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Yoreh De'ah 192:1-5. Bride's Preparation for Wedding; Blood of "Chimud"; Niddah at the Time of Chuppah · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  Good morning we are in school study days say father the Willy
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  nothing they you know he said OK we're we're getting married in
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  the suing there's paisa and she and she she agreed she has to
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  she has to sit design the keem because of what we call that the
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  that she. That she very.
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  Dumb. She be very dumb if if.
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  It's a worldly. Nelson Bengali Bengal Tana
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  whether she the Tana even even if she checked herself when he
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  asked her and right after the immediately afterwards.
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  And and. She was Tahira, whether she saw
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  the Taas. That's interesting, Kasha, he
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  says, He says, he says if it's exerted, So what about?
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  The Yuda and. Tamar and Boaz, Boaz and Roth.
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  That they didn't. Wait then they didn't wait Zion
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  Akim right. It says it's the sheet is about
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  it faces was that that Yuda was marry?
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  You know it's marry Tamar. It wasn't stumps.
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  It was. It was the one.
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  To he. Was good.
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  He was the Kedushin. And.
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  Sue and Biaja whatever discussion there or boss and
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  Ruth also they that the next day got married to her.
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  So Chris, so the task says he says.
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  That it must. Be that it could be was before
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  the the whole anyway, the whole Zayra design came was only
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  cheapest on cargo was much later Zayra.
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  It was time of the earth. So this was this is a column to
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  the to the xerra. So column to the xerra.
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  There wasn't the you know, the whole the whole you sort of the
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  of the of the Xerra of the Xerra is that shimmer Raza cheapest on
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  cargo, But but Bizvan right, it was B and after that they were
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  OK closest that maybe there was Tom Kimo.
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  But. But before that Don Kimo the one
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  even if they would see that Don Kimo, but they were not, you
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  know, there wasn't teepas dump. They weren't closest or teepas
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  dump hard, though They were much more, you know, much Peter, much
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  more on top of what was going on, especially you then Tom Mars
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  before it was before the forgotten Taya.
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  So it's time as a finish. That's kasha from that, unless
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  you get with the you go with the precious Drachen.
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  There's Precious Drachen. Says that the hocus.
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  Between Youssef and the and the brothers was whether they had a
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  dim been Noah or they had a din of.
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  Israeli and Youssef. Held that they didn't Beninaya.
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  And and the. Rest of the Shruten.
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  Held that that Ben Yakov. Had a din of regular dinner.
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  They swirl and. And they could be and they and
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  and so. Therefore it could be that's why
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  I knew there was no egg kasha with with Tamara.
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  So some interesting kasha acaponim Amana zaimin zaimin
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  Maharajiyamatvia and she counts 7 from the day after the tria.
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  They ain't at Suika Hefsik Tara and she doesn't need a Hefsik.
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  That's a tire rush of a piece of about to be a material.
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  I have secular Tara. My name is just she just counts
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  on the Kim. You see her Bedika stroke
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  design, but you need to do the Bedika Zion.
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  She has to do a proper proper Bedika.
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  Even even 1 Bedika call you. It's also OK and the interesting
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  shock over here says that I we don't wait, but we paskin in
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  some of that badika akas tell Zion we paskin the Shahar
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  paskins that it's not enough, that if she only does one
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  badika, it's not enough. So her over here badika.
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  I need Alice and Zion right. So the the Shah said near the
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  sphere of the hockey even lower also that I artist fade hear
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  what it was. It was just a Zarah Sharma.
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  It's only a Suffolk. So therefore we can be summoned
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  on that on that cheetah that on that cheetah.
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  Then in the case where you know she didn't see is just you know,
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  then then that's enough with one with one Bidika Uncle Panim
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  right. So sift base first thing they
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  get they no, so let's see no, so let's see sift base.
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  She she was yummy. A lot of money, my son, Mishashi
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  Symetis, Medita Machina, Axel Hopper, the mice.
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  It's only we're only talking about we used to roll and
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  they'll say shut right now. She really keep but the Lisa
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  right, But you know so so it's going to be much longer than
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  that. So I mean seven days before
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  before before the Khopa. She's a Methodist, but died the
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  Vecina Azimal the Khopa of visually Scotch a dying even
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  like the Minigan allocates is the Kedushan Vishal Scopa.
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  Even if she didn't have Kedushan of a pecan.
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  It's it's. It's enough now the.
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  Shiloh, the Shiloh over here as to what's the time?
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  What's the what's the dumb he mood?
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  What's the dumb he coming from? Is it coming from Is it coming
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  from what's called the he was via or is it coming from the
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  sewing? Right?
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  Is it from the because she's excited, you know, to be with
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  her husband or she's excited to get married to her husband?
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  It's right, It's Kaka Kaka. It's it seems, you know, we'll
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  see a bit a little, you know, there's a discussion back and
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  forth that what if she what if she never met him before?
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  And Peter said she would talk about the case but later, but
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  you know, she never met him before.
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  Peter, you. Know it was.
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  An arranged marriage and here you go.
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  He she sees him under the football like you know, you
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  know, she knew she knew she was that she was getting married
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  seven days before. But but if she but if she saw
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  but but the first time she saw him was under the hopes it's not
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  Camino. So if it's because of the suing,
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  so then Reina Khalami, she knows she's getting married in seven
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  days. If it was you know, if it was if
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  it was because of because of of you know, she's going to be with
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  him. So she never she never saw him
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  until now. So her then if she saw him by
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  the Hopa, that wouldn't work. She'd have to resign the game
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  like myself. I think we're Mako.
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  That. I think I think we're we say
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  it's Shibas and suing, but these are the two stars involved over
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  here, right, Whether that's actually.
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  A good thing. Or actually cause a problem.
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  No, No, but she saw. No, but she saw him before.
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  So once she gets close to the hopper, she's excited of people
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  because he was beer as it did. That's that's that's that's the
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  difference, you know? Yeah, you're right.
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  See. Not seen before, too.
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  As I look up with the baccora, the that minig is it's open time
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  and hug him and different things.
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  But Uncle Panim, it's not brought down.
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  Yeah. I don't know when.
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  I don't know when it started. I don't know what the end of the
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  question. I know what the baccora is.
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  You have to you have to look it up.
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  Uncle Panimy. If she's like a triosomic labios
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  mitzvah, the whole mother Ashar the trila should be as close as
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  possible as you. It's like the night before but a
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  minute Litville kala Lil Dali. There is a meaning to have for
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  the call to go on Wednesday night.
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  I hope he should show TiVo coda multi Shabbos.
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  Even if she's not going, she's not going to get married to a
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  multi Shabbos. There's a minute to do it on Lil
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  on the El dalid of a ain't la heartache katrilla mean
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  Abeliasimi said don't do more than a few days even though Tiva
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  will not see Shabbos. And if it doesn't happen, Yeshua
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  leaves like anthem. Behold, yo, Abios Vince.
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  So you could be marketing it a few days.
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  But if not, then she has to just do a Padika every day until
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  until they actually get married. Padaska, listen, we're not going
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  to be machmere on her and all these things that say she only
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  did the Padika once. Nervous Kala.
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  You know it can't be machmere on her.
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  You know, he'll just need it right before the Copa
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  everything, the whole, the whole Hassan Yisha Lakala, Konichi
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  Igaba in Sharma Shivan The Cave and the mamal says that every
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  every Hassan has to ask before we show Shivan The Cave.
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  Now the lights of the shark says we're not knowing that because
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  you know, the lights were so much on the fact that the
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  Shushini, it's occupus needa was so much on the Shushini and the
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  parents and and the side of Kadushin that they know what
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  they're doing. And that's not going to happen
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  because it's just going to go ahead.
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  And as it is, everyone's nervous or this or whatever.
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  Wait, did you? Not know again Gimel in Taco on
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  the suing Marcus Aziz Siba they had to go ahead and push off in
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  the sewing because of some Siba I will be she Yoshi when the key
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  and see if a lot for the issues. I in the key in the list full
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  now the see what we're talking about over here is not that is
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  not that there was a they're COVID or bombs falling or I just
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  I knew someone I know the story of.
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  Someone there was. A big earthquake in LA, but
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  while I'm 30 years ago I don't know whatever that that that
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  night they were there they're supposed to get married and the
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  whole city was in Chambles so the Mices are also we're still
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  going to go ahead and do it and so they made the.
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  Hastena. In this hall it was shattered
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  glass everywhere. The whole hall was like was was
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  shattered glass, things on the floor, everything like that.
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  And they did the they. Did they they?
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  They got they, you know, they, they, they, I think they got a.
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  Minion together. And and I know and they did the
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  and they did the and they did the, they did the, they did the
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  Hopa. Anyway, so it's not, it's not a
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  good thing to push it off here. We're talking about that.
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  There was a fight, there was a fight about the Nadunya, there's
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  a fight about the money. There was a fight.
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  They pushed it off, meaning they pushed it off indefinitely.
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  Like when we don't have a set date, we're not pushing out for
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  five days or push it off for a month.
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  We're not you know, they had a fight and they and they and they
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  and they went ahead and they broke the shadow, you know, and
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  then eventually they or whatever.
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  If she's bashful, last is in the sewing.
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  She should last the last relation of Zion.
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  The came leads. Well, because she's special also
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  is on the sewing right. She asked us to design the came
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  and of course to Trila when they from when they decide OK, we'll
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  we're going to we'll we'll do it in seven days.
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  I will be, Shabbatka asks. With Tommy beyond.
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  Let's say she really wanted it to happen, and she was.
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  Trying to They're trying to find the house in the house inside
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  the house's mother. I don't know whatever it is.
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  And and. She was doing Badika every
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  single day. Hello, Mahani.
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  It doesn't help because right now her the Souin is is up in
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  the air. So therefore, when they say, OK,
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  fine, we're going through with it.
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  She's inviter. She has she has hemood and
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  therefore it would be therefore it's going to be she's just as
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  in Zion Akim, right. So that's so that's that's a
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  general. Then I said very, pretty simple.
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  What what you know, Carla's, you know, they they came and they,
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  you know, and they go to the mitzvah and you know, things are
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  pretty, pretty straightforward Dalit Avar.
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  And if truth is here also, it's interesting.
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  Instead of the. For to have a the solid
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  condition. And.
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  They have they also they also have like 1 leader class for the
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  girls who are are firm. And and they they.
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  Also they also go to the mikvah so they do a bedika I guess.
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  I don't know exactly. I certainly tell teach them to
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  do a Bedika once and go to the. Mikvah and help that.
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  They continue on afterwards, but it's a, it is a, you know, it is
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  a, it is a requirement. I know there are some who
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  continue on afterwards. There are shiles again.
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  Rather not, yeah. Yeah, the stories.
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  Organically saliva the story of discussions.
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  About the. About non from women coming to
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  toville or the show up in Shabbos on a motorcycle.
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  He left in Toville, Yeah, one time.
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  There was all she showed up with that was a braid, a tight braid
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  on Chavez. They didn't know what to do.
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  Let her be typo little shout. These are shiles I've heard come
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  up, so they're interesting. Shiles right Sif Dalit over her
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  concert Turks about Zed. She was she went ahead and she
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  was cleanest. He was kind of servitors Von Zeb
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  Hassan, she Pierce, Carlos Anita or also the case of the Hassan
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  where right during the football, like during the wedding, she was
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  personally the closure baller afterwards.
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  Whatever, though, you see Academa.
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  So there's an issue and here the the the thing of you could over
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  here, yes, they're married. But the issue is, is that
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  there's such, there's such a, you know, kendo over here.
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  That's such a, you know, such a tiger that that, that we say
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  that the special dini you could be Hassan Kala.
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  That that there. Has to be no egg could be even
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  in some ways even more common more than there's even more
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  common than regular usually just.
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  You know, like. You know that they they, they,
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  they really feel they should sleep in separate houses.
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  Lamisa, Lamisa what, what, what they do is usually they have a
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  usually they have a shy mayor. They have a, you know, a boy and
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  a girl. They sleep in the same house.
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  Had a a friend told me that once.
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  Once him and his brother were, you know, when they were kids.
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  They were asked to you know, the, the, you know, the people
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  ask. Them like you.
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  Know they're like OK, go sleep in the hustle Hustle collars.
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  House, you know, whatever their kid, they didn't know what was.
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  Going on and they go to sleep yeah, they went to go to sleep,
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  he said. It was, it was really, it was a
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  bit odd. The customer of this room, the
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  collar was in this. Room.
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  She was being very, very nice. To them it was they, didn't
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  they? Until he actually.
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  Learned how to Sneed a young just you know.
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  Understood what, what the issue was.
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  But Uncle Bunny, they usually have two kids who are showing me
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  this like, you know, it's, it's all things that you know, it's a
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  bit embarrassing. So then the kids try to keep it
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  quiet, right? So.
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  They said they say usually. The Shmira has to be like as
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  much as possible. Like I said, you get into covet
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  agree what they call cover de brios, and so they're the place.
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  Generally they're more Mako like.
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  You know what's the, what's the the?
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  Cousin's stay of. Sleeping by his friends, you
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  know, Yeah. It's coveted brios.
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  So therefore, they're they're more they're more make the more
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  Mako on the on these things ago you showing me emails at the
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  hierarchy. And also some say she was tired
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  when they had the actual the sewer in the Copa Velo Bala and
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  he did not and he didn't consummate your piercing
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  neither. And it's because she more old,
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  some say because because of the fact that he didn't even though
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  he didn't finish, but they went through in the sewing.
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  So therefore she doesn't need any Shiva Makarova of Bracha.
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  However still she's Anita. And there's what to there's what
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  to discuss. And she was she was the whore,
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  but she didn't sit the shit in the can.
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  No, well, no, this is the case where she's Pierce.
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  Anita, this is Pierce. This is Pierce.
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  Anita. That you know that that that the
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  mice wasn't so the shots was what is he talking a little
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  about that? Why not?
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  So he's mentioned there's a minute that they that they
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  wouldn't that they wouldn't after the sue and they wouldn't
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  be a Schmitzer for three days. I don't understand that the
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  minute the shots says and they already sue him, but the mice of
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  that was a minute then then she was piercing either at that
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  time. So he said the Kharvana sort of
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  she more, but if but if they had Kirva, the point was if they had
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  Kirva together, they had bodily contact, they had the you know,
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  then then they're often we say, because as far as past Pasalo,
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  he knows that things the his his once once he once they had
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  contact, their their type of sort of goes down a bit and they
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  can, they can just, you know, they can, you know, the Shimur
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  could be this, you know, still problem.
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  You could they say could be it's enough to have them and the Pesa
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  pasua just you know, you have a you know, shouldn't have, you
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  know, regular you could. But you know, Uncle Ponni, you
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  know, Mark, I guess that's because the marker the the the
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  remote seems to pass in that the passing seems to say that that
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  some say you don't have any issue with Bachao.
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  They most of you could some say, you know, some often that
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  happens. That takes time for it can take
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  time for people for a custom call to work things out.
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  If she's piercing neither we say if they try, if they try and
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  there was you know, so there could be.
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  They don't need they don't need she more.
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  They're just enough that they, you know, piss a pasua, things
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  like that. They ain't the public.
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  Was that Bane Buck or La Alman or Basu Allah Mana doesn't make
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  a difference whether they were married before or not.
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  Yeah, there's still there's still a lot of he was BLEH.
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  I mean shall surly academia biochemova IVA something even be
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  only Chimo or the ants are clear Stay Shimiro is they don't need
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  2 Shimiro Khubi na shibo who'll be in a Nazi.
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  What you you know each one doesn't need to be watched
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  either she has to be be in an Ashim or one of them.
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  It should be It should be should have Shimiro.
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  You mean you shining becheter F had anything Shimer claw and the
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  vice is if they're not sleeping in one hey there, they don't
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  need humor at all Shyly is could she just lock?
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  There's a whole shot of a Euclid.
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  If a woman it's a Euclid. If a woman, you know, she
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  locked, she has a lock to the door and he can't open it is
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  that. Is there is.
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  There Euclid that translations make or the play scheme.
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  The relation said no way like it's a play scheme.
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  Whether that helps here, it could be a would help.
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  It could be made, it could be Makil because again, it's it's
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  the youth hood over here is is more in some ways it's more
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  Homer, but in some ways it's more it's more it's more Cal.
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  It's it's it's more lenient Asia.
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  I mean, the lilets are stay Shamira is beyond much of these.
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  Some say now you need 2 Shamiras both of them and during the day
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  the motoring, you could the minute leak a cotton into a
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  cotton into a kala. And the minute Lameisa like I
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  mentioned before that they they take a they take a cut to the
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  Tana brother and sister they can't find again.
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  They can't do any any Sherman but Lameisa.
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  The minute was to take a Cotton or Cortana.
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  The Ain. Made me see acting beyond below
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  cotton or Tana and I don't know during the day they they stay.
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  Oh, I don't know, Lameisa depends when she's not, when
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  she's going to make for or not, like, you know.
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  You know, when the you know, there was a group is neither
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  hey, Maksik Reshasa to relations achieve in the key of Maksik
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  Reshasa also has to sit there in the key.
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  You know, they were married before, but again, it's so here,
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  so here it's Araya that it's become this he was ensuing
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  because she already was you know, she was married to this
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  guy already, right? So he must be a be a bit of a
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  kiddish, like, OK, you know, they were married for 15 years,
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  you know, so, so here it's a bit of a riot that Papani remarked,
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  for he was ensuing as well. OK, we'll stop.