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I Found the Most SHOCKING Reddit Stories- Part 1 · The conspiracy

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  Speaker 1: He died! They gave me his body in a shoebox!
• 0:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah!
• 0:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah! Yeah!
• 0:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah! Yeah! Yeah!
• 0:14
  Speaker 3: Yeah!
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  Speaker 1: We're married!
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  Speaker 2: Yeah!
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah!
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  Speaker 2: Yeah! He's my husband!
• 0:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah!
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  Speaker 2: I'm his wife!
• 0:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah!
• 0:26
  Speaker 2: My legs hurt a lot.
• 0:31
  Speaker 1: You haven't been on my main channel in... You don't
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  Speaker 1: let me on there.
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  Speaker 2: Nope. Because I say the wrong thing.
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  Speaker 3: No.
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  Speaker 2: The whole audience get mad.
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  Speaker 1: No. Everyone loves you. Oh, look what you did. No,
• 0:43
  Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. Just kidding. They're beautiful. And speaking of beautiful,
• 0:46
  Speaker 1: calm people, we're going to talk to the people on Reddit.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
• 0:50
  Speaker 1: We haven't done this in a while. On this channel anyway.
• 0:52
  Speaker 1: I have a second channel where I do this a lot.
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  Speaker 2: No. All right.
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  Speaker 1: But I thought it'd be fun to do a video
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  Speaker 1: with my husband.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: How's that, by the way?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, it's weird. I mean, it's great, but it's weird
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  Speaker 2: that I have to call you my wife now.
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  Speaker 1: It's weird?
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  Speaker 2: It's hard to get used to.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it is hard to get used to.
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  Speaker 2: I never thought I'd be married to such a beautiful woman.
• 1:10
  Speaker 1: Oh, duh. Anyway, we're on my favorite Reddit thread, and
• 1:14
  Speaker 1: that's Am I the A-Hole? I've gathered some gems. I've
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  Speaker 1: only read the title. Let's dive into it.
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  Speaker 2: I trust you.
• 1:26
  Speaker 1: All right, first up.
• 1:27
  Speaker 2: Am I the a-hole for using my neighbor's bath? Out
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  Speaker 2: the gate?
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  Speaker 1: Probably.
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  Speaker 2: This seems weird.
• 1:33
  Speaker 1: Seems weird. I live in an apartment block and live
• 1:35
  Speaker 1: across from my neighbor. Let's call him Jerry. Jerry is
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  Speaker 1: 40 year old man who lives alone and works nine
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  Speaker 1: to five, Monday to Friday. He gave me a key
• 1:42
  Speaker 1: a few years back when he went on holidays. I
• 1:45
  Speaker 1: still have a key.
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  Speaker 2: Six months ago, my shower broke before a big work presentation.
• 1:50
  Speaker 2: I sent him a text asking if I could use
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  Speaker 2: his bath, but he never got back to me. I
• 1:53
  Speaker 2: assumed it was okay. It turned out he changed his number. Anyway,
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  Speaker 2: I don't have a bath in my flat, and it
• 1:59
  Speaker 2: was some experience. I brought my own shower gel, shampoo,
• 2:02
  Speaker 2: and rubber ducks. I didn't use anything that he paid for. Stop.
• 2:05
  Speaker 2: This is insane. Stop.
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  Speaker 1: Since then, I've been using his bath when he's not around.
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  Speaker 1: It is the best part of the week, midday on
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  Speaker 1: Tuesday and Friday when I head in.
• 2:15
  Speaker 2: Then, everything went wrong. Jerry died. Rest in peace, Jerry,
• 2:21
  Speaker 2: but this is crazy. I didn't know this, and I
• 2:23
  Speaker 2: went in for my Tuesday bath. I was sitting there
• 2:25
  Speaker 2: relaxing when his brother came in and was shocked to
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  Speaker 2: see me sitting naked in his toilet post-shower. It was
• 2:30
  Speaker 2: the worst moment he could have arrived. He was so mad,
• 2:33
  Speaker 2: and I was humiliated beyond belief. I am still so embarrassed,
• 2:36
  Speaker 2: and I feel so ashamed of my body and how
• 2:37
  Speaker 2: I appeared to this man.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, how he appeared to him?
• 2:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, to his brother.
• 2:43
  Speaker 1: It turned into a big thing. Apparently I'm a dick
• 2:45
  Speaker 1: for using Jerry's bath. I don't think so because I
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  Speaker 1: always brought my own stuff and Jerry gave me the
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  Speaker 1: key to begin with. I am heartbroken at the loss
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  Speaker 1: of my neighbor and the lovely memories he gave me.
• 2:54
  Speaker 1: Am I actually the asshole? Cause I don't think so.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, you never told him you're using the bath.
• 2:59
  Speaker 2: yeah if he just didn't know he didn't know that's
• 3:02
  Speaker 2: wild that's.
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  Speaker 1: So creepy you might as well be uh a frogging
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  Speaker 1: at that point i.
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  Speaker 2: Feel like jerry maybe was because how how much older
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  Speaker 2: jerry's a 40 year old man and how old are
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  Speaker 2: you though because maybe jerry's hoping you take a bath
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  Speaker 2: or something and he like walks in on you and
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  Speaker 2: it's like.
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  Speaker 1: A weird oh like he might be a little peeping tom.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah but he died though peace he died rest in
• 3:21
  Speaker 2: peace may god rest his soul this is strange like
• 3:24
  Speaker 2: you you i'd say you're the asshole though you know
• 3:26
  Speaker 2: when somebody uses your bath though do you Maybe not.
• 3:30
  Speaker 1: Maybe he's not. If you're not that observant, maybe not,
• 3:32
  Speaker 1: because there's usually wet stiller.
• 3:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, we got a cat that uses our bath. True.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like if somebody went in there and took
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  Speaker 2: a bath while I wasn't inside, I would never know.
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  Speaker 1: No, I would notice, though.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a woman, though.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like it, because I actually clean the bath,
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  Speaker 1: so I would notice. But you know what? Maybe he
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  Speaker 1: just actually never knew. But yes, you're an asshole for
• 3:49
  Speaker 1: breaking and entering, even though you had a key. It
• 3:51
  Speaker 1: sounds like he went on vacation. He's just entering. He
• 3:53
  Speaker 1: went on holidays, so it was like to look after
• 3:55
  Speaker 1: his house. This is so creepy and weird. What did
• 3:58
  Speaker 1: people say?
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  Speaker 2: She just entered, to be fair. She didn't break.
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  Speaker 1: He or she?
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  Speaker 2: It's a girl, right?
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was a boy the whole time.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, why did I think it was a girl?
• 4:06
  Speaker 1: That's interesting that you thought it was a girl and
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  Speaker 1: I thought it.
• 4:08
  Speaker 2: Was a guy. Taking baths isn't a very, like, man, like,
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  Speaker 2: am I an asshole for taking a bath in my
• 4:13
  Speaker 2: neighbor's apartment?
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  Speaker 3: Let me get this straight. You didn't have permission to
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  Speaker 3: be in your neighbor's apartment and you should have given
• 4:19
  Speaker 3: the key back after he came back from holidays a
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  Speaker 3: few years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 4:24
  Speaker 3: Even though you had a key, you basically been breaking
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  Speaker 3: into his apartment.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, also, a woman, in my opinion, wouldn't go into
• 4:29
  Speaker 1: a man's house.
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  Speaker 2: What if they had a good rapport? What if they're
• 4:34
  Speaker 2: like friends, you know?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Because this person, I don't know why I thought it
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  Speaker 2: was a girl.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's a guy.
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  Speaker 2: I just feel like that's such a weird guy thing. Bro,
• 4:43
  Speaker 2: I just chillin'. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: It's just not a human thing to do.
• 4:47
  Speaker 3: You're the asshole. Okay, I assume that this is a
• 4:49
  Speaker 3: joke because the story plays out like a Seinfeld episode
• 4:52
  Speaker 3: where you're George Costanza. There's so many problems here, my friend.
• 4:55
  Speaker 3: You must know this. You can actually think that sneaking
• 4:58
  Speaker 3: into someone's home and taking a bath without your knowledge
• 5:01
  Speaker 3: or consent is okay. And not once, but twice a
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  Speaker 3: week for six months. That's 52 baths.
• 5:05
  Speaker 1: Think of the water bill.
• 5:07
  Speaker 2: True.
• 5:09
  Speaker 1: True.
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  Speaker 2: I just, yeah, it's a guy like George Costanza. It's
• 5:11
  Speaker 2: not a girl. I don't know why I thought it
• 5:12
  Speaker 2: was a girl. I think I always just think that, uh,
• 5:16
  Speaker 2: whenever it's like him, he, I always just assume. Cause
• 5:19
  Speaker 2: a lot of it is like, is my girlfriend, my boyfriend, male, female. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And usually they disclose like male 25 or something. So yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's fair.
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  Speaker 2: Are they the asshole? Yes. Yes.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not the asshole for moving myself and my pregnant
• 5:32
  Speaker 4: wife to her parents instead of rehoming my cat.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I've known my wife for seven years, married for four.
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  Speaker 1: She's six months pregnant with our first child.
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  Speaker 2: I have an indoor cat who I raised from a
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  Speaker 2: kitten to his current age of 16 years. My wife
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  Speaker 2: and I are the only people he's been around regularly.
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  Speaker 1: My wife has suddenly developed allergies to the cat. We
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  Speaker 1: talked with our doctor and he said sometimes this can happen.
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  Speaker 2: My wife wants me to rehome my cat. There's mustache
• 5:57
  Speaker 2: hairs in my nose again. Oh. It's bothering me. Freaking out.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, yes, it's there again.
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  Speaker 2: Your fingers stink. My wife wants me to rehome my cat.
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  Speaker 2: I do not want to do this. He's old. He
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  Speaker 2: only knows me and my wife. He only knows our home.
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  Speaker 2: He's not been around other people or animals. I think
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  Speaker 2: it will be very stressful for him at this age
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  Speaker 2: and it might just kill him.
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  Speaker 1: I offered my wife a compromise. We can stay with
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  Speaker 1: her parents who live 10 minutes away and have no
• 6:20
  Speaker 1: issues with us taking a spare bedroom until the baby
• 6:23
  Speaker 1: is born. And then if the allergies persist for her,
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  Speaker 1: Or the baby I can look into very carefully, finding
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  Speaker 1: my cat a permanent new home. I check in on
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  Speaker 1: my cat every day.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my. That's neurotic. Oh no. My wife called me
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  Speaker 2: a huge asshole for prioritizing my cat over her and
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  Speaker 2: the baby's health. I just don't want to traumatize my
• 6:41
  Speaker 2: cat over something that might be temporary. Am I the asshole?
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  Speaker 1: Initial thoughts. You seem like kind of an asshole.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. If you wanted me to get rid of Frankie.
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  Speaker 2: Your dog. My dog that I love. Massively. It came
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  Speaker 2: well before you.
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  Speaker 1: It was his dog before you.
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  Speaker 2: Well before you. Yeah. All right. Frankie is grandfathered in.
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  Speaker 1: And I was allergic to it.
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  Speaker 2: And it just started to ruin your life. And it
• 7:00
  Speaker 2: fucked you up that bad. I would have to come
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  Speaker 2: up with some form of compromise.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so the parents live 10 minutes away. Why can't
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  Speaker 1: the cat just go there? And then it would still
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  Speaker 1: be within the family.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Because they're saying, I offer my wife compromise. We can
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  Speaker 1: stay with her parents and let the cat just get
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  Speaker 1: the whole house.
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  Speaker 2: If your pregnant wife is allergic to the cat, something's
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  Speaker 2: got to happen.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Something's got to change. Because that's bad. It's just unnecessary stress. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You're not compromising.
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  Speaker 1: You're compromising for you and your cat at this point.
• 7:27
  Speaker 1: You're not compromising for your wife. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's wild.
• 7:30
  Speaker 1: We have an update.
• 7:31
  Speaker 4: None of it matters anymore.
• 7:33
  Speaker 1: After I read the responses to my original post, I
• 7:35
  Speaker 1: started thinking about other options so my wife and I
• 7:36
  Speaker 1: could stay in our home. My brother lives a few
• 7:38
  Speaker 1: hours away, and he spent a few years living with
• 7:42
  Speaker 1: my cat and when we were younger, so I called
• 7:44
  Speaker 1: him and explained the situation. He agreed to adopt him,
• 7:46
  Speaker 1: but he was out of town, so the soonest he
• 7:48
  Speaker 1: could come pick it up was the weekend after the next.
• 7:51
  Speaker 1: I told my wife that we would have to keep
• 7:52
  Speaker 1: the cat for at least two weeks until my brother
• 7:54
  Speaker 1: got here, and until then, she would have to use
• 7:57
  Speaker 1: allergy tablets or stay with her parents. She became furious.
• 8:01
  Speaker 1: said she was not going to leave our house and
• 8:03
  Speaker 1: the cat had to go ASAP. Yeah, dude, what the
• 8:06
  Speaker 1: f- Put the cat in a different house. Give it
• 8:08
  Speaker 1: to your parents. I don't understand. I told her this
• 8:10
  Speaker 1: was the best I could do. I was not giving, uh,
• 8:12
  Speaker 1: to give the cat away to whatever random person stopped
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  Speaker 1: by first.
• 8:16
  Speaker 2: What?
• 8:17
  Speaker 1: Yesterday I got home from work and I couldn't find
• 8:18
  Speaker 1: my cat. I asked my wife and she told me,
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: no hesitation, nothing, that she dropped him off.
• 8:23
  Speaker 2: Now she's evil.
• 8:24
  Speaker 1: At an animal shelter. Her words, I'm pregnant and miserable
• 8:28
  Speaker 1: and you wouldn't get rid of him. So I did. Wait, this, okay,
• 8:31
  Speaker 1: this is all bad. I didn't argue. I just asked
• 8:34
  Speaker 1: her to tell me which shelter and I drove straight there.
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: I didn't see my cat at the cages in the shelter.
• 8:38
  Speaker 1: When I showed the lady working the picture of my cat,
• 8:40
  Speaker 1: she started apologizing. She said that, okay, I thought, I
• 8:43
  Speaker 1: thought they were, I said, I'm going to put him down.
• 8:45
  Speaker 1: Put him with the other cats, but later... They were
• 8:47
  Speaker 1: bringing in a large dog where they had to take
• 8:49
  Speaker 1: dogs past the cat cages to the dog cages. The
• 8:51
  Speaker 1: dog jumped at my cat's cage and barked at him
• 8:54
  Speaker 1: and my cat panicked and had a heart attack. He died.
• 8:57
  Speaker 1: They gave me his body in the shoebox.
• 8:59
  Speaker 2: There's no way this is real. This has got to
• 9:01
  Speaker 2: be bullshit.
• 9:02
  Speaker 1: No, let it be real though.
• 9:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's pretend that it's real.
• 9:05
  Speaker 1: I took him home. My wife started apologizing once she
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  Speaker 1: saw him, but I ignored her and went straight to
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  Speaker 1: the backyard and buried him.
• 9:11
  Speaker 2: I called my brother earlier today to explain what happened.
• 9:13
  Speaker 2: He started yelling at his phone. This is crazy. This
• 9:16
  Speaker 2: seems like this guy didn't like getting flamed for being
• 9:19
  Speaker 2: the asshole, and then he's like... And then he made
• 9:21
  Speaker 2: up the story.
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, I believe the first story for some reason, but
• 9:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like this update is fabricated.
• 9:29
  Speaker 2: That seems insane.
• 9:31
  Speaker 1: I feel really bad for him.
• 9:33
  Speaker 2: Cats are so tough.
• 9:35
  Speaker 1: It must have been so old then.
• 9:37
  Speaker 2: If this is real, I'm actually sorry.
• 9:39
  Speaker 1: Because that is terrible, losing a pet. And I thought
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: there would be a way for you to keep it
• 9:43
  Speaker 1: in the family, which you did, which I think is good.
• 9:46
  Speaker 1: But no, you're an asshole for just... You had to
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: be told by strangers that you're stupid, basically.
• 9:53
  Speaker 3: Ooh, tough call. New girl versus cat. Cat wins. Y'all
• 9:56
  Speaker 3: say wanting to move in versus cat. Cat wins. Wife
• 9:59
  Speaker 3: who lived happily with cat and is now pregnant with
• 10:01
  Speaker 3: your kid and has become allergic? No one wins. You
• 10:04
  Speaker 3: decided that the cat gets to stay and everyone else leaves?
• 10:06
  Speaker 2: Weird. Interesting.
• 10:08
  Speaker 3: I think it's a weird solution. But I also think
• 10:10
  Speaker 3: OP is trying to engineer a temporary solution to a
• 10:12
  Speaker 3: possible temporary problem. Basically putting a band-aid on the wound
• 10:16
  Speaker 3: instead of cutting the leg off. Opie is my respect
• 10:18
  Speaker 3: for being creative. His wife is temporarily allergic.
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's fine. That's why I said keep it
• 10:22
  Speaker 1: in the family.
• 10:22
  Speaker 2: If it was my situation and Frankie was getting old,
• 10:25
  Speaker 2: I would just let my mom or sister take Frankie. Yeah, right?
• 10:28
  Speaker 1: Which is what he did. I think he was an
• 10:30
  Speaker 1: asshole and then he became a soft asshole.
• 10:32
  Speaker 2: Then everyone sucked. Yeah, I think he was maybe an
• 10:34
  Speaker 2: asshole at first, and then he wasn't.
• 10:35
  Speaker 1: Sorry, you were saying that if you had to, you'd
• 10:38
  Speaker 1: just have to put Frankie at a family's place.
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I would just give Frankie to my mom or
• 10:42
  Speaker 2: grandmother or something along those lines, and I would figure
• 10:44
  Speaker 2: something out in the meantime. I would put her in
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: the garage or, like, get, I don't know, there's hypoallergenic,
• 10:50
  Speaker 2: I mean, I would brush her, just whatever I possibly could.
• 10:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's, like, safe sprays now, too, that you can
• 10:55
  Speaker 1: spray around just to get rid of that.
• 10:57
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 10:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like there's other solutions.
• 10:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 10:59
  Speaker 1: And also, you don't need to take it to an
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: animal shelter.
• 11:02
  Speaker 2: That's... The book talk ending is crazy though.
• 11:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that is so, yeah.
• 11:08
  Speaker 2: Very dramatic.
• 11:09
  Speaker 1: Very dramatic.
• 11:10
  Speaker 2: Hopefully that didn't happen. If it did, I feel really bad.
• 11:12
  Speaker 2: Me too.
• 11:12
  Speaker 1: Me too.
• 11:13
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• 11:15
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  Speaker 1: I am, etc. And I recently decided to ask my
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: mom about her parents as they both died when I
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: was younger, and I only have relationships with my dad's parents,
• 13:11
  Speaker 1: who are both still living. To my shock, my mom
• 13:14
  Speaker 1: told me her mother is my dad's dad's sister. Her
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: mother is my dad's... So, her mom's mom and her
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: dad's dad. Wait, I gotta read this again.
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: So, my mom....
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: My mom told me, my mom told me her mother,
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: her mother, so this girl's grandmother, and is my dad's dad,
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: so her grandfather, sister. So they were, her grandpa and grandma,
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: they said they were sisters. They said they were sisters.
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: To my shock. So my mom and dad are cousins, right?
• 13:52
  Speaker 1: Because the grandparents are... Oh my gosh. My grandma on
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: my mom's side and my granddad's on my dad's side, sister.
• 13:58
  Speaker 1: This is apparently legal in the UK for first cousins
• 14:01
  Speaker 1: to be romantically involved. But I personally feel insanely grossed
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: out by my incestuousness.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: I personally feel insanely grossed out by the incestuousness of
• 14:12
  Speaker 2: this relationship.
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: Sorry, by this relationship.
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: And the fact.
• 14:15
  Speaker 1: that I am a product of it, as well as
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: my 18-year-old sister.
• 14:19
  Speaker 2: You're inbred, by definition.
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: I know. I do not know how to discuss this
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: with my mom, as, let's face it, it's too late
• 14:25
  Speaker 1: to change anything. I just do not know how to
• 14:28
  Speaker 1: process the fact that my grandma is also my great-aunt.
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: And my granddad is also my great uncle. I'm sure
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: my mom and dad aren't just my mom and dad
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: anymore either. Some other messed up relation linked in there somewhere.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: And incest is something I've always been revolted by. And now,
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a product of it.
• 14:44
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. So why would you be the asshole?
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: For being disgusted.
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: No.
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: No.
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: What?
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: It's also not your fault in any way.
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: You can be like grossed out by your grandparents being siblings.
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 14:56
  Speaker 1: And marrying each other and procreating.
• 14:59
  Speaker 2: Not everybody can handle that type of thing. No.
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: But you can?
• 15:02
  Speaker 3: Not the asshole I'd be disgusted to. Being told I
• 15:07
  Speaker 3: was a product of incest.
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Sorry, OP.
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: Well, it's in your family tree somewhere. Hell, it's in everyone's.
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: That's true.
• 15:11
  Speaker 2: Probably.
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: OP is just more recent.
• 15:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. But the first cousin thing is really weird. I
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: recently did research on this last year because I thought
• 15:20
  Speaker 2: I thought it was like up to third or fourth cousins.
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: You can't.
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: It's like bad or whatever.
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, I think it's a little first.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: It's just first.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's just first.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: Second cousin. You're good. Yeah. You're good to start. Yeah.
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: So weird. I thought that was weird.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: I mean, it is weird, but it's it's like not genetically.
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah. It's not going to be weird. Rot you. But
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: like if you do that and then you do it again,
• 15:41
  Speaker 2: it becomes.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: It becomes more. Toxic or whatever.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: It's just Game of Thrones shit.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: Nah, I think so. Your parents are first cousins, or honestly,
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: I can't figure out what degree they're separated, huh? I
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: do think you're being a little over the top in
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: your reaction, but it's possible there are reasons for this.
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: Their mom and dad's parents were siblings, bro. That's the
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: reason for freaking out.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of, like, my mom telling you that.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: I'd freak out. I'd freak out. I'd start making fun
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: of my parents instantly. Immediately. And then I'd look in
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: the mirror and be like, oh, that makes sense.
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's wild.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's got to be terrible. I feel like that's
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: not a big deal that you're freaking out though. You're
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: definitely not the asshole.
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: No.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: There's nothing in this that makes you the asshole.
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: Especially since you're just learning this now. Since you inquired.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Like if you never inquired what you'd never know. That's weird. Alright,
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: since it's Mother's Day today, I believe, uh, there's one
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: for Mother's Day.
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: It might be asshole for being pissed off that my
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: husband once again made plans for us to spend Mother's
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: Day with his mommy.
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: Huh. Mommy. Interesting. It depends.
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna- I'm gonna give them the benefit of
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: the doubt. I've been with my husband for seven years.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: For the first three years of our relationship, his mother
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: lived in Canada, so we didn't see her often. After that,
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: she moved back to our home state in New Jersey,
• 16:49
  Speaker 1: And her birthday is two weeks before Mother's Day, and
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: we always end up bringing her out for her birthday,
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: and my husband, despite us not being able to afford it,
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: treats her to a meal. And then, on Mother's Day,
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: same thing. Lets her pick the restaurant, and we go
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: treat her to a meal. For the past two years,
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: I have told my husband that I honestly am fed
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: up with doing this. I told him that we should
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: be considering her birthday dinner to be a part of
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day gift, since it's so close to the same date,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: and that for once, I would like him to give
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: me a special Mother's Day. Last year, I was so
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: upset about it, because all he got for me on
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: Mother's Day was a $ 12 storage bin for our kitchen,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: and then we shipped right off to go treat his
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: mom to a $ 120 meal. He said this year he
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: would make sure my Mother's Day was special.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Is this woman a mother?
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: I believe so, because they are celebrating it.
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's not cool. Yeah. But like, if it's
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: just your wife, then... Of course. Mommy takes precedence.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there's like a lot more.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: Mother.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: Well, he was online searching for a gift for his
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: mother for Mother's Day, so I assumed that he was
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: going to be the only thing he did for this year.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: He typically doesn't buy her gifts and just brings her
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: out to eat. The necklace he ended up getting her
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: was $ 130- ish because he had it engraved. But this morning,
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: she calls him and he said, well, start planning where
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: you want to go out to eat on Mother's Day
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: so I can plan ahead. And I just immediately felt gutted.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: I loaded up the kids and went to the playground. Okay,
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: so she is a mother.
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: He called me 20 minutes later and asked where I went,
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: so I told him I went to the playground. He
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: asked which one and said he would come down, and
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I told him I wanted space. When he asked why,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I told him it was because, once again, he was
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: doing the shit for his mom on Mother's Day on
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: top of already getting her an expensive gift. So I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: know for a fact I'm going to be left in
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: the dust per usual, and I was extremely hurt that
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: he told me it would happen this year. And he
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: went against that. He tried arguing that it's for both
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: of us, but she literally gets choice of restaurant every
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: single time. And I basically ignored the entire time. I'm
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: there and left to deal with the kids while he's
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: chatting it up with his mother. Interesting.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you become of one flesh when married
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: and when you have a child together. I feel like
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: at that point, you're more important. You should be more important. Objectively, yeah.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course. Of course your mother matters, and it's
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: a bonus if you can do something for your mom
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: too on the same day, but your wife should take precedence.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: you're the mother of your children should.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah i think i feel like she said this a
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: lot so she's not the asshole right yeah she said
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: this a lot brought it up.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: A lot and she has like gone through this a
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: lot he just loves his mommy's all.
• 19:16
  Speaker 5: Yeah he's a little he's a little mommy's boy which
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: is okay but also make sure your wife feels special
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: too like i'd personally be okay if if we like
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: we actually i mean i'm not a mom but we're
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: taking like His mom and his grandmother.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Out for dinner.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, on Mother's Day.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: On Mother's Day. And if I was a mom, I'd
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: be perfectly happy.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't do that, though, if it was Mother's Day. Yeah? Oh, yeah.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: What would you do? I'd build you an effigy. Oh. Yeah.
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: Really?
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: What I would do would border on worship. Okay. Okay.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: Can't wait. Let's go. No, I'm just kidding.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: Some people said, not the asshole. You voiced your concerns
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: several times, and he continues to favor your celebration of
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: his own mother instead of the mother of his children.
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: He should 100% be prioritizing you. Exactly. Dude got seven
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: years worth of chances, but he still didn't have the...
• 20:03
  Speaker 3: Say say to figure it out.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: I mean, because your wife is like your person. Yeah. Legitimately.
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: I feel like people don't think about that enough. I mean,
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: it's cool to be independent or whatever.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: I do like that. But when you get married to someone,
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: I feel like it makes sense to have that requirement.
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: Like you're required to.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: Spend a lot of time together and require like that.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: It just has to be in your mind. You have
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: to have the requirement of wanting to be with that
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: person a lot and wanting to do things for that
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: person over anybody.
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Else that becomes your new family.
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: It's just a part of you that you can easily
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: take care of.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: Like if you have problems, you know, if you have
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: like self issues or whatever the, it becomes an outlet
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: for your positive energy that is then reciprocated ideally forever.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: And then you have kids.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: And then you raise those kids.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: And then it adds on to it.
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: Exactly. And then those kids, they take care of you,
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: and then they move on, and then it's like, yeah,
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: it just seems like that makes sense.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, like, and when you're raising kids, like, you
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: always have your partner, like, to back you up. It's
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: not like you make friends with your kids, and it's
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: always like... You're doing it together. Like once you're married
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: and once you have kids, everything you do from everything
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: we do now from life on, like we have to
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: do together. We have to figure out everything together, you know,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: like we can have our own things, but big life decisions,
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: this kind of celebrations, all that.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: That's going to be, I mean, I asked you for permission.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: I asked you for permission now. I always say, yeah,
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: I do, but I don't do it because I'm like,
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: I wonder if she's going to be okay with that.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I do it. Yeah, I know. Yeah, of course you do. Yeah.
• 21:32
  Speaker 2: Before I wouldn't have ever asked. I wouldn't give a fuck.
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Not about you specifically, but I would never ask anybody.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: I would never ask anybody anything. If I'm going to
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: go do something, I'm just going to go do something.
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, you want to come or whatever?
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: But I would never be like, do you mind if?
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: I would never do that.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: But since we've been living together, you've always done that.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, that's a different level of respect, obviously.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: But now it's like I ask even things I don't
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: even need to ask. Yeah. Just a little baby.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: You're like, hey, can my friend come over?
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I didn't really ask that today.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, of course.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: But you know what? You know what?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Even though, like, I know I will always say yes
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: and everything, but there is a little part of me
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: that appreciates that. You take that into consideration just in
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: case I was like, oh, you know what? I actually
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: planned something.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: Like, I wanted to just have the night.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: So I do appreciate it. But I've never been like, no, like,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you can't.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: You know? Yeah.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: And same thing with you. I, like, asked you yesterday
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: to use your truck to haul something.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: Just because.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: Am I the asshole for refusing to meet my girlfriend
• 22:30
  Speaker 4: in person to break up even though she asked it to?
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: My 23 male, girlfriend 22 female, and I have been
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: together for about three months. I'm transferring to a smaller
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: university that suits me better and puts me closer to
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: my family. I chose a school that's about an hour
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: and a half away. Basically, halfway between home and our
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: current campus. hoping to keep things balanced. When I first
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: told her about the transfer, she said she was okay
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: with doing long distance, but as time passed, she grew
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: distant and quiet. Eventually, she told me she couldn't handle
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: a long distance relationship. I don't blame her, long distance
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: isn't for everyone, and it's not fair to expect that
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: from her. Now, she wants to meet in person to talk,
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: but it's obvious it's to break up. I told her
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: I'd rather we just do it over text. In my view,
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: we both know what's going to happen, and I don't
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: see the point in sitting together just to cry and
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: say goodbye. when we could process it separately. She thinks
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I'm being cold and disrespectful, but refusing to meet up.
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I feel that I'm trying to protect both of us
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: from unnecessary pain.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Three months, not long enough. No. Text her, block her,
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: move on.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: But honestly, it's like you guys came to the conclusion.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: And I mean, I think it's nice that she wants
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: to see you face to face, I guess. But especially
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: since it's long distance. I mean, save gas money, save
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: a flight. I don't know how long it is, but
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: like it's a means to an end. It's what's the point?
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: Maybe she's really old school.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: It may be, which is fine. I think that's I
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: think that's sweet. But if you're if you're don't want
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: if you don't want to, that's fine. Does that make
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: you an asshole?
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like doing stuff in person is kind
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: of overrated. Anyways.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you're being serious or not. He's
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: not being serious. He's doing a face.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: It's just like up to you and it's a three
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: month relationship. Would it be respectful? Yes, I think so.
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: But I don't think you owe her anything, especially if
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: she's the one that like grew distant and quiet and
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: didn't want to do anything.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: You got an input, Grinch? Yeah, I'd say no. Three months.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: Who cares, dude? You'll be all right. It's bullshit.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: Colin said, not the asshole. It's three months, not three years.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: Just break up and move on before the bullshit happens.
• 24:35
  Speaker 1: And it will.
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: Agreed.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: I feel like she wants you to see her in
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: pain in hopes you'll change your mind about leaving. I'm
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: not going to comment on her character, but that's manipulative.
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: Maybe.
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, it seems like she wanted to break up
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: before you did. I mean, she got quiet and stuff.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, that is a form of manipulation. True.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: To bring about the end times in hopes of a revelation.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: Oh, how wise.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: True. I'm such a naive little bitch.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: What?
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I'm so dumb.
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: But people do that. I mean, it's guilt tripping, right?
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: It is guilt tripping, I guess.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: That's true. I didn't even look at it that way.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: You're fine. Three months, not long. That's 90 days.
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it is.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: 90 days is meaningless.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: It's not even like a quarter.
• 25:15
  Speaker 2: It is a quarter.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Is it a quarter?
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: Oh, wait, it is because it's 12 months.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Wait, is it?
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: No, it's four.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: No.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Quarterly is four months.
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: No, it's not. Is it not? Really? How many times
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: does four go into twelve? Three. How would there be
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: four quarters in a year if it only goes into
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: it three times? Yeah. Wait. Oh. Yeah. We got there.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Thank you for being patient with me.
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Thirds. Maybe thirds.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Thanks for talking me through it.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: The first third.
• 25:42
  Speaker 4: Am I the asshole for saying it's weird that my siblings...
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: are getting married.
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: We have another, uh.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: Incest.
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Seems incestual. We'll see. So this is a throwaway account
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: for obvious reasons. These are also my half-siblings.
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: We might be in the clear.
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: Go ahead. My 24F half-sister, 21F on my mom's side,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: and my half-brother, 22M on my dad's side, are getting
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: married in December.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so they're not blood.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: They're not blood. They're not blood. Then there you go.
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: It's fine. It is weird.
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, continue.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: But it's fine. Both of my parents have been supportive
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: but awkward about it. My mom took my sister dress
• 26:17
  Speaker 2: shopping on Saturday... Whaaat? I feel like that's, yeah. I'm
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: necessarily making things weird. That's really funny. I tried to
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: get my dad to chime in, but he refused to
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: stand up for either of us. My brother asked me
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: to leave. And later that day, I got a call
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: from my sister saying that if I couldn't be supportive
• 26:53
  Speaker 2: and happy for him, that I shouldn't bother even coming
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: to the wedding. I feel like all this is blown
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: out of proportion. Am I the asshole? I'm banned for
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: three days, so I can't respond to everyone. Yes, we
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: were all legitimately raised together just within two separate households.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: But since we were diapers, we've been raised as siblings. Okay,
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: that's weird. Whoever said that I said... that they haven't
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: been dating more than a year. That comment clearly says
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: my parents. I apologize and got called a c *
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: * *. So whatever at this point, y'all are right.
• 27:15
  Speaker 2: I'm an ass. Congrats. Kind of a snarky reaction.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: So the comments really didn't like this person. Maybe they
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: were like an extra asshole in the comments.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: To be fair.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: If you're raised in diapers, it's a separate household.
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  Speaker 2: To me, that's really weird.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Maybe they weren't raised in the same household. Like how
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: my half-sibling was raised with my dad. I have two
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: half-siblings that were raised with my dad.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: But it's still.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Like, I have four half-siblings, okay? Would not marry any
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: of them under any circumstance. Like, they are my siblings.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: But to be fair, also, they're my blood. They're all
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: my blood.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: So they're not. And I actually know someone... From my
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: hometown that this happened. They're step siblings.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: They posted it.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: But they didn't grow up together. They like, it was
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: like they were 10 years old, both. And then they
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: did kind of grow up together, but they're step siblings.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: And then they ended up, you know.
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: By the book, it's nothing wrong with it.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: No.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. It's totally, it's not. But being able to joke
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: about it and make fun of it, I feel like
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: it should be allowed.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: It's right there.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just like the jokes write themselves. I feel
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: like you've got.
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: To kind of laugh at the situation a little bit
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: like they do, you know? Like maybe you were a
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: little too hard. Like maybe it's not the best time,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: especially maybe they're really sensitive about it, clearly.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: Well, suck up, dude. Well, I don't know.
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: We're very jokey. So I feel like, my gosh, one
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: of my siblings, like I have siblings like this that
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: they aren't technically, they're like kind of step siblings, I guess.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: But if one of them hooked up I would make
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: some jokes here and there, but I know that it's
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: not actual incest, so it's okay.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: I would, I would relentlessly roast them forever.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: The comments really don't like this.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: It's the meme. Hey, step bro. Hey, step sis. It's
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: the meme. Of course you're going to get blasted.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: Okay. So the comments said you're the asshole.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: They are not related to each other. They just happen
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: to both be related to you. You're allowed to feel weird,
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: but you keep that to yourself because while it's an
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: odd occurrence, calling it indirectly incest is taking it too far.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: I mean i think it's the way you say it
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: like if you're saying it like in an actual disgusted
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: way yeah if.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: You're like that's up yeah if you're grossed out if
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: you're actually grossed out by it and it isn't just
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: because of like the labels yeah and it's just funny
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: and it's like a meme or whatever then.
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: That's weird then maybe that's what happened i guess we
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: I don't know i mean they said joke but yeah
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: indirect incest is just totally disrespectful Yeah, and.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can feel that to yourself. Like, if you
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: grew up.
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: Like, if my.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: If Alyssa married Marcus... like my siblings.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I don't even like thinking about that.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: I know, but I'm just thinking about that. It technically,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: it would be fine, but they're both my siblings. So
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: that'd be pretty.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: That would be so weird. I would make fun of
• 29:49
  Speaker 2: them forever.
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'd also just be happy for... But if
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: I thought it was strange, I would just keep that
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: to myself. Like, if I actually thought.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: It was strange. If you're grossed out by it to
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: where you're going to treat them differently, keep that to yourself.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: But if you're just like... If you're going to give
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: them some banter and some ribbing... Yeah. then they're your siblings.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: I mean, you might as well. Totally. Like, I'm not
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: going to be any nicer about this than I would
• 30:11
  Speaker 2: in anything else.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: But I'm not going to be like, it would be like,
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: it would be as if you didn't accept them if
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: they were like gay or something like that.
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: I was just thinking about that.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: You're choosing to be a bad person. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Absolutely. Absolutely.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Because none of those things are objectively wrong. Yeah. Objectively wrong.
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Not the asshole. Or not the asshole. It's weird.
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: Full stop.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: They got labeled as the asshole.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's a pretty, it's a pretty split thing.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I think that it's very clear though. It's total. It's,
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: It's legal. It's legal. It doesn't mean you should be
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: not made fun of. It's cool. It's fine.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: You can be in love and be step. So like
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: nothing bad can come out of it. Yeah. But at
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: the same time. Yeah. If my sister married my stepbrother.
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: I would make fun of her until the end of time.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: Like lightly, but not, not like in a angry.
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: You're gross.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no. I feel like pretending that
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: it's not weird and not ever acknowledging it is even
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: more weird.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: Almost, yeah. We were just like, yeah, okay.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: That's right. Yeah, same.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: This one is crazy.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: It's weird because it's got to make your parents feel
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: weird about it. True. And if your parents don't feel
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: weird about it, that's really weird, I feel like.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: They're defending the two siblings, so I think it might
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: be just like a sore spot because I'm assuming that
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: these siblings or step-siblings or whatever, not even step-siblings, I guess,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: were probably really scared to come out with this. I'm
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: going to assume that. Like, it was probably like, very
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: hard because it is strange, even though it's okay. So
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: maybe it's still quite sensitive.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: It's legal. It is legal.
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's okay.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: I think it is a big sensitive situation that maybe,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: maybe Should have gave it maybe a little more time.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: But you know what?
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: It's legal. It's fine. Maybe don't rib.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: Them too much based off of all this.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: Give them a couple ribbers. Whatever Reddit says, just who cares?
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: It doesn't affect real life in any way. It doesn't.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: Only you know what's going on, so I don't fucking know.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: And like you also, if you wrote this in a
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: slightly different way and you added a little bit more context,
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: people's interpretation would be drastically different. I mean, it's just like...
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like the way that this
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: person wrote it seems like you are... I would say
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: that the internet is probably right, though. It is an
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: asshole moment.
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: I think so as well.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: But does that make you an evil, horrible person? No.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: I don't think so.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: I think you could learn from the situation and realize
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: that your words.
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: I would say joke more.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Me.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Joke more. But not about indirect incest. Make this step
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: bro meme. Take already traveled waters.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: Don't try to come up with a new joke.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, don't make up new stuff.
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah. New material. You should start going out with the
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: other one. Make it really weird.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: These were some really interesting ones. Really curious what you
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: guys think down below. Let me know. We had a
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: lot of fun, right?
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: You always find the best ones. I do. Yeah. I do.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: So interesting. Very complicated situations. But anyway, I love you.
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: Love you too.
• 32:55
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• 32:57
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• 33:06
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• 33:07
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: Bye.