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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, everybody, and welcome back to my YouTube channel, or
- 0:02Speaker 1: welcome to my YouTube channel. I'm CallMeKris. You can call
- 0:05Speaker 1: me Kris, and we'll go back to the regular intro.
- 0:07Speaker 1: Happy National Love People Day. We just found out. We
- 0:10Speaker 1: just Googled it. And also, there's somebody beside me, and
- 0:13Speaker 1: it's my sister. Hi. I brought her to Texas just
- 0:15Speaker 1: for this video. I'm sending her right back up to
- 0:17Speaker 1: the state that she lives in that you can't know about,
- 0:19Speaker 1: because I know y'all are crazy. Just kidding. But yeah,
- 0:22Speaker 1: I got my whole fam jam down here. We're actually
- 0:24Speaker 1: going to see a couple other family members do some
- 0:26Speaker 1: Reddit stories with me. And that's also what we're doing.
- 0:28Speaker 1: We're doing MI, the Scallywag, Reddit stories because you guys
- 0:32Speaker 1: like those. And it's a little break from the true
- 0:34Speaker 1: crime deep dive that I've been doing a lot of.
- 0:35Speaker 1: You can speak also if you want. I just don't
- 0:38Speaker 1: want to interrupt. What's your name again?
- 0:41Speaker 2: Alyssa.
- 0:42Speaker 3: Hi.
- 0:42Speaker 1: Alyssa with an I, not with a Y. It actually
- 0:44Speaker 1: pissed me off when people spell that wrong. I don't
- 0:46Speaker 1: really care, but I'm glad that you are so passionate
- 0:49Speaker 1: about it. People spell my name wrong all the time.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Give the audience a compliment. Um, you look lovely. You
- 0:54Speaker 1: look like you.
- 0:58Speaker 1: I hate doing these. You look like. Let's make it
- 1:00Speaker 1: really specific. You look like. You look like you match
- 1:03Speaker 1: your socks in the morning. That's a good one. Yeah.
- 1:05Speaker 1: I did today. I don't usually. I've never seen her
- 1:08Speaker 1: wear matching socks. Yeah, I am. So I usually don't either.
- 1:11Speaker 1: All right. Well, let's read some Reddit stories. My whole
- 1:20Speaker 1: family also knows that I hate reading out loud. Hi,
- 1:22Speaker 1: this is Kelly White. For completely cutting off my wife
- 1:25Speaker 1: from all finances because she wouldn't stop ordering takeout me.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Honestly though, I'm really bad for it too. I am
- 1:31Speaker 1: 41 years old and a male. My wife is 39
- 1:34Speaker 1: years old and presumably a female. My wife doesn't work
- 1:37Speaker 1: due to a minor disability. It's not as if she
- 1:39Speaker 1: cannot work, but she complains of discomfort and exhaustion all
- 1:42Speaker 1: the time. I need to put my glasses on. You
- 1:44Speaker 1: got fingerprints all over those. Gather round because now it's
- 1:47Speaker 1: Chris reads screens. The discussion over her working basically ended
- 1:51Speaker 1: five years ago and I've completely given up the prospect
- 1:53Speaker 1: of her ever having a job again. I want to
- 1:55Speaker 1: know what her disability is. I hate when they don't
- 1:57Speaker 1: give you context. Seeing as she doesn't even come close
- 2:00Speaker 1: to qualifying for disability, what is it? And brings in
- 2:02Speaker 1: no income. We currently live entirely off my salary. I
- 2:05Speaker 1: do not mind financially supporting her, but my wife's spending
- 2:08Speaker 1: habits have gradually become more and more reckless. It began
- 2:11Speaker 1: with her ordering takeout twice a week, and then that
- 2:14Speaker 1: escalated into three times a week, and now she's ordering
- 2:17Speaker 1: takeout nearly every day. What's the takeout? I need more context, okay?
- 2:21Speaker 1: Is it McDonald's or is it like some bougie Chinese place,
- 2:25Speaker 1: you know?
- 2:25Speaker 5: That matters.
- 2:26Speaker 1: This is all despite our fridge being stocked constantly. I
- 2:30Speaker 1: do the shopping and make sure to keep our freezer
- 2:32Speaker 1: full of things she would only have to microwave. Okay.
- 2:35Speaker 1: Last month was particularly heavy for her. She spent $ 1, 176. Shit, bud,
- 2:39Speaker 1: I'm lucky I'm a YouTuber. Goddamn. On delivery apps alone
- 2:44Speaker 1: last month. That is crazy. That's a lot. It's a lot.
- 2:46Speaker 1: That's a lot. We cannot afford this. There were several
- 2:49Speaker 1: days that she ordered twice. I may have reacted harshly,
- 2:52Speaker 1: but on Friday, I pulled money out of our savings,
- 2:54Speaker 1: completely paid off the card, and then canceled it. I
- 2:57Speaker 1: then removed all the money from our joint account and
- 2:59Speaker 1: funneled it into my own account. Apparently my wife learned
- 3:01Speaker 1: this when she tried to order takeout. Oh shit. She
- 3:04Speaker 1: tried to call the company who explained the card had
- 3:06Speaker 1: been canceled. She texted me asking what had happened. And
- 3:09Speaker 1: I responded that she was cut off. You didn't talk
- 3:11Speaker 1: to her about it? Well, when I walked in the
- 3:13Speaker 1: door that evening, my wife was lying on the floor
- 3:16Speaker 1: dramatically saying that she had low blood sugar. I just
- 3:19Speaker 1: picture her just like... Like the blue person from that
- 3:25Speaker 1: thing where they're in their heads inside out. Oh, yeah. Oh, sadness.
- 3:28Speaker 1: I guess. I was thinking about Tina.
- 3:33Speaker 2: Oh, Tina.
- 3:34Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah. Yeah, Tina from Bob's Burgers.
- 3:37Speaker 4: Me.
- 3:39Speaker 1: Yeah, I have low blood sugar. I told her she
- 3:43Speaker 1: could eat any of the food we have in our
- 3:44Speaker 1: fridge or freezer. I also noticed that she took the
- 3:46Speaker 1: garbage out, probably for the first time in a decade.
- 3:49Speaker 1: I'm surprised she even knew where the outdoor bin was.
- 3:53Speaker 1: I can only assume she was disposing of the evidence
- 3:55Speaker 1: of what she ate, like already, that's fair. She was
- 3:58Speaker 1: pretending to have not eaten, but I honestly don't care
- 4:02Speaker 1: enough to dig through the garbage to find it. She
- 4:04Speaker 1: was furious at me all weekend. Was what I did
- 4:07Speaker 1: over the top. I literally am picturing her as literally
- 4:09Speaker 1: like Tina or you. Or just like, I just wanted
- 4:13Speaker 1: some Indian takeout. I just wanted butter chicken. Which like,
- 4:19Speaker 1: I feel that, but also, she's out of control. $ 1, 100
- 4:23Speaker 1: is crazy. That is crazy. Especially if it's just for yourself.
- 4:27Speaker 1: Which it is. I mean, she knows how to feast. Yeah.
- 4:31Speaker 1: The dad, the husband not discussing with her that he
- 4:34Speaker 1: was going to cut her off is a bit weird, too.
- 4:36Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 4:36Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure it's been a discussion. Like, being like,
- 4:38Speaker 1: why are you spending so much? We have food in
- 4:40Speaker 1: the fridge and freezer. But for him to, like, let
- 4:42Speaker 1: her find out that way, he was probably feeling a
- 4:43Speaker 1: little spiteful, I guess. But... You think? I doubt you
- 4:46Speaker 1: even know where the garbage is. He was lost, baby.
- 4:49Speaker 1: In a decade. That's crazy. I mean, I know it's
- 4:51Speaker 1: very one-sided, because OP is the one writing this. But, like,
- 4:55Speaker 1: it sounds like... You can hear some undertones of resentment there,
- 4:58Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah. And, like, she has a disability that's
- 5:02Speaker 1: not really a disability, supposedly. And she doesn't work because
- 5:06Speaker 1: of it. And she complains constantly. And she orders food
- 5:09Speaker 1: off of his money all the time. Like, I get
- 5:11Speaker 1: where that's coming from. But it's also, like, your wife's.
- 5:13Speaker 1: It's not like you're her child. So, maybe go to
- 5:16Speaker 1: a counselor and discuss finances. Context would help. It would
- 5:18Speaker 1: help me more. So, the whole thing is, is he
- 5:20Speaker 1: the asshole for cutting her off?
- 5:21Speaker 3: I think he's the asshole for not discussing it with her,
- 5:23Speaker 3: but I understand where he's coming from. It's like small
- 5:25Speaker 3: asshole for not discussing that, I guess. But also, I
- 5:28Speaker 3: see where you're coming from. I'm interested to see what
- 5:30Speaker 3: people say. Not the asshole.
- 5:33Speaker 1: $ 1, 176 on takeout? That's a half of months of wages
- 5:35Speaker 1: for me. Yeah, it's like, that's crazy.
- 5:37Speaker 3: That's a lot.
- 5:38Speaker 1: No, this needs to stop. And the manipulation with the
- 5:39Speaker 1: blood sugar thing is beyond overdramatic. Yeah, I don't know why,
- 5:41Speaker 1: but I just, I feel like that is, like, it
- 5:44Speaker 1: was crazy. I'm wondering if he saved money long-term to
- 5:46Speaker 1: divorce her. Damn. Damn.
- 5:47Speaker 2: People are brutal.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Finances are the number one cause for divorce in the U.S.,
- 5:51Speaker 1: you know?
- 5:52Speaker 2: They are.
- 5:52Speaker 1: It's sad. Yeah, if nothing changes, he should definitely divorce her. Yeah,
- 5:56Speaker 1: it's kind of crazy. Like, she really is, like, spending
- 5:58Speaker 1: a shitload of money and just not compromising in any way. Like,
- 6:02Speaker 1: he's buying her food. It's not like... I would understand
- 6:05Speaker 1: if there was no food in the fridge or freezer.
- 6:07Speaker 1: Then it's like, okay, well, then that makes sense. But...
- 6:10Speaker 1: There's really no excuse. I think she just really likes
- 6:12Speaker 1: to take out. I think she loves the drama. Yeah,
- 6:15Speaker 1: she's the queen of drama and she's the queen of
- 6:17Speaker 1: being an asshole. Next, I guess I can get mom
- 6:19Speaker 1: in here or somebody else. Okay, say bye to Alyssa.
- 6:21Speaker 2: Bye, Alyssa.
- 6:22Speaker 1: Thank you for everything. Thank you for your opinions. Yep.
- 6:25Speaker 1: Even though I probably talked way more. That's okay. By accident.
- 6:28Speaker 3: Sorry.
- 6:28Speaker 1: Next up is mom. Mom's here. I dragged her down
- 6:33Speaker 1: to Texas.
- 6:34Speaker 2: Where am I looking?
- 6:35Speaker 3: Anywhere.
- 6:35Speaker 1: This is your main camera. Anyway. We're reading Reddit. You
- 6:38Speaker 1: don't have the wrong headphones. I'm just making sure the
- 6:40Speaker 1: sound works. Reading Am I the Skellywags. It would look
- 6:44Speaker 1: cool though. Would you like headphones?
- 6:46Speaker 2: Sure.
- 6:47Speaker 1: Are you okay? There. Good. Can you hear yourself? Live
- 6:52Speaker 1: from New York, it's Saturday night! Am I the scallywag
- 6:56Speaker 1: for day drinking when being forced to babysit against my will? Yes. Probably,
- 7:00Speaker 1: but we'll give you the benefit of the doubt. My stepsister, Jamie, 27,
- 7:04Speaker 1: has two kids. She brings them with her when she
- 7:07Speaker 1: visits her mom. I, 19, live with my dad and stepmom.
- 7:10Speaker 1: I'm working to save money before I go to university
- 7:12Speaker 1: next fall. What are you- what?
- 7:13Speaker 3: Nothing?
- 7:14Speaker 4: Oh.
- 7:15Speaker 1: I have a full job during the week and I
- 7:17Speaker 1: work as a beer tub girl on the weekends. What
- 7:19Speaker 1: the hell is that?
- 7:20Speaker 2: I don't think it matters to the story.
- 7:21Speaker 1: When Jamie comes over on Sunday, she sometimes leaves her
- 7:24Speaker 1: kids at my house and her and her mom go out.
- 7:26Speaker 1: I've tried complaining, but I am told to do it
- 7:29Speaker 1: because we are family. Okay, so she doesn't get paid
- 7:32Speaker 1: for it, I guess. My dad doesn't help and I'm
- 7:34Speaker 1: stuck with two kids I don't like for hours. Whatever.
- 7:37Speaker 1: I am now introducing them to Supernatural and having a
- 7:40Speaker 1: few drinks while I watch Supernatural. For those of you
- 7:42Speaker 1: who don't know, it's like a ghost hunting show, basically.
- 7:45Speaker 1: Like a scripted ghost hunting show. Probably. How old are
- 7:48Speaker 1: the kids, though? We don't know. Do we not know? No,
- 7:49Speaker 1: it doesn't say. Interesting. That would be good as well
- 7:52Speaker 1: to know. But I don't get sloppy drunk or anything.
- 7:55Speaker 1: And I don't have a bad car, so it's not
- 7:57Speaker 1: like I would drive drunk in case of emergency. And
- 8:00Speaker 1: I don't have bad car. What does that even mean?
- 8:02Speaker 2: She doesn't have a bad car.
- 8:03Speaker 1: If everything goes up, I will call 911. Today, Jamie
- 8:07Speaker 1: and my stepmom came home and found us watching Sam
- 8:10Speaker 1: and Dean deal with stuff while I had a few drinks.
- 8:13Speaker 1: I got yelled at for drinking while babysitting. I said
- 8:16Speaker 1: I was not babysitting because sitters get paid.
- 8:18Speaker 2: I was doing.
- 8:20Speaker 1: A favor for family. And as a favor, I would
- 8:22Speaker 1: do it my way. Damn. They think I'm the asshole
- 8:25Speaker 1: for not devoting all my attention to the kids. I
- 8:28Speaker 1: think I should be asked and paid or left alone.
- 8:31Speaker 1: My dad is on my side, but he said I
- 8:33Speaker 1: should have been more responsible. Well, her dad's right. I
- 8:36Speaker 1: like how she left her name. Oh, oh, I thought,
- 8:38Speaker 1: oh my God. not her name it was like eta
- 8:41Speaker 1: but it says am i the asshole i said she
- 8:43Speaker 1: signed it with her name i'm like you dumb bitch
- 8:45Speaker 1: this is supposed to be an office.
- 8:47Speaker 2: Um okay that's crazy her dad's right her dad's on
- 8:51Speaker 2: her side but he said that she should have been
- 8:52Speaker 2: more responsible i've been in this situation not with you
- 8:55Speaker 2: i'm with my i have a stepmom we know i
- 8:57Speaker 2: have a stepmom that has left me with her own
- 8:59Speaker 2: children while she went off and drank i did not
- 9:01Speaker 2: drink though Stop pointing at me.
- 9:03Speaker 1: No, you're not the stepmom. She's my biological mother. She's
- 9:07Speaker 1: not part of this. But anyway, I've been in this situation.
- 9:09Speaker 1: I didn't drink, though. But stepmom went out to party.
- 9:11Speaker 1: So it was, like, different. But I was like, I
- 9:13Speaker 1: didn't expect to get paid, though, because it is my family.
- 9:16Speaker 1: And I also, they're my siblings. So I'm just like.
- 9:19Speaker 1: And you would not be drinking while you had to
- 9:20Speaker 1: care of them. And also, I was probably around the
- 9:22Speaker 1: same age. And I think it's just a maturity level. Like, just, like,
- 9:27Speaker 1: those are kids and they're innocent kids, regardless if you
- 9:29Speaker 1: like them or not.
- 9:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 9:30Speaker 1: So just, like, don't be a d * * *.
- 9:32Speaker 1: And it has nothing to do with them. So don't drink.
- 9:35Speaker 1: That's what drives me nuts. Like you're just mad at
- 9:36Speaker 1: the parents for leaving them. So don't punish, don't punish
- 9:40Speaker 1: the kids for that. Take it up with them. Don't
- 9:42Speaker 1: put the kids in danger. Cause you are.
- 9:43Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. Yeah. There's no question.
- 9:46Speaker 1: I mean, there's a few drinks, like I'm sure it's whatever.
- 9:48Speaker 1: I mean, you're 19. So that's ridiculous. There's like having
- 9:50Speaker 1: a beer and then there's having like three or four. Yeah.
- 9:53Speaker 4: No.
- 9:53Speaker 1: I mean, you have kids, you had kids, you drank
- 9:55Speaker 1: around us, but it's not.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Like, yeah, no, but I mean, you can't, you can't
- 9:59Speaker 2: be like, day drinking while you're babysitting yeah no yeah
- 10:03Speaker 2: that seems weird she just needs to head on address
- 10:06Speaker 2: the issue with with the family yeah or i mean
- 10:09Speaker 2: she knows it's every sunday so maybe just check.
- 10:12Speaker 1: Also yeah plan for that get some friends get out
- 10:16Speaker 1: of the house don't even get friends go to the
- 10:17Speaker 1: mall or something yeah this seems like it.
- 10:19Speaker 2: Could be avoided i mean she says she's tried complaining
- 10:22Speaker 2: but i mean clearly the message isn't getting.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Across yeah and i mean maybe the parents are kind
- 10:26Speaker 1: of like dipshits too I mean, they shouldn't just like
- 10:29Speaker 1: be plopping their kids on you. That's not fair. Because again,
- 10:32Speaker 1: like I understand, like I've been in that situation where
- 10:34Speaker 1: you're like, um, hello, like I have a life. I'm
- 10:37Speaker 1: not a built in babysitter.
- 10:38Speaker 2: The other thing is her dad needs to be stepping in.
- 10:40Speaker 2: I mean, this is his home as well.
- 10:42Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely. He's the one that's in charge. He's a
- 10:44Speaker 1: full on adult. Yeah.
- 10:46Speaker 2: He's in charge.
- 10:47Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah. This is his home.
- 10:49Speaker 2: So he should be saying this isn't happening anymore.
- 10:51Speaker 1: Yeah, he needs to grow a pair. He needs to
- 10:53Speaker 1: grow a pair. 100%. You need to be more responsible
- 10:55Speaker 1: while watching children because that's ridiculous.
- 10:58Speaker 2: There's a lot of assholes here, actually. The dad's an
- 11:00Speaker 2: asshole for not taking charge and saying, sorry, new wife.
- 11:03Speaker 2: Or maybe not new, but stepmom.
- 11:05Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 11:06Speaker 2: You can't do this with your daughter.
- 11:08Speaker 1: My daughter's not.
- 11:09Speaker 3: No.
- 11:09Speaker 1: An employee of yours.
- 11:11Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 11:11Speaker 1: Yeah. But the whole thing is, am I the asshole
- 11:14Speaker 1: for day drinking? Yes.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Yes, you are.
- 11:16Speaker 6: Yes, you are.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Is it fair that you get the kids bopped on you? No.
- 11:19Speaker 2: But everybody's an asshole here. Jamie with the kids is
- 11:22Speaker 2: the asshole.
- 11:22Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 11:23Speaker 1: The dad's the asshole.
- 11:24Speaker 2: The stepmom's the asshole.
- 11:25Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 11:26Speaker 2: And you cannot be drinking.
- 11:27Speaker 1: While caring for children. People are saying, not the asshole,
- 11:29Speaker 1: but leave as soon as she gets. Well, that's what
- 11:31Speaker 1: I did say, too. Leave as soon as she and
- 11:33Speaker 1: the kids get there. You know, it's Sunday. Yeah, exactly.
- 11:35Speaker 2: Exactly.
- 11:35Speaker 1: Or like, you know, like having a few drinks.
- 11:37Speaker 2: Go to a friend's house, sit in the park and hide.
- 11:39Speaker 1: Yeah, like anything.
- 11:40Speaker 2: And also, nobody's addressing the dad or the stepmom. That's interesting.
- 11:44Speaker 1: Like, they're not holding them accountable. No. You shouldn't be
- 11:47Speaker 1: forced to babysit in the first place, especially without being
- 11:50Speaker 1: asked or questioned. or compensated i don't.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Think you need to be compensated as a family member.
- 11:53Speaker 1: Ridiculous people are so entitled nowadays yeah it's just like
- 11:56Speaker 1: that's just the shit you never paid me to watch
- 11:59Speaker 1: my siblings no and i was like it's fine it's
- 12:01Speaker 1: just something you do like part of being a family
- 12:04Speaker 1: member it is what it is i never got paid
- 12:06Speaker 1: for watching my half siblings either i don't know i
- 12:08Speaker 1: kind of want to fight with the comments right now
- 12:10Speaker 1: i think tell them you will get drunk every time
- 12:12Speaker 1: they abandon her children.
- 12:13Speaker 2: With you what And that you'll watch horror movies.
- 12:17Speaker 1: I mean, she pretty much was. She was watching Supernatural
- 12:19Speaker 1: and getting drunk. I also don't know how old the
- 12:21Speaker 1: kids are. Are they 13 and 15? Are they 5
- 12:24Speaker 1: and 3?
- 12:24Speaker 2: I'm presuming not because she's 27, the stepsister.
- 12:28Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 12:29Speaker 2: So I would think the oldest that they are is 7.
- 12:32Speaker 1: Yeah, so like they.
- 12:33Speaker 2: Shouldn't... So no.
- 12:33Speaker 1: I don't know. Just hard no. Not at that age.
- 12:36Speaker 1: That's stupid. That is stupid. They're not young teenagers. I mean,
- 12:39Speaker 1: I don't like the parents for dropping the kids on
- 12:41Speaker 1: this person. But also, just being a good human being.
- 12:44Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 12:44Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 12:44Speaker 1: I'm getting really frustrated right now. I think we've identified
- 12:47Speaker 1: the fact that they're all assholes. Everybody just thinks mostly
- 12:50Speaker 1: that the stepmom's the asshole, which I agree with. Yes.
- 12:52Speaker 1: I do agree with that. But then the dad needs
- 12:54Speaker 1: to grow a sack. It goes stepmom, dad, and then kid,
- 12:57Speaker 1: because the parents should be smarter than that.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Well, the kids aren't the assholes.
- 13:01Speaker 1: No, no, no. The 27-year-old.
- 13:03Speaker 4: Oh, sorry.
- 13:03Speaker 1: No, the kids suck. Pretty much everyone. Yeah, everyone's the asshole. Okay.
- 13:08Speaker 1: This is juicy. You can read this one.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Am I the scallywag for getting a married woman pregnant
- 13:15Speaker 2: and not telling her husband? That's f * * *
- 13:17Speaker 2: ed up. I, male 19, have been seeing this woman,
- 13:20Speaker 2: female 36, for a few months now.
- 13:23Speaker 1: What? Wait, I just did that in my head.
- 13:26Speaker 4: What?
- 13:26Speaker 1: That's almost a crime.
- 13:27Speaker 2: A little cougar action. She's married with three kids, a
- 13:32Speaker 2: 17-year-old son, a 15-year-old twin daughters. It started out as
- 13:35Speaker 2: a fling, but things got serious quickly. She told me
- 13:38Speaker 2: she was in a rough patch with her husband, but
- 13:40Speaker 2: I didn't expect things to go as far as they did. Recently,
- 13:42Speaker 2: she found out she's pregnant, and it's mine.
- 13:45Speaker 1: Is it, though?
- 13:46Speaker 2: No. Anyway, she's pretty sure of that because her and
- 13:49Speaker 2: her husband haven't been intimate in a long time.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Okay.
- 13:52Speaker 2: Instead of coming clean to her husband, she's decided that
- 13:54Speaker 2: she's just going to raise the baby as his own
- 13:56Speaker 2: by sleeping with him for a month or two and
- 13:59Speaker 2: claims it's his. And she doesn't plan on telling him
- 14:02Speaker 2: the truth. She says he'll just assume it's his and
- 14:05Speaker 2: it'll be easier for everyone this way. Part of me
- 14:07Speaker 2: feels guilty for being involved in this at all, but
- 14:09Speaker 2: another part of me wonders if it's my responsibility to
- 14:12Speaker 2: say something. The idea of someone else raising my kid
- 14:16Speaker 2: without knowing the truth doesn't sit right with me. Do
- 14:18Speaker 2: you think? But if I come forward, I could blow
- 14:20Speaker 2: up her whole family and cause chaos for her kids. Well,
- 14:23Speaker 2: you weren't thinking about the kids before, were you? I
- 14:25Speaker 2: don't know if I should let her handle things her
- 14:28Speaker 2: way or if I should come clean to her husband.
- 14:31Speaker 1: That kid is half yours. Am I the.
- 14:34Speaker 2: Scallywag for even considering telling him?
- 14:37Speaker 1: No, that kid is half yours. And she's an adult.
- 14:39Speaker 1: And she.
- 14:40Speaker 2: is having relations with basically a child. The question here
- 14:45Speaker 2: is about whether he tells him. Like, should he be
- 14:49Speaker 2: telling him or not?
- 14:50Speaker 1: It's his kid. And she's about to lie to the husband.
- 14:53Speaker 2: It's also for the husband's benefit to know the truth. Yes,
- 14:56Speaker 2: of course.
- 14:57Speaker 1: Everybody benefits from it. Everybody benefits from the truth. The
- 15:00Speaker 1: husband will find out. What if the husband finds out
- 15:02Speaker 1: 10 years after the kid's born that it's not his?
- 15:04Speaker 1: That's not fair. That'll just ruin the family anyway. And
- 15:06Speaker 1: then that kid's life is ruined. And your life is
- 15:08Speaker 1: ruined because you have no relationship with that kid. Her
- 15:10Speaker 1: life is going to be ruined. And the other kid's...
- 15:12Speaker 1: It's just... You just, you know what?
- 15:13Speaker 2: You're delaying, by not telling the truth, you're just delaying
- 15:17Speaker 2: further chaos. You're delaying further chaos. This is so messed up, though.
- 15:21Speaker 2: A 19-year-old with a 36-year-old. Yeah, so deal with it now.
- 15:25Speaker 1: Choose your heart.
- 15:26Speaker 2: Choose your heart. If you made the decision to have
- 15:28Speaker 2: those relations with her, then you need to... stand up
- 15:31Speaker 2: and make the decisions to be truthful about.
- 15:34Speaker 1: The whole scenario that's crazy if it was like you
- 15:36Speaker 1: didn't want that kid and you're like oh you tell him.
- 15:39Speaker 6: That it's his kid and that was i think i
- 15:41Speaker 6: think what he does is i think what he should
- 15:43Speaker 6: do is is perhaps give her the opportunity of course
- 15:46Speaker 6: to say listen this is your husband this is your
- 15:49Speaker 6: relationship yeah however if you don't yeah then i will
- 15:53Speaker 6: have to step in and do that i'll give.
- 15:55Speaker 1: You she's been lying to him i guarantee she's been
- 15:57Speaker 1: lying to you about like maybe not being intimate or
- 15:59Speaker 1: or being roughly she's still married things aren't rough if
- 16:03Speaker 1: things are rough they're not together anymore yeah yeah but
- 16:06Speaker 1: you're absolutely right christina i would say that yeah she's
- 16:09Speaker 1: been lying to him as well so you just got
- 16:11Speaker 1: to be honest honesty is just the best way to go.
- 16:13Speaker 2: Honesty is the best policy yeah and and so if
- 16:17Speaker 2: you've been lying for a while the sooner you tell
- 16:19Speaker 2: the truth the sooner it gets better yeah even if
- 16:22Speaker 2: it's ripping off a.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Bad truth will set you free It's true. It's true.
- 16:26Speaker 1: I was trying to think of a lie that I
- 16:28Speaker 1: told you when I was a kid to tell you
- 16:29Speaker 1: the truth right now, but I can't think of one.
- 16:31Speaker 2: There's a few. How about lying about forging my signature
- 16:34Speaker 2: for a full year?
- 16:35Speaker 1: No, I'm talking about stuff you don't know yet. Oh,
- 16:37Speaker 1: I see. I was a child, by the way.
- 16:38Speaker 2: You were old enough to know better.
- 16:39Speaker 1: I had a business. I made money on the side
- 16:41Speaker 1: by forging their parents' signatures.
- 16:43Speaker 2: What about having a social media account? What about having
- 16:46Speaker 2: a social media account?
- 16:47Speaker 1: I had a Facebook account I wasn't allowed to have.
- 16:48Speaker 1: What else did I do?
- 16:49Speaker 2: Something that I didn't know about, like I still don't
- 16:51Speaker 2: know about, now you're going to tell me?
- 16:52Speaker 1: I'm trying to set myself free. There was, like, plenty
- 16:55Speaker 1: of times I snuck out of the house that you
- 16:56Speaker 1: didn't know about. Still here.
- 16:57Speaker 2: You are.
- 16:59Speaker 1: Well done.
- 17:00Speaker 2: To who?
- 17:00Speaker 3: Me.
- 17:00Speaker 1: To you? Probably a lot.
- 17:01Speaker 4: Yep.
- 17:02Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 17:02Speaker 2: Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, name it.
- 17:05Speaker 1: I mean, in real life.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Gosh, I mean, it's probably a laundry list of things.
- 17:10Speaker 1: Probably. Quiet lies. We'll bring Jessica in next. Thanks, Mom.
- 17:13Speaker 2: Okay.
- 17:14Speaker 3: Thanks, Mom.
- 17:15Speaker 1: Next up is Jessica. I dragged her down here, too,
- 17:18Speaker 1: against her will and her baby. Her baby, George. She's
- 17:23Speaker 1: almost one now.
- 17:23Speaker 4: I know.
- 17:25Speaker 1: I'm going to cry. I'm going to cry on his
- 17:27Speaker 1: first birthday. Yeah, I know. I'm sad I won't see
- 17:29Speaker 1: him on his birthday.
- 17:30Speaker 4: I know.
- 17:30Speaker 1: But I'm seeing him now, so it's okay.
- 17:32Speaker 5: It's fine. It all works out.
- 17:33Speaker 1: If you want to hear your own voice, you can
- 17:34Speaker 1: put your headphones on.
- 17:36Speaker 4: Oh.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Ooh, I look cool, too.
- 17:37Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 17:38Speaker 1: I look professional.
- 17:40Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 17:40Speaker 1: So we were reading Am I the Scallywags? Now we're
- 17:42Speaker 1: reading a couple Am I the Devils? With the devil herself.
- 17:45Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. You're like the good juxtaposition because you're
- 17:47Speaker 1: like angel. Thanks. Am I the Scallywag for charging my
- 17:50Speaker 1: son's girlfriend? Maid money. I used to be a maid.
- 17:53Speaker 1: So maybe I'll have some insight. So did you for
- 17:55Speaker 1: a minute? For a minute. Wasn't really good. My son
- 17:57Speaker 1: is 17 and his girlfriend is 18. Cradle robber. Just kidding.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Her relationship with her parents is difficult and she has
- 18:03Speaker 1: moved in with us. She spent all of her time
- 18:05Speaker 1: here while she spent all of her time here for
- 18:08Speaker 1: a while before my son officially asked if she could
- 18:10Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago and I allowed it to
- 18:12Speaker 1: move in, I guess. I've been on the fence about it. Yeah, that's,
- 18:15Speaker 1: but I understand her situation. Difficult. Okay. Fair enough. Now
- 18:18Speaker 1: I don't hate this girl. She's perfectly polite and she
- 18:22Speaker 1: keeps her things tidy. However, she doesn't really help around
- 18:25Speaker 1: the house. I have two daughters in addition to my
- 18:27Speaker 1: son and they both help with house chores. They help
- 18:30Speaker 1: me out with cooking, do the dishes at the table, sweep,
- 18:32Speaker 1: et cetera. My son's girlfriend has just not done that.
- 18:35Speaker 1: I asked that she helps out with the chores and
- 18:37Speaker 1: once she settled in, so two or three days after
- 18:40Speaker 1: she officially moved in, and she's just cleaned the things
- 18:43Speaker 1: she leaves, basically. Okay, cleans up after herself. At least
- 18:46Speaker 1: she does that. She does her own dishes and makes
- 18:49Speaker 1: sure not to leave a mess, but it's still not helping, really.
- 18:52Speaker 1: I told her that we do a rotation for dishwashing,
- 18:55Speaker 1: for example, and she said, Oh, you don't need to
- 18:58Speaker 1: do my dishes. I tried to be polite, but earlier
- 19:00Speaker 1: today I finally told her that she needed to actually
- 19:03Speaker 1: pull her weight and there's more to house chores and
- 19:06Speaker 1: that not leaving your things spilled all over. I told
- 19:11Speaker 1: her that I expected her to help out tomorrow when
- 19:13Speaker 1: we were doing the full house cleaning. Sounds like our childhood.
- 19:17Speaker 1: We all had like specific chores to do. She didn't
- 19:19Speaker 1: agree like I expected.
- 19:20Speaker 2: Interesting.
- 19:21Speaker 1: But asked if my son would be participating. I told
- 19:24Speaker 1: her that no, she's staying in school for practice late
- 19:27Speaker 1: and will be done by the time that he gets
- 19:29Speaker 1: home or that he, sorry, he's staying in school. Okay,
- 19:32Speaker 1: so he's opted out of chores. She said that she
- 19:35Speaker 1: had things to do after school too and asked to
- 19:38Speaker 1: help in a different way. We always clean on Mondays
- 19:41Speaker 1: and I'm not changing that for some girl my son
- 19:43Speaker 1: is dating. I told her as such. She didn't tell
- 19:46Speaker 1: me what she was busy with, but she's been here
- 19:48Speaker 1: early the past two weeks. Mondays, so I'm sure she
- 19:51Speaker 1: can move whatever she needs to do. This sounds like
- 19:54Speaker 1: a lot of bad stuff. Finally, I told her that
- 19:55Speaker 1: it's fine that she doesn't want to help out, but
- 19:58Speaker 1: that she will have to pay a maid fee. There's
- 20:02Speaker 1: the maid fee. as my daughters and i are not
- 20:05Speaker 1: just cleaning for free when she lives here too she
- 20:08Speaker 1: didn't say anything afterwards but my son got pretty mad
- 20:11Speaker 1: about it when he found out i don't think it's
- 20:13Speaker 1: completely unreasonable she doesn't want to clean fine but she'll
- 20:16Speaker 1: pay for the cleaning service we provide that's so strange
- 20:21Speaker 1: this is a very strange situation i lived with my
- 20:23Speaker 1: in-laws okay she's like Let me cook, bitch.
- 20:26Speaker 4: I would help with cooking. I was like sous chef.
- 20:29Speaker 4: I'd help with cooking, setting the table, cleaning. We had
- 20:31Speaker 4: our own separate space. So I would just make sure
- 20:34Speaker 4: that separate space was always vacuumed, bathroom tight.
- 20:37Speaker 5: Yes.
- 20:38Speaker 1: You weren't cleaning the whole house like where they lived. No.
- 20:41Speaker 5: Yeah. But, and like I would help out in other ways.
- 20:45Speaker 1: Right.
- 20:45Speaker 4: I feel like this girl should kind of, they both
- 20:48Speaker 4: need to meet each other in the middle of this.
- 20:50Speaker 4: Because she shouldn't just be like, I'm only doing my stuff.
- 20:53Speaker 2: That's it.
- 20:54Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 20:54Speaker 1: And she, and then.
- 20:56Speaker 5: This mom being like, we only clean on Mondays.
- 20:58Speaker 1: Okay.
- 20:59Speaker 4: Well, can you be a little bit flexible with that?
- 21:01Speaker 4: And like, you don't know what she has on Mondays.
- 21:04Speaker 4: Maybe she can't move it.
- 21:05Speaker 1: If I was a son, I'd be like, uh, mom,
- 21:07Speaker 1: what the heck? You only need to chill. And also
- 21:09Speaker 1: it's probably really uncomfortable for the girl to be in
- 21:11Speaker 1: somebody else's house and then it'd be expected to like scrub.
- 21:15Speaker 1: the dad's toilet or something. I don't know. It's just strange.
- 21:19Speaker 1: I am fully for helping out if you live somewhere.
- 21:21Speaker 1: I would always ask. I'd be like, can I do that?
- 21:23Speaker 1: Can I do the dishes?
- 21:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 21:25Speaker 1: So for her to be like, oh, you guys don't
- 21:27Speaker 1: need to do my dishes is weird. I think she
- 21:28Speaker 1: should be like helping out. That's weird. With that stuff.
- 21:31Speaker 1: But the whole like, we do all the chores in
- 21:32Speaker 1: my life. Like it's just a lot. It's stupid. So wait.
- 21:37Speaker 1: And it's not like she's leaving a giant mess everywhere.
- 21:39Speaker 1: I thought it was going to go that way. Like
- 21:40Speaker 1: she's like a pig, but it sounds like she's not.
- 21:43Speaker 4: I think you're just talking about like, oh, she.
- 21:45Speaker 1: Walks on the floor that I have to clean. And
- 21:47Speaker 1: you want to charge her a maid fee for you
- 21:50Speaker 1: guys cleaning your own house. That's crazy. And it's not
- 21:54Speaker 1: like you're cleaning up after her.
- 21:55Speaker 4: What if it was just her son, but a buddy
- 22:02Speaker 4: had to move in?
- 22:03Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 22:03Speaker 5: Would you be asking the buddy to do that?
- 22:05Speaker 1: Probably not.
- 22:06Speaker 5: I feel like you're just asking the girl to do that.
- 22:08Speaker 1: I mean, maybe.
- 22:09Speaker 5: Because you have that... weird thing with your son yeah
- 22:11Speaker 5: just saying.
- 22:12Speaker 1: You sound like you don't like her at all and
- 22:14Speaker 1: it's also a weird situation they're 17 and 18 i
- 22:16Speaker 1: couldn't even imagine that situation i wasn't that young but
- 22:19Speaker 1: no you weren't that young and that's like a whole
- 22:21Speaker 1: other thing they're literally children still so it's just strange
- 22:24Speaker 1: weird and i don't know what her situation is like
- 22:26Speaker 1: because she she said she was in a really bad
- 22:28Speaker 1: like yeah or a difficult situation.
- 22:31Speaker 5: You're not making it any easier, lady.
- 22:32Speaker 1: Yeah, so like, I don't know what that is. I
- 22:34Speaker 1: would love some context, but it sounds like you're being
- 22:36Speaker 1: a little bit unreasonable. It is a mind-numbingly obvious from
- 22:39Speaker 1: the tone of this post that if you were hosting
- 22:41Speaker 1: your son's male friend, you wouldn't have the so-called chores
- 22:45Speaker 1: conversation at all. You called it. Bet you wouldn't let
- 22:48Speaker 1: him lift him. finger. That your daughters are conscripted into
- 22:53Speaker 1: household labor while your son gets off. That's true. That's
- 22:56Speaker 1: true too.
- 22:57Speaker 5: He has school and extracurriculars. You got to make sure
- 23:01Speaker 5: that I do that with my boy.
- 23:02Speaker 1: Yeah, I will. I don't get the feeling she's in
- 23:05Speaker 1: your house because she wants to be. She's almost certainly
- 23:07Speaker 1: in your house because she's unsafe in her own. Yeah,
- 23:09Speaker 1: because she can't be in her own house. That was clear.
- 23:11Speaker 1: And I think you should consider what sort of straits
- 23:14Speaker 1: she's in such as her teenage boyfriend was the only
- 23:17Speaker 1: person able to offer her a place to go yes
- 23:20Speaker 1: everybody's saying yes you're the asshole for really expecting girls
- 23:22Speaker 1: to help yeah this comes to like a sexism kind
- 23:24Speaker 1: of thing yeah that's so true she didn't agree like
- 23:28Speaker 1: expected but asked if if my son would be participating.
- 23:31Speaker 2: Oh yeah. That's just, yeah.
- 23:32Speaker 1: So she caught onto it. Yeah. Yeah. She caught onto it.
- 23:34Speaker 1: She's like, is he going to be doing something? Yeah.
- 23:37Speaker 1: I was in a past relationship like this, uh, where
- 23:39Speaker 1: he didn't really have to do anything. And the mom
- 23:41Speaker 1: was just like, no, I'll do it. I'll do everything
- 23:44Speaker 1: for them. I just think that's not healthy. Make your
- 23:47Speaker 1: sons do some chores and cook because we get left
- 23:50Speaker 1: with those leftovers. The women coming.
- 23:52Speaker 5: Up as mothers to train.
- 23:54Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 23:54Speaker 1: Train your sons to be useful. How about that? Yeah.
- 23:58Speaker 1: Outside of male things. Train them how to fold socks, dude. Yeah.
- 24:03Speaker 1: My current... Caleb, fantastic at all those things. I can't
- 24:06Speaker 1: cook very well. I would, but he's much better. So,
- 24:09Speaker 1: thankful for that.
- 24:10Speaker 5: See, I know my husband is capable of all that.
- 24:12Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
- 24:12Speaker 5: His mother taught him well.
- 24:13Speaker 1: Yeah. But there is some... Why do we need to
- 24:17Speaker 1: have it clean? Yeah.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Because.
- 24:19Speaker 5: Because my mind is scattered. Because.
- 24:21Speaker 1: And I need this house clean.
- 24:23Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 24:23Speaker 1: You're a bitch. Or you're an asshole. I'm sorry. You're
- 24:26Speaker 1: a scallywag. Yeah. Beep boop beep boop. Stupid. Yeah. You're
- 24:28Speaker 1: dumb and stupid. I get so impatient by the end
- 24:30Speaker 1: of these videos where I'm just like, everyone's all like,
- 24:32Speaker 1: you're a bitch. I hate you. You started with who? Alyssa?
- 24:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 24:35Speaker 1: And I was like, well, I'm a devil's advocate.
- 24:38Speaker 5: And I'm just like, you're done.
- 24:41Speaker 1: You're done and I'm sleep deprived. But anyway, that's it. Nice.
- 24:44Speaker 1: I hear my kid. If you could hear a baby crying,
- 24:45Speaker 1: it's her baby. And he's fine. He's with auntie and grandma.
- 24:47Speaker 1: He's a little bit of a scallywag. Yeah, he's got
- 24:50Speaker 1: big feelings. We're trying to teach him how to cook
- 24:52Speaker 1: and do chores. He's like, what, 11 months?
- 24:54Speaker 2: 11 months.
- 24:55Speaker 1: He's got to start pulling his weight. Train him early.
- 24:57Speaker 3: Yep.
- 24:57Speaker 1: Get him a broom. Yeah. Anyway, thanks for watching the video.
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- 25:14Speaker 1: going to go get her some candy. I'm so excited.
- 25:17Speaker 1: So we're going to do that. You go do some
- 25:19Speaker 1: chores or something. You'll feel better. Yeah, go clean your
- 25:21Speaker 1: dishes in the sink. I know you got some in
- 25:22Speaker 1: the sink. Go do those.
- 25:23Speaker 2: Okay, bye.
- 25:24Speaker 1: Bye.