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Three Things You NEED to KNOW · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Colin Fudd Three things we need to know.
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  Speaker 2: This is so cool. So Netflix just opened Netflix House.
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  Speaker 2: It's in Philadelphia, and it feels like stepping straight onto
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  Speaker 2: the sets of your favorite series, from Wednesday to Squid Game, Bridgerton.
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  Speaker 3: On, even the K Pop Demon Hunter World.
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  Speaker 2: So you choose your own adventsor Tho's immersive multi room
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  Speaker 2: experiences like Wednesday's bedroom, a replica of the set.
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  Speaker 3: Of Is It Cake?
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  Speaker 2: And then they also have like VR games, escape rooms,
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  Speaker 2: tons of photo ops. It's like very instagrammable, mini golf themed,
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  Speaker 2: iconic show like Themed after the like all these shows.
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  Speaker 2: And then they have Netflix Bites, which is their themed restaurant,
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  Speaker 2: and a full merch shop.
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  Speaker 3: So like it. This is like a destination now for sure.
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  Speaker 2: The cool thing is is it's free to enter, but
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  Speaker 2: different experiences cost anywhere from fifteen to thirty nine bucks.
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  Speaker 3: So pretty cool. I can start planning.
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  Speaker 2: That's this is what I was talking about yesterday, like
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  Speaker 2: a ycation. You will go to Philadelphia just because this
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  Speaker 2: is what you want to see. If you do think
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  Speaker 2: that Thanksgiving, you're not sure what you're going to talk
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  Speaker 2: about with your family. Some people a little apprehensive about
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  Speaker 2: going into that. There is one expert that says the
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  Speaker 2: way to connect with your family on a deeper level,
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  Speaker 2: in a healthy way is by trying the do you
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  Speaker 2: know family stories?
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  Speaker 4: Game?
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  Speaker 2: So basically what you do is you pull slips of
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  Speaker 2: paper and each person asks questions like do you know
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  Speaker 2: how your parents met?
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  Speaker 3: Do you know your grandma's first job? That kind of thing?
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  Speaker 1: And you know the difference between Democrats and Republicans?
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  Speaker 5: No, skip those questions, skid No.
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  Speaker 2: It's family stories, literally, questions about your families. And number one,
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  Speaker 2: you get to know your family members better. Whoever grabs
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  Speaker 2: each thing, like tells the story or picks a family
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  Speaker 2: member to tell the story.
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  Speaker 6: And I actually really like that to see my family,
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  Speaker 6: We would like, we would like totally like up it
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  Speaker 6: a little bit. And if you got wrong, you have to.
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  Speaker 7: Take shots because we have a few of those. And
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  Speaker 7: do you know who shot both of your cousins ex
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  Speaker 7: husbands today?
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  Speaker 1: Jeez?
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  Speaker 3: The questions positive life.
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  Speaker 2: Starts, they say, simple back and forth conversation like this
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  Speaker 2: actually boosts kids confidence, it lowers stress, and helps everyone
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  Speaker 2: feel more connected.
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  Speaker 7: You choose your questions wisely, all thoughtful fun.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe you two in your house don't play.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So You guys have heard of a social media detox, right.
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  Speaker 3: The digital detox is spending a lot of tractions for you.
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  Speaker 3: You literally spend a week with no social media.
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  Speaker 2: You don't necessarily need to shut off or delete your
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  Speaker 2: social media, but you don't use it for a week.
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  Speaker 2: So a new study actually followed eighteen to twenty four
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  Speaker 2: year olds who tried this digital detox four a week, TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat,
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  Speaker 2: all of it.
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  Speaker 3: They got rid of it, and yes, it actually worked.
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  Speaker 2: Anxiety dropped by sixteen percent, depression about twenty five percent,
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  Speaker 2: even insomnia improved.
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  Speaker 3: But there's a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Of a plot twist here because once they got their
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  Speaker 2: phones back, they actually spent more time on their phones
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  Speaker 2: overall than they did before.
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  Speaker 7: That's the digital retoks we talk about.
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  Speaker 4: I saw an interview with what's her name? She was
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  Speaker 4: the wife on the Beast in Me and she was
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  Speaker 4: in Hunting Wives, Oh, Britney Snow, Britney Snow, and she
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  Speaker 4: was on the Jennifer Hudson Show and she was like,
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  Speaker 4: what was life like before social media?
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  Speaker 1: And she was like, she goes, it was a lot
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  Speaker 1: less stressful.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, like man, yeah, true, And they do say a
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  Speaker 2: break from social media can absolutely destress you. It can
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  Speaker 2: absolutely boost your mood. Just don't expect it to magically
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  Speaker 2: fix your screen time. That just takes constant work. And
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  Speaker 2: that's three things.
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  Speaker 3: You need to know.
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  Speaker 1: If you miss second Date update, this is really cool
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  Speaker 4: So if you go to our Instagram, John Jay and
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  Speaker 6: I don't know if we haven't hooked up to Facebook.
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  Speaker 1: Quite right now.
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  Speaker 4: If you go to our Facebook, if you go to
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  Speaker 4: the word date, we will send you the podcast link.
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  Speaker 1: Directly to hear a second Date update today. And it
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  Speaker 1: was a doozy.
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  Speaker 3: It was a it's a good one.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Peyton, what was it? What did you say we're
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  Speaker 4: gonna get into. I said, I'm gonna ask you about this?
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  Speaker 4: Oh about your husband, your boyfriend, your fiance?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I have a new fiance. His name's Kaddem No.
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  Speaker 1: I was.
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  Speaker 6: We were talking about it at dinner last night at
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  Speaker 6: my friends skimming, and we were talking about like why
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  Speaker 6: do men get so like like cranky and grouchy and
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  Speaker 6: have an attitude when they like, don't like have intimacy,
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  Speaker 6: like get over yourself?
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  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? That's all you gotta do
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  Speaker 1: is make us happy? Is you know, give us, give
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  Speaker 1: us a little you know.
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  Speaker 2: What's fun actually talking about this on our girls trip
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  Speaker 2: Because because men and women are just wired differently in
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  Speaker 2: the brain, intimacy is how men feel connected, the conversation
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  Speaker 2: and the like actual like emotional intimacy.
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  Speaker 3: Is how women feel connected. Why do we want to
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  Speaker 3: talk all the time totally?
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  Speaker 6: Because like sometimes like I'll be talking to Kadem and
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, honestly, like you being kind and nice to
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  Speaker 6: me is way is like it's great for me. Maybe
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  Speaker 6: I would be into it, but now whining and complaining
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  Speaker 6: and I don't even want.
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  Speaker 3: To touch you right now?
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't every day?
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  Speaker 3: No, not every day?
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  Speaker 4: Here is times I start following this I start following
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  Speaker 4: this girl on Instagram on my fake account, and she
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  Speaker 4: gives like great relationship advice and all about it's it's
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  Speaker 4: it's I don't know who she is.
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  Speaker 1: I gotta find her and I don't even know. I
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  Speaker 1: just watched some of her post.
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  Speaker 4: But she's like, if your husband acts this way, it
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  Speaker 4: means he needs this and if he wants sex, it
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  Speaker 4: doesn't mean that he's uh, what do you call it,
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  Speaker 4: Like an addict? It means it doesn't mean that he's
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  Speaker 4: usually I mean, that's the way guys connect with intimacy.
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  Speaker 1: They need touch, they need the words, they need they
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  Speaker 1: need that.
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  Speaker 4: And she gives into saying I'm like, she's so great,
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  Speaker 4: but then I read her comments and everyone hates her.
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  Speaker 1: Well, sometimes the truth doesn't. It's not what you want
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  Speaker 1: to hear. But that's how guys are.
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  Speaker 7: It's like, you know how many therapists are, like, you know,
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  Speaker 7: before you have a really big fight, you should just
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  Speaker 7: start kissing on your your You don't fight about as
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  Speaker 7: much stuff because you're like, oh, we gotta make up
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  Speaker 7: going all right?
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  Speaker 6: If by trying to come kiss me while I was
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  Speaker 6: in a filement, I would take my hand and I
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  Speaker 6: would smush his face out.
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  Speaker 7: Of the binding problem solved. You want something, you need
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  Speaker 7: something like that with your guy. You're gonna get it, okay.
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  Speaker 4: But you're in this girl's weekend and it comes up
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  Speaker 4: like who's the one that comes up and says it's
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  Speaker 4: intimacy they need?
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  Speaker 1: Who's Was that just a group thing?
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  Speaker 2: No, Well, we were talking about like just that intimacy
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  Speaker 2: and relationships, and one of my friends went to it
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  Speaker 2: was actually she said it like in her church service
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  Speaker 2: they were talking about intimacy and the difference between intimacy
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  Speaker 2: with men and intimacy with women, and it's like brains
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  Speaker 2: are just wired differently. And it's funny because when she
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  Speaker 2: said that, I had heard that before somewhere else too,
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  Speaker 2: like they had done a study on what women need
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  Speaker 2: in relationships and what men need in relationships and they're
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  Speaker 2: totally different. And I think it's like if if you
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  Speaker 2: look at it from what did they say, like the
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  Speaker 2: bird's eye view and try not to like be what
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  Speaker 2: you are for a second and go, oh, that actually
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  Speaker 2: kind of makes sense. Or food, I meaning her food,
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  Speaker 2: because then we're all talking about how yeah, like when
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  Speaker 2: that happens in the bedroom, our guys are all like
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  Speaker 2: all of a sudden like different. It's like now they
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  Speaker 2: want and now you're paying attention to me and water
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  Speaker 2: do you.
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  Speaker 6: Mean after after the yes, breathe the second life into them?
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  Speaker 1: Why is this shocker?
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  Speaker 6: Why it's just like you being annoying about it.
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  Speaker 3: That's my problem.
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  Speaker 2: Well, and sometimes it's like you forget because that's not
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  Speaker 2: the way you're wired right.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, we just talked, how much more intimate
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  Speaker 3: can we get?
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  Speaker 4: And so women want like yesterday I came home, my
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  Speaker 4: wife goes, you know, she's laying in bed because she's
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  Speaker 4: had this procedure done, and she says, so, how was
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  Speaker 4: your day, Like.
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  Speaker 2: Really trying to connect.
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  Speaker 1: I just walked in. I gotta recap or real it
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  Speaker 1: just happened exactly.
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  Speaker 2: And when you're like, let's go get it on, She's like, seriously,
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  Speaker 2: on the other.
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  Speaker 1: Side, I don't say let's go get it on.
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  Speaker 4: It's funny because we had some friends, remember that the
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  Speaker 4: husband and wife would the husband would say their their
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  Speaker 4: code word or whatever I want to play, and that
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  Speaker 4: meant that in front of the kids that they knew
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  Speaker 4: that later on that night things are gonna go down.
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  Speaker 4: I haven't come up with anything yet. You guys have
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  Speaker 4: something like for that you don't know. Now you don't
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  Speaker 4: say anything. So when you when you want to do it,
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  Speaker 4: what do you do?
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  Speaker 3: We just have its schedule.
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  Speaker 1: No matter what you don't follow, you don't break the
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  Speaker 1: schedule we do.
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  Speaker 3: We try not to break the schedule.
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  Speaker 2: And the reason why let's not break the scaledual why
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  Speaker 2: do people think that the scheduled time is boring or whatever?
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  Speaker 2: But honestly, like it works for us in our relationship
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  Speaker 2: because we are both so incredibly busy and always tired
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  Speaker 2: that if we didn't schedule it, probably weeks or months.
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  Speaker 3: Would go by.
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  Speaker 1: Schedule.
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  Speaker 4: I gotta get this paperwork filed right away, damn it.
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  Speaker 4: We're supposed to do it in two minutes. Is it
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  Speaker 4: scheduled more than once a week or just once a week?
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  Speaker 3: It's scheduled once a week.
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  Speaker 1: And that's so fascinating. Want to try that?
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  Speaker 6: It is? Well, it's fascinating that you schedule it, because
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  Speaker 6: anytime I try to schedule it, he's.
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  Speaker 3: Like, why are schedule that's weird?
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  Speaker 2: Well, in your life and your you don't have kids
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  Speaker 2: still doing sports and like twenty other things.
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  Speaker 3: But it's so much to be very spontaneous if we want. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like there's no there isn't room for spooning.
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  Speaker 4: Did you ever schedule it? And it's like, let's just
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  Speaker 4: do this real quick because we gotta go to soccer.
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  Speaker 4: Like you no matter what, you don't miss it. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's not like no matter what happens.
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  Speaker 2: There's been like one or two times where it was
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  Speaker 2: like there, it was impossible to make it happen.
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  Speaker 3: And then it was like Monday.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Monday, skip it.
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  Speaker 2: Holy moly, we're so spontaneous.
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  Speaker 1: Monday.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 5: Sometimes we can do for Spot today. Sometimes we do
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  Speaker 5: it on Monday daytime or nighttime, mid dayDay, whatever ever happened.
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  Speaker 1: In the daytime in my life. I'm like, that was amazing.
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  Speaker 1: It was the daytime you want