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- 0:37Are
- 0:37you
- 0:37dreading
- 0:38tax
- 0:38season?
- 0:39I
- 0:39mean,
- 0:39just
- 0:40the
- 0:40thought
- 0:40of
- 0:40having
- 0:41to
- 0:41get
- 0:41your
- 0:41taxes
- 0:42ready
- 0:42has
- 0:42just
- 0:42brought
- 0:42on
- 0:43a
- 0:43ton
- 0:43of
- 0:43anxiety
- 0:44to
- 0:44your
- 0:44heart
- 0:45and
- 0:45to
- 0:45your
- 0:46mind.
- 0:47But
- 0:47what
- 0:47if
- 0:47I
- 0:47told
- 0:47you
- 0:48there's
- 0:48a
- 0:48better
- 0:48way?
- 0:49And
- 0:49on
- 0:50today's
- 0:50show,
- 0:50I'm
- 0:50going
- 0:50to
- 0:51show
- 0:51you
- 0:51a
- 0:51way
- 0:51to
- 0:51create
- 0:51a
- 0:52plan
- 0:52and
- 0:53actually
- 0:53live
- 0:53in
- 0:53real
- 0:54peace,
- 0:55even
- 0:55in
- 0:55the
- 0:55midst
- 0:56of
- 0:56tax
- 0:56time
- 0:57anxiety
- 0:58and
- 0:58fear.
- 1:20Hey,
- 1:21friend,
- 1:21Ralph
- 1:21Estep
- 1:22Jr.
- 1:22Here.
- 1:22Thank
- 1:23you
- 1:23for
- 1:23joining
- 1:23me
- 1:23today
- 1:23on
- 1:24Financially
- 1:25Confident
- 1:25Christian.
- 1:26My
- 1:26goal
- 1:27on
- 1:27this
- 1:27show
- 1:27is
- 1:27to
- 1:27help
- 1:28you
- 1:28break
- 1:28that
- 1:28cycle
- 1:29of
- 1:29financial
- 1:30shame
- 1:30and
- 1:30really
- 1:31find
- 1:31confidence
- 1:31in
- 1:32your
- 1:32decisions.
- 1:33And
- 1:33today's
- 1:34topic
- 1:34is
- 1:34exactly
- 1:35that.
- 1:35We
- 1:35talked
- 1:36about
- 1:36the
- 1:36unexpected
- 1:37you
- 1:37owe
- 1:37and
- 1:38the
- 1:38unexpected
- 1:38refund
- 1:39the
- 1:39last
- 1:39couple
- 1:39days.
- 1:40But
- 1:40now
- 1:41we're
- 1:41going
- 1:41to
- 1:41get
- 1:41a
- 1:41little
- 1:41deeper
- 1:42and
- 1:42we're
- 1:42going
- 1:42to
- 1:42talk
- 1:42about
- 1:43that
- 1:43tax
- 1:43anxiety
- 1:44and
- 1:45how
- 1:45to
- 1:45end
- 1:45that
- 1:46fear
- 1:46cycle.
- 1:46So
- 1:47let's
- 1:47get
- 1:47right
- 1:47to
- 1:47today's
- 1:48listener
- 1:48question.
- 1:49Ralph,
- 1:50this
- 1:50time
- 1:51of
- 1:51year
- 1:51creates
- 1:51so
- 1:52much
- 1:52anxiety
- 1:53for
- 1:53me.
- 1:53I'm
- 1:54always
- 1:54worried
- 1:54that
- 1:54we're
- 1:55going
- 1:55to
- 1:55owe
- 1:55money
- 1:55on
- 1:55our
- 1:56taxes.
- 1:57Just
- 1:57the
- 1:57thought
- 1:57of
- 1:58even
- 1:58getting
- 1:58our
- 1:58tax
- 1:59returns
- 1:59done
- 1:59makes
- 2:00me
- 2:00nervous
- 2:00and
- 2:01concerned.
- 2:02Now,
- 2:02I
- 2:02know
- 2:02I
- 2:03shouldn't
- 2:03feel
- 2:03this
- 2:03way,
- 2:04but
- 2:04I
- 2:04do.
- 2:05How
- 2:06can
- 2:06I
- 2:06find
- 2:06peace
- 2:06with
- 2:07this
- 2:07once
- 2:07and
- 2:07for
- 2:08all?
- 2:09Well,
- 2:09first
- 2:09of
- 2:09all,
- 2:10thank
- 2:10you
- 2:10for
- 2:10sharing
- 2:10your
- 2:11question.
- 2:11It
- 2:11reminds
- 2:12me,
- 2:12I
- 2:12bet
- 2:12about
- 2:1335
- 2:13years
- 2:13ago
- 2:14I
- 2:14was
- 2:14doing
- 2:14tax
- 2:15returns.
- 2:15I
- 2:15was
- 2:15actually
- 2:15working
- 2:16for
- 2:16my
- 2:16dad's
- 2:16company
- 2:17at
- 2:17the
- 2:17time.
- 2:17And
- 2:18this
- 2:18fella
- 2:18came
- 2:18in
- 2:18to
- 2:19get
- 2:19his
- 2:19taxes
- 2:19done
- 2:19and
- 2:20he
- 2:20sat
- 2:20down
- 2:20at
- 2:20my
- 2:20desk
- 2:21and
- 2:22he
- 2:22said
- 2:22to
- 2:22me,
- 2:22he
- 2:22says,
- 2:22ralph,
- 2:23I
- 2:23don't
- 2:24know
- 2:24that
- 2:24you
- 2:24understand
- 2:24this,
- 2:25but
- 2:25this
- 2:25is,
- 2:25this
- 2:25is,
- 2:26this
- 2:26is
- 2:26such
- 2:26a
- 2:26huge
- 2:27anxiety
- 2:27thing
- 2:27for
- 2:28me.
- 2:28He
- 2:28said,
- 2:29in
- 2:29fact,
- 2:29I
- 2:29haven't
- 2:30filed
- 2:30tax
- 2:30returns
- 2:31in
- 2:3110
- 2:31years.
- 2:32And
- 2:32I
- 2:33said
- 2:33to
- 2:33him,
- 2:33well,
- 2:33what's
- 2:33going
- 2:33on?
- 2:34He
- 2:34goes,
- 2:34no,
- 2:34you
- 2:34don't
- 2:34understand.
- 2:35Like
- 2:35physically,
- 2:36Ralph,
- 2:36this
- 2:36makes
- 2:37me
- 2:37ill.
- 2:37Now,
- 2:38I
- 2:38won't
- 2:38tell
- 2:38you
- 2:38the
- 2:38whole
- 2:39story,
- 2:39but
- 2:39ended
- 2:39up
- 2:40he
- 2:40had
- 2:40a
- 2:40documented
- 2:41illness
- 2:42where
- 2:42he
- 2:43had
- 2:43this
- 2:43anxiety.
- 2:44Now,
- 2:44it
- 2:44may
- 2:44not
- 2:45be
- 2:45what
- 2:45you
- 2:45are
- 2:45suffering
- 2:46from
- 2:46today,
- 2:47but
- 2:47today
- 2:47I
- 2:48want
- 2:48to
- 2:48help
- 2:48you
- 2:48find
- 2:49peace.
- 2:49Because
- 2:49when
- 2:50you
- 2:50fear
- 2:50something,
- 2:51it's
- 2:52usually
- 2:52because
- 2:52you
- 2:52don't
- 2:53have
- 2:53a
- 2:53plan.
- 2:53You
- 2:53don't
- 2:54know
- 2:54what
- 2:54it
- 2:54is.
- 2:54So
- 2:55today,
- 2:55my
- 2:55big
- 2:55overarching
- 2:56goal
- 2:57is
- 2:57to
- 2:57help
- 2:57you
- 2:58build
- 2:58a
- 2:58simple
- 2:58plan
- 2:59that
- 2:59you
- 2:59can
- 2:59name
- 3:00it.
- 3:00Which
- 3:00leads
- 3:00me
- 3:00to
- 3:01the
- 3:01first
- 3:01thing
- 3:01we've
- 3:01got
- 3:01to
- 3:02do.
- 3:02We've
- 3:03got
- 3:03to
- 3:03name
- 3:04the
- 3:04fear.
- 3:04Now,
- 3:04this
- 3:05isn't
- 3:05a
- 3:05time
- 3:05to
- 3:05judge
- 3:06yourself
- 3:07most
- 3:08of
- 3:08the
- 3:08time
- 3:08when
- 3:08it
- 3:08comes
- 3:08to
- 3:09taxes.
- 3:09This
- 3:10is
- 3:10the
- 3:10situation
- 3:11and
- 3:11you
- 3:11can
- 3:11say
- 3:12this
- 3:12plainly.
- 3:13I'm
- 3:13afraid
- 3:14we're
- 3:14going
- 3:14to
- 3:14owe
- 3:15and
- 3:15I
- 3:16won't
- 3:16know
- 3:16what
- 3:16to
- 3:16do.
- 3:18That
- 3:18is
- 3:18probably
- 3:1990%
- 3:19of
- 3:19the
- 3:19situation
- 3:20that
- 3:20most
- 3:21people
- 3:21tell
- 3:21me
- 3:22who
- 3:22have
- 3:22tax
- 3:22anxiety.
- 3:23They
- 3:23just
- 3:23don't
- 3:24know.
- 3:24They're
- 3:24afraid.
- 3:25Maybe
- 3:25they're
- 3:25scrimping
- 3:26and
- 3:26saving.
- 3:26They're
- 3:27living
- 3:27paycheck
- 3:27to
- 3:27paycheck.
- 3:28So
- 3:28many
- 3:29of
- 3:29us
- 3:29are
- 3:29in
- 3:29that
- 3:29situation,
- 3:31and
- 3:31so
- 3:31many
- 3:31of
- 3:31us,
- 3:32we
- 3:32have
- 3:32this
- 3:32fear
- 3:33because
- 3:34we
- 3:34don't
- 3:34know
- 3:34what
- 3:35to
- 3:35expect.
- 3:36So
- 3:36here's
- 3:37the
- 3:37first
- 3:37thing
- 3:37I
- 3:37want
- 3:37to
- 3:37encourage
- 3:38you
- 3:38to
- 3:38do.
- 3:39Replace
- 3:40that
- 3:40fear
- 3:40with,
- 3:41I
- 3:41shouldn't
- 3:42feel
- 3:42this.
- 3:43Stop
- 3:44saying
- 3:44that.
- 3:45It's
- 3:45okay
- 3:45to
- 3:46feel
- 3:46this.
- 3:47Replace
- 3:48that
- 3:48with,
- 3:48this
- 3:49is
- 3:49real.
- 3:49This
- 3:50is
- 3:50real
- 3:50fear.
- 3:51This
- 3:51is
- 3:51real
- 3:51anxiety.
- 3:52This
- 3:52is
- 3:53real
- 3:53concern.
- 3:54But
- 3:55I
- 3:55can
- 3:55handle
- 3:55it
- 3:56because
- 3:56see
- 3:57the
- 3:57difference
- 3:57there?
- 3:58It's
- 3:58one
- 3:58thing
- 3:58to
- 3:58have
- 3:59a
- 3:59fear
- 3:59and
- 4:00not
- 4:00let
- 4:00that
- 4:00allow
- 4:01you
- 4:01to
- 4:01function.
- 4:02It's
- 4:03another
- 4:03to
- 4:04say,
- 4:04you
- 4:04know
- 4:04what?
- 4:04This
- 4:04is
- 4:05real.
- 4:05This
- 4:05is
- 4:05a
- 4:05real
- 4:05fear.
- 4:06This
- 4:06fellow
- 4:06that
- 4:06was
- 4:07sitting
- 4:07at
- 4:07my
- 4:07desk,
- 4:07let
- 4:08me
- 4:08tell
- 4:08you
- 4:08right
- 4:08now,
- 4:09this
- 4:09was
- 4:09a
- 4:09real
- 4:09fear.
- 4:10I
- 4:10could
- 4:10see
- 4:10it
- 4:11in
- 4:11his
- 4:11face.
- 4:11He
- 4:11was
- 4:12clenched
- 4:12up,
- 4:12his
- 4:12eyes.
- 4:13I,
- 4:13I
- 4:13could
- 4:13see
- 4:14it.
- 4:15But
- 4:15I
- 4:15said
- 4:15to
- 4:15him,
- 4:16so
- 4:16I
- 4:16said
- 4:16to
- 4:16him
- 4:16across
- 4:16the
- 4:17desk,
- 4:17I
- 4:17said,
- 4:18we
- 4:18can
- 4:18handle
- 4:18this.
- 4:20So
- 4:20let's
- 4:20get
- 4:20to
- 4:20the
- 4:21second
- 4:21thing.
- 4:22We've
- 4:22got
- 4:22to
- 4:22turn
- 4:23that
- 4:23O
- 4:23into
- 4:24a
- 4:24number.
- 4:25When
- 4:25you
- 4:26just
- 4:26say,
- 4:26hey,
- 4:27we
- 4:27might
- 4:27owe.
- 4:28Oh,
- 4:29to
- 4:29me,
- 4:29doesn't
- 4:30mean
- 4:30much.
- 4:30I've
- 4:31got
- 4:31clients
- 4:31that
- 4:31owe
- 4:31tens
- 4:32of
- 4:32thousands
- 4:32of
- 4:32dollars
- 4:33when
- 4:33we
- 4:33file
- 4:33their
- 4:33tax
- 4:34returns
- 4:34for
- 4:35them.
- 4:35Hey,
- 4:35they're
- 4:35expecting
- 4:36it.
- 4:36They
- 4:36know
- 4:37what's
- 4:37going
- 4:37on.
- 4:37So
- 4:38that's
- 4:38what
- 4:38we
- 4:38need
- 4:38to
- 4:38figure
- 4:39out.
- 4:39This
- 4:39is
- 4:39the
- 4:39time
- 4:40to
- 4:40get
- 4:40an
- 4:40estimate.
- 4:41Look
- 4:41at
- 4:42last
- 4:42year's
- 4:42tax
- 4:42return,
- 4:43look
- 4:43at
- 4:44this
- 4:44year's
- 4:44pay
- 4:44stubs
- 4:45and
- 4:45income,
- 4:45and
- 4:45just
- 4:46say
- 4:46to
- 4:46yourself,
- 4:46if
- 4:47you
- 4:47listen
- 4:47to
- 4:47the
- 4:47show
- 4:47the
- 4:47other
- 4:48day,
- 4:48I
- 4:48said,
- 4:48one
- 4:49of
- 4:49the
- 4:49things
- 4:49that
- 4:49usually
- 4:50affects
- 4:50your
- 4:51tax
- 4:51refund
- 4:51or
- 4:52if
- 4:52you
- 4:52owe
- 4:52is
- 4:52your
- 4:53income.
- 4:53Well,
- 4:54if
- 4:54your
- 4:54income
- 4:54changed,
- 4:55do
- 4:56an
- 4:56estimate.
- 4:57One
- 4:57of
- 4:57the
- 4:57things
- 4:57that
- 4:57I
- 4:58think
- 4:58is
- 4:58a
- 4:58great
- 4:59idea
- 4:59to
- 4:59do,
- 4:59and
- 4:59I
- 4:59encourage
- 5:00my
- 5:00clients
- 5:00to
- 5:00do
- 5:01this,
- 5:01it's
- 5:01one
- 5:02thing
- 5:02to
- 5:02do
- 5:02tax
- 5:02returns
- 5:03at
- 5:03the
- 5:03end
- 5:03of
- 5:03the
- 5:04year.
- 5:04Now
- 5:04we're
- 5:04in
- 5:04tax
- 5:05season
- 5:05right
- 5:05now.
- 5:05If
- 5:06you're
- 5:06watching
- 5:06this
- 5:06when
- 5:07on
- 5:07the
- 5:07scheduled
- 5:07day
- 5:07it's
- 5:08coming
- 5:08out,
- 5:08we
- 5:08are
- 5:08in
- 5:09the
- 5:09midst
- 5:09of
- 5:09tax
- 5:10time.
- 5:10But
- 5:10one
- 5:11of
- 5:11the
- 5:11things
- 5:11that
- 5:11I
- 5:11tell
- 5:12clients
- 5:12almost
- 5:13every
- 5:13day
- 5:14is,
- 5:14let's
- 5:15have
- 5:15a
- 5:15meeting
- 5:15in
- 5:15the
- 5:15fall.
- 5:16Let's
- 5:16have
- 5:16a
- 5:16meeting
- 5:17in
- 5:17the
- 5:17early
- 5:17fall,
- 5:18September,
- 5:19October,
- 5:19and
- 5:20let's
- 5:20see
- 5:20what
- 5:20things
- 5:21look
- 5:21like
- 5:21if
- 5:22you're
- 5:22one
- 5:22of
- 5:22those
- 5:22people
- 5:22that's
- 5:23had
- 5:23a
- 5:23major
- 5:24life
- 5:24change
- 5:25or
- 5:25a
- 5:25job
- 5:25change,
- 5:26this
- 5:26is
- 5:27a
- 5:27great
- 5:27idea
- 5:27because
- 5:28then
- 5:28you
- 5:28can
- 5:28reduce
- 5:28that
- 5:29fear.
- 5:29There
- 5:29are
- 5:30a
- 5:30lot
- 5:30of
- 5:30clients
- 5:30that
- 5:30I
- 5:31meet
- 5:31with
- 5:31throughout
- 5:32the
- 5:32year
- 5:32where
- 5:32we're
- 5:32taking
- 5:32a
- 5:32look
- 5:33at
- 5:33where
- 5:33things
- 5:33are,
- 5:33what
- 5:34I
- 5:34call
- 5:34a
- 5:34snapshot.
- 5:35Where
- 5:35are
- 5:36we?
- 5:36We're
- 5:36not
- 5:36looking
- 5:36for
- 5:37perfection,
- 5:38but
- 5:38they
- 5:38might
- 5:38say
- 5:38to
- 5:38me,
- 5:39listen,
- 5:39Ralph,
- 5:39I
- 5:40can
- 5:40afford
- 5:40to
- 5:40owe
- 5:40about
- 5:41$1,000,
- 5:41but
- 5:42if
- 5:42it's
- 5:42more
- 5:42than
- 5:42that,
- 5:43I've
- 5:43got
- 5:43to
- 5:43make
- 5:43some
- 5:43changes.
- 5:44Well,
- 5:44if
- 5:44you
- 5:44wait
- 5:45till
- 5:45the
- 5:45end
- 5:45of
- 5:45the
- 5:46year,
- 5:46you
- 5:46can't
- 5:47make
- 5:47those
- 5:47changes.
- 5:48So
- 5:48that's
- 5:48one
- 5:48of
- 5:48the
- 5:48things,
- 5:48you
- 5:49know,
- 5:49put
- 5:49a
- 5:49number
- 5:50there.
- 5:51Next
- 5:51thing
- 5:51I'm
- 5:51going
- 5:51to
- 5:52encourage
- 5:52you
- 5:52to
- 5:52do,
- 5:52make
- 5:53a
- 5:53simple
- 5:53if
- 5:54we
- 5:54owe
- 5:54plan.
- 5:55It's
- 5:55going
- 5:56to
- 5:56happen.
- 5:56Sometimes
- 5:57it
- 5:57happens
- 5:57to
- 5:57the
- 5:57best
- 5:58of
- 5:58us.
- 5:58I
- 5:58remember
- 5:59I've
- 5:59talked
- 5:59about
- 5:59this
- 6:00on
- 6:00the
- 6:00show.
- 6:00The
- 6:00other
- 6:00day
- 6:01when
- 6:01I
- 6:01filed
- 6:01my
- 6:02first
- 6:02tax
- 6:02return,
- 6:02I
- 6:03owed
- 6:03money.
- 6:03I
- 6:03wasn't
- 6:04expecting
- 6:04it.
- 6:05But
- 6:05this
- 6:06is
- 6:06the
- 6:06time
- 6:06to
- 6:06have
- 6:06that
- 6:07plan
- 6:07that
- 6:08if
- 6:08we
- 6:08owe,
- 6:09decide
- 6:10how
- 6:11much
- 6:11can
- 6:11you
- 6:11pay
- 6:12on
- 6:12filing
- 6:12day?
- 6:13How
- 6:13much
- 6:13is
- 6:13in
- 6:13that
- 6:13tax
- 6:14buffer?
- 6:14We
- 6:14talked
- 6:14about
- 6:15that
- 6:15the
- 6:15other
- 6:15day.
- 6:15If
- 6:15you
- 6:15missed
- 6:16that
- 6:16show,
- 6:16go
- 6:16check
- 6:16it
- 6:17out.
- 6:17We
- 6:17talked
- 6:17about
- 6:17building
- 6:18that
- 6:18tax
- 6:18buffer,
- 6:19and
- 6:19if
- 6:20you
- 6:20can't
- 6:20pay
- 6:20it
- 6:20all
- 6:20at
- 6:21once,
- 6:21you
- 6:22file
- 6:22anyway.
- 6:22A
- 6:23lot
- 6:23of
- 6:23people
- 6:23fear
- 6:24their
- 6:24taxes
- 6:24because
- 6:25a
- 6:25lot
- 6:25of
- 6:25people
- 6:25know
- 6:25I'm
- 6:26going
- 6:26to
- 6:26owe
- 6:26again.
- 6:27They
- 6:27know
- 6:27something
- 6:28changed,
- 6:28and
- 6:29so
- 6:29what
- 6:29they
- 6:29do
- 6:29is
- 6:29they
- 6:30get
- 6:30stuck
- 6:30in
- 6:30this
- 6:31state
- 6:31of
- 6:31paralysis.
- 6:32He
- 6:32don't
- 6:32do
- 6:32anything.
- 6:33Well,
- 6:33here's
- 6:34the
- 6:34problem
- 6:34with
- 6:34that
- 6:34logic.
- 6:35Your
- 6:35taxes
- 6:36are
- 6:36due
- 6:37by
- 6:37April
- 6:3715th.
- 6:38Whether
- 6:38you
- 6:38owe
- 6:39or
- 6:39you
- 6:39don't
- 6:39owe,
- 6:40guess
- 6:40what?
- 6:40You
- 6:41still
- 6:41need
- 6:41to
- 6:42pay
- 6:42them
- 6:42and
- 6:42file
- 6:42them.
- 6:43The
- 6:43thing
- 6:43I
- 6:43tell
- 6:43clients
- 6:44all
- 6:44the
- 6:44time
- 6:44is,
- 6:45file
- 6:45your
- 6:45returns.
- 6:46Let's
- 6:46draw
- 6:46that
- 6:47line
- 6:47in
- 6:47the
- 6:47sand.
- 6:47Even
- 6:48if
- 6:48you
- 6:48owe,
- 6:49I
- 6:49get
- 6:49it.
- 6:49If
- 6:50you
- 6:50owe,
- 6:50we'll
- 6:51set
- 6:51up
- 6:51a
- 6:51payment
- 6:51plan.
- 6:52We'll
- 6:52adjust
- 6:52our
- 6:53withholding.
- 6:53We'll
- 6:53do
- 6:53those
- 6:53things
- 6:54I
- 6:54talked
- 6:54about
- 6:54the
- 6:54other
- 6:55day.
- 6:55But
- 6:55just
- 6:55don't
- 6:56live
- 6:56in
- 6:56that
- 6:56paralysis
- 6:57of
- 6:57that
- 6:57fear
- 6:58and
- 6:58say,
- 6:58well,
- 6:58I'm
- 6:58just
- 6:59not
- 6:59going
- 6:59to
- 6:59file
- 6:59at
- 7:00all.
- 7:00Just
- 7:00going
- 7:00to
- 7:01pretend
- 7:01like
- 7:01it's
- 7:01going
- 7:01to
- 7:01go
- 7:01away.
- 7:02That's
- 7:02what
- 7:02that
- 7:02client
- 7:03did
- 7:03with
- 7:03me
- 7:03for
- 7:04year
- 7:04upon
- 7:05year.
- 7:05And
- 7:05then
- 7:06the
- 7:06problem
- 7:06is
- 7:06it
- 7:06just
- 7:06festers.
- 7:07It's
- 7:07like
- 7:07that
- 7:07sore
- 7:08that
- 7:08just
- 7:08won't
- 7:08heal.
- 7:09It
- 7:09just
- 7:09keeps
- 7:10on
- 7:10getting
- 7:10harder
- 7:11and
- 7:11stronger
- 7:11and
- 7:11harder
- 7:12and
- 7:12stronger.
- 7:12But
- 7:13this
- 7:13is
- 7:13the
- 7:13time
- 7:13to
- 7:14fix
- 7:14that.
- 7:15And
- 7:15then
- 7:15you've
- 7:15really
- 7:15got
- 7:16to
- 7:16move
- 7:16into
- 7:16the
- 7:16next
- 7:16stage
- 7:17of
- 7:17this.
- 7:17You've
- 7:18got
- 7:18to
- 7:18remove
- 7:19that
- 7:19trigger.
- 7:19And
- 7:19I
- 7:19talked
- 7:20about
- 7:20this
- 7:20a
- 7:20little
- 7:20while
- 7:21ago.
- 7:21This
- 7:21is
- 7:22a
- 7:22time
- 7:22to
- 7:22schedule
- 7:23that,
- 7:23that
- 7:23tax
- 7:23appointment
- 7:24where
- 7:24you
- 7:25can
- 7:25go
- 7:25and
- 7:25say,
- 7:25can
- 7:26I
- 7:26prep
- 7:26this?
- 7:27Take
- 7:27a
- 7:27look
- 7:27at
- 7:28this
- 7:28thing
- 7:28first.
- 7:28And
- 7:28maybe
- 7:29right
- 7:29now
- 7:29you're
- 7:29thinking,
- 7:29you
- 7:30know
- 7:30what,
- 7:30Ralph?
- 7:30Here's
- 7:31what
- 7:31I
- 7:31can
- 7:31do.
- 7:31I'm
- 7:31going
- 7:32to
- 7:32go
- 7:32pull
- 7:32all
- 7:32my
- 7:32tax
- 7:32stuff
- 7:33out.
- 7:33I'm
- 7:33going
- 7:33to
- 7:33gather
- 7:34my
- 7:34basics,
- 7:34my
- 7:34W2s
- 7:35and
- 7:361099s,
- 7:36way
- 7:37to
- 7:37copy
- 7:37my
- 7:37last
- 7:37year's
- 7:38return,
- 7:39get
- 7:39my
- 7:39ID,
- 7:39all
- 7:40the
- 7:40major
- 7:40deductions,
- 7:41and
- 7:41I'm
- 7:41just
- 7:42going
- 7:42to
- 7:42kind
- 7:42of
- 7:42throw
- 7:42it
- 7:42into
- 7:43the
- 7:43software
- 7:43and
- 7:44see
- 7:44where
- 7:44I
- 7:44land.
- 7:45The
- 7:45earlier
- 7:45you
- 7:46do
- 7:46that,
- 7:46the
- 7:46better,
- 7:47because
- 7:47let's
- 7:47say
- 7:47it's
- 7:48March,
- 7:48let's
- 7:48say
- 7:48you're
- 7:49listening
- 7:49to
- 7:49this
- 7:49as
- 7:49it
- 7:49comes
- 7:50out
- 7:50and
- 7:50you
- 7:51do
- 7:51your,
- 7:51what
- 7:51I'll
- 7:51call
- 7:52your
- 7:52draft
- 7:52tax
- 7:53return.
- 7:53You
- 7:53go,
- 7:53oh,
- 7:54man,
- 7:54I
- 7:54do
- 7:54owe
- 7:54some,
- 7:55some
- 7:55money.
- 7:55Well,
- 7:56here's
- 7:56the
- 7:56thing.
- 7:56If
- 7:56you
- 7:56know
- 7:56that,
- 7:57then
- 7:57you've
- 7:57got
- 7:57between
- 7:58now
- 7:58and
- 7:58April
- 7:5915th
- 7:59to
- 7:59do
- 8:00something
- 8:00about
- 8:00it.
- 8:00You
- 8:01can
- 8:01start
- 8:01to
- 8:01save
- 8:02a
- 8:02little
- 8:02money,
- 8:02maybe
- 8:02look
- 8:03for
- 8:03some
- 8:03other
- 8:03deductions,
- 8:04maybe
- 8:04take
- 8:05it
- 8:05to
- 8:05a
- 8:05tax
- 8:05professional
- 8:06and
- 8:06say,
- 8:06listen,
- 8:06I
- 8:07did
- 8:07this
- 8:07myself.
- 8:07I
- 8:08do
- 8:08a
- 8:08lot
- 8:08of
- 8:08these
- 8:08returns
- 8:09every
- 8:09year
- 8:09work.
- 8:09Somebody
- 8:10will
- 8:10go
- 8:10and
- 8:10do
- 8:10it
- 8:10themselves
- 8:11and
- 8:11they'll
- 8:11come
- 8:11in
- 8:11and
- 8:12say,
- 8:12ralph,
- 8:12listen,
- 8:12I
- 8:12did
- 8:12my
- 8:12return
- 8:13myself,
- 8:13but
- 8:13man,
- 8:13I
- 8:14can't
- 8:14owe
- 8:14this.
- 8:14Is
- 8:14this
- 8:15right?
- 8:16Unfortunately,
- 8:17a
- 8:17lot
- 8:17of
- 8:17times
- 8:17it
- 8:18is
- 8:18right.
- 8:19But
- 8:19maybe
- 8:19I
- 8:19can
- 8:19help
- 8:20them
- 8:20fix
- 8:20it
- 8:21for
- 8:21the
- 8:21future.
- 8:22Because
- 8:22when
- 8:22you
- 8:22have
- 8:22that
- 8:23momentum,
- 8:23it
- 8:24breaks
- 8:24that
- 8:24dread.
- 8:25That
- 8:25one
- 8:25small
- 8:25step
- 8:26can
- 8:26break
- 8:27that
- 8:27spiral.
- 8:28And
- 8:29another
- 8:29thing
- 8:29I'm
- 8:29going
- 8:29to
- 8:29encourage
- 8:29you
- 8:30to
- 8:30do
- 8:30is
- 8:30prevent
- 8:31the
- 8:31repeat.
- 8:32This
- 8:32is
- 8:32what
- 8:32a
- 8:33lot
- 8:33of
- 8:33people
- 8:33say,
- 8:33you
- 8:33know,
- 8:33I
- 8:34file
- 8:34my
- 8:34returns
- 8:34at
- 8:35every
- 8:35year
- 8:35I
- 8:35owe.
- 8:35Well,
- 8:35guess
- 8:36what?
- 8:36If
- 8:36you
- 8:36owe
- 8:36every
- 8:36year,
- 8:37the
- 8:38system
- 8:38is
- 8:38broken.
- 8:39Your
- 8:40system
- 8:40is
- 8:40not
- 8:40working.
- 8:41You
- 8:42got
- 8:42to
- 8:42change
- 8:42the
- 8:43system.
- 8:44I've
- 8:44talked
- 8:44about
- 8:45ways
- 8:45to
- 8:45do
- 8:45that.
- 8:45Adjust
- 8:46your
- 8:46withholding,
- 8:47make
- 8:47some
- 8:47estimated
- 8:48tax
- 8:48payments
- 8:49throughout
- 8:49the
- 8:49year.
- 8:49And
- 8:49these
- 8:49don't
- 8:49have
- 8:50to
- 8:50be
- 8:50big
- 8:50numbers.
- 8:51They
- 8:51can
- 8:51be
- 8:52little,
- 8:52small,
- 8:52what
- 8:53I
- 8:53call
- 8:53doable
- 8:53amounts.
- 8:55Create
- 8:55that
- 8:55tax
- 8:55buffer
- 8:56savings
- 8:56line
- 8:56that
- 8:57we
- 8:57Talked
- 8:57about.
- 8:57Put
- 8:57$25
- 8:58or
- 8:59$50
- 9:00from
- 9:00every
- 9:00paycheck
- 9:01because
- 9:02peace
- 9:02will
- 9:02grow
- 9:03when
- 9:03the
- 9:03future
- 9:04has
- 9:04padding.
- 9:05And
- 9:05you've
- 9:05got
- 9:05to
- 9:05really
- 9:05build
- 9:06that
- 9:06padding
- 9:07in.
- 9:07And
- 9:08here's
- 9:08my,
- 9:08my
- 9:09one
- 9:09line
- 9:09of
- 9:09encouragement
- 9:10today.
- 9:10You're
- 9:10not
- 9:11behind.
- 9:11Your
- 9:12next
- 9:12step
- 9:12is
- 9:12enough.
- 9:12So
- 9:13take
- 9:13that
- 9:13step
- 9:13today.
- 9:14And
- 9:14here's
- 9:14what
- 9:14I'm
- 9:14going
- 9:14to
- 9:14encourage
- 9:15you.
- 9:15Today's
- 9:15big
- 9:16win.
- 9:16My
- 9:16big
- 9:16takeaway
- 9:17for
- 9:17today
- 9:18is
- 9:18I
- 9:18want
- 9:18you
- 9:18to
- 9:18write
- 9:19this
- 9:19sentence
- 9:19down.
- 9:20If
- 9:20we
- 9:20owe,
- 9:21we
- 9:21will
- 9:22blank
- 9:22whatever
- 9:22that
- 9:23is
- 9:23and
- 9:23fill
- 9:23in
- 9:24one
- 9:24plan.
- 9:24If
- 9:25you
- 9:25owe,
- 9:25hey,
- 9:26it's
- 9:26not
- 9:26a
- 9:26problem.
- 9:27We've
- 9:27got
- 9:27money
- 9:27in
- 9:27our
- 9:28emergency
- 9:28fund,
- 9:28we
- 9:28got
- 9:28money
- 9:29in
- 9:29their
- 9:29carve
- 9:29out
- 9:29tax
- 9:30plan.
- 9:30We
- 9:31can
- 9:31handle
- 9:31this.
- 9:32Or
- 9:32we're
- 9:32going
- 9:32to
- 9:33file.
- 9:33We
- 9:33don't
- 9:34have
- 9:34this
- 9:34much
- 9:34money.
- 9:34And
- 9:35we're
- 9:35going
- 9:35to
- 9:35set
- 9:35up
- 9:35those
- 9:35payment
- 9:36plans
- 9:37because
- 9:37here's
- 9:37the
- 9:37thing
- 9:37about
- 9:38our
- 9:38brain.
- 9:38The
- 9:38way
- 9:38brain
- 9:39chemistry
- 9:39works,
- 9:40your
- 9:40brain
- 9:41relaxes
- 9:41when
- 9:42it
- 9:42knows
- 9:42there's
- 9:42a
- 9:42path
- 9:43forward
- 9:43to.
- 9:43And
- 9:44that's
- 9:44the
- 9:44big
- 9:44takeaway
- 9:45from
- 9:45today.
- 9:45Build
- 9:46that
- 9:46path
- 9:46forward.
- 9:47Because
- 9:47when
- 9:47you
- 9:47have
- 9:47a
- 9:47path,
- 9:48it
- 9:49breaks
- 9:49down
- 9:49that
- 9:50fear
- 9:50once
- 9:50and
- 9:50for
- 9:51all.
- 9:51Well,
- 9:52let's
- 9:52get
- 9:52to
- 9:52our
- 9:52scripture
- 9:53verse
- 9:53and
- 9:53you
- 9:53know,
- 9:53I
- 9:53always
- 9:54want
- 9:54to
- 9:54land
- 9:54some
- 9:54scripture
- 9:55here.
- 9:55That's
- 9:55one
- 9:55of
- 9:55the
- 9:56benefits
- 9:56of
- 9:56having
- 9:56a
- 9:57finance
- 9:57and
- 9:57faith
- 9:58show.
- 9:58Well,
- 9:58this
- 9:58one
- 9:58comes
- 9:58to
- 9:59us
- 9:59from
- 9:59Isaiah,
- 10:00chapter
- 10:0026,
- 10:01verse
- 10:013.
- 10:02And
- 10:03it
- 10:03says,
- 10:03you
- 10:03will
- 10:03keep
- 10:04in
- 10:04perfect
- 10:04peace
- 10:05those
- 10:05whose
- 10:06minds
- 10:06are
- 10:07steadfast
- 10:08because
- 10:08they
- 10:08trust
- 10:09in
- 10:09you.
- 10:10I
- 10:10just
- 10:10love
- 10:10this
- 10:11verse.
- 10:11I
- 10:11want
- 10:11to
- 10:11read
- 10:11it
- 10:11again
- 10:11because
- 10:12I
- 10:12just,
- 10:12I
- 10:12want
- 10:12you
- 10:12to
- 10:13really
- 10:13get
- 10:13your
- 10:13arms
- 10:13around
- 10:14this.
- 10:14You
- 10:14will
- 10:15keep
- 10:15in
- 10:15perfect
- 10:15peace
- 10:16those
- 10:17whose
- 10:17minds
- 10:18are
- 10:18steadfast
- 10:20because
- 10:20they
- 10:20trust
- 10:20in
- 10:21you.
- 10:22And
- 10:22if
- 10:22you
- 10:22think
- 10:22about
- 10:22it,
- 10:23this
- 10:23verse
- 10:23helps
- 10:24because
- 10:24tax
- 10:25anxiety
- 10:26pulls
- 10:26your
- 10:26mind
- 10:27into
- 10:27these
- 10:27endless
- 10:28loop
- 10:28of
- 10:28what
- 10:28if
- 10:28scenarios.
- 10:30And
- 10:30listen,
- 10:30I've
- 10:30been
- 10:31there.
- 10:31I
- 10:31see
- 10:31this
- 10:31almost
- 10:32every
- 10:32day
- 10:32during
- 10:32tax
- 10:33season.
- 10:33I
- 10:33can
- 10:34see
- 10:34the
- 10:34wheels
- 10:34going
- 10:34off
- 10:35as
- 10:35I'm
- 10:35talking
- 10:35to
- 10:35a
- 10:36client
- 10:36and
- 10:36I'm
- 10:36looking
- 10:37at
- 10:37the
- 10:37screen
- 10:37and
- 10:37I'm
- 10:37going
- 10:38to
- 10:38tell
- 10:38this
- 10:38client
- 10:38they
- 10:38owe
- 10:39money.
- 10:39And
- 10:39I
- 10:39can
- 10:40just
- 10:40see
- 10:40that
- 10:40the
- 10:40wheels
- 10:41are
- 10:41going
- 10:41up.
- 10:41They're
- 10:41in
- 10:42those
- 10:42what
- 10:42ifs.
- 10:43But
- 10:43God's
- 10:44inviting
- 10:44you
- 10:44to
- 10:44something
- 10:45deeper,
- 10:45a
- 10:45peace,
- 10:45a
- 10:46steadiness
- 10:47that
- 10:47we're
- 10:47going
- 10:47to
- 10:48trust
- 10:48in
- 10:48him.
- 10:48And
- 10:48yes,
- 10:49it
- 10:49might
- 10:49be
- 10:49a
- 10:50rough
- 10:50season.
- 10:50It
- 10:51might
- 10:51be.
- 10:51We're
- 10:51going
- 10:51to
- 10:51have
- 10:51to
- 10:52go
- 10:52into
- 10:52a
- 10:53payment
- 10:53plan.
- 10:53We're
- 10:53going
- 10:53to
- 10:53have
- 10:53to
- 10:54take
- 10:54some
- 10:54money
- 10:54out
- 10:54of
- 10:54our
- 10:55emergency
- 10:55funding
- 10:56to
- 10:56make
- 10:56some
- 10:56changes.
- 10:58But
- 10:58God's
- 10:58saying
- 10:59there,
- 10:59you
- 10:59know,
- 10:59keep
- 10:59perfect
- 11:00peace.
- 11:00If
- 11:00your
- 11:01minds
- 11:01are
- 11:01steadfast,
- 11:02build
- 11:02those
- 11:03plans
- 11:03and
- 11:04trust
- 11:04in
- 11:04him.
- 11:05Well,
- 11:05let's
- 11:06pray
- 11:06together,
- 11:06Lord.
- 11:07You
- 11:07see
- 11:07the
- 11:07anxiety
- 11:08that
- 11:08rises
- 11:09up
- 11:09around
- 11:09taxes
- 11:09and
- 11:10the
- 11:10real
- 11:10fear
- 11:11of
- 11:11the
- 11:11unknown.
- 11:13And
- 11:13you
- 11:13see
- 11:13how
- 11:14quickly
- 11:14our
- 11:14minds
- 11:15run
- 11:15to
- 11:15these
- 11:16worst
- 11:16case
- 11:16scenarios.
- 11:17We're
- 11:17playing
- 11:17them
- 11:17out
- 11:17in
- 11:17our
- 11:18head,
- 11:18Lord.
- 11:19So
- 11:19give
- 11:19us
- 11:20wisdom
- 11:20for
- 11:20today,
- 11:20Lord,
- 11:21and
- 11:21peace
- 11:21for
- 11:21this
- 11:22very
- 11:22moment.
- 11:23Help
- 11:23us
- 11:24to
- 11:24turn
- 11:24fear
- 11:24into
- 11:25a
- 11:25simple
- 11:25plan
- 11:26and
- 11:26a
- 11:26clear
- 11:26next
- 11:27step.
- 11:27Teach
- 11:27us
- 11:28to
- 11:28trust
- 11:28you.
- 11:29With
- 11:29provision,
- 11:29Lord,
- 11:30and
- 11:30with
- 11:30timing
- 11:31and
- 11:31with
- 11:31the
- 11:31outcome,
- 11:32even
- 11:32if
- 11:32the
- 11:33number
- 11:33isn't
- 11:33what
- 11:34we
- 11:34want
- 11:34right
- 11:34at
- 11:34this
- 11:34moment.
- 11:35And
- 11:35help
- 11:35us
- 11:35keep
- 11:35our
- 11:36minds
- 11:36steady
- 11:37on
- 11:37you
- 11:38when
- 11:38the
- 11:38worry
- 11:38tries
- 11:39to
- 11:39take
- 11:39over.
- 11:39Help
- 11:39us
- 11:40to
- 11:40be
- 11:40steadfast
- 11:41in
- 11:41our
- 11:41trust
- 11:41for
- 11:41you.
- 11:42And
- 11:42we
- 11:42ask
- 11:42this
- 11:42in
- 11:43Jesus
- 11:43name,
- 11:44Amen.
- 11:46Listen,
- 11:47that
- 11:47tight
- 11:48feeling
- 11:48doesn't
- 11:48get
- 11:49to
- 11:49lead
- 11:49you.
- 11:50You
- 11:50can
- 11:50stop
- 11:51that
- 11:51right
- 11:51now
- 11:52by
- 11:52building
- 11:52a
- 11:53piece
- 11:53and
- 11:53a
- 11:54plan.
- 11:55And
- 11:55if
- 11:55you've
- 11:55got
- 11:55a
- 11:56question
- 11:56for
- 11:56the
- 11:56show,
- 11:56I
- 11:56would
- 11:57love
- 11:57to
- 11:57hear
- 11:57your
- 11:57question.
- 11:57It's
- 11:58what
- 11:58feeds
- 11:58me.
- 11:58It's
- 11:58why
- 11:59I
- 11:59do
- 11:59this
- 11:59show
- 11:59every
- 11:59day.
- 11:59I
- 12:00want
- 12:00to
- 12:00answer
- 12:00your
- 12:00questions.
- 12:01I
- 12:01want
- 12:01to
- 12:01help
- 12:01you
- 12:01break
- 12:02that
- 12:02cycle
- 12:02of
- 12:03financial
- 12:03shame.
- 12:04If
- 12:04you've
- 12:04got
- 12:04a
- 12:04question,
- 12:05go
- 12:05to
- 12:05financiallyconfidentchristian.com/question.
- 12:08I'll
- 12:09put
- 12:09this
- 12:09in
- 12:09the
- 12:09show
- 12:09notes,
- 12:10but
- 12:10it's
- 12:10financiallyconfidentchristian.com/question.
- 12:14i
- 12:14want
- 12:15to
- 12:15hear
- 12:15from
- 12:15you.
- 12:15Just
- 12:15share
- 12:16what's
- 12:16going
- 12:16on.
- 12:16Even
- 12:17if
- 12:17you
- 12:17might
- 12:17think,
- 12:17hey,
- 12:18this
- 12:18is
- 12:18a
- 12:18trivial
- 12:19thing.
- 12:19It's
- 12:19not
- 12:19trivial
- 12:20to
- 12:20me.
- 12:21So
- 12:21send
- 12:21in
- 12:21those
- 12:21questions.
- 12:22And
- 12:22I
- 12:22just
- 12:22want
- 12:22to
- 12:22thank
- 12:22you
- 12:23for
- 12:23joining
- 12:23me
- 12:23today.
- 12:23As
- 12:23I
- 12:24always
- 12:24say,
- 12:24stay
- 12:25financially
- 12:25savvy.
- 12:26God
- 12:26bless
- 12:27you.
- 12:27And
- 12:27you
- 12:27have
- 12:28a
- 12:28great
- 12:28day
- 12:28today.