z, like we didn't grow up on him
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  Speaker 1: because the Yunks is old, Okay, we encountered him eventually
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  Speaker 1: later in our lives and through lessons and through interviews
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  Speaker 1: and through the love of entertainment and hip hop and
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  Speaker 1: all the things. But I understand what it's like to
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  Speaker 1: grow up on something because let me tell you this,
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  Speaker 1: there are two moments in its last two weeks that
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  Speaker 1: made me realize what staple feeling in moments from youth
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  Speaker 1: and impact really are in entertainment.
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  Speaker 3: And it gave me small things.
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  Speaker 1: Right, like you don't gotta be solving some of the
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  Speaker 1: biggest world problems. Sometimes it's just putting a good feeling
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  Speaker 1: and a comfort feeling in somebody's heart that will last forever.
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  Speaker 3: And I know that's what hip hop and music does
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  Speaker 3: for people.
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  Speaker 1: But let me tell you all about the two moments
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  Speaker 1: when I went to the BT Awards and Lauren Hill
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  Speaker 1: was honored and they.
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  Speaker 3: Sung Joyful, Joyful from Sister Act two.
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  Speaker 1: I used to sing that movie down you could, I
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  Speaker 1: tell me I was not in that movie. That was
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  Speaker 1: one of the like I remember watching and singing along
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  Speaker 1: with that movie and seeing all those black kids on
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  Speaker 1: the screen in Lauren Hill and being like, y ooh,
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  Speaker 1: this is dope, like rap hip hop is in a movie.
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  Speaker 1: Like at a young age, I understood why the crossover
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  Speaker 1: of that was so phenomenal and so fire and just
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  Speaker 1: how big that movie was. And then the Cheetah Girls
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  Speaker 1: Disney Channel and seeing these young black girls, it was
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  Speaker 1: almost like the feeling of Mosha, Like seeing these young
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  Speaker 1: black girls in this you know, mainstream pop culture space
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  Speaker 1: and you know, having a good time telling stories, make
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  Speaker 1: your friends laugh and singing, dancing and learning all the
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  Speaker 1: songs and singing along with them.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it. It hit home.
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  Speaker 1: And I know a lot of y'all probably like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that's about the Cheeta girls, Lauren. It's one of them things.
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  Speaker 1: If you know, you know, ain't nothing for you I
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  Speaker 1: can do if you don't know, if you know, you know.
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  Speaker 3: So I'm excited to see that.
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  Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm excited too to just see the world, the
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  Speaker 1: world's reaction once it actually drops. There was a big
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  Speaker 1: reaction when Raving someone made the announcement, and she had
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  Speaker 1: been trying for some years to just like stay in
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  Speaker 1: contact with cast I remember she was doing like Instagram
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  Speaker 1: lives with some people and you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we we've been waiting on these things and now and
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  Speaker 1: finally here. So there's that. Speaking of the girls being
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  Speaker 1: outside our sisters. Over at the Poor Minds podcast, Lex
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  Speaker 1: Andrea sat down with Shannon Sharp on Club Shasha. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, I'm really proud of them, I do you know,
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  Speaker 1: in this podcast space, I'm always honest with you guys
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  Speaker 1: about the fact that we are on a journey, like.
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  Speaker 5: We are.
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  Speaker 1: A little over our first year in the podcasting game
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  Speaker 1: and learning you know, us as a community.
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  Speaker 3: Me y'all, the low Riders, the low Rider family.
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  Speaker 1: So I love watching other podcasters build out and elevate
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  Speaker 1: and just see how they maneuver in business. And you
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  Speaker 1: guys know, I did Poor Mind's live show here in
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  Speaker 1: New York when they came. Great experience, but I was
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  Speaker 1: there just watching them and see how like seeing how
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  Speaker 1: they you know, brought things from the podcast onto the
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  Speaker 1: live stage, and how production went down, and how people
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  Speaker 1: like I mean people knew everything down to the slogans
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  Speaker 1: that they open and close their podcast with with. And
• 11:04
  Speaker 1: being a person who has always loved talk shows and
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  Speaker 1: wanted a talk show and we got the latest, I
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  Speaker 1: understand that, like I understand the tagline, I understand the marketing,
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  Speaker 1: and I understand the branding around that. But to see
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  Speaker 1: it in real life, like to be listening to a
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  Speaker 1: podcast for some time and to watch it grow than
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  Speaker 1: to see in real life, it's just beautiful to see.
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  Speaker 1: And now these girls are on this press run, you know,
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  Speaker 1: talking about the podcast in our lives, and what I
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  Speaker 1: love the most is that these were two regular girls,
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  Speaker 1: college graduates, fine ass girls who just chose the dream,
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  Speaker 1: got together and were consistent and figured it out. And
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  Speaker 1: they talked about that on the episode and in the
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  Speaker 1: motivation that that gives them. This is such a I
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  Speaker 1: told y'all, I come off of these trips and all
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  Speaker 1: these outings very motivated and inspired. This is such a
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  Speaker 1: motivation motivational episode. Let's tay could listen to Lex and
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  Speaker 1: Dref from Poor Minds talk about just the building of
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  Speaker 1: their podcast over the years and being a regular girls
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  Speaker 1: I popped out to do it.
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  Speaker 4: How has this been amazing?
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  Speaker 6: Like, I feel like he's been an instrumental part of
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  Speaker 6: our career because he kind of gave us the opportunity,
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  Speaker 6: you know what I mean, when we were still filming
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  Speaker 6: at my apartment, before we were ever even in the studio,
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  Speaker 6: he pulled up to my apartment.
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  Speaker 4: And recorded with us, yeah, living room.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And then like a.
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  Speaker 6: Few years later, the show grown, the show grown, the
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  Speaker 6: show had grew a little bit more, and then he
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  Speaker 6: you know, offered for us to come on eighty five South.
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  Speaker 6: So we went on eighty five South and that really
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  Speaker 6: like catapulted our show to another level because I think
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  Speaker 6: that episode got like a million views in like two
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  Speaker 6: or three days. Yeah, and so that helped us get
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  Speaker 6: a lot more viewership. And then they ended up asking
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  Speaker 6: us did we want to sign to them because they
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  Speaker 6: were trying to start a management company and we were
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  Speaker 6: going to be the first people that they signed, so
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  Speaker 6: they signed us.
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  Speaker 4: We was kind of like the.
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  Speaker 6: Guinea pigs a little bit, but it ended up working
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  Speaker 6: out amazing lead and Carlos and eighty five Souths have
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  Speaker 6: just been such a blessing in our lives with the show.
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  Speaker 7: They really cleaned up our business too, Like we didn't
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  Speaker 7: know what we're doing, what we were doing, but they
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  Speaker 7: have taught us so much. And like we were getting
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  Speaker 7: so many no's, and Carlos was the one yes, and
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  Speaker 7: it's crazy because all them nose came back like, hey,
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  Speaker 7: when that finishes up, y'all can come over here. We're
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  Speaker 7: like no, yeah, so's and we're proof that all you
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  Speaker 7: need is one yes. I'm cool with all these noes
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  Speaker 7: because I know once I get that one yes, now this.
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  Speaker 1: One, this, this next topic. Because the interview was like
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  Speaker 1: they talked it was a three hour long interview, a
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  Speaker 1: little bit over three hours, honestly, almost like three and
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  Speaker 1: a half hours they talked about or was it two
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  Speaker 1: and a half child. It was a long interview, but
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  Speaker 1: it didn't feel long because it felt like you were
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  Speaker 1: just listening to them go down the line of like
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  Speaker 1: topics and stuff like that on their show. So and
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  Speaker 1: Shanton Sharp was smart. So in the beginning of the
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  Speaker 1: interview they opened up. They talk a lot about their
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  Speaker 1: journey themselves, how they how they formed the podcast, got
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  Speaker 1: the business going, their mindsets, so it really helped you
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  Speaker 1: understand them because then they went into their takes on
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  Speaker 1: different topics. Right, so they get into Daphanie Joy and
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  Speaker 1: if you guys are not familiar with who that is,
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  Speaker 1: that is the mother of fifty cents youngest son, Seer
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  Speaker 1: sire Seer. She was in a relationship with Diddy and
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  Speaker 1: they're more recently, not too long ago.
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  Speaker 3: Was a sex tape that leaked of her and Diddy doing.
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  Speaker 1: One of the freak offs that we've heard so much
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  Speaker 1: about with the red lights with a male escort, went
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  Speaker 1: super viral. And now Daphanie Joy has been on this
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  Speaker 1: press run it's like business. I don't know what the
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  Speaker 1: business she's in, like if that's really booming, because she's
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  Speaker 1: the only fans girl. She says that it is, But
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  Speaker 1: she's been on press runs that I don't think would
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  Speaker 1: have been possible without that sex tape being posted and
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  Speaker 1: the boar minds girls got into that. Let's say listen,
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  Speaker 1: women are always judged more harshly when it comes to
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  Speaker 1: anything that we do. A black woman who was in
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  Speaker 1: that situation wouldn't be on a press run right now,
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  Speaker 1: if I'm being honest.
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  Speaker 4: People wouldn't be invited her on the show. They'll be like,
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  Speaker 4: she's a slack. Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I think this just goes to show what we deal
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  Speaker 7: with as black women, you know.
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  Speaker 4: And this is no shade to Daphne.
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  Speaker 7: I think when you have a moment, you take it
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  Speaker 7: and that's what you want to you know, she's on
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  Speaker 7: Cam Newton podcast.
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  Speaker 4: That's an ad.
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  Speaker 7: I know an ad when I see one. I'm not
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  Speaker 7: mad at her, that's what you're supposed to do. But
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  Speaker 7: seeing the.
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  Speaker 4: Reaction of people the way they treat her.
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  Speaker 7: Even there ain't no tapes outside of me and Drea
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  Speaker 7: doing nothing, but the way people act towards.
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: Us, just because we talk about.
• 15:32
  Speaker 7: Our dating experience, yes, and we get treated like, oh
• 15:36
  Speaker 7: my gosh, you would have thought that we killed somebody's
• 15:39
  Speaker 7: mother or something like our fun they moment even with
• 15:42
  Speaker 7: like how the way they treat making a stallion, you know,
• 15:45
  Speaker 7: because of her lyrics or things like that, and it's
• 15:48
  Speaker 7: like they treat us like we are just the worst thing.
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: Ever, then you have this woman who has a sex
• 15:53
  Speaker 4: safe she getting not one but two niggas. Ain't no,
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: that's what you like to do, whatever the situation may be.
• 15:59
  Speaker 7: But they're like, oh, you see how feminine she is
• 16:01
  Speaker 7: and how soft and how beautiful and all this and that.
• 16:03
  Speaker 7: It's just like, are y'all for real right now? Y'all
• 16:07
  Speaker 7: dad are But this is like I said, no shade
• 16:10
  Speaker 7: of her. It's very it's just interesting. Yeah, it's interesting.
• 16:14
  Speaker 5: Arry, go ahead.
• 16:17
  Speaker 6: I was just gonna say, like, I feel like we
• 16:19
  Speaker 6: haven't seen a black woman be in a situation like
• 16:22
  Speaker 6: that and get the same type of attention and know the.
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: Right Well, she ain't gonna become no billionaire if that's
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: what you're asking, Well, she said.
• 16:28
  Speaker 7: She was like when people are comparing her to Kim
• 16:30
  Speaker 7: Kardashi and she was like, I love that, That's what
• 16:33
  Speaker 7: she said.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: Well, I hope you get a product line. I hope
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: you get a skincare line and come out.
• 16:38
  Speaker 5: With some uh skims of what it skims and.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Spain and I guess they call it dance.
• 16:46
  Speaker 6: What is it is crazy.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: To be like no.
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: Completely, I said that about the conversations they had, you know,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: even I mean and mind you their podcast is like
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: it's just like girl talk honestly, Like they mixing trend
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: to topics and stuff like that. But it really feels
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: like you just with your homegirls having a good time,
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: having a good conversation. But they do get into relationship
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: stuff and sexual things that they're not afraid of that
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: at all.
• 17:15
  Speaker 3: And they're very beautiful girls. The bodies be boughdy in. Okay.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: I love the poor mindes girls.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: I love Lexandrea because in real life they're real girls
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: like and y'all like, what does that mean? Gott to
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: clarify that in twenty twenty six, I don't mean none
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: the crazy stuff. What I mean by that is like
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: it's not like their caricatures of themselves, like in real life.
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: They're fun. They're girls girls. They like they have a
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: good time. They're like a good key key, a good drink,
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: a good you know. I love girls who are like ambitious,
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: get to the money, got their brands together, can figure
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: it out, but also cute fashion, can pop out, have
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: a good time, then get back to the business.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: Really like the essence of brown gar grinding.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: Is that so the way sometimes that I see people
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: react to their podcasts talk about them, I'm like, that's
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: so insane to me because some of our biggest influential
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: celebrities started like everything with sex space and I know
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: people instantly bring up like Kim Kardashian in this situation
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: like this, and I know that in the beginning, Kim
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Kardashian wasn't. It wasn't what it was now, Like I
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: remember Kanye having a goal off on people because he
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: would be invited to different fashion things and they wouldn't
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: want her in a room because she was the reality
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: started with the sex tape, but she was able to
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: overcome it and build really, really really big business from it.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: And when I look at podcasts like Call Her Daddy
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: and things of that nature, I compare to like conversations
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: that people have about also the horrible decisions podcasts as
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: well too, which is also like girls talk very they
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: get sexual. There are a lot more sexual than a
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: poor minds, it's honestly, but there's a thing there, and
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: I think a lot of times it's black when when
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: we point out certain things that we feel within ourselves
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: that like it's unspoken word, like it's you don't even
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: got to say it amongst us, we just know. But
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: when you say it out loud, people hate to hear
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: you express what you're actually going through, as if you
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: don't understand what was happening to you in real time.
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: So, Yeah, they got a lot of pushback for this clip,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: and I'm glad that they stood ten toes down on it.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Like I saw a lex post in response to it,
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: Like I knew that y'all was going to be calling
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: me everything but a child of God once its interview dropped.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: Interview was great though, in my opinion.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: They also talked about women having standards and how people
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: try to make women feel bad for having standards about
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: who and how they date. That's saicularten.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: So you said, you guys, like when you were younger,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: you felt a sense of entitlement that you were entitled
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: to a guys that have a certain level.
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah, now do you no longer feel that way? Is
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: there a.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Certain number that you feel a guy should make or
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: need to make in order, because like you said, you
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: guys have your own now, so you don't have to
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: accept anything.
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel.
• 19:58
  Speaker 6: Like we just at least need to be equally old.
• 20:01
  Speaker 6: You need to at least be making what I'm making
• 20:04
  Speaker 6: are better? Yeah, fag So I need a big daddy.
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, that's what I'm looking for.
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: So I guess with that. Ain't nobody splitting no bills?
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: You know?
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: No?
• 20:25
  Speaker 6: I mean, I will say this. I used to say that,
• 20:27
  Speaker 6: but I do feel like once you get to a
• 20:28
  Speaker 6: certain level of money, who really cares. That's why I
• 20:30
  Speaker 6: don't think rich people have conversations about that.
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: I ain't rich.
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: He don't think rich couples like when the woman is
• 20:36
  Speaker 6: making money and the man is making a lot of money,
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: I don't think they're arguing about who paying a.
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: Light view literally, like, I think those conversations about splitting
• 20:45
  Speaker 7: the bills are so like.
• 20:47
  Speaker 6: I think it's for people who need to sweep the bills, right,
• 20:50
  Speaker 6: And that's okay, there's nothing wrong with splitting the bills.
• 20:52
  Speaker 6: But the type of lifestyle that I imagine myself whenever I'm
• 20:54
  Speaker 6: heard and I'm having care, yeah, that's not what I've
• 20:57
  Speaker 6: ever imagined for myself. It's not gonna be like, oh
• 20:58
  Speaker 6: my gosh, I paid it this month, you pay just
• 21:01
  Speaker 6: take it out the pie.
• 21:02
  Speaker 4: There's a lot more where that came. Were gonna have
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: a joint of Grandma?
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: Oh we are? Oh yeah yeah yeah, we gonna have
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: a yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. Okay, I
• 21:11
  Speaker 5: just check it, just like it on the same pain
• 21:13
  Speaker 5: because this ain't no gumbo.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep the shrimp and over over here.
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah yeah yeah, I feel you. Yeah, everything a
• 21:30
  Speaker 4: gonna be in one pie. I agree.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: But what happened because it seems to me and I
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: could be wrong, and if I'm wrong, guys correct me.
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: Whatever happened to growing with a man?
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: A man doesn't have anything, he's planning, and you watch
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: him and y'all grow to together. It seems now everybody
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: wants already already grown the fruit. I can just go
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: pick the apples or the pears or whatever the case,
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: the fruit already.
• 21:52
  Speaker 5: Nobody wants to grow anymore.
• 21:54
  Speaker 6: I do think that that's a little messed up that
• 21:56
  Speaker 6: people have that mentality these days.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: But I don't know, as a one in my thirties.
• 22:01
  Speaker 6: You should be built, you should be grown already, like
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: because I feel like, what have you been doing all
• 22:06
  Speaker 6: this time?
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: At thirty five?
• 22:08
  Speaker 6: Like and just saying if I'm dating somebody that's the
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: same age as me, Like, what have you been doing
• 22:12
  Speaker 6: all this time to where I.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Need to work with you while you build.
• 22:18
  Speaker 6: I think that when women are in their twenties, that's
• 22:21
  Speaker 6: unreally stick because y'all are both trying to figure things out. Yes,
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: and I'm not saying that we still can't grow together.
• 22:27
  Speaker 6: And yeah, you should still, but you should have something
• 22:30
  Speaker 6: that you already coming with. I shouldn't just be over
• 22:33
  Speaker 6: here like okay, well he got to get it together.
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: Let me just say nothing.
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: I don't think nobody should be able to get it together.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Look if we right out of college or you know, hey,
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to grow this right here.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: Okay, this is what we try to do.
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: But I agree, I mean, but sometimes it's really hard
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: because sometimes it takes people longer than others.
• 22:51
  Speaker 5: Sometimes, where some people can figure.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: It out twenty two, some people maybe at twenty five,
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: some people might take them thirty. It's kind of like maturing.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: Some kids mature a lot sooner than others. Yeah, if
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: something like with them, he's mature at thirteen, fourteen, and
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: here you are twenty five and you still ain't mature.
• 23:06
  Speaker 6: Yeah, And I do I think it's different when you're
• 23:08
  Speaker 6: growing with a person that you've been with for a lot. Yeah,
• 23:10
  Speaker 6: even if something is to happen, because you have situations
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: where a woman is with a man and he's doing amazing,
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: and yeah, something ends up happening in his life altering,
• 23:18
  Speaker 6: and then y'all are not in the same financial space
• 23:21
  Speaker 6: that y'all once were in, and you gotta, you know,
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: be there for him while he gets it back, get
• 23:25
  Speaker 6: back on the seat, you can get it back to
• 23:26
  Speaker 6: where it was. I think that's okay, and that's understandable,
• 23:30
  Speaker 6: especially in a marriage.
• 23:31
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I just feel like when it comes to these
• 23:34
  Speaker 7: money conversations, they tough.
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: It really is extremely interesting.
• 23:39
  Speaker 7: But I also feel like when you're in a relationship
• 23:42
  Speaker 7: like being like this ride or not everything like they
• 23:45
  Speaker 7: try to put on black women, they make us feel
• 23:47
  Speaker 7: so bad for it.
• 23:48
  Speaker 4: But again, I'm about to be thirty seven.
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I'm not saying that you have to be
• 23:53
  Speaker 7: worth you know, a million dollars, but also.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: You gotta have some money coming somebody got to be
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: they gotta be worth the these to be.
• 23:58
  Speaker 5: Who you fooling?
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: Well, you see who said that and who need Okay,
• 24:04
  Speaker 6: but this is what I'm saying.
• 24:05
  Speaker 7: Though, you have to have some money coming in, because
• 24:10
  Speaker 7: my thing is, we are in this age where everybody's like, oh,
• 24:12
  Speaker 7: I want to start from the bottom and I want
• 24:13
  Speaker 7: to grind.
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: I want to go get it.
• 24:15
  Speaker 7: Hey, when I quit my job when poor Minds was
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: taking off, they literally had to force me out that job.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: They were like, you can't.
• 24:22
  Speaker 7: Be here no more, you don't have the time. And
• 24:23
  Speaker 7: I was like, I want my consistent shape. Yes, y'all
• 24:27
  Speaker 7: have to follow your dreams and go to work. Nobody
• 24:31
  Speaker 7: that's not supporting themselves. So I do think that, like, yeah,
• 24:34
  Speaker 7: you can ride or die with somebody or whatever you
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: want to do, hold it down, but y'all need to
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: be making some money.
• 24:38
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but we need to be riding full times.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: I died a.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: Lot and shout out to the people out here doing
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: all the things. Like honestly, like I that is, I
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: tell my male friends all the time. I admire men
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: because men are really good about setting their boundaries when
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: it came to dating, relationships, friendships work. They set their
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: boundaries well and they stick to it. They compartment compartmentalize
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: and they do like I feel like women compartmentalize too,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: But sometimes it's more for protection. Maybe men do it
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: for protection as well too, but the way that men
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: do it it allows them to like manipulate and get
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: the best out of every any situation. And I don't
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: always feel like for I'm just speak for myself as
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: a woman. I don't always feel like me compartmentalizing does
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: that for me. I do feel like I know very
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: well how to work a room and work a situation,
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: but I don't feel like my boundaries are as strong
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: sometimes when it comes to certain things like work, like
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: relationship boundaries as I've seen men in my life be,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: and how beneficial that is for them, Like even a
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: conversation of like like they were talking about in relationships
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: right like what they want and not being allowed to
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: say that, but take it back to the workplace, Like
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I think men in the workplace know when they're not
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: getting what they deserve and they're not afraid to say
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: it right in the air and nip it in the butt.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Let's get straight to it. Women, it's like we have
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: to navigate the politics. Like there's so much politics and
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: so many different compartments of our life, Like there's politics
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: in dating and finding your person.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: You can't be too much. But you don't want to
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: be belittled.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: You can't act like you own a table and you
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: brought the table even though you might have. Because you
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: want a man and his eve and all the things
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: to feel good. But at the same time, you want
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: to feel good about yourself. And I've always heard people
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: say the right work situation, the right man shoot, even
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: taking it out of relationships like boyfriend girlfriend girlfriend girlfriend, boyfriend, boyfriend, whatever,
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: taking it out of that, just taking it even to friendships.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: I've always heard people say people will only treat you
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: how you allow them, and people will only treat you
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: how you feel like you deserve to be treated. But
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: a lot of times as a woman, you won't allow
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: certain things. Once we get to the point where we
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: are finally standing on the boundaries or you know that
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: you deserve certain things, you'll be working toward it. You'll
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: be talking about it, and you still got to play
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: the politics. You still gotta dance, you still got to
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: play the game. Sometimes it's just different for us. I
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: make that very clear with all of the men that
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: I work with all the time, especially because my job
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: is so vocal and there's a lot of times where
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: you know I'm in different rooms and men are like,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: you should speak out about this. You got the platform,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, you can do that as a man.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: But for me, even if I do do it, I
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: have to sit and think through so many different things
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: that men don't think about, like the sensitivity of things.
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Men think about that completely different and they have the
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: privilege to, like child is a whole lot that goes
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: into it.
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: But this interview I thought was.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Very It was a great interview, a great way to
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: interview personalities because it was an interview and we learned
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: a lot about them, but we also got to hear
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: and see them do their thing in real time.
• 27:55
  Speaker 3: It was literally like a crossover episode.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: It felt like the Poor Mind's podcast took over Upshase
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: shape for a crossover episode. And that's eventually how they
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: ended up titling the interview when they posted it, probably
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: because they felt that way. So shout out to them.
• 28:07
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