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(no music) Whisper Wednesday | LMBYTS #1399 | Jason Newland | 30th July 2025 · Deep Sleep Whisper Hypnosis (Jason Newland)

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  Speaker 1: Hello, Welcome Jasonnewland dot com. My name's Jason new Land.
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  Speaker 1: This is Whisper Wednesday. Please only listen when you can
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  Speaker 1: safely close your eyes. Badah bada ba ba ba ba
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  Speaker 1: ba ba. So it is Wednesday, the thirtieth of July
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  Speaker 1: two thousand and twenty five. It's about called the past
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  Speaker 1: five in the morning. M just go out better. I
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  Speaker 1: s I really had the weirdest bunch of dreams. It
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  Speaker 1: all started off right where I was lying in bed
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  Speaker 1: and stided remembering a dream from years ago. It was
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  Speaker 1: like a specific I don't know how to explain it
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  Speaker 1: without ring. I It was just I have these dream sequences,
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  Speaker 1: these places that I visit in my dreams, and this
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  Speaker 1: just happened to be a place that I haven't visited
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  Speaker 1: for some while. And I started thinking about it, and
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  Speaker 1: I started wondering why why. But some of the dreams
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  Speaker 1: I had last night it was very fairy, strange, almost unnecessary.
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  Speaker 1: My voice is a little bit correctly due to the
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  Speaker 1: COVID though I'm on the mend. Uncle's Sausages is being
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  Speaker 1: moved into a nursing home today. His latest is he's
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  Speaker 1: just asleep all the time, very much so. He had
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  Speaker 1: a visitor last night and she caught she'd let me
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  Speaker 1: know that when she was with him. The whole time
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  Speaker 1: he was asleep and they couldn't wake him up. They
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  Speaker 1: tried to wake him up just to sort of, you know,
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  Speaker 1: let him know that he'd had a visitor, but he
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  Speaker 1: wouldn't wake up. So this is where he's at now. Now.
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  Speaker 1: The weird thing about it is, last time I saw him,
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  Speaker 1: he was wide awake. Apart from now he was asleep,
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  Speaker 1: I don't but outside of that, like, I saw him
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  Speaker 1: on the Monday last week, and the first thing he
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  Speaker 1: did is start moaning about some conspiracy or other that
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  Speaker 1: he's been going through. And then he started having a
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  Speaker 1: laugh and he started talking about other stuff. And you
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  Speaker 1: know he when he goes some drinks and things like
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  Speaker 1: that from downstairs in the shops. Did you hear that
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  Speaker 1: in in in my voice is crankly, very crankly. It's
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  Speaker 1: not a lar I can do about it. Yes, So
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  Speaker 1: he was kind of okay, groggy, slow, but still you know,
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  Speaker 1: verbally able to talk and communicate. When it went on
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  Speaker 1: a Wednesday, he was asleep, and because I felt so well,
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  Speaker 1: I just went home straight away. I took that as
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  Speaker 1: an opportunity to escape, which I'm glad I did because
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  Speaker 1: at the time I did not know that I had
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  Speaker 1: COVID HM. The last thing in the world I've thought
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  Speaker 1: about and pretty sure that's why I would have caught it,
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  Speaker 1: because that's all that's. The only place I've gone to
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  Speaker 1: the last five weeks was the hospital, so I must
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  Speaker 1: have caught it there, I guess. Yeah, just trying to think. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: I saw him, it was asleep, and since then they
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  Speaker 1: spend more more time asleep. He had a fall the
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  Speaker 1: other day. They found him on the floor in the bathroom,
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  Speaker 1: and so he's kind of bedridden there as well. It's weird.
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  Speaker 1: So since I last saw him when he was still
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  Speaker 1: fiery verbally, still talking and still chatty and still opinionated
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  Speaker 1: and all that, and the next time I see him,
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  Speaker 1: which will be in a couple of days time, when
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  Speaker 1: the covids cleared, hopefully he's just going to be there asleep.
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  Speaker 1: It's weird. I just how quickly that part happened. I
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  Speaker 1: started clearing now some of his stuff from the flat,
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  Speaker 1: and it's really weird because I was asked if i'd
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  Speaker 1: sort of look through some stuff to try and find
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  Speaker 1: something at his birth certificate. So I did it and
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  Speaker 1: I did find it, but always I found a bunch
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  Speaker 1: of photographs which he had to hid in away, photographs
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  Speaker 1: of him when he was a baby. It's weird. He's
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  Speaker 1: there in his grisee. He almost looks the same, same
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  Speaker 1: long hair, same beard. It's just it's yeah, it just
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  Speaker 1: looks the same. There's pictures of his mum. You know
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  Speaker 1: these are this is to me. This is sacred stuff,
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  Speaker 1: this is personal stuff. I don't think anyone's gonna want
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  Speaker 1: it because he's got no one, not no family. It's
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  Speaker 1: really got me thinking about life, don't don't do. It's
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  Speaker 1: just the idea that one day someone's gonna be walking
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  Speaker 1: w up here looking through my stuff and just chucking
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  Speaker 1: it into bags. Rubbish. That's rubbish, that's rubbish, just chucking
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  Speaker 1: into bags, and I'll just be forgotten like I was
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  Speaker 1: never here. It just seems weird. So I decided to
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  Speaker 1: start laying some booby traps. That's where people do you know,
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  Speaker 1: a few explosions and stuff like that. That's funny. Well
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  Speaker 1: so it was. Yeah, I started to think that there's
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  Speaker 1: no point on the NONTO stuff belongings, things like that,
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  Speaker 1: what's the point in gaining possessive when it's while looking
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  Speaker 1: at my stuff? No matter how important it may seem
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  Speaker 1: to me to whoever's in here, whether it's the council
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  Speaker 1: coming to empty in my flat, it's just going to
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  Speaker 1: be a bunch of chunk, just going to be rubbish.
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  Speaker 1: I struggled with that a little bit, just a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: Not that I've really got like a lot of stuff,
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  Speaker 1: because I got equipment, you know, for the podcasting and
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  Speaker 1: stuff like that, and I got some books and that's
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  Speaker 1: pretty much it. I got a dirty carpet, there's a
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  Speaker 1: lot of dust in here. Yeah, not as well as
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  Speaker 1: not a lot of stuff. But I just wonder, is
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  Speaker 1: there any point eving anything. I always used to love
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  Speaker 1: collecting things he has, specifically books, But at what point
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  Speaker 1: does collection become holding? And you know, I could collect
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  Speaker 1: I could have ten thousand books on the walls in
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  Speaker 1: this flat and look at them and to get all excited.
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  Speaker 1: I look at them, and that will be almost priceless
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  Speaker 1: to me. Then one day, knowing that she's going to
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  Speaker 1: be backed up and chucked onto a skip when I'm gone,
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  Speaker 1: that just seems sad, really sad. Yeah, start watching Happy
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  Speaker 1: Gilmore too. The other day, I know it's coming out
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  Speaker 1: soon on Netflix. So I watched the original Amby Gilmore
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  Speaker 1: from nineteen ninety six, I think, and that was quite
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  Speaker 1: weird watching it back. I don't actually think I've watched
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  Speaker 1: it within nearly thirty years. I might have done, but
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  Speaker 1: I don't recall watching it before rather than the first time.
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  Speaker 1: So I started watching Amby Gilmore two and I just
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  Speaker 1: couldn't believe that his wife or his girlfriend, and the
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  Speaker 1: wife in the movies was Claire Dumphrey or Dumpy Dumplee
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  Speaker 1: Dumphy from Modern Family. I recognized her in the second
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  Speaker 1: one because it looks like the one looks nothing like her.
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  Speaker 1: But then there was twenty nine years ago, where they
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  Speaker 1: probably made it thirty years ago. If it was released
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  Speaker 1: in ninety six, they probably made it ninety five. Looks
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  Speaker 1: so different. I didn't realize she's like fifty five years old.
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  Speaker 1: But just I don't know why I thought in it
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  Speaker 1: she was in her forties or something makes me feel younger.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot of balls, wasn't it. What did they say?
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  Speaker 1: It should never it should never be any radio silence.
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  Speaker 1: That's tough. The rules had to be broken. Kicking. It's
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  Speaker 1: weird because technically I kind of feel like, possibly go
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  Speaker 1: out and just carry on doing what I need to do.
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  Speaker 1: But do you still not feel right yet? I still
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  Speaker 1: feel blocked up and you know, not not clear. And
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  Speaker 1: I promised myself that I wouldn't do the last COVID
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  Speaker 1: test to see if I was clear until my symptoms
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  Speaker 1: were clear, because I don't see the point in but
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  Speaker 1: do a thing and it says yet be clear. And
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  Speaker 1: I go in and I'm sneezing over everyone or coffeing
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  Speaker 1: over everyone, knowing that I've just come through COVID. That
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  Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a very bright thing to do in
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  Speaker 1: a place full of people that are very very ill.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm not. I know this. There's people the think
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  Speaker 1: that they're heroes because they go out even when they're
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  Speaker 1: all So they're going out and they're sniffing and they're
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  Speaker 1: sneezing and they're coughing over everyone, and they go into
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  Speaker 1: the office and they they got the pride of never
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  Speaker 1: had a day off work since they started working nine
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  Speaker 1: hundred years ago. And they're sitting at their desk and
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  Speaker 1: in an office with air conditioning which spreads every single
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  Speaker 1: germ possible to all the other offices around the building,
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  Speaker 1: and they turn up and they're dripping and there it's
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  Speaker 1: like it's like a swamp. They're like a walking swamp,
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  Speaker 1: and they feel so proud. I don't have time enough.
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  Speaker 1: I got to work. I don't phoney ill me me.
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  Speaker 1: And I've never been one of them. I was a
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  Speaker 1: little bit like that when I was a kid. You know,
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  Speaker 1: work ethic and all that. My dad tried to force
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  Speaker 1: and work ethic in me. It's semi worked for a
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  Speaker 1: little while. But as I got older, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: used to work with a cold. I go to work
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  Speaker 1: with a cold. And once I hit my thirties, my
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  Speaker 1: middle thirties or my thirties, and it was like thirty five.
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  Speaker 1: I remember thinking to myself, stuff this. If I've got
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  Speaker 1: a cold staying at home, I'm not spreading it as
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  Speaker 1: an embloyer. If I was an employer, which I'm not,
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  Speaker 1: if I had a hundred staff working in an office
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  Speaker 1: and one person comes in swamp swampy man swampy and
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  Speaker 1: sneezing in coffee over everyone, I don't think. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I might have a completely differentity. If
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  Speaker 1: I was an owner of humans. But I like to
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  Speaker 1: think that I would send that person home so that
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  Speaker 1: they don't contaminate the whole building, because I've seen that.
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  Speaker 1: I've think we will come to work so proud, I
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  Speaker 1: don't ever have time off work at you. And then
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  Speaker 1: they recover. But during their recovery time, when they go
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  Speaker 1: from having a full on hold to being fine or
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  Speaker 1: flew wherever it is, you see that the people in
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  Speaker 1: the in the building dwildering, dwildering, dwindering, dwindling, dwelterering reducing, dwindling.
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  Speaker 1: That's it, dwindling. It doesn't sound right though, twiddling, biddling, twidling, twindling,
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  Speaker 1: twin dwindle, dwindle reducing anyway, people going off illm I've
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  Speaker 1: seen that in the past, and suddenly you got like
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  Speaker 1: ten to fifteen percent of the workforce off because one
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  Speaker 1: person was a hero. So I decided I wasn't going
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  Speaker 1: to be that hero. I was going to be a
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  Speaker 1: different kind of hero, one that has or was that
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  Speaker 1: word that word that's not very common in a human race,
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  Speaker 1: that is used and not really respect or to understood.
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  Speaker 1: What is it? What's that word? Ah? Consider I'd be considerate.
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  Speaker 2: Or at least dry, consider ah, oh, my goodness, I
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  Speaker 2: feel all tingly all down me bum oh. It's nice
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  Speaker 2: considerate gif that I go quite like consideration something that
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  Speaker 2: I've noticed seems to be lacking.
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting old and money instead of young and mony.
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  Speaker 1: The amount of inconsideration is, or the lack of consideration,
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  Speaker 1: amazes me. Just in this building, people slam indoors. They
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  Speaker 1: don't have to slam a door. They must be able
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  Speaker 1: to hear the door slamming because it shakes the entire building,
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  Speaker 1: But they still do it. Why do they do it?
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  Speaker 1: Is there anything going on inside their brain? There must be,
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  Speaker 1: So I'm a thinker. I'm not going to pretend that
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  Speaker 1: there's anything particularly intelligent going on, but I do think nevertheless,
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  Speaker 1: and you know, try and show consideration. Even if I
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  Speaker 1: cross a separate crossing and there's lights that've stopped at
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  Speaker 1: the car, a car is not allowed to go over
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  Speaker 1: because the lights have stopped. I will still wave thank
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  Speaker 1: you to the car, sometimes even to the driver, just occurtesy,
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  Speaker 1: just consideration like thank you, acknowledgment. But the amount of
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  Speaker 1: times I see when I'm on a bus coming traveling
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  Speaker 1: around the bell people they just walk across the road
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  Speaker 1: and don't even look when the traffic stopped. I guess
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  Speaker 1: maybe some people are shy if you don't have to
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  Speaker 1: look at the driver. I don't look at the driver.
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  Speaker 1: I just case my eyes in the general vicinity of
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  Speaker 1: where the driver may be sitting and just put my
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  Speaker 1: hand up. I don't actually go up to the driver,
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  Speaker 1: knock on the window and give them a big old kiss.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing like that. It's just a quick wave, hi,
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  Speaker 1: thank you acknowledgement. Also, if they're sitting and they have
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  Speaker 1: already been sitting there for maybe twenty seconds, and then
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  Speaker 1: I go to cross the road, I put my hand
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  Speaker 1: up so they can see me, because they might be
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  Speaker 1: looking at their phone and then decide to drive, you know,
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  Speaker 1: And I don't want to be squashed, so I try
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  Speaker 1: and you know, let people know that I'm there. I
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  Speaker 1: remember once one time there was this. It was up
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  Speaker 1: near town and it was it wasn't a separate crossing,
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  Speaker 1: but it was a crossing, and the lights stopped and
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  Speaker 1: the car stopped, you know. But what this did is
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  Speaker 1: it it turned really quickly from being stopped to start,
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  Speaker 1: so the cars would just move and they didn't seem
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  Speaker 1: to take any notice of the people and because it
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  Speaker 1: was a busy, busy crossing, it was weird. Well, once
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  Speaker 1: the there was two lanes, so the first lane we
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  Speaker 1: were crossing and the person was there. Now the other
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  Speaker 1: lane was clear. But what people would do is sometimes
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  Speaker 1: we basically if you can across the road, you have
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  Speaker 1: to check both lanes. Just don't assume that the other
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  Speaker 1: lane's going to stop. Well, this person had a pram
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  Speaker 1: with them and they pushed the pram straight into the
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  Speaker 1: road ahead of them because the lights are on red,
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  Speaker 1: so they fall of traffic had to stop. I've never
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  Speaker 1: seen a light stop a car before, you know. And
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  Speaker 1: she pushed a pram out and the car was speeding
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  Speaker 1: on the other lane. Luckily there was no accident. She
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  Speaker 1: managed to pull pull it back in time. That's when
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  Speaker 1: I realized that prams are not really well suited for
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  Speaker 1: crossing the road, especially if the supplied spot you can't see.
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  Speaker 1: She'd better off pulling the prayer backwards if you cross
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  Speaker 1: the road. That's the second first thing I kind of
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  Speaker 1: learned from that. Well, the second thing is I guarantee
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  Speaker 1: you does she learned nothing from that as a human.
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  Speaker 1: Pretty much, I would bet any amount of money that
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  Speaker 1: I don't have that. She just continued the next time
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  Speaker 1: she was there. If that was a regular road, she
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  Speaker 1: would just continue pushing the pram out like she did
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  Speaker 1: that time, even though it was a near miss. But
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  Speaker 1: you nothing was learned. So that's that's something that I
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  Speaker 1: struggle with a little bit. I'm not saying I learned
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  Speaker 1: from every situation, because I don't. But I kind of
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  Speaker 1: study people a little bit. And while I noticed I
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  Speaker 1: can a call center atmosphere in an office place if
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  Speaker 1: you see someone this is weird. I don't know why,
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  Speaker 1: but male and females seem to do two different things
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  Speaker 1: with drinks bottles of drink. I don't know why. Of
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  Speaker 1: course a minute it might just it was years of studying.
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  Speaker 1: To be honest, I noticed this over a long period
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  Speaker 1: of time. Females seem to be more likely to have
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  Speaker 1: a bottle of drink with the lid left off, and
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  Speaker 1: males would have the lid, the lid on and just
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  Speaker 1: take it off when they wanted a drink. I've also
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  Speaker 1: noticed that over the years that if someone puts a drink,
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  Speaker 1: let's say they have it right on the edge of
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  Speaker 1: a table and it falls off onto the floor, what
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  Speaker 1: they do is they put the cup or the drink
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  Speaker 1: back at the edge of the table like it was before,
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  Speaker 1: don't learn from it and put it further up so
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't fall off the edge, or if they if
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  Speaker 1: it falls over, they don't put the lid on, leave
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  Speaker 1: the lid off still. Maybe it's because it takes so
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  Speaker 1: much time to take a lid off. If they can't
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  Speaker 1: flip lid that might be easier. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: mean the amount, the amount of things that I have
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  Speaker 1: not learned from probably adds up to thousands and thousands
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  Speaker 1: and thousands of things I do try I do, and
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  Speaker 1: I think this sometimes there's things that we almost have
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  Speaker 1: no choice about learning from. I kind of seem to
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  Speaker 1: be in that situation at the moment. I'm just trying
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  Speaker 1: to figure what it is I'm supposed to be learning.
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  Speaker 1: But if I listen to my dummy, dumb, dumb, all
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  Speaker 1: I need to do now is go and get something
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  Speaker 1: to eat because I'm hungry, hungry, So thank you for listening.
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  Speaker 1: Remember to be kind to yourself because you do deserve
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  Speaker 1: to be happy, bitchenter with yourself. You deserve to feel safe.
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  Speaker 1: Lots of love. Bye,